Black Girls Heal
Black Girls Heal helps women break out of cycles of unhealthy relationships with unavailable partners and feeling not enough by combining coaching, therapeutic support, and practical tools. Every episode, we will talk about intimacy, attachment, healing unresolved trauma, and growing in our self worth.
Episodes
In this episode of Black Girls Heal, we discuss the crucial topic of feeling deserving and why it's essential for receiving the love you desire. We explore how internalizing negative beliefs and trauma can lead to feeling undeserving, even when we outwardly affirm our worth.
You'll learn practical steps to identify the emotional 'weeds' that choke your growth, including energy-draining relationships and perfecti...
In today’s episode, we get into the topic of the fear of being seen, exploring the underlying trauma that leads to avoidance behaviors and vulnerability in relationships.
We discuss the common thoughts, actions, and patterns that arise when individuals struggle with feeling exposed and unworthy. Additionally, we address the impact of childhood trauma, emotional neglect, and exclusion on the development of these fears.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of moving from negative relationship patterns to positive, healed, and love-filled connections. I also talk about the common pitfalls of remaining in negative relational spaces, the impacts of childhood emotional neglect, and the signs of low self-worth.
You’ll get to know what it means to reach a baseline in emotional health and relationships and, ultimately, how to grow towards a heal...
In this episode, let’s discuss the importance of recognizing and celebrating personal growth. Reflecting on past conversations with coaching students, I explore three key signs that show how much you've evolved: pausing before reacting even when hurt, becoming open to alternative viewpoints, and feeling and validating your emotions. Alongside these insights, we discuss the impact of sharing emotions with safe individuals and re...
In this episode, I go over the 4 seasons of healing everyone will go through when healing from unresolved trauma and relationship issues.
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In this episode, I review the first 3 steps to heal from love avoidance and the issues that get in the way.
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In this episode, I talk about 4 examples of emotional abuse that may set us up to be vulnerable to love addicted and love avoidant relationships.
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As a love addict, it can be easy to slip into pushing away the love we want by holding on a little bit too tightly.
In this episode, I review 3 ways that love addicts accidentally sabotage their relationships.
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This episode for anyone who is experiencing or has experienced a friendship breakup that has been hard to recover from. I hope these 7 tips help you move forward and find friendships that help you feel fulfilled and whole.
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If you've gone through heartbreak and are feeling jaded or "over" love, in this episode I go over 3 ways for you to work through your jadedness to give love a chance again when you're ready.
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Every person healing from love addiction goes from 5 stages of feeling stuck and confused to Healed and Loved.
In this episode, I review each of these stages, their roadblocks and what one can expect at each stage.
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In this episode, I review a typically undetectable way that some narcissists love bomb to help those who may be susceptible to this style of seduction be more aware.
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In this episode, Shena talk about why some of us may settle in relationships when we feel they are giving us what we are looking for in spite of warning and danger signs.
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I have had to put a lot of measures in place to continue to grow and thrive as a neurodivergent person and use it as my superpower.
Per listener request, in this episode, I review the top 15 things I do to help me stay on track with my Adult ADHD.
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I'm taking a mini break! I'll see y'all in the next episode!
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In this episode, Shena goes over 3 questions recovering love addicts can ask themselves if they are wanting to stay friends with an ex?
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In this episode, I continue teaching about money trauma and it's intersection into love addiction and love avoidance cycles. Today's episode focuses on Money Hoarding, Compuslive Spending, Workaholism, Financial (Co)dependency & Enabling, and Financial Infidelity.
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In this episode, Shena talks about money trauma and how it may manifest as underearning - a process that has nothing to do with the amount of money you make but if you are hiding, self sabotaging, or prioritizing others' needs over your own.
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In this episode, Dr. Piper Grant breaks down for us the concept of Mother Hunger and its impact on our lives along with discussing the 3 pillars of motherhood: Nurturance, Guidance, and Protection.
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In this episode, I talk about managing disappointment from your relationship with your mother as an adult if you have experienced false starts towards intimacy or seen self sabotage on your mother's part.
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