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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's the Friend Show.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:02):
So we did a waiting by the phone a little
while ago. This is I guess a few weeks ago.
If you remember, a dude named Eric was ghosting a
woman named Charlotte after their date because when he dropped
her off, he realized that he had dated Charlotte's roommate
roommate at one point, and it was kind of weird,
(00:22):
and there were so many questions after that. It would
did the roommates talk about it? What was the interaction like,
what was going on? Why was it so weird? How
did nobody know? And so we had to get everybody
together because you guys had so many questions, so we
had to we had to do it. So let me
get Charlotte. Charlotte is here and Eric, welcome back you guys,
Good morning morning. Okay, so we just recapped everybody on
(00:48):
your appearance on the show previously. What's the aftermath, Eric, Charlotte,
you didn't go out again, Charlotte, your roommate Beth dated
this guy? Did Did did we get to the bottom
of what really going on here?
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:03):
It's yeah. So she said that she that they dated,
and since it has just been kind of weird at home,
and so we haven't really talked about it. I feel
like she's kind of avoiding me.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
A little bit.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
And uh yeah, so that's pretty much all I know.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Okay, Eric's not saying much. But here, guys, I feel
like I'm Maury or Springer or something, because we also
have the roommate. Beth agreed to talk to us. Oh say,
now Eric is talking. Let's welcome Beth the roommate. Hi Bath,
good morning, Good morning, how are you guys? Very well, Beth,
(01:40):
welcome to the show. So again recapping here, Charlotte and Eric,
they met, they went out, they went back to your
place where you and Charlotte lived together, and Eric realizes
that he'd been out with you before, and so it
got we Yeah, Beth, he realized he'd been out with you.
It got weird, and so he left. We found all
this out on the radio and then you, Beth and
(02:01):
Charlotte apparently, according to Cherl, would have not discussed sort
of the why here. So what did happen Beth with
you and Eric? And why haven't you talked to Charlotte
about it?
Speaker 3 (02:12):
I mean, I I you know, I just want her
to make her own decision.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
About him and like not judge him based on wherever
you know happened between me and him or like I
didn't want her to be like pictured us together and
she looked at him and stuff.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Okay, but she doesn't she know that you guys went out,
So what, like, will you tell us all of us
now together? Like what did happen between you and Eric?
Eric is saying nothing, by the way, which is what
did happen?
Speaker 3 (02:38):
I mean, it's just okay, I didn't want to talk
about this, but so when I was seeing Eric, he
also had a girlfriend, and but she knew they were
like slingers, Y're like Pollie or whatever, and like so
I actually used to like go out with them as
a couple, like the three of us, and it just got.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
To be like too weird for me, and like I
knew they were going to end up being like her
feelings and the way he ended.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
It, did you did? If I may ask, did the
three of you engage in more than just socializing?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Okay, so you did? So you joined in on this
consensual Eric.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Like you damn right?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
She did? Okay, So you guys, Okay, so I know, yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I know.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Charlotte is like not really like that.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I was so embarrassed.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
I knew she was gonna judge me if I said anything,
and I just I didn't want.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
To put myself in that position.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Okay, So Eric is confirming that he in the roommate
and Eric's then girlfriend all got it on, Rawaz. Did
you know about any of this?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
No?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
I did not, So then, Eric, Eric, are you single
or are you not single? Because I think straw WA's
under the impression that you were a single, available man.
Did you get rid of the girlfriend? Well?
Speaker 2 (04:00):
No, I think the single is really like.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
A it's very it's a very monogamous way of thinking
about it.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
I'm not right.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Okay, so you so wait, do you still have a girlfriend?
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Eric?
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Yeah, yeah, it's the same one.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
And Charlotte, you didn't know any of this when you
went out with him, Like, you didn't realize he's looking
for a third.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
I sure didn't, huh.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
And you didn't know you was engaged in that, You didn't, Eric,
don't you don't you feel you have an obligation to
tell people that you have a girlfriend and that the
intention is to bring them into a non monogamous situation,
Like isn't that because I mean, don't people go on
dates typically with the standard assumption that the other person
isn't in a relationship, like if it's going to be
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something else, don't you sort of don't you feel a
need to let everybody know up front that that's what
you're trying to do, because it doesn't sound like that's
what Charlotte was signing up for.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Yeah, I can see that now.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
The I think, Yes, it's usually like a.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Second date thing. The first day is sort of like, hey,
we have chemistry, do we hit it off? You know,
and then it's kind of hard to broach that topic.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Does your girlfriend have you out there like recruiting thirds? Like?
Is that what this is about? Is she out there
recruiting people too, like going on dates and trying to
bring people back? Is that sort of the system?
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Well, we sort of yes and no.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
We sort of both go on our own dates and
then we try to figure out, you know, we're sort
of free to we have a sort of.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
An open relationship to go on.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
A date sort of running by each other.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Yeah, yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with any
of this, except it doesn't sound like Charlotte knew it
or was into it.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Okay, but like, can you send me a picture of
your girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Over here?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
What is going on?
Speaker 2 (05:58):
All right?
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Fine? I mean, see, Eric, this is why maybe it's
better off just whoa, whoa, Eric, I think I figure
up right on the line. I think I think Jesus
is trying. Yeah, he's trying to get in on this
right now. This is why maybe it's better just for
full disclosure up front, because I don't know. Maybe now
Charlotte is interested, Like maybe maybe this is an opportunity
(06:21):
for people to experiment or whatever, as opposed to feeling duped. Yeah, no, definitely, Okay,
I don't, I don't. I gotta leave. So Beth is
Beth is out. Eric is still interested in Charlotte. Charlotte
now wants to see some some photographs. Let's say for
a second day, let's go.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Yeah, I mean, I bet you want to Why you
want to be invited?
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Yeah, I'll tell you what if you guys, if the
three of you guys decide to go out, we'll pay
for it. That's on you. You'll have to just let
us know. I mean, Charlotte, are you considering it? I mean, wow, okay,
I'll yeah, I bet you will.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Eric's backy. This is the most engaged Eric has been
now in the whole come wow. Okay, well, hey Beth,
thank you for your time and for full disclosure Eric
and Charlotte and Eric's girlfriend, whoever that is. I wish
you all a great time. Let us know if we
have to reimburse you
Speaker 4 (07:17):
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