September 5, 2025 • 23 mins
It's a fun, weekend catch-up between Amy and Chris. They chat about Amy's pool guy charging her a fortune, strategies for losing weight like cutting out Maccas, and hilarious stories from the Facebook mums group about a stray girl eating at someone's house. Amy also gives a spring fashion preview - but will Chris care?
2:20 - Amy explains how she got "towed up" (ripped off) by her pool guy while her husband's away.
6:10 - Chris weighs in at 92kg and wants to lose 2kg in a week. Amy suggests healthier food choices rather than crash dieting.
9:40 - Amy shares a funny story from the Facebook mums group about a stray girl from the neighbourhood eating at someone's house daily.
13:30 - Chris and Amy discuss whether they could date someone who's cheated in the past, based on a recent sex census.
18:20 - Amy gives a spring fashion preview with her top trends and styling tips. Chris tries his best to engage!
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Speaker 1 (00:11):
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Speaker 2 (00:13):
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Speaker 3 (00:24):
Pay in the morning.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Good morning again everyone. Happy Saturday, Amy Gerard.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Yeah, Happy Saturday.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
What's been happening.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
I'll tell you what's been happening.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I'm getting towed up by the pool guy.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Yeah. What's wrong with that? I'm getting rauted? Is that
the world towed up? Why is our producing laughing his
head off.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Because you said you've been towed up by the pool guy.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Doesn't that mean like taken for a ride.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Are you doing this on purpose or no? So the
pool guy took you for a ride on the weekend.
You've been absolutely ratted. Okay, so he's ripped you off.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
I've been ripped off. Yeah, that's what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Pool guys, Yeah, they'll do that.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
I'll tell you the story.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Obviously, my husband is away in South Africa on a
work trip BS. So I have called this shop where
I know that Ryan often takes the pool water sample
whatever it is, and I said, hey, my husband normally
comes and gets his water tested with you guys, but
he's away at the moment.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
The pool went green pretty much before he left.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
But he hasn't done anything about it, and now it
looks fluorescent green.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
So you've gone in and said, my husband's away, and
what this should cost, you should charge me.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
That's exactly what I've done.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
And I've done some reflecting and I've realized where I've
made mistakes, because this guy's just he's rubbing his hands
on the side of the phone.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
He's like, oh, a damsel in distress.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Great, no idea, what it's going to cost, No idea,
what it probably needs, probably just some chlorine.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Or something, chlorine, bags of salt, the acid, the p
h equaliza.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Well, he sent a guy out, and he goes, we'll
get the guy out to test it and then I'll
call you back with a price.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
And he calls me back and he goes, yeah, yeah,
it's not in a good way, you know.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
And and Ryan actually hasn't been in and got all
these chemicals for I don't know, a year or so,
so you know, we're going to add this, and we're
going to do this and bomb the whole pool and
obviously then the labor and four hundred something dollars. And
I said, oh, okay, yep, I've got no idea.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Yes, I've just gone yeah great.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
And then I was talking to one of my neighbors
out the front and I told him the story, and
he goes.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
You idiot, like you're gout.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Have just taken the water, probably just needs a little
bit of salt and.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Just needed a chlorine bomb, like you got laughtered by.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
The cart it. I got taken for a ride big time.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Yeah, I can't do it. I've got a pool guy,
but I don't get told up or watered or taken
for a ride.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
I'm lucky.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
I'll tell you. I hate getting on our Instagram page
after we finished the show here on a weekend and
seeing the videos of myself because for whatever reason, You've
got a really like flattering camera on you in the studio,
and mine is like right in my face.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Mine is pulled back, so you kind of get like
you can see my whole outfit and you can see
me sitting at a desk, whereas.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Yours is literally a zoomed in video of just your face.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
You've got Jackie O's camera and I get the Kyle filter,
and it's just anyway, I'm more sensitive to it than
usual because I just I feel so fat after winter.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
You definitely don't look at.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I've put on. What I'm up to? What did I
get up to? Ninety two?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
What were you before winter? What were you when we
did our photo shoot for the radio, like when we
first started eighty four? Okay, so he put on eight kilos.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Yeah, it's a bit. Yeah, but it's snuck up on me,
you know what I mean, It just slicted as slowly
and then winter was.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
I feel like everybody puts on weight in winter. Like
I'm definitely like on the up of three, the ape.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Of three, as in like three kalo three.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Yeah, for sure. Maybe I mean eight it's a bit excessive, but.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Well eight would be a lot on you because you're smaller.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Well, that's right.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
And I think like my husband Ryan, I remember when
we got married, he was ugh I call him, I
say a dollar fifteen. So he was about one hundred
and fifteen kilos and he is one hundred and twenty
probably four or five after his South African trip.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
He's a big guy though, that's right.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
And so this is the thing.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
So that's ten kilos, but he doesn't look any different
because of his height and his width. So eight kilos
on you, you've.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Got a bit of height as well. You don't look.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Il gross like you just feel stodgy and did everything right?
Did you know? Did it first thing in the morning,
weighed myself. Sorry, yeah, you gotta do it first thing
in the morning after doing a pooh as well.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Okay, you pooh in the morning sometimes before eating breakfast.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Well, if I'm going to weigh myself, I try every
every little bit helps.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
But I don't.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
I just think winter is for bunkering down, staying indoors,
eating all of the carb heavy foods, pizza, pastas, garlic, bread,
red wine, chocolate. It's a season to indulge.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Then what's summer, because that's that's what I do in summer.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Hang, No, winter is you're hibernating. That's why, like bears hibernate.
I like to think of us as bears. In winter,
we go inside inside you you start your fire. I
just hibernate under a blanket and I just indulge a
little bit. Summers different. Some are when the sun's out.
It makes me want to eat salads. I'm not touching
(06:13):
a salad in winter. I'll have a Caesar salad. I
have a nice piece of fish.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
In summer, I'm not a bear in summer for sure.
I'm not a very big gay man.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
So I think summer is for you know, being outdoors
and eating a bit cleaner and lighter. Winter is for hibernating,
and then spring and autumn for working off either of
those seasons.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Do you, ever, how do you lose weight? If you like,
have an event or a certain like a dress you
want to squeeze into for the logis or something. What
do you do like a week out? Do you?
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Well, it's funny you asked.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Back in my early twenties, I could just have salads
for dinner for like three days and I'll drop like
two three kilos now, whereas it's so much harder.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
For me to do that now.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
If I, like before the logies, probably a month leading
up to that, I just made smarter choices with my food.
I don't deprive myself of anything, So if I'm going
to have a porthos for lunch, I'll have a piece
of salmon and a salad for dinner.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Somewhere. The shares in a Porto went down in the
month leading.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Up for the logis, well, no, I still aid them, Yeah,
I still aid it, But I just say the chicken
tenders instead of a.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Burger, and go easy on the chips.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
That's right, small chips instead of a large.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
It's all about not depriving yourself of the good food,
but just making the portion smaller and having a balanced diet.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Okay, and I go to for walks, so I can
have a mcarch as long as I don't have the chips.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
No themarch that's going to sit like, that's break in
your stummy.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
That's a big burger. I mean, hey, love macas.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
What are you going to do to shift your weight?
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Well, that's I stop eating a zempi. No, I've got
to I've got to got to get back to the
walks because I think the walking, it's not actually the
exercise that makes the difference. It makes me more likely
to make smarter food choice slow on effect because I'm
exercising so.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
But also walking is so incredible, even if you do
like a fifty minute walk a day. Yeah, you can
listen to a podcast, call a friend listening to you,
led Zeppelin, whatever.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
I only listen to Kiss. It's great music.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Anyway, I'll wait myself next week, I'd do a way.
And I want to get down under ninety by next weekend.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Okay, that kind of that sounds like crash dieting, give
yourself a fortnight.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Yeah, yeah, maybe I should have an affair something cheating
on my wife.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Well, you know what, if you had an affair, it's
like the start of a new relationship, right, you always
want to look your best, Yes, start, it's after you
get married that I find a lot of men just
let themselves go.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Yeah only men, huh.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Only.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
The biggest deal breaker for gen Z in a new
relationship is if the person has cheated on a partner
in the past. So would suggest they think, you know,
if you've cheated once.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Gen Z is sorry, I know what you were going
to say. Then, But gen zs strike.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Me as like goodie two shoes.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Yeah right, Like it's like they're a bit too woke
for my liking.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
They don't they feel like they don't.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
They don't drink, forgive, there's no one barrier reef.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
That make a mistake in life. Yeah, they're an odd bunch,
aren't they.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Yeah, good do good so, So you know, no issue
for you if someone's cheated on their partner.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Listen, I'm not gonna like I said, it's not going
to deter me if if Ryan had hooked up with
a girl whilst in a relationship when he was twenty one, Okay,
I met him at thirty, right, that's I just think
people change and they grow up and they evolve, and
like I wasn't the same person that I was at
twenty one as a thirty year old?
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Does that part of people change? Though? The cheating gene,
I feel like you've got it. If you've got it,
you've got it.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Okay, I've got a theory. And this actually came from
my brother. He said, there's two types of dudes, right,
they're both cheating.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
They're both cheaters.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
So all men are cheats.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
No, no, no, He's just saying, as an example, just
for this story, two men, they're both cheating. One guy
cheats on his partner and never gets caught. And when
you never get caught, it's it must become this like
thrill or rush or just and knowing that you are
always getting away with it and there's no repercussions to
your actions. He said, if they get if they never
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get caught and they never nothing ever comes of it,
they will continue to cheat. And then so that's in
the red corner. And then over here in the blue corner.
You've got the other guy who's cheating on his partner
and gets busted. Yeah, and he gets found out, and
he has one of two he's got He can go
(11:02):
one of two ways. He can either basically learn a lesson,
and especially if with you know, the girl who he
loves or you know, doesn't want to lose, even though
he should have been cheating in the first place, and
he learns his lesson and he never cheats again.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
She's got that over him forever though.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
Forever forever. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
I've got girlfriends who have been with partners who have
played up and they have forgiven. There's been a long
period of trust issues, but ultimately there has been forgiveness,
maybe not forgetfulness, so you can forgive and not forget.
But since then there's been no incidents or whatnot. So
(11:47):
I do believe that sometimes, especially with men, because they're
all just numpties, a lot of them, especially these guys
who are constantly playing up on their wives.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Sometimes they just they almost need to be caught out.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
But don't you have some respect for the guy that's
smart enough to never get caught and obviously has good tactics,
Like would you lose respect. Like if do I have.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Respect of the guy who's really good at cheating on
his partner?
Speaker 1 (12:13):
No, but it wouldn't you lose respect for someone? Like
if someone's too stupid to like not to sync up
their text messages with the cloud on the TV and you,
you know, get busted like that, wouldn't you just lose
respect for them?
Speaker 3 (12:25):
I lose respect for both of them, to be honest.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Yeah, if a guy got.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Caught doing the wrong thing, fell on his sword and
spent years making it up to his partner, I could
forgive him and look past it.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
But no, the stealth guy, I don't respect that guy.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
I don't know. He's kind of I think he's kind
of neat.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
You would. Hey, so we're in spring. Yes, winter is over.
I feel like everyone's got a bit of a spring
in their step.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
I've still got the fire going.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
I did see that.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Anyway, it's time to put out the fires because spring
is here. Everything gets warmer, people start going out more.
And today we're going to talk about fashion.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Well. Spring fashion is like all the new lines of
things come out in spring.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
Done that, Yeah, and you know there's spring racing, so
women like to start getting dressed up, people start going
out more, like I mentioned, And so there's lots of
different trends that are currently getting more and more traction online.
I'm going to talk you through a few of them.
Try not to glaze.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
Over with border.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
No, no, no, mum, I will tell you.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
What colors to buy your your next big w shirts.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
In Okay, spring yeah black, no savy colors.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Spring colors are going to be all pastels.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Oh, I can't do pastels on flat about like a
mint green?
Speaker 1 (13:49):
No, and my nipples show too much certain colors, nipples
show more.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Okay, so maybe just you just stick with black, yeah,
black squid. But look, spring is all about romantic florals,
so think layering, delicate pastels, powder, pink, mint green.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
You know a baby yellow.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
Isn't slide lawrels a bit, Isn't it a bit mumsy?
Speaker 2 (14:16):
It sounds a bit dated, But no, it's gonna it's
trending for this spring because.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Jeans are back as well, aren't they the sort of mum.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
I don't think dung jeans ever go out of fashion,
to be honest, They're just constantly circuling, circulating, because.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
All mums need a pair of mum jeans, the ones
that come home.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
I'm wearing some today, the high waisted ones that cover
your mum.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Little tom Yeah, okay, sporty lucks.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
You know how you often say, you know, you girls
can get away with wearing active wear to the office.
Speaker 3 (14:45):
Yeah, well that's a real thing now. So they're getting
like active wear kind of looking.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
Fits that will take you, I guess, from the street
to the office. Okay, so softer materials, but like a
bit more of a tailored pant.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Okay, yeah, Can I get away with track pants or
anything in the office? Do you think, like, can you
get track pants that look like half decent pants?
Speaker 3 (15:10):
Potentially? I haven't looked really into men's fashion. I don't
care for it.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Well, have you know? Somewhere in my new jeans because
you complained about my old jeans, Amy made a lot
of complaints about them. You could see the outline of
my old fellow because they were really thin.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
The tiny outline. Yeah, what about okay? Playful patterns. Patterns
are coming in and some of my girlfriends hate patterns.
But I actually just bought a dress. It's a polka
dot dress. It looks like one of the ones that
Julia Roberts wore in Pretty Woman, playful.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
Patterns a prostitute. Yes, no, this is when she'd come
into the money.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
At the woman.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
Yeah yeah, playful patterns in a nice mocka color, mocker hughes,
light browns. Also, indie indie teas are coming back, you know,
the vintage teas, the rolling stones, they're coming back in
for spring.
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Cut off shorts, hot shorts, those kind of things.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
Sheer and layered textures, so you know, you might see
a girl with like a pair of jeans on and
you might be able to see her bra over a
sheer kind of top.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
Yes, yeah, you'd probably love that.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
So translucent fabrics for depth and for texture. You can't
really add anything to this topic.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
I'm just I'm listening and learning and nodding along politely.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
So there's just some a tips for this spring.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
The hot color of the spring moment is going to
be a pale yellow.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
Pale yellow.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
Yeah, I love a pastor yellow. I'm not a big
canary yellow. Pastel yellow I think is really beautiful with
a nice little tan fake obviously because we don't go
in the sun anymore and get outside. But ultimately, if
I'm giving anyone advice. This is also to you, Chris. Yes,
you gotta wear what makes you feel good, so don't
even worry about trends. You wear whatever you put on
(16:56):
your body and you feel good in powerful yes, sexy
yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
And jeans that like are appropriate to wear around schools
and things.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
Yes, yes, not jeans at are sprayed on all right?
Speaker 1 (17:09):
Yes, thank you, thank you for your fashion. That's Amy's
spring fashion preview yards. Yeah, it's my favorite segment, Amy,
you know it. Here it is. Let's check in and
see what's been happening this week in the Facebook mums group.
What's the big issue in the Facebook mums groups?
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Hi mums, just after some advice.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
We've got a lovely little girl from down the street
who just keeps turning up at our house ninety nine
percent of the time unannounced, and she started helping herself
to food.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Well, she's like a stray.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
She's great with our kids, but it's getting to the
point where we're feeding her breakfast, lunch and dinner some days.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
What this is a human girl. This isn't a cat or.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
Her parents are rarely around working a lot, we think,
and while we don't want to make her feel unwelcome.
It's becoming a bit much. Has anyone dealt with something similar?
How do we set boundaries kindly but firmly and maybe
get the parents more involved? What?
Speaker 3 (18:07):
I have so many questions? How old is this girl? Yeah,
because that's because that's a huge question.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Yeah, because if she's well, well, if she's.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Four, that's almost like child abuse.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Yeah, because she shouldn't be wandering around the street's four.
But if she's even sixteen, she should probably be off
getting her own food.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
Or maybe working part time at McDonald's or something, or
Woolworth or you know. Okay, let's say she's maybe nine. Okay,
it's the breakfast, lunch, and dinner that's thrown me.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Yeah, maybe it's just on the weekend.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
But that's why you don't feed birds. And you know what, I.
Speaker 3 (18:46):
Was this girl.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
I was this girl because my parents never ever, ever
let us have any junk food. All we got to
eat was devon and tomato sauce, sandwiches and apples and bananas,
And so I would always go round to my friend's houses.
I'd go down the street and they would have potato
jams and pop tarts and ice creams, and I would
just linger around their houses all the time because they
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had sick food.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
Can we just take a minute to acknowledge how elite
potato gems are.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
They are so good, they are so deliced. Sometimes I
just have a whole bowl of potato gems for dinner.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Yeah, I fill up the air fryer. Yeah, lots of salt.
Do you salt chicken salt? Yeah? A bit of pepper
on them as well. Oh, okay, do yourself a favor.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
Okay, wait, back to the Facebook mums grew.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
Okay, back to this weird family.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
I think it's a little weird, and I think you
need to discuss with her parents what's kind of going wrong?
Speaker 3 (19:41):
You know? I am.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
I'm in a street, a busy street with lots of
kids in our street. Often I will bring out ice
blocks and I hand them around. I'll bring out boxes
of chips and everybody can get a packet of chips.
But I'm not feeding stray kids breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
I've got three of my own kids to feed.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
I've got a solution. You've got to find out what
her allergies are. I know, just give us some nuts
and just stop coming around. No, haven't seen her in
a while.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Do what my mum and dad do. Scale it right back.
Stop offering the good food devon and tomato sauce, sandwiches
and green apples.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
You won't see it for much longer.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
She'll find a new family.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
You'll find a new family.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
Okay, you're welcome. That's the Facebook mom's grip. This week, Chris,
I was flicking through my copy of Body and Soul.
Just be No, I wasn't. I was heading for sheet.
And it's the twenty twenty five sex.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Census, Sex Census, SEXUS sex sex Sensus.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Anyway, They've asked a bunch of young people gen zs
what matters the most to them in a relationship, Like
what are the deal breakers? Number one thing? Fifty five
percent of people said it matters if someone has cheated
in a previous relationship.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
What if you met a girl and you knew that
in her past she had cheated on a partner?
Speaker 3 (21:04):
Yeah, would that deter you? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Once once a cheater, always always don't agree with it
if she was if she was a hoe before, then.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
No, I don't agree with that.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
Like as if you didn't play up on a girlfriend
when you're in like your twenties, or your early teen
like your late teens.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
So it wouldn't bother you. If a guy had cheated
in the past on a previous girlfriend, it wouldn't bother you, as.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
In like when you're young and making silly mistakes. Like
it depends if there was like an affair at play,
I would have an issue.
Speaker 3 (21:36):
But if like they'd gone out and had.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
A cheeky pash, yeah no, I wouldn't not date them
because of that.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
How many boyfriends have you cheated on?
Speaker 3 (21:45):
Oh? Well no, no choking? Nah? Maybe one in high school?
Speaker 2 (21:51):
Yeah yeah, and like a dance floor pash and that
I came clean about, but I guess it still considered it. Well,
maybe it's not cheating if I owned up to it.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
No, it's still cheating. You just owned up to it, Okay.
The other deal wreckers. Thirty percent of people say their
views on gender role are a deal breaker. So I'm
guessing that's like if the guy's a pig and goes
get back in the kitchen. Yeah, that's an issue.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
Yep, fair enough, I'd have an issue with that.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
Well. Ten percent of people say that their opinion on
climate change is a deal breaker.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
Yeah, that's wild.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
I don't know that I could listen to someone like
a Greta Thunberg kind of. I couldn't listen to lectures
about climate change all the time. It's not that I
don't care about it, and I just don't want to
hear about it every day.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Yeah, I thought an interesting one.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
Social media presence that is more important to a guy, yeah,
than it is girls.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
I'll tell you what, women double financial security. Women are
double men for caring about that.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
But yet that's still lower than physical attraction.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
I'm stumped on the physical attraction because personally, to me,
physical attraction.
Speaker 3 (23:00):
Is important at the start.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
Yeah, but then that goes Oh, maybe this is just
based on dating though.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
Yeah. Anyway, there's the sex census. You have to be
hot and rich and well done body and soul. That's
that's fantastic research. Chris Page and Amy Grard
My Heart podcasts.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hear more kiss podcasts, playlists, and listen live on the
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Speaker 3 (00:24):
Pay in the morning.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Good morning again everyone. Happy Saturday, Amy Gerard.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Yeah, Happy Saturday.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
What's been happening.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
I'll tell you what's been happening.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I'm getting towed up by the pool guy.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Yeah. What's wrong with that? I'm getting rauted? Is that
the world towed up? Why is our producing laughing his
head off.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Because you said you've been towed up by the pool guy.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Doesn't that mean like taken for a ride.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Are you doing this on purpose or no? So the
pool guy took you for a ride on the weekend.
You've been absolutely ratted. Okay, so he's ripped you off.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
I've been ripped off. Yeah, that's what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Pool guys, Yeah, they'll do that.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
I'll tell you the story.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Obviously, my husband is away in South Africa on a
work trip BS. So I have called this shop where
I know that Ryan often takes the pool water sample
whatever it is, and I said, hey, my husband normally
comes and gets his water tested with you guys, but
he's away at the moment.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
The pool went green pretty much before he left.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
But he hasn't done anything about it, and now it
looks fluorescent green.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
So you've gone in and said, my husband's away, and
what this should cost, you should charge me.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
That's exactly what I've done.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
And I've done some reflecting and I've realized where I've
made mistakes, because this guy's just he's rubbing his hands
on the side of the phone.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
He's like, oh, a damsel in distress.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Great, no idea, what it's going to cost, No idea,
what it probably needs, probably just some chlorine.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Or something, chlorine, bags of salt, the acid, the p
h equaliza.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Well, he sent a guy out, and he goes, we'll
get the guy out to test it and then I'll
call you back with a price.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
And he calls me back and he goes, yeah, yeah,
it's not in a good way, you know.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
And and Ryan actually hasn't been in and got all
these chemicals for I don't know, a year or so,
so you know, we're going to add this, and we're
going to do this and bomb the whole pool and
obviously then the labor and four hundred something dollars. And
I said, oh, okay, yep, I've got no idea.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Yes, I've just gone yeah great.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
And then I was talking to one of my neighbors
out the front and I told him the story, and
he goes.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
You idiot, like you're gout.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Have just taken the water, probably just needs a little
bit of salt and.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Just needed a chlorine bomb, like you got laughtered by.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
The cart it. I got taken for a ride big time.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Yeah, I can't do it. I've got a pool guy,
but I don't get told up or watered or taken
for a ride.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
I'm lucky.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
I'll tell you. I hate getting on our Instagram page
after we finished the show here on a weekend and
seeing the videos of myself because for whatever reason, You've
got a really like flattering camera on you in the studio,
and mine is like right in my face.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Mine is pulled back, so you kind of get like
you can see my whole outfit and you can see
me sitting at a desk, whereas.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Yours is literally a zoomed in video of just your face.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
You've got Jackie O's camera and I get the Kyle filter,
and it's just anyway, I'm more sensitive to it than
usual because I just I feel so fat after winter.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
You definitely don't look at.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I've put on. What I'm up to? What did I
get up to? Ninety two?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
What were you before winter? What were you when we
did our photo shoot for the radio, like when we
first started eighty four? Okay, so he put on eight kilos.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Yeah, it's a bit. Yeah, but it's snuck up on me,
you know what I mean, It just slicted as slowly
and then winter was.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
I feel like everybody puts on weight in winter. Like
I'm definitely like on the up of three, the ape.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Of three, as in like three kalo three.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Yeah, for sure. Maybe I mean eight it's a bit excessive, but.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Well eight would be a lot on you because you're smaller.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Well, that's right.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
And I think like my husband Ryan, I remember when
we got married, he was ugh I call him, I
say a dollar fifteen. So he was about one hundred
and fifteen kilos and he is one hundred and twenty
probably four or five after his South African trip.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
He's a big guy though, that's right.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
And so this is the thing.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
So that's ten kilos, but he doesn't look any different
because of his height and his width. So eight kilos
on you, you've.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Got a bit of height as well. You don't look.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Il gross like you just feel stodgy and did everything right?
Did you know? Did it first thing in the morning,
weighed myself. Sorry, yeah, you gotta do it first thing
in the morning after doing a pooh as well.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Okay, you pooh in the morning sometimes before eating breakfast.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Well, if I'm going to weigh myself, I try every
every little bit helps.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
But I don't.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
I just think winter is for bunkering down, staying indoors,
eating all of the carb heavy foods, pizza, pastas, garlic, bread,
red wine, chocolate. It's a season to indulge.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Then what's summer, because that's that's what I do in summer.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Hang, No, winter is you're hibernating. That's why, like bears hibernate.
I like to think of us as bears. In winter,
we go inside inside you you start your fire. I
just hibernate under a blanket and I just indulge a
little bit. Summers different. Some are when the sun's out.
It makes me want to eat salads. I'm not touching
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a salad in winter. I'll have a Caesar salad. I
have a nice piece of fish.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
In summer, I'm not a bear in summer for sure.
I'm not a very big gay man.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
So I think summer is for you know, being outdoors
and eating a bit cleaner and lighter. Winter is for hibernating,
and then spring and autumn for working off either of
those seasons.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Do you, ever, how do you lose weight? If you like,
have an event or a certain like a dress you
want to squeeze into for the logis or something. What
do you do like a week out? Do you?
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Well, it's funny you asked.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Back in my early twenties, I could just have salads
for dinner for like three days and I'll drop like
two three kilos now, whereas it's so much harder.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
For me to do that now.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
If I, like before the logies, probably a month leading
up to that, I just made smarter choices with my food.
I don't deprive myself of anything, So if I'm going
to have a porthos for lunch, I'll have a piece
of salmon and a salad for dinner.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Somewhere. The shares in a Porto went down in the
month leading.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Up for the logis, well, no, I still aid them, Yeah,
I still aid it, But I just say the chicken
tenders instead of a.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Burger, and go easy on the chips.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
That's right, small chips instead of a large.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
It's all about not depriving yourself of the good food,
but just making the portion smaller and having a balanced diet.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Okay, and I go to for walks, so I can
have a mcarch as long as I don't have the chips.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
No themarch that's going to sit like, that's break in
your stummy.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
That's a big burger. I mean, hey, love macas.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
What are you going to do to shift your weight?
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Well, that's I stop eating a zempi. No, I've got
to I've got to got to get back to the
walks because I think the walking, it's not actually the
exercise that makes the difference. It makes me more likely
to make smarter food choice slow on effect because I'm
exercising so.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
But also walking is so incredible, even if you do
like a fifty minute walk a day. Yeah, you can
listen to a podcast, call a friend listening to you,
led Zeppelin, whatever.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
I only listen to Kiss. It's great music.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Anyway, I'll wait myself next week, I'd do a way.
And I want to get down under ninety by next weekend.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Okay, that kind of that sounds like crash dieting, give
yourself a fortnight.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Yeah, yeah, maybe I should have an affair something cheating
on my wife.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Well, you know what, if you had an affair, it's
like the start of a new relationship, right, you always
want to look your best, Yes, start, it's after you
get married that I find a lot of men just
let themselves go.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Yeah only men, huh.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Only.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
The biggest deal breaker for gen Z in a new
relationship is if the person has cheated on a partner
in the past. So would suggest they think, you know,
if you've cheated once.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Gen Z is sorry, I know what you were going
to say. Then, But gen zs strike.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Me as like goodie two shoes.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Yeah right, Like it's like they're a bit too woke
for my liking.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
They don't they feel like they don't.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
They don't drink, forgive, there's no one barrier reef.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
That make a mistake in life. Yeah, they're an odd bunch,
aren't they.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Yeah, good do good so, So you know, no issue
for you if someone's cheated on their partner.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Listen, I'm not gonna like I said, it's not going
to deter me if if Ryan had hooked up with
a girl whilst in a relationship when he was twenty one, Okay,
I met him at thirty, right, that's I just think
people change and they grow up and they evolve, and
like I wasn't the same person that I was at
twenty one as a thirty year old?
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Does that part of people change? Though? The cheating gene,
I feel like you've got it. If you've got it,
you've got it.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Okay, I've got a theory. And this actually came from
my brother. He said, there's two types of dudes, right,
they're both cheating.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
They're both cheaters.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
So all men are cheats.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
No, no, no, He's just saying, as an example, just
for this story, two men, they're both cheating. One guy
cheats on his partner and never gets caught. And when
you never get caught, it's it must become this like
thrill or rush or just and knowing that you are
always getting away with it and there's no repercussions to
your actions. He said, if they get if they never
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get caught and they never nothing ever comes of it,
they will continue to cheat. And then so that's in
the red corner. And then over here in the blue corner.
You've got the other guy who's cheating on his partner
and gets busted. Yeah, and he gets found out, and
he has one of two he's got He can go
(11:02):
one of two ways. He can either basically learn a lesson,
and especially if with you know, the girl who he
loves or you know, doesn't want to lose, even though
he should have been cheating in the first place, and
he learns his lesson and he never cheats again.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
She's got that over him forever though.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
Forever forever. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
I've got girlfriends who have been with partners who have
played up and they have forgiven. There's been a long
period of trust issues, but ultimately there has been forgiveness,
maybe not forgetfulness, so you can forgive and not forget.
But since then there's been no incidents or whatnot. So
(11:47):
I do believe that sometimes, especially with men, because they're
all just numpties, a lot of them, especially these guys
who are constantly playing up on their wives.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Sometimes they just they almost need to be caught out.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
But don't you have some respect for the guy that's
smart enough to never get caught and obviously has good tactics,
Like would you lose respect. Like if do I have.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Respect of the guy who's really good at cheating on
his partner?
Speaker 1 (12:13):
No, but it wouldn't you lose respect for someone? Like
if someone's too stupid to like not to sync up
their text messages with the cloud on the TV and you,
you know, get busted like that, wouldn't you just lose
respect for them?
Speaker 3 (12:25):
I lose respect for both of them, to be honest.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Yeah, if a guy got.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Caught doing the wrong thing, fell on his sword and
spent years making it up to his partner, I could
forgive him and look past it.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
But no, the stealth guy, I don't respect that guy.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
I don't know. He's kind of I think he's kind
of neat.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
You would. Hey, so we're in spring. Yes, winter is over.
I feel like everyone's got a bit of a spring
in their step.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
I've still got the fire going.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
I did see that.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Anyway, it's time to put out the fires because spring
is here. Everything gets warmer, people start going out more.
And today we're going to talk about fashion.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Well. Spring fashion is like all the new lines of
things come out in spring.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
Done that, Yeah, and you know there's spring racing, so
women like to start getting dressed up, people start going
out more, like I mentioned, And so there's lots of
different trends that are currently getting more and more traction online.
I'm going to talk you through a few of them.
Try not to glaze.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
Over with border.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
No, no, no, mum, I will tell you.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
What colors to buy your your next big w shirts.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
In Okay, spring yeah black, no savy colors.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Spring colors are going to be all pastels.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Oh, I can't do pastels on flat about like a
mint green?
Speaker 1 (13:49):
No, and my nipples show too much certain colors, nipples
show more.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Okay, so maybe just you just stick with black, yeah,
black squid. But look, spring is all about romantic florals,
so think layering, delicate pastels, powder, pink, mint green.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
You know a baby yellow.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
Isn't slide lawrels a bit, Isn't it a bit mumsy?
Speaker 2 (14:16):
It sounds a bit dated, But no, it's gonna it's
trending for this spring because.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Jeans are back as well, aren't they the sort of mum.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
I don't think dung jeans ever go out of fashion,
to be honest, They're just constantly circuling, circulating, because.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
All mums need a pair of mum jeans, the ones
that come home.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
I'm wearing some today, the high waisted ones that cover
your mum.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Little tom Yeah, okay, sporty lucks.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
You know how you often say, you know, you girls
can get away with wearing active wear to the office.
Speaker 3 (14:45):
Yeah, well that's a real thing now. So they're getting
like active wear kind of looking.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
Fits that will take you, I guess, from the street
to the office. Okay, so softer materials, but like a
bit more of a tailored pant.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Okay, yeah, Can I get away with track pants or
anything in the office? Do you think, like, can you
get track pants that look like half decent pants?
Speaker 3 (15:10):
Potentially? I haven't looked really into men's fashion. I don't
care for it.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Well, have you know? Somewhere in my new jeans because
you complained about my old jeans, Amy made a lot
of complaints about them. You could see the outline of
my old fellow because they were really thin.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
The tiny outline. Yeah, what about okay? Playful patterns. Patterns
are coming in and some of my girlfriends hate patterns.
But I actually just bought a dress. It's a polka
dot dress. It looks like one of the ones that
Julia Roberts wore in Pretty Woman, playful.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
Patterns a prostitute. Yes, no, this is when she'd come
into the money.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
At the woman.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
Yeah yeah, playful patterns in a nice mocka color, mocker hughes,
light browns. Also, indie indie teas are coming back, you know,
the vintage teas, the rolling stones, they're coming back in
for spring.
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Cut off shorts, hot shorts, those kind of things.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
Sheer and layered textures, so you know, you might see
a girl with like a pair of jeans on and
you might be able to see her bra over a
sheer kind of top.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
Yes, yeah, you'd probably love that.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
So translucent fabrics for depth and for texture. You can't
really add anything to this topic.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
I'm just I'm listening and learning and nodding along politely.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
So there's just some a tips for this spring.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
The hot color of the spring moment is going to
be a pale yellow.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
Pale yellow.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
Yeah, I love a pastor yellow. I'm not a big
canary yellow. Pastel yellow I think is really beautiful with
a nice little tan fake obviously because we don't go
in the sun anymore and get outside. But ultimately, if
I'm giving anyone advice. This is also to you, Chris. Yes,
you gotta wear what makes you feel good, so don't
even worry about trends. You wear whatever you put on
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your body and you feel good in powerful yes, sexy
yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
And jeans that like are appropriate to wear around schools
and things.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
Yes, yes, not jeans at are sprayed on all right?
Speaker 1 (17:09):
Yes, thank you, thank you for your fashion. That's Amy's
spring fashion preview yards. Yeah, it's my favorite segment, Amy,
you know it. Here it is. Let's check in and
see what's been happening this week in the Facebook mums group.
What's the big issue in the Facebook mums groups?
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Hi mums, just after some advice.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
We've got a lovely little girl from down the street
who just keeps turning up at our house ninety nine
percent of the time unannounced, and she started helping herself
to food.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Well, she's like a stray.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
She's great with our kids, but it's getting to the
point where we're feeding her breakfast, lunch and dinner some days.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
What this is a human girl. This isn't a cat or.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
Her parents are rarely around working a lot, we think,
and while we don't want to make her feel unwelcome.
It's becoming a bit much. Has anyone dealt with something similar?
How do we set boundaries kindly but firmly and maybe
get the parents more involved? What?
Speaker 3 (18:07):
I have so many questions? How old is this girl? Yeah,
because that's because that's a huge question.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Yeah, because if she's well, well, if she's.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Four, that's almost like child abuse.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Yeah, because she shouldn't be wandering around the street's four.
But if she's even sixteen, she should probably be off
getting her own food.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
Or maybe working part time at McDonald's or something, or
Woolworth or you know. Okay, let's say she's maybe nine. Okay,
it's the breakfast, lunch, and dinner that's thrown me.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Yeah, maybe it's just on the weekend.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
But that's why you don't feed birds. And you know what, I.
Speaker 3 (18:46):
Was this girl.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
I was this girl because my parents never ever, ever
let us have any junk food. All we got to
eat was devon and tomato sauce, sandwiches and apples and bananas,
And so I would always go round to my friend's houses.
I'd go down the street and they would have potato
jams and pop tarts and ice creams, and I would
just linger around their houses all the time because they
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had sick food.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
Can we just take a minute to acknowledge how elite
potato gems are.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
They are so good, they are so deliced. Sometimes I
just have a whole bowl of potato gems for dinner.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Yeah, I fill up the air fryer. Yeah, lots of salt.
Do you salt chicken salt? Yeah? A bit of pepper
on them as well. Oh, okay, do yourself a favor.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
Okay, wait, back to the Facebook mums grew.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
Okay, back to this weird family.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
I think it's a little weird, and I think you
need to discuss with her parents what's kind of going wrong?
Speaker 3 (19:41):
You know? I am.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
I'm in a street, a busy street with lots of
kids in our street. Often I will bring out ice
blocks and I hand them around. I'll bring out boxes
of chips and everybody can get a packet of chips.
But I'm not feeding stray kids breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
I've got three of my own kids to feed.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
I've got a solution. You've got to find out what
her allergies are. I know, just give us some nuts
and just stop coming around. No, haven't seen her in
a while.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Do what my mum and dad do. Scale it right back.
Stop offering the good food devon and tomato sauce, sandwiches
and green apples.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
You won't see it for much longer.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
She'll find a new family.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
You'll find a new family.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
Okay, you're welcome. That's the Facebook mom's grip. This week, Chris,
I was flicking through my copy of Body and Soul.
Just be No, I wasn't. I was heading for sheet.
And it's the twenty twenty five sex.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Census, Sex Census, SEXUS sex sex Sensus.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Anyway, They've asked a bunch of young people gen zs
what matters the most to them in a relationship, Like
what are the deal breakers? Number one thing? Fifty five
percent of people said it matters if someone has cheated
in a previous relationship.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
What if you met a girl and you knew that
in her past she had cheated on a partner?
Speaker 3 (21:04):
Yeah, would that deter you? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Once once a cheater, always always don't agree with it
if she was if she was a hoe before, then.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
No, I don't agree with that.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
Like as if you didn't play up on a girlfriend
when you're in like your twenties, or your early teen
like your late teens.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
So it wouldn't bother you. If a guy had cheated
in the past on a previous girlfriend, it wouldn't bother you, as.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
In like when you're young and making silly mistakes. Like
it depends if there was like an affair at play,
I would have an issue.
Speaker 3 (21:36):
But if like they'd gone out and had.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
A cheeky pash, yeah no, I wouldn't not date them
because of that.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
How many boyfriends have you cheated on?
Speaker 3 (21:45):
Oh? Well no, no choking? Nah? Maybe one in high school?
Speaker 2 (21:51):
Yeah yeah, and like a dance floor pash and that
I came clean about, but I guess it still considered it. Well,
maybe it's not cheating if I owned up to it.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
No, it's still cheating. You just owned up to it, Okay.
The other deal wreckers. Thirty percent of people say their
views on gender role are a deal breaker. So I'm
guessing that's like if the guy's a pig and goes
get back in the kitchen. Yeah, that's an issue.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
Yep, fair enough, I'd have an issue with that.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
Well. Ten percent of people say that their opinion on
climate change is a deal breaker.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
Yeah, that's wild.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
I don't know that I could listen to someone like
a Greta Thunberg kind of. I couldn't listen to lectures
about climate change all the time. It's not that I
don't care about it, and I just don't want to
hear about it every day.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Yeah, I thought an interesting one.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
Social media presence that is more important to a guy, yeah,
than it is girls.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
I'll tell you what, women double financial security. Women are
double men for caring about that.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
But yet that's still lower than physical attraction.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
I'm stumped on the physical attraction because personally, to me,
physical attraction.
Speaker 3 (23:00):
Is important at the start.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
Yeah, but then that goes Oh, maybe this is just
based on dating though.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
Yeah. Anyway, there's the sex census. You have to be
hot and rich and well done body and soul. That's
that's fantastic research. Chris Page and Amy Grard
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