She Ate I Fear.. Feat @IamDavida.D (Part One)

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
If you know what I'm saying, so so shameless, if
you know what I'm sitting, dude, so shameless, if you
know what I'm saying, so shamous, so shameless, so.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
So so shameless.

Speaker 3 (00:24):
If you know what I'm saying, so.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Shameless, if you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if
you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
So shamous, It is bro it don't take long.

Speaker 2 (00:47):
The energy straight off something you could.

Speaker 3 (00:49):
Tell by from where she goes O, Hey, yeah.

Speaker 4 (00:56):
I don't gotch sh so as I walk up see you,
you know you're just like, oh, so you're funny, Okay.

Speaker 3 (01:02):
I don't like the way she walked in here. It's
just something about her.

Speaker 4 (01:06):
I don't like it, like it was something my energy
was a yeah. But I think that I think that's
a great thing because like, when you're a good person, right,
you try to be very intentional about how you introduce
yourself to a space.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
So like for me, I hate being late.

Speaker 4 (01:19):
I hate that ship like that shiit like it brings
me so much anxiety and one time fuk out of here.
One time I'm like, I gotta get there. I gotta
get there like him.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
I'm like, I'm so sorry.

Speaker 4 (01:34):
Like I'm just like I have to I have to
bring the right energy because I don't want to come
in like I'm an hour.

Speaker 3 (01:40):
Late forty five, she said. She pressed, remember you said
you could be here four. She's like, no, it has
to be three thirds. Like I'm a teacher.

Speaker 4 (01:50):
I'm not a teacher, don't I'm elevated. Respect my title,
my title, Respect my own. What is my What is
my title?

Speaker 3 (01:59):
I talked the thing of English and history.

Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yes, I am admin, motherfucker. That means a lot. It
means a lot. I was in the trenches.

Speaker 3 (02:09):
She's in the schools. Whatever it is.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
I was in the trenches for years. Okay, she still
show up. I told a lot of different grades. I
told we recorded fifth through eighth to.

Speaker 4 (02:21):
Fourth grade and at the hotel and seventh grade. And
now I'm admin for a fifth, sixth, seventh, and eighth
in middle school.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Oh that's amazing. I know you see you see how
you tried to It's really amazing. Really like I'm hurt,
on actually hurt.

Speaker 3 (02:36):
I tried.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
You tried to reduce me.

Speaker 3 (02:38):
Nigga. I spoke at your wedding and talked about when
he was a peon.

Speaker 2 (02:42):
A peon.

Speaker 3 (02:46):
She was just you at you was you was in
school safety. You was right above school safety. You was
right above. Didn't sit you at the front of the school.
They walk around school.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
I started all the school second as a para professional,
and this nigga just called me a pean.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
Shout out, told the parents, no disrespect yesterday, no disrespect yesterday.
Yesterday's a parent.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
Now right, you're gonna call your cousin a peons?

Speaker 4 (03:17):
Yay, you really called your whole I'm.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
Speaking to you. He caught a straight, He.

Speaker 4 (03:24):
Caught a straight that had nothing to do with that
was more than a straight. That was a straight shot guy.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
It wasn't aimed at him, That's all that matters.

Speaker 2 (03:29):
It was aimed at me. Yes, okay, hm hmmm.

Speaker 3 (03:33):
Speaking of you got married, I did you feel Are
we back to normal now? Have we gotten rid of
that year of I'm stressing. I'm stressing, I'm stressing, I'm stressing.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
I'm just I'm living in bliss. Every day is a
great day.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
I don't what is the great day?

Speaker 4 (03:55):
Yeah, Like, explain because you're looking really happy, you glowing,
tell us about it. I don't know I'm just like
happy all the time. I'm just like I don't I
have a husband. Now I can say my husband. I
was with my husband. I mean out with my husband.
It was my husband's birthday. Like my man, my me

(04:17):
and my man my husband.

Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yeah, oh, I love my He's so amazing. I'm so happy.

Speaker 3 (04:30):
Were you like that? So we have DaVita in the buildings.
What's your title? Let me introduce you correctly.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
Oh, the girl is d VDA D.

Speaker 4 (04:37):
She's the host, the comedian, producer, creative director. You know,
she's on a board for six schools and two centers.
That's why with you when it comes to that education.

Speaker 2 (04:48):
Hello. But you know, at the end of the day,
dvd D is the energy.

Speaker 5 (04:52):
Got it come on, you've.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
You gotta tap in between it to it and they
are gonna such a great episode by myself last week.
It was so good.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
I heard it was amazing.

Speaker 3 (05:14):
It was pretty good.

Speaker 6 (05:14):
I heard it was good.

Speaker 3 (05:15):
Yeah, listen to.

Speaker 2 (05:18):
Listen to it. I have no interest.

Speaker 3 (05:21):
All that's fine. Vita d Do you know you have
been married before?

Speaker 4 (05:28):
Yes, I have, and I was not this giddy.

Speaker 2 (05:31):
I tell us a lot about my marriage at the beginning.

Speaker 4 (05:35):
At the beginning, I was happy, but not giddy, but
not giddy.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
Wow, it just I don't know.

Speaker 4 (05:42):
I think for me, I'm more I have a lot
of more masculine in me, like I have that, Okay,
Like I don't want the responsibility. I don't want you
don't have to be like, oh my wife, I'm here.
I'm happy like I got a kid for another person,

(06:02):
in another person like I wasn't.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
I was excited that I was in love, you know
what I mean? Like I love love.

Speaker 4 (06:10):
It was beautiful, don't get me wrong, had great experiences,
beautiful decade.

Speaker 2 (06:15):
Can't get it back.

Speaker 4 (06:16):
But it was just like after a while, I say
about that fifth year, that's when I was like, wow,
so is there anything else we do other than get up,
go to work, come home?

Speaker 2 (06:28):
Like I just you get I got bored. How long
were you together before you got married? Three years? Yeah?
I got bored. And I feel bad in saying that,
but no, what.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
So personality right, this matters? What's first of what's your son?
I'm alio, okay, controlling, controlling, very very confident, yes, very
me but not just you because y'all are great lovers
as well, but you're also entertainer yes, you're also an entertainer,
and it means you travel a lot. You're always on outside,

(07:00):
so coming home and having to be home I was
an it's kind of shut you down. So now you're
not as much present for your relationship.

Speaker 2 (07:11):
That's so true.

Speaker 3 (07:12):
That can be a big thing.

Speaker 2 (07:13):
That's why they left my assy.

Speaker 4 (07:18):
I got left like I was literally like, hey, listen,
I'm really proud of everything that you're doing, but this
next chapter of your life is for you, but it's
not for us.

Speaker 2 (07:30):
And I didn't have no I had no problem with that.

Speaker 4 (07:33):
I was definitely crushed because I had just got out
of that five year Okay, I was bored, but now
I'm like, oh I'm back. We're back at it, like
we found because somewhere along the line, you do lose
your rhythm, yeah you do. You lose your rhythm, and
a lot of people don't talk about that time when
you lose your rhythm and you start going separate directions
and your goals are different from my goals.

Speaker 2 (07:55):
And then I'm on like, let's travel.

Speaker 4 (07:58):
I'm going here, doing this, doing that, and you're more
and there are educators. So they were more like, okay, settled,
I'm ready to settle down, have a family, raised kids,
be in one spot, and I'm like, I'm ready to
see the world. So somewhere along the line where I started,
which was to raise a family and so forth on,

(08:18):
it just changed up because my career changed, My career
goals changed, so my personality change. And when that happens
and the person's not growing with you, y'all start to
grow apart. You still love each other, like, we still
talk to each other, We still happy birthday, married Christmas,
happy holidays.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
How you doing. Yeah, it wasn't anger.

Speaker 4 (08:37):
It was just Hey, reality is we have grown apart
and we're not growing together. And that's what that five
year checkup is really important to find out, Like are
you growing together, you're growing apart?

Speaker 2 (08:49):
What's your goals?

Speaker 4 (08:50):
When people do vision boards, are you doing a vision
board for you or are you doing a vision.

Speaker 2 (08:53):
Board for you and us?

Speaker 4 (08:56):
You have to have two vision boards because if you're
not with the person, you're losing the person.

Speaker 3 (09:02):
Yeah, that's just a lot. What would you do differently? Oh?

Speaker 4 (09:06):
Man?

Speaker 3 (09:08):
Know one? What you know now? No one?

Speaker 2 (09:09):
What I know now?

Speaker 4 (09:10):
What I would do differently is I would try to
balance it differently. I should have made home stable. Then
once home was stable, then I've been able to go
in and out and do what I want to do.
I started acting like a single person instead of a
person that was in a relationship. So I take my
responsibility one hundred percent.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
That accountability.

Speaker 4 (09:30):
Yeah, that's accountability. I'm very accountable for what I did
not do.

Speaker 3 (09:34):
I love that, Yeah, yes you do not love that? Yes,
I do not love that is Aquarius.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
He does not like opposite sign.

Speaker 3 (09:45):
Don't these people crazy?

Speaker 2 (09:49):
Yo, it's really nuts. Stray can't go to the movies
with your cousin.

Speaker 4 (09:54):
That was a whole thing. It's a lot going on here. Wow,
his family is not love Listen.

Speaker 3 (09:58):
I love y'all. I love everybody. As a matter of fact,
I enjoyed myself at Dodger's wedding so much that it
was destination.

Speaker 2 (10:09):
We were in Punta Khana for a week.

Speaker 3 (10:13):
I brought us a gift.

Speaker 2 (10:15):
I bought us a gift us against who's us?

Speaker 4 (10:19):
Me and you?

Speaker 3 (10:20):
Yeah, because the Vita can't partake.

Speaker 2 (10:23):
I can't partake. Where's a gift? Look at that face,
that face unchanged, that honeys.

Speaker 3 (10:34):
It's not it's not gift worthy.

Speaker 2 (10:38):
That's the bottle that they gave you in the hotel.

Speaker 3 (10:40):
Yeah, was it free?

Speaker 2 (10:42):
Yes? Where is the gift? Nigga? He said, I regift
the free gift? I am done.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
Why can't we? I bought it.

Speaker 2 (10:52):
Here, so you put it in your luggage for us.
I regive the free gift.

Speaker 3 (11:00):
But I'm not giving it to her.

Speaker 2 (11:01):
To give you of the freak.

Speaker 3 (11:04):
It's not for her yesterday.

Speaker 2 (11:08):
It's I'm giving you a sip of the freaking.

Speaker 3 (11:10):
Welcome back to.

Speaker 4 (11:13):
Everything about you, Joey, think about you was a joke,
like he said, you gotta take a shot. At this point,
I know what the it is because I drank it
in the room like we were supposed to.

Speaker 2 (11:28):
It's the.

Speaker 4 (11:30):
It's the here is the free get Okay, you got
to pull your own sorrows. You got to pull your
own sorrows Express.

Speaker 3 (11:43):
A matter of fact, Pineapple Express will be there. We go,
My man, my hold, my man, I have an issue.
Are you ready?

Speaker 2 (12:01):
I'm ready.

Speaker 4 (12:02):
I'm pour your troubles have Y'll be seen. Can I
get water so I can feel safe over here? Like dang, yeah, mad,
and I'm taking that your home.

Speaker 3 (12:20):
What the bottle?

Speaker 4 (12:21):
The free yes, free bottle, the free gift that was
for the wedding that he just gave back to Yo.

Speaker 2 (12:27):
This guy is really this. This guy is a guy.
Mind you. The last time that I was on this couch,
he was like, Yo, I was gonna get you flowers,
but I forgot.

Speaker 3 (12:36):
I brought you a bottle.

Speaker 2 (12:37):
You did not buy me.

Speaker 3 (12:38):
A bottle, all right, I brought you.

Speaker 2 (12:43):
You need to say, I carried a bottle. I traveled
travel bottle.

Speaker 4 (12:50):
So you you in your head like you really was like, Yo,
the hotel room gave us a free bottle of a
day hold eight, so where's the where's the wine?

Speaker 3 (12:59):
Wine?

Speaker 2 (13:00):
They gave you a bottle of wine too.

Speaker 3 (13:01):
We didn't have a bottle wine. That was only your
room you had.

Speaker 4 (13:05):
My God, thank you, I mean, but we both had
to bringing that tap water. Honey, I heard that saying, baby,
appreciate you.

Speaker 2 (13:16):
Cave about the brother in school.

Speaker 3 (13:17):
It was a great week out in put.

Speaker 4 (13:22):
Looking at this is why I love today because y'all
did have I know y'all had that bottle of wine.

Speaker 3 (13:28):
She's soppy now.

Speaker 2 (13:29):
She why let him bring me the free bottle.

Speaker 6 (13:33):
From it's nasty? It's nasty yo bottle for me?

Speaker 7 (13:39):
Why did she need to say it yeah.

Speaker 2 (13:43):
I was like, cars, Like, let me let me ask
you a question, Carlos, real quick.

Speaker 3 (13:47):
Why couldn't she just hold that down and tell me
when I got home to night? Yo, we did have
a bottle? Why did you need? This is what I'm
talking about with partnerships. There was no reason.

Speaker 2 (13:58):
She was trying to help you out. She was trying
to be like, do you remember don't you.

Speaker 6 (14:01):
Remember when she got under the bus?

Speaker 2 (14:07):
She don't have way underneath the bus. I know it
was on the table because it was on the table
in my room too.

Speaker 4 (14:12):
And if you had a butler and I had a butler,
I'm pretty sure we had the same ship going on.

Speaker 3 (14:16):
Well, at least I don't have to worry about her
being in my man, my man, my man.

Speaker 2 (14:19):
Type of girl because she don't like you.

Speaker 3 (14:22):
You ain't gotta worry about that over here.

Speaker 2 (14:24):
What did you do? Butler's, Yes, we have.

Speaker 3 (14:27):
Butler's what I would like to discuss today, because now
she opened up the door for me to be petty.
But I'm not gonna do that.

Speaker 6 (14:37):
Yeah, right, not going to no, no, no, no.

Speaker 3 (14:39):
I want to talk Cardi B. Last week I was
in here, I talked, Uh, what's the girl's name Remy
last week. I talked Megan last week. Of course I
had something to say about Cassie and Diddy, more Diddy
and Cassie because I ain't got no smoke for Cassie.
You know what I'm saying. It's horrible for that young lady.

(15:01):
You know what I'm saying. Shout out to her, and
hopefully this new chapter of her life is just more healing,
you know what I'm saying. So I kind of wish
that kind of healing for Cardi, though.

Speaker 2 (15:13):
I do too.

Speaker 3 (15:13):
Yeah, what do you think about party is in life
right now? All of this the life that she well
she's showing us, uh Stefan Diggs, the breakup with Offset,
the no album, the yelling on Twitter and yelling on Instagram,
and well.

Speaker 4 (15:34):
Carti I personally feel okay. So basically, what Carti is
going through is what I call the transitional phase. And
during this transitional phase, I think she needs to step
away from social media, if that makes sense, and just
focus on her and focus on her kids and just
healing literally healing. Her breakup with Offset is obviously very messy,

(15:59):
to the point when when you are getting quoted that
I wish a slow death, like she literally wished a
slow death on offset.

Speaker 2 (16:06):
Yeah she did. She was quoted that, don't let me
bring it up on my phone.

Speaker 3 (16:10):
No, you don't have to believe because the rans she
be going on is nuts at this point.

Speaker 4 (16:14):
Yeah, she's like, when you die but she died't say
I wish you dead, But she's like, when you die,
I wish you was slow deaf because he's asking for
our spousal which nasty work.

Speaker 3 (16:25):
That's what.

Speaker 2 (16:29):
Do you mean? All right?

Speaker 5 (16:32):
No?

Speaker 2 (16:32):
No, are you okay? All right? Let me know because
I don't know what's happening right now.

Speaker 4 (16:37):
But as i'm that, as I'm synthesizing this in my mind, right,
I am young in my twenties.

Speaker 2 (16:44):
About to blow up in the music industry.

Speaker 4 (16:46):
You are, amigos, You're already established in this industry. You
were established in this industry before I even got the
break that I needed in this industry, right, and you
already have several kids by someone else.

Speaker 2 (16:59):
I come in, we are now married, we're together. I
come in.

Speaker 3 (17:04):
I blow up.

Speaker 4 (17:05):
I am now this this this amazing her mom, And
you keep dumping more babies like you just like not
stay home, bitch, like baby, baby baby and the person
and the person that I don't Yeah.

Speaker 3 (17:20):
Definitely, it wasn't her hypersexual. No no, no, no, no.

Speaker 2 (17:24):
No no, not because she could have had kids.

Speaker 4 (17:26):
But if she was so hyper sexual, why did she
not have kids until she was married. She's very no, no, no,
I will say something about Cardi because I've been following
Cardy since before she was on Love and Hip Hop, Like,
she's always been very meticulous about the person that she's
with and what she does with herself. She got married,
she had babies by her husband. So now I'm home

(17:47):
with these kids. You're still outside, very much outside, you outside, cheating,
you outside, doing all the rest of this other shit.
Every time I try to get my shit together, and
then you want to come groveling back. Understand So now
because we are now broken up because you have violated
yet again, and then I break up to break up

(18:07):
with somebody.

Speaker 2 (18:08):
And get a divorce. Why you're pregnant? That ship means something.

Speaker 4 (18:12):
You had to really wild out and you gonna come
to me and say that I gotta pay you. When
there was a time that I was taking care of you,
these new kids and your old kids, like all of
them niggas was running around in my house. I went
from having no kids to having like seven kids overnight,
and I owe you.

Speaker 2 (18:31):
Bred as a man.

Speaker 8 (18:33):
How does that really like, how do you really feel
about that?

Speaker 3 (18:37):
Because that matters to attack my ego.

Speaker 2 (18:40):
Because it doesn't matter.

Speaker 3 (18:41):
It doesn't matter if it were and every woman in
here would be like.

Speaker 2 (18:48):
That's right, say that. It depends on the situation.

Speaker 4 (18:54):
But like that, from the way that I've synthesized this,
you a different type of bitch ass.

Speaker 3 (18:58):
Let me explain something before it passed the ball to
you to be right. For one, Carty is a willing
participant in all of those children. She also, like I said,
was hyper hyper sexual anytime during that relation, in that relationship.
All she's talking about in the second my man's day,
I'm good, I'm gonna do this like it was all

(19:19):
always social media, way more than we needed to know.
That's how it became what my problem with this is
CARDI lost herself in that relationship.

Speaker 4 (19:28):
Yes, that happens sometimes, especially when you're young in that
twenties and getting married.

Speaker 3 (19:33):
Can I finish a thought, no, because it's not to
be dumb. This is a why I gave her to kill.

Speaker 2 (19:41):
I didn't even and.

Speaker 4 (19:42):
This is why because he always the table.

Speaker 3 (19:51):
Murder or nothing side.

Speaker 4 (19:53):
I'm not saying I'm on her side. All I'm saying
is maybe she should sip it. Maybe it give you
a little clarity, but it will help you on the
same page you sip first.

Speaker 3 (20:03):
I did well. So my thing is you already kind
of pushed it towards Cardi being dumped in. That's not true.
She was all over that nigga, and she also he
was there for her during that whole time. Like you said,

(20:23):
he was already on I'm sure his resources were also
used to help her during that whole time. Why wouldn't
I need a part of that now that you're worth
all of this, My career ain't going all that. And
at the same time as me helping you, my career
stalled out so that could be brought up in court.
Am I saying that I would do this me personally? No?

(20:44):
Do I understand it as far as law, yeah, yes,
And that's not even my final point.

Speaker 4 (20:50):
I mean legally, if we're gonna go for law, legally,
she owed him absolutely nothing because he cheated.

Speaker 3 (20:58):
We don't know that, we do know that, we don't
know that, we know no proof, proof.

Speaker 2 (21:05):
She has to go to court for.

Speaker 3 (21:08):
Beating up that she assumed. We don't know.

Speaker 2 (21:12):
I'm just saying we don't know. I wasn't in the bedroom,
so like you said, we don't know, I don't know
that evidence.

Speaker 3 (21:19):
She's Spanish, she's Hispanic, and she's loud and possessive. We
don't know what the fuck happened.

Speaker 2 (21:25):
Damn, that was so stereotypical.

Speaker 3 (21:27):
No it wasn't. But we know these are true. They
will wile you up. They love hard, they will.

Speaker 2 (21:34):
But what I'm trying to say is back to.

Speaker 4 (21:36):
Cardi B girl, I'm gonna talk to you directly because
you know, the Latin community ain't gonna cancel me. It
ain't gonna come for me. I got some Latin people
in my life. I love you guys. You're all a
little crazy, but I do love y'all. I'm just gonna say, y'allo.

Speaker 3 (21:49):
She said it, she said it.

Speaker 2 (21:50):
They're very emotional there.

Speaker 3 (21:52):
That that's what they love hard.

Speaker 2 (21:55):
They love it hard, the hard wild right now.

Speaker 4 (22:00):
But I'm not going stereotype and say all Latinos just
like that they love so y'all just going to omit
her trinidadi inside, y'all, just went.

Speaker 3 (22:12):
Crazy.

Speaker 2 (22:14):
Imagine that.

Speaker 4 (22:17):
Imagine that mixture though, just think about that mixture. I
met somebody that was actually Dominican and Jamaican. That mixture
is of a mixture of aggressiveness, emotion. It's just culturally,
just culturally, that's how they are. I think in Cardi
b situation, she's very emotional. She needs the clock out,
she needs the clock out, she needs to go heal

(22:38):
herself because some of the things that she's saying emotion
out of her emotion is messing with her brand.

Speaker 2 (22:45):
Like you just got out of us looking at you know.

Speaker 4 (22:48):
I don't mean to say like this, but you went
from the strip of pole to the med Gala. Like
that's a big gap, honey, that's a huge, huge transformation.

Speaker 2 (22:57):
And if you were able to do that transformation.

Speaker 4 (23:00):
And imagine if you take all of that negative energy
that you got for offset and put it into positive
energy and put it towards you, Imagine where else you
can go. So instead of sitting here argument fight with
a man that you don't plan on getting back with,
instead of sitting here wishing him a slow death and
he's still the father of your.

Speaker 2 (23:16):
Beautiful kids, what you need to do is figure out.

Speaker 4 (23:18):
Okay, but this is how we're gonna co parent. I
don't even got to talk to you. Came pick up
your kids, drop them off. That's all it should be.
She shouldn't be on social media going off. We shouldn't
be a part of the fight in the arguments. This
is not our business and it's something that is you
emotionally are attached to that. We're now being attacked by
the trauma that you're going through.

Speaker 3 (23:38):
Cardi lost herself.

Speaker 4 (23:39):
Yeah, we want to see you win, Cardi. You made
us proud to go from Ale to mad Galla.

Speaker 3 (23:44):
Strip a pole, find a heinneken bottle and put it
back in her box. Remember who you.

Speaker 4 (23:49):
Are, Remember where you came from and how hard it
was for you to get where you at.

Speaker 6 (23:54):
What?

Speaker 2 (23:54):
What the fuck? That was a deep analogy, I know, girl,
But we're going to need.

Speaker 3 (23:59):
To go back to that, go back to naked walking
down hotel hallways.

Speaker 2 (24:04):
Was that she wasn't the mother of three kids?

Speaker 3 (24:07):
What I'm saying. What I'm saying is in the midst
of all this, in the midst of the Nikki beef,
in the midst all that she and the police, the stardom,
the fame, the wanting another album. She forgot who she
really really is and now she's lost and this hate
and all of that. That's to me, that's more of

(24:27):
a cry for help because she is lost right now
and I just really miss who she used to fucking be.
I think she does too. I think Cardi misses who
she used to be.

Speaker 4 (24:37):
I'm going to say something that men don't realize that
women do. We transform into greatness. We don't stay where
we used to be at I don't want to ever
somebody saying I want you to be who you used
to be, Then that means I'm complacent.

Speaker 2 (24:51):
That means I'm stuck. It means I'm not wronging.

Speaker 4 (24:54):
It means you're used to me being this and don't
want to see me excel up, And that means that
I'm on this fight by myself.

Speaker 2 (25:01):
I want to see Cardi not go back to the
strip of pole, but.

Speaker 4 (25:04):
Instead fall back and say, now, what do I do
next as a mature woman and a mother of three kids?
What do I do now to make my brand look
even better? You understand I'm.

Speaker 3 (25:17):
Saying little bit didn't necessarily physically stripper, But I.

Speaker 4 (25:22):
Mean, I know what you're doing remember where you came Yeah,
remember where you came from and worked it up.

Speaker 2 (25:29):
Yeah, you know, remember where you came from and how
hard you work.

Speaker 3 (25:33):
Thank you.

Speaker 4 (25:35):
Remember where you came from and how hard it took
you to get where you at. Like there's people that
used to say, oh, don't be a stripper, and strippers
it is and strippers of that, and they used to
have all this negative thing about you know, I hate
to say strippers. I'm gonna say exotic dances because some
of y'all are killing the game. Y'all up, okay, circus

(25:55):
on some of these girls, and god ish on some
of these girls on the poe.

Speaker 2 (26:01):
Yeah, Like pe Valley is coming back.

Speaker 4 (26:03):
It is a ready take. It is coming out. It's
being edited right now. And that's a little quick t.
I gave y'all me shouting out pe Valley like I
was on that sad.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
I'm like, Valley girls, get yes. I can't wait. Me
and my maybe in the house life.

Speaker 4 (26:22):
Yeah you hear that Valley already putting out your shout outs.

Speaker 3 (26:28):
It is what I said. So before I get into
my am I the asshole these my man, my man,
my man, my man. Woman.

Speaker 2 (26:39):
M hmmm, talk about me, m hmm.

Speaker 3 (26:42):
Is that a healthy way to be in a relationship,
especially when you're doing it on social media.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
I can speak for myself.

Speaker 4 (26:54):
I'm gonna let you go and I'm gonna just think
here and I'm gonna say what I need to say,
and I'm gonna.

Speaker 2 (26:59):
Speak for myself else.

Speaker 4 (27:00):
And the answer to that question is absolutely not, because
if a man is gonna do anything, he gonna fucking
embarrass you.

Speaker 2 (27:07):
Every time men are motherfucking and.

Speaker 4 (27:11):
They are embarrassing, are you not in mind like they
really are? But I think that the reason why I
can mind man, my.

Speaker 2 (27:21):
Man in peace.

Speaker 3 (27:22):
I'm not talking about you yet.

Speaker 4 (27:23):
No, I can only speak for like I said, I'm
only gonna speak for myself because my man, my man
is my best friend, my best friend, and our relationship
dynamics as it goes through its ebbs and flows, we
can have those real honest conversations about what we need.
If it's outside of the relationship, is inside of the relationship,
we are still very monogamoush So I con MyD man

(27:44):
my man all day because if you see my man
out with a bitch, I probably already know that that
bitch exists.

Speaker 3 (27:49):
Probably party right I'm ready, I'm listening list we got
him stuff say, because I'm sposed talking about this with
him tomorrow, all right. But he hit her up like YO,
just been talking about she wanted five hundred for me
to beat I'm not paying that. She's like, pay it.

(28:09):
She's in the hotel, sleep half sleep, ma pay it.
You want to get her? Go get herp I'm like, bro,
I'm like, yo, I don't know. He's like I don't know,
but I's telling me to pay it. I'm like, Yo,
this is crazy because I'm telling him to drop me off.
My wife ain't going for not let me out drop roll.

(28:32):
This was like, yo, did you get her?

Speaker 1 (28:34):
Like?

Speaker 3 (28:34):
Yo, what the funk about it?

Speaker 4 (28:35):
The next day it was lovely. He told me how
he fell in love with some little dark skin joy
and sh Yo, she was mad fire. I saw the video,
I said, he told he told me who she was.
He was like, Yo, it was a girl I fell
in love with for a couple of seconds in the club.
I said really.

Speaker 2 (28:48):
He was like, yeah, she was at Chocolate Dominican thing.
I said, ah, I cool.

Speaker 4 (28:52):
And then you posted some videos of the night and
as soon as I saw the video, I was like
it was that one was I was like, it was
that one right there, like and this is what I'm saying, Like,
I think that when you when you safely my man,
my man, you have to actually know the person that
you're with. And what's happening is a lot of girls
my man, my man, to the facade of the mask

(29:14):
of what my man is to me, and then some
of us on the outside we like, h but I
just saw your last week. But I'm not gonna tell you,
but I'm just saying, damn, this is why you can't
do it. So I think that you do have to
be very conscious of how much you speak up a
nigga because at the end of the day, he's still
a man and he's still they embarrassed everything.

Speaker 2 (29:40):
The most embarrassing people ever.

Speaker 4 (29:43):
So I would say ten out of ten would not
recommend don't do it.

Speaker 3 (29:48):
Give me the hand.

Speaker 4 (29:49):
I think my man, my man is a little bit obsessive.

Speaker 3 (29:53):
It's obsessive.

Speaker 2 (29:54):
It's obsessive.

Speaker 4 (29:55):
There is no man out here going my girl, my girl,
my girl, my lady, my lady, my lady. And if
they exactly it's like you would be like I love
my wife or I love my girl. Men are very
subtle with their emotions, and for you, you out here
looking crazy talking about my man, my man is my man,
that I love my man, and your man he's not

(30:16):
giving that same energy. And then I feel like a
lot of women. A friend of mine he said this
to me, He said, do you want to get married.

Speaker 2 (30:24):
Just so you can say my husband.

Speaker 4 (30:28):
Or are you really getting married another time because you
really love the person. And I was like, oh no,
I'm not going to marry somebody just to say my husband.
I don't need a title, honey. I'm very happy being
an independent woman. And that's because I had to go
through some things I had to go through life to
realize you don't need that second left hand or right
hand or that person to validate you. You have to

(30:51):
love yourself first. You have to validate you for you.
I got a love on my own to be able
to love on a man correctly. Because he's coming with
his baggage, his loveluggage. I got my baggage. I got
my luggage, and then we got to both see if
we can travel together.

Speaker 2 (31:05):
If you got what I'm trying.

Speaker 4 (31:06):
To say, So, if we can't travel together, then we
ain't supposed to be together. And at the same time,
I'm not going to sit here and say your mind
slavery is over.

Speaker 2 (31:15):
Hello, I don't own a person. You don't own me.
You're an individual.

Speaker 4 (31:18):
We're in love with each other and we're traveling together
and we're on this life journey together. But it's not
necessarily like I own you. And it's cute to say.
It's fun like, oh that's my man. You know, I
was saying jokingly, my man, my man, jokingly, but I
don't even say that, And that might have to be
a lot with just me personally, but in what I've

(31:39):
been through. But it's just a sense of like you said,
men will embarrass you. You'll be like my man and
my man, and you be like, oh that's your girl.

Speaker 2 (31:45):
Yeah you know, yeah, yeah that's my you.

Speaker 4 (31:48):
Know, like they'll give you like sometimes they won't even
acclaim your ass.

Speaker 2 (31:51):
They'll just be like, oh, yeah, I came. Well you'll
be like this shit be living together.

Speaker 4 (31:55):
But lot, you know, cause that's just men trying to
hold their ego and show too much emotion around their
masculine friends. But then when they get home they want
to cuddle with you. But if you go and tell
his boy. He loved a cuddle.

Speaker 2 (32:09):
Don't be telling our.

Speaker 4 (32:10):
Business like that, you know, So that's too much for
a man. A man loves to have a woman that
can hold those type of secrets that he likes to
be cuddled like, he likes to you know.

Speaker 2 (32:20):
Certain little cute things.

Speaker 3 (32:23):
You know.

Speaker 2 (32:24):
I'm just saying yesterday, what you're trying to know.

Speaker 4 (32:28):
For a certain for an archetype of a certain type
of nigga.

Speaker 2 (32:31):
Yeah, I think that.

Speaker 4 (32:34):
I think that that that men have evolved, and some
of them have evolved past that toxic masculinity lens, and
we're starting to see a lot more men that are
just a little bit more open and honest with what
they think and how they feel. But there is still
a big percentage of men that act like that. But

(32:55):
I'm happy to see the evolution of men that they're
not doing that because I.

Speaker 2 (32:59):
Remember men do that one on one. It's so disgusting.
One on one.

Speaker 4 (33:03):
A man will tell you this, one on one, they'll
be emotionally sensitive when they feel comfortable with the woman.
They'll be emotionally sensitive with that woman. But what they
don't want is that woman to go share their emotional
sensitive moments even though you feel like, oh my gosh,
we're bonding. We close me and my man, Da da
da da. But he wants to have that secret world.
Some masculine men, especially some outphas, they want to have

(33:27):
that secret world.

Speaker 3 (33:29):
Yes, because yesterday yo yo, link up real quick, right,
let's go. You know how I've listened for the last
ten minutes about them talking about men, how embarrassing they
are all this, right, But she just said men like
to have their secret world, but the women will out them.

(33:50):
So who's really embarrassing? When I tell you I don't
want to be in a relationship and you come lock
me down and spread all into the world. Oh, my man,
my man, my man, who's really embarrassing? You already know
we ain't like that. You already know your house life
with me ain't like that. You haven't spoke to me

(34:10):
since Thursday. Jesus, Why are you all on it and
they're talking all this, spreading all this for your friends
and strangers and going crazy when me and you ain't
even like that. Who's really embarrassing? Why are you trying
to lock a motherfucker down that told you, showed you
acted this way the whole time. You want me monogamous
all in this relationship with you just so that you

(34:32):
could say you win a relationship. When I showed you,
I told you that's not me. This is not me
and another thing. Allow me to be me? And if
I am in this relationship, can I be in this

(34:54):
relationship as me? Or are you asking me to be
somebody else? Because that's the man that you want, because
now you're asking me to play a game. You were
asking me to play a role. What you Drew have,
which I love, is that y'all are still you every
single fucking day. So nobody in there is showing up

(35:17):
as Doge's husband or as Drew's wife. No, I'm still me.
I still have these thoughts, these feelings, these desires, these
are my concerns. This is everything that I'll and you
know that, and I'm allowed to exist one hundred percent
as me. People getting into these relationship CARDI, you knew
what this nigga was? Who didn't you knew? So who's
really embarrassing? Who's really embarrassing?

Speaker 4 (35:40):
I think that's a lot to say about the man too,
because it goes both ways. If you know, you with
somebody that does not have the same energy as you,
that is not.

Speaker 2 (35:51):
Respecting you for you.

Speaker 4 (35:53):
This is like when I'm saying for men, y'all, Like, man,
if you're dating somebody or you with someone that does
not respect you, walk away. If you're with a woman
and she doesn't accept you for who you are, walk away.
If you're with a woman and she's trying to change
the man that you are and you don't want to
be changed, walk away. That is the most important thing

(36:18):
you can do. Sometimes you gotta shut the damn door
and say, I'll take the repercussions, but I'm not gonna
let that energy in my house.

Speaker 2 (36:27):
This is not what I want for my life.

Speaker 4 (36:29):
And you know, you get mad at the woman because
it's like I told you this, but you still kept
coming ignowledge. This is when you say, I told you this.
I realize that you still want more, but I can't
give you more. So I'm gonna step away from this
situation so you can get what you deserve. And it's
just the way you dismiss her, and not to say
dismissed in a negative way, but release her back into

(36:51):
the world to go find with the heck she needs
in her life. And you got And men have to
be sensitive about that because women are emotional.

Speaker 2 (37:00):
But you got to say it.

Speaker 3 (37:01):
You got say that when you try to express it,
and women will gaslight the shit out you. Yeah, women
will emotionally dump on you, make you feel like you
ain't shit. Society doesn't really allow room for straight men
to be like, yo, I want to date multiple women
or I'm not ready for that. They'd be like, oh,
you niggas need to grow up.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
No, I think that.

Speaker 4 (37:22):
I mean me personally, I feel like everybody has their
own thing. There's some people out here that's supposed to
be with just one person, there's people out there that
supposed to be dating multiple people.

Speaker 2 (37:31):
Everybody is individually.

Speaker 3 (37:34):
You're talking about offset right now. Me personally, that's what
I'm talking about, saying, like, Yo, this is what I want.
Seeing when the niggas said, these niggas did videos saying
that they wanted to do that, then then they basically
canceled them just for being honest, like, Yo, this is
what I want right now.

Speaker 4 (37:46):
But and it's like it's a way that you go
about it though, And I think that that's that's always
going to be the problem.

Speaker 2 (37:51):
Like you can, yeah, you heard that yesterday, you heard that.

Speaker 3 (37:58):
I didn't say nothing yesterday that you can speak. You
have a micna listen, y'all, cook yead gosh, finish what
you're saying. You know, that's your homie.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
You sipping in tequila, that's my face.

Speaker 4 (38:13):
Say what you gotta say, faith now you side, you
did a deep long side nigga speak.

Speaker 7 (38:22):
Going to the to the back to what Todd said
about the offset CARDI situation. I do think that I
do think that sometimes we're we're missing the ball here
when we're throwing around the blame, right. I feel like
I feel like on both sides, I don't even want
to just say, man, but I feel like everybody's always
trying to make the other person look the worst.

Speaker 6 (38:43):
That's always the name of the game.

Speaker 7 (38:44):
It's never really about settling anything or getting to the
bottom of something or creating a situation where we're not
doing this publicly. It's just all about who looks better.
Everybody's trying to look the best. And I feel like
on both sides, him doing thes doing the courtship, her
the social media, yeah, the spaces. I feel like all
this shit is goofy and like ya say, they have
kids ultimately, so it's like like, like you said earlier time,

(39:07):
like we're arguing about who's losing worse here, you feel me,
and the shit just doesn't make sense. So I feel
like as much as I keep putting it on the men,
saying like, yo, a man is gonna embarrass you and
do this and do that, and do this and do that,
I feel like it takes two people to make the
situation what it is.

Speaker 6 (39:23):
And I feel like that always gets lost. It's always like,
but what did he do?

Speaker 7 (39:28):
He did something, or let's make it on him, and
I just don't think that's fair.

Speaker 3 (39:31):
Well, real quickly, very quickly. I think divorce is nasty.
We all know the divorce is nasty when it gets
into the lawyer's hands. We know everything is on the table.
Right when y'all spoke about pre nups with me, y'all said,
put your crib in the prenup, right, because you want
to know why if me and my wife would a divorce,

(39:53):
the lawyer would say her lawyer would say, go for
his mom's house. That gives you leverage for every anything
else that y'all have, because now he'll be able to
keep that. But now you the bargaining tool is the house.
Versus your other two houses or the car or the
vacation spot. You have to use that. So in my mind,

(40:15):
offset is lawyer is saying, go for spousal support, because
now when they try to get that off the table,
you can get that house in fucking Bali or whatever
you can, you know what I mean. But we have
to use that so that we can come to table
with something. I think that's all that is me personally.

Speaker 4 (40:35):
I personally need, I personally feel divorced. Definitely is Nancy.
But I think because I'm a different individual, I might
think differently. I will marry a millionaire. What you bought
into this relationship is what you take out. I'm not
gonna sit here and say all of them years you worked

(40:55):
for what you got, and all those things you did
before you met.

Speaker 2 (40:59):
Me, I'm not supposed to touch that. That's not mine.
That's integrity, and a lot of that's not mine, especially
when you beefing with somebody.

Speaker 4 (41:08):
Yea, even even through emotion. Whatever you did. But for me,
that's not for me. But whatever we do together and
whatever business that we worked on or grew together, then
we can.

Speaker 2 (41:22):
Split fifty to fifty. But anything prior to me is not.

Speaker 8 (41:26):
Mine, which is why so, But that's a settlement, right,
that is like, all right, you made this amount of
money when we were together.

Speaker 2 (41:37):
We could split that fifty to fifty.

Speaker 4 (41:39):
That Nigga's asking for alimony, that's different. Spousal support that's
completely different. That goals until that nigga dies, until he
gets married again, and she's the one and she's the
one taking care of the three kids.

Speaker 2 (41:54):
That's crazy.

Speaker 4 (41:56):
The only problem I have with Offset acting for this
is why why are you acting?

Speaker 2 (42:05):
Why are you not saying, hey, you know what you
and I didn't work out. We going back and forth.

Speaker 4 (42:12):
Let's try to separate as calmly and as easily as
we can, because you're already emotional mess.

Speaker 2 (42:19):
You're already emotional individual. But so is he. He's just
emotional behind the scenes.

Speaker 4 (42:23):
Because some of the things that Cartie is saying is
that he harasses her, that he'd be trying to run
off niggas, that he'd be talking to her crazy. Even
when we talk about when they first got separated and
he came on the.

Speaker 2 (42:36):
Internet on some shit like who's gonna want you?

Speaker 1 (42:39):
You now?

Speaker 4 (42:39):
You a single mother with three kids type shit, Like
why would you say that? Out in Like, so, if
you have to say that out in public, what are
you saying to her behind the scenes that we don't see?
How are you affecting her mentally psychologically behind the scenes
that we're not seeing. So with that being said, this
is why I'm saying, like, this is a bitch ass move.
We're not talking about just like I said, a settlement.

(43:02):
We're talking about you want me to pay you support
forever until you get married again under the guides of
what that is some bitch ass ship.

Speaker 2 (43:11):
And you're going.

Speaker 4 (43:12):
To get married again because he never should have got
married in the first part, or he's not going to
get his personality depending on how much money she pay
him every year, because depending on what the bag is,
ever get married, I don't even have to record another
album again because he's getting support from her. But the
question is is like why, Like this is the woman

(43:35):
that has your three stories.

Speaker 3 (43:36):
It's a little move. He didn't answer the lawyers did.
Offset was like, yo, she has to pay me everyone.

Speaker 2 (43:43):
The lawyer was like, no, I definitely think he did that.
He moves kind of different like the average man.

Speaker 4 (43:50):
Yeah, he moves a little different.

Speaker 3 (43:54):
Yeah, I'm like, yo, niggas do that. I'm a fuck
yop yea yo, how young this nigga is sixteen?

Speaker 2 (44:00):
Yeah, he's exactly.

Speaker 4 (44:03):
That's what I'm saying, And that's what she's dealing with.
That's what she's dealing with. She's dealing with a young teenager.
I'm a fuss crazy.

Speaker 3 (44:10):
I'm a fuck your ops.

Speaker 4 (44:11):
And then when she said I wish you was slow death,
like you're gonna fuck my ops.

Speaker 2 (44:16):
These are people that really like affect me.

Speaker 4 (44:20):
Exactly, which is why you don't deserve ship. You don't deserve.

Speaker 3 (44:24):
Ship for me. So basically I got an anmighty asshole
for me and then I got one.

Speaker 2 (44:31):
For just and look at my husband. Mm hmmm.

Speaker 3 (44:34):
Right, you guys know this this pod runs a little
big no.

Speaker 4 (44:40):
Way sniggers above, not the one like I don't know them,
like you know, there's people that like hate me like.

Speaker 3 (44:51):
No ops ops, like your ops. That's like if they
went fucked Orlando or something like I have. I was bad, yo, bro,
that was what that's an that's bad. That was too much.
I went too far.

Speaker 6 (45:07):
Just move just move on my bad.

Speaker 3 (45:10):
Do you have an O to you?

Speaker 1 (45:12):
No?

Speaker 2 (45:13):
I love how you try to.

Speaker 4 (45:15):
I thought it was absorble but the girl is single,
so she's enjoying life.

Speaker 3 (45:21):
I don't even know if my wife has an op.

Speaker 4 (45:24):
Yo today, get your man. This niggas diabolical. Bro today,
Drew got one op.

Speaker 3 (45:33):
A guy that you could get, you could get back.

Speaker 2 (45:35):
No I would know, but he'll kill me herew.

Speaker 3 (45:40):
That's that's that's when I wish when you do something
like That's what I was asking. When you're doing something
like that.

Speaker 2 (45:48):
Oh my god, I can't even think about it.

Speaker 6 (45:50):
Ugly, ugly I will.

Speaker 3 (45:54):
I will for a long time. You have a plan
on somebody for a long time.

Speaker 2 (45:58):
Yeah, But then I realized the waste.

Speaker 3 (46:01):
See, you can't keep the hate that long. I hate that.
I can't keep the hate that long.

Speaker 4 (46:06):
I'll be like, why am I wasting my time? Am
my energy on somebody?

Speaker 3 (46:10):
Yeah? Got nothing else going on? You can hate somebody forever.
I hate shout out to like you.

Speaker 4 (46:15):
Don't want to go through all of that? I like,
how you just going just keep like you know.

Speaker 2 (46:19):
What I'm going to act like.

Speaker 4 (46:20):
I ain't even I'm not even I'm not playing with
none of this fire this man is throwing.

Speaker 3 (46:25):
I can't. I don't have the time, y'all shout out
to y'all. Shout out to y'all. I wish y'all a
blessed life, peace and a good writtence. My am, I
the asshole was I said something on to it, right,

(46:46):
I said, at some point, when a person is so
in love with their partner they can't seem to exist
without them, it starts looking like cold dependency. Ye.

Speaker 2 (46:55):
Yes, that's the definition of cold dependency.

Speaker 3 (46:59):
That's what it is.

Speaker 2 (46:59):
Yeah, that's the definition of codependency.

Speaker 3 (47:02):
And somebody, my friend Miso love it to death, jumps
on the tweet. Okay, so how much are we supposed
to love our partners? Then? And then somebody jumps in
after that.

Speaker 2 (47:15):
I don't think you supposed to love anybody more than
you love yourself.

Speaker 3 (47:18):
Somebody says, as soon as they hear a woman enjoys
being a mother, wife who loves the family life, everybody
be acting like we in a trance and need to
be rescued.

Speaker 2 (47:26):
I don't feel that way.

Speaker 4 (47:27):
I just personally feel like you took my message much further,
baby than where I was sating it.

Speaker 3 (47:34):
This is when you're in a trance, when you can't
even see real English, you start internalizing it. I'm talking
about Cardi B.

Speaker 2 (47:44):
Yeah, and you going.

Speaker 3 (47:49):
Now She's said, I said, baby, you could interpret it
or misinterpret how you want, Like she's like, oh, you're
a coward. I wasn't even talking to you.

Speaker 2 (48:00):
You were talking about Yeah. I think when they want
me to go back.

Speaker 4 (48:05):
When it comes to social media, people are reading in
the tone that they're living in yep, yep every time,
And that's the response you're gonna get no matter what
topic it is, no matter if it's a beer, ringing
the damn doorbell, the person in the comments is gonna
respond based on the trauma that they're in.

Speaker 2 (48:24):
So that's what you're getting. That's what you're getting.

Speaker 3 (48:27):
She's going through to my man, my man, my man. Shit.
So she also automatically thought that was attacking. No, well
I was.

Speaker 4 (48:35):
It wasn't attack, but it was. But it wasn't a
personal It was an observation.

Speaker 3 (48:41):
You don't have all right say this one right. I
know she lives her my man, my men, I know
she lives it. She's not even on social media like that.
I think she might be on something, but she's right.
There are people that's doing all of that. And then
the next week the Instagram is disabled.

Speaker 2 (49:01):
I'm they don't want to talk about it. And that's
the people that I'm talking to.

Speaker 3 (49:06):
Yourself, you should have been working on your relationship or
yourself trying to fool us this whole time.

Speaker 4 (49:13):
Market bro Like I got somebody, Look, I got a manday,
I'm loved. I'm beautiful girl. Love and be beautiful by yourself,
because what you're doing is when you don't love yourself,
you end up with a man that don't love you
because he just loving the same idea you loving. He's like, oh,
you know, I got free sex.

Speaker 2 (49:34):
Yeah, I got to deal.

Speaker 4 (49:35):
With her nagging every now and then, but whatever, what's
your no.

Speaker 6 (49:40):
I'm gonna say. You know what it is.

Speaker 7 (49:42):
I find that most people love the packaging of the thing.
It's not really the love or the marriage. It's just
the packaging. It's the marketing of it. It's the ability
to say and you know, throw the titles around. And
the ship could be fucked up, the communication, the vibe,
all of the real stuff that make go could be
fucked up, but just having the packaging, just as long

(50:03):
as it's packaged nice, right, This ship is like it's
like mellow yellow. It could look good, but the ship
tastes nasty at that bad.

Speaker 3 (50:15):
I want in this right by saying, by asking another question,
then we're gonna go into something else. Right, I'm talking
about people doing too much. What are the chances because
we say offset did this, that and the other in
this relationship, right, what are the chances that card focused
on him too much in this relationship and it turned

(50:37):
him off? Okay?

Speaker 6 (50:40):
Can I add something to that? Can I add something?

Speaker 7 (50:44):
I think a nugget that I think everybody misses here
is the shift in power dynamic.

Speaker 6 (50:49):
Right.

Speaker 7 (50:50):
So we talked about it earlier when they first got together.
The migos was intact. He had the celebrity, the money, the.

Speaker 3 (50:57):
Access, switching it away from what I was talking.

Speaker 7 (51:00):
No, no, I'm saying, but as it goes to her, I
think that plays a part too with her.

Speaker 3 (51:05):
What I'm talking about is her being offset offset offset,
offset offset, and he hyped that he got CARDI B
so he's like all on her, but now she's all
about him, all about where you are? It's just all
of this is focused on me or and it's kind
of like a turn off, Like, Yo, where's your life,
where's your happiness? Where's your friends? Where's what? You walked

(51:27):
into it with I don't.

Speaker 2 (51:28):
I don't think it's that her best friend was in jail.

Speaker 4 (51:32):
So the reason why I don't think it's that is
because Cardi stayed relevant. And in order for you to
say Cardi B album, I mean the fact that we're.

Speaker 3 (51:45):
Sitting here, it's because of Nicki Mina what. It's because
of her beef with Nikki. Beef with Nikki carried him
for about three years, four years. That's why she got
no album.

Speaker 2 (51:56):
Now what this is I don't agree.

Speaker 4 (51:59):
So and I definitely don't agree because honestly, what I'm
about to say, sorry Barbs, but Nikki.

Speaker 6 (52:08):
All right, yo, what.

Speaker 2 (52:11):
That's what I'm gonna say. I'm sorry Bobs, but Nikki.
And then I want to just leave it right there.
You can, because I know exactly what she meant.

Speaker 3 (52:18):
Nikki's last album didn't number Nikki.

Speaker 6 (52:20):
Yeah, come on, I don't even know.

Speaker 3 (52:21):
Probably one of her best albums.

Speaker 2 (52:22):
Ever, I'm not saying that her album wasn't good. I'm
trying to say that the.

Speaker 4 (52:28):
Rel everybody I'm talking about, the relevance I'm talking about
that here we are talking about Cardi B. And she
put out an album in five years ain't nobody checking
for Nikki right now and she actually put out an album.
That's what I'm trying to say. The point of Cardi
b making herself always relevant the way that we are

(52:50):
able to circulate her name. That is energy, that's content creating.
That is her constantly trying to pay for whatever whatever
onto ships. I don't want to put it out there
like that, but you know what it is, that's her
making it a point that you keep her name in
your mouth even if I don't put out an album.
That takes a lot. It's just like when people are

(53:13):
sitting here talking about Rihanna. Oh no, I might want
to talk about that, Okay, different. What I'm trying to
say is Rihanna hasn't put out an album in a decade.

Speaker 3 (53:22):
Different Different and a decade, hasn't had a beef with
the number one women Female Artists of time, female artist
number one? Who's better?

Speaker 2 (53:35):
I have so many people that Nikki because.

Speaker 3 (53:38):
Podcast, but it's nobody that's bigger than nick It's of
hip hop rappers of all time, male and female.

Speaker 2 (53:47):
I'm gonna let.

Speaker 4 (53:47):
Your bobs have that, beautiful. If Nikki can write her
own stuff and be not I don't.

Speaker 3 (53:55):
Got nothing to do with that because I'm a Drake
fan too, so I don't. I don't even talk about that.

Speaker 2 (53:59):
So we're gonna, we're gonna, we're gonna keep that right there. Okay, cool,
I mean.

Speaker 3 (54:03):
You're good. Gosh, you're good.

Speaker 6 (54:05):
I don't know what's happening.

Speaker 4 (54:06):
I'm just saying Nikki might write something, but she ain't
writing all.

Speaker 3 (54:10):
Might have wrote everything that she put out in the
last two years, and nobody cares about that.

Speaker 2 (54:15):
I'm saying when she was.

Speaker 3 (54:18):
Shit, all she does is all she's known for is
crying about Off said nobody. What's the last song she
was on? What's the last anything that she did that
was anything?

Speaker 4 (54:27):
Yesterday made it to them yesterday, five tomorrow, Tom made
it to the met Gallup.

Speaker 2 (54:37):
Amazing.

Speaker 6 (54:38):
We're missing the plot here.

Speaker 4 (54:39):
But I mean, okay, here you go, yes today, here's
your plot. I personally feel that both of them have
some ish. They both got some some skeletons in their closet.
Neither one of them are good with the history of
their relationship.

Speaker 2 (54:52):
They're going back and forth.

Speaker 4 (54:54):
Nikki done slept with a man while pregnant with Off,
says baby. So it was stated you mean, Carty, Cardi, Sorry, Carty, Sorry,
Nikki Cardy, what.

Speaker 3 (55:02):
Kind of tea you got?

Speaker 2 (55:03):
It?

Speaker 3 (55:06):
Switched?

Speaker 4 (55:07):
My bad because you started talking about Nikki and that
just was like, Ooh, I love Nikki, but oh baby.

Speaker 2 (55:13):
It's something right.

Speaker 3 (55:16):
Wait, but my thing is Carti.

Speaker 4 (55:22):
Carti literally made it to the mac Galla twenty twenty five.
Cardi got her skeletons, all said, got his skeletons. But
at the end of the day, I just want them
to break away and break clean. I'm tired of the drama.

Speaker 2 (55:33):
I'm tired of it.

Speaker 4 (55:34):
It's not that hard if you can just literally say,
our cold parents, put your kids outside. I mean, how
many times we don't see Pooky and Keshaul do it?
Why can't y'all do the same damn thing? And y'all
making it difficult on each other because of the emotion
and love you still.

Speaker 2 (55:49):
Have for each other.

Speaker 3 (55:50):
We do that for baby mother's baby fathers do that.

Speaker 2 (55:53):
But this is crazy work, This is crazy level.

Speaker 3 (55:57):
This is crazy work. All right, moving on already, I'm
sorry I kept that going for THEMN near forty minutes, y'all.

Speaker 2 (56:05):
It was an interesting combo though.

Speaker 3 (56:07):
They was trying to jump me for my tequila bottle,
so I just had to go on until I found
something else to talk about. You really gonna still to
kill a bottle?

Speaker 2 (56:15):
Steal it? I don't want it.

Speaker 3 (56:16):
I was playing, all right.

Speaker 2 (56:17):
I was about to say it's free, though it was
free as fuck. Umm, do I want to go into
free dot com? He said, I bought you something. It's
not even like a one point seventy five. It's crazy.

Speaker 4 (56:28):
You know what I want to talk about real quick,
So you might as well just drink that like the
water I'm drinking right as well.

Speaker 2 (56:33):
It's gonna be done. But yeah, the way that I
used to melted in that you got aga and took
it out and.

Speaker 6 (56:37):
They just vibing. They just vibing.

Speaker 3 (56:39):
They don't even care.

Speaker 2 (56:40):
Oh, we're waiting for you. Go ahead. You know we
know it takes you.

Speaker 3 (56:43):
Last week I brought up Yeah, I love her, bro
I love her. Last week I brought up a situation
that kind of been buzzing all over the internet, and
although I spoke about it myself, I do want to
hear the the opinion of the ladies in the room,
So I'm going to repeat it this week. All right, Okay,

(57:06):
this is the I need to get something off my chest.
Yesterday my stepdaughter graduated. I wasn't invited. I've been in
her life since she was four months old, married her
mother when she turned two. I've been there, consistent, showing up, providing,
loving her like my own become. Graduation day, I was
not giving a seat like word I. They told me

(57:29):
they were only eight tickets.

Speaker 2 (57:31):
That's a lot.

Speaker 3 (57:32):
That's a lot of tickets. Are wait a minute, we
get divorced for that? Oh Jesus simmert Wow. Let me
tell you who made the list. My wife, her two sisters,
her biological dad, her uncle, her grandmother, her other aunt,

(57:54):
and her boyfriend. Eight tickets and I wasn't one of them.
That I've been sitting with that pain all day. I
took time off work, three days gone. I drive trucks.
That's money and time I can't get back. And still
I got left out. So today I made some decisions.

(58:17):
I removed her from my car and health insurance took
her off everything I've been covering. Told her mother since
she's grown and graduated, she can go stay with her father,
the one she made room for over me. Now there's
tension in my house. Emotions are high. But I'm standing
on what I feel because the truth is so. I'm hurt,

(58:39):
not mad, just deeply, genuinely hurt. I don't need applause.
I just needed to speak my truth. Thanks for listening.

Speaker 2 (58:52):
I know my response to it.

Speaker 4 (58:54):
I'm confused and conflicted because there's something missing in this
story that doesn't make sense to me. Because what he
sounds like is an ATM machine. You live in a
house in which you are an ATM machine, and you
just found out that you were the ATM machine, and
now it's time for you to remove the ATM machine.

Speaker 2 (59:14):
For eighteen years even more, she's graduating from college or
high school.

Speaker 3 (59:18):
I would say high school here, t M.

Speaker 2 (59:21):
I don't care how many years it is. Women. There
are some women out there that are very trifling and
that will be with a man for eighteen plus years
as an a t M.

Speaker 4 (59:35):
And as much as you don't want to say it,
look at these girls today, go to social media. I
need my eyes done, I need my lashes done, I
need my nails done. We call them the forty dollars girls. Okay,
you give them forty dollars and they'll do whatever. Okay,
because they're getting whatever they want from the deal. But
then there's also women out there, and then people don't
talk about these women because people don't believe that women

(59:56):
be out here pimping.

Speaker 2 (59:57):
They do pimping, and they do.

Speaker 4 (01:00:01):
There are women out here that does not have all
the emotions that you expect them to have. They are emotionalless.
They're just with somebody for financial stability. That is a
real thing.

Speaker 2 (01:00:13):
To be with.

Speaker 4 (01:00:13):
Someone for financial stability is a real thing. He's just
found out he was the ATM machine. That's all it is.
He just found that they were together and it was
financial stability.

Speaker 3 (01:00:24):
What about the situation, Dodd? I know you've got something
else to say, but what about the situation makes you
feel like that could be? What?

Speaker 4 (01:00:31):
Look at the eight people that went it's the boyfriend
that's throwing me off, But it's the eight people that.

Speaker 9 (01:00:36):
Attend your boyfriend to your I don't think.

Speaker 4 (01:00:39):
It's the girls boyfriend at uncles everybody.

Speaker 2 (01:00:48):
And then my other question is, because I do want
to hear more of the story.

Speaker 4 (01:00:51):
Is it the eighteen year old daughter giving out the
tickets or was it the mother that made the decision
of the tickets?

Speaker 2 (01:00:57):
Like in all the termines on who made the decision
for the.

Speaker 4 (01:01:00):
No, it doesn't. I'm confused. Y'all all live in the
same house. No, no, no, here's my thing, And I think
this is the part that that's confusing me the most
because for me, it goes down to communication. What are
the conversations that y'all having in this house husband to husband,
I mean husband to wife, wife, mother to daughter, daughter

(01:01:23):
to stepfather. There's a diagnostic there's something missing here for
me because like, even thinking about it like this, you're like,
I took three days off of work for this thing.
So at what point did you realize that you wasn't invited?
And we know that kids normally graduate in May or June,
depending on where you live. So when were y'all planning this?

(01:01:44):
Were you in the in the process, like what does
she wear the graduation?

Speaker 2 (01:01:48):
Do you know?

Speaker 4 (01:01:50):
Like prom season is coming up? When prom comes up,
the tickets is already coming out. Like I'm kind of
I'm so con you detail.

Speaker 2 (01:01:58):
You need more.

Speaker 3 (01:01:59):
Detail much, I fuck with you?

Speaker 2 (01:02:01):
More details.

Speaker 3 (01:02:02):
The fact that it took me a week to process
what you process in ten minutes to know the fact
that you're there already, because I said that last week
I was like something's missing and I didn't. I couldn't
put my finger on it. It took me days of
thinking about it.

Speaker 2 (01:02:18):
There's no communication in the house.

Speaker 3 (01:02:20):
Wait a minute, it's there. It's there. They told us,
we just we don't get it yet. Right. For one,
if there's eight tickets giving out, my wife is saying,
come anyway, we're getting you in. I'll bring you a
ticket like this is this week gone? Right? That's number one.

(01:02:41):
The main point that I'm seeing though, he told us,
we just we just blew past it. He said, I
drive trucks. It took three days off, so they just.

Speaker 4 (01:02:53):
Thought automatically he wouldn't be there because he's always driving.

Speaker 3 (01:02:56):
He's always driving, always go on. He doesn't have the
relationship with that child that he's saying he does. He
just has main character syndrome because he wasn't invited. You're
always on the road. You are the ATM. You think
that you matter because you're paying bills and stuff, but
you're never here. You probably haven't been here for mad long.

(01:03:20):
You show up. When you show up, you sleep, you
take whatever job whatever. Later on that they're saying, you
on it because you have to, because that's how the
bills is getting paid. But also you're sacrificing your home life.
You're sacrificing our relationship, which is why the wife didn't
really care. Yeah, you're sacrificing a relationship with the child.
That's why she didn't include him, because you're never really

(01:03:40):
here like that.

Speaker 4 (01:03:42):
There's no connection, you see what I'm saying, no communication.
He just literally found out. That's why I said, he
just found out that he is the ATM machine.

Speaker 3 (01:03:51):
That's it, because that conversation would have happened before.

Speaker 4 (01:03:54):
Yeah, and especially when you say they live in the
same house. I was hoping it was divorce. But the
fact that you live in the same house with somebody
and he wasn't invited, and then you're feeling like, well,
why wasn't I invited? Did you look at what you do?
It's accountability time and that. But but I will say this,

(01:04:15):
I'm gonna die on this hill. Using monumental moments for
to be emotionally spiteful is fucked up because whether he's
present or not, he still lives in this house. You're
giving tickets to people that don't live in this house
before you give tickets to people that do live in
this house. That's crazy. You taking care of everything, That's

(01:04:37):
what I'm saying. I didn't need to take care of everything,
like it wouldn't have been no grad Like wait, first
of all, let me not bring my petty into it,
because it's not about me, because I would never do
no shit like that, because even when I graduated from college,
I did not have a great relationship with my step
mother at the time. But there was no way I
wasn't gonna invite her because I'm inviting my dad and
we have the same address. So brother, I wanted her

(01:05:00):
to be there or not, whether I fucked with her
or not, she was present there because I had a
certain amount of tickets.

Speaker 2 (01:05:08):
And at the end of the day, I'm.

Speaker 4 (01:05:10):
Not gonna say, here, daddy, here's your ticket and the
person that you live with, Like, I'm not even gonna
put nobody in that predicament to feel that way, even
if I don't really fuck with you. But I just
think that there's so many layers to this that does
not sit right with me.

Speaker 2 (01:05:25):
About what part.

Speaker 4 (01:05:27):
I'm still stuck on the way not this man, like
you understand, like this is your man, this is your husband?

Speaker 1 (01:05:35):
Is it?

Speaker 2 (01:05:36):
By title Wood? Maybe not by action.

Speaker 4 (01:05:38):
You don't need a Relationships of the day that is
at ATM. You no, you better invite the ATM because
an ATM will close. Everybody is playing that's wrong. They
played it wrong.

Speaker 3 (01:05:48):
You're telling me that you've bonded with this child since
this child was four months old. This child is now eighteen,
and because there was an issue, you're willing to kick
her out.

Speaker 2 (01:05:59):
Oh wait, he's trying to I got the eighteen year old.

Speaker 4 (01:06:01):
Yes, insurance, father, eighteen years Could you attacking the wrong person?
You need to be attacking a person laying next to you.
The eighteen year old ain't my problem. The eight teenagers
are gonna be teenage.

Speaker 3 (01:06:18):
They're gonna not be on point. They're not gonna think
about wife.

Speaker 2 (01:06:21):
That I'm talking about. It's the wife that's the problem.

Speaker 4 (01:06:25):
The wife that did not fight for you, the wife
that did not make sure you was there, The wife
that did not talk to the daughter to explain to
the daughter that your important, the wife that did not
ensure that you have a ticket.

Speaker 2 (01:06:36):
That's who your beef is. You don't take the eighteen
year old.

Speaker 4 (01:06:39):
If you're insurance, you take the wife off your insurance,
You'll be like, oh, you are not my way to die.
Use the problem. It's not a child at the end
of the day. She might be eighteen and considered legally
an adult, at the end of the day, she is
still a child. Your daddy insurance, your father is he's alive,
She's a.

Speaker 6 (01:07:01):
I don't know if I'm wronging with that all the way.

Speaker 7 (01:07:02):
I feel like taking them off all the way is tough,
but I feel like I had to step on the
by fall away, and I feel like you develop your
own relationship with your step parents. So, like I said,
my stepdad was on my life when I was four
to when I was eighteen. There's nothing that my mom,
nobody could tell me if my stepdad, if I had
something going on, my stepdad is coming. There is no
somebody could tell me something. And they wasn't together when

(01:07:25):
I got to be that age. Even now they're not
together now. And I still call my stepfather because we
have a relationship from when I was four all the
way up to my things, So there is no somebody
could block this. No, I don't give a damn what's
going on. He's coming it no matter what's happening. So
there is at level of accountability that we can't just say, oh,
they're kids.

Speaker 6 (01:07:45):
No, I was eighteen, and you can make it.

Speaker 4 (01:07:47):
What I'm trying to say is with kids, girls are
patty as hell. Like if they didn't get their damn Samsung,
the new Samsung twenty five or whatever it is, now,
they're going to have a little tantrum, more have a
little emotional pettiness, and they're gonna try to find a
way to get back at you if they didn't get
something they want.

Speaker 2 (01:08:06):
That's just.

Speaker 4 (01:08:10):
But I get what you're saying yesterday, and I definitely
agree with you. When you ride for somebody, you ride
for somebody. But somewhere along the line, him and that
daughter do not have a connection.

Speaker 3 (01:08:19):
They don't have that connection they have other people are
her circle, the mother, the.

Speaker 2 (01:08:26):
People she felt like for her.

Speaker 3 (01:08:30):
Always at the barbecue, they always at the birthdays. While
he's on the road. Obviously he's doing you got to
do to provide.

Speaker 2 (01:08:35):
Yeah or whatever.

Speaker 3 (01:08:37):
But you like him. Kids don't. Kids don't really understand provider.

Speaker 2 (01:08:46):
No, they don't just get what they get.

Speaker 3 (01:08:49):
They feel the food andfrigerat they eat. They don't think
about who's putting food on the table. I don't care
about the lights being on's supposed to be on. They
don't care about who's paying that bill. They don't think
about how much it is. They'll care about how much
rent is. They don't care. They know they got it.
They got a home.

Speaker 4 (01:09:04):
Yep, this heat because they feel privileged. And then I
say they never had without. When the kid has without,
then you then that's a new kid. That's a new
type of child that can handle everything and see everything
and understand. And I think that's the problem in culture.
You're not raising your kids to be financially responsible. That's

(01:09:26):
something you're supposed to do once they're young. Make them
financially responsible, make them conscious of how much it takes
to get lights on, how much.

Speaker 2 (01:09:33):
It takes to do X, Y and z.

Speaker 4 (01:09:35):
Instead, you sit there, you do everything, and you don't
teach them how to do it, and then you send
them out in the world and say good luck.

Speaker 2 (01:09:42):
And it's like, did you give them the proper.

Speaker 4 (01:09:44):
Tubs to understand how to survive financially, emotionally, mentally, spiritually,
how to God themselves through this world we live in?

Speaker 2 (01:09:52):
Did you give them the proper tuos?

Speaker 4 (01:09:54):
Obviously, this eighteen year old is sitting here saying, well,
These are the people that clap for me. These are
the people that support what mean even if him in
that eighteen year old had a relationship, that relationship dissolved
somewhere along the line, and you missed it when you
were on the road, you missed it. Being in that house,
you probably she probably see you as Oh he come
in Friday through Monday. All he do is sit on

(01:10:17):
the couch, or he sleeps, or he watched TV. Like
somewhere along the line that disconnect happened. So we only
got not even a whole ten percent of this story.
We got point five. And I want to hear everybody.

Speaker 3 (01:10:31):
I hate that. I hate when I get one side
of a story yesterday. You notice from being in the discord,
people always tell their worst, like the worst story from
their perspective, never take any accountability for the other side.

Speaker 4 (01:10:44):
This one here, I take accountability. That's important.

Speaker 3 (01:10:47):
What I do when I'm going through something, I call you.
I talk to you about it for years, and she'll
be like, okay, friend, do you want this side of you?
That's you? You got it right up until this right
and so she'll help me see the other side.

Speaker 5 (01:11:06):
You know.

Speaker 3 (01:11:07):
But a lot of times when people tell this story
and I think, I say, granted I did this. I
think when I told granted I did this. I hate
the people that tell this story like they are super.

Speaker 4 (01:11:16):
Victim right, like nothing ever happened, nothing ever transpirom o.

Speaker 2 (01:11:20):
I hate that we're too old for that.

Speaker 4 (01:11:22):
Like there are there are multiple ways in which a
disagreement happens, that there is accountability on both sides. I
know that I said this thing that was fucked up,
and I'm gonna own that.

Speaker 2 (01:11:35):
And I probably.

Speaker 4 (01:11:36):
Projected this even further than it needed to be, but
that's how I felt in the moment, and you said
what you said, so I said, fuck you and your
dead dog.

Speaker 2 (01:11:43):
I said it. So now where we going from this?

Speaker 4 (01:11:46):
Like? And I think that that's necessary and I feel
like for me like that, relationships.

Speaker 3 (01:11:51):
Say that as if you made that choice, you knew
you crossed the line, not like I had to. I'm
the victim.

Speaker 4 (01:11:56):
Yeah, no, hit them, and does I take accountability? That
to me is gary first flag of narcissism, A flag I.

Speaker 3 (01:12:07):
Know a couple of diabolical dickheads that do that.

Speaker 4 (01:12:09):
It's it's it's definitely Oh so you're I'm going hard
now because it's still going and I'm tired. It is
two for two, this is, this is, and I just
want to say, I just can I can.

Speaker 3 (01:12:24):
I just don't understand. You got work to do on yourself.

Speaker 2 (01:12:28):
I don't want to be here when it happens.

Speaker 3 (01:12:30):
All right, it's gonna's going to happen, because I'm tired
in any case, Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:12:35):
The count man, I just want to give you a
hug because damn.

Speaker 3 (01:12:41):
Because I got people around me that care about me.

Speaker 2 (01:12:43):
Okay, that's a beautiful.

Speaker 3 (01:12:44):
And when I'm falling and failing, they actually tell me
and they don't let me look like a worn down
version of myself. When you're very talented and you can be.

Speaker 2 (01:12:58):
Better, you need a for real this yeah, because that
was three shots.

Speaker 3 (01:13:04):
Firm believer and I thought for boom boom boom. Right, No,
I'm praying for you, firm believer and happy house spouse,
happy house. I want my man excited to come home too,
not sitting in the car before coming in because he
hates it. Here, somebody quotes that happy wife happy life

(01:13:24):
means if you make her happy, she'll be making you
happy as well. That's two happy people. I don't see
how y'all keep misinterpreting this. The whole concept is that
if a man is making his woman happy, his life
will be amazing because she will go above and beyond
to make sure of it. It was never Hey, you'll
be happy just knowing your wife is happy. Just take

(01:13:45):
care of your woman and she'll take care of you.
Causing effect.

Speaker 4 (01:13:48):
I agree to that. That is causing effect. That's what
I believe. A happy wife, happy life. I mean me personally.
If my husband is the provider, I'm going to make
sure I'm providing to keep him providing. If you got
what I'm trying to say, I.

Speaker 3 (01:14:02):
Came first the chicken to day.

Speaker 2 (01:14:05):
Definitely, we got them, We got them, we got him.

Speaker 3 (01:14:07):
Yes, I was waiting for it.

Speaker 2 (01:14:11):
You got it?

Speaker 3 (01:14:12):
What came first? Because why do I have to perform
for you to perform? Back? Know what I'm trying to
Why are we not like a trappee artist. Now I'm swimming,
you're swinging each other?

Speaker 4 (01:14:23):
So you no, no, no, you definitely not. That might
have came off right wrong. Let me explain what I
mean by providing and providing.

Speaker 2 (01:14:29):
It's one hundred yesterday's killing me yesterday.

Speaker 4 (01:14:32):
This this is a this is Okay, this is very
much so a clear up because you're missing turping in
what I'm throwing. What I'm saying is, if you're bringing
a hundred, why am I not bringing a hundred. I
don't believe in a relationship fifty to fifty. I'm not
trying to have a relationship fifty fifty because then now
I'm only getting half of you and you only give

(01:14:53):
it half of me, And this is not a real relationship.
Like if you're bringing a hundred, who the hell am
I to say you only gonna get seventy? No, if
he's bringing a hundred, you're supposed to bring a hundred.
That's what makes your relationship work. That's what makes that
two hundred percent. Like I said, every human being has luggage,
every human being has baggage, every human being has trauma.

(01:15:16):
It's just if your trauma match with my trauma. Is
if your energy matches with my energy, are we able
to be together and grow together. That's what I That's
just how I feel. So happy wife, happy life. Surround
the topic happy wife, happy life, that's what that means.

Speaker 2 (01:15:32):
That's not dancing around our side.

Speaker 3 (01:15:33):
I don't think you danced around the topic because What
we're talking about is effort put in now to make
your partner happy. That's it. When most people, generally women,
have said, hey, it centers around me, and if I'm good,
then you're good. If I'm good, then you're good. I

(01:15:53):
want my good to be dependent on whether you're good.
You're only good now, Yo, we should be making each
other good at the same time.

Speaker 9 (01:16:01):
It should be intentional. It should be an everyday thing.
This should be consideration all the time. But that's what
I'm saying. That wasn't a dance around. You give a hundred,
I give a hundred. That's me giving all of me
and you giving all of you. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:16:15):
Like it doesn't It doesn't mean like, oh yeah you.

Speaker 3 (01:16:20):
I gotta do with what she was saying. So I'm
trying to understand.

Speaker 4 (01:16:23):
I didn't say shit, I agree with if you give
a hundred, I give a hundred.

Speaker 2 (01:16:29):
But we are coming in giving each other a hundred.

Speaker 4 (01:16:31):
Well, that's not the way they No, I'm not doing
saying I from day one.

Speaker 2 (01:16:39):
Let me explain something I've been through life.

Speaker 4 (01:16:40):
I ain't got fucking time to deal with pitty pata
tiptatter on that first day, I'm like, this is who
I am, who you are?

Speaker 2 (01:16:47):
Were rocking? We not rocking? Are we fucking?

Speaker 3 (01:16:48):
Or we dating?

Speaker 5 (01:16:50):
Like?

Speaker 2 (01:16:50):
I don't got time.

Speaker 4 (01:16:51):
I ain't got time to waste in life to sit
here and play a fake date game. Okay, we're gonna
be fucking partners? Or are we trying to build something
like we're we trying to go like that needs to
be said on the first date.

Speaker 2 (01:17:03):
That's date too. On trying to get.

Speaker 3 (01:17:07):
To know you.

Speaker 2 (01:17:07):
I'm letting you know who I am.

Speaker 4 (01:17:08):
I'm very bold, I'm very loud, and I'm gonna let
you know.

Speaker 2 (01:17:12):
I'm gonna say what I want.

Speaker 3 (01:17:13):
What I in August? Do you start posting lines and ship? Hell?

Speaker 2 (01:17:16):
Yeah, cause not in August. I do that all year around.
Oh you're around all year round.

Speaker 3 (01:17:23):
I'm a strongly let them find a good Animal Planet video.

Speaker 8 (01:17:29):
No one and I know that rolling packs it's ridiculous.

Speaker 2 (01:17:35):
We go strong to be mad aquarious, Listen, I love
it strongly. We go strong. We are loyal, we love
and we are committed. We go strong. We know where
the hell we are.

Speaker 6 (01:17:47):
That sounds good.

Speaker 4 (01:17:48):
I think a lot of things sound good in theory,
but I think that you saw that shade it was.

Speaker 2 (01:17:56):
It was like it was like like a little I
think that I think we.

Speaker 8 (01:18:07):
Are.

Speaker 4 (01:18:07):
I think it would be disingenuous to say that it
does not start with the man making the woman happy first.
Or maybe it's just a me thing because I can't, like,
I know how much I'm willing to give and you
can't just give that. And another thing, men, from my experience,

(01:18:31):
have a tendency to say certain things up front in
the beginning, and then as you go through the rigmarole
of the relationship, you start to see different personalities. Women
are like that too, Yes, but and that's why I'm saying, like,
I don't think we all. I don't think anybody should
start off and just give one hundred percent. I do
think it's important to lay down the blueprint of who

(01:18:53):
you are and what your expectations are and then seeing
if those things are being met through the time of
dating and seeing what happens. Like I always say, like
I we not officially together until we have our first argument,
because I need to understand how you process and how you.

Speaker 2 (01:19:09):
Deal with disagreement.

Speaker 4 (01:19:11):
Like we could be lovey dovey for two whole years
straight and we have that first argument and you the type.

Speaker 2 (01:19:16):
To walk out the door and leave for a week
and not answer the phone. And I'm like, oh no,
that's not the type of nigga I can deal with.

Speaker 4 (01:19:21):
Right, So I think that there is a process to that,
And I also don't necessarily agree to the one hundred
percent one hundred percent. I can't subscribe to that because
I understand that as a person, there are going to
be those days that I'm not going to be one
hundred percent, and they're gonna be those days that you're
not going to be one hundred percent. So that means
that sometimes and it might be for months, it might

(01:19:44):
be for a period of time, a season where I
have to overcompensate in making you happy because to keep
us balancing a float and the opposite.

Speaker 3 (01:19:53):
That's a life, that's a life we talk about.

Speaker 4 (01:19:56):
Years leave in happy wife, Happy life. I do believe
in happy spouse, happy house, because I think that those
it shouldn't just be the wife, it should be interchangeable.

Speaker 2 (01:20:09):
But I also know that I go through seasons where I.

Speaker 4 (01:20:12):
Don't have one hundred percent to give to anybody in
this house, and I would hate for anybody in my
personal household to feel slided or feel like like I'm
not there for them because I need to also be
able to be there for myself. So I have to
As a person, you go through your own ebbs and flows,
so there will be times that I'm not good, So

(01:20:34):
I have to build myself up to be good and
not be co dependent on you making me feel good,
Like I have to get myself back to one hundred
and then I could give you a hundred.

Speaker 2 (01:20:44):
But then I also think that goes with communication.

Speaker 4 (01:20:47):
So I think that everybody should be happy and everybody
should pour into each other as they can and where
there are gaps in that household, and I can't.

Speaker 2 (01:20:59):
I'm not the center, but it does start with me.
I'm sorry.

Speaker 4 (01:21:02):
Like if my husband didn't start by pouring into me
and what I needed, we would have never been here.

Speaker 2 (01:21:07):
I didn't. I didn't pour in first.

Speaker 3 (01:21:10):
I did it.

Speaker 2 (01:21:11):
See that's me.

Speaker 4 (01:21:12):
That's that's the difference I think of us as women
is that I'm not waiting for somebody to pour into me.
I already poured into myself. And that's also could be
why I'm single too, because I know, yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:21:27):
I'm too strong. I'm very strong. And then a lot
of people are like, oh, you got to be submissive
to your man.

Speaker 4 (01:21:36):
Excuse me. That word is a customerd to me. You
might as well just say fuck you to me, because
this is a.

Speaker 3 (01:21:42):
Man for you. But it's man that does he have
to be like super masking, like super like dominant. So yeah,
there's a man out there for you. It's just depending
on how you in front of him and him being like,
you know, a word see.

Speaker 4 (01:22:03):
As a curse word for me because for some of us,
like black people specifically, because I can't speak for other people,
there are certain words that trigger us, even though the
meaning of the word stands. We don't like the words submissive.
We don't like the word obedient, like obedi, you say obedience.
Don't you ever tell me relax? If I was already

(01:22:23):
I would kill everybody, say relax outside while I'm in
on the penthouse, like you gotta scream that up. Don't
be in the same house and then tell me relax
you need to relax.

Speaker 3 (01:22:37):
I also can't say calm down.

Speaker 4 (01:22:40):
You can't because I'm already calling nothing of the nothing
of the story of you telling me to downplay my
emotions to make you feel more comfortable. When we're having
a conversation. You lost me. You need to relax because
I'm trying to need to do ship. I'm trying to communicate,
all right, then say that, Say hey baby, I'm trying
to communicate and I don't think that effectively communicating at

(01:23:01):
this moment.

Speaker 2 (01:23:01):
Say that, but don't say relax.

Speaker 3 (01:23:03):
I said relax. That's exactly what it means.

Speaker 2 (01:23:08):
Work for me.

Speaker 4 (01:23:08):
If I tell your mother to relax, and then now
we got a whole different situation.

Speaker 2 (01:23:13):
Exactly.

Speaker 4 (01:23:13):
That's what I'm saying. Everybody the word So the word
relax is a trigger word. Yes, And so with submissive
and I get that.

Speaker 2 (01:23:23):
You give him what he gives you.

Speaker 4 (01:23:25):
You, you know, like I'd rather we give a hundred,
you give a hundred.

Speaker 2 (01:23:28):
We meet in the middle.

Speaker 4 (01:23:29):
Then you telling me be submissive to somebody, because then
you're asking me, in your words, which is dead on,
to downplay myself to make you feel comfortable. I'm speaking passion,
speaking passion. I speak very passionately, So I'm not when

(01:23:49):
I'm speaking passionately and something I believe.

Speaker 2 (01:23:52):
In, I'm not upset. I'm not angry.

Speaker 4 (01:23:55):
If you know me, you know she's just passionate about
this subject. I'm gonna just let her rock.

Speaker 2 (01:23:59):
Just say I'm passionate. Don't call me angry, nigga, don't
play with me. Don't angry.

Speaker 3 (01:24:03):
Passionate and angry sound interchangeable to the listener. Yes it does.

Speaker 4 (01:24:09):
If you know, if you really know me and you're
really my partner, you really mind, You're not gonna say
some ship like that when you know I'm not angry.

Speaker 3 (01:24:17):
If I'm telling you to relax, I'm thinking you're angry.

Speaker 2 (01:24:21):
Instead of thinking, this is what I said.

Speaker 4 (01:24:23):
This is when you asked a question, say it's about me.

Speaker 3 (01:24:32):
I have to morph into this for you.

Speaker 2 (01:24:35):
Who are you to listen to?

Speaker 3 (01:24:36):
You see?

Speaker 6 (01:24:37):
And this is what this is? The problem is.

Speaker 2 (01:24:39):
I know I love this, This is my favor. This
is the problem.

Speaker 4 (01:24:42):
This is the problem because you need to just pull
you another drink that is water.

Speaker 2 (01:24:45):
Okay, baby, listen, you are drinking.

Speaker 4 (01:24:47):
Water down ice on that ice you've been wanting to
put in your cup.

Speaker 3 (01:24:52):
You made me pull a little bit of orange juice
into your glass of water. I did I have a
little bit of the quila into my ice.

Speaker 2 (01:24:58):
What's the different finish that? Yes, you're a I forgot listen.

Speaker 4 (01:25:09):
At the end of the day, there are certain words
that are triggering that we all understand. I think that submissive,
I understand why that's a triggering word. But me, I
don't use the word submissive. But I do respect gender roles.
I respect like I'm not I gender roles live in
my house because if you want to be the man,
you be that man. I'm gonna sit the fuck down,

(01:25:30):
and I'm gonna look real, I'm not doing it.

Speaker 2 (01:25:33):
I'm not doing it. I'm sorry.

Speaker 4 (01:25:35):
I I remember the years of being super strong, super
I got it, super independent, I could do everything. And
then I met a man that when he told me
to sit down, I was like, fuck out of here.

Speaker 2 (01:25:47):
And he's like, no, you need to you need to
have a seat. You need to relax.

Speaker 3 (01:25:51):
Point.

Speaker 2 (01:25:51):
Oh sorry, oh that's on my bag, not you just couch.

Speaker 4 (01:25:54):
Point Like it takes a certain man to tell you
to relax and you don't get mad because instead of
saying relaxed, in the way of relax, you're doing too much,
he said relax like you actually literally need to relax.
You don't have to walk around and have to do
everything all the time. That's because I can do his
energy for you. See, that's because his energy.

Speaker 3 (01:26:19):
Bag is on the couch.

Speaker 2 (01:26:20):
The part split the bag. You know what even told
you about white couches. First of all, I would just
like to say that you hit her pants and it's
on me and on a bag. I'm gonna look out
for my question.

Speaker 3 (01:26:33):
Yeah, wipe it on me, but don't just don't let
it get on But it's.

Speaker 2 (01:26:35):
Not on the white couch.

Speaker 4 (01:26:36):
I promise you kind of saw it in a way
from the angle that I see.

Speaker 3 (01:26:41):
Let me not lie time his life. Yeah, that ship
fee was wet to be honest.

Speaker 2 (01:26:44):
That you be happy, green on green.

Speaker 3 (01:26:49):
Happy wife happy.

Speaker 2 (01:26:50):
But you got the best energy.

Speaker 3 (01:26:52):
I just want to let you know right you do.

Speaker 2 (01:26:54):
You got great energy. You got great energy with someone
that meets your energy.

Speaker 4 (01:26:58):
And that's why this ship works for you, guys.

Speaker 2 (01:27:00):
And baby, yes, baby.

Speaker 3 (01:27:06):
A lot of men feel as if they are in
service to the lady.

Speaker 2 (01:27:13):
We're in service to each other.

Speaker 3 (01:27:14):
And so that's a great thing when that is the reality.
But a lot of men feel like their needs and
shit like that go to the back and service to
their partner. And so that's why I think that happy wife,
Happy life is triggering because it feels like ours is
on the back end.

Speaker 4 (01:27:34):
Yeah, I don't think a man that I think. Also,
I agree with what you're saying, and I especially agree
with it because of the society we live in.

Speaker 2 (01:27:42):
The society we.

Speaker 4 (01:27:42):
Live in when we talk about gender roles, like what
you point out, gender roles is something that even goes
all the way into the lgbt q I A plus community.
They even have gender roles and they're the same sex.
And that's very interesting to see and to see that dynamic.

Speaker 2 (01:27:59):
But it's true.

Speaker 4 (01:28:00):
So I do agree with you that men is always
considered the provider. They're supposed to make their women happy,
and nobody really talks about the woman making the man happy.

Speaker 2 (01:28:09):
And it's just like, oh, no, you don't have to
do that.

Speaker 4 (01:28:11):
Even when you think of the great aunties that raised us,
that's how they raised us to be, like, oh, your
man is supposed to take care of you. You just
cook meal, make sure his clothes is good, and that's it.
That's that nineteen fifties life. I'm in twenty twenty five,
and I feel like, if I'm going to be with somebody,
I want to know, wish you likes, wish your interest,

(01:28:33):
How can you and I basically build together. I want
to know who you are as an individual. I want
you to know who I am as an individual. And
this is what I mean by giving a hundred. What
I mean by giving a hundred is when I'm dating,
I'm dating intentionally. I'm telling you, hey, this is all
I want right now. If you ain't about that, life
deuces and I'm saying, oh, I'm dating with the intention

(01:28:55):
of building a relationship. If you're not about that, life
exit stage left. Because when you find that person that
wants to build a relationship, then y'all are working together
to build a real relationship. It's not just hit it
and quit it. And that's what happens. You have women
that really want a relationship, but they like the guy,
and the guy is on hit it and quit it,
but the woman is like, well.

Speaker 2 (01:29:16):
I can change him. I can change him.

Speaker 4 (01:29:19):
I thought that it was powerful, you know what I mean,
And it's like, no, girl, he told you listen, fall back,
and you know. And I'm a person that I had
to live through that experience to understand that experience where
I was with someone and we were kicking it, but
then the emotion flew in and then now we're saying
I love you to each other. And I'm thinking, Okay,

(01:29:40):
we're building something cause but he's like, no, I just
love you for you, but I ain't trying to be
in a relationship. And then I had to say, well,
don't say I love you to me. But if that's
how I feel, that's a real last day.

Speaker 2 (01:29:55):
I can love you but not want to be with you.

Speaker 4 (01:29:57):
I still love you, though, Yeah, But then it's the
way you s say, don't coddle with me and then
be like, I love you, know, but you say I
love you on the phone and say I love you
as a friend or I love you for the person you.

Speaker 3 (01:30:07):
Are, No like niggas say I love you. No, No,
I know you're saying. I disagree.

Speaker 2 (01:30:14):
I am what you're saying.

Speaker 3 (01:30:15):
I can cuddle with you and say I love you
and say I like you and say all that. It
doesn't mean I want to be with you.

Speaker 4 (01:30:19):
Yes, it doesn't mean that I want to be with you.
But then I'm just saying say that, but I did
say that, say that.

Speaker 3 (01:30:25):
I love you, but I don't want to be with you. No.

Speaker 4 (01:30:28):
What I'm saying is yes, oh please, Ma, please tell me,
because that's the type of man I want to be.
That's the type of person I want to be with.
I want to be with someone that's really to be
The d is telling y'all to real, I have been
through so much passive aggressive men that I want you
to be aggressive in your emotion.

Speaker 2 (01:30:48):
In your feeling. Say hey, I love you, I'd be like,
I love you too. I cool and then't like.

Speaker 3 (01:30:53):
That don't want to be with you? But didn't you
say I.

Speaker 4 (01:30:56):
Don't want to You know what I'm saying. I love you,
I don't want to be but I don't want to
be INtime. I gotta tell you every day like, oh,
by the way, he didn't tell me, I can say
that's the signature.

Speaker 2 (01:31:04):
Yeah, I don't text. I don't want to be with
you though, but I don't want to be good day.

Speaker 3 (01:31:08):
Don't want to be with you though.

Speaker 2 (01:31:09):
That's fine because then it's just like I.

Speaker 4 (01:31:11):
Love you because we're fucking yeah, be real, like that's
what I'm saying, Like, you know what, this is just
a sex relationship, but I love you as a person
in our sexual relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:31:22):
Boom, I'm cool with that, Yes.

Speaker 6 (01:31:25):
The whole.

Speaker 2 (01:31:26):
I don't need that passive aggressive bullshit. What I'm meant
to say now, I'm sitting here playing fucking guess.

Speaker 4 (01:31:31):
Who and clues. I ain't got time for mestory clues.
Say what you mean, mean what you say, and let
me decide if I want to be with you or not,
I think, and I'm bringing in like the the nineties
and hookup culture and how that has perpetuated through the
last few decades.

Speaker 2 (01:31:47):
I think that it is very important.

Speaker 4 (01:31:48):
To teach our children and the youngers, the twenty somethings
about intentionality and dating, and about clarity and dating. And
it's important to teach young girls like a man, his
word is his bond, like.

Speaker 2 (01:32:05):
Fuck, what he's showing you? What did he say to you?
And I think that action speaks so much louder than words.

Speaker 4 (01:32:12):
Yeah, And I think that that's something that a conversation
that we definitely need to have with women and with men,
the younger ones especially so that they understand what's really
happening here, because we definitely are the byproducts of hookup culture,
so we had to live through the bad side of
all of that to get to this point of clarity.

(01:32:34):
I think that I didn't start dating with intention until
after I went to therapy and after I had my
kid and the first person that I dated straight out
of therapy was my husband, and then that's when I
understood what intentionality was. But it took me three years.
I've been dating people since I was like fourteen, like

(01:32:56):
dating you know, casually or whatever, and not understanding what
it meant to be intentional, and not understanding what is
like the power of words and what that does and
what it feels like, and falling into these emotional relationships
with men that we were never in a relationship and
going through like sliding down the wall because I've been
dating a nigga for this amount of time, but I'm like, wait,

(01:33:16):
you was never my boyfriend. Actually, when I think about it,
I only had amount of boyfriends and stop it.

Speaker 2 (01:33:24):
No, I wasn't.

Speaker 4 (01:33:25):
And this is what in my twenties I had I
have And this is the the dominance the Brooklyn in
me right, Like I would never say the words my boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (01:33:40):
I would say this is my nigga.

Speaker 4 (01:33:42):
And when I say this is my nigga, you could
you could interpret that many different ways. So I would
introduce people till my male friends like yo, Who's just
like Yo, this is my nigga, and then Tao saying
like oh, you just told me.

Speaker 2 (01:33:54):
That was your boyfriend. I was like, I never used
the word boyfriend.

Speaker 4 (01:33:56):
He's like, it's the same thing, and I'm like, but
I didn't know how bringing.

Speaker 3 (01:34:00):
Him to events, you're out with him among your friends,
out with everybody.

Speaker 2 (01:34:04):
Because I like to go outside with.

Speaker 3 (01:34:07):
Nigga, multiple niggas, divia. It was always the same nigga
until he was.

Speaker 2 (01:34:10):
No more, and then it would be another nigga. Okay,
then you're with that person. Yeah, but that wasn't my
boy and then the person that he's.

Speaker 4 (01:34:17):
Speaking about, the person he's speaking about specifically. It really
burns in my brain because I remember this person asking
me to be his girlfriend several times and me saying no, Yo,
we were.

Speaker 3 (01:34:33):
Still people together girlfriend.

Speaker 2 (01:34:35):
Like I say, it sounds weird, like.

Speaker 3 (01:34:39):
Grown as adult. If you're saying this is your nigga,
this is the person you're with, the person you go
into a boyfriend, my boyfriend.

Speaker 4 (01:34:46):
Like like, I honestly, I think it's yet, Like I
agree on terminology, it's all about me and it's important.
The definition as for intentions, you if you know yourself,
if you took the time to love yourself and get
to know yourself, then you know automatically the intention you're
going into when you're dating, like right now, I could

(01:35:07):
be like, you know what, I'm not trying to date
right now because I ain't.

Speaker 2 (01:35:10):
Got time for it. I'm just focused on A, B
and C.

Speaker 4 (01:35:13):
Or I could be like, yeah, I'm trying to date
and get to know somebody, but then I realized I
don't really have the time.

Speaker 3 (01:35:19):
So to my point, you, if you had that conversation,
you would be introducing this person to your friends as
your friend. Yeah, this is my friend.

Speaker 4 (01:35:28):
I think this is my friends. So different for me,
that's two different words. When you say, hey, yeah, this
is my dude or whatever the case may be, that's you.
For me as a woman, when another woman introduced a
man to me and say this is my dude or
this is my name.

Speaker 3 (01:35:46):
Oh that's your man, that's your man. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:35:48):
But when another woman says to me this is my friend,
I'm like, what kind of ference is yeah? And then
it's like yeah, it's the way she's say friend when
I know it's a booty call or not a booty
called friend.

Speaker 2 (01:36:01):
Look look at my husband.

Speaker 5 (01:36:02):
I love.

Speaker 4 (01:36:03):
I don't funk friends, Like, this is not my friend,
We're not friends. We're literally in the stage. We're in
a talking stage, We're in a dating stage. We have
not made anything official, but I'm not a person like
somebody that's it the ignorance. I'm like it was my nigger,
Like this is this is him, This is the person
for now until he's not the person anymore.

Speaker 3 (01:36:24):
All right, listen, shut up. Obviously y'all already know what
I'm about to do. The people that have been here
with us for so long, y'all know we are heading
into part two, like part two with the.

Speaker 2 (01:36:35):
Going on, I'm here and I'm like, okay, we.

Speaker 3 (01:36:38):
Still got to talk. Just hilarious. We still got a
couple of things we have to If we are allies,
and if we are in.

Speaker 4 (01:36:48):
A community I'm an ally, then.

Speaker 3 (01:36:52):
Don't discuss the things that matter. First of all, to
tell these people that are not going to go to
Patreon and not going to listen to the full episode
with no ad ads that is a patreon dot com
backslash so shames podcast, or are only going to listen
to part where not going to listen to part to
telling me to find you tell them what you got
going on?

Speaker 2 (01:37:09):
Oh okay, really simple. The girl is d W to D.
Follow me on Instagram at I A.

Speaker 4 (01:37:15):
You know what, let me do this phonetically because everybody's
gonna spay my name wrong. I am DS and david
as and Apple vs and Victor I is in ice
DS and david as in Apple dot D. That's how
you spell my name David with A at the N.
You can follow me on ig you can see all
of the comedy shows that I'm about to be hitting up,
things that I'm hosting, things that I am producing.

Speaker 2 (01:37:36):
So you just got to follow me to you know,
stay in the know. How pretty much I'm following you now?

Speaker 3 (01:37:44):
Yeah, hilarious. Young lady definitely hosted the show. I was out.
We was at.

Speaker 2 (01:37:49):
Atlanta, Atlanta.

Speaker 3 (01:37:51):
Yes, it was a it was a great time. Please
follow her, support her and her endeavors and her career.
She's out here getting to it. She left a whole
situation for.

Speaker 4 (01:38:01):
It, sorry, whole marriage for it.

Speaker 3 (01:38:06):
Okay, Yes, we have several topics left on the menu. Dodge,
you can't tell me nothing.

Speaker 2 (01:38:11):
That's about that. Too fast for you, Tony B. I'm
gonna give it D I D A dot D and just.

Speaker 4 (01:38:17):
Put I am in front of it. I am DaVita
dot dyall.

Speaker 3 (01:38:21):
Already know Patreon dot com, back slash sociame this podcast.
Listen to AD free if you want, or yes on Thursday.

Speaker 6 (01:38:29):
So shameless, If.

Speaker 1 (01:38:33):
You so shamous, if you soous, if you know what

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