Just 4 Kicks: Mother's Day Confessions

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
The following is a production of Dallas Cowboys dot Com
and the Dallas Cowboys Football Club. This is Just for Kicks,
broadcasting live from Dallas Cowboys World headquarters at the Star
in Frisco. Now your hosts Judy Trammell, Hayley Anderson, and

(00:24):
Kelly Fenblast. Hey, everybody, this is Just for Kicks. It's
a special edition Mother's Day edition. And I am joined
by Judy Trammell and Hayley Anderson, and we have guests
that are three of the most important people in our lives.
Judy is joined by her daughter, Catsie Trammell, former five

(00:45):
year DCC and mother of ten. Hayley is joined by
her mom, Charlotte Jones, Executive vice president of the Dallas
Cowboys and Chief brand Officer and mother of three. And
I am joined by my daughter, Samantha. I am a
mother of two, and I am not with Samantha because

(01:08):
she is still at college. So welcome, ladies, Welcome to
Jesper Kicks. We call this girl Talk because we do
always get off on girl talk topics, but we've always
said that we think that guys just might want to listen,
And today, for certain it's going to be a special
show because we're thrilled to be reunited with all of you,

(01:30):
and because when we started working on the content of
this show, I could tell very quickly how emotional and
maybe even a little spicy this show might get. So
we've asked Taylor Stern to join us and help us
host this show because it's hard to be interviewing people
and be the one that is being interviewed. And it's

(01:51):
going to be an emotional dive, a fun dive, and
a glimpse into the lives of women that work in
the Dallas Cowboys and their their children for Mothers Day.
So again, welcome everybody. If I may, Charlotta, I'd love
to start with you, because what we normally do is
just kind of, hey, what'd you do this week? And
we've all been sharing stories of shelter. But since we

(02:12):
last saw you, Charlotte, we've had the draft, You've got
the NFL schedule coming out within hours. So how how
has this we've been for you? You've been sheltered with
family as well, with some major things going on. Yes,
we counted fifty four days. Family is amazing. I mean,

(02:35):
I really have to say the collateral beauty of all
of this crisis has been spending time with my three children,
who were not under the same roof prior to this.
The disease and the virus spread, so they came home
and came close to roost through the process. But then
also we were with my parents, so that has been

(02:59):
quite an amazing experience and getting to spend time with them,
and then on top of that, to launch the first
ever NFL draft virtually was an amazing experience. And you know,
my father has just recently switched from like a flip
phone to a smartphone. Imagine the process to get him

(03:22):
where he was comfortable with the WebEx talking to people
like this, you know, Brady Bunch style and wondering why
that guy's screen just got small, of the next guy
space just go, and then letting him know that the
phone he was talking to was actually the NFL line
and not the WebEx camera, and you know, all of
the crazy technology that we have. It was a little

(03:43):
bit of a comedy of airs in the beginning, but
then all of a sudden it just like took on
a life of its own through the course of the
week in preparation for the draft, and then the draft
itself was amazingly smooth, very interesting for the first time ever.
Our entire family and when I say entire family, my children,
my brother's children, my other brother's children, my mom. All

(04:05):
of us were in separate places, but all like on
the couch and around you know, through the process, so
all of us were a part of it. It was
exciting to watch, It was emotional to watch, and it
really went off flawless, and it just really shows you
what you can do now, you know, through technology, but
really gave us a way to bring people a glimpse

(04:27):
of the NFL, you know, kind of behind the curtain
and see what people are really like, you know, in
their homes. I think we saw everything from from people's
children to people's dogs and everything you know in between.
But that process really, I think deepened the affinity of
our friends, you know, to everyone's team, but then also

(04:47):
maybe provided a little bit of hope and inspiration that
we'll get to the other side of this and play
football in the fall. For speaking of football in the fall,
we are what three four hours away from the inf
hours three hours away from this schedule being released, which
is such a highlight for all of us because we're
just we're just starved for sport and excitement. Charlotte, is

(05:07):
there any Let's see, there's two hundred and I think
it's like fifty six games it will be coming out,
But they said, we're can be a three hour special
on just releasing the schedule or do you have any insights?
You know? I think that's exciting part. Well, another exciting
part is that just prior to that, the NFL Network
is actually doing the special that you mentioned, but just

(05:28):
prior to that, each team has the opportunity to release
the schedule on its own, So on our own Cowboys
social channels, from our website to Instagram to all of
our social media, we will have a thirty minute special
that precedes that, and for the first time, we will
get to actually announce our own schedule before the NFL
actually releases it in their special on the NFL Network.

(05:50):
And so for us to get a chance to talk
to players live about what they think about big matchups,
I think is exciting. But to give our fans, you know,
a glimpse into what's coming this fall all and to
get excited about all that's about to take place, you know,
it's the first time again that we've been able to
do this, and I think that will be exciting. And
you know, I think the fact that there's such a

(06:12):
long special given to that, it just shows you that
people are just craving information, they're craving live events, that
they're craving a chance to be able to get back
together with each other and celebrate something. So you know,
we are hopeful, you know, for the season, but it's
gonna be exciting to actually see who we're gonna play,
where we're gonna play, and I know we know who,
but where, and you know that will really be exciting.

(06:34):
It's just hours away. Well, and Kelly, I have to interject,
you know, because you guys, lady, we're talking about the
draft and how incredible it was to put on this production,
but then flip that the next week and you guys
are doing the most historic thing in Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader's
history and doing a virtual auditions. And I think sometimes,

(06:54):
you know, I see you guys from the outside looking in,
and that is so incredible that you guys were able
to adapt had just in the way that you did.
And I'm just curious, how has it been going so far? Well,
it's going great. Thank you Taylor for asking, because that's
that's my what you do this week besides adding live
reult Samantha, you'll appreciate this, besides the fact that I

(07:15):
added more light bulbs to my backyard starting it's starting
to blow backyard four hours. But that's whatever. Yes, we
have spent you know, this entire period developing a platform
where people can audition, and now that both Charlotte, Judy
and I have are receiving the applications, they're open now,

(07:38):
it's live now, it goes through May fifteenth. But it's
awesome because we are one on one watching every individual applicant.
We're watching their dance videos, we're watching their introductions, we're
reading every word in their application, and that actually is
giving us a more of a focus than the live

(08:00):
audition where people are dancing five people at a time.
So I think it's an advantage. It was Judy and
Haley were on the calls. We have spent hours, hours
and hours days weeks developing a platform that's accessible and
easy for dancers across the country. And I've even learned,

(08:20):
as Samantha's mom, what a college application looks like and
how so I we even tried to make this very
application friendly and allow them to come into the application,
press pause, go away, you know, really gather their thoughts,
express them, express themselves well, and then film themselves in
the convenience of their own homes. So it's going great.

(08:43):
I know, Charlotte's been reviewing, Jude's been reviewing, I've been reviewing,
and we were just talking about it. And we know
all the applicants personally, so I think at the end
of the day we will know more about the candidates
and they will get just one of the best chances
in history to make this team. And Charlotte. I heard
Stephen talking today on the radio about the same a

(09:04):
little bit of the same situation with the players that
were going through the draft. It took such a different
kind of focus and you actually had got to have
that one on one those interviews. I think he mentioned
like thirty and I'm going to say something wrong, but
Stephen was talking about how there was even some you know,
some new personal and um added focus with the players

(09:25):
that were going through the draft, you know, and um
I Jerry said this too, that it was the first
his first draft experience where he's had such a deep
dive into all of the players because you're interviewing him
like this, Um, and your focused energy and attention, which
you know, we're here in the in the four walls

(09:47):
of our home with nothing else to do beyond there,
so your focus is very concentrated, UM, And the story
has become that much more captivating because you know, you're
you're truly you know, you're dialed in and you're listening.
But they are, you know, affecting you in ways that
you may have taken for granted in times past, but
now as we sit here in these times, the things

(10:08):
that you appreciate are far more important and more sincere
and authentic. And that seems to come out both in
the interviewee and those who are doing the interviewing too.
You know, you kind of cut through the superficial and
you go right down to the things that mean the most.
And we saw that with a lot of the players
as they were being interviewed. Like you said, Kelly, you know,
if this is a far cry from twenty some odd

(10:31):
years ago when we were at the studio, back at
the Valley Ranch, which was crazy, and now to where
we are today. And Cassie, you know, she mentioned that
you were a cheerleader. Would you have liked to do
a virtual audition? How would that have been for you? Absolutely?
Oh my god, especially the second round because they can

(10:54):
go back and red of themselves. That was my rough round.
I had a really hard time with learning the routine,
turning around in an hour and performing it. I am
not one of those girls I take home choreography. I
have to learn it overnight, you know, maybe longer than overnight.
But I'm Achalmer. So these girls have what a whole
week right for sim yea, So this is really good

(11:16):
a management. A lot of them that yeah get stage fright,
they had time to work on it. And I think
that's why we've had a lot more applicants this year
and people being so excited to do this is because
they really can from their homes and they don't have
to worry about the money and the time and the
travel and they can just do their best at home.

(11:39):
And like Cassie said, give it one or two more
tries for you seen in your video. I love it
and I think about you know, when Kelly and I
were talking earlier this week about this episode, and you
know what we wanted to say. I said, well, when
I think of all three of you guys. I also
think of auditions, you know, and it's this time of year,
it's Mother's Day. You have always had all of these memories,

(12:02):
and I guess I'll start with you first, Haley, what
is one of your favorite memories of auditions and being
with everyone? I think my favorite part is we all
kind of gather on final weekend, and I think just
seeing everyone's talents and then kind of going back and
being able to like talk about it and like talk
about our favorite solos and what everyone's put their effort

(12:23):
into it, and just all having the same mindset or
even different opinions, just being able to go back and
listen to each other and watch the performances. Sam, how
many DCC auditions have you been to in your lifetime? Well,
I'm twenty two, so probably twenty two in some way,

(12:44):
shape or form, But yes, every that I was cognizant
of what was happening, maybe fifteen or so. I know.
I just I think that's so unique and the fact
that you guys have all up together. And when Kelly
was telling me this, one of the most special things

(13:05):
that she told me was that Cassie visited Sam at
the hospital. You have a picture of them actually seeing
each other for the first time at the hospital. How
did that come to me? Did you go right away, Judy?
I did. I was there when Samantha was born in
the waiting room. Kelly was fun and we went in

(13:26):
her room and she was in labor a second. It
was easy for you. We were in her room, they
told us we had to leave, and five minutes later
had a girl. This birth I've ever witnessed. Well, Kelly
sat through my labor also, Yeah, I was there right, y'all.

(13:49):
Both were there and there were some of the first
people to hold my son, and all my family was
waiting and they were all like, well, why does Kelly
get to go first. Why? They met Cannon, my first grandchild,
at a game and she had on this beautiful outfit
and Cannon was a i'll say, spit her upper and

(14:11):
when she held Cannon, I was like, I covered her
over and blanket up on her outfit. I know. And
we were talking about Haley's birthdays in June. So, Charlotte,
you must have been pregnant with Haley during an audition
process and the draft and juggling a bajillion things that
you usually do. Yes. I tell you what, it's crazy.

(14:32):
I was pregnant with Haley when I went to our
first Cowboys Super Bowl in California, and I was about
four months pregnant, and you know, we were all so
excited to have the opportunity, obviously to get to play
in the Super Bowl and to be out there in California,
and it was such a crazy time. My mother sent

(14:52):
my best friend with me just because she was worried
that I, you know, something would happen while while I
was pregnant. And then course, you know, we went back
to back Super Bowls. So then Haley was born in
between the two super Bowls and had this perfect picture.
I took it to her Super Bowl and she was
dressed as a cowboy cheerleader and she's sitting on Anne Richards,

(15:13):
the Governor of Texas's lap at the time. So she's
kind of been this little cheerleader doll the audition process
and I think all of you girls, weren't you all
junior dccor yes, because I'm I'm not sure if that
was because you wanted to be or because we're busy

(15:35):
part of this because we need to put this all
together and all just amazing to see that. It was
whether it be in that kind of performance or owing
you in halftime, or carrying a clipboard, you know, in
every role there was, it was like, Okay, we need
another we need another pair of hands, and I think

(15:55):
three of us are happy to designate that to whatever
probably my our feet at the time, I know, And
we were talking about Thanksgiving halftime shows. Now we have
Christmas at the Star. That is such an incredible event.
You know, it spans basically the whole month of half
of November into December up to Christmas. So not only

(16:18):
have you guys been together for all of auditions for
DCC camps for Junior DCC, but then you spend most
of your holidays together. You guys are basically it's a
family right here. We're having a family. And so you know,
I was thinking about that and how has that been
sacrificing some of those moments but then being able to

(16:40):
be around each other first kel Well, I think because
it's been just such a lifestyle for all of us,
all of us Charlotte, Judy, myself and then even our daughters.
Thanksgiving is at the Cowboys game. That just is what
it is and halftimes have always been a part of that.

(17:00):
I have pictures of Samantha with Kelly Clarkson that one
of the half. I mean, you've all been involved in
the Thanksgiving halftimes. Um Haley has a has an epic
photo with our Dove in the Creed halftime back in
the nightcast. Samantha has a picture that she said she

(17:23):
was just horri file never forget when we threw them in, Judy,
those long orange wigs, the Halloween custumes and the hat,
and she was you know, the only thing about having
your daughter and the crew, to Charlotte's point, is they're
great helpers. But they'll also complain like we didn't know.
We didn't know how bad the Halloween hats and the
orange wigs were until our daughters had to wear them.

(17:48):
We thought they were great. And then there's the gingerbread
men at Christmas time. Yes, that are probably chucks in
in we spend through three yards. Yeah, I mean, they've
all been in the costumes, they've all been with us,
and I can honestly say I don't think I know
what Thanksgiving is without a Cowboys game. It just I

(18:10):
wouldn't even know what normal is. Besides that, I had
to do Thanksgiving at my in laws this year for
the first time, all through half time and then all
sat me on the room like what is she doing?
And I was like, it's my first year. I'm thirty one,
it's my first year to not be at the game.
So and then an interesting viewpoint looking at you guys,

(18:34):
is you know, Sam, you're about to graduate college at
saying um, I think Friday, you know, a virtual graduation.
And then Hayley, you're in the working force. You know,
you're in your mid twenties now. And then you said it, Cassie,
you're a mom of two. You guys are all at
kind of different levels. And I was asking Kelly, did
you guys ever share mother advice? And Kelly was like absolutely,

(18:58):
So I want to ask you, Judy, what is the
best mother advice that you got from these two? Well,
you have to remember I was a mother before them.
She gave If I had to have mother advice, it
might I did give a lot of advice how to

(19:19):
get through this, and it was it's really hard to
balance your time and feel like you're giving your kids
the attention that they need deserve. And I think that's
mostly probably the advice I've given as you know, you
just have to kind of roll with it when you

(19:40):
are with your kids. You just make the best of
it and hopefully everyone will come out strong. It. It's
tough balance, but it can work. And you know, just
like ask our kids, did we did we hurt you
on anyway? I don't think it's that. This is therapy
right now and we'll be back. Yeah, should we take

(20:02):
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(22:12):
we are back for more Just for Kicks, And this
is our very special Mother's Day edition of the podcast,
and I'm so grateful to be joined by all of you.
And you know, I was looking at some of the
fan questions before this, and everyone wants to know. Making
the team is still on the horizon this year, regardless
of everything you know, TBD. But Kelly, can you tell

(22:35):
us a little bit more about that making the team?
It seems fifteen is like you said in the horizon.
We think we will start this show at the beginning
of training camps, So everybody that's applying right now, we'll
go through round one and round two with our online process,
and then we'll get to meet them for the first
time in our finals slash training camp when federal and

(22:59):
state NFL protocols allow that type of gathering. We're really excited.
I watched the show Love Is Blind and watched um
the how the difference. Well, you know you watch on
a TV when you're shelter, but you know how at
the very end when the couples came out of the
pod and you actually got to meet them in person

(23:20):
for the first time, That's kind of what I think
this is. That's what I think this is going to
feel like because we we will have been studying their
applications and we'll feel like we'll know them, and we
will certainly have studied their dance technique, but to get
to meet for the first time at training camp is
new and exciting for us too. And yes, season fifteen

(23:41):
CMT will capture all of that. It was it was interesting.
You know, we all went into shelter in place before
even free agency for the football team, and when we
were doing the draft talks, I was talking to one
of the new free agent pickups, Gerald McCoy, and I
was like, have you seen the Star And he goes,
you know, I haven't been there. And at this point
I'm like, oh, yeah, you haven't, and he goes, but

(24:02):
I looked it up online. I cannot believe how beautiful
this facility is. I can't believe that that's a real
football headquarters. I was like, just wait until you actually
see it in person. And so, you know, just like
the football players are dealing with this, you know, the
cheerleaders are going to be going through the same thing.
It's it's just awesome to see that we're kind of

(24:24):
all at the equal playing field here, but moving into
a thing to see that the candidates meet each other
exactly a lot of those relationships barned early on, and
you know, I'm sure part of a natural process to
be assessing, you know, your competition, so to speak to
and for none of that to have been able to

(24:47):
take place, and for them to all of a sudden
be in that finals training camp spot and go turn
around and look at like, wow, okay, this is this
is whom I'm amongst. I think that'll be a really
awesome moment. Really community that you guys are. You know,
earlier this week, you guys had a parade for the
DCC pinky rings. So you're adapting, you're adjusting, and this

(25:11):
is a family. This is the new family they would
be part of on the team. Says, we we didn't
since we had kind of an unconventional I don't even
want to say the word end because I'm not emotionally
there yet. But we've had a conventional, unconventional kind of
closure to the twenty nineteen season with our cheerleaders. And
each rookie cheerleader gets a pinky ring. It's there, it's there.

(25:34):
It's a big deal to get your gold pinky ring
the end of your first year, Cassie. You know that well,
and um, we didn't want them to miss that. But
yet we couldn't have a gathering. And so Judy and
I with masks and gloves and these beautiful baskets that
Judy made and the cheerleaders rings, we went to different

(25:56):
locations and distanced and presented them their basket. They were
they would then come and get their own ring and
put their own ring on themselves, but it would, you know,
And then the veterans, the veterans were in their own
cars and were honking, and it was still a very
very what turned out to be a very meaningful historical

(26:20):
giving of the ringings in it. But it was a
beautiful moment. It was beautiful. I love that you guys
continued that in that way. And one interesting thing, Judy
you kind of touched on it is some of the
pressure that a lot of people assume that you girls
feel because everyone's so involved with the cheerleaders. But and
I might be assuming. And I'll take this one to Haley.

(26:44):
You know, even though you never auditioned for the cheerleaders,
and you know, I don't actually know why or what
the process was, but I believe that there's you know,
you value what you guys are a part of. But
I think you all have your individual identities and people
sometimes forget that. So, Haley, was there ever a thought
that you were going to audition for DCC or did

(27:04):
you know? You know, I'm just gonna love them from
from what I do well Junior DCC. I definitely wanted
to try out, um well, this year's process. I might
decide to submit a video just say I did it. Okay,
we can still make that happen. Never know, No, I

(27:26):
just think, like you said, just having a mom b
a judge, I think I don't want to say it
was an intimidation factor, but I had hadn't been dancing
for that long. I danced growing up. And then take
a big, great gap just between high school in UM college,
so I knew I didn't have the flexibility that I
did maybe when I was younger to try out. But yeah,

(27:49):
Sam's with me on this one. It's fine now just
to be a part of the organization and feel even
though I didn't pursue the dancing career, but just to
be involved, you said right away, Yeah, exactly, I go
Hailey's sponse I gassed this all the time just because
people are curious and especially to see cass you go through.

(28:09):
And then two of my best friends, Dayton and Victoria,
audition people. You know, those questions started popping up pretty
much as soon as I eighteen and was technically eligible,
but kind of with Haley, you know, when I was
a junior DCC, it's really easy to look up to
the women on the team and say I want to
be like them when I grow up, and I don't
want to be like them, just in different aspects, because
they're so well rounded and so poised and have so

(28:32):
much going for them just outside of the dancing, and
that's kind of what I've been able to emulate, or
try to at least. But I recognized that dance was
not necessarily my strong suit, even if I loved it.
You know, God did not bless me with the hamstrings
for high kicks. And would never put my mom in
Judy and Charlotte. I know I would be a first
round cut. Like I can say it, it would never

(28:55):
through that because I think it would be really hard, especially,
you know, for my mom to have to tell her
own daughter no to something that so many people dream
for so many years about. It's already hard on her
when it's someone that she's never met until I set
foot at audition. So I would never want to put
them in that position unless I felt like I was
ready and prepared, and I am by no means there. Well,

(29:16):
And an interesting topic that you bring up to is,
you know, and I don't know this because I'm not
personally a mother, but Kelly was telling me, you know,
you change obviously as a parent, and how it has
changed you in the professional workplace as well, because you
have a child now that you're taking care of, but

(29:37):
then you're getting to balance everything. But and Judy, I'll
start with you first. How did you feel yourself change
as you know part of DCC and as a choreographer
when you became a mom. Well, I became a mom
the first year I was working, So it all kind
of happened together. I was in my role, I was

(29:59):
pregnant with my first son, and so it all being
in the job kind of came together for me, because
that's all I've ever known is how to balance, you know,
motherhood and balance my career. And luckily, my husband was
home at night and I was home with him during
the day, and somehow what we did worked and the

(30:22):
kids were fed, they were happy, They enjoyed doing activities
with the Cowboys family, and they got to be a
part of it. And I tell you, sometimes when I'm tired,
I'd say, oh, I think I'm just going to quit,
and they'd be like, no, mom, No, they love this
agree things as much as I've loved it, you know.

(30:43):
And Charlotte, one of the best stories you've ever told
me was about the time that you were working on
your computer and Paxton was a little baby and he
walked over and he knew that because you were on
your computer, you weren't able to give him the attention.
And you know, now, I look at Haley, I look
at Paxton and Shy and I see the fact that

(31:05):
you know, they've turned out pretty great regardless of juggling.
Thank you, Taylor. I know that story. Um, I remember
it like it was yesterday. And he was a little
toddleries mainly on his hands and knees, but he crawled
over between my legs and he pulled the cord out,
Peter completely off and it was one of those moments

(31:25):
of like, wow, if he realizes already what that actually means,
you know, I need to figure out how to do
this better. And that was my third child. With Haley,
it was it was very different. I actually when I
had Haley, I was living in Arkansas and I was
commuting to Dallas, and I would bring Haley with me

(31:50):
to Dallas, leave her with my mom when I went
to work, and we would commute back and forest to Arkansas.
And many times I would bring her to work. I
had a apin in my office. It's like when I
when I shut my door, then I was able to
take care of feed Haley. But she literally grew up
at my feet. But rather than pull the cord there

(32:10):
were in our computer since or was there no cord
to pull? I've been but she literally would try to
help me file you know. I mean, she was one
of those that immediately came out of like I'm organized,
I know how to make things happen. I mean, she would,
you know, I would be the one that came home
and was like time time for dinner. Oh my gosh,
and the doorbell would ring and I would go to

(32:30):
the door and the pizza man would be standing there
and I was like, where did you come from? And
Haley would pop up and go, oh, thank you, and
she'd like rank pizzas and walk away, and she would
have ordered dinner way before I ever thought about them
possibly being hungry. And I knew then that Haley was
going to be like mini me, if not beyond me,
in in her life and in her world, because she

(32:52):
was always incredibly efficient and very organized in her skill
set and like just you know, ability to just do
and solve problems very you know, worldly and her natural
ability to do that. And so it was by the
time I had the third one, I guess it got
a little more intense, maybe, but you know, for us,

(33:13):
it's kind of back to your comment about you mentioned
sacrificing around holidays, and I have never seen it as
that because New Holidays is about spending time with family,
and what the Cowboys opportunity has provided to our family
and hopefully to those who are a part of the
Cowboy family, is a way to celebrate with all of

(33:36):
our family. And our family has gotten deeper and bigger
and stronger because of that affinity, whether it be on Thanksgiving,
or on Christmas or on New Year's and it just
kind of keeps going with the holidays that we've incorporated
into our celebration. But you know, it means a lot.
It's it's why you show up at the delivery room
for each other. It's you know, it's why you're there

(33:57):
in the most precious moments of life, is as you've
gotten a chance to build that bond together. And it's
actually the Cowboys that have brought drawn you to creating
that experience and that love and passion for each other.
So all of this to me has been nothing but
a blessing on how to experience the very most of
life and do it with the people you love the most.

(34:19):
And it is it's like the ribbon that we've through
all of our lives. It's really unique. And specially I'm
sitting there and watching um, you know, Samantha, so just
are so articulate and do such an importing job and
listening to your story that I was ever bit as
empowered by watching Kelly listen to your story. And I

(34:41):
can see her eyes glistening, and she's like kind of
you know, the Brady Bunch, look down to the location
and she's beaming and about to cry. I'm like, don't
go to college. She's gonna crow. I know, I know.
I love it. On and on and on, and it's
like the same thing. It's like, oh my gosh, watching
each other and the pri for each other, and how

(35:01):
how you young ladies have grown and developed before our
very eyes, at the hands and feet of all of
us together and now started your own family. You're successful
in business, and you are successful in college and just
becoming women that we've all hoped to be. And you

(35:22):
all have taken that mantle and run with it. So
I know, as your moms, we couldn't be more proud
of all three of you. It's so true. And you know,
I always say this to my own mom. I feel
like sometimes we forget, you know, we think of things,
we compare our lives with other people just naturally we're human,
and we really if you think about it, you get

(35:44):
the mom that you're meant to have. When you were
saying those things about Haley organizing and doing these things.
I see that in her all the time, and you
saw that in her as an infant baby, and so
it's just it's so special to really get together. I'm
so grateful to see this with you. Guys. Can we
play a little game? We do a little game time? Yes, play.

(36:07):
Is everyone ready for some games? It's gonna be real easy.
But we're gonna do a mom question and then a
daughter question and we'll kind of round robin it. So
first I'm going to start with you, Hayley, because you're
just at the top of my screen. My mom taught
me still in the blank, I had a few that
I kind of wanted to go over. I think the

(36:28):
first one was to stay positive during the hard times.
I think a lot of times there's stuff going on
that I kind of get down on myself, but she's
always there to kind of talk me and like get
me more. It's excited and kind of to get my
mind off something and get just more in a happier mood.

(36:50):
Also is just to never give up. I think being
in the male dominant sports field. It can be kind
of not demeaning, but just guys want to kind of
go on top. And I think the fact that she's
kind of paved away for us in the sports industry
has been I guess easy going for me and having

(37:11):
me able to participate and not feel like I'm not
as good as the guys just because I'm in the
football business. Yes, Patsy, oh you had one more heels
one more. I think, just always making time for family.
I know she's busy traveling and working, but she always
finds the time of day just to reach out or

(37:31):
just make time for us. It's like, Patsy, same question,
same question. Okay, my mom taught me. This is the
number one thing that I think she said to me
more in my life than anything else, is kill him
with kindness and because she knows that I will pop
off and say whatever I feel in every moment. So,

(37:54):
you know, especially lately, I've been so much better after
you know, after becoming a mom myself, I'm a lot
more relaxed. I don't feel like I have to call
everyone out all the time, and filling with kindness. That's
the biggest thing. The biggest thing that my mom instilled
in me. I think, dam I think definitely the power
of talking to someone face to face or on the

(38:16):
phone versus texting things, especially growing up with social media
and going through middle school and high school with that,
and kind of dealing with girl drama in different things,
which is something you know, when her profession she dealt
to the locker room, it's going to happen, and kind
of learning how to be mature in those situations and
actually talking to someone who has a lot of times

(38:37):
things can be taken the wrong way with whether you
know how you do your punctuation and how you capitalize
things and what emojis you use, which is not something
that she had to deal with growing up, but helping
me kind of navigate that as the world was navigating that,
and then just the importance of a handwritten think, you know,
after anyone does anything for you, that same thing from Kelly.

(38:57):
I think all of you girls are so good at that.
I know you are. You keep that going, all right.
My daughter helped me with Charlotte your first Oh my gosh, um,
I would have to say um every day, here we go.

(39:21):
Oh I'm gonna cry. I know. My daughter helps me
with humility and grace and gosh I am. I have
always been amazed by Haley and her ability to make everyone,

(39:44):
regardless of their role, their stature, whoever they are, their adversity,
or their success, feel like they are the king of
the world. And she has an uncanny way of making
everybody feel so good about themselves. And I think in

(40:05):
that way, um, Haley and our family have have been
blessed with a lot of amazing opportunity. Um, you would
never know that with Haley. I think she she shines
and uses her poise and her um in a character
and authentic self to to make everybody feel important. And

(40:29):
I admire that every day in her and try to
emulate that myself as I see her do that with
every person that she encounters. I've seen it too, right,
I know. I always think about a quote. I think
it was at your college graduation, Haley, where one of
the quotes that people said most about you is that

(40:51):
you know, people will forget what you said or what
you did, but they'll never forget how you made them feel.
And that's that's kind of what that reminds me of,
all right, Kelly, My daughter helped me with first answers
were much less. Um beautiful, my daughter technology and my

(41:12):
daughter magnetic eyelashes today my daughter, And this is why
it's hard for me that she's the way she's. She's
really my best friend. And sometimes you don't even realize
that until they're not with you, and it's indirect, but

(41:34):
we all know that we call our daughters and we
probably share more than we should. But they're trusted confidence
and they've gone through all that. They've gone through life
with us, the good, the bad, the ugly. So um,
I meantime my best friend and she probably doesn't realized that.

(41:56):
And my magnetic clashes were going to come on fo
ant or yours magnetic. They are the podcast. We get
an ig lesson on this please she's the makeup girl,
not me. But anyway, yeah, I love it all right, Judy,

(42:19):
you're the last one on this one. They said everything
so newful, But I think for Cassiana, I'll try to
make it a little more humorous. For Cassie and I
she helps me not to have to feel so perfect
all the time. Okay, I didn't think that that was
going to turn me out, but I'm one of those
that always felt like you can't go to the grocery

(42:40):
store unless your hair is fixed and all your makeups on,
and I'm dressed and I have on handels, and it's
like I went to Sam's this past week with a
ponytail for the first time. Friends my husband would me,
aren't you going to take that hair out? And I'm
gonna do it. I can't believe that I didn't. Sale.

(43:10):
I had to ask her once. I had to ask
her to just wear a T shirt for my birthday,
just that's really in competition. And I said, can you
just wear a T shirt? And she was like, well,
maybe can I wear heels with it? And I was like,
I guess I got her in a T shirt twice.
And I was so proud of that. When we went
on our swamp tour, you know, Captain Judy, Oh, Captain Judy,

(43:32):
she was obviously stunning, regardless of anything else that New
Orleans had done the night before, and she had these
beautiful drop earrings on and We're on this swamp tour
and it was so cute to see that. So, you know,
sometimes you just got to bring your own sparkle. That's yeah,

(43:55):
So okay, the next year, I'm gonna do and I'm
gonna start with you, Cassie this time. Is the coolest
thing about my mom. I'm looking on my paper like
that's an easy one. The coolest thing about my mom
is that she's a mom to everyone. If you have
ever been a cheerleader, if you've ever been one of
my friends, she's your second mom always. She makes everyone

(44:18):
feel so special all the time and just loved. Like
it's just easy for people to get attached to her.
And you know, on Mother's Day she still gives. She
still gives, get all right, she still gets gifts from
former DCC thing like happy Mother's Day, Second Mom. I
know Sonny has senty stuff in the past and has
every years. A lot of people that just see her

(44:41):
as another mom because she makes it easy. Notice that
on your birthday the other day too, so many Instagram
story posts and as like because how loved you really are?
That sweet? Thank you, Sam blank is the coolest thing
about my mom is really similar. It's her passion for
helping others. Um. I think we see it in the

(45:02):
DCC world with audition, either Hayley or Cassie, one of
you said it. The other judges. Usually if candidates were
a house, but they're you know, looking for the other
judges wants someone that's moving ready, and my mom's ready
to flip it. She wants like you know, she wants
a project. But I think that comes from she loves
to help people find, um what's deep down inside of

(45:23):
them that they're may be hiding from themselves and bring
that out. I've obviously seen it in myself, but kind
of how Cassie said, she's done that for all of
my friends. Our house was always the one where all
of our friends were over, whether they were mine and
it was my girlfriends or my brother's friends. And she
always was the one that was helping everyone, you know,
find what was their passion, what brings them joy. And

(45:45):
she loves to do that and I've seen that just
in everything. I think it's awesome part of why she's
so good at helps bring that out of the cheerleaders.
You are so articulate. You are incredible with the words.
I was to produce there on the show. One time
we were just talking on the side about training camp
but whatever, and I started rattling off and he was like,

(46:06):
you so just like your mom, Like, yeah, I take
that as a compliment. You're right, Haley, Blank is the
coolest thing about my mom. I think this one was
kind of hard for me because it's going to be
more like the fun side. I think for her, it's
just the fact that she stays still like hip and

(46:27):
works out all the time, and so I have like
a workout buddy for me, and that's what we've been
doing the past fifty something days in quarantine. Had something
to work out with. You're so good at it. Not
to everybody, don't ever try to keep up with Haley
and a fitness. Yeah, she has such a great way

(46:51):
about her. She we're told or a murder mystery we
were with the family. Yes, okay, Kelly, I'll start with you.
M I wish I could go back to blank with
my daughter. Oh you know important. I wish I could

(47:12):
go back to everything with my daughter. I just when
I was looking through pictures during because of just being sheltered,
I'm going through photos and then preparing for today, and
every picture from kindergarten to the little concerts we went to,
the birthday parties to I mean everything in her life

(47:35):
I wish I could do again, because you know, you
don't realize how quickly it flashed by until you're looking
at pictures that are twenty years old. So I would
I would do everything except maybe writing writing with her
when she was that scary chapter that I don't you

(48:00):
just want to fast forward that one. I mean the
first time she was driving, and I actually wrote a
little story called cardio like exercising in the car cr
because I realized she was driving like I was. I
was getting a good glute workout, just pushing my feet
in the floor. Then I was doing biceps and triceps,

(48:21):
pushing my hands on the door. I mean, it was
so nerve wracking, riding tales and kissing firms, and it
was I don't want to do that again. I'd say
everything else I'd love to do again with her. Now
all we have her pictures and great, great memories it,
you know, I have to agree, because every phase was

(48:43):
so unique in its in its own way. I do
when we were also looking at pictures and in the
early days, in the young days of you know, probably
from the time she was born until she was about ten, um,
I really wish we could go do that also again
because everything was so cute and everything was so pretty,

(49:03):
and everything was so perfect, and she you know, just
everything that she had. Plus she was my first child,
so there's a lot of when you have your first
of how do I do this? And am I doing
it right? So you and I would imagine that all
of us here are the same way. When you are
a perfectionist, you're more worried about everything being perfect and

(49:24):
right than you are just enjoying it. And I think
I would loosen up a little bit and not be
as uptied about am I doing it right or wrong,
and just do it. And I think that, you know,
when I look back on those times and I you know,
a lot of things I did wrong. I mean I
messed up a lot of things, and I would love

(49:44):
to get get that over again. I mean, I remember
Hayley was in she was in kindergarten, and I get
a call from one of her best friend's father and
he worked for Gap real Estate, and Hailey was at
school and she I guess I was late to pick
her up because she decided that I was not going

(50:08):
to show up, so she called. She doesn't call another mom.
She calls her best friend's father, who was in the
middle of a board meetings, and calls some records. My
mom is not here, yet do you think you she's
on her way or just come pick me up? So

(50:28):
you know, I've never lived that one down. I just asked.
But I marvel at her efficiency. And I just wish
that we had smartphones back then, because now everybody has
every little moment like that on video or a cute
little clip because it's on their phone. We didn't have that.
I never had a hammer that had film in it,

(50:49):
or the battery I thought was all set and it
was dead, or then you know, there was always some
excuse to like miss the moment, and so I don't
have those moments captured like you can do them today.
I wish I could go back, take technology with me
and capture those moments and get a chance to live
through them always. Oh good, Judy Charlotte. I forgot my

(51:11):
kids one time too. It was early release. I didn't
know it, and I get the phone call and they're
all three sitting on the curbweight and on me. Anyway,
we're human. But what I wish I could go back
and do again with Cassie is her years as a cheerleader,
because I didn't get to enjoy a lot of those
moments because I tried to spread it out between the

(51:34):
thirty two girls that were on the squad, So like
Cassie's first game performance, I was in team mode and
her getting her pinky ring, all those little moments that
I wish I had gotten to experience as a mom
instead of her choreographer. I wouldn't I wouldn't change anything,

(51:55):
but I just did miss a lot of the small
moments that I wish I had held the roses a
little bit longer with. But Judy, I mean I was.
I witnessed that firsthand, and Judy tried and Cassie. For
you to know, I mean. To say that Judy has
short changed anything in her kids' lives would be a

(52:16):
gross negligent statement, because Judy's as an example to me.
You asked how we parented together. I've always um, without advice,
observed how Judy Putt's family first, without questions. So that's
that she did that by example. But as a coach,
and you probably see this, which is as football coach

(52:36):
and their sons playing. As a coach, I do think
Judy really tried hard to be professional and not show
Cassie favoritism and not make the thirty five other members
of the team you know, think it that Cassie was
favored and she wasn't anything. I witnessed Judy being, you know,
cut tough on Cassie. So Judy, you were in You're

(52:59):
in a very very very small population of people that
are the head coach and a mom in that coexistence.
So I think he did a great job, and I
hope Cassie does too. And Cassey, we can we can
put you back in the uniform if you want, we
can over again. She got yelled at more than anybody.

(53:23):
Lenon's gonna Lennon's gonna fall in those footsteps. Are you
seeing anything as a young child that she's gonna show
that us. I've seen her in real uniform. He's a
different breed. And I mean she's in dance, I'll give
you that, and she loves the cheerleaders. But she's also

(53:45):
projected to be about six foot one, so we might
need to go ahead and get her in volleyball or basketball.
Who knows, it's just up to her. Basically, I love that.
I know I always see her at the game. She's
on that side, and she's usually in her uniform, and
she's got her hair and her pigtails and she's kind
of bossing the guys to tell them what to do

(54:06):
and focus on the game right there in that corner.
But firm, just strong willed, very very strong. Yeah. Okay,
last one and this one might bring some tears. But
I think the most important thing, and why I'm saying
this ahead of time, is that, especially around Mother's Day,

(54:29):
sometimes we tell our daughters, we tell our moms things
that we wish they knew all the year long, you know,
but sometimes Mother's Day just brings that back. And so
I think this is important because usually when you're saying
these things, even though you're saying it to your daughter
or your mom, it's actually to everyone. Everyone can learn
from this and be impacted from this and inspired. So

(54:50):
I'll start with you first, Haley. I hope my mom
always knows first of all that I love her, and
I think sometimes even if we get in a tiffy
or disagree, it might come off the wrong way. But
in the end, I want you to know that I
love you and I'm thankful for you. Godrea. Go Yes,

(55:17):
even through my hard times and stuff that I've gone through,
that she's always been there and I'm thankful to have
her with me. Said Sam again, you know that I
love her and I am thankful for her even when
I don't. I will could go back to when I

(55:38):
was in middle school and you know, screaming at her
for every little thing that she did. Um, and that
you know, I do recognize how much that she has
sacrificed for me and for my brother and UM. So
I'm just thankful for her. I'm sorry, emotional, but I
have learned so many lessons just from being around her

(55:58):
and being able to grow up around. Don't not just
hurt but all of the women you know on this
but you know, around the organization. And I'm very thankful
for that, but especially for her allowing me to have
those experiences and not kind of trying to hide me
away from it, um and letting me grow and thankful
that she gave me the opportunity to kind of be
my own person instead of just shoving me in dance
classes and saying this is what I do, so this

(56:20):
is what you're gonna do too. Yeah, Cassie, y'all, I'm
just not an emotional person. The thing. Oh and that's
a unique trait. I love that about you. The things
that I wrote down were kind of silly. Know I'm
looking at them that I love you, I wrote down

(56:42):
like I'm you know, I'm truly grateful for all the
little things, like things that you wouldn't realize a grandma
shouldn't be doing, Like Christmas morning, I kind of don't
have to worry about anything, Like I'm still like Christy,
I'm kind of dancing around, down playing, and my mom's
doing so much still, like she still does so much

(57:02):
for not just her three kids, all four grandkids, other people.
You know, She's like, Hey, I had a friend whose
mother passed away a couple of years ago, and she
made sure that he and his brother were over with
us on Christmas Day, Like she just I'm so grateful
that she just includes everyone. It makes just little details,
like when we were little kids, Thanksgiving games, we are

(57:25):
always at the stadium, but when we got home there
was a full Thanksgiving dinner on the table. She was
on the phone with my grandma all day. Okay, now
it's time to put this in the oven. Now you
need to take this out and put this here. So
I'm just thankful for all the little tiny things like that. Judy,
all start with you first. I hope my daughter always

(57:46):
knows gosh that I love her, but we're kind of
the same. We don't express that a lot. I hope
I do it in other ways. But I also wanted
to that I think she's a great mom that, especially

(58:07):
during the time again home with her kids alone, she's
done everything she can to fill out time with them
and make sure that they're having fun. And they've had
crafts to do, they've had They've taken them outside and
they experience outdoors. They go out on the boat, they
get their feet in the lake, which I probably never
do with my kids because I was afraid they would

(58:28):
step on glass. And I always tell he, get those
kids for the lake. Somebody's gonna step in a hole.
But I'm glad that she is adventurous and that she
allows her kids to experience lots of different things. She's
a great mom. Charlotte, Well, I shouldn't say obviously that

(58:55):
how much I love her m is top on the list.
That maybe even as important is not just how proud
I am of the woman she's become and how impressed
I am by her. And um, you know, when when
I grew up, I've I've often said that my parents

(59:18):
had more confidence in me than I ever had in myself.
I feel the same way towards Hailey that um, I
think she's amazing, and I hope, um, that she wakes
up in the morning and when she looks in the
mirror that she understands how amazing she really is. Oh good,

(59:40):
I'm so good, Kelly. And we're gonna We're gonna go
to a break after this so we can all kind
of clean up and refresh it. We need it. But
what was the question, Taylor? I hope my daughter always knows. Oh, okay, Well,

(01:00:01):
I know she knows I love her, and I hope
she knows how proud I am of her as an
individual and how impressed I am with her. I mean,
so many people, that's Samantha her whole life. Are you
going to follow in your mom's food steps? And I
am proud of the fact that Samantha wants to make

(01:00:21):
her own footprints. She has a love of her friends
and a very diverse, inclusive nature about about her and
her relationships with people, and I love that about her.
So I love her, I admire her, and I'm extremely
proud of her. Love it and it is so unique.

(01:00:46):
You're telling this to each other but everyone can relate
to this. So I appreciate you guys sharing those moments
and those stories because everyone can find a glimpse of
their own mom and daughter relationship in this. So we're
gonna take our final. We'll be right back. We have
some fun fan questions, and then we'll be on our way.

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This has been so incredible and thank you guys so

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much for taking the time. I can't wait to share
this with so many people and say listen to this
and these are the stories that we need to remember
this Mother's Day. But we're going to kind of have
fun now. You know, we've gotten the great sides of
everybody and shown the different lessons and stories. But we
all know moms and daughters, we're often either embarrassed by

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each other, you know, wanting to push them out of
our room and they're coming in while we're on the
phone or doing something like that. So, Cassie, I'm sure
you know even though we love Judy, we do, but
what are sometimes that you're like, oh my gosh, my mom,
she makes me cringe. Win well for starters, anything athletic,

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anything sports related. My entire family is so athletic, and
we're like anything all together. We're throwing a football. Someone's like, hey, mom, Kat,
She's like h and she's But the main thing is
that I don't want to call her a pushover, but
she does not take up for herself. And Kelly has
I texted my mom and said, and I say this

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certain word because it's kind of been appropriate. But Kelly
says the same thing that she does when she lets
someone run her over, kind of like she grows the hair,
and then she sucks him up. She's like, you know,
I'm gonna go tell them. I'm gonna call them and
tell them they had my order wrong. But then she's like, okay, okay, yeah, no,

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sure he sucks him up. Sons kill him with kindness, right, oh,
my kindness. She lets people push her over sometimes. Okay, Judy,
we'll stretch between the moms and the daughters this time,
Judy to cringe. Win. Cassie's a potty mouth. Taught her better,

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but she took it to her dad. She's a putty mouth. Things.
I think she's not sad. That's better. You're gonna say
what I don't know. There you go, mother daughter panter.

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Everyone knows. Everyone can relate to it. I promise you,
I'm Sam. What is something that Kelly does that makes
you cringe. So the first is on the TV show
every time there's uniform fittings. You know, my mom is
on national television talking about other chest areas, and that's embarrassing,

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especially when I was a teenager, but specifically the time
she took someone brought like a bombshell but that didn't
eat it, and my mom put it on her head
and so it was a flotation of ice. I can
never get the chitch out of my head. But the
second is so something a lot of people don't get
to see is for the Thanksgiving halftime the day before,
there's a technical rehearsal and they mop all over the

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camera angles and everything. So year that Pipple was the
halftime performer, they needed someone to stand in and somehow
my mom got elected to be the person that was
going to stand in on stage with Pimple for cameras.
And so when you're a teenager and your mother is
on stage dancing with Pimple, it's mortifying. It. Okay, did

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you think there was actually an election of who got
to get up there? Or do you just got up there?
It was now, but I love it is the same

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way anytime someone plays brick house at a wedding? Yes,
how does she do to like? Yes? And then of
course queen, now you know all right, Kelly Mortify, you

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said it. You said it best. I mean, Sam Samantha
used to have used to not right now, I used
to have a messy room, and I'm kind of not
so I'd cringe on that. It's like, what did I say, Taylor?
You said messy? You said that? Yeah, yeah, that's just
you know, that's the difference. She tends to be a

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gatherer and collector in her bedroom, in her car, in
her drawer. Are you we can all relate to this?
Why did they not get that trap from us? Hayley
didn't get it because I had to point to myself
at the same time. I'm pleased. I will say, that's

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one thing for mine. She inherited that, right, the message, Hailey,
what is yours? The cringing or embarrassing? I think, well,
one mess is the fact, go on, manus person is same,
I think. I think. I think when she runs out

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of time to get ready and she goes with either
partial makeup on, in hair and rollers to go pick
up either me or my brothers wat finishing, Yes, yes, yes,
I can do the makeup. But just like all the
rollers in the hair and go into carpool line, that's

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how we've probably all been in random states of preparation
on carpool, that's for sure. Maybe not Judy. Not one time.
And I walked up to my car and was like
who It was super tight curls and she was at
a skin in the car. She was waiting for something.
She was late, and we were were told a teacher

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like this lady is like waiting it was and it
wasn't our car. It was a rental car, so a
lot of change, and we were like this lady's trying
to give us in her car and we her and
she took off her sunglasses and got out of the
car and was so mad like, oh Whales, did you
recommend her bread the heels? She was dressed for a
DCC banquet and she had super tight curl and we've

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had no idea who she was. I going to that.
I remember that well, um, well, and we've already covered
the room situation, so Haley I shared that with each other.
But I with the thing that makes me fringe the
most is I actually think Hayley has amazingly beautiful skin

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and does that from me. She has beautiful tone of
her skin and it's a fabulous complexion and it absolutely
drives me nuts and makes me cringe when she goes
outside to tann it. And I told her I'd pay
her every spray tan is she would just stay out
the sun or at least put sunscreen on. And I
know that's a common motherly issue, but Haley truly has

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beautiful skin. So and since I'm on the other side
of that of knowing what happens when you do that,
don't do that. Don't do that. Good lesson to leave
us all. We all heard that, So I'll make sure
to put my spray tan on her, my next spray
tan on your card. It's on document, we have it.

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You know. It was interesting because going through the fan questions,
there were so many that we're asking about this and
one that I thought was really special. And I don't
even I feel like I don't have to throw this
to someone. I'm sure someone will have an answer immediately,
but you all are so close, and especially you know,
we've talked about the Cowboys being the have been that
kind of runs through all of our lives. But what
have you done, especially to make that relationship stay so close.

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Is there anyone that kind of thinks, like you know,
is it texting each other every day or I overs
kind of thinking of that or does it just come
so natural? I think it's become natural. I think I
think what really seals it is the authenticity of our

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relationships with each other. Is that, Um, I think we've
we've all been through a lot together. Um. We started
young together. And I think in in that and in
that setting, how we have expressed ourselves, how we have
respected each other, um, in our own strengths and talents

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and abilities, and valued each other's input. I think that's
what makes a great relationship happen. Is that is that
you listen and then you receive. And I think for
all of us, M I can certainly say that for Kelly,
Judy and I and I think I hope that the
three of us have been in turn, I'm trying to

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be that way with our children and then with each other.
That you know, it's about being authentic, being good listeners,
and then being good receivers of the information that you hear.
I love that, all, right, Well, we've we've shared so
much and I just again can't thank you guys. We're
putting this together one because in this time of quarantine,

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I think we're all reflecting and we're focusing on what
truly matters, and this is just a perfect example of that.
So thank you guys. Kelly, I'm sure you have some
closing notes because it's a crazy time in DCC world.
Well it is. And thank you Taylor so much for
taking the taking the wheel on this because this is

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especially topic that needed special special people. So thank you
so much for helping us, and thank you, um it
to everybody for joining us. This is I'm just looking
at my screen and it's just it's just awesome just
to see everybody. Um from a business perspective, Taylor, if
you're talking about our auditions, those were open right now
and Judy and Charlotte and I are standing by waiting

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for those applications, very excited. I'm gonna take a picture
of our screen because I love this shot. So how
do they how do they turn into their audition tapes?
It's online so dot com Dallas Cowboys dot com or
Dallas Cowboys Cheerloaders dot com and the application is there

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and they get to fill it all out take submit
their photos, submit their videos. All the very detailed instructions
are right there. And you mentioned what cringe is Samantha
and Hayley and Cassie both. I bet we make Nack
cringe when we try to do Instagram Todd at the chat,

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I remember when I was gonna joint snapchest Demantha and
Ryan both are like, no, right, don't we horrify y'all
on social I like your don segments now I like them.
I trying, We're trying. Ryan, all right, Well, thank you
guys for joining us, and do you next week, guys.

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