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Speaker 1 (00:01):
You've got to wait.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Wait.
Speaker 3 (00:04):
Fred's show is on How Honest Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (00:11):
A viral video shows a Southwest Airlines pilot telling passengers
that if they continue to air drop nude photos to
each other, he's gonna have to deeplay in the thing,
turn the thing around. I think I may have some
audio on this. Let me see if I here it is.
This is the actual Southwest pilot telling people, this is
the world that we live in. Please stop sending air
dropping nudes of yourself to other passengers on the plane.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
Continues where we're on the ground, I'm.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Gonna have to pull back to the game. Everybody's gonna
have to get off. We're gonna have sparity ball and
it's vacation.
Speaker 6 (00:43):
That's gonna be room.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
So your host, whatever that air drop thing is, let's
send a negga picture.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Let's get yourself to the commo.
Speaker 7 (00:50):
Someone sounds mad that he's not getting he's not part
of the air drop team.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
My air drops are open. It's been brought to my attention,
but nude to make sense to rebel cabin, I'm gonna
need to see those, so I can You're gonna need
to see them.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
I can get you to Cobo a cobo.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
You should get your bikini ready. Actually, Wax send that
over than me.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Ye, can we just get no, No, it's.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Me because I'm Captain Can on the air drop. Thank
you so much. Cross check, I don't know whatever.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Whatever they say, Yeah, they do say that.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Finn attendance, please prepare for a crush check. You gotta
talk like that. You gotta put the micro If you're
a pilot, you got to put the microphone all the
way inside your mouth.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
It's imperative. But this is the world that we live
in now.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
You can't even just sit on the plane and mind
your own Businessess, I'm not trying to send you a nude.
And I don't understand the endgame. You're gonna get caught,
You're gonna get labeled as a creep. It's not worse.
And what do you think it's gonna do you know
someone's sitting there trying to enjoy their you know, ginger
ale or whatever. They're gonna be like, oh wow, that's
a very good looking part. I would love to meet
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this man and make love to him. Like, I don't
understand what you think is gonna happen, Like, are they
changing the name of their phone to like their seat number, like.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Be six by the way. Photo by the way.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
All this does is reiterate my point that the airport
is a horny place. It's a horny place. I don't
know why. It's a sexually charged place. You know, it's
you got strangers everywhere. It's like you may never see
these people again. I don't know. I don't know. Jason,
you agree, don't you?
Speaker 8 (02:42):
I think the airport bathroom is a horny place. Okay,
that's that wasn't no? People be looking? Yeah, people be looking. Yeah, No,
that's not what I meant. I meant just to you
know the in open public areas. Look you you know
when you get the stair police bathroom.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
In jail exactly it comes in. So you're Jason, you're up.
You're publicly admitting that you you you get to you
take a peek at other men?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Well then yeah, guess I mean it happens. Yeah whatever, standing.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Isn't that a no?
Speaker 6 (03:19):
No?
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Where you're going where.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
You have to fill it out? I'm moving, I'm moving
my Sometimes people want you to look.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
I wasn't going to Kansas City, but I see that
you're going to Tampa. So I'm going to Tampa.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
So but that's you know what.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
It's funny women have asked me that question before, like
when when men are at the Year and old asked
because I'm a man, they'll be like, do you look
at other men? And the answer is no, and you
don't want to. Generally, you don't want to get caught
looking at somebody else. You're Cubs game, that would be
a more obvious place because there's no divider.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
It's a big drawing wants you to see at a
Cubs game. There to your enirement that people want to.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
You're saying, airport bathroom is a place where Okay, I
didn't know this, I'm learning and there in the bathroom
of Rosco's did you go there? Okay?
Speaker 9 (04:08):
Game?
Speaker 2 (04:09):
But I'm saying there are environments and.
Speaker 10 (04:10):
Situations that the airport is it like some people just
want and how do you okay, as a gay man,
how do you know is there like a look I'm looking?
Speaker 4 (04:22):
But how do you know when that's when it's invited?
Eye contacts?
Speaker 11 (04:27):
Okay, Okay, so there is a consent of some sort
like oh yeah, okay, let me.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Tell you I never looked at any one in the
eye ever, I guess.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
I've got a mail flight.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Like right the guy, the guy in the ramp hold like, yeah, straight, now.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
You're in.
Speaker 11 (04:52):
Okay, you're there, you're the you're gonna see I'm giving.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
You up killing. I want to see what you think
it looks like standing.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Like that. Let me see that a big one, because
such a thing like that.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Because the splash back, you got to lead home.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
I touched them. Yeah, for sure, you lean because I
don't want to say on the floor. I like that.
I'm the least I'm like so far into a touching.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Let me tell you why I'm not because of the
splash back. I'm not fur away exactly. If it winds
up on the floor and then it does peeing all
over the floor in the bathroom five, there's a pie
p in that back.
Speaker 12 (05:39):
Stand up.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
I want to know how this.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
I'm not getting splash back of strangers on my clothes
in your period.
Speaker 11 (05:46):
You're the person that you're going to ask if I
have consent via yeah, yes.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
We're peeing. We're paying hands as soon as your hands free.
Where do you think the p is going? If you're
not if you're not aiming, okay, if you don't have
to hold it.
Speaker 8 (06:01):
You're already inviting me to look.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
You're pointing down. You have to like time it out right,
like the long time. If I'm standing at.
Speaker 13 (06:16):
If you're standing there for a really long time, you're like, okay,
this is a really time you know, to one of these.
And then when you when you make that content and
you like look away, but then they like slow our
eyes went again. Maybe you want me to say yeah,
and then you start pointing, and now it's not ridiculous.
Speaker 7 (06:33):
The only thing killing you're missing. You gotta make some
kind of noise. You gotta make like a.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Thing. You gotta drop your pants all the way that
don't use don't don't use singers you can.
Speaker 11 (06:49):
I do know that you just got bare ass at
the there hangers hooks.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
What do you think I don't use the public restaurants
or it takes too much fluid?
Speaker 12 (07:02):
Yes, I know.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
I don't have a lot of time in the commercial
breaks to completely just robe the way that you're supposed to.
Speaker 7 (07:08):
And then if it's not an automatic flush, you got
to kick your foot.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Up like this.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Oh yeah, that I do do in the women.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
Yeah, I don't want to touch any.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Of that m And then do I shake it off.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Yeah, you shake it to make sure this too, because
how long are you shaking it?
Speaker 14 (07:25):
Like?
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Maybe you know this just to me?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Are you sure about this or is this just your
sexy dream?
Speaker 4 (07:31):
I don't I know about this.
Speaker 8 (07:32):
Airport is a gateway for it was my first leg perience,
you know something like that.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
No, not an airport, somewhere else. Stop. Yeah, in the bathroom, so.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Your first gigs. And someone was like, yes, look at me.
Speaker 14 (07:48):
Now that you are.
Speaker 15 (07:51):
You know what?
Speaker 2 (07:52):
That looks an awful like a decent explosion. It looks
like it's the Fresh show. This is what's trending a woman.
This is for you, Kalin.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
A woman warns both close and estranged friends not to
invite her to weddings or baby showers if they aren't
regularly inviting her to movie night's, coffee runs or lunch dates.
She thinks an invitation is just for the sake of
receiving a gift. In a TikTok, the woman said, don't
invite me to baby showers, weddings, house swarming parties. If
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you don't invite me to other stuff movie nights, girls'
night out, dinner, coffee dates to lunch, it's extremely offensive
to pressure somebody into spending money on life milestones without
including them in your life's professions. Oh that is period,
it's what she said. Other people commented that they are
sick of people desiring their presence only at important events
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that command the price he present. One person said, funny
how I only get invited when my presence requires that
I bring a gift. Another said I couldn't have said
this better. I feel this so deeply on many levels.
Another praised people, saying, preach love this. Yes, a lot
of people, I guess can relate to the idea that
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out of nowhere you get an invitation in the mail
from somebody who I don't even know if they really
think you're going to show up or not, but but
they know that once you've gotten the invitation, that you're
going to feel some obligation to send something at least
right yep, But I want to know how to eight
five five five one three five you get text the
same number. By the way, how do you treat that
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that random invitation? Because I've gotten invited in more than
one thing before that included it was like an email invitation,
or even if it was a written invitation, and then
it included like some form of link you know to
to Here's how you can donate to our honey fund.
Here's here's an easy way for you to send a present.
And I haven't heard from this person in years, so
I'm like, you don't you don't care one way or
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another if I actually show up, I don't think right,
but you definitely want to get something out of me.
I feel this, But how do you treat how do you?
I mean, are the people as offended?
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Are they?
Speaker 4 (09:58):
Or are you guys as I'm enthusiastic about the idea
of like forget about it. If I don't see you regularly,
then I'm not going or is it like no, I'll
just I'll acknowledge I once knew this person, so I'll
acknowledge their special occasion.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
For me.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
I don't like, I love a party. I don't mind.
Speaker 7 (10:18):
Like it doesn't bother me that I if I really
don't talk to somebody in whatever, like on a normal basis,
and they invite me to their wedding or a house
arding party, I'm going to bring a gift and have
a good time. Like that doesn't it really doesn't bother me?
Like especially if like I invited them to our like
they were at my wedding and I was at their wedding,
so we do have history.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
Like I actually feel sometimes.
Speaker 7 (10:43):
I get more mad if I don't get an invite
to Like if I had history with somebody in the
past and we're really not that close but they're getting
married and I kind of don't get an invite to that,
I'm like, Damn, that's kind of like, like yes, like
like I knew you when you guys were together, and yeah,
like life changes, people drift apart, But like to not
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get an invite to your wedding just because we're not
currently friends right now, that's kind of rude to me.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Damn. I have that issue too. I don't know.
Speaker 15 (11:11):
I think I'm supposed to be invited everywhere, Like I
feel like if I knew you in high school and
we were friends, I see you getting married, or you
haven't birthday party for kids yet.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
I know.
Speaker 15 (11:21):
I just feel like, like, dang, I thought we were
like I would invite you to my stuff and I
still do. Like if I have a big birthday party,
I literally just invite everybody on my Facebook list.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
I don't care, like I just.
Speaker 15 (11:31):
Love like every like I'm coming to people's stuff. I
feel like we can have a good time, but I
do get offended when I'm.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Like, dang, I thought we were cooler.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Yeah, yeah, you know you got I'm kind of relieved
if I don't get invited. It's just that means I
don't have to do it. But I guess at the
same time, sometimes I'll see people get married, oh, and
I'll be like that person got invited.
Speaker 14 (11:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
I'll be like, yes, wait minute, what why them?
Speaker 4 (11:55):
And you know what I mean, Like there was a
wedding not that long ago that involved people that we know,
and I was like, how huh, yes, like those guys
are there, but but I didn't get invited. But and
it was a I'm trust me. I didn't want to go,
so it didn't matter. But at the same time, I
was still like, what we have.
Speaker 7 (12:14):
Right, like wai, like they invite wasn't even there like
for me to say no.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
You know, yeah, like give me the chance to say hell, no, hey,
so figure good morning, Hi, good morning. Hey. Does it
bother you if out of nowhere you get an invitation
to something or do you interpret that as this person
just wants more gifts.
Speaker 16 (12:35):
It's that they want. They just want gifts because they
don't invite you to one thing, but then they want
to invite you to the rest. So I kind of
feel like, oh, like you said, don't.
Speaker 17 (12:46):
Buy people, you know, and.
Speaker 16 (12:47):
Then they won't invite you, but then something big do
invite you because that want they want that good GISs.
Speaker 12 (12:54):
Yeah again, I mean.
Speaker 9 (12:58):
I just feel like, if you can invite me to
a baby shower and then I'm not going to get
to your baby, that just doesn't mean Yeah, I know.
Speaker 4 (13:07):
Yeah, that's true, and that makes sense. And I agree,
like if if I don't see you in other stuff
and then I get this random invitation for the special occasion,
then I guess I'm going to assume it's a gift crab.
Speaker 11 (13:19):
But what if you mean I have a big impact
on someone's life and you just didn't know, Well.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
That could be, or if we don't live in the
same town. I mean, you know, I'm not expecting to
get phone calls from people who eat I can't you
know what I mean, Like they might check in with me,
but I'm not expecting to get invited in you know,
Friday night, Bengo night or game night or whatever your
house when you live in Atlanta. You know what I'm saying, Like,
I don't so if someone got married like that, then
I would expect to.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
I mean, I just I guess it's case by case.
Speaker 15 (13:46):
It's tough though, because you're kind of offended if you
don't get invited. Okay, you know the person, but then
you're kind of offended if I do invite you, because you
think I just want to.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Yeah, No, it's true. Yeah, it's true, Sophia. Thank you.
Have a good day.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
I have a good Yeah, as long as I can
send a gift. Actually for me, if I can send
a gift in and get out of physical appearance, then
I'm fine with that.
Speaker 2 (14:07):
So I'm actually the opposite.
Speaker 16 (14:09):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (14:09):
But I can remember in my in my mid to
late twenties, early thirties, it was like then, this is
why I say this topic is for you, Kitalin, because
I know last year, a couple of years was this
way for you. But it was like this just just
onslaught was it was all these weddings and all these
bachelor parties and all these baby showers, and it's just
constant stuff. And I'm like, I don't know you barely.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Hey, Cam, all right, good morning.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
I can good morning. This woman went viral on TikTok
because she's like, look, if you don't invite me to
regular stuff, like regular like lunch and coffee and whatever,
then then don't send me an invitation to baby showers,
weddings or house rumming parties, because why would I go.
I barely know you. I know why because you want
a gift, right.
Speaker 18 (14:49):
I've been feeling that way probably the past year or two.
I feel like I don't see my friends on the regular,
but I'm getting these invites to baby showers in particular,
and I show up and I am a great baby
shower gift giver, like I go at all out two
themes of everything.
Speaker 12 (15:08):
And then from there, like.
Speaker 18 (15:10):
I don't meet the baby.
Speaker 19 (15:12):
It takes like a year to two years to meet the.
Speaker 18 (15:15):
Actual baby, and it's like so depressing because I don't
even see you. Yeah, so I agree. I mean, I
don't know. People have different things going on with their lives,
but I feel like you need to make time for
the people who.
Speaker 17 (15:29):
Show up for you.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
So I agree. I agree, Thank you, cam have a
good day. Of course you do.
Speaker 4 (15:36):
But that's my thing, is like I don't That's why
the older I get and and sort of the tighter
my circle gets, the easier I think it would be
for me if I ever got married, if it were
up to me just to go elope, because the problem
is once you get outside like your immediate like you
guys are family, my family, and then I have like
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two or three really close friends. I'm talking about fewer
than twenty people who really really matter to me on
a daily basis. Not that the people, then there's a
circle outside of that. They still matter, there's a circle
outside of that. But I can think of like five
or six circles deep of people that it's a slippery
slope who would expect to be invited or would be
offended if they weren't invited to something some milestone in
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my life, you know what I mean. So it can
get out of hand quickly to where we go from
twenty to like two hundred, because if I'm going to
invite this person, then I got to invite that person,
that person, and that person. So for me at this
point in my life, I would just like to slip
off and then just do it, and then that way
no one's offended because nobody was there, you know what
I mean, because I don't want to have to play
this game where like you know this mentor of mine, Well,
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I thought we were closer and people get their feelings
certain they would have won. This is the opposite of this.
This is somebody who would have wanted to go, and
I don't want any gifts, so I don't care about that.
Oh I'm gonna be so offended if I'm not their friend. Yeah,
but like, don't send me. I don't need you to
send me a toaster. You know what I'm saying, Like,
I don't need you to send me a I'm like,
I'm I China.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (17:00):
I don't know, like I'm It's not about the presence
at that point. It's about the only people who are
getting invited to my wedding at this point in my
life are people I actually would want to be present.
And I'm having it on Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
But if you want to Lobe, I think you should
have Lope on Christmas Day.
Speaker 4 (17:18):
Hey Kylie, Hey, Hi morning, Kyle. I have felt this
way before too, but go ahead please.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 20 (17:27):
So we got a wedding invite for someone that we
weren't very close with, like you know, hung out with,
We don't even know how they had our new address,
to be honest, And it was like a week before
the wedding and it was like RCP immediately they're barely
feeless exactly.
Speaker 4 (17:44):
They had leftover, they had already committed to a certain
number of people. They got the first round of of
you know, acceptances RSVPs or whatever, and then you were
on the second tier.
Speaker 21 (17:57):
Yep, yep.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
And that means they didn't really care if you were
there or not. But you definitely are there to write
a check. That's what that means. One hundred percent yep.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (18:08):
And I'm still going to drink all that alcohol for free.
I'm telling you that.
Speaker 4 (18:12):
But it's not free because you got to show up
with you know, one hundred bucks a person or what.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
It is not free in the fact.
Speaker 20 (18:16):
No, we didn't even respond one way or not.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
Yeah, I'm not doing it. Thank you, Covin.
Speaker 1 (18:22):
Let's tech.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
You had a good day. No, this happened to me,
I don't. You weren't on the show yet.
Speaker 4 (18:25):
This happened to me a couple of years ago where
a girl that I went to college with called me
a week before her sister's wedding and was She's the
maid of honor in this wedding. There's a big occasion
in her family, and she's like, hey, will you be
my date? Oh? And I'm like, hell no. I didn't
say hell no to her. I politely declined because I
had a conflict, which I did. But you're inviting me
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seven days before. She's never been married before, so this
is the sister's first wedding too. So you're inviting me
to the biggest occasion in your family history, modern history,
seven days before somebody mailed on you.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
There's no way another plan.
Speaker 7 (19:05):
As the maid of honor, you're doing a lot of things.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
Don't tell me that you didn't have any concept of
a date.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
So what's the timeframe? Hanky? Fine advance? Do I need
to invite you on the next day?
Speaker 4 (19:18):
Like, Hank, you can't defend this. Seven days is not
seven days for me. It was in a different state,
by the way. Okay, Well, so she thought not only
did I fight it, and I like this girl, I
thought it was a little I thought it was a
little arrogant. I thought it was a little arrogant to say,
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hey it was it was like a Sunday. Literally, It's like, hey, Saturday,
my sister's getting married in this other place.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Uh, will you be my date?
Speaker 4 (19:46):
I'm like, I don't you had you were going to
bring another guy, and you decided at the last minute
that I was a better option, which, of course I
was for it.
Speaker 15 (19:55):
I invite big timis of an hour before we go.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
Again.
Speaker 4 (19:58):
It's not your wedding, but it's not your sister's wedding.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
Oh come on, I don't think she's arrogant.
Speaker 4 (20:06):
Yes, arrogant, because I don't think she I don't think
she expected me to say no.
Speaker 7 (20:12):
You should be a lot of somebody. You should be
happy you made the list. You know what I'm saying, Like,
who do I want to buy?
Speaker 4 (20:18):
This?
Speaker 2 (20:18):
Word?
Speaker 14 (20:18):
Like?
Speaker 21 (20:20):
Is a good time?
Speaker 2 (20:21):
Maybe we'll smash later, let's go. You said you probably
would have thought of that.
Speaker 4 (20:25):
Maybe I don't know, say when she got engaged, or
maybe I don't know a month or two ahead of
time you might have thought. I mean, you're assuming I
got an outfit that fits. You're assuming. Let me ask
you a question that express the day of I shouldn't
have to. Oh my, let me ask you guys this.
I'm gonna ask you guys this, and then I'm gonna
wrap it up. If we're Shelley here, we're Shelley. Hold
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on this time, push.
Speaker 14 (20:53):
Hold on, I.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Can't, I gotta put again.
Speaker 4 (20:57):
Okay, here's my question to you, guys, and I already
know the answer. This is rhetorical. If I came in here,
you know, my sister got married two years ago. If
I came in here and said, it's a Monday and
the wedding is a Saturday, and I came in here
and said, guys, I just invited uh someone to my
sister's wedding, which is on Saturday in Arizona, you guys
(21:19):
would say that is so rude. No. No, she has
no time. She has no time to get to figure
out how to get there. She has no time to
get an out of their she has your year clause.
You're expecting that you could ask someone to a major
family my also in six days in advance. That is rude.
(21:39):
Miss rid You guys, I'm sorry, but I stand by this.
I'm one ercent right.
Speaker 7 (21:44):
I would ask I want to ask how many I
want to ask how many people did you ask before hers?
Speaker 4 (21:50):
No, she absolutely had another date and decided not to
take him into the last minute, which means that was
not her first choice.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
Who cares that?
Speaker 2 (21:57):
Okay, you no choice? You were leads. I was the
last choice. I was be team that best.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
You guys weren't dating.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
It's okay.
Speaker 4 (22:05):
I think I thought it was rude. I didn't like
it was rude. I like, I didn't go thank you, Shelly.
Don't tell me, Shelley, do not tell me. You wouldn't
be like, well.
Speaker 1 (22:19):
Okay, take that aside. Do you like this girl? Like
you said you liked it?
Speaker 22 (22:23):
Right?
Speaker 1 (22:23):
She seems like a good person.
Speaker 14 (22:25):
I thought.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
I held her to hire regard.
Speaker 4 (22:32):
I don't think it would be cool for me to
do this to somebody else, So I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
I wouldn't. I don't think it would be cool.
Speaker 11 (22:38):
Maybe who knows what kind of bind she got caught in,
but she wanted you there.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
I don't know somebody else that you're much into this.
Speaker 7 (22:48):
She invited you to a wedding, So what if it
was seven days out?
Speaker 2 (22:52):
She invited you. That's it because the other guy who
she invited five days ahead of time?
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Assumption?
Speaker 18 (23:00):
Right?
Speaker 2 (23:01):
Who knows?
Speaker 1 (23:02):
Can we talk about poop again? I don't want to
know about weddings anymore.
Speaker 4 (23:07):
Yeah, I love that we've had a number of days
of conversation worth of Well, Shelley, you have stomach issues.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
I know that I have the opposite problem.
Speaker 11 (23:15):
I always say I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
You know that's all right, all right, showdown. I love
you guys. But I'm one percent right here, and I'm not.
I'm not always one hundred percent right. Sometimes I'll sell
my I'll sell the idea like I really believe in it,
but I don't today I'm right.
Speaker 11 (23:32):
So this sample group means nothing to you saying my
question is question.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
Because our text is blowing up with people agreeing with me,
it's over.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
Well did you know you would probably know?
Speaker 7 (23:42):
Did you ever follow up after the wedding like hey,
you want to hang out?
Speaker 2 (23:46):
Like? Hey, you know?
Speaker 4 (23:47):
No?
Speaker 2 (23:47):
But I never heard from her either, So I was
that important?
Speaker 1 (23:50):
That so apparent she was like, oh no, this she.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
Did that to herself. I didn't do that. I do
you is all of a sudden a phone call?
Speaker 4 (24:04):
Can you come to the biggest occasion in my family's history.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Maybe you know her, Maybe she doesn't care about weddings.
Maybe it wasn't right.
Speaker 15 (24:12):
Maybe they got closer to the day found out that
you can't bring a date. You know what?
Speaker 8 (24:16):
Right?
Speaker 2 (24:16):
And then, oh, you know what, let me call friend.
Of course she knew the rules. You guys all people
I know, But friend, I can't ride with you on this.
I love a party, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
Care if I'm I'm going, I'm drinking. I don't like
a party and I just.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
Entertainment. Report is on the Fred Show.
Speaker 11 (24:43):
Former Bachelorette star Katie Thurston sadly took to Instagram to
share that she was raped. She wrote, it took seven
months for the San Diego justice system to let me
down as a victim. The justice justice system continues to
let down victims every day. I refuse to feel defeated
and the strength it took to be an advocate for myself.
And she basically shared all this because she wanted to
(25:04):
help others if they were feeling alone, to find the
support they may need. She's not ready to share her story,
she says, but she wants to share some valuable resources
that saved her life.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
You can go on her Instagram and check those out.
Speaker 11 (25:15):
But she did think nurses other advocates before specifically sharing
how she feels like she was let down, and basically
said she had so many things text calls, photos, videos,
witnesses locations, timestamps, surveillance footage. I mean, she felt like
she did everything she was supposed to do as a victim,
but over and over again she was told the same thing.
(25:37):
A guilty verdict is hard in criminal court. So she
eventually things came to a halt. But she started in
season seventeen of The Bachelorette got engaged to Blake Moyin's.
They ended up getting engaged in the season finale, but
broke up in October of twenty twenty one.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
I just checked her Instagram.
Speaker 11 (25:53):
It seems like she's doing stand up now and I
think she's dating another comedian on there.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
But check that out if you want to see any
of that.
Speaker 11 (25:59):
Kendricks June teenth pop out concert continues to have a
really positive ripple effects on LA, bringing in two hundred
thousand dollars for twenty LA based charities and city community
initiatives like the Compton Girls Club.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
If you missed it somehow, if you're.
Speaker 11 (26:14):
Living under a rock, it you know, brought out some
of LA's biggest names. Dre Tyler, the creator ty Dallas sign.
Yeah he laughed, but he was mentioned. Yeah he was
mentioned again.
Speaker 1 (26:27):
Mustard. I mean, there were a Ton. Wasn't Lebron there?
Speaker 2 (26:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (26:31):
And uh Russell Russell Westbrook was there.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
Yeah, Lebron was there.
Speaker 7 (26:35):
No, but Demarto Rosen who's also from Compton.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
I don't know why I thought, you know, okay, he wasn't.
Maybe because I have a story about him in a
couple of stories.
Speaker 11 (26:43):
But Audrina Patridge is dating country singer Michael Ray. The
Hell's alum, shared a photo of her or on her
rather Instagram story. She was being held up by him,
had her legs wrapped around him, smooching.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
She kept in the photo this one. Oh, okay, I
don't know.
Speaker 4 (27:01):
I don't know if this is a right Michael Ray.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
Yeah, I mean there's only one Michael Ray.
Speaker 11 (27:07):
He's just a random country singer. It's cute, but I
don't know, yeah, yeha. Audrina obviously dated Hill's co star
Justin Bobby Ryan Cabrera she dated, so she's like the
queen of the early two thousands. She was married to
a dude named Corey for two years, has a daughter
with him.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
And then Michael Ray was married to Carly Pearce.
Speaker 11 (27:29):
Oh and if you listen to Miss Carly's music, you
know that she doesn't fail too clean about Michael Ray.
She filed just eight months after they were married, so
some went down. But yeah, they're cute couple. They're both
really hot. Lebron James, this is why he was on
the mine. He opted out of the final year of
his contract with the Lakers, expected to re sign with
the team.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
I think we thought this was happening.
Speaker 11 (27:51):
This is just confirmation he would have made fifty one
point four million this season if he opted in. His agent,
Rich Paul said that Lebron could take a pay cut
to help the Lakers sign another impact player. Rich that
he's hoping to have a deal in place before Lebron
it leaves for training camp later this week for the
Paris Olympics.
Speaker 7 (28:09):
Yeah, he better hurry because dudes are signing everywhere left
and right.
Speaker 4 (28:13):
Like Paul George is on the Sixers.
Speaker 7 (28:15):
Now I saw that, like all the big names, like
you think you get Chris Paul is in the Spurs. Yeah, Russell, No,
James Harden is staying with the Clippers. So you better
you better act fast, because there ain't gonna be no
nobody left to join you, Lebron.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
Who else would there be?
Speaker 11 (28:28):
Yeah, he doesn't strike me as someone that would take
a pay cut Lebron.
Speaker 23 (28:31):
Yeah, I mean it's gotta be some kind of deal, like, hey,
draft my son.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
I'll take Oh my god, we're still Yeah. Maybe it's
like there's a lot of right, there's.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
A lot of behind the scenes.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
Yeah, oh my okay, Well that's on your sports report.
Speaker 11 (28:49):
Catch up on everything you missed from the Fred Jhoe
on our free iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
I don't know if.
Speaker 4 (28:53):
It's just me, but I feel like I have my
disproportionate amount of stories I think gives me. I think
it's because I'm way too I'm inquisitive to my own peril.
Like I ask questions I don't want the answer to
because it's I think it's wired in my brain. It's
(29:14):
who I have become. It's who I am. A curious person,
you know, and I make money. People call up here
and I talk to them, and if there's a you know,
if there's a little string, I pull on it see
what I can get. And I feel like you do
the same thing in my relationships, which is why occasionally
I'm considered inappropriate and a little invasive and interesting because
(29:34):
I just I'll just ask, I'll ask questions and I'll
you know, if you give me an inch, I'll try
and take a mouth see what I can find out
about you. I'm a very curious person, and so I
find out from this woman. I don't even know how
it came up. I think she was like, yeah, I
have a Delta buddy pass, which you And there's a
couple of different ways I guess that terminology could work.
(29:55):
Either you have a pass an individual pass given to
you by an employee, which means you can fly stand
by in this case, though she's listed as somebody's domestic partner,
this woman, so she gets a good one. Yeah, that's
the golden one. Yeah, that's the one where you know
you don't need an individual pat You show up and
it's almost you're the same as the employee the way
that I understand it, or the way you can list
(30:15):
yourself on flights to fly, because it's a privilege that
you would get if you were married to somebody who
works for the airline.
Speaker 11 (30:20):
Because I've gotten buddy passes because my friend's mom works
for Delta, but they they're not as good as they
seem to be.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
But that's like the best one you can get.
Speaker 4 (30:28):
Yeah, And I think you still run into the same
issues where you might get stranded, but nonetheless, you know
it's unlimited from the way I understand it, at least,
and I'm sure people are like, well, no, whatever, it
doesn't anyway. So this and apparently this has been going
on for like ten years, she's been on this guy
or a long time, she's been on this guy's buddy list.
(30:48):
Has she been named his domestic partner for a long time.
I'm like, dude, like, you're sleeping with this guy obviously,
right because and here I am trying to talk to her,
but it's like this, dude, he's he still got you
on his benefits. And she's like, well, my ex thought
the same thing. But this is all I'm going to say. Nothing,
nothing's happening anymore. So at one point she slept with
(31:12):
this guy, yes, and for through multiple other boyfriends and
the amount of time he still hasn't removed her as
his domestic partner. So she must have some bomb dignity, yes,
I mean, and but why would you do that if
you had no hope of potentially reuniting. I mean, that
would be the if I broke up with somebody, even
(31:33):
if it were friendly. I still don't think that they
would be listed as my domestic partner. Because what happens
when I date somebody else and they're like, why can't
we go anywhere on your past? It's like, well, because
my ex is on it. That wouldn't work. I mean,
can you imagine if I don't know, like if I'm
a pilot, I meet some new woman and I'm like,
(31:54):
I'm into you.
Speaker 2 (31:55):
Yeah, well, my prime, the main.
Speaker 4 (31:57):
Work benefit I have is still devoted to my ex girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
I don't think that would go.
Speaker 1 (32:01):
No, but no, it would not go.
Speaker 4 (32:06):
But he did get me thinking about what, like, what
is there any benefit that you are still receiving from
an ex? And I'm not talking about like, you know,
child support. I mean I'm talking about, like, is there
anything that you're still getting from an ex that you
probably should get for yourself?
Speaker 2 (32:25):
At this point? Is my question? Eight? Five five five
one three five.
Speaker 4 (32:29):
In this case, this woman's flat around the world for
free because of a guy that she may or may
not have once hooked up with, who years later Steele
was giving her this benefit. Why would you do that
if you weren't trying to hang on to something right?
Speaker 1 (32:45):
Yeah, I can't for her?
Speaker 2 (32:46):
When did she say they stopped hooking up. Did she
say that she was not? She was not clear on that. Oh,
no clarity. Huh, she was not clear yesterday.
Speaker 4 (32:57):
I don't know meated people in between, you know. But
my thing is like I don't know if I had
some like free concert ticket benefit here where, like if
you knew me and you could just go to any
venue and get in, that's coming back with me, you.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
Know what I mean, Like we're taking that.
Speaker 4 (33:15):
No, you don't get to keep that after you break
up with me, because I don't want to have to
explain to the next girl. Yeah, And I know you
can only change them every now, and you can't. I
think it's every year. It depends on the airline. I
know you can't just like constantly be updating with new
domestic partners. But I mean, I think it's been long
enough where he could take her off if he wanted to.
(33:38):
Soone's this costco membership, Netflix subscription, nikor bill Oh.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
Yeah text.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
This text says the same thing. You can't constantly change
the domestic partner pass over to someone else. If you do,
the airline will flag it. Right they still hooking up, bro,
So for a certain period of time, I can see
why he wouldn't switch it because he can't. My ex
husband still has me listed it's hiss primary beneficiary in
his will.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
Oh girl, yes.
Speaker 1 (34:09):
You know mine.
Speaker 11 (34:09):
I will have a free lawyer for the rest of
my life.
Speaker 2 (34:17):
High page. How are you?
Speaker 4 (34:20):
I'm great? What benefit are you still receiving from an ex?
Speaker 12 (34:24):
He is still paying for free music ad free music
for me, and I do still have his debit card
saved on my phone in my appay.
Speaker 4 (34:34):
Let me ask you this page if you charge stuff
on it? Would he say anything?
Speaker 12 (34:40):
I don't think he would because he does still try
to get back with me, so I don't think he
would say anything.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
He knows I still have.
Speaker 12 (34:49):
It on my phone, but.
Speaker 2 (34:52):
Huh.
Speaker 12 (34:53):
He still pay for my music every month.
Speaker 4 (34:55):
So yeah, because if I, yeah, if I if your
credit card, if my credit card is on your phone
and I don't want to have some connection to you
or see you ever again, or whatever, then I change
the card so that you can't share.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (35:10):
But I think that this is his way of hoping.
You know, it's like it's still attached in some way.
Speaker 12 (35:15):
Yeah, I mean, I don't use it, but I just
I still have it there well, well, I want to
use it.
Speaker 4 (35:23):
And I'm like, well, because you have no intention to
get back at him because you have integrity and rufo
doesn't he? Thank you have a good day. Yeah, glad
you called. Thank you for listening. Hey Amber, good morning.
Speaker 17 (35:37):
Good morning?
Speaker 4 (35:38):
Hi Amber. What benefit are you still receiving from an ex?
Speaker 2 (35:42):
So my divorce is.
Speaker 12 (35:44):
Just finalized in July and I.
Speaker 18 (35:46):
Still have my phone totally paid for through his company?
Speaker 4 (35:50):
Do you think that does he have any control that way?
Do you think he's doing that on purpose so he
can have access to what you're doing?
Speaker 22 (35:57):
I honestly, that has definitely crossed my mind because he
definitely was that kind of person.
Speaker 17 (36:02):
But I'm taking it.
Speaker 5 (36:04):
Man.
Speaker 17 (36:05):
We've got four kids and I.
Speaker 4 (36:07):
Would stay home on for sixteen years, So switching that
over it's been a slower process.
Speaker 5 (36:12):
For me, and I'm going to take advantage of the fact.
Speaker 1 (36:14):
That it's one less fillas to carry down.
Speaker 4 (36:16):
Good for you, Amber, I'm just I'm paranoid. I would
I would figure somebody was doing that to to check
out who I was texting, or you know what I mean,
you do it against me?
Speaker 2 (36:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (36:26):
Yeah, but it's all good. It's over now, So Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Hamber enjoyed the single life. It's it's it's okay, it's
not bad, thank you, you'll be all right.
Speaker 17 (36:36):
I'm enjoying it.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
Yeah, it's all right, super convincing. I have a great day.
He says, it's a crime. And I don't know how
old she is, but that must be wild. I mean,
can you imagine any more than ten years maybe even final?
What the threshold, let's just say ten Any more than
ten years of having not dated and then now dating.
It's a different world entirely. It's a whole different thing. Yeah,
(37:02):
it's really not.
Speaker 11 (37:03):
Though it's I was in a seven year relationship and
it seemed so scary, but it's really not. I feel
like people make it sound so bad.
Speaker 2 (37:11):
It's scary. I wouldn't know what to do, like I
wouldn't know the no.
Speaker 11 (37:15):
I have seen you get hit on, and girl, you
know how to flirt back.
Speaker 4 (37:19):
I don't know if it's scary, it's it's just different.
It's really different. Yeah, I learn because you close with
big tis bout.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
You right there? He his way to be a single
meal without me?
Speaker 15 (37:37):
Yeah, man, yeah, I don't know you guys, I mean
Frand talking to Russians.
Speaker 4 (37:41):
It's like, it's I'm still talking to the Russian.
Speaker 2 (37:45):
I think I think she might be legit.
Speaker 4 (37:48):
I'm not sure she was wearing a lion sweatshirt in
one of the pictures that she's because you know, I
made her send the she four fingers, she's from Michigan.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
Supposedly, it's not a scammer. No one would choose that
this Russians.
Speaker 4 (37:59):
From Michigan, apparently, but I made her hold up four fingers,
as you know. And then I had people. I had
people on the text line yesterday telling me, well, you know,
the scammers have like women on the ready to do
whatever you ask him to do. And I'm like, well,
that that makes sense. I can see that. But why
would she wear a lion?
Speaker 2 (38:14):
Switch?
Speaker 1 (38:14):
All the NFL teams that scammers not picking the lions.
Please don't ever believe that.
Speaker 4 (38:19):
Yeah, there you go, unless it was one of those
like donated switch. You know what her sweatshirt said Yon
super bowls him. I know she's not real. Let me
see that sweatshirt Chicago Bears champion.
Speaker 2 (38:40):
Okay, I know this isn't real.
Speaker 1 (38:43):
Where in Michigan does she say she's from?
Speaker 2 (38:45):
Because I think I can help you Detroit.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
Well, ask her to get more specific, and I can
tell you.
Speaker 11 (38:51):
She's trust that you can fit three Chicago's in Detroit.
Speaker 2 (38:56):
Yeah, we'll see. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (38:57):
I think it's maybe I'll like what I'll have a
public meeting with a witness or something, and I'll wave
off the witness if I feel safe. I got you. Yeah, whatever,
she starts cutting down my organs, she'll run more.
Speaker 2 (39:12):
Fread show next.
Speaker 4 (39:14):
My show is on Good morning everybody. Thank you so
much for having us on. It's the Fred Show on
your radio. On your radio, also on the iHeart Radio
app anytime live or later on search for the Fred
Show for that. Hello, Calen, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Rufio, Hi,
good morning.
Speaker 2 (39:35):
Do you ever I'm sure I know the answer probably no.
Speaker 4 (39:41):
Do you ever like see something play out in your
mind that could have happened, like a near accident, and
then like almost feel the briefly the feeling of okay,
for example, this is what I'm talking about. So we
got the studio and then there's a studio, or we
go right out there and they got like big long
(40:02):
table there because you know, we got to have all
the communal space now around here for all the people
who don't come to work, right, you know, make the
studios as small as possible with no natural light, because
we got to conserve as much space as we can
for all the other people who might come to work.
Speaker 2 (40:16):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (40:17):
I haven't seen those people in three years, but they
may come, and when they do, make sure they have
an outside view. It's a natural life anyway. So on
that table, that's where we meet before the show, and
now all of our like coffee, and we leave our
stuff out there or whatever, because we used to bring
all that in here or you know, into the studio
where could spill them, you know, thousands of dollars worth
of equipment. But now we don't do that anymore. So
(40:38):
I walk out there and Pauline's purse is on one
of the chairs and like one of those hut it's
like a high table you could stand at it correct
and it's purses like white. It's a nice purse and
it's wide open, and my coffee is about three feet
on the table from with purse. And in my mind
it didn't happen. But in my mind, I think, what
if I had just knocked that coffee over and it
just filled her expensive bag, not only ruining everything that's
(41:01):
in the bag, but then the bag itself potentially. Now,
that didn't happen, But for about ten seconds, I'm watching
this play out in my brain and I get the shivers,
you know the kind like where you're like, you know,
like I can't believe that didn't just happen. But I
saw it all play out in my mind and almost
had the reaction as if it did.
Speaker 2 (41:21):
But it didn't.
Speaker 24 (41:22):
Yeah, well, accidents happened, and I understand that, but yes,
would I be upset?
Speaker 4 (41:26):
Yes, well, you don't have to be upset because it
didn't happen. But do you ever do you ever like
see something play out in your mind It didn't happen,
but you think about how it could have happened.
Speaker 24 (41:36):
Car accidents all the time. Like if I almost get
you a car accident, I'm like, oh, this would have happened.
Then I'd be I don't know, the broken shoulder or something,
and then I have to be at the body shop
all the time.
Speaker 4 (41:45):
Well, god forbid you ever get in a car accident.
But if anyone in this room is going to hit
another car, it's you.
Speaker 2 (41:50):
Okay.
Speaker 24 (41:51):
I hate that statement because I have never hit a car.
I'm always getting hit literally rear end it every time.
Speaker 4 (41:56):
That's probably because you're riding on the person's trunk in
front of you.
Speaker 2 (42:01):
We're gonna say, ruvial.
Speaker 7 (42:02):
I was gonna say, in your little scenario in your
mind over there, if in your mind the coffee does
spill and then you do whatever are you telling Paulina
in your mind?
Speaker 2 (42:12):
Are you saying, of.
Speaker 7 (42:12):
Course, you're just gonna I.
Speaker 4 (42:15):
Don't think there's gonna be anything. I don't think there's
anything I could do. I think it's I would have
to own it, you know. But then sometimes what what
concerns me is that you, like, do you think these
things and then you know, to Paulina's point about manifesting them,
like if I think about it and then somehow like
you have this. Have you ever have you ever thought like, man,
I hope I don't trip and fall and spill this,
(42:36):
and then you wind up tripping and falling and spill
this because you almost willed it to happen.
Speaker 14 (42:39):
Right.
Speaker 2 (42:41):
I don't know why.
Speaker 4 (42:41):
I don't know why this happened to me this morning,
but I just I'm sitting there drinking my coffee, like
what if this just went all over everybody's stuff, and
it's never happened, it's not gonna probably not gonna happen.
But then, like I said, for like ten seconds, I
almost felt the guilt and a shame that it had
that it had occurred.
Speaker 2 (42:56):
The Frend Show is on. It's Stay or go. John
is here. Let's talk to John.
Speaker 14 (43:04):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (43:04):
John, morning, Hey, and good morning John.
Speaker 4 (43:08):
We got your scenario, your situation, We have it here.
You can hit us up any anytime, all over the place.
Fredchowradio dot com, Fredschie Radio on Instagram and the DMS
or whatever.
Speaker 2 (43:20):
So what's going on with you?
Speaker 4 (43:21):
And we're gonna hear you out and then we're gonna
talk about you behind your back.
Speaker 2 (43:24):
Go ahead, please, Okay, Well.
Speaker 25 (43:27):
Thanks for taking my call. I don't know if I'm
just being paranoid about this, but my girlfriend has a
friend that she's really really close with, like you know,
like really almost as close as we are, but maybe
in some ways closer than the two of us are.
And you know, my girlfriend straight she's never had any
(43:50):
kind of history of of you know, a same sex relationship,
or at least she's never told.
Speaker 4 (43:55):
Me, oh well, we're John all the way, like that close,
like we're going all the way there.
Speaker 2 (44:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 25 (44:02):
Yeah, well, I mean that's why I think it's a
little bizarre. But I'm wondering if their relationship is a
normal friendship between two women or if it's like something
more than that.
Speaker 14 (44:17):
I don't know.
Speaker 25 (44:18):
They yeah, they hang out all the time. Like if
she's not with me, she's with her, and they have sleepovers.
They're very affectionate and like she sent me you know,
video FaceTime her when they're having their sleepovers and they're
like they're not and she's not in a guest room,
they're in the same bed. And sometimes they you know,
(44:41):
the kiss to say hi and by not on the cheek,
on the lips and if they're yeah, okay.
Speaker 4 (44:59):
All right, yeah what else? What other evidence you have here?
We need the whole story.
Speaker 25 (45:03):
I mean, yeah, yeah, Well, if they're hanging out, they'll
sort of kind of cuddle or pickle each other's backs.
Speaker 2 (45:12):
It's like really cute little qut stuff.
Speaker 25 (45:15):
Yeah, they play with each other. Hey, I've seen that
we've been together before and watching a movie and she'll
be you know, playing.
Speaker 5 (45:24):
With her hair.
Speaker 25 (45:24):
They don't even they don't go to the bathroom without
each other they're doing.
Speaker 4 (45:28):
Well that that's not uncommon. The bathroom thing is, I
don't understand that. I mean, I understand the social aspect
of it, but like I don't. I'm not like, rufi,
let's go to the bathroom, pe next to each other, like.
Speaker 2 (45:42):
You're already You're already in the bathroom. Yeah, he always
falls me in. It's weird. This isn't a this.
Speaker 25 (45:49):
Isn't a public restaurant talking about let me clarify that.
Speaker 2 (45:51):
Oh wait a minute, and yeah, like yeah, that's what h.
Speaker 4 (46:03):
Is.
Speaker 2 (46:03):
You're upset that you're not being included.
Speaker 4 (46:05):
Is that right?
Speaker 26 (46:05):
I think you the side piece, homie, I've got a girlfriend, Yes,
do you actually like, does your gut tell you that
there's a physical dynamic between the two of them?
Speaker 25 (46:18):
Sometimes yes and other times no. And I would say
sixty percent of the time no, but than forty percent
of time.
Speaker 4 (46:24):
Yet, would you consider that cheating if there were, if
those two were getting it on, I don't know.
Speaker 25 (46:30):
That's I mean, yeah, yeah, I think so, because if
it's not, if it was something that was communicated to
me and I was like on the word, then yeah,
of course. But if it's not like something that she's
upfront with and it seems like it's being kept from me,
which if it's not one, that's the other.
Speaker 4 (46:50):
Obviously, you know it has to be if they if
they were straightforward with you. Let's say it is a
physical relationship. Let's say it's a romantic relationship, were dabbles
in that regard? Would you allow her to have that
parallel to you? Would you allow her to have that
with you? I mean, what do you do if you
find out that this is in fact inappropriate.
Speaker 25 (47:10):
I think that if if it were and I was
like allowed to be a part of it, I think I'd.
Speaker 2 (47:15):
Be a.
Speaker 1 (47:18):
Right, right, I don't know, I mean I do know.
Speaker 11 (47:21):
Like sometimes like Fred will talk about how like male
female like traditional friendships. I guess you know, if this
doesn't include you, please don't at me, but like are
pretty different, Like you will be like, oh, you know,
you sleep in the same bed as your girlfriend sometimes
like I would never do that, or go into the
bathroom like you and probably never do that, or like
getting ready in the same room while someone's like showering.
Guys would probably not do that. But if there's a
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ton of girls getting ready, it's not that odd.
Speaker 4 (47:45):
So I have to but if it feels like this
is targeted towards one particular person, I mean, I guess
if she was this way with a bunch of people,
maybe you know, but like I mean, you're talking about
sleepovers in the same bed with one woman. You're talking
about kissing on her lips with one woman. You're talking
about you know, the old tickle trick.
Speaker 2 (48:08):
It is your friend?
Speaker 4 (48:09):
Is she straight?
Speaker 2 (48:09):
You're the friend the girl the other girl? Uh I know?
Speaker 7 (48:15):
Okay, huh So maybe they're maybe just you're just missing
the signs man.
Speaker 4 (48:18):
Maybe they're trying to invite you any you're just not
jumping on.
Speaker 2 (48:25):
My friends.
Speaker 1 (48:26):
Breathed my hair, I braided Paulina's here the other day.
That would be playing with her hair.
Speaker 7 (48:29):
That was lobby right there sitting on the camera.
Speaker 2 (48:37):
Was not only fans.
Speaker 4 (48:39):
Yes, wow, Okay, so your gut tells you maybe, but
you want transparency and you want communication. But it's also
very well possible that this is just a close friendship
and it has nothing to do with with sex at all.
But okay, the friend, does the friendship itself threaten you?
Speaker 25 (49:00):
No, no, because we have a great relationship. But if
if they were, if there was something that was lacking
in a relationship that she was looking.
Speaker 2 (49:07):
For somewhere else.
Speaker 25 (49:08):
And also she's been like this like with her from
what she tells me, like her entire life.
Speaker 4 (49:15):
So have you asked her about this? Have you said, hey, look,
you know you guys seem awfully close, Like is there
anything more going on there?
Speaker 14 (49:21):
Yeah?
Speaker 25 (49:21):
Yeah, calling a radio station is not my first option.
Speaker 2 (49:25):
Oh it's not.
Speaker 4 (49:27):
I mean we're not licensed at all. Now I am offended.
So what does she say? You're crazy? You know, that's silly.
We're just we're just friends.
Speaker 14 (49:36):
Yeah, she just kind of like laughed it off.
Speaker 25 (49:38):
She didn't come me crazy or anything, but she just
like lass it off and you're being silly, and you know.
Speaker 4 (49:43):
Huh okay, all right, let me take some phone calls
on this. Eight five five five three five. Maybe there's
nothing to this man. Maybe it's maybe they're just they're
just close, right, I mean, if she wanted to be
with her, she'd probably be with her.
Speaker 2 (49:59):
I feel like you, no, if they were like getting
it on, getting it on, maybe not.
Speaker 7 (50:03):
And if it's not affecting your guys relationship, what's the issue,
you know what I'm saying, Like, if you and your
girlfriend are perfectly fine whatever in the bedroom and everywhere else.
Speaker 4 (50:13):
And I don't understand the issue. If she has a
really close.
Speaker 2 (50:15):
Girlfriend, yeah, I guess you're spending a lot of time together.
Speaker 1 (50:29):
Would you be okay?
Speaker 15 (50:29):
If Jess was having sleepovers at her age, Yes, with
her female Yes, I'm going to sleep at Kaylen's house.
Speaker 4 (50:35):
Yeah, that's perfectly fine. Okay, Hey, John, let me take
some calls. Have a good day, man, good luck, and
have the radio one. We're gonna talk about you right now.
Behind your back, you can't say okay, okay, good thank
you bye, have a good day. A text eight five
five five three five. These girls have serious codependency issues,
whether they went through a trauma together or neither of
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them have been in a serious relationship before, so they'd
never had someone come before their friendship. I suppose that
could be true.
Speaker 11 (51:05):
I have some friendships like that, Like we're codependent on
each other for sure.
Speaker 4 (51:08):
And I guess if you, if you're relying on your
friend for a lot of the things that you should
be relying on your boyfriend for, then that's the problem.
I mean, if she, if she you know, confides in
I mean, it's almost the non sexual stuff that would
worry me more, Like do you confide in her when
you should be confiding in me? Do you do you
go to her when you're, you know, sad or feeling
a certain kind of way for comfort when you should
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come to me, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (51:32):
Like that that would worry me more.
Speaker 4 (51:34):
I think I agree with that. That just some kind
of weird physical relationship. Hey, Lauren, Hello, And I call
it weird because it would be weird if you have
a boyfriend and then you and then you have this
sort of secret other physical thing.
Speaker 2 (51:48):
Well, what do you think, Lauren?
Speaker 5 (51:50):
I mean I think that she should say. I think
that it's fine. I have a similar situation, except my
trend is a gay man. Actually, and we I mean,
we've been friends for more time than we've not been friends,
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and it's.
Speaker 12 (52:12):
Very much.
Speaker 5 (52:15):
It's just a romantic friendship.
Speaker 12 (52:17):
Like there's nothing.
Speaker 5 (52:18):
Sexual about it.
Speaker 4 (52:19):
It's just a romantic friends. You mean it's just a
platonic friendship.
Speaker 5 (52:25):
I mean, it's platonic, but it has an element of
romance being romantic.
Speaker 4 (52:32):
Okay, So you would ask he would be great if
he liked what you have basically.
Speaker 5 (52:38):
I mean, I don't I don't even know if that
would necessarily change things between the two of us. We
just have a great affection for each other, don't love
for each other.
Speaker 4 (52:49):
And I'm sorry if you mentioned this, but you have
a boyfriend, I mean, could you have a relationship concurrent?
Speaker 14 (52:55):
I do?
Speaker 2 (52:56):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (52:57):
Is he threatened by this at all? No, because it
sounds like you would choose to be with your friend.
Speaker 9 (53:05):
I would not.
Speaker 5 (53:06):
Choose to be I mean I would not. You're not,
it's not We're not compatible in that way.
Speaker 2 (53:12):
But it's got Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (53:15):
If I did it a woman and she said she
had a romantic relationship with another man, that would I would.
You're supposed to have a romantic relationship with me, and
that's I mean, I would think that it's exclusive unless
it's unless it's not.
Speaker 11 (53:26):
Do you just mean like affectionate, because that's probably a
better word than romantic.
Speaker 19 (53:31):
I mean it is.
Speaker 16 (53:33):
We do have great affection for each Yeah.
Speaker 19 (53:35):
Absolutely, we do everything together. We've gone and we've gone
to the bathroom together, we.
Speaker 4 (53:41):
Slept in the same bed with each other.
Speaker 16 (53:43):
It's not.
Speaker 4 (53:45):
What about they went to the bathroom, bathroom.
Speaker 2 (53:49):
In the back room. Okay, I got it to the
bathroom yeah.
Speaker 1 (53:53):
I have gay friends like that too.
Speaker 4 (53:55):
Yeah, all right, Well, hey, look if it works for you,
if you if this friendship can can work concurrently with
the relationship you're in, and if he's not feeling jealous
about it, then I guess there are boundaries.
Speaker 2 (54:05):
And I suppose it's okay.
Speaker 5 (54:08):
I'm just saying there doesn't necessarily have to be a
sexual aspect to it.
Speaker 1 (54:13):
Yeah, that's a friendship.
Speaker 4 (54:16):
But but that's that's interesting because just because you don't
have sex, to my point earlier, doesn't mean this isn't threatening.
Doesn't mean that I shouldn't be concerned about, you know,
emotional boundaries just just because you're not, I mean, because
you could you could just be having sex with someone
and that could be considered cheating depending on your definition
and and and and the terms of your relationship.
Speaker 2 (54:36):
But but have a very.
Speaker 4 (54:37):
Sound, communicative, you know, emotional relationship with me. Sometimes people
I think think about cheating only as it pertains to
physical interaction. But if you if you connect with another
human better than you connect with me, that's going to
eventually get in the way of what we're trying to do.
Speaker 1 (54:56):
No, it's not better. I think it's just different.
Speaker 24 (54:58):
Like I go to like Jonathan and Jason alive and
they're they're males, obviously, right, but like there's nothing, absolutely
nothing sexual about it is and will not allow right.
Speaker 4 (55:07):
Well, but what I'm saying is it sounds like she
relies on her friend or like like the connection with
her friend is stronger than the connection with her boyfriend.
And I guess that it's not. You're saying, I'm very
confused about the terms of this relationship.
Speaker 2 (55:21):
I think so.
Speaker 5 (55:23):
I mean, I definitely have a very deep emotional connection
with my boyfriend and.
Speaker 22 (55:27):
A very romantic relationship with him too.
Speaker 5 (55:30):
It's not like I rely on my best friends to
that aspect of the relationship, just in addition to I
have the other very.
Speaker 14 (55:39):
Close person that I have in my life.
Speaker 2 (55:41):
Okay, fair enough, thank you, Lauren, have a good day.
Speaker 5 (55:44):
Thank you you too.
Speaker 4 (55:45):
I don't know that you can unless you're in an
open relationship. I'm not sure that I would be comfortable
with someone describing more than one romantic rightly.
Speaker 2 (55:52):
That's what throws me off.
Speaker 4 (55:54):
Romance part, And to say that you have romance with
more than one man, even if sex isn't involved. Still,
I wonder if that's okay. I mean, it's okay. If
it's okay, but you know what I mean, I wonder,
I don't know, I wonder if it's not a little blurry.
Hey Raven, Yes, Hi, Raven, good morning.
Speaker 2 (56:11):
So say or go.
Speaker 4 (56:12):
This dude is concerned because he feels like his girlfriend
has a very very close relationship with his girlfriend with
her girlfriend rather and he's wondering if it's not you know,
maybe if it's not a little deeper than he thinks.
Speaker 2 (56:23):
What do you think, Raven?
Speaker 19 (56:27):
I think, I honestly think that he should say, because
it really isn't that big of a deal. I know
it might seem weird, but a lot of girls have
that type of relationship with another girl, even if they're
not by or or with a you know, a sexual
orientation like that. Like I'm speaking from experience as well,
(56:49):
like sometimes you just have this critific relationship with like
your best friend or this person that that you just
want to cuddle and do it and almost it's borderline actual.
But it's not going to go anywhere. It's not going
that far, and that's not what they're there for. It's
(57:10):
that type of soul connection. But I will say that
I feel like they need to open communication even further
talk about it, and I think he just has to
get out of the mentality of the whole well I
want to join or or like you know, like, oh
well now now it's my turn to get on and
(57:32):
on it, you know. Like I hate that.
Speaker 4 (57:35):
I feel like in the case of your friends, you know,
who you're that close with, where it's sort of teetering
on the line, who would you favor if it came
down to that person or your boyfriend?
Speaker 19 (57:48):
I would definitely go with my boyfriend for sure.
Speaker 4 (57:51):
Okay, Well then I think that's that's healthy. I think
it's a situation where you favor the person who you're
not in a romantic relationship with. I think that's when
what's the point of a romantic relationship then, you know
what I mean, Like, if you can't establish that kind
of connection, if you're constantly favoring the other person, then
I think boundaries are not established, and that's a problem.
Speaker 2 (58:09):
Whether there's sex or not.
Speaker 4 (58:11):
I mean, I've been in these relationships before, you know
where it's it happens all the time, dating by committee,
whether there's one or two or three or five, you know,
girls who are you know, everything goes to them first
they work it out and then and then the person
comes to me, you judge and jury, and it's like, no,
we're in the relation. I'm not dating them, I'm dating you.
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And they weren't there for whatever issue we're having. We
were there, so like, am I dating you? Or am
I dating them? It's almost like you should go date them.
I guess because you got it all figured out. I
think that's that everyone thinks about sex. But really it
comes down to communication.
Speaker 19 (58:46):
Yep, Oh yeah, it comes down to communication one, Like
you're completely right, like he just have to communicate further
and as long as it becomes it doesn't become an
overbearing problem. And as long as there isn't like this,
you know, like hey, we don't like you like group activity.
Speaker 5 (59:06):
Like then that I think it's fine.
Speaker 19 (59:09):
Just let it happen as long as it's healthy. But
you do have to communicate. But he's definite to say,
let's be more open minded too, and don't don't be like, well,
I guess.
Speaker 16 (59:19):
There's threesome.
Speaker 4 (59:22):
That he did bring that up, so who knows, maybe
maybe this is sort of he's building this up in
his head, like like it's more than it should be
because because you're kind of opening to the bathroom together.
Speaker 25 (59:40):
Let's go.
Speaker 2 (59:40):
Hey Teresa, good morning, Teresa, good morning, Hi, good morning morning. Hey,
what do you want to say? I want to say
that he should leave.
Speaker 17 (59:53):
I think that they're starting from romantic feeling relationship, Like
she's putting a lot into her best friend, Like why
is she cuddling with her? Like what is it that
her boyfriend is not providing her that she's latching on
to her friends for Like this is how these types
of situations start. Oh, she's my friend, She's just my
(01:00:15):
best friend. I need advice, Like, oh, we do everything together,
like it's an excuse.
Speaker 14 (01:00:21):
I'm a woman, trust me, Like I've seen this video before.
Speaker 4 (01:00:23):
And then she gets stuck in the dishwasher and the
only way out is yeah, yeah, I know.
Speaker 1 (01:00:29):
What are these types of situation?
Speaker 17 (01:00:30):
And I totally agree with what you've been saying this
whole time. He should go. He should save himself for
hurt and pain because obviously there's something secretive going on
and they don't want him to be a part of it.
Speaker 4 (01:00:43):
Yeah, Teresa, thank you, have a good day, you too.
I mean, if your friend relationships are if you're if
you have a friend or a multiple friend relationship that
is deeper. I mean it might be deeper, but if
it interacts negatively with the romantic relationship you're trying to have,
then well it's a problem, regardless of whether it's sexual
(01:01:03):
or not.
Speaker 2 (01:01:03):
Hey, Rico, Hey you're going on?
Speaker 14 (01:01:06):
Bro?
Speaker 2 (01:01:06):
Hey man, what happened? Rico? Tell me everything?
Speaker 4 (01:01:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 14 (01:01:10):
Yeah, so well, I mean, long story short, I don't
want to keep keep going. Uh, the biggest my best friend,
Like dude, we were insuperable. We were calling each other every.
Speaker 2 (01:01:20):
Day, male or female female, Okay, okay.
Speaker 14 (01:01:25):
Yeah, so uh, I mean she was so cool. So
got on earth so like I was, I mean, here
and there, I would hit on her, you know, as
a joke obviously, just you know, because whatever.
Speaker 4 (01:01:39):
You know, unless it wasn't that job, Okay, well maybe
it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (01:01:48):
Maybe it wasn't exactly, it's it's a joke.
Speaker 4 (01:01:52):
When she says no, when she says yes, it's not okay, all.
Speaker 2 (01:01:59):
Right, so you you yeah no no.
Speaker 14 (01:02:01):
But hey, so so then she got with this one guy,
and I'm like, hey, really think about it about it?
See see see how he makes you feel or whatever?
Speaker 3 (01:02:10):
You know.
Speaker 14 (01:02:10):
I would just give her this little advice. So so
like like at the end kind of when she was
gonna start with him, we almost slept together.
Speaker 4 (01:02:24):
Yeah, so then like no, go ahead, go ahead, finish up.
Speaker 2 (01:02:30):
We kill go ahead and finish it.
Speaker 14 (01:02:31):
So so like when they started together, she like basically
told me we can that she couldn't see me, see
me anymore. She uh that I couldn't call her anymore,
that lose her number. I'm like, you know what, that's
completely fine. I understand.
Speaker 4 (01:02:48):
And you guys weren't that good of friends anyway, you know,
And that's my point. She was able to identify that
you were going to prevent her from proceeding in another
relationship with another man, and I guess she decided that that,
you know, being able to do that and have those
boundaries was more important than being your friend, which is
a shame. But rico, thank you man, have a good day.
(01:03:10):
Gotta go, all right, Yeah, that's the thing. And I
don't know, you know, some of you guys have different
terms or rouview of for example, is married.
Speaker 2 (01:03:18):
So but like if I.
Speaker 4 (01:03:20):
If I couldn't give a woman objective advice about a
relationship with another man, that I can't be her friend
truly by definition like friend, and I have to just
say I have to make that like when when sometimes
if you get friend zoned and someone's like, well, we
can be friends, it's like, no, we can't be friends.
We can't be friends because I can't separate myself from
the part of me that likes you romantically or the
(01:03:42):
part of meat that once slept with you or whatever.
You know, people will do that every now and again.
They'll be like, men do it too. You know, we
hooked up for a while and then it fizzles. Well,
we could be friends. And so my definite in my
mind if you're like, let's be friends, and I'm like no,
because if you call me and you want to talk
about your boyfriend and I'm going to give you bad
advice because it benefits me because I want you to
come back to me then, or because I feel like
(01:04:03):
it conflicts with my interests, then I can't be your
friend and I have to separate myself. And it sounds
like that's what this lady said, you know, or this
guy rather the homeboy he just called. It sounds like
what she said to him was, look, I can't this
is too blurry. I can't do this right yep, which
sucks because sometimes people are okay just being friends, you
know what I mean. I feel like this happens to
(01:04:25):
women more than men because men tend to sexualize things.
And then it's like a woman can actually be a
friend with a guy and he can't do it.
Speaker 2 (01:04:32):
Yeah, but it was a joke for it.
Speaker 4 (01:04:34):
There's only a joke. Yeah, they're just joking. Yeah, he
was choking unless you say yes. This phone call takes
a whole different times.
Speaker 2 (01:04:44):
Calin's entertainment report is on The Fresh Show.
Speaker 1 (01:04:47):
There's been so much back and forth on this.
Speaker 11 (01:04:49):
Alec Baldwin's involuntary manslaughter child is on track to take
place this month. A judge projected a motion to dismiss
the case for the third time in five weeks. She
ruled to uphold the charge, so she wants this to happen.
Alex lawyers argued key evidence related to the prop gun
the actor allegedly fired and ended up killing cinematographer Helena
(01:05:11):
Hutchins and injuring director Joel Susa was destroyed, so they're
saying that some evidence was I don't know, somebody got
rid of it. The October twenty twenty one incident occurred
on the set of that Western movie Rust. We have
been you know, talking about it ever since it happened,
and now it's finally happening this month, so I'll keep
(01:05:31):
you in the loop for sure.
Speaker 7 (01:05:32):
Yes, yes, in time for his TV show to record it.
Speaker 11 (01:05:35):
Right, Well, I mean I think he's trying to make
money because of all this.
Speaker 1 (01:05:38):
Also said I need a job where I can work
from home. That's what he said. But it is it
is interesting timing, and I.
Speaker 11 (01:05:44):
Think the a lawyer for one, I think Helena's family's
lawyer ended up saying that they feel like the show is.
Speaker 1 (01:05:53):
An attempt to like distract people or portray.
Speaker 11 (01:05:55):
Them being a good man, family man, right, right, So
that is their argument. Hella Yah. ESPN is planning to
award Prince Harry the Pat Tillman Award for service at
the upcoming SPS. If you didn't know, Pat, who played
four seasons in the NFL, felt compelled to serve our nation,
stepped away from his promising football career to enlist in
(01:06:15):
the US Army following the September eleven terrorist attacks. While
Pat was sadly killed in combat in two thousand and
four in Afghanistan, only twenty seven years old, and after
news broke that ESPN was giving this award to Prince Harry,
Pat's mom, Mary Tillman, said the sports network never consulted
her about giving the Duke of Sussex the award honoring
(01:06:36):
your son.
Speaker 1 (01:06:36):
She told The Daily Mail.
Speaker 11 (01:06:38):
I'm shocked as to why they would select such a
controversial and divisive individual to receive this. There are recipients
that are far more fitting. There are individuals working in
the veteran community that are doing tremendous things to assist veterans.
These individuals don't have the money, resources, connections or privilege
that Prince Harry has. I feel that those types of
individuals should be recognized.
Speaker 1 (01:06:59):
Former NFL punter and current.
Speaker 11 (01:07:01):
ESPN analyst Pat McAfee lasted the network, saying they're trying
to quote piss people off.
Speaker 1 (01:07:07):
So he went against his own network on that one.
Speaker 2 (01:07:09):
And is it given to a veteran? Right? He is
a veteran?
Speaker 1 (01:07:15):
Yeah, he was a veteran, Harry did.
Speaker 2 (01:07:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 11 (01:07:18):
I don't think it necessarily has to be a veteran,
But I think she's just saying someone who's making a.
Speaker 2 (01:07:23):
Change pretty much.
Speaker 1 (01:07:24):
Yeah, I mean he does.
Speaker 11 (01:07:25):
Prince Harry does do a lot of good work, and
he can't really help where he came from.
Speaker 1 (01:07:28):
But I do think that they should always consult her on.
Speaker 11 (01:07:31):
Who would be winning that because it's in honor of
her Sun and she lost him in such a tragic way.
So I definitely hear. I hear what she's saying. She
wants someone. I get it. Simone Biles is heading back
to the Olympics.
Speaker 1 (01:07:43):
Of course she is right.
Speaker 11 (01:07:44):
The gymnastics superstar earned a third trip by cruising to
victory at the US Olympic Trials, up posting her two
day all around total to clinch the lone automatic spot
on the five woman team.
Speaker 1 (01:07:56):
I did not know that. So there's one spot that
you just you're on it.
Speaker 7 (01:07:59):
The winner of the whole thing whatever, of the winner
of the trials, you know, gets the automatic spot.
Speaker 4 (01:08:04):
Normally there's like different sports.
Speaker 7 (01:08:06):
Like track and field, it's like the race will take
the top three, something will take the top three or whatever.
But gymnastics, that's like one person and then everyone else
has to I don't know, go by points or whatever.
Speaker 4 (01:08:18):
Whoever's in second or third.
Speaker 1 (01:08:19):
Or that's cool. When do they start?
Speaker 2 (01:08:21):
Do we know the Olympics? Yeah, the end of this month.
Speaker 7 (01:08:25):
So, like all the sports are doing their trials to
see who's going.
Speaker 11 (01:08:28):
To be an Olympian, and they always do them where
they're holding the Olympics.
Speaker 1 (01:08:32):
No, no, no, they're here and there.
Speaker 2 (01:08:33):
Yeah, it all depends on.
Speaker 7 (01:08:37):
Yeah, like the US, they're all here in the States
because it's all Americans, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (01:08:41):
It competing to be in the Olympics.
Speaker 7 (01:08:43):
And then then those people will go to Paris this
year to compete for the Olympics.
Speaker 1 (01:08:48):
Got it all right?
Speaker 11 (01:08:49):
Well, you can catch up on everything you missed from
our show, The frend Show on our free iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 2 (01:08:54):
You want to make four thousand dollars for Fiel, Yes,
I got you.
Speaker 14 (01:08:58):
So.
Speaker 4 (01:08:58):
Medical researchers are looking for vallins here is willing to
earn forty two hundred dollars for being involved in their study. However,
it's possible that you would get diarrhea for a week.
Oh that's fine, let's do it, and you would have
to spend eleven days in the hospital even if you don't.
But this is forty two hundred dollars. Okay, So you're
still in keep the same underwear, Gotta change it.
Speaker 2 (01:09:17):
Every time I.
Speaker 4 (01:09:18):
Think they're going to want to, I don't even know
a week, I don't even wear underwear and might just
skip a stop.
Speaker 2 (01:09:26):
I'm not just winning to poose this thing.
Speaker 4 (01:09:29):
I mean, yeah, right, exactly like I'm not dealing with pants.
If this is the case, the experiment is called a
human challenged trial. It means that people involved in a
study are deliberately exposed to an infectious disease. In this case,
it would be a bacteria, which is the primary cause
of dysentery, which is an infection that causes diarrhea. So
(01:09:51):
they're working on a more potent vaccine, and so essentially
they might give you the vaccine, they might not. Then
they expl at the placebo, then the exposure to you,
and then we all just kind of see what happens.
She could do this in Cincinnati and Atlanta if you're interested. Yeah, okay,
why does somebody get ghosted waiting by the phone on
(01:10:12):
the Fred Show?
Speaker 2 (01:10:12):
We'll do it next more Fred Show.
Speaker 3 (01:10:15):
Next the Fresh Show is on.
Speaker 4 (01:10:22):
I want to shout out my aunt Paula, the Saint
Cana Paula. This lady is living, this lady is out here.
Speaker 2 (01:10:27):
So I'm not going to say how old she is.
Speaker 4 (01:10:29):
She's my mom's eldest sister. My mom has a No,
that's not true, that's not true. She's the middle one.
Well okay, well no, I believe what I was going
to say. What I was going to say was mean.
But there's one sister that's not in the picture. So
she's the oldest in the picture. Anyway, she's the middle.
(01:10:53):
But anyway, this woman has my mom is what was
born to be a mother. She's an incredible mother.
Speaker 2 (01:10:58):
Whatever. I don't know about this.
Speaker 4 (01:11:00):
I don't know about the eldest, but the uh Paula
is her name, and she has always just been out
here doing her own thing. You know. She lived in
Arizona for a while we were growing up, and then
one day she said, but I don't want to be
here anymore.
Speaker 2 (01:11:11):
She moved to San Francisco.
Speaker 4 (01:11:12):
And everyone was like, wow, you're just going to pick
up and move to San Francisco, like all by yourself.
Just go out there, find a job and do it.
She did that. After about ten years of that, she's like,
you know what, I'm going to move to Buenos Aris, Argentina.
Speaker 2 (01:11:24):
Who it?
Speaker 4 (01:11:25):
Wow? And so she like did it half and half
for a while and then one day said screw it,
got out of her apartment, retired and moved to ba
and living out there all by yourself, just out here
doing it. Now it's been ten years, she calls me
and says, I'm going to buy a house in Uruguay.
Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
Second was that's Liz, And She's.
Speaker 4 (01:11:42):
Like, so I'm out of it. I'm out of here. I'm
going to Uruguay now, yes, and I'm going to buy
this thing. It's going to have four bedrooms. We're going
to live out there. You never heard of Uruguay, Jason,
know what you're talking about.
Speaker 2 (01:11:51):
It's a country I never heard of. Uruguay, said for Jason.
(01:12:11):
Who they are?
Speaker 1 (01:12:12):
Can we come?
Speaker 2 (01:12:12):
Yes? Yes, this lady called me up.
Speaker 4 (01:12:15):
She's like, yeah, I'm just gonna go get this four
bedroom thing and I'm gonna live there. I think for
a while. Now see how that goes. I'm like, oh,
I mean I love him. Yeah, you know these kids
she writes hours stage, the beach there, the whole thing.
She's just she says, out here doing it like just whatever.
You lonely ever because she has friends, but I don't
think she cares, you know, and her things like I mean,
(01:12:35):
I'm this old and and she's a good looking lady,
and she's like, I'm just gonna go do it, Like
what do I have? I only have so much life
to live, so by I'm out of here, you know,
and no grounded. She didn't have any kids, so her
life is all about her.
Speaker 14 (01:12:48):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:12:48):
I'm sure there are people listening now going, well, I
would take those risks, but I chose to have a family. Well,
you know, she chose to not have a family, and
then she's given this flexibility.
Speaker 2 (01:12:56):
Yeah, I asked. I talked to her about this all
the time.
Speaker 4 (01:12:58):
As a person who's not married and doesn't have kids,
I talk to her all the time about like do
you like about how people address because people people are
always like they can't imagine that you wouldn't want to
be in a relationship and that you wouldn't want to
have kids, Like people cannot imagine that this is the
life that I choose, or this is the life that
she chooses. Like it's just it's mind blowing. It's like
(01:13:21):
what's wrong with you? Or why are you so picky?
Or like when are you going to do the marriage
and the kids thing? And it's like I don't think
she ever wanted it. I'm not opposed to either, And
she was married at one point in divorce, but a
couple of times actually, but that's how she rolls. She
a much younger Latin man. Like it didn't quite work out,
but so what can get another one? Yet another one.
(01:13:45):
I don't think he brought much of the table except
for one thing, but he certainly brought that to the
table from what I understand enough to marry him. And
it's just a weird thing you know about your aunt,
but that's the kind of relationship that we have. Nonetheless,
I relate to her more than I thought I would,
because you'll people could argue, well, I think I think
my parents sometimes think that my life is selfish, and
it's like, well, that could be, but I also there
(01:14:08):
are also the aspects of my life that I won't
get to experience that that other people do, you know.
I mean, I guess some people find their partner their
person and they don't have kids and they get the
fulfillment and the challenge of having a family and all
of that, but like, I may not get to experience that.
On the flip side, you know, she and I might
have the flexibility to say, at some point in our lives,
(01:14:28):
we're moving to Oruguay or wherever. And I think, you know,
there's an upside to that. There's also the fact that
I may have to do that by myself. I don't know,
but it's just amazing to me that, you know, I think.
I think it's a big deal. I think it's a
big deal to be moving around the world on your own. Yeah,
she is the coolest, so interesting.
Speaker 1 (01:14:48):
I was thinking that when you were telling that story.
Speaker 4 (01:14:51):
Any thoughts, boy, you're here, You're going to say, and
you're all expected by the way, man, I'll tell you
not really, it's quite I've had quite a run with
Asian people and black people, and I got kids.
Speaker 2 (01:15:12):
From all over the world. That's what I'm saying. You
need to go anywhere else. I don't have to.
Speaker 4 (01:15:21):
I experienced many different things. It's multicultural up in here.
Speaker 2 (01:15:30):
You've ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the
Fred Show. Hey Ross, good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you hey, guys doing all right?
Speaker 14 (01:15:38):
How you doing?
Speaker 4 (01:15:39):
We are great? Tell us about this woman, Sonia. I
want to know everything. How did you guys meet? Tell
us about any dates that you've been on and then
where things are now you think maybe you're being ghosted.
Speaker 2 (01:15:49):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 6 (01:15:50):
So I met this girl, Sonia. We've met on a
hinge and you know, we chatted for a while. She's
really cute, and I asked her out to dinner after
I got her number when hinting through Hinge, and you know,
I thought we had a good time and that she
liked me, because you know, she invited me after dinner
back to her place, you know, to go swimming. And
(01:16:11):
I was like, okay, you got a pool. That's fantastic.
Let's keep this thing going.
Speaker 21 (01:16:17):
And I'm really really confused right.
Speaker 6 (01:16:20):
Now because you know, like I said, I thought we
had a great time, and now she's completely ghosting.
Speaker 2 (01:16:27):
Here about this. But yeah, I mean I would say
that's pretty good.
Speaker 4 (01:16:29):
Like you go on a date, all's going, well, Hey,
let's go back to the pool.
Speaker 2 (01:16:33):
So now we're just.
Speaker 4 (01:16:33):
Automatically wearing not a lot of clothes, Like that's great.
I mean, that's that would in my opinion, that's a
good date. Things are going well on the date if
we're going to go back and do that, Oh yeah, man, Jason,
(01:16:57):
not to be outdone by Prince perv rufie over here
and now we got Princess peeky. All right, So, but
you've reached out to as woman sends the date and
she's not responding to you at all. I take it
on Hinge and text and whatever else.
Speaker 6 (01:17:12):
Yeah, exactly, I've texted her a few times. I tried
calling her one nothing, okay, nothing.
Speaker 4 (01:17:17):
All right, Well, I'm gonna play one song. We'll come
back in a couple of minutes and we'll call this
woman Sonia. You'll be on the phone. We'll ask some questions.
At some point. You're welcome to jump in on the call,
and hopefully something's going on and we get straightened out
or if she's been busy or she has a good
excuse or reason, and the hope is that you guys
can go out again and we'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (01:17:34):
All right, Hey, that'd be great, Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (01:17:36):
Hang out one second. Let's see what happens next.
Speaker 4 (01:17:38):
Part two of Waiting Metaphone after this song on The
Fred Show. Good morning, It's the Fred Show. Part two
of Waiting Metaphone. Hey, Ross, all right, let's call Sonia.
You guys met on a hinge the dating app, had
a great date she invited you over to go swimming
after the date, which is I would think a pretty
good sign, except since the date you haven't heard anything
(01:17:59):
from her. Has it responded to you? She hasn't reached
out either, and you want to know what's going on.
Speaker 6 (01:18:03):
That's exactly it.
Speaker 2 (01:18:04):
Okay, we're gonna call her now. Good luck, Ross, Thank
you so much.
Speaker 23 (01:18:07):
Guys.
Speaker 2 (01:18:14):
Hello, Hi is this Sonia?
Speaker 14 (01:18:17):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (01:18:18):
Yeah, Hi, Hey, Sonya, good morning.
Speaker 4 (01:18:20):
My name is Fredam calling from the FREND Show, the
morning radio show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now and I would
need your permission to continue with the call. Can we
chat for just a second, do you mind?
Speaker 2 (01:18:29):
Yeah? That's fine, Well, thank you very much.
Speaker 4 (01:18:32):
We're calling on behalf of a guy named Ross who
says he met you on a dating app and you, guys,
recently went on a date to remember him, I do, okay, Well,
so that's a good start. So he reached out to
us and said that he really liked you and thought
the date went well. And then I guess you invited
him over to your house to go swimming or something,
and he hasn't heard from you since, so he wants
to know why you're not responding to him, and we're
(01:18:54):
sort of the middleman here trying to you know, ask
the questions as well.
Speaker 2 (01:18:58):
So why aren't you calling him back?
Speaker 22 (01:19:00):
Well, we met on hinge on the dating app, and
he took me to dinner and we had fun. I
did invite him back to my place after because it
was close by, but I really.
Speaker 6 (01:19:15):
Regret doing that.
Speaker 4 (01:19:16):
Now.
Speaker 1 (01:19:16):
Why Well, when we got back.
Speaker 22 (01:19:21):
I realized he was a lot drunker than I thought
he was. I excused myself to go to the bathroom,
and then when I came back, I couldn't find him.
And then I realized that he was swimming in my
pool and he was naked.
Speaker 4 (01:19:34):
Oh, I was going to ask the question. I was
a little curious, I'll be honest. You know, if you
didn't know that you were going to be going on
a swimming date, I mean, unless you're going to provide
you know, wardrobe, unless you have a whole like selection
of men's swim trunks at your house, I guess I
was curious how that was going to work. But he
just took the liberty of of stripping down and jumping in.
Speaker 2 (01:19:57):
He didn't care.
Speaker 22 (01:19:58):
H Yeah, I I mean I didn't even invite him
to use the pool, and also swimming that drunk is
just dangerous.
Speaker 2 (01:20:07):
Well there's that.
Speaker 4 (01:20:08):
Oh yeah, And I assume this is a community pool
of some kind unless you somehow have your own pool.
I mean I guess other people might use them, might
come out and see old boy Ross, you know, swimming
around but ass naked.
Speaker 22 (01:20:21):
Yeah, it was just a lot. I mean, we haven't
even we haven't even slept together, so why would I
want to see him naked? You know? And it was
it was it was a lot to walk out.
Speaker 20 (01:20:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:20:33):
Well here's the question, what did and sonya?
Speaker 4 (01:20:35):
I mean, nobody was expecting that to happen, especially you know,
completely uninvited. But what did you expect him to do?
What were you thinking he was going to do going
on a swimming date that wasn't supposed to be a
swimming date.
Speaker 22 (01:20:47):
Well, I mean I didn't even invite him to use
the pool.
Speaker 14 (01:20:50):
He just took it upon himself.
Speaker 4 (01:20:52):
To do it.
Speaker 22 (01:20:52):
So I wasn't really expecting that we were going to
be swimming at all. I kind of thought that maybe
we just to hang out, you know, and continue.
Speaker 4 (01:20:59):
Talking adjacent to the pool, maybe not making Okay, let
me bring I forgot to mention that Ross is here. Ross,
So you were in clothes now or if you just
stripped down, you know, just cause because you feel that comfortable.
Speaker 2 (01:21:14):
Fully closed at the moment. So that was the thought process.
Speaker 4 (01:21:17):
So You're like, you know what, I want to go swimming,
and I don't want to get my clothes wet, so
I'll just get completely naked on a first aid.
Speaker 12 (01:21:24):
You know.
Speaker 21 (01:21:25):
To be quite honest, I don't remember thinking through much
of that. I remembered also, I don't. I will say
I don't remember being that drunk, but I do remember
going back to your place Sonya Tay, and the next
thing I know, uh, I was you.
Speaker 14 (01:21:48):
Know, we were we were swimming.
Speaker 21 (01:21:50):
I don't remember if I had anything on or not.
Speaker 4 (01:21:52):
But I don't think anybody else was there with you.
I mean, man, I've I've been I've been really drunk,
but I'm not sure that I've ever gotten completely naked.
Speaker 2 (01:22:05):
In a pool.
Speaker 1 (01:22:07):
You never got skinny topping well.
Speaker 4 (01:22:09):
When invited, but it wasn't. It wasn't because I was
so drunk I decided to take all my clothes off.
That a lot oh okay, well okay, okay, well that's yeah.
I mean, but ross, she lives in a community. I mean,
she could be evicted for this behavior. I mean, I
(01:22:29):
don't she probably is. You know, Sony, you're not saying much.
I mean, so it was a lot. And did you
like what you saw?
Speaker 2 (01:22:37):
At least? Was he good looking? Naked guy? Was he tanned?
Was he he have lines? Was he you know?
Speaker 22 (01:22:41):
I mean I wasn't really thinking about that. I was
more concerned with, like making sure that he didn't drown
because he was so drunk. So you know, I just
got him dressed and sent him home in an uber.
But I guess he doesn't seem to remember it, which
maybe shows that he really was he was too drunk,
because that's I mean, that's what happened.
Speaker 4 (01:23:00):
Okay, Well, so he's saying he doesn't remember, he was overserved.
I mean, I guess I hear him taking responsibility for
he's sort of making an excuse. But I mean, you
liked him up until that point. So are we willing
to say, look, that was you know, poor decision making,
had too much to drink, No harm, no foul, We'll
try it again, or no.
Speaker 22 (01:23:20):
I think I'm going to pass on a second date.
Speaker 16 (01:23:23):
I think all.
Speaker 4 (01:23:24):
Right, Well, Michael Phelps. I'm sorry, it's not going to
work out. You know, you should always carry a speedout
with you. You just never know.
Speaker 21 (01:23:31):
Now I'm now, I'm not now, I'm in the know,
So I'll keep that in the back pocket at all times.
Speaker 14 (01:23:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (01:23:38):
Well, there you go, Sonya, thank you for your time.
Speaker 14 (01:23:41):
Ross.
Speaker 2 (01:23:41):
I'm sorry, so not going to work out. Best elected
both of you, guys.
Speaker 12 (01:23:44):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (01:23:44):
Calen has the Entertainment Report and eats next on the
Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (01:23:48):
Caln's Entertainer Report. He's on the Fread Show.
Speaker 11 (01:23:52):
Former Bachelorette star Katie Thurston sadly took to Instagram to
share that she was raped. She wrote, it took seven
months for the San Diego justice system to let me
down as a victim. The justice system continues to let
down victims every day. I refused to feel defeated in
the strength it took to be an advocate for myself.
And she basically share all this because she wanted to
(01:24:12):
help others if they were feeling alone, to find the
support they may need. She's not ready to share her story,
she says, but she wants to share some valuable resources
that saved her life. You can go on our Instagram
and check those out. But she did think nurses other
advocates before specifically sharing how she feels like she was
let down and basically said she had so many things
text calls, photos, videos, witnesses, locations, timestamps, surveillance footage. I mean,
(01:24:39):
she felt like she did everything she was supposed to
do as a victim, but over and over again she
was told the same thing. A guilty verdict is hard
in criminal court, so she eventually things came to a halt.
But she started in season seventeen of The Bachelorette got
engaged to Blake Moyin's. They ended up getting engaged in
the season finale, but broke up in October twenty twenty one.
Speaker 1 (01:25:00):
I just checked her Instagram.
Speaker 11 (01:25:01):
It seems like she's doing stand up now and I
think she's dating another comedian on there.
Speaker 1 (01:25:06):
But check that out if you want to see any
of that.
Speaker 11 (01:25:08):
Kendrick Lamar's Juneteenth pop out concert continues to have a
really positive ripple effects on LA, bringing in two hundred
thousand dollars for twenty LA based charities and city community
initiatives like the Compton Girls Club. If you missed it somehow,
if you're living under a rock. It, you know, brought
out some of LA's biggest names, Drey Tyler, the creator
(01:25:28):
ty Dallas sign.
Speaker 1 (01:25:31):
Yeah he laughed, but he was mentioned. Yeah, he was
mentioned again Mustard. I mean there were a time. Wasn't
Lebron there?
Speaker 2 (01:25:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (01:25:39):
And uh Russell Russell Westbrook was there.
Speaker 2 (01:25:42):
Yeah, Lebron was there.
Speaker 7 (01:25:43):
No, but Demarto Rosen who's also from Compton.
Speaker 1 (01:25:47):
I don't know why I thought, you know, okay, he wasn't.
Speaker 11 (01:25:50):
Maybe because I have a story about him and a
couple of stories. But Audrina Patridge is dating country singer
Michael Ray. The Hell's alum shared a photo of her
or on her or rather Instagram story. She was being
held up by him, had her legs wrapped around him, smooching.
She kept in the photo this one. Oh okay, I
don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:26:10):
I don't know if this is the right Michael Ray.
Speaker 11 (01:26:12):
Yeah, I mean there's only one Michael Ray.
Speaker 1 (01:26:15):
He's just a random country singer.
Speaker 11 (01:26:17):
It's cute, but I don't know, yeah, yeha. Audrina obviously
dated Hill's co star Justin Bobby Ryan Cabrera she dated,
so she's like the queen.
Speaker 1 (01:26:30):
Of the early two thousands.
Speaker 11 (01:26:32):
She was married to a dude named Corey for two years,
has a daughter with him.
Speaker 1 (01:26:35):
And then Michael Ray was married to Carly Pearce. Oh
and if.
Speaker 11 (01:26:39):
You listen to Miss Carly's music, you know that she
doesn't fail too clean about Michael Ray. She filed just
eight months after they were married, so some went down.
But yeah, they're cute couple. They're both really hot. Lebron James,
this is why he was on the mine. He opted
out of the final year of his contract with the Lakers,
expected to re sign with the team.
Speaker 1 (01:26:58):
I think we thought this was happening.
Speaker 11 (01:27:00):
This is just confirmation he would have made fifty one
point four million this season if he opted in. His agent,
Rich Paul said that Lebron could take a pay cut
to help the Lakers sign another impact player. Rich that
he's hoping to have a deal in place before Lebron
it leaves for training camp later this week for the
Paris Olympics.
Speaker 7 (01:27:18):
Yeah, he better hurry because dudes are signing everywhere left
and right.
Speaker 4 (01:27:22):
Like Paul George is on the Sixers.
Speaker 7 (01:27:24):
Neck I saw that, like all the big names, like
you think you could Chris Paul is in the Spurs. Yeah,
Russell no, James Harden is staying with the Clippers, So
better you better act fast because there ain't gonna be
no nobody left to join.
Speaker 2 (01:27:35):
You, Lebron.
Speaker 1 (01:27:36):
Who else would there be? Yeah?
Speaker 11 (01:27:37):
He doesn't strike me as someone that would take a
pay cut, Lebron.
Speaker 1 (01:27:40):
Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 23 (01:27:41):
I it's gotta be some kind of deal, like, hey,
draft my son, I'll take it.
Speaker 1 (01:27:46):
Oh my god, you're still Yeah.
Speaker 26 (01:27:48):
Maybe it's like there's a lot of right, there's a
lot of behind the scenes.
Speaker 1 (01:27:53):
Yeah, oh my Okay, Well that's on your sports report.
Speaker 11 (01:27:58):
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listening to us later on the podcast, then we've all
already screwed this up. So if you want to start
the day right according to this, you want to get
out of bed at seven twelve am and then exercise
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for exactly twenty one minutes. I'm done.
Speaker 1 (01:28:28):
I have a job.
Speaker 2 (01:28:30):
No, it's exercising part for me. I wish I could
do that.
Speaker 4 (01:28:34):
I wish that I could get up an hour earlier
and get my workout done first thing. I wish I could,
but that would mean getting up at three instead of like,
just no way, there's no way.
Speaker 24 (01:28:44):
That show, the morning show, the one that you guys
are watching, Jennifer Aniston waking up and going to like
on a peloton at three am because she worked a
morning show.
Speaker 1 (01:28:52):
And I was like, that is so unrealistic, Like we're
not doing that.
Speaker 4 (01:28:55):
Like I read somewhere the George Stephanopolis, the guy who
hosts Good Morning America. I heard he gets up at
like three and meditates for thirty minutes or something before
he does anything. I'm like, dude, you want me to
get out of bed and then get into a meditative
state and not fall asleep, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (01:29:13):
Like I don't.
Speaker 4 (01:29:14):
I would fall asleep, even though it's uncomfortable. If if I
sat there, had to close my eyes and think about
nothing or whatever, I would I would. You'd be calling
me at six o'clock every day, going to do where
you done? Like I'm meditating, I'll get there when I'm done. Aka,
I fell my ass asleep. You're supposed to spend ten
minutes in the shower, eighteen minutes for breakfast. They talked
(01:29:34):
to two thousand people and they analyzed all the results.
A mathematician did the average answers show the optimal time
in the showers ten minutes. People preferring eight hours in
bed waking up, This.
Speaker 2 (01:29:47):
Is preferring eight hours.
Speaker 4 (01:29:50):
Come on, this is waking up at six forty four
but not getting up until seven twelve.
Speaker 2 (01:29:55):
Now I do that. I get up at four, but.
Speaker 4 (01:29:58):
I don't get out of bed until like four th
thirty four to forty five because I just sit there
and do all my stuff in my bed. Okay, yeah,
and so I guess there's a way to calculate this mathematically.
So to calculate if your routine will put you in
a good mood, double the time you spend on breakfast.
Then add the minutes spent exercising and showering. Now work
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out the difference between how long you slept and the
optimum eight hours. For example, if you got six and
a half hours and the difference then would be an
hour and a half, then I supposed gus, you're supposed
to minus that. So the total this is very complicated.
The total minutes for breakfast doubled exercise and showering, divided
by the sum on sleeping and getting up times. Then
(01:30:40):
the minutes spent doing things such as reading the newspaper
and doing a crossword. If the numbers higher than thirty seven,
then you have the best morning. I'm not doing any
of this. Oh, that's a lot of stuff. I would
like to see the correlation of that to their bank account. Like, yeah,
none of the lad is like millionaires just do that
all day. You know what I'm saying. I think this
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was based on like having a good day. What is
this based on the perfect start to your day? So
it doesn't necessarily mean that, you know, these people get rich.
It just means that this is apparently the best way
to start your day.
Speaker 7 (01:31:11):
But I feel like the rich people have that time.
You know, I got breakfast in the morning. What's I
know for breakfast?
Speaker 2 (01:31:22):
Ten minutes?
Speaker 4 (01:31:23):
What Jeff Bezos doesn't His first meeting is at ten am.
He doesn't schedule a single meeting before at ten am.
And he says he likes to get up at like
seven or eight. And he says it's quote putter. He
likes to just putter around, just like with nothing to do.
My Putter is I'm sleeping like I don't if I
get up for something that I'm getting up and I'm
(01:31:44):
going there's no getting up an hour before, so I
can just screw around like I'm gonna stay in.
Speaker 2 (01:31:50):
Bed, you know.
Speaker 4 (01:31:51):
But then again, he's a gazillionaire and I'm not, so
you know, maybe he's doing something right.
Speaker 2 (01:31:56):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 3 (01:31:57):
More breadshell Next, The Fread Show is on Fred's fun
Fact Fund.
Speaker 2 (01:32:13):
This one.
Speaker 4 (01:32:15):
But if you didn't, you're gonna be very interesting today
when you go to the movies, I mentioned you went
to an actual movies here.
Speaker 1 (01:32:21):
Oh, I just went yep, okay.
Speaker 2 (01:32:24):
I guess Air was the last movie I went to.
Speaker 1 (01:32:26):
Oh yeah, a little date night.
Speaker 2 (01:32:27):
Yeah, we had a date night. It was great. Went
to some weird place before and it was yeah at
dinner it was weird.
Speaker 1 (01:32:33):
I think about that place a lot more.
Speaker 4 (01:32:34):
I'm not going to say the place because I don't
want to do that, but it was very strange. It
was like we walked in they were like, what are
you doing here? What you need something from us? Like, yeah,
actually we're here for food, and yeah we're here for
subsidence please.
Speaker 2 (01:32:48):
But movie trailers the show before the movies.
Speaker 4 (01:32:51):
Yes, they used to show after the feature film, which
is why they're called trailers. Jason, Oh, but everyone would
probably leave. They used to trail the main attraction. The
first trailer premiered in nineteen twelve. It was for a
Broadway show, The Pleasure Seekers, not a movie. Gradually, trailer
started spreading in popularity. They were produced by theaters themselves.
(01:33:13):
In nineteen sixteen, the movie studios took the reins. And
so you're right. I would not wait until the end
of the movie and then all the credits to watch
a trailer. I would not do that. But now when
you go in, you're forced to watch. You know, however
many minutes of trailers.
Speaker 7 (01:33:28):
And a lot of the times now with superhero movies,
you're forced to watch all the credits because there's you know,
little easter eggs at the end.
Speaker 2 (01:33:34):
Oh yes, sorry scenes at the end to.
Speaker 4 (01:33:36):
Yeah, I don't know what they are because my eyes
an't gone. Soon as things start rolling, I'm like no.
Speaker 7 (01:33:41):
Because there's pre post credit mid credits scene.
Speaker 2 (01:33:44):
Soon hits, I'm like i gotta go. Nope, not stand.
Speaker 3 (01:33:49):
More.
Speaker 2 (01:33:49):
Fred Show Next, You've Got Your Way Fread Show is on.
Speaker 11 (01:34:00):
Funny South.
Speaker 4 (01:34:04):
This is a story from earlier in the week that
I hadn't gotten to yet, But a drunk man caused
chaos after breaking into the police department when they were closed.
So this guy broke into the Naples police department. Most
people are trying to stay out of the police department.
This guy broke into it. He vandalized. First of all,
(01:34:24):
he got into an unlocked patrol cruiser, sat in there
for a minute it couldn't get started, waited for all
the cops to leave. Then he got into the police station,
flooded it, whoa pooped on the women's locker room floor,
which is nice of him. And then he stole a
uniform and a nine hundred dollars bulletproof vest and apparently
(01:34:45):
went down the street to seven to eleven, where the
police had then figured out that he had done this,
and they arrested him. He's being charged with grand theft
and two counts of burglary. Naples Police not commenting at
the moment as they are further investigating. But it makes
me feel better because I've been drunk and done really
and said dumb things, but I've never broken into a
police station. That's got to be the ultimate broken into
(01:35:08):
you here people bringing out. I can see why you
might break out, if you could get out, broke into
Also another story that I wasn't able to get to
this week, but I'm gonna get to now. Is that
a redditor or a redditor someone who uses Reddit has
been heartbroken to discover that the perfect woman that he
had met online was actually an AI creation. AI going
(01:35:33):
on to another level now of AI. You know we're
worried about people say it's gonna take over radio. It's
gonna take over uh, you know music, it's gonna take
over Kanye's life. It's gonna take over all the education,
you know, people not doing homework anymore, not learning anything.
But a reditor was heartbroken to discover that this woman
(01:35:54):
named Claudia is actually a I. He said he felt
a bit cheated, a bit cheated that he had been
cybernetically catfished. That's a new word, cybernetically used that today
in a sentence. So he was one of many fans
of Claudia, an alleged Reddit girl who became a fixture
on the platform by sharing glamorous selfies. One riscape pick,
(01:36:15):
which has since been deleted, showed the web girl in
the nude with a caption what do you think about
my body? That may have been the first clue, he said, Claudia,
you're pretty sexy and perfect. Unfortunately, the girl of his
dreams was in fact a deep fake. She'd been created
by two computer science students who concocted the avatar as
(01:36:37):
a goof to see if you can fool people with
AI pictures. They'd reportedly been inspired after encountering a post
from a reditor who claimed to earn five hundred dollars
from catfishing victims online. So there, you gotta be careful
these days on these apps. Man, I don't know that.
I feel like we're trying to get tricked at every turn.
It's you know, you get text messages with talked about
(01:37:00):
that yesterday. That's a scam. Now we got fake AI
women and women. Some women are offended by the fact that, Like,
if you're on the dating apps, I try and get
proof of life pretty quickly. Like I try and get
to the point, can I see an Instagram? Can I,
you know, hold up my famous hold up three picture,
hold up three fingers and the like. And some people
(01:37:21):
are offended. And I hate to say this, but there
are a lot of fake Asian women on these apps too.
I don't know why, but they tend to pick. I
don't know if it's because the pictures are harder to
trace or whatever, but on like Hinge for example, or Bumble,
there tend to be And so if you do match
with certain you know, people of certain ethnicities, and I'm
so I guess I'm a little more cautious. And sometimes
(01:37:41):
these people have been like, you know, what is it
with you guys in the catfishing. It's like because a
lot of these people are not real, and who knows.
Maybe I'm talking to mabe. I maybe I'd be better
off than an AI relationship.
Speaker 2 (01:37:53):
Do you think? No, I need I need the real thing.
Though I need the real thing, you deserve the real thing.
Speaker 4 (01:37:59):
I'd probably to get yelled at by an AI girlfriend though, yeah,
girlfriend be liked.
Speaker 26 (01:38:04):
How do I turn his computer off?
Speaker 2 (01:38:13):
You're not really.
Speaker 4 (01:38:16):
Fred Show, thank you so much for having us on today.
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somebody get ghosted? It's our public service Each game show
Wednesday tomorrow as well, So definitely gonna beat Paulina and
Kiki karaoke tomorrow. Can I keep my own stuff straight?
I'm not sure. Have a great day.
Speaker 2 (01:38:49):
Bye guys, Bye,
You've got to wait.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Wait.
Speaker 3 (00:04):
Fred's show is on How Honest Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (00:11):
A viral video shows a Southwest Airlines pilot telling passengers
that if they continue to air drop nude photos to
each other, he's gonna have to deeplay in the thing,
turn the thing around. I think I may have some
audio on this. Let me see if I here it is.
This is the actual Southwest pilot telling people, this is
the world that we live in. Please stop sending air
dropping nudes of yourself to other passengers on the plane.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
Continues where we're on the ground, I'm.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Gonna have to pull back to the game. Everybody's gonna
have to get off. We're gonna have sparity ball and
it's vacation.
Speaker 6 (00:43):
That's gonna be room.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
So your host, whatever that air drop thing is, let's
send a negga picture.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Let's get yourself to the commo.
Speaker 7 (00:50):
Someone sounds mad that he's not getting he's not part
of the air drop team.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
My air drops are open. It's been brought to my attention,
but nude to make sense to rebel cabin, I'm gonna
need to see those, so I can You're gonna need
to see them.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
I can get you to Cobo a cobo.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
You should get your bikini ready. Actually, Wax send that
over than me.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Ye, can we just get no, No, it's.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Me because I'm Captain Can on the air drop. Thank
you so much. Cross check, I don't know whatever.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Whatever they say, Yeah, they do say that.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Finn attendance, please prepare for a crush check. You gotta
talk like that. You gotta put the micro If you're
a pilot, you got to put the microphone all the
way inside your mouth.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
It's imperative. But this is the world that we live
in now.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
You can't even just sit on the plane and mind
your own Businessess, I'm not trying to send you a nude.
And I don't understand the endgame. You're gonna get caught,
You're gonna get labeled as a creep. It's not worse.
And what do you think it's gonna do you know
someone's sitting there trying to enjoy their you know, ginger
ale or whatever. They're gonna be like, oh wow, that's
a very good looking part. I would love to meet
(02:10):
this man and make love to him. Like, I don't
understand what you think is gonna happen, Like, are they
changing the name of their phone to like their seat number, like.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Be six by the way. Photo by the way.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
All this does is reiterate my point that the airport
is a horny place. It's a horny place. I don't
know why. It's a sexually charged place. You know, it's
you got strangers everywhere. It's like you may never see
these people again. I don't know. I don't know. Jason,
you agree, don't you?
Speaker 8 (02:42):
I think the airport bathroom is a horny place. Okay,
that's that wasn't no? People be looking? Yeah, people be looking. Yeah, No,
that's not what I meant. I meant just to you
know the in open public areas. Look you you know
when you get the stair police bathroom.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
In jail exactly it comes in. So you're Jason, you're up.
You're publicly admitting that you you you get to you
take a peek at other men?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Well then yeah, guess I mean it happens. Yeah whatever, standing.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Isn't that a no?
Speaker 6 (03:19):
No?
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Where you're going where.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
You have to fill it out? I'm moving, I'm moving
my Sometimes people want you to look.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
I wasn't going to Kansas City, but I see that
you're going to Tampa. So I'm going to Tampa.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
So but that's you know what.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
It's funny women have asked me that question before, like
when when men are at the Year and old asked
because I'm a man, they'll be like, do you look
at other men? And the answer is no, and you
don't want to. Generally, you don't want to get caught
looking at somebody else. You're Cubs game, that would be
a more obvious place because there's no divider.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
It's a big drawing wants you to see at a
Cubs game. There to your enirement that people want to.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
You're saying, airport bathroom is a place where Okay, I
didn't know this, I'm learning and there in the bathroom
of Rosco's did you go there? Okay?
Speaker 9 (04:08):
Game?
Speaker 2 (04:09):
But I'm saying there are environments and.
Speaker 10 (04:10):
Situations that the airport is it like some people just
want and how do you okay, as a gay man,
how do you know is there like a look I'm looking?
Speaker 4 (04:22):
But how do you know when that's when it's invited?
Eye contacts?
Speaker 11 (04:27):
Okay, Okay, so there is a consent of some sort
like oh yeah, okay, let me.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Tell you I never looked at any one in the
eye ever, I guess.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
I've got a mail flight.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Like right the guy, the guy in the ramp hold like, yeah, straight, now.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
You're in.
Speaker 11 (04:52):
Okay, you're there, you're the you're gonna see I'm giving.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
You up killing. I want to see what you think
it looks like standing.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Like that. Let me see that a big one, because
such a thing like that.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Because the splash back, you got to lead home.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
I touched them. Yeah, for sure, you lean because I
don't want to say on the floor. I like that.
I'm the least I'm like so far into a touching.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Let me tell you why I'm not because of the
splash back. I'm not fur away exactly. If it winds
up on the floor and then it does peeing all
over the floor in the bathroom five, there's a pie
p in that back.
Speaker 12 (05:39):
Stand up.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
I want to know how this.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
I'm not getting splash back of strangers on my clothes
in your period.
Speaker 11 (05:46):
You're the person that you're going to ask if I
have consent via yeah, yes.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
We're peeing. We're paying hands as soon as your hands free.
Where do you think the p is going? If you're
not if you're not aiming, okay, if you don't have
to hold it.
Speaker 8 (06:01):
You're already inviting me to look.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
You're pointing down. You have to like time it out right,
like the long time. If I'm standing at.
Speaker 13 (06:16):
If you're standing there for a really long time, you're like, okay,
this is a really time you know, to one of these.
And then when you when you make that content and
you like look away, but then they like slow our
eyes went again. Maybe you want me to say yeah,
and then you start pointing, and now it's not ridiculous.
Speaker 7 (06:33):
The only thing killing you're missing. You gotta make some
kind of noise. You gotta make like a.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Thing. You gotta drop your pants all the way that
don't use don't don't use singers you can.
Speaker 11 (06:49):
I do know that you just got bare ass at
the there hangers hooks.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
What do you think I don't use the public restaurants
or it takes too much fluid?
Speaker 12 (07:02):
Yes, I know.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
I don't have a lot of time in the commercial
breaks to completely just robe the way that you're supposed to.
Speaker 7 (07:08):
And then if it's not an automatic flush, you got
to kick your foot.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Up like this.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Oh yeah, that I do do in the women.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
Yeah, I don't want to touch any.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Of that m And then do I shake it off.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Yeah, you shake it to make sure this too, because
how long are you shaking it?
Speaker 14 (07:25):
Like?
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Maybe you know this just to me?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Are you sure about this or is this just your
sexy dream?
Speaker 4 (07:31):
I don't I know about this.
Speaker 8 (07:32):
Airport is a gateway for it was my first leg perience,
you know something like that.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
No, not an airport, somewhere else. Stop. Yeah, in the bathroom, so.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Your first gigs. And someone was like, yes, look at me.
Speaker 14 (07:48):
Now that you are.
Speaker 15 (07:51):
You know what?
Speaker 2 (07:52):
That looks an awful like a decent explosion. It looks
like it's the Fresh show. This is what's trending a woman.
This is for you, Kalin.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
A woman warns both close and estranged friends not to
invite her to weddings or baby showers if they aren't
regularly inviting her to movie night's, coffee runs or lunch dates.
She thinks an invitation is just for the sake of
receiving a gift. In a TikTok, the woman said, don't
invite me to baby showers, weddings, house swarming parties. If
(08:21):
you don't invite me to other stuff movie nights, girls'
night out, dinner, coffee dates to lunch, it's extremely offensive
to pressure somebody into spending money on life milestones without
including them in your life's professions. Oh that is period,
it's what she said. Other people commented that they are
sick of people desiring their presence only at important events
(08:43):
that command the price he present. One person said, funny
how I only get invited when my presence requires that
I bring a gift. Another said I couldn't have said
this better. I feel this so deeply on many levels.
Another praised people, saying, preach love this. Yes, a lot
of people, I guess can relate to the idea that
(09:05):
out of nowhere you get an invitation in the mail
from somebody who I don't even know if they really
think you're going to show up or not, but but
they know that once you've gotten the invitation, that you're
going to feel some obligation to send something at least
right yep, But I want to know how to eight
five five five one three five you get text the
same number. By the way, how do you treat that
(09:25):
that random invitation? Because I've gotten invited in more than
one thing before that included it was like an email invitation,
or even if it was a written invitation, and then
it included like some form of link you know to
to Here's how you can donate to our honey fund.
Here's here's an easy way for you to send a present.
And I haven't heard from this person in years, so
I'm like, you don't you don't care one way or
(09:47):
another if I actually show up, I don't think right,
but you definitely want to get something out of me.
I feel this, But how do you treat how do you?
I mean, are the people as offended?
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Are they?
Speaker 4 (09:58):
Or are you guys as I'm enthusiastic about the idea
of like forget about it. If I don't see you regularly,
then I'm not going or is it like no, I'll
just I'll acknowledge I once knew this person, so I'll
acknowledge their special occasion.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
For me.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
I don't like, I love a party. I don't mind.
Speaker 7 (10:18):
Like it doesn't bother me that I if I really
don't talk to somebody in whatever, like on a normal basis,
and they invite me to their wedding or a house
arding party, I'm going to bring a gift and have
a good time. Like that doesn't it really doesn't bother me?
Like especially if like I invited them to our like
they were at my wedding and I was at their wedding,
so we do have history.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
Like I actually feel sometimes.
Speaker 7 (10:43):
I get more mad if I don't get an invite
to Like if I had history with somebody in the
past and we're really not that close but they're getting
married and I kind of don't get an invite to that,
I'm like, Damn, that's kind of like, like yes, like
like I knew you when you guys were together, and yeah,
like life changes, people drift apart, But like to not
(11:03):
get an invite to your wedding just because we're not
currently friends right now, that's kind of rude to me.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Damn. I have that issue too. I don't know.
Speaker 15 (11:11):
I think I'm supposed to be invited everywhere, Like I
feel like if I knew you in high school and
we were friends, I see you getting married, or you
haven't birthday party for kids yet.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
I know.
Speaker 15 (11:21):
I just feel like, like, dang, I thought we were
like I would invite you to my stuff and I
still do. Like if I have a big birthday party,
I literally just invite everybody on my Facebook list.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
I don't care, like I just.
Speaker 15 (11:31):
Love like every like I'm coming to people's stuff. I
feel like we can have a good time, but I
do get offended when I'm.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Like, dang, I thought we were cooler.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Yeah, yeah, you know you got I'm kind of relieved
if I don't get invited. It's just that means I
don't have to do it. But I guess at the
same time, sometimes I'll see people get married, oh, and
I'll be like that person got invited.
Speaker 14 (11:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
I'll be like, yes, wait minute, what why them?
Speaker 4 (11:55):
And you know what I mean, Like there was a
wedding not that long ago that involved people that we know,
and I was like, how huh, yes, like those guys
are there, but but I didn't get invited. But and
it was a I'm trust me. I didn't want to go,
so it didn't matter. But at the same time, I
was still like, what we have.
Speaker 7 (12:14):
Right, like wai, like they invite wasn't even there like
for me to say no.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
You know, yeah, like give me the chance to say hell, no, hey,
so figure good morning, Hi, good morning. Hey. Does it
bother you if out of nowhere you get an invitation
to something or do you interpret that as this person
just wants more gifts.
Speaker 16 (12:35):
It's that they want. They just want gifts because they
don't invite you to one thing, but then they want
to invite you to the rest. So I kind of
feel like, oh, like you said, don't.
Speaker 17 (12:46):
Buy people, you know, and.
Speaker 16 (12:47):
Then they won't invite you, but then something big do
invite you because that want they want that good GISs.
Speaker 12 (12:54):
Yeah again, I mean.
Speaker 9 (12:58):
I just feel like, if you can invite me to
a baby shower and then I'm not going to get
to your baby, that just doesn't mean Yeah, I know.
Speaker 4 (13:07):
Yeah, that's true, and that makes sense. And I agree,
like if if I don't see you in other stuff
and then I get this random invitation for the special occasion,
then I guess I'm going to assume it's a gift crab.
Speaker 11 (13:19):
But what if you mean I have a big impact
on someone's life and you just didn't know, Well.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
That could be, or if we don't live in the
same town. I mean, you know, I'm not expecting to
get phone calls from people who eat I can't you
know what I mean, Like they might check in with me,
but I'm not expecting to get invited in you know,
Friday night, Bengo night or game night or whatever your
house when you live in Atlanta. You know what I'm saying, Like,
I don't so if someone got married like that, then
I would expect to.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
I mean, I just I guess it's case by case.
Speaker 15 (13:46):
It's tough though, because you're kind of offended if you
don't get invited. Okay, you know the person, but then
you're kind of offended if I do invite you, because you
think I just want to.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Yeah, No, it's true. Yeah, it's true, Sophia. Thank you.
Have a good day.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
I have a good Yeah, as long as I can
send a gift. Actually for me, if I can send
a gift in and get out of physical appearance, then
I'm fine with that.
Speaker 2 (14:07):
So I'm actually the opposite.
Speaker 16 (14:09):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (14:09):
But I can remember in my in my mid to
late twenties, early thirties, it was like then, this is
why I say this topic is for you, Kitalin, because
I know last year, a couple of years was this
way for you. But it was like this just just
onslaught was it was all these weddings and all these
bachelor parties and all these baby showers, and it's just
constant stuff. And I'm like, I don't know you barely.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Hey, Cam, all right, good morning.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
I can good morning. This woman went viral on TikTok
because she's like, look, if you don't invite me to
regular stuff, like regular like lunch and coffee and whatever,
then then don't send me an invitation to baby showers,
weddings or house rumming parties, because why would I go.
I barely know you. I know why because you want
a gift, right.
Speaker 18 (14:49):
I've been feeling that way probably the past year or two.
I feel like I don't see my friends on the regular,
but I'm getting these invites to baby showers in particular,
and I show up and I am a great baby
shower gift giver, like I go at all out two
themes of everything.
Speaker 12 (15:08):
And then from there, like.
Speaker 18 (15:10):
I don't meet the baby.
Speaker 19 (15:12):
It takes like a year to two years to meet the.
Speaker 18 (15:15):
Actual baby, and it's like so depressing because I don't
even see you. Yeah, so I agree. I mean, I
don't know. People have different things going on with their lives,
but I feel like you need to make time for
the people who.
Speaker 17 (15:29):
Show up for you.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
So I agree. I agree, Thank you, cam have a
good day. Of course you do.
Speaker 4 (15:36):
But that's my thing, is like I don't That's why
the older I get and and sort of the tighter
my circle gets, the easier I think it would be
for me if I ever got married, if it were
up to me just to go elope, because the problem
is once you get outside like your immediate like you
guys are family, my family, and then I have like
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two or three really close friends. I'm talking about fewer
than twenty people who really really matter to me on
a daily basis. Not that the people, then there's a
circle outside of that. They still matter, there's a circle
outside of that. But I can think of like five
or six circles deep of people that it's a slippery
slope who would expect to be invited or would be
offended if they weren't invited to something some milestone in
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my life, you know what I mean. So it can
get out of hand quickly to where we go from
twenty to like two hundred, because if I'm going to
invite this person, then I got to invite that person,
that person, and that person. So for me at this
point in my life, I would just like to slip
off and then just do it, and then that way
no one's offended because nobody was there, you know what
I mean, because I don't want to have to play
this game where like you know this mentor of mine, Well,
(16:40):
I thought we were closer and people get their feelings
certain they would have won. This is the opposite of this.
This is somebody who would have wanted to go, and
I don't want any gifts, so I don't care about that.
Oh I'm gonna be so offended if I'm not their friend. Yeah,
but like, don't send me. I don't need you to
send me a toaster. You know what I'm saying, Like,
I don't need you to send me a I'm like,
I'm I China.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (17:00):
I don't know, like I'm It's not about the presence
at that point. It's about the only people who are
getting invited to my wedding at this point in my
life are people I actually would want to be present.
And I'm having it on Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
But if you want to Lobe, I think you should
have Lope on Christmas Day.
Speaker 4 (17:18):
Hey Kylie, Hey, Hi morning, Kyle. I have felt this
way before too, but go ahead please.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 20 (17:27):
So we got a wedding invite for someone that we
weren't very close with, like you know, hung out with,
We don't even know how they had our new address,
to be honest, And it was like a week before
the wedding and it was like RCP immediately they're barely
feeless exactly.
Speaker 4 (17:44):
They had leftover, they had already committed to a certain
number of people. They got the first round of of
you know, acceptances RSVPs or whatever, and then you were
on the second tier.
Speaker 21 (17:57):
Yep, yep.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
And that means they didn't really care if you were
there or not. But you definitely are there to write
a check. That's what that means. One hundred percent yep.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (18:08):
And I'm still going to drink all that alcohol for free.
I'm telling you that.
Speaker 4 (18:12):
But it's not free because you got to show up
with you know, one hundred bucks a person or what.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
It is not free in the fact.
Speaker 20 (18:16):
No, we didn't even respond one way or not.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
Yeah, I'm not doing it. Thank you, Covin.
Speaker 1 (18:22):
Let's tech.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
You had a good day. No, this happened to me,
I don't. You weren't on the show yet.
Speaker 4 (18:25):
This happened to me a couple of years ago where
a girl that I went to college with called me
a week before her sister's wedding and was She's the
maid of honor in this wedding. There's a big occasion
in her family, and she's like, hey, will you be
my date? Oh? And I'm like, hell no. I didn't
say hell no to her. I politely declined because I
had a conflict, which I did. But you're inviting me
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seven days before. She's never been married before, so this
is the sister's first wedding too. So you're inviting me
to the biggest occasion in your family history, modern history,
seven days before somebody mailed on you.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
There's no way another plan.
Speaker 7 (19:05):
As the maid of honor, you're doing a lot of things.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
Don't tell me that you didn't have any concept of
a date.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
So what's the timeframe? Hanky? Fine advance? Do I need
to invite you on the next day?
Speaker 4 (19:18):
Like, Hank, you can't defend this. Seven days is not
seven days for me. It was in a different state,
by the way. Okay, Well, so she thought not only
did I fight it, and I like this girl, I
thought it was a little I thought it was a
little arrogant. I thought it was a little arrogant to say,
(19:38):
hey it was it was like a Sunday. Literally, It's like, hey, Saturday,
my sister's getting married in this other place.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Uh, will you be my date?
Speaker 4 (19:46):
I'm like, I don't you had you were going to
bring another guy, and you decided at the last minute
that I was a better option, which, of course I
was for it.
Speaker 15 (19:55):
I invite big timis of an hour before we go.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
Again.
Speaker 4 (19:58):
It's not your wedding, but it's not your sister's wedding.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
Oh come on, I don't think she's arrogant.
Speaker 4 (20:06):
Yes, arrogant, because I don't think she I don't think
she expected me to say no.
Speaker 7 (20:12):
You should be a lot of somebody. You should be
happy you made the list. You know what I'm saying, Like,
who do I want to buy?
Speaker 4 (20:18):
This?
Speaker 2 (20:18):
Word?
Speaker 14 (20:18):
Like?
Speaker 21 (20:20):
Is a good time?
Speaker 2 (20:21):
Maybe we'll smash later, let's go. You said you probably
would have thought of that.
Speaker 4 (20:25):
Maybe I don't know, say when she got engaged, or
maybe I don't know a month or two ahead of
time you might have thought. I mean, you're assuming I
got an outfit that fits. You're assuming. Let me ask
you a question that express the day of I shouldn't
have to. Oh my, let me ask you guys this.
I'm gonna ask you guys this, and then I'm gonna
wrap it up. If we're Shelley here, we're Shelley. Hold
(20:48):
on this time, push.
Speaker 14 (20:53):
Hold on, I.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Can't, I gotta put again.
Speaker 4 (20:57):
Okay, here's my question to you, guys, and I already
know the answer. This is rhetorical. If I came in here,
you know, my sister got married two years ago. If
I came in here and said, it's a Monday and
the wedding is a Saturday, and I came in here
and said, guys, I just invited uh someone to my
sister's wedding, which is on Saturday in Arizona, you guys
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would say that is so rude. No. No, she has
no time. She has no time to get to figure
out how to get there. She has no time to
get an out of their she has your year clause.
You're expecting that you could ask someone to a major
family my also in six days in advance. That is rude.
(21:39):
Miss rid You guys, I'm sorry, but I stand by this.
I'm one ercent right.
Speaker 7 (21:44):
I would ask I want to ask how many I
want to ask how many people did you ask before hers?
Speaker 4 (21:50):
No, she absolutely had another date and decided not to
take him into the last minute, which means that was
not her first choice.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
Who cares that?
Speaker 2 (21:57):
Okay, you no choice? You were leads. I was the
last choice. I was be team that best.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
You guys weren't dating.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
It's okay.
Speaker 4 (22:05):
I think I thought it was rude. I didn't like
it was rude. I like, I didn't go thank you, Shelly.
Don't tell me, Shelley, do not tell me. You wouldn't
be like, well.
Speaker 1 (22:19):
Okay, take that aside. Do you like this girl? Like
you said you liked it?
Speaker 22 (22:23):
Right?
Speaker 1 (22:23):
She seems like a good person.
Speaker 14 (22:25):
I thought.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
I held her to hire regard.
Speaker 4 (22:32):
I don't think it would be cool for me to
do this to somebody else, So I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
I wouldn't. I don't think it would be cool.
Speaker 11 (22:38):
Maybe who knows what kind of bind she got caught in,
but she wanted you there.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
I don't know somebody else that you're much into this.
Speaker 7 (22:48):
She invited you to a wedding, So what if it
was seven days out?
Speaker 2 (22:52):
She invited you. That's it because the other guy who
she invited five days ahead of time?
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Assumption?
Speaker 18 (23:00):
Right?
Speaker 2 (23:01):
Who knows?
Speaker 1 (23:02):
Can we talk about poop again? I don't want to
know about weddings anymore.
Speaker 4 (23:07):
Yeah, I love that we've had a number of days
of conversation worth of Well, Shelley, you have stomach issues.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
I know that I have the opposite problem.
Speaker 11 (23:15):
I always say I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
You know that's all right, all right, showdown. I love
you guys. But I'm one percent right here, and I'm not.
I'm not always one hundred percent right. Sometimes I'll sell
my I'll sell the idea like I really believe in it,
but I don't today I'm right.
Speaker 11 (23:32):
So this sample group means nothing to you saying my
question is question.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
Because our text is blowing up with people agreeing with me,
it's over.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
Well did you know you would probably know?
Speaker 7 (23:42):
Did you ever follow up after the wedding like hey,
you want to hang out?
Speaker 2 (23:46):
Like? Hey, you know?
Speaker 4 (23:47):
No?
Speaker 2 (23:47):
But I never heard from her either, So I was
that important?
Speaker 1 (23:50):
That so apparent she was like, oh no, this she.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
Did that to herself. I didn't do that. I do
you is all of a sudden a phone call?
Speaker 4 (24:04):
Can you come to the biggest occasion in my family's history.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Maybe you know her, Maybe she doesn't care about weddings.
Maybe it wasn't right.
Speaker 15 (24:12):
Maybe they got closer to the day found out that
you can't bring a date. You know what?
Speaker 8 (24:16):
Right?
Speaker 2 (24:16):
And then, oh, you know what, let me call friend.
Of course she knew the rules. You guys all people
I know, But friend, I can't ride with you on this.
I love a party, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
Care if I'm I'm going, I'm drinking. I don't like
a party and I just.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
Entertainment. Report is on the Fred Show.
Speaker 11 (24:43):
Former Bachelorette star Katie Thurston sadly took to Instagram to
share that she was raped. She wrote, it took seven
months for the San Diego justice system to let me
down as a victim. The justice justice system continues to
let down victims every day. I refuse to feel defeated
and the strength it took to be an advocate for myself.
And she basically shared all this because she wanted to
(25:04):
help others if they were feeling alone, to find the
support they may need. She's not ready to share her story,
she says, but she wants to share some valuable resources
that saved her life.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
You can go on her Instagram and check those out.
Speaker 11 (25:15):
But she did think nurses other advocates before specifically sharing
how she feels like she was let down, and basically
said she had so many things text calls, photos, videos,
witnesses locations, timestamps, surveillance footage. I mean, she felt like
she did everything she was supposed to do as a victim,
but over and over again she was told the same thing.
(25:37):
A guilty verdict is hard in criminal court. So she
eventually things came to a halt. But she started in
season seventeen of The Bachelorette got engaged to Blake Moyin's.
They ended up getting engaged in the season finale, but
broke up in October of twenty twenty one.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
I just checked her Instagram.
Speaker 11 (25:53):
It seems like she's doing stand up now and I
think she's dating another comedian on there.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
But check that out if you want to see any
of that.
Speaker 11 (25:59):
Kendricks June teenth pop out concert continues to have a
really positive ripple effects on LA, bringing in two hundred
thousand dollars for twenty LA based charities and city community
initiatives like the Compton Girls Club.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
If you missed it somehow, if you're.
Speaker 11 (26:14):
Living under a rock, it you know, brought out some
of LA's biggest names. Dre Tyler, the creator ty Dallas sign.
Yeah he laughed, but he was mentioned. Yeah he was
mentioned again.
Speaker 1 (26:27):
Mustard. I mean, there were a Ton. Wasn't Lebron there?
Speaker 2 (26:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (26:31):
And uh Russell Russell Westbrook was there.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
Yeah, Lebron was there.
Speaker 7 (26:35):
No, but Demarto Rosen who's also from Compton.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
I don't know why I thought, you know, okay, he wasn't.
Maybe because I have a story about him in a
couple of stories.
Speaker 11 (26:43):
But Audrina Patridge is dating country singer Michael Ray. The
Hell's alum, shared a photo of her or on her
rather Instagram story. She was being held up by him,
had her legs wrapped around him, smooching.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
She kept in the photo this one. Oh, okay, I
don't know.
Speaker 4 (27:01):
I don't know if this is a right Michael Ray.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
Yeah, I mean there's only one Michael Ray.
Speaker 11 (27:07):
He's just a random country singer. It's cute, but I
don't know, yeah, yeha. Audrina obviously dated Hill's co star
Justin Bobby Ryan Cabrera she dated, so she's like the
queen of the early two thousands. She was married to
a dude named Corey for two years, has a daughter
with him.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
And then Michael Ray was married to Carly Pearce.
Speaker 11 (27:29):
Oh and if you listen to Miss Carly's music, you
know that she doesn't fail too clean about Michael Ray.
She filed just eight months after they were married, so
some went down. But yeah, they're cute couple. They're both
really hot. Lebron James, this is why he was on
the mine. He opted out of the final year of
his contract with the Lakers, expected to re sign with
the team.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
I think we thought this was happening.
Speaker 11 (27:51):
This is just confirmation he would have made fifty one
point four million this season if he opted in. His agent,
Rich Paul said that Lebron could take a pay cut
to help the Lakers sign another impact player. Rich that
he's hoping to have a deal in place before Lebron
it leaves for training camp later this week for the
Paris Olympics.
Speaker 7 (28:09):
Yeah, he better hurry because dudes are signing everywhere left
and right.
Speaker 4 (28:13):
Like Paul George is on the Sixers.
Speaker 7 (28:15):
Now I saw that, like all the big names, like
you think you get Chris Paul is in the Spurs. Yeah, Russell, No,
James Harden is staying with the Clippers. So you better
you better act fast, because there ain't gonna be no
nobody left to join you, Lebron.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
Who else would there be?
Speaker 11 (28:28):
Yeah, he doesn't strike me as someone that would take
a pay cut Lebron.
Speaker 23 (28:31):
Yeah, I mean it's gotta be some kind of deal, like, hey,
draft my son.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
I'll take Oh my god, we're still Yeah. Maybe it's
like there's a lot of right, there's.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
A lot of behind the scenes.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
Yeah, oh my okay, Well that's on your sports report.
Speaker 11 (28:49):
Catch up on everything you missed from the Fred Jhoe
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Speaker 2 (28:53):
I don't know if.
Speaker 4 (28:53):
It's just me, but I feel like I have my
disproportionate amount of stories I think gives me. I think
it's because I'm way too I'm inquisitive to my own peril.
Like I ask questions I don't want the answer to
because it's I think it's wired in my brain. It's
(29:14):
who I have become. It's who I am. A curious person,
you know, and I make money. People call up here
and I talk to them, and if there's a you know,
if there's a little string, I pull on it see
what I can get. And I feel like you do
the same thing in my relationships, which is why occasionally
I'm considered inappropriate and a little invasive and interesting because
(29:34):
I just I'll just ask, I'll ask questions and I'll
you know, if you give me an inch, I'll try
and take a mouth see what I can find out
about you. I'm a very curious person, and so I
find out from this woman. I don't even know how
it came up. I think she was like, yeah, I
have a Delta buddy pass, which you And there's a
couple of different ways I guess that terminology could work.
(29:55):
Either you have a pass an individual pass given to
you by an employee, which means you can fly stand
by in this case, though she's listed as somebody's domestic partner,
this woman, so she gets a good one. Yeah, that's
the golden one. Yeah, that's the one where you know
you don't need an individual pat You show up and
it's almost you're the same as the employee the way
that I understand it, or the way you can list
(30:15):
yourself on flights to fly, because it's a privilege that
you would get if you were married to somebody who
works for the airline.
Speaker 11 (30:20):
Because I've gotten buddy passes because my friend's mom works
for Delta, but they they're not as good as they
seem to be.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
But that's like the best one you can get.
Speaker 4 (30:28):
Yeah, And I think you still run into the same
issues where you might get stranded, but nonetheless, you know
it's unlimited from the way I understand it, at least,
and I'm sure people are like, well, no, whatever, it
doesn't anyway. So this and apparently this has been going
on for like ten years, she's been on this guy
or a long time, she's been on this guy's buddy list.
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Has she been named his domestic partner for a long time.
I'm like, dude, like, you're sleeping with this guy obviously,
right because and here I am trying to talk to her,
but it's like this, dude, he's he still got you
on his benefits. And she's like, well, my ex thought
the same thing. But this is all I'm going to say. Nothing,
nothing's happening anymore. So at one point she slept with
(31:12):
this guy, yes, and for through multiple other boyfriends and
the amount of time he still hasn't removed her as
his domestic partner. So she must have some bomb dignity, yes,
I mean, and but why would you do that if
you had no hope of potentially reuniting. I mean, that
would be the if I broke up with somebody, even
(31:33):
if it were friendly. I still don't think that they
would be listed as my domestic partner. Because what happens
when I date somebody else and they're like, why can't
we go anywhere on your past? It's like, well, because
my ex is on it. That wouldn't work. I mean,
can you imagine if I don't know, like if I'm
a pilot, I meet some new woman and I'm like,
(31:54):
I'm into you.
Speaker 2 (31:55):
Yeah, well, my prime, the main.
Speaker 4 (31:57):
Work benefit I have is still devoted to my ex girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
I don't think that would go.
Speaker 1 (32:01):
No, but no, it would not go.
Speaker 4 (32:06):
But he did get me thinking about what, like, what
is there any benefit that you are still receiving from
an ex? And I'm not talking about like, you know,
child support. I mean I'm talking about, like, is there
anything that you're still getting from an ex that you
probably should get for yourself?
Speaker 2 (32:25):
At this point? Is my question? Eight? Five five five
one three five.
Speaker 4 (32:29):
In this case, this woman's flat around the world for
free because of a guy that she may or may
not have once hooked up with, who years later Steele
was giving her this benefit. Why would you do that
if you weren't trying to hang on to something right?
Speaker 1 (32:45):
Yeah, I can't for her?
Speaker 2 (32:46):
When did she say they stopped hooking up. Did she
say that she was not? She was not clear on that. Oh,
no clarity. Huh, she was not clear yesterday.
Speaker 4 (32:57):
I don't know meated people in between, you know. But
my thing is like I don't know if I had
some like free concert ticket benefit here where, like if
you knew me and you could just go to any
venue and get in, that's coming back with me, you.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
Know what I mean, Like we're taking that.
Speaker 4 (33:15):
No, you don't get to keep that after you break
up with me, because I don't want to have to
explain to the next girl. Yeah, And I know you
can only change them every now, and you can't. I
think it's every year. It depends on the airline. I
know you can't just like constantly be updating with new
domestic partners. But I mean, I think it's been long
enough where he could take her off if he wanted to.
(33:38):
Soone's this costco membership, Netflix subscription, nikor bill Oh.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
Yeah text.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
This text says the same thing. You can't constantly change
the domestic partner pass over to someone else. If you do,
the airline will flag it. Right they still hooking up, bro,
So for a certain period of time, I can see
why he wouldn't switch it because he can't. My ex
husband still has me listed it's hiss primary beneficiary in
his will.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
Oh girl, yes.
Speaker 1 (34:09):
You know mine.
Speaker 11 (34:09):
I will have a free lawyer for the rest of
my life.
Speaker 2 (34:17):
High page. How are you?
Speaker 4 (34:20):
I'm great? What benefit are you still receiving from an ex?
Speaker 12 (34:24):
He is still paying for free music ad free music
for me, and I do still have his debit card
saved on my phone in my appay.
Speaker 4 (34:34):
Let me ask you this page if you charge stuff
on it? Would he say anything?
Speaker 12 (34:40):
I don't think he would because he does still try
to get back with me, so I don't think he
would say anything.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
He knows I still have.
Speaker 12 (34:49):
It on my phone, but.
Speaker 2 (34:52):
Huh.
Speaker 12 (34:53):
He still pay for my music every month.
Speaker 4 (34:55):
So yeah, because if I, yeah, if I if your
credit card, if my credit card is on your phone
and I don't want to have some connection to you
or see you ever again, or whatever, then I change
the card so that you can't share.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (35:10):
But I think that this is his way of hoping.
You know, it's like it's still attached in some way.
Speaker 12 (35:15):
Yeah, I mean, I don't use it, but I just
I still have it there well, well, I want to
use it.
Speaker 4 (35:23):
And I'm like, well, because you have no intention to
get back at him because you have integrity and rufo
doesn't he? Thank you have a good day. Yeah, glad
you called. Thank you for listening. Hey Amber, good morning.
Speaker 17 (35:37):
Good morning?
Speaker 4 (35:38):
Hi Amber. What benefit are you still receiving from an ex?
Speaker 2 (35:42):
So my divorce is.
Speaker 12 (35:44):
Just finalized in July and I.
Speaker 18 (35:46):
Still have my phone totally paid for through his company?
Speaker 4 (35:50):
Do you think that does he have any control that way?
Do you think he's doing that on purpose so he
can have access to what you're doing?
Speaker 22 (35:57):
I honestly, that has definitely crossed my mind because he
definitely was that kind of person.
Speaker 17 (36:02):
But I'm taking it.
Speaker 5 (36:04):
Man.
Speaker 17 (36:05):
We've got four kids and I.
Speaker 4 (36:07):
Would stay home on for sixteen years, So switching that
over it's been a slower process.
Speaker 5 (36:12):
For me, and I'm going to take advantage of the fact.
Speaker 1 (36:14):
That it's one less fillas to carry down.
Speaker 4 (36:16):
Good for you, Amber, I'm just I'm paranoid. I would
I would figure somebody was doing that to to check
out who I was texting, or you know what I mean,
you do it against me?
Speaker 2 (36:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (36:26):
Yeah, but it's all good. It's over now, So Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Hamber enjoyed the single life. It's it's it's okay, it's
not bad, thank you, you'll be all right.
Speaker 17 (36:36):
I'm enjoying it.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
Yeah, it's all right, super convincing. I have a great day.
He says, it's a crime. And I don't know how
old she is, but that must be wild. I mean,
can you imagine any more than ten years maybe even final?
What the threshold, let's just say ten Any more than
ten years of having not dated and then now dating.
It's a different world entirely. It's a whole different thing. Yeah,
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it's really not.
Speaker 11 (37:03):
Though it's I was in a seven year relationship and
it seemed so scary, but it's really not. I feel
like people make it sound so bad.
Speaker 2 (37:11):
It's scary. I wouldn't know what to do, like I
wouldn't know the no.
Speaker 11 (37:15):
I have seen you get hit on, and girl, you
know how to flirt back.
Speaker 4 (37:19):
I don't know if it's scary, it's it's just different.
It's really different. Yeah, I learn because you close with
big tis bout.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
You right there? He his way to be a single
meal without me?
Speaker 15 (37:37):
Yeah, man, yeah, I don't know you guys, I mean
Frand talking to Russians.
Speaker 4 (37:41):
It's like, it's I'm still talking to the Russian.
Speaker 2 (37:45):
I think I think she might be legit.
Speaker 4 (37:48):
I'm not sure she was wearing a lion sweatshirt in
one of the pictures that she's because you know, I
made her send the she four fingers, she's from Michigan.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
Supposedly, it's not a scammer. No one would choose that
this Russians.
Speaker 4 (37:59):
From Michigan, apparently, but I made her hold up four fingers,
as you know. And then I had people. I had
people on the text line yesterday telling me, well, you know,
the scammers have like women on the ready to do
whatever you ask him to do. And I'm like, well,
that that makes sense. I can see that. But why
would she wear a lion?
Speaker 2 (38:14):
Switch?
Speaker 1 (38:14):
All the NFL teams that scammers not picking the lions.
Please don't ever believe that.
Speaker 4 (38:19):
Yeah, there you go, unless it was one of those
like donated switch. You know what her sweatshirt said Yon
super bowls him. I know she's not real. Let me
see that sweatshirt Chicago Bears champion.
Speaker 2 (38:40):
Okay, I know this isn't real.
Speaker 1 (38:43):
Where in Michigan does she say she's from?
Speaker 2 (38:45):
Because I think I can help you Detroit.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
Well, ask her to get more specific, and I can
tell you.
Speaker 11 (38:51):
She's trust that you can fit three Chicago's in Detroit.
Speaker 2 (38:56):
Yeah, we'll see. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (38:57):
I think it's maybe I'll like what I'll have a
public meeting with a witness or something, and I'll wave
off the witness if I feel safe. I got you. Yeah, whatever,
she starts cutting down my organs, she'll run more.
Speaker 2 (39:12):
Fread show next.
Speaker 4 (39:14):
My show is on Good morning everybody. Thank you so
much for having us on. It's the Fred Show on
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app anytime live or later on search for the Fred
Show for that. Hello, Calen, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Rufio, Hi,
good morning.
Speaker 2 (39:35):
Do you ever I'm sure I know the answer probably no.
Speaker 4 (39:41):
Do you ever like see something play out in your
mind that could have happened, like a near accident, and
then like almost feel the briefly the feeling of okay,
for example, this is what I'm talking about. So we
got the studio and then there's a studio, or we
go right out there and they got like big long
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table there because you know, we got to have all
the communal space now around here for all the people
who don't come to work, right, you know, make the
studios as small as possible with no natural light, because
we got to conserve as much space as we can
for all the other people who might come to work.
Speaker 2 (40:16):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (40:17):
I haven't seen those people in three years, but they
may come, and when they do, make sure they have
an outside view. It's a natural life anyway. So on
that table, that's where we meet before the show, and
now all of our like coffee, and we leave our
stuff out there or whatever, because we used to bring
all that in here or you know, into the studio
where could spill them, you know, thousands of dollars worth
of equipment. But now we don't do that anymore. So
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I walk out there and Pauline's purse is on one
of the chairs and like one of those hut it's
like a high table you could stand at it correct
and it's purses like white. It's a nice purse and
it's wide open, and my coffee is about three feet
on the table from with purse. And in my mind
it didn't happen. But in my mind, I think, what
if I had just knocked that coffee over and it
just filled her expensive bag, not only ruining everything that's
(41:01):
in the bag, but then the bag itself potentially. Now,
that didn't happen, But for about ten seconds, I'm watching
this play out in my brain and I get the shivers,
you know the kind like where you're like, you know,
like I can't believe that didn't just happen. But I
saw it all play out in my mind and almost
had the reaction as if it did.
Speaker 2 (41:21):
But it didn't.
Speaker 24 (41:22):
Yeah, well, accidents happened, and I understand that, but yes,
would I be upset?
Speaker 4 (41:26):
Yes, well, you don't have to be upset because it
didn't happen. But do you ever do you ever like
see something play out in your mind It didn't happen,
but you think about how it could have happened.
Speaker 24 (41:36):
Car accidents all the time. Like if I almost get
you a car accident, I'm like, oh, this would have happened.
Then I'd be I don't know, the broken shoulder or something,
and then I have to be at the body shop
all the time.
Speaker 4 (41:45):
Well, god forbid you ever get in a car accident.
But if anyone in this room is going to hit
another car, it's you.
Speaker 2 (41:50):
Okay.
Speaker 24 (41:51):
I hate that statement because I have never hit a car.
I'm always getting hit literally rear end it every time.
Speaker 4 (41:56):
That's probably because you're riding on the person's trunk in
front of you.
Speaker 2 (42:01):
We're gonna say, ruvial.
Speaker 7 (42:02):
I was gonna say, in your little scenario in your
mind over there, if in your mind the coffee does
spill and then you do whatever are you telling Paulina
in your mind?
Speaker 2 (42:12):
Are you saying, of.
Speaker 7 (42:12):
Course, you're just gonna I.
Speaker 4 (42:15):
Don't think there's gonna be anything. I don't think there's
anything I could do. I think it's I would have
to own it, you know. But then sometimes what what
concerns me is that you, like, do you think these
things and then you know, to Paulina's point about manifesting them,
like if I think about it and then somehow like
you have this. Have you ever have you ever thought like, man,
I hope I don't trip and fall and spill this,
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and then you wind up tripping and falling and spill
this because you almost willed it to happen.
Speaker 14 (42:39):
Right.
Speaker 2 (42:41):
I don't know why.
Speaker 4 (42:41):
I don't know why this happened to me this morning,
but I just I'm sitting there drinking my coffee, like
what if this just went all over everybody's stuff, and
it's never happened, it's not gonna probably not gonna happen.
But then, like I said, for like ten seconds, I
almost felt the guilt and a shame that it had
that it had occurred.
Speaker 2 (42:56):
The Frend Show is on. It's Stay or go. John
is here. Let's talk to John.
Speaker 14 (43:04):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (43:04):
John, morning, Hey, and good morning John.
Speaker 4 (43:08):
We got your scenario, your situation, We have it here.
You can hit us up any anytime, all over the place.
Fredchowradio dot com, Fredschie Radio on Instagram and the DMS
or whatever.
Speaker 2 (43:20):
So what's going on with you?
Speaker 4 (43:21):
And we're gonna hear you out and then we're gonna
talk about you behind your back.
Speaker 2 (43:24):
Go ahead, please, Okay, Well.
Speaker 25 (43:27):
Thanks for taking my call. I don't know if I'm
just being paranoid about this, but my girlfriend has a
friend that she's really really close with, like you know,
like really almost as close as we are, but maybe
in some ways closer than the two of us are.
And you know, my girlfriend straight she's never had any
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kind of history of of you know, a same sex relationship,
or at least she's never told.
Speaker 4 (43:55):
Me, oh well, we're John all the way, like that close,
like we're going all the way there.
Speaker 2 (44:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 25 (44:02):
Yeah, well, I mean that's why I think it's a
little bizarre. But I'm wondering if their relationship is a
normal friendship between two women or if it's like something
more than that.
Speaker 14 (44:17):
I don't know.
Speaker 25 (44:18):
They yeah, they hang out all the time. Like if
she's not with me, she's with her, and they have sleepovers.
They're very affectionate and like she sent me you know,
video FaceTime her when they're having their sleepovers and they're
like they're not and she's not in a guest room,
they're in the same bed. And sometimes they you know,
(44:41):
the kiss to say hi and by not on the cheek,
on the lips and if they're yeah, okay.
Speaker 4 (44:59):
All right, yeah what else? What other evidence you have here?
We need the whole story.
Speaker 25 (45:03):
I mean, yeah, yeah, Well, if they're hanging out, they'll
sort of kind of cuddle or pickle each other's backs.
Speaker 2 (45:12):
It's like really cute little qut stuff.
Speaker 25 (45:15):
Yeah, they play with each other. Hey, I've seen that
we've been together before and watching a movie and she'll
be you know, playing.
Speaker 5 (45:24):
With her hair.
Speaker 25 (45:24):
They don't even they don't go to the bathroom without
each other they're doing.
Speaker 4 (45:28):
Well that that's not uncommon. The bathroom thing is, I
don't understand that. I mean, I understand the social aspect
of it, but like I don't. I'm not like, rufi,
let's go to the bathroom, pe next to each other, like.
Speaker 2 (45:42):
You're already You're already in the bathroom. Yeah, he always
falls me in. It's weird. This isn't a this.
Speaker 25 (45:49):
Isn't a public restaurant talking about let me clarify that.
Speaker 2 (45:51):
Oh wait a minute, and yeah, like yeah, that's what h.
Speaker 4 (46:03):
Is.
Speaker 2 (46:03):
You're upset that you're not being included.
Speaker 4 (46:05):
Is that right?
Speaker 26 (46:05):
I think you the side piece, homie, I've got a girlfriend, Yes,
do you actually like, does your gut tell you that
there's a physical dynamic between the two of them?
Speaker 25 (46:18):
Sometimes yes and other times no. And I would say
sixty percent of the time no, but than forty percent
of time.
Speaker 4 (46:24):
Yet, would you consider that cheating if there were, if
those two were getting it on, I don't know.
Speaker 25 (46:30):
That's I mean, yeah, yeah, I think so, because if
it's not, if it was something that was communicated to
me and I was like on the word, then yeah,
of course. But if it's not like something that she's
upfront with and it seems like it's being kept from me,
which if it's not one, that's the other.
Speaker 4 (46:50):
Obviously, you know it has to be if they if
they were straightforward with you. Let's say it is a
physical relationship. Let's say it's a romantic relationship, were dabbles
in that regard? Would you allow her to have that
parallel to you? Would you allow her to have that
with you? I mean, what do you do if you
find out that this is in fact inappropriate.
Speaker 25 (47:10):
I think that if if it were and I was
like allowed to be a part of it, I think I'd.
Speaker 2 (47:15):
Be a.
Speaker 1 (47:18):
Right, right, I don't know, I mean I do know.
Speaker 11 (47:21):
Like sometimes like Fred will talk about how like male
female like traditional friendships. I guess you know, if this
doesn't include you, please don't at me, but like are
pretty different, Like you will be like, oh, you know,
you sleep in the same bed as your girlfriend sometimes
like I would never do that, or go into the
bathroom like you and probably never do that, or like
getting ready in the same room while someone's like showering.
Guys would probably not do that. But if there's a
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ton of girls getting ready, it's not that odd.
Speaker 4 (47:45):
So I have to but if it feels like this
is targeted towards one particular person, I mean, I guess
if she was this way with a bunch of people,
maybe you know, but like I mean, you're talking about
sleepovers in the same bed with one woman. You're talking
about kissing on her lips with one woman. You're talking
about you know, the old tickle trick.
Speaker 2 (48:08):
It is your friend?
Speaker 4 (48:09):
Is she straight?
Speaker 2 (48:09):
You're the friend the girl the other girl? Uh I know?
Speaker 7 (48:15):
Okay, huh So maybe they're maybe just you're just missing
the signs man.
Speaker 4 (48:18):
Maybe they're trying to invite you any you're just not
jumping on.
Speaker 2 (48:25):
My friends.
Speaker 1 (48:26):
Breathed my hair, I braided Paulina's here the other day.
That would be playing with her hair.
Speaker 7 (48:29):
That was lobby right there sitting on the camera.
Speaker 2 (48:37):
Was not only fans.
Speaker 4 (48:39):
Yes, wow, Okay, so your gut tells you maybe, but
you want transparency and you want communication. But it's also
very well possible that this is just a close friendship
and it has nothing to do with with sex at all.
But okay, the friend, does the friendship itself threaten you?
Speaker 25 (49:00):
No, no, because we have a great relationship. But if
if they were, if there was something that was lacking
in a relationship that she was looking.
Speaker 2 (49:07):
For somewhere else.
Speaker 25 (49:08):
And also she's been like this like with her from
what she tells me, like her entire life.
Speaker 4 (49:15):
So have you asked her about this? Have you said, hey, look,
you know you guys seem awfully close, Like is there
anything more going on there?
Speaker 14 (49:21):
Yeah?
Speaker 25 (49:21):
Yeah, calling a radio station is not my first option.
Speaker 2 (49:25):
Oh it's not.
Speaker 4 (49:27):
I mean we're not licensed at all. Now I am offended.
So what does she say? You're crazy? You know, that's silly.
We're just we're just friends.
Speaker 14 (49:36):
Yeah, she just kind of like laughed it off.
Speaker 25 (49:38):
She didn't come me crazy or anything, but she just
like lass it off and you're being silly, and you know.
Speaker 4 (49:43):
Huh okay, all right, let me take some phone calls
on this. Eight five five five three five. Maybe there's
nothing to this man. Maybe it's maybe they're just they're
just close, right, I mean, if she wanted to be
with her, she'd probably be with her.
Speaker 2 (49:59):
I feel like you, no, if they were like getting
it on, getting it on, maybe not.
Speaker 7 (50:03):
And if it's not affecting your guys relationship, what's the issue,
you know what I'm saying, Like, if you and your
girlfriend are perfectly fine whatever in the bedroom and everywhere else.
Speaker 4 (50:13):
And I don't understand the issue. If she has a
really close.
Speaker 2 (50:15):
Girlfriend, yeah, I guess you're spending a lot of time together.
Speaker 1 (50:29):
Would you be okay?
Speaker 15 (50:29):
If Jess was having sleepovers at her age, Yes, with
her female Yes, I'm going to sleep at Kaylen's house.
Speaker 4 (50:35):
Yeah, that's perfectly fine. Okay, Hey, John, let me take
some calls. Have a good day, man, good luck, and
have the radio one. We're gonna talk about you right now.
Behind your back, you can't say okay, okay, good thank
you bye, have a good day. A text eight five
five five three five. These girls have serious codependency issues,
whether they went through a trauma together or neither of
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them have been in a serious relationship before, so they'd
never had someone come before their friendship. I suppose that
could be true.
Speaker 11 (51:05):
I have some friendships like that, Like we're codependent on
each other for sure.
Speaker 4 (51:08):
And I guess if you, if you're relying on your
friend for a lot of the things that you should
be relying on your boyfriend for, then that's the problem.
I mean, if she, if she you know, confides in
I mean, it's almost the non sexual stuff that would
worry me more, Like do you confide in her when
you should be confiding in me? Do you do you
go to her when you're, you know, sad or feeling
a certain kind of way for comfort when you should
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come to me, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (51:32):
Like that that would worry me more.
Speaker 4 (51:34):
I think I agree with that. That just some kind
of weird physical relationship. Hey, Lauren, Hello, And I call
it weird because it would be weird if you have
a boyfriend and then you and then you have this
sort of secret other physical thing.
Speaker 2 (51:48):
Well, what do you think, Lauren?
Speaker 5 (51:50):
I mean I think that she should say. I think
that it's fine. I have a similar situation, except my
trend is a gay man. Actually, and we I mean,
we've been friends for more time than we've not been friends,
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and it's.
Speaker 12 (52:12):
Very much.
Speaker 5 (52:15):
It's just a romantic friendship.
Speaker 12 (52:17):
Like there's nothing.
Speaker 5 (52:18):
Sexual about it.
Speaker 4 (52:19):
It's just a romantic friends. You mean it's just a
platonic friendship.
Speaker 5 (52:25):
I mean, it's platonic, but it has an element of
romance being romantic.
Speaker 4 (52:32):
Okay, So you would ask he would be great if
he liked what you have basically.
Speaker 5 (52:38):
I mean, I don't I don't even know if that
would necessarily change things between the two of us. We
just have a great affection for each other, don't love
for each other.
Speaker 4 (52:49):
And I'm sorry if you mentioned this, but you have
a boyfriend, I mean, could you have a relationship concurrent?
Speaker 14 (52:55):
I do?
Speaker 2 (52:56):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (52:57):
Is he threatened by this at all? No, because it
sounds like you would choose to be with your friend.
Speaker 9 (53:05):
I would not.
Speaker 5 (53:06):
Choose to be I mean I would not. You're not,
it's not We're not compatible in that way.
Speaker 2 (53:12):
But it's got Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (53:15):
If I did it a woman and she said she
had a romantic relationship with another man, that would I would.
You're supposed to have a romantic relationship with me, and
that's I mean, I would think that it's exclusive unless
it's unless it's not.
Speaker 11 (53:26):
Do you just mean like affectionate, because that's probably a
better word than romantic.
Speaker 19 (53:31):
I mean it is.
Speaker 16 (53:33):
We do have great affection for each Yeah.
Speaker 19 (53:35):
Absolutely, we do everything together. We've gone and we've gone
to the bathroom together, we.
Speaker 4 (53:41):
Slept in the same bed with each other.
Speaker 16 (53:43):
It's not.
Speaker 4 (53:45):
What about they went to the bathroom, bathroom.
Speaker 2 (53:49):
In the back room. Okay, I got it to the
bathroom yeah.
Speaker 1 (53:53):
I have gay friends like that too.
Speaker 4 (53:55):
Yeah, all right, Well, hey, look if it works for you,
if you if this friendship can can work concurrently with
the relationship you're in, and if he's not feeling jealous
about it, then I guess there are boundaries.
Speaker 2 (54:05):
And I suppose it's okay.
Speaker 5 (54:08):
I'm just saying there doesn't necessarily have to be a
sexual aspect to it.
Speaker 1 (54:13):
Yeah, that's a friendship.
Speaker 4 (54:16):
But but that's that's interesting because just because you don't
have sex, to my point earlier, doesn't mean this isn't threatening.
Doesn't mean that I shouldn't be concerned about, you know,
emotional boundaries just just because you're not, I mean, because
you could you could just be having sex with someone
and that could be considered cheating depending on your definition
and and and and the terms of your relationship.
Speaker 2 (54:36):
But but have a very.
Speaker 4 (54:37):
Sound, communicative, you know, emotional relationship with me. Sometimes people
I think think about cheating only as it pertains to
physical interaction. But if you if you connect with another
human better than you connect with me, that's going to
eventually get in the way of what we're trying to do.
Speaker 1 (54:56):
No, it's not better. I think it's just different.
Speaker 24 (54:58):
Like I go to like Jonathan and Jason alive and
they're they're males, obviously, right, but like there's nothing, absolutely
nothing sexual about it is and will not allow right.
Speaker 4 (55:07):
Well, but what I'm saying is it sounds like she
relies on her friend or like like the connection with
her friend is stronger than the connection with her boyfriend.
And I guess that it's not. You're saying, I'm very
confused about the terms of this relationship.
Speaker 2 (55:21):
I think so.
Speaker 5 (55:23):
I mean, I definitely have a very deep emotional connection
with my boyfriend and.
Speaker 22 (55:27):
A very romantic relationship with him too.
Speaker 5 (55:30):
It's not like I rely on my best friends to
that aspect of the relationship, just in addition to I
have the other very.
Speaker 14 (55:39):
Close person that I have in my life.
Speaker 2 (55:41):
Okay, fair enough, thank you, Lauren, have a good day.
Speaker 5 (55:44):
Thank you you too.
Speaker 4 (55:45):
I don't know that you can unless you're in an
open relationship. I'm not sure that I would be comfortable
with someone describing more than one romantic rightly.
Speaker 2 (55:52):
That's what throws me off.
Speaker 4 (55:54):
Romance part, And to say that you have romance with
more than one man, even if sex isn't involved. Still,
I wonder if that's okay. I mean, it's okay. If
it's okay, but you know what I mean, I wonder,
I don't know, I wonder if it's not a little blurry.
Hey Raven, Yes, Hi, Raven, good morning.
Speaker 2 (56:11):
So say or go.
Speaker 4 (56:12):
This dude is concerned because he feels like his girlfriend
has a very very close relationship with his girlfriend with
her girlfriend rather and he's wondering if it's not you know,
maybe if it's not a little deeper than he thinks.
Speaker 2 (56:23):
What do you think, Raven?
Speaker 19 (56:27):
I think, I honestly think that he should say, because
it really isn't that big of a deal. I know
it might seem weird, but a lot of girls have
that type of relationship with another girl, even if they're
not by or or with a you know, a sexual
orientation like that. Like I'm speaking from experience as well,
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like sometimes you just have this critific relationship with like
your best friend or this person that that you just
want to cuddle and do it and almost it's borderline actual.
But it's not going to go anywhere. It's not going
that far, and that's not what they're there for. It's
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that type of soul connection. But I will say that
I feel like they need to open communication even further
talk about it, and I think he just has to
get out of the mentality of the whole well I
want to join or or like you know, like, oh
well now now it's my turn to get on and
(57:32):
on it, you know. Like I hate that.
Speaker 4 (57:35):
I feel like in the case of your friends, you know,
who you're that close with, where it's sort of teetering
on the line, who would you favor if it came
down to that person or your boyfriend?
Speaker 19 (57:48):
I would definitely go with my boyfriend for sure.
Speaker 4 (57:51):
Okay, Well then I think that's that's healthy. I think
it's a situation where you favor the person who you're
not in a romantic relationship with. I think that's when
what's the point of a romantic relationship then, you know
what I mean, Like, if you can't establish that kind
of connection, if you're constantly favoring the other person, then
I think boundaries are not established, and that's a problem.
Speaker 2 (58:09):
Whether there's sex or not.
Speaker 4 (58:11):
I mean, I've been in these relationships before, you know
where it's it happens all the time, dating by committee,
whether there's one or two or three or five, you know,
girls who are you know, everything goes to them first
they work it out and then and then the person
comes to me, you judge and jury, and it's like, no,
we're in the relation. I'm not dating them, I'm dating you.
(58:31):
And they weren't there for whatever issue we're having. We
were there, so like, am I dating you? Or am
I dating them? It's almost like you should go date them.
I guess because you got it all figured out. I
think that's that everyone thinks about sex. But really it
comes down to communication.
Speaker 19 (58:46):
Yep, Oh yeah, it comes down to communication one, Like
you're completely right, like he just have to communicate further
and as long as it becomes it doesn't become an
overbearing problem. And as long as there isn't like this,
you know, like hey, we don't like you like group activity.
Speaker 5 (59:06):
Like then that I think it's fine.
Speaker 19 (59:09):
Just let it happen as long as it's healthy. But
you do have to communicate. But he's definite to say,
let's be more open minded too, and don't don't be like, well,
I guess.
Speaker 16 (59:19):
There's threesome.
Speaker 4 (59:22):
That he did bring that up, so who knows, maybe
maybe this is sort of he's building this up in
his head, like like it's more than it should be
because because you're kind of opening to the bathroom together.
Speaker 25 (59:40):
Let's go.
Speaker 2 (59:40):
Hey Teresa, good morning, Teresa, good morning, Hi, good morning morning. Hey,
what do you want to say? I want to say
that he should leave.
Speaker 17 (59:53):
I think that they're starting from romantic feeling relationship, Like
she's putting a lot into her best friend, Like why
is she cuddling with her? Like what is it that
her boyfriend is not providing her that she's latching on
to her friends for Like this is how these types
of situations start. Oh, she's my friend, She's just my
(01:00:15):
best friend. I need advice, Like, oh, we do everything together,
like it's an excuse.
Speaker 14 (01:00:21):
I'm a woman, trust me, Like I've seen this video before.
Speaker 4 (01:00:23):
And then she gets stuck in the dishwasher and the
only way out is yeah, yeah, I know.
Speaker 1 (01:00:29):
What are these types of situation?
Speaker 17 (01:00:30):
And I totally agree with what you've been saying this
whole time. He should go. He should save himself for
hurt and pain because obviously there's something secretive going on
and they don't want him to be a part of it.
Speaker 4 (01:00:43):
Yeah, Teresa, thank you, have a good day, you too.
I mean, if your friend relationships are if you're if
you have a friend or a multiple friend relationship that
is deeper. I mean it might be deeper, but if
it interacts negatively with the romantic relationship you're trying to have,
then well it's a problem, regardless of whether it's sexual
(01:01:03):
or not.
Speaker 2 (01:01:03):
Hey, Rico, Hey you're going on?
Speaker 14 (01:01:06):
Bro?
Speaker 2 (01:01:06):
Hey man, what happened? Rico? Tell me everything?
Speaker 4 (01:01:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 14 (01:01:10):
Yeah, so well, I mean, long story short, I don't
want to keep keep going. Uh, the biggest my best friend,
Like dude, we were insuperable. We were calling each other every.
Speaker 2 (01:01:20):
Day, male or female female, Okay, okay.
Speaker 14 (01:01:25):
Yeah, so uh, I mean she was so cool. So
got on earth so like I was, I mean, here
and there, I would hit on her, you know, as
a joke obviously, just you know, because whatever.
Speaker 4 (01:01:39):
You know, unless it wasn't that job, Okay, well maybe
it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (01:01:48):
Maybe it wasn't exactly, it's it's a joke.
Speaker 4 (01:01:52):
When she says no, when she says yes, it's not okay, all.
Speaker 2 (01:01:59):
Right, so you you yeah no no.
Speaker 14 (01:02:01):
But hey, so so then she got with this one guy,
and I'm like, hey, really think about it about it?
See see see how he makes you feel or whatever?
Speaker 3 (01:02:10):
You know.
Speaker 14 (01:02:10):
I would just give her this little advice. So so
like like at the end kind of when she was
gonna start with him, we almost slept together.
Speaker 4 (01:02:24):
Yeah, so then like no, go ahead, go ahead, finish up.
Speaker 2 (01:02:30):
We kill go ahead and finish it.
Speaker 14 (01:02:31):
So so like when they started together, she like basically
told me we can that she couldn't see me, see
me anymore. She uh that I couldn't call her anymore,
that lose her number. I'm like, you know what, that's
completely fine. I understand.
Speaker 4 (01:02:48):
And you guys weren't that good of friends anyway, you know,
And that's my point. She was able to identify that
you were going to prevent her from proceeding in another
relationship with another man, and I guess she decided that that,
you know, being able to do that and have those
boundaries was more important than being your friend, which is
a shame. But rico, thank you man, have a good day.
(01:03:10):
Gotta go, all right, Yeah, that's the thing. And I
don't know, you know, some of you guys have different
terms or rouview of for example, is married.
Speaker 2 (01:03:18):
So but like if I.
Speaker 4 (01:03:20):
If I couldn't give a woman objective advice about a
relationship with another man, that I can't be her friend
truly by definition like friend, and I have to just
say I have to make that like when when sometimes
if you get friend zoned and someone's like, well, we
can be friends, it's like, no, we can't be friends.
We can't be friends because I can't separate myself from
the part of me that likes you romantically or the
(01:03:42):
part of meat that once slept with you or whatever.
You know, people will do that every now and again.
They'll be like, men do it too. You know, we
hooked up for a while and then it fizzles. Well,
we could be friends. And so my definite in my
mind if you're like, let's be friends, and I'm like no,
because if you call me and you want to talk
about your boyfriend and I'm going to give you bad
advice because it benefits me because I want you to
come back to me then, or because I feel like
(01:04:03):
it conflicts with my interests, then I can't be your
friend and I have to separate myself. And it sounds
like that's what this lady said, you know, or this
guy rather the homeboy he just called. It sounds like
what she said to him was, look, I can't this
is too blurry. I can't do this right yep, which
sucks because sometimes people are okay just being friends, you
know what I mean. I feel like this happens to
(01:04:25):
women more than men because men tend to sexualize things.
And then it's like a woman can actually be a
friend with a guy and he can't do it.
Speaker 2 (01:04:32):
Yeah, but it was a joke for it.
Speaker 4 (01:04:34):
There's only a joke. Yeah, they're just joking. Yeah, he
was choking unless you say yes. This phone call takes
a whole different times.
Speaker 2 (01:04:44):
Calin's entertainment report is on The Fresh Show.
Speaker 1 (01:04:47):
There's been so much back and forth on this.
Speaker 11 (01:04:49):
Alec Baldwin's involuntary manslaughter child is on track to take
place this month. A judge projected a motion to dismiss
the case for the third time in five weeks. She
ruled to uphold the charge, so she wants this to happen.
Alex lawyers argued key evidence related to the prop gun
the actor allegedly fired and ended up killing cinematographer Helena
(01:05:11):
Hutchins and injuring director Joel Susa was destroyed, so they're
saying that some evidence was I don't know, somebody got
rid of it. The October twenty twenty one incident occurred
on the set of that Western movie Rust. We have
been you know, talking about it ever since it happened,
and now it's finally happening this month, so I'll keep
(01:05:31):
you in the loop for sure.
Speaker 7 (01:05:32):
Yes, yes, in time for his TV show to record it.
Speaker 11 (01:05:35):
Right, Well, I mean I think he's trying to make
money because of all this.
Speaker 1 (01:05:38):
Also said I need a job where I can work
from home. That's what he said. But it is it
is interesting timing, and I.
Speaker 11 (01:05:44):
Think the a lawyer for one, I think Helena's family's
lawyer ended up saying that they feel like the show is.
Speaker 1 (01:05:53):
An attempt to like distract people or portray.
Speaker 11 (01:05:55):
Them being a good man, family man, right, right, So
that is their argument. Hella Yah. ESPN is planning to
award Prince Harry the Pat Tillman Award for service at
the upcoming SPS. If you didn't know, Pat, who played
four seasons in the NFL, felt compelled to serve our nation,
stepped away from his promising football career to enlist in
(01:06:15):
the US Army following the September eleven terrorist attacks. While
Pat was sadly killed in combat in two thousand and
four in Afghanistan, only twenty seven years old, and after
news broke that ESPN was giving this award to Prince Harry,
Pat's mom, Mary Tillman, said the sports network never consulted
her about giving the Duke of Sussex the award honoring
(01:06:36):
your son.
Speaker 1 (01:06:36):
She told The Daily Mail.
Speaker 11 (01:06:38):
I'm shocked as to why they would select such a
controversial and divisive individual to receive this. There are recipients
that are far more fitting. There are individuals working in
the veteran community that are doing tremendous things to assist veterans.
These individuals don't have the money, resources, connections or privilege
that Prince Harry has. I feel that those types of
individuals should be recognized.
Speaker 1 (01:06:59):
Former NFL punter and current.
Speaker 11 (01:07:01):
ESPN analyst Pat McAfee lasted the network, saying they're trying
to quote piss people off.
Speaker 1 (01:07:07):
So he went against his own network on that one.
Speaker 2 (01:07:09):
And is it given to a veteran? Right? He is
a veteran?
Speaker 1 (01:07:15):
Yeah, he was a veteran, Harry did.
Speaker 2 (01:07:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 11 (01:07:18):
I don't think it necessarily has to be a veteran,
But I think she's just saying someone who's making a.
Speaker 2 (01:07:23):
Change pretty much.
Speaker 1 (01:07:24):
Yeah, I mean he does.
Speaker 11 (01:07:25):
Prince Harry does do a lot of good work, and
he can't really help where he came from.
Speaker 1 (01:07:28):
But I do think that they should always consult her on.
Speaker 11 (01:07:31):
Who would be winning that because it's in honor of
her Sun and she lost him in such a tragic way.
So I definitely hear. I hear what she's saying. She
wants someone. I get it. Simone Biles is heading back
to the Olympics.
Speaker 1 (01:07:43):
Of course she is right.
Speaker 11 (01:07:44):
The gymnastics superstar earned a third trip by cruising to
victory at the US Olympic Trials, up posting her two
day all around total to clinch the lone automatic spot
on the five woman team.
Speaker 1 (01:07:56):
I did not know that. So there's one spot that
you just you're on it.
Speaker 7 (01:07:59):
The winner of the whole thing whatever, of the winner
of the trials, you know, gets the automatic spot.
Speaker 4 (01:08:04):
Normally there's like different sports.
Speaker 7 (01:08:06):
Like track and field, it's like the race will take
the top three, something will take the top three or whatever.
But gymnastics, that's like one person and then everyone else
has to I don't know, go by points or whatever.
Speaker 4 (01:08:18):
Whoever's in second or third.
Speaker 1 (01:08:19):
Or that's cool. When do they start?
Speaker 2 (01:08:21):
Do we know the Olympics? Yeah, the end of this month.
Speaker 7 (01:08:25):
So, like all the sports are doing their trials to
see who's going.
Speaker 11 (01:08:28):
To be an Olympian, and they always do them where
they're holding the Olympics.
Speaker 1 (01:08:32):
No, no, no, they're here and there.
Speaker 2 (01:08:33):
Yeah, it all depends on.
Speaker 7 (01:08:37):
Yeah, like the US, they're all here in the States
because it's all Americans, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (01:08:41):
It competing to be in the Olympics.
Speaker 7 (01:08:43):
And then then those people will go to Paris this
year to compete for the Olympics.
Speaker 1 (01:08:48):
Got it all right?
Speaker 11 (01:08:49):
Well, you can catch up on everything you missed from
our show, The frend Show on our free iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 2 (01:08:54):
You want to make four thousand dollars for Fiel, Yes,
I got you.
Speaker 14 (01:08:58):
So.
Speaker 4 (01:08:58):
Medical researchers are looking for vallins here is willing to
earn forty two hundred dollars for being involved in their study. However,
it's possible that you would get diarrhea for a week.
Oh that's fine, let's do it, and you would have
to spend eleven days in the hospital even if you don't.
But this is forty two hundred dollars. Okay, So you're
still in keep the same underwear, Gotta change it.
Speaker 2 (01:09:17):
Every time I.
Speaker 4 (01:09:18):
Think they're going to want to, I don't even know
a week, I don't even wear underwear and might just
skip a stop.
Speaker 2 (01:09:26):
I'm not just winning to poose this thing.
Speaker 4 (01:09:29):
I mean, yeah, right, exactly like I'm not dealing with pants.
If this is the case, the experiment is called a
human challenged trial. It means that people involved in a
study are deliberately exposed to an infectious disease. In this case,
it would be a bacteria, which is the primary cause
of dysentery, which is an infection that causes diarrhea. So
(01:09:51):
they're working on a more potent vaccine, and so essentially
they might give you the vaccine, they might not. Then
they expl at the placebo, then the exposure to you,
and then we all just kind of see what happens.
She could do this in Cincinnati and Atlanta if you're interested. Yeah, okay,
why does somebody get ghosted waiting by the phone on
(01:10:12):
the Fred Show?
Speaker 2 (01:10:12):
We'll do it next more Fred Show.
Speaker 3 (01:10:15):
Next the Fresh Show is on.
Speaker 4 (01:10:22):
I want to shout out my aunt Paula, the Saint
Cana Paula. This lady is living, this lady is out here.
Speaker 2 (01:10:27):
So I'm not going to say how old she is.
Speaker 4 (01:10:29):
She's my mom's eldest sister. My mom has a No,
that's not true, that's not true. She's the middle one.
Well okay, well no, I believe what I was going
to say. What I was going to say was mean.
But there's one sister that's not in the picture. So
she's the oldest in the picture. Anyway, she's the middle.
(01:10:53):
But anyway, this woman has my mom is what was
born to be a mother. She's an incredible mother.
Speaker 2 (01:10:58):
Whatever. I don't know about this.
Speaker 4 (01:11:00):
I don't know about the eldest, but the uh Paula
is her name, and she has always just been out
here doing her own thing. You know. She lived in
Arizona for a while we were growing up, and then
one day she said, but I don't want to be
here anymore.
Speaker 2 (01:11:11):
She moved to San Francisco.
Speaker 4 (01:11:12):
And everyone was like, wow, you're just going to pick
up and move to San Francisco, like all by yourself.
Just go out there, find a job and do it.
She did that. After about ten years of that, she's like,
you know what, I'm going to move to Buenos Aris, Argentina.
Speaker 2 (01:11:24):
Who it?
Speaker 4 (01:11:25):
Wow? And so she like did it half and half
for a while and then one day said screw it,
got out of her apartment, retired and moved to ba
and living out there all by yourself, just out here
doing it. Now it's been ten years, she calls me
and says, I'm going to buy a house in Uruguay.
Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
Second was that's Liz, And She's.
Speaker 4 (01:11:42):
Like, so I'm out of it. I'm out of here. I'm
going to Uruguay now, yes, and I'm going to buy
this thing. It's going to have four bedrooms. We're going
to live out there. You never heard of Uruguay, Jason,
know what you're talking about.
Speaker 2 (01:11:51):
It's a country I never heard of. Uruguay, said for Jason.
(01:12:11):
Who they are?
Speaker 1 (01:12:12):
Can we come?
Speaker 2 (01:12:12):
Yes? Yes, this lady called me up.
Speaker 4 (01:12:15):
She's like, yeah, I'm just gonna go get this four
bedroom thing and I'm gonna live there. I think for
a while. Now see how that goes. I'm like, oh,
I mean I love him. Yeah, you know these kids
she writes hours stage, the beach there, the whole thing.
She's just she says, out here doing it like just whatever.
You lonely ever because she has friends, but I don't
think she cares, you know, and her things like I mean,
(01:12:35):
I'm this old and and she's a good looking lady,
and she's like, I'm just gonna go do it, Like
what do I have? I only have so much life
to live, so by I'm out of here, you know,
and no grounded. She didn't have any kids, so her
life is all about her.
Speaker 14 (01:12:48):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:12:48):
I'm sure there are people listening now going, well, I
would take those risks, but I chose to have a family. Well,
you know, she chose to not have a family, and
then she's given this flexibility.
Speaker 2 (01:12:56):
Yeah, I asked. I talked to her about this all
the time.
Speaker 4 (01:12:58):
As a person who's not married and doesn't have kids,
I talk to her all the time about like do
you like about how people address because people people are
always like they can't imagine that you wouldn't want to
be in a relationship and that you wouldn't want to
have kids, Like people cannot imagine that this is the
life that I choose, or this is the life that
she chooses. Like it's just it's mind blowing. It's like
(01:13:21):
what's wrong with you? Or why are you so picky?
Or like when are you going to do the marriage
and the kids thing? And it's like I don't think
she ever wanted it. I'm not opposed to either, And
she was married at one point in divorce, but a
couple of times actually, but that's how she rolls. She
a much younger Latin man. Like it didn't quite work out,
but so what can get another one? Yet another one.
(01:13:45):
I don't think he brought much of the table except
for one thing, but he certainly brought that to the
table from what I understand enough to marry him. And
it's just a weird thing you know about your aunt,
but that's the kind of relationship that we have. Nonetheless,
I relate to her more than I thought I would,
because you'll people could argue, well, I think I think
my parents sometimes think that my life is selfish, and
it's like, well, that could be, but I also there
(01:14:08):
are also the aspects of my life that I won't
get to experience that that other people do, you know.
I mean, I guess some people find their partner their
person and they don't have kids and they get the
fulfillment and the challenge of having a family and all
of that, but like, I may not get to experience that.
On the flip side, you know, she and I might
have the flexibility to say, at some point in our lives,
(01:14:28):
we're moving to Oruguay or wherever. And I think, you know,
there's an upside to that. There's also the fact that
I may have to do that by myself. I don't know,
but it's just amazing to me that, you know, I think.
I think it's a big deal. I think it's a
big deal to be moving around the world on your own. Yeah,
she is the coolest, so interesting.
Speaker 1 (01:14:48):
I was thinking that when you were telling that story.
Speaker 4 (01:14:51):
Any thoughts, boy, you're here, You're going to say, and
you're all expected by the way, man, I'll tell you
not really, it's quite I've had quite a run with
Asian people and black people, and I got kids.
Speaker 2 (01:15:12):
From all over the world. That's what I'm saying. You
need to go anywhere else. I don't have to.
Speaker 4 (01:15:21):
I experienced many different things. It's multicultural up in here.
Speaker 2 (01:15:30):
You've ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the
Fred Show. Hey Ross, good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you hey, guys doing all right?
Speaker 14 (01:15:38):
How you doing?
Speaker 4 (01:15:39):
We are great? Tell us about this woman, Sonia. I
want to know everything. How did you guys meet? Tell
us about any dates that you've been on and then
where things are now you think maybe you're being ghosted.
Speaker 2 (01:15:49):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 6 (01:15:50):
So I met this girl, Sonia. We've met on a
hinge and you know, we chatted for a while. She's
really cute, and I asked her out to dinner after
I got her number when hinting through Hinge, and you know,
I thought we had a good time and that she
liked me, because you know, she invited me after dinner
back to her place, you know, to go swimming. And
(01:16:11):
I was like, okay, you got a pool. That's fantastic.
Let's keep this thing going.
Speaker 21 (01:16:17):
And I'm really really confused right.
Speaker 6 (01:16:20):
Now because you know, like I said, I thought we
had a great time, and now she's completely ghosting.
Speaker 2 (01:16:27):
Here about this. But yeah, I mean I would say
that's pretty good.
Speaker 4 (01:16:29):
Like you go on a date, all's going, well, Hey,
let's go back to the pool.
Speaker 2 (01:16:33):
So now we're just.
Speaker 4 (01:16:33):
Automatically wearing not a lot of clothes, Like that's great.
I mean, that's that would in my opinion, that's a
good date. Things are going well on the date if
we're going to go back and do that, Oh yeah, man, Jason,
(01:16:57):
not to be outdone by Prince perv rufie over here
and now we got Princess peeky. All right, So, but
you've reached out to as woman sends the date and
she's not responding to you at all. I take it
on Hinge and text and whatever else.
Speaker 6 (01:17:12):
Yeah, exactly, I've texted her a few times. I tried
calling her one nothing, okay, nothing.
Speaker 4 (01:17:17):
All right, Well, I'm gonna play one song. We'll come
back in a couple of minutes and we'll call this
woman Sonia. You'll be on the phone. We'll ask some questions.
At some point. You're welcome to jump in on the call,
and hopefully something's going on and we get straightened out
or if she's been busy or she has a good
excuse or reason, and the hope is that you guys
can go out again and we'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (01:17:34):
All right, Hey, that'd be great, Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (01:17:36):
Hang out one second. Let's see what happens next.
Speaker 4 (01:17:38):
Part two of Waiting Metaphone after this song on The
Fred Show. Good morning, It's the Fred Show. Part two
of Waiting Metaphone. Hey, Ross, all right, let's call Sonia.
You guys met on a hinge the dating app, had
a great date she invited you over to go swimming
after the date, which is I would think a pretty
good sign, except since the date you haven't heard anything
(01:17:59):
from her. Has it responded to you? She hasn't reached
out either, and you want to know what's going on.
Speaker 6 (01:18:03):
That's exactly it.
Speaker 2 (01:18:04):
Okay, we're gonna call her now. Good luck, Ross, Thank
you so much.
Speaker 23 (01:18:07):
Guys.
Speaker 2 (01:18:14):
Hello, Hi is this Sonia?
Speaker 14 (01:18:17):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (01:18:18):
Yeah, Hi, Hey, Sonya, good morning.
Speaker 4 (01:18:20):
My name is Fredam calling from the FREND Show, the
morning radio show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now and I would
need your permission to continue with the call. Can we
chat for just a second, do you mind?
Speaker 2 (01:18:29):
Yeah? That's fine, Well, thank you very much.
Speaker 4 (01:18:32):
We're calling on behalf of a guy named Ross who
says he met you on a dating app and you, guys,
recently went on a date to remember him, I do, okay, Well,
so that's a good start. So he reached out to
us and said that he really liked you and thought
the date went well. And then I guess you invited
him over to your house to go swimming or something,
and he hasn't heard from you since, so he wants
to know why you're not responding to him, and we're
(01:18:54):
sort of the middleman here trying to you know, ask
the questions as well.
Speaker 2 (01:18:58):
So why aren't you calling him back?
Speaker 22 (01:19:00):
Well, we met on hinge on the dating app, and
he took me to dinner and we had fun. I
did invite him back to my place after because it
was close by, but I really.
Speaker 6 (01:19:15):
Regret doing that.
Speaker 4 (01:19:16):
Now.
Speaker 1 (01:19:16):
Why Well, when we got back.
Speaker 22 (01:19:21):
I realized he was a lot drunker than I thought
he was. I excused myself to go to the bathroom,
and then when I came back, I couldn't find him.
And then I realized that he was swimming in my
pool and he was naked.
Speaker 4 (01:19:34):
Oh, I was going to ask the question. I was
a little curious, I'll be honest. You know, if you
didn't know that you were going to be going on
a swimming date, I mean, unless you're going to provide
you know, wardrobe, unless you have a whole like selection
of men's swim trunks at your house, I guess I
was curious how that was going to work. But he
just took the liberty of of stripping down and jumping in.
Speaker 2 (01:19:57):
He didn't care.
Speaker 22 (01:19:58):
H Yeah, I I mean I didn't even invite him
to use the pool, and also swimming that drunk is
just dangerous.
Speaker 2 (01:20:07):
Well there's that.
Speaker 4 (01:20:08):
Oh yeah, And I assume this is a community pool
of some kind unless you somehow have your own pool.
I mean I guess other people might use them, might
come out and see old boy Ross, you know, swimming
around but ass naked.
Speaker 22 (01:20:21):
Yeah, it was just a lot. I mean, we haven't
even we haven't even slept together, so why would I
want to see him naked? You know? And it was
it was it was a lot to walk out.
Speaker 20 (01:20:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:20:33):
Well here's the question, what did and sonya?
Speaker 4 (01:20:35):
I mean, nobody was expecting that to happen, especially you know,
completely uninvited. But what did you expect him to do?
What were you thinking he was going to do going
on a swimming date that wasn't supposed to be a
swimming date.
Speaker 22 (01:20:47):
Well, I mean I didn't even invite him to use
the pool.
Speaker 14 (01:20:50):
He just took it upon himself.
Speaker 4 (01:20:52):
To do it.
Speaker 22 (01:20:52):
So I wasn't really expecting that we were going to
be swimming at all. I kind of thought that maybe
we just to hang out, you know, and continue.
Speaker 4 (01:20:59):
Talking adjacent to the pool, maybe not making Okay, let
me bring I forgot to mention that Ross is here. Ross,
So you were in clothes now or if you just
stripped down, you know, just cause because you feel that comfortable.
Speaker 2 (01:21:14):
Fully closed at the moment. So that was the thought process.
Speaker 4 (01:21:17):
So You're like, you know what, I want to go swimming,
and I don't want to get my clothes wet, so
I'll just get completely naked on a first aid.
Speaker 12 (01:21:24):
You know.
Speaker 21 (01:21:25):
To be quite honest, I don't remember thinking through much
of that. I remembered also, I don't. I will say
I don't remember being that drunk, but I do remember
going back to your place Sonya Tay, and the next
thing I know, uh, I was you.
Speaker 14 (01:21:48):
Know, we were we were swimming.
Speaker 21 (01:21:50):
I don't remember if I had anything on or not.
Speaker 4 (01:21:52):
But I don't think anybody else was there with you.
I mean, man, I've I've been I've been really drunk,
but I'm not sure that I've ever gotten completely naked.
Speaker 2 (01:22:05):
In a pool.
Speaker 1 (01:22:07):
You never got skinny topping well.
Speaker 4 (01:22:09):
When invited, but it wasn't. It wasn't because I was
so drunk I decided to take all my clothes off.
That a lot oh okay, well okay, okay, well that's yeah.
I mean, but ross, she lives in a community. I mean,
she could be evicted for this behavior. I mean, I
(01:22:29):
don't she probably is. You know, Sony, you're not saying much.
I mean, so it was a lot. And did you
like what you saw?
Speaker 2 (01:22:37):
At least? Was he good looking? Naked guy? Was he tanned?
Was he he have lines? Was he you know?
Speaker 22 (01:22:41):
I mean I wasn't really thinking about that. I was
more concerned with, like making sure that he didn't drown
because he was so drunk. So you know, I just
got him dressed and sent him home in an uber.
But I guess he doesn't seem to remember it, which
maybe shows that he really was he was too drunk,
because that's I mean, that's what happened.
Speaker 4 (01:23:00):
Okay, Well, so he's saying he doesn't remember, he was overserved.
I mean, I guess I hear him taking responsibility for
he's sort of making an excuse. But I mean, you
liked him up until that point. So are we willing
to say, look, that was you know, poor decision making,
had too much to drink, No harm, no foul, We'll
try it again, or no.
Speaker 22 (01:23:20):
I think I'm going to pass on a second date.
Speaker 16 (01:23:23):
I think all.
Speaker 4 (01:23:24):
Right, Well, Michael Phelps. I'm sorry, it's not going to
work out. You know, you should always carry a speedout
with you. You just never know.
Speaker 21 (01:23:31):
Now I'm now, I'm not now, I'm in the know,
So I'll keep that in the back pocket at all times.
Speaker 14 (01:23:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (01:23:38):
Well, there you go, Sonya, thank you for your time.
Speaker 14 (01:23:41):
Ross.
Speaker 2 (01:23:41):
I'm sorry, so not going to work out. Best elected
both of you, guys.
Speaker 12 (01:23:44):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (01:23:44):
Calen has the Entertainment Report and eats next on the
Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (01:23:48):
Caln's Entertainer Report. He's on the Fread Show.
Speaker 11 (01:23:52):
Former Bachelorette star Katie Thurston sadly took to Instagram to
share that she was raped. She wrote, it took seven
months for the San Diego justice system to let me
down as a victim. The justice system continues to let
down victims every day. I refused to feel defeated in
the strength it took to be an advocate for myself.
And she basically share all this because she wanted to
(01:24:12):
help others if they were feeling alone, to find the
support they may need. She's not ready to share her story,
she says, but she wants to share some valuable resources
that saved her life. You can go on our Instagram
and check those out. But she did think nurses other
advocates before specifically sharing how she feels like she was
let down and basically said she had so many things
text calls, photos, videos, witnesses, locations, timestamps, surveillance footage. I mean,
(01:24:39):
she felt like she did everything she was supposed to
do as a victim, but over and over again she
was told the same thing. A guilty verdict is hard
in criminal court, so she eventually things came to a halt.
But she started in season seventeen of The Bachelorette got
engaged to Blake Moyin's. They ended up getting engaged in
the season finale, but broke up in October twenty twenty one.
Speaker 1 (01:25:00):
I just checked her Instagram.
Speaker 11 (01:25:01):
It seems like she's doing stand up now and I
think she's dating another comedian on there.
Speaker 1 (01:25:06):
But check that out if you want to see any
of that.
Speaker 11 (01:25:08):
Kendrick Lamar's Juneteenth pop out concert continues to have a
really positive ripple effects on LA, bringing in two hundred
thousand dollars for twenty LA based charities and city community
initiatives like the Compton Girls Club. If you missed it somehow,
if you're living under a rock. It, you know, brought
out some of LA's biggest names, Drey Tyler, the creator
(01:25:28):
ty Dallas sign.
Speaker 1 (01:25:31):
Yeah he laughed, but he was mentioned. Yeah, he was
mentioned again Mustard. I mean there were a time. Wasn't
Lebron there?
Speaker 2 (01:25:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (01:25:39):
And uh Russell Russell Westbrook was there.
Speaker 2 (01:25:42):
Yeah, Lebron was there.
Speaker 7 (01:25:43):
No, but Demarto Rosen who's also from Compton.
Speaker 1 (01:25:47):
I don't know why I thought, you know, okay, he wasn't.
Speaker 11 (01:25:50):
Maybe because I have a story about him and a
couple of stories. But Audrina Patridge is dating country singer
Michael Ray. The Hell's alum shared a photo of her
or on her or rather Instagram story. She was being
held up by him, had her legs wrapped around him, smooching.
She kept in the photo this one. Oh okay, I
don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:26:10):
I don't know if this is the right Michael Ray.
Speaker 11 (01:26:12):
Yeah, I mean there's only one Michael Ray.
Speaker 1 (01:26:15):
He's just a random country singer.
Speaker 11 (01:26:17):
It's cute, but I don't know, yeah, yeha. Audrina obviously
dated Hill's co star Justin Bobby Ryan Cabrera she dated,
so she's like the queen.
Speaker 1 (01:26:30):
Of the early two thousands.
Speaker 11 (01:26:32):
She was married to a dude named Corey for two years,
has a daughter with him.
Speaker 1 (01:26:35):
And then Michael Ray was married to Carly Pearce. Oh
and if.
Speaker 11 (01:26:39):
You listen to Miss Carly's music, you know that she
doesn't fail too clean about Michael Ray. She filed just
eight months after they were married, so some went down.
But yeah, they're cute couple. They're both really hot. Lebron James,
this is why he was on the mine. He opted
out of the final year of his contract with the Lakers,
expected to re sign with the team.
Speaker 1 (01:26:58):
I think we thought this was happening.
Speaker 11 (01:27:00):
This is just confirmation he would have made fifty one
point four million this season if he opted in. His agent,
Rich Paul said that Lebron could take a pay cut
to help the Lakers sign another impact player. Rich that
he's hoping to have a deal in place before Lebron
it leaves for training camp later this week for the
Paris Olympics.
Speaker 7 (01:27:18):
Yeah, he better hurry because dudes are signing everywhere left
and right.
Speaker 4 (01:27:22):
Like Paul George is on the Sixers.
Speaker 7 (01:27:24):
Neck I saw that, like all the big names, like
you think you could Chris Paul is in the Spurs. Yeah,
Russell no, James Harden is staying with the Clippers, So
better you better act fast because there ain't gonna be
no nobody left to join.
Speaker 2 (01:27:35):
You, Lebron.
Speaker 1 (01:27:36):
Who else would there be? Yeah?
Speaker 11 (01:27:37):
He doesn't strike me as someone that would take a
pay cut, Lebron.
Speaker 1 (01:27:40):
Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 23 (01:27:41):
I it's gotta be some kind of deal, like, hey,
draft my son, I'll take it.
Speaker 1 (01:27:46):
Oh my god, you're still Yeah.
Speaker 26 (01:27:48):
Maybe it's like there's a lot of right, there's a
lot of behind the scenes.
Speaker 1 (01:27:53):
Yeah, oh my Okay, Well that's on your sports report.
Speaker 11 (01:27:58):
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Speaker 4 (01:28:01):
The formula for the perfect start to your day. Someone's
figured this out, okay, and I read about it this morning,
And if you can hear us now, then unless you're
listening to us later on the podcast, then we've all
already screwed this up. So if you want to start
the day right according to this, you want to get
out of bed at seven twelve am and then exercise
(01:28:24):
for exactly twenty one minutes. I'm done.
Speaker 1 (01:28:28):
I have a job.
Speaker 2 (01:28:30):
No, it's exercising part for me. I wish I could
do that.
Speaker 4 (01:28:34):
I wish that I could get up an hour earlier
and get my workout done first thing. I wish I could,
but that would mean getting up at three instead of like,
just no way, there's no way.
Speaker 24 (01:28:44):
That show, the morning show, the one that you guys
are watching, Jennifer Aniston waking up and going to like
on a peloton at three am because she worked a
morning show.
Speaker 1 (01:28:52):
And I was like, that is so unrealistic, Like we're
not doing that.
Speaker 4 (01:28:55):
Like I read somewhere the George Stephanopolis, the guy who
hosts Good Morning America. I heard he gets up at
like three and meditates for thirty minutes or something before
he does anything. I'm like, dude, you want me to
get out of bed and then get into a meditative
state and not fall asleep, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (01:29:13):
Like I don't.
Speaker 4 (01:29:14):
I would fall asleep, even though it's uncomfortable. If if I
sat there, had to close my eyes and think about
nothing or whatever, I would I would. You'd be calling
me at six o'clock every day, going to do where
you done? Like I'm meditating, I'll get there when I'm done. Aka,
I fell my ass asleep. You're supposed to spend ten
minutes in the shower, eighteen minutes for breakfast. They talked
(01:29:34):
to two thousand people and they analyzed all the results.
A mathematician did the average answers show the optimal time
in the showers ten minutes. People preferring eight hours in
bed waking up, This.
Speaker 2 (01:29:47):
Is preferring eight hours.
Speaker 4 (01:29:50):
Come on, this is waking up at six forty four
but not getting up until seven twelve.
Speaker 2 (01:29:55):
Now I do that. I get up at four, but.
Speaker 4 (01:29:58):
I don't get out of bed until like four th
thirty four to forty five because I just sit there
and do all my stuff in my bed. Okay, yeah,
and so I guess there's a way to calculate this mathematically.
So to calculate if your routine will put you in
a good mood, double the time you spend on breakfast.
Then add the minutes spent exercising and showering. Now work
(01:30:18):
out the difference between how long you slept and the
optimum eight hours. For example, if you got six and
a half hours and the difference then would be an
hour and a half, then I supposed gus, you're supposed
to minus that. So the total this is very complicated.
The total minutes for breakfast doubled exercise and showering, divided
by the sum on sleeping and getting up times. Then
(01:30:40):
the minutes spent doing things such as reading the newspaper
and doing a crossword. If the numbers higher than thirty seven,
then you have the best morning. I'm not doing any
of this. Oh, that's a lot of stuff. I would
like to see the correlation of that to their bank account. Like, yeah,
none of the lad is like millionaires just do that
all day. You know what I'm saying. I think this
(01:31:00):
was based on like having a good day. What is
this based on the perfect start to your day? So
it doesn't necessarily mean that, you know, these people get rich.
It just means that this is apparently the best way
to start your day.
Speaker 7 (01:31:11):
But I feel like the rich people have that time.
You know, I got breakfast in the morning. What's I
know for breakfast?
Speaker 2 (01:31:22):
Ten minutes?
Speaker 4 (01:31:23):
What Jeff Bezos doesn't His first meeting is at ten am.
He doesn't schedule a single meeting before at ten am.
And he says he likes to get up at like
seven or eight. And he says it's quote putter. He
likes to just putter around, just like with nothing to do.
My Putter is I'm sleeping like I don't if I
get up for something that I'm getting up and I'm
(01:31:44):
going there's no getting up an hour before, so I
can just screw around like I'm gonna stay in.
Speaker 2 (01:31:50):
Bed, you know.
Speaker 4 (01:31:51):
But then again, he's a gazillionaire and I'm not, so
you know, maybe he's doing something right.
Speaker 2 (01:31:56):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 3 (01:31:57):
More breadshell Next, The Fread Show is on Fred's fun
Fact Fund.
Speaker 2 (01:32:13):
This one.
Speaker 4 (01:32:15):
But if you didn't, you're gonna be very interesting today
when you go to the movies, I mentioned you went
to an actual movies here.
Speaker 1 (01:32:21):
Oh, I just went yep, okay.
Speaker 2 (01:32:24):
I guess Air was the last movie I went to.
Speaker 1 (01:32:26):
Oh yeah, a little date night.
Speaker 2 (01:32:27):
Yeah, we had a date night. It was great. Went
to some weird place before and it was yeah at
dinner it was weird.
Speaker 1 (01:32:33):
I think about that place a lot more.
Speaker 4 (01:32:34):
I'm not going to say the place because I don't
want to do that, but it was very strange. It
was like we walked in they were like, what are
you doing here? What you need something from us? Like, yeah,
actually we're here for food, and yeah we're here for
subsidence please.
Speaker 2 (01:32:48):
But movie trailers the show before the movies.
Speaker 4 (01:32:51):
Yes, they used to show after the feature film, which
is why they're called trailers. Jason, Oh, but everyone would
probably leave. They used to trail the main attraction. The
first trailer premiered in nineteen twelve. It was for a
Broadway show, The Pleasure Seekers, not a movie. Gradually, trailer
started spreading in popularity. They were produced by theaters themselves.
(01:33:13):
In nineteen sixteen, the movie studios took the reins. And
so you're right. I would not wait until the end
of the movie and then all the credits to watch
a trailer. I would not do that. But now when
you go in, you're forced to watch. You know, however
many minutes of trailers.
Speaker 7 (01:33:28):
And a lot of the times now with superhero movies,
you're forced to watch all the credits because there's you know,
little easter eggs at the end.
Speaker 2 (01:33:34):
Oh yes, sorry scenes at the end to.
Speaker 4 (01:33:36):
Yeah, I don't know what they are because my eyes
an't gone. Soon as things start rolling, I'm like no.
Speaker 7 (01:33:41):
Because there's pre post credit mid credits scene.
Speaker 2 (01:33:44):
Soon hits, I'm like i gotta go. Nope, not stand.
Speaker 3 (01:33:49):
More.
Speaker 2 (01:33:49):
Fred Show Next, You've Got Your Way Fread Show is on.
Speaker 11 (01:34:00):
Funny South.
Speaker 4 (01:34:04):
This is a story from earlier in the week that
I hadn't gotten to yet, But a drunk man caused
chaos after breaking into the police department when they were closed.
So this guy broke into the Naples police department. Most
people are trying to stay out of the police department.
This guy broke into it. He vandalized. First of all,
(01:34:24):
he got into an unlocked patrol cruiser, sat in there
for a minute it couldn't get started, waited for all
the cops to leave. Then he got into the police station,
flooded it, whoa pooped on the women's locker room floor,
which is nice of him. And then he stole a
uniform and a nine hundred dollars bulletproof vest and apparently
(01:34:45):
went down the street to seven to eleven, where the
police had then figured out that he had done this,
and they arrested him. He's being charged with grand theft
and two counts of burglary. Naples Police not commenting at
the moment as they are further investigating. But it makes
me feel better because I've been drunk and done really
and said dumb things, but I've never broken into a
police station. That's got to be the ultimate broken into
(01:35:08):
you here people bringing out. I can see why you
might break out, if you could get out, broke into
Also another story that I wasn't able to get to
this week, but I'm gonna get to now. Is that
a redditor or a redditor someone who uses Reddit has
been heartbroken to discover that the perfect woman that he
had met online was actually an AI creation. AI going
(01:35:33):
on to another level now of AI. You know we're
worried about people say it's gonna take over radio. It's
gonna take over uh, you know music, it's gonna take
over Kanye's life. It's gonna take over all the education,
you know, people not doing homework anymore, not learning anything.
But a reditor was heartbroken to discover that this woman
(01:35:54):
named Claudia is actually a I. He said he felt
a bit cheated, a bit cheated that he had been
cybernetically catfished. That's a new word, cybernetically used that today
in a sentence. So he was one of many fans
of Claudia, an alleged Reddit girl who became a fixture
on the platform by sharing glamorous selfies. One riscape pick,
(01:36:15):
which has since been deleted, showed the web girl in
the nude with a caption what do you think about
my body? That may have been the first clue, he said, Claudia,
you're pretty sexy and perfect. Unfortunately, the girl of his
dreams was in fact a deep fake. She'd been created
by two computer science students who concocted the avatar as
(01:36:37):
a goof to see if you can fool people with
AI pictures. They'd reportedly been inspired after encountering a post
from a reditor who claimed to earn five hundred dollars
from catfishing victims online. So there, you gotta be careful
these days on these apps. Man, I don't know that.
I feel like we're trying to get tricked at every turn.
It's you know, you get text messages with talked about
(01:37:00):
that yesterday. That's a scam. Now we got fake AI
women and women. Some women are offended by the fact that, Like,
if you're on the dating apps, I try and get
proof of life pretty quickly. Like I try and get
to the point, can I see an Instagram? Can I,
you know, hold up my famous hold up three picture,
hold up three fingers and the like. And some people
(01:37:21):
are offended. And I hate to say this, but there
are a lot of fake Asian women on these apps too.
I don't know why, but they tend to pick. I
don't know if it's because the pictures are harder to
trace or whatever, but on like Hinge for example, or Bumble,
there tend to be And so if you do match
with certain you know, people of certain ethnicities, and I'm
so I guess I'm a little more cautious. And sometimes
(01:37:41):
these people have been like, you know, what is it
with you guys in the catfishing. It's like because a
lot of these people are not real, and who knows.
Maybe I'm talking to mabe. I maybe I'd be better
off than an AI relationship.
Speaker 2 (01:37:53):
Do you think? No, I need I need the real thing.
Though I need the real thing, you deserve the real thing.
Speaker 4 (01:37:59):
I'd probably to get yelled at by an AI girlfriend though, yeah,
girlfriend be liked.
Speaker 26 (01:38:04):
How do I turn his computer off?
Speaker 2 (01:38:13):
You're not really.
Speaker 4 (01:38:16):
Fred Show, thank you so much for having us on today.
We love you, We appreciate you. Fred Show Radio dot com,
fred Show Radio on Instagram, the fread Show TikTok. You
can find us there. Also anything you may have missed
anytime on demand on the iHeartRadio app. Search for the
Fred Show or wherever you listen to podcasts. Tomorrow we'll
bring you more things because we love you. Like waiting
on the phone, which you do every day. Why did
(01:38:38):
somebody get ghosted? It's our public service Each game show
Wednesday tomorrow as well, So definitely gonna beat Paulina and
Kiki karaoke tomorrow. Can I keep my own stuff straight?
I'm not sure. Have a great day.
Speaker 2 (01:38:49):
Bye guys, Bye,
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