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October 24, 2025 β€’ 30 mins

Ever wondered what it takes to become the most-watched adult entertainer on the planet? This episode pulls back the curtain on the billion-view phenomenon that is Angela White, who reveals what really happens behind the scenes of professional adult films—from the mountain of paperwork to the art of camera-friendly positioning.

Angela shares her journey from sexually expressive teen to adult superstar, explaining how porn became the first place she saw women celebrated rather than shamed for their sexuality. With refreshing candor, she discusses the surprising amount of compliance, consent forms, and STD testing that happens before cameras roll, shattering misconceptions about the industry.

Whether you're curious about the realities of adult filmmaking, looking for bedroom advice from a professional, or just fascinated by the business of pleasure, this episode delivers eye-opening insights from someone who truly loves what she does. Listen now to discover why connection and chemistry—not just physical attributes—are the real secrets to Angela's billion-view success.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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(01:06):
but to be watching, it's tonight because boy, oh boy, yes.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
We have the Angela White co hosting for an entire hour.

Speaker 3 (01:14):
I've never been sent so many dms.

Speaker 2 (01:16):
I've never had so much outcry about having her own
shit's a massive star, would.

Speaker 4 (01:21):
You say, like, she's in the top five Australian exports
right now? Obviously Veggie might one naturally, which is the
Irwin that's on Dancing with the Stars in the States
who's just killing it, Robert Irwin, He's in there as well.

Speaker 3 (01:33):
I have rude thoughts about him.

Speaker 5 (01:34):
Okay, maybe you can talk to Angela about that well.

Speaker 4 (01:36):
And obviously, Angela White, she is the biggest adult entertainer
on the planet.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
We'll be her saucy secret this week will shock you
and give you an idea of just how famous she.

Speaker 4 (01:48):
Why am I not surprised Angela White's secret might be
somewhat shocking, not just on the show co hosting.

Speaker 5 (01:53):
For the whole first hour.

Speaker 7 (01:56):
Angela White, next, buckle up because tonight's guest is an
absolute ausy legend and she's one of the most famous
women in the.

Speaker 3 (02:06):
World for all the right reasons.

Speaker 2 (02:08):
She's shot more scenes than we've had hot dinners, she's
won more awards and most Hollywood stars, and she's taken
the adult industry from taboo to mainstream. I'm talking about
the one and only Angela White, and yes we're going there.
We're talking sex power, fame, and what really happens behind
the camera.

Speaker 3 (02:26):
If you've ever wondered what.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
It's like to be the most desired woman on the Internet,
stay right here because Angela joins us to share her
saucy secret.

Speaker 3 (02:35):
Welcome, Angela, Thank you.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
What an introduction.

Speaker 2 (02:38):
So first of all, Angela, what is your saucy secret?

Speaker 8 (02:43):
Well, my saucy secret is that my sex tapes have
been viewed over ten billion times ten ten billion billion, unbelievable.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
Wild I get decided if my Instagram gets like.

Speaker 4 (02:59):
Yeah, it's a big tick for a normal person, ten billion,
that is out of this world.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
I know. And you didn't have to sleep with a
thousand men in one go to do it.

Speaker 3 (03:09):
It's just beautiful, wholesome pawn.

Speaker 2 (03:13):
Well I don't know if it's all wholesome, but okay,
that's a lie.

Speaker 5 (03:17):
I've seen your videos.

Speaker 2 (03:18):
It is not good pickup. So let's start at the beginning.
What made you want to do porn? Like, what was
the moment when you thought that's the career for me?

Speaker 8 (03:31):
Actually, when I was in high school, so I was
a very sexual teen and I expressed my sexuality, which
wasn't deemed appropriate at that time, and I was interested
in boys and girls, so I was criticized for being
a slut and a lesbian. It didn't matter how I
enacted my sexuality, it was deemed inappropriate. And pornography was

(03:51):
the first place where I saw women being celebrated for
having multiple partners and for having sexual fantasies and embracing
this sexuality. So from high school on, I was like, well,
this is my place, this is where I want to be.
So of course I waited till I was eighteen, and.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
Then I applied to do porn, just like any other
regular job.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
I put in.

Speaker 8 (04:13):
My resume, and of course that resume also included some
nude photos and the rest is history.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
And do you think because your fan base is strong
and it's loyal, and you've got millions of followers on
Instagram and TikTok and everywhere, do you think the reason
your videos resonate is because you're genuinely having a good time,
like you genuinely enjoy having sex. Like listen, I've watched
your videos for research. You really you don't look disassociated,

(04:42):
You're in the moment.

Speaker 3 (04:44):
Do you think that's the secret to your success.

Speaker 8 (04:47):
I think that's definitely the main secret. I mean, it's
not really a secret. I love what I do. I've
always wanted to do this job. It's my dream job.
And they say, get a job you love and you'll
never work a day in your life. This is just
me expressing my own sex reality on camera.

Speaker 1 (05:01):
But I will say the big natural boobs did help.

Speaker 9 (05:04):
Yes, yes, they.

Speaker 1 (05:05):
Come from the boobs. They stay for the chemistry and connection.

Speaker 3 (05:08):
That's what I think. I think that's the same with me.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
Thanks Mom, Thanks graandmar So what Like, it does look
very glamorous because you do the big shoots in the
beautiful mansions and the pools, Like we're not seeing you
in a back alley, although like you in some circumstances
that's hot too, But what's the least sexy thing that
happens on a film set?

Speaker 3 (05:32):
Like, what don't we see all the paperwork?

Speaker 8 (05:36):
There is so much compliance paperwork involved in actually shooting
a professional porn scene, which I don't think most fans
or consumers of porn realize. So we have to do
these two two five seven paperwork every single time I'm
on set, and that's basically to prove that I'm over eighteen.
So it doesn't matter that I've done thousands of scenes

(05:56):
in my career, every single scene I have to prove
once again that I'm over the age of eighteen. I
have to fill out other compliance paperwork to state that
I'm not on any drugs or alcohol, that I'm doing
the shoot out of my own free will.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
I do a model release where.

Speaker 8 (06:12):
I'm consenting to my images being published online. And then
we also go through a boundary checklist, so we have
a talent liaison that goes through what we will and
will not do during a scene, and that talent liaison
is there to watch the scene to make sure none.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
Of our boundaries across.

Speaker 8 (06:29):
And then of course we have testing paperwork, so we
have to get tested regularly and we.

Speaker 3 (06:34):
Have to show that those test results as well.

Speaker 8 (06:37):
So there's a lot of paperwork and a lot of
compliance involved before we can get to the real sexy stuff.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
I always find that so interesting because I watched the
Bonnie Blue documentary last week and I had a chat
with her, and what shocked me the most was she
did the stunt with one thousand men and she didn't
make any of them get an STD test, and that
gave me so much anxiety. But I know with your
shoots and certainly with only fans, what people don't realize
is they're really strict on that day, like everyone.

Speaker 3 (07:05):
Has to do. You have to do an STD test
every two weeks. Is that correct?

Speaker 8 (07:10):
Yes, So that's the standard in LA every fourteen days.
We have to do a full panel, so that includes gonnorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, MGEN.
We're doing throat swabs, HIV obviously, and a bunch of
others that I don't remember the names of.

Speaker 1 (07:25):
But it's a full panel, so bloods urine and swabs
of the throat.

Speaker 8 (07:30):
And anus as well, so fully tested every well, I
do it every twelve days. Industry standard is fourteen days.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
Isn't it funny that it's safer to sleep with someone
in the.

Speaker 3 (07:39):
Second industry at the moment that it is you.

Speaker 2 (07:47):
We have some incredible listener questions. A lot we couldn't
put to air, but we actually got some really good ones.
So are you happy to answer that them?

Speaker 3 (08:01):
Of course?

Speaker 1 (08:01):
I love fan questions.

Speaker 3 (08:03):
Well, they're very creative.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
The first one we got was have you ever caught
real feelings for a coaster?

Speaker 3 (08:10):
Yeah? You're human?

Speaker 1 (08:13):
Yeah, yeah, I'm human. And look the thing is that
I really like to connect during my scenes.

Speaker 8 (08:20):
I value having like genuine chemistry and passion, and so
sometimes that's also reciprocated. And I mean, you can definitely
catch feelings on set. I have, and it does make
things complicated because they are my colleagues.

Speaker 2 (08:36):
And would you say, tellous if that person did a
scene with someone else.

Speaker 1 (08:39):
I would no, no, no, no no. For me, it's hot, okay,
I like, yeah, I.

Speaker 8 (08:45):
Like watching someone that i'm into have sex with someone else.

Speaker 2 (08:48):
Yeah, I kind of get that. I had that conversation
the other day with a guy. I was like, I
think I would like to watch you have sex, But
then I realized, no, I'm a green I'd monster, and
I hate it.

Speaker 3 (08:59):
In theory, I love it.

Speaker 2 (09:01):
Another person asked, how do you keep sex exciting in
your personal life when it's also your job.

Speaker 8 (09:07):
I guess in my personal life it's even better because
then I don't have to open up for a camera.

Speaker 1 (09:12):
I don't have to worry about a performance. I don't
have a director yelling out, hey, which positions or whatever?

Speaker 8 (09:18):
Like it's I have more freedom when I'm having sex
at home, which is always going to make it more exciting.

Speaker 3 (09:25):
Oh I love that. And do you ever watch your
own videos for fun?

Speaker 2 (09:30):
Or have you watched your videos with someone before you
sleep with them to get yourself home?

Speaker 8 (09:39):
I used to watch all of my scenes, actually because
I used to edit all of my scenes, which was
quite mortifying in the beginning, because when you edit your
own scenes, you really see all the things that you're
doing wrong. But I feel like being an editor made
me a much better performer.

Speaker 5 (09:58):
When you say things that you're doing, like what kind
of stuff would you pick up on?

Speaker 3 (10:02):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (10:03):
Or sometimes it's little things like just the positioning of
your body, like when you're seeing those perfect camera angles
in porn. It requires a lot of contortion for the talent.
I think anyone who's tried to make a home video
will know like, hey, like we kind of did the
same positions that porn did, why didn't my video turn
out to look as good?

Speaker 1 (10:20):
It's subtle hand positioning.

Speaker 8 (10:22):
You know, if I'm in Doggie and I have my
hand like kind of out further like this, I'm blocking
my boobs. Just moving it back a little actually shows
the swaying.

Speaker 1 (10:30):
Breast, And it's like that in every position.

Speaker 8 (10:32):
There's always these little micro movements that performers can do
to make a position look really good. I mean you
learn that on the job, but also when you're seeing
it as you're watching your scenes back or in my case,
editing them, you can really fine tune those details of Oh,
this would have looked so much better if I had
twisted my body around in that moment so that not

(10:54):
only could they see the penetration and the boob bouncing,
but they could also see my face.

Speaker 1 (10:59):
So it's those little things.

Speaker 3 (11:00):
Oh my god, that's so.

Speaker 2 (11:01):
Interesting because I have tried to film one and I
was horrified.

Speaker 3 (11:07):
Horrified at what I looked like.

Speaker 2 (11:10):
So if you're doing Doggie, put your hands away from
your boobs a little lower. What are some other really
really good tips just for the rookies out there like
me who think we look hard in the moment.

Speaker 4 (11:21):
If someone wanted to start filming their own bedroom activities,
what are the things they must do?

Speaker 5 (11:27):
To make it look as good as possible.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
Lighting is key.

Speaker 8 (11:31):
Having good lighting makes everything look better, and obviously you'll
be able to see the penetration more if that's something
you're trying to capture. But you don't want to have
like contrasty lighting where you're seeing every wrinkle and every
pimple and you just want nice flat lighting where you're
looking beautiful.

Speaker 1 (11:51):
That I mean, lighting is everything.

Speaker 3 (11:52):
There's a really.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
Big on porn Hub at the moment. There's a big
thing for amateur porn. People are really into watching those
kind of old VH gets filmed kind of scenes, and
I get it. I was going to say, make sure
you wear waterproof mascara, but maybe it's hotter if you don't.

Speaker 8 (12:08):
No, some people love that look of the running masca
a Danis face after giving a Gagang blowjob.

Speaker 3 (12:14):
Yeah, I having a part. Okay to ladies, do not
wear them.

Speaker 5 (12:20):
Pandorizes are hot. It's totally fine. Yeah for pandori, I
get it.

Speaker 2 (12:27):
The new big thing in pawn is doing these crazy
stunts and the thousand men in the petting Zoo and
things like that. Are you tempted to go down that
road or are you happy where you are.

Speaker 8 (12:39):
My thing is that, like, this is all about me
expressing and exploring my sexuality.

Speaker 1 (12:44):
And while I actually.

Speaker 8 (12:45):
Do gang bangs, I quite enjoy group sex scenes. For me,
it's not about how many people I can sleep with
at one time. For me, it's about connecting with people.
And there's only so big a gang bank can get
before I am not really connecting with everybody there. So yeah,
I'm really about connection and chemistry and passion. So my

(13:06):
I mean, my favorite scenes are what on one because
I feel like that's when you get to be the
most giving and to really concentrate on someone else's pleasure.

Speaker 3 (13:15):
So that's my focus.

Speaker 2 (13:17):
Okay, And I think there's a lot of men wondering
now because I get so many messages from men going
how do we please women better in the bedroom?

Speaker 3 (13:24):
What can we do? Does penis size matter? All these things?

Speaker 2 (13:27):
What would be your best advice to men on how
to please their ladies?

Speaker 1 (13:33):
Ask them?

Speaker 3 (13:35):
Yes, communication, just writing that.

Speaker 8 (13:37):
Down, use your words, communicate. Yeah, I mean, I think
people are scared to communicate about sex, and sometimes people
are embarrassed to talk about what they actually want, and
we don't have the.

Speaker 1 (13:52):
Sexual scripts to explain what it is that we're after.

Speaker 8 (13:55):
But I think the more that we start normalizing talking
about what we want in the bedroom, that it's going
to get. And I mean, look, another great idea is
a woman knows how to get herself off, so maybe
doing some mutual masturbation, how she touches her body, the
rhythm in which she rubs her clip, what it is
whether she's you know, on the clitter or above the clitter,

(14:17):
or what it is that she how she touches herself
to make her feel good.

Speaker 1 (14:20):
That's a good kind of way to follow along and do.

Speaker 3 (14:23):
Things that you know that she's going to enjoy.

Speaker 2 (14:25):
I've got one more question before we go. Well, I've
got a million questions, but I've got one more question
for today. If you could give one piece of advice
to women on how to feel sexier in the bedroom,
what would that be.

Speaker 8 (14:38):
I would say, focus less on performing pleasure and focus
more on experiencing pleasure, because when you're really in your
body and experiencing that pleasure, you become magnetic. I think
a lot of women, just because of the culture and everything, like,

(14:58):
we're so focused on how we look on the outside,
Like it does this look right? Am?

Speaker 1 (15:03):
I pretty enough? Is my makeup. Good is the lingerie.
But when you're focused on the outside, you're not really
in the moment.

Speaker 8 (15:10):
But if you really focus, like if you're present and
in your own body and focusing on the pleasure that
you're receiving, you really do become this sort of magnetic band,
like people are drawn to you when you're in that
moment of pleasure.

Speaker 2 (15:27):
But it is true, we women, we do worry. Are
my boobs diiggling too much? Can they see my cell?
You're light and as a male, I think you can
say you're not looking at that.

Speaker 5 (15:35):
It's so fine. Do not stress.

Speaker 4 (15:37):
We're not picking up on any of those things whatsoever.

Speaker 3 (15:40):
You're just excited to be having something.

Speaker 5 (15:41):
Exactly, someone's showing attention. Happy to be.

Speaker 2 (15:46):
Oh my god, Well once again an absolute delight, Angela.

Speaker 3 (15:49):
Thank you so much for coming on this.

Speaker 4 (15:51):
Show, Angela Light, Thanks for joining us on Soucy Secrets.

Speaker 1 (15:54):
Thank you so much for having me.

Speaker 2 (15:57):
So every week, men into my DMS asking whether women
care about their penis size, and I tend to think.

Speaker 3 (16:05):
It's more motion in the ocean. But just like we women.

Speaker 2 (16:08):
Care about our lip sizes, how smooth our faces are.
It kind of makes sense that men are a little
bit fixated on their peckets. So when I discovered that
men can get actually really easy penis enhancements, why.

Speaker 5 (16:23):
Are you looking at me? Why you looking at me
when you start talking about making because.

Speaker 3 (16:28):
You're the one that slides into my DM. But I
wanted to find out more, and.

Speaker 2 (16:35):
So we found Chris Fleischer, who is the practice manager
from Cosmetic Connection and his clinic actually does do penis enhancements.
So he's joining us today on the show. Thank you, Chris,
because we have a million questions.

Speaker 9 (16:50):
Amazing, Thank you very much for having.

Speaker 2 (16:51):
Me so explain to us what is involved in a
penis enhancement?

Speaker 6 (16:56):
Sure, okay, so I'd say quite simple procedure that enlarges
the size of the penis. It primarily focuses on the girth.
But it is non surgical, so it's a treatment you
could have. You could walk in and walk out same
day having completed the procedure.

Speaker 3 (17:11):
Can you use it the same day?

Speaker 6 (17:13):
You cannot use it the same day, so there is
a bit of a recovery period required. So when we
say no downtime, that kind of refers to you can
resume work as normal. But in terms of kind of
sexual activity. There is a minimum period of at least
two weeks.

Speaker 3 (17:27):
And how does it work? Does it hurt? Is there
any bad side effects?

Speaker 5 (17:33):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (17:33):
Sure, So the way it works, it's done under local anesthetic,
so you can't feel very much, so numbs majority of
the pain. It is an injectable treatment, so therefore cant
is very quick and easy. Then in terms of side effects,
there are risks, so redness and swelling are your most
common ones, and then in terms of your cases there
can be more severe swelling as well.

Speaker 4 (17:53):
So how long does the procedure take and how long
does the end result last for is it something that
you need to one of a better term, come and
top up every six months or once it's there, that's
how big it's going to be.

Speaker 6 (18:04):
Yeah, So we'll start with the first part of that question,
which was how long does it take. The treatment itself
is on average will take about twenty minutes, so it's
quite a quick procedure. And then how long that lasts
does depend on your metabolic rate is different for everyone,
but you'd be looking at can last ups around three
to five years, but at that time it would no
longer be giving you the result you had on day one,

(18:24):
so we see most people sort of come back in
two year intervals to top up.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
So we can't say what it actually is for we
have these crazy rules in Australia. But let's just say
the same things that I'm getting put in my lips
are the same things that you're injecting into a guy's penis.

Speaker 4 (18:40):
Can you choose your size or is it just each
body reacts differently to the procedure, Like, for example, if
someone got the injections went home and went, oh nah,
I want bigger, can they come in and choose how
girthy they want it to be?

Speaker 6 (18:54):
Within reason? So there are parameters of what's safe. So
there's obviously a certain amount of product that probably is appropriate.
So there is definite an element of you can choose
to go bigger, but there you are obviously also bound
by what you've got to actually yeah, and if you
were to put yeah exactly, and if you put that
for similar to like a lip, yeah, right, you are

(19:14):
there is a the.

Speaker 9 (19:15):
Lip is obviously in caste you can't keep it filling
out forever.

Speaker 3 (19:18):
So what prices are we looking at? How much is
it is expensive?

Speaker 9 (19:21):
Depends how big you want to go.

Speaker 3 (19:25):
Yeah, starting point.

Speaker 6 (19:27):
Yeah, I would say as an absolute range, it could
be anywhere from sort of five thousand upwards, and could
be even in some cases you want to go really
big above ten.

Speaker 5 (19:38):
It does last a few years, Like you say, it's
a long time.

Speaker 2 (19:40):
It could be the best money I've spent. I spent
ten thousand on getting my teeth done, best money I've
ever spent. And do you find a lot of men
are coming in because their wives have asked them to
come in?

Speaker 6 (19:52):
I'd say very rarely is that the case, But there
are people of all different relationship statuses. So you have
got people sort of post childbirth. Some people are motivated
by that.

Speaker 3 (20:02):
Because the woman's correct.

Speaker 6 (20:03):
Yeah, yeah, so that's sometimes people were coming in for
that purpose.

Speaker 9 (20:07):
But you've obviously got.

Speaker 2 (20:08):
Something that's so polite for the woman, so she's still
got a bit of enjoyment.

Speaker 5 (20:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (20:13):
So it's like I said, there's not one person that
there's such a variety of people that come in for
different reasons.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
And do you think it's a growing trend? Like have
when when did it start? Because I didn't even know
it was a thing.

Speaker 6 (20:23):
Yeah, I think it's been around. I think there was
some studies that came out in the early two thousands.
I'd say it's probably been picked up in popularity in
the last ten years, and I'd say in the last
three years.

Speaker 9 (20:34):
It's gone mainstream.

Speaker 6 (20:35):
Really Yeah, So I'd say, now it's something that people
who are looking to increase the size of their penis.

Speaker 9 (20:40):
It's something that they're seeking out.

Speaker 2 (20:42):
And if I was about to sleep with a guy
who had it, could I tell that they've had it well?

Speaker 6 (20:47):
Depends how good of a job, but it's done well,
and in most cases no, you wouldn't.

Speaker 3 (20:53):
So there's different areas you can put it.

Speaker 2 (20:56):
So do people just want a longer penis or do
they want a thicker penis?

Speaker 6 (21:00):
Like So for the non sogal options there are limitations,
so length gains aren't possible. They can be soft length gains,
but primarius girth.

Speaker 2 (21:10):
So once a guy has got it done and they're
waiting the two weeks, what does aftercare look like?

Speaker 3 (21:16):
How do you make sure it doesn't get infected?

Speaker 5 (21:19):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (21:19):
Good, great question.

Speaker 6 (21:20):
So that part of that is why we have that
two week process is because of where the injection site
is that can obviously potentially get infected. So that's why
there's what we generally say is no submerging yourself in water,
So no baths. Yeah, so you can shower as normal
and there's like a body scrub we give you, but
you shouldn't submerge yourself in water.

Speaker 9 (21:39):
And obviously no sexual intercourse as well.

Speaker 4 (21:41):
And if you're listening to this or watching this on
YouTube in the you know what, I wouldn't mind a
bit of extra girth. You can find them at Sint
Lennon's in Sydney and Turak in Melbourne. Cosmetic Connection. Chris Practice,
manager from Cosmetic Connection, thank you so much for coming
in and telling us all about it.

Speaker 3 (21:56):
Thank you very much, very much.

Speaker 5 (21:57):
The saucy secrets on kiss.

Speaker 2 (22:00):
So I had an epiphany last night. It was about
two am. It was in bed. I wasn't up to
what you think I was up, not last night anyway,
but it dawned in me that men, if you want
to know what your woman is up to, don't be
sneaking in her Instagram messages, don't be looking at her
phone messages. Take a deep dive into her notes app

(22:24):
because it is wild.

Speaker 5 (22:27):
That's where the saucy stuff is.

Speaker 2 (22:29):
That's where the saucy stuff is the reason I was
awake at two am last night was because I was
writing a breakup text to my situationship and I really
needed to draft it out first, Like you didn't even
have a boyfriend. I know my situationship, And.

Speaker 4 (22:42):
I guess is that just because you that's where you
put all your thoughts, your feelings for them to come
back to edit them, sort them all out. So just
the raw, unfiltered, whatever's going on, whatever you're doing, it's
all there on the nights at Yeah.

Speaker 2 (22:53):
Okay, if a guy went through my notes up and
wanted to know about me, what would he find?

Speaker 3 (22:58):
And it's actually really embarrassed. I did put it into
an article.

Speaker 5 (23:01):
You printed the notes.

Speaker 3 (23:02):
I've printed the.

Speaker 2 (23:03):
Notes, so I've got the names of the men i've
shagged before.

Speaker 3 (23:06):
I think it's important.

Speaker 5 (23:07):
Your body counts there on the notes.

Speaker 2 (23:08):
Yeah, I'll go my biography one day.

Speaker 3 (23:12):
The names of the men I want to shag.

Speaker 5 (23:16):
Manifesting these real people are like celebrities.

Speaker 2 (23:18):
Both both I'm high and celebrity name like Brad Pitt
always third.

Speaker 3 (23:25):
Fourth, Fida.

Speaker 2 (23:27):
We've got our baby names so like I don't even
want kids, but I've still got to listen names.

Speaker 5 (23:32):
You got to be prepared. You never know.

Speaker 2 (23:34):
Well, I made the mistake of telling my cousin my
favorite boy's name, which is Sebastian, and she's stole it.

Speaker 4 (23:40):
You know, you know this thing that microphone that everyone
Now You've just given your baby name to everyone, so
now everyone's going to steal.

Speaker 3 (23:45):
Say I'm never I'm never gonna have kids.

Speaker 5 (23:47):
Died in the crab from The Little Mermaid.

Speaker 2 (23:48):
You can have you can have Coco, you can have Montana,
you can have Jamerson because they're on my list.

Speaker 3 (23:54):
I've also got business ideas in there.

Speaker 2 (23:57):
So like my idea for the perfect vibrator Juju manifesting
my own.

Speaker 3 (24:01):
Vibrator exist thanks to Juju, I want to do a push.

Speaker 2 (24:04):
Up bra like I want to do my own brand
of those, so that's in there.

Speaker 3 (24:08):
I've got a list of sad movies to.

Speaker 2 (24:10):
Watch when I want to cry, The note Fork, Legends
of the Four brad Pitt.

Speaker 3 (24:15):
He's making porn links.

Speaker 2 (24:19):
So I've discovered I'm quite picky with my pawn and
I don't have time when I just need a quick orgasm.
Thanks to my Juju, I need to like go to
something I know is tried and tested and work. So
if I come across a really good one. I put
that in my notes app to come back to LA.
So I'm like, men, you're looking in the wrong spots.

Speaker 3 (24:38):
Go into our notes app. That's where you find out
the most stuff about.

Speaker 4 (24:41):
Is we just have a look at what just just
for comparison? Okay, roast potato recipe?

Speaker 3 (24:49):
Oh oh oh no.

Speaker 4 (24:51):
And the last one was how to put in a
time sheet for saucy secrets because I kept forgetting.

Speaker 2 (24:55):
Oh you've just reminded me too, for yours a snare
women's of fascinating and do you know what that?

Speaker 3 (25:02):
I had at least three break.

Speaker 2 (25:03):
Up notes that thank god I never sent the guys
because they were embarrassed.

Speaker 4 (25:08):
You're welcome, dudes, and apologies for every woman out there
whose secret has just been outed.

Speaker 2 (25:12):
Sorry, sorry, maybe don't look or so don't look at
our chat GPT's.

Speaker 5 (25:16):
Oh yeah, that's even worse.

Speaker 3 (25:19):
We've had a list write in with a very serious
still aver to me.

Speaker 5 (25:22):
Fair, it's for you, not me.

Speaker 4 (25:23):
They know full well that I'm absolutely useless and cannot
answer any of their questions or help with anything in
their life.

Speaker 3 (25:28):
Well, you might actually be able to help with this one.

Speaker 2 (25:30):
As a man, you are a man, so this is
from a woman, she said. Dear Jannah, I'm thirty six
and have been married for five years. In the beginning,
we were hot for each other, but now our sex
life has all but disappeared. I'll admit I let myself
go over the last couple of months, but I've since
tried to initiate. I've brought new lingerie and even suggested

(25:51):
we watch his favorite pawn together, but he just shrugs
and says.

Speaker 3 (25:55):
He's not in the mood ouch.

Speaker 2 (25:58):
When I pressed him, he said it was all about me.
He just doesn't feel like having sex anymore. I couldn't
believe it. Girls same, How do you stay in a
marriage when intimacy vanishes? Am I supposed to accept a
lifetime of celibacy? Or is there a way to bring
the spark back even when he seems unwilling to do
anything about it?

Speaker 3 (26:18):
Signed bedroom flatline.

Speaker 4 (26:21):
Firstly, yes, I don't want to hear this. I've let
myself go. You're perfect just as you are, and I'm
sure your partner is exactly the same, so it's not
up to you to look a certain way.

Speaker 3 (26:30):
Okay, I'm going to answer very differently.

Speaker 5 (26:32):
Really, Yeah, I'm sure he's exactly the same.

Speaker 2 (26:34):
Though this is going to be a controversial take on it,
but I want to know is she shaving her legs?
And the only reason I ask that is because the
other day I was at my best friend's house with
her husband's and we were all watching TV together and
he kind of slid his arm down her leg and
I caught that microaggression of ooh, and he goes, darl

(26:56):
when was the last time you shaved your legs.

Speaker 3 (26:58):
She's like, what do you mean.

Speaker 2 (26:59):
He's like, it's a jungle down there, And I just
caught that little moment of dick and I thought, oh,
you've become flatmates when you've been together for so long,
and you do stop impressing each other, and those little
icks can build up over time. So it's great that
she's buying lingerie now, and it's great that she's making

(27:20):
an effort that I think it's there's something romantic about
maintaining it for each other in the long run. However,
in saying that, you do also have to look at
other things, like I would be going to the doctor
and getting a bit of blood work, getting his testosterone
levels checked, because that is super, super common and men
don't realize that it is the older you get, you

(27:43):
do lose your sex drive and your testosterone levels do dip.
But it's actually something really easy to fix. A friend
of mine he completely lost his sex drive. His wife
was horrified, and it was like one pill every day
for a month or something like that is testostraia.

Speaker 3 (28:01):
He was a teenage boy. Again.

Speaker 4 (28:02):
Wow, And as boring as it may sound like, is
it worth asking him why?

Speaker 9 (28:07):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (28:07):
Communication, it's cute to get your honeybird dad set. How
do you start with the brain.

Speaker 4 (28:12):
Because you know, if he's just sort of shrugging and
turning away, and you're going to let that eat at
you as if you're wondering, is it me if I'd
done something wrong? Like actually find out as awkward as
that conversation is going to be, why is he not.

Speaker 5 (28:25):
Up for it?

Speaker 4 (28:26):
Because it could be something that he wants or doesn't want.

Speaker 3 (28:30):
It could be work stress. We women are guilty of
thinking that men are just.

Speaker 4 (28:34):
Always on and I guess the fact that she is
trying something is a great first start. Actually, wait a minute,
I know what you could do if you wanted to
spice up the bedroom and bring back the heat. Look
no further than the we Vibe Chorus Pro from Juju,
because the beautiful thing about this is is that the
we Vibe Chorus Pro moves in waves sinking.

Speaker 5 (28:56):
With your partner.

Speaker 3 (28:57):
That's just polite.

Speaker 4 (28:58):
This is something you can do together for shared climaxes,
get closer together at Juju Jou jou dot comreu. So
I mean, to that person, this feels like a no brainer, right,
I do actually like that.

Speaker 3 (29:11):
See what his kinks are?

Speaker 2 (29:12):
Ask him, maybe he wants to explore something different, Maybe
he wants something different to missionary.

Speaker 4 (29:17):
And it's almost like I've brought this up because we
are giving one away. It's convenient how that has worked.
If you want to pick up the we Vibe Chorus Pro,
jump onto kiss dot comdre you.

Speaker 5 (29:28):
We're giving one of those bad boys away.

Speaker 4 (29:30):
Thanks to the wonderful people at Juju who help us
do this show each and every week.

Speaker 2 (29:34):
I'm just thinking, why don't we just send it to
that listener. Let's just send it to them. They can
report back tell us how they went perfect.

Speaker 5 (29:42):
Wow, what a show this has been.

Speaker 3 (29:44):
Have it a lot.

Speaker 4 (29:45):
Big thank you to Angela White. If there was ever
a week to go and listen back to the podcast.
If you're only just switching on now, please the iHeartRadio
app go get the podcast. If there's ever a week
to watch the entire show on YouTube, we're there as well.
And also we learn about penis enhancements. This is something
that's happening in your city, Australians, and apparently it's very
very popular.

Speaker 2 (30:04):
It's gaining in popularity and it's they're filling up all
my laser clinic visits every time I try and book
in my own little tweagments.

Speaker 3 (30:13):
It's you men.

Speaker 4 (30:13):
Now look, if you are looking to add some girth
to your dick, or if you would like to add
some girth to your partners dick. Again the podcast, it's
all there. And on that note, what more could we
possibly say.

Speaker 2 (30:24):
Well, let's see what next week exactly, see you next week.

Speaker 5 (30:27):
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