On this episode of the World Game-Changers podcast Paul talks to Paul (PK) Kelly about the things he didn’t know that he now knows and thinks the world should know.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Perception is a brilliant word: You might thing you’re doing a brilliant job, but someone might say you’re doing it all wrong. One of you might be right, one of you might be wrong, but it’s all about what people think.
Our thoughts can be very powerful, and they can cause us to overthink and that’s when people can become stressed. It’s very difficult at times to park our thoughts and say: “Is that thought valid?” Being able to validate your thoughts is what it’s all about and discount the thoughts that don’t serve us.
The power of detaching your emotions from a situation, good or bad, is a very difficult power to learn. But, if you can, you can see the positives in negatives or you don’t get too carried away with the positive. The ability to remain neutral is a fantastic thing.
You need to let go. If someone’s done you wrong and you’re carrying around that black cloud above your head and thinking negative things about them, you should actually just go about your own business. Forget that bad experience, just let it go. It doesn’t serve you, it’s like carrying poison around with you and sipping it every day, it’s making you worse not better.
BEST MOMENTS
‘There’s so many little things that you don’t really know, as you grow older you realise how little you do actually know'.
‘Being able to let go of those negative thoughts and move on to the next positive one is mastering the game of life'.
‘You’ve got to be able to forgive, not forget, but you have to be able to let go of that negative thought because it doesn’t serve us'.
‘With age comes experience of good and bad and how you can deal with things better'.
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (UK)
Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (USA)
Mastering The Game Of Life Book (UK)
Mastering The Game Of Life Book (USA)
Speaking From Our Hearts Books: Volumes 1-3 (Available on Amazon)
World Game-Changers Group
ABOUT THE GUEST
Paul’s young parents divorced before he started primary school, resulting in him and his mother going to live with his loving grandparents.
From starting primary school, Paul was always a keen sportsman, excelling at swimming, football, chess and cricket, and after establishing himself as a regular in the Nottinghamshire (UK) cricket set-up, his grandmother decided to give him the opportunity to go to a private school to play his beloved sport, something he continued in Australia.
On his return to England, Paul was attacked after a night out and hospitalised, suffering temporary blindness, a double fractured skull and memory loss. After ten days in a coma, he awoke and started to try and rebuild his life; however, he encountered severe depression, suicidal thoughts, paranoia, and heavy drinking binges.
With the help of family & friends, step-by-step, Paul began the road to recovery and happiness – a 25-year roller-coaster journey – that has taught him vital lessons…particularly using stress to achieve success.
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ABOUT THE HOST
Paul has made a remarkable transformation from existing for many years in dark, desperate despair; to now living a really healthy, happy & fulfilling life.
From an early age, he was in the vice-like clutches of the demon drink & constantly embroiled within a dark cocktail of toxic beliefs, self-hate & destructive violence.
Along with his empathetic and dedicated team of world-class coaches & mentors, Paul’s purpose is deeply transformational:
Developing World Game-Changers…
He is extremely passionate about helping others to find their purpose, have a voice & ultimately, make a real difference.
This has been built on a long & distinguished history of heart-centred coaching and mentoring. He has also been responsible for raising significant amounts of funds for many charities & good cause