Special: Breaking Free from the ‘Shoulds’ as a Clinician: A Tender Conversation

Original Air Date: June 21, 2022

In this heartfelt episode, Lisa, dives into the tender and often challenging topic of the “shoulds” and “should nots” that we carry as clinicians. These inner judgments—those persistent whispers of self-criticism—show up in the playroom, in our work with parents and caregivers, and even in our personal lives.

Joined by two Certified Synergetic Play Therapists, Helen Ritchie and Kristina Dixon, Lisa leads a deeply personal and empowering conversation to help therapists explore and transform these inner dialogues.

Here’s what you’ll discover:

• Why “shoulds” and unmet expectations trigger a threat response in the brain;
• Common “shoulds” clinicians face (… and an invitation to reflect on your own);
• How to navigate the “shoulds” and “should nots” in therapy sessions, with parents/caregivers, and in your personal life;
• Practical insights for newer therapists grappling with self-doubt and the “Am I ok?” question;
• Personal stories, including Lisa’s own experiences with these challenges, showing how even seasoned therapists aren’t immune to the “shoulds.”

🎧 Tune in to reconnect with a deeper trust in yourself as a play therapist and celebrate the incredible work you do every day. Big hugs and much love on this journey! 💕

Podcast Resources: 

• Synergetic Play Therapy Institute
• Synergetic Play Therapy Learning Website
• FREE Resources to support you on your play therapy journey 
• Aggression in Play Therapy: A Neurobiological Approach to Integrating Intensity

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