May 31, 2024 • 30 mins
During today's show, we talked about married people living longer, Paulina's 6-week check up, and Fred's fun fact!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
There's a kid.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
He's a twelfth grader, and he's being called unbeatable. And
he won the Script's National Spelling Bee brew Hot Soma.
He spelled twenty nine words correctly in the tiebreaker, beating
Faisan Zaki by nine to win the title on Thursday
night of Spelling Bee Champion. The words that they spell
(00:23):
at the end, I can't even say, I don't even
I don't even know how to say the word. He
got a trophy and fifty thousand dollars in cash and prizes.
The team from Tampa has won three consecutive bees before,
the most prestigious spelling competition in the English language. And now,
ladies and gentlemen, Oh no, now these are commonly misspelled words.
(00:43):
These aren't the words. These aren't the crazy words that
they say. Like let me see if I even have
audio of them saying some of these words, because I mean,
I realize that's the point, Like they the really hard
words to spell are the ones that sound a certain
kind of way, but they don't spell them that way,
you know what I mean? That that's why they're difficult,
I guess, because you know, the say it in sentence
and say it you pronounced it again, and then they'll
(01:07):
pronounce it and say it back or jel all this stuff, Kiki,
what Fred shows? Spelling Bee Commonly misspelled words from the
Merriam Webster English Dictionary. Absence absence.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
A B, since E, S.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
N C E that's correct, Often spelled A B S
C N s C A B C E N S
E A bunch of different ways. Elementary Paulina, accommodate my uh, commodated.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Accommodate A C C O M D A and G
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Commodate, accommodate A C C O M M O D
A t E accommodate accommodate. Yeah, good work appolling it.
One more for you. Basically, oh, basically, basically, basically B A,
S I, C A L L Y correctly.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
That is correct. Basically, girl, it is correct.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Jason Brown commonly misspelled words in honor of the spelling be,
which was last night, fifty thousand pesos for you if
you get this right? Okay, zucchini? Oh y, okay?
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Is it?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Z U C C H I N I that's right?
Is correct? Wow, that is how you spelled zucchini. I
love me.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Nice job.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Klin oh man, Kalen contesting Kalen, Yes, de cemetery cemetery.
Speaker 6 (03:03):
Okay, c E M I t A r y c
E M E t e r y s Terry.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
There's nothing to argue about here.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I just smelled the way argue was asking what I
said wrong.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
And that you put an I in there somewhere. I
don't know c E M E t r Y. I
thought there was like a men.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
And finally rufio.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Definitely the one. Definitely, Oh yeah, no, that's not even
fair because you're definitely gonna be probably you put it
in the podcast.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Every spell it wrong every week.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
I can't spell hold on d E f O I
M yeah, yeah, I he e l y.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
That is correct. Yeah, definitely that is correct.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
See.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
But with a lot of these words, I don't even
bother anymore. Like I've said this to you guys before.
This is why the world stupider, because I'll just get
kind of close in the phone and then if it's
not right, I just corrected. It just tells me. I'm like,
that's the one. I don't even bother. I don't even bother,
Like I just did a Google search for most commonly
misspelled words that look like mom and Lely, the whole
(04:24):
thing was wrong and it's still new. Like I was
just off on the whole typing, but I went so
fast and I just get entered it, and it's like,
did you mean the closet comment? But did you mean
most commonly misspelled? Like that's when I met boom. I
didn't have to spell anything correctly.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Even if I spell it right, and like that's that
don't look right, I'll go back and misspell it.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Yeah, spell it right, yep.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Do you ever reach a point where you're so far
off that it's not even giving Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Correct done?
Speaker 7 (04:51):
Yes, that's when you started speaking a series.
Speaker 6 (04:57):
To go to Google and like kind of do it
and then I'll I guess or.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
I'll spell the word and it will have a like
an upper like it will be the beginning of the sentence.
So if it's upper case, sometimes it won't correct you
if you spell it wrong, because it thinks it's a name.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
It has to be. PC doesn't want to offend you.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
So then I'll type the same word next to it
in lower case, just to make sure that I spelled
the first one.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
I'm nuts.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
You guys want some relationship news, Yeah, not not personal
relationship news. I just want to update you on I
just want to update you on the research being done
in relationships. Getting married could save your life from cancer, Allegedly.
A twenty thirteen study has gain traction on social media
this week claiming that married cancer patients have better outcome
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outcomes than those who were single. A team found that
being married reduced the risk of death but up to
twenty percent more than chemotherapy in five types of cancer breast, cold, erectal,
and prostate tumors.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
So I've heard some people say that they think their
marriage is shortening their life. But according today, according to
Dance though, if you have a partner, then you're more
likely to live longer. I would imagine because you've got
someone there who loves you, is supporting you.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I mean that makes sense to me. I guess, yeah,
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Sometimes you just want to get out of there.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Get out of where which part the marriage?
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Marriage? Like a lot of people want to just get out.
Speaker 7 (06:28):
So like if I could just check out, you know,
maybe just see what the pearly gates are about, then
maybe I'll go see.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Wait, now, all of a sudden, rather you rather die
than I'm ecused, where are we going with this?
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Not me?
Speaker 3 (06:43):
Yeah, Like some married people are.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Like, hey, because when you're married, like you say you're
sick whatever, Like you say, I'm sick, and I'm going
to fight for everything because I don't want to give up.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
My money, give up your money. I mean, if you're dead,
then your money. What does it matter if your money's gone?
But this is what I wonder. I mean, I think
they say people in couples live longer than single people.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Is that true? I think I read that somewhere.
Speaker 6 (07:14):
They do say that, but then the story below that
was men who have children have shorter life spans. So
I just feel like all these studies, they're.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Always like wine's good for you, chocolate's bad, Like what
are we doing?
Speaker 7 (07:24):
And all the people who live to one hundred, A
lot of the women they ask, what's the secret to
live into one hundred? And the women are like, I
was never married, I've never had a man.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
I'm bacon yeah yeah, and live in peace. But if
I try that, it wouldn't work, right.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
I mean, honestly, Paulina, do you believe as a married woman?
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Do you believe? And you have a kid now that
you will live longer.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Because of Hobby or or do you believe that he's
taking years off of your life?
Speaker 8 (07:50):
Honestly, honestly, yeah, I think he's taking years off. And
I do think I'm gonna live a long life. Okay,
prosperous life. That's all my psychic told me.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
I won't do that. However, However, I always said this.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
And I did a card reader her this morning, and
that's what I told her. I also told her an
important message is.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
Coming, so she paid more premium.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Yeah, exactly, an important message is coming. We'll tell me more.
Well I can't. I just it's coming. Don't worry.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
I'm telling you I'm living a long life. But I
hope so also me too.
Speaker 8 (08:19):
But I also know that, all right, I will ride
for this theory that I think that men benefit way
more than women do in marriage and relationships. Like I
just had this talk yesterday again, like this is the
hell I'm dying on because I truly believe that. But
I did tell Hobby just because he is more healthy
than I am, he eats better, he works out and
all that, so he will outlive me. And he made
(08:40):
a comment the other day something he can say thing
about all living me. I just took it as that,
and I think it's because you know, she just living
a better, healthier lifestyle. And I said, you're all living me,
So you could date these twenty year olds.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I know it.
Speaker 8 (08:52):
So when I'm eighty, I'll be gone, right or one
hundred I'm living to one hundred, Yeah, I'm gone.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
So dating twenty year olds entercight. No, he's older, a
year older, it may be one hundred and one year old.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
It's good for hobby.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
I mean, that's what I said.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
I don't know, Like I don't.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Have a lot of long term relationship experience, but I
suppose I can think of times when I feel like
the partnership makes my life significantly better, and then I
can think of times where it makes my life significantly
harder or is absolutely shaving years off my life and
my well being. So is it just sort of a
net net net, you know what I mean? Like you
just sort of wind up in the same place. I
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don't know, Or you should make the argument, do you
try harder in life because you're doing it for your
partner and your families? Now kids, I would argue, I
would argue that kids might make you live longer than
just a wife, just a spouse or a husband, because
you want to.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Live for your kids.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
That's where I'm as.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Even if you don't like your spouse, most people still
want to live for their kids, right of course, So
I would argue the kids would make you live longer.
But here's another question. Is like, and God forbid that
you're about to break up with somebody and then one
you get sick. You can't break up with them now,
so like you've got to support them at least through
you know what I mean? Yeah, like that is that terrible?
(10:09):
That's where my first thought came from. Like that people
who are unhappy for have to force themselves to be
content at least because they're not. They don't want to
be the one who leaves the person when they're sick,
you know what I mean. So like you're more likely
to say, they're more likely to save you from cancer
than chemo because I don't know, because maybe it takes
a bad relationship and makes it livable because like, oh,
(10:30):
I really hate you, but you're sick, so I can't
be mean to you.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
Is that terrible? That's where my brain goes.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
My brain immediately goes to like what would I do
if I was in a dysfunctional relationship and the person
got sick. I wouldn't Like, you can't leave them. You
have to make it work right. You can't be that.
You can't.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
You can't do that. It's terrible. Now you shut in.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
I don't think.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
I mean, I know the answer.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
Your life is improved by jess.
Speaker 4 (10:56):
You with Paulina that married men live longer than the
women or even single man. Because like my wife is
is raising two kids, me.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
And Ashland, yeah, and almost a third.
Speaker 4 (11:07):
So it's just like she she cares so much about
me that she puts everything else before herself, you know. So,
like my health isn't good, so it's just like you
gotta go on a diet, you gotta exercise more, you
gotta do this.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
She's more concerned about me than herself.
Speaker 4 (11:21):
So I agree with Paulina saying that married men will
outlive their.
Speaker 8 (11:25):
Wife and benefit more from marriage. I'm sure I will
always say that we.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Give you a hard time. Well it's just so easy, Rufio,
because you just say things. But it's just so easy.
But you are you are a good man and a
great father and a good husband.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
But I have to say you you, I'll kick my coverage.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
You're saying you you're getting a way better deal than
she is on this. Yeah, for sure, And I love
you and you're my brother, and I still I would.
And I hope, by the way, I hope someday if
I ever get married, people will say the same thing,
like how to help he pull that off?
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Like how did he do that? Like why would this
poor woman? You know?
Speaker 2 (11:59):
And obviously there's gonna be something good. And because I
know any cravits.
Speaker 4 (12:05):
Right, she has my child that looks like me, that
acts like me, So you right, and there's gonna be
a third in whatever a month.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
I hope that's her heart.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
I read that that is a text. I read that
married men live longer than single men, but single women
live longer than married I guess yeah, because I think
probably it's generally speaking, it's women trying to keep their
husbands alive. I mean, I told you yesterday about the
you know, the procedure of my dad. He's fine that
they by the way, everybody in the family knew, but me,
Amanda knew. Everybody knew about me. They forgot in air
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quotes to tell me. I think they just know I've
been on the edge lately and they just didn't want
me to jump. I think that's what it came down to.
But he's fine. But I can tell you right now,
and I love my dad. I love him, you know
with all of my fibers of my being. That guy
is not alive without my mother. Mm hmm, without question.
She keeps the man alive. And so but I think
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my mom would be just fine. In fact, my mom
would probably be.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
We stress.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
We stress out the women, yea. The men stress out
the women hundred percent. So I got to agree with that.
Then I think it's true. I think your mom would
be just fine. And I'm not in a bad way.
I'm just saying like she would persevere.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
What are you trying to say, She's gonna send twenty
year olds twenty year olds?
Speaker 5 (13:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (13:22):
God.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
My grandpa was convinced.
Speaker 6 (13:25):
When he was literally dying of cancer, he kept accusing
my grandma of cheating on him because she was like
taking too long at the grocery store because she's never
had to go, and he had an idea of who
it was. It was his friend, and she was like,
why would I cheat on you with another sick person?
Speaker 3 (13:38):
I've already taken care of you.
Speaker 6 (13:40):
She, by the way, was not cheating, but he was
kind of just like losing his marbles.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
I want much younger if I'm cheating.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
She was like, why would I do that? And he's
like on his deathbed, like you're cheating. She's like, Bill,
come on, I.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Don't need another firm right man?
Speaker 2 (13:52):
Right?
Speaker 3 (13:52):
I would go way younger.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Yes, I was like, Grandpa, get it together. Of course
new waiting by the phone is next? Why does somebody
get ghost to get to blogs? In just a second,
speaking of it? Should we do your blog about it?
What you're trying to get a hobby to do? Yes,
all right, let's do that.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
I love the hobby's promise. Hobby's promise.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
What it's time for hobbies prom That's right?
Speaker 5 (14:09):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (14:10):
Or do yeaes? Strap it on? Let's go fread show next.
Speaker 6 (14:16):
The buck.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Yeah, they talk better than they side.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. Fine
like riding in our diaries, except we stay I'm aloud.
We call him blogs Paulina, Yes you ready, I am go.
Speaker 3 (14:29):
Thank you so much, dear blog.
Speaker 8 (14:31):
So I went for my six week check up to
the doctor, doctor Mike, who's also a listener shut out.
Speaker 5 (14:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (14:37):
When I walked in, I was pantsless and he knocks,
He walks in, gives me a big hug, pantsless love him,
and he goes.
Speaker 3 (14:45):
You pulled me up on the radio, and.
Speaker 8 (14:46):
I was like, I know, I do. I know I
do because you're doctor Mike. And so now he's our
thirteenth listener. I heard someone moved away.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
So I give you.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Yeah, I gave him this, like an actual medical doctor
listens to.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
This number thirteen Wow right there, wow, so shout out,
we love them.
Speaker 8 (14:59):
And basically what this was for was to like check
up on me, making sure like everything is like healed
and stuff, like they somehow look and they'll tell you
if you're good.
Speaker 3 (15:08):
And then the discussion was like birth control, what are
you doing moving forward?
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Immediate?
Speaker 2 (15:13):
Like how do we avoid this from happening again?
Speaker 3 (15:15):
For real? Like absolutely?
Speaker 8 (15:16):
I was like, so we want to be really safe,
like as safe as we can be, you know, and
I will be transparent.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
I've never been on birth control of my life. I
just never have.
Speaker 8 (15:24):
So I was like, well, you know, the stigma lies
and to me, I understand that you know, people can
gain weight or have like I don't know, like whatever,
just attitudes and stuff, right, like you have a bad.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
Mood from it. And I just kept hearing that my
whole life hormones. Hormones.
Speaker 8 (15:42):
Yeah, so I'm just like, I don't want to do
that to myself, like you know.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
And I was just like, you know, what are the options?
Speaker 5 (15:48):
Right?
Speaker 8 (15:48):
And they list them out, So I was like, Okay,
I'm gonna go with the I keep going to iou
the yesod.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Of just not doing it, going on journey and abstaining.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
That's what I told my husband, I said, because you know,
we're going back and forth.
Speaker 8 (16:04):
And I was like, well, I'm like, the number one
prevention will be abstinence for the rest of your life?
Speaker 3 (16:08):
Would you like that? He did not want one like that.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
I did not want that. So he wants IO you
is what he wants.
Speaker 8 (16:13):
No, so he actually preferred I didn't and he's like,
well what are my options?
Speaker 3 (16:17):
And I was like, okay, hell, what a what.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
A man he is for this?
Speaker 3 (16:24):
That is a good man.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
Can so then we're gonna go snippy snippy snippy.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Well I told him about it a little bit, and
I'm no medical doctor, not anymore at least.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Yeah, Well, you and I are both caught up in
some licensing issues, but.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
Yeah, right, little life happens.
Speaker 8 (16:36):
But I did tell him that we could look into that,
and he's very open to it, which I love. But
I was advised as far as that is, yes, it's reversible,
but be very certain that you don't really want any
more children.
Speaker 3 (16:51):
And I am he is, but I don't know what
if I don't know.
Speaker 8 (16:56):
Five years on the line, we go like, well, we
really want another one siblings were I don't think so,
only child syndrome as well. She will probably have and
that's fine with me. I don't think I want to
do this again, not because I didn't enjoy my experience,
and I love my daughter with everything I have.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
I just know like she's it for me. I just
like I feel that in my heart.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
I do so, so do you do like maybe do
you do like a method like the iou until you're
certain and then we go in there and we do
a little snippy snippy or do we do the snippy
snippy now so that you don't have to go through
all of that and then I suppose if you're that
compelled to do it again, then they go and reroute
the whole thing.
Speaker 4 (17:33):
Yes, So I can't put it in the bank, you know,
put me in the bank, spy.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Yeah, we asked this question long ago because I was
thinking about maybe just at home, a little at home kit,
you know, maybe just a specimen, maybe like just in
a ziplock bag or something. Put it in the freezer
and it's just right there, next to the frozen grapes
and like the pizza rolls and stuff. And then if
ever the time were to come, and then I'll go
get the snippy snip. And then if ever the time
were to come, right, I got this right right here. Yeah, hey,
(18:00):
not a bet.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Don't confuse this as anything else. Do not do not.
Speaker 8 (18:05):
Yeah, I ended up getting the iou, So I do
have that. And I think what we're gonna do is,
I'm going to see how it treats my body, right,
I'm gonna see what happens.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I'm gonna see how I feel.
Speaker 8 (18:16):
You know, I've heard of people taking it out and
stuff because it doesn't really work with their bodies. So
I'm going to see how I do and if it works,
it works. I think it's good for eight years, which
is insane. I know, I'm like eight, Oh my good.
So I'm going to see how it goes. But if
it doesn't, you know, we don't work well together, then
I think he will do the snippy stip And I
love him for that because I don't want to do
something at all, you know, doesn't make me feel the best.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
I get the snippy step. But we've talked about this
before as a single man. I mean, at this age,
I'm probably not gonna do anything, but like I'm probably
not gonna have kids. But but we talked about this
a few months ago, where if I met somebody and
they were undecided and I had already done it, does
that make me look less attractive? Because no, you don't
have to worry about it on your end anymore. But
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then you know where I stand, you know what I mean?
So like, I'm not going to do it until I
meet somebody and then we decide together because I don't
want to you know what I mean. Like if I
show up to the date, it's like, I do you
feel about kids? Well, I'm snipped, I'm done. Well that
might be a huge turn off for someone that the
options off the table. Plus like what does that say
about me? Never married, no kids, already snipped? Like what
are you out? Here doing bro. Oh you know, I
(19:20):
don't know. That's what I would be worried about. But no,
all right, well that's the plan. That's the plan.
Speaker 8 (19:27):
And he wants more information on the snippy snip because
I literally could not provide that to him. I really
don't know. I've never done it before myself. So I
feel like we might go down that route. We'll see,
and if we do, then I'll, you know, take care
of the iou. But as of right now, it's me
and the IOU versus the world.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Nothing's crazy about those things. The IUDs is.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
I was dating a girl who had one, and she
comes back from the doctor one time and she's like, oh,
I'm good for another This says I'm good for another
two years.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
I'm like, wait, wait on a but the package says six. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
The doctor says, though, it's cool for two more years,
and I guess I'm like, wait a minute. The doctor
just decides this, like right, we're just oh, because we're
just cool. Yeah, you won't have to worry about it.
I'm like, first of all, that I won't be here
in two years, dont worry about that. But second of all,
based on my track, right, you don't to.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Worry about it.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
But then the other thing was like, well, wait, who
makes this decision? Like I don't know if I trust this,
Like this dude just took a look at it. It was
like another couple thousand miles on these. No, but apparently
it has something to do with the fact that the
FDA will only approve them for so long. Within in
Europe there approved for much longer. So a lot of
doctors will just go with what the European standard is.
And you know, because again, if I'm wrong about this,
(20:37):
I will correct myself. But but I was just like, oh,
are we sure about that? Like, can I see something
in writing?
Speaker 6 (20:44):
Someone in our tech said that hers fell out and
that also happened to my college roommate.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
No, fell out.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
Oh I don't.
Speaker 6 (20:52):
Know, this person said, aud hurts to put in. No
one tells us this. Plus mine just fell out one day.
Oh no, honey, I know. Oh but my my roommate
in college hers fall out right on our dorm room floor.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Oh my, I don't know how.
Speaker 3 (21:07):
I don't have one.
Speaker 6 (21:08):
But okay, just you know, all right, talk to your doctor, Okay,
I got to Mike.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Oh no, A lot of seconds John's here John has
some boy John, good morning.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
How you doing what chapoulinea do?
Speaker 1 (21:19):
John going John.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Now entirely in the morning, So we got to be
kind of careful. I hear some babies in the background.
So if you got to a sect me, you didn't.
You didn't go to a very good practitioner.
Speaker 9 (21:29):
Now, well, no, it's not bad. It's just, uh, you know,
when you're you make a decision with your sniff another
and it just doesn't work out.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
So obviously, you know.
Speaker 9 (21:45):
I got married again and we decided to have kids,
but I already had the snippy snippy, right, I'm just saying.
Speaker 5 (21:55):
I was.
Speaker 9 (21:56):
I heard, I heard the segment, and you know I
listen every day, so I'm kind of I'm on, I
want to let Paulina know that how painful reverse. So
it's kind the most It was the worst pain I've
ever been in in probably two weeks. It was two
weeks of absolutely same.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Okay, Now, the problem of ASECT to me yourself is
no big deal, right when they snip it.
Speaker 9 (22:22):
Yeah, So what happens is they basically, you know, you
have I mean to get technical or you know, into
kind of how it all works, but they just basically
go in and just kind of snip one little spot
where the sperm comes through, and that's just it, and
they cut it and that's the it. Then what happens
is is then after so long, they have to go
(22:43):
back in and kind of connect it. And the thing
is that sometimes it doesn't work. And for me, I
got lucky enough.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
I'm gonna be honest with you, Hey, John, John, I
love you. I'm gonna get a vasect to me after
this call.
Speaker 4 (22:56):
Here's also the problem is that you think Pauline is
gonna care about Hobby's pain and she had a baby,
you know what I'm saying that.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Yeah, but just saying that, this man is just saying that,
like I mean, it's it's just one more thing. And
then John, I assume at some point you're gonna go
in and do it again, right for the third time,
to shut it down.
Speaker 9 (23:13):
No, So, actually we actually had one. I actually had two,
me and my wife. We have two now, so I
have three, but we have two kids, and and it
just happened that she has We've had a bad history
with a good past history and we had a couple
of losses.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Oh no, oh, I'm sorry to hear that. Okay, so
you don't Basically you don't have to go back again,
is what you're saying.
Speaker 5 (23:38):
You know.
Speaker 9 (23:39):
The other thing is like we had she had to
do a procedure to get kids, and so we had
to have a tea section. She had to have a
tea section. So they were in there anyway.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Oh I see, Okay, they handled it. Then, Hey, John,
you're the man. I appreciate the perspective. Have a great day,
Thank you for listening.
Speaker 8 (23:57):
Look at this guy, I thought he was gonna tell
me if how he gets remarried. That's why I thought
he was going with this. And I was like, well,
if you get to be married to a twenty year old,
he better be snips.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
Now.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
My buddy, I won't say his name, but he's very
vocal that he will not get a aseectomy because his
next wife might want kids. Oh yeah, he said this
many times. Oh with that man, and I have no sympathy.
I'm sorry, and unless there's some serious complication, I have
no sympathy for a dude getting snipped versus what you
guys have to endure.
Speaker 5 (24:24):
Now.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
Granted, this sounds like having to go back and double
down another time. That sounds like that was an extra effort,
but still what you guys go through.
Speaker 4 (24:31):
Mmmmm, yeah, how he's looking at the sporting schedules like
March would be good two weeks.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
You know.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
I was talking to my brother in law about that
because he's talking about getting one too, and I said,
you should have done it in March. Yeah, I mean
they were having a baby then. But it's like you
got two weeks or you know, of basketball games, sit
on the couch and you know, do it right around
there because you got nothing else to do. Hey, Marissa,
you're an actually you're an actual physician.
Speaker 5 (24:55):
Oh yeah, that's right.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
And I'm a listener, but real doctors listening to this
thing tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (25:03):
I'm concerned, Marissa. Okay, Well, what some professional thoughts on
this topic?
Speaker 5 (25:09):
Uh huh, Well, I want to congratulate on your ud.
Congratulations one of the best forms of both control.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Oh, thank you, look at me.
Speaker 5 (25:17):
Yeah, I want no great choice. Yeah, but I'm hearing
a lot of things you're saying, and I don't want
folks to get confused or if you had questions, I
wanted to offer up what I.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
Know, Well, what do we need to know?
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Like in thirty seconds, what do we need to know, Marissa,
I'm thinking about getting now you do?
Speaker 1 (25:34):
You should?
Speaker 5 (25:35):
It's excellent. And like if you were to ask all
the guy in cologists what do they prefer for themselves,
They're going to choose a n IUD. So that says
a lot, right, that says a lot. What would we
like for our own selves? You know? These friends pretty
He's right, right, It's not that we're just kind of
like looking at this device and we're like, you probably
got a few more miles on it. It's because of
the way the FDA approves medication in the US, but
(25:56):
that's not been updated or medical devices for you and
in patience. So now that's been updated. So Paulina, as
you go on and you think about, oh my baby's
two years old, three years old, that's how you can
remember like should I change it? Is it time to
change it? In this case is going to be seven
depending on the one you got. Yeah, congratulations.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
Now, Marissa, I'm very scared because this woman, I've in
my forty three years of life, I've later in life,
when someone tells me they have this installed, I tend
to really be very confident that we don't. We're not
going to have any problems. Maybe a little too confident.
In fact, however, someone just texted that they had their
friend had three babies with one in How is that possible?
Speaker 5 (26:36):
But that can't happen depending on the position, right, So
like it. This is a kind of id and what
if it's not positioned correctly? So you're right, I've taking
care of patients. We're pregnant with an iudine place. But
it really is really safe, and you don't want to
make sure it's continued. You evaluate it every year or
so unless you're having any symptoms and make sure it's
placed correctly. And oh my gosh, it's the right type. Yeah,
(26:58):
I'm don't be scared to inform Marissa.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
You're going to be our staff doctor, and you're gonna
handle everyone I date from now on.
Speaker 1 (27:04):
They're going to go through you.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
That's going to be the first step, first of all,
the non disclosure agreement, and after they sign that, then
they got to go see you and make sure everything's
positioned properly before there are any positions happening over here.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
Yes, rufio, doctor Fris got this bump on his lip.
He would like to shut up. He's gone, it's gone.
I don't have it.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
I got nothing, I got no problems in the listen,
don't worry doctor Sonya. My dermatologists got about thirty different
angles of this thing this week and told me that
a shut the hell up.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
But Rufio wants to keep talking about it.
Speaker 2 (27:35):
God, Marissa, this guy put an IUD in his mouth.
Speaker 5 (27:42):
Doctor period. You just don't have the right kind of plumbing,
you know.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
Oh yeah, all right, Marisa, I got to go and
call anytime.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
We love you. Have a good.
Speaker 3 (27:49):
Day, girl, can with an idea or not?
Speaker 4 (27:54):
I'm scared so am I That makes that's one of
the safest rooms.
Speaker 5 (28:01):
All the time.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Like, oh my god, you know what I've done all
of it? Anyway, let's waiting by the phone show. We
next after Miguel in two minutes. Fred Show, The Fread
Show is on Friends, Fun fact.
Speaker 7 (28:12):
Fred, fun so much, guys.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
A lot of animal facts. This week. We learned that
wombats have square poops. We did learn that. You're welcome
you didn't know. Now we're gonna learn about koalas. Koala
bears have fingerprints that are nearly indistinguishable from human fingerprints,
(28:43):
which can even confuse forensic experts.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
Here is what you do.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
You guys, this has not been done yet on dateline.
You about to do some stuff, you know it's nefarious.
Gets you a koala, Bring the koala with you and
use its hands to commit the crime because they look
like human fingerprints. But nobody will ever know that it
(29:09):
was a koala, or was it? Or was it? Was
it a murderous koala? I don't know, but that's my defense.
You guys, there's a koala out there that has a
fingerprint a lot like mine.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
He did it?
Speaker 2 (29:22):
Go find him, go to the zoo. I don't know this.
Come on, he's a murderous koala. On the loop more
Fred Show. Next, You've got to wait. Fred Show is
on now, Money Show, Good Morning, everybody, Friday. It's the
(29:44):
Fred Show. Hik Hey, j sim Rufio, Shelby Shetty inserted
in Veneminea, Benjamin brand New waiting by the phone. This
is more controversial than I thought, by the way, I
did not realize. I knew that one question was bad.
I didn't know the other one was bad, though.
Speaker 1 (30:02):
But you'll hear.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
And there's a lot of opinions about this in just
a second. The Entertainment Report after that, what do you have.
Speaker 6 (30:06):
In there, Kalin, Well, a fan want to see a
notoriously sexual singer in concert and is trying to sue
her because she was sexual at the concert.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Yeah, this was unbelievable.
Speaker 3 (30:17):
Once everything she made I went to the.
Speaker 2 (30:19):
Show, Yeah, and I thought it was gonna be a
Bible study and it was.
Speaker 1 (30:23):
I surprised by that. Waiting by the Phone
Speaker 2 (30:26):
Is new and it's two minutes way after Sabrina Carpet
The Red Show
There's a kid.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
He's a twelfth grader, and he's being called unbeatable. And
he won the Script's National Spelling Bee brew Hot Soma.
He spelled twenty nine words correctly in the tiebreaker, beating
Faisan Zaki by nine to win the title on Thursday
night of Spelling Bee Champion. The words that they spell
(00:23):
at the end, I can't even say, I don't even
I don't even know how to say the word. He
got a trophy and fifty thousand dollars in cash and prizes.
The team from Tampa has won three consecutive bees before,
the most prestigious spelling competition in the English language. And now,
ladies and gentlemen, Oh no, now these are commonly misspelled words.
(00:43):
These aren't the words. These aren't the crazy words that
they say. Like let me see if I even have
audio of them saying some of these words, because I mean,
I realize that's the point, Like they the really hard
words to spell are the ones that sound a certain
kind of way, but they don't spell them that way,
you know what I mean? That that's why they're difficult,
I guess, because you know, the say it in sentence
and say it you pronounced it again, and then they'll
(01:07):
pronounce it and say it back or jel all this stuff, Kiki,
what Fred shows? Spelling Bee Commonly misspelled words from the
Merriam Webster English Dictionary. Absence absence.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
A B, since E, S.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
N C E that's correct, Often spelled A B S
C N s C A B C E N S
E A bunch of different ways. Elementary Paulina, accommodate my uh, commodated.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Accommodate A C C O M D A and G
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Commodate, accommodate A C C O M M O D
A t E accommodate accommodate. Yeah, good work appolling it.
One more for you. Basically, oh, basically, basically, basically B A,
S I, C A L L Y correctly.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
That is correct. Basically, girl, it is correct.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Jason Brown commonly misspelled words in honor of the spelling be,
which was last night, fifty thousand pesos for you if
you get this right? Okay, zucchini? Oh y, okay?
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Is it?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Z U C C H I N I that's right?
Is correct? Wow, that is how you spelled zucchini. I
love me.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Nice job.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Klin oh man, Kalen contesting Kalen, Yes, de cemetery cemetery.
Speaker 6 (03:03):
Okay, c E M I t A r y c
E M E t e r y s Terry.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
There's nothing to argue about here.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I just smelled the way argue was asking what I
said wrong.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
And that you put an I in there somewhere. I
don't know c E M E t r Y. I
thought there was like a men.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
And finally rufio.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Definitely the one. Definitely, Oh yeah, no, that's not even
fair because you're definitely gonna be probably you put it
in the podcast.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Every spell it wrong every week.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
I can't spell hold on d E f O I
M yeah, yeah, I he e l y.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
That is correct. Yeah, definitely that is correct.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
See.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
But with a lot of these words, I don't even
bother anymore. Like I've said this to you guys before.
This is why the world stupider, because I'll just get
kind of close in the phone and then if it's
not right, I just corrected. It just tells me. I'm like,
that's the one. I don't even bother. I don't even bother,
Like I just did a Google search for most commonly
misspelled words that look like mom and Lely, the whole
(04:24):
thing was wrong and it's still new. Like I was
just off on the whole typing, but I went so
fast and I just get entered it, and it's like,
did you mean the closet comment? But did you mean
most commonly misspelled? Like that's when I met boom. I
didn't have to spell anything correctly.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Even if I spell it right, and like that's that
don't look right, I'll go back and misspell it.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Yeah, spell it right, yep.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Do you ever reach a point where you're so far
off that it's not even giving Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Correct done?
Speaker 7 (04:51):
Yes, that's when you started speaking a series.
Speaker 6 (04:57):
To go to Google and like kind of do it
and then I'll I guess or.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
I'll spell the word and it will have a like
an upper like it will be the beginning of the sentence.
So if it's upper case, sometimes it won't correct you
if you spell it wrong, because it thinks it's a name.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
It has to be. PC doesn't want to offend you.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
So then I'll type the same word next to it
in lower case, just to make sure that I spelled
the first one.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
I'm nuts.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
You guys want some relationship news, Yeah, not not personal
relationship news. I just want to update you on I
just want to update you on the research being done
in relationships. Getting married could save your life from cancer, Allegedly.
A twenty thirteen study has gain traction on social media
this week claiming that married cancer patients have better outcome
(05:40):
outcomes than those who were single. A team found that
being married reduced the risk of death but up to
twenty percent more than chemotherapy in five types of cancer breast, cold, erectal,
and prostate tumors.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
So I've heard some people say that they think their
marriage is shortening their life. But according today, according to
Dance though, if you have a partner, then you're more
likely to live longer. I would imagine because you've got
someone there who loves you, is supporting you.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I mean that makes sense to me. I guess, yeah,
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Sometimes you just want to get out of there.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Get out of where which part the marriage?
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Marriage? Like a lot of people want to just get out.
Speaker 7 (06:28):
So like if I could just check out, you know,
maybe just see what the pearly gates are about, then
maybe I'll go see.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Wait, now, all of a sudden, rather you rather die
than I'm ecused, where are we going with this?
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Not me?
Speaker 3 (06:43):
Yeah, Like some married people are.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Like, hey, because when you're married, like you say you're
sick whatever, Like you say, I'm sick, and I'm going
to fight for everything because I don't want to give up.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
My money, give up your money. I mean, if you're dead,
then your money. What does it matter if your money's gone?
But this is what I wonder. I mean, I think
they say people in couples live longer than single people.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Is that true? I think I read that somewhere.
Speaker 6 (07:14):
They do say that, but then the story below that
was men who have children have shorter life spans. So
I just feel like all these studies, they're.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Always like wine's good for you, chocolate's bad, Like what
are we doing?
Speaker 7 (07:24):
And all the people who live to one hundred, A
lot of the women they ask, what's the secret to
live into one hundred? And the women are like, I
was never married, I've never had a man.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
I'm bacon yeah yeah, and live in peace. But if
I try that, it wouldn't work, right.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
I mean, honestly, Paulina, do you believe as a married woman?
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Do you believe? And you have a kid now that
you will live longer.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Because of Hobby or or do you believe that he's
taking years off of your life?
Speaker 8 (07:50):
Honestly, honestly, yeah, I think he's taking years off. And
I do think I'm gonna live a long life. Okay,
prosperous life. That's all my psychic told me.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
I won't do that. However, However, I always said this.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
And I did a card reader her this morning, and
that's what I told her. I also told her an
important message is.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
Coming, so she paid more premium.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Yeah, exactly, an important message is coming. We'll tell me more.
Well I can't. I just it's coming. Don't worry.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
I'm telling you I'm living a long life. But I
hope so also me too.
Speaker 8 (08:19):
But I also know that, all right, I will ride
for this theory that I think that men benefit way
more than women do in marriage and relationships. Like I
just had this talk yesterday again, like this is the
hell I'm dying on because I truly believe that. But
I did tell Hobby just because he is more healthy
than I am, he eats better, he works out and
all that, so he will outlive me. And he made
(08:40):
a comment the other day something he can say thing
about all living me. I just took it as that,
and I think it's because you know, she just living
a better, healthier lifestyle. And I said, you're all living me,
So you could date these twenty year olds.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I know it.
Speaker 8 (08:52):
So when I'm eighty, I'll be gone, right or one
hundred I'm living to one hundred, Yeah, I'm gone.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
So dating twenty year olds entercight. No, he's older, a
year older, it may be one hundred and one year old.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
It's good for hobby.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
I mean, that's what I said.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
I don't know, Like I don't.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Have a lot of long term relationship experience, but I
suppose I can think of times when I feel like
the partnership makes my life significantly better, and then I
can think of times where it makes my life significantly
harder or is absolutely shaving years off my life and
my well being. So is it just sort of a
net net net, you know what I mean? Like you
just sort of wind up in the same place. I
(09:30):
don't know, Or you should make the argument, do you
try harder in life because you're doing it for your
partner and your families? Now kids, I would argue, I
would argue that kids might make you live longer than
just a wife, just a spouse or a husband, because
you want to.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Live for your kids.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
That's where I'm as.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Even if you don't like your spouse, most people still
want to live for their kids, right of course, So
I would argue the kids would make you live longer.
But here's another question. Is like, and God forbid that
you're about to break up with somebody and then one
you get sick. You can't break up with them now,
so like you've got to support them at least through
you know what I mean? Yeah, like that is that terrible?
(10:09):
That's where my first thought came from. Like that people
who are unhappy for have to force themselves to be
content at least because they're not. They don't want to
be the one who leaves the person when they're sick,
you know what I mean. So like you're more likely
to say, they're more likely to save you from cancer
than chemo because I don't know, because maybe it takes
a bad relationship and makes it livable because like, oh,
(10:30):
I really hate you, but you're sick, so I can't
be mean to you.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
Is that terrible? That's where my brain goes.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
My brain immediately goes to like what would I do
if I was in a dysfunctional relationship and the person
got sick. I wouldn't Like, you can't leave them. You
have to make it work right. You can't be that.
You can't.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
You can't do that. It's terrible. Now you shut in.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
I don't think.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
I mean, I know the answer.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
Your life is improved by jess.
Speaker 4 (10:56):
You with Paulina that married men live longer than the
women or even single man. Because like my wife is
is raising two kids, me.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
And Ashland, yeah, and almost a third.
Speaker 4 (11:07):
So it's just like she she cares so much about
me that she puts everything else before herself, you know. So,
like my health isn't good, so it's just like you
gotta go on a diet, you gotta exercise more, you
gotta do this.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
She's more concerned about me than herself.
Speaker 4 (11:21):
So I agree with Paulina saying that married men will
outlive their.
Speaker 8 (11:25):
Wife and benefit more from marriage. I'm sure I will
always say that we.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Give you a hard time. Well it's just so easy, Rufio,
because you just say things. But it's just so easy.
But you are you are a good man and a
great father and a good husband.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
But I have to say you you, I'll kick my coverage.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
You're saying you you're getting a way better deal than
she is on this. Yeah, for sure, And I love
you and you're my brother, and I still I would.
And I hope, by the way, I hope someday if
I ever get married, people will say the same thing,
like how to help he pull that off?
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Like how did he do that? Like why would this
poor woman? You know?
Speaker 2 (11:59):
And obviously there's gonna be something good. And because I
know any cravits.
Speaker 4 (12:05):
Right, she has my child that looks like me, that
acts like me, So you right, and there's gonna be
a third in whatever a month.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
I hope that's her heart.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
I read that that is a text. I read that
married men live longer than single men, but single women
live longer than married I guess yeah, because I think
probably it's generally speaking, it's women trying to keep their
husbands alive. I mean, I told you yesterday about the
you know, the procedure of my dad. He's fine that
they by the way, everybody in the family knew, but me,
Amanda knew. Everybody knew about me. They forgot in air
(12:39):
quotes to tell me. I think they just know I've
been on the edge lately and they just didn't want
me to jump. I think that's what it came down to.
But he's fine. But I can tell you right now,
and I love my dad. I love him, you know
with all of my fibers of my being. That guy
is not alive without my mother. Mm hmm, without question.
She keeps the man alive. And so but I think
(13:00):
my mom would be just fine. In fact, my mom
would probably be.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
We stress.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
We stress out the women, yea. The men stress out
the women hundred percent. So I got to agree with that.
Then I think it's true. I think your mom would
be just fine. And I'm not in a bad way.
I'm just saying like she would persevere.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
What are you trying to say, She's gonna send twenty
year olds twenty year olds?
Speaker 5 (13:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (13:22):
God.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
My grandpa was convinced.
Speaker 6 (13:25):
When he was literally dying of cancer, he kept accusing
my grandma of cheating on him because she was like
taking too long at the grocery store because she's never
had to go, and he had an idea of who
it was. It was his friend, and she was like,
why would I cheat on you with another sick person?
Speaker 3 (13:38):
I've already taken care of you.
Speaker 6 (13:40):
She, by the way, was not cheating, but he was
kind of just like losing his marbles.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
I want much younger if I'm cheating.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
She was like, why would I do that? And he's
like on his deathbed, like you're cheating. She's like, Bill,
come on, I.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Don't need another firm right man?
Speaker 2 (13:52):
Right?
Speaker 3 (13:52):
I would go way younger.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Yes, I was like, Grandpa, get it together. Of course
new waiting by the phone is next? Why does somebody
get ghost to get to blogs? In just a second,
speaking of it? Should we do your blog about it?
What you're trying to get a hobby to do? Yes,
all right, let's do that.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
I love the hobby's promise. Hobby's promise.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
What it's time for hobbies prom That's right?
Speaker 5 (14:09):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (14:10):
Or do yeaes? Strap it on? Let's go fread show next.
Speaker 6 (14:16):
The buck.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Yeah, they talk better than they side.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. Fine
like riding in our diaries, except we stay I'm aloud.
We call him blogs Paulina, Yes you ready, I am go.
Speaker 3 (14:29):
Thank you so much, dear blog.
Speaker 8 (14:31):
So I went for my six week check up to
the doctor, doctor Mike, who's also a listener shut out.
Speaker 5 (14:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (14:37):
When I walked in, I was pantsless and he knocks,
He walks in, gives me a big hug, pantsless love him,
and he goes.
Speaker 3 (14:45):
You pulled me up on the radio, and.
Speaker 8 (14:46):
I was like, I know, I do. I know I
do because you're doctor Mike. And so now he's our
thirteenth listener. I heard someone moved away.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
So I give you.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Yeah, I gave him this, like an actual medical doctor
listens to.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
This number thirteen Wow right there, wow, so shout out,
we love them.
Speaker 8 (14:59):
And basically what this was for was to like check
up on me, making sure like everything is like healed
and stuff, like they somehow look and they'll tell you
if you're good.
Speaker 3 (15:08):
And then the discussion was like birth control, what are
you doing moving forward?
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Immediate?
Speaker 2 (15:13):
Like how do we avoid this from happening again?
Speaker 3 (15:15):
For real? Like absolutely?
Speaker 8 (15:16):
I was like, so we want to be really safe,
like as safe as we can be, you know, and
I will be transparent.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
I've never been on birth control of my life. I
just never have.
Speaker 8 (15:24):
So I was like, well, you know, the stigma lies
and to me, I understand that you know, people can
gain weight or have like I don't know, like whatever,
just attitudes and stuff, right, like you have a bad.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
Mood from it. And I just kept hearing that my
whole life hormones. Hormones.
Speaker 8 (15:42):
Yeah, so I'm just like, I don't want to do
that to myself, like you know.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
And I was just like, you know, what are the options?
Speaker 5 (15:48):
Right?
Speaker 8 (15:48):
And they list them out, So I was like, Okay,
I'm gonna go with the I keep going to iou
the yesod.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Of just not doing it, going on journey and abstaining.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
That's what I told my husband, I said, because you know,
we're going back and forth.
Speaker 8 (16:04):
And I was like, well, I'm like, the number one
prevention will be abstinence for the rest of your life?
Speaker 3 (16:08):
Would you like that? He did not want one like that.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
I did not want that. So he wants IO you
is what he wants.
Speaker 8 (16:13):
No, so he actually preferred I didn't and he's like,
well what are my options?
Speaker 3 (16:17):
And I was like, okay, hell, what a what.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
A man he is for this?
Speaker 3 (16:24):
That is a good man.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
Can so then we're gonna go snippy snippy snippy.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Well I told him about it a little bit, and
I'm no medical doctor, not anymore at least.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Yeah, Well, you and I are both caught up in
some licensing issues, but.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
Yeah, right, little life happens.
Speaker 8 (16:36):
But I did tell him that we could look into that,
and he's very open to it, which I love. But
I was advised as far as that is, yes, it's reversible,
but be very certain that you don't really want any
more children.
Speaker 3 (16:51):
And I am he is, but I don't know what
if I don't know.
Speaker 8 (16:56):
Five years on the line, we go like, well, we
really want another one siblings were I don't think so,
only child syndrome as well. She will probably have and
that's fine with me. I don't think I want to
do this again, not because I didn't enjoy my experience,
and I love my daughter with everything I have.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
I just know like she's it for me. I just
like I feel that in my heart.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
I do so, so do you do like maybe do
you do like a method like the iou until you're
certain and then we go in there and we do
a little snippy snippy or do we do the snippy
snippy now so that you don't have to go through
all of that and then I suppose if you're that
compelled to do it again, then they go and reroute
the whole thing.
Speaker 4 (17:33):
Yes, So I can't put it in the bank, you know,
put me in the bank, spy.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Yeah, we asked this question long ago because I was
thinking about maybe just at home, a little at home kit,
you know, maybe just a specimen, maybe like just in
a ziplock bag or something. Put it in the freezer
and it's just right there, next to the frozen grapes
and like the pizza rolls and stuff. And then if
ever the time were to come, and then I'll go
get the snippy snip. And then if ever the time
were to come, right, I got this right right here. Yeah, hey,
(18:00):
not a bet.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Don't confuse this as anything else. Do not do not.
Speaker 8 (18:05):
Yeah, I ended up getting the iou, So I do
have that. And I think what we're gonna do is,
I'm going to see how it treats my body, right,
I'm gonna see what happens.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I'm gonna see how I feel.
Speaker 8 (18:16):
You know, I've heard of people taking it out and
stuff because it doesn't really work with their bodies. So
I'm going to see how I do and if it works,
it works. I think it's good for eight years, which
is insane. I know, I'm like eight, Oh my good.
So I'm going to see how it goes. But if
it doesn't, you know, we don't work well together, then
I think he will do the snippy stip And I
love him for that because I don't want to do
something at all, you know, doesn't make me feel the best.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
I get the snippy step. But we've talked about this
before as a single man. I mean, at this age,
I'm probably not gonna do anything, but like I'm probably
not gonna have kids. But but we talked about this
a few months ago, where if I met somebody and
they were undecided and I had already done it, does
that make me look less attractive? Because no, you don't
have to worry about it on your end anymore. But
(18:57):
then you know where I stand, you know what I mean?
So like, I'm not going to do it until I
meet somebody and then we decide together because I don't
want to you know what I mean. Like if I
show up to the date, it's like, I do you
feel about kids? Well, I'm snipped, I'm done. Well that
might be a huge turn off for someone that the
options off the table. Plus like what does that say
about me? Never married, no kids, already snipped? Like what
are you out? Here doing bro. Oh you know, I
(19:20):
don't know. That's what I would be worried about. But no,
all right, well that's the plan. That's the plan.
Speaker 8 (19:27):
And he wants more information on the snippy snip because
I literally could not provide that to him. I really
don't know. I've never done it before myself. So I
feel like we might go down that route. We'll see,
and if we do, then I'll, you know, take care
of the iou. But as of right now, it's me
and the IOU versus the world.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Nothing's crazy about those things. The IUDs is.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
I was dating a girl who had one, and she
comes back from the doctor one time and she's like, oh,
I'm good for another This says I'm good for another
two years.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
I'm like, wait, wait on a but the package says six. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
The doctor says, though, it's cool for two more years,
and I guess I'm like, wait a minute. The doctor
just decides this, like right, we're just oh, because we're
just cool. Yeah, you won't have to worry about it.
I'm like, first of all, that I won't be here
in two years, dont worry about that. But second of all,
based on my track, right, you don't to.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Worry about it.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
But then the other thing was like, well, wait, who
makes this decision? Like I don't know if I trust this,
Like this dude just took a look at it. It was
like another couple thousand miles on these. No, but apparently
it has something to do with the fact that the
FDA will only approve them for so long. Within in
Europe there approved for much longer. So a lot of
doctors will just go with what the European standard is.
And you know, because again, if I'm wrong about this,
(20:37):
I will correct myself. But but I was just like, oh,
are we sure about that? Like, can I see something
in writing?
Speaker 6 (20:44):
Someone in our tech said that hers fell out and
that also happened to my college roommate.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
No, fell out.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
Oh I don't.
Speaker 6 (20:52):
Know, this person said, aud hurts to put in. No
one tells us this. Plus mine just fell out one day.
Oh no, honey, I know. Oh but my my roommate
in college hers fall out right on our dorm room floor.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Oh my, I don't know how.
Speaker 3 (21:07):
I don't have one.
Speaker 6 (21:08):
But okay, just you know, all right, talk to your doctor, Okay,
I got to Mike.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Oh no, A lot of seconds John's here John has
some boy John, good morning.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
How you doing what chapoulinea do?
Speaker 1 (21:19):
John going John.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Now entirely in the morning, So we got to be
kind of careful. I hear some babies in the background.
So if you got to a sect me, you didn't.
You didn't go to a very good practitioner.
Speaker 9 (21:29):
Now, well, no, it's not bad. It's just, uh, you know,
when you're you make a decision with your sniff another
and it just doesn't work out.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
So obviously, you know.
Speaker 9 (21:45):
I got married again and we decided to have kids,
but I already had the snippy snippy, right, I'm just saying.
Speaker 5 (21:55):
I was.
Speaker 9 (21:56):
I heard, I heard the segment, and you know I
listen every day, so I'm kind of I'm on, I
want to let Paulina know that how painful reverse. So
it's kind the most It was the worst pain I've
ever been in in probably two weeks. It was two
weeks of absolutely same.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Okay, Now, the problem of ASECT to me yourself is
no big deal, right when they snip it.
Speaker 9 (22:22):
Yeah, So what happens is they basically, you know, you
have I mean to get technical or you know, into
kind of how it all works, but they just basically
go in and just kind of snip one little spot
where the sperm comes through, and that's just it, and
they cut it and that's the it. Then what happens
is is then after so long, they have to go
(22:43):
back in and kind of connect it. And the thing
is that sometimes it doesn't work. And for me, I
got lucky enough.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
I'm gonna be honest with you, Hey, John, John, I
love you. I'm gonna get a vasect to me after
this call.
Speaker 4 (22:56):
Here's also the problem is that you think Pauline is
gonna care about Hobby's pain and she had a baby,
you know what I'm saying that.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Yeah, but just saying that, this man is just saying that,
like I mean, it's it's just one more thing. And
then John, I assume at some point you're gonna go
in and do it again, right for the third time,
to shut it down.
Speaker 9 (23:13):
No, So, actually we actually had one. I actually had two,
me and my wife. We have two now, so I
have three, but we have two kids, and and it
just happened that she has We've had a bad history
with a good past history and we had a couple
of losses.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Oh no, oh, I'm sorry to hear that. Okay, so
you don't Basically you don't have to go back again,
is what you're saying.
Speaker 5 (23:38):
You know.
Speaker 9 (23:39):
The other thing is like we had she had to
do a procedure to get kids, and so we had
to have a tea section. She had to have a
tea section. So they were in there anyway.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Oh I see, Okay, they handled it. Then, Hey, John,
you're the man. I appreciate the perspective. Have a great day,
Thank you for listening.
Speaker 8 (23:57):
Look at this guy, I thought he was gonna tell
me if how he gets remarried. That's why I thought
he was going with this. And I was like, well,
if you get to be married to a twenty year old,
he better be snips.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
Now.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
My buddy, I won't say his name, but he's very
vocal that he will not get a aseectomy because his
next wife might want kids. Oh yeah, he said this
many times. Oh with that man, and I have no sympathy.
I'm sorry, and unless there's some serious complication, I have
no sympathy for a dude getting snipped versus what you
guys have to endure.
Speaker 5 (24:24):
Now.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
Granted, this sounds like having to go back and double
down another time. That sounds like that was an extra effort,
but still what you guys go through.
Speaker 4 (24:31):
Mmmmm, yeah, how he's looking at the sporting schedules like
March would be good two weeks.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
You know.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
I was talking to my brother in law about that
because he's talking about getting one too, and I said,
you should have done it in March. Yeah, I mean
they were having a baby then. But it's like you
got two weeks or you know, of basketball games, sit
on the couch and you know, do it right around
there because you got nothing else to do. Hey, Marissa,
you're an actually you're an actual physician.
Speaker 5 (24:55):
Oh yeah, that's right.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
And I'm a listener, but real doctors listening to this
thing tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (25:03):
I'm concerned, Marissa. Okay, Well, what some professional thoughts on
this topic?
Speaker 5 (25:09):
Uh huh, Well, I want to congratulate on your ud.
Congratulations one of the best forms of both control.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Oh, thank you, look at me.
Speaker 5 (25:17):
Yeah, I want no great choice. Yeah, but I'm hearing
a lot of things you're saying, and I don't want
folks to get confused or if you had questions, I
wanted to offer up what I.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
Know, Well, what do we need to know?
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Like in thirty seconds, what do we need to know, Marissa,
I'm thinking about getting now you do?
Speaker 1 (25:34):
You should?
Speaker 5 (25:35):
It's excellent. And like if you were to ask all
the guy in cologists what do they prefer for themselves,
They're going to choose a n IUD. So that says
a lot, right, that says a lot. What would we
like for our own selves? You know? These friends pretty
He's right, right, It's not that we're just kind of
like looking at this device and we're like, you probably
got a few more miles on it. It's because of
the way the FDA approves medication in the US, but
(25:56):
that's not been updated or medical devices for you and
in patience. So now that's been updated. So Paulina, as
you go on and you think about, oh my baby's
two years old, three years old, that's how you can
remember like should I change it? Is it time to
change it? In this case is going to be seven
depending on the one you got. Yeah, congratulations.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
Now, Marissa, I'm very scared because this woman, I've in
my forty three years of life, I've later in life,
when someone tells me they have this installed, I tend
to really be very confident that we don't. We're not
going to have any problems. Maybe a little too confident.
In fact, however, someone just texted that they had their
friend had three babies with one in How is that possible?
Speaker 5 (26:36):
But that can't happen depending on the position, right, So
like it. This is a kind of id and what
if it's not positioned correctly? So you're right, I've taking
care of patients. We're pregnant with an iudine place. But
it really is really safe, and you don't want to
make sure it's continued. You evaluate it every year or
so unless you're having any symptoms and make sure it's
placed correctly. And oh my gosh, it's the right type. Yeah,
(26:58):
I'm don't be scared to inform Marissa.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
You're going to be our staff doctor, and you're gonna
handle everyone I date from now on.
Speaker 1 (27:04):
They're going to go through you.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
That's going to be the first step, first of all,
the non disclosure agreement, and after they sign that, then
they got to go see you and make sure everything's
positioned properly before there are any positions happening over here.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
Yes, rufio, doctor Fris got this bump on his lip.
He would like to shut up. He's gone, it's gone.
I don't have it.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
I got nothing, I got no problems in the listen,
don't worry doctor Sonya. My dermatologists got about thirty different
angles of this thing this week and told me that
a shut the hell up.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
But Rufio wants to keep talking about it.
Speaker 2 (27:35):
God, Marissa, this guy put an IUD in his mouth.
Speaker 5 (27:42):
Doctor period. You just don't have the right kind of plumbing,
you know.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
Oh yeah, all right, Marisa, I got to go and
call anytime.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
We love you. Have a good.
Speaker 3 (27:49):
Day, girl, can with an idea or not?
Speaker 4 (27:54):
I'm scared so am I That makes that's one of
the safest rooms.
Speaker 5 (28:01):
All the time.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Like, oh my god, you know what I've done all
of it? Anyway, let's waiting by the phone show. We
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Speaker 2 (28:23):
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you didn't know. Now we're gonna learn about koalas. Koala
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(28:43):
which can even confuse forensic experts.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
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Speaker 2 (28:48):
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You about to do some stuff, you know it's nefarious.
Gets you a koala, Bring the koala with you and
use its hands to commit the crime because they look
like human fingerprints. But nobody will ever know that it
(29:09):
was a koala, or was it? Or was it? Was
it a murderous koala? I don't know, but that's my defense.
You guys, there's a koala out there that has a
fingerprint a lot like mine.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
He did it?
Speaker 2 (29:22):
Go find him, go to the zoo. I don't know this.
Come on, he's a murderous koala. On the loop more
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I didn't know the other one was bad, though.
Speaker 1 (30:02):
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