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If you’ve ever encountered someone whose sexual energy seems like it’s just spilling out all around them, you already have an idea of what “leaky sexual energy” is. While it can be hard to pinpoint or define (and isn’t based simply on what clothes someone is wearing), you’ll generally be able to sense it when someone has leaky sexual energy. Tune in to learn more!
Biggest Takeaways From Episode #129:
- Boundaries have two functions: protecting yourself (and/or other people), and defining yourself physically, sexually, intellectually, and emotionally. In other words, the way a person presents themselves physically is an example of their boundaries.
- If a person has leaky sexual energy, they aren’t managing or "containing" their sexual energy in a healthy way.
- Keep in mind that your perception of someone else’s sexual energy is exactly that: your perception. As with any other thought or perception, I invite you to be curious about it.
Highlights from Episode #129:
- Vicki welcomes listeners to this episode, in which she’ll talk about leaky sexual energy. To start off, she defines the two functions of boundaries. [00:39]
- We learn what Vicki means when she says that the way someone presents themselves is an example of their boundaries. [04:18]
- “Leaky sexual energy” means that someone’s sexual energy is spilling out or radiating from them in a very overt way. [05:38]
- If someone wears a certain type of clothing, does this necessarily mean that they have leaky sexual energy? [08:48]
- Vicki talks about perceptions of sexual energy, then gives an example of people seeing sexual energy where it wasn’t intended. [11:16]
- We hear another example, this time about Vicki herself. [14:58]
- Vicki points out that we don’t get to just easily put the label of “leaky sexual energy” on someone based on the clothing they’re wearing. [17:19]
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