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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Stefan,
good morning, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
How are you.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
I'm doing good.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
So we're trying to figure out what's going on with
this woman, Jenna. So we got to have all the backstory.
Tell us how you met, about any dates that you've
been on, and then what you think is happening right
now if you're being why do you think you're being ghosted?
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Man? I have no idea.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I've been on dates before it and like, nothing like
this has happened. Basically, we met.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
At a bar. I like to meet people in the wild.
You know, I'm not crazy about the apps.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Or anything like that, but I felt I'd like to
think I felt the connection. I mean, we were talking
all night. You know, she's laughing, We're having a good time.
I mean, you know it was it felt good, it
felt natural, and you know, I asked for a number,
gave it to me, and so I set up a
thing where I took her out dinner.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Said yes, I.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Mean the thing is uh, we weren't even there for
like ten minutes and she excused herself to go to
the restroom and then never came back. I got I
don't even think it's ghosted, like he was there, we
were actually did.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
To you, and then ten minutes into the date. That's
not even I don't even know if the drink came yet.
That's not even a full drink. Most people have like
a two drink minimum, Like they'll show up, they'll at
least have two drinks to make it worth their time.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
But this one left you sitting there and it.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Gets worse and then she blot melightly like yeah, so
like what the hell?
Speaker 5 (01:30):
Like I literally have no idea what could have happened,
Like I don't know that I have done on my face,
Like I have no idea, and I'm just trying to thought,
like you know, if there's something I don't know about whatever,
But like like that was like like rude, I just
don't even know how to wrap my mind around a.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Hold on of second stuff on like even if this
blows up the whole segment right here, and even if
we don't even get to a part two, Like honestly,
I need you to really search your soul right now,
like in the ten minutes that you were on this date,
I need you to keep one hundred with me, like
you really didn't you didn't bring up like Nazi Germany
or something like you what did you do something? Did
you get political? Did you talk about you know, reproductive rights?
(02:10):
I mean, did you do something? Just did you really
like go there in the first ten minutes about a
controversial topic or say something inappropriate or creepy?
Speaker 5 (02:19):
I mean, like, come on, I promise, I mean, like
I shouldn't have like I know exactly what I said,
and if nothing was crazy everything, if we didn't even
get to having like a.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Real conversation yet, it was just kind of.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
You know, because if I call her and she tells
me that you, you know, invited her within the first
ten minutes to go have trap be sex at your
house or.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Something like, I'm going to be angry with you.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
I'm going to be mad if I find out that
you brought up, you know, I don't know, uh, some
sort of political situation. It was very controversial, and you're
telling me it was all benign.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
I promised.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
The Trappe sex is more of a second date, I
would agree.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I would, I would say at least the last quarter
of the first state, but certainly not in the first
But let's call this woman Jenna, now good luck.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Hello. Hi is this Jenna?
Speaker 6 (03:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
This is her.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Hey Jenna, good morning. My name is Fredam calling for
the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show. And I have
to tell you that we are on the radio right
now and I wouldn't need your permission to continue with
the call.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Can we chat for just a second on the air,
do you mind? Sure?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Okay, I know a little bit strange, but thank you
so much for your time. We're actually calling on behalf
of a guy who says he met you and you
recently went out. His name is Stefan. Do you remember
meeting him, I guess at a bar or something and
then going out with him. Yeah, okay, So he reached
out to us Jenna and said that he had met
you and he was attracted to you, thought there was chemistry.
He admits that you went on a date and that
(03:47):
you left within ten minutes. You just left him sitting
there and then blocked him and have not communicated with
him since.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
What happened?
Speaker 6 (03:54):
Yeah, well I left because he didn't respect me.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Let's see here we go. Why didn't he respect you?
What did he say?
Speaker 3 (04:02):
He was late?
Speaker 6 (04:03):
And that's just like the biggest red flag to me,
because if someone doesn't respect your time. They don't respect
you period.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Oh wow, he was late to the date? How late
was he?
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (04:12):
I mean, honestly, it's kind of irrelevant, but he was
over ten minutes late, and I was waiting, and I
was like, okay, where's that here? Like I just I
don't have time for that.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Literally, okay, so's he's let's call it ten minutes late.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
He's ten minutes late to the date. You guys, sit down.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
You stayed for ten more minutes, and then, as opposed,
I'm not saying this, this is your fault. But instead
of saying, hey, I'm offended that you were late, that
was rude, you just get up and leave. You don't
even give him any explanation.
Speaker 6 (04:40):
Because I didn't want to hear a bunch of excuses,
because I'm like, if this wasn't important enough for you
to make time to plan properly to get there.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
What are we doing? Like this is a first date.
Speaker 6 (04:52):
Like impressions matter. And he didn't bother to show up
on time. I mean, honestly, he should have been early,
but I would have taken on time. But I sat
around waiting and then he showed up and I was
honestly already planning to go. So it was only because
like he caught me still there that I like stayed
for a few minutes and then I was like, you
know what, this isn't worth it, Like I'm not going
(05:14):
to be able to get past this.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
I mean, I agree that first impressions are important and
that you can't waste people's times and people's time, and
that he should have been, you know, on time at least,
but I mean, things do happen. It's the first time,
you guys, really the second time, but like the first
time you guys had planned to do anything. I mean
traffic and there are there are things we couldn for
that you've never.
Speaker 6 (05:33):
Been late come up, But this is the first day,
Like this isn't like we've known each other forever. And
he could have also texted to say he was running, lady.
He could have done a lot of it.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
He could have communicated.
Speaker 6 (05:46):
I've been on a lot of dates. And honestly, it's
a good it's a good tell. And that's the red
flag for me because it's the least they can do do,
you know what I mean, Like.
Speaker 7 (05:55):
Life is too short, okay, but what about like a restaurant, right,
think you do grace period for your reservation. Shouldn't that
apply to dates to like a little bit of wiggle room,
I would assume, like kind of no, oh.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
No, I'm sorry.
Speaker 6 (06:08):
I could have to have a line and I have standards,
and to me, respecting someone's time.
Speaker 8 (06:14):
Is like super important that a text would have been nice,
Like that's Curtis, that's the curtious thing to do. Hey,
I'm running late, especially if you're gonna be like over
ten minutes. So I feel you on that part, But like, girl,
this is a bit dramatic to get up and leave
because of the man that he could have.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
You don't know what could have happened. He could have
got caught at a trainer. All he has to do
is text that.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Yeah, now hold on, Steph, let me let Stefan say
something here, because he has. You haven't said a word
steff On, What what happened? Why were you ten minutes late?
And why didn't you let her know that you would
be late? And why?
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Man?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Most of that was parking, honestly, And also I'm like
in the car and I just didn't have you know,
I've been like texting driving also looking for.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Like like a spot and stuff.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
I didn't think that that was going to be the thing.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
I'm like, that's crazy to me.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
I just don't think you like him that much. Honestly.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
That's I just think maybe you weren't that into it
because this isn't excusable. This is this happens like, this
is not He wasn't an hour late. He wasn't he
didn't know show he didn't. I mean, I agree, he
could have communicated, but like I think, if you, if
you really like this guy, Jenna, then you might let
this go to at least get through a full date.
Because it's also not polite just to leave someone sitting
(07:31):
there either. I mean, I'm not saying that. You know, again,
he shouldn't have been late, but you also you can't
just get up and leave people.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
He did it. He did it to her. No, he didn't.
He left her sitting there for ten minutes. He was parking.
Speaker 8 (07:43):
Do you know how hard it is to find a parking.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Oh please keep you were on TikTok while driving? Who
said that? That is not true?
Speaker 8 (07:54):
But ten minutes late is not a reason for you
to get up and leave the date Like that's very dramatic.
He didn't communicate with you about the park. When you
didn't communicate with him what your issue was, you ghosted
the man. That's very immature in my opinion.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
And you could have said to him, hey, look, I
don't appreciate that you were late. I'd appreciate it from
now on, you know, moving forward. If you're not going
to be on time, to let me know or whatever,
because who knows, maybe the date goes great and maybe
the next time he's early, or maybe everyone's got their
thing right, you know, And I think all you had
to do was talk about it. But for you non
negotiable Jenna.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Like, it just isn'tle.
Speaker 6 (08:26):
I just feel like it's a first date. Like you
should have planned better, You should have planned ahead, Like
you can't give me the basic respect to have like
planned this out. He said he was excited to see me.
He picked this restaurant.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Why didn't he.
Speaker 6 (08:38):
Look at parking ahead? Like I just feel like, I'm
so sick of men who can't take care of themselves.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
They needed to do a logistic investigation before he went
out to this thing.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Is this a dato a job interview?
Speaker 4 (08:53):
I've never I've never been to this restaurant. Honestly, I
had no idea what the parking situation was like.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
And to like well, and you also, you guys.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Don't think it's a big deal. I think you're taking
away too kind of crazy.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
You went to the effort to get.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Ready, you went to the effort to go, like, why
not at least just complete the date, I guess and see.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
If you like it.
Speaker 6 (09:12):
I didn't want to waste any more of.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
My own time, you know that business girl for you girl, Okay,
I'm single, right if you want to stay single? Yeah,
I mean i'd only ask.
Speaker 6 (09:25):
You for I refuse to settle.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
And I love it, but not this is not it.
Do not die on this hill. I am telling you
somebody who used to date a lot. Do not die
on this hill.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Yeah, it sounds like the tolerances here are pretty pretty tight,
you know, as far as maybe maybe give people a
little bit more of a chance than this.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
But but yeah, you don't have to.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
If that's your thing, it's your thing, Stefan, she's not
going to be interested. I guess we're not getting over this, Jenna,
thank you for answering. I wish you guys both the
best of luck out there.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
I guess we know why she's single.
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Stefan,
good morning, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
How are you.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
I'm doing good.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
So we're trying to figure out what's going on with
this woman, Jenna. So we got to have all the backstory.
Tell us how you met, about any dates that you've
been on, and then what you think is happening right
now if you're being why do you think you're being ghosted?
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Man? I have no idea.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I've been on dates before it and like, nothing like
this has happened. Basically, we met.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
At a bar. I like to meet people in the wild.
You know, I'm not crazy about the apps.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Or anything like that, but I felt I'd like to
think I felt the connection. I mean, we were talking
all night. You know, she's laughing, We're having a good time.
I mean, you know it was it felt good, it
felt natural, and you know, I asked for a number,
gave it to me, and so I set up a
thing where I took her out dinner.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Said yes, I.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Mean the thing is uh, we weren't even there for
like ten minutes and she excused herself to go to
the restroom and then never came back. I got I
don't even think it's ghosted, like he was there, we
were actually did.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
To you, and then ten minutes into the date. That's
not even I don't even know if the drink came yet.
That's not even a full drink. Most people have like
a two drink minimum, Like they'll show up, they'll at
least have two drinks to make it worth their time.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
But this one left you sitting there and it.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Gets worse and then she blot melightly like yeah, so
like what the hell?
Speaker 5 (01:30):
Like I literally have no idea what could have happened,
Like I don't know that I have done on my face,
Like I have no idea, and I'm just trying to thought,
like you know, if there's something I don't know about whatever,
But like like that was like like rude, I just
don't even know how to wrap my mind around a.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Hold on of second stuff on like even if this
blows up the whole segment right here, and even if
we don't even get to a part two, Like honestly,
I need you to really search your soul right now,
like in the ten minutes that you were on this date,
I need you to keep one hundred with me, like
you really didn't you didn't bring up like Nazi Germany
or something like you what did you do something? Did
you get political? Did you talk about you know, reproductive rights?
(02:10):
I mean, did you do something? Just did you really
like go there in the first ten minutes about a
controversial topic or say something inappropriate or creepy?
Speaker 5 (02:19):
I mean, like, come on, I promise, I mean, like
I shouldn't have like I know exactly what I said,
and if nothing was crazy everything, if we didn't even
get to having like a.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Real conversation yet, it was just kind of.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
You know, because if I call her and she tells
me that you, you know, invited her within the first
ten minutes to go have trap be sex at your
house or.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Something like, I'm going to be angry with you.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
I'm going to be mad if I find out that
you brought up, you know, I don't know, uh, some
sort of political situation. It was very controversial, and you're
telling me it was all benign.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
I promised.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
The Trappe sex is more of a second date, I
would agree.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I would, I would say at least the last quarter
of the first state, but certainly not in the first
But let's call this woman Jenna, now good luck.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Hello. Hi is this Jenna?
Speaker 6 (03:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
This is her.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Hey Jenna, good morning. My name is Fredam calling for
the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show. And I have
to tell you that we are on the radio right
now and I wouldn't need your permission to continue with
the call.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Can we chat for just a second on the air,
do you mind? Sure?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Okay, I know a little bit strange, but thank you
so much for your time. We're actually calling on behalf
of a guy who says he met you and you
recently went out. His name is Stefan. Do you remember
meeting him, I guess at a bar or something and
then going out with him. Yeah, okay, So he reached
out to us Jenna and said that he had met
you and he was attracted to you, thought there was chemistry.
He admits that you went on a date and that
(03:47):
you left within ten minutes. You just left him sitting
there and then blocked him and have not communicated with
him since.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
What happened?
Speaker 6 (03:54):
Yeah, well I left because he didn't respect me.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Let's see here we go. Why didn't he respect you?
What did he say?
Speaker 3 (04:02):
He was late?
Speaker 6 (04:03):
And that's just like the biggest red flag to me,
because if someone doesn't respect your time. They don't respect
you period.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Oh wow, he was late to the date? How late
was he?
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (04:12):
I mean, honestly, it's kind of irrelevant, but he was
over ten minutes late, and I was waiting, and I
was like, okay, where's that here? Like I just I
don't have time for that.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Literally, okay, so's he's let's call it ten minutes late.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
He's ten minutes late to the date. You guys, sit down.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
You stayed for ten more minutes, and then, as opposed,
I'm not saying this, this is your fault. But instead
of saying, hey, I'm offended that you were late, that
was rude, you just get up and leave. You don't
even give him any explanation.
Speaker 6 (04:40):
Because I didn't want to hear a bunch of excuses,
because I'm like, if this wasn't important enough for you
to make time to plan properly to get there.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
What are we doing? Like this is a first date.
Speaker 6 (04:52):
Like impressions matter. And he didn't bother to show up
on time. I mean, honestly, he should have been early,
but I would have taken on time. But I sat
around waiting and then he showed up and I was
honestly already planning to go. So it was only because
like he caught me still there that I like stayed
for a few minutes and then I was like, you
know what, this isn't worth it, Like I'm not going
(05:14):
to be able to get past this.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
I mean, I agree that first impressions are important and
that you can't waste people's times and people's time, and
that he should have been, you know, on time at least,
but I mean, things do happen. It's the first time,
you guys, really the second time, but like the first
time you guys had planned to do anything. I mean
traffic and there are there are things we couldn for
that you've never.
Speaker 6 (05:33):
Been late come up, But this is the first day,
Like this isn't like we've known each other forever. And
he could have also texted to say he was running, lady.
He could have done a lot of it.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
He could have communicated.
Speaker 6 (05:46):
I've been on a lot of dates. And honestly, it's
a good it's a good tell. And that's the red
flag for me because it's the least they can do do,
you know what I mean, Like.
Speaker 7 (05:55):
Life is too short, okay, but what about like a restaurant, right,
think you do grace period for your reservation. Shouldn't that
apply to dates to like a little bit of wiggle room,
I would assume, like kind of no, oh.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
No, I'm sorry.
Speaker 6 (06:08):
I could have to have a line and I have standards,
and to me, respecting someone's time.
Speaker 8 (06:14):
Is like super important that a text would have been nice,
Like that's Curtis, that's the curtious thing to do. Hey,
I'm running late, especially if you're gonna be like over
ten minutes. So I feel you on that part, But like, girl,
this is a bit dramatic to get up and leave
because of the man that he could have.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
You don't know what could have happened. He could have
got caught at a trainer. All he has to do
is text that.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Yeah, now hold on, Steph, let me let Stefan say
something here, because he has. You haven't said a word
steff On, What what happened? Why were you ten minutes late?
And why didn't you let her know that you would
be late? And why?
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Man?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Most of that was parking, honestly, And also I'm like
in the car and I just didn't have you know,
I've been like texting driving also looking for.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Like like a spot and stuff.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
I didn't think that that was going to be the thing.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
I'm like, that's crazy to me.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
I just don't think you like him that much. Honestly.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
That's I just think maybe you weren't that into it
because this isn't excusable. This is this happens like, this
is not He wasn't an hour late. He wasn't he
didn't know show he didn't. I mean, I agree, he
could have communicated, but like I think, if you, if
you really like this guy, Jenna, then you might let
this go to at least get through a full date.
Because it's also not polite just to leave someone sitting
(07:31):
there either. I mean, I'm not saying that. You know, again,
he shouldn't have been late, but you also you can't
just get up and leave people.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
He did it. He did it to her. No, he didn't.
He left her sitting there for ten minutes. He was parking.
Speaker 8 (07:43):
Do you know how hard it is to find a parking.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Oh please keep you were on TikTok while driving? Who
said that? That is not true?
Speaker 8 (07:54):
But ten minutes late is not a reason for you
to get up and leave the date Like that's very dramatic.
He didn't communicate with you about the park. When you
didn't communicate with him what your issue was, you ghosted
the man. That's very immature in my opinion.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
And you could have said to him, hey, look, I
don't appreciate that you were late. I'd appreciate it from
now on, you know, moving forward. If you're not going
to be on time, to let me know or whatever,
because who knows, maybe the date goes great and maybe
the next time he's early, or maybe everyone's got their
thing right, you know, And I think all you had
to do was talk about it. But for you non
negotiable Jenna.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Like, it just isn'tle.
Speaker 6 (08:26):
I just feel like it's a first date. Like you
should have planned better, You should have planned ahead, Like
you can't give me the basic respect to have like
planned this out. He said he was excited to see me.
He picked this restaurant.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Why didn't he.
Speaker 6 (08:38):
Look at parking ahead? Like I just feel like, I'm
so sick of men who can't take care of themselves.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
They needed to do a logistic investigation before he went
out to this thing.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Is this a dato a job interview?
Speaker 4 (08:53):
I've never I've never been to this restaurant. Honestly, I
had no idea what the parking situation was like.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
And to like well, and you also, you guys.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Don't think it's a big deal. I think you're taking
away too kind of crazy.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
You went to the effort to get.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Ready, you went to the effort to go, like, why
not at least just complete the date, I guess and see.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
If you like it.
Speaker 6 (09:12):
I didn't want to waste any more of.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
My own time, you know that business girl for you girl, Okay,
I'm single, right if you want to stay single? Yeah,
I mean i'd only ask.
Speaker 6 (09:25):
You for I refuse to settle.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
And I love it, but not this is not it.
Do not die on this hill. I am telling you
somebody who used to date a lot. Do not die
on this hill.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Yeah, it sounds like the tolerances here are pretty pretty tight,
you know, as far as maybe maybe give people a
little bit more of a chance than this.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
But but yeah, you don't have to.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
If that's your thing, it's your thing, Stefan, she's not
going to be interested. I guess we're not getting over this, Jenna,
thank you for answering. I wish you guys both the
best of luck out there.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
I guess we know why she's single.
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Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.
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