Cheating Boyfriends: Signs of a Cheater

Cheating Boyfriends. Do you have a CB, a cheating boyfriend? And while we’re on this uncomfortable topic of cheating boyfriends, just how prevalent do you think cheating is? Well, according to the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago, 22% of girlfriends have cheating boyfriends. Okay, I know at least one sex who’s dying to know this. The good news is that only 12% of boyfriends have a girlfriend who’s a cheater. We’ll talk about that at another time […]

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Episode Transcript

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Cheating boyfriends.
Do you have a c b, a cheating
boyfriend?

(00:42):
And while we're on this uncomfortable topic of
cheating boyfriends, just how prevalent do you think
cheating is?
Well, according to the National Opinion Research Center
at the University of Chicago, twenty two percent
of girlfriends
have cheating boyfriends.
Okay. I know at least one sex is
dying to know this.

(01:02):
The good news is that only twelve percent
of boyfriends have a girlfriend who's a cheater.
We'll talk about that at another time because
we wanna keep focused on cheating Christian boyfriends.
I wish I could say that a Christian
single woman in a dating relationship with a
Christian guy has nothing to worry about when
it comes to cheating.
Hello. The sad fact is that statistics show

(01:24):
there's not much of a difference between Christians
and non Christians
in the cheating business.
Cheating and Christian dating
is all too common.
Cheating boyfriends,
spotting a rat.
At this point, you may be wondering, is
my boyfriend cheating?
Guys cheat on girls for a whole different

(01:44):
bunch of reasons and each case is different
from the other.
So how would you know if you have
a boyfriend who's a cheating line creep?
The best place to start is to acquaint
yourself with your own feelings.
Studies reveal that 85%
of the time when a woman thinks her
boyfriend is cheating,
he is.
Surprised?

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But don't you just feel sorry for the
remaining 15% of guys who were not doing
it?
I do.
If you're a single girl not quite sure
about your feelings, the next step is to
know the signs of a cheating boyfriend.
The following are the top cheating signs put
in the form of questions.
If you can answer yes to more than

(02:26):
a couple, your dating relationship
may be in trouble.
I must preface this by saying that if
you're a paranoid chick, don't even bother reading
these because it will just drive you more
crazy.
Boyfriend cheating sign number one,
emotional distance.
Has your boyfriend suddenly stopped calling you as
frequently?

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Has he been less affectionate in word and
deed?
Has he been more difficult to contact by
phone or email?
Boyfriend cheating sign number two, physical distance.
Did you used to see one another often,
but recently much less so?
Is he inexplicably

(03:06):
backing out or canceling on dating plans?
Is he spending more time with his other
friends and less with you?
Has he been excluding you from his friends?
Is he continually making excuses as to why
he can't meet on a particular day?
Cheating boyfriend sign number three,

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spiritual distance.
If you are attending the same church, has
he stopped doing so?
Have you stopped praying together?
Has he stopped hanging out or fellowshipping with
the same Christian singles group that you do?
Has he exhibited more insensitivity
and impatience toward you?

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Other cheating boyfriend signs.
Has he suddenly started working out like he's
training for the triathlon?
Has he uncharacteristically
bought a whole new wardrobe and changed his
looks?
Does he get suspicious cell phone calls while
he's with you?
Has he stopped sending you those special little

(04:08):
notes and gifts?
Has his apartment had an extreme makeover out
of the blue?
Is he spending an inordinate amount of time
online
dealing with cheating boyfriends?
Okay. You have a cheating boyfriend on your
hands
and don't know what to do or say.

(04:30):
The following tips may help you get through
this sad chapter in your life.
Pray
and seek guidance from trusted Christian friends before
doing anything.
Acknowledge and accept your feelings of pain, anger,
and disappointment,
but don't let yourself be eaten up by
jealousy.

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Honestly evaluate whether or not you should dump
this dating relationship. If you do plan on
ending the relationship,
read a Christian dating article on how to
break up.
Confronting your cheating boyfriend is essential
if you are ever to recover from this
relationship and or heal from the betrayal.

(05:11):
I suggest reading this article
on learning how to argue and fight before
speaking to him.
Tell him exactly how his cheating made you
feel, but don't let him weasel out of
the situation by attempting to pass blame onto
you
or by manipulating your feelings.
That's emotional abuse

(05:31):
and the epitome of toxic masculinity.
Remember,
you may be dealing with a pathological
liar.
Above all else,
know that you are not to blame. Got
it?
If the relationship is not safe,
find a positive outlet for channeling your emotions.
Learning how to forgive a cheater is essential,

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but it certainly does not mean you need
to remain with that person.
Remember
that avoiding rebound relationships will protect you from
even more pain and suffering.
Allow yourself time to heal from your broken
heart and know that the lord Jesus will
never leave you nor forsake you.
Are you a single woman with something to

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share about cheating boyfriends?