Episode 490. Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies: Creating a Life You Love with Tara Schuster

This week on Radically Loved, Tessa speaks with Tara Schuster about her book, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies. She explains the meaning of the book’s title and how it encompasses the path towards reparenting and self-healing. Our life story begins in childhood. And how it begins essentially determines how we will continue to write our journey. Unfortunately, many of us develop trauma from a neglectful upbringing. These traumas manifest later in our lives and may cause us to go down a spiral of setbacks and hiccups. But it is possible to break free from these narratives. The healing process may seem like an endless one, but there is hope.

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Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

1. Understand the process of reparenting yourself.
2. Learn how adopting a gratitude practice opens your eyes to life’s bigger picture.
3. Find out where you can find the lilies in your everyday life.

Episode Highlights
[00:57] Who is Tara Schuster?
03:10] The Context of Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies
[05:18] Titling the Book Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies
[09:33] The Gratitude Process
[14:53] Converting to Self-Help
[17:07] Writing a Thank You Card
[21:05] The Difference Between Self-Care and Self-Celebration
[24:54] Spending Money on Small Luxuries
[28:55] Glow in the F*cking Dark
[33:09] How Tara Feels Radically Loved


Resources: ● Connect with Tara Schuster ○
Website: https://www.taraschuster.com/ ○ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster/ ● Sign up for Tara’s newsletter at https://www.taraschuster.com/newsletter or by texting GLOW to 66866! ● Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies by Tara Schuster: https://www.amazon.com/Buy-Yourself-cking-Lilies-Rituals/dp/0525509887 ● Glow in the F*cking Dark by Tara Schuster: https://www.amazon.com/Glow-cking-Dark-Practices-Someone/dp/0593243099 ● I Feel Bad About My Neck by Nora Ephron: https://www.amazon.com/Feel-Bad-About-My-Neck/dp/0307276821 ● I Remember Nothing by Nora Ephron: https://www.amazon.com/I-Remember-Nothing-Other-Reflections/dp/0307742806 ● Born Standing Up by Steve Martin: https://www.amazon.com/Born-Standing-Up-Comics-Life/dp/1416553657 ● Pre-order Rosie’s book, You are Radically Loved: https://www.amazon.com/You-Are-Radically-Loved-Self-Love/ ● Radically Loved is now part of the iHeartMedia Podcasts: https://www.iheartmedia.com/podcasts ● Have a specific topic in mind? Email us at [e-mail]. Don’t forget to add the subject Wisdom Wednesday topic! ● Create a daily meditation ritual in just seven days! Download BUILD YOUR DAILY MEDITATION RITUAL and other freebies at https://www.radicallyloved.com/free-stuff! ● FREE Action Guide! Apply the lessons you learn from this episode as you listen! Sign up at https://www.radicallyloved.com/episode-show-notes, and I’ll send it right away! ● Stay updated! ○ Instagram: .css-j9qmi7{display:-webkit-box;display:-webkit-flex;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-webkit-flex-direction:row;-ms-flex-direction:row;flex-direction:row;font-weight:700;margin-bottom:1rem;margin-top:2.8rem;width:100%;-webkit-box-pack:start;-ms-flex-pack:start;-webkit-justify-content:start;justify-content:start;padding-left:5rem;}@media only screen and (max-width: 599px){.css-j9qmi7{padding-left:0;-webkit-box-pack:center;-ms-flex-pack:center;-webkit-justify-content:center;justify-content:center;}}.css-j9qmi7 svg{fill:#27292D;}.css-j9qmi7 .eagfbvw0{-webkit-align-items:center;-webkit-box-align:center;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;color:#27292D;}