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February 6, 2025 48 mins

Feeling insecure about your body image can shape your dating lives profoundly. In Episode 384 of The Charisma Quotient, “How Body Image & Divorce Shapes Your Dating Life: A Candid Talk with Erin Washington,” Kimmy chats with Erin Washington, a remarkable body image advocate, author of “Pain to Purpose,” and media personality with her own podcast, thERINpy, who has navigated a transformative journey from battling anorexia and bulimia to cultivating self-love and confidence. Erin's dedication led her to establish the Blue Butterfly Foundation, offering mentorship to teenage girls grappling with similar issues. 

In this candid conversation, Kimmy and Erin delve into the intricate ways negative body image and divorce can seep into our dating lives, affecting self-worth, confidence, and relationship choices. Erin vulnerably shares her compelling journey, revealing how her identity was once tethered to achievements on the soccer field, and how quitting college soccer triggered a decade-long struggle with eating disorders. Tune in as this episode evolves into a powerful coaching session—building on the conversation from Erin’s podcast, where Kimmy helps her navigate dating challenges and offers actionable mindset shifts for lasting confidence. Kimmy dissects the importance of sharing personal stories to heal from past issues and why practicing articulating emotions and desires in daily interactions improves communication skills in personal and romantic relationships.  You'll hear a surprising breakthrough Erin has never realized before around how her upbringing has been affecting who she attracts in relationships.

If you struggle with your body image and insecurities which are stopping you from dating, hop on a private call with Kimmy to find where to start.  Also, she has a unique opportunity for a few women who want to take it to the next level. Coming up in February Kimmy is doing a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul.  Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out.  She only has 2 spots left but book a call to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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