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Speaker 1 (00:00):
A fresh show. It's Kiki's Court. It's all right, the
honorable judge Kikilik takes the best Ali what you got?

Speaker 2 (00:09):
All right, baby, this case, says Kiki. I feel like
you can relate to this. I've been dating my boyfriend
for six years and a few months ago I finally
gave him an ultimatum, either marry me or it's over.
He reassured me that marriage was in the future for us,
so I decided to give him a little more time.
But in the meantime, there was a bridal convention coming

(00:30):
to our city, and I decided to go with my
mom just to get ideas for our future big day.

Speaker 1 (00:36):
While there, I.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
Ended up falling in love with the dress, and the
designer told me that it was a one of one,
so I had to buy it. Fast forward a month later,
he broke up with me. Now I'm stuck with a
dress and completely heartbroken. I paid over thirty five hundred
dollars for this dress, and I feel like he can
at the very least give me my money back. No,

(00:57):
he completely misled me. Please tell me what you think.
What Sarah, You're a listener of the show, so I
won't call you stupid. But what I will tell to
you is that you are less than smart, ma'am. And no,
I cannot relate to this at all. Okay, because I

(01:18):
am delusional in most cases of my life. Think I'm
fine and you know, the cutest thing walking, very delulu,
but not this, Delulu. There's no way you would go
and buy a wedding dress for some You just bought
a dress for a party you're not invited to, Like
he never proposed to you, ma'am, why would you go
buy a wedding dress? And your mother is just as delusional,

(01:38):
because why would she take you to a bridal convention
for a man that hasn't proposed to you.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
No, he didn't say it's coming in a month. He
didn't say it's coming in six weeks. He just said, Hey,
we're getting there, right. What was the future? In the future,
So I do intend to do it, but not in
any immediate span of time. He didn't even say with
you he said, that's true. He did not it's in

(02:03):
the future, which means I can marry you are the
next girl.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
But what in your mind made you think that you
needed to be at a bridal prevention?

Speaker 1 (02:11):
Let me tell you if you went to that thing
and you found the dress that you had to have
for whatever wedding, and your mom encouraged you to buy it,
buy it, and you keep it at her house and
you don't tell anybody about it. If you just gotta
have it, then don't tell anybody you did that, especially
the guy who you've been pressing to propose to you,

(02:33):
because now it's like, oh, you're really trying me now.
And the other thing is, you know how I feel
about marriage ultimatums, about proposal ultimatums, I do not like it.
I do not like it. You are, of course allowed
to express that you want to know where things are
going and that that's the direction you wanted to go in,
and that you hope that happens, and that you're not
gonna wait forever. But to say to somebody either do

(02:53):
it or I'm breaking up with you, you're doomed, because
more often than not, aren't you going to wonder later
if that person really wanted to propose to you or
if you just force them to. Like, who wants to
believe that the proposal that they received was not organic
and not from the heart.

Speaker 3 (03:09):
Yeah, there was a whole friend's episode about this where
Monica like goes to a venue and they say, you know,
we we do weddings here, but the wait list is
for two years. So she's like, oh, I might as
well put my name.

Speaker 1 (03:20):
In because I'm dating someone seriously.

Speaker 3 (03:22):
But they call and leave a voicemail and Chandler hears
it and gets all freaked out.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Right, you know, so the same thing here. You ran
this man off at this point.

Speaker 4 (03:31):
Girl, Yes, but also she's not out them, like you're
gonna use that dress whenever you eventually you get married.
But she doesn't owe you that money, like you know
what I'm saying, Like it's a wedding.

Speaker 1 (03:40):
People buy owe the money anyway. Yeah, that's what I'm saying,
Like she doesn't owe them. But like you're not going
to keith the dress. It's not like you're out there.

Speaker 4 (03:48):
You're out there like you're gonna use the dress, like
eventually you get married.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
I know a lot of people.

Speaker 4 (03:52):
That will buy a dress because that's the dress they
wanted and that's the one they're getting get married in.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
But like, you're not out that money.

Speaker 2 (03:59):
I think she is out there money. Let me tell
you why, because any man she gets with, she's gonna
run him off. There's nobody that's gonna marry this girl.
I'm sorry, care, we're gonna be single together. Girl.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
It's we are in the stry.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
Because it's a special type of crazy that you would
go purchase a dress and and.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
What's your mother? I can't believe the mother didn't talk
some sense to her daughter. Now, let me ask you this, Yes,
how is that?

Speaker 5 (04:20):
How?

Speaker 1 (04:21):
I see why? But I'm asking sort of a hypothetical here,
or a rhetorical question maybe, But how is buying the
dress ahead of time any different than the women that
have Pinterest pages for the wedding that isn't happening, or
that hasn't happened yet, or the proposal isn't even in place.
But people are already sort of in their mind planning
how they want that to look.

Speaker 2 (04:39):
Well, you know, I have my wedding plan. I have
joh rule booked, you know, to come to the wedding.
And you know, I know you don't all people have.
Most people have ideas of what they like and what
they dream of. Right, we all have type of vision
boards and things that we want we want to manifest.
This's my girl, Paulina would say, However, to actually take
the step of purchasing a thirty five hundred dollars dress
and hanging it up is if you have a wedding

(05:01):
plan and this man just told you in the future.
I just feel like that's a different level of delusional
that we should be safe about, Like she's not safe.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
Well, you guys are the jury in Kiki's court. Eight five, five, five, nine,
one one oh three five. You can call in text
the same number. I can't disagree with you, judge, I
really can't. I mean, I'm telling you if if if
you said to me, I really want to get married,
I want you to propose, and I go, hey, I
want that too, and hopefully someday we can get there,
you know, sooner than later. And then you come home

(05:29):
from a bridal thing with a dress. I am freak
the hell out. What did you did? You not just
listen to me, You didn't just hear me like, we're not.
I'm not ready yet and you gotta respect that. And
if you are and I'm not and it's been too
long for you, then maybe you gotta go, Yeah, start cheating.
I mean, it could cheating. It could work.

Speaker 4 (05:46):
Because you mentioned Paulina Paulina actually did that. Wait a minute,
You went to bridal events before even being engaged to
her husband?

Speaker 6 (05:54):
What?

Speaker 1 (05:54):
And she was, Yes, I didn't know that, and she
was trying to prime to win. She was trying to
win a like a wedding. Okay, he wasn't even engaged yet,
but she knew how close she was. I mean, we
knew they were getting engaged.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
Yeah, maybe, yeah, Hobby probably told her, like, look on
this day or this year, even if the guy would
have said this year in the future.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
Let me tell you something once Paulina's promise was on
the table. You do it, George, We're opening if you
know what I'm saying, and if you don't know, I'm
not going to explain it to you. Hey, Gina, good morning.
How you doing. Hi, I'm doing great. Okay, So, and
I just wanted to go ahead, No, I just wanted
to reset. Here Gina and Kiki's court. This woman asked
her boyfriend when they're going to get married. He said

(06:39):
that's coming in the future. I would like that too.
She runs out to a bridal event, buys a dress,
not even engaged. Dudes freaking out, dumpster, but go ahead,
what did you want to say.

Speaker 5 (06:52):
I say, she.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
Totally played herself and anybody that went with her to
that bridal show, they just egged her on.

Speaker 2 (06:59):
She did not eat the room.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
Oh yes, hey. The fact that I would think the
mom might be like, hey, we can go if you want,
you know, but like we don't need to buy anything
because we're not quite there yet. Also, is she gonna
wear that dress with another man because she bought the
dress with him in mind, a wedding to him in mind.

Speaker 2 (07:18):
And that's why I don't think she will. That's why
she wants their money back.

Speaker 1 (07:21):
And he hadn't he didn't any he should not.

Speaker 5 (07:24):
He should not have to pay for that dress, and
the mom shouldn't have even encouraged her to even go.

Speaker 2 (07:30):
Look not at this point.

Speaker 1 (07:32):
Yeah, I agree with you. Gina. Thank you, You're welcome.
Have a great day, guys. She thanks for being part
of the thirteen. We love you. Adriana. Hello, Hello, Hey,
good morning Kicky's Court. What say you?

Speaker 5 (07:44):
Well, First, she shut herself on the foot by pressuring
the man and by telling him are we getting married
or not?

Speaker 1 (07:50):
I don't like that, you know how I feel about
that second in law.

Speaker 5 (07:57):
Before they're even playing with their wedding dream to hide
it you don't see anything because yeah, when it comes
to that stuff, but who anything appear actually in your wedding.

Speaker 1 (08:11):
Yeah that's crazy. Yeah yeah, I mean yeah, what can
I say, Adriana, thank you, have a good day. Relate.

Speaker 2 (08:20):
No, I can't.

Speaker 1 (08:21):
Girl, Well there are people, there are women that do
that though.

Speaker 4 (08:24):
They see the dress of their dreams and they got
to buy it and they you know it's for they're
gonna use it for their wedding.

Speaker 1 (08:31):
A bunch of text. Kiki's ruling stands, this is her
dress to lie in. Her mom should pay the money.
You didn't have to do, my girl, Paulina like that.
Somebody said, I mean, paul We love Pauline, of course
to death. But Pauline has always been about ten steps
ahead of every everything else.

Speaker 2 (08:48):
She she secured her ring she she made't have them.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
But Pauline is my mission. Uh. Message to Paulina for
like the what is it eight almost ten years I've
known her, is just like let's just focus on like today,
let's focus on getting through like you just safely driving
from here home and you know kind of thing like
we don't need to I don't, I can't tell you
it's gonna happen in three years, like we just got
to know. But you're right, it did work her manifestation

(09:14):
she shouldn't have bought address if she knows that he
wasn't ready. To be fair, it doesn't say she told
the guys she bought a dress. Well, I don't know.
I assume he found out right, Okay, buying a dress
before having a wedding on the books because it's one
of a kind and she loves it. Kind of weird
but not insane. Somebody said, thinking the dude's going to
pay for it is Delulu. I agree with that. Yes,

(09:37):
that is the Delulu party.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
Can you imagine she's at this convention just sending him
pictures like look at me in this stress.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
Oh my god. I'd be like, look at me, move
my stuff out, look at me, get in a new apartment,
look at me, you know, out of here, look at
me downloaded ing going to another text. Going to the
bridal show isn't the problem. It's purchasing the dress. I
totally agree.

Speaker 6 (10:04):
See, I'm a planner, Okay, So I feel like if
it were me and if I asked him, like first off,
I would never do an ultimatum. But if that exchange
did happen, he was like, it's coming. I need to
prepare for its coming.

Speaker 1 (10:17):
But you're going to have time once it happens. You
know it's not gonna happen. It's not you get engaged
and you get married tomorrow.

Speaker 6 (10:23):
Yes, but don't you just want to you know, have
all your eyes dotted.

Speaker 1 (10:27):
Get out of the way, get it out the way,
completely done right.

Speaker 6 (10:33):
Yeah, it's just like planning events.

Speaker 1 (10:37):
I got to get anything together, but not this deep Stephanie, Hi, welcome,
good morning, Good morning man Kiki's court. What say you?

Speaker 5 (10:48):
I think that Kiki is really stands thank you her dress,
she needs to lie in it, and mom should pay
for the delusional event that occurred.

Speaker 1 (10:58):
The delusional event that the mom the mom has.

Speaker 6 (11:05):
I mean, if the mom was the one that was
there with her, that mom should be the one that
gives her that money back.

Speaker 5 (11:10):
This guy has no there's no tide to this dress
for him, there's nothing.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
He should absolutely not pay for it.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
So I think if she wants her money back, it
should be mom.

Speaker 1 (11:19):
Stephanie. If I'm looking at this, if I'm the dude,
I'm looking at this going by girlfriends a little Delulu
and mom's Delulu, so I know where it comes from.
We got multiple generations of Delulu going on here, so
we have many problems. Yeah that's the bullet. Yeah, exactly.
Thank you, Sevani. Thanks, have a good day.

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