Sophisticated Ignorance Feat @JDTheOpinionated (part one)

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
If you know what I'm saying, so so shameless, If
you know what I'm saying, due, so shameless.

Speaker 2 (00:13):
If you know what I'm saying socialmous.

Speaker 1 (00:18):
So shameless, so so so shameless.

Speaker 3 (00:24):
If you know what I'm saying, so.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Shameless, If you know what I'm saying, so shameless, If
you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if you know
what I'm.

Speaker 4 (00:42):
Saying, nothing about your being metrosexual.

Speaker 5 (00:51):
You're trying to tone down the metrosexual.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
Not even I got work, That's what hoodie, champion.

Speaker 4 (00:55):
Hoodie too, I got work. Not even an urban outfit
is joint. You wouldn't. You would have model's joint.

Speaker 3 (01:00):
I don't even shove it urban. Who shots that urban
shove models? Is crazy?

Speaker 6 (01:10):
The models forever. I actually got this from the Champion.

Speaker 3 (01:12):
Store, so.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
Valid.

Speaker 7 (01:17):
What's good game?

Speaker 2 (01:17):
What up?

Speaker 5 (01:18):
Yo?

Speaker 2 (01:19):
You're gonna put the people them up there?

Speaker 3 (01:28):
You laught like Kawhi Leonard and nobody tell you that
that's hilarious.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
Actually, all right, let's go, let's go. Let's start this ship.
You got ship to say it started because I feel
like I feel like you, nigga.

Speaker 5 (01:42):
Yo, what's up?

Speaker 3 (01:43):
What's up?

Speaker 2 (01:45):
What's up?

Speaker 4 (01:45):
You're finally back and you want to overtalk already? How
you over talking? They ain't even talking?

Speaker 2 (01:50):
But how you got beef with me?

Speaker 5 (01:52):
Go ahead? I don't see you enough.

Speaker 4 (01:54):
You claim friend all the time, friend friend this friend
that don't get no calls unless about that's about you
not coming to work. By the way, try yo, Yes,
thinking first of what we got JD in the building.
I was just on your show, yes, and I forgot
the name of it, and Living Black and you literally.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
Just posted to this.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
I'm going to be on a show called and Living Black.

Speaker 4 (02:20):
About to say he is an amazing host. I believe
he is an amazing host. He doesn't focus on like malvers
women ship. It's more introspection into the black life. I
would say growing up black, living.

Speaker 2 (02:35):
Black, sophisticated ignorance.

Speaker 5 (02:36):
I don't want to say ignorance.

Speaker 3 (02:38):
That is not ignorance, learning un learning bad behaviors.

Speaker 4 (02:43):
Why what our motivations are towards? Why we do stuff?

Speaker 5 (02:47):
I think that's if I was and me never had
this conversation ignorance. You can already overtald ship.

Speaker 2 (02:53):
I don't give a fuck about nothing you're talking about.
I'm trying to be on JD's show because power through.

Speaker 6 (02:59):
He's not every he is welcome.

Speaker 3 (03:01):
The vibe is the perspective is to have, you know,
different difference of opinions, but like in black perspective, you
get what I'm saying. We're not a monolith.

Speaker 2 (03:13):
Right, I love that?

Speaker 7 (03:14):
Right?

Speaker 3 (03:16):
Funk all that.

Speaker 5 (03:17):
Let's talk English shit. This girl is the most ignorant.

Speaker 2 (03:23):
I'm the most ignorant.

Speaker 5 (03:24):
Son is ignorant yesterday.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
You know it what I do yesterday.

Speaker 5 (03:28):
We're trying to book the show.

Speaker 3 (03:32):
Here, oh the snort.

Speaker 5 (03:34):
Son, I'm trying.

Speaker 4 (03:35):
To the show yesterday. M M trum is obviously in
another place as always. I'm in Austin, Texas. I'm not
going to be able to what do he say? I said,
what take? We're going to record Sunday early morning. He says,
I'm in Austin.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
No, I said eleven a m No.

Speaker 5 (03:53):
I said what time were recording?

Speaker 2 (03:54):
And I said eleven.

Speaker 5 (03:57):
I said no.

Speaker 4 (03:58):
He says, I'm in all I can see what time
I can make it there to record tomorrow. You put
in eleven am. I said, gosh, how the fuck this
nag gonna make it.

Speaker 5 (04:14):
From Texas to the studio by tomorrow morning?

Speaker 4 (04:18):
Eleven am She calls me cracking from Austin.

Speaker 5 (04:24):
But why make it difficult? Just ignorance. It's ignorance. Why
are you like this?

Speaker 2 (04:29):
But I like chaos. You like chaos, but I'm also flexible.
You can't whatever.

Speaker 5 (04:38):
I wouldn't say, you look amazing today.

Speaker 4 (04:39):
I don't know what colors those are or what would
make you buy that, but it came out amazing.

Speaker 5 (04:45):
It came out amazing.

Speaker 4 (04:46):
It's really good towards on your skin, by the way,
right the golden I don't know.

Speaker 5 (04:52):
If I would pick those colors.

Speaker 4 (04:53):
A purple denim with green stripe, I.

Speaker 7 (04:57):
Can see me looking at that be like, it's the
green bag too. I see what you're bag.

Speaker 6 (05:03):
I like the bag too, though. The bag is hall.
Is that black on?

Speaker 2 (05:06):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (05:06):
It is? Come on that Brandon strip Come on out,
Ain't Brandon Blackwood's brand black?

Speaker 5 (05:13):
That's something JD w War funk out of here.

Speaker 3 (05:15):
The person now, he'd be out here and trying to
hen trying to pass on this metro sexual ship. Bro,
you would come on, yo, I'm talking to this man.
He just casually calls me metro Metro Metro.

Speaker 5 (05:29):
Look at the glasses classes I.

Speaker 6 (05:32):
Have mess on my glasses. Trying to mess on my.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
Glasses every day, I'm sure appreciate.

Speaker 4 (05:38):
I believe it's the confidence to wear them more than glasses.

Speaker 6 (05:43):
It's just regular glasses.

Speaker 4 (05:44):
It's not regular. There's nothing you can say the glasses.
You can't call them regular. There's nothing regular about those.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
Yeah, what type of ship you want today?

Speaker 4 (05:52):
You know it's been a while, it's been a while.
I think JD is amazing style. I think he told
it down today with the champion hoodie.

Speaker 5 (05:58):
It's fine.

Speaker 4 (05:59):
I think he felt like, yo, you know what, I'm
going to the start and he needs to be in Williamsburg.

Speaker 6 (06:03):
But this is how casually I casually.

Speaker 3 (06:05):
Dressed like this.

Speaker 2 (06:06):
That hat even fire.

Speaker 6 (06:07):
I appreciate you now that it's just casually like that.

Speaker 5 (06:11):
I like some no heterosexual meterosexual Yankee.

Speaker 3 (06:18):
Heterosexual Yankee hat.

Speaker 2 (06:23):
Sexualickhead.

Speaker 3 (06:25):
Let's go.

Speaker 4 (06:27):
I got a bunch of it's clip haven, but I
got I got a couple of real life situations.

Speaker 5 (06:32):
I feel like I want to violate somebody in the discord.

Speaker 3 (06:36):
Discord.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
What's going on?

Speaker 5 (06:38):
Well, he put out a situation.

Speaker 2 (06:40):
Oh that's what I was looking at this morning. It
was mad messages in there. I only read Travis. I said,
whatever Travis said, he write, and I just went on
about my business.

Speaker 5 (06:50):
Oh I didn't read that. Well, I have my own
personal things.

Speaker 3 (06:53):
I was.

Speaker 4 (06:53):
I took to nay the homie court in my other
discord this week. Why But more so than that, my
daughter took him in to homeie court yesterday with me.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
She called me.

Speaker 4 (07:07):
She's like, oh, we got into an argument because she
went out to see him out of town.

Speaker 5 (07:16):
They go on a date, she's basically bare face, regular date.

Speaker 4 (07:22):
She goes out the next night with her homegirl, makeup, wig, heels,
the whole nine. So he's like, what, Like, what happened?
Why didn't I get this treatment? I totally feel this shit.

(07:45):
I've had the same and they did the same thing
to me. You know that she did the same thing
to me. And I said, this is why y'all are
so easy to cheat on.

Speaker 2 (07:53):
God damn that.

Speaker 3 (08:01):
Women.

Speaker 6 (08:03):
That's why what are you charging about?

Speaker 3 (08:07):
Hell?

Speaker 6 (08:09):
Is this so shameless?

Speaker 3 (08:09):
Not?

Speaker 5 (08:10):
We're also shameless or not?

Speaker 4 (08:12):
I said, y'all act like other chicks aren't vying, like
y'all do the most for the new nigga. All these
chicks telling how cute he looked today, what they would do.

Speaker 5 (08:24):
All of this, and you just like this old thing.

Speaker 4 (08:28):
I'm going out with this old thing, giving you this
old bare minimum behavior when it comes. But y'all, the
man the most, y'all the man the most. We gotta
work super hard for bare face behavior. I find that insulting.
And I said what I said. I said, Yo, you can't.

(08:48):
She goes out with me. My girl's beautiful all the time.

Speaker 7 (08:51):
Y'all.

Speaker 4 (08:51):
See she eats me up every time we go out.
It's fine, it's fine, but she's beautiful all the time.

Speaker 5 (08:56):
Right.

Speaker 4 (08:58):
Why is it that when you go out with me,
you give me the regular all the time, and when
you go out.

Speaker 3 (09:03):
With them, you give them the accentuated.

Speaker 4 (09:06):
Red lipstick, the sexy glasses, the sheer see through shirt.

Speaker 3 (09:11):
Girls.

Speaker 7 (09:12):
It's always something that you've never seen before.

Speaker 3 (09:15):
See this.

Speaker 4 (09:16):
I could have put my dick through the phone. I
called on FaceTime. She had the glasses, the lipstick.

Speaker 3 (09:21):
I'm like, ah, who is this?

Speaker 6 (09:24):
I just seen you yesterday.

Speaker 2 (09:26):
I was a person going out with the girls.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
Fuck them bitches. What the fuck they got that?

Speaker 2 (09:33):
I don't?

Speaker 5 (09:33):
God, what is this?

Speaker 7 (09:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (09:39):
Yeah, I'm confused.

Speaker 7 (09:43):
You're cooking, bro. Told you I've had the same exact arguments,
the same thing, word for word, ball for ball, same thing.

Speaker 3 (09:49):
Why do y'all do that?

Speaker 5 (09:51):
Why do Okay, if you don't know, I do, But
why you done it?

Speaker 4 (09:56):
Why do y'all dress up way more? When you go
out with your homegirls, they you do with your men.
When you go out with him, it's a girl thing.

Speaker 2 (10:05):
I'm gonna be very honest with you. It's a girl thing.
Like will you go out with your girls? There's an
aesthetic that you have to match because you don't want
to be the bum bitch of the group of girls.
So that's like when you go on like girl trips
and stuff like that, like you have themes and colors
and stuff like that, or like this is a dress update.

(10:25):
This is a dressed down day. So like how I
look going out with my bitches and everybody dressed to
the nine? So ya competing?

Speaker 3 (10:33):
Do you realize that you're still competing? Which is when
you're with your Man's.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
Not a competition. It is a collaborative aesthetic. It's not
a competient. I'm not competing with my bitches, it's not
it's not giving that.

Speaker 4 (10:46):
Why do I I'm outside with you? If I'm outside
with you. There's all these other women outside too. Why
do I gotta have the bear face?

Speaker 3 (10:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (10:55):
I wiped up bear face right here. I wiped up
kitten Hill right here. Why do I have to be
wiped up? What about the competition with me? What about
the aesthetic with me?

Speaker 2 (11:04):
I want to go out with them, my girl, I'm
even gonna hold you and take this how you want
to take it. Of course I'm gonna take because I'm
about I'm about to shoot good. Do you dress to
the nines when you go out with your girl every time?

Speaker 5 (11:20):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (11:20):
Or no? I'm matching you, Nigga, you come out looking
like this, don't if we're getting dressed up together. We're
getting dressed up together. If you're gonna give me fucking
sweatpants and a.

Speaker 5 (11:34):
T shir.

Speaker 4 (11:37):
But there's a difference dressing nines for me. Dressing nines
for me, it's hard shoes like that for me, it is,
but that's for you because you're fifty. But it's not,
you know, it's not giving that. Even like when me and.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
My husband go out, like we get dressed together, he'd
be like, yo, babe, what are you wearing? Because he's
gonna match my energy or I'm like, babe, what are
you wearing? Because I'm gonna his energy and if he
going outside regular, I'm going outside regular. But when I'm
out with my girls and it's like a fucking uniform,
it's like a basketball team. Everybody gotta have on the
same uniform. We were in Hills tonight, We're gonna put

(12:12):
it in a group chat. What we're doing. We're doing
makeup tonight. Year, we're doing makeup tonight. We were in
Hell tonight, we were in Hill tonight, and everybody is
going to match.

Speaker 3 (12:19):
I feel like when I agree with you where like
where as far as if we're having a conversation a dialogue,
Hey what you got on today? What you're wearing today?

Speaker 6 (12:29):
Then like you might match my flop.

Speaker 3 (12:31):
But I think where ta ho is coming from is
once in the blue Moon. I shouldn't have to say anything.
We are going out, Hey, Baye, I'm taking you out
to dinner, whatever the case is. I don't expect you
to show up on some regular ship. I want you to.

Speaker 6 (12:45):
Pull up in a dress.

Speaker 3 (12:46):
I want you to pull up in a makeup in
the in the vibe and with some heels, and where
we're going it don't even matter where we're going to do.

Speaker 2 (12:53):
It matter for me. It matter where we're going. It
matters where we're going, and it matters what. It matters
what energy you that you try, you trying to bring
to this your energy, I gotta match you. Like how
I look going out with my man and I'm dressed
to the nines and he's a don't even know and
I hate ship like that.

Speaker 5 (13:12):
You know.

Speaker 2 (13:12):
The one thing I hate more than anything else, well,
I hate baby showers altogether. But what I hate at
a baby shower is when the girl she got med up,
got on a beautiful gown and hills and that they
got on jeans and a fucking button.

Speaker 6 (13:25):
Just like that's only a hood baby shower.

Speaker 2 (13:27):
But that's what I'm saying right like there is I'm
I'm always willing to match the aesthetic of the person
I'm going out with. And if you're normally casual, I'm
gonna be casual. But if we're going out somewhere, you know,
if you're going out somewhere, if you go into an event,
you go into something, you know, she's gonna dress to
the nines. But if we're going out to a regular
ass dinner, I'm gonna give you regular dinner. You want

(13:49):
me to dress.

Speaker 4 (13:49):
Like, because that's what I'm saying. When I go out,
I don't go out enough. So when I do go out,
I look nice. I go out for me.

Speaker 6 (13:59):
Exactly for me.

Speaker 5 (14:00):
I agree with it.

Speaker 4 (14:01):
But you're talking about dress to the nines. It's a
whole different that's a whole different thing for me. But
I'm definitely I don't go on makeup. If we just
going to the local bar down.

Speaker 3 (14:09):
The I said, I said, I said, hey man, I'm
taking you out. Where we're going, it don't matter dinner.
Dinner between two is at least one hundred and eighty dollars.
So like if if we're gonna run it up, if
we know it's gonna one hundred and eighty dollars, you know
we ain't going somewhere normal.

Speaker 5 (14:29):
And when you go out with your homegirls, y'all splitting
the bill.

Speaker 2 (14:32):
You're going that with me, I'm paying for I can't
get a good look.

Speaker 3 (14:35):
Guys.

Speaker 4 (14:36):
If I got this on, you can treat it tonight.
You got let's go out.

Speaker 3 (14:41):
This ain't like a regular ball, ain't a regular vibe
like you know that, And wherever we go it's us.
Why are you worried about all of that? Wherever we
go is us? Why you can't do that for me?

Speaker 2 (14:52):
All right? So am I? Am I still being Devil's
advocate for women? Or do you want me to treat
it about myself? Because if I'm speaking about myself, I'm
always in dress, have to go out with my nigga,
every function.

Speaker 5 (15:02):
Dress up to come here. So you know, like.

Speaker 2 (15:04):
Every time, I'm always gonna get dressed up to go
out with my nigga. But I do also understand how
some women might not because also my nigga, if I
say we're going out, or he say we're going out,
and I'm showing him what I'm putting on, he's going
to match my aesthetics. He's never gonna come outside regular
with me. So I'm never gonna come outside regular with him.
But if you're coming outside regular with your bitch and

(15:25):
you're expecting her to beat anything, but you're compliments.

Speaker 4 (15:28):
You're making that thing okay, you're regular. You're making that
a thing when that's actually not a thing. That's something
that you're using to prove this point, but it's not
a thing. It's literally not a thing. If the nigga's
taking this girl out. He's gonna look nice because he's
taking this girl, especially if he knows his chick is.

Speaker 2 (15:46):
Fire face of makeup, dress in heels and you got
it on sneakers, jeans and a nice shirt. That's not
the same. We're not matched. We're not matched. I don't
give a fuck. You might like the way I look
in hills, but we're.

Speaker 3 (16:00):
Not mass That's that's but that I feel like. That's
like maybe I don't want to say hood nigga ship,
but it's some hood niggas ship like.

Speaker 6 (16:08):
I feel like.

Speaker 3 (16:10):
But if you like mainly, I always see a man
at least put on his good shoes. Man got probably
his loafers on, something like that, you know what I mean, nice, nice.

Speaker 6 (16:19):
Pair of trousers, and then he legit with it, you
know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (16:22):
So I mean I get that process because I think
that just off of me meeting you for right now,
I think that that's something that you would do. But
I don't see you.

Speaker 3 (16:36):
Don't see majority men doing it.

Speaker 2 (16:38):
What the last time you want a loafer to go
out to dinner with your girl?

Speaker 5 (16:41):
Loaf Never I've never won.

Speaker 2 (16:46):
But he want her, he wants hers and a sexy
dress and he gonna have one gens you do that.

Speaker 3 (16:52):
If she has a sexy dress on, you wear sniggers
and ship.

Speaker 2 (16:56):
Yes, you can't definish it. This is what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (17:00):
I can't. I need to wear shoes if she wears heels,
Now you gotta do that.

Speaker 5 (17:04):
But that's the metrosexuality.

Speaker 2 (17:05):
No, it's not about metro sexual It's about matching the vibe.
If you're wearing jeans, I'm wearing jeans. Don't expect me
to wear a fucking whole beautiful dress. And you got
on jeans and Jordan's. I don't care how official. I
don't care if they Travis Scott's. I don't care. What
if you have on jeans, Jordan's and a T shirt. Period,
you have on jeans, Jordan's and a T shirt. Why
do I have to do the most? You didn't do

(17:26):
the most. You won't even put on a hard bottom
shoe for me to go outside. But I gotta wear
the lettos you think you know them shits is not
even comfortable like that. No, bitch, you're gonna get a
ballerina flat and a jean, or you're gonna get a
ballerina flat and a motherfucking dress maybe, and we're gonna
go out. I might do a brow in a lash,
kiss my ass.

Speaker 5 (17:46):
No I'm not. She just won't stop talking, all right, God?

Speaker 2 (17:48):
Because yesterday you tell me you're gonna have on what
you're gonna have on? What a nice T shirt, a
graphic tea, you're gonna have on some cool socks and
Jordan's and you want her heels in a dress?

Speaker 7 (17:57):
First of all, God, let's let's first of all you
you just hijacked the whole thing, right, hijack the whole argument.

Speaker 2 (18:03):
What was I supposed to do? Let y'all talk, y'all done?

Speaker 7 (18:05):
Know the ship that you're saying right now is done
because you're you're equating all of this stuff for time
and effort, right, And what you're saying is is okay
for you to give time and effort with your friends,
and I give it with your man. But however, if
if a nigga sat on this couch and told you
he was putting on his good suit, his hard bottoms
with his with his man's, but you were getting the
birken stocks or the crocs, you would say that niggas gay?

(18:28):
Why do you feel like you need to get.

Speaker 2 (18:30):
Why would I say that that nigga is gay?

Speaker 7 (18:31):
Hello?

Speaker 3 (18:32):
Am I off? Hello?

Speaker 7 (18:36):
Because you would say a nigga, You would say a
nigga is spending more time with his niggas. He's putting
it in more effort with his niggas than a postal
with his girl. I've seen you say that a thousand
times now.

Speaker 2 (18:47):
But if a nigga putting on a whole suit, nigga,
you either going to a wedding, going to where are
you going? And why is dressing?

Speaker 7 (18:56):
Why is dressing you're trying.

Speaker 2 (18:57):
To Why is in your mind you gotta put on
a whole, full, three piece suit.

Speaker 7 (19:03):
That's not what I'm saying. I'm giving an example.

Speaker 2 (19:05):
I'm saying that's a dumb ass example.

Speaker 7 (19:07):
He gave effort and energy with his guys. It's real simple,
like you don't have to do this. We don't have
to do this.

Speaker 2 (19:12):
Y'are pissing off.

Speaker 7 (19:13):
You would not approve of that. But you're saying on
the other end, it's okay because his girls and it's
coales and it's this and it's that. But if a
niggas said the same thing, you wouldn't that wouldn't be okay.

Speaker 2 (19:21):
So that's not the point. The point is. My point is,
like my overarching theme here is niggas don't give enough
effort and energy on the day to day to ask
their bitch to give more effort and energy than you're
willing to give. Jeans and a T shirt and a
cool pair of kicks is not effort. That's your everyday fit,
that's your everyday uniform. So I'm saying, if you want

(19:42):
me every time we go out, you want me to
be the sexy fly that I put on the hills
in the dress and that I thought. The least you
could do shirt.

Speaker 4 (19:53):
The least you have made this about heels, You've made
this about dresses, going about accentuating your beauty. This is
what y'all do when you'll go out with your girls.
Y'all your best version of yourselves today. It could still
be sneakers, it can still it could still be the

(20:14):
it can still be it's about.

Speaker 7 (20:19):
Yeah, that was crazy, I love.

Speaker 3 (20:21):
But if it's fly, I'm not the fly.

Speaker 4 (20:24):
Can I finish a point once in a while, every
once in a while.

Speaker 3 (20:31):
Just can I just can I just get one thought out? Please?

Speaker 2 (20:35):
I hate stupid ship.

Speaker 5 (20:37):
I don't feel like it's stupid.

Speaker 4 (20:38):
You can still look nice and a pair of jeans
and a loose t. But you got the lipstick on,
you got the two chain, whatever it is, you've made
it look some fly ship like.

Speaker 3 (20:48):
You've made it into this thing.

Speaker 5 (20:50):
Where you're comparing.

Speaker 3 (20:51):
You're comparing it for like.

Speaker 5 (20:52):
Heels and no.

Speaker 4 (20:53):
But why you did all that for them was the
cool question, and you did the bare.

Speaker 5 (20:58):
Minimum for me?

Speaker 3 (21:00):
I am that was the question. You try to make
it into all of this.

Speaker 2 (21:02):
Other already answered that's except the answer.

Speaker 7 (21:05):
The answer is the answer, but the answer was off.

Speaker 6 (21:08):
The answer is not off.

Speaker 2 (21:09):
Y'all don't have a pussy how you wanna tell.

Speaker 6 (21:10):
Me, but it doesn't what we do.

Speaker 7 (21:12):
It doesn't speak to energy and answer here.

Speaker 2 (21:15):
The answer is when you go out with your girls,
we match each other's aesthetic. We plan ahead. Are we
wearing makeup today? Are we getting dressed? Are we getting
fly today? And then we match aesthetic. I'm not gonna
come out being regular when all of my girls are
dressed to the nines. It is a uniform. That's what
I suggested.

Speaker 3 (21:36):
That's true.

Speaker 2 (21:36):
You know that that's true.

Speaker 3 (21:38):
I also think that y'all find it to be disrespectful.

Speaker 4 (21:40):
When one of the girls don't match y'all fly, take
a dish, you'd be like, why would you? If she
comes to your birthday party or some regular ship, you'd
be like, Yo, what the fun?

Speaker 3 (21:50):
Why you came out?

Speaker 4 (21:51):
But I've seen women catch attitudes with the chick that's
just like why are you?

Speaker 3 (21:54):
Why are you doing?

Speaker 7 (21:55):
Why you did us?

Speaker 2 (21:55):
Like you want to know what else is?

Speaker 4 (21:57):
And so so that means that y'all understan the thought
proce that we're having, but you just give it. You're
allocate it to your girls.

Speaker 2 (22:06):
Because we're matching each other's fly.

Speaker 7 (22:09):
That's not always the case. I'm not that it is
always the case. It's not we're not gonna friend groups
are just dressing to the nuns.

Speaker 3 (22:16):
We're not.

Speaker 2 (22:17):
Because there's several times, no, no, no, no, there's several times that
I go out with my girls and we'll put it
in the chat like, yo, today is a regular day.
I'm not doing too much. And if you do have
the one friend that does the most, you were like, damn,
bit you was trying to show us up. We said
we wasn't doing too much. It's not like every single
time we go out with our girls that were always
dressed to the best. That's not the case. The fact

(22:38):
is y'all are comparing apples and oranges here.

Speaker 5 (22:40):
Okay, Okay, go ahead, ja d I know you have
something to say.

Speaker 3 (22:43):
You know what, listen. I do feel like I've had
the same vibe. I had this conversation with Shorty that
I used to date. I was like, Yo, every time
you out with your girlfriends, right, But the thing is
I'm gonna give them slack is that she don't see
her girlfriends often something they might have to like, you know,
they're gonna get dressed and they gonna they're gonna tap

(23:05):
in because it's probably want in the blue Moon.

Speaker 5 (23:06):
I get that.

Speaker 3 (23:06):
I'm gonna give them the credit on that one, but
I do I had to ask. I'm like, yo, when
I go out with you, though, like we're going out
to dinner and ship, you don't even wear like not
to say you need makeup, but you don't even like
wear making it. And I don't even like my women
necessarily in like a crazy dress and all that other shit.
I don't need all that, you know what I mean?

(23:27):
Like I kind of like, I kind of like my
woman dressing like a Japanese person. I ain't gonna lie
straight baggy vibs, you know what I mean. But you
but but you can make it feminine and you got
like your your your whole lashes and your makeup and
your vibe and ship like that. You know what I mean?

Speaker 6 (23:40):
But I don't know dog like she she was just
telling me like.

Speaker 3 (23:43):
Oh, well, you never asks I never asked your girlfriends.

Speaker 6 (23:47):
They have to ask you.

Speaker 2 (23:48):
Yes they do. And that's what I don't understand. They do.
We do ask each other.

Speaker 6 (23:52):
Here's my rebuttal to you.

Speaker 3 (23:53):
Right, I've I've I've said that same thing I said,
your girlfriends they have to ask you. She was just like, well,
it's just been a while. And I'm like, so what
you know what I mean? Like if I'm taking you
your girlfriends are splitting the bill. If I'm taking you
out and it's a vib you know, like I sent
you to place, I don't I don't know know, but

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this ain't red lobster. This ain't no all about it.
I'm a foodie, so I like to eat. We're going
to go to a nice spot. Were probably gonna get
a nice bottle of wine or whatever the case is.
You know the vibs. Put that shit on, you know
what I mean, But at the very least put that.

Speaker 2 (24:29):
But then also my thing is mm hmmm, oh god, no,
you don't have me. Don't excite yourself. I never get
excited like that we got is like again, like this
does not fully relate to me because I don't do that.

Speaker 6 (24:53):
But playing devil's advocate.

Speaker 2 (24:54):
I am definitely playing devil's advocate. But then as a
woman sometimes like I life for my nigga to tell
me what to do. But like, yo, put that ship on,
like you look beautiful or whatever, but I need you
to change. I need you to go put that ship on,
like put your fucking foot down. Like why you got
me outside looking lax. You got me outside looking lax,
and you're feeling something about it internally, like tell me.

(25:16):
I'll be like, yo, baby, you look good. But now
we're going outside, put that ship on, nigga, I'm running
to go. Oh my niggas coming ship and then I'm
gonna go run and I'm gonna shot it up. I
want you to look like you want me.

Speaker 5 (25:30):
Let's let's change the conversation.

Speaker 2 (25:32):
Change it.

Speaker 4 (25:33):
Why do y'all think this actually matters to men so much,
because mister, when we're talking, yo Shae, how you feel?

Speaker 3 (25:41):
What if?

Speaker 4 (25:41):
I don't care because I know why it matters to me.
But why do y'all think her not putting it on
when she's with him, especially when compared to the girls
madden so much to him?

Speaker 2 (25:56):
Why do I think that that this conversation matters so
much to me? I think it's several things. It's a
little bit of pussy envy in here. It's a little
bit of pussy envy. It's a little bit of jealousy.

Speaker 5 (26:07):
Niggas she said, niggas want the giinus.

Speaker 3 (26:10):
That's what she said.

Speaker 2 (26:14):
It's pussys me jealous of girls. Did you girls?

Speaker 3 (26:19):
Did that just come off of the riff?

Speaker 2 (26:21):
This is this is our thing because he's him. I
want to know he'd be envious of people with pussies
because he wanted to be treated like a pussy owner.
Pussy MV.

Speaker 5 (26:32):
I want to be treated like a woman. I want
to be treated like a woman.

Speaker 2 (26:35):
That's what she says.

Speaker 4 (26:36):
That's where this came from. That's that's where we that's
where we are. It's fine, don't worry about it. Please
explain today.

Speaker 3 (26:46):
That's what I get. This is what I deal with.

Speaker 5 (26:49):
I love it. It's great.

Speaker 3 (26:50):
Okay, pussy envy is a new one, y'all know.

Speaker 2 (26:58):
Honestly, I think that niggas be in their feelings about
shit they don't have nothing to do with them because
they want to be the center of a woman's universe.
How dare you get dressed up with somebody that's not me?
How dare you do these things with somebody that's not me?
There's so many other bitches in the world. I'm gonna
go fuck one of the other bitches. God.

Speaker 6 (27:17):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (27:18):
Low vibrational thinking featuring Dodge. That's because I think she's right.

Speaker 2 (27:24):
I know you think I'm right, but I think.

Speaker 5 (27:26):
It's just a low vibrational tape.

Speaker 2 (27:29):
Of high vibrational people.

Speaker 4 (27:31):
Know we're talking about We're just talking about psychotists and feelings.
I think we base a lot of things on ego, Yes,
with the things that we involve ourselves with, possess.

Speaker 5 (27:40):
Or whatever it means.

Speaker 2 (27:40):
You don't think that's low vibrational, No.

Speaker 4 (27:42):
I think that we ask y'all, who's pussy is this?
You want the sex to be the best ever you want?

Speaker 5 (27:50):
I don't know. You don't want her to have mad
partners like whatever it is. They're all ego feeding things
for sure.

Speaker 4 (27:57):
And when you don't prioritize me, when you don't prioritize
me and make me feel like I'm not that nigga,
No nigga wants to exist in the space where he's
not that nigga, especially.

Speaker 5 (28:10):
With his relationship.

Speaker 4 (28:12):
So when you do these things for somebody else and
you don't do it for me, it makes me feel
like I don't have the same value to you. And
that's something that with men in this world, I believe.
And I'm not sure if this is woke men, unwoke men, whatever.

Speaker 5 (28:28):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (28:31):
What wait, I don't know if this is a healthy behavior,
because I think women have ego things about them as well.
I think that most men generally generally exist with this
thing like Yo, they want to feel like that nigga
in their relationship.

Speaker 2 (28:49):
And you don't feel like you're that nigga. If I
hang out with my girls and look better than I
did when I hung out with you, did you just
when you put out more effort with the way that
you show up for them than you do for me, Yes,
it makes me feel like.

Speaker 4 (29:05):
You're jealous this old thing, so you're just not jealous.
It's yo, I want the best treatment. I want the
best treatment, the same thing that you give for them.
See the way you're talking, you just knocking me down.
You just trying to knock it down. Knock it down,
knock it down.

Speaker 3 (29:17):
And this also is why I said.

Speaker 4 (29:20):
Y'all make it so easy to cheat on y'all because
the other bitches is showing up when they come out,
show up.

Speaker 2 (29:27):
For now, and then when they become your bitch, they
do the same thing that your bitch is doing. Because
this is what bitches doing. She's right, dummy, I think
this is stupid.

Speaker 3 (29:35):
Actually, she's right on that point.

Speaker 5 (29:37):
I could just get a whole bunch of first times.

Speaker 4 (29:42):
They ain't gonna be my girl. But why do I
have to keep having this with y'all? Because keep having
this when when I'm in the house and I feel
like you're never doing the most for me, It's like
I never think, it's not like I just a once
in a while, it's start you start and get realized, like, yo,
you kind of just whatever all the time, And what
is yours?

Speaker 2 (29:59):
What is your What is what is the way that
you show up? That's more than regular. How do you
show up that's more than regular? What do you do?
What do you put on? What extra shit do you do?
My girl? I'm just talking about in general, Like I
don't want to go into you or me, Like what
is it? Like? Y'all y'all want things right? You want

(30:21):
to feel like you that nigga? I want to feel
like I'm that bitch? What are you gonna What do
you do to make me feel that way?

Speaker 5 (30:26):
Shop for you?

Speaker 2 (30:27):
Who?

Speaker 8 (30:28):
For me?

Speaker 3 (30:29):
You could? You could?

Speaker 5 (30:29):
You could like buyd my girl stuff.

Speaker 3 (30:31):
You can reassure. You can reassure a woman, you know
what I mean, Like make her feel like, hey, you
know what I mean? Keep telling her like hey baby,
you beautiful, you blah, whatever the case is. I do
think to make her feel like she's the woman, Like
you get what I'm saying, Like she's the one, Like
how I look at you, how I show you affection,
how I do these things? I do think, though I

(30:52):
understand what Tahoe is saying, A man just wants to
feel that same energy as well. And if we're going out,
and I'm not saying all the time because all the
time is a stretched I don't I don't really care
for you to dress up crazy all the time. I don't,
but for once in a blue moon, though, you know
what I mean, show me that same effort that you

(31:13):
showed your women, that you show your lady.

Speaker 2 (31:15):
So what are you going to do to show why?
Don't understand?

Speaker 6 (31:21):
I'm confused.

Speaker 3 (31:22):
I just I just said, what are you talking about?

Speaker 8 (31:24):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (31:24):
So just words more words of affirmation?

Speaker 6 (31:27):
But I also show you through my actions my actions?

Speaker 3 (31:30):
Well, okay, better question what makes you get that vibe
from a man? Like, like, like, what what makes you
all that I'm that woman in the relationship?

Speaker 9 (31:41):
Like?

Speaker 3 (31:41):
What does he have to do? What's the actions?

Speaker 2 (31:45):
That's a great question. That's a great question I never
thought of because I don't think like this, and I
don't know. I don't know what the answer to that
question is. Because I think that what you like, you know,
like when you see on the internet and you see
people say like is this princess treatment or is this regular?
I think that what you just said is regular, Like
these are like every day that should be happening. So

(32:06):
what I'm saying is for a woman to make you
feel like you that nigga.

Speaker 3 (32:10):
It should be every day thing too, should be it
should be regular.

Speaker 2 (32:13):
Shot is the same aesthetic as me showing up in
a certain way all the time, with that effort, energy.

Speaker 6 (32:21):
Effort and energy.

Speaker 4 (32:22):
Keep in mind sometimes in mind the original conversation where
she went to Maryland.

Speaker 5 (32:28):
Yes, they don't see each other all the time.

Speaker 4 (32:30):
She went on a date bare face and regular, and
the next night went out with homegirls on ten.

Speaker 3 (32:38):
So this is like, yo, it's a problematic.

Speaker 4 (32:41):
This is like yo, I don't even see you like that,
And this is how you did it like this.

Speaker 3 (32:45):
That was the original conversation.

Speaker 2 (32:47):
And again, I think that in a situation like that,
if you, as my man, don't feel like I'm showing
up as my best self, put your foot down and
tell me respect. But well, if you allowed it to
happen to me, I'm thinking that this is regular. I'm
thinking that it's normal. I'm not assuming that you have

(33:07):
a problem or you feel in some type of way
because you didn't say shit. But then when I go
out with my girls and we're matching aesthetics, we're matching
a vibe. We have on the same uniform. Now you're
telling me you had a problem with something I did yesterday.
You should have said that yesterday before we went out
and you checked my fit and I checked your fit.
You should have been like, yo, Bay, I haven't seen
you in a while, get sexy for me.

Speaker 4 (33:27):
Now you're saying, okay, tell you right, yeah, why not
tell you how I feel?

Speaker 5 (33:32):
Tell me and you're going to show up and show out?

Speaker 3 (33:35):
Yes, right?

Speaker 4 (33:36):
When we have another clip going a different direction, it's
a half hour and fuck it right yellow, same conversation,
different connotation. I'm gonna try to bounce this around through
little different segues.

Speaker 5 (33:47):
Let's see what happens.

Speaker 8 (33:49):
That's all for telling my husband he doesn't get to
decide what I do with my body. I have been
married to my husband for about five years. Overall, we
have a pretty good relationship, but lately we've been clashing
over something that to me feels like common sense.

Speaker 10 (34:05):
My body equals my decision.

Speaker 8 (34:08):
The most recent fight started when I mentioned possibly getting
on birth control again.

Speaker 10 (34:12):
He immediately jumped in, saying that he.

Speaker 8 (34:15):
Didn't like, quote unquote like how it changes my hormones
and that he would prefer that I just stay off
of it. I told him that I respect his opinion,
but at the end of the day, I'm the one
dealing with the side effects of not being on anything.
He doesn't get the cramps, he doesn't get the stress,
he doesn't get the oh no, is this a pregnant
sea scare anxiety? When I said, look, it's my body

(34:37):
and I'm the one who has to manage it, not you,
he got really defensive and accused me of not caring
about his feelings. To be clear, I do care. He's
my husband. I listened to him, but I also feel
like it's unfair for him to think he gets a
final vote on decisions that literally affect my health. For context,
this isn't just about the birth control. He also made

(35:00):
moments before when I cut my hair short, or when
I consider getting a small tattoo. Nothing extreme, but even though,
but enough that I'm not now I'm now noticing a pattern.
I told him flat out, you don't have the right
to tell me what to do with my body.

Speaker 10 (35:14):
He said that I was being disrespectful.

Speaker 8 (35:16):
Now I'm wondering if I was too blunt or if
I just said a bowl dream that needed to be said.
So am I ain't asshole for standing my ground.

Speaker 2 (35:27):
I don't. Oh y'all want to hear what I gotta say.

Speaker 4 (35:33):
You're gonna overtalk us anyway.

Speaker 2 (35:38):
You know, I love what you say things like that.

Speaker 3 (35:43):
I love you. I just no worry.

Speaker 2 (35:45):
I'm gonna shut the fuck up. Ahead, y'all do it
have fun?

Speaker 3 (35:48):
No?

Speaker 6 (35:48):
Do that? I do?

Speaker 3 (35:49):
I do No, he's he's I'm agree with the woman
I'm going to. You're gonna disagree. I know I agree
with her. She's one thousand percent correct. A man shun
to tell her what to do.

Speaker 4 (36:03):
I see you gotta remember your only hearing from her.

Speaker 5 (36:07):
Okay, you gotta break down what she's saying.

Speaker 4 (36:10):
She said, he said he would prefer mmm. She also
said he made comments nothing, he didn't.

Speaker 3 (36:18):
He didn't say, he didn't say, don't do it.

Speaker 4 (36:20):
That's true, and you're jumping down my like, hold on,
I can't say anything. I think that's where the thing is, right.
Your hormones do affect me too when you get into whatever.
I'm scared to say things because women are gonna.

Speaker 3 (36:36):
Go correct, come on, go go, But yo, I live here.

Speaker 5 (36:40):
I live here. The way you show up and the.

Speaker 4 (36:43):
Energy surrounding certain times of the month when it's that
the big with a phase.

Speaker 3 (36:48):
What is it of the.

Speaker 5 (36:49):
Month for you legenic.

Speaker 4 (36:50):
What is it that that that that when you lose
the eggs and your body's like oh, and now you
go into that low depressional, that low vibe time of
the month. I can't remember what it's called, but there's
a name for it.

Speaker 5 (37:03):
Starts with L. It's a lose quacious or some ship.

Speaker 3 (37:06):
Right, I gotta deal with that.

Speaker 4 (37:09):
So now if the if the birth control affects that
and makes it worse or whatever, I'm just like, yo,
of course you of course you're the cramps. Matter of
course that matters. Of course, Uh, the anxiety pregnancy joints,
of course that matters.

Speaker 5 (37:31):
But bro, we're in this together, oh are we?

Speaker 2 (37:33):
We're in this?

Speaker 3 (37:35):
Are not?

Speaker 5 (37:36):
We're not in this together.

Speaker 3 (37:37):
It's just you. It's no, That's what I'm saying. I'm
trying to figure out.

Speaker 4 (37:42):
Not because she's about to go on this long winded
you niggas and y'all think that y'all don't know how good.
But it's like, yo, I can't even say, all right,
you said that you wanted to cut your hair. You
just come home ball one day like you ain't even say, like, yo, yo,
I'm thinking about cut my hair. When you think you
think that I would look, you say nothing, you's gonna
like I said me, come home without a beard on

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one day, just come home beerless cool.

Speaker 3 (38:06):
Like it never bowls well though when you tell a woman.
That's what I'm saying too. Like you was like to
to piggyback on your point before, he was like, he
just tell me, just tell me put that ship on,
and I'm just gonna run that.

Speaker 4 (38:19):
This ain't good enough for you. You think that that
you're saying that was good in that conversation, that yeah,
that that that might have been a you thing. But
I've told I've been like I've asked a woman. I'm
been like, so you're going with that.

Speaker 2 (38:31):
That's not what I said to do. That's that get
you cut.

Speaker 11 (38:39):
With that because because because I'm not I'm not gonna
say dinner right, I'm not gonna say outright that I
don't like it because that is going to affect your
feelings as well.

Speaker 3 (38:51):
So I'm like, I'm like, hey, yeah, you like you
like that, you like what you okay, and that's it.

Speaker 4 (38:59):
If you like it, I love it. You gotta tell
me crazy if you like it, I love it.

Speaker 6 (39:06):
That's what I'm saying to you.

Speaker 3 (39:07):
When you would when.

Speaker 6 (39:10):
It no, no, no, no.

Speaker 3 (39:12):
If you like it, I love it because at the
end of the day, I've had discussions with women like
I don't think you should wear that, and then it's
a whole it's a whole thing, and now you're your
whole night room, going your whole night room. So I
just I rather avoid the situation because I'll tell you like,
I don't like it, because you're gonna ask me, hey, baby,
how look I'm like, nah, you don't look good, you

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know what I mean?

Speaker 6 (39:36):
And I cannot be honest.

Speaker 3 (39:38):
So what I'm going to ask you because then I
want you to if I'm like you good with this,
I want you to look at yourself. Maybe I shouldn't
wear this. It always works, I'm telling you right now.
It works. It works for me, you know what I'm saying.
It works for me because hockey I I could put that.
I could dress too. So like you kind of take
my you kind of take my side on things. Not you.

Speaker 7 (39:59):
I'm just about the woman that I'm canceling.

Speaker 3 (40:02):
The whole day. Don't not talk, come on talk, Let's go,
come on. I want her to come for me. Let's go. Now.
I hate whatever I'm screaming.

Speaker 4 (40:15):
Today's like what she just joined the chat, oh boy,
which I was talking about.

Speaker 5 (40:20):
I said, oh, nothing, nothing.

Speaker 7 (40:22):
I do agree with her though.

Speaker 2 (40:24):
So several things.

Speaker 3 (40:26):
I love this.

Speaker 2 (40:27):
First, what you said is not what I said to say, right,
I said, put your foot down. I said, you say, babe,
you look good. But I want you to really put
that ship on. Not you going with that. You want
to go out like that.

Speaker 3 (40:42):
That's what with me.

Speaker 2 (40:48):
Giving, But that's what it's giving. It's a difference between
give me a kudo for what I'm already doing and
then telling me to add two then saying, now you
look crazy. Don't say that to me because we're fighting.

Speaker 5 (41:00):
I mean, you don't want to.

Speaker 2 (41:03):
Like we're dead ass scrapping.

Speaker 7 (41:04):
That's happened.

Speaker 3 (41:05):
But you've said that, yes, yeah, I believe that. What
have you said?

Speaker 5 (41:10):
You said.

Speaker 7 (41:12):
It's kind of what Jad said. I was like, you're
not serious right like that?

Speaker 6 (41:18):
That's different.

Speaker 7 (41:21):
Hold on, I felt disrespected by what was chosen.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
I felt you should have felt dispect. I can't dress.
Oh why you wasn't disrespected by that? Your niggas talking about.

Speaker 7 (41:37):
I mean again, I'm not dating somebody for how they
could dress. So that's where you not quote unquote being
able to dress wasn't the issue like I said, It
was the energy and effort, because how it wasn't like
I said, it wasn't about having to put on something crazy.
It was the fact that when you went out with me,
you pulled the dress out of the bottom of a

(41:57):
drawer that was fucking wrinkled, and you have some some
old Nike darts that you tried to throw with it.
She's no, no, no, some old like running Nike shoes. But
when you went out with your girls, yeah, that's a
little ship coming in the mail, new boots. It's shopping.
It's new this, it's shopping. So it's like, na, you're

(42:18):
not going to go into the back room and oh yeah, I.

Speaker 3 (42:21):
Got a little But are you seriously?

Speaker 2 (42:23):
Are you serious?

Speaker 7 (42:24):
I was no, Are you serious? Because why would you
do that to me? I've never given you that energy
of effort. I've never handled you that way.

Speaker 2 (42:30):
So personally violated.

Speaker 7 (42:32):
I feel that was a person I feel like that was
a personal slap in the face. Why would you think
that you're gonna ever go with me?

Speaker 6 (42:38):
You got jump back into the moment. You got into
the moment.

Speaker 2 (42:45):
He like you dead ass. But back to to the video, right.
I can understand how being on certain medications will affect
your mood. You might have moved twin and stuff like that,
and that is something that you have to deal with. Fine, However, Comma,

(43:06):
if I'm telling you that I need to get back
on birth control because of things that affect me physically, emotionally,
and mentally, and you made that shit about you, you
got me all the way fucked up?

Speaker 3 (43:20):
Is that what happened?

Speaker 2 (43:21):
That's exactly what happened, because first of all, y'all don't
even know what cramps feel like. And there's some women
that have cramps so bad that it will take them
the fuck out, and birth control is the way to
help quell that. So I have to literally not be
physically in pain two days or more out of every

(43:41):
single month, because you don't want to deal with the
mood swings that come with literally the side effects that
come with my medication. Every medication has side effects. So
I have to center your feelings in this moment but
also go through the pain. And you're like, but we're
going through this together. No, you're not going through this
with me. You're not going through this feeling with me,

(44:03):
You're not doing that and if you care that much,
And I'm saying, like the mental stress of like damn,
am I late? Am I pregnant? Am I not pregnant?
What am I gonna do?

Speaker 5 (44:12):
Da?

Speaker 7 (44:12):
Da da?

Speaker 10 (44:12):
Like?

Speaker 2 (44:12):
That is mental, physical, and emotional stress And you're centering yourself.

Speaker 5 (44:17):
I'm centering.

Speaker 2 (44:18):
It's the biggest fuck out of here suck you ever heard.

Speaker 5 (44:20):
And I respect that.

Speaker 4 (44:21):
I understand exactly what you're saying, But can we have
the conversation as far as what those things do to
you and try to find a way to avoid that.
Aren't there different types of birth controls out there?

Speaker 2 (44:32):
Yes, but you have and try them all right, But.

Speaker 4 (44:36):
There's a bigger conversation because she mentioned that, But then
she also mentioned the tattoo and the hair cutting, and
it's like, bro, I can't say nothing to you.

Speaker 2 (44:46):
It's not that you can't say anything to me. It's
the fact that there is a way to have an opinion.
But then there's also a way to not try to
make decisions for me, like I can.

Speaker 5 (44:57):
Little comments, she said, Little comments.

Speaker 2 (45:00):
Little comments turned into sometimes you can just shut the
fuck up. Sometimes you really could just shut the fuck up.

Speaker 3 (45:06):
Who gotta shut the fuck up the man.

Speaker 2 (45:08):
Yeah, I say, sometimes you can shut the fuck up.

Speaker 6 (45:17):
In the corner.

Speaker 2 (45:17):
I gotta ask your permission to cut my hair. I
gotta ask your permission to get at tattoo. I got
to ask your permission to get medications.

Speaker 3 (45:23):
Ask your question, ask me. Don't glitch your husband.

Speaker 2 (45:30):
My husband has a bed. Sometimes he's a firefighter.

Speaker 5 (45:34):
He can't.

Speaker 3 (45:36):
I'm about to get because I'm like you, you can't
just show up. You can't just show up like I
couldn't date a woman.

Speaker 6 (45:42):
She see me with a bed, she loved my bell.
I can't just show up and be like bidless.

Speaker 2 (45:46):
All right, So let me tell you something about my husband.

Speaker 5 (45:48):
Right, so he growing the mustache?

Speaker 2 (45:51):
Yes, so he has a mustache?

Speaker 7 (45:54):
Right?

Speaker 3 (45:54):
You hate it?

Speaker 2 (45:55):
I hated it, definitely. He definitely was. So he hasn't
you like the mustaches that like go.

Speaker 3 (46:01):
Up like curl up, irish.

Speaker 2 (46:05):
Trying to do like one day we in the crib,
right so that yeah, helack of course, nigga, don't disrespect me.
I'm just so there's things, right, there are things that
people have their things. I love a man with a beard,
but I married a man because of his job. It
is what it is. But when he's on break or whatever,
he'll grow his beard out and whatever whatever. Right, So

(46:26):
he decided one day he woke up and his beard,
his mustache was a little long, and he in his
head was like he gonna curl it up. So he
literally took my geil and he went in the bathroom.
He came back and them ships, and I was like,
what the fuck? And he was like I like it.
I was like, you like it, and he was like, yeah,
you don't like it. I said, nah, but rock out

(46:47):
like that. If that's your ship, that's your ship. Like,
I'm not going to tell you get rid of it.
You try to do new things. You're you're very like
as men. Sometimes y'all are very limited in being able
to change up, like your styles and stuff like that.
So if you want to try new thing, try a
new thing. I was not beat for it at first.
And then he got dressed and he put on a

(47:07):
fit with it and it tied it together, and I
was like, you know what, babe, rock out with it, laid.

Speaker 4 (47:13):
Skirt song, some Doc Martin's nice little white button up.

Speaker 2 (47:19):
Ayo, bitch, stop talking about my husband, because why the
full my husband had on a top, had had a skirt.

Speaker 5 (47:26):
What's it called, threw a kilt on?

Speaker 2 (47:29):
Fuck you can see it. But anyway, But also there's
the thing, like my one hairstyle my husband can't stand.
He can't stand bangs. I don't know what that trauma
is with him when it comes to a bang, but
he hates them. I love bangs, and I didn't wear
bangs for years because he does not like them. And
I know that he doesn't like them. But then recently
I was just like rock a bank, I wreck the

(47:52):
little baby bab and you know what, he actually liked it.
And I was like, yo, it's all right. He's like, yeah,
it's all right. He was like, you know, it's not
my favorite hairstyle, but yeah it's fine. And I'm just like, okay,
so like everybody, let's just try new things. Like it's
it's perfectly fine. But I know I'm not gonna tell
my husband like, oh no, you can't do anything. You
can only do what I want you to do. Nigga,

(48:12):
you are grown ass man doing what you want to do.

Speaker 5 (48:15):
You know what? I love that.

Speaker 4 (48:17):
I love the way you did that just now. It
Actually I love when somebody supports me, like, don't judge
me based off like yesterday. So like this is what
I'm feeling like doing shit rocket. I think that's empowering.
Actually it's very empassing. So I can't see how she
come home short be like yo, I wasn't expecting that,
But how do you feel?

Speaker 5 (48:38):
Do you like it?

Speaker 4 (48:39):
And it kind of means that you like them for
who they are more than how they're presenting today. That's
all I can I can understand that, Like, it's just.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
It's just mean. I think that sometimes men have a
tendency to be mean about things that obviously affect them
in one way or another. But just be nice to me.
I have feelings.

Speaker 4 (49:00):
I was gonna say, with respect to what I just said,
when your hormones get put out of whack by something
you're doing, I should just fall back.

Speaker 2 (49:10):
It's not fall back, it's just support me because I'm
going through it too. My hormones affect me too. It
w'll only just affect you. I'm going through shit internally,
I'm feeling things internally. You're catching the back end of
whatever it is and I'm already feeling, so fucking support me.
This shit is not easy for anybody.

Speaker 4 (49:30):
What if it's not how it affects me. What if
I don't like how it affects you. I notice that
your emotions swagging, you're crying, and you get depressive states
more or whatever, And I'm like, yo, I notice what
happens when you do that.

Speaker 5 (49:43):
It isn't about me. But I don't like that for you.

Speaker 2 (49:46):
And I respect that. But also being supportive is me
allowing me to make the decisions that I feel like
it's best for me, and supporting me through it and
not making me feel like it's not the right thing
to do.

Speaker 5 (50:04):
When he said I prefer, I don't.

Speaker 4 (50:07):
I prefer when you don't when you're not on it,
because of how do things affect you?

Speaker 5 (50:12):
How is that not thinking about what's best for you?

Speaker 2 (50:14):
Because this is unnecessary in my brain, this is a
necessary sacrifice for me, not to be an excruciating pain
I have to take. I'm gonna take an l one
way or another. There is a side effect to every
single medication that you take. There is no medicine that's
out that does not have some type of a side effect.

Speaker 7 (50:34):
Yesterday, what you got, I kind of agree with her.
With the with the lady, I do feel like I
do feel like as men, it's cool to like voice
your opinion and even like myself personally, I can say
all the time I don't like something, or maybe it's
not my personal opinion, but I always I try to
support those types of things because, like Dodd said, as women,

(50:56):
you know, there's a lot of stuff that we don't
go through it, that we don't have to deal with.
So especially if it's something mental, physical or mental. Right,
It's like I kind of I can tell you my opinion,
but I kind of want you to do what's what
you feel is best for you. I don't want to
feel like I'm the arbiter of what's best for you
if you're telling me, like, yo, hey, I think this
route is you know, better for me physically, you know,

(51:16):
from a health perspective. Right, So I agree with the
I agree with the lady.

Speaker 5 (51:21):
The conversation that we were having in the discord.

Speaker 2 (51:24):
The fact you got to scroll up that far, it
was crazy.

Speaker 4 (51:27):
It was a long conversation. I actually came in on
the end of it, and I hope this fella doesn't
feel disrespected. I'm gonna be as yeah.

Speaker 5 (51:38):
Well, I'm gonna speak about the situation. He's married.

Speaker 4 (51:47):
He sends a text from his wife to him UH
about a situation that's involving his BM, his son, and
his bm's other son. The text goes, you want to
know what? You want to know what. I'm not in

(52:08):
a good space with you. I've told you to stop
taking that boy to get his haircut. You ignored me
and completely disregard my feelings. You are being chaos into
our relationship. Two choices, make your wife me happy or
make your bitch of baby mama happy.

Speaker 5 (52:25):
The choice is yours.

Speaker 4 (52:26):
I don't need to be with a man who doesn't
listen to me to His explanation for this was he
has a son who actually has a brother another you
know from you.

Speaker 2 (52:42):
With the baby.

Speaker 4 (52:43):
His son loves the brother. The dad of the brother
is not around the baby. Mother and him don't get along.
He takes care of his son when he gets the
haircut his son, he takes the other kid. He tells
his wife it's not about the boy. It's about the boy,
it's not about the mom. He's explained everything to her.

(53:05):
He feels controlling, she wants what she wants. She feels
like my son's mother doesn't respect me. I told her,
it's not about the mother, it's about the boys. My
son's mother doesn't fuck with me. I pay my child's
port and I pick him up at the scheduled time.
This is the last draw for me. I also told her,
don't disrespect my son's mother, right, he says. The backstory

(53:25):
is my son's mother has never been interested in me
and my wife. My wife thinks, cause my son's mother
doesn't respect me, why should I take her oldest son
for a haircut. I told her his father's not in
his life and I have been. When I take my
son for a cut, i'll take his brother. My son
loves his brother. I want to maintain their bond. Nothing
to do with my son's mother, strictly the boys. We've

(53:47):
talked about it. She doesn't want me to take him
for a haircut. I told her, I hear what she's saying,
but I don't agree, and I'll continue to take the
boys for the damn haircut. Now she wants to threaten
the marriage.

Speaker 2 (53:58):
Well, get rid of the bitch.

Speaker 3 (54:00):
Oh, come on, get rid of her.

Speaker 6 (54:03):
Have a conversation.

Speaker 2 (54:04):
There is no conversation because she don't want to have
a conversation. She said, in the text message you need
to listen to me, because I'm your wife. Listen to you, bitch.
I'm a fucking grown ass person. I have discernment if
this is a shit that gets me tight, because there
are men that really are trying their best to be
a stand up man, regardless of certain situations that they're in,

(54:26):
and you are preventing him from being a stand up
man because you and your feelings about what this has
nothing to do with my baby mother. My baby mother
don't fuck with me, and she don't fuck with you.
Fuck her. We talking about the boys here, like why
would I go pick up my son and the other
kid that was there that I was probably at some
time basically raising in tandem with my son and be like, yo,

(54:49):
see you later. I'm gonna take my son and fuck
you like bitch.

Speaker 4 (54:55):
And they but the people around that was in this
conversation with saying he he's out of pocket for saying,
don't disrespect my baby mother.

Speaker 2 (55:04):
He's not out of pocket. He's not out of pocket
because that is the mother of my son. Like, regardless
of whatever we're going through, we don't have to get along.
She don't fuck with you, She don't fuck with me,
But that don't give you the right to disrespect her,
and it don't give her the right to disrespect you
as a real man. And you standing in between two
different people, your woman and your baby mother. None of
them should be disrespecting each other period.

Speaker 7 (55:26):
And can I also ask, fuck is everybody okay? Like
I said, I'm not married, but I think you can
speak to this a little bit, Dodge. I think the
weaponizing of the marriage right, the weaponis and of the
relationship and threatening the relationship for me is what's what's
always gonna send me over the edge because how's what
is me taking the kid to get a haircut? Have to.

Speaker 3 (55:49):
Why?

Speaker 7 (55:50):
Why is it coming down to? Like, like you said,
if you don't listen to me, then the next thing
is our relationship is on the docket. And to your point,
JD like, that's why she's lead because you don't ever
want to be in a situation where it could be
the haircut, it could be this, it could be with
the groceries, it could be the cheese next week.

Speaker 3 (56:07):
You don't do what you're supposed to do. Do you
not think therapy could be a situation that could happen.

Speaker 2 (56:17):
To individually? First, because she's not.

Speaker 3 (56:19):
Okay, she might not be.

Speaker 4 (56:21):
She's literally saying, don't get this kid a haircut. That's
her get back.

Speaker 5 (56:26):
What the fun this kid do to you?

Speaker 7 (56:28):
Baby?

Speaker 3 (56:29):
Did this kid do what? I agree?

Speaker 2 (56:31):
Beef with a kid?

Speaker 4 (56:33):
You're beefing with me about trying to be good to
a kid. This is your beefing with me. You're you're
talking about. Don't listen to you. You literally talking about
you're putting your foot down about me getting.

Speaker 7 (56:44):
The kid when your son, when your son is outside
in the street, and who you think is going to
be riding and die for him, This is also somebody
that's gonna that's gonna be as close to as anybody
on for sure.

Speaker 2 (56:58):
Like no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I'm sorry.
I don't y'all know how I feel about kids, Like
don't play with the babies. The babies go through enough.
Like how you think that young man feel his father
already not in his life, his brother father not in
the house, no more that marry somebody else. That baby
really probably seen some shit, probably been through some shit,
and you want the positive male influence in his life

(57:19):
not to be in his life because you got a
feeling bench, you already won, you married, you live with, Like,
what else do you need? What else do you need?
You got beef with a baby, Like, get the fuck
out of here. I mean, yo, bitches need real friends,
because that bitch could never be my friend. I would
call her all ten types of stupid.

Speaker 4 (57:37):
Women often tell men also how to deal with their
baby mothers.

Speaker 2 (57:43):
And that's how I can't do.

Speaker 5 (57:44):
Yo.

Speaker 4 (57:45):
They all trying to do it, and I'll be like, yo,
and Drew and I have agreed, what you might do
in this situation is not what I can do in
this situation. You have a level of privilege with the
way that you deal with women and the way that
you deal with men. Yes, I cannot turn around and
do the same thing we're dealing with other men or

(58:05):
dealing with women.

Speaker 5 (58:06):
It does not work that way, and I don't think that. Listen.

Speaker 4 (58:10):
All the women in this conversation were saying that, oh,
it's all three of the four, and I was like, Yo,
first of all, the BM, the BM not fucking with me,
And now for you, She's like, oh, they all need
to terms.

Speaker 5 (58:23):
Listen.

Speaker 4 (58:23):
The beam is not gonna change if she's going she
has the privilege here, she's the custodial parent of this child.
Most times it's some type of business whatever, whether it's
that I got into it, we're not together, I'm in
a positive relationship. That she now has this kid that
she has to raise. There's all types of reasons what
she's gonna stay that way, And she can because she
or just taking the child's or not let you see

(58:45):
your kid, or just be difficult as fuck. And she
can do that and for the next eighteen years, no problem.
And now as.

Speaker 5 (58:54):
The guy that has to deal with that, everybody's.

Speaker 4 (58:58):
You're saying that I'm at four too, because I'm asking
my wife don't disrespect her. And I was like, yo,
I thought y'all said, you're always supposed to respect the
mother of your children.

Speaker 5 (59:10):
I'm supposed to do that, and still let my wife.

Speaker 4 (59:12):
Disrespect her just because they had no interactions, they've had
nothing right, they.

Speaker 2 (59:16):
Didn't even met each other. Like, why are you talking
about this person? Crazy? You don't even notice lady.

Speaker 4 (59:20):
Well, I feel like women do go to bat for
they nigga a lot of times when they have negative influences.
Though you've got a woman that's treating you some shit. Yeah,
she's gonna be like, fuck that bitch.

Speaker 7 (59:29):
Right.

Speaker 2 (59:29):
As a wife, I get that too, but but also, okay, here.

Speaker 5 (59:36):
You've also said that you would step in.

Speaker 4 (59:38):
As a way, you said that you would contact with
love to you have done, but you.

Speaker 5 (59:44):
Haven't reached out like hey, no.

Speaker 2 (59:46):
No, no, no no. As a wife, I have to respect
my husband and defer to his decision. There's a lot
of things in a lot of situations that have happened
that I definitely wanted to say some shit like yo,
let me just let me handle this fuss, like let me,
let me, let me step in the ring, like I
got this, And he's just like no, because this, this,

(01:00:08):
that and the third, and it's only gonna make it worse.
And I'm just like I and I just gotta I
gotta sit on my hands because I just want him
to know that I'm always ready for you. But if
you tell me to chill, I got a chill.

Speaker 5 (01:00:23):
JD.

Speaker 4 (01:00:24):
Yes, I'm sorry, you know this is I haven't been
pointing to you enough in this. But they also said
he's treating his wife like an outsider in the relationship
with the two boys that are not hers.

Speaker 2 (01:00:43):
I said she's supposed to go to a barber shop too.

Speaker 5 (01:00:45):
I said, she is kind of the outsider.

Speaker 3 (01:00:47):
She is she is, well, maybe she wants to be included.

Speaker 4 (01:00:51):
Listen, as a step parent, there is that dynamic that's particular,
and in some ways you're the outsider.

Speaker 9 (01:01:00):
M hm.

Speaker 4 (01:01:01):
In some ways you just have to be supportive of
your partner with that relationship because that's his blood children
and he has to deal with their mother.

Speaker 5 (01:01:09):
You are neither.

Speaker 4 (01:01:11):
And although you take responsibility when they're here and as
my partner, there is a line right there where you
can I'm not I'm not gonna be telling my wife, yo,
this is what you're doing or else when it comes
to the kids. I'm not gonna do it. I will
give counsel support suggestions like I guess that's counsel, but

(01:01:32):
I'm not gonna be like, but if you do.

Speaker 5 (01:01:34):
This, I would unless that's really harmful.

Speaker 3 (01:01:37):
Do you want to be included though?

Speaker 5 (01:01:39):
Yes, of course.

Speaker 3 (01:01:40):
So what if the wife he wanted to be included
into the into the dynamic that the father and the
two boys are sharing.

Speaker 4 (01:01:49):
I do understand that, but that does not include you
telling me not to do positive things for the child.

Speaker 3 (01:01:55):
So that's where that wants.

Speaker 6 (01:01:57):
I agree.

Speaker 3 (01:01:58):
Then it could be a retaliation, Like she's just she's
just emotional right now. It could be I'm playing Devil's
advocate by the way, no I but like I I
it could be a retaliation.

Speaker 5 (01:02:08):
But bro, she's saying that.

Speaker 4 (01:02:10):
They said that this is We've had this conversation before
and I told you not to and you're not listening
to me, and that is bringing chaos into our relationship
because I got him a haircut.

Speaker 3 (01:02:24):
Because you're not listening.

Speaker 7 (01:02:25):
I think that's the That's the real key figure right there,
is they had a conversation and for her mind, I
guess she felt like whatever she said was the indoor
be all. But to something like that getting a kid
of haircut, like how many guys are going to say,
I'm just not going to do it. So when he's like, okay,
well I'm still doing it, and to your points out,

(01:02:46):
when she's like, yo, you're not listening to me now
now because you're not listening, things are in jeopardy. Is
this is this is that? And that's to me where
it get corny.

Speaker 5 (01:02:56):
Extremely.

Speaker 2 (01:02:58):
I support men that are trying their best to be
stand up men in difficult situations. As a wife, sometimes
you gotta shut the fuck up too, and she needs
to shut the fuck up in man her business. And
it ain't easy, especially when you feel like somebody's against
your husband or whatever. But when it comes to kids
like you, we don't play those games. You gotta put

(01:03:21):
your pride and get ego aside, and you're controlling whatever
aside for the kids. At the very.

Speaker 5 (01:03:26):
Least, there is a I'm gonna go the other way.

Speaker 4 (01:03:31):
I still I missed the segue here earlier because I
wanted to go here. But there is another situation with
kids on the table. Young lady says, So I pack
a bag to spend the night with this guy I'm dating.
He's a single dad. That ain't the issue, but tell
me why. In the middle of the night, his daughter
climbs into the bed with us. I woke up to

(01:03:53):
her dirty ass feet in my face. He didn't see
an issue, but I did. I don't know, It's just me,
but it felt inappropriate. I grabbed my things and left.
Why he ain't put her out? I should come first?

Speaker 3 (01:04:07):
Oh god, damn, she had it.

Speaker 5 (01:04:16):
Im.

Speaker 3 (01:04:17):
I wan you on it.

Speaker 7 (01:04:21):
I should come first. Host you was good at I
got myself in love. I didn't feel comfortable. I felt
like he should, which is correct. I felt like he
should have made the move. He didn't make the move.

Speaker 5 (01:04:31):
There's a text credit first, there's a texture that goes
with it. Do y'all want to hear the texture.

Speaker 3 (01:04:35):
At I'm nervous.

Speaker 4 (01:04:37):
Why you leave like that? Why you leave like that?
You ain't even say by damn? Because your daughter climbed
in the bed and I literally woke up with dirty
feet in my face. She's a kid, that's normal for her.
She wanted to be close to me. Yeah, but I'm
not her mama. That's not cool. You ain't even try
to move her or out put her back in her bed.

(01:04:58):
I wasn't about to put my child out just to
make you comfortable. And that's the problem. I should come
first when I'm there. Nobody wants to be kicked in
the head all night. My comfort should matter more. My
child will always come first. If you can't handle that,
maybe the same for you, exactly. That's why I left.

Speaker 3 (01:05:15):
Everybody's right, Yeah, anybody right, everybody's right.

Speaker 2 (01:05:19):
Get that bit chap out of here, keep away from your.

Speaker 7 (01:05:20):
Baby, and for surety I listen. I'm not mad if
I wake up with some feets in my face. Oh,
I'm definitely I'm going to I'm going, and I'm leaving first.

Speaker 6 (01:05:30):
I'll be uncomfortable. I would have left.

Speaker 3 (01:05:32):
I would have left as soon as the kid came in,
you know what I'm saying, Because if it's new, it's
like new, like I don't even we don't really have
a relationship here, like funk out of here. I'm going.

Speaker 2 (01:05:42):
I remember some ship. Like one time I was dating
this nigga and I knew he had kids, but anytime
I've ever been in his house, his kid's never been there.
So he invites me over and I was sitting on
the couch and like one nigga run out, it is
another nigga run out.

Speaker 3 (01:05:59):
God damn.

Speaker 2 (01:05:59):
And I'm I'm like, hold on, your kids is here.
He's like yeah, and then the nigga come in the
house with like a big ass box. It's an easel,
so he opens the So I'm sitting on the couch
right now, I'm in the group chat like yo, y'all.
Like his kids coming out of nowhere. It's one jumped
on the couch sitting next to me.

Speaker 3 (01:06:17):
What's your name?

Speaker 2 (01:06:17):
I'm like, ohh and I don't even have kids yet
at this time, so I'm overstimulated, like I'm kind of
like having a panic attack. I'm freaking out. So this
nigga is trying to put together an easel, like one
of them playful easels, but he doing it wrong. So
the helpful bitch and me, I'm like, oh, no, doing
it wrong. So now I'm helping a nigga put the

(01:06:39):
easel together.

Speaker 5 (01:06:40):
Can't change it, tire.

Speaker 9 (01:06:41):
Then then the other little nigga he about to do
his homework, so like the dad is helping him with
his homework.

Speaker 2 (01:06:51):
But I'm an educator, and I'm like, that's not right,
Like you're not doing that right. So now I'm like, yo, you,
that's not how you were supposed to do that. You
were supposed to do it like this. So now I
got one little nigga asking me to spell Ninja turtles,
another little nigga, I'm helping him put together the easel.
And then it's another little nigga right here and I'm
helping him with his math. I said, oh no, I

(01:07:11):
gotta go.

Speaker 3 (01:07:12):
I got too much? How did I become too much?
Too much?

Speaker 6 (01:07:16):
Too much, too fast?

Speaker 2 (01:07:18):
And he was like I remember this distinctly. He was like, yo,
like I foxed with you. He was like, I want
you here, like I want you a part of my life.
He was like, so this is my way of telling
you that I want you in my life. And I said,
but I don't know if I want to be in
your life like this, I need.

Speaker 3 (01:07:33):
You got to have conversations with me.

Speaker 2 (01:07:36):
I prepare myself.

Speaker 4 (01:07:38):
But how long was you dating them at that point?

Speaker 2 (01:07:42):
Few months? Yeah, yeah, I stayed for a little while
those my nigga, but that first day I was over,
was over.

Speaker 4 (01:07:49):
You should never be introducing your kids to somebody, like,
I don't know what the time period.

Speaker 5 (01:07:54):
What's the time period to introduce kids.

Speaker 3 (01:07:56):
I know, if I'm dating a woman with kids, I
don't want to meet your kid at least six months
to a year, six months to a Yeah, I'm like,
all right, cool, don't I don't.

Speaker 6 (01:08:10):
I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:08:11):
I'm good because I ain't trying to be stepdad.

Speaker 6 (01:08:14):
Like I ain't trying to be nothing. You know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:08:18):
I ain't trying to be nothing.

Speaker 6 (01:08:21):
No, No, don't I have a problem.

Speaker 3 (01:08:27):
Like, and I'm still young enough where life I was
like thirty five, forty forty five or whatever the case is.
For sure, I went like, whatever the case is, whatever
the case is, but like I'm early thirties, we're gonna
have to just calm it down. I could still be
with a woman that don't have kids, yes, and I

(01:08:49):
or she could have a kid or two or whatever
the case is.

Speaker 6 (01:08:52):
But I don't want to see them niggas. You know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:08:55):
I don't want to be involved in that life at all.
I don't want to know about your baby daddy. Just
tell me if he's crazy. But I don't want to
know if your baby daddy doing what. I don't want
to know nothing about your kids until it's time. You
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:09:08):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (01:09:08):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (01:09:09):
I've met you, I've met so many people's kids, and
and that's the thing that made me hold onto the
relationship longer than I was supposed to because I didn't
built the connection with it.

Speaker 3 (01:09:21):
Sh And that's that problem right there too, because I
would I would probably like if Surety had a son
and shit like like and.

Speaker 2 (01:09:32):
I'm playing games and video games.

Speaker 3 (01:09:34):
I'm like, now it's different like now, but now we're now,
we're committed into this.

Speaker 6 (01:09:38):
I don't want to be committed into this yet.

Speaker 3 (01:09:40):
You get what I'm saying, because really I might have
just I might stay for the kid. I ain't gonna
lie that my kid, you know what I'm saying. And
I don't want to have hockey. If I was older,
then it's different because like whatever, But I want my
first to be my first. To be honest with you,
I wouldn't even date a woman with kids.

Speaker 5 (01:09:57):
Y'all said they were both right. I think they're wrong.

Speaker 2 (01:10:02):
I think they're both right at them getting rid of
the relationships, that's the part. But that baby about that.

Speaker 3 (01:10:12):
Bed, I said that he should have he should have,
he should have.

Speaker 6 (01:10:16):
I would have. I would have.

Speaker 3 (01:10:17):
Hey, you know what I'm saying, I would have put
my daughter back in bed one thousand.

Speaker 4 (01:10:22):
But he's also wrong for even having her over there
where she don't have that type of relationship with the kids.

Speaker 2 (01:10:26):
Like he's also a single father, so like.

Speaker 5 (01:10:29):
Women get babies all time, that's what they do. You know,
that's the right thing to do.

Speaker 4 (01:10:36):
If you really care about your daughter like that, you
should be protecting her from this type of situation. Why
is she jumping in the bed with a stranger like
that question?

Speaker 5 (01:10:43):
And she's young? How old is this?

Speaker 2 (01:10:45):
It isn't say, but her feet dirty? She probably like
three four.

Speaker 3 (01:10:49):
Like that like a baby, Like what if you wait
too long and your kid doesn't like? Not the picture?
Sure she took a picture before she did.

Speaker 6 (01:10:59):
What the fuck got here?

Speaker 3 (01:11:00):
She's doing too much? Don't take a picture of my kids.

Speaker 2 (01:11:04):
She has a little.

Speaker 5 (01:11:08):
Into her room.

Speaker 3 (01:11:09):
She would have stayed. She would take.

Speaker 2 (01:11:13):
No, No, I don't like that. I don't even even
to this day like my kids. I don't even like
my kids to sleep in the bed with me and
my husband. I'd be like, I get the funk out,
get out, get out. No, I don't like that. Ship,
I'm sorry.

Speaker 5 (01:11:24):
I also think that she's wrong for her language.

Speaker 4 (01:11:28):
That just shows that you're not a good person.

Speaker 5 (01:11:32):
I should come first. Why she why ain't put her out?
Kind of crazy?

Speaker 3 (01:11:37):
She probably don't even want kids like she probably like
has a disdain for kids and ship too, like who knows?

Speaker 2 (01:11:42):
Like dirty feet in your face? Like we we all
know how kids sleep. They fucking filthy. Kids are disgustingly dirty.

Speaker 4 (01:11:47):
But like his his language was off too, I wasn't
about to put my child out just to make you comfortable, and.

Speaker 2 (01:11:55):
Was pissing me off even more like from the way
that that picture should look. That baby was in between
them at the very least, if you're not gonna kick
her out, baby, put her on the side where you at.
You're in the middle of the baby. Don't be in
the middle. Like there's certain ways that.

Speaker 4 (01:12:13):
You I disagree with that to your baby don't supposed
to be in a bed with me and you in.

Speaker 2 (01:12:19):
The world at all. However, if you felt so strongly
as to the baby should have stayed, you should have
moved the baby away from this laby.

Speaker 7 (01:12:28):
Yeah, it was still the right way to do that,
even though that exactly it was the right way to
do that, even though it was.

Speaker 3 (01:12:33):
Wrong one time.

Speaker 4 (01:12:34):
The other way that I wanted to go with this
conversation was talking about dress code and stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (01:12:41):
Oh, let's do it because your names losing me.

Speaker 5 (01:12:46):
All right, y'all, that's it for part one. Tune in
to part two this Thursday as we talk.

Speaker 4 (01:12:54):
You know, teachers of the eighties member used having teachers
back in the days, though I did. You know, I'm
older than a lot of y'all, but you know, I
had like Jewish teachers, and they dressed a little different
than the teachers of today. A lot of our teachers
today are from our culture and our age groupment. You know,
the dress code is slightly different. So we talked about that.

(01:13:16):
A young lady said that some people have occupations that
she judges that she would not date them based off
their occupation, and we asked, you know, is that a
proper thing to do me personally? Yes, if you work
at KFC listen, I might be, but I'm not, you know. Anyway,
we spoke about all of that. Two lesbians walk into

(01:13:42):
a library and they.

Speaker 5 (01:13:44):
See a section.

Speaker 4 (01:13:49):
There's a baby section, but it had a bunch of
gay baby books in it, and.

Speaker 5 (01:13:54):
They were h.

Speaker 4 (01:13:57):
They had an interesting opinion about that, and of course
Candice Owens and Jason Lee going back and forth about
the trans community. This episode is pretty cool, so if
you want to hear it, you can go over to
Patreon right now. We have the whole episode over there
with no ads, or you can wait till Thursday and
I'll release the second part of this episode on Thursday.

(01:14:21):
Shout out to JD of the Living Black Podcast. Also,
if you want another free listen, you can go over
and listen to that. I'm on that this week. I'm
on the in Living Black Podcast with JD this week,
so you can go check that out otherwise, we'll see
you next week.

Speaker 3 (01:14:39):
Peace,

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