What Is Quantum Dating? Why Everyone’s Talking About It and How to Try It

Have you ever wondered why dating feels like a high-stakes interview or why the pressure to “find the one” can be so exhausting? What if there were a way to approach dating that feels lighter, more playful, and actually attracts better connections? In Episode 411 of The Charisma Quotient, “What Is Quantum Dating? Why Everyone’s Talking About It and How to Try It,” Kimmy invites you to rethink everything you know about modern romance.

 

In this thought-provoking episode of Charisma Quotient, Kimmy Seltzer introduces us to “quantum dating”—an emerging dating philosophy that flips traditional expectations on their head. Drawing from her years of coaching experience and referencing a viral term, Kimmy explains how quantum dating is less about chasing commitment and more about curious exploration. She dives into real-life stories of clients who transformed their love lives by loosening the grip on outcomes and letting each interaction become a valuable, self-revealing experience. 

 

Kimmy goes over how quantum dating helps reduce burnout, expand potential partners, and ultimately attracts more aligned, lasting relationships by focusing on connection rather than pressure. Kimmy also addresses common concerns, busts quantum dating myths, and shares her top five actionable tips to help you put this game-changing mindset into practice—whether you’re casually dating, returning to the scene later in life, or seeking something real.

 

 You’ll hear:

• What “quantum dating” really means (and why it’s not physics, but it is revolutionary).

• How rigid expectations and checklists create dating burnout and anxiety.

• The tangible benefits of quantum dating—like increased self-awareness, resilience, and a magnetic vibe.

• Kimmy’s answers to common listener concerns: “Isn’t this just casual dating?”, “Isn’t it wasting time?” and more.

• Five practical tips for dating with curiosity, intentionality, and presence (plus, why it’ll help you attract the right people!).

 

If you’re ready to experiment, have fun, and put this theory into practice, join Kimmy’s virtual speed dating event on September 23rd.  You’ll get real-time feedback from hand-picked dates by Kimmy and meet new people. Sign up soon at www.stophatingdating.com.

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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