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Speaker 1 (00:02):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's the Fred Show. Andy, good morning, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
How are you, good morning? Thanks for having me. I'm
pretty good. I'm pretty good.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Okay, but pretty good? So why just pretty good?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I mean, I know the purpose of this is to
find out if you've been ghosted, and you feel like
maybe you have been. So what happened with this woman?
Claire tell us everything?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Yeah, okay, So I met Claire on Hinge. I was
pretty excited when we matched. You know, I asked for
her number, did the whole usual situation when you're trying
to meet up on those things. We agreed to go
out for a drink. She was like, she seemed pretty
into it. We had We had a great time, Like,
the conversation was easy, good sense of humor. We definitely connected.
(00:45):
And you know, the bonus was we went back to
my place and then sattle makeout session. And I can't
think of a single thing that went wrong. And now
she's just not responding to me at all. Okay, I'm
a little confused.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
All right, So you're excited about this. You were hoping
to hear from her again after the date. You're pretty
sure when you reached out, she'd say, yeah, sure, let's
go out another time. Except you did, and she hasn't
responded to you at all at all.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Like actually, honestly, I thought maybe she would reach out first,
Like I was definitely like, I waited a couple of days,
you know, did that whole thing and nothing.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Yeah, I mean we've discussed this before, the waiting thing.
It depends on the person that you're waiting on or
thinking you should wait for. Sometimes people want to hear
from you sooner some people. Sometimes people don't. But whatever
the case may be, you didn't wait for her entirely.
You did reach out. She's just not responding.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
Well yeah, you know. A couple of days later, I
was like, okay, well whatever, maybe she's busier. I don't know.
So sent her text message, didn't get her response, send
her follow up text message. I didn't want to be pushy,
and you know that's sort of where it ended.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
All right, we're gonna call her now and find out.
Good luck, Andy, Thanks.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Helen.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Hi is it Claire?
Speaker 1 (02:00):
This is she?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Hey Claire, good morning.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the
radio program, and I do have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now, and I would
need your permission to continue with the call.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Can we you have for a second.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
Yeah, I guess I went something.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Well maybe you may have won something, and I'll explain.
But we're calling on behalf of a dude named Andy
who says he recently went on a date with you
that he thought went pretty well.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Do you remember, Andy, Yeah, the date did go well.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Yeah, it was fun.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
We made out.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
And honestly, when when after we made out, we were
at his place and at his house, I just I
swear about it. I just saw the biggest reread flag
in the world. Okay, Okay. I went into the kitchen
to get a glass of water, and I know if
(03:00):
he had one of those like dryer rates board calendars,
and I love those things. So I went to like
touch it, you know, I love them.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
And as I was wait, hold on, so I was
gonna be clear on this, like in his kitchen he
had like one of those office.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Max like I don't know, got his calendar on it.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
You could like write on it like you know, practice
for the kids or whatever at three or you know,
I don't know whatever.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Yeah, but like this one he kept us his own calendar,
and like you have to refill it at the beginning
of each month because you have to put in the
right dates and everything.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
So it's.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Sure, okay, yeah, all right, so what what was all
with it?
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Well, okay, so keep that in mind that like at
the beginning of each month you have to write it in.
And I was looking at it, and all of a sudden,
I see, like for one full week it says Amanda's period.
I don't even know if I'm allowed to say that.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Like your Amanda, but I don't know who that is.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
But like if he's concerned about this woman's period each month,
and like I probably should not be involved.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Wow, that's the truly.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
A race board and the kitchen none. I've heard of trackers,
and I've heard of you know, I don't know code words.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
I'm a woman, and I don't even I mean I
track it with an appy.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Yeah that's what I mean.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
I don't mean, like, yeah, they don't put like an
EE tagging or whatever those things are called. Let me
bring Andy in because I'm really curious, Andy, who the
hell is Amanda and why are we tracking that? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:41):
I don't actually I don't know what she's talking.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
About you don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
I mean that was like if that was an Honestly,
I don't really pay much attention to that dry rate
for it.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
So like I don't know each month.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
But had this current month and you have to write
the days in, it sounds like so somebody would have
filled it out this month.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Do you know anyone named No?
Speaker 3 (05:05):
I think, what's that?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Do you know anyone named Amanda?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
No? No, well, I mean it's a lot you wouldn't know.
Speaker 5 (05:14):
I mean I dated a girl named Amanda like a while,
so you do know, because that would be that would
be a yes, I do know someone and who is
you know, private health information you have access to and
you're tracking for your personal knowledge and you're saying this
that you haven't seen this Amanda in how long?
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Oh, like a really long time, like really like a
week or two.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
She's literally she's opulating right now, And I know that
because it was.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Yeah, no, no, you know that that that no.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
I I I forget sometimes about like filling that in.
So that's got to be from like months ago, like
a long time.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Ago, filled in already it had our.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Explained that.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
I think, you know, like she she went on like
when we were dating, and like build it in and
like put it on and it was kind of a joke,
like it was something we'd kind of laugh about, you know,
like like I'm going to put it up there so
you know, and you could play on ahead. You know.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Really, I know, yeah, this is this is definitely sus
I mean, this is not adding up. Like why you
say you don't pay attention to the calendar, but you
put their date on it. You say you don't know
this woman, but you do you know?
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Yeah, man, that he doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Even if she did, when was the last time she
was there that she felt comfortable enough to add her
period to yours?
Speaker 1 (06:48):
I mean it would have been this month, calendar might
be there. Yeah, dude, yeah, I don't want you to
own this. Why don't you to say, like I don't
know you still dabble with her or something?
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Then you're doing something.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
I mean listen, like I don't know, fine, sure whatever,
We're like not exclusive, we're hanging out.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
We've come a long way in the last three or
four minutes. Someone you don't even know non exclusively three.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Months and he knows when to and when not to,
so he schedules his dates, right, Okay, all right, I'm sorry,
but you come off like a big ass loser now
or not a loser as well?
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Loser was that was Freudian slip.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
You come off like a big ass liar, is what
I meant to say, because you just really changed the story.
So you could have just said that from the beginning
and she might have understood. But now I don't know
what I believe about you.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I guess I get that.
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Sure.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
I mean, I'm going to it now because I'm kind
of caught.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
You think, you know, you could have just said but
he literally just admitted that he's only copping to it
because he was caught. So if he wasn't caught, then
he would just continue lying.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Right, this is not what I would even admit that
you're a bad liar.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
Though he realized, like you might have gotten away with this,
not even good at what you try to do.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
You might have gotten away with this because Andy, you
could have just been like, yeah, I broke up with
her while ago. Sometimes I don't know why she'd put
that whatever, but I'm single and i'm you know, maybe
this woman would have said, Okay, I'll give you another shot,
but no, not now. I guarantee Claire you don't want
to go out with him again.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Definitely, definitely not.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Okay, Well we'll look okay, thank you, thank you for
your time and for the explanation. And Andy, I don't know, man,
I might. I might take that old dry erase board
down one work things out with what's your face? So
one of the next weeks she'll be good. Yeah Jesus,
oh my god. Yeah, guys, I'm sorry it's not going
(08:54):
to work out. Best of luck to both of you.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Oh, I'm very much okay, but thank you.
I've ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's the Fred Show. Andy, good morning, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
How are you, good morning? Thanks for having me. I'm
pretty good. I'm pretty good.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Okay, but pretty good? So why just pretty good?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I mean, I know the purpose of this is to
find out if you've been ghosted, and you feel like
maybe you have been. So what happened with this woman?
Claire tell us everything?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Yeah, okay, So I met Claire on Hinge. I was
pretty excited when we matched. You know, I asked for
her number, did the whole usual situation when you're trying
to meet up on those things. We agreed to go
out for a drink. She was like, she seemed pretty
into it. We had We had a great time, Like,
the conversation was easy, good sense of humor. We definitely connected.
(00:45):
And you know, the bonus was we went back to
my place and then sattle makeout session. And I can't
think of a single thing that went wrong. And now
she's just not responding to me at all. Okay, I'm
a little confused.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
All right, So you're excited about this. You were hoping
to hear from her again after the date. You're pretty
sure when you reached out, she'd say, yeah, sure, let's
go out another time. Except you did, and she hasn't
responded to you at all at all.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Like actually, honestly, I thought maybe she would reach out first,
Like I was definitely like, I waited a couple of days,
you know, did that whole thing and nothing.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Yeah, I mean we've discussed this before, the waiting thing.
It depends on the person that you're waiting on or
thinking you should wait for. Sometimes people want to hear
from you sooner some people. Sometimes people don't. But whatever
the case may be, you didn't wait for her entirely.
You did reach out. She's just not responding.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
Well yeah, you know. A couple of days later, I
was like, okay, well whatever, maybe she's busier. I don't know.
So sent her text message, didn't get her response, send
her follow up text message. I didn't want to be pushy,
and you know that's sort of where it ended.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
All right, we're gonna call her now and find out.
Good luck, Andy, Thanks.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Helen.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Hi is it Claire?
Speaker 1 (02:00):
This is she?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Hey Claire, good morning.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the
radio program, and I do have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now, and I would
need your permission to continue with the call.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Can we you have for a second.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
Yeah, I guess I went something.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Well maybe you may have won something, and I'll explain.
But we're calling on behalf of a dude named Andy
who says he recently went on a date with you
that he thought went pretty well.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Do you remember, Andy, Yeah, the date did go well.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Yeah, it was fun.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
We made out.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
And honestly, when when after we made out, we were
at his place and at his house, I just I
swear about it. I just saw the biggest reread flag
in the world. Okay, Okay. I went into the kitchen
to get a glass of water, and I know if
(03:00):
he had one of those like dryer rates board calendars,
and I love those things. So I went to like
touch it, you know, I love them.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
And as I was wait, hold on, so I was
gonna be clear on this, like in his kitchen he
had like one of those office.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Max like I don't know, got his calendar on it.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
You could like write on it like you know, practice
for the kids or whatever at three or you know,
I don't know whatever.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Yeah, but like this one he kept us his own calendar,
and like you have to refill it at the beginning
of each month because you have to put in the
right dates and everything.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
So it's.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Sure, okay, yeah, all right, so what what was all
with it?
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Well, okay, so keep that in mind that like at
the beginning of each month you have to write it in.
And I was looking at it, and all of a sudden,
I see, like for one full week it says Amanda's period.
I don't even know if I'm allowed to say that.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Like your Amanda, but I don't know who that is.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
But like if he's concerned about this woman's period each month,
and like I probably should not be involved.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Wow, that's the truly.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
A race board and the kitchen none. I've heard of trackers,
and I've heard of you know, I don't know code words.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
I'm a woman, and I don't even I mean I
track it with an appy.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Yeah that's what I mean.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
I don't mean, like, yeah, they don't put like an
EE tagging or whatever those things are called. Let me
bring Andy in because I'm really curious, Andy, who the
hell is Amanda and why are we tracking that? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:41):
I don't actually I don't know what she's talking.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
About you don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
I mean that was like if that was an Honestly,
I don't really pay much attention to that dry rate
for it.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
So like I don't know each month.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
But had this current month and you have to write
the days in, it sounds like so somebody would have
filled it out this month.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Do you know anyone named No?
Speaker 3 (05:05):
I think, what's that?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Do you know anyone named Amanda?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
No? No, well, I mean it's a lot you wouldn't know.
Speaker 5 (05:14):
I mean I dated a girl named Amanda like a while,
so you do know, because that would be that would
be a yes, I do know someone and who is
you know, private health information you have access to and
you're tracking for your personal knowledge and you're saying this
that you haven't seen this Amanda in how long?
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Oh, like a really long time, like really like a
week or two.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
She's literally she's opulating right now, And I know that
because it was.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Yeah, no, no, you know that that that no.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
I I I forget sometimes about like filling that in.
So that's got to be from like months ago, like
a long time.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Ago, filled in already it had our.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Explained that.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
I think, you know, like she she went on like
when we were dating, and like build it in and
like put it on and it was kind of a joke,
like it was something we'd kind of laugh about, you know,
like like I'm going to put it up there so
you know, and you could play on ahead. You know.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Really, I know, yeah, this is this is definitely sus
I mean, this is not adding up. Like why you
say you don't pay attention to the calendar, but you
put their date on it. You say you don't know
this woman, but you do you know?
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Yeah, man, that he doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Even if she did, when was the last time she
was there that she felt comfortable enough to add her
period to yours?
Speaker 1 (06:48):
I mean it would have been this month, calendar might
be there. Yeah, dude, yeah, I don't want you to
own this. Why don't you to say, like I don't
know you still dabble with her or something?
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Then you're doing something.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
I mean listen, like I don't know, fine, sure whatever,
We're like not exclusive, we're hanging out.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
We've come a long way in the last three or
four minutes. Someone you don't even know non exclusively three.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Months and he knows when to and when not to,
so he schedules his dates, right, Okay, all right, I'm sorry,
but you come off like a big ass loser now
or not a loser as well?
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Loser was that was Freudian slip.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
You come off like a big ass liar, is what
I meant to say, because you just really changed the story.
So you could have just said that from the beginning
and she might have understood. But now I don't know
what I believe about you.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I guess I get that.
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Sure.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
I mean, I'm going to it now because I'm kind
of caught.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
You think, you know, you could have just said but
he literally just admitted that he's only copping to it
because he was caught. So if he wasn't caught, then
he would just continue lying.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Right, this is not what I would even admit that
you're a bad liar.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
Though he realized, like you might have gotten away with this,
not even good at what you try to do.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
You might have gotten away with this because Andy, you
could have just been like, yeah, I broke up with
her while ago. Sometimes I don't know why she'd put
that whatever, but I'm single and i'm you know, maybe
this woman would have said, Okay, I'll give you another shot,
but no, not now. I guarantee Claire you don't want
to go out with him again.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Definitely, definitely not.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Okay, Well we'll look okay, thank you, thank you for
your time and for the explanation. And Andy, I don't know, man,
I might. I might take that old dry erase board
down one work things out with what's your face? So
one of the next weeks she'll be good. Yeah Jesus,
oh my god. Yeah, guys, I'm sorry it's not going
(08:54):
to work out. Best of luck to both of you.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Oh, I'm very much okay, but thank you.
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