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December 10, 2025 23 mins

A senior vice-president worries that attention on his people’s development will get overwhelmed in the volume of work. He asks his coach for tools to make the process effective and efficient. 


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Core Concepts 

Prioritizing professional development is hard.

The 3-Conversation model makes development easy for the leader and meaningful for the person.

The three conversations in summary: 

  1. Define ‘what,’ ‘why’ and give homework;
  2. The person reflects on the homework and how they plan to improve;
  3. Periodic check-ins about the homework. ‘What are you learning?’


The leader’s role in these conversations: 

  • Clarify the ‘what’ and ‘why’ 
  • Listen and encourage
  • Ask, ‘What are you learning?’


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This episode is tagged in three categories in our podcast library:

Feedback

Leadership

Management Skills



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