Understanding 'Needy' Husbands: What Do They Truly Want? | Ep. 667

Wives, have you felt that your husband expects too much from you? Husbands, have you checked whether your expectations are realistic? 

Expectations of our spouse can be a difficult topic, and they are a really frequent source of marriage tension. That’s why today, we want to help break down misunderstandings around spouse expectations today, so that you can experience better connection and more joy in your marriage. Don’t let expectations trip your marriage up. Listen today and learn to deal with the wants and needs in your marriage. 

We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.

Episode highlights include: 

• Unvoiced expectations in marriage can lead to tension.

• Communication is key to understanding each other's needs.

• Wives should express their feelings of being drained.

• Finding time for connection is essential for couples.

• Respect and appreciation are crucial for husbands.

• Physical affection is important beyond sexual intimacy.

• Teamwork in parenting strengthens the marriage bond.

• Articulating needs can help avoid misunderstandings.

• Navigating challenges together fosters a stronger partnership. It's crucial to express needs and expectations in marriage.

• Vulnerability can be challenging, especially for men.

• Regular communication opportunities can help clarify needs.

• Listening without trying to “fix it” is essential in relationships.

• Understanding each other's perspectives fosters compassion.

• Setting boundaries can enhance emotional support.

• Counseling can provide valuable tools for communication.

• Feeling overwhelmed is a signal for change, not failure.

• Asking good questions can open up important conversations.

• Investing in support can rejuvenate a marriage.
  

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

Couples Conversation Guide: 

Main takeaway: You can experience better connection and intimacy by learning how to navigate the misunderstandings around expectations.

Questions to Discuss: 

1. Dr. Kim talked about the importance of framing your spouse in a positive way, are there places where you are negatively framing your spouse's wants or needs?

2. What boundary could you set today so that you could better meet a need for your spouse?

3. Are you a safe place for your spouse to voic