I so much treasure this interview I had with "The Englishman in Boston" Robin Charbit in his hotel room in a beautiful resort in London where we had our Business training last year.
I decided to publish the conversation one more time. Like art, we hear something new every time and I for sure do that in this interview. Robin shares key elements to keep our mental well-being even in times of resistance.
We talk about:
What is our built-in design for Success?
What is innate?
How does our mental system work?
How to be brilliant (or knowing when we are not)
It does not look the same in the morningâŚ
Balance/Intelligence
We are all brilliant, but only when it âshows upâ
Why there is no âdoingâ involved, there is no technique in this understanding of the mind
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The Peace Exercise:
Think of a moment you were very peaceful
Remember what qualities were available to you in that moment
( ex. Everything is possible, feeling of love etc)
Did you make them (the good feelings) happen or did they just âshow upâ?
Most people say âthey just showed upâ, so where did they come from?
They must be innate=build in (in you).
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The beating of your heart is innate (just happens)
Small kids just learn
Everything is in you, you have access. You get access when you know the way the system works.Â
How to get financial success
You get insights/clarity that will show you the way to goÂ
Insight= a moment of clear understanding or A-HA moments
Our Design for Success when you need them
A new way of thinking
Example of a team that had to raise 100 billion in 7 weeks
The biggest misunderstanding is that our feelings come from the outside ex. the stock market, a difficult client, your mother-in-law
Your thinking is what causes your feelings.
Different thoughts create a different experience
To hear my voice right now in your head- that is just happening
What happens? People start to react less to stress, "difficult" situations of people etc
The more you become aware of the internal process the less you react to the outer world and the more brilliant moments you get
When the team naturally relaxes they see 10x more solutions
Same people, same target, different understanding, different results
Unbelievable results
How to âbuildâ self-confidence (or not)
What happens when you stop scaring yourself?
Learning about how the mind works is like riding the bicycleÂ
WD40 for the human mind
How to have lifelong success
Like learning to drive a car
If you have a leader who learn this it has a ripple effect
How a leader can operate with this understanding
No power outside can hurt me
I get curious if there is a problem
Leaders get very conscious about what state they themselves are in
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Leadership tips on how to get No. 1:
Pay attention to the moments of peace
Notice what you are capable of in those moments
Notice those moments of peace and wisdom and realize that that's actually who you are
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