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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yeah, they talk better than the excited.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Tell them about Tell me that these are the radio
blogs on the Fred Show. All right, it's like we're
writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. We
call them blogs who decided to do anyone may, all right,
take it away, Thank.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
You so much, dear blog.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
See. I think everybody in this room either knows or
has like an old person in their life that just
does and says what they want at all costs, like
they don't care.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Yeah, okay, I'm that person. Oh but it's not because
I'm an.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Old lady, even though I am, you know, older and
old broad is what I call myself around the house
these days, you knows, a busy household. For me, it's
truly having a baby that changed a lot in me.
And I'm only like six weeks in. Guys, we're seven
weeks in. I'm only seven weeks in. But for me,
I feel like I've changed a lot in the sense
of like I really I mean I kind of already
(00:53):
done this before, but now I.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Really do it.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I just kind of say.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
What I want to say, and like I just like
don't care and not a bad disrespect the way I
just like literally like I'm doing what I want to do.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
I don't feel bad about stuff anymore.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Like, why do you think that happened? Because, yeah, I've
noticed this Paulina with my mom as she gets older. Yes,
I've noticed that she just gives fewer fs about really anything.
And she's the most lovely, kind, generous, giving person. It's
not that it's not like she's out here raging. No, no, no,
but she says exactly what she's thinking. She kind of
refuses to adapt to like social norms. I mean like
(01:31):
because she and I think the problem with my mom
is that, like in her mind, she knows what she means,
and she knows where she's coming from. Yes, but unfortunately
nobody takes into consideration context anymore. People just get mad
about whatever happened right now. They don't even consider the source.
So with age, I understand why it's happening. But why
do you think when the kid comes out that you
(01:52):
just decided to sort of let it all hang out?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
I started thinking about that too, and I was like,
I wonder if it's just a different side of me,
because is.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
It like empowerment?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Is it like I grew a baby inside of me
and it came from my loins. And now like all
of you can suck it.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
You can't tell me nothing like I put you one
of the hardest things it is a human has to
go through. Maybe that's it. Yeah, and you're just like
no time anymore.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Yeah, right, I could do anything, and even like my
people pleasing has really gone down, and I.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Know, I know the day has come. I need to
have a baby.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
You think it is, I think it's honestly, I think
it's that you now realize there's stuff way more important
than the stuff that you were worried about before, Like
those are the things that that that you were apologizing for,
the things that consumed you. Maybe I think you maybe
don't have the energy like to worry about fact which
(02:48):
real sort of needless stuff, because I mean you worry
about You used to worry about stuff and it would
be like Paulina like that no one, no one else
is worried about it, Like, don't worry about it.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Oh yeah, I mean still do, I feel, but not
as much.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
There's only so much in the worry bank. And I
feel like, as a non parent, I'm only surmising, But
I gotta figure that you wake up every day and
you're like, I got to keep.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
This human alive.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
There's not enough time for me to worry about, right,
this social interaction or that one or whatever.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
I'm mad at me, you know, who's not talking to
me today? Like yeah, the little things, you know, and
those are things are still important of course, Like I like,
obviously I want to come up as a good, respectable
human being.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
You know, sometimes it depends. But I just feel like
I just the f's are going down.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
And maybe it is because like I did one of
the hardest things in the world, and like you said,
I wake up every day and priorities are just so different,
like I have to keep a human alife, like this
is my responsibility.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
And yeah, I just the people pleasing has gone down.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I'm like, you know, if I don't do this, like
no offense, but like I don't care if you're mad,
Like I don't care.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
I really wish I had more of that because my
problem is I don't have anyone else to worry about
about myself, and I have so much idle time that
i'd leave here and I can just sit and just
think about everything, you know, and I mean listen, and
I don't maybe if I'm not saying I'm gonna go
have a baby, so I could minimize that. I just
think it's probably it would just be a different kind
of stress. But at least that stress is about enriching
(04:06):
a child, you know, and providing her with a great life,
as opposed to sitting around going why does this person
hate me? Why is this person talking about me? Because
that stuff doesn't matter.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
No, it really doesn't.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
And like you said, I just want to focus on
her and just like you know, her well being, making
sure she's taken care of, Like that's just all that
I care about.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
In a sense, I pray for having because I went
through the same situation like when Jess had actually and
it's just like, you know, that's the most important thing
in the world, and then you just fall like it's
just like anything you do is wrong.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
No, No, I'm just.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Like's yeah, yeah, yeah, No one's gonna do it like me.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
I'm sorry, I'm mom, No one's gonna do it like me.
So he does a good job, but yes he doesn't
hear it from me. That is true. But but but
then of the day, who's priority right now? It's a baby?
I'm her survival When she looks at me, she sees survival.
It's just the truth. No, you're right, No, she counts
on you for it, literally everything. And when she sees you.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I was holding her and when she heard your voice
and was like waking up, just looking for you.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
So sweet. Oh it's my baby.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Yeah. And she's getting prettier as she gets older too.
And that hair, that hair on baby hair.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
I know.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
I think it all starts. Guys, we just need to
pop something out of our loins. Is that we need
to do, Like, yeah, that would be my first step
in caring less about a bunch of stuff that doesn't
it's just figuring out how to get a baby.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Oh, I just think like it just it just changed
it for me, you know what I mean? And I
didn't think it would. I was like, I'll never stop
people pleasing knowing me and the way my mental health
is set up.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I'm like, this will never stop. But yeah, slowly but sure.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
And I'm not even pandering, Like what you guys do
is superhuman honestly. Like the other what was it on
TikTok or Instagram or something somebody posted It was around
Mother's Day and it was like, be I think it
was Mark Chaseky works for the company. He said, make
sure you get your mom somebody from Mother's Day. And
it showed it was like a there was a piece
of wood with a bunch of circles cut out of
it to show like the centimeter dilation basically of like
(05:58):
a baby's head, and it showed like how what ten
centimeters looks like around I'm like, oh my.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
God, that thing can do that.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Oh my god. I will never ever piss my mom
off ever again again now that I've seen that.
Yeah, they talk better than the excited.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Tell them about Tell me that these are the radio
blogs on the Fred Show. All right, it's like we're
writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. We
call them blogs who decided to do anyone may, all right,
take it away, Thank.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
You so much, dear blog.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
See. I think everybody in this room either knows or
has like an old person in their life that just
does and says what they want at all costs, like
they don't care.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Yeah, okay, I'm that person. Oh but it's not because
I'm an.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Old lady, even though I am, you know, older and
old broad is what I call myself around the house
these days, you knows, a busy household. For me, it's
truly having a baby that changed a lot in me.
And I'm only like six weeks in. Guys, we're seven
weeks in. I'm only seven weeks in. But for me,
I feel like I've changed a lot in the sense
of like I really I mean I kind of already
(00:53):
done this before, but now I.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Really do it.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I just kind of say.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
What I want to say, and like I just like
don't care and not a bad disrespect the way I
just like literally like I'm doing what I want to do.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
I don't feel bad about stuff anymore.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Like, why do you think that happened? Because, yeah, I've
noticed this Paulina with my mom as she gets older. Yes,
I've noticed that she just gives fewer fs about really anything.
And she's the most lovely, kind, generous, giving person. It's
not that it's not like she's out here raging. No, no, no,
but she says exactly what she's thinking. She kind of
refuses to adapt to like social norms. I mean like
(01:31):
because she and I think the problem with my mom
is that, like in her mind, she knows what she means,
and she knows where she's coming from. Yes, but unfortunately
nobody takes into consideration context anymore. People just get mad
about whatever happened right now. They don't even consider the source.
So with age, I understand why it's happening. But why
do you think when the kid comes out that you
(01:52):
just decided to sort of let it all hang out?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
I started thinking about that too, and I was like,
I wonder if it's just a different side of me,
because is.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
It like empowerment?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Is it like I grew a baby inside of me
and it came from my loins. And now like all
of you can suck it.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
You can't tell me nothing like I put you one
of the hardest things it is a human has to
go through. Maybe that's it. Yeah, and you're just like
no time anymore.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Yeah, right, I could do anything, and even like my
people pleasing has really gone down, and I.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Know, I know the day has come. I need to
have a baby.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
You think it is, I think it's honestly, I think
it's that you now realize there's stuff way more important
than the stuff that you were worried about before, Like
those are the things that that that you were apologizing for,
the things that consumed you. Maybe I think you maybe
don't have the energy like to worry about fact which
(02:48):
real sort of needless stuff, because I mean you worry
about You used to worry about stuff and it would
be like Paulina like that no one, no one else
is worried about it, Like, don't worry about it.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Oh yeah, I mean still do, I feel, but not
as much.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
There's only so much in the worry bank. And I
feel like, as a non parent, I'm only surmising, But
I gotta figure that you wake up every day and
you're like, I got to keep.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
This human alive.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
There's not enough time for me to worry about, right,
this social interaction or that one or whatever.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
I'm mad at me, you know, who's not talking to
me today? Like yeah, the little things, you know, and
those are things are still important of course, Like I like,
obviously I want to come up as a good, respectable
human being.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
You know, sometimes it depends. But I just feel like
I just the f's are going down.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
And maybe it is because like I did one of
the hardest things in the world, and like you said,
I wake up every day and priorities are just so different,
like I have to keep a human alife, like this
is my responsibility.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
And yeah, I just the people pleasing has gone down.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I'm like, you know, if I don't do this, like
no offense, but like I don't care if you're mad,
Like I don't care.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
I really wish I had more of that because my
problem is I don't have anyone else to worry about
about myself, and I have so much idle time that
i'd leave here and I can just sit and just
think about everything, you know, and I mean listen, and
I don't maybe if I'm not saying I'm gonna go
have a baby, so I could minimize that. I just
think it's probably it would just be a different kind
of stress. But at least that stress is about enriching
(04:06):
a child, you know, and providing her with a great life,
as opposed to sitting around going why does this person
hate me? Why is this person talking about me? Because
that stuff doesn't matter.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
No, it really doesn't.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
And like you said, I just want to focus on
her and just like you know, her well being, making
sure she's taken care of, Like that's just all that
I care about.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
In a sense, I pray for having because I went
through the same situation like when Jess had actually and
it's just like, you know, that's the most important thing
in the world, and then you just fall like it's
just like anything you do is wrong.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
No, No, I'm just.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Like's yeah, yeah, yeah, No one's gonna do it like me.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
I'm sorry, I'm mom, No one's gonna do it like me.
So he does a good job, but yes he doesn't
hear it from me. That is true. But but but
then of the day, who's priority right now? It's a baby?
I'm her survival When she looks at me, she sees survival.
It's just the truth. No, you're right, No, she counts
on you for it, literally everything. And when she sees you.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I was holding her and when she heard your voice
and was like waking up, just looking for you.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
So sweet. Oh it's my baby.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Yeah. And she's getting prettier as she gets older too.
And that hair, that hair on baby hair.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
I know.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
I think it all starts. Guys, we just need to
pop something out of our loins. Is that we need
to do, Like, yeah, that would be my first step
in caring less about a bunch of stuff that doesn't
it's just figuring out how to get a baby.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Oh, I just think like it just it just changed
it for me, you know what I mean? And I
didn't think it would. I was like, I'll never stop
people pleasing knowing me and the way my mental health
is set up.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I'm like, this will never stop. But yeah, slowly but sure.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
And I'm not even pandering, Like what you guys do
is superhuman honestly. Like the other what was it on
TikTok or Instagram or something somebody posted It was around
Mother's Day and it was like, be I think it
was Mark Chaseky works for the company. He said, make
sure you get your mom somebody from Mother's Day. And
it showed it was like a there was a piece
of wood with a bunch of circles cut out of
it to show like the centimeter dilation basically of like
(05:58):
a baby's head, and it showed like how what ten
centimeters looks like around I'm like, oh my.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
God, that thing can do that.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Oh my god. I will never ever piss my mom
off ever again again now that I've seen that.
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