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December 11, 2025 18 mins

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Note: This episode was recorded earlier for a previous project I’ve since closed. I’m sharing it here because the message still holds value. You may hear older references.

Yup. I said it. I’m officially sleeping in a different room than my husband—and I’ve never felt better. In this unfiltered episode, I share why we made the decision, how it’s improved everything from my hormones to our relationship, and why you might want to rethink the “you must share a bed” rule too. If you’re exhausted, moody, snappy, and one more night of snoring might send you over the edge… this one’s for you.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

  • How one head cold turned into the best sleep decision ever
  • Why I hate the term “sleep divorce” (and what we call it instead)
  • How perimenopause made me hypersensitive to sound, temperature, and breathing noises
  • What happened when I asked my husband for my own room
  • How we stay connected and intimate without sleeping in the same bed
  • The sleep + mood connection you’re probably underestimating
  • Why this isn’t “giving up on marriage”—it’s actually saving our sanity

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