Today on The Breakfast Club, Dr. Joel Tudman talks about his new book The Fight to Find Yourself, the journey of healing, and building healthy relationships. Plus, Charlamagne Tha God gives Donkey of the Day to a Florida woman arrested after a threesome went wrong. Listen for more!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Wake, Wake, Wait, thats up on the program you Alarm
the power one oh five point he one on iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Good morning Usa.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo Yo.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
Yes is down here, Yes Charlamagne Nakahan, Peace to the
planet is Thursday.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
How y'all feel out there? I feel blessed, Black and
Holly Favorite. Happy to be here another day to serve
our beautiful listeners. Good morning, Good morning. How you feeling, man?
I feel fantastic. I feel great. God woke me up
this morning. I had an amazing dream like that. I
had an amazing couple of dream yesterday because you know,
I'm old. Was I had to take a nap because
I had things to do yesterday afternoon.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
So was that any of them?
Speaker 5 (00:38):
No, you weren't. Actually none of these. But I did
have a couple of dreams.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
I had a dream that I had a h what
an Asian extraterrestrial interior designer?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Okay, what was he designing?
Speaker 5 (00:53):
It was a young lady Okay.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
She had on a black wool cap and like a
black baggy black sweatshirt, baggy black sweatpants, and she was
talking like, uh, you've seen the Incredibles before. Remember the
woman that was making the costumes in the Incredibles the suits?
What was her name, edd the molde ed the mod
I think her name was. She was talking like her. Okay, yes,
I don't know what that meant. And then I had
(01:15):
another dream that a good friend of mine found God.
So I woke up this morning and text.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Her that, okay, yes, right, good on it. I went
to a tie restaurant. You have an a tie food?
You like ta food? I went to a tie restaurant.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
What's wrong with you man? Trying to make everything so
stupid all the time? Okay, yes, you had to eye food.
I liked to, let me tell you. So I went
to this place.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
Well, actually, when Madison was young, we used to go
to this this tire restaurant in Jersey, and then it
closed down. And I found out that the owner used
to work at all these restaurants. He had all these restaurants,
and he was Barack Obama chef. He retired and his
daughter got married to a Dominican and they reopened another stop.
So now it's called Ti Chef Junior. So he gave
(01:56):
all the recipes to his son in law.
Speaker 5 (01:58):
I thought Obama Chef died or something like that, but he.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
Was one of the chefs that cooked for Barack Obama.
So yeah, so I went to his new restaurant. It's
called Ti Chef Junior Elton Jersey, and.
Speaker 5 (02:07):
The Obama never takes that man food whatever in life.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
They got pictures of everything with each other. So I
don't know. You hate tie, I hate tie tie? All right,
ty was good?
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Okay, congratulations, thank you man, thank you, you know, but
nothing congratulations.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I ain't had tied in a minute, all.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
Right, anyway, See, you would make everything funny. Anyway, I'm
thinking what we do, what happened?
Speaker 1 (02:28):
I can't even have a conversation about time food, about
this guy.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
This guy is something else, no me, that's you Jesus Christ.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
But we got a special guest joining us this morning,
doctor Joel a Tudman.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
He was joining us. He has a new book.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Yes, he has a pastor and the other a new
book called The Fight to find Yourself, Moving from uncertain
the Unstoppable. If you ever tune in the Potter's House,
you remember doctor Joe used to appreciate Potter's house, right, yes,
so we'll talk to him in a little He's fantastic.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Jess is gonna be fixing somebody's mess. And of course
we got front page news with Mimi. So don't go anywhere.
Wake your glass up.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
I had a fish an Instagram shopper too.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
You hit me.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
My wife's trying to tell me about instagram shopping. For
so long, I'll be buying all types of stuff off
Timu and Havy coof andy and sweats, all them comfortable,
affordable fits.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
I tried to buy one one time, and one pocket
was hided in the other pocket.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
It was hiding. You got see.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
I know you ain't never grew up off coffee shows,
so you just appreciate that, embrace the treaty like a
Gordon Guard trail.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
I don't want to know what matter like all of that.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
It don't matter, like has gotta be symmetry.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
I don't a sleeve long than the other way, and I.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
Had a pocket on my ankle yesterday. I don't care.
It feels comfortable and it's affordable. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
All right, Well, good morning everybody. We are the breakfast club.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Let's get in some front page news now on Thursday
Nights football. The Buffalo Bills play the Texas tonight at
eight point fifteen.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Right, what's up to me?
Speaker 7 (03:47):
Good morning in Big Good Morning's Charlaagne, How y'all doing?
Speaker 5 (03:50):
Bless Black and Holly Favorite? How are you good?
Speaker 8 (03:52):
I'm good? Thank you?
Speaker 9 (03:54):
All Right?
Speaker 7 (03:54):
Well, we started this morning in Washington, where President Trump
has now signed the Epstein Files Transparency Act into law,
officially ordering the Justice Department to release all unclassified records
connected to Jeffrey Epstein. It's a stunning reversal from the President,
who just days ago opposed releasing the files. Now, Congress
they passed the bill with overwhelming bipartisan support four hundred
(04:16):
and twenty seven to one in the House and unanimously
in the Senate before sending it to the White House
on Tuesday night. Now, under the new law, Attorney General
Pambondi has thirty days to publish all unclassified DLJ and
FBI documents, internal communications, and investigative materials related to Epstein,
but it's unclear how much of that information will actually
(04:37):
become public. The law includes several carve outs that allow
the Justice Department to redact or withhold information that could
reveal victim's identities, exposed, personal or medical information, contain child
sexual abuse material, or interfere with an active investigation, and
that active investigation clause may now be a major factor.
(04:58):
Just days before signing the bill, President Trump announced on
true Social that he was ordering Bondi to launch a
new federal investigation into Epstein's relations with several high profile
figures including Bill Clinton, Larry Summers, Reed Hoffman, JP, Morgan Chase,
among many others, and other institutions. Now hours later, Bondi
confirmed that she would open that investigation. This morning, Republican
(05:20):
Congressman Tom Massey sounding the alarm, saying he fears the
President could use this new investigation delay to avoid releasing
the files altogether.
Speaker 8 (05:30):
Let's listen to what he had to say.
Speaker 10 (05:32):
I'm further going to try and use a provision of
the law that allows you not to release these materials.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
If they're subject of an ongoing investigation. Did these files implicate.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Billionaires and friends of hand of his and political donors
that he's trying to protect?
Speaker 9 (05:52):
And Epstein also had close ties.
Speaker 7 (05:54):
To our own intelligence agencies and his Ruse intelligence agency.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
That's why there's so much effort in trying to stop this.
Speaker 7 (06:04):
Yes, And at a press conference yesterday, Bondi was asked
directly whether this investigation would block or slow down the
release of those files.
Speaker 8 (06:12):
Let's listen to that exchange as.
Speaker 7 (06:14):
An an investigation by the Southern District of New York
US Attorney prevent the Department from releasing all of the
remaining files.
Speaker 11 (06:21):
So we have released thirty three thousand, over thirty three
thousand Epstein documents to the Hill, and we'll continue to
follow the law and to have maximum transparency. Also, we
will always encourage all victims to come forward.
Speaker 12 (06:37):
Do you mean that you will provide all the files
by thirty days?
Speaker 9 (06:42):
We will follow the law.
Speaker 11 (06:43):
The law passed both chambers, but we will continue to
follow the law again while protecting victims but also providing
maximum transparency.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
It was going to be released as probably a big
redacted nothing burger that that will only show Trump's op
like Clinton and Hoffman and some is all the people
he already named it they done for. But it's not
going to point the finger at Trump or any of
his allies. But I will say for any Republicans, any
traditional conservatives that want to take that party back, now
is your time to shine because y'all would know the truth.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
So if there's something you can use.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
In these files to take your party back from MAGA,
now is your time.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
But anything under that investigation can't be shown. So if
he just said he's investigating those individuals, you can't see
none of those files. So it's like, what are you opening?
It's nothing like it's nothing open but envy.
Speaker 8 (07:30):
To your point.
Speaker 7 (07:31):
So, under the law, if the DLJ withholds any information
because of the investigation, they have to they must publicly
explain why within fifteen days. So I mean they can
give any explanation, but within fifteen days, if they're going
to withhold anything, they have to give a public statement
or explanation as to why they are withholding those in
fat information. So we'll see if that helps out with
(07:55):
us finding out anything. But even though that bill is
signed in the thirty day countdown has begun, what the public,
as you guys were saying, will actually see and how
much could be hidden under the banner of active investigation
remains to be seen.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
And also, since when does this administration follow the law?
Does this administration do whatever they say, they're told, whatever
they're told to do, they don't do that?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
They don't follow the rules. My point exactly.
Speaker 7 (08:19):
Yeah, So we'll see and an investigation development that can
completely unravel the government's case against James Comy and the
Justice Department admitting in court yesterday that the indictment against
federal against former FBI director James Komy it was never
presented to a full grand jury, which is a basic
requirement under the law, instead interim US Attorney General or
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US Attorney Lindsay Halligan, who had no prosecutorial experience. You
guys will remember that before taking this role, had only
the grand jury four person assigned the indictment that Comee's
lawyers say that mistake alone could should wipe out the
case because without a proper grand jury vote, the vote
the case is not bound and the legal deadline to
(09:01):
charge him has already passed. And this isn't the only
Trump administration case targeting a political rival that is raising questions.
In a separate filing, Fanny May's own fraud investigators say
that they found no clear evidence that New York Attorney
General Letitia James committed mortgage fraud, even though she's now
facing charges.
Speaker 8 (09:19):
Her attorneys say this case.
Speaker 7 (09:20):
Only move forward because of a Trump ally he pushed
for it, and after Attorney General Pambondi put Halligan in
charge of the original after the original prosecutor refused to
bring the case. So we'll continue to watch what happens
in both of those cases.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
All right, well that is front page news.
Speaker 9 (09:35):
Thank you, Mimi, of course.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
Now everybody else, get it off your chest. Eight hundred
five eight five one oh five one. If you need
to vent, phone lines wide open again. Eight hundred five
eight five one oh five one. Call us up right now.
It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, dog.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
This is your time to get it off your chest.
Speaker 6 (09:53):
She call it eight hundred five eight five one five
to one. We want to hear from you on the
breakfast glove.
Speaker 11 (10:00):
On.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Who's this?
Speaker 10 (10:01):
What's up?
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Man?
Speaker 10 (10:01):
My name is Robo from North Carolina.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Bro, what's up Romeo? How you doing? My brother?
Speaker 12 (10:06):
I'm right man, I want to speak my mind this wanting.
Speaker 10 (10:08):
Then I got fired for no reason because, oh, I
guess my boss decided to take a younger guy's advice
and he lied on me and said I was in
the bathroom of the apartment store smoking a box of cigarette.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
A whole box. How you smoke a whole box? Of cigarette.
Speaker 10 (10:25):
I don't even smoke, though, Charley, I.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
Believe you because smoking is nasty.
Speaker 10 (10:29):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Smoking is disgusted. Have you smoking some weed or something?
That's a different story, but just a cigarette. I'm with you.
Speaker 10 (10:35):
That's right, man. They didn't check the cameras another man.
They just let me go. Man, and I got two kids.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Bro, ain't you I might have to go to human
resources if they got a human resource department, and you
might have to go see an attorney.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Brother.
Speaker 10 (10:46):
Okay, it's in the rocking plug in my cash up.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
But you just got fired. Your times ain't that hard?
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Now?
Speaker 2 (10:52):
You just got fired win about two weeks ago?
Speaker 5 (10:55):
Oh okay, all right, we'll go ahead. Your cash that
boat all my cash up, dollar time.
Speaker 10 (10:59):
G u A see oh f l y.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Now I'm gonna tell you something.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Though, people usually put money in cash aff for very
compelling stories. I just got firing story for you know,
because you smoking cigarettes. That's not compelling in no way,
shape or form. It's a lot of people that just
lost their job, brother, over the last couple of weeks.
Speaker 9 (11:15):
Yeah, I'm sorry to here, but don't you got another
check coming?
Speaker 10 (11:17):
Still?
Speaker 2 (11:17):
They came already two weeks is up.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
Probably just got it.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Well, enjoy the holiday the best you can, my brother,
sorry brother, better man.
Speaker 5 (11:25):
Much love, Yes, sir, get it off your chest.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If
you need the vin, call us up right now. It's
the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Ray right ray yo, Charlae
mag yafy what up are we lost? This is your
time to get it off your chest.
Speaker 10 (11:39):
I got an indoor pool.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
Get on the.
Speaker 10 (11:43):
Phone right now here, tell you what it is.
Speaker 6 (11:45):
We lie. Hello, who's this?
Speaker 10 (11:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (11:48):
This is Trevor, Trevor, Trevor. Off your chest, Trevor.
Speaker 12 (11:53):
Oh yeah, like my thing is. You know, I want
to put it out there, mag of, mag of.
Speaker 10 (11:57):
We don't have no fracture. It's a maga. It's no fracture.
That's a false narrative.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Oh maga, yes, sar okay all day.
Speaker 12 (12:06):
Yeah, so it's no fraction in the Maga party. And
also I want to state this because you know, I
sit back and listen and I heard this this, this,
this thing about Trump, this.
Speaker 10 (12:17):
Trump that, But I want to say, like this, try
the man.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
I don't care, bro, you know, no.
Speaker 12 (12:23):
No, I want to say that. Remember when Joe Baden
told you at the end of that podcast, if you
don't vote for.
Speaker 10 (12:30):
Him, you ain't black.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Yes, I do. That's some of the.
Speaker 12 (12:33):
Most disrespectful stuff that you want to talk about white
people racist. That's one of the most racist things that
an old white man can tell a black man. If
you don't vote for me, you ain't black.
Speaker 10 (12:47):
Trump.
Speaker 12 (12:48):
Trump is one of the best presidents outside of Abraham
Lincoln that's.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
In that chair.
Speaker 10 (12:53):
You know, I mean this false. I'm not this false narrative.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
I'm not about to.
Speaker 12 (13:00):
But but like you, remember when Joe Biden told you.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
That, right I was sitting there.
Speaker 12 (13:03):
He said to me, yes, he said nothing negative, but
he said nothing negative about.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
That about who about Joe Biden.
Speaker 12 (13:12):
Yeah, the most disrespectful stuff. And he told you that
to your face on your podcast, if you don't vote him.
So basically he's.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Saying, but that's that's not true.
Speaker 12 (13:20):
You know where you're supposed to stand as a black man.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
That what he told you, Yes and yes, And as
I told him in that moment, you know, it's not
about me being black. It's about me wanting something from
my people. So I mean that was that was the comment.
Speaker 12 (13:34):
But had Trump but but had Trump said something like that,
it would have exploded. But that but outside but outside
of that, I would have said to that news lady,
I want to get to that news report the Yeah,
she got to report the real storage like like she
(13:56):
got a narrative, like like she reported and she got
that little narrative, that negative narrative about the King, about
the don you know my brother my brother.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
No, no, no, don't hang up on it. This is a
good conversation. There is no way that you could I've.
Speaker 12 (14:13):
Been knowing about Trump. I've been knowing about Trump since
the eighties. Man, I come up in the inner city
all my life. I've been knowing about Trump since the
eighties from Richmond.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
If you knew about Trump since the eighties, you'd have
a whole anyway, I'm not even have a conversation.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
This is what I will say.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
It's impossible for you to be objective about Donald Trump
because you just called that man King.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
And don like I don't know why we were like
why do so anything that you hear.
Speaker 12 (14:36):
Because like I know it's gonna trigger, Because I know
it's gonna trigger.
Speaker 10 (14:39):
You know what I'm saying And.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Don't trigger me. I just don't know.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
I just know I can't have an objective conversation with
you about.
Speaker 12 (14:46):
Them, but you have to go Also, I just want
to say this though, if y'all can go back and
look at it, look at the interview with Oprah.
Speaker 10 (14:52):
Winford back in the mid eighties when Oprah, when Oprahader
stores Chicrgo, she used to have Donald Trump on.
Speaker 12 (14:59):
This Swater's time.
Speaker 10 (15:00):
She always used to ask Trump about runners for president.
You know, Jesse Jackson, you looked out for Jackson, Jackson,
Paul girl from the like we did that movie with
Beyonce on what's her name? Like, the singer the black
girl who family.
Speaker 12 (15:15):
Yeah, Jennifer Hudson.
Speaker 10 (15:16):
Bump took her in after that incident happened with her
family with Michael Jackson.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
I never heard that, Michael, you never heard of that. No,
but listen, bro, you gotta get off your knees.
Speaker 6 (15:26):
Man.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
You call that white man the king this morning the
ladies is crazy. The Krispy Kreme around your lips right
now is ridiculous. And I'm not if that's your opinion,
that's your opinion, but god damn, you can't even be
objective and have an objective conversation with somebody like that.
If you refer to your president as a king act,
that's ridiculous. That is, you should never refer to no
elected official as a king.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
Bro all right, well, we got the ladiest of Laura
coming up. What we're talking about?
Speaker 13 (15:51):
We talking about Cardi b because she got the people
going again. There are rumors that she may be engaged,
and I got some answers.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
All right, we'll get to that. It's the breakfast in
the morning.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
I will never ever say anything about people who buy
from Sheen Fashion.
Speaker 5 (16:05):
Over ever again.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Okay, I just bought one two th I just bought
four outfits for three hundred dollars. One is a three
piece matching set. Three three piece matching set.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (16:18):
It's a turtleneck like a peak coat and the pants.
Speaker 9 (16:22):
Okay, where are you going to speak at?
Speaker 6 (16:23):
That?
Speaker 9 (16:23):
Sounds like it sounds like you write a book.
Speaker 5 (16:28):
What's your name? Coof Andy?
Speaker 2 (16:31):
When he watched that one time, It's gonna fall about? Yeah,
what matter? One time Charlamagne came in with these cargoes.
I was like, where do you get them? Cargoes? I said,
I gonna order up here eight dollars. One leg was
longer than the other.
Speaker 4 (16:43):
There was one pocket on one one pick wore. There
was no symmetry to the Guard trail.
Speaker 13 (16:48):
Bro I told him is that some of the Instagram
stores is not for tall people.
Speaker 9 (16:52):
It worked for him because he little.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
They went with short. I could see my socks and
my ankles.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Rest in peace, Malcolm Jamal water Man Lisa boenat Gordon
Guard Trail. Y'all y'all too good to wear Gordon Guard trout.
Wait till I come in here with this effortless luxury
three piece matching set.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Christ let's get to the ladies with Lord Lorne coming
straight back. She gets them somebody that knows somebody detail.
Speaker 9 (17:17):
I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
She'd be having the latest on the things, the latest
with Laura la Rosa.
Speaker 5 (17:25):
Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Sometimes you have a little bit of everything. So it's
the latest on the breakfast club.
Speaker 4 (17:32):
Oh and Lauren, you know what you know the strings
that hang from the cargo pants. You stringing all the
way down to my ankle.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
That's how we want talking on my ankle yesterday. It
don't matter. It's one hundred dollars.
Speaker 9 (17:43):
Okay, we three piece.
Speaker 5 (17:45):
I'm so effortless luxury matching.
Speaker 9 (17:47):
Try furniture from Timo, just try it.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
Huh.
Speaker 9 (17:52):
All right, let's keep going, all right. So Cardi B.
Speaker 13 (17:55):
Cardi B yesterday posted some photos because we know we
did the story here that she welcomed her baby a
few weeks ago, so she posted some photos with her
new baby boy, her and sefon Dick's baby.
Speaker 9 (18:05):
The baby is wrapped in a Patriots blanket with a
matching hat.
Speaker 13 (18:10):
There are also some photos of them in the hospital
when the baby was first born. Now, the caption says
the date November fourth, which is what we now know
was the day that their son was born. But in
one of the photos, when you swipe through, the baby's
laying all swaddled in the blanket and Cardi B's hand,
her left hand is in the photo and there's a
ring on her left hand. So the fans went wild,
(18:32):
thinking that this was an engagement ring. So I spoke
to Cardi Beach wrapped yesterday, who tells me that that
is not an engagement ring. There's nothing to see here.
But people have been sending congratulations to Cardi on the baby,
including the NFL now the NFFL Okay, So the NFL
posted the same photos I just told you all about
(18:53):
in the midst of all of the potentially engaged conversation,
and people were in the common upset. People were trying
to figure out why the NFL were posting the photos
the safe congratulations to me, I think.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
We know baby.
Speaker 13 (19:08):
Yeah, it's for the baby. And of course Stephan is
in the NFL. But the point that people are trying
to make is we saw it Taylor Swift, and I
think people get upset anytime the NFL does anything but
just talk about numbers in sports. They're like, why are
you guys leaning into this just because this is trending
right now? We don't care about his personal life, Like,
why is the NFL posting this.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
First of all the same reason that y'all lean into
all of these celebrities lives. Like everybody wants to be
a part of the algorithm. They want to be a
part of whatever pop culture story is going on. So
if the NFL is.
Speaker 5 (19:35):
Doing that, I don't I don't have an issue with it.
Speaker 4 (19:38):
Yeah, it's Stephan things. He plays for the NFL. He's
congratulating one of the the NFL not to do what y'all.
Speaker 12 (19:46):
Like.
Speaker 5 (19:46):
You don't want the NFL to do exactly what y'all doing.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Makes no sense.
Speaker 13 (19:49):
I mean, people got upset when they were doing the
whole thing with Teller Swift too, like making sure she
was on the camera acting the players about her being
there like.
Speaker 9 (19:55):
People were upset about that as well. I can understand that,
why could she white?
Speaker 1 (19:59):
No, I just I don't like Taylor Swift.
Speaker 13 (20:02):
I did want to mention too, when Cardi B had
posted these photos, there was a cute exchange between her
and Stefan Diggs in the comments, so he commented and said,
proud of you, boo, but love you, and she said,
I love you more, thank you for my handsome son.
Speaker 9 (20:15):
Love y'all much. I will congratulations to them.
Speaker 5 (20:17):
I don't dis like Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1 (20:18):
I don't know her to dislike her, but I will
say that I just felt like it was too much
for a girlfriend. Now that she's engaged, Okay, I can
understand it a little bit more. But you know, I
think that all that camera time should actually be reserved
for watch.
Speaker 4 (20:30):
Okay, yes, well, there's no famous wife like Taylor Swift.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
That's not my problem.
Speaker 4 (20:36):
Well, they wanted to Swift and the fact that people
are watching because of Taylor Swift, They're gonna dive right
into it.
Speaker 9 (20:41):
You're definitely tuning in because of.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
They're engaged now, so I can I can see a
little bit more of the camera commitment.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
This guy.
Speaker 9 (20:48):
She just don't like her. Helman said, it's not true.
Speaker 13 (20:50):
Well, in other news, speaking of just you know, I'm
just not even speaking of in other news, Megda Stallion.
So you guys know, Megda Stallion is in court right now.
He a defamation lawsuit that she has against a blogger,
and yesterday in court it came out because Meg y'all know,
Meg go's online, and she talks about how a lot
of the online hate she receives following the shooting that
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happened in twenty twenty, what it.
Speaker 9 (21:15):
Does to her.
Speaker 13 (21:16):
Like we've heard her vocally talk about this, and I
think people don't really grasp what that means and a
lot of people don't believe her when she says it.
So yesterday a former manager of Megda Sallians, got on
the stand and they were talking about just kind of
what some of the damage that has been done to
her because of online things that have been spreading. They
are alleging that this blogger spread things such as like
deep fake or alleged deep fake porn and stuff like
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that which ultimately hurt Meghan. He mentioned that Megda Sallions
spent two hundred and forty thousand dollars attending a four
week therapy session to deal with the emotional distress that
Megan claimed she felt after this blogger made a string
of posts, one of which included that deep fake porn
video that I'll mentioned to you guys, which a lot
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of people at the time thought was.
Speaker 9 (22:00):
Real online, but it turned out not to be real.
Speaker 13 (22:03):
So the manager detailed in court about how Megan came
to him in tears and apologized to him even for
having to witness the video, which sparked Meghan's decision to
undergo therapy at that point because she kept breaking down
from it. Now, the manager says and recalls that he
rushed He rushed to Megan's side at the hospital after
he received a call back in July twenty twenty about
the shooting with Tory Lanez, which was eventually you know,
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Tory was eventually found guilty, which led to.
Speaker 9 (22:28):
Where they are now.
Speaker 13 (22:29):
So he's been going through this with Megan since the
very beginning, and he took the sin yesterday.
Speaker 9 (22:34):
So when this came.
Speaker 13 (22:34):
Out, I saw a lot of people still reacting to this, like,
oh my god, here she goes again. I'm like two
hundred and forty thousand dollars on just to have a
peace of mind, Like it's never going to be enough
for people.
Speaker 9 (22:46):
But here she is having.
Speaker 13 (22:47):
To get on the stand and she meg the stallion
will be taking a stand today. She's supposed to anyway,
to speak on her own, behalf listen.
Speaker 5 (22:53):
Why wouldn't that impact her?
Speaker 1 (22:54):
Like I can completely see how that could impact somebody's
mental and emotional well being.
Speaker 5 (22:59):
And I bet you if you and honmously spoke to a.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Bunch of therapists and psychiatrists, they would tell you how
often people come to them to discuss being attacked and
slandered online, not just you know people that are celebrities,
just everyday people.
Speaker 5 (23:11):
I'm sure that's the thing. I bet you counselors get
that so much in school from kids.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
I must have missed it. What is she what is
she gonna try for that way? What is she gonna
stand for?
Speaker 13 (23:19):
This is the lawsuit where she alleges that Tory Lanees
she's paying for defamation.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
So she's a legend toy for defamation.
Speaker 13 (23:26):
No, there's a blogger in question, and she's saying that
Tory Lanez paid this blogger to allegend that Tory Lanes
paid this blocker to spread negative things about hard Laan.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
Gotcha. So she's suing the blogger, Yeah.
Speaker 9 (23:36):
She's she's coming for the blogger.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
This. This is gonna be an interesting case.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
And the reason I say that is because there's so
many people online that spew things that are not real,
fake ish, right, and they make up stories. Now, if
if somebody can say that this affects me, because it
affects all of everybody, like Charlamagne says, can you sue
that person for for defamation and for you know, emotional distress.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
And people that have done that already in one it's
President for that already come to be said President for that.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
Promotional distress.
Speaker 9 (24:04):
I know, for that was the thing with the with
the other blogger.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
I love this my homegirl, Bonang and South Africa said President, Well,
that's South Africa.
Speaker 4 (24:12):
But I love that because maybe that'll make people stop
reporting fake news and stop reporting lies they keep getting
sued because you can't afford it.
Speaker 13 (24:20):
Then I think I think the issue is that you
got to figure out what people determine it's fake and
not fake.
Speaker 9 (24:25):
And a lot of people can't.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Say somebody get a sex tape and it didn't have
no sex tape.
Speaker 13 (24:28):
But I think it goes back to how people are
taught what you can and can't do, like you know
what I mean. Like and also too, I think it
is it gets a point where some people don't care
and we don't know what the situation is yet in
this case because it hasn't finished in court, so we
don't know who's guilty of what in the courtroom, but
you know, in other circumstances, I think it just depends
on the person and what they know and what they
care to act like.
Speaker 2 (24:48):
They don't know, but that's why you should.
Speaker 4 (24:52):
Because everybody could who somebody because I'm sure there's there's
somebody lies about somebody online every day. Be but it
gets to the point where that's what happens to that
person and if you want garnish all they wages.
Speaker 5 (25:01):
Don't feel bad about that, right, take their assets.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
Don't feel bad about that?
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Yeah, okay, don't feel bad about making somebody homeless.
Speaker 13 (25:09):
We're gonna talk about homelessness too, because Kevin Spacey had
a real interesting conversation with outlet. We're gonna talk about
that in the next hours as we wrap up.
Speaker 2 (25:16):
All right, everybody else, I thank you. That's the latest
with Lauren.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
Now when we come back, we got front page news,
and then after that, doctor Joel A. Tudman will be
joining us. He has a new book out. We're gonna
talk to him about his new book, and he's gonna
help Lauren with her life.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
This book is really good.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
It's called The Fight to find Yourself, Moving from Uncertain
to Unstoppable.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
All right, we'll get to that next. It's the Breakfast
Clocal Morning. You're checking out the Breakfast Club Morning.
Speaker 4 (25:39):
Everybody's dj NV, just Hilarius, Charlamagne and the guy we
are the Breakfast Club. Let's get in some front page
news now with Thursday Night football, the Buffalo Bill's take
on the Houston Texans, all right, and slut Shadoor saying this.
He's gonna make his first NFL start this Sunday versus
the Raiders.
Speaker 2 (25:57):
What's up to me?
Speaker 7 (25:58):
Good morning, Envy, Charlomagne, Lauren how y'all doing this morning?
Speaker 9 (26:01):
Maybe been great?
Speaker 8 (26:02):
Good morning?
Speaker 9 (26:03):
All right?
Speaker 7 (26:03):
So we start this hour with two troubling stories going
viral of two black women in two different states, both
in obvious pain, both begging for help, and both turned
away from hospitals just minutes before giving birth. Now, the
first story is in Indiana. A young mother, Mercedes Well,
says she gave birth in the backseat of a car,
just eight minutes after a hospital told her to go home.
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Her family posting video of her being willed out of
a hospital doubled over in pain after staff told her
she wasn't far enough along because she was only three
centimeters dilated. Twen minutes later, Mercedes told her husband she
had to push. He was driving with one hand and
found himself delivering the baby with the other. Let's listen
to mom and death.
Speaker 9 (26:45):
I was in excruciating pain. She's seen me in pain.
Speaker 14 (26:47):
And agony, and I guess she still perceived me from
not being labor.
Speaker 6 (26:53):
It's totally God's grace.
Speaker 10 (26:56):
I was scared.
Speaker 6 (26:57):
I didn't know what to do. I don't have it
to medical license.
Speaker 10 (27:01):
He don't people to deliver a.
Speaker 7 (27:02):
Bailion that well nine one one guided them to a
second hospital where several doctors and nurses were waiting outside
to help. Mercedes is recovering now, be says she feels
violated and dismissed, and Franciscan Health they called the video
deeply troubling and says it does not reflect their values.
They've launched a full investigation and say they'll take action
based on what they find. And now to Texas, where
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a similar story is also taking shape and Dallas. Carrie
Jones is shown in a viral video doubled over in
a wheelchair, screaming in pain while nurses. While a nurse
calmly continues intake questions. Her mother says that the hospital
made her wait more than thirty minutes after she gave
and then she gave birth twelve minutes later. Her mother
said she had called the hospital ahead to warn that
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they were coming, but when they arrived, the nurses refused
to take her to a delivery room until paperwork was finished,
even though she could barely sit up Dallas Regional Medical Center.
They haven't commented on specifics, but say they are reviewing
the incident and that the safety, dignity and well being
of every patient is their top priority and these cases,
they're drawing attention because.
Speaker 8 (28:06):
They highlight a broader reality.
Speaker 7 (28:09):
In the United States, a black women experience the highest
maternal mortality rate in the country, roughly fifty deaths per
one hundred thousand births. That's more than twice the national average.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Yeah, man, And this is why when black and brown
women have babies we celebrate the way we do because
exactly what you just said, me, the black maternal deathorade
is high. And this is why dulas are also important,
because you need somebody advocating for you in those hospitals,
because the damn sure can't be your husband, because ain't
no way in hell I knock over all this stuff, y'all.
Speaker 5 (28:36):
Don't hurry up and get through my wife.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
You know. The crazy thing is when we delivered our
last baby, Peyton, he went.
Speaker 4 (28:41):
To the hospital and the hospital said, no, you're not
ready yet, go home, and it was like, no, I'm
not going home.
Speaker 2 (28:46):
I had five other kids, exactly, I know what my
body is.
Speaker 4 (28:49):
You call my guy to collogists, I'm not leaving and
forced them to put her in the room and we
had the baby a couple hours later.
Speaker 1 (28:54):
That's why duels are important, because you need somebody advocating
for you in the hospital like that, because you know,
as men, some of us can be cool, calm and collected.
But when you see your wife in that type of pain,
when she's about to give birth and everybody just dragging
their feet.
Speaker 2 (29:08):
Now, do you.
Speaker 13 (29:09):
Suggest a doula from the hospitals have like a doula
like departments that like you. They'll sign doulas to you,
but then you can bring your you get your own.
You suggest one from inside the hospital, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (29:20):
I never knew about the hospital when we always had
our own. Sluthor lay from Thomas Glow Maven. You know
she helped my wife deliver our third and for a child.
Speaker 4 (29:28):
Yeah, no, we I mean I would say somebody that
you're comfortable with, Like my wife's going to college, has
been with us for four kids, for delivery, so she
knows Giz, she knows me, she knows the kids, and
she knows what Giar says.
Speaker 2 (29:38):
She ready to pop.
Speaker 5 (29:40):
I don't know I got to do it.
Speaker 4 (29:41):
She got in colleges, but you know she delivered. She
either she knows.
Speaker 9 (29:46):
Oh I saw that video. I sent it to me.
Speaker 6 (29:48):
Me.
Speaker 9 (29:48):
I'm like, can we talk about this because this is scary.
I saw them. I don't understand how that happens.
Speaker 1 (29:53):
I don't understand how another woman can and just hype
all slow while she's watching this woman all this pain, Like,
shouldn't it be a sense of urgency from even another
one robotic?
Speaker 2 (30:05):
It's probably okay, here's another pregnant and used to it.
That's what that's probably you, you like.
Speaker 13 (30:10):
I saw the woman's face and I felt so bad.
I sent it to me me like is there something
we can do? Like I just felt bad for her,
like in that moment, and I'm watching it on my timeline.
Speaker 10 (30:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (30:19):
And that one that the one that you're talking about, Lauren,
happened after the one in Dallas happened, because the one
in Dallas have been circulating on social media and people
have been sending me that in my inbox, like, you know,
can we talk about this because clearly it is it
people feel like this is happening.
Speaker 8 (30:34):
Those are just two stories that we know of. What
about the stories that we don't know us?
Speaker 9 (30:37):
Right?
Speaker 2 (30:38):
That's right?
Speaker 10 (30:39):
So cool?
Speaker 7 (30:40):
And new information this morning, as we move on, new
information on the Chicago mother at the center of that
viral attack that has stunned people across the country for
Shonda hat Or, the mom seen on video being beaten
while trying to shield her children. She is now warning
of the public of fake go fundme pages using her name.
She says several unauthorized fundraisers started circulating within hours of
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that video going viral. Some have reportedly collected more than
two hundred thousand dollars without her permission, and a Facebook
post she is pleading with supporters should be careful, writing,
please go get your funds back. All those go fundmes
are fake and please report them.
Speaker 9 (31:18):
She says she has.
Speaker 7 (31:19):
One legitimate fundraisers fundraiser, and she is.
Speaker 8 (31:21):
Urging people to double check before they donate.
Speaker 7 (31:24):
I looked this morning and her legitimate fundraiser has about
seven thousand dollars so far.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
Now.
Speaker 7 (31:30):
Hatter says the violen scene on camera that we all
saw it wasn't all of a sudden. It was months
after harassment, bullying, vandalism, and even attempts at setting fires
near her home by neighborhood youth. She says she's been
asking for help for a while now. After Monday's attack,
the community stepped in quickly. I know you guys spoke
about this yesterday where local leaders they helped. They secured
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a new place for her to live. Clothing holiday donations
are coming in. The housing authority is also assisting with
a new place to live. Relatives say that she is
expected to move into a new place today. But along
with that support, two very different reactions from parents connected
to the kids in those videos are circulating, and one
clip a parent of a student can believe to be
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involved is her saying to her child, the whole city
of Chicago is looking for you. And a different parent
posting a long series of comments defending her daughter, downplaying
the attack, calling her child a good kid, and saying
she was peer pressured. Her tone frustrated many online, who
says it shows a lack of accountability. Let's listen to
some of the community reactions.
Speaker 13 (32:35):
What actually needs to be taken is the parents needs
to be held accountable.
Speaker 14 (32:38):
Child should be pressed, childges should be pressed, and these
kids should be at spell for school.
Speaker 9 (32:43):
We need more help out help.
Speaker 15 (32:44):
Trump's saying troops to stop out here for that comestan
trupsy held for these kids.
Speaker 9 (32:48):
We need these kids, open up more programs for our kids.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
No, she's right, they need do we need to have
more programs for the kids, but don't say things like Trump,
send the troops for our kids, okay, because Trump will
be like, say, let's right. I saw a lot of
people meet me saying that it starts in the home,
and that would be a good discussion for the radio,
because I think when people say things like that, you know,
they discount the environment these kids live in, like pid
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pressure is a real thing, and like sometimes the screets
have more influence and impact than what's going on at.
Speaker 9 (33:18):
Cross the house.
Speaker 8 (33:20):
Of course, Chicago police say no rests have been made.
Speaker 7 (33:23):
Detectives, they are reviewing multiple videos, interviewing witnesses, and the
Chicago Public School the district.
Speaker 8 (33:29):
They release a statement.
Speaker 7 (33:30):
It reads, in part, they are committed to building a
physically and emotionally safe a teaching and learning environment in
every school. It went on to say that they are
horrified by the attack on this family and they are
working with the city departments and agencies to provide support
for the victims.
Speaker 2 (33:43):
How have they not been no arrests.
Speaker 1 (33:44):
There's a whole video in a bunch of kids school
that's crazy.
Speaker 7 (33:49):
Yeah, no, we're rest yet, But how do you handle it?
A lot of these kids are. I know one of
them were in eighth grade, you know, so that's that's
you know, thirteen fourteen years old. I don't know, you know,
what that looks like what they're going to do, but
that one parent said that the kids should be expelled
because it happened on school grounds, and so that is
one action that the district can definitely take.
Speaker 6 (34:09):
You know.
Speaker 7 (34:10):
All right, y'all, well, that is your front page news.
I'm Mimi Brown. Follow me at Mimi Brown TV. For
more stories all the Black Information Network, download the free
iHeartRadio app and visit binnews dot com.
Speaker 6 (34:21):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 4 (34:22):
Mem Now when we come back, we have doctor Joel Tudman.
He has a new book out called The Fight to
find Yourself, Moving from Uncertain to Unstoppable.
Speaker 2 (34:31):
And we're going to dive into Lauren Larose's life a
little bit.
Speaker 9 (34:34):
I Fight to find Myself.
Speaker 2 (34:35):
Okay, all right, we'll get into that. NeXT's to the
Breakfast Club. Good morning. We got a special guest in
the building. We told you you were going to have
him back. That's right, doctor Joel to welcome back here.
Speaker 6 (34:42):
Man. Thank you for having us back. I didn't get
to talk to you last time.
Speaker 2 (34:45):
I wasn't here. I was out of town. How you doing, Reade?
Speaker 6 (34:47):
It's an honor. It's honor to nut your building.
Speaker 1 (34:49):
New book, The Fight to find Yourself moving from uncertain
to unstoppable, is out now.
Speaker 5 (34:55):
I want to ask you, doctor Joe.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
What was the What was the moment, like that real
breaking point that you realize you weren't living as your
authentic self?
Speaker 6 (35:03):
Several moments. I don't think I can categorize it to one.
I think it was a breakdown for me, a chain
of events, a lot of success, and the success couldn't
solve the pain. And so once all the breakdowns started
to accumulate, I started realizing this stuff is just a
band aid. Every accolade, every award, every stage, every opportunity
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could not solve the inner pain. And so having a
good community of course, j of course, other brothers and
other ministers that knew that I was hurting started looking
into the insights and hey, man, pull yourself back. We
need to talk to you. My mentor who became a pastor,
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he began to talking to me. He told me to
stop speaking. So for I think nine months to a year,
I didn't travel. I didn't go anywhere. He made me
stay home and minister at the house so he could
watch over me and check over me. But the pain
had gotten pretty bad, pretty bad. I think I put
a gun to my head twice during that process, trying
to figure out how to maneuver through. But then once
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I found a pretty good therapist, things start changing, and
I started journal and started documenting and seeing things change
for myself.
Speaker 13 (36:25):
You talk about in the opening of the book going
through the motions of things and how they just feels
so empty. Yeah, but you also have such a big
platform and you're speaking places you can fall back into
the motions easily, even at certain points in like, how
do you kind of stop yourself from falling back into
the motion of things because you know you're entertaining at
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the same time too.
Speaker 6 (36:47):
It's a great question. Let's do it like this. When
the annoyinging comes on you to speak, it comes on
you for the task for the moment. So the annoying
comes on you to do what you need to do.
You study yourself, how you prepare, you do what you
need to do. You pray that's God doing his thing
through you. When that's over, it's over, and you can
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walk off the stage and feel like you're absolutely failed,
even though people were absolutely blessed. You can walk off
the stage, get a phone call that just rips everything away.
After all those people have given their lives to Christ.
And that's what I'm talking about, that moment. You're knowing
it for that moment, and then when you come off,
you don't have the badge to live. And that's what
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I was experiencing. So it was a massive fall off
and I got tired of that, real tired of it.
Speaker 2 (37:37):
What changed? What gave you the feeling of wanting to
live again?
Speaker 6 (37:43):
I lost my father and my son back to back.
Both of those relationships were difficult to have. My son
when I was sixteen years old. He came to live
with me his sophomore year. And then my father. We
had a good relationship, but it wasn't like what you
want to father and son to have. I respected him
very much so, and he wasn't an absentee. We just
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didn't have a relationship, and so that thing grew grew
and grew. So in the process I built all these
walls that protected me emotionally, and the last two weeks
of my dad's life I spent with him in the hospital.
And I got to know him like I never knew
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him before. I held his hand, washed him, shaved him,
fed him, scratched his back. It was a different feeling
for me that unleashed this avalanche of emotions that I
had never felt before, and I needed to figure out
how to deal with him. For a little bit, I
felt like it was great, And then for a second
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I was like, God, how could you do this? How
could you wait till the end? And I'm this old
to give me the feeling of being a son. I'm
already a man, and I've already mastered the way I
do life, you know, And so it may not be perfect,
but it's mine. And when that happened, those two deaths
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broke down everything I knew. It broke down my own
blueprint and had to come up with a new one.
Speaker 2 (39:17):
So you lost yourself because of what you lost.
Speaker 4 (39:23):
When you're at your lowest and you're feeling like taking
your life, most people will say that is the devil working,
and it's it's not anything but the devil trying to
get you to take your life.
Speaker 2 (39:35):
Do you agree with that?
Speaker 6 (39:36):
I don't know if I agree with it or not.
I'm gonna be honest with you. I know that Satan
comes to kill, still and destroy. I don't think God
does that. But what I will say is that there
are some things that happened to us internally chemically that
we are born with or born without that only scientists
can answer. I don't think the scientist is God not
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saying that. But I don't think that's a question that
you could just easily answer from a five or six
minute conversation. I think it involves a lot of study,
a lot of interpretation, and the opportunity to really converse
with people that have the problem, not people are just
sitting around the table discussing that.
Speaker 4 (40:17):
Because when most people feel like they want to take
their life, it's a lot of times they feel worthless, right,
they feel like that they don't have an answer, they'd
rather they feel like life would be better without.
Speaker 2 (40:27):
Them than with them in it. And it's learning that
that complete opposite. Did you have that feel?
Speaker 6 (40:37):
I felt it, but because I had understood the word
of God and had enough left in the tank, I
had enough to kind of come back and forth and
talk to myself. When I was younger, I didn't I
just took the pills, but I didn't die when I
got older and I pulled that trigger, I pulled that
triggers to die, but it didn't. I felt that way.
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But I will say I was going back and forth
dialogueing in my head. Now, this is something I want
to say straight up. Most pastors, most people in church
are going straight up to you know you're going to hell?
You know, and that is the devil's work. Again, I
think it's unprofessional and it's a lack of empathy and
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compassion to have a conversation with the person to find
out why they felt that way. Why do you feel
that way? I think that's a part of the conversation.
I understand the eternal security and eternal damnation. We got that.
The religious perspective of the walk with God or somebody
still needs to get in your walk, get in your
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shoes with the word of God and help you walk
through Why you feel that way? I think that's the
missing ingredient. Great question, great debate, but the missing piece
of the question and the conversation is the person. Why
do you feel that way?
Speaker 4 (42:03):
Because I've been there before and I write it in
my book of being me being feeling worthless, right, me
doing things, making me feel like an embarrassment to my
family one dred and me feeling like not being here
would be better for my family. Tak a lot of praying,
a lot of talking, a lot of discussion. Well, when
somebody ever tells me that they're thinking about it, I
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jumped to it immediately, right. And the reason I jumped
to it and jump to have a conversation. I have
conversation with so many people online. But the reason I
jump to it is because another thing that also gives
me great fear is sometimes people feel like I got
to show you I would do it, you know what
I mean, Like I'm thinking about it.
Speaker 2 (42:41):
And a lot of times we write that person off,
like just.
Speaker 4 (42:44):
Go sleep, yo, just go take a shot, just just
go talk to somebody. And I feel like the worst
thing you can do to somebody in that position is
kind of sign them off. The almost feel like I
have to show you I was going to do it,
and I have once I show you, there is no oop,
there is no to fix that can't fix that.
Speaker 6 (43:03):
That's why I said the person, the person matters. I
love the theological conversation, the church conversation. It's great to
have put the collar down and talk to the person
and then we'll navigate there. Why do you feel that way?
What caused you to get that way? That's more important
right now, you know, And I love what you said
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about it, because some people say, I'm just going to
do it, and if you and if they do it,
we don't get an opportunity to come back.
Speaker 13 (43:32):
You also talk about too in the book, just how
your wife has coached you through so many different moments
in your fight for the partners out there who are
like everybody's finding themselves. But I think when I hear
how you speak about her, there are certain parts and
certain things you couldn't have done without her. Oh God,
But it has to be heavy on her as well.
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How is she balancing her own fight with helping you
do your fight?
Speaker 6 (43:56):
It's sometimes it's unfair. It's unfair because she had to
stop fighting for herself to help me fight. But I
think that's the power of love. And I think we
evolve in time. I think I don't think that marriage
is a fifty to fifty. Sometimes it's gonna be eighty twenty.
Sometimes it's gonna be ten one hundred, sometimes it's gonna
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be seventy thirty. I think love is love, and whatever
number adds up, that's based off of the try, the
push between the two people, and there's always gonna be
one this week, and there's always gonna be one that's strong.
And so to each couple, I would say that the
journey to becoming who you are together will be based
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off of the two of you remaining honest and open.
And I can carry you today. I may not be
able to carry you tomorrow. I carry you today.
Speaker 4 (44:48):
People don't talk about a lot about how important a
good partner is, right, Yeah, because when I've been at
my lowest many times, if it wasn't for my partner,
I don't think I would be able to come out
of it the way that I did.
Speaker 6 (45:03):
Happy to be there for you.
Speaker 2 (45:07):
Guy's crazy. This guy's crazy. You know what? You know
what's so crazy? I see him yesterday in the street, right,
just happened to see him in the street. I'm with
my wife and my daughter. He's with his wife. He
walks up to me. He's stuck blowing kisses at me.
Speaker 6 (45:26):
How your wife handled that?
Speaker 2 (45:27):
My wife didn't see his wife see that, And his
wife's like.
Speaker 4 (45:31):
Really, like like what's wrong with you? Just blow kidding
him what she said, but talk about the importance of
his wife, goes, somebody just blow kidding.
Speaker 5 (45:46):
He goes, that was Charloae man.
Speaker 6 (45:50):
I think that's beautiful that your spouses can laugh at that.
Speaker 2 (45:52):
They can't. I don't know how long it took me
laugh at first. I don't think they thought it was
that funny.
Speaker 4 (45:58):
Talk about the importance of of a good part and
a good spouse when you're going through those things, because
you know, Charlamagne and myself talk about when you're really
faithful in your marriage and life, it opens up a
whole another life, another category, another.
Speaker 6 (46:12):
A whole nother round of favor. Absolutely, it comes upon
your life, Yes, a whole nother round of favor, because
sometimes you feel like yours are worth nothing and we're
living off the other. Having a good spouse is the
opposite of having a bad one, Okay, And I think
a lot of the world is experiencing bad relationships. But
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you hear so much about what it takes to being
a good one. To being a good one means you
survive a lot of bad things. I don't know anybody
that's been in a great relationship that doesn't have stories
of wounds and cuts, and memories where things have gone bad.
That's what makes it good. That you can go through
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the storms and go through the rain and still remain.
And there'll be times where you feel like walking away.
There'll be times when you feel like departing. You take
your take mind, or you just take it all in
out bounce. But the love, the commitment, the responsibility to
become the one that you want to be drives everything.
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My wife, her name is Latasha. She's been with me.
I didn't have anything, but that's not true. I did
have something. My credit was bad. That's what was bad. Yeah,
I had things, but my credit was bad and I
was able to get things without the credit. But she
looked at the credit and said, yo, your credit is terrible.
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I can fix it for you. I said what she said,
I can fix it for you. So she fixed my credit.
Credit went up and she's like, yo, I can handle
the money. And that was different from me because I
don't know. I've never been socialized into manhood where the
woman handled the money.
Speaker 2 (47:54):
But she could handle the money.
Speaker 6 (47:56):
So I let our relationship be our relationship. First. I
was a little bit embarrassed. I had this myth of
manhood that if she's doing this, and she's doing this,
it's gonna make me look stupid. But I realize my
marriage is my marriage. It's not yours, and it is
not yours, And it's not until i'm a tour as
a man that I understand that what goes on in
my house is my house. I don't care what's happening
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in your house. So your spouse has to have the
ability to endo it with the worst of you and
the best of you and likewise, and just make sure
that you guys are on the same page with raising children,
all right, make sure you're on the same page with
raising children so that you can recreate something beautiful and
not create something that's going to be a monster.
Speaker 13 (48:37):
But the steps of that for people, like if you
both don't have children, or even if one person does
have children, sometimes you don't know how a person is
until they're in a situation, even if you have conversations
prior to like, what are the real steps to know?
Speaker 6 (48:49):
I don't think that there is a a cookie cutter
step because we're all different. I think when we spend
time with each other, what are you actually doing If
you're just having sex, smoking and drinking and they're not
having a real conversation about who you are, where you
come from, what do you like, what don't you like?
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I think all those things need to be talked about first.
What makes you happy? What makes you sad? When you
get angry? Do you throw things? Do you cuss? Do
you go off? Do you belittle me? Can you encourage
me when you don't like me? Can you still show
up for me when you want to leave me if
we have to go to a function, will you embarrass
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me even though you're upset with me? How do you
want to be appreciated? How do you want me to
leave you alone? How do we argue? What are our
parameters for arguing? Ours was listen? If you leave, you
come back, don't stay gone, and don't go to nobody
else's house to spend the night. If you don't want
to talk to me, go in the other room. But
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at some point in time that must be a resolution.
I think all those things matter because then we have
people that get married because the sex is great. We
get married because we got money and the kids are
going to be pretty because we both look good. But
we've done none of the other work to discover what
we like. If you're Catholic and I'm Protestant. If you're Catholic,
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do you want the kids to be all of that
little bitty stuff that we avoid because we're attracted. Those
things need to be discussed. Then let's go to counselmen,
let's go to counseling and see what happens. If we're Christian,
let's also go visit the Christian counselors. It doesn't have
to be the pastor What is it that they're saying
about our relationship? And I walk with God because I
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don't want to get in our in our marriage and
find out you you don't believe the way I believe?
Why am I just not finding that out? All of
those little things need to be discussed before we ever
even talk about kids. Then we start talking about it,
how are we going to raise our children? How many
children do you want? What kind of school do you
want them to go to? Do you believe in corporate punishment?
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I think that's the right word of beating your kids
or soft parented, whatever the correct words are. I think
all those things matter before we do it. But we're backwards.
We have sex first, We like the feeling first, and
we get together and we stay together and either end
up with coming law marriage or we go ahead and
get married because we're already pregnant, and then we wrestle
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with all the other stuff later. Just flip the script.
We know what to do. Just reverse the order to
flip the script for No, we.
Speaker 13 (51:27):
Are very intentional about a lot of the things. This
is probably the first time ever. I mean, I'm thirty three,
so I'm pretty young, but this is the first time
that I feel like my intention is actually like matched.
And even when it's not the best thing, like I'm
not the best person and vice versa, it's still like
a no, we're gonna we sit down, We're about to
talk about this. And I've never in certain conversations I've
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never had Like we had a financial conversation the other
day and I was like, no one has ever.
Speaker 6 (51:52):
It's the first time you had it ever.
Speaker 9 (51:54):
Yeah, it was.
Speaker 13 (51:56):
It's very new, but so it's been some months, but
we been dating for longer than that.
Speaker 9 (52:01):
But we've been dating for about a year.
Speaker 13 (52:04):
But officially, yes, it is, Yes.
Speaker 2 (52:08):
It is is not new.
Speaker 6 (52:13):
I wish I had a computers, like do you like
you doing?
Speaker 5 (52:16):
The only reason we knew is because she had to.
First of all, she just thought, so one of them
fell off.
Speaker 13 (52:24):
No that's not true. No that's not He's framing this
completely wrong. Okay. So the only reason why I say
it's new is because I think I've had to learn.
You've had to learn how to be very different in
this stage in my life, not even relationship, just because
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of like career and a lot of things. So I
took a lot more time with certain things this time
around sexual sex.
Speaker 6 (52:56):
Would you do different?
Speaker 13 (52:57):
We just it took some more time before it happened,
which is very different from me. We also we also
public like being in public with each other. I took
time before I did that.
Speaker 5 (53:08):
It's still in public sneaky.
Speaker 13 (53:11):
Videos, we're still taking. Just got one year we've been
datd for you. That's a long time.
Speaker 9 (53:25):
That's still very new.
Speaker 10 (53:26):
Though.
Speaker 6 (53:27):
Have you slept with him within three and sixty five days? Okay?
Speaker 2 (53:32):
You have?
Speaker 6 (53:32):
You have had sex with this man multiple times?
Speaker 9 (53:35):
Uh huh.
Speaker 6 (53:36):
Look at your smile. What I'm saying is this exactly
what you just said. You've slept with this man. You
have a smile on your face. You are you're enjoying
that you have slept with this man multiple times you
should be that enthusiastic about everything else.
Speaker 13 (53:50):
But I'm saying this is the first time that I am.
Like in other situations, there have been things that I do.
Speaker 6 (53:55):
When did you find out about his credit?
Speaker 9 (53:57):
First month?
Speaker 13 (53:58):
First month of us being in a relationship, not the
first month of his dating.
Speaker 6 (54:01):
So what's the difference? Tell me?
Speaker 13 (54:03):
Because when we were dating, it was casual stuff. So
it was like dinner, it was phone conversations.
Speaker 6 (54:07):
It wasn't you know, did y'all talk about your faith?
Speaker 9 (54:11):
Yes?
Speaker 13 (54:12):
When that was probably like one of our first in
person conversations.
Speaker 6 (54:17):
So how long did it take from phone to in person?
What do you mean you did phone first.
Speaker 9 (54:23):
Then you did in person first?
Speaker 13 (54:25):
Because this is someone that I already knew, Like we
went to college together for a bit, so we did
in person first and then the phone kind of guys
were friends, Yeah, we were cool before.
Speaker 6 (54:35):
Did y'all sleep together when y'all was cool?
Speaker 13 (54:37):
No? No desire, No, there was desire, But it did happen.
Speaker 9 (54:42):
And that's what I'm saying. I took the conversation, yeah,
like there was definitely desire.
Speaker 6 (54:48):
Yeah, so you wanted this guy already? Did he want
you already?
Speaker 9 (54:52):
I don't think so.
Speaker 2 (54:53):
What made you?
Speaker 6 (54:54):
Did he ask you out? Did you ask him out?
Speaker 13 (54:55):
We got together as friends just he was like, you
know you're in Jersey, would love to take you out
that the happy hour celebrate everything got going on. It
wasn't who initiated the term me. I initiated the term.
Speaker 5 (55:07):
Aggressive, especially on that cast ago.
Speaker 6 (55:13):
It was at being lefty.
Speaker 13 (55:15):
It wasn't even about no, It wasn't me being aggressive
on costamigos. It was when we said our first time
in person, that happy Hour conversation. I was sitting there
and I'm like, man, this man is amazing, Like I
would love to get to know more about him, not just.
Speaker 2 (55:28):
As my fear.
Speaker 6 (55:29):
Now, let me ask you this. When you said that,
where were you psychologically emotionally? Did you know yourself before
you made that decision?
Speaker 9 (55:36):
No, I don't think I fully know myself.
Speaker 6 (55:38):
Now how much of yourself do you know? What do
you know about yourself?
Speaker 13 (55:42):
I know a lot about myself, but I don't think
that I'm fully through like my fight, like.
Speaker 6 (55:47):
So you're still fighting one hundred.
Speaker 13 (55:49):
I didn't even begin the fight honestly, probably until this year,
because I didn't know that it was a fight to
be had.
Speaker 9 (55:53):
I just figured.
Speaker 6 (55:54):
That's so powerful because I just told him that that
sometimes when you were in a relationship, this is now
your relationship. I think sometimes when you're in a relationship,
when you get healed, when you actually find you, it
opens up your eyes so much that you start looking
at all of your choices and all of your decisions,
(56:15):
and you can see the unhealthy picks, the unhealthy partners,
the unhealthy conversations now, and it's hard to speak to
sick people. And I'm not pointing at anybody specific. It's
hard to have a conversation with sick people because you
yourself didn't know you were sick, and now you realize that, hey,
(56:36):
I'm better, but I created this sickness or I played
a part in the sickness. That becomes difficult, which is
what I know we'll probably talk about with the holidays.
When you're going into the holidays. Should I be trying
to discover myself right now? And it's twofold. Its juxtaposition.
If you have a safe place, yes, if it's not safe,
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because those conversations will turn into wars and it'll create
a horrible holiday experience. But if you have a safe
place and there is enough health in the room, mom, uncle, sister, therapist, somewhere.
There has to be some safety for you to retreat
(57:23):
and then not necessarily isolation, but some alone time for
you to actually process and come out and talk. You
can move methodically through it. But if you are healed
your hold and you are connected to someone that is sick,
it's going to be a difficult path. How then, my
(57:47):
question to you, how do you have a healthy conversation
with an unhealthy person?
Speaker 9 (57:54):
Right now? I just be doing it.
Speaker 6 (57:57):
You just be doing it.
Speaker 13 (57:58):
I think a lot of I'm thinking about people in
my life that I love that I know they're not having.
Speaker 9 (58:04):
They don't even they're not I don't know. Lord, No,
I'm telling the truth.
Speaker 13 (58:08):
Like I'm literally every day I'm engaging with people that
I know are not in the best spaces, like in
their fight, you know. But I don't have a choice
because these are people I love, Like it's my mother,
it's my you know.
Speaker 9 (58:21):
Like, so you literally just get through it.
Speaker 13 (58:22):
You set boundaries for certain conversations, but you I'm literally
just doing it some days because I don't have a choice.
Speaker 9 (58:28):
Like what do you do in a situation like that?
Speaker 6 (58:30):
It's very difficult. It's going to be a war, and
you have to be prepared. And this is what I'm
saying to you. Once you go through your journey, and
you're going through your journey right now, I've gone through mine.
Now I'm evolving, all right, because, like you said, you
don't just get there and stop. Not the same man
you are thirty five or forty five, fifty five. You're
gonna change, You're gonna evrow. But coming into self, coming
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into knowledge of self, knowing who I am, knowing that
I know why I get upset about certain things. I
know why certain things trigger me. I know when I
need to remove myself. I know when I need to
go in stronger because I'm aware of me. Now. Because
I'm aware of me, it helps I help myself in
the unhealthy conversation. I don't make it more unhealthy. I
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don't make it more toxic. Because at one point I
was I would keep pushing and keep pushing and keep
pushing because I'm trying to get you to understand what
I'm saying. But I realized you're never going to understand.
You don't have the capacity. So what I've learned now
is that now that I faultifind me, there's no need
for me to fight you because you don't know you.
I need to retreat and let you be you and
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come back on another time to have a conversation.
Speaker 13 (59:39):
Do you do that differently in different situations, because like,
for instance, with my dad, I do that all the time,
but with other people I go all the way like
that's not happening. Like, so, do you feel like you're
more in your fight you further along with certain people
certain situations?
Speaker 9 (59:53):
Okay, so different, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (59:54):
Because the're different people, different relationships, different levels of covenant. Yeah, definitely, definitely,
that's what we Father. We thank you for this amazing
opportunity to be with my brothers and my sister. We
asked you bless her as she continues to fight to
find herself and move in this industry, that she is
more than enough and she's capable of taking it to
the next dimension. We thank you for both of my brothers,
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who have been staples in this industry for a long time,
continue to allow their minds to evolve. Bless their families,
Bless their children. Everyone is to connect it to them
God as they continue to soar in their fields. Father,
we thank you for the day. We thank you for
another opportunity to praise your name. We asked you seal it.
We thank you for your glory and your divine grace
(01:00:35):
in Jesus name. Amen, Amen, thank you all. You got
to do it one more time.
Speaker 2 (01:00:41):
The Breakfast.
Speaker 5 (01:00:43):
You good Lord, I'm great.
Speaker 2 (01:00:46):
Tell them that call.
Speaker 10 (01:00:48):
Come.
Speaker 9 (01:00:48):
I've already had conversation.
Speaker 13 (01:00:50):
I've never let anything that happens on air happen on
air first before anybody important in my life.
Speaker 9 (01:00:54):
Here is it except for my dad. I love my dad,
but it's just like we don't talk any other time,
So why would I call you now?
Speaker 2 (01:01:03):
All right, Well, let's get to the latest with Lauren.
Lauren becoming a.
Speaker 4 (01:01:06):
Straight fast she gets somebody that knows somebody detail.
Speaker 9 (01:01:12):
I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything,
and she'd.
Speaker 2 (01:01:15):
Be having the latest on the Latest with Laurena la Rosa.
Speaker 5 (01:01:20):
Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details.
Speaker 2 (01:01:22):
Sometimes you have a little bit of everything on the
Breakfast Club.
Speaker 13 (01:01:27):
All right, guys, So before we get to the Kevin
Spacey story that I know I teased last hour, let's
talk a little bit about Portia Williams again. Now I
told you, guys that yesterday I received the statement, and
the statement laid out the fact that Portia was alleging
that someone had you know, was coming for her, and
that's how this whole thing started.
Speaker 9 (01:01:44):
We now know that this whole thing was about cell
phone volume.
Speaker 13 (01:01:47):
So there is body cam that was released by the
Atlanta Police Department, and you have Porschia Williams explaining her
side of why there was an incident on a flight
where the FBI now has her on the radar, and
then you have the woman she got into the incident
went explaining as well. Let's say, listen to Poortie explaining.
Speaker 15 (01:02:03):
The lady who was sitting next to me.
Speaker 16 (01:02:06):
I was on my phone and the.
Speaker 15 (01:02:08):
Volume was up on the phone and she turned to
me out of nowhere, and she said, so you're gonna
make me listen to that the whole play? And I said,
well do you want to?
Speaker 9 (01:02:17):
She said no.
Speaker 14 (01:02:18):
So who guys went in Losabe was one of Yeah,
the plane was on the wall, yes, And so what
was a.
Speaker 2 (01:02:24):
Nice way to say that? She said?
Speaker 9 (01:02:27):
From that point and she said, who do you think
you are?
Speaker 15 (01:02:30):
And so I said, I said, oh, no, no, no, I
said that y'all need to get her out of here.
Speaker 7 (01:02:33):
Please get her away from me.
Speaker 15 (01:02:34):
She tried to take her phone before, and then she
drops her phone on the floor.
Speaker 2 (01:02:37):
She's like, you hate me.
Speaker 9 (01:02:38):
Oh my god, you hate me. You just hit me
in my face.
Speaker 2 (01:02:41):
Oh my god.
Speaker 9 (01:02:42):
I'm pressing charges.
Speaker 15 (01:02:43):
I want you to be in jail alone. So the
so then the steward comes over, and then the steward
says to her, says to me, because I say, you know,
get your ugly.
Speaker 8 (01:02:52):
Eyes out of her, cause then I'm afect.
Speaker 15 (01:02:54):
And they ended up making her move to the next
chair with the guy. But she was I right, so
they were trying to hold her.
Speaker 2 (01:03:00):
So you're saying, you're telling me that I was nothing physical, it.
Speaker 10 (01:03:03):
Was just verbal. Yeah.
Speaker 13 (01:03:05):
Now the police officer from Lena p D is asking
Porsche if there was nothing physical but only verbal because
the woman who Portia Williams got into it is alleging
that Portia hit her. Now, let's take a listen to
this woman who says she is fearing for her life.
Speaker 9 (01:03:19):
Now, so I heard about the incident that happened, but
I haven't heard the side of the story.
Speaker 2 (01:03:24):
What we hear my side of the story?
Speaker 10 (01:03:26):
First?
Speaker 16 (01:03:26):
Sure, well, I had another officer, Oh, Okay, well spoke.
Speaker 6 (01:03:30):
To you, but I just want to hear it.
Speaker 2 (01:03:32):
That's someone read it, didn't see that happened.
Speaker 6 (01:03:34):
I was sitting in my seat in Delta Airline sheeat
number three A B.
Speaker 8 (01:03:39):
I believe this happened in Las Vegas.
Speaker 2 (01:03:42):
Yes, while depend who was still bought in? No Dean
Wasn't they be sure I say anything.
Speaker 15 (01:03:48):
I want to know.
Speaker 8 (01:03:49):
Is my information going to be given to the.
Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
Woman who assaulted me?
Speaker 8 (01:03:53):
Because I'm afraid from my life?
Speaker 2 (01:03:54):
No, no, it's not capital h.
Speaker 5 (01:04:00):
He ain't touched that woman. Cut it out.
Speaker 1 (01:04:02):
But I will say this, we all need headphones on
the plane. Okay, that's my wife's pet peeve. She cannot
stand when somebody got their phone listening to watching the
video or watching someone on their laptop. Like she does
not like that. And she's absolutely right, by the way,
I have a tendency to do that too. But sometimes
I be watching something on the plane and it's like
with no headphones.
Speaker 5 (01:04:20):
We all need headphones on the.
Speaker 2 (01:04:23):
But sometimes is the way you talk to people?
Speaker 6 (01:04:26):
Right?
Speaker 2 (01:04:27):
They excuse me? Can you can turned it down a
little bit?
Speaker 4 (01:04:29):
I'm trying to sleep, Okay, no problem, but when you
start talking to me like you my mother, but I'm
your child.
Speaker 2 (01:04:34):
No, I'm gonna get disrespectful too.
Speaker 1 (01:04:36):
I think the plane should actually announce that, like you
know how the plane announces all the things that you,
I guess can't do on the flight.
Speaker 2 (01:04:41):
They should say that.
Speaker 1 (01:04:41):
They should be like, hey, make you see you got
your headphones, don't play your phones loud.
Speaker 9 (01:04:45):
They should do that. They depend on where you're your
person should say that.
Speaker 2 (01:04:49):
Yeah, they definitely do that.
Speaker 9 (01:04:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 13 (01:04:50):
So I did ask the FBI if now this takes
this off of their radar, like you know where we
are right now basically because people are waiting to see
if will there be chargeable then, like, what's going to
happen that be? I said, they can't confirm anything to me,
but I do know that there's supposed to be some
new news in this situation today, So we'll be back
with that. But it just seems like it was just
an argument back and forth. Both of them were able
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to get to where they were going and now there's
claims on both sides. So we'll see what happens in
other news. So, Kevin Spacey, Kevin Spacey did an interview
with the Telegraph, and in this interview, he is in
Cyprus and he is doing a live show. It's like
a one night only type of show where he's like
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singing and telling stories. And you guys, remember back in
twenty twenty two, there were back.
Speaker 2 (01:05:36):
In yes, don't worry about it after that question yea
to the story.
Speaker 1 (01:05:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:05:43):
So basically, I know the guys can't say that you
cannot suck the no, that you cannot say that you
can't put the two together on air, Like, yeah, people
do that.
Speaker 2 (01:05:55):
He did it.
Speaker 9 (01:05:56):
I said, you.
Speaker 5 (01:05:57):
Don't say you can't do it because I heard you
a perfessional.
Speaker 2 (01:06:00):
What are you talking about. Yeah.
Speaker 13 (01:06:04):
So, at the time of all the allegations, Kevin Spacey
was a starring A House of Cards that was like a.
Speaker 9 (01:06:10):
Huge deal for him.
Speaker 13 (01:06:11):
He was reportedly making I think like five hundred thousand
dollars in an episode at the time, and then all
these allegations hit and.
Speaker 9 (01:06:19):
He lost everything. He was taking off everything.
Speaker 13 (01:06:21):
A lot of people say that he was one of
the people that canceled culture actually worked on. So in
this interview, he's having a conversation about where he is
now and he's there, he's doing this one night only
show and people and he's saying he knows people are
going to look at this like, is this his fight
to try and return again, And he says, you know,
he hasn't been in the best space financially. He says,
(01:06:42):
he's living in hotels, living in airbing b's, and he's
just going where the work is currently. They act him,
you know, at one point, because he did lose all
of his homes. Also, they asked him if he's considered bankruptcy,
and he says it was discussed, but it never got
to that point. And again, he was a quick it
on all charges of sexual assault, but you know that
(01:07:03):
didn't stop everything from being.
Speaker 16 (01:07:05):
Taken from under five hundred thousand dollars an episode at one.
Speaker 13 (01:07:08):
Point reportedly yeah for House of Cards, yep. And he
says that all of his stuff to right now is
still in storage because he's just kind of gonna.
Speaker 9 (01:07:17):
Have anywhere to put it.
Speaker 4 (01:07:19):
Yeah, he's what he spent his money on lawyer's attorneys
and all that other stuff, because that's a that's a
lot of money. He's Kevin Spacey. He did a lot
of movement, that's yeah, I mean.
Speaker 1 (01:07:29):
And also, what's the problem with him trying to make
a comeback If he was trying if he was a
quitted on.
Speaker 9 (01:07:33):
All charges, I don't think that there's a problem.
Speaker 13 (01:07:35):
I think he was more so having trying to get
ahead of people saying he has no money and this
is why he's over here during this random one night
only show.
Speaker 9 (01:07:43):
And he's like, it's not even that.
Speaker 13 (01:07:45):
I'm just in the space where he says that he's
leaning back into things that he actually likes to do,
which is singing and being able to tell stories.
Speaker 9 (01:07:55):
Yeah, but he did also too thin.
Speaker 13 (01:07:57):
In this article, he reflects a lot on even though
he was a it are certain things he said that
he had to do a lot of self reflection about
why he was so easily able to fit into the
narrative of the bad guy. He said that it made
him really sit down and have a conversation about some
of the decisions he made and not speaking out sooner
for himself.
Speaker 1 (01:08:14):
Story about him getting behind a tree. Maybe I'm making
this up. I just feel like I've read that before.
Speaker 9 (01:08:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:08:21):
I don't know, but that's how I'll find out. That's sad.
Speaker 4 (01:08:25):
If he was found not guilty acquitted of all charges,
he had to spend all that money. He still canceled
he still can't do movies. He still can't do like
that is crazy. That the fact that he's dead ass
broke and he was found not guilty and he's done
some crazy like he's done like House of Car's Usual Suspects.
Speaker 2 (01:08:41):
L A Confidential. Yeah, they were like wold. But if
he's found not guilty, he was acquitted of all.
Speaker 5 (01:08:50):
Of them, right, Yeah, but they were still wild.
Speaker 13 (01:08:53):
And I think I think a lot of it too,
was because he was so big at that time. I
know we got a right because he was so big
at that time and the show was so big. A
lot we see this all the time sometimes corporations, movies, studios,
they just want to back.
Speaker 2 (01:09:04):
And it was the height of cancel culture.
Speaker 4 (01:09:06):
Like he might have been like the first Yeah, sacrifice,
he's like a post like sacrifice.
Speaker 5 (01:09:12):
This means w people had to back away. They didn't
know what the hell was going on.
Speaker 4 (01:09:14):
And I don't think anybody's laughing at him, right because
if he did something stupid like rob a bank or
did something stupid to getting money, we'd be like.
Speaker 6 (01:09:20):
Oh, he's stupid.
Speaker 4 (01:09:21):
But the fact that he's on broad where he's doing
one night staying whatever he's doing, the fact that whatever
you call it.
Speaker 9 (01:09:27):
One one, one night only come. You gotta see.
Speaker 13 (01:09:30):
He was supposed to do a bunch of different nights
in other places, but they ended up getting cance story
about the saggregations.
Speaker 1 (01:09:36):
Somebody tree tree what I don't I don't know if
he had sex with the tree or he was sucking
on the tree or something with the tree.
Speaker 9 (01:09:43):
The tree, how do you go to jail sucking on
the tree?
Speaker 2 (01:09:46):
Make sure I don't remember.
Speaker 1 (01:09:47):
I just I'm just maybe I'm just conflating all of
the different things. I just remember that was so long ago.
Speaker 9 (01:09:52):
Yeah, I don't know about that.
Speaker 13 (01:09:53):
I know he had made like some advances towards somebody
during like a party, like there were things like that.
But I do know that some of the stuff they
get wild, and he was. It was earlier on in
all the canceled conversations. God bless the treat you.
Speaker 5 (01:10:04):
Out there putting your mouth on random branches.
Speaker 2 (01:10:07):
That is the legend.
Speaker 5 (01:10:08):
Jesus Christ racking people snap that you don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:10:11):
Crazy Now, I don't forget Jess's head. Just fix my
messes coming up in a little bit. You can get
on the phone lines right now. Eight hundred and five
eight five one oh five one for just to fix
your mess now, Charloane Donkey, Day's up next.
Speaker 5 (01:10:21):
Yes man, speaking of sexual deviance.
Speaker 1 (01:10:23):
We need this woman, Angel Lynn Carl from Florida to
come to the front of the congregation. I really just
don't know what's going on in the world anymore, but
y'all need Jesus.
Speaker 2 (01:10:31):
All right, we'll get to that next. It's the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 5 (01:10:33):
Good morning.
Speaker 2 (01:10:33):
Make sure to watch off of Florida Mia.
Speaker 1 (01:10:38):
The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and
all of Florida.
Speaker 2 (01:10:42):
Yes, or a.
Speaker 3 (01:10:44):
Donkey the Florida man a tapped an ATM for a.
Speaker 9 (01:10:47):
Very strange reason. It gave him too much money.
Speaker 4 (01:10:50):
Florida man is arrested after define say he rigged the
door to his home in an attempt to electric hid
his pregnant rights.
Speaker 9 (01:10:55):
Police arrested in Orlando man.
Speaker 1 (01:10:57):
We're talking a Famada the Breakfast Club, bitch you Donkey
of the day with shallam hey the guy.
Speaker 2 (01:11:02):
I don't know why y'all keeping letting him get y'all
like this.
Speaker 1 (01:11:04):
It's not me little dubal Okay, it's Florida Donkey of
Today for Thursday, November twentieth goes to a clear Water,
Florida woman named Angel Lynn Curl. What does your uncle
Shall always say to you about the great state of Florida?
Speaker 5 (01:11:15):
Say it with me.
Speaker 1 (01:11:16):
The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and
all of Florida, and today is no exception. And I
must say, boy, Florida got the Bronx beat by a
long shot. Okay, I'm starting to realize the Bronx is
just pretty violent, all right. Folks in Florida are legitimately crazy,
and it's the difference between being violent and crazy. And
people in Florida are nuttier than a yellow bag of Eminem's. Okay,
(01:11:37):
you don't believe me, look no further than Angel Curl. Okay,
I'm going to say a word right now, and that
word will cause a visceral reaction to many out there.
And the word it's three to them. Some people like
to invite others into their bedroom. Okay, personally, I'm too
in decisive for it.
Speaker 5 (01:11:53):
Threeesome.
Speaker 3 (01:11:53):
I learned that a long, long, long, long, long, long,
long long long long time ago, Okay, early twenties, when
we was in these streets while and' on drugs drinking,
I realized that things like threesomes are way too overstimulating
for me.
Speaker 1 (01:12:06):
All Right, some things you try once and you know
you cool on. And I couldn't even imagine that my
big grown age partaking in such things. But I'm not
knocking anyone who lives that lifestyle, do you boo? But
just know I've seen TWA I and TWA two. I
have no reason to want to open Pandora's box. One
box is enough for me, but some folks have to
learn that the hard way. That leads me to the
(01:12:27):
story of Angel Lynn Curl.
Speaker 5 (01:12:28):
Now.
Speaker 1 (01:12:29):
According to police reports, Angel Lynn Curl and her boyfriend
both forty seven years old my age. Okay, they were
bought in nineteen hundred and seventy eight, like me. They
invited a female friend over to their apartment in clear Water,
and according to reports on the smoking gun, they intended
to engage in hot, steamy, sweaty sexual activity, hunching and
(01:12:53):
that floor to humidity. Yep, that's what they intended to do.
They wanted to be grown. But for some strange reason,
the threesome did happen. Police don't mention a reason. Okay,
they didn't. They don't mention a reason. For the night
taking a turn. But the police did say that at
some point all parties decline participating in sexual activity. Let
the record show this is the adult version of scheduling
(01:13:13):
a play date and then happen the play date not happen. Okay,
But it's not that all parties decline to participate and
in sexual activity.
Speaker 2 (01:13:21):
I mean, it's not that all the parties.
Speaker 1 (01:13:22):
It's not just that all the parties declined to participate
in sexual activity. It's what happened after all the parties
declined to participate in sexual activity. See, Angel must have
been very horny, and Angel, you're not yourself in you're
horny because Angel turned into a devil all right. The
disappointment of not being able to pull back some meat
curtains must have been too much for the Angel to handle.
(01:13:43):
I mean, Angel must have been feeding the feast on
a fur burger, because, according to police and the witness
who happened to be the other woman, Angel started punching
her boyfriend in the face one fifteen on a Sunday morning.
All of y'all should have had y'all asses in the
bed getting some sleep so you could prepare to be
in somebody's church in the morning. But no, y'all up
(01:14:03):
ready to have a meat and too badge combo meal.
That meat and too badge combo meal didn't happen. So
now Angel like, hell no, if we're not beating up
no fish lips, something getting beaten in this house tonight,
and it's gonna be you. So she started beating on
her boyfriend and she was placed under arrest for domestic battery.
Fellas toxic femininity doesn't get discussed enough. Okay, this is
(01:14:25):
why so many men are choosing to bear over women.
I mean, just think about this. Clearly based off what
we now know, all right, this threesome was Angel's idea.
So her boyfriend decides he doesn't want to do it, Okay,
the other woman decides she doesn't.
Speaker 5 (01:14:40):
Want to do it, and then Angel beats up the boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (01:14:44):
Based off recent events of the last two years, Angel
should be charged with a RICO.
Speaker 5 (01:14:48):
Okay, you organize the freak.
Speaker 1 (01:14:50):
Off and then when I don't want to participate, I
get beat on all because I didn't want to put
a deposit in somebody else's meat wallet. Listen, I'm all
forced sexual liberation the women. I think women should be
able to make whatever sexual decision they want. But if
I change my mind as a man about whatever we
have planned to do sexually, then respect my decision, ma'am. Okay,
that should not lead to me getting beat on just
(01:15:12):
because I don't want to plant my seed in another
woman's lady garden. What if all I wanted was one
penis glove? Better yet, what if all I needed was
one penis glove? And I realized that in that moment,
the energy wasn't right. I wasn't feeling it. I don't
have to give a reason. No means no, ma'am. And
if the penis glove don't fit, then another woman can't
(01:15:32):
suck my thoes?
Speaker 5 (01:15:34):
Stop it?
Speaker 2 (01:15:35):
Are you going? You know what you're about to say?
What do you mean?
Speaker 10 (01:15:39):
Right?
Speaker 1 (01:15:39):
Please give Angel Lynn Curl the sweet sounds and the Hamiltons.
Speaker 2 (01:15:43):
Oh no, you are the dog gee.
Speaker 10 (01:15:47):
Of the day, the dog gee all the day.
Speaker 1 (01:15:56):
Yee, and Angel, let me tell you another thing. You
got arrested at one fifteen in the morning. The eyewitness
was the other woman that y'all called over. You know
what they was doing while y'all was in jail?
Speaker 5 (01:16:11):
Oh wow, while he was in jail.
Speaker 2 (01:16:14):
You know what they was doing.
Speaker 5 (01:16:16):
Okay, that was a plan to get your stupid ass
up out of there.
Speaker 2 (01:16:20):
Okay, But why why did they turn down the three someome?
Speaker 10 (01:16:22):
Was it?
Speaker 2 (01:16:23):
Maybe the girl didn't look I had no idea. Maybe
there was a smell.
Speaker 5 (01:16:27):
I don't know. I have no idea. I don't want
to be the judge of that.
Speaker 2 (01:16:30):
I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 9 (01:16:31):
All right, it sounded like a TV movie.
Speaker 5 (01:16:36):
Called Alvin Gray.
Speaker 9 (01:16:40):
That sounded like something I've watched before.
Speaker 4 (01:16:42):
All right, Well that is donkey today, Thank you, sir.
Up next, Jess, fix my mess. Eight hundred five eight
five one oh five one. Jess is here, and she's
fixing your mess. If you got a problem something going
on your relationship, maybe your three some didn't work out,
whatever it maybe eight hundred five eight five one oh five.
Speaker 2 (01:16:59):
One, just fixed our mess. Is the breakfast Club. Good morning, Burdon.
Speaker 7 (01:17:04):
We'll tell you help me.
Speaker 9 (01:17:07):
Oh I'm all up in your mess.
Speaker 16 (01:17:08):
I'm gonna fix itix it, fix it, Just gonna fix
your mess, because my advice is real morning.
Speaker 2 (01:17:16):
Everybody is the j Envy, just hilarious, Charlamagne the guy.
We are the breakfast Club.
Speaker 4 (01:17:21):
Now it's time for just fix my mess, and we
have the coal on the line, the cold.
Speaker 14 (01:17:25):
Good morning, good morning, good morning, good morning.
Speaker 2 (01:17:28):
What's something to col what you call it from?
Speaker 14 (01:17:29):
I'm called all right, Charlomade.
Speaker 4 (01:17:31):
I'm from the Bronx from Oh boy, all right, take
me through there, take me through there.
Speaker 2 (01:17:36):
What's your question?
Speaker 14 (01:17:37):
Okay, we're all from the Bronx, and the one that
I'm talking about is from the upper class Bronx, Mount Vernon.
Speaker 4 (01:17:44):
Okay, I thought Westchester was the upper class Bronx, butkad,
I'm sorry.
Speaker 14 (01:17:48):
Here's Westchester County, Mount Vernon.
Speaker 9 (01:17:49):
All right, he's just trying to check. Okay, what's going on?
Speaker 10 (01:17:53):
Bag?
Speaker 9 (01:17:53):
What's trunk?
Speaker 14 (01:17:54):
What happened is okay? First of all, the person I'm
talking about is like Kim from horse Swadlanta, same color
on the.
Speaker 9 (01:18:02):
Front of the hand, in the back of the hand. Anyway, Okay,
I got all the rest.
Speaker 14 (01:18:06):
Of us is us anyway?
Speaker 9 (01:18:10):
Okay?
Speaker 14 (01:18:10):
Yes, she but she Italian? So wait, white and everybody
that knows us gonna know that it's me and I
don't give up.
Speaker 9 (01:18:20):
Okay, Okay, all right.
Speaker 14 (01:18:22):
Okay, sorry for terna say they say it's more in
the show's sorry, But anyway, what happened is just decides
to conjure up a text message dialect, saying that it
was from me to her, and decides to send it
to him and his other baby mother. I don't know
(01:18:42):
where I swear. I wish I could show you how
to text message this success. Decides to say that I am,
I guess just functional and feeling myself and I'm gonna
kill myself because he's in love with the other baby
mother first of all, or something like like on some
(01:19:03):
side of bullying type sh like acting like I'm like,
but the whole thing in the nutshell, she the dialect
that she put up, She stuff and put what I
was supposed to say on her side.
Speaker 2 (01:19:16):
Dummy.
Speaker 16 (01:19:17):
Oh okay, so she was lying. She is fabricated anyway,
and she ain't do it right.
Speaker 14 (01:19:21):
So yeah, she stuff and dumped herself out. You take
yourself out of.
Speaker 9 (01:19:26):
The running, dummy, Okay, okay.
Speaker 14 (01:19:28):
Anyway, so she does and does that and make it
seem as though I'm trying to kill myself and I'm
in love with him and he's in love with somebody else.
None of this is happening.
Speaker 16 (01:19:40):
It's like you're going crazy. It seems like you're going
crazy because you can't have it.
Speaker 14 (01:19:46):
And now the other day your mother pulled and me like,
oh my god, are you okay, I'm like, what he's
talking about the day before my birthday?
Speaker 10 (01:19:55):
Oh wow?
Speaker 9 (01:19:56):
Okay, okay, right, so.
Speaker 14 (01:19:58):
I'm like the fact that she is white, I'm like,
I need to hit you where you like to be
to be hit at.
Speaker 9 (01:20:05):
Yeah, yeah, gotta do that.
Speaker 14 (01:20:07):
That's just straight up so that it's a fiction.
Speaker 2 (01:20:11):
Ass stop cursing.
Speaker 14 (01:20:15):
I'm sorry. It's a family show.
Speaker 9 (01:20:17):
Keep boy saying it's a family show.
Speaker 14 (01:20:19):
My dad, my dad.
Speaker 6 (01:20:21):
All right.
Speaker 9 (01:20:21):
So look, let me get this straight.
Speaker 6 (01:20:22):
All right.
Speaker 16 (01:20:23):
So the person that you're talking about is your baby father,
no me.
Speaker 14 (01:20:26):
Or him, Me and him in a relationship.
Speaker 10 (01:20:28):
All right.
Speaker 9 (01:20:29):
So this don't mean your baby.
Speaker 16 (01:20:30):
This is somebody that you deal with and his baby mother,
and his baby mother.
Speaker 9 (01:20:36):
Is a clown.
Speaker 14 (01:20:37):
Basically everybody's done now right now, this is dumb, Okay, midnight, all.
Speaker 9 (01:20:46):
Right, No, I got you.
Speaker 2 (01:20:47):
All right.
Speaker 16 (01:20:48):
So the guy that you're dealing with, his baby mother
is making up stuff about you, fabricating stories, basically telling
them that like trying to make you look crazy. She
orchestrated some some message that she didn't even edit right
to make you look bad. It just makes her look stupid.
And what is the guy saying? Is the guy falling
for the crap?
Speaker 9 (01:21:07):
Like, what's happening? Okay? This is this house right right?
Speaker 14 (01:21:14):
Not even about him. I don't care how he feel
about it, we feel about I don't care about that.
Speaker 11 (01:21:19):
Who will think you are?
Speaker 9 (01:21:21):
Yeah, that's either this. I want to beat you up, right, and.
Speaker 16 (01:21:25):
I don't want you to go to jails, so because
you don't deserve that at all. So don't even beat
her uposed?
Speaker 9 (01:21:32):
Yeah? Leave, yeah, just leave.
Speaker 14 (01:21:34):
You did this to me.
Speaker 9 (01:21:36):
You running doing this probably everywhere everywhere. I believe that.
Speaker 14 (01:21:41):
You know what, how is she needs to be exposed?
Speaker 1 (01:21:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (01:21:44):
How long y'all been dealing with each other? How long
you been dealing with this guy?
Speaker 14 (01:21:47):
I've been dealing with this guy for the last eight years,
but I've know he's my first I was like.
Speaker 16 (01:21:51):
Fourteen, oh god, and then all of all right, so
y'all got history. Y'all, So you're a threat to this
girl basically because you was dealing with him before you
even got a baby, My.
Speaker 14 (01:22:00):
Love, I'm a threat to the world, period.
Speaker 9 (01:22:02):
All right, period?
Speaker 16 (01:22:04):
Okay, all right, well, look, don't go to jail. Lead
this guy alone.
Speaker 14 (01:22:08):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 16 (01:22:10):
This baby mother is gonna make you do some things
that you don't have no business doing. And you gotta
man like you gotta realize, you gotta count that jail
says like Charlomagne always say, you gotta count. You gotta
do do your math, do your jail math, because you
can't be in jail behind this nigga.
Speaker 14 (01:22:25):
Oh, I definitely can't do a day. I'm cute for that.
I'm just saying, and.
Speaker 16 (01:22:32):
All right, well look do it that way go se
I asked you can leave you alone.
Speaker 9 (01:22:37):
You probably get a nice payday or whatever.
Speaker 12 (01:22:39):
Or next to me anywhere.
Speaker 14 (01:22:43):
She can't see that table.
Speaker 16 (01:22:44):
I'm at crazy that what she gonna have her ass
in court if you go there.
Speaker 9 (01:22:48):
So that's that's that's the best place for y'all to
handle this.
Speaker 4 (01:22:51):
All right, by party mouth, by Jesus, the craziest people
from the Bronx.
Speaker 2 (01:22:56):
Look, these are your people, They're not my people. They
are in New York. He who's this good morning?
Speaker 10 (01:23:02):
Good morning? Remain of not this morning only because okay
this is the radio.
Speaker 9 (01:23:06):
Okay, that's what's up. What's going on?
Speaker 10 (01:23:08):
So good morning death to one of the DMV shot right, God,
morning the morning. So I'm a dating look woman. She's
about thirty nine, and everything is going with for the
first like eight months. I guess you've seeing each other.
I was always making the effort, you know, trying to
get her out. Then things took a turn, and it's
(01:23:28):
like she lets her mama and her thirteen year old
daughter basically dictated control her life and her relationship. And
I keep trying to tell her life, you're gonna you're
gonna separate us by doing that. So next evening lately
she comes to.
Speaker 2 (01:23:41):
See me like once a month.
Speaker 10 (01:23:42):
Mind, you only live fifteen minutes apart, and you worth
five minutes from my house.
Speaker 9 (01:23:46):
She sees you once a month once the more.
Speaker 2 (01:23:49):
Okay, I can tell you that there is nobody else.
I know.
Speaker 10 (01:23:52):
She's a faithful woman, Okay, but she's letting her family
run all over her and not be in a relationship. Really,
they don't want to see her.
Speaker 16 (01:24:00):
Happy, so they dictate her life pretty much basically.
Speaker 10 (01:24:04):
Yeah, like as soon as they tell her to do
some shut the dinner. Oh, we'll have to see if
I have time, which would you got to hunt?
Speaker 1 (01:24:11):
Right?
Speaker 9 (01:24:12):
Right?
Speaker 16 (01:24:12):
But they don't want to see her happy because they
got that far. Yeah, they'll lose access to her, so
they don't want her to be happy in love exactly.
Speaker 10 (01:24:20):
And then her daughter on top of there, she's like, yeah,
you don't like him. He's in vaiting in my in
my territory, which, like you know, your mama hasn't been
with anybody's now there's somebody there. You feel like they're invading.
But you're a child.
Speaker 9 (01:24:34):
She's a child.
Speaker 16 (01:24:35):
How old is she you say? You said she's thirteen?
Speaker 10 (01:24:37):
Yeah, okay, I have a thirteen year old daughter too, Okay,
like that, I'm a single.
Speaker 16 (01:24:42):
Parent, right right, right, And and the daughter's father is
in her life.
Speaker 9 (01:24:47):
No, all right, So you want to know what to do.
How long y'all been dating?
Speaker 10 (01:24:51):
Yeah, because like it's been a year and six months now,
and it's like it's really getting strained training now because
it's like you ever have time unless, like you know,
I do win a lot of tickets, think y'all. By
the way, I do win a lot of tickets on
the radio, and that seems to be the only time
she can make time. Oh, you got tickets out there,
(01:25:11):
I'll go to concert with you. But you can't make
time out of the week or the weekend and hale
time go to dinner.
Speaker 16 (01:25:18):
Okay, all right, Well have you talked to her about this?
Like have you set her down? Like, look, what are
we doing?
Speaker 5 (01:25:24):
Okay?
Speaker 9 (01:25:24):
What comes of it? What are her responses?
Speaker 16 (01:25:27):
Like?
Speaker 9 (01:25:27):
Does she seem to care.
Speaker 10 (01:25:28):
Or the same thing every time? Oh, I'm gonna try
and do better. You know, I haven't been spending time,
but it's like I tell you, just everything lately, I've
been dropping a lot of like shade, if you know
what I mean.
Speaker 9 (01:25:38):
Yeah, I got yours.
Speaker 10 (01:25:40):
Her cousin is dating my best friend. She goes to
see him and he lives next door to me. Her
cousin makes time to see this every day, right, and
if I tell him, like, it must be nice when
somebody you don't see somebody every day. Yeah, I gotta
wait force of months.
Speaker 16 (01:25:54):
Yeah, well you know what it sounds. Yeah, no, it's
all good. What I think. It sounds like she doesn't
have time for a relationship, and neither does she want.
Speaker 9 (01:26:06):
To prioritize her relationship.
Speaker 16 (01:26:08):
You know, if her family is dictating, like you know,
her mom, her mom and her daughter.
Speaker 9 (01:26:12):
If they're able to dictate her life.
Speaker 16 (01:26:14):
It's about what she will it won't tolerate, you know
what I mean from them. But if this is our
way of living and this man brother, run for the hills,
because it's going to take a lot. It just seems like,
you know, a year, a year and six months, that's
eighteen months. That's that's not a lot a lot of time,
but that's much time invested to be on the same
(01:26:37):
page about this right now.
Speaker 10 (01:26:39):
And know the worst thing is is your glad. She'll
be like, oh, well, you know, whenever we live together,
then you'll get time. Why do I not wait that long?
Speaker 16 (01:26:48):
You're not even really giving me anything to make me
like even desire that.
Speaker 9 (01:26:53):
I don't even know what that.
Speaker 5 (01:26:54):
Would be like.
Speaker 10 (01:26:54):
Yeah, and love to believe it, I said, and I
felt I said the word sound good, but the actually there.
Speaker 16 (01:27:00):
Yeah, and that and that's just what it is. Yeah,
you gotta you gotta leave her, and then see.
Speaker 10 (01:27:07):
My problem is because that's my struggle.
Speaker 9 (01:27:10):
Yeah, yeah, because you like.
Speaker 10 (01:27:12):
We're gonna eight year relationship and it was hard for
me to leave and you know that was years ago.
So it's always hard to the walkway even though I
need to. And I think it's more I don't want
to hurt nobody feelings, But at the end of the day, yeah,
I get it's about yourself too.
Speaker 2 (01:27:25):
That's crazy.
Speaker 16 (01:27:26):
You don't want to hurt nobody feelings, but you are
deprived in your own relationship right now, like you could.
You could easily go cheat. I'm not telling you to
do that because I think that'll be some bs. Well
you can just leave her, But I'm just saying, like
there are brothers that will go Gee, you see your
girl once a month, like what the hell?
Speaker 2 (01:27:41):
What are we doing?
Speaker 9 (01:27:42):
Like, and you live fifteen minutes away from it, like you.
Speaker 16 (01:27:45):
She live overseas on another state or in another another city.
Speaker 10 (01:27:51):
You can make fifteen minutes or come to the house
once a week, you know, once a week just to
hang out for three minutes.
Speaker 5 (01:27:57):
Or a few hours.
Speaker 9 (01:27:58):
Yeah, I think I think what.
Speaker 10 (01:27:59):
She did you used to come over, she only came
over for like three hours. You come over at Genifo
state conswel go.
Speaker 16 (01:28:05):
Yeah, I think I think what you should do is
choose yourself for once.
Speaker 9 (01:28:10):
Just choose yourself, you know what I mean.
Speaker 16 (01:28:13):
Obviously you haven't chosen yourself or put yourself first. You
said you were in an eight year toxic relationship because
you couldn't leave. Nobody toxic is ever gonna leave you.
You gotta leave it, you know what I'm saying. So
you're she's only comfortable doing this because you allowed it,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 9 (01:28:32):
Like it is what it is.
Speaker 16 (01:28:33):
You gotta leave her, you know, and if and if
it's meant to be, she'll get herself together, you feel me,
She'll realize what she got and she'll put things into perspective,
like damn, nah, I really just let a good man go.
You know, it's perfect. My daughter's thirteen, His child is thirteen, Like,
we have so much incoming.
Speaker 2 (01:28:49):
You got.
Speaker 16 (01:28:49):
Sometimes you gotta remind somebody of what they have, and
the only way of doing that is leaving that situation.
Speaker 2 (01:28:55):
You gotta do it.
Speaker 9 (01:28:55):
You gotta be strong enough to do it. That's just
what it is, bro, Like you have to.
Speaker 16 (01:29:01):
I'll appreciate that, No problem, No problem, update me, call back,
call uh, you know, call back next week.
Speaker 9 (01:29:07):
But had that conversation with.
Speaker 16 (01:29:08):
It, be like I'm not happy and I'm sorry, Like
I gotta choose me, Like for the first time in
my love life, I have to choose me because this
this hurts me.
Speaker 9 (01:29:15):
I'm not happy and I can't keep faking it. So
we can. We gotta, we gotta separate. And that's it,
all right.
Speaker 10 (01:29:23):
I'm having a talk order this weekend and I'll get
back after next week.
Speaker 9 (01:29:26):
All right, next Thursday. I need to hear from you.
Speaker 2 (01:29:28):
Good love, bro. I got to just fix my mess.
Eight hundred and five eighty five one five one. When
we come back. We got the latest with Lauren. It's
the Breakfast Club. Good morning, coming straight back, man. She
gets the from somebody that knows. Somebody gets to detail.
Speaker 9 (01:29:43):
I'm a long girl. That was a little bit about everything.
Speaker 2 (01:29:46):
She'd be having the latest on this The latest with
Lauren La Rosa.
Speaker 5 (01:29:51):
Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details.
Speaker 2 (01:29:53):
Sometimes you have a little bit everything. So it's the
latest on the Breakfast Cloud. Talk to me ll.
Speaker 9 (01:29:58):
Cool Bay, right, guys.
Speaker 13 (01:30:01):
So Glorrilla has the people having a conversation about whether
we want a Glowrilla R and B album or not.
So Glorilla got on her ex account and she tweeted
that she will be dropping an R and B album. Now,
whether she is serious about this or not, we do
not know. But I mean she's leaned into the R
and B. You know, she just dropped the type of
and she you know, she's a little melodic as well.
(01:30:21):
But people are debating right now what a glowrialer R
and B album would sound like she is, But I mean,
but she could she I know she was doing performances,
like when she would do her stage performances, sometimes she
would do some R and B songs and like fake
cover like you know, kind of just something in the show.
Speaker 16 (01:30:42):
I think it would have to be a lot of samples,
but she wouldn't be singing.
Speaker 9 (01:30:48):
We don't know what her idea of a glowial R
and B album would.
Speaker 2 (01:30:51):
Be samples of army music, or she could sing Drake
did the R and B album.
Speaker 16 (01:30:56):
He got like a little little tune though, like Drakes
and like a little little note, a little note.
Speaker 13 (01:31:02):
You can't edit that up, pun shut up, can't you?
Like if she's singing and she's like.
Speaker 9 (01:31:05):
Karmenie performing it, that's the thing. Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1 (01:31:08):
I just want more glorial music, Okay. Type of could
be the first single off of whatever her new project is. Yes, whatever,
we're not even just RM beat whatever her new her
new project is. Because if it wasn't for Kendrick Lamar
last year Glorious would have been the best hip hop album.
Speaker 2 (01:31:22):
Yes, yeah, yeah, I could see that.
Speaker 10 (01:31:26):
Well.
Speaker 13 (01:31:26):
She got the people start with this one, like people,
I don't know why people love to get mad about.
Speaker 9 (01:31:29):
Things that shouldn't even like on social.
Speaker 13 (01:31:33):
Media, her saying she wants to do an R and
B album shouldn't make people be like, like a lot of.
Speaker 5 (01:31:38):
People really got nothing else to do.
Speaker 9 (01:31:40):
I saw it. I was like, what does that mean?
Speaker 16 (01:31:43):
Just trying to figure out how she would come with
an R and B album? Mommy, I don't know about
getting mad about it, but being curious just to see why,
like her, what what?
Speaker 5 (01:31:52):
What's so crazy? If she's clearly playing maybe.
Speaker 9 (01:31:56):
Not there at the end of the tweet. I mean,
we don't know.
Speaker 5 (01:32:03):
Is the queen of sarcasm on social media?
Speaker 13 (01:32:05):
Yeah, but wouldn't be off if she she dropped today
like a like a snoop gospel, if she dropped anything
today that she's previewing a song that maybe on this album.
I wouldn't be surprised because I think she can she
can lean into that and we'd.
Speaker 9 (01:32:20):
Be alright with it. And she knows.
Speaker 16 (01:32:22):
I mean, she's probably cool with like a lot of
the R and B, like the Kailani's, the Givings, the Khaleads,
the you know what I mean, she might she might
really jump in that bag, the variot of scientists.
Speaker 9 (01:32:31):
You know what I'm saying. It might be a feature
album with a bunch of RM.
Speaker 13 (01:32:34):
Yeah, whatever she wants, ay and stop playing with that girl.
She kind of I mean, she's rapping still, but it's
a little Yeah.
Speaker 9 (01:32:41):
I don't got her singing.
Speaker 2 (01:32:42):
I got her R and B making this up.
Speaker 9 (01:32:45):
Now up, I got her. I've been trying to.
Speaker 13 (01:32:49):
I've been trying to grab the melody of what the
album would be like y'all.
Speaker 9 (01:32:52):
So I was just trying to I don't got her singing.
Speaker 16 (01:32:54):
I gotta just do it like, you know, like collaboration
with a bunch of different R and B artists.
Speaker 13 (01:32:57):
Well in other music conversations, so juvenile many frus have
dropped a podcast. It's called Still four hundred via Breakbeat.
Still is from Still Fly four hundred from four hundred degrees.
The first guests were the eighty five South Show and
they're having a conversation about who is on your South
Mount rushmore of artists.
Speaker 6 (01:33:15):
Listen, who's on y'all?
Speaker 9 (01:33:16):
South, Mount Rushmore, go ahead, talk about.
Speaker 4 (01:33:23):
Hard for your Yeah it hold okay, g I number one,
I gotta go with it.
Speaker 2 (01:33:28):
Out cares give me.
Speaker 4 (01:33:30):
Skall faight, I got skall fade and did I gotta
go with field.
Speaker 6 (01:33:35):
Mall all right, I take I take three steps, take wing.
I put ju up there in project Pat myself.
Speaker 5 (01:33:49):
Man.
Speaker 4 (01:33:49):
I gotta go PIMPSI master p project Pat me personally.
I gotta go Gucci all right, yeah, Gucci man.
Speaker 9 (01:33:59):
One who's on y'alls?
Speaker 1 (01:34:01):
One?
Speaker 9 (01:34:02):
Maybe two people? They don't do like five.
Speaker 5 (01:34:05):
It's only four from Mount Rushmore.
Speaker 2 (01:34:06):
Outcast.
Speaker 1 (01:34:07):
I don't like when they say outcast, because that's that's
not the way Mount Rushmore works.
Speaker 2 (01:34:11):
The group though, because it's I mean, you gotta put
them there.
Speaker 4 (01:34:13):
They're one group that takes one because they take one
spot for the outcast.
Speaker 5 (01:34:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 9 (01:34:20):
You don't have no y'all don't have who would be?
Speaker 1 (01:34:22):
You got to be specific because you have down South
pioneers and then you have down South artists like you know,
for me, For me, I wouldn't put like if I
would do on a pioneer list, I'm putting Matthew p
Uncle Luke Jermaine Dupree and probably J Prince on a
on a list of pioneers, right because J Prince, But
then lyricists is something different from lyricist? Is t I
(01:34:45):
for sure scarface for sure? And I really would have
to think hard about the other two on that list
because hear the thing about the Mount Rushmore. When I
think about Mount Rushmore, I put the person who started that,
so t I started that trap music, correct, Therefore I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (01:35:01):
Put g Z on there.
Speaker 5 (01:35:02):
I would actually put Little John on that.
Speaker 2 (01:35:04):
But then yeah, you gotta put GI scar.
Speaker 5 (01:35:06):
Face, Little John and an artist I don't know. I
really I would have to think about that.
Speaker 2 (01:35:10):
Got to put face on the scar face that.
Speaker 1 (01:35:12):
TI scar face definitely when you're talking about artists, TI
scar face Little John, and I would really have to
think hard about.
Speaker 2 (01:35:18):
Who the last not put out cast on it? You
know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (01:35:20):
I want to put our casts on there, but there
group like I want to put them on there. I
want to say t I scar face little John in outcast,
but it is always confused.
Speaker 2 (01:35:28):
And how you don't put Gucci on there because so
many artists came from.
Speaker 9 (01:35:36):
Andred thousand, Gucci and g Z mm hmm but I
know you were going to.
Speaker 2 (01:35:40):
Say my personal favor.
Speaker 1 (01:35:42):
My personal favorite is t I g Z Killer Mike Scarface.
Speaker 2 (01:35:46):
But that's not amount.
Speaker 1 (01:35:47):
I wouldn't put that in aster, my Rushmore, My Rushmore,
t I Scarface, Little John, and I'll do our cast
if y'all do.
Speaker 5 (01:35:53):
If y'all going group GK.
Speaker 2 (01:35:55):
I mean this tough man, and you can't.
Speaker 1 (01:35:58):
And that's why you gotta do a Pioneers because you
can't leave off Matthe you can't leave off, cannot leave off,
you can't leave off. You can't leave off Prince. You
don't get you don't get most of this stuff without them.
Speaker 9 (01:36:09):
Yeah, well, I don't have him out Rushmore for the South?
Who you like?
Speaker 5 (01:36:12):
Everyone?
Speaker 2 (01:36:13):
What's your mount Rushmore for Baltimore?
Speaker 5 (01:36:15):
You know what, I'm being disrespect Come on, don't disrespect
me like that. I got to be objective. I'm being
distressed for Baltimore.
Speaker 1 (01:36:21):
T I Scarface. You gotta put Wayne up there, Wayne, Wayne,
you gotta put.
Speaker 13 (01:36:27):
It's because he's resignated so much out of the South,
you forget about him.
Speaker 1 (01:36:30):
And I can make a case for Julie too. Yes,
I'm just saying I don't like this stuff. Yeah, I
don't like it.
Speaker 13 (01:36:38):
Yeah, we'll make sure you guys go and check out
their new That was their first episode. Great conversation so far,
and as we rap, I just want to tell y'all,
Suki Hannah said after ray J's interview.
Speaker 9 (01:36:49):
She is not giving out any more.
Speaker 5 (01:36:50):
Kuchi, So Delaware Rappers, Mount Rushmore.
Speaker 9 (01:36:55):
I got, yeah, Nay, Bobby Domes Suki Hannah.
Speaker 4 (01:36:59):
Suki and so all right, period and how do you
not say the birthday boy Future Future.
Speaker 16 (01:37:05):
Is Delaware once again, girl more talking a Mount Rushmore.
Speaker 1 (01:37:12):
It's a different conversation. Future is one of than ones.
But Mount Rushmore means the people who shoulders, that folks
stand on. The foundation was laid because of a lot
of these newer artists staying on Future show. This is yeah,
all right, well Joe Biden, this is birthday.
Speaker 2 (01:37:29):
Delaware, Delaware.
Speaker 9 (01:37:30):
You just got the birthday, sure.
Speaker 13 (01:37:35):
Right, And we got Biden, we got Suki, Bobby Don
r B Bobby.
Speaker 2 (01:37:39):
Don's bars, all his best bars. You ain't black.
Speaker 13 (01:37:45):
Yeah the top with it too, and you ain't saying nothing.
You can even you can't even wrap.
Speaker 5 (01:37:49):
Back if you're saying that you're not a real journalist.
Speaker 2 (01:37:53):
Let's get to the mix of Future Today.
Speaker 4 (01:37:56):
They start off with Future's the breakfast slogan morning everybody
is the v Jess hilarious, Charlamagne the guy. We are
to Breakfast Club now. Salute to doctor Joel A. Tubman
for joining us this morning.
Speaker 2 (01:38:07):
Man, what a great conversation. Man.
Speaker 1 (01:38:08):
Make sure you go pick up his book, The Fight
to find Yourself, Moving from Uncertain to Unstoppable.
Speaker 6 (01:38:15):
That's right.
Speaker 1 (01:38:15):
What did you take from the conversation, Lauren? He had
a lot to say to you. I thought that was dope.
Speaker 9 (01:38:19):
Yeah, I thought it was great.
Speaker 13 (01:38:21):
I took from the conversation that it's a forever like
this journey of finding yourself is like a forever thing
because where he feels like he is right now, I
am so far and I'm not there, and I'm okay
with that, and there's a lot of work to do,
and I think there will always be a lot of
work to do.
Speaker 9 (01:38:35):
It is what I took from this.
Speaker 1 (01:38:36):
If you're doing life right, you're constantly finding yourself.
Speaker 2 (01:38:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 13 (01:38:39):
But I think the biggest thing I learned from it
is that I actually know that I'm finding myself and
I'm okay with it because at one point I feel
like I wasn't okay with I'm finding myself because people
think you have it all together when you got.
Speaker 10 (01:38:48):
This phone on.
Speaker 1 (01:38:49):
And I also believe that you know people you don't.
You don't have to know everything, Like it's a constant
journey of learning.
Speaker 2 (01:38:54):
Every day. Every day you should be learning something.
Speaker 5 (01:38:57):
But that's tough to learn.
Speaker 13 (01:38:59):
No, not to learn, but to learn that you don't
have to know everything, because in certain instances in life,
I've been like not even Twitter, I mean just being
like even in my household, you've grown.
Speaker 9 (01:39:11):
Up only the first giving her actual advice, advice.
Speaker 13 (01:39:16):
Or just even accepting like loving, you know, positive things.
I think that that's why, look here we go. I
think it does stem from that issues. And I also
think it stems from having like my mom never really
acknowledged like daddy issues because I was just cool.
Speaker 9 (01:39:37):
I was taken care of.
Speaker 13 (01:39:37):
So I've never known how to allow men to come
into my life and even extend the hand because my mom,
like she had to figure it out.
Speaker 9 (01:39:45):
Love you was straight, I got you. Yeah, But we
love you. I love you.
Speaker 1 (01:40:00):
You that God damn I love you man?
Speaker 2 (01:40:06):
You know, does this bother you?
Speaker 9 (01:40:11):
The mocking and going through.
Speaker 13 (01:40:14):
And he still finding his identity, and Charlemagne is just
still in the closet, so in the.
Speaker 1 (01:40:18):
Closet of what you are so homophobic? Gets discussed discussed
being home for we can't have on the show.
Speaker 2 (01:40:29):
I don't know. I love him, I love all crazy.
All right, Okay, it's too much.
Speaker 6 (01:40:35):
It's too much.
Speaker 2 (01:40:36):
What you say this is too much, is too much.
Speaker 1 (01:40:39):
Yesterday rot But I don't know.
Speaker 5 (01:40:44):
He's putting no further questions your honor.
Speaker 2 (01:40:48):
Question he wrote for no reason. I think he was
asking about Shela. I think you wrote that. I don't know.
You gotta find it, man.
Speaker 16 (01:40:56):
Yo, before we get out of here, first week of
the semi heart for Connecticut, I will be back Manchester,
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Funny Bone Comedy Club, I'll be there. We got to
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Speaker 2 (01:41:16):
Yes, indeed, all right, you got a positive note. I do.
I want to remind people too.
Speaker 10 (01:41:20):
Man.
Speaker 1 (01:41:20):
This Saturday, from ten am to twelve pm, I'm having
my twelfth annual Thanksgiving giveaway and Monks Corner, South Carolina
at the Berkeley High School Student Parking Lot. Man so
you know we'll have turkeys and you know all the fixings.
You know all the fixings to put together a nice
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Berkeley County Area pull up.
Speaker 5 (01:41:42):
And the positive note today comes from Maya and Angelou. Okay, Maya.
Speaker 1 (01:41:45):
Angelou once said, you may encounter many defeats, but you
must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary
to encounter the defeats so you can know who you are,
what you can rise from, and how you can still
come out of it.
Speaker 5 (01:41:57):
Have a great day, Breakfast club bitches, so you're finish
with your dut
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Speaker 4 (00:15):
Yes is down here, Yes Charlamagne Nakahan, Peace to the
planet is Thursday.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
How y'all feel out there? I feel blessed, Black and
Holly Favorite. Happy to be here another day to serve
our beautiful listeners. Good morning, Good morning. How you feeling, man?
I feel fantastic. I feel great. God woke me up
this morning. I had an amazing dream like that. I
had an amazing couple of dream yesterday because you know,
I'm old. Was I had to take a nap because
I had things to do yesterday afternoon.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
So was that any of them?
Speaker 5 (00:38):
No, you weren't. Actually none of these. But I did
have a couple of dreams.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
I had a dream that I had a h what
an Asian extraterrestrial interior designer?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Okay, what was he designing?
Speaker 5 (00:53):
It was a young lady Okay.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
She had on a black wool cap and like a
black baggy black sweatshirt, baggy black sweatpants, and she was
talking like, uh, you've seen the Incredibles before. Remember the
woman that was making the costumes in the Incredibles the suits?
What was her name, edd the molde ed the mod
I think her name was. She was talking like her. Okay, yes,
I don't know what that meant. And then I had
(01:15):
another dream that a good friend of mine found God.
So I woke up this morning and text.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Her that, okay, yes, right, good on it. I went
to a tie restaurant. You have an a tie food?
You like ta food? I went to a tie restaurant.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
What's wrong with you man? Trying to make everything so
stupid all the time? Okay, yes, you had to eye food.
I liked to, let me tell you. So I went
to this place.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
Well, actually, when Madison was young, we used to go
to this this tire restaurant in Jersey, and then it
closed down. And I found out that the owner used
to work at all these restaurants. He had all these restaurants,
and he was Barack Obama chef. He retired and his
daughter got married to a Dominican and they reopened another stop.
So now it's called Ti Chef Junior. So he gave
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all the recipes to his son in law.
Speaker 5 (01:58):
I thought Obama Chef died or something like that, but he.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
Was one of the chefs that cooked for Barack Obama.
So yeah, so I went to his new restaurant. It's
called Ti Chef Junior Elton Jersey, and.
Speaker 5 (02:07):
The Obama never takes that man food whatever in life.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
They got pictures of everything with each other. So I
don't know. You hate tie, I hate tie tie? All right,
ty was good?
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Okay, congratulations, thank you man, thank you, you know, but
nothing congratulations.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I ain't had tied in a minute, all.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
Right, anyway, See, you would make everything funny. Anyway, I'm
thinking what we do, what happened?
Speaker 1 (02:28):
I can't even have a conversation about time food, about
this guy.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
This guy is something else, no me, that's you Jesus Christ.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
But we got a special guest joining us this morning,
doctor Joel a Tudman.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
He was joining us. He has a new book.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Yes, he has a pastor and the other a new
book called The Fight to find Yourself, Moving from uncertain
the Unstoppable. If you ever tune in the Potter's House,
you remember doctor Joe used to appreciate Potter's house, right, yes,
so we'll talk to him in a little He's fantastic.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Jess is gonna be fixing somebody's mess. And of course
we got front page news with Mimi. So don't go anywhere.
Wake your glass up.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
I had a fish an Instagram shopper too.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
You hit me.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
My wife's trying to tell me about instagram shopping. For
so long, I'll be buying all types of stuff off
Timu and Havy coof andy and sweats, all them comfortable,
affordable fits.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
I tried to buy one one time, and one pocket
was hided in the other pocket.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
It was hiding. You got see.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
I know you ain't never grew up off coffee shows,
so you just appreciate that, embrace the treaty like a
Gordon Guard trail.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
I don't want to know what matter like all of that.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
It don't matter, like has gotta be symmetry.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
I don't a sleeve long than the other way, and I.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
Had a pocket on my ankle yesterday. I don't care.
It feels comfortable and it's affordable. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
All right, Well, good morning everybody. We are the breakfast club.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Let's get in some front page news now on Thursday
Nights football. The Buffalo Bills play the Texas tonight at
eight point fifteen.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Right, what's up to me?
Speaker 7 (03:47):
Good morning in Big Good Morning's Charlaagne, How y'all doing?
Speaker 5 (03:50):
Bless Black and Holly Favorite? How are you good?
Speaker 8 (03:52):
I'm good? Thank you?
Speaker 9 (03:54):
All Right?
Speaker 7 (03:54):
Well, we started this morning in Washington, where President Trump
has now signed the Epstein Files Transparency Act into law,
officially ordering the Justice Department to release all unclassified records
connected to Jeffrey Epstein. It's a stunning reversal from the President,
who just days ago opposed releasing the files. Now, Congress
they passed the bill with overwhelming bipartisan support four hundred
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and twenty seven to one in the House and unanimously
in the Senate before sending it to the White House
on Tuesday night. Now, under the new law, Attorney General
Pambondi has thirty days to publish all unclassified DLJ and
FBI documents, internal communications, and investigative materials related to Epstein,
but it's unclear how much of that information will actually
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become public. The law includes several carve outs that allow
the Justice Department to redact or withhold information that could
reveal victim's identities, exposed, personal or medical information, contain child
sexual abuse material, or interfere with an active investigation, and
that active investigation clause may now be a major factor.
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Just days before signing the bill, President Trump announced on
true Social that he was ordering Bondi to launch a
new federal investigation into Epstein's relations with several high profile
figures including Bill Clinton, Larry Summers, Reed Hoffman, JP, Morgan Chase,
among many others, and other institutions. Now hours later, Bondi
confirmed that she would open that investigation. This morning, Republican
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Congressman Tom Massey sounding the alarm, saying he fears the
President could use this new investigation delay to avoid releasing
the files altogether.
Speaker 8 (05:30):
Let's listen to what he had to say.
Speaker 10 (05:32):
I'm further going to try and use a provision of
the law that allows you not to release these materials.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
If they're subject of an ongoing investigation. Did these files implicate.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Billionaires and friends of hand of his and political donors
that he's trying to protect?
Speaker 9 (05:52):
And Epstein also had close ties.
Speaker 7 (05:54):
To our own intelligence agencies and his Ruse intelligence agency.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
That's why there's so much effort in trying to stop this.
Speaker 7 (06:04):
Yes, And at a press conference yesterday, Bondi was asked
directly whether this investigation would block or slow down the
release of those files.
Speaker 8 (06:12):
Let's listen to that exchange as.
Speaker 7 (06:14):
An an investigation by the Southern District of New York
US Attorney prevent the Department from releasing all of the
remaining files.
Speaker 11 (06:21):
So we have released thirty three thousand, over thirty three
thousand Epstein documents to the Hill, and we'll continue to
follow the law and to have maximum transparency. Also, we
will always encourage all victims to come forward.
Speaker 12 (06:37):
Do you mean that you will provide all the files
by thirty days?
Speaker 9 (06:42):
We will follow the law.
Speaker 11 (06:43):
The law passed both chambers, but we will continue to
follow the law again while protecting victims but also providing
maximum transparency.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
It was going to be released as probably a big
redacted nothing burger that that will only show Trump's op
like Clinton and Hoffman and some is all the people
he already named it they done for. But it's not
going to point the finger at Trump or any of
his allies. But I will say for any Republicans, any
traditional conservatives that want to take that party back, now
is your time to shine because y'all would know the truth.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
So if there's something you can use.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
In these files to take your party back from MAGA,
now is your time.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
But anything under that investigation can't be shown. So if
he just said he's investigating those individuals, you can't see
none of those files. So it's like, what are you opening?
It's nothing like it's nothing open but envy.
Speaker 8 (07:30):
To your point.
Speaker 7 (07:31):
So, under the law, if the DLJ withholds any information
because of the investigation, they have to they must publicly
explain why within fifteen days. So I mean they can
give any explanation, but within fifteen days, if they're going
to withhold anything, they have to give a public statement
or explanation as to why they are withholding those in
fat information. So we'll see if that helps out with
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us finding out anything. But even though that bill is
signed in the thirty day countdown has begun, what the public,
as you guys were saying, will actually see and how
much could be hidden under the banner of active investigation
remains to be seen.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
And also, since when does this administration follow the law?
Does this administration do whatever they say, they're told, whatever
they're told to do, they don't do that?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
They don't follow the rules. My point exactly.
Speaker 7 (08:19):
Yeah, So we'll see and an investigation development that can
completely unravel the government's case against James Comy and the
Justice Department admitting in court yesterday that the indictment against
federal against former FBI director James Komy it was never
presented to a full grand jury, which is a basic
requirement under the law, instead interim US Attorney General or
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US Attorney Lindsay Halligan, who had no prosecutorial experience. You
guys will remember that before taking this role, had only
the grand jury four person assigned the indictment that Comee's
lawyers say that mistake alone could should wipe out the
case because without a proper grand jury vote, the vote
the case is not bound and the legal deadline to
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charge him has already passed. And this isn't the only
Trump administration case targeting a political rival that is raising questions.
In a separate filing, Fanny May's own fraud investigators say
that they found no clear evidence that New York Attorney
General Letitia James committed mortgage fraud, even though she's now
facing charges.
Speaker 8 (09:19):
Her attorneys say this case.
Speaker 7 (09:20):
Only move forward because of a Trump ally he pushed
for it, and after Attorney General Pambondi put Halligan in
charge of the original after the original prosecutor refused to
bring the case. So we'll continue to watch what happens
in both of those cases.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
All right, well that is front page news.
Speaker 9 (09:35):
Thank you, Mimi, of course.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
Now everybody else, get it off your chest. Eight hundred
five eight five one oh five one. If you need
to vent, phone lines wide open again. Eight hundred five
eight five one oh five one. Call us up right now.
It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, dog.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
This is your time to get it off your chest.
Speaker 6 (09:53):
She call it eight hundred five eight five one five
to one. We want to hear from you on the
breakfast glove.
Speaker 11 (10:00):
On.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Who's this?
Speaker 10 (10:01):
What's up?
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Man?
Speaker 10 (10:01):
My name is Robo from North Carolina.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Bro, what's up Romeo? How you doing? My brother?
Speaker 12 (10:06):
I'm right man, I want to speak my mind this wanting.
Speaker 10 (10:08):
Then I got fired for no reason because, oh, I
guess my boss decided to take a younger guy's advice
and he lied on me and said I was in
the bathroom of the apartment store smoking a box of cigarette.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
A whole box. How you smoke a whole box? Of cigarette.
Speaker 10 (10:25):
I don't even smoke, though, Charley, I.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
Believe you because smoking is nasty.
Speaker 10 (10:29):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Smoking is disgusted. Have you smoking some weed or something?
That's a different story, but just a cigarette. I'm with you.
Speaker 10 (10:35):
That's right, man. They didn't check the cameras another man.
They just let me go. Man, and I got two kids.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Bro, ain't you I might have to go to human
resources if they got a human resource department, and you
might have to go see an attorney.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Brother.
Speaker 10 (10:46):
Okay, it's in the rocking plug in my cash up.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
But you just got fired. Your times ain't that hard?
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Now?
Speaker 2 (10:52):
You just got fired win about two weeks ago?
Speaker 5 (10:55):
Oh okay, all right, we'll go ahead. Your cash that
boat all my cash up, dollar time.
Speaker 10 (10:59):
G u A see oh f l y.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Now I'm gonna tell you something.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Though, people usually put money in cash aff for very
compelling stories. I just got firing story for you know,
because you smoking cigarettes. That's not compelling in no way,
shape or form. It's a lot of people that just
lost their job, brother, over the last couple of weeks.
Speaker 9 (11:15):
Yeah, I'm sorry to here, but don't you got another
check coming?
Speaker 10 (11:17):
Still?
Speaker 2 (11:17):
They came already two weeks is up.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
Probably just got it.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Well, enjoy the holiday the best you can, my brother,
sorry brother, better man.
Speaker 5 (11:25):
Much love, Yes, sir, get it off your chest.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If
you need the vin, call us up right now. It's
the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Ray right ray yo, Charlae
mag yafy what up are we lost? This is your
time to get it off your chest.
Speaker 10 (11:39):
I got an indoor pool.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
Get on the.
Speaker 10 (11:43):
Phone right now here, tell you what it is.
Speaker 6 (11:45):
We lie. Hello, who's this?
Speaker 10 (11:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (11:48):
This is Trevor, Trevor, Trevor. Off your chest, Trevor.
Speaker 12 (11:53):
Oh yeah, like my thing is. You know, I want
to put it out there, mag of, mag of.
Speaker 10 (11:57):
We don't have no fracture. It's a maga. It's no fracture.
That's a false narrative.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Oh maga, yes, sar okay all day.
Speaker 12 (12:06):
Yeah, so it's no fraction in the Maga party. And
also I want to state this because you know, I
sit back and listen and I heard this this, this,
this thing about Trump, this.
Speaker 10 (12:17):
Trump that, But I want to say, like this, try
the man.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
I don't care, bro, you know, no.
Speaker 12 (12:23):
No, I want to say that. Remember when Joe Baden
told you at the end of that podcast, if you
don't vote for.
Speaker 10 (12:30):
Him, you ain't black.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Yes, I do. That's some of the.
Speaker 12 (12:33):
Most disrespectful stuff that you want to talk about white
people racist. That's one of the most racist things that
an old white man can tell a black man. If
you don't vote for me, you ain't black.
Speaker 10 (12:47):
Trump.
Speaker 12 (12:48):
Trump is one of the best presidents outside of Abraham
Lincoln that's.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
In that chair.
Speaker 10 (12:53):
You know, I mean this false. I'm not this false narrative.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
I'm not about to.
Speaker 12 (13:00):
But but like you, remember when Joe Biden told you.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
That, right I was sitting there.
Speaker 12 (13:03):
He said to me, yes, he said nothing negative, but
he said nothing negative about.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
That about who about Joe Biden.
Speaker 12 (13:12):
Yeah, the most disrespectful stuff. And he told you that
to your face on your podcast, if you don't vote him.
So basically he's.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Saying, but that's that's not true.
Speaker 12 (13:20):
You know where you're supposed to stand as a black man.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
That what he told you, Yes and yes, And as
I told him in that moment, you know, it's not
about me being black. It's about me wanting something from
my people. So I mean that was that was the comment.
Speaker 12 (13:34):
But had Trump but but had Trump said something like that,
it would have exploded. But that but outside but outside
of that, I would have said to that news lady,
I want to get to that news report the Yeah,
she got to report the real storage like like she
(13:56):
got a narrative, like like she reported and she got
that little narrative, that negative narrative about the King, about
the don you know my brother my brother.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
No, no, no, don't hang up on it. This is a
good conversation. There is no way that you could I've.
Speaker 12 (14:13):
Been knowing about Trump. I've been knowing about Trump since
the eighties. Man, I come up in the inner city
all my life. I've been knowing about Trump since the
eighties from Richmond.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
If you knew about Trump since the eighties, you'd have
a whole anyway, I'm not even have a conversation.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
This is what I will say.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
It's impossible for you to be objective about Donald Trump
because you just called that man King.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
And don like I don't know why we were like
why do so anything that you hear.
Speaker 12 (14:36):
Because like I know it's gonna trigger, Because I know
it's gonna trigger.
Speaker 10 (14:39):
You know what I'm saying And.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Don't trigger me. I just don't know.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
I just know I can't have an objective conversation with
you about.
Speaker 12 (14:46):
Them, but you have to go Also, I just want
to say this though, if y'all can go back and
look at it, look at the interview with Oprah.
Speaker 10 (14:52):
Winford back in the mid eighties when Oprah, when Oprahader
stores Chicrgo, she used to have Donald Trump on.
Speaker 12 (14:59):
This Swater's time.
Speaker 10 (15:00):
She always used to ask Trump about runners for president.
You know, Jesse Jackson, you looked out for Jackson, Jackson,
Paul girl from the like we did that movie with
Beyonce on what's her name? Like, the singer the black
girl who family.
Speaker 12 (15:15):
Yeah, Jennifer Hudson.
Speaker 10 (15:16):
Bump took her in after that incident happened with her
family with Michael Jackson.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
I never heard that, Michael, you never heard of that. No,
but listen, bro, you gotta get off your knees.
Speaker 6 (15:26):
Man.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
You call that white man the king this morning the
ladies is crazy. The Krispy Kreme around your lips right
now is ridiculous. And I'm not if that's your opinion,
that's your opinion, but god damn, you can't even be
objective and have an objective conversation with somebody like that.
If you refer to your president as a king act,
that's ridiculous. That is, you should never refer to no
elected official as a king.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
Bro all right, well, we got the ladiest of Laura
coming up. What we're talking about?
Speaker 13 (15:51):
We talking about Cardi b because she got the people
going again. There are rumors that she may be engaged,
and I got some answers.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
All right, we'll get to that. It's the breakfast in
the morning.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
I will never ever say anything about people who buy
from Sheen Fashion.
Speaker 5 (16:05):
Over ever again.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Okay, I just bought one two th I just bought
four outfits for three hundred dollars. One is a three
piece matching set. Three three piece matching set.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (16:18):
It's a turtleneck like a peak coat and the pants.
Speaker 9 (16:22):
Okay, where are you going to speak at?
Speaker 6 (16:23):
That?
Speaker 9 (16:23):
Sounds like it sounds like you write a book.
Speaker 5 (16:28):
What's your name? Coof Andy?
Speaker 2 (16:31):
When he watched that one time, It's gonna fall about? Yeah,
what matter? One time Charlamagne came in with these cargoes.
I was like, where do you get them? Cargoes? I said,
I gonna order up here eight dollars. One leg was
longer than the other.
Speaker 4 (16:43):
There was one pocket on one one pick wore. There
was no symmetry to the Guard trail.
Speaker 13 (16:48):
Bro I told him is that some of the Instagram
stores is not for tall people.
Speaker 9 (16:52):
It worked for him because he little.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
They went with short. I could see my socks and
my ankles.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Rest in peace, Malcolm Jamal water Man Lisa boenat Gordon
Guard Trail. Y'all y'all too good to wear Gordon Guard trout.
Wait till I come in here with this effortless luxury
three piece matching set.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Christ let's get to the ladies with Lord Lorne coming
straight back. She gets them somebody that knows somebody detail.
Speaker 9 (17:17):
I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
She'd be having the latest on the things, the latest
with Laura la Rosa.
Speaker 5 (17:25):
Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Sometimes you have a little bit of everything. So it's
the latest on the breakfast club.
Speaker 4 (17:32):
Oh and Lauren, you know what you know the strings
that hang from the cargo pants. You stringing all the
way down to my ankle.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
That's how we want talking on my ankle yesterday. It
don't matter. It's one hundred dollars.
Speaker 9 (17:43):
Okay, we three piece.
Speaker 5 (17:45):
I'm so effortless luxury matching.
Speaker 9 (17:47):
Try furniture from Timo, just try it.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
Huh.
Speaker 9 (17:52):
All right, let's keep going, all right. So Cardi B.
Speaker 13 (17:55):
Cardi B yesterday posted some photos because we know we
did the story here that she welcomed her baby a
few weeks ago, so she posted some photos with her
new baby boy, her and sefon Dick's baby.
Speaker 9 (18:05):
The baby is wrapped in a Patriots blanket with a
matching hat.
Speaker 13 (18:10):
There are also some photos of them in the hospital
when the baby was first born. Now, the caption says
the date November fourth, which is what we now know
was the day that their son was born. But in
one of the photos, when you swipe through, the baby's
laying all swaddled in the blanket and Cardi B's hand,
her left hand is in the photo and there's a
ring on her left hand. So the fans went wild,
(18:32):
thinking that this was an engagement ring. So I spoke
to Cardi Beach wrapped yesterday, who tells me that that
is not an engagement ring. There's nothing to see here.
But people have been sending congratulations to Cardi on the baby,
including the NFL now the NFFL Okay, So the NFL
posted the same photos I just told you all about
(18:53):
in the midst of all of the potentially engaged conversation,
and people were in the common upset. People were trying
to figure out why the NFL were posting the photos
the safe congratulations to me, I think.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
We know baby.
Speaker 13 (19:08):
Yeah, it's for the baby. And of course Stephan is
in the NFL. But the point that people are trying
to make is we saw it Taylor Swift, and I
think people get upset anytime the NFL does anything but
just talk about numbers in sports. They're like, why are
you guys leaning into this just because this is trending
right now? We don't care about his personal life, Like,
why is the NFL posting this.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
First of all the same reason that y'all lean into
all of these celebrities lives. Like everybody wants to be
a part of the algorithm. They want to be a
part of whatever pop culture story is going on. So
if the NFL is.
Speaker 5 (19:35):
Doing that, I don't I don't have an issue with it.
Speaker 4 (19:38):
Yeah, it's Stephan things. He plays for the NFL. He's
congratulating one of the the NFL not to do what y'all.
Speaker 12 (19:46):
Like.
Speaker 5 (19:46):
You don't want the NFL to do exactly what y'all doing.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Makes no sense.
Speaker 13 (19:49):
I mean, people got upset when they were doing the
whole thing with Teller Swift too, like making sure she
was on the camera acting the players about her being
there like.
Speaker 9 (19:55):
People were upset about that as well. I can understand that,
why could she white?
Speaker 1 (19:59):
No, I just I don't like Taylor Swift.
Speaker 13 (20:02):
I did want to mention too, when Cardi B had
posted these photos, there was a cute exchange between her
and Stefan Diggs in the comments, so he commented and said,
proud of you, boo, but love you, and she said,
I love you more, thank you for my handsome son.
Speaker 9 (20:15):
Love y'all much. I will congratulations to them.
Speaker 5 (20:17):
I don't dis like Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1 (20:18):
I don't know her to dislike her, but I will
say that I just felt like it was too much
for a girlfriend. Now that she's engaged, Okay, I can
understand it a little bit more. But you know, I
think that all that camera time should actually be reserved
for watch.
Speaker 4 (20:30):
Okay, yes, well, there's no famous wife like Taylor Swift.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
That's not my problem.
Speaker 4 (20:36):
Well, they wanted to Swift and the fact that people
are watching because of Taylor Swift, They're gonna dive right
into it.
Speaker 9 (20:41):
You're definitely tuning in because of.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
They're engaged now, so I can I can see a
little bit more of the camera commitment.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
This guy.
Speaker 9 (20:48):
She just don't like her. Helman said, it's not true.
Speaker 13 (20:50):
Well, in other news, speaking of just you know, I'm
just not even speaking of in other news, Megda Stallion.
So you guys know, Megda Stallion is in court right now.
He a defamation lawsuit that she has against a blogger,
and yesterday in court it came out because Meg y'all know,
Meg go's online, and she talks about how a lot
of the online hate she receives following the shooting that
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happened in twenty twenty, what it.
Speaker 9 (21:15):
Does to her.
Speaker 13 (21:16):
Like we've heard her vocally talk about this, and I
think people don't really grasp what that means and a
lot of people don't believe her when she says it.
So yesterday a former manager of Megda Sallians, got on
the stand and they were talking about just kind of
what some of the damage that has been done to
her because of online things that have been spreading. They
are alleging that this blogger spread things such as like
deep fake or alleged deep fake porn and stuff like
(21:38):
that which ultimately hurt Meghan. He mentioned that Megda Sallions
spent two hundred and forty thousand dollars attending a four
week therapy session to deal with the emotional distress that
Megan claimed she felt after this blogger made a string
of posts, one of which included that deep fake porn
video that I'll mentioned to you guys, which a lot
(21:59):
of people at the time thought was.
Speaker 9 (22:00):
Real online, but it turned out not to be real.
Speaker 13 (22:03):
So the manager detailed in court about how Megan came
to him in tears and apologized to him even for
having to witness the video, which sparked Meghan's decision to
undergo therapy at that point because she kept breaking down
from it. Now, the manager says and recalls that he
rushed He rushed to Megan's side at the hospital after
he received a call back in July twenty twenty about
the shooting with Tory Lanez, which was eventually you know,
(22:26):
Tory was eventually found guilty, which led to.
Speaker 9 (22:28):
Where they are now.
Speaker 13 (22:29):
So he's been going through this with Megan since the
very beginning, and he took the sin yesterday.
Speaker 9 (22:34):
So when this came.
Speaker 13 (22:34):
Out, I saw a lot of people still reacting to this, like,
oh my god, here she goes again. I'm like two
hundred and forty thousand dollars on just to have a
peace of mind, Like it's never going to be enough
for people.
Speaker 9 (22:46):
But here she is having.
Speaker 13 (22:47):
To get on the stand and she meg the stallion
will be taking a stand today. She's supposed to anyway,
to speak on her own, behalf listen.
Speaker 5 (22:53):
Why wouldn't that impact her?
Speaker 1 (22:54):
Like I can completely see how that could impact somebody's
mental and emotional well being.
Speaker 5 (22:59):
And I bet you if you and honmously spoke to a.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Bunch of therapists and psychiatrists, they would tell you how
often people come to them to discuss being attacked and
slandered online, not just you know people that are celebrities,
just everyday people.
Speaker 5 (23:11):
I'm sure that's the thing. I bet you counselors get
that so much in school from kids.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
I must have missed it. What is she what is
she gonna try for that way? What is she gonna
stand for?
Speaker 13 (23:19):
This is the lawsuit where she alleges that Tory Lanees
she's paying for defamation.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
So she's a legend toy for defamation.
Speaker 13 (23:26):
No, there's a blogger in question, and she's saying that
Tory Lanez paid this blogger to allegend that Tory Lanes
paid this blocker to spread negative things about hard Laan.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
Gotcha. So she's suing the blogger, Yeah.
Speaker 9 (23:36):
She's she's coming for the blogger.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
This. This is gonna be an interesting case.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
And the reason I say that is because there's so
many people online that spew things that are not real,
fake ish, right, and they make up stories. Now, if
if somebody can say that this affects me, because it
affects all of everybody, like Charlamagne says, can you sue
that person for for defamation and for you know, emotional distress.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
And people that have done that already in one it's
President for that already come to be said President for that.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
Promotional distress.
Speaker 9 (24:04):
I know, for that was the thing with the with
the other blogger.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
I love this my homegirl, Bonang and South Africa said President, Well,
that's South Africa.
Speaker 4 (24:12):
But I love that because maybe that'll make people stop
reporting fake news and stop reporting lies they keep getting
sued because you can't afford it.
Speaker 13 (24:20):
Then I think I think the issue is that you
got to figure out what people determine it's fake and
not fake.
Speaker 9 (24:25):
And a lot of people can't.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Say somebody get a sex tape and it didn't have
no sex tape.
Speaker 13 (24:28):
But I think it goes back to how people are
taught what you can and can't do, like you know
what I mean. Like and also too, I think it
is it gets a point where some people don't care
and we don't know what the situation is yet in
this case because it hasn't finished in court, so we
don't know who's guilty of what in the courtroom, but
you know, in other circumstances, I think it just depends
on the person and what they know and what they
care to act like.
Speaker 2 (24:48):
They don't know, but that's why you should.
Speaker 4 (24:52):
Because everybody could who somebody because I'm sure there's there's
somebody lies about somebody online every day. Be but it
gets to the point where that's what happens to that
person and if you want garnish all they wages.
Speaker 5 (25:01):
Don't feel bad about that, right, take their assets.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
Don't feel bad about that?
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Yeah, okay, don't feel bad about making somebody homeless.
Speaker 13 (25:09):
We're gonna talk about homelessness too, because Kevin Spacey had
a real interesting conversation with outlet. We're gonna talk about
that in the next hours as we wrap up.
Speaker 2 (25:16):
All right, everybody else, I thank you. That's the latest
with Lauren.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
Now when we come back, we got front page news,
and then after that, doctor Joel A. Tudman will be
joining us. He has a new book out. We're gonna
talk to him about his new book, and he's gonna
help Lauren with her life.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
This book is really good.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
It's called The Fight to find Yourself, Moving from Uncertain
to Unstoppable.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
All right, we'll get to that next. It's the Breakfast
Clocal Morning. You're checking out the Breakfast Club Morning.
Speaker 4 (25:39):
Everybody's dj NV, just Hilarius, Charlamagne and the guy we
are the Breakfast Club. Let's get in some front page
news now with Thursday Night football, the Buffalo Bill's take
on the Houston Texans, all right, and slut Shadoor saying this.
He's gonna make his first NFL start this Sunday versus
the Raiders.
Speaker 2 (25:57):
What's up to me?
Speaker 7 (25:58):
Good morning, Envy, Charlomagne, Lauren how y'all doing this morning?
Speaker 9 (26:01):
Maybe been great?
Speaker 8 (26:02):
Good morning?
Speaker 9 (26:03):
All right?
Speaker 7 (26:03):
So we start this hour with two troubling stories going
viral of two black women in two different states, both
in obvious pain, both begging for help, and both turned
away from hospitals just minutes before giving birth. Now, the
first story is in Indiana. A young mother, Mercedes Well,
says she gave birth in the backseat of a car,
just eight minutes after a hospital told her to go home.
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Her family posting video of her being willed out of
a hospital doubled over in pain after staff told her
she wasn't far enough along because she was only three
centimeters dilated. Twen minutes later, Mercedes told her husband she
had to push. He was driving with one hand and
found himself delivering the baby with the other. Let's listen
to mom and death.
Speaker 9 (26:45):
I was in excruciating pain. She's seen me in pain.
Speaker 14 (26:47):
And agony, and I guess she still perceived me from
not being labor.
Speaker 6 (26:53):
It's totally God's grace.
Speaker 10 (26:56):
I was scared.
Speaker 6 (26:57):
I didn't know what to do. I don't have it
to medical license.
Speaker 10 (27:01):
He don't people to deliver a.
Speaker 7 (27:02):
Bailion that well nine one one guided them to a
second hospital where several doctors and nurses were waiting outside
to help. Mercedes is recovering now, be says she feels
violated and dismissed, and Franciscan Health they called the video
deeply troubling and says it does not reflect their values.
They've launched a full investigation and say they'll take action
based on what they find. And now to Texas, where
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a similar story is also taking shape and Dallas. Carrie
Jones is shown in a viral video doubled over in
a wheelchair, screaming in pain while nurses. While a nurse
calmly continues intake questions. Her mother says that the hospital
made her wait more than thirty minutes after she gave
and then she gave birth twelve minutes later. Her mother
said she had called the hospital ahead to warn that
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they were coming, but when they arrived, the nurses refused
to take her to a delivery room until paperwork was finished,
even though she could barely sit up Dallas Regional Medical Center.
They haven't commented on specifics, but say they are reviewing
the incident and that the safety, dignity and well being
of every patient is their top priority and these cases,
they're drawing attention because.
Speaker 8 (28:06):
They highlight a broader reality.
Speaker 7 (28:09):
In the United States, a black women experience the highest
maternal mortality rate in the country, roughly fifty deaths per
one hundred thousand births. That's more than twice the national average.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Yeah, man, And this is why when black and brown
women have babies we celebrate the way we do because
exactly what you just said, me, the black maternal deathorade
is high. And this is why dulas are also important,
because you need somebody advocating for you in those hospitals,
because the damn sure can't be your husband, because ain't
no way in hell I knock over all this stuff, y'all.
Speaker 5 (28:36):
Don't hurry up and get through my wife.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
You know. The crazy thing is when we delivered our
last baby, Peyton, he went.
Speaker 4 (28:41):
To the hospital and the hospital said, no, you're not
ready yet, go home, and it was like, no, I'm
not going home.
Speaker 2 (28:46):
I had five other kids, exactly, I know what my
body is.
Speaker 4 (28:49):
You call my guy to collogists, I'm not leaving and
forced them to put her in the room and we
had the baby a couple hours later.
Speaker 1 (28:54):
That's why duels are important, because you need somebody advocating
for you in the hospital like that, because you know,
as men, some of us can be cool, calm and collected.
But when you see your wife in that type of pain,
when she's about to give birth and everybody just dragging
their feet.
Speaker 2 (29:08):
Now, do you.
Speaker 13 (29:09):
Suggest a doula from the hospitals have like a doula
like departments that like you. They'll sign doulas to you,
but then you can bring your you get your own.
You suggest one from inside the hospital, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (29:20):
I never knew about the hospital when we always had
our own. Sluthor lay from Thomas Glow Maven. You know
she helped my wife deliver our third and for a child.
Speaker 4 (29:28):
Yeah, no, we I mean I would say somebody that
you're comfortable with, Like my wife's going to college, has
been with us for four kids, for delivery, so she
knows Giz, she knows me, she knows the kids, and
she knows what Giar says.
Speaker 2 (29:38):
She ready to pop.
Speaker 5 (29:40):
I don't know I got to do it.
Speaker 4 (29:41):
She got in colleges, but you know she delivered. She
either she knows.
Speaker 9 (29:46):
Oh I saw that video. I sent it to me.
Speaker 6 (29:48):
Me.
Speaker 9 (29:48):
I'm like, can we talk about this because this is scary.
I saw them. I don't understand how that happens.
Speaker 1 (29:53):
I don't understand how another woman can and just hype
all slow while she's watching this woman all this pain, Like,
shouldn't it be a sense of urgency from even another
one robotic?
Speaker 2 (30:05):
It's probably okay, here's another pregnant and used to it.
That's what that's probably you, you like.
Speaker 13 (30:10):
I saw the woman's face and I felt so bad.
I sent it to me me like is there something
we can do? Like I just felt bad for her,
like in that moment, and I'm watching it on my timeline.
Speaker 10 (30:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (30:19):
And that one that the one that you're talking about, Lauren,
happened after the one in Dallas happened, because the one
in Dallas have been circulating on social media and people
have been sending me that in my inbox, like, you know,
can we talk about this because clearly it is it
people feel like this is happening.
Speaker 8 (30:34):
Those are just two stories that we know of. What
about the stories that we don't know us?
Speaker 9 (30:37):
Right?
Speaker 2 (30:38):
That's right?
Speaker 10 (30:39):
So cool?
Speaker 7 (30:40):
And new information this morning, as we move on, new
information on the Chicago mother at the center of that
viral attack that has stunned people across the country for
Shonda hat Or, the mom seen on video being beaten
while trying to shield her children. She is now warning
of the public of fake go fundme pages using her name.
She says several unauthorized fundraisers started circulating within hours of
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that video going viral. Some have reportedly collected more than
two hundred thousand dollars without her permission, and a Facebook
post she is pleading with supporters should be careful, writing,
please go get your funds back. All those go fundmes
are fake and please report them.
Speaker 9 (31:18):
She says she has.
Speaker 7 (31:19):
One legitimate fundraisers fundraiser, and she is.
Speaker 8 (31:21):
Urging people to double check before they donate.
Speaker 7 (31:24):
I looked this morning and her legitimate fundraiser has about
seven thousand dollars so far.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
Now.
Speaker 7 (31:30):
Hatter says the violen scene on camera that we all
saw it wasn't all of a sudden. It was months
after harassment, bullying, vandalism, and even attempts at setting fires
near her home by neighborhood youth. She says she's been
asking for help for a while now. After Monday's attack,
the community stepped in quickly. I know you guys spoke
about this yesterday where local leaders they helped. They secured
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a new place for her to live. Clothing holiday donations
are coming in. The housing authority is also assisting with
a new place to live. Relatives say that she is
expected to move into a new place today. But along
with that support, two very different reactions from parents connected
to the kids in those videos are circulating, and one
clip a parent of a student can believe to be
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involved is her saying to her child, the whole city
of Chicago is looking for you. And a different parent
posting a long series of comments defending her daughter, downplaying
the attack, calling her child a good kid, and saying
she was peer pressured. Her tone frustrated many online, who
says it shows a lack of accountability. Let's listen to
some of the community reactions.
Speaker 13 (32:35):
What actually needs to be taken is the parents needs
to be held accountable.
Speaker 14 (32:38):
Child should be pressed, childges should be pressed, and these
kids should be at spell for school.
Speaker 9 (32:43):
We need more help out help.
Speaker 15 (32:44):
Trump's saying troops to stop out here for that comestan
trupsy held for these kids.
Speaker 9 (32:48):
We need these kids, open up more programs for our kids.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
No, she's right, they need do we need to have
more programs for the kids, but don't say things like Trump,
send the troops for our kids, okay, because Trump will
be like, say, let's right. I saw a lot of
people meet me saying that it starts in the home,
and that would be a good discussion for the radio,
because I think when people say things like that, you know,
they discount the environment these kids live in, like pid
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pressure is a real thing, and like sometimes the screets
have more influence and impact than what's going on at.
Speaker 9 (33:18):
Cross the house.
Speaker 8 (33:20):
Of course, Chicago police say no rests have been made.
Speaker 7 (33:23):
Detectives, they are reviewing multiple videos, interviewing witnesses, and the
Chicago Public School the district.
Speaker 8 (33:29):
They release a statement.
Speaker 7 (33:30):
It reads, in part, they are committed to building a
physically and emotionally safe a teaching and learning environment in
every school. It went on to say that they are
horrified by the attack on this family and they are
working with the city departments and agencies to provide support
for the victims.
Speaker 2 (33:43):
How have they not been no arrests.
Speaker 1 (33:44):
There's a whole video in a bunch of kids school
that's crazy.
Speaker 7 (33:49):
Yeah, no, we're rest yet, But how do you handle it?
A lot of these kids are. I know one of
them were in eighth grade, you know, so that's that's
you know, thirteen fourteen years old. I don't know, you know,
what that looks like what they're going to do, but
that one parent said that the kids should be expelled
because it happened on school grounds, and so that is
one action that the district can definitely take.
Speaker 6 (34:09):
You know.
Speaker 7 (34:10):
All right, y'all, well, that is your front page news.
I'm Mimi Brown. Follow me at Mimi Brown TV. For
more stories all the Black Information Network, download the free
iHeartRadio app and visit binnews dot com.
Speaker 6 (34:21):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 4 (34:22):
Mem Now when we come back, we have doctor Joel Tudman.
He has a new book out called The Fight to
find Yourself, Moving from Uncertain to Unstoppable.
Speaker 2 (34:31):
And we're going to dive into Lauren Larose's life a
little bit.
Speaker 9 (34:34):
I Fight to find Myself.
Speaker 2 (34:35):
Okay, all right, we'll get into that. NeXT's to the
Breakfast Club. Good morning. We got a special guest in
the building. We told you you were going to have
him back. That's right, doctor Joel to welcome back here.
Speaker 6 (34:42):
Man. Thank you for having us back. I didn't get
to talk to you last time.
Speaker 2 (34:45):
I wasn't here. I was out of town. How you doing, Reade?
Speaker 6 (34:47):
It's an honor. It's honor to nut your building.
Speaker 1 (34:49):
New book, The Fight to find Yourself moving from uncertain
to unstoppable, is out now.
Speaker 5 (34:55):
I want to ask you, doctor Joe.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
What was the What was the moment, like that real
breaking point that you realize you weren't living as your
authentic self?
Speaker 6 (35:03):
Several moments. I don't think I can categorize it to one.
I think it was a breakdown for me, a chain
of events, a lot of success, and the success couldn't
solve the pain. And so once all the breakdowns started
to accumulate, I started realizing this stuff is just a
band aid. Every accolade, every award, every stage, every opportunity
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could not solve the inner pain. And so having a
good community of course, j of course, other brothers and
other ministers that knew that I was hurting started looking
into the insights and hey, man, pull yourself back. We
need to talk to you. My mentor who became a pastor,
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he began to talking to me. He told me to
stop speaking. So for I think nine months to a year,
I didn't travel. I didn't go anywhere. He made me
stay home and minister at the house so he could
watch over me and check over me. But the pain
had gotten pretty bad, pretty bad. I think I put
a gun to my head twice during that process, trying
to figure out how to maneuver through. But then once
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I found a pretty good therapist, things start changing, and
I started journal and started documenting and seeing things change
for myself.
Speaker 13 (36:25):
You talk about in the opening of the book going
through the motions of things and how they just feels
so empty. Yeah, but you also have such a big
platform and you're speaking places you can fall back into
the motions easily, even at certain points in like, how
do you kind of stop yourself from falling back into
the motion of things because you know you're entertaining at
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the same time too.
Speaker 6 (36:47):
It's a great question. Let's do it like this. When
the annoyinging comes on you to speak, it comes on
you for the task for the moment. So the annoying
comes on you to do what you need to do.
You study yourself, how you prepare, you do what you
need to do. You pray that's God doing his thing
through you. When that's over, it's over, and you can
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walk off the stage and feel like you're absolutely failed,
even though people were absolutely blessed. You can walk off
the stage, get a phone call that just rips everything away.
After all those people have given their lives to Christ.
And that's what I'm talking about, that moment. You're knowing
it for that moment, and then when you come off,
you don't have the badge to live. And that's what
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I was experiencing. So it was a massive fall off
and I got tired of that, real tired of it.
Speaker 2 (37:37):
What changed? What gave you the feeling of wanting to
live again?
Speaker 6 (37:43):
I lost my father and my son back to back.
Both of those relationships were difficult to have. My son
when I was sixteen years old. He came to live
with me his sophomore year. And then my father. We
had a good relationship, but it wasn't like what you
want to father and son to have. I respected him
very much so, and he wasn't an absentee. We just
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didn't have a relationship, and so that thing grew grew
and grew. So in the process I built all these
walls that protected me emotionally, and the last two weeks
of my dad's life I spent with him in the hospital.
And I got to know him like I never knew
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him before. I held his hand, washed him, shaved him,
fed him, scratched his back. It was a different feeling
for me that unleashed this avalanche of emotions that I
had never felt before, and I needed to figure out
how to deal with him. For a little bit, I
felt like it was great, And then for a second
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I was like, God, how could you do this? How
could you wait till the end? And I'm this old
to give me the feeling of being a son. I'm
already a man, and I've already mastered the way I
do life, you know, And so it may not be perfect,
but it's mine. And when that happened, those two deaths
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broke down everything I knew. It broke down my own
blueprint and had to come up with a new one.
Speaker 2 (39:17):
So you lost yourself because of what you lost.
Speaker 4 (39:23):
When you're at your lowest and you're feeling like taking
your life, most people will say that is the devil working,
and it's it's not anything but the devil trying to
get you to take your life.
Speaker 2 (39:35):
Do you agree with that?
Speaker 6 (39:36):
I don't know if I agree with it or not.
I'm gonna be honest with you. I know that Satan
comes to kill, still and destroy. I don't think God
does that. But what I will say is that there
are some things that happened to us internally chemically that
we are born with or born without that only scientists
can answer. I don't think the scientist is God not
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saying that. But I don't think that's a question that
you could just easily answer from a five or six
minute conversation. I think it involves a lot of study,
a lot of interpretation, and the opportunity to really converse
with people that have the problem, not people are just
sitting around the table discussing that.
Speaker 4 (40:17):
Because when most people feel like they want to take
their life, it's a lot of times they feel worthless, right,
they feel like that they don't have an answer, they'd
rather they feel like life would be better without.
Speaker 2 (40:27):
Them than with them in it. And it's learning that
that complete opposite. Did you have that feel?
Speaker 6 (40:37):
I felt it, but because I had understood the word
of God and had enough left in the tank, I
had enough to kind of come back and forth and
talk to myself. When I was younger, I didn't I
just took the pills, but I didn't die when I
got older and I pulled that trigger, I pulled that
triggers to die, but it didn't. I felt that way.
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But I will say I was going back and forth
dialogueing in my head. Now, this is something I want
to say straight up. Most pastors, most people in church
are going straight up to you know you're going to hell?
You know, and that is the devil's work. Again, I
think it's unprofessional and it's a lack of empathy and
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compassion to have a conversation with the person to find
out why they felt that way. Why do you feel
that way? I think that's a part of the conversation.
I understand the eternal security and eternal damnation. We got that.
The religious perspective of the walk with God or somebody
still needs to get in your walk, get in your
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shoes with the word of God and help you walk
through Why you feel that way? I think that's the
missing ingredient. Great question, great debate, but the missing piece
of the question and the conversation is the person. Why
do you feel that way?
Speaker 4 (42:03):
Because I've been there before and I write it in
my book of being me being feeling worthless, right, me
doing things, making me feel like an embarrassment to my
family one dred and me feeling like not being here
would be better for my family. Tak a lot of praying,
a lot of talking, a lot of discussion. Well, when
somebody ever tells me that they're thinking about it, I
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jumped to it immediately, right. And the reason I jumped
to it and jump to have a conversation. I have
conversation with so many people online. But the reason I
jump to it is because another thing that also gives
me great fear is sometimes people feel like I got
to show you I would do it, you know what
I mean, Like I'm thinking about it.
Speaker 2 (42:41):
And a lot of times we write that person off,
like just.
Speaker 4 (42:44):
Go sleep, yo, just go take a shot, just just
go talk to somebody. And I feel like the worst
thing you can do to somebody in that position is
kind of sign them off. The almost feel like I
have to show you I was going to do it,
and I have once I show you, there is no oop,
there is no to fix that can't fix that.
Speaker 6 (43:03):
That's why I said the person, the person matters. I
love the theological conversation, the church conversation. It's great to
have put the collar down and talk to the person
and then we'll navigate there. Why do you feel that way?
What caused you to get that way? That's more important
right now, you know, And I love what you said
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about it, because some people say, I'm just going to
do it, and if you and if they do it,
we don't get an opportunity to come back.
Speaker 13 (43:32):
You also talk about too in the book, just how
your wife has coached you through so many different moments
in your fight for the partners out there who are
like everybody's finding themselves. But I think when I hear
how you speak about her, there are certain parts and
certain things you couldn't have done without her. Oh God,
But it has to be heavy on her as well.
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How is she balancing her own fight with helping you
do your fight?
Speaker 6 (43:56):
It's sometimes it's unfair. It's unfair because she had to
stop fighting for herself to help me fight. But I
think that's the power of love. And I think we
evolve in time. I think I don't think that marriage
is a fifty to fifty. Sometimes it's gonna be eighty twenty.
Sometimes it's gonna be ten one hundred, sometimes it's gonna
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be seventy thirty. I think love is love, and whatever
number adds up, that's based off of the try, the
push between the two people, and there's always gonna be
one this week, and there's always gonna be one that's strong.
And so to each couple, I would say that the
journey to becoming who you are together will be based
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off of the two of you remaining honest and open.
And I can carry you today. I may not be
able to carry you tomorrow. I carry you today.
Speaker 4 (44:48):
People don't talk about a lot about how important a
good partner is, right, Yeah, because when I've been at
my lowest many times, if it wasn't for my partner,
I don't think I would be able to come out
of it the way that I did.
Speaker 6 (45:03):
Happy to be there for you.
Speaker 2 (45:07):
Guy's crazy. This guy's crazy. You know what? You know
what's so crazy? I see him yesterday in the street, right,
just happened to see him in the street. I'm with
my wife and my daughter. He's with his wife. He
walks up to me. He's stuck blowing kisses at me.
Speaker 6 (45:26):
How your wife handled that?
Speaker 2 (45:27):
My wife didn't see his wife see that, And his
wife's like.
Speaker 4 (45:31):
Really, like like what's wrong with you? Just blow kidding
him what she said, but talk about the importance of
his wife, goes, somebody just blow kidding.
Speaker 5 (45:46):
He goes, that was Charloae man.
Speaker 6 (45:50):
I think that's beautiful that your spouses can laugh at that.
Speaker 2 (45:52):
They can't. I don't know how long it took me
laugh at first. I don't think they thought it was
that funny.
Speaker 4 (45:58):
Talk about the importance of of a good part and
a good spouse when you're going through those things, because
you know, Charlamagne and myself talk about when you're really
faithful in your marriage and life, it opens up a
whole another life, another category, another.
Speaker 6 (46:12):
A whole nother round of favor. Absolutely, it comes upon
your life, Yes, a whole nother round of favor, because
sometimes you feel like yours are worth nothing and we're
living off the other. Having a good spouse is the
opposite of having a bad one, Okay, And I think
a lot of the world is experiencing bad relationships. But
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you hear so much about what it takes to being
a good one. To being a good one means you
survive a lot of bad things. I don't know anybody
that's been in a great relationship that doesn't have stories
of wounds and cuts, and memories where things have gone bad.
That's what makes it good. That you can go through
(46:54):
the storms and go through the rain and still remain.
And there'll be times where you feel like walking away.
There'll be times when you feel like departing. You take
your take mind, or you just take it all in
out bounce. But the love, the commitment, the responsibility to
become the one that you want to be drives everything.
(47:17):
My wife, her name is Latasha. She's been with me.
I didn't have anything, but that's not true. I did
have something. My credit was bad. That's what was bad. Yeah,
I had things, but my credit was bad and I
was able to get things without the credit. But she
looked at the credit and said, yo, your credit is terrible.
(47:38):
I can fix it for you. I said what she said,
I can fix it for you. So she fixed my credit.
Credit went up and she's like, yo, I can handle
the money. And that was different from me because I
don't know. I've never been socialized into manhood where the
woman handled the money.
Speaker 2 (47:54):
But she could handle the money.
Speaker 6 (47:56):
So I let our relationship be our relationship. First. I
was a little bit embarrassed. I had this myth of
manhood that if she's doing this, and she's doing this,
it's gonna make me look stupid. But I realize my
marriage is my marriage. It's not yours, and it is
not yours, And it's not until i'm a tour as
a man that I understand that what goes on in
my house is my house. I don't care what's happening
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in your house. So your spouse has to have the
ability to endo it with the worst of you and
the best of you and likewise, and just make sure
that you guys are on the same page with raising children,
all right, make sure you're on the same page with
raising children so that you can recreate something beautiful and
not create something that's going to be a monster.
Speaker 13 (48:37):
But the steps of that for people, like if you
both don't have children, or even if one person does
have children, sometimes you don't know how a person is
until they're in a situation, even if you have conversations
prior to like, what are the real steps to know?
Speaker 6 (48:49):
I don't think that there is a a cookie cutter
step because we're all different. I think when we spend
time with each other, what are you actually doing If
you're just having sex, smoking and drinking and they're not
having a real conversation about who you are, where you
come from, what do you like, what don't you like?
(49:11):
I think all those things need to be talked about first.
What makes you happy? What makes you sad? When you
get angry? Do you throw things? Do you cuss? Do
you go off? Do you belittle me? Can you encourage
me when you don't like me? Can you still show
up for me when you want to leave me if
we have to go to a function, will you embarrass
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me even though you're upset with me? How do you
want to be appreciated? How do you want me to
leave you alone? How do we argue? What are our
parameters for arguing? Ours was listen? If you leave, you
come back, don't stay gone, and don't go to nobody
else's house to spend the night. If you don't want
to talk to me, go in the other room. But
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at some point in time that must be a resolution.
I think all those things matter because then we have
people that get married because the sex is great. We
get married because we got money and the kids are
going to be pretty because we both look good. But
we've done none of the other work to discover what
we like. If you're Catholic and I'm Protestant. If you're Catholic,
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do you want the kids to be all of that
little bitty stuff that we avoid because we're attracted. Those
things need to be discussed. Then let's go to counselmen,
let's go to counseling and see what happens. If we're Christian,
let's also go visit the Christian counselors. It doesn't have
to be the pastor What is it that they're saying
about our relationship? And I walk with God because I
(50:36):
don't want to get in our in our marriage and
find out you you don't believe the way I believe?
Why am I just not finding that out? All of
those little things need to be discussed before we ever
even talk about kids. Then we start talking about it,
how are we going to raise our children? How many
children do you want? What kind of school do you
want them to go to? Do you believe in corporate punishment?
(50:58):
I think that's the right word of beating your kids
or soft parented, whatever the correct words are. I think
all those things matter before we do it. But we're backwards.
We have sex first, We like the feeling first, and
we get together and we stay together and either end
up with coming law marriage or we go ahead and
get married because we're already pregnant, and then we wrestle
(51:19):
with all the other stuff later. Just flip the script.
We know what to do. Just reverse the order to
flip the script for No, we.
Speaker 13 (51:27):
Are very intentional about a lot of the things. This
is probably the first time ever. I mean, I'm thirty three,
so I'm pretty young, but this is the first time
that I feel like my intention is actually like matched.
And even when it's not the best thing, like I'm
not the best person and vice versa, it's still like
a no, we're gonna we sit down, We're about to
talk about this. And I've never in certain conversations I've
(51:48):
never had Like we had a financial conversation the other
day and I was like, no one has ever.
Speaker 6 (51:52):
It's the first time you had it ever.
Speaker 9 (51:54):
Yeah, it was.
Speaker 13 (51:56):
It's very new, but so it's been some months, but
we been dating for longer than that.
Speaker 9 (52:01):
But we've been dating for about a year.
Speaker 13 (52:04):
But officially, yes, it is, Yes.
Speaker 2 (52:08):
It is is not new.
Speaker 6 (52:13):
I wish I had a computers, like do you like
you doing?
Speaker 5 (52:16):
The only reason we knew is because she had to.
First of all, she just thought, so one of them
fell off.
Speaker 13 (52:24):
No that's not true. No that's not He's framing this
completely wrong. Okay. So the only reason why I say
it's new is because I think I've had to learn.
You've had to learn how to be very different in
this stage in my life, not even relationship, just because
(52:46):
of like career and a lot of things. So I
took a lot more time with certain things this time
around sexual sex.
Speaker 6 (52:56):
Would you do different?
Speaker 13 (52:57):
We just it took some more time before it happened,
which is very different from me. We also we also
public like being in public with each other. I took
time before I did that.
Speaker 5 (53:08):
It's still in public sneaky.
Speaker 13 (53:11):
Videos, we're still taking. Just got one year we've been
datd for you. That's a long time.
Speaker 9 (53:25):
That's still very new.
Speaker 10 (53:26):
Though.
Speaker 6 (53:27):
Have you slept with him within three and sixty five days? Okay?
Speaker 2 (53:32):
You have?
Speaker 6 (53:32):
You have had sex with this man multiple times?
Speaker 9 (53:35):
Uh huh.
Speaker 6 (53:36):
Look at your smile. What I'm saying is this exactly
what you just said. You've slept with this man. You
have a smile on your face. You are you're enjoying
that you have slept with this man multiple times you
should be that enthusiastic about everything else.
Speaker 13 (53:50):
But I'm saying this is the first time that I am.
Like in other situations, there have been things that I do.
Speaker 6 (53:55):
When did you find out about his credit?
Speaker 9 (53:57):
First month?
Speaker 13 (53:58):
First month of us being in a relationship, not the
first month of his dating.
Speaker 6 (54:01):
So what's the difference? Tell me?
Speaker 13 (54:03):
Because when we were dating, it was casual stuff. So
it was like dinner, it was phone conversations.
Speaker 6 (54:07):
It wasn't you know, did y'all talk about your faith?
Speaker 9 (54:11):
Yes?
Speaker 13 (54:12):
When that was probably like one of our first in
person conversations.
Speaker 6 (54:17):
So how long did it take from phone to in person?
What do you mean you did phone first.
Speaker 9 (54:23):
Then you did in person first?
Speaker 13 (54:25):
Because this is someone that I already knew, Like we
went to college together for a bit, so we did
in person first and then the phone kind of guys
were friends, Yeah, we were cool before.
Speaker 6 (54:35):
Did y'all sleep together when y'all was cool?
Speaker 13 (54:37):
No? No desire, No, there was desire, But it did happen.
Speaker 9 (54:42):
And that's what I'm saying. I took the conversation, yeah,
like there was definitely desire.
Speaker 6 (54:48):
Yeah, so you wanted this guy already? Did he want
you already?
Speaker 9 (54:52):
I don't think so.
Speaker 2 (54:53):
What made you?
Speaker 6 (54:54):
Did he ask you out? Did you ask him out?
Speaker 13 (54:55):
We got together as friends just he was like, you
know you're in Jersey, would love to take you out
that the happy hour celebrate everything got going on. It
wasn't who initiated the term me. I initiated the term.
Speaker 5 (55:07):
Aggressive, especially on that cast ago.
Speaker 6 (55:13):
It was at being lefty.
Speaker 13 (55:15):
It wasn't even about no, It wasn't me being aggressive
on costamigos. It was when we said our first time
in person, that happy Hour conversation. I was sitting there
and I'm like, man, this man is amazing, Like I
would love to get to know more about him, not just.
Speaker 2 (55:28):
As my fear.
Speaker 6 (55:29):
Now, let me ask you this. When you said that,
where were you psychologically emotionally? Did you know yourself before
you made that decision?
Speaker 9 (55:36):
No, I don't think I fully know myself.
Speaker 6 (55:38):
Now how much of yourself do you know? What do
you know about yourself?
Speaker 13 (55:42):
I know a lot about myself, but I don't think
that I'm fully through like my fight, like.
Speaker 6 (55:47):
So you're still fighting one hundred.
Speaker 13 (55:49):
I didn't even begin the fight honestly, probably until this year,
because I didn't know that it was a fight to
be had.
Speaker 9 (55:53):
I just figured.
Speaker 6 (55:54):
That's so powerful because I just told him that that
sometimes when you were in a relationship, this is now
your relationship. I think sometimes when you're in a relationship,
when you get healed, when you actually find you, it
opens up your eyes so much that you start looking
at all of your choices and all of your decisions,
(56:15):
and you can see the unhealthy picks, the unhealthy partners,
the unhealthy conversations now, and it's hard to speak to
sick people. And I'm not pointing at anybody specific. It's
hard to have a conversation with sick people because you
yourself didn't know you were sick, and now you realize that, hey,
(56:36):
I'm better, but I created this sickness or I played
a part in the sickness. That becomes difficult, which is
what I know we'll probably talk about with the holidays.
When you're going into the holidays. Should I be trying
to discover myself right now? And it's twofold. Its juxtaposition.
If you have a safe place, yes, if it's not safe,
(57:01):
because those conversations will turn into wars and it'll create
a horrible holiday experience. But if you have a safe
place and there is enough health in the room, mom, uncle, sister, therapist, somewhere.
There has to be some safety for you to retreat
(57:23):
and then not necessarily isolation, but some alone time for
you to actually process and come out and talk. You
can move methodically through it. But if you are healed
your hold and you are connected to someone that is sick,
it's going to be a difficult path. How then, my
(57:47):
question to you, how do you have a healthy conversation
with an unhealthy person?
Speaker 9 (57:54):
Right now? I just be doing it.
Speaker 6 (57:57):
You just be doing it.
Speaker 13 (57:58):
I think a lot of I'm thinking about people in
my life that I love that I know they're not having.
Speaker 9 (58:04):
They don't even they're not I don't know. Lord, No,
I'm telling the truth.
Speaker 13 (58:08):
Like I'm literally every day I'm engaging with people that
I know are not in the best spaces, like in
their fight, you know. But I don't have a choice
because these are people I love, Like it's my mother,
it's my you know.
Speaker 9 (58:21):
Like, so you literally just get through it.
Speaker 13 (58:22):
You set boundaries for certain conversations, but you I'm literally
just doing it some days because I don't have a choice.
Speaker 9 (58:28):
Like what do you do in a situation like that?
Speaker 6 (58:30):
It's very difficult. It's going to be a war, and
you have to be prepared. And this is what I'm
saying to you. Once you go through your journey, and
you're going through your journey right now, I've gone through mine.
Now I'm evolving, all right, because, like you said, you
don't just get there and stop. Not the same man
you are thirty five or forty five, fifty five. You're
gonna change, You're gonna evrow. But coming into self, coming
(58:53):
into knowledge of self, knowing who I am, knowing that
I know why I get upset about certain things. I
know why certain things trigger me. I know when I
need to remove myself. I know when I need to
go in stronger because I'm aware of me. Now. Because
I'm aware of me, it helps I help myself in
the unhealthy conversation. I don't make it more unhealthy. I
(59:14):
don't make it more toxic. Because at one point I
was I would keep pushing and keep pushing and keep
pushing because I'm trying to get you to understand what
I'm saying. But I realized you're never going to understand.
You don't have the capacity. So what I've learned now
is that now that I faultifind me, there's no need
for me to fight you because you don't know you.
I need to retreat and let you be you and
(59:36):
come back on another time to have a conversation.
Speaker 13 (59:39):
Do you do that differently in different situations, because like,
for instance, with my dad, I do that all the time,
but with other people I go all the way like
that's not happening. Like, so, do you feel like you're
more in your fight you further along with certain people
certain situations?
Speaker 9 (59:53):
Okay, so different, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (59:54):
Because the're different people, different relationships, different levels of covenant. Yeah, definitely, definitely,
that's what we Father. We thank you for this amazing
opportunity to be with my brothers and my sister. We
asked you bless her as she continues to fight to
find herself and move in this industry, that she is
more than enough and she's capable of taking it to
the next dimension. We thank you for both of my brothers,
(01:00:15):
who have been staples in this industry for a long time,
continue to allow their minds to evolve. Bless their families,
Bless their children. Everyone is to connect it to them
God as they continue to soar in their fields. Father,
we thank you for the day. We thank you for
another opportunity to praise your name. We asked you seal it.
We thank you for your glory and your divine grace
(01:00:35):
in Jesus name. Amen, Amen, thank you all. You got
to do it one more time.
Speaker 2 (01:00:41):
The Breakfast.
Speaker 5 (01:00:43):
You good Lord, I'm great.
Speaker 2 (01:00:46):
Tell them that call.
Speaker 10 (01:00:48):
Come.
Speaker 9 (01:00:48):
I've already had conversation.
Speaker 13 (01:00:50):
I've never let anything that happens on air happen on
air first before anybody important in my life.
Speaker 9 (01:00:54):
Here is it except for my dad. I love my dad,
but it's just like we don't talk any other time,
So why would I call you now?
Speaker 2 (01:01:03):
All right, Well, let's get to the latest with Lauren.
Lauren becoming a.
Speaker 4 (01:01:06):
Straight fast she gets somebody that knows somebody detail.
Speaker 9 (01:01:12):
I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything,
and she'd.
Speaker 2 (01:01:15):
Be having the latest on the Latest with Laurena la Rosa.
Speaker 5 (01:01:20):
Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details.
Speaker 2 (01:01:22):
Sometimes you have a little bit of everything on the
Breakfast Club.
Speaker 13 (01:01:27):
All right, guys, So before we get to the Kevin
Spacey story that I know I teased last hour, let's
talk a little bit about Portia Williams again. Now I
told you, guys that yesterday I received the statement, and
the statement laid out the fact that Portia was alleging
that someone had you know, was coming for her, and
that's how this whole thing started.
Speaker 9 (01:01:44):
We now know that this whole thing was about cell
phone volume.
Speaker 13 (01:01:47):
So there is body cam that was released by the
Atlanta Police Department, and you have Porschia Williams explaining her
side of why there was an incident on a flight
where the FBI now has her on the radar, and
then you have the woman she got into the incident
went explaining as well. Let's say, listen to Poortie explaining.
Speaker 15 (01:02:03):
The lady who was sitting next to me.
Speaker 16 (01:02:06):
I was on my phone and the.
Speaker 15 (01:02:08):
Volume was up on the phone and she turned to
me out of nowhere, and she said, so you're gonna
make me listen to that the whole play? And I said,
well do you want to?
Speaker 9 (01:02:17):
She said no.
Speaker 14 (01:02:18):
So who guys went in Losabe was one of Yeah,
the plane was on the wall, yes, And so what
was a.
Speaker 2 (01:02:24):
Nice way to say that? She said?
Speaker 9 (01:02:27):
From that point and she said, who do you think
you are?
Speaker 15 (01:02:30):
And so I said, I said, oh, no, no, no, I
said that y'all need to get her out of here.
Speaker 7 (01:02:33):
Please get her away from me.
Speaker 15 (01:02:34):
She tried to take her phone before, and then she
drops her phone on the floor.
Speaker 2 (01:02:37):
She's like, you hate me.
Speaker 9 (01:02:38):
Oh my god, you hate me. You just hit me
in my face.
Speaker 2 (01:02:41):
Oh my god.
Speaker 9 (01:02:42):
I'm pressing charges.
Speaker 15 (01:02:43):
I want you to be in jail alone. So the
so then the steward comes over, and then the steward
says to her, says to me, because I say, you know,
get your ugly.
Speaker 8 (01:02:52):
Eyes out of her, cause then I'm afect.
Speaker 15 (01:02:54):
And they ended up making her move to the next
chair with the guy. But she was I right, so
they were trying to hold her.
Speaker 2 (01:03:00):
So you're saying, you're telling me that I was nothing physical, it.
Speaker 10 (01:03:03):
Was just verbal. Yeah.
Speaker 13 (01:03:05):
Now the police officer from Lena p D is asking
Porsche if there was nothing physical but only verbal because
the woman who Portia Williams got into it is alleging
that Portia hit her. Now, let's take a listen to
this woman who says she is fearing for her life.
Speaker 9 (01:03:19):
Now, so I heard about the incident that happened, but
I haven't heard the side of the story.
Speaker 2 (01:03:24):
What we hear my side of the story?
Speaker 10 (01:03:26):
First?
Speaker 16 (01:03:26):
Sure, well, I had another officer, Oh, Okay, well spoke.
Speaker 6 (01:03:30):
To you, but I just want to hear it.
Speaker 2 (01:03:32):
That's someone read it, didn't see that happened.
Speaker 6 (01:03:34):
I was sitting in my seat in Delta Airline sheeat
number three A B.
Speaker 8 (01:03:39):
I believe this happened in Las Vegas.
Speaker 2 (01:03:42):
Yes, while depend who was still bought in? No Dean
Wasn't they be sure I say anything.
Speaker 15 (01:03:48):
I want to know.
Speaker 8 (01:03:49):
Is my information going to be given to the.
Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
Woman who assaulted me?
Speaker 8 (01:03:53):
Because I'm afraid from my life?
Speaker 2 (01:03:54):
No, no, it's not capital h.
Speaker 5 (01:04:00):
He ain't touched that woman. Cut it out.
Speaker 1 (01:04:02):
But I will say this, we all need headphones on
the plane. Okay, that's my wife's pet peeve. She cannot
stand when somebody got their phone listening to watching the
video or watching someone on their laptop. Like she does
not like that. And she's absolutely right, by the way,
I have a tendency to do that too. But sometimes
I be watching something on the plane and it's like
with no headphones.
Speaker 5 (01:04:20):
We all need headphones on the.
Speaker 2 (01:04:23):
But sometimes is the way you talk to people?
Speaker 6 (01:04:26):
Right?
Speaker 2 (01:04:27):
They excuse me? Can you can turned it down a
little bit?
Speaker 4 (01:04:29):
I'm trying to sleep, Okay, no problem, but when you
start talking to me like you my mother, but I'm
your child.
Speaker 2 (01:04:34):
No, I'm gonna get disrespectful too.
Speaker 1 (01:04:36):
I think the plane should actually announce that, like you
know how the plane announces all the things that you,
I guess can't do on the flight.
Speaker 2 (01:04:41):
They should say that.
Speaker 1 (01:04:41):
They should be like, hey, make you see you got
your headphones, don't play your phones loud.
Speaker 9 (01:04:45):
They should do that. They depend on where you're your
person should say that.
Speaker 2 (01:04:49):
Yeah, they definitely do that.
Speaker 9 (01:04:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 13 (01:04:50):
So I did ask the FBI if now this takes
this off of their radar, like you know where we
are right now basically because people are waiting to see
if will there be chargeable then, like, what's going to
happen that be? I said, they can't confirm anything to me,
but I do know that there's supposed to be some
new news in this situation today, So we'll be back
with that. But it just seems like it was just
an argument back and forth. Both of them were able
(01:05:10):
to get to where they were going and now there's
claims on both sides. So we'll see what happens in
other news. So, Kevin Spacey, Kevin Spacey did an interview
with the Telegraph, and in this interview, he is in
Cyprus and he is doing a live show. It's like
a one night only type of show where he's like
(01:05:30):
singing and telling stories. And you guys, remember back in
twenty twenty two, there were back.
Speaker 2 (01:05:36):
In yes, don't worry about it after that question yea
to the story.
Speaker 1 (01:05:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:05:43):
So basically, I know the guys can't say that you
cannot suck the no, that you cannot say that you
can't put the two together on air, Like, yeah, people
do that.
Speaker 2 (01:05:55):
He did it.
Speaker 9 (01:05:56):
I said, you.
Speaker 5 (01:05:57):
Don't say you can't do it because I heard you
a perfessional.
Speaker 2 (01:06:00):
What are you talking about. Yeah.
Speaker 13 (01:06:04):
So, at the time of all the allegations, Kevin Spacey
was a starring A House of Cards that was like a.
Speaker 9 (01:06:10):
Huge deal for him.
Speaker 13 (01:06:11):
He was reportedly making I think like five hundred thousand
dollars in an episode at the time, and then all
these allegations hit and.
Speaker 9 (01:06:19):
He lost everything. He was taking off everything.
Speaker 13 (01:06:21):
A lot of people say that he was one of
the people that canceled culture actually worked on. So in
this interview, he's having a conversation about where he is
now and he's there, he's doing this one night only
show and people and he's saying he knows people are
going to look at this like, is this his fight
to try and return again, And he says, you know,
he hasn't been in the best space financially. He says,
(01:06:42):
he's living in hotels, living in airbing b's, and he's
just going where the work is currently. They act him,
you know, at one point, because he did lose all
of his homes. Also, they asked him if he's considered bankruptcy,
and he says it was discussed, but it never got
to that point. And again, he was a quick it
on all charges of sexual assault, but you know that
(01:07:03):
didn't stop everything from being.
Speaker 16 (01:07:05):
Taken from under five hundred thousand dollars an episode at one.
Speaker 13 (01:07:08):
Point reportedly yeah for House of Cards, yep. And he
says that all of his stuff to right now is
still in storage because he's just kind of gonna.
Speaker 9 (01:07:17):
Have anywhere to put it.
Speaker 4 (01:07:19):
Yeah, he's what he spent his money on lawyer's attorneys
and all that other stuff, because that's a that's a
lot of money. He's Kevin Spacey. He did a lot
of movement, that's yeah, I mean.
Speaker 1 (01:07:29):
And also, what's the problem with him trying to make
a comeback If he was trying if he was a
quitted on.
Speaker 9 (01:07:33):
All charges, I don't think that there's a problem.
Speaker 13 (01:07:35):
I think he was more so having trying to get
ahead of people saying he has no money and this
is why he's over here during this random one night
only show.
Speaker 9 (01:07:43):
And he's like, it's not even that.
Speaker 13 (01:07:45):
I'm just in the space where he says that he's
leaning back into things that he actually likes to do,
which is singing and being able to tell stories.
Speaker 9 (01:07:55):
Yeah, but he did also too thin.
Speaker 13 (01:07:57):
In this article, he reflects a lot on even though
he was a it are certain things he said that
he had to do a lot of self reflection about
why he was so easily able to fit into the
narrative of the bad guy. He said that it made
him really sit down and have a conversation about some
of the decisions he made and not speaking out sooner
for himself.
Speaker 1 (01:08:14):
Story about him getting behind a tree. Maybe I'm making
this up. I just feel like I've read that before.
Speaker 9 (01:08:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:08:21):
I don't know, but that's how I'll find out. That's sad.
Speaker 4 (01:08:25):
If he was found not guilty acquitted of all charges,
he had to spend all that money. He still canceled
he still can't do movies. He still can't do like
that is crazy. That the fact that he's dead ass
broke and he was found not guilty and he's done
some crazy like he's done like House of Car's Usual Suspects.
Speaker 2 (01:08:41):
L A Confidential. Yeah, they were like wold. But if
he's found not guilty, he was acquitted of all.
Speaker 5 (01:08:50):
Of them, right, Yeah, but they were still wild.
Speaker 13 (01:08:53):
And I think I think a lot of it too,
was because he was so big at that time. I
know we got a right because he was so big
at that time and the show was so big. A
lot we see this all the time sometimes corporations, movies, studios,
they just want to back.
Speaker 2 (01:09:04):
And it was the height of cancel culture.
Speaker 4 (01:09:06):
Like he might have been like the first Yeah, sacrifice,
he's like a post like sacrifice.
Speaker 5 (01:09:12):
This means w people had to back away. They didn't
know what the hell was going on.
Speaker 4 (01:09:14):
And I don't think anybody's laughing at him, right because
if he did something stupid like rob a bank or
did something stupid to getting money, we'd be like.
Speaker 6 (01:09:20):
Oh, he's stupid.
Speaker 4 (01:09:21):
But the fact that he's on broad where he's doing
one night staying whatever he's doing, the fact that whatever
you call it.
Speaker 9 (01:09:27):
One one, one night only come. You gotta see.
Speaker 13 (01:09:30):
He was supposed to do a bunch of different nights
in other places, but they ended up getting cance story
about the saggregations.
Speaker 1 (01:09:36):
Somebody tree tree what I don't I don't know if
he had sex with the tree or he was sucking
on the tree or something with the tree.
Speaker 9 (01:09:43):
The tree, how do you go to jail sucking on
the tree?
Speaker 2 (01:09:46):
Make sure I don't remember.
Speaker 1 (01:09:47):
I just I'm just maybe I'm just conflating all of
the different things. I just remember that was so long ago.
Speaker 9 (01:09:52):
Yeah, I don't know about that.
Speaker 13 (01:09:53):
I know he had made like some advances towards somebody
during like a party, like there were things like that.
But I do know that some of the stuff they
get wild, and he was. It was earlier on in
all the canceled conversations. God bless the treat you.
Speaker 5 (01:10:04):
Out there putting your mouth on random branches.
Speaker 2 (01:10:07):
That is the legend.
Speaker 5 (01:10:08):
Jesus Christ racking people snap that you don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:10:11):
Crazy Now, I don't forget Jess's head. Just fix my
messes coming up in a little bit. You can get
on the phone lines right now. Eight hundred and five
eight five one oh five one for just to fix
your mess now, Charloane Donkey, Day's up next.
Speaker 5 (01:10:21):
Yes man, speaking of sexual deviance.
Speaker 1 (01:10:23):
We need this woman, Angel Lynn Carl from Florida to
come to the front of the congregation. I really just
don't know what's going on in the world anymore, but
y'all need Jesus.
Speaker 2 (01:10:31):
All right, we'll get to that next. It's the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 5 (01:10:33):
Good morning.
Speaker 2 (01:10:33):
Make sure to watch off of Florida Mia.
Speaker 1 (01:10:38):
The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and
all of Florida.
Speaker 2 (01:10:42):
Yes, or a.
Speaker 3 (01:10:44):
Donkey the Florida man a tapped an ATM for a.
Speaker 9 (01:10:47):
Very strange reason. It gave him too much money.
Speaker 4 (01:10:50):
Florida man is arrested after define say he rigged the
door to his home in an attempt to electric hid
his pregnant rights.
Speaker 9 (01:10:55):
Police arrested in Orlando man.
Speaker 1 (01:10:57):
We're talking a Famada the Breakfast Club, bitch you Donkey
of the day with shallam hey the guy.
Speaker 2 (01:11:02):
I don't know why y'all keeping letting him get y'all
like this.
Speaker 1 (01:11:04):
It's not me little dubal Okay, it's Florida Donkey of
Today for Thursday, November twentieth goes to a clear Water,
Florida woman named Angel Lynn Curl. What does your uncle
Shall always say to you about the great state of Florida?
Speaker 5 (01:11:15):
Say it with me.
Speaker 1 (01:11:16):
The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and
all of Florida, and today is no exception. And I
must say, boy, Florida got the Bronx beat by a
long shot. Okay, I'm starting to realize the Bronx is
just pretty violent, all right. Folks in Florida are legitimately crazy,
and it's the difference between being violent and crazy. And
people in Florida are nuttier than a yellow bag of Eminem's. Okay,
(01:11:37):
you don't believe me, look no further than Angel Curl. Okay,
I'm going to say a word right now, and that
word will cause a visceral reaction to many out there.
And the word it's three to them. Some people like
to invite others into their bedroom. Okay, personally, I'm too
in decisive for it.
Speaker 5 (01:11:53):
Threeesome.
Speaker 3 (01:11:53):
I learned that a long, long, long, long, long, long,
long long long long time ago, Okay, early twenties, when
we was in these streets while and' on drugs drinking,
I realized that things like threesomes are way too overstimulating
for me.
Speaker 1 (01:12:06):
All Right, some things you try once and you know
you cool on. And I couldn't even imagine that my
big grown age partaking in such things. But I'm not
knocking anyone who lives that lifestyle, do you boo? But
just know I've seen TWA I and TWA two. I
have no reason to want to open Pandora's box. One
box is enough for me, but some folks have to
learn that the hard way. That leads me to the
(01:12:27):
story of Angel Lynn Curl.
Speaker 5 (01:12:28):
Now.
Speaker 1 (01:12:29):
According to police reports, Angel Lynn Curl and her boyfriend
both forty seven years old my age. Okay, they were
bought in nineteen hundred and seventy eight, like me. They
invited a female friend over to their apartment in clear Water,
and according to reports on the smoking gun, they intended
to engage in hot, steamy, sweaty sexual activity, hunching and
(01:12:53):
that floor to humidity. Yep, that's what they intended to do.
They wanted to be grown. But for some strange reason,
the threesome did happen. Police don't mention a reason. Okay,
they didn't. They don't mention a reason. For the night
taking a turn. But the police did say that at
some point all parties decline participating in sexual activity. Let
the record show this is the adult version of scheduling
(01:13:13):
a play date and then happen the play date not happen. Okay,
But it's not that all parties decline to participate and
in sexual activity.
Speaker 2 (01:13:21):
I mean, it's not that all the parties.
Speaker 1 (01:13:22):
It's not just that all the parties declined to participate
in sexual activity. It's what happened after all the parties
declined to participate in sexual activity. See, Angel must have
been very horny, and Angel, you're not yourself in you're
horny because Angel turned into a devil all right. The
disappointment of not being able to pull back some meat
curtains must have been too much for the Angel to handle.
(01:13:43):
I mean, Angel must have been feeding the feast on
a fur burger, because, according to police and the witness
who happened to be the other woman, Angel started punching
her boyfriend in the face one fifteen on a Sunday morning.
All of y'all should have had y'all asses in the
bed getting some sleep so you could prepare to be
in somebody's church in the morning. But no, y'all up
(01:14:03):
ready to have a meat and too badge combo meal.
That meat and too badge combo meal didn't happen. So
now Angel like, hell no, if we're not beating up
no fish lips, something getting beaten in this house tonight,
and it's gonna be you. So she started beating on
her boyfriend and she was placed under arrest for domestic battery.
Fellas toxic femininity doesn't get discussed enough. Okay, this is
(01:14:25):
why so many men are choosing to bear over women.
I mean, just think about this. Clearly based off what
we now know, all right, this threesome was Angel's idea.
So her boyfriend decides he doesn't want to do it, Okay,
the other woman decides she doesn't.
Speaker 5 (01:14:40):
Want to do it, and then Angel beats up the boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (01:14:44):
Based off recent events of the last two years, Angel
should be charged with a RICO.
Speaker 5 (01:14:48):
Okay, you organize the freak.
Speaker 1 (01:14:50):
Off and then when I don't want to participate, I
get beat on all because I didn't want to put
a deposit in somebody else's meat wallet. Listen, I'm all
forced sexual liberation the women. I think women should be
able to make whatever sexual decision they want. But if
I change my mind as a man about whatever we
have planned to do sexually, then respect my decision, ma'am. Okay,
that should not lead to me getting beat on just
(01:15:12):
because I don't want to plant my seed in another
woman's lady garden. What if all I wanted was one
penis glove? Better yet, what if all I needed was
one penis glove? And I realized that in that moment,
the energy wasn't right. I wasn't feeling it. I don't
have to give a reason. No means no, ma'am. And
if the penis glove don't fit, then another woman can't
(01:15:32):
suck my thoes?
Speaker 5 (01:15:34):
Stop it?
Speaker 2 (01:15:35):
Are you going? You know what you're about to say?
What do you mean?
Speaker 10 (01:15:39):
Right?
Speaker 1 (01:15:39):
Please give Angel Lynn Curl the sweet sounds and the Hamiltons.
Speaker 2 (01:15:43):
Oh no, you are the dog gee.
Speaker 10 (01:15:47):
Of the day, the dog gee all the day.
Speaker 1 (01:15:56):
Yee, and Angel, let me tell you another thing. You
got arrested at one fifteen in the morning. The eyewitness
was the other woman that y'all called over. You know
what they was doing while y'all was in jail?
Speaker 5 (01:16:11):
Oh wow, while he was in jail.
Speaker 2 (01:16:14):
You know what they was doing.
Speaker 5 (01:16:16):
Okay, that was a plan to get your stupid ass
up out of there.
Speaker 2 (01:16:20):
Okay, But why why did they turn down the three someome?
Speaker 10 (01:16:22):
Was it?
Speaker 2 (01:16:23):
Maybe the girl didn't look I had no idea. Maybe
there was a smell.
Speaker 5 (01:16:27):
I don't know. I have no idea. I don't want
to be the judge of that.
Speaker 2 (01:16:30):
I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 9 (01:16:31):
All right, it sounded like a TV movie.
Speaker 5 (01:16:36):
Called Alvin Gray.
Speaker 9 (01:16:40):
That sounded like something I've watched before.
Speaker 4 (01:16:42):
All right, Well that is donkey today, Thank you, sir.
Up next, Jess, fix my mess. Eight hundred five eight
five one oh five one. Jess is here, and she's
fixing your mess. If you got a problem something going
on your relationship, maybe your three some didn't work out,
whatever it maybe eight hundred five eight five one oh five.
Speaker 2 (01:16:59):
One, just fixed our mess. Is the breakfast Club. Good morning, Burdon.
Speaker 7 (01:17:04):
We'll tell you help me.
Speaker 9 (01:17:07):
Oh I'm all up in your mess.
Speaker 16 (01:17:08):
I'm gonna fix itix it, fix it, Just gonna fix
your mess, because my advice is real morning.
Speaker 2 (01:17:16):
Everybody is the j Envy, just hilarious, Charlamagne the guy.
We are the breakfast Club.
Speaker 4 (01:17:21):
Now it's time for just fix my mess, and we
have the coal on the line, the cold.
Speaker 14 (01:17:25):
Good morning, good morning, good morning, good morning.
Speaker 2 (01:17:28):
What's something to col what you call it from?
Speaker 14 (01:17:29):
I'm called all right, Charlomade.
Speaker 4 (01:17:31):
I'm from the Bronx from Oh boy, all right, take
me through there, take me through there.
Speaker 2 (01:17:36):
What's your question?
Speaker 14 (01:17:37):
Okay, we're all from the Bronx, and the one that
I'm talking about is from the upper class Bronx, Mount Vernon.
Speaker 4 (01:17:44):
Okay, I thought Westchester was the upper class Bronx, butkad,
I'm sorry.
Speaker 14 (01:17:48):
Here's Westchester County, Mount Vernon.
Speaker 9 (01:17:49):
All right, he's just trying to check. Okay, what's going on?
Speaker 10 (01:17:53):
Bag?
Speaker 9 (01:17:53):
What's trunk?
Speaker 14 (01:17:54):
What happened is okay? First of all, the person I'm
talking about is like Kim from horse Swadlanta, same color
on the.
Speaker 9 (01:18:02):
Front of the hand, in the back of the hand. Anyway, Okay,
I got all the rest.
Speaker 14 (01:18:06):
Of us is us anyway?
Speaker 9 (01:18:10):
Okay?
Speaker 14 (01:18:10):
Yes, she but she Italian? So wait, white and everybody
that knows us gonna know that it's me and I
don't give up.
Speaker 9 (01:18:20):
Okay, Okay, all right.
Speaker 14 (01:18:22):
Okay, sorry for terna say they say it's more in
the show's sorry, But anyway, what happened is just decides
to conjure up a text message dialect, saying that it
was from me to her, and decides to send it
to him and his other baby mother. I don't know
(01:18:42):
where I swear. I wish I could show you how
to text message this success. Decides to say that I am,
I guess just functional and feeling myself and I'm gonna
kill myself because he's in love with the other baby
mother first of all, or something like like on some
(01:19:03):
side of bullying type sh like acting like I'm like,
but the whole thing in the nutshell, she the dialect
that she put up, She stuff and put what I
was supposed to say on her side.
Speaker 2 (01:19:16):
Dummy.
Speaker 16 (01:19:17):
Oh okay, so she was lying. She is fabricated anyway,
and she ain't do it right.
Speaker 14 (01:19:21):
So yeah, she stuff and dumped herself out. You take
yourself out of.
Speaker 9 (01:19:26):
The running, dummy, Okay, okay.
Speaker 14 (01:19:28):
Anyway, so she does and does that and make it
seem as though I'm trying to kill myself and I'm
in love with him and he's in love with somebody else.
None of this is happening.
Speaker 16 (01:19:40):
It's like you're going crazy. It seems like you're going
crazy because you can't have it.
Speaker 14 (01:19:46):
And now the other day your mother pulled and me like,
oh my god, are you okay, I'm like, what he's
talking about the day before my birthday?
Speaker 10 (01:19:55):
Oh wow?
Speaker 9 (01:19:56):
Okay, okay, right, so.
Speaker 14 (01:19:58):
I'm like the fact that she is white, I'm like,
I need to hit you where you like to be
to be hit at.
Speaker 9 (01:20:05):
Yeah, yeah, gotta do that.
Speaker 14 (01:20:07):
That's just straight up so that it's a fiction.
Speaker 2 (01:20:11):
Ass stop cursing.
Speaker 14 (01:20:15):
I'm sorry. It's a family show.
Speaker 9 (01:20:17):
Keep boy saying it's a family show.
Speaker 14 (01:20:19):
My dad, my dad.
Speaker 6 (01:20:21):
All right.
Speaker 9 (01:20:21):
So look, let me get this straight.
Speaker 6 (01:20:22):
All right.
Speaker 16 (01:20:23):
So the person that you're talking about is your baby father,
no me.
Speaker 14 (01:20:26):
Or him, Me and him in a relationship.
Speaker 10 (01:20:28):
All right.
Speaker 9 (01:20:29):
So this don't mean your baby.
Speaker 16 (01:20:30):
This is somebody that you deal with and his baby mother,
and his baby mother.
Speaker 9 (01:20:36):
Is a clown.
Speaker 14 (01:20:37):
Basically everybody's done now right now, this is dumb, Okay, midnight, all.
Speaker 9 (01:20:46):
Right, No, I got you.
Speaker 2 (01:20:47):
All right.
Speaker 16 (01:20:48):
So the guy that you're dealing with, his baby mother
is making up stuff about you, fabricating stories, basically telling
them that like trying to make you look crazy. She
orchestrated some some message that she didn't even edit right
to make you look bad. It just makes her look stupid.
And what is the guy saying? Is the guy falling
for the crap?
Speaker 9 (01:21:07):
Like, what's happening? Okay? This is this house right right?
Speaker 14 (01:21:14):
Not even about him. I don't care how he feel
about it, we feel about I don't care about that.
Speaker 11 (01:21:19):
Who will think you are?
Speaker 9 (01:21:21):
Yeah, that's either this. I want to beat you up, right, and.
Speaker 16 (01:21:25):
I don't want you to go to jails, so because
you don't deserve that at all. So don't even beat
her uposed?
Speaker 9 (01:21:32):
Yeah? Leave, yeah, just leave.
Speaker 14 (01:21:34):
You did this to me.
Speaker 9 (01:21:36):
You running doing this probably everywhere everywhere. I believe that.
Speaker 14 (01:21:41):
You know what, how is she needs to be exposed?
Speaker 1 (01:21:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (01:21:44):
How long y'all been dealing with each other? How long
you been dealing with this guy?
Speaker 14 (01:21:47):
I've been dealing with this guy for the last eight years,
but I've know he's my first I was like.
Speaker 16 (01:21:51):
Fourteen, oh god, and then all of all right, so
y'all got history. Y'all, So you're a threat to this
girl basically because you was dealing with him before you
even got a baby, My.
Speaker 14 (01:22:00):
Love, I'm a threat to the world, period.
Speaker 9 (01:22:02):
All right, period?
Speaker 16 (01:22:04):
Okay, all right, well, look, don't go to jail. Lead
this guy alone.
Speaker 14 (01:22:08):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 16 (01:22:10):
This baby mother is gonna make you do some things
that you don't have no business doing. And you gotta
man like you gotta realize, you gotta count that jail
says like Charlomagne always say, you gotta count. You gotta
do do your math, do your jail math, because you
can't be in jail behind this nigga.
Speaker 14 (01:22:25):
Oh, I definitely can't do a day. I'm cute for that.
I'm just saying, and.
Speaker 16 (01:22:32):
All right, well look do it that way go se
I asked you can leave you alone.
Speaker 9 (01:22:37):
You probably get a nice payday or whatever.
Speaker 12 (01:22:39):
Or next to me anywhere.
Speaker 14 (01:22:43):
She can't see that table.
Speaker 16 (01:22:44):
I'm at crazy that what she gonna have her ass
in court if you go there.
Speaker 9 (01:22:48):
So that's that's that's the best place for y'all to
handle this.
Speaker 4 (01:22:51):
All right, by party mouth, by Jesus, the craziest people
from the Bronx.
Speaker 2 (01:22:56):
Look, these are your people, They're not my people. They
are in New York. He who's this good morning?
Speaker 10 (01:23:02):
Good morning? Remain of not this morning only because okay
this is the radio.
Speaker 9 (01:23:06):
Okay, that's what's up. What's going on?
Speaker 10 (01:23:08):
So good morning death to one of the DMV shot right, God,
morning the morning. So I'm a dating look woman. She's
about thirty nine, and everything is going with for the
first like eight months. I guess you've seeing each other.
I was always making the effort, you know, trying to
get her out. Then things took a turn, and it's
(01:23:28):
like she lets her mama and her thirteen year old
daughter basically dictated control her life and her relationship. And
I keep trying to tell her life, you're gonna you're
gonna separate us by doing that. So next evening lately
she comes to.
Speaker 2 (01:23:41):
See me like once a month.
Speaker 10 (01:23:42):
Mind, you only live fifteen minutes apart, and you worth
five minutes from my house.
Speaker 9 (01:23:46):
She sees you once a month once the more.
Speaker 2 (01:23:49):
Okay, I can tell you that there is nobody else.
I know.
Speaker 10 (01:23:52):
She's a faithful woman, Okay, but she's letting her family
run all over her and not be in a relationship. Really,
they don't want to see her.
Speaker 16 (01:24:00):
Happy, so they dictate her life pretty much basically.
Speaker 10 (01:24:04):
Yeah, like as soon as they tell her to do
some shut the dinner. Oh, we'll have to see if
I have time, which would you got to hunt?
Speaker 1 (01:24:11):
Right?
Speaker 9 (01:24:12):
Right?
Speaker 16 (01:24:12):
But they don't want to see her happy because they
got that far. Yeah, they'll lose access to her, so
they don't want her to be happy in love exactly.
Speaker 10 (01:24:20):
And then her daughter on top of there, she's like, yeah,
you don't like him. He's in vaiting in my in
my territory, which, like you know, your mama hasn't been
with anybody's now there's somebody there. You feel like they're invading.
But you're a child.
Speaker 9 (01:24:34):
She's a child.
Speaker 16 (01:24:35):
How old is she you say? You said she's thirteen?
Speaker 10 (01:24:37):
Yeah, okay, I have a thirteen year old daughter too, Okay,
like that, I'm a single.
Speaker 16 (01:24:42):
Parent, right right, right, And and the daughter's father is
in her life.
Speaker 9 (01:24:47):
No, all right, So you want to know what to do.
How long y'all been dating?
Speaker 10 (01:24:51):
Yeah, because like it's been a year and six months now,
and it's like it's really getting strained training now because
it's like you ever have time unless, like you know,
I do win a lot of tickets, think y'all. By
the way, I do win a lot of tickets on
the radio, and that seems to be the only time
she can make time. Oh, you got tickets out there,
(01:25:11):
I'll go to concert with you. But you can't make
time out of the week or the weekend and hale
time go to dinner.
Speaker 16 (01:25:18):
Okay, all right, Well have you talked to her about this?
Like have you set her down? Like, look, what are
we doing?
Speaker 5 (01:25:24):
Okay?
Speaker 9 (01:25:24):
What comes of it? What are her responses?
Speaker 16 (01:25:27):
Like?
Speaker 9 (01:25:27):
Does she seem to care.
Speaker 10 (01:25:28):
Or the same thing every time? Oh, I'm gonna try
and do better. You know, I haven't been spending time,
but it's like I tell you, just everything lately, I've
been dropping a lot of like shade, if you know
what I mean.
Speaker 9 (01:25:38):
Yeah, I got yours.
Speaker 10 (01:25:40):
Her cousin is dating my best friend. She goes to
see him and he lives next door to me. Her
cousin makes time to see this every day, right, and
if I tell him, like, it must be nice when
somebody you don't see somebody every day. Yeah, I gotta
wait force of months.
Speaker 16 (01:25:54):
Yeah, well you know what it sounds. Yeah, no, it's
all good. What I think. It sounds like she doesn't
have time for a relationship, and neither does she want.
Speaker 9 (01:26:06):
To prioritize her relationship.
Speaker 16 (01:26:08):
You know, if her family is dictating, like you know,
her mom, her mom and her daughter.
Speaker 9 (01:26:12):
If they're able to dictate her life.
Speaker 16 (01:26:14):
It's about what she will it won't tolerate, you know
what I mean from them. But if this is our
way of living and this man brother, run for the hills,
because it's going to take a lot. It just seems like,
you know, a year, a year and six months, that's
eighteen months. That's that's not a lot a lot of time,
but that's much time invested to be on the same
(01:26:37):
page about this right now.
Speaker 10 (01:26:39):
And know the worst thing is is your glad. She'll
be like, oh, well, you know, whenever we live together,
then you'll get time. Why do I not wait that long?
Speaker 16 (01:26:48):
You're not even really giving me anything to make me
like even desire that.
Speaker 9 (01:26:53):
I don't even know what that.
Speaker 5 (01:26:54):
Would be like.
Speaker 10 (01:26:54):
Yeah, and love to believe it, I said, and I
felt I said the word sound good, but the actually there.
Speaker 16 (01:27:00):
Yeah, and that and that's just what it is. Yeah,
you gotta you gotta leave her, and then see.
Speaker 10 (01:27:07):
My problem is because that's my struggle.
Speaker 9 (01:27:10):
Yeah, yeah, because you like.
Speaker 10 (01:27:12):
We're gonna eight year relationship and it was hard for
me to leave and you know that was years ago.
So it's always hard to the walkway even though I
need to. And I think it's more I don't want
to hurt nobody feelings, But at the end of the day, yeah,
I get it's about yourself too.
Speaker 2 (01:27:25):
That's crazy.
Speaker 16 (01:27:26):
You don't want to hurt nobody feelings, but you are
deprived in your own relationship right now, like you could.
You could easily go cheat. I'm not telling you to
do that because I think that'll be some bs. Well
you can just leave her, But I'm just saying, like
there are brothers that will go Gee, you see your
girl once a month, like what the hell?
Speaker 2 (01:27:41):
What are we doing?
Speaker 9 (01:27:42):
Like, and you live fifteen minutes away from it, like you.
Speaker 16 (01:27:45):
She live overseas on another state or in another another city.
Speaker 10 (01:27:51):
You can make fifteen minutes or come to the house
once a week, you know, once a week just to
hang out for three minutes.
Speaker 5 (01:27:57):
Or a few hours.
Speaker 9 (01:27:58):
Yeah, I think I think what.
Speaker 10 (01:27:59):
She did you used to come over, she only came
over for like three hours. You come over at Genifo
state conswel go.
Speaker 16 (01:28:05):
Yeah, I think I think what you should do is
choose yourself for once.
Speaker 9 (01:28:10):
Just choose yourself, you know what I mean.
Speaker 16 (01:28:13):
Obviously you haven't chosen yourself or put yourself first. You
said you were in an eight year toxic relationship because
you couldn't leave. Nobody toxic is ever gonna leave you.
You gotta leave it, you know what I'm saying. So
you're she's only comfortable doing this because you allowed it,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 9 (01:28:32):
Like it is what it is.
Speaker 16 (01:28:33):
You gotta leave her, you know, and if and if
it's meant to be, she'll get herself together, you feel me,
She'll realize what she got and she'll put things into perspective,
like damn, nah, I really just let a good man go.
You know, it's perfect. My daughter's thirteen, His child is thirteen, Like,
we have so much incoming.
Speaker 2 (01:28:49):
You got.
Speaker 16 (01:28:49):
Sometimes you gotta remind somebody of what they have, and
the only way of doing that is leaving that situation.
Speaker 2 (01:28:55):
You gotta do it.
Speaker 9 (01:28:55):
You gotta be strong enough to do it. That's just
what it is, bro, Like you have to.
Speaker 16 (01:29:01):
I'll appreciate that, No problem, No problem, update me, call back,
call uh, you know, call back next week.
Speaker 9 (01:29:07):
But had that conversation with.
Speaker 16 (01:29:08):
It, be like I'm not happy and I'm sorry, Like
I gotta choose me, Like for the first time in
my love life, I have to choose me because this
this hurts me.
Speaker 9 (01:29:15):
I'm not happy and I can't keep faking it. So
we can. We gotta, we gotta separate. And that's it,
all right.
Speaker 10 (01:29:23):
I'm having a talk order this weekend and I'll get
back after next week.
Speaker 9 (01:29:26):
All right, next Thursday. I need to hear from you.
Speaker 2 (01:29:28):
Good love, bro. I got to just fix my mess.
Eight hundred and five eighty five one five one. When
we come back. We got the latest with Lauren. It's
the Breakfast Club. Good morning, coming straight back, man. She
gets the from somebody that knows. Somebody gets to detail.
Speaker 9 (01:29:43):
I'm a long girl. That was a little bit about everything.
Speaker 2 (01:29:46):
She'd be having the latest on this The latest with
Lauren La Rosa.
Speaker 5 (01:29:51):
Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details.
Speaker 2 (01:29:53):
Sometimes you have a little bit everything. So it's the
latest on the Breakfast Cloud. Talk to me ll.
Speaker 9 (01:29:58):
Cool Bay, right, guys.
Speaker 13 (01:30:01):
So Glorrilla has the people having a conversation about whether
we want a Glowrilla R and B album or not.
So Glorilla got on her ex account and she tweeted
that she will be dropping an R and B album. Now,
whether she is serious about this or not, we do
not know. But I mean she's leaned into the R
and B. You know, she just dropped the type of
and she you know, she's a little melodic as well.
(01:30:21):
But people are debating right now what a glowrialer R
and B album would sound like she is, But I mean,
but she could she I know she was doing performances,
like when she would do her stage performances, sometimes she
would do some R and B songs and like fake
cover like you know, kind of just something in the show.
Speaker 16 (01:30:42):
I think it would have to be a lot of samples,
but she wouldn't be singing.
Speaker 9 (01:30:48):
We don't know what her idea of a glowial R
and B album would.
Speaker 2 (01:30:51):
Be samples of army music, or she could sing Drake
did the R and B album.
Speaker 16 (01:30:56):
He got like a little little tune though, like Drakes
and like a little little note, a little note.
Speaker 13 (01:31:02):
You can't edit that up, pun shut up, can't you?
Like if she's singing and she's like.
Speaker 9 (01:31:05):
Karmenie performing it, that's the thing. Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1 (01:31:08):
I just want more glorial music, Okay. Type of could
be the first single off of whatever her new project is. Yes, whatever,
we're not even just RM beat whatever her new her
new project is. Because if it wasn't for Kendrick Lamar
last year Glorious would have been the best hip hop album.
Speaker 2 (01:31:22):
Yes, yeah, yeah, I could see that.
Speaker 10 (01:31:26):
Well.
Speaker 13 (01:31:26):
She got the people start with this one, like people,
I don't know why people love to get mad about.
Speaker 9 (01:31:29):
Things that shouldn't even like on social.
Speaker 13 (01:31:33):
Media, her saying she wants to do an R and
B album shouldn't make people be like, like a lot of.
Speaker 5 (01:31:38):
People really got nothing else to do.
Speaker 9 (01:31:40):
I saw it. I was like, what does that mean?
Speaker 16 (01:31:43):
Just trying to figure out how she would come with
an R and B album? Mommy, I don't know about
getting mad about it, but being curious just to see why,
like her, what what?
Speaker 5 (01:31:52):
What's so crazy? If she's clearly playing maybe.
Speaker 9 (01:31:56):
Not there at the end of the tweet. I mean,
we don't know.
Speaker 5 (01:32:03):
Is the queen of sarcasm on social media?
Speaker 13 (01:32:05):
Yeah, but wouldn't be off if she she dropped today
like a like a snoop gospel, if she dropped anything
today that she's previewing a song that maybe on this album.
I wouldn't be surprised because I think she can she
can lean into that and we'd.
Speaker 9 (01:32:20):
Be alright with it. And she knows.
Speaker 16 (01:32:22):
I mean, she's probably cool with like a lot of
the R and B, like the Kailani's, the Givings, the Khaleads,
the you know what I mean, she might she might
really jump in that bag, the variot of scientists.
Speaker 9 (01:32:31):
You know what I'm saying. It might be a feature
album with a bunch of RM.
Speaker 13 (01:32:34):
Yeah, whatever she wants, ay and stop playing with that girl.
She kind of I mean, she's rapping still, but it's
a little Yeah.
Speaker 9 (01:32:41):
I don't got her singing.
Speaker 2 (01:32:42):
I got her R and B making this up.
Speaker 9 (01:32:45):
Now up, I got her. I've been trying to.
Speaker 13 (01:32:49):
I've been trying to grab the melody of what the
album would be like y'all.
Speaker 9 (01:32:52):
So I was just trying to I don't got her singing.
Speaker 16 (01:32:54):
I gotta just do it like, you know, like collaboration
with a bunch of different R and B artists.
Speaker 13 (01:32:57):
Well in other music conversations, so juvenile many frus have
dropped a podcast. It's called Still four hundred via Breakbeat.
Still is from Still Fly four hundred from four hundred degrees.
The first guests were the eighty five South Show and
they're having a conversation about who is on your South
Mount rushmore of artists.
Speaker 6 (01:33:15):
Listen, who's on y'all?
Speaker 9 (01:33:16):
South, Mount Rushmore, go ahead, talk about.
Speaker 4 (01:33:23):
Hard for your Yeah it hold okay, g I number one,
I gotta go with it.
Speaker 2 (01:33:28):
Out cares give me.
Speaker 4 (01:33:30):
Skall faight, I got skall fade and did I gotta
go with field.
Speaker 6 (01:33:35):
Mall all right, I take I take three steps, take wing.
I put ju up there in project Pat myself.
Speaker 5 (01:33:49):
Man.
Speaker 4 (01:33:49):
I gotta go PIMPSI master p project Pat me personally.
I gotta go Gucci all right, yeah, Gucci man.
Speaker 9 (01:33:59):
One who's on y'alls?
Speaker 1 (01:34:01):
One?
Speaker 9 (01:34:02):
Maybe two people? They don't do like five.
Speaker 5 (01:34:05):
It's only four from Mount Rushmore.
Speaker 2 (01:34:06):
Outcast.
Speaker 1 (01:34:07):
I don't like when they say outcast, because that's that's
not the way Mount Rushmore works.
Speaker 2 (01:34:11):
The group though, because it's I mean, you gotta put
them there.
Speaker 4 (01:34:13):
They're one group that takes one because they take one
spot for the outcast.
Speaker 5 (01:34:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 9 (01:34:20):
You don't have no y'all don't have who would be?
Speaker 1 (01:34:22):
You got to be specific because you have down South
pioneers and then you have down South artists like you know,
for me, For me, I wouldn't put like if I
would do on a pioneer list, I'm putting Matthew p
Uncle Luke Jermaine Dupree and probably J Prince on a
on a list of pioneers, right because J Prince, But
then lyricists is something different from lyricist? Is t I
(01:34:45):
for sure scarface for sure? And I really would have
to think hard about the other two on that list
because hear the thing about the Mount Rushmore. When I
think about Mount Rushmore, I put the person who started that,
so t I started that trap music, correct, Therefore I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (01:35:01):
Put g Z on there.
Speaker 5 (01:35:02):
I would actually put Little John on that.
Speaker 2 (01:35:04):
But then yeah, you gotta put GI scar.
Speaker 5 (01:35:06):
Face, Little John and an artist I don't know. I
really I would have to think about that.
Speaker 2 (01:35:10):
Got to put face on the scar face that.
Speaker 1 (01:35:12):
TI scar face definitely when you're talking about artists, TI
scar face Little John, and I would really have to
think hard about.
Speaker 2 (01:35:18):
Who the last not put out cast on it? You
know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (01:35:20):
I want to put our casts on there, but there
group like I want to put them on there. I
want to say t I scar face little John in outcast,
but it is always confused.
Speaker 2 (01:35:28):
And how you don't put Gucci on there because so
many artists came from.
Speaker 9 (01:35:36):
Andred thousand, Gucci and g Z mm hmm but I
know you were going to.
Speaker 2 (01:35:40):
Say my personal favor.
Speaker 1 (01:35:42):
My personal favorite is t I g Z Killer Mike Scarface.
Speaker 2 (01:35:46):
But that's not amount.
Speaker 1 (01:35:47):
I wouldn't put that in aster, my Rushmore, My Rushmore,
t I Scarface, Little John, and I'll do our cast
if y'all do.
Speaker 5 (01:35:53):
If y'all going group GK.
Speaker 2 (01:35:55):
I mean this tough man, and you can't.
Speaker 1 (01:35:58):
And that's why you gotta do a Pioneers because you
can't leave off Matthe you can't leave off, cannot leave off,
you can't leave off. You can't leave off Prince. You
don't get you don't get most of this stuff without them.
Speaker 9 (01:36:09):
Yeah, well, I don't have him out Rushmore for the South?
Who you like?
Speaker 5 (01:36:12):
Everyone?
Speaker 2 (01:36:13):
What's your mount Rushmore for Baltimore?
Speaker 5 (01:36:15):
You know what, I'm being disrespect Come on, don't disrespect
me like that. I got to be objective. I'm being
distressed for Baltimore.
Speaker 1 (01:36:21):
T I Scarface. You gotta put Wayne up there, Wayne, Wayne,
you gotta put.
Speaker 13 (01:36:27):
It's because he's resignated so much out of the South,
you forget about him.
Speaker 1 (01:36:30):
And I can make a case for Julie too. Yes,
I'm just saying I don't like this stuff. Yeah, I
don't like it.
Speaker 13 (01:36:38):
Yeah, we'll make sure you guys go and check out
their new That was their first episode. Great conversation so far,
and as we rap, I just want to tell y'all,
Suki Hannah said after ray J's interview.
Speaker 9 (01:36:49):
She is not giving out any more.
Speaker 5 (01:36:50):
Kuchi, So Delaware Rappers, Mount Rushmore.
Speaker 9 (01:36:55):
I got, yeah, Nay, Bobby Domes Suki Hannah.
Speaker 4 (01:36:59):
Suki and so all right, period and how do you
not say the birthday boy Future Future.
Speaker 16 (01:37:05):
Is Delaware once again, girl more talking a Mount Rushmore.
Speaker 1 (01:37:12):
It's a different conversation. Future is one of than ones.
But Mount Rushmore means the people who shoulders, that folks
stand on. The foundation was laid because of a lot
of these newer artists staying on Future show. This is yeah,
all right, well Joe Biden, this is birthday.
Speaker 2 (01:37:29):
Delaware, Delaware.
Speaker 9 (01:37:30):
You just got the birthday, sure.
Speaker 13 (01:37:35):
Right, And we got Biden, we got Suki, Bobby Don
r B Bobby.
Speaker 2 (01:37:39):
Don's bars, all his best bars. You ain't black.
Speaker 13 (01:37:45):
Yeah the top with it too, and you ain't saying nothing.
You can even you can't even wrap.
Speaker 5 (01:37:49):
Back if you're saying that you're not a real journalist.
Speaker 2 (01:37:53):
Let's get to the mix of Future Today.
Speaker 4 (01:37:56):
They start off with Future's the breakfast slogan morning everybody
is the v Jess hilarious, Charlamagne the guy. We are
to Breakfast Club now. Salute to doctor Joel A. Tubman
for joining us this morning.
Speaker 2 (01:38:07):
Man, what a great conversation. Man.
Speaker 1 (01:38:08):
Make sure you go pick up his book, The Fight
to find Yourself, Moving from Uncertain to Unstoppable.
Speaker 6 (01:38:15):
That's right.
Speaker 1 (01:38:15):
What did you take from the conversation, Lauren? He had
a lot to say to you. I thought that was dope.
Speaker 9 (01:38:19):
Yeah, I thought it was great.
Speaker 13 (01:38:21):
I took from the conversation that it's a forever like
this journey of finding yourself is like a forever thing
because where he feels like he is right now, I
am so far and I'm not there, and I'm okay
with that, and there's a lot of work to do,
and I think there will always be a lot of
work to do.
Speaker 9 (01:38:35):
It is what I took from this.
Speaker 1 (01:38:36):
If you're doing life right, you're constantly finding yourself.
Speaker 2 (01:38:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 13 (01:38:39):
But I think the biggest thing I learned from it
is that I actually know that I'm finding myself and
I'm okay with it because at one point I feel
like I wasn't okay with I'm finding myself because people
think you have it all together when you got.
Speaker 10 (01:38:48):
This phone on.
Speaker 1 (01:38:49):
And I also believe that you know people you don't.
You don't have to know everything, Like it's a constant
journey of learning.
Speaker 2 (01:38:54):
Every day. Every day you should be learning something.
Speaker 5 (01:38:57):
But that's tough to learn.
Speaker 13 (01:38:59):
No, not to learn, but to learn that you don't
have to know everything, because in certain instances in life,
I've been like not even Twitter, I mean just being
like even in my household, you've grown.
Speaker 9 (01:39:11):
Up only the first giving her actual advice, advice.
Speaker 13 (01:39:16):
Or just even accepting like loving, you know, positive things.
I think that that's why, look here we go. I
think it does stem from that issues. And I also
think it stems from having like my mom never really
acknowledged like daddy issues because I was just cool.
Speaker 9 (01:39:37):
I was taken care of.
Speaker 13 (01:39:37):
So I've never known how to allow men to come
into my life and even extend the hand because my mom,
like she had to figure it out.
Speaker 9 (01:39:45):
Love you was straight, I got you. Yeah, But we
love you. I love you.
Speaker 1 (01:40:00):
You that God damn I love you man?
Speaker 2 (01:40:06):
You know, does this bother you?
Speaker 9 (01:40:11):
The mocking and going through.
Speaker 13 (01:40:14):
And he still finding his identity, and Charlemagne is just
still in the closet, so in the.
Speaker 1 (01:40:18):
Closet of what you are so homophobic? Gets discussed discussed
being home for we can't have on the show.
Speaker 2 (01:40:29):
I don't know. I love him, I love all crazy.
All right, Okay, it's too much.
Speaker 6 (01:40:35):
It's too much.
Speaker 2 (01:40:36):
What you say this is too much, is too much.
Speaker 1 (01:40:39):
Yesterday rot But I don't know.
Speaker 5 (01:40:44):
He's putting no further questions your honor.
Speaker 2 (01:40:48):
Question he wrote for no reason. I think he was
asking about Shela. I think you wrote that. I don't know.
You gotta find it, man.
Speaker 16 (01:40:56):
Yo, before we get out of here, first week of
the semi heart for Connecticut, I will be back Manchester,
connect Connecticut, and that's what it's called or whatever, but
Funny Bone Comedy Club, I'll be there. We got to
shows on December fifth. That's on the Friday, December sixth,
on the Saturday. We got to as well. Get your
tickets if you haven't yet. Jess Hilarious official dot com.
Speaker 2 (01:41:16):
Yes, indeed, all right, you got a positive note. I do.
I want to remind people too.
Speaker 10 (01:41:20):
Man.
Speaker 1 (01:41:20):
This Saturday, from ten am to twelve pm, I'm having
my twelfth annual Thanksgiving giveaway and Monks Corner, South Carolina
at the Berkeley High School Student Parking Lot. Man so
you know we'll have turkeys and you know all the fixings.
You know all the fixings to put together a nice
Thanksgiving dinner. So ten am to twelve pm this Saturday,
Berkeley High School Student Parking Lot, Monks Corner, South Carolina,
(01:41:40):
Berkeley County Area pull up.
Speaker 5 (01:41:42):
And the positive note today comes from Maya and Angelou. Okay, Maya.
Speaker 1 (01:41:45):
Angelou once said, you may encounter many defeats, but you
must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary
to encounter the defeats so you can know who you are,
what you can rise from, and how you can still
come out of it.
Speaker 5 (01:41:57):
Have a great day, Breakfast club bitches, so you're finish
with your dut
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