5 Things Christian Single Women Should Know Before Tying the Knot

Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make. In the midst of butterflies, dreams of shared cups of coffee, and that warm, fuzzy glow of romantic bliss, it’s easy to gloss over some of the finer details. As a Christian woman, you’re called to think carefully about this commitment, not just as a partnership but as a covenant with God. So, if you’re single and considering marriage, here are five wise (and hopefully a bit humorous) pieces of […]

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Episode Transcript

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Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you'll
ever make. In the midst of butterflies,
dreams of shared cups of coffee, and that
warm fuzzy glow of romantic bliss, it's easy
to gloss over some of the finer details.
As a Christian woman, you're called to think
carefully about this commitment,
not just as a partnership, but as a
covenant with God.

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So if you're single and considering marriage, here
are five wise, and hopefully a bit humorous,
pieces of advice to ponder.
One,
know that you're marrying a human, not a
hero.
Let's be honest. Sometimes the Christian dating world
can feel like a perpetual search for prince
charming with a purpose.

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But here's the thing.
Every single person, even the most godly man
you know, is going to be human.
Yes. Real life human with quirks, flaws,
and maybe even a snoring habit.
It's easy to idolize marriage or believe it's
the grace

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just
grace just as much as you do.
Be prepared to love him as Jesus loves
us, not because he's perfect,
but precisely because he isn't.
Two,
discuss finances and faith.

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They're more connected than you think.
Money is a big deal in marriage, and
discussing it early is crucial.
Proverbs twenty one five says, the plans of
the diligent lead surely to abundance,
but everyone who is hasty comes only to
poverty.
This means thinking together about money in a
practical and faithful way.

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Talk openly about your financial values. Are you
a saver and he's a spender?
Does he give to charity, tithe, or want
to save for that dream vacation instead?
Discuss how money will fit into your spiritual
life as a couple.
Will you tithe together,
save for mission trips, or support specific causes?

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Having these conversations now can save you from
financial and spiritual headaches down the
road. Three, the in law clause.
Four,
practice forgiveness like it's your new hobby.
Let's be real. You're gonna get annoyed,
Sometimes over small things. Why can't you just
put the toothpaste cap back on?

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And sometimes over bigger issues.
Ephesians four thirty two says, be kind to
one another, tenderhearted,
forgiving one another as god in Christ forgave
you.
Forgiveness isn't just a feeling. It's an action
you'll practice every single day of your marriage.
Marriage is full of small grievances that can
pile up into a mountain if you let

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them. The key is to forgive quickly and
talk openly,
remembering that both of you are a work
in progress.
Developing the habit of forgiveness now means you're
building a foundation of grace that will hold
up under the pressures of married life.
Five,
remember to laugh
a lot.
One of the best pieces of advice you'll

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hear about marriage is to remember to laugh.
Life throws all kinds of things at us,
unexpected expenses,
miscommunications,
and sometimes an absurd number of laundry loads.
The Bible talks about joy over 200 times
and for a good reason.
Laughter is essential
for thriving together in faith even in tough

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times.
Ecclesiastes
three four reminds us that there is a
time to weep and a time to laugh
and marriage will give you plenty of both.
Humor in marriage is a gift that can
make the daily grind so much easier.
Find someone who knows how to laugh at
himself, who doesn't take everything too seriously,

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and who brings lightness to your life.
Joy doesn't mean ignoring the hard stuff. It
means facing it together with a smile when
you can.
Plus, research shows couples who laugh together last
longer.
Science is catching up to God's wisdom, it
seems.
Wrapping it up.
Marriage is one of the most profound ways

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you'll experience God's love and grace.
It won't be perfect,
and it won't always be easy, but it
will be a journey that can help you
grow closer to Christ if you approach it
with humility,
humor, and honesty.
Embrace your partner's imperfections. Practice