I Didnt Marry Her..She Married ME! (part two)

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
If you know what I'm saying, so so shameless, if
you know what I'm saying with so shameless, if you
know what I'm saying, so shamus, so shameless, so so
so stumeless.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
If you know what I'm saying, so.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Shameless, if you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if
you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if you know
what I'm saying, so shame it is.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
Yeah, No, I'm going to tell her after it one time.
It's one time for the one time, Just once, mom,
just once. Man, you have a you have a turn,
you have a convert chick, you have a get out
the friends on you in a friend zone yesterday? Yeah,
and you got up out of there. Still how you
got out the friend.

Speaker 4 (01:06):
Zone by being her friend? That creepy She put me
in the friend zone. And I was like, all right,
so I just let it rock. I never acknowledged the
sex ship or the intimate part of it.

Speaker 2 (01:18):
Just let it rock, let it creepy. And eventually and
then eventually she caved.

Speaker 4 (01:23):
How we're asking, I don't know, how how do y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:27):
Go to be friends?

Speaker 3 (01:28):
And then one day she's like, yo, I want to
fuck you after putting you in the friend zone.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
Did she see you getting attention from other women? Yeah?
At times? Yeah, because a lot of time that be
the thing they don't realize. You know. She knew I
was a lesson.

Speaker 4 (01:43):
She was my friend, so last time we would talk,
so she would know, like the people I was dealing with,
what was going on. And we just so happened to
go out one night, came back to my cribs was chilling,
and she was like.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
Yo, you know what, come here, Wait a minute, Why
did you bring your friend back to your crib?

Speaker 4 (01:56):
Because we always friends, that's regular. She slept up my
house and nothing.

Speaker 5 (02:03):
Happened to our friends. I didn't beat just spend the
night in my crib.

Speaker 2 (02:06):
Yeah, Like it was like it was like that, Like
where right.

Speaker 5 (02:11):
Next to me the bed?

Speaker 2 (02:12):
I wouldn't cuddle on another?

Speaker 4 (02:16):
How many times y'all, niggas is wid just next to
women mustiple times and have not touched them, cuddled or nothing.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
That's been on.

Speaker 3 (02:23):
Something in your bed was your feet by their head
and their head was by your feet, like that was
next to each other.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
Cuddles. Make a habit out of it? Done that? Yeah,
See I'm creep. He can't even fathom it. Creep, I'm
admitting it. I'm a I'm that because I won't have
you by my crib. You're not sleeping in my house.
Here's the thing. I'll sleep on the couch. If we're

(02:51):
friends like that and you just need to yeah, go
sleep in the bed. I'll sleep on the couch. But
we're not sleeping because somebody's sucking.

Speaker 3 (02:58):
We're sleeping it back to get some's It might not
be me, it might be one of us is fucking
the other person.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yea.

Speaker 6 (03:05):
I like pushing just as much as the next man.
But I also like the company of a woman, So
there'd be sometimes I just want to smoke and chill
with a chick that I like, that I like and laugh,
and that's it, especially if you already active. It's not
like you starving like you like tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Else, if it's ten of them, how many of them
did you wind up having sex with? Six point five?
Do you understand what he says? Did you understand what
he just says? I see my number was six point five.
He said nine, So there's time. That's not true.

Speaker 6 (03:45):
So I would say nine if I was really interested
in you, But I was just playing it.

Speaker 3 (03:51):
Like, you're not going to be hanging around chicks that
you're not feeling like that doing all of those things.
You might do it once in a while, but you're
not just gonna have it bro Respect, respect, because I
might be wrong, but I think I know you were
pretty well. You'll play that position because you know that's
where it lands right now. And when the door opens
one for them and you get into you play, you

(04:11):
get into it. And this has happened multiple times, and
you're sorry, I'm doing too much. I've seen you convert
past I've seen you convert friends.

Speaker 6 (04:21):
You've also seen me keep what's the word when you're
not having sex with somebody platonic?

Speaker 2 (04:27):
Platonic?

Speaker 6 (04:28):
I keep platonic, lady friend, always have And just because
a woman is attractive doesn't mean that you want to
beat you know what I mean? So I have attractive
platonic friends that I had no interest in me.

Speaker 3 (04:40):
But you wouldn't have them there in that capacity what
you just said, having them over, sleeping in your bed,
cooking for them, whatever, whatever, unless it's more of a
group vibe. So in something happening where you're inviting your platonic.

Speaker 2 (04:54):
Friends over in that regard, nine out of ten is
nine out of ten. Yesterday is also six point five.

Speaker 3 (05:01):
Playing the role because you couldn't kill You couldn't close
the deal.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
Don't, could you? You had to wait for her to
open it, bro, That's what it is, respectfully.

Speaker 3 (05:11):
There are times I couldn't close the deal. There are
times I couldn't close deal. But respectfully, you already said
I tried. I wanted to get with this chick. She
wanted to put me in the friend zone. I played
my part until she wanted to fund me. So that
that says, okay, six out of five, six point five
times out of ten, that's what happened.

Speaker 2 (05:32):
Those other three and a half times it didn't happen
after that, disrespect was the friendship different? Was it over?
Say that again? Yeah? He killed it? After that it
was the friendship. What do you mean like after the
second stay friends? Yeah? Until they wasn't all right friends?

(05:52):
You see the hate don't work.

Speaker 3 (05:54):
I love you, bro, but I just can't. I'm not
gonna be your app on this show. I just want
to tell you truth. I want you to tell the truth.
These people are selling your life right now.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
A good bit of them. Yeah, some of them are married.
And ship. So like obviously it's you know, it's a
different vibe that you can hand.

Speaker 3 (06:11):
Around the friends that y'all, but y'all be friends around
and with people you fucked and they in relationships.

Speaker 2 (06:18):
Do the boy know? Does a guy know?

Speaker 5 (06:22):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (06:22):
I don't act that all.

Speaker 4 (06:24):
But like the family stuff I stayed with, like the family,
like the marriage.

Speaker 2 (06:27):
Like that type of stuff. It's like, it's cool, it's it's.

Speaker 4 (06:29):
Still love, you know how you know, congratulations, you know
all of that, but nothing crazy.

Speaker 2 (06:34):
I don't do that. You're going to the wedding, No, no,
you've been to wedding somebody that you fucked.

Speaker 5 (06:42):
No, No, I haven't been too many weddings.

Speaker 2 (06:45):
So I've definitely been around.

Speaker 5 (06:49):
You're fifty.

Speaker 2 (06:50):
Huh, you're fifty. We know you've been around. Wow, I
deserve that. I deserve that. It's fine. I send enough
shots for those little jabs. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (07:00):
I've definitely been around women that I've had sex with
and they're in a new relationship and we haven't said nothing.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
Never, it's no reason to say anything. Never have friends.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (07:10):
If the other person asks, then that's cool. Well, in
our case, the women if the boyfriend asks the girl
or you, well, y'aver did something.

Speaker 3 (07:20):
Maybe if you found out that your person lied to
you about somebody but they had sex with them thirty
years ago, twenty something years ago, would you be bothered
but they lied to you?

Speaker 5 (07:31):
Yes, if you lied about it.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
If they told you no, no, that's what she's my friend.
I never told you that happens. That's a lie, right O.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
Mission is a lot. Mission is a lie.

Speaker 3 (07:40):
So if they just say that's your friend, that's their friend,
and don't say nothing else, but then you find out
later on thirty years ago, why.

Speaker 2 (07:47):
Do it matter? They really couldn't just be their friend
right now, thirty years later.

Speaker 3 (07:53):
You're saying that you wouldn't be bothered if you found
out that your girl and somebody else that she had
you hanging around, has sex twenty something years ago. You
wouldn't be bothered by if you found out now.

Speaker 6 (08:03):
Again, if it was omitted, if it was alive versus
an omission, that's different. If it was just omitted and
there's no like sexual energy there and it was a
long time ago, then I'm.

Speaker 3 (08:13):
Gonna bring this up about the Cassie situation, right because
I had all of these relationship situations. But I like
that we're going off a little tangents here right yesterday,
I don't even know if you was here. You wasn't here, Drew,
you wasn't in the discord, Troma.

Speaker 2 (08:28):
Was not here. I don't know this to be the
whole truth.

Speaker 3 (08:33):
Let me preface this whole situation with this is a
hypothetical right now.

Speaker 2 (08:39):
Also, shout out to Cassie. She was never on trial.

Speaker 3 (08:44):
I feel horrible by what she went through, right, all
of that, And I loved Cassie back in the days,
loved her right, So I hate that this was part
with her story.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
Also, congratulations of fact she has had a baby. But
I'm gonna use this situation that's hypothetical on the show.
Hypothetically speaking, she told her husband, her now husband, right
that the last time she had.

Speaker 3 (09:15):
Sexual intercourse with Diddy was the time when he showed
up at a spot.

Speaker 2 (09:23):
And assaulted her on the stand.

Speaker 3 (09:29):
The defense questions her, was that the last time y'all
had sex? She said, No, is that what your husband
thought was the last time that you had sex with him?

Speaker 2 (09:48):
Yes, something along that line. He thought that the.

Speaker 3 (09:53):
Last time it had sex was the time that she
was assaulted. It comes out on the stand that afterwards
she had sex with Diddy again months later, and her
husband was face timing. Her boyfriend at the time was
face timing her face She did not answer. She faced

(10:13):
while she was having sex with her then abuser right
an ex boyfriend, and kept in contact with him for
months after. If you were to find that out after
having three kids with somebody this is your she's pregnant
with your third kid, not much pregnant. You've been through
all this trauma with her, you know what I'm saying.
You've been there for each other for all this time.

(10:37):
Would that have been an issue for you? And how
much of an.

Speaker 2 (10:40):
Issue would happen if you if you just found that
out in court, Because the thing is, she could.

Speaker 4 (10:45):
Have told him, She could have told she lied, and
she knew she was going on a stands, so she
could have told him prior to the now.

Speaker 5 (10:51):
She probably lied and told him that was the last time.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
That's what she said. She lied.

Speaker 5 (10:56):
So yeah, it's gonna be a hard role to come
back across from. He might be on his way out.

Speaker 4 (11:02):
And also to the assault piece of it, throwing like
you know, when it's like you you know, I've been assaulted,
you know what I'm saying, that's a different you know,
that's it. That just puts a different ten on things.
So to go back after and like you said, to
keep in contact, that's that's a very I don't even question.
I don't know how explain that.

Speaker 5 (11:20):
Also questions did he really assault her?

Speaker 2 (11:23):
I believe so I the time that she meant, I
would say a thousand, three thousand four, because she's admitting
that power and she still.

Speaker 5 (11:35):
Came back to him months later.

Speaker 3 (11:37):
But she's she's in, she's I don't I don't know
if the word indoctrinated, but like she's a part of
that system. You never try to try to quit smoking
weed stock, Yeah, Like it's hard to break away from
something that's a part of your system, you know what
I'm saying This.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
Think about the things that they did together, and she
probably genuinely had love for him.

Speaker 3 (11:56):
Yeah, but it's also her lifestyle, all that she over
here with the physical trainer.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
You're used to this other ship and it's still fabulous.
That lifestyle is fabulous. You're talking about supermodels and jets
and just this whole thing, the drugs and the abuse factor.
Like you people stop home sing juices. Thing you get
you get really attached to your abuser and they know your.

Speaker 3 (12:20):
They know your weaknesses, they know your strengths. They they
you know, massage should have lis. How far is how
far is the anger? Is it breakup anger?

Speaker 2 (12:30):
Yes?

Speaker 5 (12:31):
Yeah, not right away, but like I could see myself
drifting off. Yes, I ca see myself slowly separating myself.

Speaker 2 (12:38):
After that one moment in court, after three kids.

Speaker 6 (12:41):
Really it wouldn't bother me as much why it's going
to sting. But I feel like in the early part
of a relationship there's a lot of lies, especially when
you're y'all are both getting out of ther entanglements and
shiit like that. There's always a period where things are overlapping.
You're not telling the truth about how how done you
are with this other person, And it's early in the relationship. Now,

(13:04):
if we're like five years into the relationship, eight years in,
we got kids, we got rings, we got houses, and
you're still lying currently about what's currently going on. Now,
that's an issue. But if it's something that happened back then,
it's like it's gonna sting. But it's like, all right,
we're in a different phase right now, we're in a
different point in our in our lives, right Yeah, but public, I.

Speaker 4 (13:26):
Man't cut you off time. I kind of I'm seeing
when you come from Trump. But I feel like I
would agree with that, not only if the trial wasn't
coming up, because you know what this stuff coming up.
You know, all of this is on the table, It's
on the docket. So I feel like, cool, even if
you didn't present it early in a relationship this last month.
You know what I'm saying, be like, whenever we got

(13:47):
established that you I'm going to testify.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
I should have before this comes up in court. Let
me give you.

Speaker 4 (13:53):
Everything because I can't go into court and you find
something out.

Speaker 2 (13:57):
Maybe she was hopeful that wouldn't come up. What I'm saying,
you know that is she gonna predict that specific question
because the last time you had sex.

Speaker 4 (14:05):
With because you know, Diddy's gonna put that in the mix.
He's gonna put because his case. You're saying that you're
a SoCal bomb and I believe that. But he's gonna say, hey, guys,
we had sex here and here and if do you
know that's true?

Speaker 2 (14:16):
True? You can't leave your husband out there to be like, wait,
I'm sitting in the courthouse. Yeah you can't. He can't
find out in real time in the court. That can
never happen.

Speaker 3 (14:26):
Yeah, that's crazy. If that's what happened, is we don't know.
She might have briefed him beforehand. She might have told
me if she did. But according to the defense, up
until the point where I think they had questioned him,
his belief was that was the last time was the abuse.

Speaker 2 (14:44):
So they thought they had a gotcha moment like nah, niggas, No,
it wasn't right.

Speaker 3 (14:50):
They didn't say nothing until she got the court right
and she was like, yeah, if they asked us, that
what he believes. And she was like, yeah, probably so
that that was the last time. Oh, I'm sitting there
supporting you.

Speaker 2 (15:02):
Probably.

Speaker 4 (15:03):
Oh that's what I find out in real time and
everybody's watching you.

Speaker 2 (15:09):
Why you have to process you?

Speaker 3 (15:10):
You know that bone right here, that whatever that jow
muscle when you bite your.

Speaker 2 (15:16):
And the thing is traum. Hypothetically speaking, I went through
all this trauma with you. I was there. I'm the
one who saved you.

Speaker 3 (15:26):
I'm the one who've been through all of the healing.
We've had two kids. You're pregnant with our third kid.
I was there writing that book with you. I was
there join a lawsuit with you. I was there up
until this moment where you were going to get understand
this is eight years later. You had plenty of time
to tell me, especially knowing we was going to the trial.
So that would make me, because I'm a really petty, corny,

(15:50):
emotional nigga, I think that you was trying to get
away with this and hoping that they wasn't going to
ask you that and you got caught that. What would
hurt me? That you didn't even trust me through everything
that we went through. This is all hypothetical, boy, the way.

Speaker 2 (16:07):
That you didn't trust me through all of the things
that we went through enough to just keep it real
with me, knowing that it would make you look bad,
but just so that it wouldn't make me look worse
in front of all of these people.

Speaker 3 (16:18):
At least let me know so I know and people
know that I know, or at least I know, and
I don't look like I didn't know.

Speaker 2 (16:23):
You know what I'm saying. Yeah, damn, that was good.
That was fun. Y'all get really quiet, ye, I've been
quiet like this is before the episode. I don't know
what the fuck the vibe is. Drew is definitely not
a potter.

Speaker 3 (16:44):
Here's a pod support, Yeah, your pod support wifey intact. No,
But I have something else, and I'm wondering if I
should go into it.

Speaker 7 (16:58):
I don't really care about a male telling me how
long he's been married, because I know that there are
things that women have to pull back.

Speaker 8 (17:10):
On and accept.

Speaker 9 (17:11):
It doesn't matter if it's lyon, cheating, gas lighting, whatever.
The woman is trained. Even through religiosity, preachers preach to
women about tolerating and putting up with things to keep
their marriage. If men cheat on them, don't give up
your marriage all because he cheated.

Speaker 8 (17:30):
This is just a typical thing.

Speaker 9 (17:31):
So at the end of the day, when a man
tells me that he's been married for an extended period
of time, that does nothing for me. I don't get excited.
I don't think that he's some exception to the rule.
Give me a woman to say how well her experience
has been without putting up with anything of the sort,

(17:52):
then my ears were raised, and I.

Speaker 8 (17:55):
Will tell her that she's the exception to the rule.

Speaker 9 (17:57):
I don't really.

Speaker 2 (18:00):
Don't know what happened just now, son. Women are son son.

Speaker 3 (18:04):
Do y'all never feel y'all never get tired of the
abuse we get from y'are good.

Speaker 4 (18:11):
Yesterday, I'm I said it to you, I said earlier
in this court, I said, Yo, every topic that we
that gets brought up somehow it's the men somehow everything,
Like I could we can get a hat right now,
we could just do a grab bag, grab some out
the hat. It's going to be the man for I
guarantee it. I'm willing to put a dollar on it.
It's gonna I'm willing to do it.

Speaker 2 (18:31):
I'm willing to do Is this is this a trend
or is this reality? I think it's people's realities.

Speaker 4 (18:39):
I think it's people's realities, and it's you know, it's
happening so much that it's it's overlapping with the women
and the stories.

Speaker 2 (18:46):
So now it just sounds like just one big matrix
of Yeah, the man.

Speaker 6 (18:53):
I don't know how really this is. It's hard to
tell what's real and what's just Internet. Like the ship
does the ship that's going to get through and get
a reaction out of us, that's the stuff that's gonna
make it through the algorithm, Like, don't nobody want to
hear no born woman talk about positivity and shit like that,
like this is the ship that's gonna get through the algorithm.

Speaker 2 (19:14):
Like pregnant chick, four year old pregnant chick walking around
the club.

Speaker 6 (19:22):
So you know, I don't know how real it is
because I don't know, like personally, my lady friends don't
talk like that.

Speaker 2 (19:32):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 5 (19:33):
So you don't know any male friends that's married, that
cheated and still in a relationship with their wife.

Speaker 2 (19:39):
She was really I know, I was dating the chick
that was married for ten years. I was fucking her
for ten.

Speaker 5 (19:44):
Years and she's still would have damn.

Speaker 2 (19:48):
For ten years.

Speaker 3 (19:50):
That it's tough and her nigga never found out, never
had no suspicions, nothing.

Speaker 2 (19:57):
That's the shit I can't live with right there, nothing nigga.
She would be in the crib for hours. He never called,
never was like she knew this whole thing. She knew
his whole thing.

Speaker 4 (20:09):
That's why I never want to be predictable women. That's
why I just do ship ring so you can never
figure me out.

Speaker 2 (20:15):
It's sick.

Speaker 4 (20:16):
Never figured me out, because once they know you, once
they got you, they got you.

Speaker 2 (20:21):
The gotcha. Women cheat.

Speaker 5 (20:23):
They cheat most times. They cheat for a reason, right,
because you ain't doing something she was relationship.

Speaker 3 (20:30):
I felt bad for her even though she was cheating.
I felt hard the way the nigga was just like abusive,
just financially abusive, using her money, just.

Speaker 2 (20:42):
Just it was just wild. She was. She was He was.

Speaker 6 (20:45):
Probably doing the same ship the same hour he wasn't calling.
I used to tell her, he's cheating right now. You
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (20:53):
You ain't calling him, he's calling you. She let me.
She give me a yeah shit crack nigga.

Speaker 3 (21:07):
My problem with what she said is right, And the
reason I play that is because and this is gonna
be toxic. I don't know very many women that like
other women. Women will have their friend group.

Speaker 2 (21:23):
Cool.

Speaker 3 (21:24):
Of course, there's always going to be their little beefs
that they have in friend groups, but they don't trust
other bitches. They don't trust no women. They don't trust
women around you, They don't trust none of that. They
always have issues with other women. But yet when there's
a problem, it's always the man. If you know that
women have these issues in almost every realm of life,

(21:45):
whether it's people you work with, whether it's in your
friend group, whether it's just socially. What makes y'all think
that it's always a nigga. That's the problem in the relationship.

Speaker 2 (21:56):
When I ask y'all if this is real or this
is just trendy, most people say this reality. No, this
is perception. They have shifted the perception for everything to
be looked through the female gaze. Everything is to be
looked through this one way. And that's men feel oh that, yeah,
we are horrible, because we are we are niggas was horrible.

(22:19):
Women are horrible too. That's what I'm saying. Women are
horrible too.

Speaker 3 (22:24):
It's not like they're just these victims that it's just
like everything's happening to me.

Speaker 2 (22:28):
She was sucking dick for ten years. She could have
left that tough. She could have left.

Speaker 3 (22:36):
I mean, I told her I didn't want to be
a nigga though. I told her, you're not coming.

Speaker 5 (22:40):
Here, will like, because I know some women that they
can't leave.

Speaker 2 (22:44):
She had the money, she was the man. She was
the bread winner, so she was just foster and she
didn't have no kids.

Speaker 5 (22:52):
She was comfortable, you feel me.

Speaker 2 (22:56):
No, it wasn't comfort. It was more like her they
were together from.

Speaker 3 (23:02):
Young convenience, so it's kind of like it's ruining their
whole the dream and the thing that they said that
the love story.

Speaker 5 (23:12):
I think that's from older person thing, because a lot
of old people do that, like they'll cheat, but they'll
still stay with her husband. It's just they don't. They
just don't.

Speaker 6 (23:22):
Divorce, divorced at forty figure.

Speaker 2 (23:27):
Out trying to figure it out. They don't want to
do all that.

Speaker 3 (23:30):
But to the point here was she's talking about the
guy doing it.

Speaker 2 (23:34):
Women do it too. Women do it, women do it too.
I'm fucking watching The Sopranos today, episode three. Carmelo whatever
her name is, we're trying to fuck the pastor. For
God's sake, you're trying to fuck the pastor. This nigga
just dabut communion. She's hugging the nigga with the communion.
You know, they put the thing over. She's hugging them

(23:57):
and she's literally I know she's thinking, like she's this
nigga did this, nigga got up to do it this?
Like I'm like, I hope she don't try to suck
right now? How are you gonna suck? The passes is
giving you a communion.

Speaker 5 (24:10):
They're gonna say women, that's doing it because of the manships.

Speaker 4 (24:14):
Just like the ghost ship, that ship from power where
Tasha was fucking Canaan sonnigas.

Speaker 3 (24:20):
Like Noha was diddy. Now that I think about it,
Tasha was diddy. How dare you expose yourself to the driver?
How dare you this.

Speaker 2 (24:32):
Is the driver. He's a use, he's a fucking whyan.
You got in the back of the car because you
had power and money, you thought it was cool to
take your pussy out. And then what the people who
testifying against Ditty about right now? No, it's the exact
same thing. Tasha was fucking diddy. What were you saying yesterday?

(24:58):
I'm sorry you smoke. That bitch was horrible. That bitch
was horrible. But what I was saying was they still
found a way to make a ghost for and then
it's always ghosts.

Speaker 3 (25:10):
No, I think everybody agreed that it was Tasha for
though I don't think nobody thought.

Speaker 2 (25:14):
That it was ghost All the women said that, but
he was.

Speaker 5 (25:16):
Angela and that was before that was before that.

Speaker 2 (25:20):
But this is what I'm saying, Drew, he started sucking.

Speaker 5 (25:23):
Off Angela because Tasha didn't want him to leave the game.
He tried to go legit. Tasha didn't want that. So
once he saw that, he started to dip out, and
Angela was just a catalyst. It could have been any
other bit. It just happened to be Angela for.

Speaker 2 (25:36):
The story exactly. If it wasn't Angela, it was going
to be.

Speaker 3 (25:39):
Somebody else, it was going to be for the other chick, right,
It never had to be another woman.

Speaker 2 (25:44):
It would have just been the business.

Speaker 3 (25:46):
They was breaking up because he wanted to go legit
and she didn't. Right, they was breaking up, you know
what I'm saying. Like he said, Angela was just the
person that actually the wedge that got in between him
and her for real, for real, and they and they split,
talking about splitting.

Speaker 2 (26:05):
We have two more topics.

Speaker 3 (26:05):
We get y'all the fuck out of here, right, each
one of us in here besides yesterday, I'm not gonna
do that. Just know that I save you, I love you,
and I save you.

Speaker 2 (26:28):
Has baby mamas. M hmm, each one of us in here.
You're good. While you made that face, there we go.
I don't like what is going. Let me.

Speaker 3 (26:43):
Want you want me to take a pause on this, right,
has had to deal with situations where it ain't easy.
You know what I'm saying. This is this person that's
in your life. They're always there. You always got to
have this relationship with them for the betterment of the child.

(27:04):
It's not easy, right, I know. I found me in
a fucking clip. I don't know what the hell oh
this clip is about. It's a young man that's going
to court, right, and he's basically been in the courses.
First of all, has anybody in here been in to
the court for the child support?

Speaker 2 (27:22):
Sure, both of y'all have.

Speaker 5 (27:26):
What was that she took you to the court.

Speaker 2 (27:29):
I've been on your own child support right now for
ten years? Now? Was it fair?

Speaker 5 (27:37):
Next question?

Speaker 2 (27:39):
Really, I didn't know that. How's I got my job
and Dodge married you?

Speaker 3 (27:45):
Yeah, because now she's responsible for that too while you
stop paying it.

Speaker 5 (27:49):
No, it's coming on my drive as long as I
got this job.

Speaker 2 (27:52):
But if you lose money, your wife is responsible.

Speaker 5 (27:54):
Oh yeah, I'm not gonna let that happen.

Speaker 2 (27:56):
But I mean anything can happen. You get hit by
a car.

Speaker 3 (27:59):
Oh, and they, for whatever reason, starts playing yes, your
wife is possible for your child support?

Speaker 5 (28:04):
Even after I died. That's kind of crazy.

Speaker 2 (28:06):
I don't know if after you die. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (28:08):
You could be hit by a car and I die.
I'm just I'm hoping that you're still there, but you
just can't move.

Speaker 6 (28:17):
What I've just been talking.

Speaker 10 (28:21):
She's like what She's the only one commented. She's like, Yo,
this thing is nuts. Yosh, can we pod?

Speaker 2 (28:41):
God damn Trump? What you said? You've been on both sides?
What does that mean?

Speaker 6 (28:44):
That means I've been taking the court and I've taken
to court.

Speaker 2 (28:49):
The same person. Yes, you've been taking the court. What
was that like?

Speaker 7 (28:56):
So?

Speaker 6 (28:56):
Yeah, I got put on child support, but then I
had to take her court because I wasn't getting a
proper visitation and things like that.

Speaker 2 (29:05):
I thought you put yourself on child support. She she
took you court and they assigned it. Yes, okay, okay, okay.
Did you think you gotta feel deal?

Speaker 6 (29:14):
It was actually more than fair. I actually agreed to
pay more than went to court asked me to pay
because I was already paying her consistent money. She didn't
take me to court because I wasn't giving her money.
She took me to court because of emotional problem, you know,
what I mean, like resentment ship, But why don't you
just fight.

Speaker 5 (29:32):
That because if you had proof of you showing, if
you had proof of your paying her money, you could
have just been like the child sport, I'm still paying her.

Speaker 6 (29:42):
Right, So I had proof I did you know? I
was paying her? And that wasn't an issue. There was
no like back child support really but it was just
like going forward and it was for the best because at.

Speaker 5 (29:53):
That point it was just like, I think I'm too
paid for that.

Speaker 6 (29:57):
And I say it was for the best because reluctantly,
because I don't feel like the state should be involved
in raising our kids, you know what I mean. And
it's not an ideal situation, but I do say it's
for the best for some situations when y'all just really
can't get on the same page. It's like, yo, we
don't even got to talk no more. We don't even
get about shit like that. Because I could also understand

(30:20):
on the other side, if you're receiving child support, if
somebody's like, oh, you know, I'm waiting on this check,
give me till next Thursday about da dah. Like when
it's somebody that you don't fuck with, you don't get
along sometimes like, Yo, the money's coming, it's coming from
the state on the fifteenth every month. We don't have
to talk about it. It is what it is, you know
what I mean. And it's like and then the other

(30:41):
side of it is like, what you're gonna do to me?
There's nothing else you could do to me. I don't
have to walk on the eggshells around you, you know
what I mean. It's like there's always something.

Speaker 5 (30:49):
There's a lot that she can do. She could keep
taking you back every five years.

Speaker 2 (30:52):
That's true.

Speaker 6 (30:53):
But my point is like, all right, once we've gone
to that threshold, it's like a lot of men are
walking on eggshells because it's like day I don't want
to take me to the court. So it's kind of like,
you know what I mean, Once you go through that,
it's like, all right, now I could just focus and
focus on being a parent, focused on core parenting and
just doing my best. Yea, you know that situation. It

(31:15):
is what it is. So I say that to say
she took me to court as an emotional response, not
thinking like Nigga, you took a DJ that works off
the books to court.

Speaker 2 (31:26):
I went to court.

Speaker 6 (31:27):
I was like, I mean thirteen dollars last year, you
know what I mean, Like obviously not that low over
the mountain, but it was like I didn't have reported income.
So the judge asked me to pay like the bare minimum.
And I told the judge, I was like, yo, I
keep paying what I've been paid, you know what I mean,
which was hired than when she asked me to pay.
But I'm like, I shouldn't even be here, you know
what I mean. But you know, again it was an

(31:48):
emotional thing. And then again I had to take it
to court just to make sure I was getting a
proper visitation.

Speaker 2 (31:54):
Years later, all you should want more than what the
judge allocated.

Speaker 6 (32:02):
She didn't know nothing, you know, and to her credit,
like she was young. You know, it was a long
time ago.

Speaker 2 (32:09):
You know.

Speaker 6 (32:09):
I don't harp, but no bad feels about it. It's
tough being young, being in those situations and being emotional
and shit like that. Listen, man, it is what it is,
the same way we was talking about earlier, like you
got to understand the type person that you do it.
And you know, I'm not gonna say all women, but
some woman deal with emotion versus logic, and they're you.

Speaker 2 (32:31):
Was more logical and emotional. Yeah, of course you don't
think he was emotional.

Speaker 6 (32:36):
No, I think I was more logical. The logical thing
is like I'm giving you money every month, while you
take me to court to give you money every month,
you know what I mean. And then I don't even
have a job like on the books. So like what
you expected out there, it's a it's a reflex reaction.
Oh I'm gonna take them to court, like you clearly
did not think this through, you know what I mean,
because we was in court and the judge was grilling her.

Speaker 2 (32:58):
That kind of sounds. Do you mind if I go
oppy on you a little bit? No, I don't mind.
That was advocate.

Speaker 3 (33:05):
Yeah, most women would say, Okay, you don't have a job,
you don't have reported income.

Speaker 2 (33:11):
But you know I need help if I'm hating you
the course, because I need more than what you're asking
when you're giving me the problem.

Speaker 3 (33:18):
But that's what the conversations, that's the conversation that But
that's it's kind of like you can give me more,
you can let me just finish the thought process, right,
I can see. I can imagine if it's my girl
or woman of my friend right, just say it's my
friend dealing with her baby father and it's like, well,
he doesn't have reported income paying less than what I

(33:39):
need because you don't have to because the court doesn't
mandate you to. That's not helpful, Yes, just you getting
over on the system and basically getting over the responsibilities
of a father.

Speaker 6 (33:51):
It was never an issue of the amount, and it
was never like I wasn't given enough. When I say,
it was an emotional reflex reaction like and this is oversharing.
I usually don't get this personal.

Speaker 2 (34:03):
But you don't have to know.

Speaker 6 (34:05):
The reason why I don't mind is because one it
was years ago, my daughter has grown now. And the
other thing is that I don't mind sharing because I
want other people to learn from mistakes and things that
I've been through on both sides. You know what I
mean and understand just how to move like I want
better for black couples and parents in general. Right, So
sometimes we got to share.

Speaker 2 (34:26):
Right.

Speaker 6 (34:27):
So this was a case where my child was one
years old and I was doing a house party on
New Year's Eve, had a house party. Baby Mama showed up.
She was not I didn't invite her. We weren't dating

(34:48):
or anything, you know what I mean. And she showed up.
I was like, oh, I was surprised, but I was welcoming,
and I was like, oh yeah, set her up and
the baby was in the crib. Yes, at the house,
and she was too, Yes, totally, It's just not something
that you do. But regardless, I was like, all right,
I'm ma.

Speaker 2 (35:08):
Sure about one of our parties.

Speaker 6 (35:09):
Yes, one of the huge parties that each had in
the crib right New Year's Eve too, So I'm like,
carved out of space, made sure she was comfortable this
and the third she left maybe like an hour later
because and I don't know this verbally, but I feel
like she left because I wasn't giving her enough attention.

(35:32):
Mind you, I'm having a house party that I'm putting together,
cleaning up for DJing, setting up, and I'm hosting and
talking to people. So and also mind you, like we're
not like boyfriend and girlfriend, you know what I mean.
So it's like I don't understand what was expected, but
left with an attitude kind of like I came here

(35:54):
to probably accomplish some type of goal and make some
statement in front of you and all your friends, and
that wasn't accomplished. So left and then literally whenever the
courts was open. It wasn't New Year's Day. Maybe the
day after that. Two days later, I get a letter
in the mail to show up a family court. That
was why I went to family court. I had nothing
to do with money. It was clearly like, oh I

(36:14):
got an attitude, I'm mad about something. I'm taking you
to court, nigga, you know what I mean. So that's
why I'm like, it wasn't about money. It wasn't that
I wasn't doing anything as a parent role. It was
an emotional reaction.

Speaker 2 (36:25):
She was young. I was young.

Speaker 6 (36:28):
I'm not gonna say that I didn't make mistakes and
I was the perfect nigga as well, you know what
I mean. So you know, I'm not gonna obviously she's
not here to tell her side of the story, but
I will say, like, sometimes a lot of men end
up in court and it's not about the dollar amount,
you know what I mean. And it's not about whether
he was actually there, willing and able and providing financially

(36:52):
for his child.

Speaker 2 (36:53):
You know. That goes into the damn clip that I
was talking about. That shit was really that was a
sadass yeah, we got to.

Speaker 5 (37:01):
Say some similar situations.

Speaker 2 (37:03):
Just please squid.

Speaker 5 (37:06):
Number.

Speaker 8 (37:06):
Are you asking the court to set your transport out today?

Speaker 11 (37:09):
Honestly, I'm not spiking to pay sport it all you
wanted the court to set it into zero?

Speaker 8 (37:14):
Yes, sir, okay, why do you? Why are you asking
for zero dollars?

Speaker 12 (37:22):
Because me and miss mc duffy fully cocuring.

Speaker 5 (37:24):
I fully get my son throughout the week, four days
after week.

Speaker 2 (37:27):
I'm fully I'm fully capable of responsible.

Speaker 8 (37:30):
Take care of him when they he's in my custody.

Speaker 2 (37:31):
She's as the same as well. So I don't understand
why the page sport won't want to speak when.

Speaker 13 (37:36):
I take it.

Speaker 8 (37:37):
She had them, she take care of them. When I
have them, I take care of them. She don't drop
them off for anything. I don't drop them off for anything,
and we will fully take care of them. So I
don't see why we have to pay extra. When when
did you and miss mcdof stop living together?

Speaker 12 (37:52):
I would say the beginning or the ending of March
of twenty twenty four?

Speaker 8 (37:57):
And since that time have you paid any money directly?
Did you, Miss McDuff Yes, how much I roughly made
gouts off my head four hundred dollars.

Speaker 4 (38:08):
Okay?

Speaker 11 (38:10):
Are you in agreement to the order containing a retroactive
child sport judgment against you after credit or you asked
them that? Did you be ordered to pay zero dollars
in back shot support?

Speaker 2 (38:20):
Hey?

Speaker 8 (38:20):
Zero and back shot sport? Okay?

Speaker 12 (38:22):
Can you tell the court why I won't understand why
I'll be baying back shot support because we were only
been split.

Speaker 2 (38:29):
For a year before then, I was paying the grand
the bills.

Speaker 7 (38:32):
We were both taking care of the kids, who was
no problem.

Speaker 12 (38:34):
We wanna be split for a year and I still
get my kid four days.

Speaker 8 (38:37):
After the weekend.

Speaker 2 (38:38):
I'm fully taking care of my kid.

Speaker 12 (38:39):
Wing using my care, and she's fully take care of
once she used in his care.

Speaker 8 (38:44):
Okay, And right now you're seeing the child.

Speaker 2 (38:48):
At least at least four. I would get on Thursday
afternoon and drop them all for Monday afternoon.

Speaker 11 (38:56):
Do you have any safety concerns, mister Box with miss
McDuff knowing your address.

Speaker 8 (39:00):
No, No, I'm sorry, past the witness judge, then I.

Speaker 13 (39:07):
Will accept the agreed portions of this order, make the
agreed portions the order of the court. I will order
child support A four hundred and twenty nine dollars per month.
I will order a retroactive child support judgment of five thousand,
four hundred dollars.

Speaker 2 (39:23):
That's crazy. What now.

Speaker 13 (39:28):
Order that paid at ninety dollars per month?

Speaker 8 (39:31):
Order court costs as.

Speaker 13 (39:32):
Bill anything further, mister dell the exchange location.

Speaker 2 (39:38):
Sir, that's fucked thirty.

Speaker 5 (39:41):
That judge is fucked up.

Speaker 2 (39:45):
Like what part of joint custody does she not understand? Son? Yeah, joint?
That baby live here Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday and Monday.
That baby is here longer than it's at home. It's
only there Monday night, Tuesday night and Wednesday night and

(40:06):
Thursday morning go to school. Yeah, and they couldn't they
get picked up Thursday. I ain't have primary because of
his child? Why my big child support? No sense?

Speaker 4 (40:16):
You remember rememberhen I told you to her that I
had a friend out that I wanted to come on
the show that had a situation like this. Yeah, he
has been dealing with this situation. And when he when that,
when he had that meeting with the judge years ago,
he was back long like fifteen thousand in child support
when he lived with the kid.

Speaker 2 (40:33):
That's why I want him to compere.

Speaker 4 (40:34):
That's why I wanted to talk to you guys, because that,
like I've seen that, bro, that that is.

Speaker 2 (40:41):
Nut situation. Nuts nut situations.

Speaker 5 (40:44):
To may made for us or we just don't know
the system well enough.

Speaker 3 (40:47):
No, a final final clip to get out of here
has to do with this, but it's more has to
do with what we saw in our childhood that defined
how we show up in fatherhood, right, Because it's crazy that,

(41:12):
see Trump, you grew up in this situation where both
your parents are there, older brother, older brother's married, parents married,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (41:20):
So you've had great examples.

Speaker 3 (41:22):
Somehow this wind up situation still still winds up happening.
Right Me, I didn't have father like that, Like I
seen him and he was married over there. I didn't
spent too much time with him over there, but I
still wind up in broken situations. Drew, I don't know
what your situations was like. As far as growing up.

Speaker 5 (41:40):
My father was around not that much. By the time
I got to high school, I was definitely coming to
Queen's a lot to spend time with him. So probably
in my teens I spent a lot of time long
more time.

Speaker 2 (41:51):
Yeah, what changed I just got older.

Speaker 5 (41:57):
No, just he just invited me. I'm like, all right, cool,
went down there. I met my cousins I ain't seeing. Yeah,
my brother, everybody on his side of the family. And
it was just a fun time. So every summer for
a week or two, I just go down to Queens
and when I called my brother, they'll come down, hang
out with me, take me out.

Speaker 2 (42:16):
Did he show up to the wedding my father?

Speaker 5 (42:18):
No, No, he cann't afford to.

Speaker 3 (42:20):
Oh, okay, I remember when for me, when when I
was growing, when I have my kids. The reason I'm
bringing this up is pretending what you just said. Right
from zero to like seven, maybe zero to five, it's

(42:42):
like they these little fucking babies. Then they start talking
to you and being real and expressing themselves and they
become a person. Like somewhere around that age is when
for me, I started bonding with the kids more like
the baby era.

Speaker 2 (42:58):
I was in the street that didn't you know what
I mean. It wasn't until like Daddy this, and Daddy
can you get me that?

Speaker 3 (43:04):
And Daddy's like, oh, you'd be one ship you like
you you know what you want and you know what
you like, and oh ship you got a whole personality.
It was something from me more to bond to at
that point. Maybe that's the same thing that happened with
your dad when he was young. You know, I'm kind
of I'm the same way with my kid. Like now

(43:24):
that my kids a little older, I'm like hanging out
with her a lot more. She's finally getting into her
own personality.

Speaker 2 (43:30):
It was like, it's mad dope those younger years. It's
like your mother, you're like milk and ship. I'm lactose
and you and her side of the family. Okay, let
me play this last clip and get the hell up
out of here. Where is it?

Speaker 6 (43:52):
How has your experience as a son informed your.

Speaker 2 (43:58):
Lifestyle as a dad? Sheesh? Anybody throw it up? Who first?

Speaker 12 (44:05):
I started? If I came, and of course actually is brief.
Mine actually got me in a lot of trouble, right,
I misperceived the relationship that my dad had when I
was coming up, the relationship between my dad and my mom.

Speaker 2 (44:21):
My parents were divorced. Coming my dad appeared to have
free rank.

Speaker 12 (44:24):
My mother was like these your kids, right, we were
raised with her, but he was able to move around.
As he took care of school, he showed up whenever
he wanted to write. My mother was clear about him
having a green life.

Speaker 2 (44:35):
When I got.

Speaker 12 (44:36):
Divorced, I sort of had that mindset, like, you know,
these are my kids.

Speaker 2 (44:39):
I'll be when they be right. I want to be
an active father, although I'm not with the mother.

Speaker 12 (44:45):
And unfortunately my ex wife was not like my mother,
so she was like, nah, bro, your weekends Wednesday, don't
be pulling up. Let me know when you're at their assemblies.
And because my imatuity and my arrogance and my hurt
didn't allow me to really work through that, I caused
myself some unnecessary challenges, unnecessary paperwork, and had to spend

(45:08):
time away from the kids.

Speaker 2 (45:09):
So wow, a restrainer order against So I asked, bitch
the fuck trump, I'm start with you.

Speaker 3 (45:26):
What did your childhood experience inform you about fatherhood and
were you able to bring that to fruition?

Speaker 2 (45:38):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 6 (45:41):
There's a couple of few things I should say. I
feel like I didn't really appreciate my parents until I
became a parent and I realized like how much they sacrificed,
Like you know, having a child and raising a child
and really being there is one of the most selfless
things you could do, you know what I mean, Like

(46:01):
you have to constantly sacrifice and think about your child's
well being in so many different ways. So it also
made me realize, like, you know, my pops isn't the
type where he like sat me down and we had
talks like you know, birds and bees or talk about

(46:23):
life and finances and shit like that. We never really
had no talks and shit. But I learned so much
from him just by observing, just by watching him, watching
the way he interacted with my mom, the way he
interacted with other people and people in the community. So
that helped me as a dad realize, like and back
what we was talking about with relationships, it's less about

(46:45):
what you say and it's about what you do, like
how you are as a human being, Like that's more
impactful in raising your kids. Just being a solid person,
being consistent, you know what I mean. I say, those
are the main things that I took from being a
son and help me be a dad for sure.

Speaker 3 (47:04):
And were you able to actualize in the lives or
your kids those values that you learn from.

Speaker 6 (47:12):
Oh yeah for sure, yeah, definitely. You know what, There's
one thing that I remember, I don't know if this
is a direct answer to the question, but this is
one thing that I distinctly remember about being a kid
where I was. I remember being like, I don't know
how old it was, maybe nine or ten, I might
even been a little older than that, but I remember thinking, like, yo,

(47:33):
my parents think I'm stupid, Like they don't give me
enough credit. Like I used to hate. When you ask
your parents to do something, they'd be like no, You'd
be like why because I told you so, you know
what I mean. So I get like, you don't owe
me an explanation. But I explained stuff to my daughters,
you know what I mean, because I want them to
understand what goes into making decisions and the reason why,

(47:58):
Like the why is important. I don't want to be
just an authoritarian because I want you to be able
to make decisions on your own one day. So I
want you to understand the why. I want you to
understand everything that goes into making decisions.

Speaker 2 (48:09):

Speaker 6 (48:10):
And it's not because I owe you an explanation. But
I remember being a kid and not liking that and
feeling like, yo, you don't adults don't give kids enough credit,
like yo, we we have, We could think and we
could feel things, and you know, like you could tell
me why you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (48:27):
Because I don't want to. That's why that's not gonna
be answer. That's gonna be a good answer.

Speaker 6 (48:32):
If because if I can understand, at some point you
gotta nip it in the butt. It ain't gonna be
no back and forth. You know, understand like, it ain't
gonna be no back and forth. But yeah, you could
give me You ever tell your doughter, I don't want to.
She was like, I want to get some ice cream.
You'll be like, no, I don't feel like.

Speaker 2 (48:49):
If i'm yeah, yeah, if I'm tired, Yeah.

Speaker 5 (48:52):
I've never said that. I can't.

Speaker 3 (48:54):
I feel like you're lying. Nigga, Nigga, she'd be running
your ass. She'd be running your as. You'll be like,
all right, give me a couple of minutes, we'll go later.
I'm doing this right now, and then we'll do that.
I guess I've seen you do it time after time.

Speaker 6 (49:10):
She'd be running. Is lying like yesterday is the way
you used to say. It's a repackaging. If I tell
you that, give me a couple of minutes, we're gonna
go later. That still means no, you know, that still
means I'm yeah, It still means it still means I'm tired.
It doesn't mean that I'm trying to be a mean dad, like, yeah,

(49:33):
you deserve ask me, but I'm not going to go
do it right now. I just don't have the capacity
to me right now.

Speaker 3 (49:39):
Drew going back to the original question, what had what
did your childhood experience? How did it inform you as
far as relating the fatherhood. What did you learn from
your childhood that informed you as a father, and were
you actually able to apply those lessons and did they work?

Speaker 5 (50:03):
I didn't get to apply to lessons later in the years, because.

Speaker 2 (50:07):
Which lessons are there? What lessons did you learn?

Speaker 5 (50:11):
I grew up very naive because my parents and my
family would hide like just family drama or just little
things like if they didn't have I knew we weren't rich,
but I knew we had just enough to pay the bills,
get food, just to get back. And I didn't understand
that until I was a lot older and I started

(50:34):
hanging over my father and he started telling me the
real deal on what's been going on. And with that
because I had my kid so early, I couldn't really
do nothing for her because I was seventeen, I ain't
had no job, I couldn't do anything for her. But
I think Parker's getting the better deal out of than
a Liah because I'm making more a lot more money

(50:56):
than I was. So I'm trying to catch up now
with a Leiah. But I'm working on it.

Speaker 2 (51:03):
But it's difficult. It is difficult, and.

Speaker 5 (51:06):
There's some things because I know my kid, I know
how she moves, I know how she acts, and there's
some things I still want to tell her, Like I'm
ready for the conversation to be dead real with her,
but I know she's not there yet, like I entered
along every now and then. But when I talk to her,
I I know she's not a stupid kid, and she

(51:27):
sees it. She says certain things. I'm like, okay, so
you so you get it. When you ready, we're gonna,
we're gonna, we're gonna talk. But with Parker, I'm just
real to her all the time.

Speaker 2 (51:38):
Do you think it's easier to be a stepdad than
it is to be a dad?

Speaker 5 (51:42):
Easier to being a Stepdad's shouldn't be a difference. You're
just a father.

Speaker 2 (51:46):
You don't think there's a difference between. Is there a difference? Yes?

Speaker 5 (51:49):
Should there be a difference.

Speaker 2 (51:50):
Well maybe not for you because you're her father. She
doesn't have a dad. She isn't right, so you're you're
the one. They're the apex.

Speaker 5 (52:01):
So talking about in a situation where if the father
was around, Yeah, it would be a lot different. I'd
probably have I'd probably talk to him about certain things first,
but Heyo, your kid did this? Or have Dodge talk
to him, Like, Hey, you gotta talk to your kid
because I can't talk. I'm gona step that, like I
said a little bit, but like I need you to
reinforce it because you got to spend just as much time.

Speaker 2 (52:22):
But yeah, for me, it's easier to be in a stepdad.

Speaker 5 (52:26):
I think it's harder. I think it's harder.

Speaker 3 (52:29):
So I think I get to be their friend more
than the authoritative. I don't have to be the.

Speaker 5 (52:36):
But what happens when you're the only one there that
have to be authoritative? They don't.

Speaker 3 (52:39):
I'm just the older one and they listen to me
because the authority is there. But I have this relationship
with them where I'm not like like saying, my son
and somebody, and my son's like, real quick, before you
go into your sertain scenario when they get in trouble
at home, I'm going to call your dad right to kids,
Uh my, OK. So they're already the mother doesn't have

(53:05):
that presence that I have.

Speaker 2 (53:07):
Which means I'm always that dark cloud.

Speaker 3 (53:10):
I'm always the one that has to come down on them,
where the mother is the home one, you know, lovey dovey,
and she can yell at them, but it's like us,
mom who cares?

Speaker 2 (53:19):
But Dad, no, don't call him right. He has this
this presence. He has to come here mad. Sometimes I
have to show up there when they're acting crazy with
the nanny. So there's this this I don't want to
say stigma, but it's like I'm the dark cloud, you

(53:39):
know what I'm saying. So it's hard to get rid
of that dark cloud.

Speaker 3 (53:42):
When it's time to have fun, they're looking at me like,
you know, that's the nigga that we always.

Speaker 2 (53:52):
Got to get in trouble with.

Speaker 14 (53:54):
You can't be out here just having fun with Baltimore.
This good time for you, you know what I'm saying.
But with her daughters, with my step daughters. They ain't
not worried about that. They don't have to worry about that.
So yeah, I can suggest, like, yo.

Speaker 3 (54:09):
Why don't we do this? Yo, you get in the kitchen,
the dishes. After that, we gonna get some ice cream whatever.
But there is no like or else I can see that.
You feel me, It's easier, it's more fun. Respectfully, I'm sorry.
I'm sorry kids. If y'all ever see this, I love y'all.
I'm not saying that y'all ain't fun. I'm just saying
y'all scared of me and them the other kids not Yamn,

(54:31):
that's tough.

Speaker 2 (54:32):
What are you gonna say?

Speaker 5 (54:34):
Well, I was gonna ask what would happen if I
don't know? She has girls?

Speaker 2 (54:38):
Right?

Speaker 5 (54:39):
So what if you walk in on them with boys
and they're not supposed to you're the authorit theory in there.
You can't beat their friend because with kids, like a
lot of times you ever heard when parents say, I'm
not yet one of your friends because you're talking to
me like I'm your friend, but I'm still an adult
at the end of the day. So like, they can
be your friend, but at some point you have to
be theitarian because.

Speaker 3 (55:00):
I mean, but there's a different context because they still
respect me as a man. So if I was to
walk in the crowd line, not more than they would
to anybody else.

Speaker 2 (55:11):
If I would say that right than there have been
times where it got testy, but that's what under the
bridge things happen, whatever conversations. If I was to walk
in and they was with guys, I got to put
the foot down, right, just because this is wrong, and
because you little niggas is around two people that I
care about, that's when all of that other friendship shit

(55:34):
goes out the window. Right.

Speaker 3 (55:35):
But once the niggas leave, they're gonna have a conversation
with me. We're gonna have a real nigga conversation as friends,
as parent, as step parent, as a scared nigga that
knows what these niggas are gonna do is up to
you know what I'm saying, and knows what's going on
in y'all bodies, because y'all probably invited them over here
and told them it was gonna be okay, you know

(55:55):
what I'm saying. So there's a conversation that I think
I've built a bridge for us to have that I
guarantee you they're gonna listen to me more than they're
probably gonna listen to their mom or dad.

Speaker 5 (56:07):
But what's the difference between your sons and them that fear?

Speaker 2 (56:11):
Why?

Speaker 5 (56:12):
Why is it fear? Why they're afraid of you?

Speaker 3 (56:15):
Because I'm the one that, like I said, I'm the
one that gets called to put the punishments, like the
grim Reaper. You're not gonna sit with the Grim Reaper
and have a fucking dope ass conversation because you know
this nigga kills people. It's like, I know why you're here.
I don't really I'm waiting for you to hit me
with the scythe I'm just saying.

Speaker 5 (56:31):
Any think it should be a healthy balance, like yeah, like, oh,
don't make me called dad, but you should also know
Dad's fun when you're not getting in trouble.

Speaker 3 (56:38):
That's what we're trying to work on right now. It's
very difficult because they AUTISTICO. Yeah, you know, I figured
that was part of it. That's very difficult because once
they get a feeling, it's like bread. One of them
never ate bread after the first time he ate bread. Really,
he just put it in his mouth and just hold
it there for like seven hours. Won't eat it. He
just never liked the texture of it. And we didn't
realize this nigga was holding bread and his mouth.

Speaker 2 (57:00):
He was just not eating it. Would just be in
his mouth and just look at you like you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (57:06):
Then you go talk to the nigga and he got
fucking bread on his tongue and in his mouth.

Speaker 2 (57:10):
He nigga ate it, never ate it. But he was
scared to you know what I'm saying to tell you
they wasn't gonna eat it. Stuff in his mouth. You
und say what I'm saying. So that's what they when
they get into that thing. That's it. That's it. That's
the way it is.

Speaker 3 (57:22):
You feel me, So you just gotta imagine me trying
to break them out of feeling that way once they
started feeling like, oh, this is the person that we
get in trouble by.

Speaker 2 (57:32):
Do you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (57:34):
So if was the same thing.

Speaker 3 (57:36):
With Dnay, Yeah, no, Dnay, it wasn't the same thing.
They of course, I think Daddy's little girl is a thing,
and I think that do.

Speaker 5 (57:45):
You never how to put you I mean, I'm sure
sure you had to put your.

Speaker 2 (57:47):
Foot oyah beat her one time, but that ship, nigga
ain't gonna lie to you.

Speaker 3 (57:51):
That was the same way they tell you. That shit
hurt me more than hurt them hurt her. That shit
broke my fucking heart.

Speaker 2 (57:57):
Nigga. I came up here and collapsed, like I feel
in my.

Speaker 3 (58:01):
Stomach right now. That one time I came up here
and was like, nah, I.

Speaker 10 (58:07):
Can't nah, I can't do that no more.

Speaker 3 (58:11):
Which is why I started getting creative with my punishments.
She still got in trouble, but my punishments became, Okay,
all your fashionable clothes, give me all that, give me
all that, and go to fucking Cookies downtown to get
her uniform.

Speaker 2 (58:23):
Now you're going to school in your uniform, and you
got to wear these shoes with the stockings.

Speaker 3 (58:26):
Yeah, go wear that around your friends since they care
about you, care about what they think so much.

Speaker 2 (58:30):
Now we're gonna break that. You go to school with that, and.

Speaker 3 (58:31):
I'm coming to pick you up, and I'm coming to
send your class, so we're gonna see you ain't gonna
duck this. Now punishment gets a little deeper where it's
not corporal.

Speaker 2 (58:40):

Speaker 3 (58:41):
But it was it was different and to this day
she appreciates that ship. To this day, she appreciates that,
you know what I mean. So it was different and
you're dance. You know my mom, I don't know how
well you know her. Have you ever seen her go balistic?
Not ballistic? But I've seen that get a little nah ballistic,
and I haven't seen you know.

Speaker 5 (59:02):
My father is still scared of my mother to this day.
He's dead ass afraid of her. She five two little
grimlin athletes women.

Speaker 2 (59:11):
So, and I'm sure you've seen my mom's home because
your mom's just a firecracker.

Speaker 5 (59:18):
She's always I'm the same with my mother, like like,
I respect my mother like my sister. She will curse
in front of my mother, crazy me. I'll say, little little,
but I'm still very respectful, respectful to my mother. I
don't I don't play with that, lady. Bro.

Speaker 2 (59:33):
Something about mothers, Broy, It's something about mothers.

Speaker 8 (59:35):
Bro.

Speaker 3 (59:37):
All right, I'm gonna let y'all get the hell out
of here. This was a great episode. Step parent, way easier.

Speaker 2 (59:43):
I'm the cool mom, less stressed exactly, Dosh, I'm the
cool one. I'm the cool one. I don't have the sure.

Speaker 5 (59:50):
That they had to step up.

Speaker 2 (59:51):
That's why she don't think she had to step up
with you, not really, because she has the mother. Probably
don't have a father, but she do. You know, I'm.

Speaker 5 (01:00:00):
Talking about biological like.

Speaker 3 (01:00:02):
She doesn't have a step dad. You don't understand that.
She looks at you as dad like my step kids have.

Speaker 5 (01:00:10):
But that's what I say. It's hard. It's not harder.
I mean, that's why I say it's harder to be
a stepparent.

Speaker 2 (01:00:15):
Yeah, it's different for me, it's not.

Speaker 5 (01:00:19):
No matter what way you look at it. I'm technically
a step back the father because that's not my biological child,
no matter even because I've been there since she's one.
That's not my biological child. So I am still a
step parent, but I'm the main parent.

Speaker 2 (01:00:33):
I don't agree. I agree technically, but I don't because
you wake up, happens she looks at Dodge. I don't
get Parker. You might you're married now, yes, you just no, no, no,
it goes back to the dad.

Speaker 5 (01:00:48):
Back to the dad.

Speaker 2 (01:00:49):
First, Wait, is he on the certificate? No? But no,
no you can go to court.

Speaker 5 (01:00:55):
We can go to the court for it. But you
could fight for her, Yeah, I can. I can but
it'd be a fight. It'd be a fight.

Speaker 2 (01:01:00):
No, not really not really depends on the niggas.

Speaker 5 (01:01:03):
Not in the certificate, depends on the state.

Speaker 2 (01:01:05):
What is the what is the proof that he has?
I was about to say, like, how would that work?

Speaker 5 (01:01:10):
What chelse boy, he doesn't pay che but did the paperwork?
Still in so like if they look into it, I
don't know how.

Speaker 2 (01:01:16):
I want to say.

Speaker 4 (01:01:17):
That wouldn't even make sense because if she live with
you the whole time, that's like them uprooting her and
just putting it with a random person.

Speaker 2 (01:01:24):
Forgive a systems, don't give a Brooklyn niggas. We will
beat fire out that taking Parker Texas funk out of here, niggas.

Speaker 5 (01:01:36):
It wouldn't go to me first because.

Speaker 3 (01:01:37):
Sorry, gosh, he did something happen to you this time?
I had nothing to do with it. No, I'm just saying, like,
it's not happening. Don't even worry about it. I definitely, bro,
stop picking up my chell couch. It feels good, bro,
he does.

Speaker 2 (01:01:53):
This whole four hours.

Speaker 3 (01:01:54):
If you're gonna be on this couch the rooms, it's over, brogs.

Speaker 6 (01:01:59):
But I need to do over. I did it once
at the beach. But we were leaving the beach.

Speaker 2 (01:02:05):
And we're supposed to go that's right, you had to
drive driving.

Speaker 6 (01:02:09):
And then there was a one of my friends had
a domestic violence incident, and everybody's.

Speaker 2 (01:02:14):
Hired laughing as hell, been laughing. You need to be
beating her. I was supposed to, but I knew that
y'all was having all night. I felt like I felt
been a night. Huh would have been? That would have been?

Speaker 9 (01:02:32):
Right?

Speaker 2 (01:02:33):
I got, yeah, we do.

Speaker 3 (01:02:34):
But the thing is is that that night we did,
we went to a bachelor party.

Speaker 2 (01:02:39):
Right. The bachelor party was us.

Speaker 3 (01:02:41):
Me and him, Greg never Chills, Dave, Dave and so
Coco Bongo is like this performance set with all it's
fake performances of all the famous artists from the past.
Kiss Michael Jackson, Mulan Rouge, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:03:05):
Ship like that.

Speaker 3 (01:03:06):
So you know you've got main performances like seriously, you
got people spinning in the air, flying, singing, the whole orchestra,
everything saloons everywhere.

Speaker 2 (01:03:15):
She was nuts.

Speaker 3 (01:03:17):
And then you got these waitresses that are going coming
around basically trying to get you to drink their mama wana.

Speaker 2 (01:03:25):
They not even give you mama wan right.

Speaker 3 (01:03:28):
But they get you to drink the shots and then
they feel up on you and they bounce on your
butt and they do all of this ships to tweak it,
nipples and ship. These niggas start asking these but just
how much.

Speaker 5 (01:03:45):
Kuan s?

Speaker 2 (01:03:52):
And they start talking numbers.

Speaker 3 (01:03:54):
The waitresses freak and we're not even in so I
saw we in a whole We impumped the kind of
like bab bro. I had no idea that women was
over for sale over there.

Speaker 2 (01:04:03):
Too, like whatever they was with whatever.

Speaker 3 (01:04:07):
This other one comes around though, she looked like the
nicest girl in the world, bro, except she got a
fat ole, but pretty chinky sorry chinky. I I was
supposed to say that they were right, dope eyes, fat booty,
dark skinned, one shade dark too, just like this real
chocolate ass skin. Right, this nigga falls in love. You

(01:04:29):
could tell by the way he looking. He's like looking up.
He like, yeah, this nigga, right, you know, Greg loud mouth.
He speaks Spanish, one of the West. You know what
I'm saying, Little humpy humpy.

Speaker 2 (01:04:46):
She look over. She like lit humpy humpy. We five hundred.
We was like American American dollars we're talking about these
COVID prices, Like, how the fuck we was paying fifteen
dollars last time we was here, motherfucker. You know what

(01:05:07):
I'm saying, I do a teriff on them. We were
paying fifteen dollars last time we was here. How the fuck?
You know what I mean? Here, this nigga calls dogh yo.
You text her asking her to pay the fifty five hundred.
I told her nothing about this. You did, Oh, yes

(01:05:29):
you did. And you told me that night. You told
me that night you must have been that drunk. You
was like Dodge told me to pay her.

Speaker 5 (01:05:35):
No, no, not five.

Speaker 2 (01:05:38):
Yes, you told me that night, Dodge told me to
pay her, No, not five. I got him, not five.

Speaker 5 (01:05:44):
I'll probably don't tell her the price, Yes you did.
I didn't tell her the price. I could not tell
her the price because five hundred was ridiculous.

Speaker 2 (01:05:50):
I would never but you wasn't. You wasn't paying it,
five hundred, was paying it.

Speaker 3 (01:05:56):
But she dodgers like yeah paid Apparently dodgers like get
her or something. I don't know what the hell, because
whether you remember it or not.

Speaker 5 (01:06:04):
You said she I didn't tell her the price. I
just I just hyped that bitch up like y'all regardless,
I totally I fell in love for like ten minutes.

Speaker 2 (01:06:12):
Bro, I can't get over that price. Five. That's the
last and dr it's the terriff, it's the terror. I
ten thousand paces, Bro, You've lived for a year over
there after, at least a month or two. Bro. I'm
telling you, Bro, we was paying trump. Was it fifteen dollars?

(01:06:33):
It was ten years ago.

Speaker 6 (01:06:34):
It was more than that. No, fifteen dollars ago you
was getting deal. It wasn't fifteen so much, was it.
It wasn't over one hundred.

Speaker 2 (01:06:43):
I ain't paying no one hundred, That's what I'm saying.
It was not over one hundred.

Speaker 5 (01:06:46):
I've heard stories about forty sixty eighty. Yeah, five hundred.

Speaker 2 (01:06:54):
Fifteen dollars. I worked away, so twenty five dollars.

Speaker 3 (01:06:58):
That's crazy, And once you get to thirty, it's like,
all right, you scamming, come on, don't do that.

Speaker 5 (01:07:05):
I realized everybody upsold on. Yeah, everything everything was upsold in.
Everything was the US.

Speaker 2 (01:07:13):
One day, I'm going back to sasue it just to
look and see what I have, Yeah, just to see
what's going on like that.

Speaker 3 (01:07:18):
I have like young, young nigga eyes because I didn't
think I want you no more, not with those girls.

Speaker 2 (01:07:25):
I would go to Columbia though. I said.

Speaker 5 (01:07:26):
She gotta look like five hundred for me to water
pay something.

Speaker 2 (01:07:29):
I mean, you always have it, yea five hundreds, you
got it.

Speaker 6 (01:07:33):
It's like sopped to five hundred.

Speaker 2 (01:07:38):
She wasn't trying to negotiate. I wasn't trying to hear it. Yeah, no, no, no,
we wasn't. Niggas don't negotiation, all right, But anyway, great episode, y'all.
I was just gonna kick my ass when I see her.

Speaker 5 (01:07:51):
No, it wasn't that bad.

Speaker 3 (01:07:52):
It wasn't to you. She gonna be like, yeah, you
have my nigga kill me off. Yeah, you killed him off,
then you had him kill me off.

Speaker 2 (01:08:07):
I don't want no problems. Dodger Belle. What you got
going on? What's life like? What you're looking forward to
in this next year? Marriage? A house? Bro?

Speaker 3 (01:08:17):
You're not scared for. I think I'm more scared of
getting the house than I am a marriage.

Speaker 2 (01:08:22):
Man.

Speaker 5 (01:08:22):
I've lived in the house my entire life, and Dodgemen living.

Speaker 2 (01:08:26):
In mortgage rates and ship like that.

Speaker 5 (01:08:27):
Oh yeah, that's the problem. But mortgage rates ain't. It's
not cheaper than rent. It's about the same, So I'd
rather have them.

Speaker 3 (01:08:36):
It's more expensive than rent. Depends on the house on
a seven hundred. Were you talk We had that conversation.

Speaker 5 (01:08:42):
But what's a down payment?

Speaker 2 (01:08:43):
What's even up to a buck on a seven hundred,
you're still paying over five thousand or high force, high force.
I probably would do.

Speaker 5 (01:08:51):
I probably would start off probably a four point fifty
four fifty.

Speaker 2 (01:08:55):
That's what you told me. Get a start at home.

Speaker 5 (01:08:56):
Started home.

Speaker 2 (01:08:56):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:08:57):
Yeah, let that equity build up.

Speaker 2 (01:08:59):
Those trial knows a game, Am I wrong? Trump?

Speaker 3 (01:09:04):
That's why you got to get with a rental property
in it to help you bring the mortgage down.

Speaker 2 (01:09:08):
So that the first thing.

Speaker 3 (01:09:11):
But then you gotta make sure you got somebody's going
to pay the rent and not getting your crib and
fuck you over because a couple of months are trying
to pay the rent while you're trying to get this
person out.

Speaker 2 (01:09:20):
I know people that trying to do that shit for
a year.

Speaker 5 (01:09:22):
Yeah, I know that ship is hell. I mean, it's
part of the business. It's entrepreneurship. Is you're gonna have
some ups and downs.

Speaker 3 (01:09:30):
So I'm just gonna call a bunch of niggas from
terrorize you, right, nigga, I'm not going about I'm not
gonna say that on this podcast to use it against me.

Speaker 6 (01:09:39):
But I know what you're about to say my sentiments exactly.
We're gonna get you out. Let me ask you this.
So you've been married like a week or two, doesn't
feel any any different? Like how do you feel.

Speaker 5 (01:09:49):
It's it don't feel different because we've been doing it
for two years. We've living together, we've been playing I
don't want to say playing house, but that's essentially we've
been playing house for two years. So there's actually no
change outside of the title from fiance to wife.

Speaker 6 (01:10:03):
Do you feel is there like some relief that you're married,
that like all the planning, the wedding and everything is
over with.

Speaker 5 (01:10:10):
Oh yes, oh my god. As much as I didn't
do anything, you still felt a lot of depression of
having to plant, having to make sure you got the
money for it and everything. But now that's done, I'm
just happy to be.

Speaker 6 (01:10:25):
Just funny how you was asking me, but you skipped
on this part, like what's up with your plans?

Speaker 2 (01:10:30):
Like, uh, do y'all have I.

Speaker 6 (01:10:34):
Know his plans, but you know he asked me, we
talked about you.

Speaker 5 (01:10:39):
You've been engaged for a decade.

Speaker 2 (01:10:42):
My whole life is revolving around getting married literally, right.
It's taking this relationship and our family and kind of
making it a real thing. But that starts with getting
the crib moving together, actually having a plan, you know
what I'm so that's a consistent conversation that keeps happening.

(01:11:03):
So we've been building. We've been building.

Speaker 3 (01:11:05):
You know that we've been building that we really have
saved up so much bread.

Speaker 2 (01:11:09):
But now it's also while with.

Speaker 3 (01:11:10):
The saving, going on paying down the credit, then doing
the research to make the right decisions. And it's so
hard for me because I'm most always in the crib.
I'm always working whatever, right, I don't really have a
financial planner as somebody that can go over finances with me,
go over the plan that I want for the next
five ten years and.

Speaker 2 (01:11:31):
Say, okay, these are the moves that you need to make. Right.

Speaker 3 (01:11:33):
So because of that, and because I we consider myself
the leader in this, it's scary because I don't want
to make the wrong move for the tax guide.

Speaker 5 (01:11:44):
The accountant should be able to help you that because they.

Speaker 2 (01:11:47):
La is great for what he's good for.

Speaker 3 (01:11:49):
You need somebody that's good at this type of shit.

Speaker 5 (01:11:53):
I don't know because most I don't remember what the
term is, but I know most accountants are also financial
advice that they can tell you, you know, all of that.

Speaker 6 (01:12:02):
And yeah, respectfully, he's too rich financial okay, but yeah,
he's he's a genius when it comes to doing the numbers.
But he's just not the person that you know, we
would like him to be like him, to be the
person that could just set us up financially all things financial,

(01:12:23):
but it's just not him. He's a wizard with the numbers.
He could do your taxes.

Speaker 3 (01:12:27):
You know what I'm saying that I need that I
need somebody I can sit down and say, this is
my plans, this is what we have, How do we
get to this level? What are the moves that we
need to make on the next year, two years, three years?
You know what I'm saying. And Dodge, if you're in
here talking about Greg Greg, she said.

Speaker 5 (01:12:43):
That, no, no, I thought about that.

Speaker 2 (01:12:45):
You're talking about.

Speaker 3 (01:12:46):
Greg was trying to hit me for five hundred a month,
And I was like, bro, I don't even have that
to get I don't know what you think this is,
but that's going against my financial plan.

Speaker 5 (01:12:55):
That yeah, that makes sense, I thought.

Speaker 2 (01:12:58):
I'm pretty sure he's really good at it. But I
don't have that to give you.

Speaker 3 (01:13:01):
I don't know what you think that I'm doing here,
But no, I don't have to give you to learn.
So that's what And I think that that's a lot
of black people problem. We don't know how. I think
the Jewish people share that ship in temple. They share
that shit behind the closed doors. They call, They make
calls for people today, people in higher offices, like.

Speaker 2 (01:13:20):
This needs to go through over here. Schools I don't
have that.

Speaker 5 (01:13:23):
A lot of their schools haven't. And as classes, Like
my kid goes to the same school I graduated from,
there was no financial literacy class. Now there is, but
thankfully she's taking them. But I had no idea what
I was doing, you know what I'm saying. It was
no classes for it.

Speaker 3 (01:13:37):
And so I got people like Trum his fiance Ryo,
people like that who kind of give me advice, but
then all of their advice be a little different.

Speaker 2 (01:13:47):
And so now I don't even know where to move
with that So what do I do?

Speaker 3 (01:13:51):
Work harder, save more, try not to spend, Like I'm
still doing these same things.

Speaker 2 (01:13:57):
But that's my issue because once we.

Speaker 3 (01:14:00):
Have that I had the crib, we put the furniture,
and the kids got their rooms and shit like that,
then we go to the next step of celebrating what
we've built. But I don't want to do that now,
and she's still in the Bronx and I'm still in Brooklyn.

Speaker 2 (01:14:12):
It just it just feels weird.

Speaker 6 (01:14:14):
I feel you and I didn't mention this earlier, but yeah,
part of the reason why we haven't done it is,
you know, I said it was overwhelming, which it is,
but no, we live together, but it's overwhelming financially.

Speaker 2 (01:14:24):
That's the part that I left out.

Speaker 6 (01:14:25):
It's like, we want to have a wedding where it
doesn't look like we was cutting corners, but we also
don't want to spend sixty dollars on the wedding at corners.

Speaker 5 (01:14:36):
But it wouldn't look like it on our wedding.

Speaker 6 (01:14:37):
Okay, because I've been the weddings where they cut corners,
Like damn, No, dinner like this is it, you.

Speaker 2 (01:14:44):
Know what I mean? Like just we had dinner, dinner, yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:14:48):
But again it's a destination wedding. It's a lot easier
on your budget destination wedding. I've literally been hundreds of weddings,
so I know I've done the math on it. But
it's like, you know, unless it's a destination wedding, looking
at like fifty grand, easy, yeah, and it's like it's
just not a good financial decision to tell those points,

(01:15:09):
like we got other things that's a higher priority, like
you know we need to do.

Speaker 5 (01:15:13):
Who says y'all have to celebrate it? Why can't y'all
just go down to the courthouse, spend the twenty five dollars,
get married.

Speaker 2 (01:15:18):
And to that.

Speaker 5 (01:15:19):
We don't have to do that.

Speaker 6 (01:15:20):
To your point, we'll circle back to that and just
do that. The original plan was to do that and
then playing playing the playing the party shortly after, so
without the budget and they even you know the wherewithal
the playing the party, we didn't even do the first part.

Speaker 2 (01:15:36):
But to skip all that. Man, y'all want to go home?

Speaker 4 (01:15:40):
Yeah, everybody say, yeah, don't look at me, bro, it's you.

Speaker 2 (01:15:46):
Everybody said that. You know this nigga left my water
on for twelve hours? What you mean, I don't even,
but I probably left us enough to follo. He's the
last person when I left here yesterday. He's in the bathroom.
I go, I did, I did. I talked to my mother, right,
I leave, go to the Bronx. This is eight o'clock.

(01:16:09):
I come home from work at nine thirty. As soon
as I walk in, I hit a water running. The
water is at full power in the sink, and the
nigga has the nerve to say, I don't even think
I did that.

Speaker 5 (01:16:26):
So the water bill's coming out of your check this sun.

Speaker 3 (01:16:28):
The water was all blabteen and a half hours, no hot, hot,
So now my gas bill is going to be up
from having to keep warming up the water all night. Right,
because this nigga has to rush out the crib every
time the show's over.

Speaker 2 (01:16:49):
He's got didn't even turn off the face I was
in the bathroom. That doesn't even make it even make sense.

Speaker 3 (01:16:54):
You had to pee and then you had to go,
but you was going before hours going, So how did
I rush? Bro Listen, I don't really don't feel like
you left the water on thirty a half. Probably I
should be able to come up with whatever story I wanted.
Why why are you finding some way to argue with me.
This is what I'm talking about.

Speaker 2 (01:17:12):
This is ship the cheeks. Do you tell him you
had an issue? Oh no, but you what did I
say to you initially? I don't care.

Speaker 3 (01:17:19):
You're paying the gas and the water bill the same.

Speaker 6 (01:17:23):
Way as yesterday. I might be Listen, I might be
guilty of what you accused me of, But don't try
to throw extra ship into the story like you just
start throwing I didn't do all the others you're talking about.

Speaker 2 (01:17:36):
He did. I didn't rush out of here.

Speaker 3 (01:17:41):
Yeah, thank you for pulling it up man, Yo Trump yesterday,
Drew Dodge, thank you for lending us your husband.

Speaker 2 (01:17:49):
You can have him back now. Congratulations Drew.

Speaker 3 (01:17:53):
Honestly, one of the biggest honors of my life was
being in your wedding, bro and being there for you,
with you the whole time, Bro, Like really felt bonded
to you.

Speaker 2 (01:18:01):
You know what I'm saying. You can You don't have
to be like in New Jersey all the time, you
know what I'm saying. Got a place to hang.

Speaker 3 (01:18:09):
Out, well, not really here, but matter of fact, I'm
a proper and in fact, just wait till I get
a crib.

Speaker 2 (01:18:14):
Then you can come to my can, come to your crib.

Speaker 3 (01:18:16):
You know what I'm saying. We get into Jersey. She
told me, I don't have to move to Connecticut. No war,
she says, She's good on that.

Speaker 2 (01:18:22):
We're good.

Speaker 3 (01:18:23):
So now we can figure out a place possibly in Jersey, possible.
You know what I'm saying, starts baby steps.

Speaker 2 (01:18:31):
Oh, nigga, that was that was haunted, living like that
ship was haunted.

Speaker 5 (01:18:36):
Nothing good about Connecticut. That's nothing, Bro.

Speaker 2 (01:18:39):
That was a fork in the road of the whole situation.
I was like, Bro, I'm not moving to Connecticut. I'm not.
I'm not a team do yeah. The sun, that's horrible.
The Connecticut son. I don't even know what Connecticut son
looks like. I never want to see a Connecticut.

Speaker 5 (01:18:58):
Son and Connecticut had a son.

Speaker 3 (01:19:00):
I'm going to Connecticut night. You go to the fucking
casino like that. I don't want to see it in
the daytime. The Connecticut Sun. Are you trying to push
on us? It's so shameless. I'm out here, bro, Thank
you man.

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