Waiting By The Phone: The Pushy Dude

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Ryan,
good morning, welcome to the program.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hey how are you. We're doing great.

Speaker 1 (00:09):
Uh, so we're trying to figure out why this woman
Fiona who you met is not calling you back after you,
guys went on a date that I assume you thought
was successful. So you got to tell us kind of
all the backstory. How did you guys meet? Uh, tell
us about any dates that you've been on, and then
where where we are now?

Speaker 3 (00:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (00:24):
Yeah, totally.

Speaker 3 (00:25):
So we met on the apps.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
You know, I do know, sadly. Yeah, yeah, and.

Speaker 3 (00:33):
You know, we we talked back and forth a little bit,
and you know, we exchanged numbers, and we texted back
and forth a bit, and and then we you know,
we went on a date, right, And the date was
fun and the good conversations, good, good time, tack my
own and we ended up going back to my place
to hang out afterwards, which I thought was a good sign.

(00:55):
You know, it was cool, and but you know I
was I was a total gentleman about the whole thing,
Like nothing happened. And then she headed out for the night.
And since then, nothing nothing, no no no calls, no text, no.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
Nothing, okay, so back to your place. No, no crazy stuff,
because you say you were a gentleman, and but you
were pretty confident when she left that you would see
her again, as most people who call us are, oh yeah,
oh yeah, absolutely. And then you've reached out, you've called,
you've texted, no response, Yeah, okay, all right, Well let's
we have Fiona's number. We're going to play one song,
come back and in two minutes, and we'll call her

(01:33):
and we'll see if we can figure out what's going on.
The hope is that we can straighten things out and
then set you guys up on another day that we
pay for.

Speaker 2 (01:39):
Sound good.

Speaker 3 (01:40):
That sounded great.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
Let's find out what's going on?

Speaker 1 (01:42):
Part two of waiting at the phone after Cia back
in two minutes. It's the Fred Show. Hey Ryan, Hey,
all right, welcome back. Let's call Fiona. You guys met
on the apps. You went on a date back to
uh was it back to your place or her place?

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (01:56):
Back?

Speaker 1 (01:56):
Yeah, and you were a gentleman. You say everything went well, No, no,
you know you didn't. I don't know, push push the issue.
You were just trying to be a nice guy, hoping
to see her again. And you thought you would, except
she's not responding to you calls, texts, you're reaching out,
no response at all.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
Yeah, that's that's a very correct.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
Okay, well let's call Fiona now and see what's going on.
Good luck, I thank you. Hi is his Fiona? Hi Fiona,
good morning. My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show.
The whole crew is here and I have to tell
you that we are on the radio right now. I
would need your permission to continue with the call. Can

(02:34):
which have for just a second. I won't take too
much of your time. Okay, we're calling on me.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
By the way, we're calling on behalf of a guy
named Ryan who says you met you on the dating
apps and you you guys recently went out on a date.
Do you remember this guy and the date?

Speaker 4 (02:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:53):
Yeah, okay, Well he described what he thought was a
really great date and he said that he was hoping
to see you again. He says he believed he was
a gentleman and that he's been reaching out and you're
not responding. So what we're trying to do is help
him out and hopefully you straighten this out, kind of
figure out why you have been ghosting, it would appear.
Why you why you're not responding to him at all?

Speaker 4 (03:13):
Yeah? Wow, Yeah, there's absolutely like no chance I would
go out with him again ever.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
Okay, so that's an obviously a misread on his part
because he thought there was odd chance. So what happened, Like,
why are we not interested in Ryan anymore?

Speaker 4 (03:31):
Like the gate was fine, and then we went back
to his place and I told him I didn't want
to have sex, and he like freaked out at me.
He was like being insane.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
Man.

Speaker 1 (03:43):
See, he said he was a gentleman. No, gentleman, he
was not a gentleman. You're saying, no, he was not
a gentleman. No, So what did he say? He was like,
you know, he kind of got to that point of
the date and things started to happen. You're like, we're
not doing that, and then he was he was a
jerk about.

Speaker 4 (03:58):
It, jerk and just like had completely assumed that it
was like a sure thing for him and was like
so pissed when I told him I was off case.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
Guys, that is not oh no gentlemanly. No, did we
not hear the man say gentlemanly? Yeah, Well he said
that I was a little suspect. Yeah, sir, are we sure?

Speaker 1 (04:19):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (04:19):
Let us know that he was a gentleman like.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
By no definition of only bringing Ryan. I forgot to
mention that Ryan is here. I'm sorry, I always I'm
very forgetful. Ryan you said gentlemanly. She says, you were
putting the pressure on. That is never okay, that is
not cool.

Speaker 3 (04:32):
I feel like I need to defend myself, like this
has been painted a little a little off.

Speaker 2 (04:37):
Kilter, now, right, why is that?

Speaker 3 (04:40):
Well, so, look like you know, like I said, we
texted a lot before a date, and these text gout
super sexual and super detailed and super graphic, right, like
like she was describing like the positions they like, and
like Fiona told me a bunch of things that she
was going to do to me on their date, and

(05:00):
so like.

Speaker 1 (05:00):
So she initiated this or you were talking like that
and she was like kind of there, No, she's talking
super sexy then to you before the date, and so
that you get the expectation because the communication was sexy,
that then you you should definitely be able to hook
up in real life.

Speaker 2 (05:18):
Yeah, that we're.

Speaker 3 (05:19):
Definitely going to right, Yeah, like, no no questions.

Speaker 2 (05:21):
About it, no, that's not how it works exactly.

Speaker 3 (05:23):
No.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
No talk is one thing. I mean, I can see
how you might, I guess I can see how you
might get that idea. But then when a person says
that they're not they know that they don't want to
do that in real life, then you have to respect
that you can't. It's the freak out part that I
have a problem with.

Speaker 3 (05:39):
Like you may have thought, yeah, I didn't freak out.
No no, no, like I just like I was surprised to
hear her change in her tune. But like, like I said,
I was a gentleman about the whole thing. I didn't
like to push the issue. I was just surprised that
it was that. You know that after all that talk.

Speaker 1 (05:56):
Like nothing, you know, get these sex messages, read them
to me, let me hear no, no, no, no. So, Fiona,
he says he didn't freak out, He was wrong to
have any expectation.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
You say he did freak out.

Speaker 4 (06:07):
Yeah, he absolutely freak out. I don't know what his
definition of gentlemanly is, but that is not mine.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
So again, I want to be really clear.

Speaker 1 (06:14):
Hold on, I want to be really clear that he
has that you, Fiona, have no expectation to do anything
with this man in person, and then when you say no,
that means no. But were you guys like getting into
it was the conversation like a lot about stuff that
that might happen, to the point where he was kind
of maybe a little a little ready.

Speaker 4 (06:30):
To go, Like we were definitely being forty over text,
like that's for sure, but it's just it's just a
different situation in person, and like I was not I
was not into it.

Speaker 1 (06:43):
You know, I agree, and and so you didn't want
to do it, so you said no, And then he's
supposed to be he said he was a gentleman, which
he was not, right, so he was supposed to be like, hey, okay,
that's fine. And then maybe maybe if he had done that,
and then you guys getting back to you know, get
back to talking again a little bit, maybe this could
have gone your way, Ryan, if you hadn't been a jerk.

Speaker 3 (07:01):
I was not a jerk, like I thought. I was
reading the room and everything. This is this is all
very surprising stuff to me.

Speaker 1 (07:09):
You thought wrong it would appear all right. Look, so Fiona,
no you're not interested in this guy, no second date.
We'll pay for it.

Speaker 4 (07:16):
Yeah, I'm good. Thanks. I don't want to see him again.

Speaker 2 (07:20):
There you go, Ryan, not gonna happen. Man. So there's
your answer. Okay, I mean you got chill out right,
I'm being a creep. Yeah, I don't know, guys.

Speaker 3 (07:31):
I again, like her version of this story is not
is not what happened, Like I don't know what her
definition of that is. But like I was, I didn't yell,
I didn't scream, like nothing else.

Speaker 1 (07:42):
Like, well, it's not going to work out, no second date.
So look is your answer, Fiona. Thank you so much
for your time. We appreciate you. Ryan, best of luck
to you as well.

Speaker 3 (07:49):
Okay, thanks,