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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So there's this lady, because you know I'm currently for
like the next I don't know, several days back on
my dating app stretch because you know, I'll go on
I love when the and then I pause for a
few weeks.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I go back, do you hit like? Can you hit
pause on them? Or no?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
I just hit pause, and then I supposal that you disappear.
I don't know, nothing really ever comes of it, but
it's fomo like I go, I come off them, and
I think, well, how am I going to meet anybody?
That's everybody meets? I guess, and then I go back on.
But lately, I recently I should say I matched with
a a hairstylist.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
I don't. I don't even know if I'll ever meet.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
But what I want to know is if things work
out and I wind up doing a hairstylist, this is
a real question. Eight five five five three five You
gets text the same number, but I'd love to hear
your amazing voice if.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
I were to date her.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
At what point do I have to fire my hairstylist
of thirteen years? Who's my friend? I mean, she cuts
my hair. Then we go to dinner like that, we're friend,
We're like personal friends. At what point do I have
to fire my hairstylist if I were to date a hairstylist, Like,
how long were you with Jess because you're because your wife,
rubylways a hairstylist. How long were you with her before?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
I mean the first month, like I you know, I
found out she was a hairstylist. I have, I had
a hairstylist. I was still doing all the crazy colors
and all that stuff. And then once I was like, hey,
let's get a haircut and then boom.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
That's it. Could you pay her? Yess? Yeah, no, not
even after a month. No, I've never paid Jess for
a haircut.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Once you get married maybe, but like I would think
early on you'd offer to pay you just dating.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
No, just give her something later. Yeah you know, well
we know what that would be like because you've talked
to her about it. Yeah, right at the beginning. You're
probably were.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Working harder in the beginning, of course, Yeah, yeah, you were,
really you were concerned about her pleasure.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
In the beginning, I was getting a national average up,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Ah, the Philippines was not on this lesson, but I know,
bad news. Then again, it was Germany, so and I'm German,
so bad news for both of us. And the US
wasn't looking too good either, so all around we're just
screwed with little way ways.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
No, So I mean, did you have you ever had this?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
I mean I had. I did it a dentist for
a while. I fortunately didn't have a dentist at the time,
so I could go to her. And then when we
stopped seeing each other, I found another dentist, you know.
But I mean, have you ever had this happen before?
Where you're you meet someone new and it's like, like,
for example, how offended would Mike be Mike the mechanic
if you went.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
To Jiffy Loop. Oh yeah, just because you wanted to
keep things separate. Yeah, well I do that when I'm
mad at him, Like I end up losing because I
end up paying anyway. But then I'll be like, okay,
well I'll ask.
Speaker 5 (02:37):
You to do my old changs like three times so
you don't do it, And I go to Jiffy Loupe
and he gets and I leave the receipt on his
seat in my car. I'm like, did you put that
in the glove compartment?
Speaker 6 (02:47):
Maybe?
Speaker 5 (02:48):
So mad, but He's probably like, well whatever, like you
paid the sixty dollars or whatever it is.
Speaker 7 (02:52):
Keep.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
We're saying, unless you marry this woman, don't cut ties,
because I think if I think this is my friend,
would understand because we are friends.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
But she might also be like, really, no loyalty here.
I say, no, you do it.
Speaker 8 (03:03):
Don't do it like people who date or even like
I've seen my friends their mothers are hairstylists. They never
have their hair done because you're always last on a
priority list. The customers always come first. So I wouldn't
Even if you guys get married, I think you should
still keep your hairstylists.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
You got it, like a separation between church and state. Yeah,
you know, yeah, business a pleasure for you.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
I would say six months, so once you hit that mark,
then you can go to her.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
She just said, I want you to hit that mark.
That's his record, right, six months.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Once you hit that, because you don't want to, you know,
go to the point where like you guys don't make
it and then you got to call your hairstylis back
and give the apology tour.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
You don't want that the apology tour. Yeah you know
what I mean. Crawl him back.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Yeah, I would definitely, you know, try her out. She
might not have a good hairstylist. You don't know, you
know what I'm saying, she might chop it all messed up,
and then you still got to go back to your
other one.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
So well, that was my opening line to her, was
something to be because you know how it works on hands,
were like, you match. You know, a guy says he
likes the girl. You could do it the other way
around too, I guess with the with the roses or whatever.
It's so dumb, but I liked her, she likes me back.
And then and then you either one can message first. Specifically,
the etiquette is the dude messages the girl. And that
(04:10):
was my thing was, Hey, if this works out, do
I have to dump my hairstylist. And her response was
you don't have to worry because I only do women's hair.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
And I was like, that's reallyd I'm a woman. I said, well,
I got news for you. I'm from Cameroon. I've never
heard of that only doing women's hair. Oh, that's what said.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Well, women's hair is much more profitable, from what I understand,
than than men's hair.
Speaker 7 (04:32):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Color and the length of time, it's Yeah, a.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Bunch of texts here eight five, five, five, nine, one
oh three five. Don't ever fire your hairstylist. I'm a hairstylist.
I would not want my boyfriend to fire their stylist. Plus,
it's one less cut to do after work. The other
thing is I'm grandfathered into like a really good price.
She's never in thirteen years, she's never changed my price.
I pay like twenty to seven cents, like in the
olden days, and so she's never changed it. I think
(04:57):
if I left her and came back, I think since
we're she wouldn't do it. But if I were her,
I'd update the pricing. I'd be like, well, now a
men's haircut is you know, whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
It went up the men's haircut the barbershops day. They're
making a little more money than everything's going. Oh, they
mean ten dollars tomatoes out here. I'm going to be
at the barbershop. Text. I know I saw you wrote that.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Yeah, I'm been dating my fiancee now for the last
fifteen years, and she cut my hair once because my
barber was incarcerated, but never cut it again.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Well, I mean that's different.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Yeah, you know, if your barber's incarcerated, what are you
supposed to do?
Speaker 2 (05:29):
I don't mix personal with business. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
A lot of people here are saying this is you know,
hey Kelly, Yes, hey Kelly.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
So this woman and by the way, I've never even
met this woman, We've never even spoken. But here I
am already considering and upset about the idea that I
might have to fire my hairstylist in favor of, you know,
the person I'm dating, because wouldn it be a fen
and you are a hairstylist, apparently, Kelly, wouldn't it be offensive?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Though?
Speaker 1 (05:52):
If I'm like, no, I mean, I really enjoy seeing
you naked, but I don't trust you to cut my hair.
Speaker 9 (05:59):
The guy that i've been does it really trust me
to cut his hair?
Speaker 6 (06:02):
And honestly, it's the best thing that the hair happened
to me, because I honestly don't have to stare at
him all the time with the haircut that I'm doing
all the time, or be like worried about his hair
looking bad because I'm the one that's doing it.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Ice, So you're like, if your hair looks got as
lily and.
Speaker 7 (06:19):
I love it, I love it?
Speaker 6 (06:21):
Okay, honestly, No, it's not really that bad, I don't think.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
All right, so you're not offended, then.
Speaker 9 (06:27):
I'm not offended, okay, And I've been doing hair for fifteen.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Years, so all right, Well, thank you, Kelly, have a
good day.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Yes, thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I remember I love you too.
Speaker 8 (06:37):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
I remember when Rufio you were trying to put color
in your hair and Jess wouldn't do it, and then
you threaten to go to somebody else to do it.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Aer a perm. That's what it was, per Jesus Bruno Mars.
He wanted a perm and she wouldn't do it. But
how mad would she have been? For two reasons?
Speaker 1 (06:53):
One because she wouldn't do it because she didn't think
it was gonna look good, and two because you cheated
on her.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Basically, Oh, she wouldn't have been mad.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
No, she would have been like, see you got what
you got, Now live with have her long perm last
three months, six months.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
I think she would have.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Been mad because she didn't want you to do it,
because she didn't think it was gonna look good.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
No, she would have been fine of me doing it.
She just didn't want to do it because it's a
lot of work. A perm is a lot of work,
Like I can't do that at the house, and you're
not paying I gotta go to the salon, right, I'm
not paying for it either. So this guy, well, I mean,
I guess I wouldn't pay my wife either. I wouldn't
pay my wife either, but I would also do something
that you're not doing. Hey, Ryan, Hey man, why is
just becoming personal?
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Ryan?
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Should I fire my and I've never met this woman,
but if I dated or should I fire my hairstylist Christy?
Speaker 9 (07:36):
Who?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I can't imagine if.
Speaker 7 (07:38):
I would say based on your tracks, probably waiting a
long time. So like, you know, she's going to be
your wife partner because if you guys break up, then
you're gonna have to go back to your old hair.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
So yeah, go crawling back. You're so right, I say, Is.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
She canceled because she's sick of the appointment, then go
to your current girl.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Right right? That makes sense? That makes it? Okay?
Speaker 1 (08:06):
All right, fair enough, Bryan, thank you, and then you're
you're not wrong. Have a good day, ob Gy and Lena? Hi,
ob guy and Lena? How are you a long time?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
No see?
Speaker 4 (08:17):
Hi?
Speaker 9 (08:18):
Good morning? How are you?
Speaker 7 (08:19):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Are you offering to do ob g I n inspections
here in the on the show, Is that what you
want to do? Those are called right inspections? Yes. Yeah,
it's like like an emissions check. Right, you're just pulling
the old garage and they just take it. Look see
is that what happens in the inspection.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
And everything? They call them exam? You go for a
yearly exam.
Speaker 9 (08:40):
You're yearly well woman exam. Every woman should go out
there and get it. Let's cut their cancer while we can't.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
Yeah, okay, good p s a shout out glean. I
think you're right, So would you?
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I mean, I'm trying to think of the example, like
do you do you do your friends come and see
you or do they keep that separate?
Speaker 9 (08:57):
I do so I have some friends and even some
that come and see me. It's at first it was
a little weird to some of them, but then they
realized that it's still there's still a level of a
professional relationship. So they know that I'm not going to
go around telling their business or anything like that, and
they actually know they're going to get better here with
(09:17):
me more than anything else. So I took care of
my sister during her pregnancy, and but it was my
partners who actually when it came to surgery, we kind
of drew the line and my partner actually did hear
the sections.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Okay, because yeah, ethically, isn't it like it's a little
too close to home?
Speaker 9 (09:35):
Oh definitely, Like I was there for it, but if
I was the one operating, I probably wouldn't have made
the decision that was made in the o R. And
they have had a bad outcome, So okay, that's why
we stay out of the surgery.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Okay.
Speaker 9 (09:50):
But I did do my nephew's circumcision, and there was
a lot of like, oh my god, are you sure
you want.
Speaker 7 (09:59):
To do that?
Speaker 9 (10:00):
And I was like, you know, if I trust myself
to do it on anybody else, why would it be
any different in this case?
Speaker 1 (10:06):
Yeah, he's never going to live. That dad at family
reunions be like hey, yeah, right, I think is that
thing looking?
Speaker 8 (10:12):
Is that thing?
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Is that thing banging? Because I know it's my best
work right there, I will say.
Speaker 9 (10:18):
And his dad came to me a few days later
and he's like, all the nurses keep asking he did
his circumcision, like that it looks great? And I was like, see,
I told you, I don't just make this up.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
So yeah, when he's like sixteen seventeen, he can tell
his girlfriend be like, hey, I think that I did that.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
I did that.
Speaker 7 (10:33):
You're welcome, Yeah exactly.
Speaker 9 (10:36):
There have things going over there.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
But see lean like if you were my friend and
I were a girl, I mean, and I know that
you guys are it's different, and I know that people
have different attitudes towards doctors than I do. Like in
that I think you guys are internalizing everything when I
go in, I think you're looking this is me, this
is my self consciousness. I feel like when I go
to the doctor and I'm like, I got the poops
or something, I feel like you guys are going, oh,
that's gross, even though you've heard a million things and
don't care, But like, are wouldn't you be afraid that, like,
(11:01):
if you had something embarrassing that your friend just knows
that it's just hanging out way back there in the
storage closet in the back of your brain, that you
came in there with that nasty thing.
Speaker 9 (11:12):
Well, I mean, I'll speak for myself at least and
a lot of my colleagues that I work with. When
we when you go into medicine, especially into a field
like OBGYN, you view like the female anatomy very differently.
I don't think about those parts the way that the
average person does. And so to me, it's not so
much oh my god, that's gross. It's more like, oh,
(11:34):
she has a pathology and it needs to be treated.
It's a lot more enclosed in that realm, rather than
oh my god, that's gross.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Okay, because I don't. I want to be clear, it's
not gross. But for me, I guess I would be like, oh, great,
my friend knows that I got the civius, you know
what I mean, And to be very convenient, because then
if my friend knows that I got the cervius, then
she could just come over here, or she could just
come over and treat the civist and I never had
to go anywhere. But but yet my friend knows I
got the simbus, and I don't know if I want that.
Speaker 9 (12:06):
Yeah, I mean, I could see where that would come
into play. But that's why, you know, the personal decision. Overall,
I think that if you are practicing in this field,
more than likely you're able to compartmentalize things, and okay,
not think about that when you're out with your friends.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Well, shout out to you, obgu I and Lena been
listening for a long time. She does all my inspections,
so I'm yeah, all of that, all the inspections.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Thank you, Lena.
Speaker 9 (12:30):
Have a good day, no problem, have a great day.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
And I'm glad you called. Thanks for still listening. I
was wondering where she was. Our free medical advice more
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So there's this lady, because you know I'm currently for
like the next I don't know, several days back on
my dating app stretch because you know, I'll go on
I love when the and then I pause for a
few weeks.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I go back, do you hit like? Can you hit
pause on them? Or no?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
I just hit pause, and then I supposal that you disappear.
I don't know, nothing really ever comes of it, but
it's fomo like I go, I come off them, and
I think, well, how am I going to meet anybody?
That's everybody meets? I guess, and then I go back on.
But lately, I recently I should say I matched with
a a hairstylist.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
I don't. I don't even know if I'll ever meet.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
But what I want to know is if things work
out and I wind up doing a hairstylist, this is
a real question. Eight five five five three five You
gets text the same number, but I'd love to hear
your amazing voice if.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
I were to date her.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
At what point do I have to fire my hairstylist
of thirteen years? Who's my friend? I mean, she cuts
my hair. Then we go to dinner like that, we're friend,
We're like personal friends. At what point do I have
to fire my hairstylist if I were to date a hairstylist, Like,
how long were you with Jess because you're because your wife,
rubylways a hairstylist. How long were you with her before?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
I mean the first month, like I you know, I
found out she was a hairstylist. I have, I had
a hairstylist. I was still doing all the crazy colors
and all that stuff. And then once I was like, hey,
let's get a haircut and then boom.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
That's it. Could you pay her? Yess? Yeah, no, not
even after a month. No, I've never paid Jess for
a haircut.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Once you get married maybe, but like I would think
early on you'd offer to pay you just dating.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
No, just give her something later. Yeah you know, well
we know what that would be like because you've talked
to her about it. Yeah, right at the beginning. You're
probably were.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Working harder in the beginning, of course, Yeah, yeah, you were,
really you were concerned about her pleasure.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
In the beginning, I was getting a national average up,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Ah, the Philippines was not on this lesson, but I know,
bad news. Then again, it was Germany, so and I'm German,
so bad news for both of us. And the US
wasn't looking too good either, so all around we're just
screwed with little way ways.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
No, So I mean, did you have you ever had this?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
I mean I had. I did it a dentist for
a while. I fortunately didn't have a dentist at the time,
so I could go to her. And then when we
stopped seeing each other, I found another dentist, you know.
But I mean, have you ever had this happen before?
Where you're you meet someone new and it's like, like,
for example, how offended would Mike be Mike the mechanic
if you went.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
To Jiffy Loop. Oh yeah, just because you wanted to
keep things separate. Yeah, well I do that when I'm
mad at him, Like I end up losing because I
end up paying anyway. But then I'll be like, okay,
well I'll ask.
Speaker 5 (02:37):
You to do my old changs like three times so
you don't do it, And I go to Jiffy Loupe
and he gets and I leave the receipt on his
seat in my car. I'm like, did you put that
in the glove compartment?
Speaker 6 (02:47):
Maybe?
Speaker 5 (02:48):
So mad, but He's probably like, well whatever, like you
paid the sixty dollars or whatever it is.
Speaker 7 (02:52):
Keep.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
We're saying, unless you marry this woman, don't cut ties,
because I think if I think this is my friend,
would understand because we are friends.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
But she might also be like, really, no loyalty here.
I say, no, you do it.
Speaker 8 (03:03):
Don't do it like people who date or even like
I've seen my friends their mothers are hairstylists. They never
have their hair done because you're always last on a
priority list. The customers always come first. So I wouldn't
Even if you guys get married, I think you should
still keep your hairstylists.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
You got it, like a separation between church and state. Yeah,
you know, yeah, business a pleasure for you.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
I would say six months, so once you hit that mark,
then you can go to her.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
She just said, I want you to hit that mark.
That's his record, right, six months.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Once you hit that, because you don't want to, you know,
go to the point where like you guys don't make
it and then you got to call your hairstylis back
and give the apology tour.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
You don't want that the apology tour. Yeah you know
what I mean. Crawl him back.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Yeah, I would definitely, you know, try her out. She
might not have a good hairstylist. You don't know, you
know what I'm saying, she might chop it all messed up,
and then you still got to go back to your
other one.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
So well, that was my opening line to her, was
something to be because you know how it works on hands,
were like, you match. You know, a guy says he
likes the girl. You could do it the other way
around too, I guess with the with the roses or whatever.
It's so dumb, but I liked her, she likes me back.
And then and then you either one can message first. Specifically,
the etiquette is the dude messages the girl. And that
(04:10):
was my thing was, Hey, if this works out, do
I have to dump my hairstylist. And her response was
you don't have to worry because I only do women's hair.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
And I was like, that's reallyd I'm a woman. I said, well,
I got news for you. I'm from Cameroon. I've never
heard of that only doing women's hair. Oh, that's what said.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Well, women's hair is much more profitable, from what I understand,
than than men's hair.
Speaker 7 (04:32):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Color and the length of time, it's Yeah, a.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Bunch of texts here eight five, five, five, nine, one
oh three five. Don't ever fire your hairstylist. I'm a hairstylist.
I would not want my boyfriend to fire their stylist. Plus,
it's one less cut to do after work. The other
thing is I'm grandfathered into like a really good price.
She's never in thirteen years, she's never changed my price.
I pay like twenty to seven cents, like in the
olden days, and so she's never changed it. I think
(04:57):
if I left her and came back, I think since
we're she wouldn't do it. But if I were her,
I'd update the pricing. I'd be like, well, now a
men's haircut is you know, whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
It went up the men's haircut the barbershops day. They're
making a little more money than everything's going. Oh, they
mean ten dollars tomatoes out here. I'm going to be
at the barbershop. Text. I know I saw you wrote that.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Yeah, I'm been dating my fiancee now for the last
fifteen years, and she cut my hair once because my
barber was incarcerated, but never cut it again.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Well, I mean that's different.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Yeah, you know, if your barber's incarcerated, what are you
supposed to do?
Speaker 2 (05:29):
I don't mix personal with business. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
A lot of people here are saying this is you know,
hey Kelly, Yes, hey Kelly.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
So this woman and by the way, I've never even
met this woman, We've never even spoken. But here I
am already considering and upset about the idea that I
might have to fire my hairstylist in favor of, you know,
the person I'm dating, because wouldn it be a fen
and you are a hairstylist, apparently, Kelly, wouldn't it be offensive?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Though?
Speaker 1 (05:52):
If I'm like, no, I mean, I really enjoy seeing
you naked, but I don't trust you to cut my hair.
Speaker 9 (05:59):
The guy that i've been does it really trust me
to cut his hair?
Speaker 6 (06:02):
And honestly, it's the best thing that the hair happened
to me, because I honestly don't have to stare at
him all the time with the haircut that I'm doing
all the time, or be like worried about his hair
looking bad because I'm the one that's doing it.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Ice, So you're like, if your hair looks got as
lily and.
Speaker 7 (06:19):
I love it, I love it?
Speaker 6 (06:21):
Okay, honestly, No, it's not really that bad, I don't think.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
All right, so you're not offended, then.
Speaker 9 (06:27):
I'm not offended, okay, And I've been doing hair for fifteen.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Years, so all right, Well, thank you, Kelly, have a
good day.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Yes, thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I remember I love you too.
Speaker 8 (06:37):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
I remember when Rufio you were trying to put color
in your hair and Jess wouldn't do it, and then
you threaten to go to somebody else to do it.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Aer a perm. That's what it was, per Jesus Bruno Mars.
He wanted a perm and she wouldn't do it. But
how mad would she have been? For two reasons?
Speaker 1 (06:53):
One because she wouldn't do it because she didn't think
it was gonna look good, and two because you cheated
on her.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Basically, Oh, she wouldn't have been mad.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
No, she would have been like, see you got what
you got, Now live with have her long perm last
three months, six months.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
I think she would have.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Been mad because she didn't want you to do it,
because she didn't think it was gonna look good.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
No, she would have been fine of me doing it.
She just didn't want to do it because it's a
lot of work. A perm is a lot of work,
Like I can't do that at the house, and you're
not paying I gotta go to the salon, right, I'm
not paying for it either. So this guy, well, I mean,
I guess I wouldn't pay my wife either. I wouldn't
pay my wife either, but I would also do something
that you're not doing. Hey, Ryan, Hey man, why is
just becoming personal?
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Ryan?
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Should I fire my and I've never met this woman,
but if I dated or should I fire my hairstylist Christy?
Speaker 9 (07:36):
Who?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I can't imagine if.
Speaker 7 (07:38):
I would say based on your tracks, probably waiting a
long time. So like, you know, she's going to be
your wife partner because if you guys break up, then
you're gonna have to go back to your old hair.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
So yeah, go crawling back. You're so right, I say, Is.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
She canceled because she's sick of the appointment, then go
to your current girl.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Right right? That makes sense? That makes it? Okay?
Speaker 1 (08:06):
All right, fair enough, Bryan, thank you, and then you're
you're not wrong. Have a good day, ob Gy and Lena? Hi,
ob guy and Lena? How are you a long time?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
No see?
Speaker 4 (08:17):
Hi?
Speaker 9 (08:18):
Good morning? How are you?
Speaker 7 (08:19):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Are you offering to do ob g I n inspections
here in the on the show, Is that what you
want to do? Those are called right inspections? Yes. Yeah,
it's like like an emissions check. Right, you're just pulling
the old garage and they just take it. Look see
is that what happens in the inspection.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
And everything? They call them exam? You go for a
yearly exam.
Speaker 9 (08:40):
You're yearly well woman exam. Every woman should go out
there and get it. Let's cut their cancer while we can't.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
Yeah, okay, good p s a shout out glean. I
think you're right, So would you?
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I mean, I'm trying to think of the example, like
do you do you do your friends come and see
you or do they keep that separate?
Speaker 9 (08:57):
I do so I have some friends and even some
that come and see me. It's at first it was
a little weird to some of them, but then they
realized that it's still there's still a level of a
professional relationship. So they know that I'm not going to
go around telling their business or anything like that, and
they actually know they're going to get better here with
(09:17):
me more than anything else. So I took care of
my sister during her pregnancy, and but it was my
partners who actually when it came to surgery, we kind
of drew the line and my partner actually did hear
the sections.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Okay, because yeah, ethically, isn't it like it's a little
too close to home?
Speaker 9 (09:35):
Oh definitely, Like I was there for it, but if
I was the one operating, I probably wouldn't have made
the decision that was made in the o R. And
they have had a bad outcome, So okay, that's why
we stay out of the surgery.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Okay.
Speaker 9 (09:50):
But I did do my nephew's circumcision, and there was
a lot of like, oh my god, are you sure
you want.
Speaker 7 (09:59):
To do that?
Speaker 9 (10:00):
And I was like, you know, if I trust myself
to do it on anybody else, why would it be
any different in this case?
Speaker 1 (10:06):
Yeah, he's never going to live. That dad at family
reunions be like hey, yeah, right, I think is that
thing looking?
Speaker 8 (10:12):
Is that thing?
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Is that thing banging? Because I know it's my best
work right there, I will say.
Speaker 9 (10:18):
And his dad came to me a few days later
and he's like, all the nurses keep asking he did
his circumcision, like that it looks great? And I was like, see,
I told you, I don't just make this up.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
So yeah, when he's like sixteen seventeen, he can tell
his girlfriend be like, hey, I think that I did that.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
I did that.
Speaker 7 (10:33):
You're welcome, Yeah exactly.
Speaker 9 (10:36):
There have things going over there.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
But see lean like if you were my friend and
I were a girl, I mean, and I know that
you guys are it's different, and I know that people
have different attitudes towards doctors than I do. Like in
that I think you guys are internalizing everything when I
go in, I think you're looking this is me, this
is my self consciousness. I feel like when I go
to the doctor and I'm like, I got the poops
or something, I feel like you guys are going, oh,
that's gross, even though you've heard a million things and
don't care, But like, are wouldn't you be afraid that, like,
(11:01):
if you had something embarrassing that your friend just knows
that it's just hanging out way back there in the
storage closet in the back of your brain, that you
came in there with that nasty thing.
Speaker 9 (11:12):
Well, I mean, I'll speak for myself at least and
a lot of my colleagues that I work with. When
we when you go into medicine, especially into a field
like OBGYN, you view like the female anatomy very differently.
I don't think about those parts the way that the
average person does. And so to me, it's not so
much oh my god, that's gross. It's more like, oh,
(11:34):
she has a pathology and it needs to be treated.
It's a lot more enclosed in that realm, rather than
oh my god, that's gross.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Okay, because I don't. I want to be clear, it's
not gross. But for me, I guess I would be like, oh, great,
my friend knows that I got the civius, you know
what I mean, And to be very convenient, because then
if my friend knows that I got the cervius, then
she could just come over here, or she could just
come over and treat the civist and I never had
to go anywhere. But but yet my friend knows I
got the simbus, and I don't know if I want that.
Speaker 9 (12:06):
Yeah, I mean, I could see where that would come
into play. But that's why, you know, the personal decision. Overall,
I think that if you are practicing in this field,
more than likely you're able to compartmentalize things, and okay,
not think about that when you're out with your friends.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Well, shout out to you, obgu I and Lena been
listening for a long time. She does all my inspections,
so I'm yeah, all of that, all the inspections.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Thank you, Lena.
Speaker 9 (12:30):
Have a good day, no problem, have a great day.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
And I'm glad you called. Thanks for still listening. I
was wondering where she was. Our free medical advice more
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