January 22, 2025 • 7 mins
Listener George has called in with a predicament that he just can't get past.. his lovely wife still kisses her dad on the lips, and it makes George very uncomfortable.
He is overreacting, or is that perfectly normal?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Miex one or two point three, haylere you max in
the morning. Seventy degrees in Adelaide right now tops to
twenty six.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
We're here thanks to weeks home. Let's do this Alien
should or should I?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
It's back. We'll bring back this year. Should I stay
or should I go?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Reach us anytime thirty one or two to three send
us an email, jump online.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
We want to help you.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yeah, we should be saving marriages and relationships here right Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Any relationship problem you have, maybe it's.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
With your wife, your husband, someone at work, a friend,
any of these problems. We're here to help and the
people that later here to help.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
And the beautiful George has given us a call. George.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Hello, Hi guy, Tell good George. What's your problem here?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Well, it's a twenty problem. I love my wife. We've
been married for two years now. We have a great relationship.
We're on the same page with most things. We have
similar values on life and everything, and this year we're
actually going to be together for six years. Despite how
close our relationship is just one little thing that I
can't get over. She's really close with her dad, which
(01:04):
is great. But every time we go to say goodbye
or Hello, she kisses him on the lips. Yes, on
the lips.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
That is interesting, So like talk us through the kiss.
Is it like a like a quick put like a peck, yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Or it is a quick peck, but it is on
the lips, and they're the lips that I kiss every day. Yeah,
So you're just a little strange to me.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Yeah. And he's got a mustache and hairy upper lips,
so it's just a little strange.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
He's not going to get beard rash from her dad.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
George. How old is she again?
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Twenty seven?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Right?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
And when did you stop kissing your parents on the lips.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
I'm not sure that I ever kissed my parents on
the lips, but if I did, I would say maybe
one or two.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
No, your parents would have kissed you for much longer
than that, George.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
I reckon.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
For me, I cannot see any reason I've would have
done it after the age of like five.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I would have been kissing you to your lease. You remember,
you developed really late, so you reckon you're about seventeen.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
No, No, I don't recall, and I'm not into it.
I agree with George. I think it's weird. It gives
me the ick to be kissing your parents as a
twenty seven year old.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
On the lips, George, no offense. But I'm a mom
and I kiss my boys on the lips. Well, I
kiss my ten year old on lips. I don't kiss
my thirteen year old because he doesn't want to kiss
me on the lips. Right, But you'll normally get to
an age where you don't want to kiss your parents.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Kissing girls is a thing, But this is your.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Wife, George. You can't like, should I stay or should
I go? From your wife over one little kiss because
a relationship a girl and her father is like unbreakable.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
I know that. I know that, and I don't want
anything to come between our relationship, and we're really close.
But I just feel a little uncomfortable about that. That's all.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Have you talked about it, George.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Have you mentioned it to her and said, hey, han,
kissing dad's dad's a choice that you're making.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
I have I have? She just basically says that she
doesn't want anything come between her and her dad.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Yeah, I kind of it's their thing. I think if
my husband said to me, don't do that with your parents,
I would be really upset.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
That's gross.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I like it.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
I mean, I'm not saying it's hot, it's gross.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
It's weird. It's weird as adultsy parents on the lips.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
I wouldn't do it, but I don't think it's a
reason to leave your wife over.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
To be honest, I think it's weird. You kissy ten
year old on the lips.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
Why you've seen him is so cute?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Yeah he's cute, but he's also like a boy.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
No, but yeah, he's a boy. He kisses me on
the lips as soon as he pulls away or goes
for my cheek. I'll be fine with that, but for
now he likes to do it. Yeah, he hasn't gone
through puberty yet. Has your wife gone through puberty?
Speaker 4 (03:42):
I hope so.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
No, I don't like it, and I think that there's
an age for a regon, like pretty much runs, you
start going to school, it starts to get a little
bit weirder and weirder in my personal open.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
That will change when you become a dad. Okay, George,
I'm saying stay, I'm.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Saying well, I mean, I don't know about go, but
definitely tell her to stop doing it. That's my opinion,
all right. Thirty one O two three we need to
help Hick. What's George gonna do? Give us some opinions.
Have you been in this position before? Do you kiss
your parents on the lips?
Speaker 1 (04:10):
It's okay? Do you think it's gross? Where are you?
Thirty one? O?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Two three?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Help George out?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Mix one or two point three?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Hailey and Max in the morning. We have been in
the middle of this, Haleen, Max or should Yeah? We
got George on the line.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
George shrode into us, and then we've picked up the
phone and spoken to him.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
He says, I have.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
A twenty seven year old wife who I love very much,
but she, as a twenty seven year old adult, still
kisses her dad on the lips, and it's starting to
weird me out a little bit. And it's divided, adelaid.
People have their opinion on whether or not this is fine.
I think as a daughter who loves her dad very much, yes,
it's weird. But if it was a tradition that I
do with my dad, you can't break that.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Yeah, I think it's weird.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
I don't reckon I kiss my parents on the lips
above the age of five, and I don't think if
I have children I'll do that either.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
I think that's a lie of your mum would have
totally pass you until you're fifteen.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
No, George is still here. George.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
I hope you've got a little bit of advice from
those people, but we also have on the line now
your wife, April has joined This morning.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
April, Good morning, April.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Having heard everything you've heard over the last fifteen or
twenty minutes, can you tell us why you kiss you
are your dad on the lips?
Speaker 5 (05:27):
Well, because he's my dad and I've always done that
and I totally love him. I really don't see the issue.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Right, George. Do you want to have a little maybe
grow some balls and tell her why you don't like it.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
I just feel like, now that we're married, the close
and the closeness and the bond should be between us.
I mean, I don't I love that you're close with
your dad. I just can't get past the lips.
Speaker 5 (05:55):
Yeah, but like it doesn't mean it. It's not like
a guy like a friend, or a like one of
your besties, or a guy we don't even know, Like
I wouldn't do that, but it's like my dad. I've
always done that. Like it's nothing weird. I really don't.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Get it, Georgie, are you jealous?
Speaker 4 (06:11):
I don't think I'm jealous, But when we're intimate, the
last thing I want to be thinking about is your
dad's the start.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
That's fair.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
I get that, that's a great point if like, yeah,
what do you what are you going to do? We
have a chat to your dad about it?
Speaker 5 (06:25):
Or I don't know, but I just I just don't.
I just don't feel like I can talk about this
on the radio.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
I really just.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
Don't think I can do it. I just I'm sorry.
I just I don't understand it, and I don't think
I'm going to talk to my dad about it actually,
because I think I actually think he needs to get
over it. Like you know, if my husband and like,
he shouldn't have an issue with it. If that's what
I want to do and I've alreadys done it, he
should be able to deal with that.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Yes, sister, I agree with you.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
I'm not so sure about it. I don't think you
should kiss you dad on the lips. It's strange to me.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
All Right, Well, I'm sorry, but I'm I'm going to
get off the telephone. I'm sorry, Haley and Max. Thanks
for being on board with me. Hailey I'm getting off
the phone. Okay, okay, okay, we'll talk about Thank you,
love you. Talking about.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
It was like an April and George conversation for later.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Oh no, it's really awkward, Georgie. We didn't want to
ruin anything for you, my friend. I was on your side,
if nothing else.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Thank you for the support. Max. Yeah, dinner's going to
be fun tonight.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
It's Dad coming.
Miex one or two point three, haylere you max in
the morning. Seventy degrees in Adelaide right now tops to
twenty six.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
We're here thanks to weeks home. Let's do this Alien
should or should I?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
It's back. We'll bring back this year. Should I stay
or should I go?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Reach us anytime thirty one or two to three send
us an email, jump online.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
We want to help you.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yeah, we should be saving marriages and relationships here right Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Any relationship problem you have, maybe it's.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
With your wife, your husband, someone at work, a friend,
any of these problems. We're here to help and the
people that later here to help.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
And the beautiful George has given us a call. George.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Hello, Hi guy, Tell good George. What's your problem here?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Well, it's a twenty problem. I love my wife. We've
been married for two years now. We have a great relationship.
We're on the same page with most things. We have
similar values on life and everything, and this year we're
actually going to be together for six years. Despite how
close our relationship is just one little thing that I
can't get over. She's really close with her dad, which
(01:04):
is great. But every time we go to say goodbye
or Hello, she kisses him on the lips. Yes, on
the lips.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
That is interesting, So like talk us through the kiss.
Is it like a like a quick put like a peck, yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Or it is a quick peck, but it is on
the lips, and they're the lips that I kiss every day. Yeah,
So you're just a little strange to me.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Yeah. And he's got a mustache and hairy upper lips,
so it's just a little strange.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
He's not going to get beard rash from her dad.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
George. How old is she again?
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Twenty seven?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Right?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
And when did you stop kissing your parents on the lips.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
I'm not sure that I ever kissed my parents on
the lips, but if I did, I would say maybe
one or two.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
No, your parents would have kissed you for much longer
than that, George.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
I reckon.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
For me, I cannot see any reason I've would have
done it after the age of like five.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I would have been kissing you to your lease. You remember,
you developed really late, so you reckon you're about seventeen.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
No, No, I don't recall, and I'm not into it.
I agree with George. I think it's weird. It gives
me the ick to be kissing your parents as a
twenty seven year old.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
On the lips, George, no offense. But I'm a mom
and I kiss my boys on the lips. Well, I
kiss my ten year old on lips. I don't kiss
my thirteen year old because he doesn't want to kiss
me on the lips. Right, But you'll normally get to
an age where you don't want to kiss your parents.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Kissing girls is a thing, But this is your.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Wife, George. You can't like, should I stay or should
I go? From your wife over one little kiss because
a relationship a girl and her father is like unbreakable.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
I know that. I know that, and I don't want
anything to come between our relationship, and we're really close.
But I just feel a little uncomfortable about that. That's all.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Have you talked about it, George.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Have you mentioned it to her and said, hey, han,
kissing dad's dad's a choice that you're making.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
I have I have? She just basically says that she
doesn't want anything come between her and her dad.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Yeah, I kind of it's their thing. I think if
my husband said to me, don't do that with your parents,
I would be really upset.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
That's gross.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I like it.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
I mean, I'm not saying it's hot, it's gross.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
It's weird. It's weird as adultsy parents on the lips.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
I wouldn't do it, but I don't think it's a
reason to leave your wife over.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
To be honest, I think it's weird. You kissy ten
year old on the lips.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
Why you've seen him is so cute?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Yeah he's cute, but he's also like a boy.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
No, but yeah, he's a boy. He kisses me on
the lips as soon as he pulls away or goes
for my cheek. I'll be fine with that, but for
now he likes to do it. Yeah, he hasn't gone
through puberty yet. Has your wife gone through puberty?
Speaker 4 (03:42):
I hope so.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
No, I don't like it, and I think that there's
an age for a regon, like pretty much runs, you
start going to school, it starts to get a little
bit weirder and weirder in my personal open.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
That will change when you become a dad. Okay, George,
I'm saying stay, I'm.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Saying well, I mean, I don't know about go, but
definitely tell her to stop doing it. That's my opinion,
all right. Thirty one O two three we need to
help Hick. What's George gonna do? Give us some opinions.
Have you been in this position before? Do you kiss
your parents on the lips?
Speaker 1 (04:10):
It's okay? Do you think it's gross? Where are you?
Thirty one? O?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Two three?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Help George out?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Mix one or two point three?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Hailey and Max in the morning. We have been in
the middle of this, Haleen, Max or should Yeah? We
got George on the line.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
George shrode into us, and then we've picked up the
phone and spoken to him.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
He says, I have.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
A twenty seven year old wife who I love very much,
but she, as a twenty seven year old adult, still
kisses her dad on the lips, and it's starting to
weird me out a little bit. And it's divided, adelaid.
People have their opinion on whether or not this is fine.
I think as a daughter who loves her dad very much, yes,
it's weird. But if it was a tradition that I
do with my dad, you can't break that.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Yeah, I think it's weird.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
I don't reckon I kiss my parents on the lips
above the age of five, and I don't think if
I have children I'll do that either.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
I think that's a lie of your mum would have
totally pass you until you're fifteen.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
No, George is still here. George.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
I hope you've got a little bit of advice from
those people, but we also have on the line now
your wife, April has joined This morning.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
April, Good morning, April.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Having heard everything you've heard over the last fifteen or
twenty minutes, can you tell us why you kiss you
are your dad on the lips?
Speaker 5 (05:27):
Well, because he's my dad and I've always done that
and I totally love him. I really don't see the issue.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Right, George. Do you want to have a little maybe
grow some balls and tell her why you don't like it.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
I just feel like, now that we're married, the close
and the closeness and the bond should be between us.
I mean, I don't I love that you're close with
your dad. I just can't get past the lips.
Speaker 5 (05:55):
Yeah, but like it doesn't mean it. It's not like
a guy like a friend, or a like one of
your besties, or a guy we don't even know, Like
I wouldn't do that, but it's like my dad. I've
always done that. Like it's nothing weird. I really don't.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Get it, Georgie, are you jealous?
Speaker 4 (06:11):
I don't think I'm jealous, But when we're intimate, the
last thing I want to be thinking about is your
dad's the start.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
That's fair.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
I get that, that's a great point if like, yeah,
what do you what are you going to do? We
have a chat to your dad about it?
Speaker 5 (06:25):
Or I don't know, but I just I just don't.
I just don't feel like I can talk about this
on the radio.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
I really just.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
Don't think I can do it. I just I'm sorry.
I just I don't understand it, and I don't think
I'm going to talk to my dad about it actually,
because I think I actually think he needs to get
over it. Like you know, if my husband and like,
he shouldn't have an issue with it. If that's what
I want to do and I've alreadys done it, he
should be able to deal with that.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Yes, sister, I agree with you.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
I'm not so sure about it. I don't think you
should kiss you dad on the lips. It's strange to me.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
All Right, Well, I'm sorry, but I'm I'm going to
get off the telephone. I'm sorry, Haley and Max. Thanks
for being on board with me. Hailey I'm getting off
the phone. Okay, okay, okay, we'll talk about Thank you,
love you. Talking about.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
It was like an April and George conversation for later.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Oh no, it's really awkward, Georgie. We didn't want to
ruin anything for you, my friend. I was on your side,
if nothing else.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Thank you for the support. Max. Yeah, dinner's going to
be fun tonight.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
It's Dad coming.
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