Not all red flags are loud or obvious. Some show up in small, repeated moments that leave you feeling uneasy.
In this episode of This Complex Life, I unpack 10 relationship red flags you shouldn’t ignore. These aren’t just the dramatic ones like cheating or lying, they’re the quieter patterns that can slowly wear you down over time.
I talk about how to tell the difference between a red flag and a misunderstanding, what emotional safety really means, and how to use discomfort as a signal to reflect, not overreact.
Key takeaways:
- Why red flags aren’t always a reason to leave (but still matter)
- How disrespect, sarcasm or subtle put-downs can erode safety
- The importance of accountability and emotional maturity
- Why repeated boundary-pushing isn’t just annoying, it’s a warning
- What to look for when it comes to emotional manipulation
- Signs of poor frustration tolerance and conditional kindness
- How to use red flags as prompts for reflection, not panic
Resources:
- Listen to the previous episode on trust: https://marievakakis.com.au/why-love-isnt-enough-when-trust-is-missing/
- Relationship Refresh course: https://www.marievakakis.com.au/courses
If this episode stirred something for you, you’re not alone. These conversations are hard but they matter.
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