April 29, 2025 • 28 mins
Loren has some company this episode! Her producer TaylorMade It, and Videographer Carlos joins her in discussing Diddy updates, that include his lawyers claiming he lacked mental capacity required to commit the alleged offenses. Also, they get into a conversation about dating in this generation after a resurfaced video of Ari Lenox admitting she dated women for a short period and realized she did not like it.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about everything
and everybody.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
You know, if you don't lie about that? Right? Lauren
came in.
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Hey, y'all was up? I'm Lauren Rosa. This is the
latest with Lauren Rosa.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I'm a homegirl that knows a bit about everything and everybody.
And today, as always, I got your daily dig on
everything pop culture, all the conversations that shake the room
and joining me to do so. Taylor Taylor made it
as back my Lovely podcast producer and baby PJ.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Yes, wow, and Low's a.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Whole baby on the way. Is crazy?
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What you got?
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Congratulations?
Speaker 3 (00:38):
She got PJ.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
I got babies every day?
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Okay, you're making babies every day? No, I just got
something Okay, all right, well.
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This is Low So Loos introduce yourself to the audience.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
I'm call those poke from Baltimore, Maryland with up everybody.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
What did you get a last name?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
We I never call home Carlos.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
What call those poke?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Poke?
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Scott?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Scott?
Speaker 4 (01:01):
I never knew your I call him Darius, Darrie she
called why tell her in here?
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Just be making stuff up? Darius. You see the show
at yeah?
Speaker 5 (01:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:11):
You remember you don't act like Darius, I don't remember
it fully.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Okay, y'all see, y'all will see, I promise you at
the end of the show.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
The first two.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Well, yeah, so tell the people what you do, okay.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
So I'm a videographer, photographer, creative director, I produce all righte,
I do set design, and I'm a father of too. Yeah. Yeah,
I just added that in there. That's dope daddy, not
baby daddy.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Father, father, father, god father. Okay, let's get on into
it with the checking. So the theory behind the checking is,
and I yo, I think for all of us because
we all like hustle all out here, grinding is it's
like the behind the scenes of the grind. Like people
don't ever ask you like, yo, you okay. It's like
(01:59):
what you do, what you've been doing, and I'm so
proud of you, but it's never like yo, are you okay?
And like really are you okay? So we do a
behind the scenes of the grind check in. We'll actually
let you go first and yes, how are you? And
you can't it can't be like a BS answer. It
has to be used one word to describe it and
then you can tell us why you use that one word.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
I'm momentous. I'm extremely momentous. Oh my god, I'm happy,
I'm excited, I'm curious, I'm feeling good. I'm originally from Baltimore.
Is a lot of like crazy shit going on back home. Yeah,
and it feels good to be in the New York
scene and riding a bike and feeling good about riding
(02:39):
the bike through the city. You know, Brooklyn got the
trees out. If you feel good in Brooklyn, I'm not
gonna lie. It's a great place in Brooklyn too.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
I used to Oh, yeah, Taylor is I'm happy.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Taylor has a family, She's in Jersey, She's with her husband.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
They got baby PJ on the way.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Dope. Congratulations to you.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Yeah, you're riding your bike in Brooklyn, so you're feeling good.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Do you feel like or do you ever feel like
like you look up riding a bike fresh air? You
hear with us every day at the breakfast club, you
shoot justice content. Are you ever just like man like
I didn't know where things would go at one point.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I feel like, honestly, I feel like I never know.
So that's why I say I'm curious. I like I
almost don't accept anything for being what it is. I'd
be like, this could change tomorrow. Got you So I'd
be like.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
That's our world though, that's.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
How it works. So I am grateful. I think the
number one thing. I think. It's like I'm grateful that
God gave me my POV. So I don't limit things
to a certain situation, like, oh, this situation is good, yeah,
but you.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Know I love that.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
I'm grateful that guy gave me my POV. I might
gotta tweet that we be doing some We got a
segment where we take things to like ex and social media.
I might need to figure out that, but okay, baby,
PJ and Taylor, how you feeling today?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
I think it's the last time. But productive, overwhelmingly productive.
It just it's always something I gotta do.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Are you anticipating, like like when you get into your
mom life, like how everything is going to adjust schedule
wise for you?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Like are you can you plan that? Like how does
that work? As parents? You can't?
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I don't think so, I mean it's just adjusting really,
Like before PJ, I have a dog as well, So
even having a dog dog, it is like.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
I've been a mom, I've been I've been outside period, Okay,
I've been here.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Well, today I'm feeling I'm still a bit.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Tired from traveling ling over the weekend, but today I'm
feeling just very at ease. I know that that's two words,
so I don't know, effortless Today I'm feeling effortless, really
really feeling good. So I want to get into the
latest because I'm excited for us to get to these
topics today, the latest right now, because y'all know I
(05:06):
love to take you out a court, lot to take
you out a court, I mean, Diddy, there's always updates.
We did an update earlier today on a Breakfast Club.
What's happening right now is because Puff is about to
go to court. His team is beginning to prepare paperwork
in different documents where they're talking to the judge and
kind of fighting back at prosecutors about certain claims because
(05:29):
they're setting up their defense. So on the Breakfast Club
this morning, I'm not going to recap it too much here,
but go take a look at that content on the
Breakfast Club's YouTube channel if you want to watch it.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
We talked about the fact that Diddy's.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Team is right now saying that he wasn't a he's
not a bad person. He didn't do anything illegal, he
didn't hurt anybody. Allegedly, he's just a swinger.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Period.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Now, now in these documents, Diddy's team is claiming that
did he lacked the mental capacity to commit any of
the crime, that they're a legend.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Yeah, Now what they're saying is that you have all
of these victims who are saying, Yo, I was druggs,
I was incoherent, I didn't know what was going on.
Puff's team is like, well, he was also using drugs.
He was also not incoherent when a lot of these
parties that he's a legend, he didn't do anything wrong
in but when these acts were going down a lot
(06:23):
of them, he couldn't remember or he's not in control
of himself fully either.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
My question is can he if that's the case, does
does that mean that okay, even if you did the crime,
can it be under insanity? Is that how that goes?
Something like?
Speaker 1 (06:38):
So basically what they're saying is that he's even if
this stuff were true, he was so wasted and he
was it was out of his control.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
A lot of these things one he's not going to recount,
but also too.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Yes, he's not able to make a lot of his
own decisions in a way that a person who is
sober would make. And he even has a doctor that
I guess is testifying or not testify. But in these
court documents they mentioned that there's a doctor who did
some sort of evaluations or I guess has some sort
of conversations about whatever it was.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
That he's a legend he was using. Then that talks
about why.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
He would have been unable to make certain decisions and
why certain things would have happened allegedly that he wasn't
in control.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
But what about the baby oil? So the drugs in
the baby oil is not a fact.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
The reason why that came up was because in one
of the lawsuits that was filed, one of the attorneys
said that there had been conversations and reports so reportedly
there was baby oil that was drugs. So they put
that in documents to basically create this whole narrative so
then they could present what their legend was done to
their client. But they're not saying that that happened to
(07:45):
their client. They're saying this man is notorious for ABC
and D. He has all this power and according to
what people are saying out in the world, he'd be
putting this like it goes as far as some throwing
things into the baby oil. But that wasn't a fact
or anything that was proven, nor would it alleged by
this other attorney that this happened to their client. They
just brought it up to paint a picture of him
(08:06):
as it's like horrible person. Okay, yeah, But here's.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
The thing though.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
In the documents that they filed the alleged condition, so
like in order for us to know like what he
was under the influence over or under, and like what
that did to him mentally, it's redacted, so you don't
really know. But basically they give some clues and then
the clues that they give that they give they say
prosecutor say legal precedent requires for the defense to give
(08:34):
proper notice before offering any evidence of effects of drugs
and alcohol on the defendant's memory or cognitive function.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
So the other side that wants.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
To sit Diddy down is like, I mean, we hear y'all,
but this is irrelevant number one, Number two if you're
gonna allege that he was under the influence of any
drugs or alcohol where he was unable to make cognitive
decisions for himself. There's a certain time period that you
have to do that within, and that wasn't done now
all of a sudden, y'all bringing it to the table.
So from that, TMC was able to read that and
(09:05):
be like, oh, the medical condition that he's claiming makes
him mentally in capable of making of having to or
make some mentally incapable of being able to commit these
crimes has to be drugs or alcohol because they say
this rule, tell her you ain't buying it.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
No, I mean, nothing's wrong, Like I don't wish to
see did he you know, under attack and nothing like
that either.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
And he apologized to pass on several times about like
about his dark days and his dark.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Times he said, he apologizing.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Yeah, like when he would get awards, he would always apologized.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
I feel like he timed to her that last time,
didn't you know what I'm talking about?
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Yeah, But see, this is the thing.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
But that's because the crimes came out, like all this
shit came out.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
No, they came out right after that.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
Yeah, but he's saying it because that came out right
after you taunting, because I remember when he did it.
I think it was the Grammys when he received that
award because he performed first and Young whatever it was
okay MTV, Yes, yes, I thought. I only this was
before the Castie beating video. I only thought that was
crazy because Young Miami was in exactly. I was like,
(10:14):
I feel like it was puff got a different type
of hold on the woman in his life because they
all just be hanging out in the in the backyard
and barbecues and.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Well the questions doesn't make him a criminal, that's what.
All of these things make him a criminal or some
vicious beasts.
Speaker 5 (10:30):
I think.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
I think that video makes that video makes it all stuff.
I didn't say that he's a toxic screws. I think
that the video makes him. Definitely, he definitely is a
like he's hell for that video. He deserves somebody, somebody
need to drag that dragon.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
But even then he's saying like, Okay, if I did
anything like any of these actions, I was doing drugs.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
But even in instill and and here's the thing, right,
because prosecutors are like, Okay, that's cute, Like we hear
you says that's cute, But what does that matter? Because
what they're what they probably are gonna argue these if
I'm if I'm a prosecutor, I want these defenses to come.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
They're easily you can easily take this down.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Number one, My first thought is, Okay, so you're admitting
that things may have happened, right, because now you leave
a great area that if I'm a prosecutor, I'm gonna
lean into because you're like, yo, he wasn't even coherent
enough to commit these crimes.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
But but these people over.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Here saying these crimes happen, So now this is great
area of Well, if they happened and you just weren't coherent,
does that matter?
Speaker 2 (11:34):
I just be thinking, right, if we both take drugs
and I do something that you didn't, like we're both drunk,
or how something like how much can you accuse me?
Like how much can you be? Like Yo, Diddy, I
was fucked up? Like you fuck me?
Speaker 1 (11:49):
But if we if we both high and you and
you make me have sex with a sex work and
I'm telling you I don't want to, or if you
there's a lot of people alleging that allegedly, and there's
a lot of people alleging that like there was like
violent rape print claims and like you know, like just
there's a lot of things being alleged. The people that
are alleging that they were taken from us, they and
made to have it, made to do things, and they
(12:10):
were threatened with like yo, I got videos of you allegedly, right,
just because we both high, don't mean that.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Yeah, this is the difference. It sounds like the way
the defenses making it seem like like, oh, it's just
the party. We always particke.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
That's what they're trying to lean into.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Yeah, that might not that might not really go to
well period, right, we understand that so well. And if
you present as a party, but then what if the
other team like, yeah, I was partying but then it
went too far.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
You can be partying and still you don't have to
be put allegedly these things that people are claiming was
done to them.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
You could be at a party and that still does
not have to happen to you.
Speaker 2 (12:45):
Yeah, if I wor.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
It's the OG scenario, if I wear a short skirt,
that don't mean that I want you to go up
my skirt.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Fuck all right, I.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Mean that's deep. I mean, like what you're going to do.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
My goal is to be in the actual try when
it starts. Yeah, I reached out. I'm trying to be visit.
I don't want to visit Diddy.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
I mean, I just I don't. I mean I do
a sit down interview.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Mean bring audio, but zero you can't.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Yeah, you can't do that.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
I didn't know why you were asking me can I
visit him? Actually, was like, hold up, like.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
What's what's going on? I did it before?
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Why are you telling my business?
Speaker 2 (13:31):
No? No, oh, so visited.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
I didn't visit Diddy before. But I've gone on visits before.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
You know what before?
Speaker 3 (13:41):
Did he like, I've just been to visits before. Everybody has.
I haven't.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
I went to it. I mean, my j I've never been.
It's not that it's not that bad before. It's not
that bad to sit down with.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
All right, we're gonna me. I don't honestly understand what
even got here.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
Let's go back one second, though, So what all his
defenses right now we know.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Is that he's a swinger and he didn't connect commit
any crimes like they were just basically like, this is
just his lifestyle and it's unfair to throw the crimes
attached with just a lifestyle that this man was living
and that he is not mentally he wasn't mentally capable
of orchestrating these crimes at the time because of drugs
and or alcohol.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
All right, my last question, do you think this is
being said to sway the public like people that are
swingers could understand and people that do do drugs could understand.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Yeah, but do you think it's gonna work?
Speaker 1 (14:32):
And I just said to you over the left, do
you hear the words it's coming out of my mouth?
Speaker 3 (14:35):
Anything I just said to you?
Speaker 5 (14:37):
Did?
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Did Did that change how you felt about the case.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
I actually have a unique opinion about the case that I.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
Rather he's a black man being taken down. That's not unique.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
That's every every black every black person that still who
was a noodles feel like that.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Number one number one, I agree, all right, I don't
think they getting a fair case. I don't eat it
was a noodles, so boom.
Speaker 3 (14:59):
But did the chicken flavor?
Speaker 2 (15:01):
Never?
Speaker 3 (15:02):
You never have shrimp and add okay.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
Onions and salary with cheese.
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Okay, So people that do that.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
The movement of this he's take they trying to take
a black mobile down is strong in certain parts of
the streets go hairs is what the Grand Rising Kings
and the packs.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Yeah, I'm neither. I'm neither. Okay, I'm neither. I just think.
I just think that. I think I don't know. We're
just gonna see what happened when all this ship comes
to the surface. And I do think he is gonna
get released, and I think he's gonna be back to
Diddy as usual.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
I don't think so he's not gonna even if he
gets released.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
I do think he's gonna get off some of these
allegations because the cases are falling apart, because some people
are just trying to, you know what I mean, get
a saying no Diddy now.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
Yeah, trying to get it.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
But I don't right into that ship.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
I don't think it's ever going to be the same
after this.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
If he was to come home to there tomorrow, he
could still there's an audience of people that, you know
what I mean, but it's not.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
Going to be the same.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
You had to come home, and then he had to
come out of the closet. That's number one. And then
once you come out of the closet, then you're good.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Oh my god, I all right. Moving on. So they
answer your question.
Speaker 5 (16:09):
Though.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
The racketeering conspiracy was that he engaged in sex traffick
and forced labor, kidnapping RS and bribery, obstruction of justice
in a couple other crimes.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
Yeah, now moving on, so Ar.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Lennox was asked a question during a live stream, and
this question I didn't even know that this was happening
with her. She was talking about whether she would date
girls again, and she revealed that when says, when that's
what I'm saying. I didn't even know how he is
my girl. Right, we're gonna take a listen. She revealed
that she actually wouldn't and she's gonna tell.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Us why how do people know that she was dating girl?
I didn't know. I had no idea.
Speaker 5 (16:52):
Wazi Moto says, would you still give dating a woman
a shot?
Speaker 3 (16:58):
No, thirsty, Yes, that's sick.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
No.
Speaker 5 (17:05):
I tried for like one second, like getting to know
this person this year, and then it was like weird,
and then I just felt like insecure and I was like, nah,
I'm good.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
I feel like I feel like guys, sorry a lot.
Let me just stick to what I know.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
I feel like women.
Speaker 5 (17:35):
It's like hard, I don't understand them. You know, I
don't even understand myself.
Speaker 3 (17:40):
But I've always been told that women dating women.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
Works, especially sexually, because as a woman, you know what
you need sexually as a woman, right, So I can
only imagine, like mentally, like we know how each other
think a bit, like we're different people, but like it's
certain things that I'm like as a woman, I can
predict a person will feel think in certain situations. So
how don't you How do you better understand men in
(18:07):
dating them than women when you're a woman.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
Well, I think that women understand men very well too.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
You do think that most women are.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
So intuitive and they know what most men want and
how to give it to them and please them in
certain ways. That girls in.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
Brooklyn taking care of you, Yeah, because most men that
I talk to don't have that same sentiment. Like a
lot of men that I talk to feel like, especially today,
like I'm thirty three.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
How old are you those I'm thirty four?
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Thirty three?
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Okay, I feel like a lot of the men that
I talk to in our age group and low Riders
if you're listening, that's the name of our community, our audience,
Low Riders.
Speaker 3 (18:47):
If you're listening, I want to know men.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
Let me know if you feel like women are how
low sent like, They're very intuitive. They know how to
please the man. They know what to meet a man needs.
At this point in your life, wherever you are dating
and how old you are? I want to know, tweet me, Instagram,
all that stuff. Laura Rosa, Right, men are telling me
that the complete opposite that they are encountering women who.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Just don't know how to fulfill their needs.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
A lot of it, though, is men are just starting
to realize what their needs actually are.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
It's the part that women are struggling with right now
that men are finally being vulnerable with their emotions. And
I think women sometimes and it's not all women, because
Black women specifically are not monolithic, right is that the word?
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (19:32):
And so some of them understand how to address the
man's emotions, while others have never been taught that because
their mother wasn't, you know, locked in with their father
good with emotions, and then their father didn't open up
as much, so they don't know how to like nurture.
And I think it all comes back to family.
Speaker 4 (19:53):
Yeah, And I just think some women is don't they
could know what a guy likes where they don't care
because a lot of people are selfish.
Speaker 2 (19:59):
Now, yeah, and that's the other thing, like we're looking
at this generation and I include our generation too, it's
like people just want something like people it's all about them.
It's about them and what's good for them, and it's
like yo. And then also on the other side, the
guys are not actually serious, like men are.
Speaker 3 (20:19):
Not like people are not serious.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
Tana used to tell me all the time, like when
I've been talking about dating and relationships, she'd be like, girl,
do you even want to do you really want even
one of relationship serious?
Speaker 3 (20:31):
Like are you because you just out here playing around?
Speaker 1 (20:34):
And I will say, I mean I was, but I
was playing around even though I was seriously like I
was seriously dating people, but like not to be with
forever exactly, like I was just doing it, Like I was, like,
you can't like you you Definitely there was a certain
level of like dating that I required, like I need,
(20:55):
you know what I mean, Like I want to do
certain things.
Speaker 3 (20:57):
I need certain consistency and attention.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
But I'm I'm okay if this doesn't last forever, because
like I'm not there right now. But also I just
didn't feel like none of the people I was meeting
was like there at that.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
Point, I feel like women in their thirties specifically, they
know what they want right, and a lot of them
don't do what it takes to get what they want.
Oh yeah, they don't. They don't be patient. They don't
like and by patience I mean like waiting for the
right guy to come. They'll date all these people, and
some of the guys will be a good like good
god good fit, but you won't lock in with them
(21:28):
because ABCD or he ain't got a ship together yet.
Oh this, but you're not willing to lock in with
them and help them.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
I'm not like that though. I'm not like that. Oh yeah,
I don't think it's a woman or men.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
No, I think men or particular about who they lock like.
They might have a bunch of different women and men
compartment Men aalize say this all the time. Men compartmentalize
a lot better. Yeah, And everybody's gonna feel however you
want them to feel, whether it's good, whether it's like
just for fun, whatever. But men know how they're dealing
(22:00):
with a person. But I will say one thing that
I realized about men and women. I agree with you
about women and how we are as far as like
we'll know we want but like we don't want to
build all the time. But I think number one, not
all women are that way, and some of us women
get to a point, especially about our thirties, where we've
tried to do that. I know my mind. For me,
I tried to do that and it didn't get to
(22:21):
the point that I wanted it to get to. So
I stepped away from that person. But that doesn't change
the fact that I'm still willing to build with somebody.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
I feel like a little bit. So would you go
date on the other side, would you date a woman?
I would not date a woman I do.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
I do think that like every I think every girl
has like a I want to try it like sexual urge,
not urge, but it's like curiosity.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
No.
Speaker 4 (22:46):
See, I could look at a girl like, yo, she's gorgeous,
but it means I don't want to fuck her though,
like you know what I mean, Like that's I don't
feel like that.
Speaker 3 (22:53):
Okay, that's that.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Yeah, Well let's talk about a right real quick though. Right,
So she says she wouldn't go back to the other side.
Why do you think that?
Speaker 1 (23:02):
Because she basically said, it's enough problems where she at.
She can't even figure men out. Now she she can't
figure women out, so she's gonna stay where she at.
I thought it was interesting that she said she was.
It made hurt she was insecure, and I don't know
if it's because but why though girls exactly makeup and
all that ship, Like do men get insecure about women
(23:24):
who like other women? Because now you got compete with
both sexists, not me with our Lennox is like, I
don't understand what you're insecure about because like it's our girls.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
You could also go date.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
A guy our Lenox also shows her insecurities as an artist,
you know what I mean. I feel like she's very
vulnerable and her body is natural. She had to make
noise about the same thing with the Corey girl. I
know that's not the topic, but Coryler, I feel like
there's a level of insecurity nowadays when you have to
embrace yourself in the way you look as a woman,
when you're all natural, natural makeup, compare yourself to the
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girl you mean, and the girl is there to the
other girl that and you don't know, you don't. I
just feel like men just do things deffinitely right. I'm
gonna just say it like I feel like, no, I'm
just saying but the affirmations that we give come from
a different place, and people are going to disagree with
me on that. But I do feel like men supply
women with a certain level of masculinity that's very unique
(24:20):
to men. I feel like, yeah, women can play a
masculine role or be masculine or show I watch my words,
but like show a way that like men are, but
they can never be that, you know what I mean? Like,
as a man, how we demonstrate our masculinity And I couldn't.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
That's why I don't think I could date a woman,
because I think that there are certain things, that certain
energy that a man gives off, even if he can
be your presence and I say nothing, it's a certain
energy that you get from your men that like it's
just I was, I was, I was.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
Some people enjoy that. That's weird to me. I want
to scissor.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
Yeah, yeah, I don't want And that's even worse to me.
Speaker 3 (25:06):
Give me the real thing.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
All that is terrible.
Speaker 3 (25:10):
To each his own. Yeah, And I want to say.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
I said it's terrible. It's not that terrible.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
I want to say too.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
For the record, I just I just, you know, I'll
be over here googling because it bothered me that I
couldn't figure out what stream she was on. And then
I said, looking, this clip is actually from September twenty
twenty four, but it's.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
Going ReViral again. Oh yeah, yeah, So I just wanted
to clarify that.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
But man, shout out to Ari Lennox. I feel like
she's a real woman, like she's staying on business. To me,
she's singing her heart out. She's vulnerable. She makes great
love music. I seen a white girl in Brooklyn singing
her music. So she affecting the whole world. People want
to be like her, and enough people don't embrace it.
So shout I like her, Yeah, I love her.
Speaker 3 (25:49):
I like her. You know what she ain't doing no more?
Get back to that, dick.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Oh is the ship period?
Speaker 3 (25:58):
Period?
Speaker 2 (25:59):
Well, you know, way i'd be at all right?
Speaker 3 (26:01):
What? All right? I don't nobody want like what?
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (26:07):
Okay, speaking of period outside in the streets or the tweets,
that was a great segue.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Outside we outside, we.
Speaker 2 (26:17):
Outside outside every other page.
Speaker 1 (26:21):
So the lowriders on X are going off about that tweet,
I tweeted, I'm so grateful God has given me my
point of view. I took that from Lows earlier in
the episode. I thought that it was a fire line,
so I tweeted it out. Oh okay, this is m
VP of b P of p BT on X says saying,
mindset is everything in all caps.
Speaker 3 (26:42):
Your perception is your reality.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
Then Foxy Oxy said me too, giving me so much
broad outlook instead of the one that fits and pacifies
my world as the absolute best feeling they feeling this
one line, the little they feeling it, you're gonna put
you should The girls is going off about it.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Literally, let me hear what they gotta say.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
I just told you what was a segment?
Speaker 2 (27:06):
Did you miss it?
Speaker 1 (27:09):
It hit that fast it came in, It went all right, y'all.
This has been another episode of.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
They see Darius.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
Slow not slow. I'm quick as ship.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
I was outside the box thinker.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
That's right, I know, that's right, all right, shout out
to God.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
I mean it's always shout out to God. But like
like that was.
Speaker 2 (27:35):
Rendo, Thank God for my p P o V. Outside
the box shout right.
Speaker 3 (27:42):
Well, but I would say, whatever we learned from this episode.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
But I think what we've learned is what y'all, if
you're gonna do a swingers party, don't invite our Lenux
and don't do drugs.
Speaker 3 (27:56):
Okay, that is it.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
You know, No, they're a little bit more degal more substance.
But you know, I'm not mad at that. I think
that's good advice. I don't think she would come anyway.
And you should definitely be safe anywhere you swinging anything.
So that has been the latest with Laura Rosa. I'm
Lena Rosa. I tell you, guys, just every episode because
I mean it. At the end of the day, there's
always a lot to talk about. If every single time
(28:18):
you choose to be right here with me talk about it,
I appreciate y'all. I'm a homegrowd and know it's a
bit about everything and everybody. I will see you guys
on my next episode.
I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about everything
and everybody.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
You know, if you don't lie about that? Right? Lauren
came in.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Hey, y'all was up? I'm Lauren Rosa. This is the
latest with Lauren Rosa.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I'm a homegirl that knows a bit about everything and everybody.
And today, as always, I got your daily dig on
everything pop culture, all the conversations that shake the room
and joining me to do so. Taylor Taylor made it
as back my Lovely podcast producer and baby PJ.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Yes, wow, and Low's a.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Whole baby on the way. Is crazy?
Speaker 3 (00:36):
What you got?
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Congratulations?
Speaker 3 (00:38):
She got PJ.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
I got babies every day?
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Okay, you're making babies every day? No, I just got
something Okay, all right, well.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
This is Low So Loos introduce yourself to the audience.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
I'm call those poke from Baltimore, Maryland with up everybody.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
What did you get a last name?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
We I never call home Carlos.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
What call those poke?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Poke?
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Scott?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Scott?
Speaker 4 (01:01):
I never knew your I call him Darius, Darrie she
called why tell her in here?
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Just be making stuff up? Darius. You see the show
at yeah?
Speaker 5 (01:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:11):
You remember you don't act like Darius, I don't remember
it fully.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Okay, y'all see, y'all will see, I promise you at
the end of the show.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
The first two.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Well, yeah, so tell the people what you do, okay.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
So I'm a videographer, photographer, creative director, I produce all righte,
I do set design, and I'm a father of too. Yeah. Yeah,
I just added that in there. That's dope daddy, not
baby daddy.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Father, father, father, god father. Okay, let's get on into
it with the checking. So the theory behind the checking is,
and I yo, I think for all of us because
we all like hustle all out here, grinding is it's
like the behind the scenes of the grind. Like people
don't ever ask you like, yo, you okay. It's like
(01:59):
what you do, what you've been doing, and I'm so
proud of you, but it's never like yo, are you okay?
And like really are you okay? So we do a
behind the scenes of the grind check in. We'll actually
let you go first and yes, how are you? And
you can't it can't be like a BS answer. It
has to be used one word to describe it and
then you can tell us why you use that one word.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
I'm momentous. I'm extremely momentous. Oh my god, I'm happy,
I'm excited, I'm curious, I'm feeling good. I'm originally from Baltimore.
Is a lot of like crazy shit going on back home. Yeah,
and it feels good to be in the New York
scene and riding a bike and feeling good about riding
(02:39):
the bike through the city. You know, Brooklyn got the
trees out. If you feel good in Brooklyn, I'm not
gonna lie. It's a great place in Brooklyn too.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
I used to Oh, yeah, Taylor is I'm happy.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Taylor has a family, She's in Jersey, She's with her husband.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
They got baby PJ on the way.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Dope. Congratulations to you.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Yeah, you're riding your bike in Brooklyn, so you're feeling good.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Do you feel like or do you ever feel like
like you look up riding a bike fresh air? You
hear with us every day at the breakfast club, you
shoot justice content. Are you ever just like man like
I didn't know where things would go at one point.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I feel like, honestly, I feel like I never know.
So that's why I say I'm curious. I like I
almost don't accept anything for being what it is. I'd
be like, this could change tomorrow. Got you So I'd
be like.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
That's our world though, that's.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
How it works. So I am grateful. I think the
number one thing. I think. It's like I'm grateful that
God gave me my POV. So I don't limit things
to a certain situation, like, oh, this situation is good, yeah,
but you.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Know I love that.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
I'm grateful that guy gave me my POV. I might
gotta tweet that we be doing some We got a
segment where we take things to like ex and social media.
I might need to figure out that, but okay, baby,
PJ and Taylor, how you feeling today?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
I think it's the last time. But productive, overwhelmingly productive.
It just it's always something I gotta do.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Are you anticipating, like like when you get into your
mom life, like how everything is going to adjust schedule
wise for you?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Like are you can you plan that? Like how does
that work? As parents? You can't?
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I don't think so, I mean it's just adjusting really,
Like before PJ, I have a dog as well, So
even having a dog dog, it is like.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
I've been a mom, I've been I've been outside period, Okay,
I've been here.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Well, today I'm feeling I'm still a bit.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Tired from traveling ling over the weekend, but today I'm
feeling just very at ease. I know that that's two words,
so I don't know, effortless Today I'm feeling effortless, really
really feeling good. So I want to get into the
latest because I'm excited for us to get to these
topics today, the latest right now, because y'all know I
(05:06):
love to take you out a court, lot to take
you out a court, I mean, Diddy, there's always updates.
We did an update earlier today on a Breakfast Club.
What's happening right now is because Puff is about to
go to court. His team is beginning to prepare paperwork
in different documents where they're talking to the judge and
kind of fighting back at prosecutors about certain claims because
(05:29):
they're setting up their defense. So on the Breakfast Club
this morning, I'm not going to recap it too much here,
but go take a look at that content on the
Breakfast Club's YouTube channel if you want to watch it.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
We talked about the fact that Diddy's.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Team is right now saying that he wasn't a he's
not a bad person. He didn't do anything illegal, he
didn't hurt anybody. Allegedly, he's just a swinger.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Period.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Now, now in these documents, Diddy's team is claiming that
did he lacked the mental capacity to commit any of
the crime, that they're a legend.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Yeah, Now what they're saying is that you have all
of these victims who are saying, Yo, I was druggs,
I was incoherent, I didn't know what was going on.
Puff's team is like, well, he was also using drugs.
He was also not incoherent when a lot of these
parties that he's a legend, he didn't do anything wrong
in but when these acts were going down a lot
(06:23):
of them, he couldn't remember or he's not in control
of himself fully either.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
My question is can he if that's the case, does
does that mean that okay, even if you did the crime,
can it be under insanity? Is that how that goes?
Something like?
Speaker 1 (06:38):
So basically what they're saying is that he's even if
this stuff were true, he was so wasted and he
was it was out of his control.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
A lot of these things one he's not going to recount,
but also too.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Yes, he's not able to make a lot of his
own decisions in a way that a person who is
sober would make. And he even has a doctor that
I guess is testifying or not testify. But in these
court documents they mentioned that there's a doctor who did
some sort of evaluations or I guess has some sort
of conversations about whatever it was.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
That he's a legend he was using. Then that talks
about why.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
He would have been unable to make certain decisions and
why certain things would have happened allegedly that he wasn't
in control.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
But what about the baby oil? So the drugs in
the baby oil is not a fact.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
The reason why that came up was because in one
of the lawsuits that was filed, one of the attorneys
said that there had been conversations and reports so reportedly
there was baby oil that was drugs. So they put
that in documents to basically create this whole narrative so
then they could present what their legend was done to
their client. But they're not saying that that happened to
(07:45):
their client. They're saying this man is notorious for ABC
and D. He has all this power and according to
what people are saying out in the world, he'd be
putting this like it goes as far as some throwing
things into the baby oil. But that wasn't a fact
or anything that was proven, nor would it alleged by
this other attorney that this happened to their client. They
just brought it up to paint a picture of him
(08:06):
as it's like horrible person. Okay, yeah, But here's.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
The thing though.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
In the documents that they filed the alleged condition, so
like in order for us to know like what he
was under the influence over or under, and like what
that did to him mentally, it's redacted, so you don't
really know. But basically they give some clues and then
the clues that they give that they give they say
prosecutor say legal precedent requires for the defense to give
(08:34):
proper notice before offering any evidence of effects of drugs
and alcohol on the defendant's memory or cognitive function.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
So the other side that wants.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
To sit Diddy down is like, I mean, we hear y'all,
but this is irrelevant number one, Number two if you're
gonna allege that he was under the influence of any
drugs or alcohol where he was unable to make cognitive
decisions for himself. There's a certain time period that you
have to do that within, and that wasn't done now
all of a sudden, y'all bringing it to the table.
So from that, TMC was able to read that and
(09:05):
be like, oh, the medical condition that he's claiming makes
him mentally in capable of making of having to or
make some mentally incapable of being able to commit these
crimes has to be drugs or alcohol because they say
this rule, tell her you ain't buying it.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
No, I mean, nothing's wrong, Like I don't wish to
see did he you know, under attack and nothing like
that either.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
And he apologized to pass on several times about like
about his dark days and his dark.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Times he said, he apologizing.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Yeah, like when he would get awards, he would always apologized.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
I feel like he timed to her that last time,
didn't you know what I'm talking about?
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Yeah, But see, this is the thing.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
But that's because the crimes came out, like all this
shit came out.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
No, they came out right after that.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
Yeah, but he's saying it because that came out right
after you taunting, because I remember when he did it.
I think it was the Grammys when he received that
award because he performed first and Young whatever it was
okay MTV, Yes, yes, I thought. I only this was
before the Castie beating video. I only thought that was
crazy because Young Miami was in exactly. I was like,
(10:14):
I feel like it was puff got a different type
of hold on the woman in his life because they
all just be hanging out in the in the backyard
and barbecues and.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Well the questions doesn't make him a criminal, that's what.
All of these things make him a criminal or some
vicious beasts.
Speaker 5 (10:30):
I think.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
I think that video makes that video makes it all stuff.
I didn't say that he's a toxic screws. I think
that the video makes him. Definitely, he definitely is a
like he's hell for that video. He deserves somebody, somebody
need to drag that dragon.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
But even then he's saying like, Okay, if I did
anything like any of these actions, I was doing drugs.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
But even in instill and and here's the thing, right,
because prosecutors are like, Okay, that's cute, Like we hear
you says that's cute, But what does that matter? Because
what they're what they probably are gonna argue these if
I'm if I'm a prosecutor, I want these defenses to come.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
They're easily you can easily take this down.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Number one, My first thought is, Okay, so you're admitting
that things may have happened, right, because now you leave
a great area that if I'm a prosecutor, I'm gonna
lean into because you're like, yo, he wasn't even coherent
enough to commit these crimes.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
But but these people over.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Here saying these crimes happen, So now this is great
area of Well, if they happened and you just weren't coherent,
does that matter?
Speaker 2 (11:34):
I just be thinking, right, if we both take drugs
and I do something that you didn't, like we're both drunk,
or how something like how much can you accuse me?
Like how much can you be? Like Yo, Diddy, I
was fucked up? Like you fuck me?
Speaker 1 (11:49):
But if we if we both high and you and
you make me have sex with a sex work and
I'm telling you I don't want to, or if you
there's a lot of people alleging that allegedly, and there's
a lot of people alleging that like there was like
violent rape print claims and like you know, like just
there's a lot of things being alleged. The people that
are alleging that they were taken from us, they and
made to have it, made to do things, and they
(12:10):
were threatened with like yo, I got videos of you allegedly, right,
just because we both high, don't mean that.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Yeah, this is the difference. It sounds like the way
the defenses making it seem like like, oh, it's just
the party. We always particke.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
That's what they're trying to lean into.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Yeah, that might not that might not really go to
well period, right, we understand that so well. And if
you present as a party, but then what if the
other team like, yeah, I was partying but then it
went too far.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
You can be partying and still you don't have to
be put allegedly these things that people are claiming was
done to them.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
You could be at a party and that still does
not have to happen to you.
Speaker 2 (12:45):
Yeah, if I wor.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
It's the OG scenario, if I wear a short skirt,
that don't mean that I want you to go up
my skirt.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Fuck all right, I.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Mean that's deep. I mean, like what you're going to do.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
My goal is to be in the actual try when
it starts. Yeah, I reached out. I'm trying to be visit.
I don't want to visit Diddy.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
I mean, I just I don't. I mean I do
a sit down interview.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Mean bring audio, but zero you can't.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Yeah, you can't do that.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
I didn't know why you were asking me can I
visit him? Actually, was like, hold up, like.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
What's what's going on? I did it before?
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Why are you telling my business?
Speaker 2 (13:31):
No? No, oh, so visited.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
I didn't visit Diddy before. But I've gone on visits before.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
You know what before?
Speaker 3 (13:41):
Did he like, I've just been to visits before. Everybody has.
I haven't.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
I went to it. I mean, my j I've never been.
It's not that it's not that bad before. It's not
that bad to sit down with.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
All right, we're gonna me. I don't honestly understand what
even got here.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
Let's go back one second, though, So what all his
defenses right now we know.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Is that he's a swinger and he didn't connect commit
any crimes like they were just basically like, this is
just his lifestyle and it's unfair to throw the crimes
attached with just a lifestyle that this man was living
and that he is not mentally he wasn't mentally capable
of orchestrating these crimes at the time because of drugs
and or alcohol.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
All right, my last question, do you think this is
being said to sway the public like people that are
swingers could understand and people that do do drugs could understand.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Yeah, but do you think it's gonna work?
Speaker 1 (14:32):
And I just said to you over the left, do
you hear the words it's coming out of my mouth?
Speaker 3 (14:35):
Anything I just said to you?
Speaker 5 (14:37):
Did?
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Did Did that change how you felt about the case.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
I actually have a unique opinion about the case that I.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
Rather he's a black man being taken down. That's not unique.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
That's every every black every black person that still who
was a noodles feel like that.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Number one number one, I agree, all right, I don't
think they getting a fair case. I don't eat it
was a noodles, so boom.
Speaker 3 (14:59):
But did the chicken flavor?
Speaker 2 (15:01):
Never?
Speaker 3 (15:02):
You never have shrimp and add okay.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
Onions and salary with cheese.
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Okay, So people that do that.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
The movement of this he's take they trying to take
a black mobile down is strong in certain parts of
the streets go hairs is what the Grand Rising Kings
and the packs.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Yeah, I'm neither. I'm neither. Okay, I'm neither. I just think.
I just think that. I think I don't know. We're
just gonna see what happened when all this ship comes
to the surface. And I do think he is gonna
get released, and I think he's gonna be back to
Diddy as usual.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
I don't think so he's not gonna even if he
gets released.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
I do think he's gonna get off some of these
allegations because the cases are falling apart, because some people
are just trying to, you know what I mean, get
a saying no Diddy now.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
Yeah, trying to get it.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
But I don't right into that ship.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
I don't think it's ever going to be the same
after this.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
If he was to come home to there tomorrow, he
could still there's an audience of people that, you know
what I mean, but it's not.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
Going to be the same.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
You had to come home, and then he had to
come out of the closet. That's number one. And then
once you come out of the closet, then you're good.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Oh my god, I all right. Moving on. So they
answer your question.
Speaker 5 (16:09):
Though.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
The racketeering conspiracy was that he engaged in sex traffick
and forced labor, kidnapping RS and bribery, obstruction of justice
in a couple other crimes.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
Yeah, now moving on, so Ar.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Lennox was asked a question during a live stream, and
this question I didn't even know that this was happening
with her. She was talking about whether she would date
girls again, and she revealed that when says, when that's
what I'm saying. I didn't even know how he is
my girl. Right, we're gonna take a listen. She revealed
that she actually wouldn't and she's gonna tell.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Us why how do people know that she was dating girl?
I didn't know. I had no idea.
Speaker 5 (16:52):
Wazi Moto says, would you still give dating a woman
a shot?
Speaker 3 (16:58):
No, thirsty, Yes, that's sick.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
No.
Speaker 5 (17:05):
I tried for like one second, like getting to know
this person this year, and then it was like weird,
and then I just felt like insecure and I was like, nah,
I'm good.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
I feel like I feel like guys, sorry a lot.
Let me just stick to what I know.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
I feel like women.
Speaker 5 (17:35):
It's like hard, I don't understand them. You know, I
don't even understand myself.
Speaker 3 (17:40):
But I've always been told that women dating women.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
Works, especially sexually, because as a woman, you know what
you need sexually as a woman, right, So I can
only imagine, like mentally, like we know how each other
think a bit, like we're different people, but like it's
certain things that I'm like as a woman, I can
predict a person will feel think in certain situations. So
how don't you How do you better understand men in
(18:07):
dating them than women when you're a woman.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
Well, I think that women understand men very well too.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
You do think that most women are.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
So intuitive and they know what most men want and
how to give it to them and please them in
certain ways. That girls in.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
Brooklyn taking care of you, Yeah, because most men that
I talk to don't have that same sentiment. Like a
lot of men that I talk to feel like, especially today,
like I'm thirty three.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
How old are you those I'm thirty four?
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Thirty three?
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Okay, I feel like a lot of the men that
I talk to in our age group and low Riders
if you're listening, that's the name of our community, our audience,
Low Riders.
Speaker 3 (18:47):
If you're listening, I want to know men.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
Let me know if you feel like women are how
low sent like, They're very intuitive. They know how to
please the man. They know what to meet a man needs.
At this point in your life, wherever you are dating
and how old you are? I want to know, tweet me, Instagram,
all that stuff. Laura Rosa, Right, men are telling me
that the complete opposite that they are encountering women who.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Just don't know how to fulfill their needs.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
A lot of it, though, is men are just starting
to realize what their needs actually are.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
It's the part that women are struggling with right now
that men are finally being vulnerable with their emotions. And
I think women sometimes and it's not all women, because
Black women specifically are not monolithic, right is that the word?
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (19:32):
And so some of them understand how to address the
man's emotions, while others have never been taught that because
their mother wasn't, you know, locked in with their father
good with emotions, and then their father didn't open up
as much, so they don't know how to like nurture.
And I think it all comes back to family.
Speaker 4 (19:53):
Yeah, And I just think some women is don't they
could know what a guy likes where they don't care
because a lot of people are selfish.
Speaker 2 (19:59):
Now, yeah, and that's the other thing, like we're looking
at this generation and I include our generation too, it's
like people just want something like people it's all about them.
It's about them and what's good for them, and it's
like yo. And then also on the other side, the
guys are not actually serious, like men are.
Speaker 3 (20:19):
Not like people are not serious.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
Tana used to tell me all the time, like when
I've been talking about dating and relationships, she'd be like, girl,
do you even want to do you really want even
one of relationship serious?
Speaker 3 (20:31):
Like are you because you just out here playing around?
Speaker 1 (20:34):
And I will say, I mean I was, but I
was playing around even though I was seriously like I
was seriously dating people, but like not to be with
forever exactly, like I was just doing it, Like I was, like,
you can't like you you Definitely there was a certain
level of like dating that I required, like I need,
(20:55):
you know what I mean, Like I want to do
certain things.
Speaker 3 (20:57):
I need certain consistency and attention.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
But I'm I'm okay if this doesn't last forever, because
like I'm not there right now. But also I just
didn't feel like none of the people I was meeting
was like there at that.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
Point, I feel like women in their thirties specifically, they
know what they want right, and a lot of them
don't do what it takes to get what they want.
Oh yeah, they don't. They don't be patient. They don't
like and by patience I mean like waiting for the
right guy to come. They'll date all these people, and
some of the guys will be a good like good
god good fit, but you won't lock in with them
(21:28):
because ABCD or he ain't got a ship together yet.
Oh this, but you're not willing to lock in with
them and help them.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
I'm not like that though. I'm not like that. Oh yeah,
I don't think it's a woman or men.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
No, I think men or particular about who they lock like.
They might have a bunch of different women and men
compartment Men aalize say this all the time. Men compartmentalize
a lot better. Yeah, And everybody's gonna feel however you
want them to feel, whether it's good, whether it's like
just for fun, whatever. But men know how they're dealing
(22:00):
with a person. But I will say one thing that
I realized about men and women. I agree with you
about women and how we are as far as like
we'll know we want but like we don't want to
build all the time. But I think number one, not
all women are that way, and some of us women
get to a point, especially about our thirties, where we've
tried to do that. I know my mind. For me,
I tried to do that and it didn't get to
(22:21):
the point that I wanted it to get to. So
I stepped away from that person. But that doesn't change
the fact that I'm still willing to build with somebody.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
I feel like a little bit. So would you go
date on the other side, would you date a woman?
I would not date a woman I do.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
I do think that like every I think every girl
has like a I want to try it like sexual urge,
not urge, but it's like curiosity.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
No.
Speaker 4 (22:46):
See, I could look at a girl like, yo, she's gorgeous,
but it means I don't want to fuck her though,
like you know what I mean, Like that's I don't
feel like that.
Speaker 3 (22:53):
Okay, that's that.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Yeah, Well let's talk about a right real quick though. Right,
So she says she wouldn't go back to the other side.
Why do you think that?
Speaker 1 (23:02):
Because she basically said, it's enough problems where she at.
She can't even figure men out. Now she she can't
figure women out, so she's gonna stay where she at.
I thought it was interesting that she said she was.
It made hurt she was insecure, and I don't know
if it's because but why though girls exactly makeup and
all that ship, Like do men get insecure about women
(23:24):
who like other women? Because now you got compete with
both sexists, not me with our Lennox is like, I
don't understand what you're insecure about because like it's our girls.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
You could also go date.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
A guy our Lenox also shows her insecurities as an artist,
you know what I mean. I feel like she's very
vulnerable and her body is natural. She had to make
noise about the same thing with the Corey girl. I
know that's not the topic, but Coryler, I feel like
there's a level of insecurity nowadays when you have to
embrace yourself in the way you look as a woman,
when you're all natural, natural makeup, compare yourself to the
(23:57):
girl you mean, and the girl is there to the
other girl that and you don't know, you don't. I
just feel like men just do things deffinitely right. I'm
gonna just say it like I feel like, no, I'm
just saying but the affirmations that we give come from
a different place, and people are going to disagree with
me on that. But I do feel like men supply
women with a certain level of masculinity that's very unique
(24:20):
to men. I feel like, yeah, women can play a
masculine role or be masculine or show I watch my words,
but like show a way that like men are, but
they can never be that, you know what I mean? Like,
as a man, how we demonstrate our masculinity And I couldn't.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
That's why I don't think I could date a woman,
because I think that there are certain things, that certain
energy that a man gives off, even if he can
be your presence and I say nothing, it's a certain
energy that you get from your men that like it's
just I was, I was, I was.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
Some people enjoy that. That's weird to me. I want
to scissor.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
Yeah, yeah, I don't want And that's even worse to me.
Speaker 3 (25:06):
Give me the real thing.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
All that is terrible.
Speaker 3 (25:10):
To each his own. Yeah, And I want to say.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
I said it's terrible. It's not that terrible.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
I want to say too.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
For the record, I just I just, you know, I'll
be over here googling because it bothered me that I
couldn't figure out what stream she was on. And then
I said, looking, this clip is actually from September twenty
twenty four, but it's.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
Going ReViral again. Oh yeah, yeah, So I just wanted
to clarify that.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
But man, shout out to Ari Lennox. I feel like
she's a real woman, like she's staying on business. To me,
she's singing her heart out. She's vulnerable. She makes great
love music. I seen a white girl in Brooklyn singing
her music. So she affecting the whole world. People want
to be like her, and enough people don't embrace it.
So shout I like her, Yeah, I love her.
Speaker 3 (25:49):
I like her. You know what she ain't doing no more?
Get back to that, dick.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Oh is the ship period?
Speaker 3 (25:58):
Period?
Speaker 2 (25:59):
Well, you know, way i'd be at all right?
Speaker 3 (26:01):
What? All right? I don't nobody want like what?
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (26:07):
Okay, speaking of period outside in the streets or the tweets,
that was a great segue.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Outside we outside, we.
Speaker 2 (26:17):
Outside outside every other page.
Speaker 1 (26:21):
So the lowriders on X are going off about that tweet,
I tweeted, I'm so grateful God has given me my
point of view. I took that from Lows earlier in
the episode. I thought that it was a fire line,
so I tweeted it out. Oh okay, this is m
VP of b P of p BT on X says saying,
mindset is everything in all caps.
Speaker 3 (26:42):
Your perception is your reality.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
Then Foxy Oxy said me too, giving me so much
broad outlook instead of the one that fits and pacifies
my world as the absolute best feeling they feeling this
one line, the little they feeling it, you're gonna put
you should The girls is going off about it.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Literally, let me hear what they gotta say.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
I just told you what was a segment?
Speaker 2 (27:06):
Did you miss it?
Speaker 1 (27:09):
It hit that fast it came in, It went all right, y'all.
This has been another episode of.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
They see Darius.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
Slow not slow. I'm quick as ship.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
I was outside the box thinker.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
That's right, I know, that's right, all right, shout out
to God.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
I mean it's always shout out to God. But like
like that was.
Speaker 2 (27:35):
Rendo, Thank God for my p P o V. Outside
the box shout right.
Speaker 3 (27:42):
Well, but I would say, whatever we learned from this episode.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
But I think what we've learned is what y'all, if
you're gonna do a swingers party, don't invite our Lenux
and don't do drugs.
Speaker 3 (27:56):
Okay, that is it.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
You know, No, they're a little bit more degal more substance.
But you know, I'm not mad at that. I think
that's good advice. I don't think she would come anyway.
And you should definitely be safe anywhere you swinging anything.
So that has been the latest with Laura Rosa. I'm
Lena Rosa. I tell you, guys, just every episode because
I mean it. At the end of the day, there's
always a lot to talk about. If every single time
(28:18):
you choose to be right here with me talk about it,
I appreciate y'all. I'm a homegrowd and know it's a
bit about everything and everybody. I will see you guys
on my next episode.
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