November 30, 2023 • 4 mins
Tammy's Request - The Final Conclusion
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Tammy, Hey, Hello, how are you. Gosh, I've thought so
much about you and just this whole week, but particularly
in the last twenty four hours. How's it going, how
are you feeling.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I'm still questioning whether to contact them. I still like
to know, you know, the medical history. But my twin
brother has been very adamant that no. He said, you
need to let sleeping dogs lie. It would be nice
to get to know the other side of the family,
but as he said, we can't confirm if they actually know.
(00:34):
And considering that he's not here to defend himself. Your dad,
you mean, yeah, so you know, do we don't we
type thing? But he said on his note it would
be no. And then I basically conflayed. I said, well,
I understand, I accept your response, but I still have
a question.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
So at the moment, the two of you, as twins,
one says yes, let's contact, on the other says no,
is there anyone in your life? And sort of be
a tiebreaker and sort of what are other people saying?
Speaker 2 (01:03):
My husband read at the end of the day the
final sysisdon would be up to you, but suing that
you have medical dramas going on in the family, it
would be good to know if there is any additional
medical issues that we need to know about. You know,
our son has said, well, Mum, at the end of
the day, you now know I face the name and
his uncle looks like our father.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Tell me, can I play devil's advocate just for a minute.
If they don't have a choice, you'll never know, right, Yes,
it's true. There's so many unknowns in this, right, And
I'm just sitting here thinking, could you approach his wife
because she probably did know.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Well, that's what I think in the back of my mind,
is that I have a face of this and that
maybe she does because the communication that Mum has said
the words was yes I am pregnant, and then they
left town. So I feel that maybe the white does.
But I think I'm sitting that I don't contact the boys.
But if I do contact any and it's going to
be the wife.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Oh, your poor things. So you're really agonizing over this,
aren't you.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yep?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
When do you think you'll make a decision?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Usually I make decisions when it's in my head for
about a week or two, and then I just take
the plunge.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Yeah, don't save it up for Christmas Day. It done
before then make it anyway.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
It's still sitting with me, so I think considering the
medical side.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Mate, Can I tell you already think you're going to
do it just based on how you're where you're flying
with it. It's just that you've got to be okay
that you're maybe the potential. Your family and your brother,
your twin brother aren't happy with it. But please let
us know what happens. Well, good luck and yeah, Merry Christmas.
I hope this actually was a gift rather than a hindrance.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I'm taking it as a gift. This is now another
door opened.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
We'll keep us in the loop.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Tell me and thank you so much for sharing your
story with us.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
All good, Thank you very much.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I'd love to know what people think. I'd love to
know what people think is a good idea, like whether
it is account. It's so hard to know for what
it's like to be those the three men that are
her stepbrothers that perhaps don't know anything about her.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
And I would say I would hate to think that
there was someone who is I mean, and I have
half brother and sister, yeah, much much older than me,
but I mean, imagine going through your life not knowing
that they existed. I mean, it's cool that you don't
want to meet them. If you don't want to meet them,
that's fine.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
But what it would be a massive It'd be what
a shock that would be to find out, if you're, like,
you know, in your thirties or forties, whatever they are,
to find out that there's this whole other side to
your dad's life that you never knew about.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
I don't know, but maybe they did. That's why I
think the mom, the mom might be the one to go, hey, look,
I don't want anything from you. Yes, she said, no,
I don't want anything from you, yep, But I just
want to know. I would really like to reach out
to my half siblings. Do you think that'd be okay?
If she never responds, you know the answer.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Yess true. Yeah, just send it out there and see
what happened.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
But if she left town so quickly after they found
out that Tammy's mum was pregnant, then she must know. Yeah,
she must assumes that. But he doesn't assume. I am
assuming that he told her about it or just didn't.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
We got to get out of town, pack your things, hey,
why oh four oh nine nine seven three nine seven
three is the text line. If ever you want to
get involved with the show,
Tammy, Hey, Hello, how are you. Gosh, I've thought so
much about you and just this whole week, but particularly
in the last twenty four hours. How's it going, how
are you feeling.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I'm still questioning whether to contact them. I still like
to know, you know, the medical history. But my twin
brother has been very adamant that no. He said, you
need to let sleeping dogs lie. It would be nice
to get to know the other side of the family,
but as he said, we can't confirm if they actually know.
(00:34):
And considering that he's not here to defend himself. Your dad,
you mean, yeah, so you know, do we don't we
type thing? But he said on his note it would
be no. And then I basically conflayed. I said, well,
I understand, I accept your response, but I still have
a question.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
So at the moment, the two of you, as twins,
one says yes, let's contact, on the other says no,
is there anyone in your life? And sort of be
a tiebreaker and sort of what are other people saying?
Speaker 2 (01:03):
My husband read at the end of the day the
final sysisdon would be up to you, but suing that
you have medical dramas going on in the family, it
would be good to know if there is any additional
medical issues that we need to know about. You know,
our son has said, well, Mum, at the end of
the day, you now know I face the name and
his uncle looks like our father.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Tell me, can I play devil's advocate just for a minute.
If they don't have a choice, you'll never know, right, Yes,
it's true. There's so many unknowns in this, right, And
I'm just sitting here thinking, could you approach his wife
because she probably did know.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Well, that's what I think in the back of my mind,
is that I have a face of this and that
maybe she does because the communication that Mum has said
the words was yes I am pregnant, and then they
left town. So I feel that maybe the white does.
But I think I'm sitting that I don't contact the boys.
But if I do contact any and it's going to
be the wife.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Oh, your poor things. So you're really agonizing over this,
aren't you.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yep?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
When do you think you'll make a decision?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Usually I make decisions when it's in my head for
about a week or two, and then I just take
the plunge.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Yeah, don't save it up for Christmas Day. It done
before then make it anyway.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
It's still sitting with me, so I think considering the
medical side.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Mate, Can I tell you already think you're going to
do it just based on how you're where you're flying
with it. It's just that you've got to be okay
that you're maybe the potential. Your family and your brother,
your twin brother aren't happy with it. But please let
us know what happens. Well, good luck and yeah, Merry Christmas.
I hope this actually was a gift rather than a hindrance.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I'm taking it as a gift. This is now another
door opened.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
We'll keep us in the loop.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Tell me and thank you so much for sharing your
story with us.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
All good, Thank you very much.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I'd love to know what people think. I'd love to
know what people think is a good idea, like whether
it is account. It's so hard to know for what
it's like to be those the three men that are
her stepbrothers that perhaps don't know anything about her.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
And I would say I would hate to think that
there was someone who is I mean, and I have
half brother and sister, yeah, much much older than me,
but I mean, imagine going through your life not knowing
that they existed. I mean, it's cool that you don't
want to meet them. If you don't want to meet them,
that's fine.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
But what it would be a massive It'd be what
a shock that would be to find out, if you're, like,
you know, in your thirties or forties, whatever they are,
to find out that there's this whole other side to
your dad's life that you never knew about.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
I don't know, but maybe they did. That's why I
think the mom, the mom might be the one to go, hey, look,
I don't want anything from you. Yes, she said, no,
I don't want anything from you, yep, But I just
want to know. I would really like to reach out
to my half siblings. Do you think that'd be okay?
If she never responds, you know the answer.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Yess true. Yeah, just send it out there and see
what happened.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
But if she left town so quickly after they found
out that Tammy's mum was pregnant, then she must know. Yeah,
she must assumes that. But he doesn't assume. I am
assuming that he told her about it or just didn't.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
We got to get out of town, pack your things, hey,
why oh four oh nine nine seven three nine seven
three is the text line. If ever you want to
get involved with the show,
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