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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Uh, I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's
the Fred Show. Hey Ross, good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you hey, guys doing all right?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
How you doing?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
We are great?
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Tell us about this woman Sonia. I want to know everything.
How did you guys meet? Tell us about any dates
that you've been on, and then where things are now
you think maybe you're being ghosted?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
So I met this girl Sonia. We met on a
hinge and you know, we chat it for a while.
She's really cute, and I asked her out to dinner
after I got her number when I hinting through hinge,
and you know, I thought we had a good time
and that she liked me because you know, she invited
me after dinner back to her place, you know, to
(00:43):
go swimming, and I was like, okay, you got a pool.
That's fantastic. Let's keep this thing going.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Yeah, And I'm really really confused right now because you know,
like I said, I thought we had a great time,
and now she's completely ghosting.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
I'm heard from her here about this. But yeah, I
mean I would say that's pretty good. Like you go
on a date, all's going, well, Hey, let's go back
to the pool. So now we're just automatically wearing not
a lot of clothes like, that's great. I mean, that's
that would be in my opinion, that's a good date.
Things are going well on the date if we're gonna
go back and do that.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Oh yeahkiks man, we got King Perv Jason not to
be outdone by Prince.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Perv Rufie over here, and now we got Princess.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
All right.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
So but you've reached out to this woman since the
date and she's not responding to you at all. I
take it on hinge and text and whatever else.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Yeah, exactly, I've texted her a few times. I tried
calling her one nothing.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Okay, we're gonna call her now. Good luck, Ross, Thank
you so much.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Guys.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Hello, Hi is this Sonia? Uh yeah, Hi, hey, Sonya,
good morning. My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show,
the Morning radio show, and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now and I
would need your permission to continue with the call. Can
we chat for just a second, do you mind?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Yeah? That's fine, Well, thank you very much.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
We're calling on behalf of a guy named Ross who
says he met you on a dating app and you
guys recently went on a date to remember him, I do, okay, Well,
so that's a good start. So he reached out to
us and said that he really liked you and thought
the date went well. And then I guess you invited
him over to your house to go swimming or something,
and he hasn't heard from you since. So he wants
to know why you're not responding to him. And we're
(02:39):
sort of the middleman here trying to you know, ask
the questions as well.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
So why aren't you calling him back?
Speaker 6 (02:45):
Well, we met on hinge on the dating app, and
he took me to dinner and we have fun. I
did invite him back to my place after because it
was close by, but I.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Regret doing that.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Now.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
Why Well, when we got back, I realized he was
a lot drunker than I thought he was.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
I excused myself to go to.
Speaker 6 (03:11):
The bathroom, and then when I came back, I couldn't
find him. And then I realized that he was swimming
in my pool and he was naked.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Oh, I was going to ask the question. I was
a little curious. I'll be honest.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
You know, if you didn't know that you were going
to be going on a swimming date. I mean, unless
you're going to provide you know, wardrobe, unless you have
a whole like selection of men's swim trunks at your house.
I guess I was curious how that was going to work.
But he just took the liberty of of stripping down
and jumping in.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
He didn't care.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
Yeah, I mean I didn't even invite him to use
the pool. And also swimming that drunk is just dangerous.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Well there's that.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Oh yeah, And I assume this is a community pool
of some kind unless you somehow have your own pool.
I mean I I guess other people might use the
might come out and see old boy Ross, you know,
swimming around but ass naked.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
Yeah, it was just a lot. I mean we haven't
even we haven't even slept together, so why would I.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Want to see him naked?
Speaker 6 (04:15):
You know?
Speaker 1 (04:15):
And it was it.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Was it was a lot to walk out. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Well here's the question, what did and sonya?
Speaker 3 (04:20):
I mean, nobody was expecting that to happen, especially you know,
completely uninvited.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
But what did you expect him to do?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
What were you thinking he was going to do going
on a swimming date that wasn't supposed to be a
swimming date.
Speaker 6 (04:32):
Well, I mean I didn't even invite him to use
the pool.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
He just took it upon himself to do it.
Speaker 6 (04:37):
So I wasn't really expecting that we were going to
be swimming at all. I kind of thought that maybe
we just to hang out, you know, and continue.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Talking like adjacent to the pool.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Maybe not make it okay, let me bring I forgot
you mention that Ross is here?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Ross?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
So you wearing clothes now or if you just stripped down,
you know, just cause because you feel that comfortable, fully
closed the moment.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
So what was the thought process?
Speaker 3 (05:02):
So You're like, you know what, I want to go
swimming and I don't want to get my clothes wet,
so I'll just get completely naked on a first aid,
you know.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
To be quite honest, I don't remember thinking through much
of that I remembered.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Also, I don't I will say, I.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Don't remember being that drunk, but I do remember going
back uh to your place, Sonya Tay, And the next
thing I know, uh.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
I was, you know, we were we were swimming. I
I don't remember if I had anything on or not.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
But I don't think anybody else was there with you.
I mean, man, I've I've been I've been really drunk,
but I'm not sure that I've ever gotten completely naked.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
In a pool. You never got skinny dipping.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Well when invited, but it was it wasn't because I
was so drunk I decided to take all my clothes
off a lot. Oh Okay, Well okay, okay, well that's yeah.
I mean, but ross, she lives in a community. I mean,
she could be evicted for this behavior. I mean, I
(06:14):
don't she probably is, you know, Sonya, you're not saying much.
I mean, so it was a lot. And did you
like what you saw?
Speaker 1 (06:22):
At least? Was he good looking? Naked guys? Was he tanned?
Was he he have lines? Was he you know?
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I wasn't really thinking about that.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
I was more concerned with, like making sure that he
didn't drown because he was so drunk.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
So, you know, I just got him dressed and sent
him home in an uber.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
But I guess he doesn't need to remember it, which
maybe shows that he really was he was too drunk,
because that's I mean, that's what happened.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Okay, Well, so he's saying he doesn't remember he was overserved.
I mean, I guess I hear him taking responsibility. He's
sort of making an excuse. But I mean, you liked
him up until that point. So are we willing to say, look,
that was you know, poor decision making, had too much
to drink. No harm, no foul, We'll try it again,
or no.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
I think I'm going to pass on a second date.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
I think all right, Well, Michael Phelps, I'm sorry, it's
not gonna work out.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
You should always carry a speedout with you. You just
never know.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Now I'm now, I'm not. Now, I'm in the know,
So I'll keep that in the back pocket of all times.
All rank you.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Well, there you go, Sonya, thank you for your time. Ross,
I'm sorry it's not going to work out. Best elected
both of you, guys.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Thank you,
Uh, I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's
the Fred Show. Hey Ross, good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you hey, guys doing all right?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
How you doing?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
We are great?
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Tell us about this woman Sonia. I want to know everything.
How did you guys meet? Tell us about any dates
that you've been on, and then where things are now
you think maybe you're being ghosted?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
So I met this girl Sonia. We met on a
hinge and you know, we chat it for a while.
She's really cute, and I asked her out to dinner
after I got her number when I hinting through hinge,
and you know, I thought we had a good time
and that she liked me because you know, she invited
me after dinner back to her place, you know, to
(00:43):
go swimming, and I was like, okay, you got a pool.
That's fantastic. Let's keep this thing going.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Yeah, And I'm really really confused right now because you know,
like I said, I thought we had a great time,
and now she's completely ghosting.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
I'm heard from her here about this. But yeah, I
mean I would say that's pretty good. Like you go
on a date, all's going, well, Hey, let's go back
to the pool. So now we're just automatically wearing not
a lot of clothes like, that's great. I mean, that's
that would be in my opinion, that's a good date.
Things are going well on the date if we're gonna
go back and do that.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Oh yeahkiks man, we got King Perv Jason not to
be outdone by Prince.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Perv Rufie over here, and now we got Princess.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
All right.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
So but you've reached out to this woman since the
date and she's not responding to you at all. I
take it on hinge and text and whatever else.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Yeah, exactly, I've texted her a few times. I tried
calling her one nothing.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Okay, we're gonna call her now. Good luck, Ross, Thank
you so much.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Guys.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Hello, Hi is this Sonia? Uh yeah, Hi, hey, Sonya,
good morning. My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show,
the Morning radio show, and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now and I
would need your permission to continue with the call. Can
we chat for just a second, do you mind?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Yeah? That's fine, Well, thank you very much.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
We're calling on behalf of a guy named Ross who
says he met you on a dating app and you
guys recently went on a date to remember him, I do, okay, Well,
so that's a good start. So he reached out to
us and said that he really liked you and thought
the date went well. And then I guess you invited
him over to your house to go swimming or something,
and he hasn't heard from you since. So he wants
to know why you're not responding to him. And we're
(02:39):
sort of the middleman here trying to you know, ask
the questions as well.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
So why aren't you calling him back?
Speaker 6 (02:45):
Well, we met on hinge on the dating app, and
he took me to dinner and we have fun. I
did invite him back to my place after because it
was close by, but I.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Regret doing that.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Now.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
Why Well, when we got back, I realized he was
a lot drunker than I thought he was.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
I excused myself to go to.
Speaker 6 (03:11):
The bathroom, and then when I came back, I couldn't
find him. And then I realized that he was swimming
in my pool and he was naked.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Oh, I was going to ask the question. I was
a little curious. I'll be honest.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
You know, if you didn't know that you were going
to be going on a swimming date. I mean, unless
you're going to provide you know, wardrobe, unless you have
a whole like selection of men's swim trunks at your house.
I guess I was curious how that was going to work.
But he just took the liberty of of stripping down
and jumping in.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
He didn't care.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
Yeah, I mean I didn't even invite him to use
the pool. And also swimming that drunk is just dangerous.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Well there's that.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Oh yeah, And I assume this is a community pool
of some kind unless you somehow have your own pool.
I mean I I guess other people might use the
might come out and see old boy Ross, you know,
swimming around but ass naked.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
Yeah, it was just a lot. I mean we haven't
even we haven't even slept together, so why would I.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Want to see him naked?
Speaker 6 (04:15):
You know?
Speaker 1 (04:15):
And it was it.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Was it was a lot to walk out. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Well here's the question, what did and sonya?
Speaker 3 (04:20):
I mean, nobody was expecting that to happen, especially you know,
completely uninvited.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
But what did you expect him to do?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
What were you thinking he was going to do going
on a swimming date that wasn't supposed to be a
swimming date.
Speaker 6 (04:32):
Well, I mean I didn't even invite him to use
the pool.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
He just took it upon himself to do it.
Speaker 6 (04:37):
So I wasn't really expecting that we were going to
be swimming at all. I kind of thought that maybe
we just to hang out, you know, and continue.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Talking like adjacent to the pool.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Maybe not make it okay, let me bring I forgot
you mention that Ross is here?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Ross?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
So you wearing clothes now or if you just stripped down,
you know, just cause because you feel that comfortable, fully
closed the moment.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
So what was the thought process?
Speaker 3 (05:02):
So You're like, you know what, I want to go
swimming and I don't want to get my clothes wet,
so I'll just get completely naked on a first aid,
you know.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
To be quite honest, I don't remember thinking through much
of that I remembered.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Also, I don't I will say, I.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Don't remember being that drunk, but I do remember going
back uh to your place, Sonya Tay, And the next
thing I know, uh.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
I was, you know, we were we were swimming. I
I don't remember if I had anything on or not.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
But I don't think anybody else was there with you.
I mean, man, I've I've been I've been really drunk,
but I'm not sure that I've ever gotten completely naked.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
In a pool. You never got skinny dipping.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Well when invited, but it was it wasn't because I
was so drunk I decided to take all my clothes
off a lot. Oh Okay, Well okay, okay, well that's yeah.
I mean, but ross, she lives in a community. I mean,
she could be evicted for this behavior. I mean, I
(06:14):
don't she probably is, you know, Sonya, you're not saying much.
I mean, so it was a lot. And did you
like what you saw?
Speaker 1 (06:22):
At least? Was he good looking? Naked guys? Was he tanned?
Was he he have lines? Was he you know?
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I wasn't really thinking about that.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
I was more concerned with, like making sure that he
didn't drown because he was so drunk.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
So, you know, I just got him dressed and sent
him home in an uber.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
But I guess he doesn't need to remember it, which
maybe shows that he really was he was too drunk,
because that's I mean, that's what happened.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Okay, Well, so he's saying he doesn't remember he was overserved.
I mean, I guess I hear him taking responsibility. He's
sort of making an excuse. But I mean, you liked
him up until that point. So are we willing to say, look,
that was you know, poor decision making, had too much
to drink. No harm, no foul, We'll try it again,
or no.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
I think I'm going to pass on a second date.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
I think all right, Well, Michael Phelps, I'm sorry, it's
not gonna work out.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
You should always carry a speedout with you. You just
never know.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Now I'm now, I'm not. Now, I'm in the know,
So I'll keep that in the back pocket of all times.
All rank you.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Well, there you go, Sonya, thank you for your time. Ross,
I'm sorry it's not going to work out. Best elected
both of you, guys.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Thank you,
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