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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You guys want some relationship news. Yeah, not not personal
relationship news. I just want to update you on I
just want to update you on the research being done
in relationships. Getting married could save your life from cancer, Allegedly.
A twenty thirteen study has gain traction on social media
this week, claiming that married cancer patients have better outcome
(00:22):
outcomes than those who are single. A team found that
being married reduced the risk of death but up to
twenty percent more than chemotherapy in five types of cancer breast, colorectal,
and prostate tumors.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
So I've heard some people say that they think their
marriage is shortening their life. But according to this, According
to this though, if you have a partner, then you're
more likely to live longer. I would imagine because you've
got someone there who loves you, is supporting you. I
mean that makes sense to me. I guess, yeah, I
(00:57):
don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Sometimes you just want to get out of there, get
out of where which partage.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Marriage?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Like a lot of people want to just get out.
So like if I could just check out, you know,
maybe just see what the pearly gates are about, then
maybe I'll go see.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Now, all of a sudden, you'd rather die. I'm going
with this, not me.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Yeah, Like some married people are like he because.
Speaker 4 (01:28):
When you're married, like you say you're sick whatever, Like
you say, I'm sick, and I'm going to fight for
everything because I don't want to give up my money,
give up your money.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I mean, if you're dead, then your money. What does
it matter if your money's gone? But this is what
I wonder. I mean, I think I think they say
people in couples live longer than single people. Is that true?
I think I read that somewhere they.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
Do say that, But then the story below that was
men who have children have shorter life spans. So I
just feel like all these studies, they're always like wine's
good for you, chocolate's bad, Like what are we doing?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
And all the people who live to one hundred, A
lot of the women they ask, what's the secret.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
To live into one hundred?
Speaker 3 (02:10):
And the women are like, I was never married, I've
never had a man. I'm bacon yeah yeah, and live
in peace. But if I try that, it wouldn't work.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
I mean, honestly, Paulina, do you believe as a married woman? Yes?
Do you believe? And you have a kid now that
you will live longer because of Hobby or or do
you believe that he's taking years off of your life?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Honestly, honestly, yeah, I think he's taking years off. And
I do think I'm going to live a long life. Okay,
prosperous life.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
It's on. My psychic told me I don't want to
do that. However, I always said this, and I did.
A tarot card reader heard this morning, and that's what
I told her. I also told her an important message
is coming. She paid more premier. Yeah, exactly, an important
message is coming. Well tell me more. Well I can't.
I just it's coming. Don't worry.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
I'm telling you I'm living a long life. But I
hope so also me too. But I also know that
right I will ride for this theory that I think
that men benefit way more than women do in marriage
and relationships. Like I just had this talk yesterday again,
like this is the hell I'm dying on because I
truly believe that. But I did tell Hobby just because
he is more healthy than I am, he eats better,
(03:19):
he works out and all that, so he will outlive me.
And he made a comment the other day something he's
saying about all living me. I just took it as that,
and I think it's because you know, she just lives
living a better, healthier lifestyle. And I said, you're all
living me, so you could date these twenty year olds.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
I know it.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
So when I'm eighty, I'll be gone, right or one
hundred I'm living to one hundred, Yeah, I'm gone.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
So he'll be ninety seven dating twenty year olds and
longer than me. Now he's older a year older, so
it'll be one hundred and one oh year Old's good
for hobby, I mean, that's what I said. Yeah, I
don't know, Like I don't have a lot of long
term relationship experience, but I suppose I can think of
times when I feel like the partnership makes my life
significantly better, and then I can think of time where
(04:00):
it makes my life significantly harder or is absolutely shaving
years off my life and my well being. So is
it just sort of a net net net, you know
what I mean? Like you just sort of wind up
in the same place. I don't know, or you should
make the argument, do you try harder in life because
you're doing it for your partner and your families? Now kids,
I would argue. I would argue that kids might make
(04:21):
you live longer than just a wife, just a spouse,
or a husband, because you want to live for your kids.
Even if you don't like your spouse. Most people still
want to live for their kids, right of course, so
I would argue the kids would make you live longer.
But here's another question. Is like, and God forbid that
you're about to break up with somebody and then one
of you get sick. You can't break up with them now,
(04:44):
so like you've got to support them at least through
you know what I mean? Yeah? Like that is that terrible?
That's where my first thought came from. Like that people
who are unhappy for have to force themselves to be
content at least because they're not. They don't want to
be the one who leaves the person when they're sick.
You don't, I mean, so like you're more likely to say,
they're more likely to save you from cancer than chemo
(05:05):
because I don't know, because maybe it takes a bad
relationship and makes it livable because like, oh, I really
hate you, but you're sick, so I can't be mean
to you. Is that terriblests where my brain goes my
brain immediately goes to, like, what would I do if
I was in a dysfunctional relationship and the person got sick.
I wouldn't like, you can't leave them. You have to
make it work right. You can't be that. You can't.
(05:26):
You can't do that. It's terrible. Now you shut in.
I don't think I mean, I know the answer. Your
life is improved by Jess.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
I honestly agree with Paulina that married men live longer
than the women or even single men, because like, my
wife is raising two kids, me and Ashland, yeah, and
almost a third. So it's just like she she cares
so much about me that she puts everything else before herself,
(05:55):
you know. So, like my health isn't good, so it's
just like you gotta go on a diet, you got
to exercise more, you gotta do this.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
She's more concerned about me than herself.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
So I agree with Paulina saying that married men will
outlive their wife.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
And benefit more from marriage.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
For sure. I will always say that we give you
a hard time. Well it's just so easy, Rufio, because
you just say things. But this is just so easy.
But you are you are a good man and a
great father and a good husband. But I have to
say you you, I'll kick my coverage. You you you're
getting a way better deal than she is on this. Yeah,
(06:29):
for sure, And I love you and you're my brother,
and I still I would, and I hope, by the way,
I hope someday if I ever get married, people will
say the same thing, like how to help he pull
that off? Like how did he do that? Like why
would this poor woman? You know? And obviously there's got
to be something good and she has because that's my
tall child.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
I know, any crabts right, she has my child that
looks like me, that acts like me. So I you right,
And there's gonna be a third in whatever a month.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
I hope, bless her heart.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
I read that that it's a text that married men
live longer than single men, but single women live longer
than married I guess yeah, because I think probably it's
generally speaking, it's women trying to keep their husbands alive.
I mean, I told you yesterday about the you know,
the procedure of my dad. He's fine that they By
the way, everybody in the family knew about me, Amanda knew.
(07:18):
Everybody knew that they forgot in air quotes to tell me.
I think they just know I've been on the edge
lately and they just didn't want me to jump. I
think that's what it came down to. But he's fine.
But I can tell you right now, and I love
my dad. I love him, you know with all of
my fibers in my being. That guy is not alive
without my mother. Mm hmm, without question. She keeps the
(07:39):
man alive and so but I think my mom would
be just fine. In fact, my mom would probably be.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Stress We stress out the women. The men stress out
the women a hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
So I got to agree with that. Then I think
it's true.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I think your mom would be just fine, and not
in a bad way. I'm just saying like she would persevere.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
What are you trying to say, She's gonna send year
olds twenty year olds? Yeah. God.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
My grandpa was convinced when he was literally dying of cancer,
he kept accusing my grandma of cheating on him because
she was like taking too long at the grocery store
because she's never had to go, and he had an
idea of who it was. It was his friend, and
she was like, why would I cheat on you with
another sick person.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
She was already taking care of you.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
She, by the way, was not cheating, but he was kind.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Of just like losing his marbles. I want much younger
if I'm cheating. She was like, why would I do that?
And he's like on his deathbed, like you're cheating. She's like, Bill,
come on, I don't need a firm right man.
Speaker 5 (08:34):
Right, I would go way younger. Yes, I was like, Grandpa,
get it together.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Of course,
You guys want some relationship news. Yeah, not not personal
relationship news. I just want to update you on I
just want to update you on the research being done
in relationships. Getting married could save your life from cancer, Allegedly.
A twenty thirteen study has gain traction on social media
this week, claiming that married cancer patients have better outcome
(00:22):
outcomes than those who are single. A team found that
being married reduced the risk of death but up to
twenty percent more than chemotherapy in five types of cancer breast, colorectal,
and prostate tumors.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
So I've heard some people say that they think their
marriage is shortening their life. But according to this, According
to this though, if you have a partner, then you're
more likely to live longer. I would imagine because you've
got someone there who loves you, is supporting you. I
mean that makes sense to me. I guess, yeah, I
(00:57):
don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Sometimes you just want to get out of there, get
out of where which partage.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Marriage?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Like a lot of people want to just get out.
So like if I could just check out, you know,
maybe just see what the pearly gates are about, then
maybe I'll go see.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Now, all of a sudden, you'd rather die. I'm going
with this, not me.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Yeah, Like some married people are like he because.
Speaker 4 (01:28):
When you're married, like you say you're sick whatever, Like
you say, I'm sick, and I'm going to fight for
everything because I don't want to give up my money,
give up your money.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I mean, if you're dead, then your money. What does
it matter if your money's gone? But this is what
I wonder. I mean, I think I think they say
people in couples live longer than single people. Is that true?
I think I read that somewhere they.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
Do say that, But then the story below that was
men who have children have shorter life spans. So I
just feel like all these studies, they're always like wine's
good for you, chocolate's bad, Like what are we doing?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
And all the people who live to one hundred, A
lot of the women they ask, what's the secret.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
To live into one hundred?
Speaker 3 (02:10):
And the women are like, I was never married, I've
never had a man. I'm bacon yeah yeah, and live
in peace. But if I try that, it wouldn't work.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
I mean, honestly, Paulina, do you believe as a married woman? Yes?
Do you believe? And you have a kid now that
you will live longer because of Hobby or or do
you believe that he's taking years off of your life?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Honestly, honestly, yeah, I think he's taking years off. And
I do think I'm going to live a long life. Okay,
prosperous life.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
It's on. My psychic told me I don't want to
do that. However, I always said this, and I did.
A tarot card reader heard this morning, and that's what
I told her. I also told her an important message
is coming. She paid more premier. Yeah, exactly, an important
message is coming. Well tell me more. Well I can't.
I just it's coming. Don't worry.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
I'm telling you I'm living a long life. But I
hope so also me too. But I also know that
right I will ride for this theory that I think
that men benefit way more than women do in marriage
and relationships. Like I just had this talk yesterday again,
like this is the hell I'm dying on because I
truly believe that. But I did tell Hobby just because
he is more healthy than I am, he eats better,
(03:19):
he works out and all that, so he will outlive me.
And he made a comment the other day something he's
saying about all living me. I just took it as that,
and I think it's because you know, she just lives
living a better, healthier lifestyle. And I said, you're all
living me, so you could date these twenty year olds.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
I know it.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
So when I'm eighty, I'll be gone, right or one
hundred I'm living to one hundred, Yeah, I'm gone.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
So he'll be ninety seven dating twenty year olds and
longer than me. Now he's older a year older, so
it'll be one hundred and one oh year Old's good
for hobby, I mean, that's what I said. Yeah, I
don't know, Like I don't have a lot of long
term relationship experience, but I suppose I can think of
times when I feel like the partnership makes my life
significantly better, and then I can think of time where
(04:00):
it makes my life significantly harder or is absolutely shaving
years off my life and my well being. So is
it just sort of a net net net, you know
what I mean? Like you just sort of wind up
in the same place. I don't know, or you should
make the argument, do you try harder in life because
you're doing it for your partner and your families? Now kids,
I would argue. I would argue that kids might make
(04:21):
you live longer than just a wife, just a spouse,
or a husband, because you want to live for your kids.
Even if you don't like your spouse. Most people still
want to live for their kids, right of course, so
I would argue the kids would make you live longer.
But here's another question. Is like, and God forbid that
you're about to break up with somebody and then one
of you get sick. You can't break up with them now,
(04:44):
so like you've got to support them at least through
you know what I mean? Yeah? Like that is that terrible?
That's where my first thought came from. Like that people
who are unhappy for have to force themselves to be
content at least because they're not. They don't want to
be the one who leaves the person when they're sick.
You don't, I mean, so like you're more likely to say,
they're more likely to save you from cancer than chemo
(05:05):
because I don't know, because maybe it takes a bad
relationship and makes it livable because like, oh, I really
hate you, but you're sick, so I can't be mean
to you. Is that terriblests where my brain goes my
brain immediately goes to, like, what would I do if
I was in a dysfunctional relationship and the person got sick.
I wouldn't like, you can't leave them. You have to
make it work right. You can't be that. You can't.
(05:26):
You can't do that. It's terrible. Now you shut in.
I don't think I mean, I know the answer. Your
life is improved by Jess.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
I honestly agree with Paulina that married men live longer
than the women or even single men, because like, my
wife is raising two kids, me and Ashland, yeah, and
almost a third. So it's just like she she cares
so much about me that she puts everything else before herself,
(05:55):
you know. So, like my health isn't good, so it's
just like you gotta go on a diet, you got
to exercise more, you gotta do this.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
She's more concerned about me than herself.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
So I agree with Paulina saying that married men will
outlive their wife.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
And benefit more from marriage.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
For sure. I will always say that we give you
a hard time. Well it's just so easy, Rufio, because
you just say things. But this is just so easy.
But you are you are a good man and a
great father and a good husband. But I have to
say you you, I'll kick my coverage. You you you're
getting a way better deal than she is on this. Yeah,
(06:29):
for sure, And I love you and you're my brother,
and I still I would, and I hope, by the way,
I hope someday if I ever get married, people will
say the same thing, like how to help he pull
that off? Like how did he do that? Like why
would this poor woman? You know? And obviously there's got
to be something good and she has because that's my
tall child.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
I know, any crabts right, she has my child that
looks like me, that acts like me. So I you right,
And there's gonna be a third in whatever a month.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
I hope, bless her heart.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
I read that that it's a text that married men
live longer than single men, but single women live longer
than married I guess yeah, because I think probably it's
generally speaking, it's women trying to keep their husbands alive.
I mean, I told you yesterday about the you know,
the procedure of my dad. He's fine that they By
the way, everybody in the family knew about me, Amanda knew.
(07:18):
Everybody knew that they forgot in air quotes to tell me.
I think they just know I've been on the edge
lately and they just didn't want me to jump. I
think that's what it came down to. But he's fine.
But I can tell you right now, and I love
my dad. I love him, you know with all of
my fibers in my being. That guy is not alive
without my mother. Mm hmm, without question. She keeps the
(07:39):
man alive and so but I think my mom would
be just fine. In fact, my mom would probably be.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Stress We stress out the women. The men stress out
the women a hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
So I got to agree with that. Then I think
it's true.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I think your mom would be just fine, and not
in a bad way. I'm just saying like she would persevere.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
What are you trying to say, She's gonna send year
olds twenty year olds? Yeah. God.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
My grandpa was convinced when he was literally dying of cancer,
he kept accusing my grandma of cheating on him because
she was like taking too long at the grocery store
because she's never had to go, and he had an
idea of who it was. It was his friend, and
she was like, why would I cheat on you with
another sick person.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
She was already taking care of you.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
She, by the way, was not cheating, but he was kind.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Of just like losing his marbles. I want much younger
if I'm cheating. She was like, why would I do that?
And he's like on his deathbed, like you're cheating. She's like, Bill,
come on, I don't need a firm right man.
Speaker 5 (08:34):
Right, I would go way younger. Yes, I was like, Grandpa,
get it together.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Of course,
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