Former Wisconsin Governor and author of the insightful book, "My Two Elaines," Marty Schreiber, returns to the Fading Memories podcast to share his powerful personal experience as a caregiver for his wife Elaine throughout her nearly two-decade battle with Alzheimer's disease. This episode delves into the critical understanding that while Alzheimer's is terrible, ignorance of the disease is worse, emphasizing the vital need for knowledge and empathy in Alzheimer's care.
Marty reflects on the evolution of his relationship with Elaine as her dementia progressed, highlighting the profound and necessary shift towards "joining her world." He discusses the importance of communication strategies for Alzheimer's, including the concept of "therapeutic fibbing," to enhance the quality of life for those living with memory loss.
In this heartfelt conversation about Alzheimer's caregiving, Marty also addresses:
- Practical advice on how to communicate with someone with Alzheimer's.
- The significance of caregiver self-care and overcoming the reluctance to ask for help.
- Finding moments of connection and joy amidst the challenges of caring for someone with Alzheimer's.
- Understanding the unique grief experienced by Alzheimer's caregivers.
- Guidance for new caregivers seeking to navigate the complexities of caring for a loved one with dementia.
Marty also shares updates from the re-released "My Two Elaines," featuring new perspectives on the Alzheimer's journey.
Join us for an episode filled with invaluable insights and compassionate guidance for anyone touched by Alzheimer's and the demanding role of dementia caregiving.
Our Guest: Governor Martin Schreiber
Marty Schreiber is a former Wisconsin Governor. Moreover, he authored "My Two Elaines." This book shares his caregiving journey. Specifically, it details his time with his wife Elaine. She lived with Alzheimer's. Marty offers profound insights. Furthermore, he emphasizes understanding the disease. He believes ignorance is worse. Consequently, he shares vital lessons. These help caregivers connect with loved ones. For instance, he discusses "joining their world." He also touches on "therapeutic fibbing." Ultimately, Marty's story offers hope. It provides practical guidance for navigating Alzheimer's.
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