In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman welcomes a former student who shares his personal journey of overcoming years of intimacy struggles in his marriage. The guest recounts how early retirement and his wife's menopause led to a five-year period of no sexual contact, deteriorating communication, and his eventual realization of the depth of his wife's unhappiness. He discusses the transformative impact of joining Jess’s program, which guided him to listen actively, practice mindfulness, and change his behavior. The episode provides a heartfelt exploration of how vulnerability, patience, and open-hearted communication can lead to profound relationship improvements, culminating in a complete turnaround in their sex life and emotional connection.
00:00 Introduction to Better Sex Podcast
00:45 A Personal Story of Struggles and Triumphs
02:16 The Beginning of the Journey
04:50 Facing the Reality of Intimacy Issues
06:00 The Turning Point: Joining the Program
08:00 Transformative Changes and New Insights
11:08 Deepening Communication and Understanding
14:45 The Impact of Active Listening
18:28 Overcoming Challenges Together
23:08 Reflecting on the Journey and Moving Forward
24:58 Discovering the Exit Plan
25:18 Slow Progress and Patience
29:04 Positive Shifts in the Relationship
35:18 A Dramatic Change
44:33 Advice for Others in Similar Situations
46:58 Conclusion and Gratitude
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More info and resources:
Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast
Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast
How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com
The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com
The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com
Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com
Access the Free webinar: Intimacy Made Easy: 3 Secrets to Bridging Libido Differences: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass
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