October 21, 2024 • 52 mins
FULL SHOW: Dean Lewis, Cheating Myths, Corey Oates Gets A Job At BCF + MORE
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's Robin and Kids in the morning break.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
You're listening to the Robin Kick podcasts.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Great Good Day.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
It's Robin Kip on demand the podcast you will have
heard on the on the podcast if you get it regularly.
We've had a fair bit of to do with crypto
over the last year with Saddel Sierra, who's our crypto queen,
and you love it. I do.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
I'm into it, and then goodness because I don't.
Speaker 5 (00:31):
But I'll jump on any bandwagon that says I'll make
your money.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
Yeah, and so far, I think the account that because
we gave Sidel nine hundred and seventy three dollars, she
kicked it in the same amount on her own, and
we said, like buys, buy whatever. Coins are going to
make us some money we can give away at the
end of the year. I don't think we've got much
of Like we're up a tiny bit at the moment.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Yeah, yeah, I mean but up up, We're not down.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
No, We're definitely not down. And and when we saw
that we had Dean Lewis in today. I remember the
last time I spoke to him was very early days.
It was like when I first just sort of found
out about bitcoin, and both of our brothers were keenly interested.
Speaker 5 (01:11):
And both of them it seems successfully key interested.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Yeah, but then in the time since we spoke to him,
it has dumped a lot. So I wondered whether if
it's possible his brother sold at the low, because that'd
be sad. So we'll find out sword at the height. Well, yeah,
it would be happy. He could be richer than his
musical brother with that pickle, So we'll find out. We're
gonna have a chat with Dean about it at halftime.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Wake up with Robin and Kid.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
Okay, we started talking about this last week because there's
this guy in the US who for seventeen years has
been a clinical psychologist and licensed marriage and family counselor.
But he's focused on helping couples who have struggled with infidelity,
and rather than just making the assumption that as soon
as someone cheats on you, you're out, he's come up
with some myths because he is trying to help couples
(02:00):
turned towards each other rather than run away if infidelity
is the major issue. Now, last week we were talking
about cheating means just having sex with someone, and we
kind of went backwards and forwards on that one. But
myth number two for today is once a cheater, always
a cheater.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
Well, I mean, if you just go with history, it
seems like that is the truth. Like that seems like, yes,
once someone's cheated, the chances of them cheating again are
through the.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
Roof, not necessarily, and this is what he says. He says,
it depends why they cheated, right right, So if there's
an issue within the relationship and that issue is not addressed,
then yes, you're just going to do exactly the same thing.
You know, you put a band aid over it. You
might forgive them, and then nothing gets resolved. So the
first thing he says is the only way you can
move past that as a couple is if that person
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and in fact often both of you mass face why
ite happened. Second thing is that when it comes to cheating,
this will be controversial to is that there it takes
two for one person to cheat. And I don't mean
the person outside of the relationship. Clearly the relationship is broken, yes,
for someone to look outside of it, and that's a
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question you've both got to ask yourselves as to why
it was broken. Now that's not blame, that's just saying
that if someone is unhappy to look out. Now, that's
also not victim blaming either. It's just say it a
bit like it to be honest.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
No, no, no, I know.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
But it's saying that you must look at your relationship
as a whole and question why that happened.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Yeah, but you can question it, right, But that doesn't
like there's still there's one person that because for me,
that's it is a deal breaker. For me, it's like, Okay,
you've crossed the line. And so so for me, it's
a line that you can't cross without the relationship being over.
So you've chosen one person the relationship is chosen to
(03:52):
cross a line. Yes, like yes, there might be yes,
there might be reasons from both sides that has happened,
but no other.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Person And if the other person doesn't choose, then there's
an absolute betrayal and no question. And the third thing
that's really interesting that I've never thought about is that
an affair is like the fantasy. You don't actually ever
get the three dimensional version of the person. You get
a one dimensional where you can present whatever you want
to to that individual.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
But it's not the good, the bad.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
And the ugly and often a fair relationships that may
start as affairs don't last in real life because then
you get the ugly and you go, you know, you
present your best self until you can't. And you know,
there absolutely are people who are serial affair givers because
they just want that one dimensional. They just want their
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affirmation and the rush, and then they just keep moving.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
I remember because my first marriage ended with my partner
had an affair, and so there's a couple of things
that I remember. One thing I remember leading up before
we got married is one thing she did was we
had a we had an event to go to, I
don't know what. It was, barbecuous something and someone, and
she lied about why we couldn't be there when the
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truth would have been just fine, Like the truth was
not it was like one of us was sick or something.
But she had this lie that just went bang and
it was perfect and it was so believable. And I
watched her lie.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Did you know it was a lie where shit was
coming on and it was a lie?
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Yeah, because I was sitting next to her and I went, oh,
my goodness, you are an incredible liar. Oh the capacity
to lie city just to lie like that, right, and
I remember thinking and we had this real, like real
major moment. Then I was like, do you lie to
me like that?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Oh wow?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
And you know, and we had to be like, you've
got to stop like this. That that's that side of
you I don't care for. I don't want to see
you lying to people because that means you can do
it to me. And eventually she did.
Speaker 6 (05:45):
She did.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
I had this whole amazing ruse, like you know, for
the affair. And interestingly, because I read all the messages,
I ended up seeing all the Facebook messages between her
and the bloke. Yeah, and which was devastating at the time,
but it was interesting. It was all a lot of
it was like I can't wait till together and we're
going to have this wonderful life together and blah blah
blah and did they no. Yeah, like within five days
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of me leaving. It was just like that affair didn't
have like that was all shut down. Really Yeah, so
the dream and yeah, it was it was one dimensional.
Like you said, it was all this like it's going
to be great and then it wasn't.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (06:17):
So top line, which is a hard thing to answer,
but do you believe that once a cheater, always a cheater.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
I definitely in that case, yes, I would not have
There was no way that we were going back. There
was no way that I was going to be able
to trust her because I just thought, Yeah, you are
a liar and you're a cheater.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
So do you think that? I mean, it's so hard.
I don't want to just focus on her because that's
not fair. But do you think that's that is some
people's modus operendo, that they don't change, and that whatever
relationship they go into, they will cheat.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
I don't, No, I don't. I don't think she's cheating.
I don't think she cheated on her next partner.
Speaker 7 (06:48):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Well, I don't know, but I don't think so. But
she did definitely with me. I think that was once
you can cross the line with that person, I feel
like you can cross it again.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
See that's interesting.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
It's about then forgiving your partner if that trust is broken.
I think that is a hard thing to I don't know.
I think you'd have to really double dobt. It depends
on your circumstances, if you have small children, if you
have something greater to lose. Hillary Clinton, Yes, because if
she'd broken up with Bill Clinton, and you who knows
(07:18):
what goes on behind close tours, but you would guess
that she stayed because the power of two and the
notoriety of that kept her in politics, and that was
a bigger thing for her than the infidelity.
Speaker 7 (07:30):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
So I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
Thirteen one six five out number. I'd love to speak
to someone. Have you ever taken someone back that's cheated?
And can you trust them? Or is there always that
little inkling of you wanted to check there? Who's that messaging?
Speaker 5 (07:44):
And if you did do that, what did you do
to get past it? Because the betrayal is the thing
you've got to navigate.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Thirteen one oh six y.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Five wake up with Robin and kid.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
So Robin, this psy call just his saying is a
myth that wants a cheata always a cheator?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
It does depend.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
There are caveats though, it's not like oh yeah, of
course it's fine.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
Yeah, Well we want to know, like, have you taken
back a cheatah? And then what happened? Thirty one oh
sixty five is.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
At number Amanda of Cleveland? What went down?
Speaker 6 (08:17):
Oh?
Speaker 8 (08:17):
Look, I was married for twenty five years and throughout
our marriage, my ex cheated on me. Some of it
I didn't know about, but I found out about. One
was a workmates and it devastated me. But we had
very young children and at the time I didn't have
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a career or a job, and it was I was
a stay at home mum and that played a huge part.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
I was terrified of.
Speaker 8 (08:43):
Being a single mum and doing it all on my own.
And I knew that he did actually love me, and
it was that was a weird thing. We'd had it.
We actually had a good marriage except for this indiscretion.
And then I found that later over the years it
happened and again we separated that three times over the marriage,
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getting back together again, and he had mental health issues,
so it was a lot of that played into it
as well. So there was a lot of reasons why
things happened.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
But once a cheatah, once a cheaterh.
Speaker 8 (09:17):
Peter, always a cheater. And he even when we got
together again and we renewed our valves, we did all that.
We were together for ten years after that, and I
thought it was good found out that for the last
final two years he had been cheating on me.
Speaker 7 (09:36):
Again.
Speaker 5 (09:37):
Wow, man, that's just like saying, do you do you
regret the choices you made?
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Amanda?
Speaker 6 (09:41):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (09:42):
Totally yeah, thanks Amanda. Thirty one six five is our number.
If you've if you've got an experience with this, maybe
maybe you forgave and it worked out great.
Speaker 5 (09:52):
Yeah, And I mean yeah, maybe that person got themselves
some help and never cheated again.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
It would be great to have a good story.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
I'm not counting on it.
Speaker 5 (10:02):
Thirteen one six five, but seriously, your experiences are worth here.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
Right after wamb It's Robin and Kept Kiss is ninety seven.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
To three Wake Up with Robin and Kid.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
Right now, we're talking about this psychologist who says that
the myth that once a cheater, always a cheater is
not necessarily true. It's sometimes people can change.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
Yeah, okay, I mean does that mean do you think
because I have admitted to some I mean, wait, to
my book, it's probably not as clear cut as it
might sound, but then that I'll always be a cheater?
Speaker 4 (10:37):
No, I don't think you No, I don't think it
means that you're there for life. But it does seem like,
certainly with the same partner, it seems like it's it's habitual.
It seems like well, just judging by that last caller,
he really wanted to change. He was kept saying sorry
they were renewed vows, but he couldn't stop.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
It depends on.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
The shame attached if you actually feel like you've done
something wrong. But Rosie of Klonta, you haven't got a
dacy of a story.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
What happened?
Speaker 9 (11:04):
So hi Robin hi kid. I was actually married for
my first marriage for eleven years, and around about I guess,
like the the ninth year, I had actually discovered that
my husband was actually having an affair with his secretary.
(11:28):
So that actually went on for two years. But the
kicker of that is that the affair was actually happening
while she was actually planning her own marriage, and I
only actually found out about the affair after she got married.
(11:48):
And then she had actually told her new husband the
day after they actually got married that she was having
an affair with her born way, yes, way, what happened.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
To their marriage? Did I stay around?
Speaker 9 (12:07):
I have no idea that's that. That's not my my jam.
I don't wish to do to stay in that.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
So you just so, you just you just cut that
like a bad wound and went right.
Speaker 9 (12:21):
That's done well, I actually tried. But look, my husband
and I actually tried all my ex husband now we
actually he really wanted to glue things back together, where
as for me, once trust is actually tainted, you can
never really go back. That's that's my kind of like
(12:44):
perspective on it. So we did actually try for a
while to find out that he had actually gone back
to her, so they were still actually having discontinued affair.
But then that actually allegedly stopped.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
And how can you do counseling to save your marriage
while continuing on with the affair. I mean that that
arrogance is in sanit athlete.
Speaker 9 (13:17):
I know, I know, right, but it gets better or
it gets worse one or the other. So, uh, whilst
we were doing this rebuild, he was he then moved
on to another secretary, so and they were actually continuing
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their affair. So we had actually uh severed tides. And
the way that we actually severed tithes was we actually
had this a hiking trip organized, which was too Kaklota,
which is probably one of the toughest legs that you
could actually do. We completed Kakota. I actually had both
(14:00):
to their wedding rings on me and I had actually
found them together and when I got to the top
of our I was corner. I'd actually thrown them.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
But did he know did he know that that was
that was coming, that you were going to be throwing? No,
what a surprise the world done.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Go back on the plane said see you later, mate.
I never saw him again.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
Well, coming up, We've got to move on because we
were trying to find Corey a job. But we might
do this again after eight o'clock. Get more calls on
this because Jay wants to speak to us. He says,
or rather, she was a cheaterah, but has changed. Okay,
so let's talk to you.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
She can convince you.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
Let's see wake up with Robin and Kip, Robin and
Kip in the morning.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
No, that's fine.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
My Coreots is not with the Broncos next year. So
we're trying to find him work. There's plenty of options
coming through. We gave him a real estate f but
yesterday we did pretty well.
Speaker 5 (15:01):
Yeah, you need to see the video because he actually
did really well. But this was a place that Corey
goes to often and loves, isn't it Corey.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
Yes, it is.
Speaker 10 (15:12):
It's well one of the home.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Yeah, when he's not at Bunnings, he's at BCS.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
We lost him at one stage he was having a
little nap in one of the tents. Have you done that?
Have you done that before? Or you seemed very comfortable.
Speaker 9 (15:25):
Yeah, well I think actually that maybe you ago.
Speaker 4 (15:30):
When you got a one year old have a little nap.
But BCF, well we got you as trainee. You had
the special BCF shirt, you had the train in training badge,
and we got you to make a major announcement over
the p A system. Let's be I don't think that's
(15:57):
it should be a slogan.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
It's not.
Speaker 5 (16:00):
Then we thought, well, there's no point in having you
as a trainee unless you can help a customer. So
key we Steve came in. His kids got a tinny
and he needed some safety stuff.
Speaker 4 (16:10):
You need my son's just bought a teeny and he
wants to hit it across the bar, So we really
need to know what sort of safety gear needs. Well,
first of we're going to need a boat.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
Okay, he's got that sort of.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
How many Yeah, it's a three and a half meters
four people, so you need four live jackets, make sure
live jackets.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Probably just another boat.
Speaker 4 (16:36):
That's a good up.
Speaker 8 (16:41):
For a boat.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Yeah that was.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
Actually you were most at home just chatting with customers.
But when we got you behind the till, that's when
things started to go south.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
Okay, so can we now teach you how to put
this through?
Speaker 2 (16:52):
I've done this once with skinner First.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
Wrong wrong mar code, I mean, isn't there only one?
Speaker 5 (17:03):
So then Jack, who actually is the manager, stepped into help.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Fashion card and.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
I should be ready now of this side. Thanks, thank
you so much.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Was your lower seat, I wouldn't like a smile.
Speaker 4 (17:29):
You were the saddest checkout person in the world. Chory
what happened?
Speaker 8 (17:34):
I was probably still high.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
I reckon too that when you concentrate like that's the
only thing you're doing, just trying to focus.
Speaker 4 (17:42):
So yeah, probably true.
Speaker 10 (17:45):
Look, I do not feel comfortable behind that canon at all,
so I think we can cross that off the mark.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
Well, Jack lit'sten before we write it off for good.
Jack the manager did run a view of of your
reforts at BCF.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
You were in your natural habitat here. I've never seen
you talk so much.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
I'll be so engaged because I want to go fishing here.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Fishing or Jack, you've just had your trainee. What would
you give him out of ten?
Speaker 2 (18:10):
I give him a six. He was excellent customers, gift
of the.
Speaker 9 (18:13):
Gab, that's for sure.
Speaker 4 (18:14):
Though computer work needs a lot of effort, it.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Is not no matter what it is. What's the average
age of your trainee between eighteen and twenty two? I'd
say for our casions fit the brief? Would you expect
more from.
Speaker 7 (18:31):
With a computer?
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Mind you the way he waxed on about reels, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (18:37):
His knowledge is there.
Speaker 7 (18:38):
Yes, I think we could.
Speaker 4 (18:39):
We could give him a job in the fishing department,
for sure.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
You take me out fishing.
Speaker 4 (18:47):
We do have another idea for you over the next
couple of days. Care because you mentioned, speaking of fishing,
that one of your fears is being out in open water.
Speaker 8 (18:56):
I'm not gone.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Don't stress.
Speaker 4 (18:58):
We're not going to make you do that.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
It's one, but there'll be you know, there could be
a cage around you. The sharks will only nibble your toes.
Speaker 8 (19:07):
Yeah, ok, no, but.
Speaker 4 (19:10):
You're fine with heights, so aren't you?
Speaker 2 (19:12):
No?
Speaker 3 (19:13):
Oh really your second fear?
Speaker 1 (19:16):
Can you get over the second one?
Speaker 4 (19:17):
Because we've organized it, We've got we want you to do.
We want you to go up in the traffic chopper
that in the trouble with no doors won't Okay, well
you'll have to.
Speaker 1 (19:29):
Do our traffic. There is a slight issue about weight though, Corey, because.
Speaker 9 (19:35):
It might just be chilting the one.
Speaker 4 (19:37):
Yeah, we've got the lightest pilot available, and they said
that you can still go up provided you're under one
hundred and two kilos.
Speaker 6 (19:43):
Oh might get this, can.
Speaker 5 (19:45):
You well if we went up, Yeah, we'll do it
on Thursday, maybe Thursday morning.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
So it gives you like, yeah, just donate between now
and then.
Speaker 4 (19:52):
Okay, I mean, would you come.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
In under around one hundred and two?
Speaker 4 (20:00):
I can dry me do your messed all right, a suit,
do what you gotta do.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
What's either that or going with the Sharks choice?
Speaker 4 (20:06):
Okay there you get to wait otherwise at Sharks. I
like that. Robin, well done, well that gory. The video
of Cory at BCF is up at Kiss ninety seven
three is Robin and.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
Kim Wake Up with Robin and Kid.
Speaker 5 (20:24):
The one and only Australian superstar Dean Lewis is coming
into the studio now. He did a very exclusive gig
at the Fortitude Music Hall last night and he was
in fine voice.
Speaker 4 (20:46):
Someone so good.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
It was really humble and really lovely. And you'll hear
all of that, and I hear singing.
Speaker 4 (21:05):
There's so much crowd singing. Anytime I hear any of
his songs, the whole crowd is all you hear.
Speaker 5 (21:10):
Well, Thank goodness for the crowd, because last night he
was also debuting and playing some of his newer songs
and in this one moment he actually forgot the lyrics
and then had to ask the crowd to remind you.
Speaker 11 (21:22):
What to see.
Speaker 3 (21:23):
The second album about one girl.
Speaker 7 (21:25):
It's a very embarrassing story, but it's true.
Speaker 12 (21:27):
And this song was like the last song I wrote
for her to kind of like say, and I also
wrote it to say, this is like the last.
Speaker 10 (21:35):
Time I knew I was ever going to see her,
and I gave her a hug and I knew that
was that was kind of the end.
Speaker 3 (21:39):
So maybe you guys can relax it.
Speaker 7 (21:40):
But it's a song of mine called the last bit
of Us.
Speaker 12 (21:43):
So now.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
What was it?
Speaker 3 (21:52):
Oh? Every time.
Speaker 4 (21:58):
Wake up with Robin and yeah, halfway through the podcast,
so we had this little extra chat with a big
Aussie singer, Dean Lewis when he was.
Speaker 7 (22:10):
In Little Crypto chat.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
Yeah, a little crypto chat in the podcast because because
I always remember talking to you. Last time I spoke
to you, iway was at another radio station then. But
afterwards we were talking about our brothers both being in
a crypto and both of our brothers had had proper
taken a proper punt at bitcoin. My brother ended up being.
Speaker 7 (22:28):
Able to pay, Like how much did he get.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
A big chunk of his homelan off he sold when
it was at ninety three thousand Australian dollars.
Speaker 7 (22:35):
A coin the bitcoin?
Speaker 4 (22:37):
Then it plummeted back down to about thirty I wants it?
Speaker 7 (22:39):
And now did he go back up?
Speaker 4 (22:40):
It's back up at one hundred and four today hundred
for wow. But there was like two or three years
where it was down at thirty and I was just thinking,
I wonder did your brother don't He didn't say, I
don't know.
Speaker 7 (22:48):
I don't know what he did.
Speaker 10 (22:49):
He wasn't nearly as invested as your brother, but like
that's crazy, that's crazy cool? And did he has he
still got money? Your brother still got cashing Now he's out, Wow,
he's okay, Wow, but he's set up his life.
Speaker 4 (22:58):
Yeah, he changed everything. One of his one of his
friends had who got him into it, sold his house
on the Sunshine Coast and did nothing.
Speaker 7 (23:07):
But by a bitcoin, Like, how much did he did
he make?
Speaker 4 (23:10):
He end up buying nineteen.
Speaker 7 (23:12):
Oh jesus, So how much has that still got them? Still?
Speaker 9 (23:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (23:15):
A couple of It's a couple of millions.
Speaker 10 (23:17):
Just outrageous, isn't it. I mean back in the day
you couldn't. If you just invested five thousand bucks, you
would have just been cleaned up.
Speaker 7 (23:22):
That's crazy.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Have you got any No?
Speaker 7 (23:24):
I didn't. I did not even no, No, I'm not
even no. I just find it all terrifying.
Speaker 10 (23:30):
I'm like the slowest slop because my life is a risk, right,
Like you know, every song you put out if it flops.
Speaker 7 (23:36):
So for me, I'm I'm more like.
Speaker 10 (23:38):
Just like standard boring stuff, index funds and all that
index funds come on.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
A rock and roll legend, a music legend is more.
Speaker 7 (23:48):
Terrifying kryptos terrified will it is?
Speaker 3 (23:51):
I mean?
Speaker 10 (23:52):
But also you know, I think it's a lot of
people are safe jobs. I feel like with me, it's
like you really are living and dying on your next song.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (23:58):
So yeah, I like the boring kind of stuff. Did
you ever get in a crypto or you?
Speaker 4 (24:02):
I did a self money super fun. Now we're getting
really into the weeds. Yeah, and I I bought one
one for my for my super. Yeah. So hopefully one
day it's worth something. And Dean had a rush out
of the studio after that. But yeah, that's so, that's
my entire cryptos. It's one bitcoin in my super. So
when I when it's time to retire, maybe it's going
(24:24):
to be worth something.
Speaker 5 (24:24):
Well, that would be amazing. I've just googled how much
is Dean Lewis worth.
Speaker 4 (24:28):
Yeah, I'm so glad you did that. I was wondering.
Speaker 5 (24:32):
Okay, okay, He's certified platinum seven times. This hit song
waves on the Australian charts. Dean revealed the realities of
being an Aria reward wing singer the ridiculous rumors about
his wealth, uploading a video to his TikTok account. The
Sydney based singer began, so I looked online and apparently
I'm worth fourteen million dollars.
Speaker 4 (24:52):
I'm not, Oh.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
No, he said.
Speaker 5 (24:56):
He's filmed himself walking over to his red Toyota, which
is batter and weathered, posing with his car broken side mirror.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
Didn't he say he sold out Wembley? He had one
hundred thousand six? How do you not make you must?
Speaker 1 (25:10):
I don't know. He's extreamed heaps.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
Even if you make ten bucks a ticket, that's a
million dollars.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Yeah, they're not they're not saying that. He said things
have changed. Yeah, sold out shows. I don't know. Sorry,
it's weird. Yeah, maybe he hasn't hit it yet.
Speaker 4 (25:29):
Sure, but don't you make money touring now? Because you
don't make it selling. We know that that's those days
are gone. But you make it touring. And if he's
selling out huge stadiums and like where was he in
the Netherlands? Selling out?
Speaker 12 (25:39):
Here we go?
Speaker 8 (25:39):
Here we go?
Speaker 5 (25:40):
Okay, his net worth is ten million, ten assumed of
twenty twenty three value.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Yeah, that's better than I thought.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
It's better than the red Toyota that was looking crappy
in twenty twenty two.
Speaker 4 (25:53):
Sure he's got rid of the Toyota.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
Yeah, so there you go in MILLI I don't okay
with that.
Speaker 4 (25:57):
That's pretty good. Yeah he can have a crypto. He's
got money.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Now, come on in Buddy, wake up with Robin and Kit.
Speaker 4 (26:09):
Now I mentioned at start of the show, Rob, I
had a dream.
Speaker 11 (26:11):
I know.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
This is fascinating to me.
Speaker 4 (26:13):
I normally don't know. I normally don't talk about it.
I don't really have many dreams. I don't know if
that's normal.
Speaker 5 (26:20):
I see, Yeah, I usually dream if I wake up
at say like four in the morning on a Saturday,
and then I go back to sleep.
Speaker 7 (26:26):
It happened.
Speaker 4 (26:27):
Yes, I went back to sleep. So Naomi let me
sleep in on Saturday morning after six, So I slept
between six and seven, and that's when I have my dream.
And that's very rare because normally Raphael has got things
to do, He's got a lot of things to do.
He he's awake and ready. So I started having this dream,
and I was so disappointed because you think, when you
(26:49):
have your dream, you can go anywhere in the world.
You could be anything.
Speaker 7 (26:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (26:52):
But I have a theory about this, because your subconscious
is trying to work stuff through, right, So the more
things that you're concerned about, they will come and process
themselves through your dreams.
Speaker 1 (27:02):
Can you give you some idea of.
Speaker 5 (27:03):
Either you're just trying to work it out, or it's
you know, maybe giving another option yourself. I mean, if
you see your subconscious as something slightly different to you. Yeah,
that's the way I think it communicates through your dreams.
Speaker 4 (27:14):
Well, you know how always complained about meetings here, yes,
and how I don't like to do any more meetings. Well,
I had a dream and we were in a meeting.
This is my dream state. Because Katy Perry had canceled
her final three shows in Australia because the Australian backup
singers kept missing the cues to her songs so they
(27:34):
would have to do the backup bit. And she was
and we had reels, we had tapes that we were
preparing to play back on the show where our backup
singers had screwed it up, and Katy Perry eventually went
that's it, and she.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Walked out of our studio.
Speaker 4 (27:48):
Well, she walked out of the rehearsal studio which we
had the audio and visual where we were going to
play back on the show, and then we're having a meeting.
Ruth was there, but you so going, Okay, what are
we going to do about Katy Perry because we're giving
away tickets as you know, in the next twenty minutes,
and so it was we're having this big we're having
this big meeting trying to work out what we're going
to do with stupid Katie Perry tis in my dream.
And then Raphael, my little boy, did, come running in
(28:10):
and said, Dad, Dad, there's a vomit emergency. There's vomit
everywhere in the lounge. And then I hoped that that
was a dream, that was real world.
Speaker 7 (28:20):
So then I woke up.
Speaker 1 (28:21):
You were wishing Katy Perry advancing.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
So they woke up, went downstairs, helped everyone out with
a whole vomit emergency, and then I remember thinking, Okay, well,
I've got to get back to this Katy Perry story.
We've got to work out what we're going to do.
And that's when I realized, oh no, that was a whole.
That was just a terrible dream.
Speaker 5 (28:36):
Okay, So what they say about dreams is that it
is only relevant, Like the scenario is not important. It's
how it made you feel and what you think your
lesson in it is. So is it something that you're
thinking too much about work? Is it something that you
feel that there's some sort of issue around people not
(28:58):
doing I.
Speaker 4 (28:58):
Think it's the first one. I'm wing working too hard.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
I'm sorry, I.
Speaker 4 (29:03):
Don't know if you can hear the groan throughout sound
through class.
Speaker 5 (29:06):
I'm sorry, someone anyone in the producing Star, the executive
producer of the show, I can tell you that that.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
Dream did not indicate that it was working too hard.
Speaker 4 (29:16):
Even in my dream state, I'm thinking about this show, Ruth.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
That's the most work you did all.
Speaker 2 (29:23):
Wake up with Robin and Kid Roberts.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
This is just gets sadder and sadder.
Speaker 5 (29:37):
Of course, we were all shocked by the news last
week that Liampagne had fell from a three story window
in a hotel in Argentina.
Speaker 1 (29:44):
The One Direction Star.
Speaker 5 (29:46):
They knew because of the paraphernalia within the hotel room,
that there were drugs involved, and that two hotel staff.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Have been questioned by police over where those drugs came from.
Speaker 5 (29:56):
But the toxicality tests are back and it was feels
a mix of drugs known as pink cocaine, so pretty
much cocaine with crack.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
In his body. Yeah it's pretty crappy, but yeah, really, Dodge.
Speaker 5 (30:11):
He also had crystal in his bloodstream, which is crystal
and yeah met yep, as well as prescription medication, namely
anti anxiety meds.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
My only the only thing I know about you know,
crystal meth is from watching Breaking Bad and none of
it looks good, you know what I mean, Like, it's
just I think it's almost it's all bad news.
Speaker 5 (30:30):
Yeah, it's the most addictive drug there is and that
one or two hits and then you're addicted.
Speaker 1 (30:36):
It's just such an awful drug.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
And knowing from a friend who actually had a partner
trying to get sober and has successfully got sting, but
took like a year because your brain gets rewired. Oh
my goodness, the actual way your synaptics of your brain work.
Took a year of being clean for his brain to
start working normally again.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 12 (30:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (30:56):
Well, his girlfriend, Kate Cassidy, has been seen for the
first time since he died.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
She went out to get dog food. Well, I guess
you have to do those kind of things.
Speaker 5 (31:05):
She has broken her silence on social media, saying thank
you for all the kind words and loves that has
been sent my way. I've been at a complete loss.
Nothing about the past few days have felt real.
Speaker 1 (31:15):
I ask and pray that.
Speaker 5 (31:16):
You'll give me the grace and space to navigate this
in private. And then she says, Lee and my angel
you are everything.
Speaker 1 (31:22):
I want you to know.
Speaker 5 (31:23):
I loved you unconditionally and completely. I will continue to
love you for the rest of my life.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
I love you, Lamb. That stuff's awful. And then the
other thing that.
Speaker 4 (31:31):
Well, sorry, where was she she had been in Argentina?
Speaker 2 (31:34):
Had left?
Speaker 5 (31:35):
Yeah, she left, and then on her social media just
her saying that she was bored and she wanted to
get out of them and was going back to America.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
I mean, man, I bet she regrets that now. He
was by himself for a couple of days.
Speaker 5 (31:46):
And the other news that's come to light in the
last twenty four hours is that he was dropped by
his record company just a few days before he died.
They thought his new music wouldn't win over one Direction fans.
Speaker 4 (31:58):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (31:59):
So yeah, it's a devastating blow by Universal Music, who
put his second.
Speaker 1 (32:03):
Album on hold before dropping him.
Speaker 4 (32:07):
News.
Speaker 5 (32:07):
So there's just like a collection of really awful things
when on a drug vender, and here we are from
one sad story to another. Britney Spears also declared across
the weekend, one year after her divorce from that security dude,
that she got herself in a wedding dress and declared
that she married herself. Yes, bringing it back because it
(32:28):
might seem embarrassing or stupid, but I think it's the
most brilliant thing I've ever done, she wrote, And then
she has included a whole pile of videos of her
and bikinis almost touching herself, which makes everyone feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 4 (32:43):
Asistant. She just rocks out in that wedding dress from
a year ago.
Speaker 1 (32:50):
How are we doing?
Speaker 7 (32:52):
What can we do for you?
Speaker 4 (32:53):
She's just going out for snacks.
Speaker 1 (32:58):
Travis Scott is coming to Brisbane.
Speaker 5 (33:00):
Well, he's actually landed in Australia. He's been seen out
on the harbor in Sydney. He's going to be here
on October twenty six.
Speaker 4 (33:08):
But yeah, that's this guy. I don't know you would
have picked and rather Yeah, young a flame here several
mold with Drake. Okay, so he's now is he is
he hooked up with?
Speaker 1 (33:19):
No, he has a baby tool Jenna, but he's got
some other mystery chicks. Hey, I'm going to extra I'm
going to do all these really cool things working on Yes.
Speaker 13 (33:29):
Yeah, anyway, it's sold out at sometime, which is extraordinary
to me. Yeah, I mean Katy Perry is doing the
Entertainment Center, and Travis Scott has Soldac's uncle.
Speaker 4 (33:42):
Katy Perry and Kylie Minoga both doing the end Center.
Travis Scott and Luke Holmes are selling out Suncorp Stadium.
Speaker 1 (33:48):
And both of them are kind of in my world.
Speaker 4 (33:51):
Niche Yes, yes, not anymore. They are mainstream, mainstream ads.
Speaker 2 (33:58):
Wake up with Robin and Kid, Robin and Kip in
the morning.
Speaker 4 (34:06):
That's Cory John So a couple of minutes ago you
would have heard Matt from Ray White giving a Cory
a brief rundown as the house he was going to
do a home open chorus. We decided to give ourselves
new names, Robin, because we.
Speaker 1 (34:20):
Thought, where should you come up with those names?
Speaker 4 (34:24):
Just on the spot. I just thought, I'll make them
memorable but different to our own. So he's got to
try and remember people's name, So there was about five
of us he had to try and remember. So this
is us introducing ourselves to Corey before he gives us
the full rundown of this beautiful house in Paddington.
Speaker 3 (34:38):
And Evening's question, Yeah, yeah, I'm Johnny knockdown. Johnny knocksdown
real estate investor, knock book. No, that's funny.
Speaker 4 (34:48):
I'm Katie, right, Katy.
Speaker 3 (34:57):
Half Price rebon Walk comedian.
Speaker 8 (35:00):
Yeah, there you got your radio.
Speaker 3 (35:05):
Really love what decided to do just that?
Speaker 8 (35:08):
I mean all right, come on, yeah, thanks by.
Speaker 10 (35:11):
One bedroom, one beding terrace and I can't go back
in nighty Hay four and there it's beautiful.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
Yeah, it's pretty original. There's not even run about the
trade songs. Three songs they had all the night it
was the last one. Yeah, and you know we had
these stars from just as beautiful.
Speaker 10 (35:43):
It's it's from that trying to build to build this
one really maybe, Yeah, it's unique, like.
Speaker 3 (35:50):
It very unique. Yeah, wanted I really want a fool
Yeah yeah, and that's exactly well. Yeah, there's no no rock.
Speaker 4 (36:02):
Left, no rock left.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
Yeah, between one and.
Speaker 4 (36:08):
Seven billion, wonder one from that you're in a game
that gap.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
Six hundred five years ago? No, yes, yes, why do
you sing the Marvel? Where are you? Obviously us?
Speaker 4 (36:34):
Okay, A lot of smarls you're in, yeah, crazy, so
you gotta get in now and a lot of fans
on the stage.
Speaker 3 (36:43):
Yeah, christ should.
Speaker 4 (36:49):
The whole video is up on our Instagram and Facebook
if you want to check out Corey takers through.
Speaker 5 (36:53):
The house and he also got rated by Matt who
kind of gave him a really good appraisal and then said, potentially, mate,
you could do.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
Well in this business.
Speaker 4 (37:02):
You actually could have a future in it. You could
see that happening.
Speaker 1 (37:05):
Yeah, returning phone calls would be problematic.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
Man.
Speaker 4 (37:09):
Imagine you were trying to put a binder on something
and gorygeous doesn't call you back for two hours in itself.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Yeah, that Coury doesn't like returning phone calls of his
little thing.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
Wake up with Robin and Kit.
Speaker 4 (37:24):
We're talking about cheaters. Earlier in the show. Today we
had two callers from ladies that had their husbands had cheated.
Speaker 5 (37:29):
They forgave yeah multiple times, but you requested, was there
anyone who was willing to be the cheater and come
on and tell us their story.
Speaker 4 (37:39):
Thirteen one oh sixty five is our number. Ifever you
want to get involved with the show.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
Jay of Griffin, Hi, Hi, mate, tell us your story.
Speaker 11 (37:48):
So me and my ex spell together for two and
a half years. Things got really toxic in the end,
Like I we were fighting for him to spend time
with me, do anything with me and anyway. I obviously
then met a guy at work and was getting that
attention from him, and that blossomed then into sleeping together.
Speaker 2 (38:15):
It's quite as.
Speaker 11 (38:19):
In that my ex found out and he wanted to
keep things going. And but I said, like, you know,
you don't give me an attention. We weren't sleeping together.
I thought he was teaing on me. Turned out he
was an ice addict and he was hiding that from
me the whole time. He said the reason he didn't
ever spend time with me was because whenever I left
(38:40):
the house, it was when he had the opportunity to
do it. But he wanted to try and work things out,
and I was just like, you know, and I took
full credit. I said, like, I clearly don't love you
that much or enough. If I'm going to be with
someone else and it did end, then this is in Melbourne.
(39:00):
Then I've moved to Queensland. I've now got a husband,
we've got two children. Never once have I thought about
straying or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (39:10):
So why did you do it?
Speaker 5 (39:11):
Initially? Was it to it wasn't then to make your
husband pay attention. It was an excuse to get out,
to bring the relationship to a head, to get out
of it.
Speaker 2 (39:19):
Yah.
Speaker 11 (39:20):
I think just this person that I was seeing at
work was just giving me the attention that I wasn't
getting at home. I suppose like he would compliment me
and just you know, make me feel good, want to
spend time with me, and things like that that I
wasn't getting and was fighting so hard for in my
own relationships that just wasn't wasn't getting that.
Speaker 5 (39:41):
What do you think, Jay, He's keeps face is changing.
Speaker 1 (39:45):
I'm just curious.
Speaker 4 (39:46):
It's interesting because I mean, obviously you're in a relationship now,
so you've showed and you haven't cheated it. So it
shows you that you can change, and that.
Speaker 11 (39:53):
I don't believe everyone can.
Speaker 2 (39:55):
Yea.
Speaker 11 (39:56):
I my friend, my best friend went through it a
lot with her ex for five years on and off,
chronic chronic cheating, And I don't believe some people can change.
Men or women Like I'm not.
Speaker 1 (40:08):
It's not a gender thing, Jade. Have you been tempted?
Has there been any moment where you saw it?
Speaker 7 (40:14):
Oh?
Speaker 11 (40:16):
No, Like we definitely Like I'll look at a guy
and go, oh, here's the looking but I'll say that
to my husband like it and women too, I'm like, oh,
check her out, and but I've got everything that I
was missing, like, I've got that security and a fantastic partner.
Speaker 5 (40:30):
Now would you do anything differently now if you had
your time over, would you change the choices you made?
Speaker 11 (40:37):
Probably would have just left. Yeah, I tried to leave
and then obviously just security and things like that, you
just stay longer than you should.
Speaker 1 (40:45):
All right, there you go.
Speaker 4 (40:47):
So, Kip, do you believe I do believe you.
Speaker 1 (40:50):
Well done, Jay, Jack. That's that's a first. Kip's actually
changed his mind. I've not been able to do it
in the whole period of time you've been together.
Speaker 4 (40:57):
But Jay, you have of stranger never two minutes.
Speaker 1 (41:02):
Mate.
Speaker 4 (41:05):
Yeah, it's interesting. I could you could argue the extenuating
circus says because old mates on the myth, you know,
you could say he's basically having a relationship already with myth.
Speaker 5 (41:14):
But isn't there always extenuating circumstances?
Speaker 1 (41:17):
Like isn't that the point?
Speaker 5 (41:18):
Every single story within a relationship has a reason. Whether
that reason is valid or not is another point. Hiding
some of all our resident counselor from Heidi'scounseling Services dot
Com tips on how to recover from an affair.
Speaker 6 (41:31):
Heidi, Hi, guys, two things I think the most important
thing is if you want to recover from an affair,
both parties have got to be really willing and motivated
to do it, so therapy and being willing to answer
all of the questions and really unpick it. And the
really big thing is transparency. So if you want to recover,
(41:55):
whoever has done the cheating really needs to be willing
to be completely transparent. And these days with Live three
point sixty and things like that, there's no reason to
not know where our partner is at all times. Sometimes
people ruffle up against that and say it's an invasion
of privacy, but I think it's the price tag that
you have on If you've cheated, then you want to
(42:17):
be forgiven. And the other thing is your intuition. I
think people get a really strong instinct about things. People
will often say to me, I had a feeling something
was off, behavior has changed slightly. Really trust your intuition.
We tend to explain it away or allow ourselves to
be convinced by other people that you know, we're imagining
(42:38):
it or we're going crazy. You're not listen to yourself.
Speaker 5 (42:41):
Cool and Hardy knows what she's talking about, because you
got cheated on, didn't you hardy?
Speaker 6 (42:46):
I did. My ex husband cheated when he was working
into state with a coworker, and he really wanted me
to forgive him, and so exactly that we went to therapy.
He was really transparent, he you know, he always answered
the phone. I was never left wondering. And so we
did recover from that for about ten years. And ten
(43:10):
years later he did cheat again and I said to him,
if you ever cheat again, that's did I'm out. So
that was the end of it. But weirdly, in that
ten years in between, I could tell that he wasn't
cheating up. You know, you can have a feeling about it.
And it was a pretty good ten years so, which
is kind of an odd circumstance.
Speaker 12 (43:27):
It is.
Speaker 4 (43:28):
Yeah, that's an efine one dealing with that as a
counselor as well, isn't it all right?
Speaker 3 (43:32):
Well?
Speaker 6 (43:33):
Yeah, exactly. I think though when you have these, you know,
will a cheat or always be a cheated We can't
make statements like that, whitewash statements, because every relationship, it's
like a fingerprint. There's no two scenario that's exactly the same. So,
like I said, willingness to put in the work and
be transparent and be really committed, and you definitely can
(43:56):
turn things around you.
Speaker 1 (43:57):
There's a counselor who literally he knows what she's telling us.
Speaker 2 (44:04):
Wake up with Robin and Kid.
Speaker 10 (44:10):
Our next guest is a three times Aria Award winning
or was he singer songwriter with a stack of his
under this belt.
Speaker 2 (44:16):
You can't go back to away, Louis Russy.
Speaker 4 (44:29):
He's just released his third studio album, The Epilogue, and
it's about to embark on a world tour happly.
Speaker 2 (44:35):
Named the Epilogue World Tour. This morning, Robin Kid, Welcome,
Dean Louis.
Speaker 7 (44:41):
Thank you boy me.
Speaker 4 (44:42):
I forgot because I was supposed to a couple of
years ago.
Speaker 9 (44:44):
I forgot.
Speaker 4 (44:45):
How tall you are, Dean?
Speaker 7 (44:46):
Yeah, a tall out six two. I think yes too.
Speaker 4 (44:48):
Yeah, because normally these singers come in and we expect
them to be like Robin Hyde, like yeah, like five nothing.
Speaker 7 (44:53):
Yeah, I mean this happened yesterday.
Speaker 10 (44:54):
So many people come up to me after the little
little pop ups on They're like, they're like, you're a
little taller than I expected.
Speaker 7 (45:00):
I don't know. I don't know if it's like short
man energy or something.
Speaker 11 (45:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (45:02):
I'm alway.
Speaker 7 (45:04):
Yeah, I'm like, people are always surprised.
Speaker 4 (45:06):
Yeah, but yeah, were you like a second rower. Did
you play rugby or right?
Speaker 7 (45:10):
I played basketball?
Speaker 4 (45:11):
Basketball basketball, yeah, proper tour.
Speaker 7 (45:13):
Yeah, I was like, yeah, but I was. I was
the center in my team. I'm six two, but like
Australian basket, you know, in my high school. And we
we got wrecked. We got wrecked by routine.
Speaker 4 (45:22):
If you're the big man, yeah, I was the.
Speaker 7 (45:24):
Tallest and we sucked.
Speaker 11 (45:27):
Dean.
Speaker 1 (45:27):
I really enjoyed last night.
Speaker 5 (45:28):
You did a special sort of quick little VIP experience
for your super fans at the Fortitude Musical. But the
thing that I noticed and loved about you is that
you were saying, I'm going to play stuff from my
new album and then kept forgetting the lyrics.
Speaker 4 (45:41):
Yes, I think I think we've got some audio audio here.
Speaker 3 (45:45):
My second album about one girl.
Speaker 7 (45:47):
It's a very embarrassing story, but it's true.
Speaker 12 (45:49):
And this song was like the last song I wrote
for her to kind of like say, and I also
wrote it to say, this is like the last time
I knew I was ever going to see her, and
I gave her a hug, and I knew that was
that was kind of the end, so maybe you guys
can relate to it.
Speaker 3 (46:02):
But it's a song of mine called the Last bit
of Us?
Speaker 2 (46:12):
What was it?
Speaker 7 (46:14):
We're masking the fans.
Speaker 2 (46:15):
Yeah, it's not great.
Speaker 4 (46:18):
It's not great.
Speaker 7 (46:18):
I mean, but this happens. And at least it was
a small venue.
Speaker 10 (46:22):
Man that it's been broadcast now it's exactly thanks things.
But it's the worst thing is when you do that
on like a big stage. But the thing is, whenever
you mess up, they love it.
Speaker 7 (46:31):
Yeah, like you know, I did this.
Speaker 10 (46:32):
I did this show in Switzerland a while ago, and
the first song I screwed up and everyone come outs
me off. Just tell me how much they loved it.
I think it makes you seem more like human. So
I should I should plan.
Speaker 7 (46:43):
That, do it more.
Speaker 2 (46:43):
Yeah, we should do.
Speaker 4 (46:44):
And you know it's live. No, there's nothing, there's no
pre recording going on. If you're stuff it up, you.
Speaker 10 (46:48):
Know exactly exactly and luckily, unfortunately I do stuff up
quite a lot.
Speaker 5 (46:53):
I do want to know, though, are you in a relationship,
because if you ever find love, your song's song could
potentially suck in the future.
Speaker 7 (47:02):
That's true.
Speaker 10 (47:02):
But no, But but it's like you guys, friends I
think I get that question a lot. They go like
you know that you guys'd be like, you know, you
write these songs about people, but it's the same as you, guys,
and when you're going through life, you're every interaction you're
looking for a story to tell on the show.
Speaker 7 (47:16):
So it's like they never you never run out like matter.
Speaker 10 (47:19):
And you can also write an album about one I
wrote my second album about one one girl, you know
what I mean?
Speaker 7 (47:23):
Like it's not you can really embellish a little bit,
and you.
Speaker 2 (47:27):
Know it starts.
Speaker 4 (47:28):
Is that where your most comfortable writing about sadness?
Speaker 1 (47:30):
Though?
Speaker 9 (47:30):
Like is that?
Speaker 7 (47:30):
Yeah? Yeah, I'll tell you why this. Happy songs are
so hard to write.
Speaker 10 (47:35):
You think about it like they only connect to the ears,
But if you write a sad song, it can be
like the heart and the ears, so it doesn't have
to be as good.
Speaker 4 (47:42):
Yeah, to break.
Speaker 5 (47:45):
True, I'll say the one song that I was so
glad to hear the end result, And I always thought,
if I ever stand in front of you, I would ask,
what happened was the song that you.
Speaker 1 (47:54):
Wrote about your dad? How do I say goodbye? But
he's okay?
Speaker 10 (47:59):
Yeah, So I wrote the song because he was really
sick and I don't know what was going to happen,
and then he got a stem cell transplant and basically
it saved his life. And he's been coming on the
road with me and playing the song. And we actually
put that at the end of the YouTube video, like
on YouTube, we have this montage. Then right at the
end we're like, by my dad, this is what happened.
He was in remission and the YouTube ads covered it, so,
you know, the YouTube ads, and so no one could
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ever read the text because we put it in there,
but no.
Speaker 7 (48:23):
One could see it.
Speaker 4 (48:24):
But he's playing with you. Is he play an instrument?
Speaker 10 (48:27):
He plays guitar, he told me guitar and everything. And
he's he's been coming up on stage. He's he's very
nervous about playing life, but he's come up in like
you know, did the end more And he's coming up
on a bunch of shows. He's going to come to
the UK, I think in Wembley. We sold that Wembley.
He's going to come up and play there and he.
Speaker 4 (48:41):
Loves people and people who don't know that he survived.
Speaker 7 (48:47):
Or my uncle or something.
Speaker 10 (48:49):
Yeah, yeah, but it's really it's cool to have that
moment with my dad kiss like I wrote a song
about him and then it's a hit and then we're
playing it on stage and it's about him possibly going.
Speaker 7 (48:57):
So I've been very lucky.
Speaker 10 (48:58):
But you know, other people tell me their stories about
that song and how they relate to it's very special.
Speaker 5 (49:02):
Yeah, and you've sorry, we just bypassed the product that
you've sold out Wembley.
Speaker 7 (49:07):
Oh it's crazy, yeah, yeah, sold it out.
Speaker 10 (49:10):
Yeah, like a month ago we're doing We're doing the
Hammersmith Apollo is like an opening show, so it's it's
as well. So it's just it's weird. In the UK
and Europe, it's it's bigger than it is in Australia.
Speaker 1 (49:20):
Come on, mate, river stage, River.
Speaker 10 (49:22):
Stage to make you can't believe we sold that out.
I can't believe we sold it out. Yeah, yeah, that's great.
But you know, for instance, the Zigodome, we have these
weird pockets that are huge, Like in Denmark it's huge,
and in the Netherlands we're doing two zigodomes and it's
like the fifteen thousand capacity and it's like so in
the Netherlands, every song goes just big there and so
so Australia is kind of like one of my it's
kind of like the third or fourth biggest placements, which
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is really it's amazing.
Speaker 4 (49:44):
That's strange though. It's strange that we don't love you
as much as the people from the Netherlands.
Speaker 7 (49:48):
No, no, I think, but it's very Australian. I think
it's also very Australian, you know what I mean.
Speaker 10 (49:51):
Like it's hard to it's hard to break out in
your own country in Australia.
Speaker 7 (49:55):
Yeah, I have to be popping off overseas.
Speaker 5 (49:57):
But you know, well you you are one of the
greatest songs. Honestly, you're a wonderful live it is sold
out at the River Stage. However, we do have a
double nice so if you're a massive Dean Lewis fan,
then please give us a call thirteen one oh sixty
five and you can see this extraordinary man potentially stuff
up any of your new ones.
Speaker 10 (50:17):
I'll be up the whole time'll we plan mess up
on the first song?
Speaker 4 (50:20):
Okay, good good, And the brand new single is called Empire.
Let's have a listen.
Speaker 11 (50:24):
I feel so.
Speaker 4 (50:33):
So you gotta feel in the crowd it's going to
sing along to that one.
Speaker 10 (50:41):
Yeah, it's got to be quie vibe in it. You know,
we everyone singing along and yeah, it's just I'm really
excited about this one. It's a bit different and fans
of love and anthemic very themic, Yes, love it.
Speaker 1 (50:50):
Yes, Okay.
Speaker 5 (50:51):
Gemma of Mango Hill, Hi, Hi, Hi, you good?
Speaker 1 (50:55):
You want to say hid to Dean?
Speaker 3 (50:57):
Oh?
Speaker 11 (50:57):
God?
Speaker 7 (50:58):
Yes, hello, Jemma hay On, Hi, I'm really good.
Speaker 1 (51:02):
How are you?
Speaker 7 (51:03):
I'm great, I'm great.
Speaker 2 (51:05):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (51:06):
Hi, it just sounds going to come to your concert, Dana.
Speaker 7 (51:11):
Did you have tickets to the show.
Speaker 8 (51:13):
I don't, Actually I don't.
Speaker 9 (51:15):
I missed it out so and this is the first
show of yours that I've missed.
Speaker 7 (51:18):
Okay, well, we're going to give you tickets to the
show you're in.
Speaker 1 (51:21):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (51:23):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (51:24):
Make sure you learn the lyrics. He's going to need
your help.
Speaker 3 (51:26):
Gemma, that's fine now, I love you, and.
Speaker 4 (51:36):
Well, thank you so much for coming in. But I
feel like we could chat for ages. Last time we
spoke about because both of our brothers are obsessed with crypto.
We spoke about that. So maybe we'll just do something
for the podcast because I want to find out what's
going on.
Speaker 1 (51:47):
Now, Can we turn off the microphones, yes, okay the die.
Speaker 10 (51:54):
Good to see you guys, Thanks having me, Thanks Wake
Up with Robin and Kid,
It's Robin and Kids in the morning break.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
You're listening to the Robin Kick podcasts.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Great Good Day.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
It's Robin Kip on demand the podcast you will have
heard on the on the podcast if you get it regularly.
We've had a fair bit of to do with crypto
over the last year with Saddel Sierra, who's our crypto queen,
and you love it. I do.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
I'm into it, and then goodness because I don't.
Speaker 5 (00:31):
But I'll jump on any bandwagon that says I'll make
your money.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
Yeah, and so far, I think the account that because
we gave Sidel nine hundred and seventy three dollars, she
kicked it in the same amount on her own, and
we said, like buys, buy whatever. Coins are going to
make us some money we can give away at the
end of the year. I don't think we've got much
of Like we're up a tiny bit at the moment.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Yeah, yeah, I mean but up up, We're not down.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
No, We're definitely not down. And and when we saw
that we had Dean Lewis in today. I remember the
last time I spoke to him was very early days.
It was like when I first just sort of found
out about bitcoin, and both of our brothers were keenly interested.
Speaker 5 (01:11):
And both of them it seems successfully key interested.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Yeah, but then in the time since we spoke to him,
it has dumped a lot. So I wondered whether if
it's possible his brother sold at the low, because that'd
be sad. So we'll find out sword at the height. Well, yeah,
it would be happy. He could be richer than his
musical brother with that pickle, So we'll find out. We're
gonna have a chat with Dean about it at halftime.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Wake up with Robin and Kid.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
Okay, we started talking about this last week because there's
this guy in the US who for seventeen years has
been a clinical psychologist and licensed marriage and family counselor.
But he's focused on helping couples who have struggled with infidelity,
and rather than just making the assumption that as soon
as someone cheats on you, you're out, he's come up
with some myths because he is trying to help couples
(02:00):
turned towards each other rather than run away if infidelity
is the major issue. Now, last week we were talking
about cheating means just having sex with someone, and we
kind of went backwards and forwards on that one. But
myth number two for today is once a cheater, always
a cheater.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
Well, I mean, if you just go with history, it
seems like that is the truth. Like that seems like, yes,
once someone's cheated, the chances of them cheating again are
through the.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
Roof, not necessarily, and this is what he says. He says,
it depends why they cheated, right right, So if there's
an issue within the relationship and that issue is not addressed,
then yes, you're just going to do exactly the same thing.
You know, you put a band aid over it. You
might forgive them, and then nothing gets resolved. So the
first thing he says is the only way you can
move past that as a couple is if that person
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and in fact often both of you mass face why
ite happened. Second thing is that when it comes to cheating,
this will be controversial to is that there it takes
two for one person to cheat. And I don't mean
the person outside of the relationship. Clearly the relationship is broken, yes,
for someone to look outside of it, and that's a
(03:13):
question you've both got to ask yourselves as to why
it was broken. Now that's not blame, that's just saying
that if someone is unhappy to look out. Now, that's
also not victim blaming either. It's just say it a
bit like it to be honest.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
No, no, no, I know.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
But it's saying that you must look at your relationship
as a whole and question why that happened.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Yeah, but you can question it, right, But that doesn't
like there's still there's one person that because for me,
that's it is a deal breaker. For me, it's like, Okay,
you've crossed the line. And so so for me, it's
a line that you can't cross without the relationship being over.
So you've chosen one person the relationship is chosen to
(03:52):
cross a line. Yes, like yes, there might be yes,
there might be reasons from both sides that has happened,
but no other.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Person And if the other person doesn't choose, then there's
an absolute betrayal and no question. And the third thing
that's really interesting that I've never thought about is that
an affair is like the fantasy. You don't actually ever
get the three dimensional version of the person. You get
a one dimensional where you can present whatever you want
to to that individual.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
But it's not the good, the bad.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
And the ugly and often a fair relationships that may
start as affairs don't last in real life because then
you get the ugly and you go, you know, you
present your best self until you can't. And you know,
there absolutely are people who are serial affair givers because
they just want that one dimensional. They just want their
(04:41):
affirmation and the rush, and then they just keep moving.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
I remember because my first marriage ended with my partner
had an affair, and so there's a couple of things
that I remember. One thing I remember leading up before
we got married is one thing she did was we
had a we had an event to go to, I
don't know what. It was, barbecuous something and someone, and
she lied about why we couldn't be there when the
(05:05):
truth would have been just fine, Like the truth was
not it was like one of us was sick or something.
But she had this lie that just went bang and
it was perfect and it was so believable. And I
watched her lie.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Did you know it was a lie where shit was
coming on and it was a lie?
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Yeah, because I was sitting next to her and I went, oh,
my goodness, you are an incredible liar. Oh the capacity
to lie city just to lie like that, right, and
I remember thinking and we had this real, like real
major moment. Then I was like, do you lie to
me like that?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Oh wow?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
And you know, and we had to be like, you've
got to stop like this. That that's that side of
you I don't care for. I don't want to see
you lying to people because that means you can do
it to me. And eventually she did.
Speaker 6 (05:45):
She did.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
I had this whole amazing ruse, like you know, for
the affair. And interestingly, because I read all the messages,
I ended up seeing all the Facebook messages between her
and the bloke. Yeah, and which was devastating at the time,
but it was interesting. It was all a lot of
it was like I can't wait till together and we're
going to have this wonderful life together and blah blah
blah and did they no. Yeah, like within five days
(06:06):
of me leaving. It was just like that affair didn't
have like that was all shut down. Really Yeah, so
the dream and yeah, it was it was one dimensional.
Like you said, it was all this like it's going
to be great and then it wasn't.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (06:17):
So top line, which is a hard thing to answer,
but do you believe that once a cheater, always a cheater.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
I definitely in that case, yes, I would not have
There was no way that we were going back. There
was no way that I was going to be able
to trust her because I just thought, Yeah, you are
a liar and you're a cheater.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
So do you think that? I mean, it's so hard.
I don't want to just focus on her because that's
not fair. But do you think that's that is some
people's modus operendo, that they don't change, and that whatever
relationship they go into, they will cheat.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
I don't, No, I don't. I don't think she's cheating.
I don't think she cheated on her next partner.
Speaker 7 (06:48):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Well, I don't know, but I don't think so. But
she did definitely with me. I think that was once
you can cross the line with that person, I feel
like you can cross it again.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
See that's interesting.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
It's about then forgiving your partner if that trust is broken.
I think that is a hard thing to I don't know.
I think you'd have to really double dobt. It depends
on your circumstances, if you have small children, if you
have something greater to lose. Hillary Clinton, Yes, because if
she'd broken up with Bill Clinton, and you who knows
(07:18):
what goes on behind close tours, but you would guess
that she stayed because the power of two and the
notoriety of that kept her in politics, and that was
a bigger thing for her than the infidelity.
Speaker 7 (07:30):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
So I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
Thirteen one six five out number. I'd love to speak
to someone. Have you ever taken someone back that's cheated?
And can you trust them? Or is there always that
little inkling of you wanted to check there? Who's that messaging?
Speaker 5 (07:44):
And if you did do that, what did you do
to get past it? Because the betrayal is the thing
you've got to navigate.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Thirteen one oh six y.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Five wake up with Robin and kid.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
So Robin, this psy call just his saying is a
myth that wants a cheata always a cheator?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
It does depend.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
There are caveats though, it's not like oh yeah, of
course it's fine.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
Yeah, Well we want to know, like, have you taken
back a cheatah? And then what happened? Thirty one oh
sixty five is.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
At number Amanda of Cleveland? What went down?
Speaker 6 (08:17):
Oh?
Speaker 8 (08:17):
Look, I was married for twenty five years and throughout
our marriage, my ex cheated on me. Some of it
I didn't know about, but I found out about. One
was a workmates and it devastated me. But we had
very young children and at the time I didn't have
(08:37):
a career or a job, and it was I was
a stay at home mum and that played a huge part.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
I was terrified of.
Speaker 8 (08:43):
Being a single mum and doing it all on my own.
And I knew that he did actually love me, and
it was that was a weird thing. We'd had it.
We actually had a good marriage except for this indiscretion.
And then I found that later over the years it
happened and again we separated that three times over the marriage,
(09:04):
getting back together again, and he had mental health issues,
so it was a lot of that played into it
as well. So there was a lot of reasons why
things happened.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
But once a cheatah, once a cheaterh.
Speaker 8 (09:17):
Peter, always a cheater. And he even when we got
together again and we renewed our valves, we did all that.
We were together for ten years after that, and I
thought it was good found out that for the last
final two years he had been cheating on me.
Speaker 7 (09:36):
Again.
Speaker 5 (09:37):
Wow, man, that's just like saying, do you do you
regret the choices you made?
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Amanda?
Speaker 6 (09:41):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (09:42):
Totally yeah, thanks Amanda. Thirty one six five is our number.
If you've if you've got an experience with this, maybe
maybe you forgave and it worked out great.
Speaker 5 (09:52):
Yeah, And I mean yeah, maybe that person got themselves
some help and never cheated again.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
It would be great to have a good story.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
I'm not counting on it.
Speaker 5 (10:02):
Thirteen one six five, but seriously, your experiences are worth here.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
Right after wamb It's Robin and Kept Kiss is ninety seven.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
To three Wake Up with Robin and Kid.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
Right now, we're talking about this psychologist who says that
the myth that once a cheater, always a cheater is
not necessarily true. It's sometimes people can change.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
Yeah, okay, I mean does that mean do you think
because I have admitted to some I mean, wait, to
my book, it's probably not as clear cut as it
might sound, but then that I'll always be a cheater?
Speaker 4 (10:37):
No, I don't think you No, I don't think it
means that you're there for life. But it does seem like,
certainly with the same partner, it seems like it's it's habitual.
It seems like well, just judging by that last caller,
he really wanted to change. He was kept saying sorry
they were renewed vows, but he couldn't stop.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
It depends on.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
The shame attached if you actually feel like you've done
something wrong. But Rosie of Klonta, you haven't got a
dacy of a story.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
What happened?
Speaker 9 (11:04):
So hi Robin hi kid. I was actually married for
my first marriage for eleven years, and around about I guess,
like the the ninth year, I had actually discovered that
my husband was actually having an affair with his secretary.
(11:28):
So that actually went on for two years. But the
kicker of that is that the affair was actually happening
while she was actually planning her own marriage, and I
only actually found out about the affair after she got married.
(11:48):
And then she had actually told her new husband the
day after they actually got married that she was having
an affair with her born way, yes, way, what happened.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
To their marriage? Did I stay around?
Speaker 9 (12:07):
I have no idea that's that. That's not my my jam.
I don't wish to do to stay in that.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
So you just so, you just you just cut that
like a bad wound and went right.
Speaker 9 (12:21):
That's done well, I actually tried. But look, my husband
and I actually tried all my ex husband now we
actually he really wanted to glue things back together, where
as for me, once trust is actually tainted, you can
never really go back. That's that's my kind of like
(12:44):
perspective on it. So we did actually try for a
while to find out that he had actually gone back
to her, so they were still actually having discontinued affair.
But then that actually allegedly stopped.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
And how can you do counseling to save your marriage
while continuing on with the affair. I mean that that
arrogance is in sanit athlete.
Speaker 9 (13:17):
I know, I know, right, but it gets better or
it gets worse one or the other. So, uh, whilst
we were doing this rebuild, he was he then moved
on to another secretary, so and they were actually continuing
(13:39):
their affair. So we had actually uh severed tides. And
the way that we actually severed tithes was we actually
had this a hiking trip organized, which was too Kaklota,
which is probably one of the toughest legs that you
could actually do. We completed Kakota. I actually had both
(14:00):
to their wedding rings on me and I had actually
found them together and when I got to the top
of our I was corner. I'd actually thrown them.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
But did he know did he know that that was
that was coming, that you were going to be throwing? No,
what a surprise the world done.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Go back on the plane said see you later, mate.
I never saw him again.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
Well, coming up, We've got to move on because we
were trying to find Corey a job. But we might
do this again after eight o'clock. Get more calls on
this because Jay wants to speak to us. He says,
or rather, she was a cheaterah, but has changed. Okay,
so let's talk to you.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
She can convince you.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
Let's see wake up with Robin and Kip, Robin and
Kip in the morning.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
No, that's fine.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
My Coreots is not with the Broncos next year. So
we're trying to find him work. There's plenty of options
coming through. We gave him a real estate f but
yesterday we did pretty well.
Speaker 5 (15:01):
Yeah, you need to see the video because he actually
did really well. But this was a place that Corey
goes to often and loves, isn't it Corey.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
Yes, it is.
Speaker 10 (15:12):
It's well one of the home.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Yeah, when he's not at Bunnings, he's at BCS.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
We lost him at one stage he was having a
little nap in one of the tents. Have you done that?
Have you done that before? Or you seemed very comfortable.
Speaker 9 (15:25):
Yeah, well I think actually that maybe you ago.
Speaker 4 (15:30):
When you got a one year old have a little nap.
But BCF, well we got you as trainee. You had
the special BCF shirt, you had the train in training badge,
and we got you to make a major announcement over
the p A system. Let's be I don't think that's
(15:57):
it should be a slogan.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
It's not.
Speaker 5 (16:00):
Then we thought, well, there's no point in having you
as a trainee unless you can help a customer. So
key we Steve came in. His kids got a tinny
and he needed some safety stuff.
Speaker 4 (16:10):
You need my son's just bought a teeny and he
wants to hit it across the bar, So we really
need to know what sort of safety gear needs. Well,
first of we're going to need a boat.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
Okay, he's got that sort of.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
How many Yeah, it's a three and a half meters
four people, so you need four live jackets, make sure
live jackets.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Probably just another boat.
Speaker 4 (16:36):
That's a good up.
Speaker 8 (16:41):
For a boat.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Yeah that was.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
Actually you were most at home just chatting with customers.
But when we got you behind the till, that's when
things started to go south.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
Okay, so can we now teach you how to put
this through?
Speaker 2 (16:52):
I've done this once with skinner First.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
Wrong wrong mar code, I mean, isn't there only one?
Speaker 5 (17:03):
So then Jack, who actually is the manager, stepped into help.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Fashion card and.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
I should be ready now of this side. Thanks, thank
you so much.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Was your lower seat, I wouldn't like a smile.
Speaker 4 (17:29):
You were the saddest checkout person in the world. Chory
what happened?
Speaker 8 (17:34):
I was probably still high.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
I reckon too that when you concentrate like that's the
only thing you're doing, just trying to focus.
Speaker 4 (17:42):
So yeah, probably true.
Speaker 10 (17:45):
Look, I do not feel comfortable behind that canon at all,
so I think we can cross that off the mark.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
Well, Jack lit'sten before we write it off for good.
Jack the manager did run a view of of your
reforts at BCF.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
You were in your natural habitat here. I've never seen
you talk so much.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
I'll be so engaged because I want to go fishing here.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Fishing or Jack, you've just had your trainee. What would
you give him out of ten?
Speaker 2 (18:10):
I give him a six. He was excellent customers, gift
of the.
Speaker 9 (18:13):
Gab, that's for sure.
Speaker 4 (18:14):
Though computer work needs a lot of effort, it.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Is not no matter what it is. What's the average
age of your trainee between eighteen and twenty two? I'd
say for our casions fit the brief? Would you expect
more from.
Speaker 7 (18:31):
With a computer?
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Mind you the way he waxed on about reels, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (18:37):
His knowledge is there.
Speaker 7 (18:38):
Yes, I think we could.
Speaker 4 (18:39):
We could give him a job in the fishing department,
for sure.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
You take me out fishing.
Speaker 4 (18:47):
We do have another idea for you over the next
couple of days. Care because you mentioned, speaking of fishing,
that one of your fears is being out in open water.
Speaker 8 (18:56):
I'm not gone.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Don't stress.
Speaker 4 (18:58):
We're not going to make you do that.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
It's one, but there'll be you know, there could be
a cage around you. The sharks will only nibble your toes.
Speaker 8 (19:07):
Yeah, ok, no, but.
Speaker 4 (19:10):
You're fine with heights, so aren't you?
Speaker 2 (19:12):
No?
Speaker 3 (19:13):
Oh really your second fear?
Speaker 1 (19:16):
Can you get over the second one?
Speaker 4 (19:17):
Because we've organized it, We've got we want you to do.
We want you to go up in the traffic chopper
that in the trouble with no doors won't Okay, well
you'll have to.
Speaker 1 (19:29):
Do our traffic. There is a slight issue about weight though, Corey, because.
Speaker 9 (19:35):
It might just be chilting the one.
Speaker 4 (19:37):
Yeah, we've got the lightest pilot available, and they said
that you can still go up provided you're under one
hundred and two kilos.
Speaker 6 (19:43):
Oh might get this, can.
Speaker 5 (19:45):
You well if we went up, Yeah, we'll do it
on Thursday, maybe Thursday morning.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
So it gives you like, yeah, just donate between now
and then.
Speaker 4 (19:52):
Okay, I mean, would you come.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
In under around one hundred and two?
Speaker 4 (20:00):
I can dry me do your messed all right, a suit,
do what you gotta do.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
What's either that or going with the Sharks choice?
Speaker 4 (20:06):
Okay there you get to wait otherwise at Sharks. I
like that. Robin, well done, well that gory. The video
of Cory at BCF is up at Kiss ninety seven
three is Robin and.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
Kim Wake Up with Robin and Kid.
Speaker 5 (20:24):
The one and only Australian superstar Dean Lewis is coming
into the studio now. He did a very exclusive gig
at the Fortitude Music Hall last night and he was
in fine voice.
Speaker 4 (20:46):
Someone so good.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
It was really humble and really lovely. And you'll hear
all of that, and I hear singing.
Speaker 4 (21:05):
There's so much crowd singing. Anytime I hear any of
his songs, the whole crowd is all you hear.
Speaker 5 (21:10):
Well, Thank goodness for the crowd, because last night he
was also debuting and playing some of his newer songs
and in this one moment he actually forgot the lyrics
and then had to ask the crowd to remind you.
Speaker 11 (21:22):
What to see.
Speaker 3 (21:23):
The second album about one girl.
Speaker 7 (21:25):
It's a very embarrassing story, but it's true.
Speaker 12 (21:27):
And this song was like the last song I wrote
for her to kind of like say, and I also
wrote it to say, this is like the last.
Speaker 10 (21:35):
Time I knew I was ever going to see her,
and I gave her a hug and I knew that
was that was kind of the end.
Speaker 3 (21:39):
So maybe you guys can relax it.
Speaker 7 (21:40):
But it's a song of mine called the last bit
of Us.
Speaker 12 (21:43):
So now.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
What was it?
Speaker 3 (21:52):
Oh? Every time.
Speaker 4 (21:58):
Wake up with Robin and yeah, halfway through the podcast,
so we had this little extra chat with a big
Aussie singer, Dean Lewis when he was.
Speaker 7 (22:10):
In Little Crypto chat.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
Yeah, a little crypto chat in the podcast because because
I always remember talking to you. Last time I spoke
to you, iway was at another radio station then. But
afterwards we were talking about our brothers both being in
a crypto and both of our brothers had had proper
taken a proper punt at bitcoin. My brother ended up being.
Speaker 7 (22:28):
Able to pay, Like how much did he get.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
A big chunk of his homelan off he sold when
it was at ninety three thousand Australian dollars.
Speaker 7 (22:35):
A coin the bitcoin?
Speaker 4 (22:37):
Then it plummeted back down to about thirty I wants it?
Speaker 7 (22:39):
And now did he go back up?
Speaker 4 (22:40):
It's back up at one hundred and four today hundred
for wow. But there was like two or three years
where it was down at thirty and I was just thinking,
I wonder did your brother don't He didn't say, I
don't know.
Speaker 7 (22:48):
I don't know what he did.
Speaker 10 (22:49):
He wasn't nearly as invested as your brother, but like
that's crazy, that's crazy cool? And did he has he
still got money? Your brother still got cashing Now he's out, Wow,
he's okay, Wow, but he's set up his life.
Speaker 4 (22:58):
Yeah, he changed everything. One of his one of his
friends had who got him into it, sold his house
on the Sunshine Coast and did nothing.
Speaker 7 (23:07):
But by a bitcoin, Like, how much did he did
he make?
Speaker 4 (23:10):
He end up buying nineteen.
Speaker 7 (23:12):
Oh jesus, So how much has that still got them? Still?
Speaker 9 (23:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (23:15):
A couple of It's a couple of millions.
Speaker 10 (23:17):
Just outrageous, isn't it. I mean back in the day
you couldn't. If you just invested five thousand bucks, you
would have just been cleaned up.
Speaker 7 (23:22):
That's crazy.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Have you got any No?
Speaker 7 (23:24):
I didn't. I did not even no, No, I'm not
even no. I just find it all terrifying.
Speaker 10 (23:30):
I'm like the slowest slop because my life is a risk, right,
Like you know, every song you put out if it flops.
Speaker 7 (23:36):
So for me, I'm I'm more like.
Speaker 10 (23:38):
Just like standard boring stuff, index funds and all that
index funds come on.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
A rock and roll legend, a music legend is more.
Speaker 7 (23:48):
Terrifying kryptos terrified will it is?
Speaker 3 (23:51):
I mean?
Speaker 10 (23:52):
But also you know, I think it's a lot of
people are safe jobs. I feel like with me, it's
like you really are living and dying on your next song.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (23:58):
So yeah, I like the boring kind of stuff. Did
you ever get in a crypto or you?
Speaker 4 (24:02):
I did a self money super fun. Now we're getting
really into the weeds. Yeah, and I I bought one
one for my for my super. Yeah. So hopefully one
day it's worth something. And Dean had a rush out
of the studio after that. But yeah, that's so, that's
my entire cryptos. It's one bitcoin in my super. So
when I when it's time to retire, maybe it's going
(24:24):
to be worth something.
Speaker 5 (24:24):
Well, that would be amazing. I've just googled how much
is Dean Lewis worth.
Speaker 4 (24:28):
Yeah, I'm so glad you did that. I was wondering.
Speaker 5 (24:32):
Okay, okay, He's certified platinum seven times. This hit song
waves on the Australian charts. Dean revealed the realities of
being an Aria reward wing singer the ridiculous rumors about
his wealth, uploading a video to his TikTok account. The
Sydney based singer began, so I looked online and apparently
I'm worth fourteen million dollars.
Speaker 4 (24:52):
I'm not, Oh.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
No, he said.
Speaker 5 (24:56):
He's filmed himself walking over to his red Toyota, which
is batter and weathered, posing with his car broken side mirror.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
Didn't he say he sold out Wembley? He had one
hundred thousand six? How do you not make you must?
Speaker 1 (25:10):
I don't know. He's extreamed heaps.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
Even if you make ten bucks a ticket, that's a
million dollars.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Yeah, they're not they're not saying that. He said things
have changed. Yeah, sold out shows. I don't know. Sorry,
it's weird. Yeah, maybe he hasn't hit it yet.
Speaker 4 (25:29):
Sure, but don't you make money touring now? Because you
don't make it selling. We know that that's those days
are gone. But you make it touring. And if he's
selling out huge stadiums and like where was he in
the Netherlands? Selling out?
Speaker 12 (25:39):
Here we go?
Speaker 8 (25:39):
Here we go?
Speaker 5 (25:40):
Okay, his net worth is ten million, ten assumed of
twenty twenty three value.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Yeah, that's better than I thought.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
It's better than the red Toyota that was looking crappy
in twenty twenty two.
Speaker 4 (25:53):
Sure he's got rid of the Toyota.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
Yeah, so there you go in MILLI I don't okay
with that.
Speaker 4 (25:57):
That's pretty good. Yeah he can have a crypto. He's
got money.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Now, come on in Buddy, wake up with Robin and Kit.
Speaker 4 (26:09):
Now I mentioned at start of the show, Rob, I
had a dream.
Speaker 11 (26:11):
I know.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
This is fascinating to me.
Speaker 4 (26:13):
I normally don't know. I normally don't talk about it.
I don't really have many dreams. I don't know if
that's normal.
Speaker 5 (26:20):
I see, Yeah, I usually dream if I wake up
at say like four in the morning on a Saturday,
and then I go back to sleep.
Speaker 7 (26:26):
It happened.
Speaker 4 (26:27):
Yes, I went back to sleep. So Naomi let me
sleep in on Saturday morning after six, So I slept
between six and seven, and that's when I have my dream.
And that's very rare because normally Raphael has got things
to do, He's got a lot of things to do.
He he's awake and ready. So I started having this dream,
and I was so disappointed because you think, when you
(26:49):
have your dream, you can go anywhere in the world.
You could be anything.
Speaker 7 (26:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (26:52):
But I have a theory about this, because your subconscious
is trying to work stuff through, right, So the more
things that you're concerned about, they will come and process
themselves through your dreams.
Speaker 1 (27:02):
Can you give you some idea of.
Speaker 5 (27:03):
Either you're just trying to work it out, or it's
you know, maybe giving another option yourself. I mean, if
you see your subconscious as something slightly different to you. Yeah,
that's the way I think it communicates through your dreams.
Speaker 4 (27:14):
Well, you know how always complained about meetings here, yes,
and how I don't like to do any more meetings. Well,
I had a dream and we were in a meeting.
This is my dream state. Because Katy Perry had canceled
her final three shows in Australia because the Australian backup
singers kept missing the cues to her songs so they
(27:34):
would have to do the backup bit. And she was
and we had reels, we had tapes that we were
preparing to play back on the show where our backup
singers had screwed it up, and Katy Perry eventually went
that's it, and she.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Walked out of our studio.
Speaker 4 (27:48):
Well, she walked out of the rehearsal studio which we
had the audio and visual where we were going to
play back on the show, and then we're having a meeting.
Ruth was there, but you so going, Okay, what are
we going to do about Katy Perry because we're giving
away tickets as you know, in the next twenty minutes,
and so it was we're having this big we're having
this big meeting trying to work out what we're going
to do with stupid Katie Perry tis in my dream.
And then Raphael, my little boy, did, come running in
(28:10):
and said, Dad, Dad, there's a vomit emergency. There's vomit
everywhere in the lounge. And then I hoped that that
was a dream, that was real world.
Speaker 7 (28:20):
So then I woke up.
Speaker 1 (28:21):
You were wishing Katy Perry advancing.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
So they woke up, went downstairs, helped everyone out with
a whole vomit emergency, and then I remember thinking, Okay, well,
I've got to get back to this Katy Perry story.
We've got to work out what we're going to do.
And that's when I realized, oh no, that was a whole.
That was just a terrible dream.
Speaker 5 (28:36):
Okay, So what they say about dreams is that it
is only relevant, Like the scenario is not important. It's
how it made you feel and what you think your
lesson in it is. So is it something that you're
thinking too much about work? Is it something that you
feel that there's some sort of issue around people not
(28:58):
doing I.
Speaker 4 (28:58):
Think it's the first one. I'm wing working too hard.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
I'm sorry, I.
Speaker 4 (29:03):
Don't know if you can hear the groan throughout sound
through class.
Speaker 5 (29:06):
I'm sorry, someone anyone in the producing Star, the executive
producer of the show, I can tell you that that.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
Dream did not indicate that it was working too hard.
Speaker 4 (29:16):
Even in my dream state, I'm thinking about this show, Ruth.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
That's the most work you did all.
Speaker 2 (29:23):
Wake up with Robin and Kid Roberts.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
This is just gets sadder and sadder.
Speaker 5 (29:37):
Of course, we were all shocked by the news last
week that Liampagne had fell from a three story window
in a hotel in Argentina.
Speaker 1 (29:44):
The One Direction Star.
Speaker 5 (29:46):
They knew because of the paraphernalia within the hotel room,
that there were drugs involved, and that two hotel staff.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Have been questioned by police over where those drugs came from.
Speaker 5 (29:56):
But the toxicality tests are back and it was feels
a mix of drugs known as pink cocaine, so pretty
much cocaine with crack.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
In his body. Yeah it's pretty crappy, but yeah, really, Dodge.
Speaker 5 (30:11):
He also had crystal in his bloodstream, which is crystal
and yeah met yep, as well as prescription medication, namely
anti anxiety meds.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
My only the only thing I know about you know,
crystal meth is from watching Breaking Bad and none of
it looks good, you know what I mean, Like, it's
just I think it's almost it's all bad news.
Speaker 5 (30:30):
Yeah, it's the most addictive drug there is and that
one or two hits and then you're addicted.
Speaker 1 (30:36):
It's just such an awful drug.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
And knowing from a friend who actually had a partner
trying to get sober and has successfully got sting, but
took like a year because your brain gets rewired. Oh
my goodness, the actual way your synaptics of your brain work.
Took a year of being clean for his brain to
start working normally again.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 12 (30:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (30:56):
Well, his girlfriend, Kate Cassidy, has been seen for the
first time since he died.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
She went out to get dog food. Well, I guess
you have to do those kind of things.
Speaker 5 (31:05):
She has broken her silence on social media, saying thank
you for all the kind words and loves that has
been sent my way. I've been at a complete loss.
Nothing about the past few days have felt real.
Speaker 1 (31:15):
I ask and pray that.
Speaker 5 (31:16):
You'll give me the grace and space to navigate this
in private. And then she says, Lee and my angel
you are everything.
Speaker 1 (31:22):
I want you to know.
Speaker 5 (31:23):
I loved you unconditionally and completely. I will continue to
love you for the rest of my life.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
I love you, Lamb. That stuff's awful. And then the
other thing that.
Speaker 4 (31:31):
Well, sorry, where was she she had been in Argentina?
Speaker 2 (31:34):
Had left?
Speaker 5 (31:35):
Yeah, she left, and then on her social media just
her saying that she was bored and she wanted to
get out of them and was going back to America.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
I mean, man, I bet she regrets that now. He
was by himself for a couple of days.
Speaker 5 (31:46):
And the other news that's come to light in the
last twenty four hours is that he was dropped by
his record company just a few days before he died.
They thought his new music wouldn't win over one Direction fans.
Speaker 4 (31:58):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (31:59):
So yeah, it's a devastating blow by Universal Music, who
put his second.
Speaker 1 (32:03):
Album on hold before dropping him.
Speaker 4 (32:07):
News.
Speaker 5 (32:07):
So there's just like a collection of really awful things
when on a drug vender, and here we are from
one sad story to another. Britney Spears also declared across
the weekend, one year after her divorce from that security dude,
that she got herself in a wedding dress and declared
that she married herself. Yes, bringing it back because it
(32:28):
might seem embarrassing or stupid, but I think it's the
most brilliant thing I've ever done, she wrote, And then
she has included a whole pile of videos of her
and bikinis almost touching herself, which makes everyone feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 4 (32:43):
Asistant. She just rocks out in that wedding dress from
a year ago.
Speaker 1 (32:50):
How are we doing?
Speaker 7 (32:52):
What can we do for you?
Speaker 4 (32:53):
She's just going out for snacks.
Speaker 1 (32:58):
Travis Scott is coming to Brisbane.
Speaker 5 (33:00):
Well, he's actually landed in Australia. He's been seen out
on the harbor in Sydney. He's going to be here
on October twenty six.
Speaker 4 (33:08):
But yeah, that's this guy. I don't know you would
have picked and rather Yeah, young a flame here several
mold with Drake. Okay, so he's now is he is
he hooked up with?
Speaker 1 (33:19):
No, he has a baby tool Jenna, but he's got
some other mystery chicks. Hey, I'm going to extra I'm
going to do all these really cool things working on Yes.
Speaker 13 (33:29):
Yeah, anyway, it's sold out at sometime, which is extraordinary
to me. Yeah, I mean Katy Perry is doing the
Entertainment Center, and Travis Scott has Soldac's uncle.
Speaker 4 (33:42):
Katy Perry and Kylie Minoga both doing the end Center.
Travis Scott and Luke Holmes are selling out Suncorp Stadium.
Speaker 1 (33:48):
And both of them are kind of in my world.
Speaker 4 (33:51):
Niche Yes, yes, not anymore. They are mainstream, mainstream ads.
Speaker 2 (33:58):
Wake up with Robin and Kid, Robin and Kip in
the morning.
Speaker 4 (34:06):
That's Cory John So a couple of minutes ago you
would have heard Matt from Ray White giving a Cory
a brief rundown as the house he was going to
do a home open chorus. We decided to give ourselves
new names, Robin, because we.
Speaker 1 (34:20):
Thought, where should you come up with those names?
Speaker 4 (34:24):
Just on the spot. I just thought, I'll make them
memorable but different to our own. So he's got to
try and remember people's name, So there was about five
of us he had to try and remember. So this
is us introducing ourselves to Corey before he gives us
the full rundown of this beautiful house in Paddington.
Speaker 3 (34:38):
And Evening's question, Yeah, yeah, I'm Johnny knockdown. Johnny knocksdown
real estate investor, knock book. No, that's funny.
Speaker 4 (34:48):
I'm Katie, right, Katy.
Speaker 3 (34:57):
Half Price rebon Walk comedian.
Speaker 8 (35:00):
Yeah, there you got your radio.
Speaker 3 (35:05):
Really love what decided to do just that?
Speaker 8 (35:08):
I mean all right, come on, yeah, thanks by.
Speaker 10 (35:11):
One bedroom, one beding terrace and I can't go back
in nighty Hay four and there it's beautiful.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
Yeah, it's pretty original. There's not even run about the
trade songs. Three songs they had all the night it
was the last one. Yeah, and you know we had
these stars from just as beautiful.
Speaker 10 (35:43):
It's it's from that trying to build to build this
one really maybe, Yeah, it's unique, like.
Speaker 3 (35:50):
It very unique. Yeah, wanted I really want a fool
Yeah yeah, and that's exactly well. Yeah, there's no no rock.
Speaker 4 (36:02):
Left, no rock left.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
Yeah, between one and.
Speaker 4 (36:08):
Seven billion, wonder one from that you're in a game
that gap.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
Six hundred five years ago? No, yes, yes, why do
you sing the Marvel? Where are you? Obviously us?
Speaker 4 (36:34):
Okay, A lot of smarls you're in, yeah, crazy, so
you gotta get in now and a lot of fans
on the stage.
Speaker 3 (36:43):
Yeah, christ should.
Speaker 4 (36:49):
The whole video is up on our Instagram and Facebook
if you want to check out Corey takers through.
Speaker 5 (36:53):
The house and he also got rated by Matt who
kind of gave him a really good appraisal and then said, potentially, mate,
you could do.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
Well in this business.
Speaker 4 (37:02):
You actually could have a future in it. You could
see that happening.
Speaker 1 (37:05):
Yeah, returning phone calls would be problematic.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
Man.
Speaker 4 (37:09):
Imagine you were trying to put a binder on something
and gorygeous doesn't call you back for two hours in itself.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Yeah, that Coury doesn't like returning phone calls of his
little thing.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
Wake up with Robin and Kit.
Speaker 4 (37:24):
We're talking about cheaters. Earlier in the show. Today we
had two callers from ladies that had their husbands had cheated.
Speaker 5 (37:29):
They forgave yeah multiple times, but you requested, was there
anyone who was willing to be the cheater and come
on and tell us their story.
Speaker 4 (37:39):
Thirteen one oh sixty five is our number. Ifever you
want to get involved with the show.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
Jay of Griffin, Hi, Hi, mate, tell us your story.
Speaker 11 (37:48):
So me and my ex spell together for two and
a half years. Things got really toxic in the end,
Like I we were fighting for him to spend time
with me, do anything with me and anyway. I obviously
then met a guy at work and was getting that
attention from him, and that blossomed then into sleeping together.
Speaker 2 (38:15):
It's quite as.
Speaker 11 (38:19):
In that my ex found out and he wanted to
keep things going. And but I said, like, you know,
you don't give me an attention. We weren't sleeping together.
I thought he was teaing on me. Turned out he
was an ice addict and he was hiding that from
me the whole time. He said the reason he didn't
ever spend time with me was because whenever I left
(38:40):
the house, it was when he had the opportunity to
do it. But he wanted to try and work things out,
and I was just like, you know, and I took
full credit. I said, like, I clearly don't love you
that much or enough. If I'm going to be with
someone else and it did end, then this is in Melbourne.
(39:00):
Then I've moved to Queensland. I've now got a husband,
we've got two children. Never once have I thought about
straying or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (39:10):
So why did you do it?
Speaker 5 (39:11):
Initially? Was it to it wasn't then to make your
husband pay attention. It was an excuse to get out,
to bring the relationship to a head, to get out
of it.
Speaker 2 (39:19):
Yah.
Speaker 11 (39:20):
I think just this person that I was seeing at
work was just giving me the attention that I wasn't
getting at home. I suppose like he would compliment me
and just you know, make me feel good, want to
spend time with me, and things like that that I
wasn't getting and was fighting so hard for in my
own relationships that just wasn't wasn't getting that.
Speaker 5 (39:41):
What do you think, Jay, He's keeps face is changing.
Speaker 1 (39:45):
I'm just curious.
Speaker 4 (39:46):
It's interesting because I mean, obviously you're in a relationship now,
so you've showed and you haven't cheated it. So it
shows you that you can change, and that.
Speaker 11 (39:53):
I don't believe everyone can.
Speaker 2 (39:55):
Yea.
Speaker 11 (39:56):
I my friend, my best friend went through it a
lot with her ex for five years on and off,
chronic chronic cheating, And I don't believe some people can change.
Men or women Like I'm not.
Speaker 1 (40:08):
It's not a gender thing, Jade. Have you been tempted?
Has there been any moment where you saw it?
Speaker 7 (40:14):
Oh?
Speaker 11 (40:16):
No, Like we definitely Like I'll look at a guy
and go, oh, here's the looking but I'll say that
to my husband like it and women too, I'm like, oh,
check her out, and but I've got everything that I
was missing, like, I've got that security and a fantastic partner.
Speaker 5 (40:30):
Now would you do anything differently now if you had
your time over, would you change the choices you made?
Speaker 11 (40:37):
Probably would have just left. Yeah, I tried to leave
and then obviously just security and things like that, you
just stay longer than you should.
Speaker 1 (40:45):
All right, there you go.
Speaker 4 (40:47):
So, Kip, do you believe I do believe you.
Speaker 1 (40:50):
Well done, Jay, Jack. That's that's a first. Kip's actually
changed his mind. I've not been able to do it
in the whole period of time you've been together.
Speaker 4 (40:57):
But Jay, you have of stranger never two minutes.
Speaker 1 (41:02):
Mate.
Speaker 4 (41:05):
Yeah, it's interesting. I could you could argue the extenuating
circus says because old mates on the myth, you know,
you could say he's basically having a relationship already with myth.
Speaker 5 (41:14):
But isn't there always extenuating circumstances?
Speaker 1 (41:17):
Like isn't that the point?
Speaker 5 (41:18):
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(42:38):
it or we're going crazy. You're not listen to yourself.
Speaker 5 (42:41):
Cool and Hardy knows what she's talking about, because you
got cheated on, didn't you hardy?
Speaker 6 (42:46):
I did. My ex husband cheated when he was working
into state with a coworker, and he really wanted me
to forgive him, and so exactly that we went to therapy.
He was really transparent, he you know, he always answered
the phone. I was never left wondering. And so we
did recover from that for about ten years. And ten
(43:10):
years later he did cheat again and I said to him,
if you ever cheat again, that's did I'm out. So
that was the end of it. But weirdly, in that
ten years in between, I could tell that he wasn't
cheating up. You know, you can have a feeling about it.
And it was a pretty good ten years so, which
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Speaker 12 (43:27):
It is.
Speaker 4 (43:28):
Yeah, that's an efine one dealing with that as a
counselor as well, isn't it all right?
Speaker 3 (43:32):
Well?
Speaker 6 (43:33):
Yeah, exactly. I think though when you have these, you know,
will a cheat or always be a cheated We can't
make statements like that, whitewash statements, because every relationship, it's
like a fingerprint. There's no two scenario that's exactly the same. So,
like I said, willingness to put in the work and
be transparent and be really committed, and you definitely can
(43:56):
turn things around you.
Speaker 1 (43:57):
There's a counselor who literally he knows what she's telling us.
Speaker 2 (44:04):
Wake up with Robin and Kid.
Speaker 10 (44:10):
Our next guest is a three times Aria Award winning
or was he singer songwriter with a stack of his
under this belt.
Speaker 2 (44:16):
You can't go back to away, Louis Russy.
Speaker 4 (44:29):
He's just released his third studio album, The Epilogue, and
it's about to embark on a world tour happly.
Speaker 2 (44:35):
Named the Epilogue World Tour. This morning, Robin Kid, Welcome,
Dean Louis.
Speaker 7 (44:41):
Thank you boy me.
Speaker 4 (44:42):
I forgot because I was supposed to a couple of
years ago.
Speaker 9 (44:44):
I forgot.
Speaker 4 (44:45):
How tall you are, Dean?
Speaker 7 (44:46):
Yeah, a tall out six two. I think yes too.
Speaker 4 (44:48):
Yeah, because normally these singers come in and we expect
them to be like Robin Hyde, like yeah, like five nothing.
Speaker 7 (44:53):
Yeah, I mean this happened yesterday.
Speaker 10 (44:54):
So many people come up to me after the little
little pop ups on They're like, they're like, you're a
little taller than I expected.
Speaker 7 (45:00):
I don't know. I don't know if it's like short
man energy or something.
Speaker 11 (45:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (45:02):
I'm alway.
Speaker 7 (45:04):
Yeah, I'm like, people are always surprised.
Speaker 4 (45:06):
Yeah, but yeah, were you like a second rower. Did
you play rugby or right?
Speaker 7 (45:10):
I played basketball?
Speaker 4 (45:11):
Basketball basketball, yeah, proper tour.
Speaker 7 (45:13):
Yeah, I was like, yeah, but I was. I was
the center in my team. I'm six two, but like
Australian basket, you know, in my high school. And we
we got wrecked. We got wrecked by routine.
Speaker 4 (45:22):
If you're the big man, yeah, I was the.
Speaker 7 (45:24):
Tallest and we sucked.
Speaker 11 (45:27):
Dean.
Speaker 1 (45:27):
I really enjoyed last night.
Speaker 5 (45:28):
You did a special sort of quick little VIP experience
for your super fans at the Fortitude Musical. But the
thing that I noticed and loved about you is that
you were saying, I'm going to play stuff from my
new album and then kept forgetting the lyrics.
Speaker 4 (45:41):
Yes, I think I think we've got some audio audio here.
Speaker 3 (45:45):
My second album about one girl.
Speaker 7 (45:47):
It's a very embarrassing story, but it's true.
Speaker 12 (45:49):
And this song was like the last song I wrote
for her to kind of like say, and I also
wrote it to say, this is like the last time
I knew I was ever going to see her, and
I gave her a hug, and I knew that was
that was kind of the end, so maybe you guys
can relate to it.
Speaker 3 (46:02):
But it's a song of mine called the Last bit
of Us?
Speaker 2 (46:12):
What was it?
Speaker 7 (46:14):
We're masking the fans.
Speaker 2 (46:15):
Yeah, it's not great.
Speaker 4 (46:18):
It's not great.
Speaker 7 (46:18):
I mean, but this happens. And at least it was
a small venue.
Speaker 10 (46:22):
Man that it's been broadcast now it's exactly thanks things.
But it's the worst thing is when you do that
on like a big stage. But the thing is, whenever
you mess up, they love it.
Speaker 7 (46:31):
Yeah, like you know, I did this.
Speaker 10 (46:32):
I did this show in Switzerland a while ago, and
the first song I screwed up and everyone come outs
me off. Just tell me how much they loved it.
I think it makes you seem more like human. So
I should I should plan.
Speaker 7 (46:43):
That, do it more.
Speaker 2 (46:43):
Yeah, we should do.
Speaker 4 (46:44):
And you know it's live. No, there's nothing, there's no
pre recording going on. If you're stuff it up, you.
Speaker 10 (46:48):
Know exactly exactly and luckily, unfortunately I do stuff up
quite a lot.
Speaker 5 (46:53):
I do want to know, though, are you in a relationship,
because if you ever find love, your song's song could
potentially suck in the future.
Speaker 7 (47:02):
That's true.
Speaker 10 (47:02):
But no, But but it's like you guys, friends I
think I get that question a lot. They go like
you know that you guys'd be like, you know, you
write these songs about people, but it's the same as you, guys,
and when you're going through life, you're every interaction you're
looking for a story to tell on the show.
Speaker 7 (47:16):
So it's like they never you never run out like matter.
Speaker 10 (47:19):
And you can also write an album about one I
wrote my second album about one one girl, you know
what I mean?
Speaker 7 (47:23):
Like it's not you can really embellish a little bit,
and you.
Speaker 2 (47:27):
Know it starts.
Speaker 4 (47:28):
Is that where your most comfortable writing about sadness?
Speaker 1 (47:30):
Though?
Speaker 9 (47:30):
Like is that?
Speaker 7 (47:30):
Yeah? Yeah, I'll tell you why this. Happy songs are
so hard to write.
Speaker 10 (47:35):
You think about it like they only connect to the ears,
But if you write a sad song, it can be
like the heart and the ears, so it doesn't have
to be as good.
Speaker 4 (47:42):
Yeah, to break.
Speaker 5 (47:45):
True, I'll say the one song that I was so
glad to hear the end result, And I always thought,
if I ever stand in front of you, I would ask,
what happened was the song that you.
Speaker 1 (47:54):
Wrote about your dad? How do I say goodbye? But
he's okay?
Speaker 10 (47:59):
Yeah, So I wrote the song because he was really
sick and I don't know what was going to happen,
and then he got a stem cell transplant and basically
it saved his life. And he's been coming on the
road with me and playing the song. And we actually
put that at the end of the YouTube video, like
on YouTube, we have this montage. Then right at the
end we're like, by my dad, this is what happened.
He was in remission and the YouTube ads covered it, so,
you know, the YouTube ads, and so no one could
(48:21):
ever read the text because we put it in there,
but no.
Speaker 7 (48:23):
One could see it.
Speaker 4 (48:24):
But he's playing with you. Is he play an instrument?
Speaker 10 (48:27):
He plays guitar, he told me guitar and everything. And
he's he's been coming up on stage. He's he's very
nervous about playing life, but he's come up in like
you know, did the end more And he's coming up
on a bunch of shows. He's going to come to
the UK, I think in Wembley. We sold that Wembley.
He's going to come up and play there and he.
Speaker 4 (48:41):
Loves people and people who don't know that he survived.
Speaker 7 (48:47):
Or my uncle or something.
Speaker 10 (48:49):
Yeah, yeah, but it's really it's cool to have that
moment with my dad kiss like I wrote a song
about him and then it's a hit and then we're
playing it on stage and it's about him possibly going.
Speaker 7 (48:57):
So I've been very lucky.
Speaker 10 (48:58):
But you know, other people tell me their stories about
that song and how they relate to it's very special.
Speaker 5 (49:02):
Yeah, and you've sorry, we just bypassed the product that
you've sold out Wembley.
Speaker 7 (49:07):
Oh it's crazy, yeah, yeah, sold it out.
Speaker 10 (49:10):
Yeah, like a month ago we're doing We're doing the
Hammersmith Apollo is like an opening show, so it's it's
as well. So it's just it's weird. In the UK
and Europe, it's it's bigger than it is in Australia.
Speaker 1 (49:20):
Come on, mate, river stage, River.
Speaker 10 (49:22):
Stage to make you can't believe we sold that out.
I can't believe we sold it out. Yeah, yeah, that's great.
But you know, for instance, the Zigodome, we have these
weird pockets that are huge, Like in Denmark it's huge,
and in the Netherlands we're doing two zigodomes and it's
like the fifteen thousand capacity and it's like so in
the Netherlands, every song goes just big there and so
so Australia is kind of like one of my it's
kind of like the third or fourth biggest placements, which
(49:43):
is really it's amazing.
Speaker 4 (49:44):
That's strange though. It's strange that we don't love you
as much as the people from the Netherlands.
Speaker 7 (49:48):
No, no, I think, but it's very Australian. I think
it's also very Australian, you know what I mean.
Speaker 10 (49:51):
Like it's hard to it's hard to break out in
your own country in Australia.
Speaker 7 (49:55):
Yeah, I have to be popping off overseas.
Speaker 5 (49:57):
But you know, well you you are one of the
greatest songs. Honestly, you're a wonderful live it is sold
out at the River Stage. However, we do have a
double nice so if you're a massive Dean Lewis fan,
then please give us a call thirteen one oh sixty
five and you can see this extraordinary man potentially stuff
up any of your new ones.
Speaker 10 (50:17):
I'll be up the whole time'll we plan mess up
on the first song?
Speaker 4 (50:20):
Okay, good good, And the brand new single is called Empire.
Let's have a listen.
Speaker 11 (50:24):
I feel so.
Speaker 4 (50:33):
So you gotta feel in the crowd it's going to
sing along to that one.
Speaker 10 (50:41):
Yeah, it's got to be quie vibe in it. You know,
we everyone singing along and yeah, it's just I'm really
excited about this one. It's a bit different and fans
of love and anthemic very themic, Yes, love it.
Speaker 1 (50:50):
Yes, Okay.
Speaker 5 (50:51):
Gemma of Mango Hill, Hi, Hi, Hi, you good?
Speaker 1 (50:55):
You want to say hid to Dean?
Speaker 3 (50:57):
Oh?
Speaker 11 (50:57):
God?
Speaker 7 (50:58):
Yes, hello, Jemma hay On, Hi, I'm really good.
Speaker 1 (51:02):
How are you?
Speaker 7 (51:03):
I'm great, I'm great.
Speaker 2 (51:05):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (51:06):
Hi, it just sounds going to come to your concert, Dana.
Speaker 7 (51:11):
Did you have tickets to the show.
Speaker 8 (51:13):
I don't, Actually I don't.
Speaker 9 (51:15):
I missed it out so and this is the first
show of yours that I've missed.
Speaker 7 (51:18):
Okay, well, we're going to give you tickets to the
show you're in.
Speaker 1 (51:21):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (51:23):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (51:24):
Make sure you learn the lyrics. He's going to need
your help.
Speaker 3 (51:26):
Gemma, that's fine now, I love you, and.
Speaker 4 (51:36):
Well, thank you so much for coming in. But I
feel like we could chat for ages. Last time we
spoke about because both of our brothers are obsessed with crypto.
We spoke about that. So maybe we'll just do something
for the podcast because I want to find out what's
going on.
Speaker 1 (51:47):
Now, Can we turn off the microphones, yes, okay the die.
Speaker 10 (51:54):
Good to see you guys, Thanks having me, Thanks Wake
Up with Robin and Kid,
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