Why Is Tahoe Like This??? (Part Two)

Welcome Back to Part Two yall!

We continue the convo about womens affect on mens homophobia, the idea that women also abuse women when they are young, yesssterday is a contrarian, going on a trip after your partner has a traumatic event, and more! ENJOY!!!

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
If you know what I'm saying, so so shameless, if
you know what I'm saying, so shameless, If you know
what I'm saying, socious, so shameless, so so souless.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
If you know what I'm saying, so.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Shameless, If you know what I'm saying, so shameless, If
you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
So why is it that a man that only likes
to have sex with women but don't actually like women
in their totality?

Speaker 2 (00:53):
Why are they allowed to be straight.

Speaker 4 (00:55):
Because maybe they don't understand women in it. I mean,
this is a long term problem of men and women
not getting along. Men from mars, women from being us right.
So you could be an old man and still not
really understand women. So that understanding or lack of understanding
could turn into frustration and dislike. It depends on how

(01:19):
to what level it gets to.

Speaker 5 (01:20):
But I could.

Speaker 4 (01:21):
See somebody like not liking women but still being attracted
to them physically and sexually.

Speaker 6 (01:27):
I also think that we're taking out away mammy issues
and the fact that a lot of those men didn't
have fathers or had mothers that told them this and
told them that or beat them or just made them
feel inferior. And a lot of the problems that men
have in dating relate back to the relationship they had
with their mother.

Speaker 5 (01:47):
It's the same thing, so hard to come off to all.
It's the same thing.

Speaker 7 (01:50):
How where certain women who've had issues with their dads,
you know what I'm saying, how they show up in
relationships or the lack thereof, it's the same thing with men.
Sometimes I just think that it's viewed differently because you know,
obviously them the men. It's kind of like, yo, niggo,
you know why you not doing this, why you're not
doing that? But it's the same thing. If you flip
it on. You know, a woman with you know, farther issues,
it's kind of easier to understand, you know what I'm saying.

(02:11):
When it's like, you know, she has a lack of something,
or you know, she's missing a mark on certain things,
you can kind of identify it and say, Okay, I
can see we're we're m we're we're not connecting. But
that's where a guy is kind of like, n nigga,
why you didn't figure that out? Why you didn't get
over that, Why you didn't you know why you caught
up on that type shit, so it's not the same
level of grace I would say, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (02:32):
I think I I think I spent a lot of
time thinking about things that really are really none of
my fucking business. But I just be thinking about things,
just trying to make sense of things that don't necessarily
make sense to me. M and I just don't. I
just want people to to be free to be whoever
the fuck they wanna be. I want black men to
be able to be bisexual. I want them to be

(02:52):
able to experiment with whoever they wanna be experimented with
and not be labeled and not be pigeonholed into like
a certain space. Like I think that some times, as
black women, we have more grace to explore things without judgment,
and I think that.

Speaker 2 (03:07):
That is a human right, not a gender right.

Speaker 7 (03:11):
Or being held to it. I was saying because I
feel like it's not more so about the label. It's
just like, like you said, women can do stuff and
can just move off of it, right, you have experience
with a woman and just be like, you know, it
wasn't for me and it's completely removed from my life.

Speaker 6 (03:24):
You know what?

Speaker 7 (03:24):
I'm saying it's just completely removed. But as a guy,
it's like the society around the guy will keep him
in that, like we won't let him escape from that
because you know, we'll use that to continuously remind him
of you know what box exactly.

Speaker 6 (03:40):
So you remember that girl and we're gonna we have
a clip with her on today's show, Aman that she
was from the eighth of the table. Yeah, and you
took out the closet on the show. He was like,
I don't think that you guys realized she don't like niggas.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
I didn't take her outs.

Speaker 6 (03:59):
You outed her on the I didn't out her out
of her on the show.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
I did not out her. I just read the room.

Speaker 5 (04:04):
Okay.

Speaker 6 (04:05):
She came on her the saw and I was like,
you know, she dates women and she's by She was like, no,
I'm not.

Speaker 5 (04:12):
What she was like, Yeah, that was the thing. It happened.

Speaker 6 (04:16):
I like women, I like men now, like I don't
even look at like literally just.

Speaker 5 (04:21):
Dropped her flag.

Speaker 6 (04:22):
She yes, she was in a whole relationship. She was
and now that didn't happen. It's over.

Speaker 5 (04:30):
I'm looking for dick now.

Speaker 2 (04:31):
And why is it that men can't do the same thing.

Speaker 5 (04:34):
I don't know because because women won't allow them. That
happened women. Women will allow the women to do that.

Speaker 7 (04:41):
You know what I'm saying. Women allowed, Just like how
she said it. She'll say that amongst a group of
ten women, and the woman will be like, They're like,
now I feel you girl. If a niggas say that,
it's like, oh this nigga, man, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (04:54):
So I don't want to be in competition with men exactly.
They'd be like, he like niggas.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
And you know why, I know that it's not men
leading to charge.

Speaker 6 (05:06):
Uh uh oh, got them.

Speaker 3 (05:10):
Because when niggas be fucking other niggas in jail, When
niggas be fucking other niggas in jail, niggas don't just
be running around like, oh this niggas gay. It's just like, oh,
this is the norm. This is what happens here. But
once you're outside of here, it's fine. You just straight again.

Speaker 8 (05:30):
No, no, no, niggas be fucking niggas in jail, yes, no,
handle no, it is not socially acceptible foras in jail.

Speaker 5 (05:40):
No, nigga.

Speaker 6 (05:43):
I remember being in jail, and I think I probably
told this. I've said all of my stories already that
I remember because I'm fifty. I got a million other stories,
but I don't forgot the more right, So just the ones
that I remember I speak on time and time again.

Speaker 5 (05:54):
I went to jail. I was in one jail.

Speaker 6 (05:57):
The nigga had lipstick, his shirt or tank top tied
in a Betty Boop type tank top like you know
what I mean with the tie in the middle of
the note.

Speaker 5 (06:09):
You know what I'm saying. He was switching everything.

Speaker 6 (06:12):
He was a hole and it was I remember him
because I was so shocked.

Speaker 5 (06:16):
Oh really that.

Speaker 6 (06:17):
A nigga was just walking around like this, like you
dead ass you are, Like this girl's in there, he's
a girl. Right when I left that jail, I wind
up going to another jail, which is where when when
you go through your bid you go to a high
classification joint. Then you get dropped down and once your
classification drops, they can't have you in this jail around

(06:39):
the people with the higher classifications say throw you to
a minimum. That's where you wind up coming to see
me at Butler. I was there for a couple of months.
The nigga comes through. He's a whole nigga. Now, oh
really he no, he's walking like straight nigger.

Speaker 5 (06:56):
And I'm talking.

Speaker 6 (06:57):
I wind up saying to my man, Mega, this nigga
I was I was working out with and all that, Like.

Speaker 5 (07:02):
Yo, that nigga was.

Speaker 6 (07:04):
He's like, yeah, he's going home now, He's not going
to go home the same way he was up north.

Speaker 2 (07:09):
He's got to go back to Is that nigga not gay?

Speaker 6 (07:13):
He's yes, bye, He's bye because he is. This girl
was coming to visit him. Nigga, I've been on the
dance floor and I was looking at his girl wondering,
because you remember this is.

Speaker 5 (07:22):
You gotta remember this is I'm looking at his girl wondering.

Speaker 3 (07:26):
Yes, they treated him as if he was gay, but
then understood that he had a girl, so he was
able to live both lives.

Speaker 5 (07:36):
Not respectively and not in the inner circle. We knew.
We let him live because it's like, Yo, who was
what do you mean? He was on a dance floor.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
That's what they called the visiting the dance.

Speaker 6 (07:47):
Dancing.

Speaker 4 (07:48):
I don't know how this works, but I feel like
it might be a little different because it's extreme. It's
extreme circumstances and does have to do with because now
it's maybe survival.

Speaker 6 (08:00):
I don't wait a minute, if it's twenty five to life,
who doing indon that?

Speaker 9 (08:05):
You?

Speaker 5 (08:05):
Would you? Would you? And the niggas on you? Would you? No?
Of course not why because.

Speaker 2 (08:11):
You're not gay? Because ain't nothing in a word.

Speaker 5 (08:14):
You're done.

Speaker 2 (08:15):
You can't come home.

Speaker 6 (08:15):
You're done, You're done, it's over.

Speaker 5 (08:18):
You can't come home, would you? Listen? I'm not gonna
do that. But my question is.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
No, because because when you really straight, even in dire
circumstances and strengths, there's not much that's gonna make you
fuck a nigga or suck a dick like you that
has to be somewhere in in your mind somewhere.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
Which is why this is something that people already, They
already have these thoughts and feelings. You gotta let niggas be.

Speaker 4 (08:51):
So I didn't get a chance to look this up yet.
I was about to look it up, but I don't
know the definition of being gay. But isn't it a preference?

Speaker 5 (09:01):
Is it?

Speaker 4 (09:01):
Is it like I prefer this this gender, So if
that gender is not available, is the preference no longer there?
So maybe there's like a loophole. No tonically being gay.

Speaker 5 (09:14):
I don't know, preference, I don't know.

Speaker 7 (09:16):
I think the jail situation is different because jail is
the only situation that that the that force is applicable there.

Speaker 5 (09:23):
And I think that's no, I'm.

Speaker 7 (09:24):
That serious, like that's forces, yes, but it is, that's
a that's a real thing.

Speaker 4 (09:28):
Here's why I said survival like maybe I don't know.

Speaker 6 (09:32):
I got a clip to play from Ships and Giggles,
y'all knows and Giggles, Oh my god, I love them.

Speaker 5 (09:38):
I answer your question. I guess the answer is just no.

Speaker 10 (09:41):
Do you think you could actually make it twenty five
to life without Clark and the bread if there were,
if there was, you know, if they were, Yeah, I'm
it and I'm talking okay, that's not saying yeah, top
if I'm.

Speaker 11 (09:57):
Actually actually actually deep in it, but my mindset and
the life of a prisoner, the answer obviously is not
you it.

Speaker 5 (10:05):
I won't be able to make it. But I also
the thing is.

Speaker 11 (10:08):
I can't disassociate the food head off right now, because
I also can't justify the reason as to why.

Speaker 5 (10:14):
I won't be able to make if that makes sense.

Speaker 11 (10:16):
Yeah, yeah, you're asking me this now, and I think
it right now.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
Of course I can make it.

Speaker 11 (10:21):
Yeah, examply thirty four years if I getting top from
a guy, because why am I?

Speaker 2 (10:25):
Do you see what I'm saying? Do you se what
I'm saying?

Speaker 11 (10:28):
If I go down today, I'm not being able to
receive the top again unless it's from a man.

Speaker 5 (10:33):
Twenty five to two.

Speaker 11 (10:35):
Yeah, perspectives might shift.

Speaker 3 (10:38):
Fair perspectives by shift.

Speaker 6 (10:42):
And this is where I feel I'm way too heterosexual
because I can't even imagine. I can't even like they
are some free nickers right there for them, they even
maybe to say that out loud.

Speaker 4 (10:57):
So kind said, I had to look it up, right.
So Gay and Webster Dictionary of relating to or characterized
bisexual or romantic attraction to people of one same sex. Yes,
So could that be a temporary romantic attraction?

Speaker 9 (11:16):
No?

Speaker 3 (11:16):
Because then that's why there are other things. That's why
there's bisexual, there's pan sexual, like there are different categories
for that.

Speaker 2 (11:23):
Like I'm pan sexual.

Speaker 3 (11:25):
I'm attracted to people not because of their genitalia, but
because of who they are, which means that I can
date anybody depending on.

Speaker 2 (11:32):
Who you are.

Speaker 3 (11:33):
So I'm not pigeonholed into this one thing if you're
gay is because as far as man and man, if
you're gay, because you are sexually romantically attracted to men, period.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
It's the end of that sentence.

Speaker 3 (11:47):
If you are lesbian, you are sexually or romantically attracted
to women, period. If you are bisexual, you are sexually
or romantically attracted to men and women, period. Like there
is no like ellipses that comes after that. Like that
is where your attraction, in your sexual prowess lives.

Speaker 5 (12:08):
To being pigeonholed to women.

Speaker 4 (12:09):
Though, I think, I just I think what you said
just made something makes sense. So I don't think these
guys or I don't know, but some of these guys
in jail probably are pan sexual. They just they just
want to get their dick suck. They don't care if
it's a man or woman. There are no women around,
so now they.

Speaker 2 (12:25):
Got to, you know, find a feminine man.

Speaker 6 (12:29):
That's too freaky. That's not freak.

Speaker 5 (12:36):
You just if you can't.

Speaker 6 (12:38):
Because it's not it's a matter convenience. It's like, yo, well,
ain't no bitches in here, might as well one of
these niggas that don't.

Speaker 2 (12:44):
Make sense to me.

Speaker 5 (12:44):
Yeah, that's crazy, that's crazy.

Speaker 6 (12:49):
Well that don't make sense to me.

Speaker 5 (12:51):
Me, it don't make it.

Speaker 4 (12:53):
I'll just not get ahead, like that's just me. But
maybe if you're paying sexual.

Speaker 5 (12:58):
All right, great conversation, y'all.

Speaker 2 (13:03):
Right on the tail and a Pride month. This is crazy.

Speaker 5 (13:06):
And you know what, shout out to people the.

Speaker 6 (13:10):
Community just because for one, y'all killed this month's episode
of heart. So we have so many.

Speaker 5 (13:19):
Yeah, we did trans we did lesbian, we did.

Speaker 6 (13:22):
We actually had a stud come on and she was
telling us how its studs can't drop a flat like
you cannot suck ad dick and still be considered the study.
You cannot be penetrated some of the group chats. And
she's thirty some years old and it's still technically a virgin. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (13:45):
I think that they called a golden star, a gold
star lesbian. Yeah, gold star. She ain't never been touched
by a nigga. Shout out to her or any or woman.

Speaker 5 (13:53):
No penetration.

Speaker 2 (13:54):
I had a stud friend.

Speaker 3 (13:59):
And we did speak for years and somehow like we
wind up like reconnecting on Facebook or something like that,
and I found out that she had a kid the
way my group chat went up that day and I
like I saw the pictures of her pregnant and ship.

Speaker 2 (14:13):
I said, you know what else? You know what's super
gay to me?

Speaker 3 (14:20):
This is my toxic and I'm being toxic. The gayest
ship I've ever seen is two studs dating that ship.
That ship I cannot.

Speaker 6 (14:31):
Because at least the two niggas is acting like one
of them is at least acting feminine.

Speaker 3 (14:34):
No, not necessarily true, because you can have two masculine
men and even that don't they don't.

Speaker 2 (14:40):
Seeing two studs together.

Speaker 3 (14:42):
That ship like it's like a mind blow, like blows
my mind, like when I see a girl.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (14:54):
I remember that, I remember being on the lesbian websites
and bitches be like studs for stud I said.

Speaker 6 (14:59):
What, Drew, Drew, be careful with these clips.

Speaker 5 (15:03):
I know you watching Pride Month.

Speaker 2 (15:07):
Chill out.

Speaker 5 (15:08):
I understand, Like I see what you're trying to do.

Speaker 6 (15:12):
Chill out all right now for those of you all
who are listening, Drew as our editor, I do have,
I'm gonna make it a little bit more serious here.
I'm sorry. After the serious, we got some fun.

Speaker 2 (15:23):
I always just want to play games, bro.

Speaker 6 (15:25):
I actually have some games too, But ship we're running on?
What's this one? Fifty, so got about an hour left.
All right, No, Randy Rosario, your friend baby. Shout out
to her for having her getting a new show. I
believe she's like doing a court thing now.

Speaker 2 (15:43):
Yeah, I saw that. That's so cute.

Speaker 5 (15:45):
Shout out to her.

Speaker 6 (15:46):
Shout out to people who are just making moves out here,
which I wish you the best and prosperity. She wrote
a post which is basically a bunch of words, and
the words are, by the way, trigger one of y'all.
If you have gone through some type of abuse, harassment,

(16:08):
anything like that, just understand it's a topic I want
to approach because it's not approached a lot. But just
you know, tread carefully. Everyone is always so focused on
quote unquote protect our girls from predatory men, But what
about the women. My first violation was from a woman

(16:33):
ten years my elder, my girl cousin.

Speaker 5 (16:36):
I was five.

Speaker 6 (16:37):
Then she knew better. But the focus is always is
it men over there? Don't let your daughter sit on
no man lap. The men in my family, the men
in my family protected me. A couple of the women
violated me physically and mentally. Picture someone forcefuitlyugh, picture someone

(17:08):
forcefully touching you, saying how much they love you, but
then also belittling you, telling you you're not pretty problematic
and whatever else. It got so bad that I refused
to go to my aunt's house. My mom noticed how
anti I was, and stood on business. Never made me
go around any when I wasn't comfortable around. She put
me in every sport possible and kept me occupied. Studies

(17:30):
show ninety percent of autistic women have experienced some sort
of sexual assault. Thirty three percent of women with ADHD
have been as well. Pay attention to them kids, no
alone play, no playing house, none of that. Also teach
the older kids that is their job to protect the babies,
not hurt them or take advantage of them. She goes

(17:52):
on to say she never pressed charges and whatnot. You know,
I've heard the reason I brought this up is because
I don't think it's something that we talk about a lot.

Speaker 5 (18:00):
And this is not.

Speaker 6 (18:03):
You know, we've we've spoken about women so much in
this episode. You know, they like how it hates women.
But I know a lot of women that have been
sexually assaulted by other women when they were young.

Speaker 5 (18:19):
I don't know a lot.

Speaker 6 (18:20):
I know three that is a lot. That's why it's
a lot like because hearing it, it's like, get the
fuck out of here, you know what I mean. But
it's something that nobody really talks about. Have you ever
heard about something like this?

Speaker 2 (18:38):
No that I mean obviously, I know that anything is possible.

Speaker 5 (18:42):
Do you ever think about it?

Speaker 6 (18:43):
And like you have a child, And I apologize for
saying that, do you.

Speaker 2 (18:49):
Consider it next anxiety?

Speaker 6 (18:51):
Yeah, when like they go to a woman's house, it
never crosses your mind.

Speaker 3 (18:57):
The way I think, the way that I was raised
in from what I know from lived experiences and experiences
of other women around me, I have always been way
more cautious of other men being in the house than
the women being in the house, or little boys being
in the house than little girls be in the house.
I'm very cognizant of the age ranges of the children

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that I allow my kids to have like play dates with,
Like they have to be around the same age, Like
Park is not about to go on a play date
with a twelve year old like Nigga.

Speaker 6 (19:30):
What girl with in my close family that in my
community that I had my first sexual experience with. Yeah,
and they were older than me.

Speaker 2 (19:44):
But I see that for boys to girls, I see that.

Speaker 3 (19:48):
I could see that in boys and girls, like I've
seen that, but I've never thought about girl and girl.

Speaker 6 (19:55):
I'm pretty sure they they did things with each other.

Speaker 2 (19:58):
I mean when I was young, I had an experience
with a little girl. But we was the same.

Speaker 3 (20:03):
Age, so I don't know, don't be creepy.

Speaker 2 (20:11):
We was the same age.

Speaker 3 (20:15):
We was We was being babysat by the same lady,
and she wanted to kiss me, and I love kiss me,
and we was kissing, and we used to hide and
kissing ship.

Speaker 2 (20:24):
That's when I've been gay a long time.

Speaker 3 (20:26):
But we were the same age, so I never thought
nothing about it.

Speaker 4 (20:30):
Trump you have children, it's a difficult conversation because, like
you said, it's just anxiety. It's like it's like fuck,
like there's so much shit to worry about, Like you know,
you're so focused on, you know, not having your daughters
around men, and then now you gotta worry about this ship.
But you know, if I had to like sum it
up the Moiler stories, you just can't have your kids

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around anybody you don't trust. Given the people that you trust,
how much do you trust them? It's like it's always loveless,
and you know, I know people that are like super protective,
and I might even label them over protective. Friends of
mine that have kids don't really have a strong support system,

(21:12):
so they just don't go out. They can't come out
unless it's somewhere they could bring their kids. And I
always be like, damn, you know this person, like you
know you should probably he's up a little bit. But
it's like, damn, now you hear ship like this. It's
like you can't. Can you really label people as over overprotective?

Speaker 2 (21:28):
Do you want me? Would you like me to make
it worse?

Speaker 5 (21:30):
Because I can make it worse.

Speaker 3 (21:34):
You can protect your children from playdates, but you can't
protect your children from school.

Speaker 2 (21:40):
And I've seen the.

Speaker 5 (21:44):
First in school. I didn't even know what kiss it was.

Speaker 3 (21:47):
Yeah, my first kiss was in school too, under the
under the chair in kindergarten.

Speaker 2 (21:51):
I kiss the girl.

Speaker 3 (21:53):
I remember, I've been down to pick something up from
under the chair. I was in kindergarten.

Speaker 2 (21:56):
I told you I've been gay alone time I was
in kindergarten. She kissed me. I kiss stuff back. I
never had issues with well, it was so.

Speaker 3 (22:04):
Yeah, like first of all, especially middle school, middle school,
I will say I am consistently as long as I
am in education. There is no world where my daughter
is gonna go to middle school in a school that

(22:26):
I do not work in. There is no world because
of the things that I've seen in middle school. It's
too crazy. I'm talking about the vaping. I'm talking about
the sexual stuff. I'm talking about girls going to the
bathroom and kissing each other in the stalls and touching
on each other, and the boys too, going in the

(22:48):
bathroom together, touching each other, all types of shit like
you can't fucking There's only but so much you can
protect your child from because you can't be everywhere all
the time unless you're going homeschool them and keep them
in the house with you all the time, I'm telling you,
And middle school is when the gay shit starts. That's
when the gay shit starts, and a vapor starts, and
a vapor is on a different level. I've never seen

(23:10):
no crackheadshit like this before in my life.

Speaker 4 (23:11):
Right, some more questions. I'm always solution oriented, Right, So
what do you do?

Speaker 5 (23:17):
Right?

Speaker 4 (23:17):
Because I know somebody that you know goes the homeschool route,
But then it's like.

Speaker 2 (23:21):
You miss out on the socialization exactly.

Speaker 4 (23:23):
So now they might have problems with socializing. So what
do you think.

Speaker 2 (23:31):
You want to say something?

Speaker 3 (23:34):
I can say something real fucked up. And the truth is,
you gotta let your kids experience some shit. You have
to have real life conversations with your kids. You have
to have an open dialogue with your kids where they
feel comfortable enough telling you about certain things without judgment
or persecution.

Speaker 2 (23:51):
Other than that, your kids are going to experience.

Speaker 3 (23:54):
A lot of shit that you have no idea about,
especially at the middle school age.

Speaker 2 (23:57):
And for a lot of people, middle school starts in
fifth grade. Good luck.

Speaker 3 (24:01):
Did you hear about the story recently about a group
of fifth grade girls threatened to kill a little boy
and had like a whole plan and everything, and they
got locked up, and it's like the whole thing, And
for me.

Speaker 6 (24:14):
One was supposed to get the knife, the other one's
supposed to load them to the bathroom.

Speaker 5 (24:17):
Yep. The other one's supposed to get the gloves, yep.

Speaker 2 (24:20):
And they got greatest.

Speaker 3 (24:21):
They all got arrested, and me working in middle school,
I was not surprised. And there were so many people
in the comments like, oh my god, fifth graders, they're
only this age and like, I confiscated death notes from
fifth grade. It's like literally kill notes of children's names
and how they want to kill them.

Speaker 5 (24:38):
That's fault.

Speaker 3 (24:39):
How is that my fault. That's anime's fault. That's the
fault of the people that women, the women it was.
It's an anime called women children watch.

Speaker 6 (24:48):
Women are watching Lifetime movies with their daughters.

Speaker 2 (24:51):
First of all, that's crazy because.

Speaker 6 (24:53):
I with your child.

Speaker 3 (24:58):
That specific and said it came from an anime. And
what a lot of people and parents need to understand
is just because it's a cartoon does not mean that
it's for kids. That's number one. You have to monitor
what your kids are watching. Call me a helicopter parent,
call me whatever the fuck you want to call me.
But it came from an anime. So kids are watching
this anime so that they come to school and they

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think that it's okay. I had a conversation with a
child and they was like, it's just a death note,
and I'm like, you said that you wanted to stab
this kid, You said that you wanted to drown this kid.
You wrote that you wanted to get this kid hit
by your car, and you're telling me that this is
normal because you saw it on an anime.

Speaker 2 (25:35):
Parents are just like, oh, they're watching cartoons.

Speaker 3 (25:37):
I was talking to my sister in law today and
I was just like, yo, y'all know, I love Love Island.

Speaker 2 (25:43):
I am a fan. My sister in law. Chill, chill, chill, chill, chill, chill.

Speaker 5 (25:49):
I try not to do it, but chill.

Speaker 3 (25:52):
And we were talking about Love Island and I said,
when I'm watching Love Island, if Parker walks in the room,
I pause it, or how to get the fuck out.

Speaker 6 (26:00):
There's another thing. Y'all romanticize these damn Love islands and
these two hips. What is the other one too hot
to handles? All of these damn that y'all got issues?
Women got issues?

Speaker 2 (26:10):
You know what violent is.

Speaker 6 (26:11):
I don't watch these silly ass shows with her because
y'all be in some type of weird fantasy world with
these shows. It's like, are y'all imagining you met your
perfect nigga? Like, y'all watch all of these shows, you
know what?

Speaker 2 (26:25):
That's what it is?

Speaker 6 (26:25):
What's the one where they behind there and pods and
they never even meet the motherfucker? Oh?

Speaker 2 (26:30):
I love that show.

Speaker 5 (26:31):
They're literally dating.

Speaker 6 (26:34):
Some ship.

Speaker 5 (26:37):
It's just Yo.

Speaker 6 (26:38):
All of these shows that y'all watch, y'all just sit
there and be soaking it up, nigga. And that's why
I like Amazing and mobster.

Speaker 2 (26:46):
Movies, because because because you're like, men need.

Speaker 6 (26:51):
To watch masculinel y'all, y'all women being y'all niggas that
all your niggas out there watching Love Island are weird.

Speaker 5 (26:57):
Yo.

Speaker 2 (26:57):
I got a question for you, Love Island party. Would
you come with me?

Speaker 5 (27:01):
I mean as a friend, not do whatever with you. Pause?

Speaker 3 (27:04):
But that's crazy because they're going to be having Love
Island on in like sports bars, like as if it's
like the.

Speaker 2 (27:12):
NBA Fightles type ship and it just be all.

Speaker 3 (27:14):
It'd be like two hundred women and cocktails and they
have the ship up on the screens.

Speaker 2 (27:19):
It's like a thing.

Speaker 5 (27:20):
Do you even hear what's going on.

Speaker 2 (27:22):
The same way you hear when the game is going
to everybody shuts the fuck up.

Speaker 5 (27:24):
You ain't been Nah.

Speaker 6 (27:28):
The room was quiet, nigga, silent while you watch this ship.
And then afterwards you're talking about.

Speaker 2 (27:33):
The whole show. I'm going to one on Monday.

Speaker 5 (27:36):
Hey, you're talking about lame.

Speaker 7 (27:38):
These Game of Thrones watch party at the bar that
sounds lame as hell.

Speaker 6 (27:42):
This is because he has a Drake friend.

Speaker 3 (27:44):
This is crazy as a Drake fan, and we always
on your side. You're just gonna call all our ship corny,
like this ship that.

Speaker 5 (27:49):
We just Game of Thrones of Nigga because you.

Speaker 3 (27:53):
Ain't never see the Red Wedding. If you ever seen
the Red Wedding, you would never say no, ship like that.

Speaker 5 (27:57):
Everybody like ship.

Speaker 6 (27:59):
I think everybody that thinks like and like that. I
think and listen. I know you're gonna say I disagree,
but this isn't just about you. I think there's a
section of this world of people that don't like bandwagoning
so much that any time everybody else says something is dope,
they just go to the other side. They are the

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people that when everybody loves iPhones, they say, no, I'm
just going to get an android.

Speaker 5 (28:25):
They're the people when everybody.

Speaker 6 (28:26):
Loves Beyonce, everybody's Beyonce. No, but Rihanna sold more people
in Game of Thrones.

Speaker 5 (28:34):
They watch it.

Speaker 6 (28:35):
They like, no, I'm never gonna watch that. They it's
a it's a consistent things.

Speaker 5 (28:45):
Most times, I'm letting y'all know.

Speaker 6 (28:47):
Most times, the people who have an Android don't watch
games wrong. The people who don't like Beyonce, they don't.
I'm telling you, they do the same ship. And I
just think it's a it's a personality characteristic.

Speaker 5 (29:02):
I don't even think it's.

Speaker 6 (29:03):
Anything about of Thrones iPhones. They just don't like what
everybody else likes.

Speaker 5 (29:08):
Like yeah.

Speaker 6 (29:10):
Again now.

Speaker 7 (29:16):
Because I have an iPhone And I don't know why
you're saying joy nigga.

Speaker 3 (29:21):
Yeah, you android, nigga with three hundred pairs of socks
that you got to watch in separately, and you telling
me that you're better than me because you ain't never
seen Game of Throws.

Speaker 5 (29:29):
I was better than you.

Speaker 2 (29:30):
You said that we was corny.

Speaker 7 (29:32):
I said, going out to like a bar to watch
Game of Throw that's crazy.

Speaker 3 (29:36):
That's like going to the podcast talking about Game of Thrones.

Speaker 5 (29:41):
Did No, I don't, but I don't like mythical ship.

Speaker 2 (29:45):
It's not one more time. I'm snuff you.

Speaker 6 (29:48):
You watch any show, it's fantasy, bro. Any show that
you watch is fantasy.

Speaker 5 (29:53):
They make it.

Speaker 6 (29:54):
Any of these things. Any television, any series, it's all
made up.

Speaker 5 (30:00):
What are you talking about?

Speaker 2 (30:02):
I watched documentaries and I watched documentaries too, nigga.

Speaker 5 (30:05):
You wear Iron Man on your socks.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
Right, Niggas out like Mexical ship. But nigga got a
whole Marvel sock collection.

Speaker 6 (30:13):
That ship is way less. What is going on? Somebody
nigga had draw full of Fantastic four.

Speaker 2 (30:34):
What you know what they could be in a house
like flame on. But you're better than us because niggas
like dragons.

Speaker 5 (30:42):
Niggas flying through the sky on fire like mystical ship.

Speaker 2 (30:47):
That's crazy though, I got that one, all right, Miles.

Speaker 6 (30:51):
Morales, I like mystical ship.

Speaker 2 (30:54):
Really pissed me off.

Speaker 5 (30:56):
He calls him, so Spider Man, what alright?

Speaker 2 (31:01):
Alright, so you're better than us?

Speaker 6 (31:04):
It may help me say.

Speaker 12 (31:07):
It.

Speaker 2 (31:10):
Not mystical, asshole, he said, mythical.

Speaker 6 (31:14):
I'm married.

Speaker 2 (31:16):
That's what I've been talking about. This is what I've
been talking about.

Speaker 6 (31:20):
I was talking to you all about Amanda from eight
at the Table.

Speaker 5 (31:25):
We have a clip from them, Okay.

Speaker 6 (31:28):
The caption of the clip says, your girl gets into
an accident the night before your boys trip. Are you
still going? Wow? I want this to be gender neutral.
Your partner gets into an accident the night before your
boys trip. Are you going this book? The flights or
book you know what I'm saying, We're not going to

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sit here and try to cancel tickets so I could
sit in the hospital with you.

Speaker 3 (31:52):
Like that's that doesn't even make sense, especially when you're okay.

Speaker 12 (31:56):
That's my thing about it, Like she's she's okay, so
it's it's like, why waste my money?

Speaker 6 (32:02):
Even if she really wasn't.

Speaker 12 (32:07):
To like being by your bedside, but still like that
is taking time away from the trip that I had
already planned, taking away money because now I'd probably have
to rebook to go the next day.

Speaker 6 (32:21):
Now you can't referable tickets, you can't change them, other
than non refundable.

Speaker 2 (32:25):
Ones, you can't change them. But you'd have to buy
another ticket.

Speaker 12 (32:28):
If you still planned to go, and if you didn't,
if you threw the whole trip away, then that's all
the money that you spent on the trip already down
the drain. You said that had it happened a day later,
like she wouldn't be worried about you going on your trip.
She would be worried about her, you know, getting better.
But no, I feel like when some some females are

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like this, when they're put in like that, trumental situations
like this they're not thinking about themselves and getting better.
They're thinking about the sympathy and the pity that and
can get from others. And honestly, I can see this
happening like, oh my god, this happened to me. So
now I need him to wait on me hand and foot,

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and he won't and he won't even be thinking about
his trip, Like did you you did you want to
use that car accident even though you were fine to stop.

Speaker 2 (33:18):
Him from going on the trip.

Speaker 5 (33:19):
Yo?

Speaker 2 (33:20):
I'm a guy, right, And any guy who.

Speaker 11 (33:22):
Has had experience with women know that right before ship's
about the end, or right before you're about to go
do something that they don't like, something catastrophic.

Speaker 2 (33:30):
Hey, guys, if you.

Speaker 5 (33:36):
Wow, yeah, that's tough right there, that's tough.

Speaker 4 (33:40):
When you first pointed the question, the first thing I
thought of, how bad is the accident?

Speaker 5 (33:45):
You know what I mean? How bad is she? Right?
But then he was like, Yo, even if she is,
that's tough. How important is the trip? God? Damn? How
is non refundable?

Speaker 4 (34:01):
You know?

Speaker 5 (34:01):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (34:02):
I'm saying like, if my girl got into if my
girl got into an accident the day before your wedding.

Speaker 3 (34:09):
If you would have showed up at my button, I
would have water boarded you.

Speaker 2 (34:12):
What I'm saying, why is the first thing. I'd be like,
why is you here?

Speaker 5 (34:15):
What you just showed up with?

Speaker 2 (34:17):
My nigga? Catch a cold, canceling everything?

Speaker 5 (34:20):
What do you do when you get there? You celebrating that?

Speaker 7 (34:24):
She's like, how do you how do you explain to
the people there?

Speaker 5 (34:30):
Like when.

Speaker 2 (34:33):
Keep talking like that?

Speaker 5 (34:36):
Bro?

Speaker 13 (34:37):
You good?

Speaker 2 (34:40):
Are you okay?

Speaker 6 (34:42):
She's hitting about like waiting for the nurse to come
give me some apple juice?

Speaker 14 (34:51):
Like what are you walking along the beach with your
fucking sandals in your head like this?

Speaker 5 (34:59):
It's sho Clark shot shot clock person.

Speaker 2 (35:06):
Look at my man. It's crazy, son, it's crazy.

Speaker 5 (35:12):
I'm supposed to be down a grooms man. Yo.

Speaker 6 (35:15):
And so somebody I think, as I said, or somebody said,
how bad is the accident?

Speaker 7 (35:19):
I'm saying, like how badly do you need to go
on that to where you got to leave your person
in that type of state, like there's nothing that important
to where you got you have to absolutely leave your
person to go in a take.

Speaker 5 (35:31):
If it's just a broken finger.

Speaker 2 (35:34):
A broken finger, that's crazy because that's not that's not
a hospital stay. They give you a little ship and
you go home.

Speaker 5 (35:39):
It's broken off.

Speaker 6 (35:41):
That's also and then tomorrow, so your flight's tonight, right,
the flight happened, the accident happens at one pm.

Speaker 5 (35:48):
Your flight is at eight pm.

Speaker 6 (35:50):
You're in the hospital, but their MRI isn't until tomorrow.
But so far all they have is a broken off.
Do you still go on your trip with your girls?

Speaker 3 (35:59):
Yes, you're out, but somebody has to come and be there,
like I would call his mother, his sister, one of
his boys. Like I would never leave my person in
the hospital if there was not somebody that was equally
yoked as me that can be there to support that.
A broken arm, that's not that's not that. That's not

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enough for.

Speaker 2 (36:21):
Me to cancel a whole trip a broken arm, Like.

Speaker 6 (36:25):
Come on, you agree, you leave them with your with
your minds.

Speaker 4 (36:30):
It depends, like you got to take so much context
and variables into consideration.

Speaker 2 (36:35):
How dramatic are finna be about it?

Speaker 4 (36:37):
For I, like what darsh said, Like I'm not going
to leave my person without.

Speaker 6 (36:41):
No support system.

Speaker 4 (36:44):
Like nothing. You don't know under what circumstances all that
has happened. So it would depend and maybe there's an opportunity,
maybe you might lose a little bit of money and
I'll come the next day or something, or you know,
I would definitely be willing to make adjustments, but these
people at the at the table was like, nah, I can't.

Speaker 3 (37:04):
It also depends how It also depends how you broke
your arm, right, Like, if you tripped and fell and
broke your arm, I'm saying the.

Speaker 2 (37:12):
Car accident, I'm canceling my trip.

Speaker 3 (37:14):
I don't give a fuck if you broke a finger,
if it was a car accident, because to me, that's
a little bit more severe.

Speaker 6 (37:18):
That's why I said the Mr right tomorrow, because you
got they gotta chick your brain.

Speaker 3 (37:22):
Like but if it's like if you just happen to,
like trip down a flight of stairs and you broke your.

Speaker 7 (37:27):
Leg yesterday, what you think I'm staying. I'm staying no
matter what, no matter what. If my person is in
the hospital for any reason, I'm staying.

Speaker 2 (37:38):
I agree any reason.

Speaker 5 (37:39):
I don't.

Speaker 6 (37:40):
I think that in this life I'm here to serve
my lady. And although I spent a lot of time working,
it's those moments you can't miss. Those moments. You can't
be like well I'm out. They said you're good. You
know what I'm saying, And in my comment under this,
I said, absolutely not. And even she tried to force
me because I could see her being like, no, go, no, stupid,

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I'm here until you're good. I'm not gonna miss definitely
not missing the MRI.

Speaker 2 (38:10):
But I will say this because you could go to.

Speaker 5 (38:12):
Sleep athlete's foot. She got athletes.

Speaker 2 (38:16):
Athletes as a girl.

Speaker 3 (38:20):
Because I'm thinking from the perspective of me having a husband,
but as a girl. Nigga, if I stubbed my toe,
you better not leave this house until I feel better.
I'm so dramatic. I will be like, ah, I'm too
dramatic for stuff like that. You better fly by.

Speaker 5 (38:40):
I remember.

Speaker 6 (38:42):
And sorry, I'm sorry to my girlfriend. You don't have
now girlfriend, the one that I'm about to tell the
story about her.

Speaker 5 (38:49):
Sorry. I came home from jail. She went on the
cruise the next day. Would you have been tight?

Speaker 2 (38:58):
Did she know you was coming home from jail at
or was it a surprise?

Speaker 5 (39:01):
Okay, good question. Not that it matters to me.

Speaker 2 (39:04):
It matters. I know it matter to you, but it
matters to me.

Speaker 6 (39:07):
I was supposed to get out. I think five days earlier.
So now I come. They kept me right, So now
I don't get out to the day and tomorrow you
go on the cruise.

Speaker 5 (39:18):
All right.

Speaker 4 (39:19):
The question is what was the purpose of a cruise?
Family cruise that's a little different a girl's trip or
something like that versus family.

Speaker 2 (39:32):
My girls are my family. You can go to hell.

Speaker 4 (39:35):
And I'm not saying that, you know, girls trips aren't important.
But for example, I'm going on a cruise because it's
a family. It's you know, they see his aren't sixty
fifth birthday?

Speaker 5 (39:45):
Right?

Speaker 4 (39:46):
I had to maneuver some things around to make this happen,
which I would not have done if it's just to
go on a cruise for cruise sakes, you know what
I mean. So if it's a family cruise like that,
if it might be something just just there's something that
they do, just something that they do every year. But
that's not taken away. What I'm saying is it's not
a reunion, it's not an anniversary. It's just something that they

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do every year.

Speaker 2 (40:09):
Noting that's the same.

Speaker 6 (40:11):
Thing, well they do it two three times a year, so.

Speaker 2 (40:13):
That's even better. Like that, this is like a religious
act of.

Speaker 6 (40:17):
We broke from seventeen years ago. I still don't fuck
behind it.

Speaker 2 (40:24):
Because I come home. She supposed to stop.

Speaker 5 (40:27):
Living the day he comes home. Though you're out.

Speaker 2 (40:31):
It's not my fault that they took another five days
to release.

Speaker 6 (40:33):
I want to I want to be loved differently, even
if I want to be loved different even.

Speaker 5 (40:37):
If I got out of five days, might.

Speaker 2 (40:39):
Get out of the hospital, got out of jail.

Speaker 7 (40:41):
Like you what you said, I said, you have that
right too, I like minute got the right to feel
that way.

Speaker 6 (40:45):
I want to be loved differently. I want my lady
to be like yo, honestly, y'all go. I want to
stay with him.

Speaker 2 (40:51):
I want that type of like I just said, only
to get broken up with later. Part of the cruise is.

Speaker 5 (40:58):
Part of the breakup.

Speaker 6 (40:59):
The cruise was part of It was a catalyst, right,
It was the thing that started, well it started what
I was whatever, But yeah, that was part of it.
I'm still talking about it to this day. You dad left,
I don't even know what outside.

Speaker 3 (41:12):
My cousin, I will be in the family group chat
roast to her. I said, so you're gonna sit home
with a nigga that just came home from jail that
nigga probably want to curfe you instead of coming with
the family. That's not even your husband, that's your boyfriend.
Get the fuck out of here.

Speaker 6 (41:24):
Trav says too would have still been mad if he
came home when.

Speaker 5 (41:27):
He was supposed to. And I would tell you.

Speaker 6 (41:29):
Right now, you would have no five days.

Speaker 5 (41:32):
No, I wouldn't have.

Speaker 6 (41:33):
If you want to know why, because we would have
been fucking what we'd have been fucking for the five
days and being around women for too long is annoying.
Go with your family.

Speaker 5 (41:43):
Go, we've had five days.

Speaker 6 (41:45):
We've been in the house twenty four hours a day.

Speaker 5 (41:49):
I need a little piece.

Speaker 6 (41:49):
Go go with your family. I'll be here when you
get back. But the day I come home, yeah, I
would have. I like, I want to be loved differently.
I'm sorry that's how I feel.

Speaker 2 (41:57):
I get that. But they're also I'm gonna come home
from prison, and I'm gonna tell you what.

Speaker 6 (42:03):
I left the bands when I left, so I don't
care about whatever money that you spent to going. I
left you wild bands wild bands when I left, so
I don't.

Speaker 5 (42:13):
Care about you.

Speaker 2 (42:16):
Did you this was planned before?

Speaker 3 (42:19):
I don't remember because I think that's a conversation to
be had to just be like, hey.

Speaker 6 (42:22):
I didn't know she was going to c I can
tell you that I had no idea until that night
when I come home. I got home that afternoon, that
night she's packing, and I'm like.

Speaker 2 (42:33):
You had to.

Speaker 6 (42:36):
Okay, right now, hold on, keepin.

Speaker 5 (42:38):
I want you to look once.

Speaker 6 (42:40):
I've been waiting for some box for a year and change.

Speaker 5 (42:44):
I come home.

Speaker 6 (42:44):
You give me one piece.

Speaker 5 (42:46):
Of crumb, a little crumb a box and leave.

Speaker 6 (42:50):
Bro, he was tight sick.

Speaker 2 (42:54):
You cheated.

Speaker 6 (42:55):
I don't have no recognection.

Speaker 2 (43:00):
Too, and then you would have been right.

Speaker 6 (43:02):
You understand, Go find some pussy somewhere else. I feel
like if I did, if I did right, if that lit,
I don't really feel like you left me no choice.

Speaker 5 (43:13):
If I was that lit, where I could go for?

Speaker 2 (43:15):
You leave me no choice.

Speaker 6 (43:17):
Sometimes your hand right time you forced your person to
cheat on you.

Speaker 5 (43:21):
Yeah, I feel you on that.

Speaker 6 (43:23):
I was you agree with that.

Speaker 2 (43:27):
I don't have a penis, so I don't really know
what you'll be going through.

Speaker 14 (43:30):
Bro.

Speaker 5 (43:30):
Sometimes you get back into a corner.

Speaker 6 (43:32):
Yo, I ain't got nothing to do with it, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (43:35):
I got a situation. Definitely not the same, but reminded
me of years ago. Remember we used to go to
Miami ago Memorial Weekend and ship. That's ago. That's where
niggas lying the same years ago.

Speaker 5 (43:50):
I believe you. I believe no.

Speaker 4 (43:51):
It is because when we're going to Miami more we could.

Speaker 5 (43:55):
Twenty years ago.

Speaker 2 (43:56):
That's when I was fucking white bitches on the beach.

Speaker 5 (43:58):
That was when we were staying in the room for five.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
Of us, alleged.

Speaker 6 (44:03):
That was where niggas brooke one room and everybody sleep,
everyone on the floor and in the beds and shit.

Speaker 2 (44:08):
Your bums, your fucking prostitution hold ups.

Speaker 5 (44:11):
They wouldn't leave. I was with the digital room and
he wouldn't leave the room because this is his room too.

Speaker 6 (44:15):
And I'm like, bro, I got a chicken here. I'm
trying to do something. He's in the room, like stretching,
and she's like, yo, bro, what you it's my room?

Speaker 5 (44:22):
Go ahead.

Speaker 4 (44:24):
Girl I was with at the time just happened to
be in Miami at the same time for a work
trip and I think I don't know if it was
a cruise or something, but she was leaving Miami the
same day that I was landing there. So we had
one night together and then the rest of the time
I'm with my boy. We literally walked through the whole

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strip of Miami nothing but throngs, nothing but fatties, nothing
but titties, bikinis, everything out like you saw everything. You're
about to leave me with for the entire week, and
then I ain't getting none that week, Like she fell
asleep on me or something like.

Speaker 5 (44:59):
I was so tired.

Speaker 4 (45:00):
I was like, you walk me through a gauntlet and
you're gonna leave me like this, and then I'm supposed
to be your faithful nigga after that, Like it was
just a weird situation in Missy Purgatory.

Speaker 5 (45:11):
It was just like it.

Speaker 4 (45:15):
Y'all reminded me of this because you was like you
set you said sometimes you set your person up to you.
It's like, why would you do that to somebody?

Speaker 5 (45:23):
You gotta give him some box. Now I'm just supposed
to out there, like.

Speaker 4 (45:28):
Why would you not even think about it to yourself? Like, oh,
I better. You got to make sure he's amy. I'm
not doing the right thing here.

Speaker 5 (45:36):
I'm buggering at you disagree? Do you disagree? No, I'm serious,
don't do that don't do that.

Speaker 2 (45:43):
No, I'm not.

Speaker 3 (45:43):
I'm not about to get jumped by three horny niggas
like I'm just not gonna do it.

Speaker 5 (45:47):
Maybe twenty five years old at the time.

Speaker 3 (45:49):
I'm not about to get jump by three horny niggas
because you do what to me, gauntlet of dick.

Speaker 2 (46:05):
I don't never want to gauntlet a dick. I don't
think about dick the way y'all think about pussy. This
ship is crazy seen dick. I don't want a bunch
of Dickson around me in my vicinity.

Speaker 3 (46:16):
I don't want to see another dick again, like ever,
like ever. If I could live life and never see
another dick this close to my face ever again, I
would be happy as fuck.

Speaker 2 (46:27):
What I'm saying is, I don't if you're out.

Speaker 3 (46:32):
There and it's that much temptation and you, let's say
you out there for five days. You telling me the
piece of pushy she gave you on Monday was gonna
hold you over.

Speaker 2 (46:40):
All five days? Bullshit.

Speaker 6 (46:43):
Its fucking lying to me.

Speaker 2 (46:44):
All.

Speaker 4 (46:48):
I was more concerned about your thought your thought process,
that you wouldn't think to try to fuck you so
that you won't fuck everybody else in Miami like that's
that's what you think that goes through our heads as bitches.

Speaker 2 (47:03):
Like my think, my thing is I've thinking.

Speaker 6 (47:05):
About but just because like be considerate, considerate, And.

Speaker 2 (47:10):
This is what I be talking about when.

Speaker 6 (47:11):
I say that y'all be.

Speaker 3 (47:13):
Reducing sex sometimes to make it seem like women are
like sex slaves.

Speaker 2 (47:18):
Like that's how it sounds.

Speaker 6 (47:19):
Like the y'all come mad times, we come once. We're
the one slaving. We're the one slaving.

Speaker 3 (47:26):
Are you on drugs? Do you know how many bitches
an orgasm in their life?

Speaker 4 (47:31):
God, bless the dog? Have you ever heard the same?
Keep your man with his belly and his balls, and yes.

Speaker 2 (47:37):
But y'all balls them ships don't be empty for a
long time.

Speaker 3 (47:40):
I can fuck you in the morning, and if I
don't fuck you again at night, them ships is ready
to roll again.

Speaker 2 (47:44):
So you're telling me that that one moment, I don't believe.

Speaker 4 (47:49):
My point, Dodge, and that the reason why I quote
it is powerful is because I don't literally want you
to be a sex slave and my maid preparing meals
around the clock.

Speaker 2 (47:58):
But you want to get sucked, don't you. I don't
go on vacation.

Speaker 4 (48:02):
I don't expect you to be, you know, around the
clock with either one. But I do expect you to
at least have some understanding of what men's men's expectations are,
what men's wants and needs are.

Speaker 5 (48:16):
At twenty three years old.

Speaker 2 (48:18):
Ex go get that first.

Speaker 5 (48:21):
He's getting younger and younger.

Speaker 3 (48:26):
This story thirty five years old, and I'm still not
on board with this thought process. Can you imagine me
at twenty three if you was to come to me
at twenty three and feel some type of way because
I was with you for one night in Miami and
we didn't fuck, and be like, well, if that sets
me up the cheat, I would look you in your face.

Speaker 2 (48:45):
And say, go ahead.

Speaker 6 (48:46):
At twenty something, twenty three years old, I will tell
you it wasn't a vacation I went on. It wasn't
pussy fun.

Speaker 2 (48:52):
Don't fuck the whole Collins.

Speaker 3 (48:54):
I don't give a fuck because if that's what it
means to you, if that's what you really want to do,
have fun.

Speaker 2 (49:00):
Good luck with that. Tell me how it works out
for you.

Speaker 4 (49:02):
I did not cheat, but it did. To Tahoe's point,
it's set the tune for the breakup. It's like, this
is the type of mentality It's not about physically what happened.
It's about your thought process. It's about you not understanding.

Speaker 2 (49:19):
My thought process. Is weird.

Speaker 5 (49:25):
Said just wants to take care of me.

Speaker 3 (49:29):
In those types, what you're saying is you went to
Miami for a boys trip. She went to Miami for work.
Y'all had an opportunity to link for one day. She
made it possible to make sure that you guys were
able to link for one day. Y'all walking and strolling
on the beach and y'all talking and y'all walking and
I haven't you didn't make it seem like y'all had

(49:50):
a horrible time. So y'all still had a sentimental moment
in between two trips. And that's not enough for you,
because she didn't funk you that night. Yes moment, oh
yr niggas out of I don't want to talk to you.

Speaker 5 (50:07):
Through a gauntlet of as cities.

Speaker 2 (50:09):
And I'm sure she didn't see it like that.

Speaker 4 (50:11):
And then you probably I don't know what happened. She
didn't see it something like it's like, no, you don't
do that.

Speaker 2 (50:18):
Talking about I don't want to talk to y'all. I'm
not talking about anything.

Speaker 6 (50:21):
Speaking two different sentimental walk. Imagine if you imagine if
a chick hungry, you take them for a sentimental walk.
Like I said, the relationship women have with.

Speaker 14 (50:33):
Food food the way we think about about all the
food coming from.

Speaker 5 (50:47):
The oven, but we're not gonna eat it.

Speaker 6 (50:50):
Yeah, were walking through a gauntlet of fucking ribs. I
thought that we've been. You know, we just want to
I want to be sentimental. We went to the music, am. Yeah,
that's something.

Speaker 9 (51:02):
Special, you know, how to bout Like basic life days
you need food, water, and shelter, not food, water shelter

(51:23):
in sex, water is food.

Speaker 6 (51:27):
We don't need shelter, water and sex.

Speaker 5 (51:31):
That's what men need.

Speaker 2 (51:34):
Really, y'all.

Speaker 3 (51:35):
Y'all really like when when people talk about the theory
of evolution, y'all are really like the closest to primates ever,
Like y'all really animals.

Speaker 2 (51:43):
Why are y'all like that?

Speaker 3 (51:45):
To be honest, I cannot, I cannot to equate sex
with food is diabolical.

Speaker 6 (51:54):
No, it is not the way that y'all know. The
way that y'all are about food is exactly the way
men are about sex.

Speaker 2 (52:01):
Is Could I go to the rest of my life
without sex?

Speaker 3 (52:04):
Hell yeah, But I can't go to the rest of
my life without wings.

Speaker 5 (52:07):
You being extreme, You're being extreme.

Speaker 2 (52:09):
That's what somebody just say.

Speaker 6 (52:10):
It's the way that y'all change based off of foods,
the way y'all desire is the way that it's like
it's a controlling thing. I think women really choose food
over men nine times out of town.

Speaker 5 (52:21):
Yes, yes, over food, nine times out of town.

Speaker 3 (52:27):
I had to go to bed every day at ten o'clock,
Like it was like a rule, like you gotta go
to bed every day at ten o'clock and you can
either funck before you go to bed or you can
eat before you go to bed. I'm eating every time.

Speaker 2 (52:42):
I'ming, you know what I'm saying every time?

Speaker 6 (52:46):
Every time what And it just depends on where age
I am over dick as a man, because now I.

Speaker 3 (52:52):
Take a burger over dick right now, a sandwich because.

Speaker 6 (52:56):
You're married, pussy turns off right after the fucking ceremony.

Speaker 5 (53:04):
Got him.

Speaker 2 (53:04):
Actually I'm still a honeymoon paint lights flawing.

Speaker 3 (53:09):
But what I'm saying is if Andrew said, Yo, you
want to funk or you want a sandwich, you're.

Speaker 2 (53:16):
Taking exactly make him good at sandwich.

Speaker 4 (53:20):
I mean, you're making a decent point now, but I'm
forty nine years old now I'm talking about back then.

Speaker 5 (53:25):
Talking about twenty three.

Speaker 6 (53:26):
Yeah, what sperm is rage it anyway?

Speaker 5 (53:31):
Not like I was eating well chicken wings the.

Speaker 2 (53:38):
Burger, but dick is Wow.

Speaker 3 (53:39):
Really, I'm gonna make a sandwich and make it have fun.
As long as you leave that sandwich for me, I
don't give a fuck.

Speaker 6 (53:46):
Gotta love him sandwiches. Let me see what else we
got here. I did want to ask, y'all, do I
want to talk about this? Matter of fact?

Speaker 5 (53:56):
Trump?

Speaker 6 (53:57):
You had something that you want to talk about? Someone
to that old people?

Speaker 2 (54:01):
Old people? Oh yeah, the old people.

Speaker 5 (54:04):
So I didn't actually see this. Somebody told me about it.
But so I heard about this man about.

Speaker 4 (54:09):
Ninety seven years old and his wife is believed ninety four,
and he filed for divorce. They've been married like seventy
two years. He filed for divorce. I can't even imagine
people in the nineties filed for divorce that'd been married
for seventy two years because he found love letters that

(54:32):
she had wrote to her. What do you call it?
The person she was cheating with?

Speaker 5 (54:38):
Whatever? Right?

Speaker 4 (54:41):
Sixty years previously prior, right, And I was like, I
kind of feel them, but it's like, damn, ninety seven
years old and you just newly divorced.

Speaker 2 (54:55):
It's like, what fuck you finn to do?

Speaker 5 (54:57):
Yeah, I don't know. I was.

Speaker 4 (54:59):
I was like, this is a real interesting conversation because
it's not only about infidelity, it's about sixty years ago,
Like you still feeling the ways?

Speaker 2 (55:09):
You know what? That's?

Speaker 5 (55:10):
What is that?

Speaker 4 (55:11):
What is the issue with that? Why would you consider that?

Speaker 3 (55:14):
That is the fragility of the male ego? Because what
the fuck is you mad about? You could probably can't
even remember if you put socks on today. Why are
you still mad about your girl cheating you sixty years ago?
Like what type of nigga was you sixty years ago? Like,
let's everybody, let's put perspective.

Speaker 6 (55:34):
Everybody put this shit.

Speaker 2 (55:35):
It's a perspective, please, Like what are we doing here?
I've been married to you for seventy two some.

Speaker 3 (55:42):
Nine years and now all of a sudden because you
found some old First of all, she was hustling backward
because she should have been burnt them ships, but she
she forgot, she didn't know just existed no more.

Speaker 2 (55:53):
She was not thinking about them day ago, but she
wasn't thinking.

Speaker 3 (55:57):
About But sometimes sometimes you gotta need the old notes
because your nigga be wiling.

Speaker 5 (56:03):
And that much to you. That's probably why he divorced,
because she kept on that much.

Speaker 6 (56:10):
Nigga.

Speaker 3 (56:10):
I still got notes from high school that was written
to me from friends and other.

Speaker 5 (56:14):
People because man is shorter than you.

Speaker 13 (56:17):
But if you really have respect, respectfully but always keeping
this the evidence for that long in my house where
I sleep.

Speaker 6 (56:32):
You kept it here in my house about it everything? Nah, yeah,
I can see I can see it. I don't think
i'd break up with her, but I can understand why
somebody would.

Speaker 3 (56:44):
That ship is a different type of petty. I'm sorry,
what what what do we have in like like like
old people slurs of an argument like you you can't eat.

Speaker 6 (56:53):
I don't think understand how much I don't give a
fucking them on once you get a certain age, like.

Speaker 2 (56:58):
You gave enough to the wants me to go down
to get to the lawyers.

Speaker 5 (57:01):
I'm tight now. Yeah, I'm angry at everything.

Speaker 6 (57:04):
I hate the sun like I hate everything, the fact
I can't look at you the same.

Speaker 4 (57:10):
The problem with infidelity and egregious infidelity like you kept
the evidence around. It means like there's probably more of this.
It's probably lasted for seventy two years. This probably ain't
the one time.

Speaker 6 (57:22):
You know how many chicks keep a nigga around through
their whole relationship, all of their relationships. Yeah, you know
this too, suld be a nigga that know you hit
that's his pussy. Your pussy's on loan to your husband.

Speaker 5 (57:36):
Yes, what.

Speaker 6 (57:39):
You're on loan your your husband thinks that's his pussy.
It is, but that's my pussy. I even fucking that
through every one of your relationships. I'm fucking you now,
I know all of your dirt. I told you I'm
never gonna you're lying to your husband my pussy to church.

Speaker 5 (57:54):
And I'm wiling you out.

Speaker 6 (57:56):
I'm wiling you out because you know, I know what
you like. Your husband probably not even fu you like
I'm fucking you.

Speaker 4 (58:01):
Yeah, he's probably going back and thinking like shits started
to make sense now all that time she told me
that she was doing X y Z, but it didn't
really add up. This is what was going on. Like
his mind is bugging right now. I wonder if he so.
He probably kicked her out the crib huh.

Speaker 3 (58:17):
Of course, kicking my nine something year old great grandmother
out the crib.

Speaker 2 (58:25):
Stands.

Speaker 6 (58:26):
And I'm looking at the kids differently too. Yeah, yeah,
that's not mine, coming right out the web all of that.
I'm looking at everybody differently, bro, because I've seen women.
I know a woman that has sex with my homeboy
didn't like his job. He was just a cleaner in

(58:48):
the hospital. He swept and like he was one of
the people that sweep and ship like that in the hospital.
And she told that the other nigga she was fucking
that it was his, but it wasn't his. And later
on the you know, the kids start looking like her father,
so she wind up having to tell the father. Father's like,
I don't care, I don't that's not my baby. But

(59:10):
the actual father he loved her and probably still takes
her to care of her to this day. Women will
hide them secrets, bro. Nah fuck that So fuck that
great episode, y'all. Yes uh, And I appreciate y'all being
patient with us, not only to us here the cast
of So Shameless, but as well the listeners who are
patient with us every week. Thank y'all so much. I

(59:32):
had so many other things to talk about. But this
shit ran the way it ran, you know what I mean.
Let's get the fuck out of here. Oh, are we
about to do this some Patreon real quick?

Speaker 5 (59:42):
Ten minutes, five minutes, yeah, ten minutes.

Speaker 6 (59:45):
The people here, that's in the discord and it's in
the our Patreon. We will be posting this video on
Patreon so y'all can see it. Then y'all know how
to join Patreon dot com. Backslash So Shameless podcast could
the rest of yet don't

Speaker 9 (01:00:02):
So sh