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March 26, 2025 44 mins

In this episode of the Doing What Matters we chat with Dr. Todd Hall to discuss the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and attachment theory. Hall, an award-winning author and professor at Rosemead School of Psychology, shares insights from his books, 'Relational Spirituality' and 'The Connected Life.' We delve into how early attachment relationships shape our experiences with ourselves, others, and God. Todd  will discuss the different attachment styles, their impact on spiritual formation, and ways to foster secure attachments. We will also chat about practical advice for leaders and helping professionals on promoting self-awareness and maintaining emotional. Todd also shares his own everyday life story on how he lives from rest not rush.. 


TIME STAMPS:

00:00 Welcome to Doing What Matters Podcast

00:45 Introducing Todd Hall: A Journey of Relational Spirituality

01:41 The Intersection of Psychology and Spirituality

03:12 Exploring Relational Spirituality and The Connected Life

07:14 Understanding Attachment Theory

10:20 Attachment Styles and Their Impact on Relationships

21:07 The Role of Emotions in Interpreting Events

23:43 Understanding the Implicit Self

24:34 Addressing Emotional Pain and Insecurities

26:16 The Role of Safe Relationships in Healing

28:11 Memory Reconsolidation and Neuroplasticity

31:58 Practical Steps for Helping Professionals

36:21 Living in a State of Rest, Not Rush

37:57 Todd Hall's Daily Practices for Rest

42:51 Connecting with Todd Hall and Final Thoughts


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