Reframing Life and Love by Tom and Vicki: a podcast offering hope after childhood sexual abuse
Welcome to "Reframing Life and Love," a transformative podcast where husband and wife duo Tom and Vicki explore the journey of healing and connection after childhood sexual trauma. Designed specifically for committed couples, our show provides a safe space to discuss the unique challenges that arise and the skills needed to foster a fulfilling relationship. In each episode, you’ll hear from both Tom and Vicki, offering valuable insights from their distinct perspectives. Together, they share practical blueprints and tools to help couples not just survive, but thrive in their relationship. With topics ranging from repressed memories to building trust to enhancing intimacy, this podcast aims to empower you to lay the foundation for a lasting, loving partnership. Join us as we cover: - The impact of childhood sexual abuse on adult relationships - Effective strategies for overcoming past trauma - Personal stories of resilience and hope - Essential skills to create and maintain a meaningful connection Subscribe now to "Reframing Life and Love" and ensure you never miss an episode filled with hope, healing, and practical advice. Plus, visit our website for an exclusive offer: “3 Things Every Committed Couple Must Know to Create a Relationship They Love.” Together, let’s reframe your life and love! **Trigger Warning:** This podcast discusses sensitive topics related to childhood sexual abuse and trauma. Listener discretion is advised. Disclaimer: The reflections in this podcast are not intended as a substitute for seeking professional, medical or psychological assistance and are not meant to be a substitute for in-person counseling or treatment for suicidal ideation, or severe psychiatric problems. No assumption of responsibility is made, or given, and the party participating agrees not to hold Tom or Vicki Dau or TeamDau Wellness responsible or liable in any form or fashion, for such actions taken of their own accord. **Keywords:** childhood sexual abuse, past trauma, husbands and wives, overcoming past trauma, sexually abused as a child, recover from being abused as a child.
Episodes
Links talked about in the episode: https://team-dau.mykajabi.com/loves-resilience-free-ebook
Summary: In this conversation, Vicki Dau discusses the sensitive topic of how to communicate with trauma survivors, particularly those who have experienced sexual abuse. She emphasizes the importance of acknowledging their pain, listening empathetically, and avoiding common pitfalls in conversation. The discussion also touches...
Summary: This conversation explores the complexities of honoring relationships, particularly on Mother's Day, while maintaining personal boundaries and emotional safety. It discusses the feelings of discomfort that can arise in family dynamics and the impor...
Summary: In this conversation, Tom and Vicki explore the intricate relationship between faith, spirituality, and religion, sharing personal experiences that have shaped their beliefs. They discuss the impact of community, the challenges of navigating authority within religious institutions, and the importance of personal empowerment in faith. The couple emphasizes the role of prayer and gratitude in their daily lives, ulti...
Links talked about in this episode: Mary's YouTube Channel
Mary's Website
Mary's book on Amazon
Summary:
In this conversation, Mary Knight discusses the profound impact of her book and personal experiences on her life and the lives of others. She emphasizes the importance of sharing survivor stories, the healing power of commonality, and the significance of memory recovery. Mary also shares insights into her fi...
Links discussed in this episode: https://teamdau.my.canva.site/communication-and-connection-workshop
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In this episode, Vicki and Tom discuss the critical role of communication in marriage, sharing a personal story that highlights how misunderstandings can arise from internal narratives. They emphasize the importance of being aware of one's own feelings and perceptions, and how these can affect interactions with a p...
Links talked about in episode:
RAINN.ORG
Damage and Possibilities Guide
Work with Tom and/or Vicki
Survival Guide for Husbands
Guide for Wives
Summary
This conversation focuses on how to support survivors of trauma, particularly in the immediate aftermath of an incident. It emphasizes the uniqueness of each survivor's experience, the importance of addressing trauma, and the various coping strategies that can ai...
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BrinnLangdale.com
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In this episode of the Reframing Life and Love podcast, hosts Tom and Vicki interview Brinn Langdale, a licensed psychotherapist and holistic coach. Brinn shares her personal journey of healing from trauma, including childhood abuse and the struggles she faced with mental health. The conversation explores the importance of self-work, understanding attachment ...
Links talked about in this episode: https://teamdau.com
Get the list of information and choices Vicki and Tom have made.
Summary: Vicki and Tom have chosen lots of alternative ways of healing on Vicki's journey and thought you might be interested in hearing what they have personally done over the course of their m...
Links talked about in this episode
Teamdau.com
Summary
In this conversation, Tom and Vicki share a humorous anecdote about a dinner plan discussion, highlighting the differences in communication styles and expectations in relationships. The exchange illustrates how humor can diffuse tension and the importance of understanding each other's perspectives.
Takeaways
Communication styles can vary significantly b...
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In this conversation, Vicki Dau discusses the importance of self-love and acceptance, encouraging individuals to embrace their feelings and recognize their worth. She emphasizes that it is normal to feel guilty or uncomfortable when prioritizing oneself, but highlights the relief and positivity that can come from allowing oneself to feel and express love. She a...
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Helping Your Husband Help You Guide for Wives
Summary
In this conversation,Tom Dau emphasizes the significance of spending quantity time in relationships to foster quality interactions. He discusses how simply being present with someone can lead to deeper conversations and connections, ultimately contributing to healing and growth within the relationship.
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Links talked about in this episode
Helping Your Husband Help You Guide for Wives
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In this conversation, Vicki Dau shares a deeply personal experience of emotional vulnerability, highlighting the challenges of expressing feelings and the impact of silence from those around her. The discussion emphasizes the importance of communication and empathy in supporting individuals ...
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In this conversation, Vicki Dau discusses the profound effects of trauma on individuals, particularly survivors of abuse. She emphasizes the importance of breaking the cycle of silence within families, reclaiming self-trust, and understanding that the blame for abuse does not lie with the survivor. The discussion also highlights the jo...
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Private Membership opportunity
Summary
This podcast episode delves into the definitions and misconceptions surrounding sexual abuse, emphasizing that all experiences are valid regardless of severity. It discusses the extensive and long-lasting impacts of sexual abuse on survivors, including physical, emotional, and mental health issues. The conversation highlights the prevalence of repress...
Welcome to "Reframing Life and Love," a transformative podcast where husband and wife duo Tom and Vicki explore the journey of healing and connection after childhood sexual trauma. Designed specifically for committed couples, our show provides a safe space to discuss the unique challenges that arise and the skills needed to foster a fulfilling relationship.
In each episode, you’ll hear from both Tom and Vicki, offering val...
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