Batman Returns (Part One)

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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Make sure I ain't gotten no one along set.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Just I already know. I know that I'm gonna wind
up cursing this tiny ass nigga out today. It's fine.
I love him to death. What you rolling eyes? You

(00:30):
literally just rolled your eyes. I want to say, what's
up to the social shameless community? What's good y'all? How
y'all doing? We have Lola the Divine back in the
house for having me. She and I had a very
interesting conversation this week. We will let y'all know when
it's time, but we are here right right. We also

(00:56):
have another guest. Dodge went to another party this week,
didn't you? Didn't you?

Speaker 3 (01:14):
But when I react.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
Problem, I'm here, you literally came in here. You and
Lola went to another party this week.

Speaker 3 (01:20):
That was me and Lola because at first it was
just like I was the only the party that we
said that we was going to the last time we
was here together.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
That we said, can you just answer the question?

Speaker 3 (01:32):
Yes, I did exactly what I said I was going
to do an amazing.

Speaker 2 (01:37):
Listen, it is what it is right what you saying yesterday?
Did the person said.

Speaker 3 (01:42):
I told I nominated him, You didn't nominate.

Speaker 4 (01:44):
Us listen, you go, no, I was here.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
Did you get the code? The code?

Speaker 3 (01:48):
So what young young Prince came after? He was here
before the party? Because why people? He was my last nomination.

Speaker 2 (01:59):
That's peace.

Speaker 4 (02:00):
Let's shout out to Lola for the invite.

Speaker 2 (02:01):
I appreciate the Young Prince with your nomination.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
He was my last nomination.

Speaker 4 (02:07):
Yes, so there was most of the niggas before him,
all right, and none of them all.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
You know, and we're going to I was friends. I
didn't know. Let's just ad yea like that. Yeah, how long?
How long you have about known each other?

Speaker 3 (02:27):
We've known each other for maybe like a year or two.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
Oh, okay, a year or two. That's next. Actually me
and this person have known each other.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
Yeah, how you'll be friends? This dynamic is interesting.

Speaker 2 (02:39):
What are you saying? Thirteen years maybe something like that,
something like it. Yeah, it's really nice. Over ten, really nice.
Definitely only ten that we started here. Damn he seven
eight years ago, eight years ago.

Speaker 3 (02:49):
Now yeah because Parker's because park is about to be seven.
So yeah, we started when I was pregnant, so yeah,
we might be at fifteen sixteen.

Speaker 5 (02:57):
Yeah, what was like the origin of it? Like, how
did y'all become friends. She wanted to be my friend.

Speaker 6 (03:02):
M hmm.

Speaker 4 (03:03):
She was like she was like seeking you out type shit.

Speaker 2 (03:05):
She called me like, yo, why do you act like that?
Be my friend, I'll be yours. That didn't happen.

Speaker 3 (03:11):
Is that the origin?

Speaker 2 (03:12):
No? I mean that's that's not when we met. But
we knew each other before that. But then you was like, yo,
that's how we became.

Speaker 3 (03:18):
Friends friends valid because because origin I didn't know what
she said friendship, friendship the origin of the friendship begging.
I called you begging. That's exactly what happened. Yes, I
called him begging. We had We had a very nice rapport.

(03:38):
We used to like talk back and forth on Twitter,
and I was just like, why are we not friends?

Speaker 2 (03:44):
Coming out? I think it was doing parties.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
You were supporting because I'm supportive.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
I think we were closer than the average Twitter had
at that point. Yes, and you was like, yo.

Speaker 3 (03:54):
You would throw the links. I would show up.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
Yeah you see, I fuck with you, And I want
to know.

Speaker 3 (04:01):
Why you don't want to be my friend?

Speaker 2 (04:03):
Right, that's I don't like let people in. And she's like, nigga,
shut the Yeah, it was like.

Speaker 3 (04:07):
That, like shut up be my friend, Like, don't just
be my friend on the internet. We have mad mutual friends,
like we keep running into each other, like act like
we're like we're fucking friends.

Speaker 7 (04:16):
So then that means she is who she's always been.
So you asking her why she's being funny with you,
She's not being funny with you.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
I like that.

Speaker 3 (04:23):
I like that. So niggas be acting like like if
I'm anything, I'm consistent as hell.

Speaker 2 (04:33):
Yes, I like that. You did that because you took
it back to the origin. Right in the origin, I said,
I don't like letting people in like that. I feel
like they act funny. I don't like going through that, right,
that was what I'm not gonna do that, Right, Let's
go back. Let's take it back to the last episode

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why you drove past my house to go to a
friend's part Already, niggas.

Speaker 3 (05:01):
Wasn't thinking about you. I was with my man. Yeah,
that's all I care about. Take it how you want.
I said all that just like that. That was my tone.
That was my tone.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
That was literally funk out of here, fuck your feelings,
funk out of here.

Speaker 3 (05:16):
Okay, because it was date night, because I you know,
because I set up a date night with my husband
and I'm not thinking about nobody else but the nigga.
I looked in his eyes and said, I do. That's
the person that I was worried about that. But when
I said I was going back mm hmm, and I'm like, yo,

(05:40):
just pull up. We don't got to take it here,
like it's not time, Yo, I'm on my way. I
did not call him and say I was on my way,
but I did tell him before. I did speak to
him before I went, said I was going, and I
said again double down and said just pull up, and
he said no, I didn't do to do that. We

(06:01):
wasn't on the phone, and I said, I'm going, just come.

Speaker 2 (06:03):
No. When did that happen? When did I see I
thought would come?

Speaker 5 (06:12):
No?

Speaker 2 (06:12):
Y'all said that I would go, and I said no,
I'm going to call him right. So for the people
in the room, he is in the chat today Batman
batman right, and he is he is, he's hot.

Speaker 3 (06:28):
We was on FaceTime on Monday nigga for thirty.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
Minutes and what does that have to do anything? He
was talking business.

Speaker 3 (06:35):
But I told you I was going when the party Wednesday.

Speaker 2 (06:40):
So you tell me Monday that you're going, yeah, okay,
any in any case, him and I had a great talk.
Matter of fact, do y'all want to hear because he
wants to call in. Yes, I'm going to call him. Okay,
don't grab the headphones. I'm not sure if the if
the No Shame Gang can hear, but you, the audience

(07:03):
listening to the episode can. Let's see how this was
child will be interesting exactly child.

Speaker 3 (07:11):
I don't know what's happening right now.

Speaker 2 (07:13):
I just tried to call him a fucking my ship
this phone number? Yeah, I'm not even sure, but am
I block? Now?

Speaker 3 (07:23):
How are you black? When we were just texting each
other this morning?

Speaker 1 (07:29):
M hm.

Speaker 8 (07:35):
Yes, so because I because I have client, let me
speak to everybody before, you know?

Speaker 6 (07:52):
Hello, he Lola, how are you?

Speaker 1 (07:55):
I'm good? How are you?

Speaker 6 (07:57):
I'm okay, I'm stressed.

Speaker 8 (07:59):
But nonetheless, we're just gonna, you know, move along because
we prevailed.

Speaker 6 (08:03):
Dosh, how are you?

Speaker 3 (08:05):
Hello? Batman?

Speaker 9 (08:06):
How you doing?

Speaker 6 (08:08):
I'm you know, after I get this out, I'll be fine.

Speaker 8 (08:12):
Yesterday, I don't know you too well, but it's seems
like we.

Speaker 6 (08:15):
Have deep I will adjust that because because he's a
priority today.

Speaker 3 (08:25):
Can I play the music.

Speaker 6 (08:28):
Yeah, whenever he.

Speaker 10 (08:29):
Play something, here we go?

Speaker 9 (08:41):
Where is?

Speaker 2 (08:53):
This was just a system? This face? These are their stories.

Speaker 6 (09:05):
Apparently I can't make me laugh because I'm serious.

Speaker 8 (09:08):
Yes, I'm serious about I'm tighting not to call this
bitch ass nigga bout his first and last name.

Speaker 6 (09:13):
So but I won't so who is? So the thing
is right, I just want to.

Speaker 8 (09:19):
Be clear that me and this nigga had a conversation yesterday.
That conversation was okay, right, it was. It was okay,
it was. It was a great convo. Now the problem
is his bitch ass told me to watch the show,
and I did so. Now now we have a motherfucking problem.

Speaker 2 (09:37):
I didn't tell you. You said you want to watch it?
You said, did you?

Speaker 6 (09:41):
You told me I was discussed, so tell me to
watch it.

Speaker 2 (09:44):
I'm gon tell you talk about you being your back.

Speaker 8 (09:46):
So we're not gonna play samantic because you already got
a million things to get cursed out about. Let's not
add to the list so soon in the convo. Thank
you so much. So now moving on. First thing I
want to undress to Hohold. The thing is that you
are my friend, but most importantly, you are like a
big brother to me, and I want to emphasize the

(10:07):
big brother in that.

Speaker 6 (10:09):
Okay, that's what he's saying. Let's let's put let's address that.

Speaker 8 (10:14):
Okay, the big brother as in you lead, I follow
as and do you have a certain letter of all
maturity that I do not or I would not. But
you know, in the history of our friendship, we know
better that that is not true. So we will just
go ahead and try and rectify that right now. So
number one, Yeah, so number one, I write another.

Speaker 6 (10:37):
I apologize to this bitch as nigga.

Speaker 8 (10:39):
Yesterday twice I did because he's right after he gave
me the plug for the place I should have one
hundred percent called him and said, you know, thank you
so much.

Speaker 6 (10:51):
It worked out. You know, I'm doing X, Y and
Z whatever. Blah blah blah blah, moving along.

Speaker 8 (10:57):
I've already apologized twice. I'm not coming up here to
apologize to a bitch ask again.

Speaker 2 (11:01):
I take that as an apology, though, thank you, I
appreciate it. That's the third time.

Speaker 8 (11:04):
What I will say is his way, you went the
funk wrong. It's because one there was no grace given.
There was no grace giving because as somebody that throws parties,
throws events and everything. You know how stressful it is.
I am also doing this alone.

Speaker 6 (11:19):
First of all, y'all.

Speaker 8 (11:19):
Already out at me as the owner. But luckily we're
just gonna go by Batman and just whatever. We're just
gonna move on. It was you you.

Speaker 2 (11:34):
I never said your name.

Speaker 3 (11:35):
It was absolutely you. We said baby tug Show and
she said that he popped up out of nowhere like
Batman or some ship. And that's how we did say
his name.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
I never say his name. I never said your name.

Speaker 6 (11:48):
Please, I wasn't being discussed because you.

Speaker 2 (11:50):
I never said your name Batman.

Speaker 6 (11:55):
You were in your feels. And this is why we
are here today.

Speaker 2 (11:58):
I was expressed because.

Speaker 8 (12:00):
And and that that leads me into the next second
of why I'm up pissed with you because the number
one thing one, I apologize.

Speaker 6 (12:07):
So we're just gonna move along. But here's why you
handle me wrong.

Speaker 8 (12:11):
Number one, Your first time addressing me about this was
in comments on Instagram for everyone to.

Speaker 6 (12:16):
Fuck your seat. That's number one.

Speaker 8 (12:19):
We're friends and you are my big brother, so that
means that you'll be a grown man, and you give
me a motherfucking call and say Yo.

Speaker 6 (12:25):
What's good with you? Why wouldn't you tell me about X,
Y and Z. You gonna and you gotta literally, I'm literally, you.

Speaker 8 (12:32):
Know, engaging with your content on motherfucking Instagram, technically supporting.

Speaker 6 (12:36):
You as my brother.

Speaker 2 (12:37):
Thank you appreciate that.

Speaker 8 (12:39):
And your response is thanks for inviting me to your party, bitch.

Speaker 3 (12:47):
How is you cool?

Speaker 6 (12:49):
And that's.

Speaker 3 (12:52):
The party on fucking Instagram saying oh, thank you for every.

Speaker 2 (12:54):
Your party I'm talking about Still, then out of nobody knows, I'm.

Speaker 6 (13:00):
Not I'm not I'm not playing santy too.

Speaker 8 (13:04):
I said that at the beginning of the conversation and
I'm not gonna see you again. Now moving along, That's
when you first went wrong and you actually expected, I
know you, You expected me to call you and say,
what are you talking about? And that's exactly what I
was not gonna do. What you're not going to do
is act like we're fucking sixteen years old and addressed
me some motherfucking Instagram comments.

Speaker 6 (13:24):
We're not actual.

Speaker 3 (13:25):
Friends, you commented, you called me.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
That seems a little passive aggressive. You knew you knew
what I was talking about, and you ain't saying ship. Oh,
that's passive aggressive.

Speaker 8 (13:36):
Houte me correctly, hote me correctly. Well, you say it
seems fastive aggressive. I told you it was passive aggressive because.

Speaker 2 (13:43):
But we're not playing some antics, but we're not playing. Well,
it's a bunch of bullshit. It was, That's what it is.

Speaker 6 (13:51):
No, what you are doing.

Speaker 8 (13:52):
No, So what you're going to do is acknowledge that
addressing your friend and.

Speaker 2 (13:55):
I should have hit you. But I was in my feelings,
all right, I was in my feelings. I should have
hit you. That's fine, I should have.

Speaker 8 (14:04):
I want you to know that you're telling me what
you should have done is not an apology.

Speaker 3 (14:09):
You know it's not. You did not apologize I should
have done that. Be like, you know what, I'm sorry, friend,
You're right this one.

Speaker 8 (14:15):
Oh sorry yesterday my first apology, Remember I told y'all
I apologize this, which I twice.

Speaker 6 (14:20):
Yesterday the second time I had.

Speaker 8 (14:22):
An apology because he was I had apologized because he
was not happy with the first apology.

Speaker 6 (14:26):
Yeah, I did actually say I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (14:28):
No, No, you said to be fair first. You said
to be fair first, and I said, no, apologize first,
then to be fair. No, quote me correctly, bitch, I said,
don't tell me to be fair. First acknowledge my feelings
and then go into your petty little bullshit excuses.

Speaker 3 (14:51):
I have a question. Am I allowed to have questions?

Speaker 2 (14:53):
Wait? Let him get his ship off because he's fuming.

Speaker 1 (14:56):
Got a lot more.

Speaker 6 (14:57):
I don't think that was it, Okay, I'm a secondly.

Speaker 8 (15:02):
You said a lot on that fucking shit and it
went on for twenty minutes.

Speaker 6 (15:05):
Come in my kitchen.

Speaker 8 (15:06):
I'm looking at it, and I'm like, oh, that is
a past.

Speaker 2 (15:18):
Guess what. Guess what. I'm gonna tell you why? Because
I really love you. I really love you. We came
from a place. We came from a place where let's talk.
Let's hey. You and I didn't vibe well. Back in
the days. They were blocks. I was blocked. We came
to a really great understanding. You've walked me through trauma,

(15:39):
through in friend groups. You stood by me. You you
fucking styled me. Nigga. You nigga. You've been to my house,
you've met my family. Nigga.

Speaker 3 (15:50):
We liked that.

Speaker 2 (15:52):
We liked that. So, yeah, I was hurt. My feelings
fucking was hurt. You think I'm gonna just go through
that shit for just anybody? Hey, nigga, no acknowledge my
oh boy, Yes, imagine.

Speaker 6 (16:04):
How I fell being addressed in Instagram comment.

Speaker 2 (16:09):
The minute? How many times you addressed me in an
Instagram comment? How many times that I.

Speaker 6 (16:14):
Really felt away about if I really felt a way
about your bitch.

Speaker 8 (16:17):
I always told you and I said bitch x Y
and Z and he addresses heyst.

Speaker 2 (16:23):
And it's everything I said last week. Yes, I was
hurt by the instance. I never put it to your character.
I said, this nigga is a great nigga. I said,
this nigga is a great nigga, This nigga has etiquette,
this nigga is powerful for I said all of these things.
So I never attributed this one thing to your character.
It was an instance where I felt that you did okay.

Speaker 8 (16:46):
So that you did, but you but you addressing me
like that as if you didn't know my character, as
if you didn't know that. Normally, I would have called
and said, hey, I'm sorry, you know I did get
the spot whatever. You know that what I would have done,
So it's in your mind that's what I'm Normally, like,
something would be off and you would say, hmm, this
does not like him.

Speaker 2 (17:04):
Let me call and say, why did you call me
that it was after your second party. No, it was
after the second look, and.

Speaker 3 (17:13):
That was the first party. The second party was not
her in.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
Your fucking head off. Obviously you can't wait to jump
on his.

Speaker 6 (17:24):
Bandwagon because you're fucking wrong. Okay, you don't even know what.

Speaker 3 (17:29):
I'm gonna give you the perfect analogy, actually, taho, we're
not gonna.

Speaker 6 (17:34):
Get details because we don't want to discuss people that
aren't here to defend themselves.

Speaker 8 (17:38):
But you you remember when you and another one of
my friends were mad at each other.

Speaker 6 (17:42):
Do you remember this?

Speaker 8 (17:43):
And I was sitting in a hotel, mad I was
sitting in a hotel with them.

Speaker 6 (17:47):
They were cursing you out on the phone. And what happened?
What happened that day, Tahoe, when you called me after
you got the phone with them.

Speaker 2 (17:55):
I don't know what happened that day.

Speaker 6 (17:57):
It was let me remind youse, So let me remind you.
Tell is going off on my phone about what's going on.

Speaker 8 (18:03):
Between him and a friend and a mutual friend.

Speaker 6 (18:06):
That we had. I'm on the phone in the hotel room.

Speaker 8 (18:08):
He's going off on them about them while I'm standing
right in front.

Speaker 2 (18:12):
Of them now and It's.

Speaker 6 (18:16):
A good analogy, isn't it, bitch? So the thing is
is that the.

Speaker 8 (18:20):
Thing is is that as he's going off, I let
them go off on him, and he's going off on
them now but on my line. And now I'm just
stuck in the middle because I'm in a hotel because
everybody's mad at each other. Tell in that conversation, did
I want to tell you because there were points where
you were wrong in that situation, in that conversation in.

Speaker 6 (18:38):
Front of them, did I want say tell how.

Speaker 8 (18:41):
You dead asked wrong? You shouldn't do that? Or did
I just listen to you? And then when we spoke privately,
I told you, yo, you was dead ass wrong about this,
and you should What you should do is address how
you feel. And this is another case to where you
didn't like how somebody handled you. So you want to
do something patty and wants to it. Yes, and I

(19:02):
told you that that's wrong. You need to address how
you feel, but still not be petty.

Speaker 6 (19:06):
In the same instance, Yes, that's exactly who together.

Speaker 2 (19:09):
That's exactly what you said.

Speaker 6 (19:11):
Oh okay, and I handled you what respect?

Speaker 2 (19:16):
In my opinion, right, that situation was far more egregious
in my pettiness than bringing it up here amongst friends.
That to me was was that what nigga? Basically, I
was like, fuck out of here on some some large
scale and so that I understand where you're going and

(19:37):
the comparison some way, and I don't really feel it
equals up. But if you feel like me saying yo,
When I said that on Instagram, that was a cue
to yo. Hit my line. That was a cue to yo,
we got you gotta talk. I hear your shit is popping.
I didn't get invited, yo, yeah, let me finish. But

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it wasn't oh, we ain't friends or I'm really tight.
I was just MO, was like, my feelings, Well, I
can't being my feelings, especially when you was here. When
I was talking to Dodge, I said, Yo, I really
don't really like friends. Shit, I don't like that. I don't.
I always seem to feel a way towards the behavior
that comes towards me versus what I put out. That's

(20:20):
always been my thing. And I just stopped and today
asked me my feelings, asked me about this other day,
and I was like, I just really just be exhausted
with trying to keep up friendships. Because I always feel
like I get the shit into the stick, not saying
that you do you're doing did that, But it's a
call back to why I might get in my feelings
about certain shit that comes in with friends. I always

(20:41):
feel like, damn that, did I deserve that? Again, I
do believe that this was an oversight. I do not
believe you purposely didn't invite me, although when you call
me big brother, I thought you was about to say
I was too old to come to your party. I
thought that you was about to say I won't go there.
So but look, my thing is if you're taking, you're taking.

(21:05):
If you're taking, look, I didn't realize that you would
take it personally for me to put it into the
Instagram comments because I was sending a jab. Right, you've
often jabbed me Instagram comments. I was sending the jab.
I didn't really think, and honestly, it wasn't like, oh,
you do it to me, I'll do to you. I
just didn't think it would be a big deal. But
if so, if it is, and since it is, I

(21:27):
am sorry I sent it in the Instagram comment. Dodge
told me to call you. I wasn't ready to have
that conversation yet I just I don't know why, I
just wasn't. But when I called you, I was ready
and we talked and we it went and that was it.

Speaker 8 (21:40):
So in the future, do not bring it up somewhere
if you're not ready to talk about it, because the
thing is is that you said you weren't ready to
talk about it. But if I would have called you
after you made the Instagram comment read to talk.

Speaker 2 (21:54):
About it, yeah, because you know what it is. And
I was talking about this with my cousin's pod. I
have found that I don't know when to not be
the bigger person and when to be. I feel like
I'm always being a bigger person. So I'm starting to
question when to do that, when I'm being pussy, when

(22:15):
I'm letting shit go too soon, when I should stand
on business. And again, this is not necessarily directed towards
you in that this is a confusion that's happening within me,
as to saying, like, yo, you've been acting pussy for
the last six years. You've been letting a lot of
shit slide and always just so I'm questioning my behavior,
And again that isn't attributed to this. This is just

(22:38):
an overall thing where I'm just like you understand, really understood.

Speaker 6 (22:42):
I can compartmentalize.

Speaker 2 (22:44):
I can do that.

Speaker 8 (22:45):
So in this case, what I'll do as your big brother,
because that's basically our dynamic at this point. As your
big brother, what I will say to you is what
you need to learn to do going forward with your friends,
is that you need to take a step back and
analyze what friend are you upset at, what are their attributes,
what are their characteristics, what is your history, and then

(23:09):
move forward.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
I was never upset with you. I was never think.

Speaker 8 (23:15):
That you were upset. You were being a Patty Iicy's
ass bitch. That's what you were doing.

Speaker 2 (23:19):
That's literally my middle name. Like my friends like.

Speaker 6 (23:23):
Your actions towards me? What your actions towards me?

Speaker 1 (23:27):
You're in action.

Speaker 6 (23:28):
I have the action. You just apologize for a bitch. Again,
I'm not I'm not like, what what are we talking
about here? What are we talking about here? Like at
some point that some point you have to you have
to climb up the rope.

Speaker 8 (23:40):
You can't just sit at the same spot of the
rope because you'll fall down.

Speaker 6 (23:44):
So I just need you to like.

Speaker 8 (23:46):
Climb up the rope and get to the top, the
next friend in gym class, defendish.

Speaker 3 (23:56):
On the rope, Batman, you know I love you, I
love you down.

Speaker 2 (24:02):
I love you, love everybody. I love the energy you
give the people you love.

Speaker 3 (24:06):
Mm hmm, I love the energy give to the people
I love too.

Speaker 2 (24:09):
What were you going to say? Though? Now?

Speaker 6 (24:13):
Am I dumb? Am I dumb?

Speaker 2 (24:14):
With this?

Speaker 6 (24:14):
Nigga? Hold on? Am I dying things? I should have
wrote my motherfucking notes? That's what I should.

Speaker 2 (24:23):
You wrote notes.

Speaker 3 (24:24):
There's so much to discuss.

Speaker 6 (24:27):
So much with you, your true with you. Yes, also
I want to acknowledge.

Speaker 8 (24:31):
We won't go into detail because that's like another thing,
that's like business.

Speaker 6 (24:35):
But there was another.

Speaker 8 (24:37):
Reason why, like something threw me off once I got
the place and I was sold information and I think
there was also a middleman here with me and tahold
that kind of whatever. It was confusing, So there was that.

Speaker 2 (24:49):
Also, did you feel a way about that? Because I
told you that wasn't true.

Speaker 6 (24:53):
I didn't feel it was just like, wait, I would.

Speaker 2 (24:56):
Never do that to you. So basically the person tried
to say that they were I was taking the percentage
of his parties. But the dame is that right?

Speaker 6 (25:06):
That's right. I don't know if we should have said
that in front of everybody.

Speaker 2 (25:09):
But it's not a thing. It's literally not a thing.
Why can't I say it?

Speaker 6 (25:14):
Well, it's business, but go ahead.

Speaker 2 (25:16):
I mean, but I wouldn't do that to my friend
who wouldn't do that, So they use it. It was
like they used that. Damn you tell me what you're
told because I don't want to.

Speaker 3 (25:24):
Why you keep saying his name and what you did?

Speaker 2 (25:27):
I did not, but I did not do that.

Speaker 6 (25:33):
Can you do the bleek?

Speaker 3 (25:34):
Can you like the bleep?

Speaker 2 (25:35):
Yeah, I'll bleep it out.

Speaker 3 (25:36):
I love that, But why I love it? But do
you know, like like when people say, like, oh yeah,
the energy that people give the people that they love,
we give each other the same energy, the same ship
that he puts out.

Speaker 2 (25:47):
I don't say his name.

Speaker 3 (25:51):
Oh I'm sorry. I didn't say it the right way.

Speaker 2 (25:54):
You literally told me. I didn't say it the right
way to you. That's what you're complaining about.

Speaker 3 (25:57):
Okay, I'm sorry I didn't say it the right way.
I apologize. I don't need your party.

Speaker 2 (26:01):
I wasn't the one bother you are.

Speaker 3 (26:04):
Yell, it's not me, it's.

Speaker 2 (26:07):
Not me in any case, you're basically saying that you
might have felt a way about that, right, Batman, I didn't.

Speaker 6 (26:15):
Know how I felt about it.

Speaker 8 (26:16):
I didn't know how I felt about it because I
was again, and that's what I'm saying, like I it
was like steadfast, like I got the place, and then again,
I'm doing everything on my own.

Speaker 6 (26:25):
Like now we are building a team and all that,
but I'm.

Speaker 8 (26:28):
Doing social media management, I'm doing I'm making my own graphics.
I'm literally outreached like everything, I'm doing it all.

Speaker 6 (26:35):
On my own.

Speaker 8 (26:36):
And on top of that, as I'm negotiating for the
place and what the deal and what the contract is
going to be, it was brought up like, hey, I
still have to give Tahoe X amount of percent and
I had to say, as like a pushback, your deal
with him has nothing to do with our negotiations.

Speaker 6 (26:52):
That's your business, and that's your money.

Speaker 8 (26:54):
If you're giving him so and so percent of my party,
that comes out of your percentage not gonna come out.

Speaker 6 (27:00):
Of my so.

Speaker 2 (27:01):
So let's be clear.

Speaker 6 (27:02):
The point was is that.

Speaker 8 (27:03):
I didn't That's not how he brought it to me,
But he brought it to me. Oh, I noticed spot,
and that was that, but when she brings it up,
I'm like, hmmm, like like I didn't know whether because honestly,
money is money and business is business, so I didn't
really even know if I felt away or not.

Speaker 6 (27:17):
It was just more so.

Speaker 2 (27:18):
Like, but could that it could have been aware. It
could have been that you felt so as this friend
that you're saying that, oh, this was just the oversight
or whatever. You might have been stewing on something and
you wasn't ready to address.

Speaker 6 (27:32):
I don't think that that's what that was. That's not
what that was.

Speaker 2 (27:36):
Why wouldn't you hit me like, yo, bitch, you you
taking a percentage? Because I didn't episode would I say
it's crazy.

Speaker 6 (27:44):
But my brain, my brain was literally everywhere. That really
was not a factor.

Speaker 8 (27:49):
At some point I was going to mention, like, bitch,
why you ain't telling me you a presented to the party?

Speaker 6 (27:53):
Did you? And honestly, I probably would have asked you
did you get your PC? Because I want you to
get your mother's bucking money.

Speaker 2 (27:58):
You hit meuse I never got it.

Speaker 3 (28:00):
I hold it.

Speaker 2 (28:02):
I didn't know that that was the thing.

Speaker 8 (28:04):
I told you that, Hey, we too much down the line,
you know, I don't know old now.

Speaker 2 (28:12):
So what now, there's nothing Now he just wanted to
curse me out and I got three apologies. He got
one from me. I think we're even you see.

Speaker 8 (28:23):
Now now here's where we again. You're climbing down the rope.
And because that was unnecessary, bitch, it really was.

Speaker 2 (28:33):
What was the point because the extra point, the extra
two were for the two that you already threw. So
you do you through two, then you apologize one for
the actions. There's three versus the one.

Speaker 8 (28:47):
Remind myself, I'm going to remind myself again of our
dynamic that I am the big brother here.

Speaker 6 (28:53):
So I will take the no problem.

Speaker 2 (28:55):
You need two more apologies? What do you want to
even it up?

Speaker 1 (28:59):
He wasn't thinking about not be it even until you said.

Speaker 6 (29:02):
Until you like, nobody would think again. But so again
we just you know, let's let's just.

Speaker 3 (29:13):
No this nigga be gas. So are we in agreeance
that he is not going to be there in November?

Speaker 6 (29:20):
What that's on him? He has a ticket to.

Speaker 7 (29:24):
Why would you say that, Well, are you going to
be there November? Because we would like you there in November?

Speaker 2 (29:29):
Before we say, why did you say that?

Speaker 3 (29:31):
Because I wanted to?

Speaker 8 (29:36):
So I have agreed with myself and my team that
Tahoe will not have to I mean, we don't have
that many events left in the year, but Tahoe will
not have to pay for entry for the rest of
the year as an apology whatever, and we'll discuss anything
going forward next year.

Speaker 3 (29:55):
That's that's a yeah, that is the you know, a
class as that's a good person.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
I don't want that. I do appreciate it, though, but
I'm here to support and you can sup with all
of the things that you're doing. This guy is he's
doing so many things to look out for people. He's
making sure there's multiple platters of food people are getting
not VP, but like special pricing if you're in the community,

(30:20):
if you join the page, like he's taking losses to
build the brand. You're not gonna have me out here
walking in for free when my friend is out here
doing what he's got to do for the community. No,
I will be paying. Thank you. I appreciate it. I
really do appreciate it, though.

Speaker 6 (30:38):
No worries. I'll discuss the process with.

Speaker 2 (30:41):
You for you to be brought on board. Yes, I
could get you a T shirt thank you, which.

Speaker 6 (30:46):
Is technically another loss, but hey, you know, you know,
might as well.

Speaker 8 (30:55):
Not only another loss, it's something outside labor at that point.

Speaker 2 (30:58):
But all right, I'm not bringing up your stuff the
clans we talked about. But you said that you had
smoke for yesterday. What did he do?

Speaker 8 (31:06):
So he made a comment that I really didn't like yesterday.
What was the comment he said, Oh, yeah, because I
wouldn't be following ship.

Speaker 6 (31:16):
I'm just pulling up and I wouldn't follow ship.

Speaker 8 (31:19):
I'm not excuse me, because the thing is is that again,
you said that, but what you said, and you can
run it back and we can recap.

Speaker 7 (31:33):
He did say that, but he said it in the
perspective of that's your man. You ain't even got to
follow a page to show up.

Speaker 3 (31:38):
He said it.

Speaker 6 (31:39):
No, No, that's a bullshit. That's a bullshit on it.

Speaker 3 (31:45):
To support, you have to support in totality.

Speaker 4 (31:48):
You know, I was, yes, I was talking about I
was talking about hell.

Speaker 6 (31:55):
Saying that that's what you would do if you with him. Bullshit.
And that's what I'm addressing right there.

Speaker 8 (32:00):
Shit because at that point that's enabling him, and that's
literally telling him that the actions that he's displaying what
were appropriate and it wasn't that's not how you handle it.

Speaker 6 (32:09):
Again, You'll be a grown man, you say, yo, what's
going on? And even if you follow after we have.

Speaker 8 (32:14):
A discussion, even though you should, like Dodd said, because
again it was twenty minutes worth of shit to listen to.

Speaker 6 (32:19):
So, like DoD said, she clearly said, no.

Speaker 3 (32:23):
You should have followed.

Speaker 8 (32:23):
You're still supposed to follow and support anyway. That's what
you should have mother fucking done. But no yesterday.

Speaker 6 (32:29):
So let's get back on you.

Speaker 8 (32:30):
You want to invite him to not follow, to pull
up anyway, not follow the rules, and and and being clear.
So the outlook that I had, because at this point
this is like free promo. Whatever the outlook that I had,
and why I'm removing myself.

Speaker 6 (32:49):
I am a gay black man. I have thrown events before, yo.

Speaker 3 (32:55):
All right, yo, nigga, what.

Speaker 2 (33:02):
Yo?

Speaker 3 (33:05):
No like that? The nigga is not okay. This nigg
is not okay.

Speaker 4 (33:13):
This nigga's not well man, I'm sorry, are you.

Speaker 8 (33:18):
Yo?

Speaker 2 (33:18):
Anyway he was saying, he was saying that I'm a
gay black man with with etiquette.

Speaker 6 (33:24):
So events before.

Speaker 8 (33:27):
I've thrown events before and they were successful, some would
say really successful.

Speaker 6 (33:32):
Right, But I did notice.

Speaker 8 (33:34):
That I had like maybe a ten to fifteen percent
attendant of a heterosexual man. Now, these ten to fifteen
percent were just the my straight homeboys that were comfortable
coming to my party. There were plenty others that wanted
to come, but they didn't want it to be seen
as a gay party, et cetera. Oh I'm at a
gay party. That's what they were afraid of. So I decided,

(33:56):
and I had a new idea. I've had this idea
for probably like three years. I decided, I'm gonna remove
myself and now nobody won't know who the fucks party
it is. I'm gonna stand on. I'm going to stand
on the brand and what it is, and people want
to come because they want to come, not because of.

Speaker 6 (34:11):
Food's associated with it. So outside of who I am.

Speaker 8 (34:14):
And me being gay and black, whatever, blah blah, outside
of that, A lot of these parties, and I'm not
throwing shots at anybody, a lot of these parties are
attached to somebody, and you're just going to so and
so's party.

Speaker 6 (34:24):
You're not going to a party because you genuinely enjoy it.

Speaker 8 (34:27):
You're not going to a party because there's genuine It's
like organic just good shit there and with seven o
five everything.

Speaker 6 (34:38):
Is top quality. You get mamby a billion to take
home food. There's Brandon, there's coasters.

Speaker 3 (34:45):
There's niggas. Was playing puzzles getting smacked. Yo, I did
not make it. I told you I didn't make it.
The next day at work, next time, I'm just going
to take a half day. Like I can't. I'm not
an adult.

Speaker 8 (34:56):
Yeah you have to. Everybody either takes a half day now. Yeah,
because I don't think I'm moving it from Wednesdays. It's
just gonna stay on Wednesdays. Unfortunately, we'll see about that
in the next year.

Speaker 6 (35:08):
But yeah, that was the idea.

Speaker 8 (35:09):
So the thing is is that I had friends come
to the second one who had no idea.

Speaker 6 (35:14):
They just came because they wanted to come.

Speaker 8 (35:16):
I have friends, like actual friends, people I've known since
I was ten that I speak to on the regular
that came and they had no idea.

Speaker 6 (35:23):
It was mine.

Speaker 8 (35:24):
So again I understand that Tahoe wanted me to like
say like, hey, support this, but at the same time
I wanted to remove myself.

Speaker 2 (35:35):
And wow, you sent me the page to post.

Speaker 8 (35:38):
So that's so again, you're not first of all, you're
giving away my secrets. But since you said it already,
so basically, ever, shut up, shut.

Speaker 6 (35:47):
Up, sometimes shut up. M So what happened was basically
my idea was I know a lot of people. Everybody
knows that I decided to have everyone.

Speaker 8 (36:02):
It was literally a picture of a drink in a
bar with the words if you're in the room, you're
in the room. I sent that to probably maximum, like minimum,
like forty people, and I said, I'm gonna have this
picture come from so many different directions, and people are
not gonna know where it came from.

Speaker 6 (36:22):
Whose it is. Put it up, Put an R and
B song, put the ad, and that's it. That's why
I had.

Speaker 2 (36:29):
You do that.

Speaker 3 (36:29):
That's literally how I found the page. Honestly, I didn't
even I had no idea who was attached to it.
Just looked like that's.

Speaker 2 (36:37):
How I knew about it, and also how we got
into the whole space and all that. So you can't
bring up this, Oh, I didn't want people to know niggas.

Speaker 6 (36:45):
So let me ask you a question. Actually I knew
I was to be done with you. Actually I knew
I wasn't done with you.

Speaker 3 (36:51):
Let's go.

Speaker 8 (36:52):
The thing is is that you just said a key
word just now, it's key sentence.

Speaker 6 (36:56):
Excuse me. That's how I knew.

Speaker 8 (37:00):
So you knew that you knew you because you have
this rhetoric of the entire.

Speaker 3 (37:04):
Time that you had no idea, that you had no.

Speaker 8 (37:07):
Idea about the party, but you knew I would have
posted something and you knew that it was mine because
you just said, hold on, hold on, hold on hold.

Speaker 6 (37:15):
I told you to shut up.

Speaker 2 (37:17):
Now, Lola, take this phone now important.

Speaker 6 (37:22):
That's fine. Show whatever you want to show, because it's
not going to face me. But anyway, I have that right.

Speaker 8 (37:30):
You said, you said that you knew about it just now.
So if you knew and you posted something, why not
follow it and then say oh this is kidding or
why not call me.

Speaker 6 (37:41):
And say, well what is this? What are you trying
to do?

Speaker 2 (37:43):
Like what we spoke about it? It was none of that
you gave me. We spoke about it. There was a
business into it, and Lola at the top, you see
the dates. How many dates are there?

Speaker 1 (37:54):
One, two, three, four or five?

Speaker 2 (37:57):
Six?

Speaker 1 (37:57):
Dates?

Speaker 2 (37:57):
Now, there's no way I know that you even booked it.
There's no way I know that you like I have
no idea about anything except for the fact that you
need my help. So that's where I was on that
I wasn't and it was nigga, I know you busy,
just post this for me. I think you called me

(38:18):
or I called you, or bad if I called you,
because I was like, I don't even know if this
is really him, because he don't even do shit like this.
So I called him, like, yo, is this you? Because
I didn't want nobody spam in or something. I don't know.
Spam is just crazy. I didn't know, so I called him.
I said, oh, this is really your I posted, and
then we got into the whole conversation about the business
and that's where it went. That's why I didn't know

(38:39):
about nothing, because I didn't know whether you booked it.
I didn't know what date you picked. I don't know nothing.
So what rhetoric are you talking about?

Speaker 6 (38:48):
The rhetoric that you just didn't know anything.

Speaker 8 (38:50):
But anyway, also because what I had you post is
of the same language that is on the entire seven
or five page it's the same length.

Speaker 6 (38:58):
Nothing hasn't really changed. But let's move on from that.

Speaker 8 (39:03):
My question is would you be of the belief that
we were both busy because you could have said, Yo,
how did the link with the with the venue go?
Did you end up going with it? That never happened.
We never spoke again. So you were busy because you
you have a million things going on, and I.

Speaker 6 (39:21):
Was busy because I have a million things going on.
Is it possible that that's what happened.

Speaker 2 (39:25):
You have a thousand things going on. I have a million.

Speaker 8 (39:31):
See, I'm gonna make that your second motherfucking strike.

Speaker 1 (39:38):
We'd be doing so good.

Speaker 3 (39:42):
This is really you know.

Speaker 8 (39:44):
If you want to go you know, you know, if
you want to go back and forth, we can.

Speaker 6 (39:49):
I don't want to. I don't want to.

Speaker 2 (39:51):
Don't you got to go to class? You said you
have to go to class or something. Okay, in any case, yes,
I could have. I could have reached out, Yeah, I wasn't.
I didn't. I didn't even think about it twice. You know,
I thought that they didn't go through because I didn't
hear from you. I thought you. I thought that it

(40:12):
didn't go through. So and then obviously I didn't even
know what it was really what when you told me
about it, I still didn't really gather the whole thing.
So because we went straight into what you need, and
that's where it went.

Speaker 6 (40:25):
And I'm appreciated of that.

Speaker 8 (40:27):
You were one hundred percent helpful, and I do appreciate you.
Yesterday I need an apologize apology from you on trying
to enable this man into doing terrible things, and I
hope that that's not what you do with your friends.

Speaker 5 (40:41):
The last time, I wasn't enabling him, though I was
actually speaking against his clarity.

Speaker 4 (40:46):
He was doing cancer can't but.

Speaker 6 (40:52):
Does anybody have like a recap? Is there like a plague?
Rewind by and to go back there? Because what you
said to him was one hundred percent enabling.

Speaker 5 (41:02):
I'm sorry if you felt that way. And Batman, listen,
we all good. Listen, But I don't know Loland.

Speaker 6 (41:09):
You hold the hold on Lolan. You said you nominated him.

Speaker 7 (41:12):
I did nominate him, and I also said last time
that I was very lary about nominating people because I
don't know how niggas be acting correct.

Speaker 2 (41:21):
Batman were good.

Speaker 8 (41:23):
And you see, let me make sure that it's not
a member profile for him.

Speaker 3 (41:29):
Niggas said you have.

Speaker 1 (41:31):
Commun his picture.

Speaker 3 (41:33):
I don't think he's communicado to theas got that large.

Speaker 8 (41:38):
I'm just gonna take a wild guest and know that
you are mature enough to know that. Apologize to somebody
in saying I'm sorry if you felt that way.

Speaker 6 (41:45):
It's the most bullshit apology you could ever get. You
could actually keep it bro in the nearest motherfucking garbing.
That's what you can do with that.

Speaker 4 (41:57):
Batman. We're all good. Batman, I haven't met you. I
don't know you personally. Now, No, we're all good. It's all.

Speaker 5 (42:04):
I wasn't enabling him, but I do apologize if you do,
if you did feel like you.

Speaker 3 (42:08):
Know you period No, no, yo, I was trying to.

Speaker 4 (42:17):
I was trying to be clear about what I'm apologizing for.

Speaker 3 (42:23):
That's how you know these niggas is family. It's something wrong.

Speaker 6 (42:26):
I apologize. I say it.

Speaker 8 (42:28):
Tom, I said time and time again, don't take it personal,
but you are. You are literally just proven my beliefs
that straight men are the weakest length.

Speaker 2 (42:37):
What does this have to do with with what is it?

Speaker 6 (42:42):
What is it?

Speaker 2 (42:45):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (42:48):
So, what did who I have sex?

Speaker 8 (42:50):
I had to do with the conversation On a few
days ago, I say, I was y'all October third, what
did I have to do with it?

Speaker 6 (42:55):
Then?

Speaker 2 (42:56):
You know I pulled back on that, so that you
don't get to bring it back up.

Speaker 6 (43:02):
What because you pull back?

Speaker 2 (43:04):
I set it out and then I was like, you
know what, let me not go there. So that doesn't count.
It doesn't count.

Speaker 4 (43:13):
I don't know about that.

Speaker 3 (43:14):
Today said she would like yesterday's nomination.

Speaker 6 (43:18):
So just that heads up there, anyone listening.

Speaker 2 (43:23):
Even send it to your best that's crazy. You didn't
even send it to your best nominations. He was trying
to steal her from Nigga was not in the room,
and you you really don't even know who she was. Wow.

Speaker 6 (43:39):
Well, first of all, I feel like I'm used to
say her name with to eve am I not.

Speaker 3 (43:43):
It doesn't matter, don't make that up. No, it's one.

Speaker 6 (43:48):
Damn.

Speaker 3 (43:48):
But it's all right. Yesterday was already nominated, So just
slide it over to her. You know, I'll send you
her as she can.

Speaker 2 (43:54):
Technically, you ain't got money.

Speaker 8 (43:56):
Technically, nominations are pause because we have to figure out
some things, some logistics. It's getting a little packed, too
crazy busy. Yeah, so it needs to we need to
put a hold on that. But I have to name
right now. A nomination will be sent to her right now.
I'm sending that text right now to have that sense.

(44:17):
Oh actually no, well no.

Speaker 2 (44:18):
She can have the ticket and I'll buy one. Oh wait,
I can't get nominated anymore, so you.

Speaker 6 (44:23):
Cannot get a ticket.

Speaker 8 (44:24):
So how it works is you cannot get a ticket
if you are not nominated.

Speaker 6 (44:28):
That's just you can't just get a ticket.

Speaker 2 (44:30):
So I'm not nominated. What am I going to do?

Speaker 1 (44:33):
Is there a cut off of how many nominations a
person can have?

Speaker 8 (44:38):
So again, that's why we're revisiting the nominations system, because
one there needs to be a cap and two.

Speaker 6 (44:48):
Just here you heard it first. All nominations will no
longer be approved.

Speaker 8 (44:52):
Like just because you nominate someone does not mean that
they will be approved. That some things slipped through the cracks.
We won't just got stack one here.

Speaker 6 (45:03):
Uh but you know, I want positive energy in the
room at all.

Speaker 2 (45:07):
We love we love you, batman, thank you, we love you.
All Right, we gotta go. We gotta get into men
versus women's stuff. We don't. This was so much more
I do, I do.

Speaker 6 (45:18):
Yo.

Speaker 2 (45:18):
This was entertaining, and I hope we are at peace.
I'm gonna call you later anyway to figure some things out.
I hope you did what I asked you to do
because you will be quizzed.

Speaker 8 (45:29):
Oh yake, Okay, So I'm gonna hang out now, all right, bye,
baby thug.

Speaker 6 (45:34):
That was beautiful, beautiful?

Speaker 2 (45:38):
What was beautiful about it?

Speaker 1 (45:40):
He got to express himself fully. You got to express
yourself fully. He got to curse you out, You got.

Speaker 7 (45:47):
To say how you felt, and y'all are still friends.
Too many times I see people take their ego and
the friendship dies because of it. People are too prideful
to accept you fucking pissed me off. You hurt my feelings,
bitch ass without being like.

Speaker 2 (46:01):
I don't want to be sure, so I disagree. That's
not a bit chass nigga thing. That's it. No, No,
that's a woman thing.

Speaker 1 (46:07):
What's not.

Speaker 2 (46:08):
Men getting the beef so the time and still be
friends all the time. Women be cutting each other off
at every slight. Every birthday, they lose a friend from young,
every birthday, they everything. Every time there's an event or something,
y'all will cut somebody off. There's a misunderstood text or
misunderstood action, or y'all will cut a person. Y'all don't

(46:29):
have those conversations.

Speaker 7 (46:32):
See I have those conversations, which is why a lot
of friendships that I've had don't last because people don't
like being quote unquote checks. I'm very big on accountability
and I have no problem in figuring out, well, what
could have been done differently for the outcome to be
done differently? And let's you know, case and point this
right here, what could have been done differently as soon

(46:52):
as you I mean, we can go to the route
you could have called them from the jump.

Speaker 1 (46:56):
Why you ain't let me know you was having a
party like that?

Speaker 7 (46:58):
Could be that, So all the X conversation after that
really doesn't need to take place because you acknowledge that
the thing that you could have done differently for this
entire fucking situation and not have happened was for you
to call him and just be like the fuck niggahy
you ain't let me know? So that's how I move,
So I expect other people to be that way with me,
and I don't get it back like how you said.

(47:19):
Sometimes it's like, do I feel like being a bigger
nigga today?

Speaker 1 (47:22):
I'm tired? And then when I get tired, nobody wants
to show up.

Speaker 3 (47:27):
But I think that go. I think that there's a
piece of when it comes to friends, you should there
should not be a thought process of being a bigger
person or not being a bigger person, Like I feel
like I'm gonna take it to hell every time, and
taking it to hell looks like bitch, why you ain't
tell me? Or this nigga having another nigga, I'm I'm
about to fucking pull up. I'm be at the door. Hello,

(47:48):
you forgot my invitation? Like, so, I don't think that
that's being I feel like the passive aggressiveness is seen
as being a bigger person. But maybe depending on the relationships,
you need to take it to hell. You need to
press people. You need to like say it, like be
aggressive with it, like yo, are you good?

Speaker 2 (48:08):
I will say this, and Lola, I know you had
something else to say. Right when it comes to me,
I was thinking about this. I have trauma mm hmm
with friendships a lot. I have trauma and I care
about my friends, like I literally love my friends, and
for some reason that trauma has affected me deeply. You
understand what I'm saying. If we look at that and

(48:31):
the little bout of depression that I may have had,
they were about friendships that have failed. Right, So, you know.
I brought up that the little no invite are you
and invite me? Or whatever whatever that shit matt because
it triggers some other shit that has literally been bothering
me about how much do you even care? Are you
using me? And I know that's a lot people like Nigga,

(48:52):
who the fuck is you? But Yo, anybody can feel
like they're being used for whatever the fuck they got
going on and they're not being poured back into Dash
will call you, She will literally and curse you out
and show up and whatever. You understand what I'm saying, like,
but she doesn't have that trauma. So I know that

(49:12):
you don't or maybe you do, but it doesn't affect
you the way it affects me.

Speaker 3 (49:17):
I think that, and I thought that I do have
a sense of trauma, that sense of fomo sometimes of
feeling left out, and I feel like the way that
I've decided to deal with that instead of suffering in
silence and feeling ways about the people that I love
and that I care about, I have to show my
love by pressing you to let you know, like, Yo,

(49:38):
my feelings are hurt or I don't I don't like
the way that you moved when you did X.

Speaker 6 (49:44):
Y and Z.

Speaker 2 (49:45):
You you put me in your wedding.

Speaker 3 (49:48):
Because I love you.

Speaker 2 (49:49):
I didn't not gonna say I didn't belong there, but
I was on you no when you not When you
told me at your engagement party that I was in
your wedding, I cried, Yes, that wasn't about I don't
know if that wasn't about your wedding. It's about you
care about me enough. You care about me that much.
That was validating for me. That spoke to this wound

(50:14):
that I have. You understand what I'm saying.

Speaker 11 (50:17):
And I was like, oh, like me, you have forty
fifty people here, I ain't matter that much to you
because not being and that wouldn't have been crazy to
me because that's the groom side of things, and he's
always cursing me out.

Speaker 2 (50:33):
So that speaks to how much of a hole I
have when it comes to friendships, right, and that I
need to work on.

Speaker 3 (50:45):
So I mean, but also like I think that you
also have to understand. Like when I had my baby,
you bullied yourself into the hospital room. They said I
could have one guess and you was like, nigga, what
I'm coming?

Speaker 2 (51:00):
Security guard?

Speaker 3 (51:01):
Look I'm coming. It was you were sitting and it
was a damn party in there, and I'm just like, yeah,
we're locked in. But you're also a person that in
the beginning of our friendship I used to come to
for advice all the time, and we used to just
talk for hours about the same ship that we talked
about on this show. It was just me and you
come to my job. I have a problem. These niggas

(51:22):
are stupid. Explain it to me, like I'm five, So like,
why wouldn't you. I don't I think that that you.

Speaker 2 (51:28):
Why wouldn't you? It's not fomo, it's trauma.

Speaker 6 (51:31):
But what what?

Speaker 2 (51:32):
What? Baby? What? Batman? Remember he spoke on it like
I lost those friendships over that. That issue shouldn't have
it shouldn't have been a whole we should that one
of those friendships spanned back to as long as I
know you, And although we're cool now, that that was

(51:52):
a big that person matter matters to me. You do
know se what I'm saying. But we not like that
no more over that that's nigga. I've gone through this
with a lot of people and so, yeah, relationships are work.

Speaker 7 (52:07):
I think people forget that relationships are work. They take work,
and a lot of the work stems from the amount
of work.

Speaker 1 (52:12):
That you're doing with yourself.

Speaker 7 (52:14):
So if you're in the state where you're figuring these
things out, you're understanding that you have the trauma that
you've dealt with things that you kind of need a
certain style of relationship for it to thrive. But those
people aren't doing it, then you're doing double the fucking labor. Yeah,
and some people just don't have the capacity, Like I've
gone past seeing people as intentionally trying to hurt me,

(52:35):
and more so realizing you don't have the emotional bendwidth
to deal with a friend like me. I have had
a friend call me clingy. I'm not clingy. I just
value reciprocity, you know. I had another friend tell me, well,
I'm more of a low maintenance friend. No, you're not
a low maintenance friend. You're a low effort friend. And

(52:57):
if I call you out on being low effort, now
you're upset and we got an issue about that. But
that's fine for me because how many friends can we
really have?

Speaker 3 (53:08):
I don't know. I think that that's part of it, right,
I think that sometimes, like when I think about myself
I get supremely overwhelmed with the amount of friendships and
relationships that I've built over the years with people and
the fact that I am the person that I pour
into these relationships through decades, so I still talk to

(53:30):
people that I've been friends when since elementary school, middle school,
high school, the first job I've ever had, and then
like now at this stage in my life, I am
really overwhelmed in the process of how to I upkeep
all of these bonds that I've built with all of
these people for years and years. Like it is, it

(53:52):
is diminishing, and it's like, I don't think that I'm
a low effort friend, but I do know that I've
had those conversations with some of my friends and I
and it's very difficult to be able to say, like,
I love you so much, but I don't have the
capacity in a day to check in on you. I

(54:12):
don't have I don't have it. How you say that,
because but no, but but but but it doesn't. It
still doesn't. I don't think it matriculates the same because
it's like if you don't, because we all have different
lives in different ways that our lives are set up,
it's hard sometimes for people to understand how difficult things

(54:32):
are and how difficult it is to upkeep certain relationships,
Like I am the friend. If you call me, I
might not answer because I'm doing a thousand things. Somebody
called me right now, I can't, Like I literally can't.
Like yesterday when Baby Thug and Tahoe called me, I
literally was like, I could talk to you for a minute,

(54:52):
but I'm walking into a meeting, and walked into the meeting.
I'm sitting at the conference table, but I'm still on
the phone with them because my friend called. So I
have to ant right, But it's like that's it. Sometimes
it feels overwhelming to me to just upkeep it all,
Like I'm more of the If you text me, I'm
gonna text you back.

Speaker 6 (55:09):
If you say you.

Speaker 3 (55:09):
Need me, I'm gonna show up. But me reaching out,
I don't got.

Speaker 1 (55:13):
The fucking effort.

Speaker 7 (55:15):
And that's what I want people to understand when I
say that there's a difference between low maintenance and low effort.
I'm gonna give you an example. Give me a friend
of mine. Well, we're not friends anymore, and that was
by her choice. We might have been friends.

Speaker 1 (55:27):
For about three years, so still fairly new.

Speaker 7 (55:29):
In the grand scheme of things, we kept making plenty
every time she had an event, a celebration, anything. I
remember one time it was pouring raining. She's not used
to public speaking, I am. She had an event, the
rain was crazy. I showed up.

Speaker 6 (55:43):
You know.

Speaker 7 (55:43):
I just want to make sure that I show up
in the moments that I can be there, because I'm
the same type of birth I can't when I get home,
I don't want to talk on I don't want to talk.

Speaker 1 (55:50):
I'm a text her.

Speaker 7 (55:52):
So too many times she'd have events, she'd have birthday celebrations,
she'd have things, and I'd show up for her all
the time. When it came to me, they will always
reasons and excuses that she couldn't make it. And I'm
not the we need to go out every day. If
you tell me dodge, if you say, listen, my calendar
is booked. It's October eighteenth right now, lessen link December first.

Speaker 3 (56:12):
Yes, that's fine. That's the type of person I am.

Speaker 7 (56:15):
You know, because we have put in the effort to
carve out some time amongst ourselves. But if we say
that we're gonna go out December first, then December first
comes and you can't do it. Then you say, okay,
let's do December fifth, and then December fifth, and then
I'm like, well, what's going on?

Speaker 6 (56:28):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (56:29):
People keep inviting me places.

Speaker 3 (56:31):
So the pizing.

Speaker 7 (56:34):
That you're putting into this friendship is not similar to
you just not being able to maintain it. You don't
want to maintain it. And when I say that, and
I remember giving a long excuse, not excuse, a long
reasoning as to I don't want you to feel overwhelmed
by what I'm saying, but I do want to be
clear on how I feel, because listen, I've realized I'm
gonna show up as myself. If you like me, you're

(56:54):
gonna stay here. If you don't, you're gonna get the
fuck up out my way and make room for somebody
else that can be here. And he decided to make room,
and for that.

Speaker 3 (57:02):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (57:04):
But I don't have not so maintenance, your low effort.

Speaker 7 (57:06):
I don't nobody in my life that's not putting the
effort in because I put effort in.

Speaker 3 (57:11):
I agree, it's just tough, it's hard.

Speaker 2 (57:13):
You spent.

Speaker 1 (57:16):
Man, What is your attachment style?

Speaker 2 (57:21):
Sometimes?

Speaker 1 (57:24):
I mean I usually hear.

Speaker 7 (57:24):
But you know the attachment styles, right, I usually hear
it in terms of dating, but I realize I have
that overall. And you say like foam wfare missing out,
and I think it's like more of an abandonment wound.
The anxious attachment style is that you're always wondering if
someone's gonna leave you. So the more you think they'll
leave you, you try to pull in, and then you
usually are attracting what they call the avoidant attachment style.

(57:48):
So now every time I lean in, that kind of
gives the other person a little bit of like, oh.

Speaker 1 (57:52):
My god, you much and then they back off.

Speaker 7 (57:55):
So just listening to how you spoke about friendships, it's like,
I wonder, if he has can.

Speaker 2 (58:00):
You develop that? Can you develop an anxious attachment style
or is something that you like?

Speaker 7 (58:06):
No, I mean it kind of is like a childhood thing,
like if your parents were not as engaged and you
felt like that you had to act and overperform for
their acknowledgment or their love, then yes, you're grasping for
straws and you kind of take that with you until
you start learning how to disconnect.

Speaker 2 (58:25):
What are the other types of attachment styles?

Speaker 7 (58:27):
Is it just there's fear avoidant, there's avoidant, there's anxious
a few of them.

Speaker 2 (58:35):
So yeah, I would think though, while you're looking that up,
that sounds about right, I mean anxious attachment style. But
to be honest, if you if you can, you max
out of that and just say, you know what, fuck everybody,
I'm just gonna be by myself.

Speaker 7 (58:48):
But you and see, that's when you start becoming a
fair avoidant because you don't want to. You really, deep
down don't want to be by yourself. So why is
that your answer?

Speaker 2 (58:58):
How you know I want to myself because you.

Speaker 1 (59:00):
Don't be by yourself. This wouldn't have been a forty five.

Speaker 7 (59:02):
Minute conversation with your friend if you want it to
be by yourself and be like, I don't give a
fuck whatever. You don't really want that, No one really
wants that.

Speaker 3 (59:10):
We're wired for community exactly. Not only are we wired
for a community, you being the person that you are,
Like you like talking to people, you like like getting
ideas and bouncing ideas off of people, Like you're a
very social person. Yes you are.

Speaker 2 (59:27):
I always say that there's a thing, right, so this
is the thing, and maybe everybody's delusional when it comes
to this, And I was talking to wife about this
when we went out. I turn it on when I
go out, but the whole time I can't wait to
go home.

Speaker 3 (59:42):
But that's not true because if you're not but if
you're not invited to certain spaces, you feel a way
because you want to be a part of the court.

Speaker 2 (59:50):
I don't want to go.

Speaker 3 (59:51):
If that doesn't make it, think, I think it's trauma.

Speaker 2 (59:54):
Man was literally just telling me, but he's I said,
I wasn't coming. I just wanted to invite.

Speaker 1 (01:00:01):
And it's not that you want the invite.

Speaker 7 (01:00:03):
I want to know that you yes, that that is
it okay, But then that's also fucking insane.

Speaker 3 (01:00:11):
So you want the invite.

Speaker 1 (01:00:13):
No, it's not the invite, it's the thought.

Speaker 3 (01:00:16):
Yes, you want to be thought of. You want you
want to be acknowledged that something is happening, and I
want you to be a part of it. But you're
also comfortable not showing up for that same person. That's weird.

Speaker 2 (01:00:29):
It might be weird, but I also don't like partying.

Speaker 3 (01:00:32):
But it's not a party. Would you call it a party?

Speaker 1 (01:00:37):
It was a party on Wednesday. I was trying that.

Speaker 2 (01:00:42):
I'm not really trying to be at odds with the
way you're thinking about it, because I understand, like, yo,
you would be but if you keep For instance, y'all,
remember when I went on that thing with Candy and
then it was the day of my friends yeah, funeral, funeral,
and a lot of people was like, oh, damn, nigga
like you and I was like, damn. The same person

(01:01:04):
that had a conversation that was actually we all was
very close his birthday today. He's having a birthday party
today and he hit me and I'm like, Bro, I
want to go, but tomorrow's my stepdaughter is sweet sixteen.
I gotta I gotta do that. I gotta go up there.
My girl don't have a car. I know she's gonna
need to last minute this need that. I can't have

(01:01:25):
her doing that on it. I need to build the
floor thing or whatever. I can't be out like And
so the reason I'm saying that is like people will
start feeling like, Bro, every time we invite you somewhere,
you always tell you about No. I still appreciate you
hitting me to go, but I can't be like yo.
I can't. I can't. I can't. I can't like say

(01:01:48):
that you won't understand, No, you can because we had
a conversation and I said, I do real quick. We
had a conversation and I said, I do understand that
it's deflating every time you hit me or every time
something's going on, I'm never there.

Speaker 7 (01:01:59):
So when do you and she ate to have to
maintain that relationship? So you can't make it for his birthday?
So then what are y'all doing next week?

Speaker 2 (01:02:05):
I told him, yeah, I'm taking you to the.

Speaker 1 (01:02:06):
Next week boom and just show up how you can.

Speaker 2 (01:02:09):
Take me next week because I know that would mean
a lot to him because he sees how much I
got going on. I know it right, but I and
I did appreciate because he was like, Nigga, I know
what you're doing. Do what you gotta do. I just
couldn't not tell you about it. But I do understand
how some people will look at it like nigga to
invite you every time I invite you, you don't come, so

(01:02:31):
stop with the matter of fact, I don't even know
if you fuck with me like that.

Speaker 7 (01:02:35):
But then that also turns into like people need to
recognize the type of friend that they have. If I
know that I have a friend that doesn't like like
I have one of my girlfriends, and she's one of
my closest friends. She's not a clubver, like I'm not
going to invite her to that long ryn rod type
of thing, but vacation retreats spiritual wellness, the SPA. I

(01:02:55):
know her and I can lock in with that all
the time, so that's what I'll do. So inviting somebody
to how they say it, like if you judge somebody
based on what they can't do. If I judge a
monkey by how well it could swim, or if I
judge a fish by how well it could climb a tree,
is kind of unfair. So the same thing applies to
our friendships. If your friends start to know that you're

(01:03:16):
not a clubber, that your extrovertism only lasts for the payment,
Like I'm here with Candy, I'm getting paid, it's a gig.
Then I'm gonna go home and be with my lady
and my family. Then why they keep inviting you to
the club. That's kind of unfair too.

Speaker 3 (01:03:30):
Right, And I think that that's also like the part
of it. For me. It's just like I I don't
have I don't know if my issue is fomo. It's
more disappointment, I don't. I don't like to feel disappointed.
So when it comes to certain things, I am literally
only going to speak to those that I know that
the answer is yes, because I don't want to hear

(01:03:52):
fifty no's. And that irritates me because for me, I
feel like I'm a person that shows up and I'm
always a team player. I'm always willing to do the thing.
So if I want us to fucking put on inflatable
cowsuits and go around and run through the streets for something,
because that's what I want us to do, I feel
like my friends should say yes because it's like Yo, one,

(01:04:15):
she don't ask for nothing to She's always a team player.
So now I'm gonna do that thing. And when niggas
start saying no or start doing this, I get mad
and then I push back. I didn't have to put
on a cow suit to be your friend.

Speaker 2 (01:04:27):
I can't say I don't want to run through the
streets gallavanting as a fucking cow. I can't do that.
That's gonna make you.

Speaker 3 (01:04:33):
Feel a way, Yes, why I don't want to be
a cow Because it's not about you, it's I have
to wear the suit. I don't want to wear cowsuits. Okay,
so then when I and then right, so when I
have certain friends that have these big feelings about things,
and then I'm not gonna invite them because I'm gonna
invite my friends that don't want to be silly and have.

Speaker 1 (01:04:55):
Fun and we go viral because we got our cow
suits on.

Speaker 6 (01:04:58):
Either be like, you ain't let me.

Speaker 3 (01:04:59):
Know, and I'm gonna be like because you get push
back to everything because when I want something, you make
it about you. It's not about you. I don't give
a fuck. If you asked me to do it, I
would do it because I'm like, yo, I'm a team player.

Speaker 2 (01:05:09):
You would wear calcer. Yes, this next episode, we're gonna
wear Can.

Speaker 3 (01:05:13):
We wear inflatable? We can't sit like that? We can't sit.
You can't because did you.

Speaker 1 (01:05:19):
See like Chris Brown last show his dancers put on, We're.

Speaker 2 (01:05:22):
Gonna wear figure find the suits. We're gonna do it while
we record. Okay, are you serious?

Speaker 3 (01:05:28):
I'm dead at look at her jumping on excited? Actually
like the team player for my birthday, I'm never gonna
let go how these niggas ruined my birthday?

Speaker 2 (01:05:41):
Was it your birthday or was it the wedding which one?

Speaker 3 (01:05:43):
Oh you definitely you also ruined my wedding.

Speaker 2 (01:05:45):
But that's ruined your wedding, Yes, you did.

Speaker 3 (01:05:50):
I just wanted to do one TikTok.

Speaker 1 (01:05:52):
They wouldn't.

Speaker 3 (01:05:53):
They were not What was the TikTok? The way they
don't love you like I love you. I canceled the
whole ship. I no, no, no no. I put it
in the chat. I put it in the groomsman's chat,
and I put it in the bridesmaid chat. I put
the ship in the chat. This nigga one of the

(01:06:16):
first niggas. I'm not doing that. I'm fifty years old.

Speaker 1 (01:06:19):
Nigga, you're aging yourself.

Speaker 3 (01:06:21):
What does that mean?

Speaker 1 (01:06:21):
I'm fifty years So Debbie Allen still dances. Yes, she's
a dancer.

Speaker 7 (01:06:26):
Okay, well then it's not about age. Then just say
it's not about.

Speaker 3 (01:06:30):
Age, because because when he was in the hole, when
he was in the middle of the street with them
fucking stiff ass hips doing his Beyonce dance, it wasn't
a problem then. But on my fucking wedding day, and
you know what they did. They was on my They
was like, why are you even in this chat? D
D I'm like, nigga, it's my we you. They talked

(01:06:51):
to me so crazy. We never did.

Speaker 2 (01:06:55):
They started giving us orders to be in here.

Speaker 7 (01:06:57):
She's the bride, no the groom, Lola, let's talk about it.

Speaker 3 (01:07:02):
And then it's not even like I came in pretending
I was. I was just like, hey, y'all, this is dodge.
I want us to do this, just throw it in
it and left. The messages that started coming as like,
fuck out of here. I'm not doing this shit you
want me to do that?

Speaker 2 (01:07:13):
That's how we talk in the grooms group chat.

Speaker 3 (01:07:15):
Okay?

Speaker 7 (01:07:15):
Why are men so prideful and just don't want to
let That's the thing though, we different people are different.

Speaker 3 (01:07:21):
We have different We have the way that when I
want to do my fun weird ship, I'm gonna do
it with the.

Speaker 2 (01:07:26):
Fun way that we socialized are different. Why can't y'all
understand that? Why do y'all have to Why does it
always have to be like my way or like yo?

Speaker 7 (01:07:36):
Differently asking why men don't want to ask.

Speaker 2 (01:07:39):
You, but women generally, there's this push for us to
be more understanding of what y'all want. When y'all don't
try to understand how we are.

Speaker 3 (01:07:49):
So, then answer the question, yeah, why so? Then answer
the questions.

Speaker 1 (01:07:53):
To push back on being like I ain't doing that, ship.

Speaker 2 (01:07:56):
Why because we are social, I would think, and Yesterday
might want to help answer no, you need help. No,
but I can't answer for all men. Why do I
feel in the attack? You're asking me, and I'm trying
to express you're.

Speaker 1 (01:08:10):
Not being attacked.

Speaker 3 (01:08:15):
Meanwhile, if Lola wasn't here, it would be at least
three of the niggas in here talking to me at
me at the same time. But God forbid. Okay, now
you're attacked.

Speaker 2 (01:08:24):
You're being in arms are crossed when you're asking, and
you're you're giving an energy that's a little aggressive you.

Speaker 3 (01:08:33):
You was like, what is it?

Speaker 6 (01:08:36):
Yo?

Speaker 1 (01:08:38):
Is a woman from New York. That's just how we talk.

Speaker 3 (01:08:41):
But no, before we say that, let's be very fucking clear, niggas,
I don't ask you ship. Lola asked you a question
and I said, so answer it. Are you gonna answer it?
What was the question? What did I fucking ask you?
All right? All right, alright, niggas begetting tight. No, no, no, no, no,

(01:09:02):
I can it's.

Speaker 2 (01:09:02):
The other lady in here, like maybe you're doing.

Speaker 3 (01:09:06):
Can't smer down because thank the Lord that you're here
every other week.

Speaker 2 (01:09:14):
I don't I don't have a problem with having two
women in the room. You're asking me a question and
you don't question, and then she did, then you did.

Speaker 3 (01:09:28):
Are you going to answer the question or not? Are
you going to answer the question or not?

Speaker 2 (01:09:32):
Well, I'm trying, but she's on this whole.

Speaker 3 (01:09:35):
No before you, I'm always before you.

Speaker 2 (01:09:41):
It's no fun when the rabbit has the GUNN thank you?
Can I answer the question? Yes?

Speaker 3 (01:09:48):
Why are you?

Speaker 7 (01:09:49):
Because you said you can't speak for guys, I would
think that not wanting to shake itself.

Speaker 2 (01:09:54):
Being vulnerable is something that is very scary for men period.
We are we have a small box of cool, and
men are always you just want to be cool. You
just want to be acceptable, you want to be fuckable,
you want to be you don't want to be the
odd man out when it comes to other men or
to women Like this, there's a whole thing. So we

(01:10:17):
kind of stay where we are very comfortable being. We
don't know what the effect of going outside of that
is going to be.

Speaker 7 (01:10:25):
In that moment, though you were in a safe space.
You're at her wedding amongst family, and it's a safe
space for you to just let loose and be yourself.
We're not asking you to do that in a spot.

Speaker 2 (01:10:38):
To be clear, we was always going to do the dance.

Speaker 1 (01:10:41):
Oh's what happened.

Speaker 2 (01:10:42):
She just flipped out.

Speaker 3 (01:10:44):
I just flipped out.

Speaker 2 (01:10:46):
She just flipped out like she's in the groomsman chat
with a bunch of dudes. That's how we talk to
each other. That's how men talk to each other. And
this is what we said back then, Dodge, this is
how we do. That's how we do. We jabb We didn't,
but anything it's gonna get done never got done because
you said no, I had this. I seriously asked you
time and time and time again. Can we still do it?

(01:11:09):
Don't do that, don't be like that. And then you
went on this whole thing about now because I don't
even ask for nothing. And then and we're just like
bro oh man.

Speaker 7 (01:11:17):
You know, it would have been dope if y'all would
have all learned it on your own without her and.

Speaker 3 (01:11:22):
Would surprised because I already knew it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:25):
Yeah, it would have been flying.

Speaker 3 (01:11:26):
And this is what I'm talking about. Like the foresight,
the foresight is not even there. Like the like the
what we're talking about, the reciprocity, right. I didn't even
mind you for the whole wedding. I never even I've
never went in that chat, never said anything. And even
then I literally just dropped it and left. It wasn't

(01:11:47):
until the messages started coming in of the yeah, nah nah,
I'm not doing that. I don't want to do that. Also,
fuck me.

Speaker 2 (01:11:55):
It's never that serious.

Speaker 3 (01:11:57):
It was never that. My wedding was never.

Speaker 1 (01:12:00):
Wed very sensitive people not.

Speaker 2 (01:12:06):
I'm just like, bro, we were jabbing, we were being guys,
and you got person You took it personally. We tried
to heal it, we spoke about it, we tried to
like we did, and you still irritated by it.

Speaker 3 (01:12:20):
And I'm telling you, i'ma be irritated forever because I
don't never have a They don't want me shipped. I
don't want to stop.

Speaker 1 (01:12:28):
You gotta give her audiance.

Speaker 8 (01:12:29):
No.

Speaker 3 (01:12:29):
Oh, let's talk about how for my birthday I wanted
to do. I want everybody to do a presentation of
their favorite conspiracy theory. And I'd like this, this whole thing.
It was like you're supposed to do like a presentation.
I bought like little awards for everybody.

Speaker 7 (01:12:44):
I'm such a dork because which is aid of dinner?

Speaker 3 (01:12:48):
This is what I'm That's where I am, That's where
I'm at in life. I'm tired of doing the dinner
in the club and the bottles and the da like
I did that too, But also I wanted to do
something different and have a different type of experience with
my friends and do like some cool shit. Not only
did Tahoe not show up without not telling me he
did wasn't gonna show up, but he also him and

(01:13:10):
yesterday I gotta throw them into this together. No, I
don't give a fuck fuck yesterday. But he also complained
every week about what I wanted to do for my birthday.
Why you want to do that? How I'm I supposed
to do that? I actually how you gonna give us
homework for your birthday? So now next year, because I
want to do something fun when the invite is not

(01:13:35):
for everybody, I don't want to hear shit because nobody
wants to do the nerd shit that I want to
do on the very particular days that are actually about me,
like my wedding, uh, my birthday. So when I want
to go larp, no, I'm not inviting anybody because like,
why the fuck do we have to go larp? What
the fuck is LARPing? We don't want to do. No,
I'm gonna do it. LARPing is live action role play.

(01:13:57):
So that's like when you like, like like the Midievil
sh like you like get dressed up and like you're
playing with swords in the park and ship. That's what
I'm gonna do for my birthday next year.

Speaker 2 (01:14:05):
And it sounds fun.

Speaker 1 (01:14:08):
Yeah, it does sound fun.

Speaker 3 (01:14:09):
It's gonna be so much fun.

Speaker 2 (01:14:10):
I think, I think, I think you guys are gonna
have a great time LARPing. Count me out? Are you?
Is you good? As you good?

Speaker 8 (01:14:21):
No?

Speaker 3 (01:14:22):
I'm not irritating all over again? Why because I just
I don't like my friends. I don't like my friends hurt. Yeah,
my feeling has been hurt. Nobody kids, nobody thinks I
have those, So my feelings are always hurt. My friends
are so like disappointing. I be disappointed.

Speaker 1 (01:14:38):
That's so sad.

Speaker 2 (01:14:39):
I'm sorry that you feel that some water Huh. I
feel like we should get some water. Water.

Speaker 3 (01:14:46):
I want to keep going because I have to go
have things to do.

Speaker 5 (01:14:51):
I just want to say dodge again. I apologize for that.
You know, you know I don't want to throw it.
I don't want to say it with somebody else's fault.
But but you know, we kind of know what happened.
But I should have still hit you. I should have
called you. I should have texted you something and let
you know personally.

Speaker 3 (01:15:06):
So again, I appreciate your faith. Still fun all, y'all,
but I appreciate.

Speaker 2 (01:15:13):
That I feel you. He just wants to invite next
years to be around your food girls. That was nasty.

Speaker 3 (01:15:20):
It was nasty.

Speaker 2 (01:15:22):
It wasn't true though. No, okay, okay, I'm sorry. I
ain't come sorry then and everything he said too. I'm
so sorry. It just fucked up. Should have called I
didn't know it was gonna bother you so much. It
won't happen again.

Speaker 1 (01:15:41):
Now you're hold into it.

Speaker 6 (01:15:45):
M hm hmm.

Speaker 8 (01:15:47):
I was.

Speaker 2 (01:15:48):
We'll be back for part two and so shameless in
a second.

Speaker 4 (01:15:53):
I gotta pay some bills right quick.

Speaker 3 (01:16:00):
Yeah,

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