"Transformation does not happen through information, it happens through integration."
Topics Discussed:
Fertility + Gut Health: Why your future child deserves a body not riddled with food sensitivities, gut issues, and autoimmune risk
IVF or Medical Trauma: Breaking the cycle of overdoing and Type A-ing your way through fertility
Emotional and Mindset Healing: Moving through miscarriage grief with grace and surrender
Subconscious Blocks and Energy Work: Dismantling trauma patterns disguised as ambition
Frequency, Coherence, Embodiment, Cellular Health: Creating inner safety through embodied action and slowing down
"Rushing is often a trauma response dressed up as ambition."
Hello Beautiful, Monica here supporting you to become the conscious mama you were born to be...This episode is either going to feel like a deep, gentle hug for your soul or a slap across the face with radical truth. Maybe both. Either way, it’s what you need to hear if you’ve ever thought, “I’m doing everything right, so why am I still stuck?”
We’re done collecting more knowledge. This is about living the work. Feeling it. Embodying it. And practicing it in the boring, everyday moments where transformation actually happens. You’ll hear why slowing down isn’t laziness, it’s sacred. Why the “hustle harder” mentality is just dressed-up fear. And why stillness is your most potent medicine if you let it sink in long enough to actually do its thing.
So if you’re exhausted from research, burnout, and trying to hyper-control your way into pregnancy, this episode is your permission slip to get radically honest, wildly self-aware, and finally… peaceful. Because this work doesn’t just change your fertility, it changes who you are as a mother, a partner, and a soul.
"You know it’s working when you don’t spiral during the two-week wait or another pregnancy announcement."
Timestamps
00:00 – Why your frequency matters more than your protocol 02:55 – Rushing is a trauma response, not ambition 04:22 – The magic of consistent energetic rewiring in the mundane 09:39 – Why slowing down builds more time, not less 14:12 – Moving through miscarriage with surrender and grace 20:36 – The real fallout of Type A fertility that no one talks about
"Stillness is medicine, but only if you stay long enough to receive it."
Full Transcript on the Blog: https://www.findingfertility.co/blog/why-you-still-feel-stuck-on-in-infertility-hell-even-after-doing-everything-right
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