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Speaker 1 (00:00):
He's the French show Couden Morning, So stair go. A
little while ago we had crag on. If you remember Craig,
he was dating a woman named Vanessa for four months
and they still had not slept together. They hadn't had sex,
and he's aware that she's not a virgin and that
she's not waiting for marriage. But she tells him when
(00:21):
he brings it up, like hey, or you know, where
are we at with this, that we'll do it when
she's ready. We'll do it when I'm ready, is what
she tells him. So guess what, guys, we found Vanessa.
Oh right, we found Vanessa. It wasn't easy Vanessa. Okay,
welcome to the program. Hi Vanessa. You are Craig's girlfriend,
(00:41):
and will you confirm everything that I just said. You're
dating Craig. You guys have been together for about a
little over four months or I guess more than that now,
and while you are not in fact a virgin, you
guys have not slept together. That's all true.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Yeah, true?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Okay, So what's going on now? You agreed to come on.
So for anyone who's like this is very invasive or
you know you're you're really getting into their private life.
She agreed to come on. She knows what we're here
to talk about. But a lot of people have been
asking us for the follow up here because Craig wanted
to know what he should do and and you know,
he was of the impression that you're not really going
to budget and a lot of people had theories about
(01:16):
this as to why you don't want to be with
him intimately yet in this period of time. Some people
said that it wasn't what you say, that it was trauma.
Some people say that it had to do with money.
Some people what other people what did I say? Yeah,
(01:36):
I just wanted to say she looked like as a baby,
Vanessa Keith. You wanted to know if you were a
man and and and there would be nothing wrong with that,
nothing if you were. However, a lot of wild theories
and so we wanted to kind of hear from you.
I mean, what's what's really going on with you and Craig.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I mean, I think you guys are looking way into
this like it's it's pretty simple.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I mean, I'm a woman.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
I mean I want to wait and there's really not
much more to it.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
I mean he should respect that.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
So Vanessa. Okay, Gret, that makes perfect sense. Of course,
you have every right to do that. Is this your
normal practice? I mean when you're dating people, do you
normally wait a while and sort of feel it out? Well,
not necessarily okay, okay, So sometimes you do and sometimes
you don't. So how do you make that decision based
(02:30):
on you know, in this case, it's been a four
months in a committee relationship. You have been intimate before.
You know, some would say maybe the connections off or
there's something going on here, and then now you're saying
that you don't normally necessarily wait. So it's not like
a normal practice. So why with Craig?
Speaker 3 (02:47):
I mean, I just enjoy our time together, Like the
relationship doesn't have to be about sex. You know, he
my gosh, it's sweet. He takes me on wonderful days.
We go on trips together.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Oh you don't, We going to nice spinners?
Speaker 1 (03:02):
So yeah, so you go on trips together, but you guys,
And again I want to be very clear, I'm not
shaming you for whatever decision that you make. I'm just
trying to figure out, as it was Crag you know,
calling us asking for advice, what it is about this
situation that makes you have pause.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
I just want to take it slow. That's pretty much it.
I'm enjoying like all the things we're doing together and
just want to soak that in.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I don't think there's need for anything more now with.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
The slow with the sex, but fast with the money.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
And he's just a really thoughtful and really generous gift giver.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Oh get that bag with all due respect, With all
due respect, Vanessa, it sounds a little bit like a
money rab. Is there any chance that you are really
loving kind of the life that he provides, but maybe
you're not necessarily attracted to him? Is that possible?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
No, that's that's not what's going on. I mean, he's awesome.
I just don't think I should be looking into this
that much. I love spending time.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Are you attracted to him?
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Yeah? Yeah, he's good looking.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Even if he wasn't taking you on trips or giving
you gifts. If the money stopped today, would you still
be with Creed? If Craig lost his job, would you
still be with Creed?
Speaker 3 (04:28):
I mean, he needs a guy used to try in
a relationship, and that's what he's doing.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
So I'm happy with how he's treating me. That's it.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Okay, he trying. He can't even get the first base,
according when we talked to him. I mean, again, she
has every right to do whatever she's comfortable with, but
it sounds like Craig is receiving a little bit different
treatment than maybe she's used to. And she again, Vanessa,
we've really focused on on the material and not necessarily
(04:58):
on the connection.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I mean, we have attraction. I love spending time with him.
What's not clear?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
All right, time with his money? All right, Well then
I guess I'm not gonna I'm not gonna press Well,
we'll just leave it there. But people wanted to know
your your thoughts on this. We were talking about you
behind your bag on the radio, so, uh, we appreciate
you coming on and you know, like, I hope things
work out. I mean, is there no part of you
that wants that need fulfilled? Or is there any chance
(05:28):
it's being fulfilled elsewhere? Maybe because I yeah, maybe no,
that's rude.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Okay, I'm fine, I'm fine the way our situation.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Hey, you know what, then, girl, Now you do whatever
you you do you and I wish you and Craig
the best, and well, yeah, Craig right now, he's at
the Gucci store right now.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Shopping for her.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I don't know. Hey, you do, you honestly, you do.
And whatever works for you too, and and thank you
for your transparency. People wanted to follow up and there
we go. So Vanessa be well, okay whatever, oh what?
Oh okay, dude, you agree to this too. By the way,
you need to get laid girl. Yeah you're intense, baby,
(06:21):
what you're doing later? Yeah, I'm not taking you to Gucci,
but anyway, all right, thank you, Vanessa. More Fred show
next right here,
He's the French show Couden Morning, So stair go. A
little while ago we had crag on. If you remember Craig,
he was dating a woman named Vanessa for four months
and they still had not slept together. They hadn't had sex,
and he's aware that she's not a virgin and that
she's not waiting for marriage. But she tells him when
(00:21):
he brings it up, like hey, or you know, where
are we at with this, that we'll do it when
she's ready. We'll do it when I'm ready, is what
she tells him. So guess what, guys, we found Vanessa.
Oh right, we found Vanessa. It wasn't easy Vanessa. Okay,
welcome to the program. Hi Vanessa. You are Craig's girlfriend,
(00:41):
and will you confirm everything that I just said. You're
dating Craig. You guys have been together for about a
little over four months or I guess more than that now,
and while you are not in fact a virgin, you
guys have not slept together. That's all true.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Yeah, true?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Okay, So what's going on now? You agreed to come on.
So for anyone who's like this is very invasive or
you know you're you're really getting into their private life.
She agreed to come on. She knows what we're here
to talk about. But a lot of people have been
asking us for the follow up here because Craig wanted
to know what he should do and and you know,
he was of the impression that you're not really going
to budget and a lot of people had theories about
(01:16):
this as to why you don't want to be with
him intimately yet in this period of time. Some people
said that it wasn't what you say, that it was trauma.
Some people say that it had to do with money.
Some people what other people what did I say? Yeah,
(01:36):
I just wanted to say she looked like as a baby,
Vanessa Keith. You wanted to know if you were a
man and and and there would be nothing wrong with that,
nothing if you were. However, a lot of wild theories
and so we wanted to kind of hear from you.
I mean, what's what's really going on with you and Craig.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I mean, I think you guys are looking way into
this like it's it's pretty simple.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I mean, I'm a woman.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
I mean I want to wait and there's really not
much more to it.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
I mean he should respect that.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
So Vanessa. Okay, Gret, that makes perfect sense. Of course,
you have every right to do that. Is this your
normal practice? I mean when you're dating people, do you
normally wait a while and sort of feel it out? Well,
not necessarily okay, okay, So sometimes you do and sometimes
you don't. So how do you make that decision based
(02:30):
on you know, in this case, it's been a four
months in a committee relationship. You have been intimate before.
You know, some would say maybe the connections off or
there's something going on here, and then now you're saying
that you don't normally necessarily wait. So it's not like
a normal practice. So why with Craig?
Speaker 3 (02:47):
I mean, I just enjoy our time together, Like the
relationship doesn't have to be about sex. You know, he
my gosh, it's sweet. He takes me on wonderful days.
We go on trips together.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Oh you don't, We going to nice spinners?
Speaker 1 (03:02):
So yeah, so you go on trips together, but you guys,
And again I want to be very clear, I'm not
shaming you for whatever decision that you make. I'm just
trying to figure out, as it was Crag you know,
calling us asking for advice, what it is about this
situation that makes you have pause.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
I just want to take it slow. That's pretty much it.
I'm enjoying like all the things we're doing together and
just want to soak that in.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I don't think there's need for anything more now with.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
The slow with the sex, but fast with the money.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
And he's just a really thoughtful and really generous gift giver.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Oh get that bag with all due respect, With all
due respect, Vanessa, it sounds a little bit like a
money rab. Is there any chance that you are really
loving kind of the life that he provides, but maybe
you're not necessarily attracted to him? Is that possible?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
No, that's that's not what's going on. I mean, he's awesome.
I just don't think I should be looking into this
that much. I love spending time.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Are you attracted to him?
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Yeah? Yeah, he's good looking.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Even if he wasn't taking you on trips or giving
you gifts. If the money stopped today, would you still
be with Creed? If Craig lost his job, would you
still be with Creed?
Speaker 3 (04:28):
I mean, he needs a guy used to try in
a relationship, and that's what he's doing.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
So I'm happy with how he's treating me. That's it.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Okay, he trying. He can't even get the first base,
according when we talked to him. I mean, again, she
has every right to do whatever she's comfortable with, but
it sounds like Craig is receiving a little bit different
treatment than maybe she's used to. And she again, Vanessa,
we've really focused on on the material and not necessarily
(04:58):
on the connection.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I mean, we have attraction. I love spending time with him.
What's not clear?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
All right, time with his money? All right, Well then
I guess I'm not gonna I'm not gonna press Well,
we'll just leave it there. But people wanted to know
your your thoughts on this. We were talking about you
behind your bag on the radio, so, uh, we appreciate
you coming on and you know, like, I hope things
work out. I mean, is there no part of you
that wants that need fulfilled? Or is there any chance
(05:28):
it's being fulfilled elsewhere? Maybe because I yeah, maybe no,
that's rude.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Okay, I'm fine, I'm fine the way our situation.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Hey, you know what, then, girl, Now you do whatever
you you do you and I wish you and Craig
the best, and well, yeah, Craig right now, he's at
the Gucci store right now.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Shopping for her.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I don't know. Hey, you do, you honestly, you do.
And whatever works for you too, and and thank you
for your transparency. People wanted to follow up and there
we go. So Vanessa be well, okay whatever, oh what?
Oh okay, dude, you agree to this too. By the way,
you need to get laid girl. Yeah you're intense, baby,
(06:21):
what you're doing later? Yeah, I'm not taking you to Gucci,
but anyway, all right, thank you, Vanessa. More Fred show
next right here,
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