Sophisticated Ignorance Feat JD The Opinionated (Part Two)

Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:01):
If you know what I'm saying, so so shameless, If
you know what I'm saying, so shameless, If you know
what I'm saying, so shamous, so shameless, so so so stamoss.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
If you know what I'm saying, so.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Shameless, if you know what I'm saying, so shameless, If
you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if you know
what I'm saying, so shame.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
It is the other way that I wanted to go
with this conversation was talking about dress code and stuff
like that. Oh, let's do.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
It, because god, niggas be losing me.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
Dress code. Where is dressed like?

Speaker 2 (00:59):
You've got some guy damn sense?

Speaker 3 (01:01):
Oh yeah, damn, I got some great segues. Let's let's
see what I can do.

Speaker 4 (01:05):
Yes, I don't want to admit this, but as factual,
how you dress is going to give people subconscious cues
on how they're going to treat you. When I was
twenty three years old, I had made a ton of
money that week. I was fresh in my business and
my business was really taking off, and I said, you
know what, I'm going to treat myself to a Gucci bag.
So I walked in the store and I had sweatpants

(01:26):
on in a hoodie. I just didn't really care that day,
and I had my little TJ Max forty dollars back.
I'm walking in looking at the bags, and I remember
clearly that the staff completely dismissed me, and they started
giving attention to the ladies with Chanel and Prada and
Ramez bags. And eventually I ended up picking the bag
that I wanted, and I went right up to the
cash register and I paid for it, and I noticed

(01:46):
a huge shift in how they treated me. Oh my gosh,
you know I love you know, I blah blah blah,
and started talking up the game right. And I learned
a lesson that whether you like it or not, how
you dress and how you present yourself is going to
give subconscious use of how people treat you and how
they perceive you. Now, this doesn't matter if you're in
the gas station pumping gas and getting a bottle water. Okay,

(02:09):
there's gonna be days where be dressed how we want
to dress. But when it comes to business, when it
comes to important matters, when it comes to showing up
on social media, when it comes to speaking, these things
do matter. It's not about being fake. It's about being authentic.
Dress how you want to dress, just how you like
to dress. You want to show up extra powerfully, extra confidently,
and get rid of any possible opportunity where they misrepresent you.

(02:32):
Dress well, put it in that little extra bit of
effort and it will.

Speaker 3 (02:35):
Make the world of a difference. What do you think,
I'm gonna tell you right now. I agree. I don't
think it's fair, but I don't think this world is fair.
I think if you show up like JD, fuck me,
Versus if you show up like me, you go to

(02:56):
the Why right now? Well, he got that hoodie on,
my sn got them sandals on.

Speaker 5 (03:03):
Yeah, ashy blacks, astually black berks.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
I think that that metrosexual look, it just gives more.

Speaker 2 (03:11):
Mature What are you gonna stop labeling it?

Speaker 3 (03:13):
I don't mean it that way. But he has on
slacks just for no reason. He can come from church
just slacks.

Speaker 5 (03:18):
These reasons, those are those are not slack linen linen are.

Speaker 2 (03:23):
Some linen pants?

Speaker 3 (03:25):
Linen can't be sacks. I don't know. Linen can't know
they can't be slacks.

Speaker 5 (03:27):
But these are these are not like those types of slacks.

Speaker 3 (03:29):
This is like got drawn a string on it. Yeah, trousers, trousers.
He's just wearing trousers. Yeah, just casually wearing trousers, trousers.
I don't even know. He's dunges, you know, DUNGREDU.

Speaker 6 (03:49):
I like comfortability, man, you know what I mean. I'm
gonna do. I'm gonna do the loose vibes all the time.
I'm gonna do loose, let's fit it everything.

Speaker 3 (03:56):
This is not an attack of your stide for association.

Speaker 6 (03:59):
No, no, no, for sure what happens Tahoe can't dress,
so he will never understand.

Speaker 3 (04:04):
Yes, I agree, Drew, I agree.

Speaker 6 (04:07):
I'm that's curly shout out.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
He actually can't. You know, I think that if you
show up as JD shows up in rooms, there's just
gonna be a different level of respect that the room
is going to give him, even as a black man,
black man, a black man versus me showing up do
rag fitted fitted sweatpants. You said that too, It's correct, correct,

(04:34):
You're automatically gonna be I'm gonna be put in a
certain box. His is gonna it's gonna be TVD to
be determined. I don't know what type of but I'm
interested in, Like, what is this guy about I'm approachable, approachable, Yeah.

Speaker 7 (04:46):
I agree in totality, and I think as women, that's
something that we have to be more conscious of. Like
if I'm going to a high end store, I'm very one,
it's pre planned. Two, I'm not gonna walk in there
just with anything on. Like if I'm going into Louis
to get a Louis bag, I'm going to have a

(05:06):
high end bag.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
I'm not gonna have. But she said a TJ poor baby.

Speaker 5 (05:12):
But I don't give a fuck about that. Though I'm
not gonna lie.

Speaker 6 (05:15):
I'm not gonna dress up for the store. Down I'm
about to tap in.

Speaker 7 (05:18):
No, no, no, it's not dressed up for the store. I
just think that luxury begets luxury, modern begets modern, Like
there are there's certain things that you have to do.
You have to dress the part, like even with me,
like I'm a casual girl throwing through. I love jeans,
I love sweats, I love T shirts. But when I
go to work, I'm suited and booted every day. I

(05:39):
have on hills just about every day. Like, this is
not what I want to do, but I know my
position and what I do, and I have to show
up in a certain way like, I just can't.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
I can't go to work wearing jeans and a T shirt.

Speaker 3 (05:52):
So let me ask sun On and it's tailor yesterday.
Do you see the opening? And she just gave me why.
What's the why is it that you understand that when
it comes to these stores?

Speaker 2 (06:03):
I been understood.

Speaker 3 (06:05):
But your man, we did this, We did this does
not apply to me speaking to the message we actually
said before that. All I'm saying is, yes, you will
be perceived based off how you show up. This matters.

(06:26):
It does matter that this whole half an hour, die try,
we had this whole.

Speaker 7 (06:30):
Ever said that it didn't matter. All I said was
you gotta match me. You can't come. You can't complain
about the bare minimum when you give the bare minimum.
That was my That was my only point there. So
if you're not willing to put on a slack and
a loaf of to go out with me, don't say
shit about what I wear when I go out with you.

(06:51):
And and that's that's what we're gonna leave it there.
And for niggas that don't put that ship on, I
need you all to shut the fuck up.

Speaker 6 (06:58):
Sometimes how I judge don't determine necessarily that I'm approachable
as well, though you know what I'm saying, Like I
got my rings on, I might have a pearl necklace
on and ship like that, I still get looked at, Like.

Speaker 3 (07:11):
All right, this nigga is a nigga at the.

Speaker 2 (07:13):
End of the days.

Speaker 5 (07:15):
I mean, but like so like it really it really
did it? Really?

Speaker 6 (07:18):
It really depends, Like because if I go on Neiman
Marcus or like bird Off or you know what I mean, whatever,
if I go into any of these places, even dressed
how I would casually dress, but like, you know, nice,
they're still giving me a weird energy.

Speaker 5 (07:34):
They still give me a weird vibe. Like I just
think it really can't ford it because.

Speaker 6 (07:37):
Even if I I might have some design ships, you
ain't never gonna really see that as designer because I
don't like labels like personally, so.

Speaker 5 (07:45):
Like I'm like, you can't. I don't know.

Speaker 6 (07:48):
I really don't give a fuck how somebody taps in.
Just don't be looking like a bum, you know what
I'm saying, Like I hate bums, like I hate the
Nike text. Shit, I ain't gonna lie, so I'm sorry,
I'm sorry. No, No, I do hate Nike text it.

Speaker 3 (08:06):
I hate like you got you got.

Speaker 7 (08:08):
Your Nike text right now that you wouldn't even know.

Speaker 5 (08:12):
You wouldn't even know.

Speaker 6 (08:13):
They all trashed me. You ain't going to the gym,
like just like if you ain't going to the gym,
dress just just like damn.

Speaker 2 (08:20):
I wish I would have wore my Tech today because
I almost put it on.

Speaker 5 (08:23):
Just dressed, but just just nice, like you know what
I'm saying, look presentable.

Speaker 2 (08:27):
At the end of the day, I have a Nike text.

Speaker 3 (08:29):
The nigga couldn't finish none of that.

Speaker 7 (08:32):
You can't, can't christ I got a Nike text you Yeah, okay,
jumper Nike.

Speaker 2 (08:37):
Is flair legs that I could put on with a
shoe one.

Speaker 7 (08:41):
You would never know what's tech comfortable as a motherfucker,
Like it's it's black. So the whole tech jumpsuit is black,
and it says nicely black. So you can't really like,
you gotta really like niggas would be like tech. I
would and I and I wore it to work because
my homeboy, my homeboy was like, Yo, you got on

(09:02):
a tech suit at work.

Speaker 2 (09:03):
That's not professional. And I was like, oh, it's not.

Speaker 7 (09:05):
And a crazy hr ahead of hr happened to be
in a building and I was like, Yo, do you
like my No? She was like no, I like your outfit.
And I was like really because somebody told me that
it was unprofessional because he a hood nigga too, so
he knew it was tech.

Speaker 2 (09:20):
But when you see it on, you not gonna like
not too much. You could dress anything up.

Speaker 6 (09:25):
I don't believe that I'll showed you because even the
pajamas shit, like what they talking about right there, pajamas
high in public, like you see that all the time.

Speaker 8 (09:33):
Like so you could do a tech but a nigga
can't throw some jeans on it all right?

Speaker 6 (09:38):
Like no, I feel like you gotta be presentable. I
kind of really ate especially us as black people. I
do want us to be presentable everywhere we go.

Speaker 5 (09:46):
You get what I'm saying. I don't think anyway how
Tahoe dresses is not presentable. You get what I'm saying.
Despite how you may.

Speaker 6 (09:53):
Deem your style or whatever like that, even if you
dress as a hood nigga, I've seen hood niggas that's
just fly like that, like they present them. They got
the nice fitted I kind of wish I could pull
over fitted I can't pull fit as off. That's not
my vibe, you know what I'm saying. Or like some
nice sneakers on some Jordan's and ship like that, I
think we should kill skinny jeans.

Speaker 5 (10:11):
I'm just saying.

Speaker 6 (10:12):
However, if you're a skinny nigga and you pull it off,
you're doing your ship, then cool, like you got your
you got your swag to it. It doesn't matter. But like
you're presentable, you know what I mean. That's all that matters.
You gotta be presentable. And this ship because.

Speaker 5 (10:25):
In anywhere we go, we look.

Speaker 6 (10:29):
White people braw whoever, they gonna look.

Speaker 5 (10:32):
At us, like look at this nigga, Like you know
what I'm saying, So.

Speaker 6 (10:35):
Show up for yourself so like others could, like, you know,
give you that respect.

Speaker 5 (10:40):
People gotta give you that respect.

Speaker 3 (10:41):
Bro.

Speaker 5 (10:41):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (10:43):
Do we do? We should we exist for uh the
approval of white people?

Speaker 9 (10:51):
Uh?

Speaker 7 (10:51):
No, No, we shouldn't.

Speaker 6 (10:55):
Exist for the approval of white people. But we should
exist for the approval of ourselves.

Speaker 3 (10:59):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 5 (11:00):
We should exist for the approval of ourselves.

Speaker 3 (11:02):
Like, hey, how I feel and this is how I
feel like expressing myself.

Speaker 5 (11:06):
What pajamas in a bonnet?

Speaker 3 (11:07):
If that, if if this is how I feel like
expressing myself, you saying approval of myself. If I approve
of this, then what does it matter with other people?

Speaker 2 (11:15):
Think it?

Speaker 6 (11:17):
Like we know? You know it matters everybody. Everybody be
saying shit like you know what I mean?

Speaker 5 (11:22):
Nah, it madters.

Speaker 6 (11:23):
Like I dress for myself, but I also dress for
the appeal of others. You get what I'm saying. As
far as like y'all know this is gonna look fly,
I know, I know, like you know what I'm saying.
I can feel like I like what this looks like
for me, but I know how this makes my shoulders look.
I know how this makes my chest look or my
legs look, whatever the case is, and that is to

(11:45):
appeal to women.

Speaker 5 (11:45):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 6 (11:46):
So I dress for women, you get what I'm saying,
and also dress for myself. But I'm being real with that,
Like niggas, don't be real like you dressing. You're not
just dressing for yourself. Nobody just dressed for themselves, and
if you do, you don't get the fuck really, which
is a problem.

Speaker 2 (12:02):
I'm scared of people that don't give a fuck.

Speaker 5 (12:03):
You gotta give a fuck when you walk outside. Let's
just be let's be.

Speaker 3 (12:06):
Honest, let's be just for my baby mother yesterday. Okay,
that's peace. Is that crazy? I believe that my baby
mother is NB A Young Boy stylist. Yes, I knew
she was bringing us backstage.

Speaker 5 (12:21):
Wait, wait, said that again.

Speaker 3 (12:22):
My baby mother, my son's mother's NB A Young Boy stylists.
So yesterday, yesterday, yesterday, yesterday, yesterday, him and I went
to the concert with my sons. I asked him to
come with me because Wayian's was going crazy. But beforehand,
I looked at my closet and was like, I'm not
going to embarrass her by walking in there looking like

(12:44):
she's just some off the street nigga. She's his stylist.

Speaker 5 (12:47):
That's as you should though.

Speaker 3 (12:48):
Right And so like you said, oh you hit me
talking about you look good? I did that for her?
Is that crazy? Now? My girl have a I don't
think you do.

Speaker 6 (12:58):
I don't think he's necessarily even did it for her.
You kind of did it for the moment, you know
what I'm saying, not.

Speaker 2 (13:04):
To embarrass her. So now I hope you get dressed
the same way when you go out with.

Speaker 3 (13:08):
Is that crazy?

Speaker 2 (13:09):
Because that's what we was talking about, right, We was
bringing it back.

Speaker 7 (13:11):
So when you go out with your fiance, you're gonna
make sure that you get dressed for her too.

Speaker 3 (13:15):
I wear all my new stuff on dates with my fiance,
for sure, And I also shot for her when I
go shopping for myself. So if you ask, oh, what
do I do, Yes, when I buy something for myself,
buy something my fiance as well. But I'm not gonna
wear the old ship, is what I'm saying. Stop trying,
you try.

Speaker 2 (13:31):
I'm not gonna wear.

Speaker 3 (13:32):
The old ship.

Speaker 2 (13:34):
You're not gonna wear the old ship.

Speaker 3 (13:35):
No, there's a certain thing when you got some new,
especially when you dressed like me. JD could probably wear
some ship that he's had and still make it look fly.

Speaker 4 (13:42):
Me.

Speaker 3 (13:42):
I'm a mannequin, nigga. Give me that mannequin right there,
the shirt he said, I don't have time for that.

Speaker 5 (13:48):
I don't you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (13:50):
Give me that whole outfit right there. I'm about to
put that on and take the tags off. I'm gonna
walk out of here.

Speaker 5 (13:53):
Yeah, I don't even do that. I just shot.

Speaker 3 (13:55):
I threw.

Speaker 5 (13:56):
I threw shop anyway.

Speaker 3 (13:57):
Mainly you know what I'm saying, I love it. Shot.

Speaker 5 (14:00):
I ain't really even but it's really I'll.

Speaker 8 (14:02):
Be doing anything even you don't do You don't do
just anything, just putting it together.

Speaker 3 (14:10):
I have a particular that's what who do you just
signing you a fucking liar? Go ahead, go ahead, just
go ahead, lie get it out because.

Speaker 8 (14:20):
Myself and women obviously what I'm saying nigga myself though,
there's not what did you say you do?

Speaker 3 (14:27):
Just for what did you say?

Speaker 2 (14:29):
He said he'd just be doing it?

Speaker 3 (14:32):
Yo. This nigga told me the other day he plans
is out sometimes it takes him months to pay literally
just doing that.

Speaker 5 (14:42):
It's literally what he said. That's not doing anything.

Speaker 8 (14:44):
When I said all right, I mean when I say
doing anything, I'm saying I'm not. I don't go I
don't buy one outfit at a time. But like you know,
I people boy the whole outfit and everything. I don't
do that. So like I'll see some sneakers, I'll get
the sneakers I haven't for months. I'll remember be like,
oh shit, I got those things I never wore. I
see your shirt, I grabbed the shirt, grabbed the jeans.

(15:04):
So it takes me like a year or like a
year and a.

Speaker 5 (15:07):
Half to put it to put together like that one fit.

Speaker 2 (15:09):
Yeah, Like is that good?

Speaker 3 (15:11):
Is that crazy? That's not crazy because you're telling me
that you do anything when it takes you a year
and a half half on one out. You know about
the opposite normal space, opposite literally doing anything is me?

(15:33):
I just do it a rainbow do rag. Doing anything
is me. I just put some sh it on and
be like, hey, fuck it whatever, whatever it is, it
is wherever saying yo. In January, I bought a sneakers.
In June, I bought a T shirt. I found a
pair of jeans for it, and never wear another show
you never wear any other shit until it's all together.

Speaker 8 (15:54):
Because if you look at this nigga, the man waiting
until November, the black half toward in November, I have
a fitted from five years ago that I number wold.
I've been waiting to ticket the black cat for its
just the way that fit is.

Speaker 5 (16:07):
I see what you're saying you that's for shirret and outfits.

Speaker 6 (16:10):
But like I'm looking at you right now, the hat,
the shirt and the socks, five years it all matches Yes,
it all matches.

Speaker 3 (16:19):
Yes, you like you.

Speaker 6 (16:20):
That's not just anything. Yes, you put that ship together.
Taho came on my pod and then he was like,
you know, I put this together Like it was like
like he tried to match the shirt with He tried
to he tried to match and s like that, I'll
just be doing anything I be. I mean, I'll be picking,
I'll be picking color palettes, maybe like I'll go color balets.

Speaker 3 (16:42):
But that's what huh sorry what you just said? What
did you say?

Speaker 5 (16:46):
What do you just say? I missed even yesterday.

Speaker 3 (16:49):
That's what women do, the color blocking.

Speaker 5 (16:51):
Funk out of here, you color blocking. But I used
to go to school for fashion, So that's just what
it was.

Speaker 3 (16:56):
Fat women. It's a women let industry and gay people.

Speaker 2 (17:01):
What they're talking about. You're just proving what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (17:05):
It's easier to dress around color palace and it is
to like just.

Speaker 7 (17:08):
Put so disgusted by you today.

Speaker 2 (17:12):
First of all, I'm wrong, wrong.

Speaker 5 (17:14):
Just him call me metrosexual. It's cool.

Speaker 7 (17:17):
No, it's not even about that. It's about the fucking audacity.
It's the audacity of this nigga that get upset at
his girl coming outside regular and he don't even put
that ship on.

Speaker 2 (17:29):
This is what I'm talking about.

Speaker 7 (17:31):
He like a woman because you actually do things with intentionality,
and you actually like I could tell you put that
ship on. She should never wear anything for you outside
of a fucking legging and a T shirt. You son
of a bitch.

Speaker 2 (17:48):
You're horrible. You deserve nothing shirt.

Speaker 3 (17:53):
You deserve nothing, no.

Speaker 2 (17:58):
Nothing, no nothing.

Speaker 3 (18:00):
Make sure I get my hair cut for her. If
it wasn't for her, I would probably not even get
my haircut like that.

Speaker 2 (18:05):
And that's that princess treatment. That's bare minimal, that's grooming.

Speaker 6 (18:09):
That's you're you're, that's you get haircuts. Just you don't
get haircuts for you. You wouldn't get a haircut.

Speaker 3 (18:18):
I'll be so busy working, taking care of kids, all
types of other ship.

Speaker 2 (18:22):
And she not busy working, taking care of kids and
taking care of you. She deserves to do nothing.

Speaker 7 (18:28):
She deserves to do nothing out of here when she
got to do some extra ship. This nigga gonna come
outside with Jordan's and a T shirt. But she got
to do extra ship.

Speaker 3 (18:37):
Have Jordan's like that.

Speaker 10 (18:39):
Up.

Speaker 2 (18:40):
That's even worse.

Speaker 7 (18:42):
I don't like that she keeps saying that like that,
but that he deserves nothing heerves.

Speaker 3 (18:46):
That's his style, not mine.

Speaker 2 (18:49):
The least ship is intentional. He'd be playing ship for
a decade.

Speaker 3 (18:52):
Five years is a long time.

Speaker 8 (18:55):
The fitted is hard. Way I see, you're gonna be like,
I see what you're doing.

Speaker 7 (18:58):
I'm probably never going to see it because we never
because if you don't get them sneakers on.

Speaker 3 (19:02):
The drop Christmas and we're talking about outfits, we're here
into another We've talked our way into another segue. Let's
go also two ways I could go with this. And
what I am gonna do is pull up this picture
of teachers one It says teachers I had back in

(19:25):
the nineties versus what kids have today in twenty twenty five.
I'm gonna drop this picture into the discord for y'all
to see. Let me see if I can. I know
you guys are listening. Shout out to the No shamegang
who is here listening to us, and they're commenting a
lot of them are not happy with me for part

(19:49):
of this conversation, but that's fine, they'll be all right.
All right. I'm gonna pass this picture around so that
y'all can see it. Y'all, remember those teachers on the top,
old Jewish ladies mostly Miss rosenbomb Is flairy of the world. Yeah, yeah,
one thousand versus the teachers that you have today that
dress in Nike texts. God bless them, just like me,

(20:10):
what I dress.

Speaker 2 (20:11):
I look good old times.

Speaker 3 (20:14):
This teacher.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
Can't sweater over that ass pajamas.

Speaker 8 (20:20):
That teacher right there, I'll be in class every day.

Speaker 11 (20:23):
You know, this teacher right here, you can't see a
lot of that's kind of hell but professional, very much,
just a body though tight dressing about skin tight dresses.

Speaker 2 (20:37):
Skirts, professional with a button up.

Speaker 3 (20:40):
His professional Jewish teacher has on trousers. I'm not going
to like they still yesterday. Can I see this camera?
Trousers right? Hold on, They was having a browsers. It
was having a bond under day though, trousers. Right. The
ladies back then, they dress a lot more loosely. The

(21:01):
ladies today are wearing their skin tight dresses and sun
dresses and stuff like that. Well, that's all rights of.

Speaker 5 (21:08):
The teachers nowadays.

Speaker 3 (21:09):
A little younger, you get a lot younger and blacker and.

Speaker 2 (21:12):
Be happy about it. I can't say that.

Speaker 6 (21:17):
But like the older the older teachers, they just out
of style now, man, they're out of style. This style
has changed. Women are more comfortable with their bodies, you
know what I mean. They're there, they have more rights,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (21:31):
I'm saying, hey, come.

Speaker 3 (21:35):
On them cook. They just got the right to vote
in like the seventies.

Speaker 5 (21:40):
But my point is, my point is women.

Speaker 3 (21:44):
Women are now.

Speaker 5 (21:45):
Getting into fifties. Women are now getting into the.

Speaker 6 (21:51):
Hey don't look at me for my body, look at
me for my mom's type type stuff.

Speaker 5 (21:54):
And I'm with them on it. You know what I'm saying.
Can I teach your child? Is what I'm saying. Can
I teach your kid?

Speaker 2 (22:02):
Does everybody else want to? I said? And does anybody
else want? As an admin?

Speaker 7 (22:12):
There are definitely levels to professionalism, and in thinking about
these the teachers in particular that.

Speaker 2 (22:24):
Whose pictures we.

Speaker 7 (22:25):
Saw, I do have notes, but they're not dressed unprofessionally.
One of them, one of the notes is one of
the teachers that a lot of the Internet was talking about.
My issue is more with her shoes than with her outfit,
because she had like the strappy heels or whatever like,

(22:45):
she had them like stilettos, the toes out, but the straps.
That's inappropriate for school. One you should not have your
toes out in the school.

Speaker 2 (22:52):
That's one.

Speaker 7 (22:53):
Two you should not be wearing strappy stiletto heels because one,
you're walking around all day. Two if something happens, how
are you gonna be able to like mitigate that?

Speaker 2 (23:03):
Like you wanna fucking break your ankle?

Speaker 7 (23:05):
Stupid like put on a fucking a flat, put on
a loafer or whatever. The shoes change the the the fit.

Speaker 3 (23:14):
For me, I agree.

Speaker 7 (23:15):
Also, my thing is if you are gonna wear a
dress like that, think about.

Speaker 2 (23:22):
Your a line. That's very important.

Speaker 7 (23:25):
And two there's nothing wrong with putting on a sweater
on top of it. Yeah, Like like even me, like,
I'm very aware of how things look on my body.
So if I do wear a pencil skirt, I probably
might not tuck the shirt in or might wear something
a little longer.

Speaker 2 (23:43):
I'm good for a blazer.

Speaker 7 (23:45):
It'd be hot sometimes though, So it's just like, damn,
I gotta sit here in this blazer because I don't
want my ass to be poking out the back. It's
just about discernment. But none of nothing that they're wearing
is quote unquote unprofessional. An unprofessional she don want to
button up.

Speaker 3 (24:01):
She doesn't.

Speaker 7 (24:02):
Just her body was good if anything, because if she
was posing, standing straight to the front, like her ass
is her ass?

Speaker 2 (24:08):
What you want her to do about that?

Speaker 5 (24:10):
But like also posed posed like a teacher, teacher supposed to.

Speaker 6 (24:19):
I think you want me to stand up and not
just just just do that straight. Look, you don't gotta
fucking what the women do is poke their ass out
and all that.

Speaker 3 (24:30):
Ship.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
But that's how you posed.

Speaker 6 (24:32):
That's how she show the first picture, the first picture
of the regular people.

Speaker 5 (24:35):
See, come on, he's problematic. No, no, no, the other teachers, the.

Speaker 3 (24:42):
Old ladies teacher pose. That's a teacher, poe, look at that,
that's what.

Speaker 7 (24:48):
But that's a professional pose they probably used for the
fucking for the year.

Speaker 5 (24:55):
That's my grandkids, proud of me, man, that's my kids.

Speaker 6 (24:58):
Probably that's what you want me to pull. They still
like that because yeah, they still let the cheeks too.
They don't get the big they had they had they had. Man,
my teachers, my teachers have body messing with my teachers.

Speaker 5 (25:15):
My teachers have body my teachers the teacher polls. I
love that. That's claims that as you.

Speaker 2 (25:20):
Yeah, yeah, that's the teacher poll that's the teacher polls.

Speaker 5 (25:23):
That's a teacher post.

Speaker 3 (25:25):
Give it the time.

Speaker 2 (25:26):
Maybe I gotta buy privacy, privacy teacher polls.

Speaker 3 (25:31):
Yeah, teacher, one hand on the head.

Speaker 5 (25:34):
Teacher, Why you went to the side.

Speaker 3 (25:38):
Oh, I can't.

Speaker 2 (25:38):
I can only post straight forward.

Speaker 5 (25:40):
Straight forward, because that is the teacher.

Speaker 2 (25:42):
Not the teacher polls.

Speaker 3 (25:43):
He said this teacher, because when you when you.

Speaker 5 (25:45):
Turn, but this is the teacher. And you see. Now
you see the pe you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (25:48):
You see the letter that so you're not supposed to
see that.

Speaker 5 (25:52):
They can't see a lot of pee.

Speaker 3 (25:53):
They can't see what I'm gonna keep him.

Speaker 2 (25:54):
I'm just showing pictures on my Instagram.

Speaker 3 (25:57):
I wasn't gonna say nothing.

Speaker 5 (25:59):
Yeah, put it in the disc all right. Yeah, that's
too much legs.

Speaker 2 (26:06):
Too much legs.

Speaker 3 (26:06):
Listen, even though the lytris go down to the floors.
Too much les, too much leg, too much leg. You
don't think that's too much leg?

Speaker 2 (26:14):
My leg?

Speaker 3 (26:16):
Yo?

Speaker 5 (26:16):
I can't.

Speaker 3 (26:18):
I do want to ask you a question, serious question.
What is the problem with the leg or with the poles?
Do you think that kids are sexualizing their teachers? Do
you think they're stopping the education.

Speaker 5 (26:28):
About sexualize the teachers.

Speaker 3 (26:30):
No, because we have teachers. I look good, I'm fifty.
We're talking about in the fucking eighties.

Speaker 5 (26:40):
Sexualized teachers.

Speaker 3 (26:41):
My teachers were sixty. My teachers did yo. The teachers
nowadays are thirty, twenty seven, twenty eight, twenty nine, black
women like I remember the one black miss bell Like
she was literally sixty or something like that. She was
a bigger woman and she dressed like these old white ladies.

Speaker 2 (26:59):
Now.

Speaker 3 (27:00):
And I've said this in other conversations, our elders are
dressed like the youngers. The elders have that same.

Speaker 7 (27:10):
I'm not a teacher, you're elder though I'm not a teacher,
but you're an elder, you just said. Nowadays the elders dressed.

Speaker 2 (27:15):
Like the younger.

Speaker 3 (27:17):
Agree. But I'm also not a teacher, and I'm also
if I were to be a teacher, slacks and a
button up every day, most likely every day. But remember
I haven't been in the school in a long time.
But my mind is, uh, remember what I wore to
your engaging party mixa mingle Banana Republic.

Speaker 2 (27:39):
That's not what if that's not the culture of that school.

Speaker 7 (27:43):
Because sometimes can't ask me that look at yesterday, look
at the ship yesterday?

Speaker 2 (27:46):
Where to work every day?

Speaker 7 (27:47):
He don't wear button ups and khakis A nothing. This
nigga wear T shirts and jeans and Jordan's.

Speaker 3 (27:52):
I am not here him would ask me what I
would think that to wear. I am not a teacher,
But if you're gonna act to me what I would wear,
I would think that's the type of thing I would do.
That's what I would think.

Speaker 7 (28:04):
But what if that is not the aesthetic of that building?
Because not every school you have to dress up super professional.
Some schools you can wear T shirts and jeans.

Speaker 3 (28:12):
Well, I'm not actually against the dress code. I I'm like, yo,
I feel like the students are learning way more now
and connecting with the teachers more now.

Speaker 5 (28:28):
Education is at an old time low statistics.

Speaker 3 (28:30):
I think. I asked myself teachers. I asked my stepdaughter
a question about something, and she said to me, she's sixteen,
and she said to me, yeah, I just feel like
I was over stimulated and that when I get in
positions like that, I need to remove myself in order
to be able to recalibrate. That's dope, I said, what

(28:54):
they watched more, No, I understood what she said, but
I couldn't even believe she she was able to eva
you wait her emotions and it even come with words
that I definitely couldn't do that at sixteen. So I
don't know if that's social media. I don't know what
is going on, But yes, we're losing a lot of kids.
But these kids are way more intelligent than I ever was.

(29:17):
She's more intelligent I am. Now. I never say that other.

Speaker 6 (29:19):
Because we're in the information age, so obviously our phones
like helps a big great deal of that.

Speaker 5 (29:24):
And I'm not blaming teachers either.

Speaker 6 (29:26):
But back to the dress code situation, I don't have
a problem with the dress code. The dress code isn't
the problem. It's you posing the way you're posing and
posing it and then people seeing what the vibe is.

Speaker 5 (29:40):
Question you get what I'm saying. I mean, like, come on,
you know what that's gonna do? You know it's gonna
call something?

Speaker 9 (29:45):
Question?

Speaker 5 (29:46):
Answer?

Speaker 2 (29:47):
Are they posing that way with children in the room?

Speaker 3 (29:53):
Are you sticking your butt out with children? Am? I am?

Speaker 7 (29:55):
I this posed with children in the room because there
was no kids in any those rooms when them ladies
took those pictures.

Speaker 2 (30:01):
Correct, however, so no, we could see it.

Speaker 5 (30:05):
Go look, but she's not.

Speaker 7 (30:09):
But she didn't take that picture. Somebody took up that
is a snapshot of a video. They ain't no children
in that room because as an educator, to be very
honest with you, somebody that's been in us for.

Speaker 3 (30:20):
Ten years, somebody's taking those take pictures.

Speaker 7 (30:23):
Somebody, no, not even that, somebody that's been in this
for ten years. When you have kids in the room,
you don't got time to take no fucking picture. You
do that either in the morning before the kids come in,
or after school when the kids is not there, or
when the kids is in another classroom. You have that
type of time to take a picture like that. So
I'm being very honest, ain't no kids in that room
because the kid is not gonna be the one taking

(30:43):
a picture. And the first one tea the original teacher, babe,
she taught like elementary school, like first grade or some
shit like that, Like a first gradeer did not take
that picture.

Speaker 2 (30:50):
Another teacher took that picture. That's number one. Number two,
whether I'm an educator or not, I am not above reproach.

Speaker 7 (30:58):
You got a president right now that was talking about
grabbing bitches by the pussy, So if I want to
take a picture and put it on my gram and
because my profession is my profession, you can't tell me
that I can't do that. Everybody can suck my dick.
That's where I am in education right now, because it's
like I have to be this.

Speaker 2 (31:15):
Pillar of perfection.

Speaker 7 (31:16):
You got priests touching on kids, you got pedophiles running rampant,
you got presidents and and and all of these people
with racial slurs, and this, that and the third.

Speaker 2 (31:25):
The country is in a fucking upheaval.

Speaker 7 (31:27):
But you want to police the fact that I took
a picture at work with no children around, as a
grown ass person, and I posted it on my grown
ass Instagram.

Speaker 2 (31:37):
And it's a problem. Please explain to me the problem.

Speaker 5 (31:41):
Me personally, I don't think it's a problem. I just
do think that I get the backlash.

Speaker 6 (31:46):
You're gonna You're gonna welcome backlash if you if you
take if you dressed like that at work and you
you show your curves and all that ship, which is whatever,
but you know you're gonna get backlash.

Speaker 2 (31:57):
You can't be mad at the backlash, but you sho
not get backlash.

Speaker 7 (32:01):
People are more upset about what teachers are wearing and
less upset about the fact that they kids can't read.
So please, like Uchi Wally is in one mic, you
mad at what I'm wearing, but I come to work
every single day to make sure that your kid is better.
But you're not worried about the fact that little Johnny
didn't know how to read until he came in my class.

Speaker 2 (32:20):
So what do you want to do? What are we
talking about?

Speaker 7 (32:23):
And even you said that you sexualized your teachers in
the past, and I'm pretty sure they probably wasn't dressed
like that. Because if you find you fine, if you swaggy,
you swaggy. If you look good, you look good. It
doesn't matter. Because I have literally had friends that had
crushes on teachers, and them niggas was not wearing tech.

Speaker 2 (32:42):
They wasn't. Why is they had on suits and shit
like that.

Speaker 5 (32:45):
You just look good.

Speaker 2 (32:46):
I can't help that I look good. So what are
we mad at?

Speaker 7 (32:49):
If you feel that bad about what I'm wearing, you
teach your baby And we see what happened when them
kids was home for two years and the parents had
to teach their own kids. These niggas can't tie, they shoe,
they can't go to the bathroom. They don't know they
ate he sees or they want two threes, So don't
talk to me about what I'm wearing.

Speaker 3 (33:02):
Get somebody else that really does an amazing job at
talking eloquently. But she does these things where she does
the threes. I'm swagging. I'm swaggy if I look and
I look good if I got them threes, she does that.
I noticed that y'all be studying you. You're really good
at it. I just know we were talking about judging
people for their dress. Do y'all judge people for their occupation?

Speaker 2 (33:29):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (33:30):
Hold on, let me see if I can find a
god Damn, I could he determine.

Speaker 1 (33:33):
If he would?

Speaker 3 (33:34):
The day and I saw this real nice looking guy
and I couldn't determine.

Speaker 12 (33:37):
If he was actually I ain't groceries for himself or
if he was an instacarter. And my mind started to spiral,
like could you state an instacarter? And then it made
me think of like what careers would you not be
able to date? Now, me as a forty six year

(33:58):
old woman, college educated entrepreneur own my own business, these
are the people in their careers that I would not date.
I'm not dating as a drug dealer.

Speaker 2 (34:13):
Or a scammer.

Speaker 12 (34:14):
I got way too much to lose to be caught
up in any type of scamming.

Speaker 2 (34:18):
You got gun, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (34:19):
You won't take me down.

Speaker 12 (34:21):
You know what I mean? A stripper, of course, a
personal trainer. They be getting too much, They be getting
too much tank tank thrown at them.

Speaker 2 (34:30):
I ain't got time of it.

Speaker 9 (34:34):
What else?

Speaker 12 (34:37):
I don't know if I could date somebody who has
a full time job that I considered to be a
part time job, and at the age of forty six,
and I'm dating people who are in their forties. You
need to have a career. You need to have a
career to date me. You need to have been at
your job for almost fifteen twenty years.

Speaker 2 (34:58):

Speaker 12 (35:00):
You should be pending retirement at this point. You you
closer to retirement than just starting a job. So I
need somebody with some with some behind him, you know
what I mean? Ladies, tell me what what job would
you not need?

Speaker 5 (35:19):
What jobs would you not date?

Speaker 3 (35:20):
It's crazy? Triggered when she said the part time thing?
Huh you felt triggered?

Speaker 5 (35:26):
Part time?

Speaker 3 (35:27):
I don't I don't have what's your occupation?

Speaker 5 (35:30):
Boughton? What Boughton?

Speaker 3 (35:37):
That's it? Boughton. No, he's a successful bartender. By the way,
he's a successful I don't in a high end and
a high end bar.

Speaker 6 (35:45):
Well, I also don't. I also don't, like I don't
even hype and and do and and but but like
I don't hype that, Like that's that's that to me
is all weird. Like if if a woman ask me, like, yo,
what's your occupation? I get almost like anxiety, you know, I.

Speaker 5 (36:08):
Almost get offended by like, like what you what I
do or what do I want to do?

Speaker 6 (36:13):
Is two different things. You get what I'm saying or
like what do I like to do? I like to
pot ye say, I'm saying that. That's a conversation that
we could deepen.

Speaker 5 (36:20):
You know what I mean, you're creative?

Speaker 6 (36:21):
Yeah, I'm a creative. But like you say I'm a creative,
then he'd be like, all right, this nigga broke.

Speaker 5 (36:26):
You know what I'm saying saying. Basically, it's always like that.

Speaker 3 (36:30):
Do you think if you say bartender, that is a people.

Speaker 6 (36:34):
Behind bartender, but the stigma is behind bartender. But I'll
say I'm a ball tier I work. I work at hospitality,
but I don't give a fuck to be honest with you,
like I'm.

Speaker 3 (36:43):
Not I'm you sound like you give a fuck.

Speaker 5 (36:45):
No, No, I don't care. I personally okay, I I
you just said you get offended.

Speaker 6 (36:49):
No, No, I get offended at the fact I don't
give a fuck about my occupation being like a bartender.

Speaker 5 (36:55):

Speaker 12 (36:56):
I don't.

Speaker 6 (36:57):
I get offended about the question because it's mainly like
trying to gauge my money or worth, or my worth
that's even better, or your choices.

Speaker 5 (37:08):
Nah.

Speaker 3 (37:09):
Yeah, if you have forty something then you say you're
a bartender, it kind of means that you didn't take
life seriously and you're not. I disagree completely.

Speaker 6 (37:15):
There's there's forty there's forty five fifty year old niggas
that I know personally makes six figures well over bartender,
like one thirty a year, easy bartender.

Speaker 5 (37:26):
That is completely wrong.

Speaker 6 (37:28):
Like the life of bartendant is a long one, is
a hard one, your feet gonna kill you, whatever cases.

Speaker 5 (37:33):
But these motherfuckers make money and they do.

Speaker 3 (37:36):
Not understand though when she's talking about retirement plan and
shit like that, like you get a pension or.

Speaker 6 (37:40):
Yeah, so if you if depending on where, if you're
making that much. By the way, if you make it
that much, you have benefits and you have a pension,
you have all these things.

Speaker 5 (37:51):
Coming from bartender that's a bartender one thousand, New York City,
you have.

Speaker 2 (37:55):
To be very specific.

Speaker 5 (37:56):
Well, yeah, in major in.

Speaker 6 (37:57):
Major cities for sure, Chicago, New York, l These these motherfuckers.
I just came back from New Orleans, a whole bar
convention situation, the biggest in the world.

Speaker 3 (38:06):
Can you expras to see why a person would at
her age would prefer something I don't know, I don't
want to say more serious.

Speaker 5 (38:15):
I agree with that. No, I agree with her on that.

Speaker 6 (38:17):
I didn't agree with her in the beginning, but I
agreed with her, Like, yo, I want a man that
has a fifteen to twenty she's probably like in.

Speaker 3 (38:26):
Forty six, she's forty six, said, So she's forty six.

Speaker 5 (38:29):
I get that, one, said I do, and I agree
with that.

Speaker 7 (38:33):
Godh, I'm feeling toxic today, y'all go toxic because the
like you forty six is single and talking about all
the shit that you're not finna do and not finna
put up with you're gonna.

Speaker 2 (38:49):
Be fifty and single like you like, bitch? What like
I don't. I'm tired of people that have.

Speaker 7 (38:56):
Standards all the way up here and then you and
when you start describing yourself, I have degrees.

Speaker 2 (39:02):
I'm an entrepreneur, That's.

Speaker 5 (39:05):
What she said. Those are the first That's probably why
she's single though, doing this and this is.

Speaker 7 (39:09):
What I'm thinking in my head because and then she
says like, oh, I don't know if he's an instacart
or he's shopping for hisself, Like why is your brain
automatically going there when you see a nigga in a
grocery store?

Speaker 2 (39:20):
Like these is regular life things like people got a
grocery shop. You're toxic, bro, you're bugging.

Speaker 7 (39:26):
Or I don't want to be with a man that
has a job that I considered to be a part
time job.

Speaker 2 (39:33):
Have fun. Agreed, he's gonna keep you nice and warm
at night.

Speaker 5 (39:36):
I wouldn't say that the man could be like that.

Speaker 3 (39:38):
Could he could have been doing that on the sign.

Speaker 6 (39:40):
I about to say that he could be like a
CEO of some ship or whatever the fuck, like someway
he making cast, but he'd be like yo, I just
feel like this is this is something that calms me.

Speaker 5 (39:49):
I might like shopping for people. You know what I'm saying,
let me be an instacllt.

Speaker 3 (39:52):
I don't know much instac made, but what a y'all are.
Not that I agree with her, but there's another side
of that where you've made a lot of bad decisions
before based off the people that type of people that
you date, and now you're using that information that you've
collected over the course of your dating experience and say, yo,
I'm not making these mistakes anymore. Congratulats. And I'm looking

(40:13):
I'm dating intentionally, looking for somebody that actually took life seriously,
went to school, has been in their career for a
long period of time, and is looking on their way
out so that we can travel, you know whatever. Else.

Speaker 7 (40:26):
It doesn't really mean anything. And what do you mean
by take life seriously? Because life is long? Like if
you live long, life is long. You can change careers
many a time. A teacher or last year that worked
for me that was a retired pediatrician and decided that
he wanted to teach. I have teachers that this is
like their second career, like that used to work in

(40:47):
the finance industry that used to be lawyers and stuff
like that and decided that their second career they want
to teach. And then you're like, oh, I'm a teacher.
I've been a teacher for two years. You want to
look at them crazy without actually.

Speaker 3 (40:59):
Asking somebody at the bar and they tell you they
are instacarter, that you're not gonna look at them like, Okay, no,
you might, we might could fuck No, it's not gonna
go nowhere. I would.

Speaker 2 (41:10):
But there's more to it, like you don't know people's situations.
What if I don't wantation.

Speaker 7 (41:15):
What if I'm doing instacart right now because i already
retired from the military and I'm in school and I'm
just trying to do something extra and I already have
my own bread coming in, got my own house.

Speaker 2 (41:25):
Have this that case in point.

Speaker 3 (41:27):
I was in.

Speaker 7 (41:28):
Nashville last week my Uber driver. We're having conversation with
the Uber driver while he's driving us to the airport
or whatever, and he's telling us like how he retired
from the military. You know, how he has this house
and how much his house his I think he's like
he had like a four bedroom, three bath, two car
garage house and in his mortgage was like twenty five

(41:50):
hundred dollars a month. And he's like an Uber driver.
He just had a baby, Da da da, but he's fine,
Like financially he's fine. Like you could you could cut
an it go off, be like, oh, you drive Uber ship,
but this nigga's already retired. I've had Uber drivers that's
like retired sergeants and ship like that have conversations.

Speaker 3 (42:07):
With you, adding more nuanced to it with the fact
that he did take life seriously and he's retired, and
like y'all said, this is just something that I'm doing now.
I know when I get retired, I'm no for a fact,
I'm not just gonna be sitting around smoking a cigar.
I gotta do something. I have to be busy. I see,
I see what you're saying.

Speaker 6 (42:24):
Are you talking about like if the god, if or
a woman whoever you're dating is just doing that particular
job like an insta car or something like whatever one
thousand eighty five percent. If I'm talking to you and
you told me that I just instacar, I'm not gonna
tap in it.

Speaker 3 (42:44):
But no, ain't no. But it's just true. There's no
way we're trying to give we we yo. If you're
I would if they say it's gonna be me, I
would probably take a dancer more serious than I would
an instacart.

Speaker 2 (43:02):
Why does that mean that's way more money?

Speaker 3 (43:05):
Because I think a lot of people is going to
be like you with data stripper Like that says.

Speaker 5 (43:10):
Stripper, but but like they got money, they got money,
Like it's your bills paid. G Like if your bills
is paid, your bills is paid, dog like you could be.

Speaker 6 (43:18):
Matter of fact, you could be even in like regular retail,
like a retail, a retail sales associate.

Speaker 5 (43:23):
Whatever the fuck the vibe is, is your bills paid?
Do you need money from me? If you don't need
money from me, then we're good.

Speaker 3 (43:30):
Were perfect yesterday. What you thinking about this?

Speaker 8 (43:33):
To be honest, yeah, I think one thing I feel
like we all should have learned, I think, at least
from the pandemic is that everybody situation is different. So
I feel like trying to put that blanket occupation thing
on people down, I'm not really with it.

Speaker 3 (43:45):
I don't want to party your situation with God with yo.
God bless you and your situation. God bless everything that
you've been through. I do not need to couple with that.
This is a business plan, my my relationship, and my
life plan. You have to be intentional about it until
you had your situation. Good. Oh that's where you're at

(44:05):
in life? Cool? Do you want to have sex? You're
going home? Not calling you no more. I am not
making a life plan with somebody that has not made
a life plan for themselves. What's wrong with that?

Speaker 8 (44:14):
I agree with that, and I think more more than anything,
I think people are more concerned about what people are
doing than then the fact. I'm sorry, yeah, like is
this person a good person? I'm try to bring for it.
That's that Like niggas are more concerned about what niggas
is doing, what they make and with yo, you can

(44:35):
he can be set. All this person can be set.
They can be career, they can have the money they
are they a good person, So that shit doesn't really matter.

Speaker 3 (44:45):
But it does.

Speaker 5 (44:47):
Let me be clear. All I'm saying is.

Speaker 7 (44:52):
Do you just do that?

Speaker 6 (44:54):
If you're just doing that, then that's a problem. You
get know what I'm saying to me, Like, if you're
just doing something that isn't really a career focus situation,
then I think it's a problem.

Speaker 3 (45:05):
Okay, let me throw this at you. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (45:08):
Do you think that it's just a problem that somebody
that just that just does their career and that's it. No,
because see I viewed that the same way. I don't
because I feel like doing one thing, whether it's the
money or not, I always want somebody that's doing more.

Speaker 5 (45:20):
I completely agree. So actually I left my ex because
of that.

Speaker 6 (45:24):
You know what I'm saying, because she had was focusing
on her career that she hated, but then had other interests,
but she didn't want to do those other things. She
didn't want to put her effort into that. I can't
stand that either. So I agree with you one eighty
five percent. I'm that's what I need, That's what I'm
That's why the discussion gotta go like what not what

(45:44):
do you do?

Speaker 3 (45:46):
But what do you like to do?

Speaker 5 (45:47):
Like what are you into? You know what say I'm saying, Like,
that's why I don't go and straight into like what
do you where do you work?

Speaker 3 (45:53):
Or like what do you do for work?

Speaker 6 (45:54):
Because that conversation is irrelevant to me. Do you know
what I'm saying? You're an adult. I hope that you
could pay your bills and then that's just what that is.

Speaker 5 (46:02):
But what are you into?

Speaker 3 (46:03):
Like are you creative?

Speaker 5 (46:04):
Are you a teacher? Are you in hospitality? Whatever? The function?
Your goals and what's your goals and what's your goals
in life?

Speaker 7 (46:14):
I judge people by what they do. I'm not even
gonna hold you, I really do. But it's more like
what it's very selfish. It's a selfish thing for me.
Like what Like I wouldn't date a bartender, Okay, and
not because because the money.

Speaker 2 (46:30):
No, No, that's not that. It's the time, right, I can't.

Speaker 7 (46:36):
I at this juncture in my life, I need somebody
that's home at a certain time and being a bartender
because I did hospitality for ten years as well, like
so I know what that's like.

Speaker 2 (46:47):
I know what those hours are like, and that would bother.

Speaker 5 (46:51):
Me and complete stability. There's no stability.

Speaker 7 (46:54):
There is no stability in hospitality. There is no there's
no hours, like you could go in at eleven and
then somebody call out and you there all night, fuck
up your whole plans, fuck up your whole day, like
and it's so much time and dedication. You not you
can't be on your phone, I can't be in contact
with you like there's like a there's so many things
that come with that, which is part of the reason
why I had to stop doing it, especially like when

(47:15):
I got pregnant. I was like, I can't even do
this shit no more. And I love bartend and I
love hospitality, I love talking to people, but that's just
one of those things that I can't do. I can't
date a cop.

Speaker 2 (47:28):
Period like period at the end of the sentence, fuck
out of here. I can't date a truck driver. I
don't think I could date like a like a CDL nigga. No,
my nigga at home.

Speaker 3 (47:42):
He's always on the road.

Speaker 2 (47:43):
I need my nigg at home. I need my nigga
at home.

Speaker 3 (47:45):
I do understand, you know.

Speaker 9 (47:47):
I was.

Speaker 3 (47:47):
I looked at a cop the other day and I
noticed this is kind of a hard and soft thing.
But I realized why this is bad. I can see
I can see cops like an anal. Wait, sorry, see
how we get I can see two hours? All right? Sorry, bad,

(48:11):
all right, I'm.

Speaker 2 (48:12):
No good, no, no, no out here, I'm I'm following you.

Speaker 3 (48:19):
Because they they're so aggressive with everybody else. They want
somebody to be aggressive with them and do like the.

Speaker 2 (48:28):
Work getting pegged like.

Speaker 3 (48:31):
The show them CEO ship like that. I can see why.
The transfer power. So I looked at this one cop.
She's a woman, and I said to myself, you know what,
I fucking asked, okay and her ship up in the
crib with her cop had on. I can see why.
And I can see why she would probably be into
that because she's always exerting aggression for somebody else. She

(48:52):
would want a guy to really wild her up in
the government.

Speaker 7 (48:56):
That's why, like you see a lot of cops and
like like a lot of like old sergeants and they
be at like the little freak clubs and ship and
they be getting beat on and ship like that. They'd
be getting all tied up whip chain's hand.

Speaker 2 (49:06):
Yeah, they need this.

Speaker 3 (49:08):
It's that transfer to get that out because they're always
in that position. They want somebody to take them out
of that. And so if you hear about the CEOs
that like BDSM and like being pegg just spit on
and degradation and ship like that, they need that transfer power,
somebody that can own them the way they own everybody else.
And so when I looked at this police officer, I said,
you know what, I can see why. Now I get it,

(49:29):
you get it. I get it with that when she
would want a transfer power where you know a dude
is super aggressive wild ship.

Speaker 7 (49:37):
But I think that that goes for anybody, right because
like like dominant women, you looked at.

Speaker 5 (49:43):
A cop and then that.

Speaker 2 (49:46):
Yeah, I hyper sexual for sure, but no, like I
think that for me.

Speaker 7 (49:51):
I'm a person that I'm the person that people look
too all the time for answers and I'm control of people.

Speaker 2 (49:59):
No, I don't like it, and.

Speaker 7 (50:00):
I'm like a control of people and like, but I'm
mad submissive at home. That was my thought, that was
I am. I am a damsel and distress in my house.
I can't do nothing. I can't even think. I remember
texting my husband like a week ago and I'm like, yo,
you gotta stop going to work, like because I can't
live without you, Like I can't process.

Speaker 3 (50:20):
I want to get this last topic and I know
that you have to go. They take We're good, take
you by the half to get there, right, Yeah, yeah,
we're good. We take half. So we are nine minutes
with you left, nine minutes we halftime. You're good, good,
You're good, no matter what. I'm sorry. I didn't mean
to cut you off, but I was concerned about this,
and I want to get this. I saw this video

(50:41):
which there is no segue for it. There is no
segway for this, but it's important. I love this and
made me laugh. It was actually hilarious to see it. Yeah,
I would be too. It's two lesbians in a bookstore.

Speaker 2 (50:58):
Is this the beginning of a joke?

Speaker 8 (51:01):
I thought I thought it was lesbians and the books
to lesbians walk in the bookstore, Tahoe walks in Jesus Christ.

Speaker 2 (51:08):
He gets beat up. You know, the lesbians.

Speaker 3 (51:13):
Know they don't love I love me a good.

Speaker 2 (51:16):
Until you go afterday bitchest carpet.

Speaker 9 (51:20):
We're gay, but we're in Arson Nobles and there's a
kid's books section of gay kids book section.

Speaker 1 (51:27):
And this ship is crazy?

Speaker 5 (51:29):
What those Okay?

Speaker 9 (51:30):
There's the gay Seas right bye by binary way by
binary with a mohawk on a baby gay seas.

Speaker 3 (51:41):
You're already hold us? Yeah what.

Speaker 2 (51:46):
A is for arrow and ace B is for by?
This is crazy.

Speaker 3 (51:52):
We're gay, but this is crazy.

Speaker 2 (51:54):
What for a baby? Okay, he's for a quality. We'll
take that.

Speaker 3 (51:59):
It's for fly. Okay, we're getting better.

Speaker 9 (52:02):
Okay, why did it start so crazy just from it
got better.

Speaker 1 (52:08):
As for intersect, it's pushing it for a baby.

Speaker 3 (52:10):
This is pushing it for joy.

Speaker 10 (52:14):
For joy, We'll take, We'll take to and T that
looks nice forgot this on k is for Kiki.

Speaker 5 (52:22):
Yes there's no.

Speaker 3 (52:24):
Gay word for him. No, I'm not into that. I'm
not She said gay that. The name of the book
is called the Gay b C's. It's a baby book.
And the other baby book was bye bye binary.

Speaker 6 (52:44):
You're gone too far, doing too much.

Speaker 7 (52:49):
I'm sorry, you know I'm gay as but like, can
you please I would never buy that for by baby,
Bye bye binary.

Speaker 3 (53:02):
All right, So LGBT community, I love y'all.

Speaker 2 (53:07):
We gotta we gotta stop.

Speaker 3 (53:09):
If there could be something wrong with one person, there
can be something wrong with another. This has nothing to
do with you like what you like? Do y'all think
this is a lot for a chy a baby. By
the way, it's a baby books. There was a baby
on the cover the Gay BC's like it was in

(53:31):
a child It was in the kids section of.

Speaker 7 (53:33):
The boy You put that that you're just doing cars
for racism, Like what are we talking about?

Speaker 2 (53:41):
See us for confederacy? You would get that to the baby.

Speaker 6 (53:44):
It's sure things you just shouldn't introduced to a child
because you don't want to take away their innocence.

Speaker 5 (53:48):
You know what I'm saying, like let them develop that
that not gainus. We got them not not not gayness
because I'm I'm of the believer. I'm of the believer.
Both things can be true.

Speaker 6 (54:09):
You can be born gay right or non binary however,
or whatever the fuck it is, or it could be
not whatever the funk it is.

Speaker 5 (54:22):
Right, or you could be taught. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (54:25):
You can't be taught.

Speaker 6 (54:28):
Through society. I do think if you see, if you
if it's if it's if it's all in your face,
you're gonna be like you're now become curious. It's like
I want to know what that what that's about? You
know what I'm saying, I know niggas right, And when
I say niggs, I'm talking about men and women.

Speaker 3 (54:44):
That'd be like.

Speaker 6 (54:47):
I tried eating the girl out because I thought it
was Like I've had conversations or whatever the case is, whatever.

Speaker 3 (54:55):
To save you from this real quickly. Don't you think
that people are saying, don't say heterosexuality is the norm,
and they try heterosexuality because that was what society was
in it to me. Then they realized that wasn't natural
for them, so they were taught heterosexuality the same way.
I would think completely you can teach something like say
if it's too you're born in uh and your parents

(55:17):
are same sex, you would think that's your the norm.

Speaker 2 (55:20):
That's the norm.

Speaker 6 (55:22):
Like IM said, both things can be true. That's what
I'm saying, Both things can be true, especially in that
in that instance. But what I'm saying is as a
kid though, like a baby, especially like don't put it,
don't don't do that, Like I wouldn't even put a
civil civil rights books in front of my kid. You
get what I'm saying, Like I'm not teaching my my

(55:42):
baby about racism that early, like just like let the child,
let them, like god, damn, I'm not showing them the
world as of yet.

Speaker 5 (55:52):
Just give them a second, That's what I'm saying, give
them a second.

Speaker 2 (55:55):
I totally agree. A is for apple, bitch is for boy,
it's for cats, like we're not we're not doing that.
A is definitely not for ally because what the fuck?

Speaker 3 (56:06):
No much?

Speaker 7 (56:07):
And I think that.

Speaker 2 (56:10):
Too much?

Speaker 7 (56:10):
Too fast, like too fast too furious, but we gotta
we gotta really back in like I think that we know,
like I believe in inclusion. I believe in you know,
people like love is love, do what you want to do,
like shout out to my lubiquitous hallelujah Halla back. However,
I'm not I would not put that in front of

(56:32):
my child either, and I'm the type of person that
I'm very open with my kid even I remember the
first time.

Speaker 2 (56:39):
Parker found out about like lesbians.

Speaker 7 (56:42):
He was at a park and some little girl was
playing and Parker was playing with the little girl, and
I guess she said, I'm about to go to my mom's.

Speaker 2 (56:52):
Like the little girl said that, and Parker's like, oh,
you have two moms. That's so cool. And she's like,
I would love two moms.

Speaker 3 (56:58):
And she came to me.

Speaker 7 (56:59):
She's like, Mommy, he has two moms, And I say, yeah,
sometimes people have two moms, some people have two dads,
and some people have a mommy and a daddy like you, like,
totally normal, And that was the end of the conversation.
It was normal as shit, Like I don't want her
to be like, ugh, you have two Like, don't I
don't want to raise that type of child. I want
you to be raised in the world that you understand
that like people are different, they have different household environments

(57:19):
and that's totally fine. But I'm also not gonna put
no gay ass book in front of my baby. But
why because that's the real reason. But why what is
the reason?

Speaker 3 (57:29):
Well, so I'm thinking if you are, say, two lesbians,
two men, this is your reality. This is your world
the way that you see it, and it is not
one that's going to be promoted. And when you go outside,
it's you're going to see something completely different. They might
confuse you as to what it is here. So say,
and the world that most people have a mom and

(57:52):
a dad at home, and you have two dads at
home or two moms at home, So I might be
more aggressive in teaching you about what you're living, what
your living experiences. Right now, this is your living experience
that you have two dads, two moms. I'm going to
educate you about that so that you are not shocked
when you come to the revelation that, oh shit, my

(58:14):
parents gay.

Speaker 2 (58:15):
But it shouldn't.

Speaker 7 (58:16):
But I don't think that that's what happens in that
situation because it shouldn't be a shock or a revelation
because as.

Speaker 3 (58:21):
Soon as your kids go to school, the kids are
mean and shit.

Speaker 7 (58:24):
Kids aren't mean a ship, period. But as soon as
your kids go to school, that's when dynamics start to shift.
Your first day in school and your two dads bring
you to school and you see a kid walk.

Speaker 3 (58:34):
In with a dad, your dad is a word?

Speaker 2 (58:36):
But why and where would they get that from? They're
getting that shit from their parents. So the education is
BCS is not going through.

Speaker 3 (58:45):
Like that.

Speaker 7 (58:45):
That's not that's it's a false equivalency. Honestly, like life,
you're gonna learn life and you're gonna be exposed to
things in life. Be and Parker had a random conversation
one day too, and she was like, can boys have babies?
Like kind of And she's like, oh, okay, okay, Like
I'm not going down the whole rabbit hole of like

(59:07):
they're transmn and sometimes transmit. If you see a nigga
with a baby that's pregnant, that's a nigga baby.

Speaker 5 (59:14):
Like what you want me to do?

Speaker 3 (59:15):
Why not educate your Why not say well there are
why not? I just want to know what is their
harm in saying yes, a man can have a baby
if he was a woman and he converts to a man.

Speaker 2 (59:26):
That ship south that much convoluted and ahead of a
six zero.

Speaker 6 (59:30):
I think I think I agree with Like what you're
doing is you wait until the kid could see the
situation become curious and then asks you right, because you
you're doing too much if I'm like, as soon as
they turn five, okay, here's a deal, gaze lesbians, Like

(59:52):
you know what I'm saying, Like what I'm about, Like,
I'm not about to introduce you so the world so fast,
but the world is introducing itself from the normality of heterosexuality, Jane,
because what the child then does is especially when they
always just ask mad questions, because kids ask a lot

(01:00:14):
of questions, Hey Dad, Hey Mom, what is this?

Speaker 5 (01:00:18):
Then that's when you answer. But I'm not about to
present you with the world of the world just so quickly.

Speaker 3 (01:00:24):
Bruh.

Speaker 7 (01:00:24):
You know it's so crazy when you were talking about
like racism, Like my kid is six, about to go seven,
turn seven, and I'm trying to figure out when is
it time to start teaching her about the history of
niggas in this country? Because I remember being in first
grade and seeing eyes on the prize for the first time.
I remember seeing in first grade seeing im Mattel face

(01:00:49):
in a documentary and was like, what the fuck?

Speaker 2 (01:00:51):
And I remember those feelings, and I have a very
sheltered child.

Speaker 7 (01:00:55):
But I'm like, at what point do I start to
kind of lift the veil of Pandora's box and start
talking about things. And this is a thought process that's
been continuously in my head. There's so many more things
that I need to teach my kid about and protect
my kid from before I start going down the road
of the gables, Like I'm raising a little black girl

(01:01:16):
in America. I'm raising a girl in America, and that
shit is scary enough. So I got a lot of
steps before I need to start talking about.

Speaker 3 (01:01:30):
Rights.

Speaker 5 (01:01:30):
You gotta go in because especially with a girl. Now
you gotta talk about rights.

Speaker 6 (01:01:33):
Now, you gotta talk about racist yes, and to talk
about I don't even know positivity.

Speaker 2 (01:01:38):
You gotta talk about no means no. You gotta talk
about all this.

Speaker 7 (01:01:44):
Don't let people touch you if you feel uncomfortable, like
I ain't got time.

Speaker 2 (01:01:49):
No, you don't have to hug nobody that you don't
want to hug, like I got a level.

Speaker 7 (01:01:53):
Of things that I gotta go through before we start
going to the libit with us, Like she when she
turns and I'll take her to the village and we're
gonna walk around.

Speaker 2 (01:02:03):
I'll let her get curious and start asking questions.

Speaker 3 (01:02:07):
J D, I do have one more topic? Yeah, can
you say can you have You're good? I'm sorry. He's
he can't lose that job, so why you keep.

Speaker 5 (01:02:21):
I can't lose that job.

Speaker 3 (01:02:23):
The man, by the way, thank you, appreciate you'll he
looks out for me, like literally, you want to know him.
He's fired by the way.

Speaker 2 (01:02:33):
Well, he's the first guest that we've had in weeks
that I actually like.

Speaker 3 (01:02:37):
Yeah, the other guests tried to come in and attack
you as soon as he came on, right.

Speaker 2 (01:02:41):
That's why I was like, we're going to be friends,
but yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:02:43):
We could be. We spoke afterwards. He was like, yo,
I didn't mean that. It wasn't like that. This one
is actually connected to this Maybe the next clip is
actually connected to this one in a way. Okay, where
we are talking about liquit is again, I want us
to smell that l g B t Q. Oh yeah,

(01:03:06):
we somebody I think I think uh uh uh t
s Madison. I think she named that. Yeah, and then
our hardest soft community took it also. Shout out to
the to the no shame gang man. We had a
really great conversation in there today. I can't wait to
go back in there argue with y'all again. Some more

(01:03:27):
later on. But yeah, the next clip we should be
the last one of the day. Yesterday, how you feeling?
I feel good? Good out of here.

Speaker 2 (01:03:37):
Sorry, you got things to.

Speaker 3 (01:03:38):
Do like my bad? Oh he actually cooked me dinner
the other day.

Speaker 2 (01:03:44):
That's so nice. And you won't even go to the
movies with him?

Speaker 3 (01:03:46):
To say again, who.

Speaker 2 (01:03:49):
Could you down his cousin?

Speaker 3 (01:03:51):
Oh yesterday, Okay, you said hold up.

Speaker 8 (01:03:53):
I was saying because Dodge had today he didn't. We
didn't get to go out, and I was gonna say,
hold up, Dodge, we did go out on our date yesterday.
It was I gotta keep it the buck.

Speaker 2 (01:04:02):
He only went out with you because the kids was there.
He would have never went to the concert.

Speaker 3 (01:04:05):
Always said that it has to be more than me
and him. I always said that, But why is that?
Why is that? But I can't but movies not going
to want to trying to see senterce with him. He
didn't want to do that.

Speaker 5 (01:04:16):
That's come on, you gotta go see.

Speaker 3 (01:04:17):
That's a lie. That's a lie.

Speaker 5 (01:04:18):
You gotta go see.

Speaker 3 (01:04:19):
That would have been that's coming.

Speaker 5 (01:04:20):
Out of Halloween too again but in the movie.

Speaker 3 (01:04:23):
Yeah, I'm coming back out.

Speaker 2 (01:04:24):
Oh it's already on the HBO though.

Speaker 5 (01:04:27):
Yeah, but I max out.

Speaker 2 (01:04:33):
Your cousin ask you.

Speaker 5 (01:04:35):
He shouldn't really seen the movies now though, But like
Leonardo DiCaprio movie.

Speaker 3 (01:04:38):
You watch, I want to see that. I want to
see the conjuring to right, all right?

Speaker 8 (01:04:42):
So yeah, yeah, you wanted something scary time conjuring the
last right, No.

Speaker 3 (01:04:47):
You're not gonna be holding my hand while hand yeah
all right? Uh Jason Lee, this is an old clip.
By the way, Jason Lee and Candice Owens, I think

(01:05:10):
this is an old clip.

Speaker 2 (01:05:12):
This actually let's see.

Speaker 3 (01:05:16):
Oh what the hell did I do?

Speaker 6 (01:05:17):
Man?

Speaker 3 (01:05:17):
Your opposition to it that we live in a world
where transsexual is a thing, What is your opposition to it?

Speaker 10 (01:05:24):
This insistence that we allow children to think that they
can pick and choose their genders, that's definitely a psychosis.

Speaker 3 (01:05:30):
Like this was not a thing.

Speaker 10 (01:05:31):
People were not struggling in kindergarten. We were not arguing
about bathrooms, Like this is all.

Speaker 3 (01:05:36):
Just made up.

Speaker 10 (01:05:36):
You're asking me to be crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:05:38):
You're asking me to look at.

Speaker 10 (01:05:39):
A grown man and imagine that he's actually a woman,
and that if he goes and gets work done, that
he magically becomes a woman. So it's insanity. Otherwise you'd
have to defend Rachel.

Speaker 3 (01:05:52):
There's no defending crazy. That's crazy. But because she was
the white woman that says she was black, Yeah.

Speaker 10 (01:05:57):
That's a man saying. We're talking about the transisue. She's transracial.

Speaker 2 (01:06:02):
So give her respect.

Speaker 10 (01:06:03):
Put respective because on the inside she felt black. She
was dressing like she was black, she was making her
skin darker like she was black. She was standing for
the black.

Speaker 5 (01:06:12):
Cause she was working for the na A c P.

Speaker 10 (01:06:14):
It's not going to be that. She was, you know,
a white, good old blonde hair and freckles. And it
only became problematic when somebody exposed it and people said, no.

Speaker 3 (01:06:21):
You can't just be black.

Speaker 10 (01:06:22):
Why not if you're gonna if you're gonna say that
a man can just be a woman, why can't wait
dollars or just be black?

Speaker 2 (01:06:28):
You gotta be consistent.

Speaker 10 (01:06:29):
Because she's white, okay, because it's a man.

Speaker 3 (01:06:32):
No, but.

Speaker 2 (01:06:35):
I know I'm right.

Speaker 3 (01:06:37):
No, No, I don't agree.

Speaker 2 (01:06:38):
I'm sorry that I'm.

Speaker 10 (01:06:39):
Consistent any but you have to figure out why you're not.

Speaker 3 (01:06:43):
I don't agree with.

Speaker 5 (01:06:44):
Her in the lot, but she kind of No, No,
she's not, she's she's she's she's a rack hoole, but.

Speaker 6 (01:06:56):
Like cool staff. But but she when she makes sense,
she makes sense. Bro on that on that topic, right there?

Speaker 8 (01:07:09):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (01:07:11):
What's the question? Are you didn't ask a questions?

Speaker 5 (01:07:15):
Do you do?

Speaker 9 (01:07:16):
You?

Speaker 3 (01:07:16):
Are you following? Also is pun down?

Speaker 2 (01:07:22):
Yes, you agree. However, however, her logic is not incorrect. Period.

Speaker 3 (01:07:33):
I disagree.

Speaker 2 (01:07:35):
I agree that the ladies transracial.

Speaker 3 (01:07:39):
I think that you know, I was having this conversation
with with dimples who I think she's also in associame
with some discord. Science is not a it's not a fact.

(01:08:00):
What you know in science today can be proven wrong
in science tomorrow. Right, where your family comes from is
a fact. Okay, if you were if your family has
roots born all the way from the Caucasus mountains, that's
what you are. It is a fact. Right when it

(01:08:24):
comes to science, gender and ship like that, there are
people born with a pussy and a penis.

Speaker 2 (01:08:31):
Yes they are, what are they.

Speaker 3 (01:08:34):
At this point? At this point, at this point, At
this point, science has only said one or the other.
You cannot say there are people, there are people that
what is the thing?

Speaker 9 (01:08:50):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (01:08:50):
Do you know that all people were born men? Women?

Speaker 9 (01:08:54):
Know?

Speaker 3 (01:08:54):
We're all born women from women first?

Speaker 9 (01:08:56):
Right?

Speaker 7 (01:08:56):
Yes, so with that logic, we're all women. But your
click grew a little bit bigger.

Speaker 3 (01:09:06):
So this is what I'm saying, especially when when you
have hormones and you have hormone imbalances, and people you
have hormone imbalances and people that you have things like
that which do affect the way you are who you are,
So that science still is up in the air about
what people are feeling in their body or whatever. Like

(01:09:27):
you said, you can be born gay, Like what is that?
You're just saying that you're born with the mental imbalance
that makes you want somebody of the same sex. Like WHOA, Okay,
well I didn't I didn't know you was going to
step on that.

Speaker 5 (01:09:41):
Not quite crazy, not having a mental imbalance.

Speaker 3 (01:09:46):
It's not crazy. I don't I don't deem that what is.

Speaker 2 (01:09:49):
That mental imbalance? I think is beautiful?

Speaker 7 (01:09:54):
Yeah, you could and I want to hug them and
kiss them in the mouth, and that makes balance.

Speaker 3 (01:10:00):
I don't think that's what that is. I don't think
that's that's that's what that is.

Speaker 5 (01:10:03):
I think there's mental like with everybody, it could be.

Speaker 3 (01:10:13):
Well so so his so I just finished my point.
My point is you can't. Those are two things that
you really can't compare because one is an actual fact.
Your family was born in the Caucasus Mountains. That's where
they originate from. It is what it is. You can't feel,
you can't trust it is. It is but black or
the black experience. It's cultural, it's socials, it's all of

(01:10:35):
these other things as well as where your family is from.
You can't just incorporate that and be like, oh, I
am that.

Speaker 6 (01:10:42):
What what if what if she had a chemical imbalance?
What if she was I actually feel like I'm black?

Speaker 5 (01:10:52):
Whatever?

Speaker 4 (01:10:53):
That is?

Speaker 3 (01:10:53):
What's the science? Science? You just took this science. If
you take the science out one way.

Speaker 5 (01:11:02):
You can't have to take it out both way, exactly exactly.

Speaker 7 (01:11:06):
But there's not but that's not a chemical imbalance, right, So,
like there are Chinese people that grew up in Jamaica
speak patois a part of the culture. They are a
Chinese roster like all of the things. They're not black,
but they are Jamaican period. You could be a black Jamaica.

(01:11:29):
You could be a white Jamaica. You could be a
Chinese Jamaican.

Speaker 2 (01:11:31):
Race is not a real thing, just like gender is
not a real thing.

Speaker 7 (01:11:38):
We're putting labels on things that that that that don't
really exist, because you can't say that gender is a
real thing. If we all started as one gender, but
some of us in the womb turned into something else
and some of us did not, it's not a thing,

(01:11:59):
but it's not a thing. These are These are the world,
but these are things that are all made up.

Speaker 2 (01:12:05):
But they're all made up.

Speaker 5 (01:12:07):
I should if it's I I agree. But if it's
made up, then why can't what she's doing is being
made up as well?

Speaker 3 (01:12:14):
Like she's.

Speaker 2 (01:12:16):
Yeah, that's why I said.

Speaker 7 (01:12:18):
I don't disagree with Kennice always because her her position
is consistent persistence.

Speaker 9 (01:12:23):
Saying.

Speaker 3 (01:12:27):
Exactly and that's what that's how it should be.

Speaker 7 (01:12:29):
I don't agree with her and her stance on gays
and trans I don't agree with that, but I do
agree with what she's saying at base level.

Speaker 2 (01:12:40):
Just being logical and not being emotions.

Speaker 7 (01:12:42):
She's saying, if you can be trans, you can be
if you could be transsexual, you can be trans.

Speaker 2 (01:12:49):
And if that is her line, then that's fine.

Speaker 6 (01:12:53):
I don't disagree with boring white you born white, period,
You're born black, You're born black period.

Speaker 5 (01:12:59):
You're born a man, you're a man, you're born a woman,
You're a woman.

Speaker 6 (01:13:02):
She's not mixing it up so like she's being consistent
over yeah, and so like if I but if I
wake up and feeling I'm like, yo, I'm Chinese, is
that my cannot be that?

Speaker 3 (01:13:13):
Like I said, the science that is with sex or gender,
that's with gender. Yeah, it's I'm X and Y and
XX pro crass science X Y isn't that? Is that
what makes you a man versus a woman?

Speaker 5 (01:13:30):
I would love to I would love to ask.

Speaker 6 (01:13:32):
I've never really had this conversation, but I would would
really love to have a conversation with a trans person
like you know what, like what when did you feel
like you were the opposite sex?

Speaker 5 (01:13:43):
I would really be interested into knowing, Well.

Speaker 3 (01:13:47):
I'm about to have a combo on the hearts of
soon with uh trans person? And I asked the question.
I would love, Like I said, what my stance on
is just or what I'm thinking on it is. You
can't just say I'm black inside? What does that mean?
What does it mean?

Speaker 5 (01:14:07):
So why can I say? Why can I say I'm
a woman inside?

Speaker 3 (01:14:11):
Because the hormone you can the hormone imbalance can make
you feel like, yo, this is what I feel I
identify as more than You can't just identify as a
black black person.

Speaker 5 (01:14:21):
That's what you're saying.

Speaker 3 (01:14:21):
You can't. There is science that would support other things
when it comes to transsexual, transgender versus what what? How
do you just feel black?

Speaker 5 (01:14:34):
What do you mean?

Speaker 2 (01:14:35):
Where is the science is supported?

Speaker 9 (01:14:37):
What?

Speaker 3 (01:14:38):
It doesn't? It doesn't exist, It literally does not. But
there is science that says, hey, there is things that
are changing between genders, like there are things that can
be confusing with genders. There is science that supports that.

Speaker 7 (01:14:53):
I think that what I respected about Rachel Dolazol is
she did try to lean on all in.

Speaker 2 (01:14:59):
Yes, I respected that about that. I don't care.

Speaker 7 (01:15:05):
I don't even care she thought that she was black
like I was just like, all right, girl, I didn't care,
what the fuck? Like, I didn't care as much as
other people. But then that goes to show how much
I don't care about how people choose to present.

Speaker 2 (01:15:19):
Themselves, like like being black and growing up in a
black culture.

Speaker 7 (01:15:27):
I don't understand why people are so hung up on
certain terminologies because we give everybody nicknames.

Speaker 2 (01:15:35):
Everybody got a.

Speaker 7 (01:15:36):
Nickname, Pooky, stink, fucking dayDay Doda like everybody. You have
no problem calling somebody by a nickname, but you have
a problem calling somebody the gender that they want to
be called by. Is diabolical by diabolical to me as
a black person, I think that that ship is so
ass backwards.

Speaker 2 (01:15:54):
You won't use your uncle ray ray real name.

Speaker 7 (01:15:57):
You don't even know that nickname is raymond've been calling
him ray Ray whole life. But you can't call this
person a woman because that's what they want to be called.
That's I think that that's fucked up and it doesn't
make sense to me. We're not being consistent.

Speaker 3 (01:16:11):
Okay, well, being at your dog piled me on this,
It's fine, I I mean, I don't I don't think
that it's a fair equivalency. I don't think that that's
a fair equivalency. Even though shout out to reach your
dollars out. She was out here moving. She was out
here moving. She got fired from when she got fired

(01:16:32):
from a double a CP, she started braiding hair like
she Yeah, she was true to it.

Speaker 4 (01:16:39):
H j D.

Speaker 3 (01:16:41):
Thank you. I'm allowing you to go start your shift,
he said, start my shift. I love you, bro. I'm
just walking around pretty Tell these people where to find
you and more. You know, we already said what the
show is about, but give us a little bit more.

Speaker 9 (01:16:55):
Uh.

Speaker 6 (01:16:56):
You can find me on Instagram at JD the Opinionated, Uh,
and my podcast and Living Black that's at in.

Speaker 5 (01:17:04):
Living Black on Instagram and all other uh you know,
YouTube and all.

Speaker 3 (01:17:08):
That other stuff.

Speaker 5 (01:17:10):
I mean, the show is just about, you know, showing
that black people are not a monolith. You get what
I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:17:15):
So it's just having sometimes uncomfortable conversations or vulnerable conversations.

Speaker 5 (01:17:21):
Uh, that is necessary to the to to society to
have you get what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:17:26):
So, you know, but like in our language, in our
in our dialect, you know, you know, we're not We're
not Oprah.

Speaker 5 (01:17:34):
Something like you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:17:35):
By the way, I was very intentional about dropping this
episode with JD this week because JD and I have
an episode I believe.

Speaker 5 (01:17:42):
Dropped Todayay, drop today, drop today.

Speaker 3 (01:17:44):
Yeah, so when you just listen to this go over
and that was really good. It was fantast smoked that episode.

Speaker 6 (01:17:50):
No, yo, I actually got a couple of hit ups like, y'all,
this is like and they made him like the mother
womb thing is really like made people tap in and
then shout out to Tea for obviously like introducing that
new term basically having mommy issues.

Speaker 5 (01:18:06):
You know what I mean for us to be that vulnerable.
That story that you shared with your mother was really dope.

Speaker 6 (01:18:10):
So I mean, I appreciate you, man, I appreciate you
all the time, one thousand percent.

Speaker 3 (01:18:15):
Absolutely absolutely, It's definitely reciprocal. Yeah, gosh, yes, anything y'all
got to say, see y'all next week. Finally got your
date out in me. Nigga all right, and the nigga
cooked for me. I think you know, I expect me
to put out without doing something that you can't expect
me to just put out like that, like you have

(01:18:35):
to woo me.

Speaker 2 (01:18:36):
So I got a question. You you okay with this
nigga cooking for you, but you're still not okay?

Speaker 4 (01:18:41):
What's going on.

Speaker 2 (01:18:42):
We went on with your cousin, but you went with
the kids. That's not.

Speaker 3 (01:18:47):
That's that's showing how serious I am about our relationship.
I bought my kids. Give me.

Speaker 2 (01:18:59):
No sing say I need A corominile doesn't see what
you mean this

Speaker 6 (01:19:06):
Mm hmm

All Episodes

Episode Transcript

Popular Podcasts

Stuff You Should Know

Crime Junkie

The Breakfast Club

.css-15opob5{left:0;position:absolute;top:0.8rem;} All Episodes

.css-14f5ked{margin:0;word-break:break-word;display:-webkit-box;-webkit-box-orient:vertical;box-orient:vertical;-webkit-line-clamp:2;overflow:hidden;}Sophisticated Ignorance Feat JD The Opinionated (Part Two)

Episode Transcript

Popular Podcasts

.css-r6mb8g{margin:0;word-break:break-word;display:-webkit-box;-webkit-box-orient:vertical;box-orient:vertical;-webkit-line-clamp:1;overflow:hidden;}Stuff You Should Know

Crime Junkie

The Breakfast Club

All Episodes

Sophisticated Ignorance Feat JD The Opinionated (Part Two)

Stuff You Should Know