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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred
showing how's going? We are great, welcome to the show.
Let's hear about your date with Melissa. How did you meet?
Tell us about the date, and then what's going on now?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Okay? So I met her on Hinge, you know, and
we kind of did the normal thing where we just
sort of go back and forth. Decided, you know, hey,
we got a connection, let's move into text and maybe
just like plan a date, you know, and then it
actually it went pretty smooth. Actually, I think about what's
better than smooth. We went to really really great Mexican
(00:39):
place in Tilsen, Okay, and so so we were like
having some drinks. Everything was chill. We were just really connecting.
So she really she's very very funny, and it's like
you now, it took it a little hole in the
wall place, so it was nothing fancy, but it's picked
up best Mexican swood you could ever get on the
planet kind of thing.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Nice. I thought about this, like, you know, this is
a like drinks on the patio deal, like what everyone
seems to do, you know when you're lazy, like you
took her to your favorite spot, you know, you're nailing it.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
That's exactly what it was, Okay, Yeah, Because I was like, well,
I could take her to this, but then I was like, yeah,
I want to. I want to take her somebody special.
And so we we you know, it's really like authentic,
and so we had a great time. You know, you know,
I got a new her. Afterwards, we went back to
her home. You know, I thought everything was great, but
(01:29):
then I don't know, just the conversation was good, and
then we talked for a bit and then he just
hasn't responded to me. Okay, not even at all.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
I mean that all sounds good, right, you know, you
take her to your favorite place, you have a good time,
have a good meal, good conversation, she invites you back
to her house. That's usually really good. So I don't know,
you know, she's ghosting you now. You want to know why.
So let's call her now and see if we can
figure this out. Good luck?
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Thanks?
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Hello, Hi is this Melissa? Uh?
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Yeah, this is she Melissa.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Good morning, Fred from the Fred's show The Whole Cruse here,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the calls. I don'tay if we talk
for a couple of minutes.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Okay, sure, thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
We're calling on behalf of a guy named Adam who
you met on Hinge and went out with. Do you
remember going out with him?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Yeah? Adam?
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Yeah, Okay, Well he told us about a date that
you went on. The date that you went on, said
that everything went really well and he had a great time,
and he was hoping to hear from you again and
he hasn't. So can you sort of fill us in
as to why you might not be responding to him
at all.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
I just feel like it's just it wasn't. It wasn't
a match for me. It just wasn't.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Yeah, just wasn't it for So he told us a
little bit about the date that you guys, you know,
went to dinner and then went back to your place afterwards.
So I guess you know what happened that At what
point did you just side that he wasn't a match?
Because normally that's all good, right, I mean, you go
have dinner and then if you're like come back to
my house. I mean if someone did that to me,
I'd be like hello, you know, so now, to be
(03:09):
honest with you, now things are visas. Yes, So I'm
trying to figure out it was. So what what actually
like where was the disconnect?
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Yeah, okay, well I guess I'll just go ahead and
and tell you. So, I actually don't usually like guys
into my apartment on the first date, like that's like
a big thing for me. But he insisted that he will.
He really needed to go to the bathroom. So I thought, okay,
(03:37):
sure I'll let him in for that and then make
sure he leaves after that.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Okay, so you didn't invite him back like you guys
gotten the same over. But it wasn't like come back
to my house the way that he sort of led
us to believe. It was, no, all, I need to
come in the house fire.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
I was very hesitant to let him in until he
was like, no, I really have to go to the
back stain.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
I had a boy, all right, So then what so
he came.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
So he came and went straight to the bathroom and
then he was in there for what felt like maybe
twenty five thirty minutes.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Thirty minutes, okay.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
He was in there for thirty minutes, and then I
thought I heard the shower turn on. I walked over
to the bathroom and I was like, that is definitely
the shower, Like he is in the shower right now
for the third minutes. And he came out and I think
now at this point it's been like forty five minutes
to an hour. I'm not exaggerating, and he like had
(04:40):
wet hair, like hear week had showered. Like I saw
a damp towel in there after, like he had showered,
so he did.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
He was sweating, he was so it was so It's
bad enough when you got to do something like that
at somebody else's house, especially so you just met. But
it was so bad that he had his shower, he
couldn't even wait till he got home.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Made a mess. And then he also he didn't even
say anything about it. There wasn't any It was so awkward.
And then he was like, yeah, do you want to
watch a movie?
Speaker 1 (05:13):
And I was like no, I don't know. He was
all clean, Okay, let me. I forgot to mention that here, Adam,
you mention. Look, it's one thing to have a bit
of an emergency, it's another thing to have to shower afterwards.
You couldn't even get home.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Well, first of all, okay, you know, people poop. That's
the reality, and that has to happen the time. Okay,
when when mother nature calls, she calls.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Okay, so yeah, but like to the extent that a
shower is necessary.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
When you're at how well you.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Are you hoping? Then that like the thirty minutes in
the bathroom and the shower, that she would forget about
that because I can see maybe you thought something was
still going to happen, so you took the shower, you know,
to prepare yourself for the next step. But it's like
after a strangers in my bathroom for half an hour,
I'm probably not turned hot anymore.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Well, the thing is, here's the thing. It's a little
word I like to call classy. I didn't have to
take a shower. I could have just left that like
that if you wanted. I mean, you know what I mean.
I mean, yeah, it's called class That's what I did.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
You not mend to the toilet in time?
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Like what's going on here?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Well?
Speaker 2 (06:27):
You know, I mean listen, let me just say there
was it was. It was brutal. But the point is,
that's point the point.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
But like I have to but not in somebody else's house,
and if that did happen, I would I would triage
as best as I possibly could, and then.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Get the hell out of there, because yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Go home and then handle. You'll take the shower after,
I mean get the shower part, but not later.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Yeah, I mean I just wanted to clear the air
in there. I mean, yeah, you made it.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
All steamy on all right? Look U and everything that's
that's gross, dud. I mean, if you're in a long
term relationship, you could probably get away with something like that.
In fact, it would be I'm sure appreciated. But this
is a stranger. This is a a virtual stranger taking
a shower in my home. I don't know, I don't know.
(07:19):
Show Look, Melissa, is there any way we can move
past this and you know, things happen, and is there
any way you can sort of say I liked everything
up till that point, so we'll we'll give it another shot.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
I don't think so. I just felt like the choices
he made in that moment were just odd to me.
So it made me question, well, how he would react thanks.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
To a chalat bar.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Boy. Did you have any reaction to the food, Melissa,
or were you all.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Set, I was fine, and then the rest of my
night like scrubbing my Bathroomah.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
God, did you get pink eye?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Throwing the loofah, throwing the towel in your apartment? Yeah,
just move all right. Well, look, I'm sorry and I'm
just not going to work out. Melissa, thank you for
your time. Best of luck to both of you.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Thanks
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred
showing how's going? We are great, welcome to the show.
Let's hear about your date with Melissa. How did you meet?
Tell us about the date, and then what's going on now?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Okay? So I met her on Hinge, you know, and
we kind of did the normal thing where we just
sort of go back and forth. Decided, you know, hey,
we got a connection, let's move into text and maybe
just like plan a date, you know, and then it
actually it went pretty smooth. Actually, I think about what's
better than smooth. We went to really really great Mexican
(00:39):
place in Tilsen, Okay, and so so we were like
having some drinks. Everything was chill. We were just really connecting.
So she really she's very very funny, and it's like
you now, it took it a little hole in the
wall place, so it was nothing fancy, but it's picked
up best Mexican swood you could ever get on the
planet kind of thing.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Nice. I thought about this, like, you know, this is
a like drinks on the patio deal, like what everyone
seems to do, you know when you're lazy, like you
took her to your favorite spot, you know, you're nailing it.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
That's exactly what it was, Okay, Yeah, Because I was like, well,
I could take her to this, but then I was like, yeah,
I want to. I want to take her somebody special.
And so we we you know, it's really like authentic,
and so we had a great time. You know, you know,
I got a new her. Afterwards, we went back to
her home. You know, I thought everything was great, but
(01:29):
then I don't know, just the conversation was good, and
then we talked for a bit and then he just
hasn't responded to me. Okay, not even at all.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
I mean that all sounds good, right, you know, you
take her to your favorite place, you have a good time,
have a good meal, good conversation, she invites you back
to her house. That's usually really good. So I don't know,
you know, she's ghosting you now. You want to know why.
So let's call her now and see if we can
figure this out. Good luck?
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Thanks?
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Hello, Hi is this Melissa? Uh?
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Yeah, this is she Melissa.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Good morning, Fred from the Fred's show The Whole Cruse here,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the calls. I don'tay if we talk
for a couple of minutes.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Okay, sure, thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
We're calling on behalf of a guy named Adam who
you met on Hinge and went out with. Do you
remember going out with him?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Yeah? Adam?
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Yeah, Okay, Well he told us about a date that
you went on. The date that you went on, said
that everything went really well and he had a great time,
and he was hoping to hear from you again and
he hasn't. So can you sort of fill us in
as to why you might not be responding to him
at all.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
I just feel like it's just it wasn't. It wasn't
a match for me. It just wasn't.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Yeah, just wasn't it for So he told us a
little bit about the date that you guys, you know,
went to dinner and then went back to your place afterwards.
So I guess you know what happened that At what
point did you just side that he wasn't a match?
Because normally that's all good, right, I mean, you go
have dinner and then if you're like come back to
my house. I mean if someone did that to me,
I'd be like hello, you know, so now, to be
(03:09):
honest with you, now things are visas. Yes, So I'm
trying to figure out it was. So what what actually
like where was the disconnect?
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Yeah, okay, well I guess I'll just go ahead and
and tell you. So, I actually don't usually like guys
into my apartment on the first date, like that's like
a big thing for me. But he insisted that he will.
He really needed to go to the bathroom. So I thought, okay,
(03:37):
sure I'll let him in for that and then make
sure he leaves after that.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Okay, so you didn't invite him back like you guys
gotten the same over. But it wasn't like come back
to my house the way that he sort of led
us to believe. It was, no, all, I need to
come in the house fire.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
I was very hesitant to let him in until he
was like, no, I really have to go to the
back stain.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
I had a boy, all right, So then what so
he came.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
So he came and went straight to the bathroom and
then he was in there for what felt like maybe
twenty five thirty minutes.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Thirty minutes, okay.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
He was in there for thirty minutes, and then I
thought I heard the shower turn on. I walked over
to the bathroom and I was like, that is definitely
the shower, Like he is in the shower right now
for the third minutes. And he came out and I think
now at this point it's been like forty five minutes
to an hour. I'm not exaggerating, and he like had
(04:40):
wet hair, like hear week had showered. Like I saw
a damp towel in there after, like he had showered,
so he did.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
He was sweating, he was so it was so It's
bad enough when you got to do something like that
at somebody else's house, especially so you just met. But
it was so bad that he had his shower, he
couldn't even wait till he got home.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Made a mess. And then he also he didn't even
say anything about it. There wasn't any It was so awkward.
And then he was like, yeah, do you want to
watch a movie?
Speaker 1 (05:13):
And I was like no, I don't know. He was
all clean, Okay, let me. I forgot to mention that here, Adam,
you mention. Look, it's one thing to have a bit
of an emergency, it's another thing to have to shower afterwards.
You couldn't even get home.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Well, first of all, okay, you know, people poop. That's
the reality, and that has to happen the time. Okay,
when when mother nature calls, she calls.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Okay, so yeah, but like to the extent that a
shower is necessary.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
When you're at how well you.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Are you hoping? Then that like the thirty minutes in
the bathroom and the shower, that she would forget about
that because I can see maybe you thought something was
still going to happen, so you took the shower, you know,
to prepare yourself for the next step. But it's like
after a strangers in my bathroom for half an hour,
I'm probably not turned hot anymore.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Well, the thing is, here's the thing. It's a little
word I like to call classy. I didn't have to
take a shower. I could have just left that like
that if you wanted. I mean, you know what I mean.
I mean, yeah, it's called class That's what I did.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
You not mend to the toilet in time?
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Like what's going on here?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Well?
Speaker 2 (06:27):
You know, I mean listen, let me just say there
was it was. It was brutal. But the point is,
that's point the point.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
But like I have to but not in somebody else's house,
and if that did happen, I would I would triage
as best as I possibly could, and then.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Get the hell out of there, because yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Go home and then handle. You'll take the shower after,
I mean get the shower part, but not later.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Yeah, I mean I just wanted to clear the air
in there. I mean, yeah, you made it.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
All steamy on all right? Look U and everything that's
that's gross, dud. I mean, if you're in a long
term relationship, you could probably get away with something like that.
In fact, it would be I'm sure appreciated. But this
is a stranger. This is a a virtual stranger taking
a shower in my home. I don't know, I don't know.
(07:19):
Show Look, Melissa, is there any way we can move
past this and you know, things happen, and is there
any way you can sort of say I liked everything
up till that point, so we'll we'll give it another shot.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
I don't think so. I just felt like the choices
he made in that moment were just odd to me.
So it made me question, well, how he would react thanks.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
To a chalat bar.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Boy. Did you have any reaction to the food, Melissa,
or were you all.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Set, I was fine, and then the rest of my
night like scrubbing my Bathroomah.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
God, did you get pink eye?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Throwing the loofah, throwing the towel in your apartment? Yeah,
just move all right. Well, look, I'm sorry and I'm
just not going to work out. Melissa, thank you for
your time. Best of luck to both of you.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Thanks
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