What Are We Talking About???! Feat Scrooge

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
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Speaker 2 (00:49):
Peace. Now let's get back to so shameless. That is real.
He actually said it. He said, I made an honest state. Yeah,
he said it. He said, Yo, that's my interrogation tape.
So what did he doing?

Speaker 3 (01:02):
He said, the d A didn't want to let that
into the court for whatever, into into the case.

Speaker 2 (01:06):
But he so, I didn't listen to it. He told
on somebody on the on the tape.

Speaker 3 (01:09):
He it was like drysted, it's a bunch of dry ship.
It was like, he said, like, yeah, they said this
nigga killed him.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
That's dropping. You know what I'm saying, he said, at
least then after that he said, I don't know. He said,
I don't know what I'm saying. You hit the nigga.
Like he's saying that. He's talking to the to the cops, Like,
I'm cool with that. But what part of it was dry? Dry?
It's like a car they pulled us over. Three in
the car. You say it's not mine? And he said

(01:38):
more than that. He talked him for two hours, he
said more than Like if you're not talking, you're not talking.
He said, more than that? Am I right? Yeah? He
asked for food too.

Speaker 4 (01:48):
Yeah, oh yeah, you know, upset knowing that you did this, yo,
is that mad and his cousin or his brother.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
He actually did some ship like that and he told everybody,
you don't worry about that. I told him to do
it because uh, I wanted him to be out for
my mom. So I don't consider that as snitching because
I told him.

Speaker 2 (02:11):
To do it.

Speaker 5 (02:12):
There's a lot of rules and regulations to the it's
a lot of it's a lot of red tape around
the stitching.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
Okay, I'm a civilian. Yeah, me too. I just stay
out of there to do this kind of people with.
I'm a super civilian nigga work for the city. Oh,
I ain't know. Y'all can see my legs? What does
that mean? You're good? Carry? What's up with your man?

(02:40):
All right? But what's up everybody? All right? Here? Today?
The show has begun. I don't think that should be
crossing the legs like that? Like what? Like? What though?

Speaker 3 (02:49):
What is the what is the masculine way to sit?
And you can't so you can't sit like this? If
you're a man, you can't do this.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
That's that feels like you're a mature man. You could
be mature it so are you immature? If your crazy
legs the way I had a Yeah, what like.

Speaker 6 (03:06):
That?

Speaker 2 (03:09):
Stretch your angles? Somebody wants about Somebody wants to invest
into your podcast. You're going to sit at the business
with you know, I guess if I got the money
and in the talent, I said, how the fun I
want to sit you got it? What just on the
table like Bobby? If I need to. If I'm the talent,
I do it like Bobby, then you gotta be Bobby.

(03:29):
Now I'll say that about Thug too. To be Thug,
then you gotta be Dug. Somebody wants to be young Thug.
I'm pretty sure a lot of people not. Now you
know what, I take that back, because I can see
younger generations want to be young.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
There's a lot of influence. They said that he sucked
up Atlanta, though I don't know. I'm not a really
do you remember so Atlanta used to be? And I
seen the nigga yesterday. You've seen the Rallo ship. I've
seen the ship and I don't know.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
Who Rolo is. I have idea who he.

Speaker 3 (04:00):
Is, but him and Young Thug have been going at it.

Speaker 2 (04:04):
Right, this is not a rap podcast. You're tuning in
to Joe Button for all that, But they've been going
at it online. This is and Rolo brought.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
He said, Yo, Doug fucked up Atlanta period. All of
the bad ship happened because of Thug. He's like, if
you think about it, even when Thuck came into the game,
he would to name his album the Carter or the
Barter or some shit, and he was like, Yo, why
would you do that when you know that's Little Wayne ship.
So he's the one that had gotten to Wayne feeling
it because Birdman had Thug. So he's like, now little

(04:39):
Wayne feels a way towards Birdman that started that ship.
Back then, then it was the shooting. He's like, did
the toy bus shooting? Apparently loved Young Doug was behind that.
Then it was him beefing with rich Homie Kwan, then

(04:59):
he beef with wife and Lucci. He's like, yo, all
of this little beef and ship started with Young Dogs.
Before that, we was all Atlanta artist stick together and
we all promote each other. And that's that was the
nature of Atlanta before Young Thug got in the game
and sucked it all up.

Speaker 7 (05:15):
He actually said that today. I was like, you know what,
that's hilarious. You know I only take one nigga to
ruin the vibe.

Speaker 2 (05:20):
So that's very true.

Speaker 8 (05:22):
It only takes one.

Speaker 2 (05:24):
You know that too. Taho's legs being crosses making me uncomfortable.
Why is this boy, yo? Why is this bodying one
of the things that guys do. Yo?

Speaker 3 (05:35):
I got my man Scrooge in the building. I don't
know Kim Cooley Scrooge, you had another alias the Darkness Duck.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
Today today he.

Speaker 3 (05:47):
Knows he's gonna talk about. But got my man Scrooge
in the building. We were talking about. I guess one
of your clips that went last week?

Speaker 8 (05:57):
What are my clips?

Speaker 2 (05:58):
Yeah? I can't which clip? It was riding and fighting
all week? Yo, Yo, Drew has does he have it
off for you? Why?

Speaker 3 (06:09):
It's like, Yo, Drew took everything going at women and
just made a clip out of it. And I'm like, Yo,
women getting beat down on you? And I was talking
about what was the thing that he was talking about?

Speaker 2 (06:20):
You just told me I have a terrible memory, then
asked me to remember some ship. What was it. I'm
gonna look at my page. Which one was that? Women
talking about something? I don't sleep man. No, I didn't
speak about dogs. I spoke about the pinky, the pinky.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
No, yes, you did. It wasn't modern femininism.

Speaker 2 (06:45):
It was yeah, the pinky. He said, Yo, what happened? Hello?
Mane something that understand?

Speaker 3 (06:59):
So I said, there's nothing wrong with the guy saying
the guy's attracted.

Speaker 5 (07:03):
Uh huh right, that's crazy.

Speaker 8 (07:07):
You Why is that crazy?

Speaker 2 (07:09):
Crazy? What I noticed was T was saying the gayer thing,
but his co host was doing again. He was like,
he said, no, it's okay for men to call each
other attractive. And dude was like, nah, why. I was like, no,

(07:31):
he did. He said didn't. He said, yo, go look
at your clip. I said, bro he didn't. Right. So
after I said it, literally had the thumb in the air.
He was like, nah, he said it man. I was like, whoa,
that was the gayer thing. He's counter reacting it. But
it feels care. You know what's wrong?

Speaker 8 (07:53):
The the internet is not a real place. It's fine.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
Man can't be broke, can't he broke? It wasn't this
men can't be broke but women can. Men can't be broke.

Speaker 3 (08:04):
It's not nice men can. Men can't be broke, but
women can and still date. I think that was the
title of that.

Speaker 2 (08:11):
Why would it. Why would a broke woman be dating,
why would it broke man be dad to get money,
to get proximity.

Speaker 7 (08:16):
To money, Like, why would like, what can a broke
man do other than go to work.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
I'm gonna get real, late, dick and get next to
some money. Because niggas gold dig too.

Speaker 2 (08:25):
Yeah, I don't. I don't see what's the difference.

Speaker 7 (08:28):
So we okay with gold digging niggas position in position,
whatever makes you happy, You're not gonna do.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
That as long as you find something that that counteracts that,
Like you know, it's the ying and the yang. He
might find a woman that just wants she doesn't she
doesn't want to take care of a man.

Speaker 5 (08:45):
Yeah, yeah, there are women out there. There are women
like that out there, Dodge.

Speaker 7 (08:49):
I want to take care of man. They have settled
to taking care of it.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
If you was to get a billion dollars, you wouldn't care. Financially,
you wouldn't. That's why I said a lot of people
make decisions out of poverty.

Speaker 8 (09:00):
Okay, If I had a billion dollars to finish the question.

Speaker 2 (09:02):
You you wouldn't mind taking care of your man.

Speaker 8 (09:06):
If I had a billion, there's no man.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
That could take care of Oprah. Okay, so he could
wrap her feet when she wait, that's it, cash some checks.

Speaker 7 (09:17):
I'm Oprah. You can't pay for dinner because I'm Oprah?

Speaker 2 (09:21):
Is that what.

Speaker 3 (09:23):
I can pay for dinner? But I can't pay for
the car. I can't pay the car?

Speaker 2 (09:27):
Can No, I can't. It's probably on the coaster some way.
And yo, y'are not gosh.

Speaker 3 (09:36):
I know you're not gonna act like we haven't said
what women can do for men like there are if
you get with the right.

Speaker 2 (09:44):
Women, she can help you make more money. And she
can understand that part.

Speaker 7 (09:47):
But I'm just trying to understand that if I'm a
millionaire and I'm dating a man that I would assume,
at the very least has a job or a career.
So then that means that I would have to then
pay for everything because I make the most.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
When I date a woman, I don't ask what her
career pa And you.

Speaker 7 (10:06):
Should never so that you should always operate as if.

Speaker 2 (10:09):
You are the breadwinner. That isn't that doesn't even make
what you're saying. That doesn't even make sense. Why because
you're the bread you make more money. But how would
you know if you're.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
Gonna be with a chick that if she's got millions
of dollars and I got a job, I gotta pay
for everything.

Speaker 2 (10:23):
Like what do we talk about? Like you want a
dumb nigga? Why would you want a nigga? You can
walk over? What why a y'all attacking me? Doesn't make
sense social media? I don't care. I am if a
chick got millions of dollars and she tried to make
me pay for everything? Like what are you talking about?
But my question? You see how I go rather be broke.

(10:45):
You're not gonna disrespect me.

Speaker 8 (10:46):
Y'all emotions are like so high. I asked one question.

Speaker 7 (10:49):
I said, just because I make the most, I am
the breadwinner. If I have a million dollars, does that
mean that I have to pay for everything because I
make the most money? Everything in your tax bracketp Scrooge
says that he would never even ask a woman how
much money she makes, So then therefore, if I was
a millionaire, you would never know. Therefore, you should continue

(11:12):
to operate as if you are the breadwinner. How am
I wrong here? These are the only things that I said,
and y'all started attacking me.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
I have a clip for this. I have a clip
for this, right, Yeah, it's actually in my outline today.
It's so crazy.

Speaker 3 (11:28):
I'm gonna talk about something else, but Trus, you're wrong.
Your opinion is you, Your opinion is yours. I am
asking how much my chick?

Speaker 2 (11:36):
Why does money? Why is money so predominant in you know?

Speaker 3 (11:41):
I'm asking because marriage is a financial relationship as well.

Speaker 2 (11:47):
I need to know what's going on. Why what do
you mean if we're paying bills, we're buying houses, we're
buying properties, we're doing things. I need to know where
we're at. Unless you just want me to do everything
and you're just buying your makeup. I just don't understand it.
That's the case. I'm doing whatever I want my money,
which also means taking care of my other pictures. This
is so money. Money is involved in everything that it.

Speaker 3 (12:10):
Is, all right, screws, Listen, my brother, we work, Yes,
everybody works exactly. And so when you bring that into
the household, you all push your ship on the table
and say, this is what we got going on.

Speaker 2 (12:25):
These are the moves that we can make. That's for
you because you want to grow an empire. Yeah, some
people just want to go to work. And come home
and eat TV, dinner and laugh.

Speaker 3 (12:35):
And I'm going to keep it even the more. But
I would expect my women to want to know if
I'm good.

Speaker 2 (12:39):
I don't know. I just feel like you're supposed to
have these kinds of conversations. You're supposed to be friends
and business partners, like you're supposed to push each other,
know each other's ship. Do you know your man? Do
you know your ship? Yeah? Okay, So why are we
asking this question? You know you know the same thing.
How did this become about me? I'm not even talking
about relationships.

Speaker 7 (12:57):
All right, but you're talking about marriage. I'm the only
one here that's married.

Speaker 2 (13:02):
Yo.

Speaker 5 (13:03):
That was I'm not gonna lie. You're gonna stop doing that.
This is every every week, somehow, every week with this ship.

Speaker 2 (13:13):
That's crazy. I'm not waiting until I get married to
start having those conversations either. And I'm sure you didn't either,
so you better than me.

Speaker 3 (13:21):
No, I'm just making more sense than you. You just
try to do it, you know. Please? In any case,
let me play.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
This to that kind of hurt me. I'm sorry. I
don't think I'm bounce back.

Speaker 3 (13:31):
On what you also only think like a single nigga,
because you're saying.

Speaker 2 (13:37):
I can't say something like that, but you I said
he was wrong.

Speaker 3 (13:40):
I said that was his opinion because of where he's
at right now. But to add on to that, he's
thinking like a single dude.

Speaker 2 (13:46):
You think you're thinking like somebody, you're thinking like a
business person. Your relationship is a business.

Speaker 3 (13:52):
I believe most of once they get to a certain point,
Once they get to a certain point.

Speaker 7 (13:55):
My relationship is rooted in love and everything else can.

Speaker 2 (13:59):
That's fine's ruded, but there's everything else that like financial
I said, what he has to have a financial quarter?
You said, be broke?

Speaker 7 (14:09):
No, I said, mentioned and be broke. Broke people should
not be dating period. I don't believe in it.

Speaker 2 (14:19):
I don't believe.

Speaker 8 (14:23):
You could barely take care of yourself. Love is not
going to help you eat tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (14:28):
In love, I said, my relationship is rooted in love. Okay,
So what does it matter if he's broke? If you
love him, what other emotions can't they have?

Speaker 8 (14:34):
I can be in love with a broken nigga.

Speaker 2 (14:37):
Jesus Christ.

Speaker 5 (14:38):
Then you just asked why his money got to be
involund and everything.

Speaker 2 (14:41):
He asked that, what the are you is everybody listening
talking on the mic, I'm saying, you're telling me you
can't date broke.

Speaker 7 (14:50):
I will not date a broke nigga. No, why because
I don't want to?

Speaker 5 (14:58):
No, why you think about that?

Speaker 2 (15:00):
No?

Speaker 5 (15:00):
But why would you think about that but not the guy?
That doesn't even make sense.

Speaker 7 (15:04):
To me because I have different standards for men and women.
But we've already had this conversation.

Speaker 5 (15:09):
What Yo, that's a that's a six pack of bullshit.

Speaker 2 (15:13):
I don't care. You don't date women for love.

Speaker 8 (15:16):
I hate women more for less than love.

Speaker 2 (15:19):
So you treat women the same way men treat women,
but don't like when men.

Speaker 7 (15:24):
Treat Recently, he said that I treat women like like
I date women like a man like as if I, but.

Speaker 2 (15:33):
Then hate when men treat women. But I'm also not broke,
so I don't think. I don't think that broke you're
allowed to think and have opinions because you have money,
and then broke people can't what they.

Speaker 8 (15:47):
Want to do, but they cannot date me.

Speaker 2 (15:49):
Okay, you said they can't date you. You said they're not
supposed to date.

Speaker 7 (15:53):
I don't, but I don't think that people that do
not have money should be dating period. I also feel like, no,
not now, I feel like I know for a fact
that I am not interested in dating anyone that is
broke period.

Speaker 8 (16:07):
Two completely different states.

Speaker 2 (16:09):
So now that you told me what they shouldn't be doing,
what should they be doing? They could do whatever they want.
They're grown.

Speaker 8 (16:14):
They just can't do it with me.

Speaker 2 (16:15):
I got you, so they could. They just can't date you.
They cannot do it. All right, you're correcting it. Here
we are, I got a clip.

Speaker 3 (16:23):
Let me see this plays into it. This, we got
a whole little thing. I really wanted to talk about
the situation that I'm.

Speaker 2 (16:28):
Going through first. Can we do that? No, let's talk,
let's let's we're here, let's do this.

Speaker 9 (16:34):
Let's be how soon is too soon to start asking
people for money?

Speaker 2 (16:38):
When y'all be putting you'll hand out the money? What
y'all be thinking? I don't know.

Speaker 9 (16:42):
For me, I cannot just put my hand out to anybody.

Speaker 5 (16:45):
Now.

Speaker 9 (16:45):
If you my man, that's a different story. If I
need some help, I'm definitely gonna be able to ask.
But I can't off rint just ask somebody. You know what, Hey,
after the first date, can you pay my phone bill?
That's relationship is established, like we're exclusive, before you have
your hand out, or that.

Speaker 2 (17:01):
Before you offer some help to the.

Speaker 9 (17:02):
Chick that you're dating, or y'all out here off rip,
Like no, no, y'all tell me how soon is too
soon to ask a man for money? And how soon
before you offer to help.

Speaker 2 (17:17):
Else? She spent it at the end. She's not the nigga.
What does that mean? What do you mean in her relationship?
Who the girl in the video?

Speaker 3 (17:26):
No, she's asking women how soon before you ask a
nigga for bread? And she's asking niggas how soon before
you start offering to you know, they'd be like pay
nails or yo, sending a little money or pay a
bill or whatever.

Speaker 7 (17:40):
And I think it's disgusting to outright ask anybody for money.

Speaker 2 (17:45):
How long should you wait? Would?

Speaker 7 (17:47):
I'm not the type of person to ask anybody for money.
If you offer me money, that's a different situation. If
me and you are dating and you're like, Yo, here's
one hundred dollars to get your nails done, I'm not
gonna say no. But I'm also not gonna be like,
you send me money to get my nails une, because
I can get my own fails done.

Speaker 2 (18:03):
Like that ship is weird. But I also think you
in the age range. But that's not a thing anymore.

Speaker 7 (18:07):
I think that that age, I've never felt comfortable asking
men for money, like I have a dad.

Speaker 2 (18:15):
It wasn't a thing when we was younger, when you
was young. Maybe it was. I don't know, but I
think this is like a new age. Maybe I don't
want to come on, daddy. But how long before you
start sending the bread before the crazy? How long before
you start sending the bread? How long before you start
sending the bread? How long before you start showing out?

(18:41):
How long? Give us a time give us a time period.
So it's not if I send the bread, I know
you're said it. How long before you start saying that?
I know, I don't feel like I shared money like that.
Everybody's gonna make faces and sounds. You're the face, he's

(19:01):
the cell. I just don't I don't understand what. I
don't know for a fact that Screwge has done anything right.
But I do know I know.

Speaker 3 (19:12):
So first of all, as a woman ever asked us
for bread for bread?

Speaker 2 (19:21):
I said you, I said, come to work. When you
said you was coming on the show, I saw this scrolling.
Scrolling's like when you're in the call with your man
to do the do the deal, the police pull Yo,

(19:43):
this is crazy. I know. So when you gave him
the ten thousands cocaine? Are you sure they weren't any
police watching? I don't know. You see him in the
precinking a big mac. All right? I see where we're

(20:05):
going now, yeah, all right, let me prepare myself.

Speaker 3 (20:07):
How long do you think it's an appropriate time before
women starts asking you or expecting.

Speaker 2 (20:14):
It depends on what kind of relationships she expects to have.
If you leave with prostitution, it's going to be in exchange. Okay,
but if you if you don't, then maybe when you
say leave with prostitution, how does that? How does that look?

Speaker 3 (20:31):
Because a lot of women do it without saying, hey
it costs five hundred.

Speaker 2 (20:35):
The nature of our relationship is exchanging cash for pleasure. Okay,
that's leading with prostitution. Not Oh I'm not dating at
the moment. We're talking about dating. And then you start
to bring up currency, it's now prostitution.

Speaker 8 (20:51):
It's now prost I.

Speaker 5 (20:52):
Don't know why currency is funny.

Speaker 2 (20:54):
I don't even understand why we're talking. That's what I said,
I don't understand when why do y'all talk about money?
When does this the same way you don't want to
talk to a man? And then all of a sudden
he bring up sex. He's like, whoa hold on? Can
we get to know each other? So if I'm talking
to a girl and she just brings up money, I'm
just all right, I understand how bad you want to
knock it down. If you want to knock it down

(21:15):
bad enough, do you entertain the conversation?

Speaker 9 (21:17):
No?

Speaker 2 (21:18):
How much? How much? Did she ask? What's the number?
He said? He said, what's the figure? Exactly?

Speaker 8 (21:29):
If the number was too low?

Speaker 2 (21:31):
No, yeah, because he wouldn't be It's like fifty, that's
too low. Is a lot of money for pussy? Yeah?
Is a date doing it anyway? Yeah? All right, so
nod just too fifty? So that's that's not too low.
That's but I don't even care. That's good. That's how

(21:54):
you know that, And that's the way you spend it
on a date to take her home?

Speaker 3 (22:01):
Right, I would be disappointed if I looked at him
a certain statue, like say, if it's like a I
don't know, a chick that I think is just super bad.
Like say I don't know, but say she's super and
she asked me for two fifty.

Speaker 2 (22:14):
Everything I'm almost being said, Yeah, everything that you've said
here has been your fault. It's always what you think.
You put your prejudice on somebody else. Maybe she likes
you enough that the two fifty is cool. She's giving
you a I like your discount. You could be that nigga.
She usually tried fifteen hundred, but she's like, you know what,

(22:35):
I actually like this, dude. Just give me whatever you got,
whatever you got, whatever you got, because she wants to
do it anyway. Yesterday, yes forty dollars. If you like
me like that, why you need this bread? Like, what
are we talking about? Are you just a prostitute? Because
if you like me like that, then what are we
talking about? Some sometime they not prostitutes. Sometimes you just

(22:57):
everything with prostitution. I didn't say that's a pression. This
is a point the word. This is what I'm saying.
What are you doing? You could have sold drugs. You're
not a drug dealer. If you sold the drugs and
you're a drug dealer, now see this is why you
have watched this. Yeah, so you see when they were like, yo,

(23:19):
where you from? What do you do? And then you
can be like you, I'm a producer, and then you
get to know them. You know them and they work
at Kroger's and it's like, no, where does your money
come from? Your bills? Stop telling me your aspirations. You're
not a drug dealer if you sold. I don't identify

(23:40):
as a if I'm in my day. What I do,
what my passion is is producing music. I'm not going
to tell you I'm a cashier. I'm not identify I'm
a producer. That's what I am right now. I work
it over here, but that's not what That's not who
I am. It doesn't done. Reed doesn't pay the bulk

(24:03):
of your bills. I do that to pay the bills.
But you know what my career, you are. My career
is crazy. It's a production.

Speaker 7 (24:11):
And I think that I think that that's a very
interesting thought process because trans employment is a problem because
if somebody asked me what I do, I have never
in my life said I'm a podcaster, because.

Speaker 2 (24:23):
That's not what my career. They know you as a
podcast I don't give a So that's what she is,
that's what we are. That's not what I am. The
people who know you, the thousands of people that know
you from social media, are calling you a podcaster, and
that's you're not saying. You're doing whatever else you're doing.

Speaker 8 (24:42):
Stop, I am not a podcast.

Speaker 2 (24:44):
Keep giving somebody else an identity based off of what
somebody else gave them, Right, I don't give She does
what I tell you, not what somebody else told you
I did. Yes, that's interesting that what I robbed said
that I robbed them. You're a robber, Yes, you're a
robber to them them. Yeah, yes, but that doesn't make
me a rubber at the end of the day. So

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you're doing the same thing.

Speaker 3 (25:07):
No, literally, I'm telling you that I am a producer,
not a cashier.

Speaker 2 (25:12):
But you're telling me I'm a cashier. You're putting my identity,
your the idea of me on to me. The earth
stand up, whatever in certain state here is telling you
what you are. Like. This is not a me thing.
How soon can a person asking for two point fifty

(25:34):
whenever they will? I don't. That is masking. That is
not trying to sell a box. They're talking about.

Speaker 3 (25:39):
Yo, my content bill is my cond went off and
you went on a date with him.

Speaker 2 (25:44):
Yeah, why was you going on a date? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (25:49):
Last night you know I woke up and the Dashes
was on your Optimum Ship. No, you never woke up
and the Dashes was on your fucking cable.

Speaker 2 (25:56):
No, nigga, I never paid the bill to the Dashes. No,
I said, I knew. Maybe I don't pay my cond
right now till I get the letter in writing with
the red writing. That's what I know, Oh, ship, the
bills do irresponsible. But I got the money to pay
three months. I just told me, like, for whatever reason,
I don't pay it every month, but when this shit come,

(26:16):
I pay it the three months. That's dangerous.

Speaker 7 (26:20):
Auto pay my I don't even I don't even play
those games. I don't even want to see bills come
to my house auto pay. I know the check comes
the thirtieth and the fifteenth, and you take your money out,
and then I did what I do with the rest
of this.

Speaker 2 (26:33):
This is it. One of the bills in here isn't
in my.

Speaker 3 (26:37):
Name, and so because of that, I don't put that
one on auto pay.

Speaker 2 (26:41):
If you need to know, I didn't, I could still
do it. I couldn't, yo, Okay, I need everybody to
listen to what people are saying. I didn't ask you
ship you're asking me why? Yes you did? You said
why you do that?

Speaker 7 (26:54):
No, I said, I'm auto pay, mommy. It was like
a rhetorical.

Speaker 2 (26:57):
Question, anyway, That's what I was gonna ask though, right, No,
I want you to ask answer the question because you
keep ducking. And yeah, after you knock it down? Can
she ask you to pay her light bill? How was it?
You like her? Immediately? Immediately? Yeah, it doesn't matter. Two weeks?

(27:21):
Why not? One week? I knocked it down? A week
after I knocked it out? Yeah, why not? You knocked
it down last night?

Speaker 3 (27:28):
The next she wakes up in the morning, her hair
is dishevel She's laying in your bed in the skyscraper.
That was nasty, right. She looks at her phone and says,
oh my god, my light's off.

Speaker 2 (27:41):
Yeah. Can I get too fifty? Yeah? She could asked,
will you I'm never stopping anybody from asking you keep
asking me? Can? She asked before giving her a two
fifty the next day for the light bill. I don't
know for the light but if she's told me, I'm like,
you know, girls have daddy? Is I have mommy issues,

(28:02):
so I will probably if she tells me what I
like though, yeah, probably do it. So you don't even
got to know you like her like that? You just
got to know if you like to buy No, I
keep going by what you said.

Speaker 3 (28:12):
But you don't know a person that you beat that
you knocked it down one time, Like, you don't know
this person like that?

Speaker 2 (28:16):
What enough to like them? You don't know them enough
to like them? What is what is happening in your head?
I like, I like the way you look. I want
to have sex with you. That don't mean I like you.
We're too old for that. Really, you just you just
like her? How she you would never stop having sex? Hello?

(28:37):
What are we talking about? You keep I think like cute?
Why would you be having sex with people you don't like?
You gotta like people have sex with them in this world.
Now I have to like you. I have to trust
you like you you. I had a friend I didn't
hook up with a friend. She ended up dating one
of my own boys. She said, he's so weird. That's

(28:58):
what I know. He has sex with his jewelry, so
that's not weird. He doesn't trust.

Speaker 6 (29:03):
You, He doesn't trust I can't just invite people to
my home and have sex with them because she looks good.

Speaker 2 (29:16):
Are you crazy? I never said, well, say that.

Speaker 8 (29:20):
He didn't say, invite you to.

Speaker 2 (29:24):
That's crazy, that's madness.

Speaker 3 (29:26):
Yeah, I know you, and because I do. I'm not trying.
I'm not going to call you out on you lying
right now, but I will say we've been to parties at.

Speaker 2 (29:36):
Your where the people you don't know. Well, you invite people,
but they bring other people. Yeah, so not to trust,
all right? You took them out to the rooftop. To
the rooftop, they don't know what it's three hundred and
ninety people that live in the in the building. They

(29:56):
don't know where I live. Was that in your rooftop?
I don't know. I don't look at the log sheet.

Speaker 7 (30:03):
Everybody's I know I was invited to your rooftop at
least once.

Speaker 2 (30:08):
I don't know if that's a barbecue outside yesterday? So
barbecue means org to you? Orgy? When did we look?
He's asking me about second, So you're telling me that
you never had an orgy after the barbecue? No, what
I have? What you got it? Again? Screwed in this

(30:31):
house and at barbecues. That y'all have probably been to.

Speaker 8 (30:35):
I remember a barbecue.

Speaker 2 (30:38):
The barbecue that was the time when your sink are broken. Yes,
I remember that and the toilet and I left. I
left it. I went home because I'm a good girl.
I went home to So you knew when you were
barbecuing that you were planning for. No, Shorty, too Shorty
set it up. So it wasn't.

Speaker 3 (30:55):
The orgy was aesome, but they set it up. One
was like, I'm going into your bedroom. The other one
knock down, knocked downstairs in the bathroom. And then she
was during the barbecue after we said after half left,
it was around there were still people here.

Speaker 2 (31:14):
No, well probably still people here. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (31:17):
So afterwards we go to the bathroom going crazy. That's
when her way came off in my hand mm hmm.
And then I'm like, yo, so short the bad She's like,
come on, because she's like I want to go stairs.
I'm like, yo, sure up there. She's like, so come on,
we're up there, And we went upstairs.

Speaker 2 (31:32):
That's fire. That doesn't happen to everybody, No nigga, what
was on the menu for this barbecue? Yeah, you know
that was back in this swiping days. Was just bringing ship.
He'll cook anything, but bring on yesterday? Yes, sir? How

(31:53):
soon it's too soon for a chick to ask you
for money? Mmmm?

Speaker 5 (31:58):
That's a good question. So how so on and so song?
I feel like too soon. I'm like, like my first date, that's.

Speaker 2 (32:06):
Too soon for me, too so much to ask to ask?
That's what you're asking, right? Is that? Which waited the
first day? Is too soon for you to ask me
for money?

Speaker 7 (32:15):
How do you ask when I'm trying to spend money
on you right now? So you'd rather me just give
you the money if you stay.

Speaker 2 (32:19):
Home unless you're, like you said, telling me you're a prostitute.
If you're saying yo for the two point fifty, we
could just leave. We didn't even have to do this.
I ate already because I see how this is gonna be.

(32:40):
I need the full Because you said the pro a prostitute?
Did I say that? Yes, nobody's listening to what they're
saying on these mics.

Speaker 3 (32:56):
I'm saying, unless you're now offering prostitutution.

Speaker 2 (33:01):
No, you can't just ask me first date. But I
d disrespect to have sex with her? Why can't she ask?
What if she just knows she just knows that's what
you're about, that I'm by prostitutes that in just her body.
Yeah you can if that's the case.

Speaker 3 (33:19):
If if that's the case, and that's how you give
it up, like you sell pussy, it's not selling pussy.
It is selling pussy because you're now asking me for
money to get selling pussy. It depends on how much.

Speaker 2 (33:30):
You could sell it for five dollars. For one dollar,
you can sell it a twenty five cent. If you
ask me a twenty five cent, you get this pussy.
You just sold your pussy for twenty five cent. It
doesn't make her prostitute. What is a prosput Look there's
a certain amount of money. No, it doesn't if we're
not accepting sex for money. It's just a bad decision.

(33:51):
You give what I'm saying, no completely found. If she
sells pussy fo one hundred and fifty dollars, she's a prostitute.
If a man's as I have a million dollars to
fuck you her saying no to prove that she's not
a prostitute is poor decision making. Yeah, I agree with that.
I agree with that, you agree with that, But I'm
not going to call her a prostitute. What if she's married,

(34:14):
she's not ahead of the household. Whole different, whole different answer,
whole different answer. This is why this nigga is nuts.
What do you mean she made a million dollars in
a night? I want her? Yeah, I want her to
be my leader. Yeah, she's making a different decision. What
SHO eat tomorrow? Bab?

Speaker 6 (34:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (34:31):
Yeah. A person prostitute a person in particular, a woman
who engage your webster hates y'all who engages in sexual
ACTI pitiment m hm. So yes, so if you do
it once, now you're a.

Speaker 7 (34:46):
Prote to Look at a jig? Is it like there
are two different words, like can a man not be
a prostitute? They can only be like a jiggle?

Speaker 5 (34:54):
I might be semantics, Yeah, because I'm like somebody, that's
the thing.

Speaker 2 (35:00):
I feel like.

Speaker 5 (35:00):
It's always like, oh, if a woman wants to sell
the box, if she wants to sell the box, it's
like what if I want to sell the dick? Like
you got to buy the dick? Like why is that
not a thing? It is a thing, That's what I'm saying.
We can do it all the time.

Speaker 2 (35:14):
We was just talking about we're just talking about broke
niggas at date checks with more money.

Speaker 8 (35:18):
So you think that she's buying penis.

Speaker 2 (35:22):
Most times, when I was dating a chick that had things,
and I would wanted access to those things.

Speaker 3 (35:29):
She was not a good looking woman. She was not
a woman that I necessarily would want to be seen with.
But I needed her, So yeah, she was paying.

Speaker 2 (35:38):
For the dick. That's what it is. If she stopped,
if she cut me off, we no longer fucking with
each other. You see, this is why people like money
is the root of all evil. It's actually not having
money that is the root of all Every bad decision
comes from poverty. It is always a little place of poverty.
And if it's not poverty, it's fear of poverty. I

(36:00):
just made it out. I'm not doing better not having
the money.

Speaker 3 (36:03):
It's subjective too, because if I got a million and
I'm hanging around billions, I would still could make bad
decisions because I'm trying to get some some of them billions,
So it doesn't mean possible.

Speaker 2 (36:14):
It sounds like it's not.

Speaker 3 (36:16):
Money is still a root of all evil. Bro it's
not not having it. Well, maybe not having billions, I guess.

Speaker 2 (36:22):
Is not having the money. I've never seen somebody with
money that is just you know what. No, I'll take
it back exactly because I think when you get to
a certain amount, when you just get bored and you
want to see what people will do for the money.
But then the poor people are the ones doing it.
Goosh white sh require, I'm processing there's too much going

(36:46):
on that the millionaires send the poor people out and
they do whatever they do for the money. I imagine, right,
Richie wild Ship for money too.

Speaker 3 (36:59):
This the white people that jump off the skyscrapers when
they make a bad play or when whatever is going
on in their life.

Speaker 2 (37:07):
Because they lost people that slipoverty. It's the fear but
feel not poverty. It's your I just said. I said
that it's either poverty or the fear of poverty. Poverty
is so scary, I'd rather die. Jigglow.

Speaker 3 (37:22):
A young man paid or financially supported by an older
woman to be her escort or over.

Speaker 8 (37:28):
The woman has to be older, so men can't be prostituted,
So so.

Speaker 2 (37:34):
You hate it's definitely as male prostitute. So I don't know,
Cassie Higher.

Speaker 7 (37:43):
I'm not defending anything. I believe in words and that
words mean things. I'm learning today that men cannot be processed.

Speaker 2 (37:50):
That's not true. Cassie hired male prostitutes.

Speaker 7 (37:53):
Well, obviously we're using the wrong verbiage because the definition
said that a prostitute.

Speaker 2 (37:57):
Can only be a woman, particularly a woman. Okay, and a.

Speaker 7 (38:01):
Jig has to be somebody that is being accosted by
an older woman.

Speaker 2 (38:06):
So what is a male What is a male prostatute called?
What if it says a prostitute? Rent boy? This one
may be referred to as a male escort, jigglo implying

(38:28):
female customers, rent boy, her boy model or masur ooh,
masseuse wow, rit boy crazy?

Speaker 7 (38:40):
That has like an ear of racism, like rit boy,
come over here, rit boy.

Speaker 3 (38:46):
There was a second question that I had for that.

Speaker 2 (38:50):
Video, and it was a girl who likes stirring up
ship on Twitter. Her name is Paul Nandi, and she says,
do men ever get tired of providing? Or do they
just get tired of being unappreciated while doing it? What
do you mean? I don't. I don't want to. I
don't want to provide. I don't What do you want

(39:11):
to do? Not that? If you want? I don't even
want you to provide for me. I just don't want
to provide for you. I get tired of it. I
do it not because I like it, though the nerve
right nerve. I me not want to give to other
people what you look at me in confusion, like, so

(39:35):
what are you here for? Perfect? You get tired of it,
you get tired of why. It's the same way you
be like, yo, I don't want to fuck? How you
don't get tired of serving? I don't want to If
I don't want to, I don't want to fuck. You've

(39:57):
said this right, so the same way his his role
role is supposed to be providing. I'm not saying.

Speaker 7 (40:06):
You're able to say women like a sex. You're to
say in this world's to fuck the nigga.

Speaker 2 (40:11):
That's I didn't say it, but I'm definitely thinking it. Screw.
I appreciate your honesty. What is your purpose if you're
not providing? But I can't say what is your purpose
if you're not having sex? I can't say that. You
can say whatever you I didn't say it. I didn't
say you thought it definitely real. But the same way

(40:32):
you can. It's just more palatable for you to say Oh,
you're supposed to pay for ship for me. That's not
what I said. But that's providing. But see, that's that's
it's valable for you to say it. It is.

Speaker 7 (40:44):
It's semantics because here's my thought process. Right, if you
say that you're tired of it and you don't particularly
want to do it anymore, but you're also not saying
what you would like to do in the interim, and
you would rather do nothing, So what is your purpose?

Speaker 2 (40:59):
I just need a break. I'm not saying I don't.
You get tired of it, right, everybody needs a break something.
So if your mom or dad, whatever your role in
the house is, you just get tired of it. And
it's not just money. I get tired of providing answers.
I get tired of providing resources. Sometimes just don't fucking
call me.

Speaker 7 (41:17):
Yeah, that is something that I can agree with. I
don't think that there's anything wrong with taking Everybody needs
a break. Everybody deserves a break. But then my thing
is like if you just don't want to do it
at all anymore, like at base.

Speaker 2 (41:28):
Of it, like you know what, men get tired, You
get tired of being a mom. Sometimes I do. So
people can get tired of things that they know. They
supposed to.

Speaker 7 (41:37):
Have everything in everybody, and I think everybody deserves a break.

Speaker 8 (41:40):
I don't have a problem with.

Speaker 2 (41:41):
That unless it's a man.

Speaker 8 (41:43):
No, I just said I don't have a problem with that.

Speaker 2 (41:45):
I felt your eyes felt like it was a problem.
That's your interpretation, m that there was a response to that, y'all.
She looked at Yeah, I get tired of I need.
I needed the logic behind it.

Speaker 7 (42:01):
And now that I understand the logic, the context is important,
and now we're on the same hand.

Speaker 2 (42:05):
You know, it's funny that very often all you got
to do is put yourself in the other person's shoes
and just change the wording of what they're asking for
some shit or like, there was something that I can't
remember what it was, but I was like, yeah, my
wife she can't do that. And then it was like,
all right, so what if what if it was you?
And I was like, ooh, yeah, it's nasty.

Speaker 8 (42:26):
My wife can't do that.

Speaker 2 (42:27):
It's crazy. But whatever it was, why is that wrong?
It's double standards for like, they exist, Like we got
to stop acting like they don't exist.

Speaker 7 (42:34):
No, they do exist, And I understand that I'm not
a feminist by any stretch of the imagination.

Speaker 8 (42:38):
I do not believe in equality. I don't believe in
any of that shit.

Speaker 2 (42:41):
But however, so you believe the higher the man is
above the woman. I believe.

Speaker 7 (42:46):
Yeah, no, hold on, let me frame that correctly before
this comes out crazy. I believe that men should be
but I believe that a lot of men are not there.
And they think that because they were born with a
penis that that means that they are.

Speaker 8 (42:59):
But that's not true.

Speaker 2 (43:01):
How often do you beat on your husband? I don't
be husband, but you have it.

Speaker 7 (43:09):
I have never beat on my husband. I have play
for the camera at the camera.

Speaker 8 (43:17):
I have playfully hit or tap and yes, he will.

Speaker 2 (43:21):
Always hit me. Let's take let's take current my current husband.
How many husbands will have all right, let's get step
out of this relationship.

Speaker 7 (43:30):
Okay, in the past, have I ever beat on Ben? Absolutely?
Absolutely down.

Speaker 2 (43:40):
Several. This is this is news got snuff?

Speaker 8 (43:45):
Definitely?

Speaker 2 (43:46):
Do you feel like it's okay?

Speaker 8 (43:47):
I didn't say it was okay. You asked me a question.
I give you the honest truth.

Speaker 2 (43:50):
Your voice is getting very I just I just gave you.
This is my truth.

Speaker 8 (43:55):
I'm not saying I'm right, wrong or indifferent.

Speaker 2 (43:57):
I've changed a double standard.

Speaker 8 (43:59):
It's not a will standing.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
I'm just saying that is another double can't just be
They can't say that on the show. Can't You can't
live your truth?

Speaker 7 (44:07):
That's on you. That has nothing to do with me.
I never said I was right. It's absolutely wrong. However, Comma,
A couple of niggas got nothing in my life.

Speaker 2 (44:16):
A couple a couple. Most is what I do is
what I did you stop? Why? Why did you? No? No?

Speaker 5 (44:23):
No, no no?

Speaker 2 (44:24):
Did it stop?

Speaker 8 (44:26):
Yes, it has stopped.

Speaker 7 (44:27):
I have not punched or hit or slapped any man
in the face in six years.

Speaker 2 (44:34):
Grappler now in the words is like I haven't open handed.

Speaker 7 (44:45):
Know because I have to be really specific because then
you'll like to throw like the follow up questions, I
have not punched.

Speaker 8 (44:50):
Slapped, or so you don't abused men anymore?

Speaker 2 (44:56):
Women?

Speaker 8 (44:57):
No, you just I've never put my hands on the one.
And that's kind of crazy. Well outside of like a
you know, like a but like a relationship.

Speaker 2 (45:03):
Why have you beat on several of your men.

Speaker 8 (45:06):
And not my women and none of them?

Speaker 7 (45:09):
Because I think that the relationships that no, that's not true.
Actually I would prefer that.

Speaker 2 (45:17):
But nosips.

Speaker 7 (45:19):
The women that I have dated have never, to my knowledge,
made me as upset as some of the men that
I have dated, because the one thing that would make
me slap the spit fire out of a man is
lying to my face because I think that you're lying

(45:39):
to me because you think that I'm stupid enough to
believe you, and insulting my intelligence is the first way
to get the ship slapped.

Speaker 2 (45:45):
Out of you.

Speaker 3 (45:46):
Woman, a woman, she's done that, But that's funny, she's
done the exact same.

Speaker 2 (45:53):
Women done it. Or you don't care enough about the
women relationships that actually care when they both and that's peace.
That's crazy. Yeah, this is nuts. The response to the
providing question, I'm trying to keep a hold on it.
This is scrooge.

Speaker 3 (46:08):
You add Scrooge to the pot, it just becomes some
other ship. The response was, I think men don't get
really tired of providing. I think men don't get really
tired of providing because deep down they know it's part
of their role and responsibility. What breaks them is when
all their effort goes unnoticed, when they sacrifice sleep, health,
peace of mind just to make sure everyone is okay,

(46:30):
but no one appreciated that silence, that lack of recognition.

Speaker 2 (46:33):
It eats them slowly. Men can handle the hustle, pressure,
even the stress, but what they can't handle is being
made to feel that all that hard work means nothing.
Is that a woman? Is that a woman? M Let
me see if yeah, it looks like it? Yeah? Yeah,
what's the word gas Yeah?

Speaker 7 (46:55):
Why would you ask me that that's the word?

Speaker 2 (46:59):
What was gaslighting about that statement? Because you, as a woman,
don't know what the fucking man goes through, but you're
telling me what a man should like. You're phrasing it
if you know. Nah, I don't think the men get tired. No, yeah,
I get tired, so you can. Everything after that is
just you telling me why I shouldn't be tired. I
shouldn't be tired. I get that.

Speaker 7 (47:19):
I just I think that there's nothing wrong with being
tired if you are a real provider, because everyone has
the ability to be tired. But then I also think
that there is an air of lack of appreciation makes
the work even more draining. True, and I don't I
don't believe in overlooking the little things like I am

(47:43):
the person that is super appreciative of all of the
things that are done in and around my space, the
things that are done that even I don't even notice,
but when I do notice it, I'm always very much like,
thank you, I appreciate you, like I'm always gonna pour
into my person. But because I never want him to
feel like any of his efforts go unappreciated, I.

Speaker 2 (48:04):
Think that's still and it's good to say. Do you
have empathy for dead beats? No? What if he like
worked really hard for the first three years and that
he couldn't deal with it after, like he got tired.

Speaker 9 (48:16):
No.

Speaker 2 (48:18):
I have a question. Do y'all think women are naturally nurturing? No?

Speaker 7 (48:25):
I think that's a lie that we've all been sold,
just like I don't think that men are naturally providers.

Speaker 2 (48:31):
That was the question, scoogey, What are you thinking about that?
I think women are, But I also think that I've
never been a woman, so maybe somebody told me that,
and that's just what I think.

Speaker 7 (48:41):
Yeah, I think that for some women, like the nurturing
aspect is really difficult. I think that there are even
some men that are better nurturers than women. But I
think that society have put us in these little boxes
and told this that, like, this is our shoe and

(49:02):
it has to fit even if it's not your size.
And I think that that is the most disheartening part
about it all. But me also understanding like my own biases,
Like I am one of those people that was raised
to believe that men are supposed to provide, So I
see the nuance in that. But I do I also
understand that just because I believe something doesn't mean.

Speaker 2 (49:22):
That it's true. What about mothers.

Speaker 8 (49:25):
I know several mothers. First of all, it took me.

Speaker 2 (49:28):
Can I finish goad, she'd be right there on the
edge every day.

Speaker 3 (49:33):
No, No, mothers that don't want to be mothers that
like say I'm not a good mother. I don't I'm
not doing I don't think a lot of women want
to be mothers.

Speaker 2 (49:43):
I think I was just saying that in the call,
like I think a lot of women want They think
about the relationship aspect, they want a family, but once
they don't have the male that they wanted in that picture,
then they stop wanting to be a mother, or they
build resentment towards the kid because the reminds of the
of the relationship that they wanted to have Well, what
do you think does it?

Speaker 3 (50:02):
She said that society puts them into a box, right,
people into a box? Yeah you have a baby, Yeah,
and you don't want to take care of the motherfucker you.
People shame women for that, right, but they should be
they should be shit.

Speaker 2 (50:15):
Yeah, why what if you just don't? You get tired
and you don't want to do this. You don't want
to be a mother and you shouldn't have been a mother. No.
I about when fathers do it? Oh my god, they're always.

Speaker 5 (50:31):
I've seen in the corner for five minutes.

Speaker 2 (50:35):
God damn, I just for me. I think it's the
same thing. You have to step up to the responsibility.
I just think the actions that it takes not to
have a child is purely on the woman. Y'all remind
us of every time. So I do understand a man
not wanting to have a child but still having a child.
I can't understand a woman having a child and not

(50:58):
wanting to be a mom. You you had whatever the
span during the relationship, you had the chance, and then
during whatever time you have after that, you could have
chosen not to have a child and you still had it.

Speaker 7 (51:11):
I think that your first part, the first part of
your thought process is actually very spot on. There's a
reason why it takes two people to make a baby.
There's a reason why you cannot have a baby just
singlely by yourself. And I think that a lot of
women wanted the family. And then when you lose the

(51:31):
family and you're stuck with even though this is gonna
sound crazy, but you're stuck with the kid, that's kind
of fucked up because that's not necessarily what I signed
up for.

Speaker 2 (51:42):
I think that people that have babies.

Speaker 7 (51:45):
From like one night stands and keep them, I think
that they're uniquely psychotic. Like that's some real wild, crazy
shit to me. But I think that people that were
actually in a relationship that were consensually having unprotected sex
and had a baby and one missed the part what
part did I miss?

Speaker 2 (52:05):
The part where she gets to choose whether we have
a baby.

Speaker 3 (52:08):
But I think that's it continued, that is something that
you have for mad loans.

Speaker 2 (52:14):
I think she's talking about the scenario like she's saying,
people who were together as a couple of chosen have
it and then yes, and then the father doesn't see
I'm more And maybe that's like a trigger for me.
I'm more thinking of men who's telling women like I
don't want to have a child, and then you know
you're having it, you're having protected son, and we're having

(52:35):
a child. So after that, and I hear the gripes
of them being like, oh he's a deadbeat, it's just like,
well he's actually spot on, or you see character traits
of these people before they choose, because I believe that
you're supposed to step up and do what you have
to do, even if that's not a situation that you

(52:55):
want it. But you see the character traits of somebody
that's not going to be there, well, we well they're
not there sometimes. Yeah, not all the time.

Speaker 8 (53:04):
I mean, but I feel like if you do see it,
then you do.

Speaker 2 (53:07):
Have somebody telling you they don't want to have a kid.
That's that's that's more than a sign. I don't know.

Speaker 7 (53:13):
That's that's that's a uniquely traumatizing point for me.

Speaker 8 (53:16):
So I have different I have a differing opinion.

Speaker 7 (53:22):
I understand it logically because I can think of things logically,
but at its base roots, my whole thing is if
one person, if two consented adults are having unprotected sex,
right and one person says, I don't want to have
a kid, and the other person says, if I get pregnant,
I'm not aborting, then everybody needs to break the fuck away.

(53:46):
And if that does not happen, then everybody has to
take equal stake in having a child.

Speaker 2 (53:52):
But I don't think everybody has that conversation, so you.

Speaker 8 (53:55):
As somebody that actually had that conversation.

Speaker 7 (53:57):
That's why I don't like the other thought process, because
I feel like just speaking about myself, because I can
only speak about me in this moment. I feel like
the man felt like because he was a man, his
thought process was more important than mine. His opinion on
what was going to happen in the event of meant
more than what I said. So then when we found

(54:17):
ourselves in a bind, it's like, but I said this,
No bitch, but I said that. So we both said
things that was opposing to each other. I'm gonna take
my l and my responsibility for it, but you don't
get to not take yours too because you said something.

Speaker 8 (54:31):
We all said something.

Speaker 2 (54:32):
But that's foreshadowing for what would happen before that. If
you say this, so for me, I would do exactly
what you said, like Yo, if a woman says I
want to have a child, all right, let me step
away from the situation, right, And that's what you're supposed
to do. Now. If I said I don't want to
have a child, and you still decide to have sex
with me, you also understand it's a fore shadowing for
I might not be there.

Speaker 7 (54:55):
Both and like there's so many different sides of it,
but I think that to be an accountable at least
for me to be an accountable adult personally, I took
my and.

Speaker 2 (55:09):
She did. She did life, and I'll find the hypocrisy.
The hypocrisy is, how was it hypocrisy?

Speaker 3 (55:17):
Not yours the hypocrisy And saying like, yo, if he
if he says he don't want it, but you still
do it and then now it's still his responsibility is
just weird, like like you know that the same way
you can say, yo, I said that I want to
and I said I told you I don't, and you
still had unprotected with the sex with But I don't

(55:38):
even to do all that. My real question was women
that really wanted to have the commisation with women that
really wanted to have the baby that's still different and
then have it and say I, oh, yeah, this isn't
for me, this waking up at two and am and
it keeps crying and I'm not I don't feel like
I'm naturally born to be a them mm hmm, this

(56:02):
isn't for me, and give the baby away as adoption
or give it to the dad or whatever. Society a
lot of times shame them for that.

Speaker 7 (56:10):
Yeah, right, that goes with that. It's a lot of shame.
There's a there's a lot of shame in being a
mother period. There's like a lot of guilt. There's a
lot of mom guilt that gets like perpetuated against you,
like how dare you have fun?

Speaker 2 (56:22):
Where's your kid?

Speaker 7 (56:23):
I will never forget like my I think my first
three four years of being a mom, the amount of
times that anytime I went outside, people like where's Parker?

Speaker 2 (56:33):
What the funk would she be here? Like? Why was she?
Why are you asking me about the nig? Like how?
Like how dam Like where's your baby? Like who's the
baby with? Who is? Why does it matter? She goes?
I do feel like women are like they chastised women
even if you don't have a kid. It's like when
you're trying to can't just go to sleep when you

(56:55):
didn't come here and just be all in the studio
and you gotta pee now you nah yo, nah, you're
gonna laugh. Yeah, look interested, I'm looking at you. I'm
boring you. We are we disturbing you. No, it's fine,
but like sit up, make faces and ship Yeah yeah,

(57:21):
clocket in the back, clocketty do all that. Yes. On
the internet today, the people were saying, oh, the women,
what was it? Said that the niggas.

Speaker 3 (57:38):
Are better fathers when it comes to being single fathers, right,
statistically proving that, And the women were like, oh, no,
that's because the men always get more help.

Speaker 8 (57:49):
We're spoken about that.

Speaker 2 (57:51):
Huh huh, that's true. They said that the women around
the men tend to still help him, which is why
he gets to be a single father, a better like,
he has better success where mothers tend to have to
deal with everything themselves. Right. What I disagreed with this, baby, Well,
I agree with it a little bit, but I think
there's more to it. The base root of.

Speaker 8 (58:13):
It is this, and we can agree or disagree.

Speaker 7 (58:16):
This is my real I really truly believe this in
my heart. A man is always going to have a
woman that will be there to help him. Whether it
is your sister, whether it is your girlfriend, whether it
is your mother, there's always going to be a woman
that will be there to help you, especially if you're
a single father. It's gonna be your mom's calling, like, yo,

(58:37):
let me take the baby for a weekend. It's gonna
be your sister coming over to babysit or braid the
baby's hair. It's going to be your girlfriend. That was like,
oh you you going out with your boys already, I'm
gonna watch your baby. Like, it's always going to be
a woman there to help you. As a single mother.
People are not coming out the Woolworth to help you
because you're a mother, You're a woman. You're supposed to

(58:58):
already have the answers. You're supposed to know how to
do it. There is something there's like a I can't
think of the term right now, but it's like we
emasculate men and think that they do not have an
ability to fully parent on their own, and there's always
going to be somebody to aid. Oh my gosh, you
have your kid at the park. You're such a good father.
Who says that to mothers?

Speaker 2 (59:19):
Nah, they literally come over to you and be like
did you eat? Did the baby eat? Worry abody, I'll
get him. What you're doing, it's do you need me
to help you? Take your to the back.

Speaker 7 (59:30):
You see a mother with fucking a bag a baby
on the chest and holding to it, You're like, oh,
where's the father. She's a single mother? How dare she like?
It's just a completely different experience.

Speaker 2 (59:42):
I disagree that's fine because I think people help men
because they deal with if that ever happens, They deal
with being a man and then being a single for
on top of it. So to me, I feel like
a woman don't even have to leave her mother's house,
let alone. How you looking for help? You still live

(01:00:03):
there time hundred years old.

Speaker 8 (01:00:07):
But if you don't have a grandma. But if you
don't have a mother, who.

Speaker 2 (01:00:10):
For the guy?

Speaker 5 (01:00:13):
No no, no, no, no, no, no no no no.

Speaker 2 (01:00:15):
To help the single mother as much as just running
to help the single father.

Speaker 5 (01:00:19):
That's not Please, that's not true.

Speaker 2 (01:00:23):
I'm not rolling with that. Yeah, I'm not rolling with Also,
I'm just looking on the outside.

Speaker 3 (01:00:28):
I also think that that's kind of although there's truth
to both parts. I understand what DoD you're saying, and
I definitely understand what scool you're saying. I don't think
that that's why when single mothers raise kids, the kids
wind up more likely to go to jail or not
go to school.

Speaker 8 (01:00:45):
That's a different conversation.

Speaker 3 (01:00:47):
That's the conversation statistically the children, they do. Bet the
children do better when with the single father than they
do with.

Speaker 2 (01:00:53):
The that comes from a role of a father. Yes,
you're absolutely right. So if save my daughter's mother tells
her something, she goes about it a different way to
where agree.

Speaker 3 (01:01:06):
Yeah, I think that the structure, for whatever reason, the
father builds a different bond or there's a different level
of respect something, because I know the women when I
think when the team have to both. But when the
teenager teenage girl, for some reason, her and that mom
they go, they start going to war.

Speaker 2 (01:01:24):
She had to get the fuck out of there.

Speaker 3 (01:01:25):
They start going to war. And that doesn't happen with
the father with.

Speaker 2 (01:01:30):
A female, Yeah, but maybe with a son. I imagine
it happened sooner or later.

Speaker 7 (01:01:34):
Nigga's got a father, they kids, and that's really what
it is at the base roots.

Speaker 2 (01:01:38):
I think that when you're.

Speaker 7 (01:01:40):
Talking about the development of a child, the mom is
definitely needed in the first ten years, like attached to
the him. After that child turns ten, boy or girl,
the father has to take over.

Speaker 2 (01:01:58):
I don't even think ten. I think I don't even
think ten either where we say eight, four or five.
I've seen kids choosing their their father over there, like
little girls, little boys. I think I've seen a video
of it, like mom, beat it, daddy. You get what
I'm saying, because like after those those years, after like
breastfeeding and being close, once they build that bone with

(01:02:20):
the dad like they I don't I don't even we
don't even need the.

Speaker 3 (01:02:23):
Boll Speaking of this goes into the conversation I want
to have with y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:02:30):
It's like how you look when you're about to fire somebody. Yeah,
it got uncomfortable around here. I haven't seen my daughter
in six days. She moved out. What did you do,
older ship, she's twenty four. You still want to see
them at that age? That was part of her thing.
So this is the thing my mom.

Speaker 3 (01:02:50):
So I bought my fiance two kittens, right, she wanted
two kittens. She's always talking about she's like a cat lady.
She's like a cat lady. Huh No, Well, she's in
the past, she's had cats and whatever. She's always like
sending me memes, and she wants to go to the
cat museum, like she's the fucking cat lady.

Speaker 2 (01:03:10):
Like we're going to look at houses. She's running around
in the backyard trying to catch a straight cat, like
she's a fucking cat lady.

Speaker 3 (01:03:17):
So, yeah, it's the thing. By the way, I'm also
a cat guy. I love cats.

Speaker 2 (01:03:23):
Do you even think she's a serial killer? She's fucking
with me. Of course she's a serial killer. Of course
she is. Like it is what it is. So she's
had multiple cats, but none of them. You've never met
any of them.

Speaker 3 (01:03:35):
No, listen, I don't know. But I've had multiple cats,
y'all never met him. I remember when they used to
laugh at me. This is when my cat died on Yeah, relaxed.

Speaker 2 (01:03:44):
When the cat cemetery, can I finish the story?

Speaker 3 (01:03:48):
So when I'm getting the cat, there's a whole litter
of them. I knew my sons also like cats, and
they was turning eighteen and their cat jumped out the
window when they was younger.

Speaker 2 (01:04:02):
Does anybody have any concern for the cats? I was concerned.

Speaker 3 (01:04:06):
I felt the cat jump out the window because the
mom's of her go. So I was like, yeah, I
can say I get.

Speaker 2 (01:04:12):
It, I get itand that the cat could take it.
He said, all nine of these lives. I'm getting the
fuck out of here right, unhuman traffic.

Speaker 3 (01:04:25):
My mom is definitely afraid of mice. We don't have mice,
but she's so afraid of them. She hears them. She's like,
there's a noise. You didn't hear that.

Speaker 2 (01:04:37):
She's like, see something black on the floor. That's mice
and mouse dropping. It's mine. It's a fucking piece of hair,
like it's not.

Speaker 3 (01:04:43):
Literally, I will leave out, and that the light in
her apartment will be on a three thirty in the morning,
bright light.

Speaker 2 (01:04:49):
I'll smell peppermint, like yo, what the fuck? What yo? Oh? No,
I heard something. She's sitting in the bed, her feet
up in the bed, like in the knee like she's
my mom definitely afraid.

Speaker 3 (01:04:59):
So when I seen the little I was like, oh, one, two,
Oh shit, I'm gonna get one for everybody.

Speaker 2 (01:05:05):
Right, I sweat is what I thought of. Why are
you laughing? Like, give me one, give me two of those,
Give me two of those, right, give meet this fright
take the ones to today. She loves them. I take
the one to the boys love they love them. The

(01:05:25):
mom not so much. Take the one in my mom.
She loves it. But she has to go out of town.
Her brother has leukemia, her twin brother, so she literally
flew her car to Florida. My mother took off. I even
see her right.

Speaker 3 (01:05:43):
So when she was planning to do that, the baby
the virgo took the other, her cat, so that that
one wouldn't be long story, long story short, she left town.
The boys are staying with me for three months, and
the cats had to come here. My daughter's out of town.
She comes home one day, sees the cats. I'm on

(01:06:08):
the stoop with this nigga yesterday. She walks in. How
long was she in the house?

Speaker 2 (01:06:13):
H five minutes? Comes out backpacked teod. I'm like the
fucking home shoe. Oh I can't stay here. I don't
I don't do I don't do this, like nobody told
me this was happening, Like, no, I don't do. Cats
walk down the block. I have literally didn't speak to
her for days. So I called her, like, Yo, what's good.

(01:06:39):
She's like, oh nothing. I'm like, like what you're you
haven't come back, like you're moving out.

Speaker 3 (01:06:44):
She's like, yeah, kinda like y'all made a decision without me.
It is like, I'm not nobody asks me, and I
don't pay rent there, so it is what it is.
I'm like, why are you talking to me like that?
You talk to me crazy for what? Yes, that's crazy.
Don't you've lived here for years?

Speaker 2 (01:07:02):
Oh I don't pay rent? You've never paid rent? Why
are you even coming up with this in your head?
And nobody talked to me like and you didn't even
call me to tell me that your move like you're mad?
You feel a way you could call me to be like, yo,
I don't we have three floors, big, we have three
levels in this house. Why can't we have a conversation

(01:07:23):
about how you feel? Why don't you communicate nothing? She's like,
y'all didn't communicate with me.

Speaker 3 (01:07:28):
Y'all made a decision without me, and this is what
it is like nobody like, yes, I understand her situation
with the mice, but I don't like hats. So she's like, oh,
I'm definitely afraid. Well, she said, I'm I have a phobia.
I said, you came in and you were standing with
your grandmother with the cats. That's not a phobia, you
just don't like them.

Speaker 2 (01:07:49):
I feel like a podcast content has went downhill, that
this is a topic. Why I hated everything? You just said?
What I don't have? What I don't want to know?
I'm bugging? Why am I bugging? What's the next topic
I want to talk? I want to You can sit

(01:08:10):
over there, your counter, go into your bank, vote can
tell me. Tell me how am I bugging? You did not.

Speaker 7 (01:08:21):
Think about all stakeholders that lived here before you made
a decision period.

Speaker 2 (01:08:26):
This is like his own personal podcast where he just
he just whatever you want. You ain't knowing this affects
nobody else in the world. I'm asking, So what can
I get this off? My full get ahead? Your bugging bugging?

Speaker 7 (01:08:45):
Because if you buy an animal right and multiple people
live in that space, it's only respectful to be like, yo,
I'm buying like you gotta let everybody know what the
fuck is going on. Did you even ask your baby
mother if you could buy a cat?

Speaker 2 (01:09:04):
Yes?

Speaker 8 (01:09:04):
And she said, okay, house. You spoke to her, but.

Speaker 2 (01:09:07):
You didn't speak to her house. I can't just bring
something into her house like you're here, Okay, it's her
grandmother's house, right, it's not you live with your.

Speaker 10 (01:09:17):
Grandmother's okay, And y'all have too far us. She has
her own living area. You have your own living area.
If there's an issue, and that's not even an issue,
you can have a problem with the cats.

Speaker 2 (01:09:28):
The issue is that you really tried to move out
and not say nothing nothing.

Speaker 8 (01:09:32):
She's also twenty four.

Speaker 2 (01:09:34):
You can't leave, and you can go pay bills, and
you could go do that. Go ahead, go pay like,
go pay gas, go pay for food, go pay for
the laundry, go pay for all that. Go ahead, go
goe ahead, go go go go do do that. The
old things you can go pay for like everything. And
because you don't want to have a conversation about where
they're going to be kept at or whatever. Really but

(01:09:54):
you think that's appropriate, but you.

Speaker 7 (01:09:55):
Didn't open the room for discussion for the conversation, Like
you can't get mad at her for lacking communication when
you lack the same thing.

Speaker 2 (01:10:05):
I don't have to I talked to her grandmother.

Speaker 7 (01:10:07):
You don't have to, and she didn't have to. So
while we're out of impass y'are both too stubborn ass people.

Speaker 2 (01:10:14):
Yesterday people that's born in the winter.

Speaker 8 (01:10:18):
They frigid as well.

Speaker 2 (01:10:19):
That's not true. Relaxed doch.

Speaker 8 (01:10:21):
But you still on my ship list.

Speaker 5 (01:10:23):
I'm not on no she list. No, we've already been
through this. We're not We're not even doing it. No better,
we're not doing this anyways anyways. To be honest with you, bro, like,
I feel like I don't know man like I understand
her being upset.

Speaker 2 (01:10:41):
I mean, both things could have happened.

Speaker 5 (01:10:42):
She definitely could have called you or I could have
spoken like you know what I'm saying, like, she could
have told you, like yo, listen, I'm not really feeling this.
I'm thinking to move out. Also too, you could have
told her, like yo, listen before she got back your
big dog. Some cats here, you feel me, gonna be kitts.

Speaker 2 (01:10:56):
I'm sorry, some kittens here.

Speaker 5 (01:10:57):
Listen, they're gonna be here X amount of time or whatever,
working out with your grandmother whatever. But I know her
coming from wherever she was coming from walking in, just
on the walk in and finding.

Speaker 2 (01:11:08):
Out it was nasty a little bit. Can you give
me keeping in the She doesn't pay rent? No, what
are we talking about it? I don't know she.

Speaker 8 (01:11:19):
Doesn't, but she person that lives here.

Speaker 2 (01:11:21):
So what, you don't have an opinion until your pay.

Speaker 7 (01:11:26):
That's some toxic ass ship. That is some toxic parenting ship.
I'm so sorry.

Speaker 3 (01:11:31):
I don't agree she can so. I understand what he's saying.
I don't live like that. I don't, of course she have.
But my problem is the communication.

Speaker 2 (01:11:39):
But you do you do? I have to communicate. I
didn't know you don't have it. How do you want
me to have I am still doing it? What you
want to communicate something? You just made the decision decision
or what to have that? Yeah, exactly for her. It's
for her mother's grandmother.

Speaker 7 (01:12:00):
So if so, if so, if she said you can't
have the cat, would you still have bought the cat
for your mother?

Speaker 2 (01:12:06):
Yeah? So, I don't know. I don't know. That's now
between her, that's between her, her grandmother and her. That's
literally between her, not because you're the one that put
the catalyst.

Speaker 3 (01:12:16):
Grandmother wanted it. I talked to her beforehand. I didn't
just show up with it. Her grandmother wanted it, and.

Speaker 7 (01:12:23):
You provided it. Yes, and you didn't give her heads up.
She doesn't deserve one.

Speaker 2 (01:12:28):
I didn't even consider it. I didn't think it was
gonna be a issue in a and you thought wrong.
The level of humanity, right, I've just seen somebody get
stabbed on the train. That's a that's a topic cats
or the topic they go before stabbing on the train,
like on the show. Like, I'm just I'm just saying
so many things happen, like, Yo, don't worry. I have

(01:12:51):
more typics centered around you. Don't worry. I have this
one's about me. I have more. This is his personal diary.
Like is that what you This is abuse?

Speaker 11 (01:13:03):
You are like Donald Trump, Like you're just using this
to do whatever you want to do. Yes, I just
we're just complacent. I just work here. I just come
to work so I don't get fined and then I
go home.

Speaker 2 (01:13:15):
This is really crazy. I didn't know this what you
were doing. Well, you have to watch the show. When
I see the only you don't want to show it
sounds like y'all are dressing very important. This conversation you did,
this is really that important entertainment.

Speaker 3 (01:13:33):
This is entertainment, and this is entertaining to me to
talk about the things that's going on, especially to know
if I'm handling this situation, it's situation wrong.

Speaker 2 (01:13:42):
You're a dictator in the house, Carrio, in your whole life.
I'm a dictator. You're making people talk about your personal
problems and it doesn't affect I asked you if you
buy pussy. You didn't want to talk about that, so
I changed the topic of something else. You don't want

(01:14:02):
to talk about this day? What do you want to
talk about? Screws? What are you want to talk about?
We didn't need a break, Now you need a break.
This is so once. We don't once. We don't want
four hours four hours. It's not four hours. This hell.

(01:14:28):
It's very sad. It's crazy, y'all. Let this nigga come
in here, and now I can't talk about what I
want to talk about. He's the get I think. Yes,
she just says she's complacent. They're telling you're a dictator
in your house. They don't come with topics. They don't
come with topics. So now I gotta listen. You do
come with topics, the topics whatever you want to. I'm
gonna come again, and I'm gonna have topics, are you

(01:14:50):
because I know you do? And may bring out your
car car.

Speaker 3 (01:14:55):
Game where I wanted topics from your car game for
your gam bring one off the top, tell us what topics.

Speaker 2 (01:15:05):
I don't want to do that. It's more like a crowd.
Come on, a crowd. They say three is a crowd.
You know you ever have a more to show up,
complain about everything, but don't bring nothing right here. There's
certain things you know you're supposed to bring, something like
a like a housewoman or something. I didn't know the

(01:15:27):
topics were here. I didn't know one of the topics
from your cargame. It's not it's not a topic thing.
It's like a so you'll pick a card and like, uh,
I don't want to do that, don't want to talk
about the card game.

Speaker 7 (01:15:44):
And reflects realized that he's wrong in his communication and
I'm just because.

Speaker 2 (01:15:48):
There's no context. There's no context, and so it just
sounds like mean stuff when you just read them out loud.
But if you tell me it's a good cargo, I
don't know why he's acting. Just like a car and
it'll be like, uh, rate the person five people away
from you, stuff like that, or be like who picked

(01:16:09):
two people out of crowd? Who will give your best song?
Or it'll be like, uh, take a shot, give a
shot to the ugliest person in the crowd. That's nuts,
or you want or you get nuts. I just like, wait,
if somebody gave you the shot, do you drink it? What?

(01:16:35):
But this is what I want to know, right, this
is what I want to know. Right.

Speaker 3 (01:16:38):
You're telling me about me being a dictator and why
are you an anarchist all the ship that you just
you're trying to create drama at a game night, to
create who wants to do that a game night?

Speaker 2 (01:16:51):
What about you create honesty at the expensive who It's
not an expense. If somebody was ugly, you noticed that
before you even played the game when you came in.

Speaker 7 (01:17:01):
But why do I have to now group full of
people have it known that I'm the ugly one in
the group to you?

Speaker 2 (01:17:08):
That's like, so we're not prisonal, but I want you
to know this car you never wasn't. You never wasn't.
Even if we're all quiet, we all know who it is.
That's that's why everybody has to another shot. And can
you imagine they read that everybody looks towards Oh god, please,

(01:17:30):
he knows who it is. That's crazy, crazy. We got
to get out of these concepts. Money is a concert
and hell hell. But I'm gonna I'm gonna revamp it
and and put it back out there. But we got
to get out of these concepts that we just we

(01:17:51):
just let people, we just let people put on us.

Speaker 3 (01:17:53):
It's called anarchy. It's actually evil what you're doing. It's evil.

Speaker 2 (01:17:59):
So I'm asking, are you good? It's a good card game,
but it's hell. It's hell. You get the card and
it's like something ever comes out. I didn't even have
I didn't know it was gonna go like that. I
just I just put some questions that I might I

(01:18:20):
might ask, and you would ask that, but I know
people are thinking it. I know people are thinking it.
Screw so you never came into So when you see attractive,
when you see attractive people, you know that they're there.
There's attractive people and then there's people who are super attractive. Okay, right,

(01:18:40):
you notice it. You ever seen a guy that was
super attractive? Scooge, what that's good? That's good. As a question,
I asked the question. You can't say you see the
guy that was super attracted. I don't even notice when
men are attractive.

Speaker 7 (01:19:00):
Alright, So then my question is, so that means that
you made this geared towards women fighting.

Speaker 2 (01:19:06):
This is very I don't know, I don't know who's
going to pick up what card, But like, if you
picked up the card.

Speaker 7 (01:19:15):
Give a shot to the ugliest person in here, would
you feel more comfortable giving it to a woman or
a man?

Speaker 2 (01:19:22):
The man was never even an option like that. It
has to be so that's great.

Speaker 7 (01:19:25):
So you as a man, will give a shot to
an ugly woman because she's the ugliest in the room.
Even if it's a nigga next to you. That's you
won't say ship because.

Speaker 2 (01:19:34):
He's a man. He doesn't register. Like you keep asking
me to pick up candialopes and ask me why I
didn't check the apples first. I don't know what the
he just said he took else it is not even there.

Speaker 7 (01:19:49):
That's part of the problem, No, because y'all hold each
other accountable because some of y'all homeboys be ugliest fun
and it's like accountable. If you know, when does gay
become gay? When you fucking a nigga the only time,
that's the only time.

Speaker 2 (01:20:07):
I think gay starts to get head once you've seen
a nigga, like, damn, you were gay? But why why
would you say why if that means you're registering niggas

(01:20:28):
like you like, oh he looks he's ugly. Yeah, you
shouldn't be saying you shouldn't be looking at men and
be like, oh no, he's not my type. You shouldn't
have a nigga that's your type.

Speaker 8 (01:20:38):
But why is it about types?

Speaker 2 (01:20:39):
Why is it?

Speaker 7 (01:20:40):
Why can't we just understand that universally there are some
people that are attractive and there's some people that are
not attractive. So if we're playing unattractive to me, oh man,
so then you why won't you hand a shot to
a nigga?

Speaker 2 (01:20:52):
Are you unattractive? Are you unattractive? I don't even know what. Okay,
I see said are you attractive to him? Yeah? I'm
not attracted to you want me to be in somebody else?

Speaker 4 (01:21:05):
Brain?

Speaker 7 (01:21:06):
No, because if I look into you just said, if
we walk in the room, right, we can all understand
who's the ugly person, right? And if the ugly person
is a nigga, and you pull the card from your
own game and it says to give a shot to
the ugly person and you hand it to a woman,
and everybody confused, like, but you don't see this nigga.

Speaker 2 (01:21:27):
Right, here. What are you gonna do? I don't see him.
You don't see of attractiveness. He's the game. You can
only play a game of vicious. If we talked about attractiveness, yes,
and we're talking about who's the tallest, I'll give it
to a nigga. If we're saying, yo, who's so on
the same scale? Right, listen to this. Give this shot

(01:21:48):
to the most attractive person in the world in the room.
And I'm like, I don't think that is pretty in Tahoe.
You expect a man to get. This is what I'm saying,
is this is y'all win. I lose. I lose every time,
lose every time. I can't. So if you if you're

(01:22:10):
scaling attractiveness and then men are an option for you, you're
gay only if you want to only if you imagine
yourself like Yo, I wound him up. So gay is
only sex?

Speaker 7 (01:22:24):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (01:22:25):
Literally by definition? All right, then I don't I don't
know what I mean. I'm using if you so you're
hanging out with two chicks, That's what I asked you
this question. They like, YO, call one of your homeboys? Yes?
Which one do you call? Like? Like, you know which
one you know which one. It would be a good

(01:22:45):
like yo, I'm gonna bring this one. It depends on
it depends on what she likes. But that's a girl.

Speaker 7 (01:22:52):
So she wanna say, I want somebody that's six to
brown skin.

Speaker 2 (01:22:57):
I want a good looking If she says that, I'm
not gonna have no answer for her. Nothing. If she
said I want a good looking nigga, yeah, you'll have
good looking friends. You know you're not gonna nigga friends. Yeah?
What the fuck? Niggas be too hurried heterosexual. I can't

(01:23:21):
get no buns because you don't want to say, like, yo, yo,
come over here. She's talking about she's looking for some
fine niggas. You think you're available tonight. Yeah, that's why.
Why would you say it like that was fine? That
was good? Why you call the nigga fine? What is it?
I would never call a nigga fine. She said she's
looking for fins, and I thought of you? Is that

(01:23:45):
why they talk about podcast content Scrooge calling niggas fine.
It's top tier. I like fine ass niggas. Oh, I
know exactly right now.

Speaker 7 (01:23:59):
That's so my question to you, screws, is when Drew
clips this and takes out that that's crazy part.

Speaker 8 (01:24:05):
How are you gonna feel.

Speaker 2 (01:24:06):
It is what it is? If you thought I was
gay before, then you accepting. Yeah, there's more rights for
them than me. I win more being gay. He's winning
yeah all right yo, in this country. Yeah, in twenty
twenty five. And what do you mean, I don't understand when.

Speaker 8 (01:24:29):
They're repealing gay rights literally by the day.

Speaker 2 (01:24:32):
Yeah, that's what somebody that's really gay to worry about.
I'm not taking it all the way there. I'm not
trying to get married. I'm trying to get some sponsorships.

Speaker 7 (01:24:44):
You want the gay dollars, but you know, but you
know you you want the monopoly money, all right, he
wants the monopoly money.

Speaker 2 (01:24:57):
This is nuts different, Yo. I'm not mad at what
he said. Niggas don't got to deal with women's bullshit.
The women just off that.

Speaker 7 (01:25:11):
But I said that the other thing, I don't think
gay niggas deal with women more and like in a
more intimate way sometimes than treatment.

Speaker 8 (01:25:18):
Because I'm not talking about sex.

Speaker 7 (01:25:19):
I'm talking about like proximity, like because the gay boys
they homegirls, they gotta deal with them, and then when.

Speaker 2 (01:25:25):
They can also be like bitch you wild, they also
to the profile because y'all picked me up off the street.
You'll have some media training. What's wrong with you, bitch?
That's what the show is called. So shameless. I don't

(01:25:48):
men just talk like that, bitch. Yeah, the ones that's
around their girl, their homegirls and it's one of the girls.
That's how they talk. Bitch. You wild yeah out here
and they fight them and all that. Yes, they about
being canceled, neither, I've been canceled. Don't matter what you

(01:26:09):
got canceled, just me.

Speaker 7 (01:26:12):
No, I've been canceled too. Yeah, the hoteps they came
for me. Remember when the whole TEPS was on my ass?

Speaker 2 (01:26:19):
What is the hotep on Twitter?

Speaker 8 (01:26:20):
Them niggas was like, fucking yo. They was really trying.

Speaker 2 (01:26:24):
To take me dodge being on the block list. Really yeah,
this was.

Speaker 8 (01:26:29):
Years ago, them w hole teps trying to take me
the funk out.

Speaker 2 (01:26:32):
I don't remember what I said.

Speaker 7 (01:26:35):
Super like them, super pro block like them, the FBA niggas.
They're like, yeah, yeah, the foundational like American niggas.

Speaker 2 (01:26:46):
How did that translate?

Speaker 7 (01:26:47):
The hotel they hold teps, those the niggas that they
be wearing the fucking and they're like.

Speaker 8 (01:26:52):
We the real people from its reel and they be
standing on.

Speaker 7 (01:26:55):
The corner like folting and ship. Those type of niggas
is they hold texts?

Speaker 2 (01:27:01):
What is a whole? TEP? What does that mean that.

Speaker 8 (01:27:03):
Every that I just described is under the umbrella?

Speaker 2 (01:27:06):
HOTEP refers to a social and spiritual movement among African
Americans who look to African history and culture for pride
and identity.

Speaker 7 (01:27:14):
And on Twitter they're fucking animals and they attack people
every day for having a pain.

Speaker 2 (01:27:23):
Then, but maybe they're not Hotel. That could be anybody
with an animal. That's the way that let's can catch it.
Hold on all right.

Speaker 7 (01:27:31):
Hold on, turn up past huh.

Speaker 2 (01:27:39):
You order on the mic?

Speaker 3 (01:27:49):
What what the hell is going on in this motherfucking
and this on the Today?

Speaker 2 (01:27:57):
Your and your social Yes, if you look up from
your phone, it's dead right in there. The question somebody asks,
is it is nasty? Yeah, today's been nasty Jewish candy?

Speaker 3 (01:28:16):
Yeah, I get it from n H. Whenever I go there,
I steal like a bowlert can has fire. I love
yeah still from an H. Damn, screw the sticker took the.

Speaker 2 (01:28:29):
Whole Look I love that on his stomach. Damn. All right,
can we get a little serious. Are all right? I
don't want to get serious. This is fun. You always
want to ruin the fun.

Speaker 12 (01:28:46):
Man right now, it doesn't matter what you do, it's wrong.

Speaker 2 (01:28:49):
Like if I'm.

Speaker 12 (01:28:50):
Kind and soft to my kids, then I'm going to
raise a son who is not going to be masculine
and from a heart on him, and I screamed, I'm
creating trauma. There's no way for men in this world
like to exist without offending someone. And it just seems
like that's becoming a trend where now more men is
be like, you know what, I ain't gonna say it,
do nothing, and then women be like, well, the men
ain't men. It's like, how do you want me to

(01:29:10):
men when you're taking.

Speaker 2 (01:29:11):
Away my power to do anything.

Speaker 12 (01:29:13):
Had a conversation, this is a true conversation with a
bunch of women who were single, and it were just like, Deval,
do you think you, as a husband should be able
to control where Kadean goes? And I was just like,
I don't think I should control, but I would like
to know where she's going because I'm responsible for protecting her.
And they were just like, well, you don't have to
know what she's going to protect her, and I said,
wait a minute, it's my job to protect you, and
you don't feel like you should tell me what you're doing.

(01:29:34):
And they said, no, you had a bunch of women
who are not in relationships with the overwhelming loud voice
of I should not have to do this, but you
still have to do this for me. They're just saying,
I'm a woman, I have my opinion, and I'm like,
this should be a conversation here. It shouldn't be. Your
way is the only right way. And I have to
coward because I'm a man.

Speaker 2 (01:29:51):
And say no, I'm surprised you should your head. Yes,
I da said, so he should be able to control
where she could go. It's not a control, it's just
a check in.

Speaker 7 (01:30:04):
Like you can't like, you can't tell me that I
can't go somewhere.

Speaker 8 (01:30:09):
But I don't have a problem telling you where I'm going.

Speaker 2 (01:30:12):
That's weird. Do you tell him everywhere that you go?

Speaker 8 (01:30:14):
Here's my location? He always knows where I am.

Speaker 2 (01:30:17):
Do you tell him everywhere that you go, like, Yo,
I'm going out with such and such, I'm going to
the bar.

Speaker 7 (01:30:23):
No, but if he asked, I would, and he also
has my location. I don't have to have that conversation.

Speaker 2 (01:30:31):
Why do people feel like they have to mess Maybe
that's just not the person for you. She could think
how she thinks, and he could think that you think,
and that's just not the relationship for you. I don't
want to sit in debate things with my partner that
we just it's just I think we're just trying to
make a square peg for a circle, or it just
doesn't matter. Oh you find somebody that you said, yeah,

(01:30:53):
like what he said, Like, oh, no, I feel like
there should be some communication. No, she's she believes in
this and you believe in that, and y'all and be together.
How long you've been single? I've never been single?

Speaker 3 (01:31:09):
How long have you When is the last time you
win a committed relationship with somebody with a woman that
you were actively pursuing as a love interest, you guys,
because he'd be like, I'm in a relationship with God, Like, nah,
last time you had a committed relationship with somebody?

Speaker 2 (01:31:27):
Oh, last time I was in a committed relationship. I
don't even know how to answer that intel exactly.

Speaker 3 (01:31:33):
And so you, as a single person sound like the
women that Kadeen was talking about, because you're always gonna
have if you're in a relationship with somebody, there's no
way that y'all was just born for each other everything
works out.

Speaker 2 (01:31:45):
That's just not how life it is.

Speaker 3 (01:31:46):
You're gonna have to have compromise communications with to find
out what works for that situation.

Speaker 2 (01:31:53):
That's just how it is. Or you can bring up
or you could just.

Speaker 3 (01:31:57):
Be single forever. That's just going to happen. You just
wind up being single forever and you just use up
whatever fun times, and once it stops being fun, you're like,
all right, well I'm out of here.

Speaker 2 (01:32:07):
So you don't think you're ever going to come across
somebody that agrees with you on everything. Though it doesn't
have to be anything on everything. You know, Yeah, but
it doesn't have to be everything. It's just the things
that you don't want to change. If that's how he
wants to lead a household, that's something that he doesn't
find compromisible, that's it. And then that's how she wants
to be let then we're going to argue about things

(01:32:32):
that can't be changed, Like these things can be changed.
You telling me where you're going, That's what I'm saying.
If you're going to a social function, so I know
that's something that can be changed. It's just consideration. That's
what I said. We're going to argue about things that
can't be changed. I want to save my arguments for
those things that can be changed. If you don't want
to change it, or you feel like it's something you

(01:32:53):
want to die on the hill for, then die on
the hill. I don't. It's nothing. I'm not going to
argue with somebody about how they want their life to be.
I think men have a problem more than women have
a problem with this. And the reason why I say.

Speaker 3 (01:33:04):
That is because we're so used to I think, and
I'm speaking about me, right. You get in a relationship
and all of a sudden you feel somewhat like I
don't want to say on a leash, but control, Like
you gotta do these things that make her feel comfortable
that you're not used to doing for nobody else. You're
used to just being yourself, doing what you want to do.
And all of a sudden, she needs to know this,

(01:33:25):
and why did you do that? And you can't got
to come in by this time a night or whatever,
and it's like, oh, these are things that are respectful
in a relationship. You can't move like this anymore because
you're in a relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:33:35):
You have to be considerate. And I think that women generally.

Speaker 3 (01:33:42):
Will move in a way that it makes sense or
it's like, Yo, that's just a lady like to move
like that in a relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:33:48):
But guys, it's like Yo, this is a whole new world.

Speaker 3 (01:33:52):
It's a whole new world, and it's just very uncomfortable
for us to do that, and it kind of takes
us off out.

Speaker 2 (01:33:58):
I agree that if you want my location, you can
have it, but I'm not going to argue with somebody
who doesn't want it. And I feel like it's something
that is for your safety or our safety, the same
way you don't want to be with a broke person.
It's just what works for your your relationship. I could
be with a broke person. I'm not looking for my
partner that I have money. I'm looking for other things
and my partner. It's just that's it. No, No, no,

(01:34:23):
what what do you mean?

Speaker 9 (01:34:24):
No?

Speaker 3 (01:34:24):
I think he runs he's running circles of runner ship,
but not yo, when you're in a relationship, it's just
what you're saying. I get on a global scale, like
find somebody that works for you. Yeah, yeah, that makes sense. Yeah,
everything's not going to work all the time. Even if
that's the person that works, You're going to have to
part the compromise your behavior certain things.

Speaker 2 (01:34:46):
If I don't want to eat pasta tonight, I'll eat
pasta and I order whatever I could eat on it,
or I'll try some new things. You're doing the apples
and candalos. Come on, I do this, don't. I want
to live my life. Pasta is not a RELI relationship discussion.
So what is it that in that scenario he just.

Speaker 3 (01:35:03):
Said consideration on no like whether she so, he was asked,
do you get to control where she goes?

Speaker 2 (01:35:12):
Like?

Speaker 3 (01:35:12):
What if she he says like, Yo, I don't feel
comfortable with you over there. I want you want to
go to Wingate Park and I'm not with you. You're going
by yourself. I know they got shootings over there every
other concert, but you know you want to go see
spragu A Bens. I don't feel comfortable with you going
over there by yourself.

Speaker 2 (01:35:31):
And that's all you can do is voice it. That's it.
If she chooses to go and gets slapped while listening
to Spragua Bens, then you have the decision whether you
make yourself uncomfortable by going over there to protect your
woman or stay in the house and saying I told
you so, what do you think about what I'm saying?
I want to go see right? So you want to go?

Speaker 3 (01:35:52):
Now what if I'm like, Yo, that's not safe. It's
literally twenty thousand yams over there. I'm in Miami right now.
I don't want you care.

Speaker 2 (01:36:03):
I don't want you going to see Spragua bends with.
You can't save me anyway because you're not why you
stay in the house. And that's why I said, you're
gonna compromise on the things you can compromise Yesterday, I'm
a bugging here.

Speaker 8 (01:36:17):
I got to stay in the house while you out
of town.

Speaker 2 (01:36:21):
I chose it for a reason.

Speaker 3 (01:36:23):
You there's nothing but.

Speaker 2 (01:36:26):
But you can't.

Speaker 5 (01:36:27):
But you can't be out and tell her she can't
go out.

Speaker 2 (01:36:29):
That's a little nuts out of town, out of town.
But it has to work on a woman that you
want to obviously don't want to live the same life.
She wants to do what she wants to do, and
you want to have something. You want her to listen
to you. She you want to lead, She doesn't want
to be led in that way. Y'all don't need to
be together, because what's gonna happen is she's gonna go
to wing Gate. Something's going to happen, which you know

(01:36:50):
is going to happen. Then you're going to have to
put yourself in a position to either protect her or
it's actually a mind fuck because you're not gonna protect her.
Whatever happened already happened to her. So you're going to
put yoursel up in a place to get revenge and
find some more.

Speaker 3 (01:37:03):
Or just feel incredibly angry that she put herself in
that situation after he had.

Speaker 2 (01:37:07):
The more you continue to be with somebody that's not
on your life path is the more you put yourself
in these positions. That's why I said you might as
well just leave. You might as well just leave. It
doesn't work. You're gonna go over there and get yourself
shot or go to jail to avenge your girlfriend if
you told not that. Nobody in here thinks that the
conversation and compromise works in this because she can go
to like Met Life Stadium, right, I don't want you

(01:37:30):
going to wing Gate, and she's like she wants you
don't here no more. You literally just got irked by
a stabbing on the train. By stabbing, yes, I got earth?
Is that like, yeah, you knew Brooklyn now like you
ain't even from here no more. You're not from here
no more? You really like Brooklyn and Jason gentrified book.

Speaker 7 (01:37:55):
The best part about it is I can see the
whole New York City skyline from my house, and here
we go.

Speaker 2 (01:38:00):
I'm married. I haven't here talking about carry? Do you
think I'm bugging? I think this always happens. This is everyone.

Speaker 7 (01:38:14):
For the last four weeks, it's just been me versus
three niggas.

Speaker 2 (01:38:18):
You didn't answer the question carry. You said some other
ship that had nothing. I saw a whole another.

Speaker 3 (01:38:22):
What do you think about if I say, listen, I
don't feel comfortable with you going to win gig.

Speaker 5 (01:38:33):
Comfort.

Speaker 2 (01:38:34):
So what if it is order? It ain't no orders
in my house? You think you are don't want to
spend money? And who said that? Me? I spent.

Speaker 3 (01:38:53):
She knows mine as well, we share finances. How would
that me knowing what she got?

Speaker 8 (01:38:58):
Going on locations? And I'm going to see Sparga bands?

Speaker 2 (01:39:02):
What right now? When I see him running down running down.

Speaker 7 (01:39:16):
Miami you're doing your own thing, running down Maple running,
not even Winrow, not even Paramore.

Speaker 2 (01:39:25):
I mean the more your niggas is running down Maple exactly,
a free concert exactly.

Speaker 5 (01:39:36):
No, No, I'm not rolling with that though, So why
I'm not a fan of telling women they can't This.

Speaker 2 (01:39:43):
Man is a dictator. We just sat here and talking
about kittens.

Speaker 5 (01:39:49):
Said, I'm in Miami, I'm living my feet is up
his ass around, But you can't go to sparga bands that.

Speaker 2 (01:39:54):
Winds in Miami.

Speaker 3 (01:39:55):
I could be I just said that, But my point is, Yo,
I don't want you going somewhere. But if you was
with your homego else, or if you was going, like
you want to go by yourself to a free concert
where niggas get shot every other weekend.

Speaker 2 (01:40:07):
I don't feel safe with you going there. What women
say shit like that about us to us all the
time too, things that they don't feel comfortable with us doing.
But do we listen most of the time. I should
be cat, do are you going?

Speaker 3 (01:40:20):
If she says, yo, I don't feel comfortable what you're doing,
that you're going depends on what it.

Speaker 2 (01:40:24):
Is to be safe and the nigga gonna go outside
and you get your cheek and you're like, all right, baby,
be safe, and you're still gonna go. Yeah, most likely exactly.
I'm lying. I'm lying. I'm going they just got candy
from Ben h crazy Joe Buddens. Would never you said, yeah, this.

Speaker 3 (01:40:45):
Cookies in there, Kerry in front of you, Like no,
why'd you look to the right the cookies in front
of you?

Speaker 2 (01:40:51):
Look right there in front of you, right there? Who's
the cookies? Yea, christ yo, oh, some might go get
this girl something to put in my mouth. Please pause, God,
it's crazy. That's tough. Yea are those Grandma cookies? Yeah?

(01:41:16):
It's something. Yeah, what yo? Those are those?

Speaker 5 (01:41:23):
Why do you have Why do you have a bag
of Lindens?

Speaker 2 (01:41:26):
Why do I have cookies in the media room? No?
Those are those like the old cookies, bro dear cookies.
What the did you see? What you started with this podcast?

Speaker 3 (01:41:37):
You start, you started, and now the conversation is just
it's never been this, It's really never been this way.
You got yesterday over here asking if they're Linden's cookies?

Speaker 2 (01:41:47):
Why do you have cookies? These are where your podcast?
I'm gonna come with topics written down. When's When's the
next time, y'all do this next week? All right, next week?
Next week? Yeah, I don't know. You said it like
a question, but you said it like yeah, I said
it like I just don't Yeah, that's kind of.

Speaker 3 (01:42:10):
Your man said, bring someone with you, exactly, Yeah, exactly.
I don't want you going by yourself. Like I said,
this should be compromised.

Speaker 2 (01:42:17):
Pay for the security detail.

Speaker 8 (01:42:19):
Pay for the security detail. It's crazy a wing gate.

Speaker 2 (01:42:23):
I don't know. I don't know.

Speaker 8 (01:42:25):
I don't I will defer to what my husband said,
I would bring.

Speaker 2 (01:42:28):
Someone with me. I just feel like that. How do
y'all argue about so much stuff? I don't argue about shit.
That's not arguing. It's compromise communication. That's what happens in relationships,
especially when y'all together for mad long, especially when you're married. Y'all,
y'all communicate, y'all figure out what works and what doesn't work,
and y'all move forward aligned as a team.

Speaker 7 (01:42:50):
But I could also bring somebody with me, and then
both of us get shot, and then what now? I
just put somebody in jeopardy for what?

Speaker 2 (01:42:55):
For safety at the end of the day, is it's
safer if you're with somebody than by yourself.

Speaker 8 (01:43:01):
It's easier to run with you by yourself.

Speaker 2 (01:43:06):
No, y'all split up. When you run anywhere, you're gonna
be by yourself if you're running a lot of criminal aspect. Well,
y'all broke this ship down into some bullshit. Why yeah,
I was.

Speaker 8 (01:43:21):
Just candyout business.

Speaker 2 (01:43:24):
You pick that candy up nobody. You didn't even ask
if you could have it. You just went and took it.
So you put it in your mouth, and now you
call it supposed to ask. You know, I'm saying that
you was I supposed to ask. I might have told
you that's nasty, don't put in your mouth, and you
knew it was nasty.

Speaker 7 (01:43:42):
I don't know what you like protected.

Speaker 2 (01:43:48):
I'm just is this like how the compromise goes in
your brain? We're not in a relationship, well, not in
that type of relationship, okay, So only in that relationship
do you come from us? Yeah, you don't friendship my Yes,
of course I do. You should know that, both of
y'all should know that what the fuck you compromise over?

Speaker 3 (01:44:06):
This one gets bothered by me saying I'm not going
to an event with my friend and I had something
else going, and she's like, well, you gonna call him?

Speaker 2 (01:44:14):
I'm like, no, I'm not. He's in the middle of
his event. What am I call him and tell him
I'm not coming for?

Speaker 8 (01:44:21):
He was not at the time.

Speaker 10 (01:44:25):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:44:27):
I don't want to any trouble. Why am I called?
Why do I have to call you to tell you
I'm not coming?

Speaker 7 (01:44:32):
So you were invited somewhere and you realized that you
were not going to be able to make it to
that somewhere, So why would you not tell the person, Hey,
I'm not going to be able to make it, but
I hope that your event goes well.

Speaker 2 (01:44:44):
What what in the middle of the event?

Speaker 7 (01:44:48):
It was not in the middle of No, it was not.
It was no, it was not because I walked in
when the niggas walked in. We walked in together.

Speaker 2 (01:44:53):
But it was scheduled from before the time that it
was at But black people always doesn't matter. It was
scheduled from for the time where it was when we
were having that conversation. To me, here, you're in the
middle of your event.

Speaker 3 (01:45:05):
I'm not calling to tell you some other shit I
told you tomorrow?

Speaker 2 (01:45:09):
Did you I hit them because of you compromise? What
did you.

Speaker 3 (01:45:12):
Say, I'll tell you right now, tell me. I said, yo,
I was gonna stop buy and give hugs before my
show tonight, but I'm not going to have time.

Speaker 2 (01:45:27):
Uh. Congratulations blah blah blah and all of and love
all around me. When you said that at four fifteen.

Speaker 7 (01:45:34):
The day of the ship that you just said that
you wasn't gonna do that, you did anyway.

Speaker 2 (01:45:39):
When we had them, when we had the conversation, I
compromised and did that instead of said no when I
asked you to just do. What'sn't the conversation about compromising
is that the compromise, the compromise I didn't call. I
sent the text and went about my business, explaining every

(01:46:00):
everything like yo, I was gonna try, I mean, not
gonna make it. Is this usually how you beat on your.

Speaker 7 (01:46:06):
Look, I appreciate you. Look at the appreciation because you
wasn't gonna say shit at all. You was just gonna
say fuck it.

Speaker 2 (01:46:12):
Yes, m dickhead. So if it wasn't for.

Speaker 3 (01:46:17):
Me, that's not the point, right, the browbeating that she's doing.
I compromise.

Speaker 2 (01:46:23):
And what the question was is do you compromise in
all of your relationships? Yes? I do, but you you
feel like you compromise for her, for that person.

Speaker 3 (01:46:34):
I considered the information I was given and I put
it into play.

Speaker 2 (01:46:38):
Hey, it's not gonna take me nothing to text. I
think that once you're telling me. She said to me,
he's gonna feel a way if you don't. I didn't
think he would feel away. People.

Speaker 7 (01:46:48):
Most people will feel away if they invite you to
something personal and you decide not to come and you
don't say shit.

Speaker 2 (01:46:57):
I don't think man things like that. I will hope
they don't. I don't really feel are you good exactly?

Speaker 3 (01:47:05):
I hit you tomorrow and be like, Yo, how was
it that yo? I couldn't make it. I had to
do something else with.

Speaker 2 (01:47:09):
Yoships the greatest friendship that you could ever have. It's
not wrapped up in a motion where oh, you didn't
come to my barbecue, but you expect me to come.
It's like make it. If I make it, I don't
if I don't. When I do, I do, and women.

Speaker 7 (01:47:26):
There's nothing wrong with not making it. But I do
think there's something wrong with not being considerate enough to
say I'm sorry I can't make it.

Speaker 2 (01:47:35):
It's very simple. How personal is this? It's just like
a personal it's like a christening is basically no, I
still don't give a as long as the kid was there.
Everything is optional, like, nobody's mandated except for the and

(01:47:55):
you got yo. We have a big friend circle, so
it's a lot of people like it's not like but
I think counting my mic and don't even like you
get what I'm saying, Like, I don't like if I
have a birthday party and I invite twenty people but
only three people show up, I'm going to focus on
having a great time with the three people that showed up.
I'm not going through the list and oh fucking Darnell

(01:48:17):
didn't even fucking shure.

Speaker 7 (01:48:22):
But that's not talking about like, I'm not talking about
being upset at your friend for not showing up. I'm
just saying that there's an air of consideration when you're
close to somebody or women.

Speaker 2 (01:48:34):
Okay, women go through that. She goes look, she wants
more cookies some yo. Yeah I don't. I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:48:41):
Women go through that and women actually cut friends off.
Yeah behind that, women actual will cut.

Speaker 8 (01:48:47):
Friends off off of consideration.

Speaker 7 (01:48:50):
Yes, I will cut somebody off that I feel like
is not considerate of me. The same way, if we're
gonna loop this all the way around, how men feel
a certain type of way when their efforts go unappreciated.

Speaker 8 (01:49:03):
Everybody has feelings.

Speaker 2 (01:49:04):
The effort is for the person. So if I bought
you a car and I feel unappreciated, you had a
christener that was opened towards many people, it's not specifically
for me. If you had the christening for my son
and then I didn't bring the kid, we're not coming,
then I can understand you being upset.

Speaker 7 (01:49:22):
It's not about being upset, like there are other feelings
other than like mad, happy, sad. Right, it's just disappointment
for the lack of consideration.

Speaker 2 (01:49:33):
I feel like that's one of the things when you
grow up with a father, you just you do. You
have other things that you could be disappointed. You're wasting
your disappointment. Somebody didn't send you a text message like,
it's so much worse things. You could be disappointed at
what you have too many good things going on, Yeah,
I got too many things to be worried about. Effort

(01:49:57):
must have a great life. You're disappointed you get a
text message? What you just seen? Somebody that person that
got stabbed on the train. He had some fucking disappointment.
He paid three dollars and seventy five cents for that.
Yeah yeah, bull today. Yeah, Yo, that's him. It's literally

(01:50:20):
all right. It was. Imagine how many barbecues have have
have I thrown three? How many of you can't to one?
What I wasn't invited to the other ones. We have
to work on look and holding onto it, because why

(01:50:42):
would he even remember I'm not I'm lying. I'm lying,
That's what I'm saying. He hit me the day of like, yo,
do a little something today. But I don't take none
of that personal.

Speaker 7 (01:50:50):
If you invite me, that's not even something, that's not
even of the same magnets.

Speaker 2 (01:50:54):
He's trying to get the fine niggas in the building
for the women, trying to get the niggas. That's the
only reason, yo, yo, Thank y'all, man, thank y'all. This
has been a great episode. Fact ship, we're all tired.

Speaker 3 (01:51:13):
Carrie is hungry. She's devouring my Jewish candy in the back.
I'm trying to get her away from it.

Speaker 2 (01:51:19):
It is right, Yes, Jews do it better?

Speaker 5 (01:51:24):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, so shameless.

Speaker 2 (01:51:32):
Color. Which one did you eat? You never go for
the for yellow? Who goes for yellow? Only I can
think of the banana.

Speaker 7 (01:51:46):
It was

Speaker 2 (01:51:47):
Lemons, lemon

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