Your Life Is Your Fault Feat LolaTheeDivine (Part One)

Welcome Back NSG!

This week we welcome friend of the show, LolaTheeDivine back to the couch as we talk Tahoes coworker stepping on his new sneakers, a situation where Tahoe feels a way (again) that he wasnt invited to a party, and how we feel about the Diddy verdict. Tune into part two this thursday as we talk Nicki vs Cardi B! ENJOY!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
If you know what I'm saying so so shameless, if
you know what I'm saying due so shameless, If you
know what I'm saying so shamous, so shameless, so so
so shameless.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
If you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
So shameless, If you know what I'm saying so shameless,
if you know what I'm saying so shameless, if you
know what I'm saying so shameless.

Speaker 2 (00:45):
Let's need attention. So, being that you're looking for attention,
I want to provide you what you're asking for. You
miss me? What am I miss you? I saw you
yesterday when you was getting dragged?

Speaker 3 (00:57):
Who dragged you yesterday?

Speaker 2 (00:59):
When you getting who dragged you? Who dragged you yesterday?
What happened? You're right, I'm good. He's kind of tired.

Speaker 4 (01:07):
I'm good man.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
He's withdrawn today. Then he's shooting shots at me as
if I did something to him.

Speaker 5 (01:15):
I check my check. That's good.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
Huh, you're good. Now she's gonna talk loud in that bro,
don't even she's she's no, no, no violent, hello violent? You
hear the right voice? Right? You hear a voice? Right? Yeah? Yesterday?
Are you okay? Seriously? I do want to ask you
I know you had a row episode with our what

(01:38):
is she a coach? Uh, yeah, like a life coach,
life coach, something like that, and she asked him about
his dating and ship like that and got he got
a little he got a little beat up.

Speaker 6 (01:49):
I would say that I got vulnerable for a second.
I don't like, of course, you're gonna make it sound
like something wasn't.

Speaker 4 (01:54):
We had a real nice conversation.

Speaker 6 (01:56):
It was a lot of learning, a lot of growth,
a lot of room for spanshon.

Speaker 4 (02:01):
So yeah, that's what happened.

Speaker 3 (02:03):
This would be saying nothing but everything that was good.

Speaker 5 (02:07):
Though.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
We have a guest on the show today.

Speaker 5 (02:12):
We do hello everybody, you know.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
Actually, I don't even know if Trump is pulling up.
He said he was gonna try, but we didn't even
have a micro for him. Now I forgot, but we'll
see if he pulls up. I'm like, if we if
he pulls up with Adam, Yes, we have a guest today. Uh,
Lola divine? What is it? Lola divine? The Lola, divine Lola,
the divine Lola? Yeah, what is just Lola the divine?

(02:37):
That was just my Instagram here, But what's divine about you?

Speaker 5 (02:40):
Everything? I'm a child of God that in itself is divine.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
But isn't all right? Divinity? Yes, divinity? Do you walk
in divinity?

Speaker 5 (02:48):
The divinity in you?

Speaker 2 (02:49):
Now?

Speaker 5 (02:50):
Mis stay?

Speaker 2 (02:51):
I said, I said, I say, that doesn't work. Shout out,
just show shameless community. I'm hoping you guys are all
enjoying the fall. Have y'all changed y'all? Uh oh, he
did it so nonchalant. He just walked in. No problem.

(03:13):
Have y'all changed your houses to fall? Stuffy?

Speaker 5 (03:16):
Do all that decoration stuff? I just like it. You
do do the Christmas and Thanksgiving? And you got pumpkins up?

Speaker 3 (03:24):
No, do y'all do that?

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Pumpkins and spices?

Speaker 7 (03:27):
And I do hate pumpkins spice though, but I do
the like I changed the colors of the pillows and
throw pillows on the couch. Little decorations I have. Like
it's fall, y'all, like little faults are doing stuff.

Speaker 2 (03:43):
I know dog should do that in school and all
that she does?

Speaker 3 (03:47):
About that?

Speaker 2 (03:49):
Right? Yeah, do y'all do that? What's those thing? Pine
cones and shit like that around Christmas? Pine cone smell?

Speaker 5 (03:56):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (03:56):
I like pine con little cinnamon, some little.

Speaker 4 (04:01):
A little sweeping tatter palm.

Speaker 3 (04:03):
Yeah, I can't wait for Thanksgiving?

Speaker 2 (04:06):
Yes, are you not supposed to wear white? And do
y'all do that? Did not wear white? I got the
white sneakers all to day.

Speaker 5 (04:11):
Yeah, I wear what I want to wear.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
Yeah, I do what I want.

Speaker 5 (04:13):
Somebody asked me that while white, I thought it was
like white pants. I didn't know the sneakers were.

Speaker 3 (04:19):
Thought it was white pants and white shoes like white.

Speaker 4 (04:22):
I thought it was like an all white outfit.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
Yeah, you can't wear all white.

Speaker 5 (04:25):
Listen, it's gonna be eighty two degrees this weekend. We
had the white you want.

Speaker 2 (04:30):
I want the white sneakers to work today? Niggas stepped
on them?

Speaker 4 (04:33):
Nice?

Speaker 5 (04:34):
Why would you wear them?

Speaker 2 (04:34):
New York job, nigga? Because I was leaving, I was
in the I got there, I changed into my clothes,
I finished my round. I'm leaving and the motherfucker's playing
around with somebody and steps back, steps down on my ship.
Look like, got to the to the.

Speaker 4 (04:49):
To the cloth, to the cloth, it's carry it's over.

Speaker 2 (04:52):
It's over. So yeah, does he owe me? Like? Because
he was like, yo, my bad, and I was just
looking at him like.

Speaker 5 (04:59):
Remember do the right thing.

Speaker 3 (05:00):
He was having a nigger moment shortage.

Speaker 2 (05:03):
I had to focus. I had to like calibrate my
because if it's like yeah, it's it's over.

Speaker 4 (05:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
So I just and he's a white boy cool damn.

Speaker 5 (05:16):
So he doesn't know.

Speaker 3 (05:17):
He doesn't He.

Speaker 2 (05:18):
Said sorry a bunch of times. As I walked out,
he was still.

Speaker 5 (05:21):
Like, yo, your energy?

Speaker 2 (05:23):
What do I what do I do? What? Such? It's
just nothing you eat that.

Speaker 4 (05:27):
I mean, you could go to the next phase.

Speaker 2 (05:28):
What's the next phase? The next chair?

Speaker 6 (05:31):
The next phase is just you could just start rocking
a little, you know. The white people they were the
dirty ups and stuff. That's like a style.

Speaker 5 (05:37):
Have you got into that port of life yet? That's
like dirty ups?

Speaker 2 (05:43):
Like you could just go if I'm about to wash
my car or some shing like that. I don't walk
around like I don't you I don't. I can't. You
know they sell dirty ups now, yeah, yeah, they style
a sneaker. They sell dirty white uptowns now. But I haven't. No,
that's not my thing. I'm not I'm not even fast
forward enough to do it. I feel like the fashion
girls can wear dirty sneakers and make it look good.

(06:04):
I can't.

Speaker 5 (06:04):
I've never seen a dirty uptown look nice. Yes, that's
not that's not not that maybe a dirty chock.

Speaker 7 (06:11):
So there's nobody a dirty chuck, yes, but dirty uptown
you wild.

Speaker 2 (06:15):
So there's nobody in here that thinks I would be
right for saying, Bro, you owe me a book forty?

Speaker 5 (06:23):
Nah?

Speaker 2 (06:24):
No, you you're paying a book for you go to HR. Yeah,
you're stuck on my ship, playing around, working around.

Speaker 5 (06:33):
What's he on the clock?

Speaker 2 (06:35):
Yeah? But I ain't doing all that. I'm not.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
I don't care, but he was.

Speaker 6 (06:39):
It's your fault because why would you wear white air forces?
So like get off work? Like, get off work? Yeah,
Like why did you need to wear those?

Speaker 5 (06:51):
Is this what you had to want?

Speaker 2 (06:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (06:53):
You left work like this.

Speaker 2 (06:54):
I went to work from somewhere and got dressed into
my outfit. I dressed. I don't want to say nice
at work, but I'm my shirt is tucked into my
pants like I feel like I'm a presentable ass nigger.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
Listen, at this point, there's nothing you can do about it.
We are older. You can't whip his ass. What if
you don't want to give you the one forty? What
you're gonna do?

Speaker 2 (07:15):
Right, he's saying, I can't so I can't wear nice
things to work. That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
With your specific job, I don't know why you would do.

Speaker 5 (07:22):
Your people know what you do, damn people.

Speaker 2 (07:29):
So I have to go to I have to have
a grunge outfit to go to where I have to
walk through the streets grungey to go to work because
of my occupation.

Speaker 3 (07:36):
You can do whatever you want to do.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
That's what you said. I'm asking you.

Speaker 6 (07:39):
I feel like this, all right, there's certain things that
I just feel like you can wear anything you want.
But it's like I just wouldn't wear that. Like there's
certain sneakers that I just would never wear to work.
I don't know if what's going on. I'm just never
gonna wear those because if a kid to step on it.

Speaker 5 (07:52):
What I'm gonna say, what you're gonna do?

Speaker 4 (07:54):
Yeh, What I'm saying, Like what I'm gonna do.

Speaker 3 (07:55):
I almost kick the kid once for putting drop red
slime on my times.

Speaker 5 (08:01):
I hate slime.

Speaker 7 (08:03):
And I hate it slime from that day.

Speaker 5 (08:06):
I didn't know coming my daughter threw slime on the ceiling.
There's still a slime splot. I hate it. That's my
every time she asked, it's like you see this.

Speaker 7 (08:18):
Yeah, no, it's a hell no. Yeah, slime is not
allowed in my house. But I would never like. That
was one of those moments and I was just like,
red slime on my brand new butters, Like should you.

Speaker 5 (08:31):
Wear brand new butters in the school environment.

Speaker 3 (08:33):
I was good because, like I have boundaries.

Speaker 2 (08:40):
The certain time, you can't go to school, you can't
go to work because this nigga wears all his new
sneakers there. I don't care what he said. You literally
in videos every day dressed like yesterday, Hey, dress like me.
You show all your nice sneakers off. They all have
white in them. They can all be stepped on. Not true,
they can. Okay, I just want black age.

Speaker 4 (09:02):
Yesterday.

Speaker 2 (09:03):
Great, that was yesterday. But you understand what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (09:09):
Look looking at it.

Speaker 2 (09:14):
You can't wear nice things to your occupation.

Speaker 7 (09:16):
I think I think that there is an accountability that
you have to take knowing that it's possible that your
ship is going to get mess.

Speaker 5 (09:24):
You can do whatever you want to do, but you
can't control with someone else to do, and you cannot
control him giving you one forty because he's not giving
to you. He doesn't even understand the value of why
these white sneakers would cost one forty.

Speaker 6 (09:34):
He do, He's just not paying you. He's like nigga, no,
I said sorry to get out of here.

Speaker 5 (09:37):
That's it. What makes you think that because you you
mentioned that he was white, So in my mind, if
you have to mention that he's white, that means he
probably does not respect the value of a fresh I just.

Speaker 2 (09:51):
The idea because what he's trying to do is for
with my ego, y'all real. I'm just like, yo, what
what did I do?

Speaker 3 (10:03):
Seventy three types of pussy?

Speaker 2 (10:05):
Like you think that if I tell his nigga that,
like what? But then I wouldn't even do that because
he's my friend. He's my friends a friend. Yeah, so
I literally would let's walk in there, like, yo, bro,
you know, I can't do nothing with this. And because
you was fucking around I she just sucked up. We
got to figure that out.

Speaker 3 (10:23):
Why did you try to bully him?

Speaker 2 (10:24):
Because how was that this accountability?

Speaker 5 (10:27):
That's not accountability. You can't control his accountability. That's accountability
as a person who would have gave.

Speaker 4 (10:32):
You the money off rip if if he.

Speaker 5 (10:33):
Felt that way, damn you buy you another pair. He
ain't say that, so he's not going I.

Speaker 4 (10:37):
Told you, he told you, yo, go ahead, I said, yo,
my bad, get along.

Speaker 3 (10:44):
He's not doing that.

Speaker 2 (10:45):
Speaking about friendship, Gosh, why I had an issue?

Speaker 3 (10:53):
We don't have no issue. What are you talking about?

Speaker 2 (10:57):
And she thinks I might be wrong? Apparently I'm wrong.

Speaker 3 (10:59):
I didn't say you were wrong.

Speaker 2 (11:01):
You're saying I'm wrong.

Speaker 3 (11:01):
I did not say that.

Speaker 2 (11:03):
I said you were wrong. You did say that Dodge
goes out to a party. You look nice at that party.
Wait a minute, I know that place. Oh that's a
place that I do business with. She's like, yes, it's
our friend's party. I'm like, oh, that's kind of fucked

(11:24):
up because I didn't know he was having his party.
The party is literally half a mile three quarters of
a mile from here. Dodge lives in Jersey.

Speaker 5 (11:37):
I have a problem with my friends. Come from out
of state, and don't let me know.

Speaker 2 (11:42):
You went past my crib, because you have to go past.

Speaker 4 (11:45):
My crib to get to that past the spot to
get this.

Speaker 5 (11:47):
You know, you go.

Speaker 3 (11:48):
You know, I don't know what you're talking about. This
nobody was thinking about you, you.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
Know, such and such having party. Now you're going to
such and such a party, and we've had this conversation. Lo, Look,
we've had these conversations that I don't be really member
and don't we've had these conversations, right, help me, help
be a nice person to people, because I don't.

Speaker 1 (12:07):
Even know.

Speaker 2 (12:09):
Huh nothing.

Speaker 3 (12:11):
I'm talking to my man, Yes.

Speaker 4 (12:15):
Talking about something.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
Yes, I am Yo.

Speaker 5 (12:17):
Even was a vibe.

Speaker 2 (12:19):
Okay, were you there? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (12:20):
Because we were together together. So are you mad at
everybody in a room?

Speaker 2 (12:24):
No? Because she doesn't know that. She doesn't even know
that I'm the one who set him up with the spot.

Speaker 3 (12:28):
It's not about you. Why are you centering yourself?

Speaker 2 (12:31):
He really reached out like, yo, do you know anywhere? Yes?

Speaker 5 (12:34):
Yeah, Okay, he ain't mad at me.

Speaker 2 (12:37):
I was actually mad at her because.

Speaker 7 (12:38):
Trying to be mad at me because I didn't because
I didn't alert him where me and my husband was
having date night because for some reason, that was his business.

Speaker 2 (12:46):
Why are you making this about you and your husband.
It's literally our friend that's throwing a party that you
were attending the party with your husband. It's about you
attending this our friend's party, not about going out for
date night. First of all, while you're making this about him, First.

Speaker 7 (13:00):
Of all, that's not what it was about, because at
first I didn't even know that seven o five belonged
to our friend.

Speaker 3 (13:06):
I found that out later. I saw because that's the
way that it was given.

Speaker 5 (13:12):
His identity Batman. Nobody knew yeh, like.

Speaker 3 (13:15):
No, even in there he was interesting. Neither had nor there.
I didn't know.

Speaker 7 (13:20):
But the premise of what it was, I was like, wait,
this should sound cool.

Speaker 3 (13:24):
I love an R and B party, and it's like,
wait they playing R and B B.

Speaker 7 (13:27):
Because oh yeah, and I just put it on the
calendar for date night. It honestly, it was on somebody
else's story, like are you in the room?

Speaker 3 (13:40):
I said, oh, what's this?

Speaker 7 (13:41):
And then I clicked on the page and then I
saw that the page had mutual followers with me, and
I'm like, no, ten no shade.

Speaker 3 (13:47):
I was like, if they know about this, I'm cool too.
Fuck out of here.

Speaker 7 (13:50):
So when I followed the page, and that's literally what happened.
So you didn't know, No No, I didn't know it
was no no no a few weeks I found out
a few weeks afterwards.

Speaker 3 (14:02):
No no, no no.

Speaker 2 (14:02):
But originally after what all right?

Speaker 5 (14:06):
So first, first you followed the page, you have to
request you order to get a ticket.

Speaker 3 (14:11):
You have to so no, first you listen to me. No,
I did not know.

Speaker 7 (14:16):
A few weeks after, listen to what I'm saying. The
first time I followed the page, I did not know.
Then they dropped a link about a party playing B sides,
R and B music in Brooklyn, and I said, oh,
I can do that. So then I literally went bought
the tickets and set up the date night for me

(14:36):
and Drew. So afterwards, you get like a member I D.
And with the member I D like you had like
a number, they ask you for a picture. But then
I saw on his page he kind of was saying
the same things as the other page. So then I
really looked at the page and I'm like, oh, this
is you. But he was still keeping his identity.

Speaker 3 (14:54):
On some batman ship and he was like, no, that's
not me.

Speaker 7 (14:57):
Or like if he was writing me from the page,
he would be like, remember such and such whatever my
number is, and I'm telling y'all. He was like, remember
you have been invited to like talking to me like
we're not dead ass friends.

Speaker 5 (15:06):
And I thought that was cool.

Speaker 2 (15:08):
Very nice, But you did know. I found out, and
you did know, not later because I hit you maybe
the next day after the party or the day after that,
like yo, these pictures from last night.

Speaker 7 (15:18):
No, No, What you're not understanding is I did not know
it was our friend's party when I first, when you first,
But when you knew you were going, you knew it
was his party.

Speaker 2 (15:29):
Yes, and you did not say yo, because it was.
That's fine. So that's why I had a problem with her.
I'm not going to keep going back and forth.

Speaker 3 (15:38):
YO, tell me one.

Speaker 5 (15:40):
I appreciate you guys having a good dynamic that you
can share that you're upset and y'all will still be friends.

Speaker 2 (15:47):
That I was bothered, but more so than.

Speaker 5 (15:51):
I do think you could have been like, yo, you're
going why do that?

Speaker 3 (15:54):
Because at that point I'm going on with my husband.
I didn't give a fuck.

Speaker 5 (15:59):
Well that and that is the answer. She didn't care
about the exact moment because she was with exactly.

Speaker 3 (16:03):
Look at my husband either. Why why does she have
to tell you what my.

Speaker 5 (16:09):
Husband she's about? Nobody, I'm damn sure wasn't.

Speaker 2 (16:13):
It's fine and all that being fine? Whatever the fuck
are you? So now? Time now me and him is
under he's under my he's under my comments. Right, I said,
you know, thanks for the invite to your party that
I set you up with. You see how I said,

(16:34):
it's very passive aggressive here doesn't say nothing else.

Speaker 3 (16:39):
It was aggressive.

Speaker 2 (16:40):
Right. She's now telling me there's another one. She's like,
are you going? So first of all, I told her
I appreciate her telling me about this time.

Speaker 5 (16:47):
She's making a man.

Speaker 2 (16:48):
I'm not really I told you I'm not. It was
what it was. I called out on it when I
felt how felt away?

Speaker 3 (16:54):
How dare I?

Speaker 2 (16:56):
And now she's saying, are you going? And I said,
know why? Because you literally are having a recurrent like, yo,
thank you that meeting went well, thank you for linking
me with the place. Hey it went well. Hey we're
having a body I booked the day anything like bro,
I went and helped you with this. You wouldn't even say,

(17:17):
like yo, things went well. And so now I have
to go through the process like every other person that
has no idea what's going on you? Because that's what's happening.
You actually said, did you follow the page? Did you
you know all.

Speaker 3 (17:29):
This to me because you follow your friend's party? Page
because I didn't know what's going on but you. But
when you found out why, he.

Speaker 2 (17:41):
Told me, Hey, I'm trying to do an event. Do
you know any place? I said, let me make some calls.
I made the calls, I connected them, I backed the way.
I don't know what what's what I'm getting my friend
the favorite. Now you have a whole movement. And don't
even say nothing.

Speaker 5 (17:58):
Personally, No, no, because I don't want to dismiss how you
feel me personally. I probably would have been like I
would have been like, hey, you have a special invite
your member number three, Like you know what I mean something,
I can understand why he feels a way.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
And now after I say something, now you know, oh shit, damn.
I didn't even tell this nigga that I booked the spot.
Now you're recurring this ship and then I tell you,
a damn bro, Really you still on somewhemp? Oh well yeah, no,
I ain't pulling up. No good luck. I wish you
the best. And I heard the party's fire. I heard it.

(18:34):
But he is an eloquent, elite ass nigga. So yes,
his ship is going to be good, and I wish
him the best. But damn bro. Really, But now, now
when you reach out next time, am I gonna go
that length? Because y'all you didn't even respect the fact
that I did that.

Speaker 5 (18:50):
I think he should show up to the party. You
can still feel how you feel. You're my plus one.

Speaker 3 (18:57):
I am not nominating him. I'm not not him his
attitude because we don't need that.

Speaker 5 (19:05):
I think you have every right to feel that way.

Speaker 3 (19:07):
I don't think that.

Speaker 7 (19:08):
I never said that you were wrong again, because I'm
not making this black and white, right and wrong. I said,
I don't understand why you're taking it to this length.
You can feel how you feel, but you're dragging it
now in my opinion, because now you're purpose you now
you know, you know that it's happening. You might feel
some type of way about not having that acknowledgment, But

(19:28):
then also should you really feel that way, because if
you did something out the kindness of your heart you
didn't need did you need that?

Speaker 3 (19:34):
Thank you?

Speaker 7 (19:34):
Did you need that? And if you needed that, that's cool.
I understand that. But for me, like I wouldn't take
it that far. Now you know you're linked with these people,
you know the owners of the business. Nobody is gonna
turn you away at the door. It's not that serious.
I don't know why we're taking it. I think we're
taking it further.

Speaker 5 (19:53):
Than but it feels good to be acknowledged. Right.

Speaker 3 (19:57):
A lot of things feel good.

Speaker 7 (19:59):
But at this point, you know that your friends were there,
you know that your friends are going to.

Speaker 3 (20:05):
Be there again. Why not come?

Speaker 7 (20:08):
It's like it's like you're not coming to be almost
self righteous, like you didn't say thank you, so now
I'm not going to show up?

Speaker 3 (20:15):
Okay, Nikki? The fuck is wrong with your It's not
less sarious?

Speaker 4 (20:19):
How smoke point on that oil cooking over there?

Speaker 2 (20:22):
Lo? Lo? How you feel about what you said?

Speaker 5 (20:25):
I think you have a valid point of feeling how
you feel, But I would go. I would go and
be like, all right, bitch, I'm here the invite and
then party. You said? How you feel? And now still
show up because it's a vibe and.

Speaker 2 (20:37):
It's your friend yesterday. How you feel you've been over
there doing all these little effect How do I feel?
How do you feel? Brother?

Speaker 3 (20:48):
You went a nomination?

Speaker 6 (20:48):
I was just about to say, to be honest with you,
nobody invited me, so I don't give Yeah, somebody nominated me.

Speaker 3 (20:58):
Then nominate yesterday so you can come. I'm all nonmed out.

Speaker 4 (21:03):
About Yes.

Speaker 3 (21:04):
I nominated several.

Speaker 4 (21:05):
People and you didn't nominate or me.

Speaker 3 (21:07):
No.

Speaker 5 (21:08):
She already said how I don't need to be in
the room because of his Why yesterday didn't get a nomination?

Speaker 3 (21:15):
He didn't ask me for I didn't know.

Speaker 4 (21:17):
I didn't even know this ship existed.

Speaker 5 (21:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (21:18):
When I started posting it, people was like hitting me up,
like yo, can you.

Speaker 2 (21:21):
Get me in?

Speaker 7 (21:22):
Can you get me in? And I'm like, I got you.
I only nominated people to ask me.

Speaker 6 (21:25):
So I work with you every week and I see
you almost every week. And it just didn't. It didn't.

Speaker 4 (21:31):
It didn't just register to say hold up yes for me.

Speaker 2 (21:38):
Yeah, you know that I'm finding new ship today look
at this.

Speaker 7 (21:43):
But you know what, I will find you. A nominated
I'll get I'll get my friend to nominate you. She
has a No, I nominated her?

Speaker 2 (21:51):
Which one you? Hey? Your brother, My brother asked you question.
You made it about yourself very interesting, but you was
definitely overhead with the acknowledgement. Just a lot going on
over it. No, no, no, do you when it comes to
friendships and ship like that, do you feel like I'm bugging, Like,

(22:15):
what do you think is like, can you be genuine
or not hating? Because if you're genuine and you disagree, cool,
But if you're just gonna hate because that's the mood
you win.

Speaker 6 (22:23):
No, no, no, I don't. I don't want to hear your no.
No no I can no no, no no. I do I
understand where you're coming from. I do understand where you
feel like you linked something or you or you made
a play, not that you needed to have some grand acknowledgment,
but just the call or just the like you know,
like oh yo, for me, ship went well you know
what I'm saying, or the ship worked whatever whatever, So

(22:45):
I understand what you're saying. I don't think you're saying
something crazy, but I do think I feel like with
you doing that, you should have the cachet to be like,
oh nah fuck that.

Speaker 2 (22:53):
I'm pulling up right.

Speaker 6 (22:56):
Invite or notmer member or not nigga, I'm pulling up
out of here.

Speaker 3 (23:00):
Like if it wasn't for me, you would have none
of this ship I'm pulling up.

Speaker 4 (23:02):
That's how I would move.

Speaker 6 (23:03):
I wouldn't even I wouldn't even sign up, I wouldn't
follow ships could.

Speaker 5 (23:06):
Be true at the same time, I could be annoyed,
like I don't. It's not that I need validation, like
I'm insecure and need the validation. But damn like you
putting on this big shindig. I'm a part of the crew.
I think this time they got food.

Speaker 3 (23:23):
I cannot. It's going to be a ball.

Speaker 2 (23:25):
So the nigga, this small man in the.

Speaker 3 (23:28):
Comments, don't put my husband small.

Speaker 2 (23:30):
The tiny nigga.

Speaker 5 (23:34):
So you do for someone and expecting something back every time.

Speaker 4 (23:39):
That's also a good point.

Speaker 5 (23:40):
Weren't you just talking about etiquette?

Speaker 7 (23:42):
Yes, you know, because he was trying to tie this
to etiquette, and I was trying to say, as a
nigga that just opened mouth, sneezed and didn't give a
fuck about nobody.

Speaker 2 (23:51):
Covering my mouth. But I didn't do it well enough,
Yes I did. I did like this. I didn't do
it well enough. I acknowledged that I was wrong, and
I said I wouldn't do it again next time.

Speaker 5 (24:00):
So divided as a culture on what's proper and what's
not like again, because we said proper is going into
your elbow sleep. That's what you seezed five times into
your hand.

Speaker 3 (24:12):
And you had to wash your hand.

Speaker 7 (24:14):
You touch people, but you would have because I tell
you to wash your hands.

Speaker 2 (24:18):
You're touching people. I'm standing over here.

Speaker 5 (24:20):
You're not gonna like, You're not gonna tap nobody. You
see what I'm.

Speaker 2 (24:25):
Saying, wash your hand?

Speaker 3 (24:29):
Why do to wash my hand?

Speaker 2 (24:32):
I didn't even let it sneeze out. I sneezed into
my mouth. I did not even let it out.

Speaker 3 (24:36):
Okay, now your mouth open. Nothing happened.

Speaker 5 (24:39):
This is the perfect example of what I was about
to say.

Speaker 3 (24:42):
We are all Look.

Speaker 5 (24:48):
That's perfect example, though, because we all feel a different
way about small minute things. So me personally, I like
the acknowledgment. I like to do for my people's but
I love of my peoples be like thank you, and
I would have loved to bring a bottle. Right when
I was already running late, he was talking mass shit.
So I wasn't about to stop at the liquor store.
My homebird, you was talking shit.

Speaker 2 (25:10):
I didn't say.

Speaker 5 (25:14):
My hairstylist moved into a new spot. I had not
been there in the last three months since she's been there.
When I went to go get my hair done, I
bought her flowers. I'm that type of person. I feel
like if I show up somewhere, I should have something,
But other people don't feel that way. And it's not
about them being wrong. It's just that we have not
been raised cohesively as a generation to all have the

(25:36):
same outlook on something. Everybody, you know how that whole
like don't say shit to my child, But then you've
got somebody else that's like it takes a village. It's
different things. So, yes, you have validity in your feelings,
but I don't think you should not attend the.

Speaker 2 (25:48):
Function totally understanding. I mean, everybody has the different feelings
about it.

Speaker 7 (25:52):
I want to say, like when you talk about like
things that are like minute and how people think differently.
I was looking at this video on Instagram yesterday. I
was cracking the fuck up and I played it like
four times because I totally resonate with this, And tell
me if y'all agree, you're ready hear.

Speaker 3 (26:07):
It in the outside of the cuff.

Speaker 2 (26:10):
That's not wet.

Speaker 3 (26:11):
I'm not drinking it. Hold on, where's your hospitality?

Speaker 2 (26:17):
Is a fuck? Are you just starting? Oh that wasn't
That wasn't the clip.

Speaker 3 (26:22):
No, that was the clip, But it's that's my cup out.
What you're doing like, do not hear me no beverage
tasting like cabinet. I don't care if you just washed it,
it was already wet. Print it out again just because.

Speaker 1 (26:33):
You breathed on it, like just because you had your
booty fingers on my rim.

Speaker 6 (26:38):
With y'all.

Speaker 5 (26:40):
This won this wone.

Speaker 3 (26:41):
No, I'm good, don't even worry about it.

Speaker 1 (26:43):
And another thing, if you to bring me a beverage
in the outside of the cuff that's not wet, I'm.

Speaker 4 (26:50):
Not drinking it.

Speaker 3 (26:52):
How do you guys feel about that? Because I was
cracking up because I I agree.

Speaker 5 (26:57):
That's what it made. My cup as soon as I
pulled it out. The cabinet just.

Speaker 3 (27:02):
Taste like.

Speaker 2 (27:05):
Sure, there's people that don't. They don't know you have
to wash it, and I do that just so that
you don't feel like I'm on some dirty ship, Like
I definitely want even if I know the cup clean,
I want you to see, hey, I'm cleaning it again.

Speaker 5 (27:18):
I'm making an effort, extra effort for you.

Speaker 2 (27:21):
Yeah, but that's the point, the effort, that is the
point of all of this. Where somebody doesn't negates the effort. Yeah,
you have a right to feel away this tiny midget
motherfucker and your comments that you fucking sleep next to
every night, talks about Oh, yo, I don't mind. You
don't take it anyway. I don't Oh you're doing something

(27:43):
for someone and expects something back every time. No, it's
the lack of attache, and it's like, yo, it's insulting.
It's kind of insulting.

Speaker 1 (27:48):
You know.

Speaker 5 (27:48):
Back in the day, we used to have etiquette classes.

Speaker 3 (27:52):
And that's what I'm saying, like, as somebody that.

Speaker 7 (27:56):
A part of my upbringer was actually very like Christian
conservative understanding that I don't see a lot of etiquette
period for one person to uplift like this lacks etiquette,
like you were wearing a hat inside talking about etiquette, like.

Speaker 2 (28:14):
Your hats all the time exactly.

Speaker 7 (28:16):
I am not the picture of like that would not
be my argument against somebody. It wouldn't be like it lacks.

Speaker 5 (28:22):
Etiquette modern times like everything changes, right, Yeah, so wearing
hats indoors unless you're in the military isn't really seen
as a lack of etiquette. But if my grandmother was
alive today and I walked in that house with a
hat on, and she didn't give a fuck what my
hair looked like, and she's like, take that head off
at the table, take that head off when you walk
in my house, Like, there's certain people that really abide

(28:45):
by all of the rules.

Speaker 3 (28:46):
And I don't think that we should pick and choose.
I think that you're valid in saying that your feelings
are hurt, because that's really what it is. Your feelings
are more so hurt.

Speaker 7 (28:54):
So it's that instead of saying like, oh, this person
lacks etiquette, like no, this person hurt my feelings because
I wanted to benotic.

Speaker 2 (29:02):
I think that was a lapse. That's what happened. You
should have that, and you put that. Then you reach
back out to the person like, yo, thanks, I think
it's gonna go well. And what date did you pick?
Like have that convo? Won't just go about your day?
Have the ship. Then when I say something, you just
act like, oh you be passive aggressive. Don't say nothing
like passive aggressive.

Speaker 3 (29:24):
But you could have owned it and been like, hey, friend,
I heard that you had a party. Damn man, hurt
my feelings that you didn't even tell me about it.

Speaker 7 (29:31):
I would love to have come and support you, like,
because these are your feelings, this is how you really feel.

Speaker 3 (29:35):
So my thing is we can't.

Speaker 7 (29:38):
I would not respond in that way for me, and
I'm and I'm keen to pressing my friends. You hurt
my feelings. I'm finn to press you. I'm not gonna
be passive aggressive about it, like, oh no, no, I'm not.

Speaker 2 (29:49):
You're literally very passive aggressive when you about things of
this nature. How you say things that are passive aggressive
about things of this nature. Oh so, yeah, I see
that you had your little this or that you do
say that.

Speaker 3 (30:03):
I said that I've ever said something like that to you. Yes,
give me an example.

Speaker 2 (30:07):
I need an example. Come on, that's not because because.

Speaker 3 (30:14):
This type of person, So I need to say that
you've done.

Speaker 2 (30:18):
Yeah, I don't think that's fair. Give me an example
in the midst of a conversation. Now, say that you
don't have to be thinking of something. I know you've
done it, but it's fine.

Speaker 5 (30:28):
Yes, I was just going to say, the next time
it happens, if he does something, if he calls it
out offended.

Speaker 3 (30:34):
No, I'm not going to be offended. I'm like, if
this is what it is.

Speaker 7 (30:39):
When we had the conversation, you doing it again, And
that's valid, right because because this is my first time
ever hearing that from you. So if you feel that
type of way that I'm being passive aggressive instead of direct, yes,
definitely give me that feedback.

Speaker 3 (30:56):
I could switch that up.

Speaker 2 (30:57):
You can be direct. You are mostly direct, but you
have your moments and lapses where you do pass ship
because you're also my friend. So you feel like, yo,
I'm doing this to tease or whatever, which is exactly
what I was doing with him, right, But at that
point I would think you reach out on the back
end like yo.

Speaker 7 (31:18):
But then also when you have to talk, when we're
talking about things that people don't do, you are assuming
background knowledge and I think that that's really where you
have an impassed because if one thing is like I
know that you know better than this, then I can
hold you to that standard.

Speaker 3 (31:37):
Versus has this ever happened to y'all before? Have you
ever been in this?

Speaker 2 (31:40):
He's gay?

Speaker 5 (31:41):
That means.

Speaker 2 (31:44):
He knows he's gay, everybody knows he's gay.

Speaker 5 (31:46):
Everybody might not know he's gay.

Speaker 2 (31:49):
Is he.

Speaker 3 (31:52):
Did he?

Speaker 2 (31:53):
Yes, we've talked about, he's been on the show. We've talked,
he's been on the show. We've talked he's gay. So
now Ivory gay people have him him let's not talk
about all but him. He is very on point with
etiquette class the way he carries him, him, him him,

(32:14):
So what of him being gay? I don't know, but
I just brought it up.

Speaker 5 (32:17):
You know, etiquette is societal.

Speaker 3 (32:20):
I keep going back to this is the lack of etiquette, and.

Speaker 5 (32:28):
In the torch, I just have to say, etiquette is
a society based thing. So because societal societally, we are
all on different pages. Your etiquette and somebody else's ate
the same. This is the question when people become friends,
do we talk about this? You know how when you're
dating somebody, you're like, what's your color?

Speaker 2 (32:50):
You know?

Speaker 5 (32:50):
What do you how do you channel your emotions when
you're angry? What do you do when you're happy? We
don't talk about this with new friends. Are you laughing
at oh lord? Okay, wait, but somebody said, do you
still talk to the lady?

Speaker 2 (33:05):
It's fine, listen. I know when I'm in a hostile
environment with this group, me personally, I feel like if
it was me that did this to somebody else, they
would still come in me like, yo, if you did that,
why wouldn't you have reached out? If you know they
that they felt the way, why didn't you say nothing?
Now it's me, it's oh, why wouldn't you? It's just
that's what it is at the end of the day

(33:27):
is you are o G. We expect more from you,
and that's fine.

Speaker 5 (33:30):
I'm human because you're a human.

Speaker 2 (33:33):
It's not fair like you'll always do that with me.
It's fine.

Speaker 4 (33:37):
I know.

Speaker 2 (33:38):
Like I said, when I sneezed, I was like, we
got beef.

Speaker 5 (33:43):
We haven't spoken in a while, and I feel like
you know, and I said absolutely said it's like, why
would we have beef? Okay, just make it sure?

Speaker 3 (33:49):
Yeah, because sometimes you got a person.

Speaker 5 (33:50):
But you know, some people don't do that. Some people
will let things fester and that's where resentment comes and
then they will have these passive aggressive marks. I'd rather
just be like we are right.

Speaker 3 (34:00):
Should have pressed that.

Speaker 2 (34:01):
Nigga, I should press them.

Speaker 3 (34:03):
Yeah, you have to do.

Speaker 5 (34:04):
You ain't invite me for ano.

Speaker 2 (34:05):
Bitch, Like why you ain't inviting said something?

Speaker 5 (34:10):
Event and be like give me this is the thing.

Speaker 3 (34:12):
Right shipping, I'm go like, yo, I'm pussy running up
with you.

Speaker 5 (34:19):
Where's where am I at?

Speaker 2 (34:20):
Right?

Speaker 6 (34:20):
I'm making sure I'm coming in that ship and unsubscribed
no membership.

Speaker 4 (34:25):
I'm not following the damn thing.

Speaker 2 (34:26):
I don't in this ship.

Speaker 3 (34:28):
Shot at take a shot the funk out of here.
Don't tell me what to do.

Speaker 2 (34:33):
Jesus, this niggas on the being the phone over there
in that damn fire house, coming for you. This Molly
called them attle tiny nigga. I think that's what it was.
I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

Speaker 5 (34:51):
They were really sexy together though. This was the first
time I've seen him in person, and I was like,
I would watch it was sexy.

Speaker 3 (35:01):
It was sexy.

Speaker 5 (35:02):
That's a compliment, that's a lot, no weirdness, but it
was very sexy to see you. I love that for you.

Speaker 3 (35:11):
I love him so much and he's so amazing.

Speaker 7 (35:16):
And because she was worried about her and my name,
I wasn't thinking about a no of nobody.

Speaker 2 (35:27):
That's not true. We had so much actually think about them,
because youve seen them all. It was going to be
there and you want to be there. But it's fine.
I am a cool kid.

Speaker 3 (35:37):
Because I saw who was the following the page, I said,
what the well, I don't know what this is.

Speaker 5 (35:40):
I'm supposed to know him? Are you going to be
my first one? I will nominate you because people have
reached out to.

Speaker 2 (35:46):
The person and tell them I'm not feeling how I
was excluded, and we'll see what happens after that.

Speaker 4 (35:51):
Okay, there's somebody go to nominate me.

Speaker 3 (35:56):
I told him I'm gonna hit I'm gonna I'm gonna
tell her to nominate you.

Speaker 5 (36:01):
People have reached out to me, but I don't know
their etiquettes. Yeah, so I have not nominated them because
you ain't about to embarrass me exactly.

Speaker 2 (36:09):
They ain't gonna be like who.

Speaker 5 (36:12):
Exactly, So you're gonna be on your you know, good
behavior always.

Speaker 2 (36:18):
Yesterday I did nominate you to come with me to
the nb A Young Boy concert.

Speaker 5 (36:23):
That's scary.

Speaker 2 (36:25):
He's been asking me to go on a date for months.

Speaker 5 (36:28):
Oh wait, didn't you go already?

Speaker 3 (36:29):
Yeah? He went.

Speaker 5 (36:30):
How'd you enjoy that?

Speaker 2 (36:32):
Oh? It was horrible. I was glad that I was
able to have this experience for my kids and for yesterday.
Yesterday was viban.

Speaker 5 (36:43):
They was loving that ship.

Speaker 2 (36:44):
He was vibing. He was you know, was in the
air and he was being all like he was, No,
I'm not I don't know, So why would you having such.

Speaker 5 (36:54):
A good time?

Speaker 6 (36:54):
Because I love live music and even sometimes if I
don't know the music, like seeing a crowd and stuff like,
you can just get in seah, you just feel an
energy feet.

Speaker 3 (37:03):
It's nothing I want to me in a room full Ofwaiians.
I'm gonna have a panic attack. Yeah, I'm literally gonna
have a heart palpitation.

Speaker 2 (37:10):
One of little niggas was hit me in the head
with his handkerchief. They all showed up with green handkerchiefs
and their black so they jumped like one of them
shits because I'm waiting for her to bring us backstage.
This nigga hit me and shit, I'm turning away on
my battle.

Speaker 5 (37:24):
G Oh your og now yo.

Speaker 2 (37:27):
The nigga walked up. Another nigga came from over here
over to me and say, Yo, you're a young Boyfrian
or you here with your kids. I'm definitely with my kids.
He's like, oh yeah, because I don't see.

Speaker 5 (37:40):
How does that feel?

Speaker 2 (37:41):
It's real? That's literally my life. I ate, I'm fifty
almost fifty one.

Speaker 5 (37:46):
You're fifty right now today.

Speaker 4 (37:49):
Today, I'm almost fifty one right.

Speaker 5 (37:51):
Now, you are fine as fuck work.

Speaker 3 (37:55):
Yes, I was giving maybe forty six maybe.

Speaker 2 (38:01):
All right?

Speaker 5 (38:02):
Do that ship, yo, methan man, all these old niggas
niggers could she.

Speaker 4 (38:08):
Thought, she thought you're the method.

Speaker 2 (38:09):
All right, don't want to go home. He is strong
on inside of the room. She was gonna be fine,
be fine, nigga, change the camera and I couldn't get there.
You go real quick, like nigga hate it.

Speaker 3 (38:25):
Because Malcolm x I was like, fine, motherfucker.

Speaker 5 (38:28):
No, he was a fine motherfucker. But Martin Luther King looked.

Speaker 3 (38:30):
Very aged, yeah, because his head was boxing.

Speaker 5 (38:35):
See you're making it weird. I'm trying to be respectful.

Speaker 3 (38:37):
A big head and a big ass face at twenty six.

Speaker 5 (38:40):
He was looking age.

Speaker 2 (38:43):
He was.

Speaker 3 (38:44):
He wasn't thirty when he died.

Speaker 5 (38:45):
He was under thirty when he thirty.

Speaker 4 (38:47):
Like that, Okay, that's what was going on. You're like
the young niggas that look old.

Speaker 5 (38:52):
So where you fifty and you're looking.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
Like, yeah he was under thirty.

Speaker 5 (38:59):
Yeah I made twenty seven. I don't think he made
twenty seven. I think twenty six was it?

Speaker 2 (39:04):
What? Yeah? Wow? Yes, did you know that? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (39:08):
A lot of those people died not old, bro, like,
very like mid twenties, early thirties. Bro, You like what
you thought they was fifty.

Speaker 3 (39:17):
Oh he was thirty nine when he died.

Speaker 7 (39:19):
But still who mlka he was thirty nine, but that
you thought he was fifty sea ass had he had
a face?

Speaker 3 (39:28):
Was his face so big in his twenties? He was
in his twenties.

Speaker 2 (39:31):
Listen, I ain't judging you, man. Come on, he's crazy,
y'all are going crazy.

Speaker 5 (39:35):
Yeah, no, we're not judging him. We're comparing to how
we have elevated. In Angela Bassett, it is bad she's
sixty three. No, she doesn't. Your grandma was sixty three.

Speaker 2 (39:47):
Sixty three she is three.

Speaker 7 (39:50):
Definitely what you're gonna look like at sixty three, you're
gonna be like one of them old brolic niggas.

Speaker 2 (39:55):
I have no idea.

Speaker 4 (39:57):
They don't have the white man.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
I hope I make it. You make it. My daughter
has grandchildren and I'm able to hold them and take
care of them.

Speaker 3 (40:05):
And oh, your daughter has children for you.

Speaker 2 (40:09):
Children gives me grandchildren by then, that's thirteen years from now,
you know, Yes, I would. I would love to reach
that point in my life at the time. Apprpriate. I
have no idea, but they call me it now. Everywhere
I go pops all types of ships.

Speaker 3 (40:25):
Is what it is pop pop.

Speaker 5 (40:27):
You know Mary Mary Jli don't like being called auntie and.

Speaker 3 (40:29):
It's like girl.

Speaker 2 (40:31):
You know. The funny thing is somebody said, why do
we have to say Mary J. Blige's whole name?

Speaker 5 (40:37):
Because Mary about Mary Magdalene.

Speaker 2 (40:41):
Want Mary?

Speaker 4 (40:45):
I told him that is Mary Mary.

Speaker 2 (40:52):
And the nigga's name isn't even married.

Speaker 3 (40:55):
You can't call gospel artists niggas.

Speaker 2 (40:58):
And you definitely can't even call them like yo, if
there was one Mary, if they say yo, Mary's at
the Palladium, Mary's was Did a new Mary came out
with a new album? We all know who Mary is.

Speaker 5 (41:10):
I don't know the same reason why we gotta call
Laurence Hill miss Hill like it's I.

Speaker 3 (41:13):
Don't call that what you call her?

Speaker 4 (41:15):
Late lady, late lady, late lady.

Speaker 3 (41:19):
They can't sing no song the way that I remember.

Speaker 5 (41:21):
You know why she can't? I know, Okay, I'm gonna
take him out before that talking about my height.

Speaker 2 (41:28):
Damn sorry, it's affected in the comments. You know.

Speaker 7 (41:34):
I can't wait for the day that you really pussed
me off, and I like, mush you like on air,
stop talking about my husband. No me and Toname would
beat you up together. That's a crazy one because if
I really mushed you to, they would be on my side.

Speaker 2 (41:45):
I don't care.

Speaker 5 (41:47):
I don't care.

Speaker 2 (41:49):
Verdict came out today in the Diddy case.

Speaker 5 (41:51):
I don't think it was enough time.

Speaker 2 (41:53):
I do. I think he got fifty months. It's equivalent
fifty two months, I believe it, which is equivalent to
about four years in prison with.

Speaker 5 (42:04):
The thirteen or fourteen time served time serve.

Speaker 2 (42:07):
So I believe that's another year and a half before
he's eligible exactly.

Speaker 5 (42:11):
To come out, which is why I don't think it
was enough time.

Speaker 1 (42:14):
I don't.

Speaker 5 (42:14):
I think eleven was way too much. I'm thinking maybe six.

Speaker 2 (42:19):
Hmm. Gosh, how you feel about that?

Speaker 5 (42:22):
I know you got feelings about that. I don't really
Did you grow up in a bad boy era?

Speaker 2 (42:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (42:31):
Did you really look at him as No? No, you
never saw him as that. I mean, we don't.

Speaker 3 (42:35):
We don't know.

Speaker 5 (42:36):
He was weird as fuck. We all knew he had
as ship.

Speaker 2 (42:39):
I mean, do you not want to give you an
opinion on this?

Speaker 3 (42:44):
I don't have one.

Speaker 2 (42:47):
So what is that? I don't have an opinion? What
is that?

Speaker 3 (42:50):
That means that?

Speaker 7 (42:51):
When I saw the verdict on Instagram, I scrolled, and
then it popped up again, and then I scrolled again,
and I was trying to like get away from it,
and it was kept popping up, so and then I
closed my phone.

Speaker 2 (43:05):
Well, okay, so this is where you're going with it.
You just don't want to talk about it, that's fine.

Speaker 3 (43:08):
It's not that I don't. I think that. I think
that the misconception sometimes is.

Speaker 2 (43:13):
You don't want to talk about it.

Speaker 3 (43:14):
It's not that I don't want to talk about it.
I literally don't have.

Speaker 2 (43:17):
Enough all types of you don't care about like we like.

Speaker 3 (43:21):
This is because I don't believe that rich people get
there do justice anyway.

Speaker 2 (43:25):
So I don't.

Speaker 3 (43:26):
I don't. I don't have an opinion on it. It's
just like it's another rich man that got a slap
on the wrist for some shit.

Speaker 5 (43:32):
Right, So fifty months was enough for what he allegedly did,
for what I was convicted of.

Speaker 3 (43:40):
What was he convicted of? Because it wasn't everything.

Speaker 5 (43:42):
The man crossing state lines, the process, constitution, that's it.
Now that that that's what we've seen on television, what
we've seen in the video.

Speaker 2 (43:53):
Right, was convicted of. Y'all want to y'all want to
even though he was a quitted of those charges intro.
And that's my problem because I thought that he was disgusting.
I knew he's been a vile individual. I've worked, I've
been around him, I've seen how he treats people like literally,
and this ain't about me. But I'm just saying, like,
I ain't know for a fact he's a vile individual.

(44:15):
So yes, nigga, I was never like defending him. But
if we're talking about the legal system and the court system,
this is what he was convicted of, prostitution.

Speaker 5 (44:23):
One has the legal system ever been a bit does
for us because slavery was legal. Nice and what they're
doing right now and pulling those kids out and zip
time them in Chicago was legal.

Speaker 2 (44:32):
So what do y'all think that based off of how
y'all feel about this, even though he was acquitting whatever, y'all,
he should still do life.

Speaker 5 (44:40):
No, I don't. I said six. Six, I said six.
I said four.

Speaker 2 (44:43):
He got four and a half.

Speaker 5 (44:44):
He's eligible for parole in a year and a half.

Speaker 2 (44:47):
What is the difference between two what's two years? All right?
The two year difference is where you're like, no, And
what I think is he spends another year and a
half in jail. In that time, he yo. I personally
think in that time he should definitely take account of

(45:09):
what he did to people, the way he affected them.
There should be a real effort. Two. I don't want
to say like when you pay somebody back restitution, but
emotional like, there should be something where you're truly apology.
You're truly apologetic because he can't give back the time

(45:35):
of mental abuse that he took from Cassie. Can't give
that back. You can't give back what you did with
the other girl, So there needs to be something there.
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (45:45):
Jill doesn't rehabilitate people.

Speaker 5 (45:46):
It's not a rehabilitation facility.

Speaker 7 (45:48):
So he's just gonna sit there on his hands until
it's time for him to come back out, and either
he's going to continue to do the same things or
do the same things differently, more discreetly. I don't know
what I'm supposed to feel about it, other than the
fact that I'm I'm more keen to dissociating it because
there's so many more other things that's going on right

(46:09):
I'm trying to care about certain shit, and I just
can't bring myself to like giving a fuck.

Speaker 3 (46:15):
Let me, let me, let me why alla folder?

Speaker 2 (46:19):
I don't know if I should do this, stop me
if I shouldn't, because it's just being me being impulsive.

Speaker 4 (46:23):
I don't even know what this.

Speaker 2 (46:24):
My mother gave me this folder in it it's just
catfish in it. What was a bunch of things that
my grandmother had saved from me or that pertained to me? Right.
One of the things was my baby shower invite, you know,
just things from church and stuff like that. Just a
bunch of things that she thought. There was a letter

(46:46):
from me in here yesterday that I wrote to hell
when I was in jail. I read it and I
thought it was interesting the things that I was talking about.
Would you like to hear it?

Speaker 5 (46:56):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (46:57):
Because before I went to jail, I went to try
out for attempted murder. I have I have done some
incredibly street nigga for real, super street nigga, for that
was who I was, for real, Right, I wrote this letter,
y'all want to hear it? I'd like to read it
to y'all.

Speaker 5 (47:13):
I would love to hear it. I didn't even know
that was your past.

Speaker 3 (47:16):
Yeah, here, Hooligain reformed.

Speaker 2 (47:18):
It's just one page. It's just it's one page and
that half. But I'm gonna read. I'm gonna just get
to the.

Speaker 4 (47:26):
Wash the was it the ship with the feather on it?
Like you had to dip it in the ink with
the feather.

Speaker 5 (47:33):
You're trying to be attle serious, make him laughing, diabolicals
and hurt.

Speaker 2 (47:40):
You're ready doing. I never hope everything saying with you.
Just now getting back from church. I went to church passing,
said boom boom boom boom boom.

Speaker 3 (47:46):
No, no, no, no, read the letter.

Speaker 5 (47:48):
You want to read the whole thing behind this and
make it a real poetry type of moment.

Speaker 3 (47:53):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (47:54):
Oh see, y'all really mocking the ship out me today.
I'm right, let's get to it. Let's do it. Hey,
how you doing. I'm fine and I'm hoping everything is
the same with you. I'm just now getting back from church.
I wanted to write you and let you know that
I love you. The past their church here spoke well today,
and his tears rolled down my cheeks. I praised the Lord,
stood up and clapped in front of two hundred other inmates.
I'm sure some of them thought I was crazy, but
I didn't care. I was happy and proud to be there.

(48:15):
Sometimes I think that if I would have kept going
to church, that I wouldn't have made the mistakes that
I made. But I guess I can only look forward
to the future and hope that I can learn from
this experience. A lot of people say that jail makes
you criminalize, but it's giving me hope that I could
change to be a better person. Most of my day,
I sit on my bed watch the other inmate socialize
and tell each other war stories. But I don't talk
to them. I just watch. I read books that they
provide for Why is that fun of you?

Speaker 4 (48:37):
Because I could see you doing that.

Speaker 2 (48:39):
I could see you look at.

Speaker 4 (48:43):
You want to play cards and he no just watching niggas.
I could see you doing it.

Speaker 2 (48:49):
I'm better than you. Liked tell stories, but I don't
tell just why. I read books that they provide for
us to write my mom or girl. Every day. I
know I've disappointed a lot of people who care for me,
and I feel terrible about that. I think about every day.
I miss my family. I'm eating dinner with y'all, and
I hope when I get home everything can be like
it used to be. I'm asking for my family to

(49:09):
forgive me, and I am sincere. I look around me
and I know that you all didn't raise me to
be here, but I turned the death air to the
love you all raised me with and chose a different path.
I've asked God to give me for those choices, and
I have embraced him and his wisdom. A lot of times,
I think about my daughter and my absence in her
life right now, and I worry about her. It makes
me feel like I failed as a father. I want
to correct that as well. I know that her mother

(49:31):
is taking very good care of her, so I'm happy
for that. This place affects people in different ways. I'm
trying to make the best of it. I eat well,
I exercise so I can remain healthy. I don't think
any of the officers know my name. That's good, I
mean all I know. I'm just waiting to come home
and show my family a different side of myself, as
well as my community. I think that I can help
my community, and if you ever need me to talk
to anybody anywhere, it'll be my pleasure. Actually, I think

(49:53):
it's my responsibility. I would like to write to my
younger cousins because I think it would benefit them to
hear from me.

Speaker 4 (50:00):
Oh wow, that's crazy. I was a kid.

Speaker 2 (50:03):
This is oh wow. Right after you mocking me the
fact that I was thinking about you when I was
going through some shit, then it crossed your fucking mind.
It's fine. I hope they are right. Anyway, tell everybody
that I'm doing well. If anybody's to write me blah
blah blah blah. Are y'all sure that jail can't change
the way a person is thinking, behaving. Remember that I

(50:24):
had a crew. I had bends, range, Rover, motorcycles, dry cleaner,
motor shop, I mean, barbershop, all that shit. When I
came home, I went to work at a fucking coffee shop.
I was like, I'm not going back to none of
that shit. I sold all that shit off the cars
because I couldn't pay the notes. But let's be hey, right,

(50:47):
it is what it is. I could have leased the
ship while I was going and came back, but at
the end of the day, I went, I moved. I
didn't come back to Brooklyn. I went to the Bronx
and I went worked at a coffee shop. Yeah, I
think I'm big. I was huge in the fucking hat
and a little hats was even cool a coffee Dad had,

(51:08):
and I worked until I figured out a way to
support my family. Are y'all sure that jail can't do
anything to change motherfucker that wants to change.

Speaker 5 (51:17):
In jail is not what changes somebody that wants to change.
The person that wants to change is going to change himself.
You changed yourself because you really believe that it was
necessary that you could, that you had a purpose for living,
that you owed the family that raised you. You recognize
what needed to be shifted, and you did that. I

(51:38):
didn't even know that was your story. So that means
that you've done so good in yourself and in your
community that some people don't even know that that was
your past.

Speaker 3 (51:46):
I have seen.

Speaker 5 (51:49):
Did he puff Daddy be this person? I've heard of
him being this person since I was eight or nine
years old. He has you talk about rain and Benz's
and BM dubs and all of that. You still haven't
had an inkling of what he's had. Once you get
a taste of that addiction, it is very hard for.

Speaker 3 (52:12):
You to go back.

Speaker 5 (52:13):
And this is coming from the product of two addicts.
I don't think that he is truly remorseful. I think
that he said whatever he needed to say to get
the fact that he would have even had speaking engagements
planned prior to the verdict being or prior to the
sentencing being released. Lets me know this is not it's

(52:35):
not genuine, and it's not to say that it can't be.
But he needs a little bit more time than fourteen
months than fifty months. I think he needs more time
of solitude. Even having all of these young boys in
jail behind him, following him, him teaching classes in there,
he's still the king. Sometimes you need to be stripped
of everything before you recognize what you had, and that

(52:59):
getting back to that is less than the material and
more about the spiritual. I don't think he's there yet,
and while to get there too, it did.

Speaker 2 (53:08):
But I given the right heart, given the right heart,
because I can't say what's his heart right, We could
just hope. But I agree with you on thousands saying
a lot of what you said, like his history is
what it is. You have to do a lot more
than doing a class in jail or go to church

(53:29):
in jail, like I was just going right. But you
gotta remember, Nigga, I was in church crying in front
of niggas, with niggas was cutting tunic cans to cut
your face, I ain't give a fuck, right, So I
have faith that there was a nigga in there that
could be him that says, you know what, I was
fucked up. I was really fucked up, and I'm actually

(53:51):
genuine and doing this class and using the power that
I have to change these niggas lives. That's a possibility
that I'd love to believe is true. I'd love to
believe it's true because I don't know what it looks
like me comes home. But I don't see six years
being that different from four because socially, when he hits, y'all,

(54:14):
motherfucker's gonna be on his ass regardless. He's never gonna
be puff Daddy again. Y'all gonna be on his ass regardless.
So there's only really one way he can be successful
is if this is real. I would think that he
would know that, and they try to make it that
the speaking engagement was they said it was a healing thing.

(54:36):
We don't know the I would just think that with
Brian Steel, with all of the lawyers, him having a
speaking engagement before the verdict, drivest be a reason. The
hubris is the nuts that you would even do that,
knowing that the judge can be like.

Speaker 3 (54:56):
What he keeps like he told you that you was leaving.

Speaker 5 (54:59):
Bitch, but he keeps forgetting still, Nigga, like you might
have cross paths with all of these high anchoring Caucasian men,
but you were not them. The thought that you and
even some of us have said, like, please, he's not
doing no time, he's getting off. Why did you feel
that way? But they're always going to make a mockery
of a black man, and you set yourself up for that.

(55:20):
You talk too much, You got too big, too cocky,
and you didn't know when to simmer down.

Speaker 2 (55:26):
I think it's way worse than that.

Speaker 5 (55:29):
You think it's way home worse.

Speaker 2 (55:32):
That Nigga fucked people's lives up for real, anything was
talking about killing people, blew up somebody car, like you
blow up somebody car. You really don't give a fuck
about nothing, right, Let's think about that. Let's think about
the little things that you do when you don't give
a fuck about nothing. That was when you was really mad,
but that was an everyday thing when you don't give
a fuck about nothing, And that's what we saw. What
I saw when working around him, hedn't give a fuck

(55:52):
about nothing.

Speaker 5 (55:53):
And it could have been the drugs. Again, addiction is
a disease. It could have been you know, it could
have been was a drug too. Who absolutely, So, now
you've had multiple You've had the addiction to women, the
addiction to sex, the addiction to power, the addiction to
whatever supplement you were using. Multiple addictions had him fucked up.

(56:15):
And I just personally feel like, you know, I was
listening to some of the things that he was saying
in regards to my kids. Some of them, four of
them don't have their moms and now their orphans. Did
you think about that prior to what you were doing.
It's hard for me to empathize. And this is coming
from a motherless child. My mom is gone, my dad
has gone, my grandparents, my great grandparents. I am literally

(56:37):
it's crazy. I'm thirty eight and I would be considered
age wise the matriarch of the family. Right in that era,
you didn't think about these kids not having their mom
when you were doing the shit that you were doing
that was getting you.

Speaker 7 (56:48):
Grabbed, you stopping out girlfriends and shit like that. You
have mad daughters like, men are very terrifying, really, you
know how.

Speaker 2 (56:57):
Men not just people. It's not always we're gonna talk
about women today too. As to what we're seeing in
the media. Let's be easy, hold on, just chill, let's
stay flow through it. So, by the way, Lola, you're right.
Because a dude walked up to me the other day
when I'm with my sons. My sons live with me
right now. Thank god, I love I love the thing.

(57:19):
It's a little, it's a lot, but whatever. Ooh, I
want to talk about that a little bit.

Speaker 3 (57:25):
Mm.

Speaker 2 (57:28):
I don't know how I should do that. But he
threatened me. I'm with my sons. I took we went
for a walk. I'll be taking them for walks, shit
like that, whatever, just to you know. And I looked
at the nigga. So he threatened me like he was like,
he said my real name. So I'm looking like, who
are you? He's like, what nigga? What? Oh? Something? He

(57:52):
said some ship. He was like, never mind you good?
You good? You good? And I was like, because I
felt threatened. The energy was threat but that my son's
with me. So I slowly backed up and just grabbed
them and just start walking with them on the block,
and I'm thinking to myself, I keep looking like it's

(58:12):
this nigga coming behind me. He wasn't, but I was like,
the main job is to get them right and to
remember that you got to take care of these little niggas,
not to prove to this nigga that you ain't pussy right.
But in my mind, I've been in the gym three days. Nigga,
I will kill.

Speaker 3 (58:31):
You for three days.

Speaker 2 (58:38):
I will crush you. Nigga.

Speaker 3 (58:42):
You gotta do better.

Speaker 2 (58:44):
The judge. I have what the judge said to Did
he do? Y'all want to hear it? Did y'all hear it?
At the outside? I want you to understand, mister Comes,
you are not being sentenced for acquitted conduct, but I
must consider many things. You are a self made artist
who had by the community of color. But we saw
the video, the free game course you're doing the colpes.

(59:06):
Hope you continue to expand it. You are devoted to
your family. The court, of course considers the collateral consequences.
The court has to consider all of your history here,
A history of all of your history here, A history
of good work can't wash away the record in this case,
you abuse these women, you use that abuse to get
your way freak offs and hotel nights. The evidence of

(59:27):
the abuse is massive. I was sitting right here during
the testimony. This was subjugation. That is the reality of
what happened.

Speaker 5 (59:35):
Oh my god, sure it's okay, you got that yesterday.

Speaker 2 (59:49):
This was subjigation. That is the reality of what happened.
These offenses irreparably harmed to women. You supplied them with drugs.
Why did it happen for so long? You had the
power and the resources to keep it going. You were
more than a john. A significant sentence is required to

(01:00:12):
deter you say you're sorry and you won't do it again.
After Miss Venturer's civil lawsuit was filed, after the video
was public and investigations started, you had a brutal, whole
hotel night with Jane. You punched her in the head.
Jane says he told her take He told her take
this pill, go out there and suck his dick. Fuck him.

(01:00:35):
I don't care. The court is not convinced this would
not happen again. The court has considered the programs. They
are weighed by the trial record. In this case, exploitation
and violence against women must be met with real accountability
to promote respect for the law.

Speaker 5 (01:00:51):
I appreciate it.

Speaker 2 (01:00:54):
So yeah, he did say that eleven years is not
reasonable for that would also not be sufficient, So yeah,
that's what he got.

Speaker 5 (01:01:05):
This lets me know if he would have been convicted
on those other charges, he would have done life.

Speaker 2 (01:01:10):
Yeah, he never come home.

Speaker 5 (01:01:11):
He would never come home.

Speaker 2 (01:01:13):
But I also feel like, damn, A little bit feels
like can you I've been acquitted for those how do
you still So the judges like, yo, yeah, you was acquitted.
But that's what got us here, So there's the route. Yeah,
we might might be able to charge you on that shit.
But this is a story, a long story that I

(01:01:33):
have to follow to get to where we are today.
And I believe him regardless of whether those other things
were a crime. I believed them with this. So I
don't know, yes, say what you think. I think.

Speaker 6 (01:01:46):
Kind of like Dodge, this is kind of one of
those things where it's like it can kind of go
either way. But I did think that he was in
a bad space when he early on in the trial
where he was threatening the witnesses, when like the judge
had got him on some of that. I knew that
from that moment right there, whether they whether he was
gonna get like a little bit of time or not,
they were definitely gonna throw some extra shit on him

(01:02:07):
just just for that. And to add on like all
of the like the speaking engagement, all of this, you know,
the macho ship that you've been doing. I feel like
at some point, you know, the prosecution, the courts, the jails,
like they just don't want to have you or make
you look like, I'm sorry, they don't want to just
let you make them look like a mockery. You know

(01:02:28):
what I'm saying, Like this whole ship was just for nothing.
You're gonna just walk side of here and just you know,
do whatever. It's like, Nah, nigga, sit down for a
few We're not gonna hit you with the book because
it's that wouldn't be obviously fair. But yeah, niggas sit
down for a few extra few extra Then if you
would have just shut the fuck up and been remorseful
and did everything the right way, you probably could have
came home today.

Speaker 4 (01:02:49):
But because because of the extra shit.

Speaker 6 (01:02:51):
We're gonna hold you for another what two years, a
year or two Yeah, nigga sit down for a year or.

Speaker 2 (01:02:57):
Two, just just for I think that's just makes me
feel comfortable. I definitely think he needs time to consider
who he's going to be, what his legacy looks like now,
and he's still is going to have that power when
he comes home five hundred thousand dollars'ever, that's nothing right,
So what are you going to do? Power? I'm sure

(01:03:20):
you saw the Nikki Carter.

Speaker 5 (01:03:21):
Stuf salute the real bitches, Salute the real bitches salute.

Speaker 2 (01:03:26):
How y'all feel about that? I don't know if you honestly?

Speaker 7 (01:03:29):
That's another thing, Like this is why me and social
media we haven't been getting along because I'm tired of
seeing that shit too. Like I don't know how many
ways I have to say that there's something wrong with
Onika Tinia Mirage for people.

Speaker 5 (01:03:41):
To understand something.

Speaker 3 (01:03:43):
Something is very, very very not right with this, But
it's cool, like.

Speaker 2 (01:03:49):
Everybody have fun.

Speaker 5 (01:03:49):
Yes, it's not cool. I think that when they reference
that she might be schizophrenic, I think there's something to that.
It makes sense on why she's had these characters, Roman
Plansky or whoever it was, like, I think there's some
mental health concerns.

Speaker 3 (01:04:05):
And there also might be some drugs seriously involved. Right,
we listened to pills and potions.

Speaker 5 (01:04:11):
You said that you gave it, You gave us the AMO.
I think there's something drastically wrong with a woman coming
out of nowhere and saying I'm going to kick your
daughter's guns? Are you fucking crazy? And somebody somebody to
me like, oh you know, Cardi B is responding, I

(01:04:32):
hate yo. Don't slap me and be mad that I
punched you. You can't do that.

Speaker 3 (01:04:37):
You can't.

Speaker 5 (01:04:37):
You can't slap me and be mad that I fucked
you up. Carti is not as evolved as a Beyonce.
Beyonce is just gonna ignore you, bitch like you're you're dust.
I've actually learned how to ignore people now that I'm
not that ignoring people hurts them so bad. I will ignore.
But I've never had somebody tell me that they was

(01:04:58):
gonna kick my daughter's gums, And so there's part of
me that maybe I would not ignore that. I can't
really beat up Cardi for reacting to what someone did.
Could I say, yes, you know, have a higher power.
Be used to always be like, so I'm being nigga.

Speaker 2 (01:05:16):
Yesterday is a barbe.

Speaker 3 (01:05:18):
You're barb. You were just playing Cardi album a couple
of minutes ago. Now you're bar bar?

Speaker 2 (01:05:24):
Are you a bar? Are you a bar? Are you
a bar?

Speaker 4 (01:05:27):
Are you?

Speaker 5 (01:05:28):
What's the right way of being?

Speaker 2 (01:05:31):
And I hear you back then reacting, are you a
barca already? Are you a barb? Are you a bar?

Speaker 4 (01:05:39):
I'm as much of a barber as y'all are Cardi fans.

Speaker 5 (01:05:41):
Obviously, it's not about to be fans. It's not about
to being a Cardi fan. It's just about I hate you.

Speaker 2 (01:05:50):
Yep. I'm gonna go ahead and end this here because
the battle that is about to ensue between Yesterday Dodge
and Lola goes on for a while over this Cardi
versus Nikki. We have a barb in the house. I
have a barb in my family, a male barb, and

(01:06:12):
boy does he fight tooth and now to defend his queen,
Oh Nika mirage. Tune in on Thursday to hear the
full argument, or go on over the Patreon right now
and listen to the full episode ad free Man. This

(01:06:32):
conversation was good, Actually, the whole episode was good. I
can't wait for y'all hear the second part. We'll be
releasing Thursday morning, or you can go over there and
listen to it, or a Patreon right now. Yesterday is
so crazy and I love it when he's mad and
you can't you know he's mad, but he don't want
to end it. He's mad. It's so good. We'll see

(01:06:55):
you Thursday,