Just The Highlights 07/15/24

Catch up on today's highlights! Fred hung out with Lee Brice, Jason's mom might be a little jealous of a new neighbor, Paulina did the Big Chop, A new case in KeKe Court & more! 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's the Fresh Show. This is what's trending.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Busy weekend, lots of news and of course you've heard
about this plan now. But former President Donald Trump was
injured Saturday during a rally in Pennsylvania and what the
FBI says was an assassination attempt and a potential act
of domestic terrorism. A gunman and at least one audience
member are dead, and two other attendees were critically injured.
Trump said on social media that he was hit by

(00:25):
a bullet in the upper part of his right ear.
The Secret Service of the former President in safe after
he was rushed off stage. President Joe Biden has ordered
an independent review of security measures at the campaign rally
where this attempt took place. In an address to the
nation on Sunday, Biden once again condemned the violence and
urged Americans to let the FBI investigation unfold. There was

(00:46):
an AT and T data breach, and I guess a
lot of customers are now exposed to different kinds of scams.
So what are you looking for? We need to be
aware of your an AT and T customer. The hackers,
I guess they have a lot of call and text
logs then make it easier to scam you using context
then from your phone. So are you guys getting all

(01:07):
the like random texts that say like, hey, you're in
my phone and I don't know who you are, Like
can you tell me who you?

Speaker 3 (01:13):
Like?

Speaker 2 (01:13):
I'm getting a lady now, I'm getting all these random
texts from numbers I don't know, And I think all
it is is an effort to see if the number
is real, like to see if you'll respond. I think
that's part of the I mean, we did something about
this on the air, and people were calling in telling us,
But it has something to do with a scam to
see if there's someone on the other end. But like
they'll bait you somehow. They'll be like, oh hi, or
hey is this so and so, Or they'll like say

(01:35):
something like hey, I don't know, I can't remember the
last one I got, But I seem to get them
like maybe once or twice a week, and it's the
number I don't know, and it looks like it's a
personal text. But then I'm like, I don't know anybody,
and you know, I don't know Birmingham wherever, Alabama or
something like some random area code.

Speaker 4 (01:52):
You get those two I get those two, it'll be
like hey, are you available today or like something like that,
and I'll be like, wait for what like but then
I don't respond to someone, They're gonna hack me.

Speaker 2 (02:01):
Are you sure you don't respond? I? No, I don't respond.
Do you sometimes say? Well what? Maybe?

Speaker 5 (02:07):
No?

Speaker 4 (02:07):
But I did something really stupid yesterday. Mike was like,
you're an idiot. So I got a letter from Charles Schwab.
I didn't even say it, and they were like, you
have unclaimed money. And I was like, oh okay, So
like I call and I talked to the guy and
they're like, give me all your informations like whatever. But
then I like google the number and it was an
actual number and they're like, you have an account open.
They logged me into my account or whatever. But then

(02:28):
I got off the phone and Mike's like, you're dumb,
Like someone could have like that could have been like
anybody there.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
Well, whose money was it?

Speaker 6 (02:33):
It's mine? I have like an account open, I guess
from whom.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
I don't know what. Yeah, so you just someone opened
an account put money in yours.

Speaker 6 (02:41):
I guess, yeah, I don't.

Speaker 4 (02:45):
But afterwards he was started questioning me and I was like,
oh my god, this is how people get got and
I think.

Speaker 6 (02:49):
I'm smart sometimes Yeah, obviously not. Have you checked your
account today?

Speaker 2 (02:55):
Like, well, I'm scared, Jason. So some random person calls
you and says there's money in an account. You go okay,
and you give them all the info, but you know, well,
what happened to the money?

Speaker 6 (03:07):
It's still in my my Schwab account.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
You didn't know you have?

Speaker 4 (03:12):
Yeah, I think investments or something.

Speaker 6 (03:15):
I don't know who made the investment crypto? I don't know.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
Oh you have crypto?

Speaker 7 (03:18):
No, I don't d dollars?

Speaker 6 (03:23):
How do you get your money?

Speaker 2 (03:24):
Can?

Speaker 6 (03:25):
They said? I can ask for a check, get your check?
Should I get a check?

Speaker 2 (03:28):
He's one of those do you have to write them
a check first? And then the one of those things.

Speaker 6 (03:33):
Like what's your routing number?

Speaker 2 (03:34):
No?

Speaker 6 (03:34):
I didn't. Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
So someone calls your text you and asks you to
do something, you have to verify and make sure it's
actually them, I guess. Do not give out any financial
or personal information unless you can verify who you're communicating with.
Be on guard about deep figs, and know that hackers
probably know your location too. Oh that's good anyway, sorry

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if you're a victim of that. Did you guys see this?
Over the weekend, fans without tickets for Sunday's Copa America
Final climb fences had ram pass security for more than
an hour before the Argentina Columbia match at hard Rock
Stadium in Florida. This forced an hour long delay to
get all the people out that weren't even supposed to

(04:18):
be there. People were climbing through ventilation system vents trying
to get into this thing. This was this really The
last time I saw this was Kaylin trying to get
into the Taylor Swift Show and it was through a
ventilation You should have seen it. I mean, how long
were you crawling through those things? Did you even know
the way to go?

Speaker 6 (04:36):
However long it takes.

Speaker 2 (04:38):
I mean, that was very lucky of you that you
popped down in the right place, because those things are amazes.
They could go on forever.

Speaker 6 (04:43):
Well, the Swifties caught me next, like.

Speaker 2 (04:45):
Fifteen people arrested. Other fans were trying to enter inappropriately.
I don't know what that means inappropriately and then escorted out.
Fans were also caught on video sneaking through the stadium's
ventilation system. Anyway, they delayed this whole thing and then
it went on. I think Argentina one Southwest Airlines is
adding ten flights to its schedule in October to accommodate swifties.

(05:07):
Taylor Swift fans going to the different shows. Southwest on
ten percent bump in bookings in the US markets where
Swift played last year expects the same demand when the
Eras Tour returns to the US in the fall. So
you've got Miami New Orleans, added flights, Nashville and Miami
Baltimore to Fort Lauderdale. All these different flights are adding

(05:29):
to make sure everybody can get there. So here we
go again, Taylor Swift back on US soil, which means
I'm gonna start getting a bunch of those same texts again,
except this time little can't remember me from six years ago? Nope,
no I don't. But man was not popular for was
it last summer? Taylor was here?

Speaker 8 (05:48):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (05:49):
Man? And yeah, I have to say, I mean, the
most difficult ticket maybe ever to get. Honestly, I mean,
has there ever been I don't think in our lifetimes
has there ever been anything quite like Taylor Swift and
people trying to get into the Aras tour. You got
some real balls. If you're going to text someone you
haven't talked to you in years and be like, hey,
remember me. Can I have the most difficult ticket in

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the world, honestly, and people had no shame and I
get it, like why not? You may as well ask,
but I mean one of the odds. I mean, come on,
at least like butter me up, a little, warm me up,
a little bit like some foreplay. Ask me how my day?
You know, come on, make it seem like you care
about me. But I'm sure that's about to start again.
It must have been worse for you. Jason. Yeahs as

(06:32):
the holder of the tickets.

Speaker 4 (06:33):
It was wild, but I very much got ahead of
it and I was like, I have nothing, don't come
to me, don't ask me.

Speaker 6 (06:38):
I got nothing.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
That's actually part of my disclaimer now, like if I
meet someone and I'm like, if I can ever do anything,
do anything for you, let me know anything, but Taylor
Swift tickets. You can ask me for whatever you want.
No Harry Styles and no Taylor Swift.

Speaker 6 (06:49):
Yeah. Oh yeah, it was bad.

Speaker 2 (06:51):
Can help you. It's social media Giving Day, encouraging everyone
to use social media to make a difference in the
world by promoting charitable giving. Get out of the doghouse
day to day, National Gummy Warm Day, National I Love
Horses Day, It's National Pet Fire Safety Day, and National
Give Something Away Day today as well. So those a

(07:12):
lot of days you got to pay attention to all that.
The Entertainment Report two minutes from now. Fred Show's on.
Ever been left waiting by the phone? It's The Fred Show. Hey, Jesse,
good morning, Welcome to the program.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
How are you hey, I'm doing good things.

Speaker 2 (07:29):
Are you all right doing? Okay? What's going on with
this woman? Summer on? Waiting by the phone?

Speaker 5 (07:34):
Here?

Speaker 2 (07:34):
You guys, tell us how you met, and then about
any dates that you've been on, and then why you
think you're being ghosted and how we can help.

Speaker 3 (07:40):
Yeah, I mean we met on Tinder and she was
beautiful and so I, you know, I wanted to make
a good impression and it seemed to work.

Speaker 1 (07:52):
I got her number and we had some drinks. It
was a Friday that that.

Speaker 3 (07:58):
Was the night that we hung out and got a
little tipsy after after hanging and we ended up back
at her place, okay, and yeah, yeah we did.

Speaker 1 (08:11):
We hooked up and I thought that was a good sign.

Speaker 3 (08:14):
I thought, you know, green flag, green flag, green flag,
all across the board. And then she goes to me
like like nothing, like I even like waited a little bit,
you know, didn't want to, like I didn't want to
you know, seem desperate or anything. But like now it's
just like, I don't know, we had good chemistry. I thought,

(08:35):
like not just physical, but also like I don't know,
I thought there was something more. Yeah, so it's just
surprising to me that like it's just complete ghosting after
like such a good time.

Speaker 2 (08:49):
Yeah, these are always the puzzling ones for me, where
the date went so well that you're back to someone's
place and stuff's going on and whatever that that's usually
all good. So you know, it's kind of weird that
then after that you don't hear any thing. And I'm
sure I was bugging you because you were probably excited
about the potential with Summer. So I'm gonna play a song.
I'm gonna come back in a couple of minutes, gonna
call Summer. You'll be on the phone. We'll ask these questions,

(09:09):
see if we can figure out what's going on, and
you know, as always, our hope is that wee can
straighten things out and then set you guys up on
another date.

Speaker 8 (09:16):
And pay for them.

Speaker 2 (09:19):
Let's see what's up. It parts to you of waiting
by the phone right after Submarina Carpenter back in two minutes,
it's the Fread Show, the Carpenter, It's the Fred Show.
It's two hundred bucks with show be is Shelley in
ten minutes you win after the entertainer report, that's coming
up to Hey Jesse. Hey, okay, let's call Summer. You guys,
you met on one of the apps. You went out,
had a great date. It went back to her place.
You guys messed around, you said, but you have not

(09:40):
heard from her since, and you're confused because you thought
everything went really well. You want to know what's going on. Yeah,
well let's call her now. Good luck, Jesse, thank you. Hello.

Speaker 3 (09:55):
Hi?

Speaker 2 (09:56):
Is this Summer?

Speaker 9 (09:58):
Hi?

Speaker 6 (09:58):
Yes, it is Hey Summer.

Speaker 1 (09:59):
Hi.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the
Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, and I do have
to tell you that we are on the radio right now,
and I do need your permission to continue with the call.
Can we chat for just a second? Do you mind okay, sure, well,
thank you very much. We're calling on behalf of a
dude named Jesse who reached out to us. I guess
you met him on a dating app and recently went
on a date. Do you remember Do you recall going

(10:21):
out with this guy? Do you remember him? Yeah? Okay,
So he told us he called us. He told us
that he really enjoyed meeting you and thought the chemistry
was there. He said that you guys did mess around
at your place after the date that was you know,
he didn't get too specific, but he also says that
he has not been able to get ahold of you
since the date. You're not responding to him, and he
feels like he's being left on red. So what what's

(10:41):
going on? Why are you ghosting him? Why?

Speaker 9 (10:45):
Well, I can't I can't believe I really have to
share all these details online or you know, on the phone.
This is a little weird.

Speaker 2 (10:53):
It is a little weird, but we'd love to know
all the details.

Speaker 6 (10:55):
You don't have to, but we need you.

Speaker 2 (10:57):
Don't. You don't have to, but like you do, you
know what I mean? Like you could hang up, but
that'd be really upsetting to us. So what are the
details that you're reluctant to tell us.

Speaker 9 (11:06):
Well, I mean, you don't know and judge me here,
but yeah, we met and went out for drinks and
ended up hooking up at my place, and I mean
it was it was fine, but yeah, I haven't really
caught him back for a reason, which is gosh, I
can't live I have to say this. Okay, Well, when
we were in bed after we hooked up, he went

(11:29):
to get dressed, and I noticed his boxers had a
bunch of holes and then like in the back and
kind of kind of everywhere, and it was they looked
like they were hanging.

Speaker 6 (11:39):
On by a threat.

Speaker 9 (11:39):
It was really literally kind of disturbing. Yeah, it was
kind of gross.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
So you you were disturbed by his ripped Holy boxer
brief or roches' shorts. I guess in this case, like
they just looked old and worn out.

Speaker 9 (11:55):
Yeah, it looked very unsanitary. I'm just like thinking, you
know about I don't know all the gross things that
happened down there, and I don't.

Speaker 2 (12:03):
Know how do you think those holes were created? Exactly
like which.

Speaker 6 (12:08):
I okay, but you're already hooked up.

Speaker 9 (12:14):
I said, no judgment, I'm sorry, Okay, I'll just make
sure I get it.

Speaker 6 (12:18):
I would be like, you can't put on your good.

Speaker 10 (12:19):
Toonies for me, but he already hit it. I mean,
you need to have one pair of underwear that doesn't
have holes of it.

Speaker 2 (12:28):
Okay, here's my question. You didn't apparently didn't see the
underwear before the acts. You're saying me, no, okay, But
then in the process of hooking up with him, did
you notice anything unsanitary, like any strange smell, holes, or
I mean, did he appear to be put together and
sort of clean, you know, other than the the old underwear. Okay,
So yeah, there's a chance there's a hole in my

(12:50):
sock that I'm wearing right now. There is a chance
of it on the bottom. I'm not I can't confirm
or deny, but I'm saying like, just because there are
holes in underwear does not mean that the person is unclean.

Speaker 6 (13:01):
Right there might have been his lucky underwear, like he knew, you.

Speaker 2 (13:04):
Know, let me ask him because he's here, Jesse, he's
been very quiet. But Jesse, what's up with the holes
in the underwear? Like, why don't we get just get
you know, a new underwear that's a little more presentable.

Speaker 3 (13:16):
I'm I'm honestly like shocked that that's what that that's
what she said. I'm a little bit floored. I'll be
real like like I I they're just like old boxes.

Speaker 1 (13:30):
It was laundry day.

Speaker 3 (13:31):
I threw him on. I didn't expect that we were
going to hook up, and you know, things went well.
I don't know, I don't know what to tell you.
I'm surprised that that's that's the.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
Hang up here. I thought everything was going good this summer.

Speaker 2 (13:47):
I mean, I guess it could. There could be reservations, like,
I don't know what else in your life have you
not replaced that. I'm sure you know what does your
house look like?

Speaker 5 (13:55):
You know?

Speaker 2 (13:55):
I guess I guess you could go there. But I
don't know that. I think he's unclean. They could be clean.

Speaker 3 (14:01):
That far, that's too far. That's straight up too far.
I like, like, from going from like having like Holy
boxers to not being clean, that's a stretch.

Speaker 1 (14:13):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (14:13):
That seems like a stretch for me, Jesse.

Speaker 9 (14:15):
It just tells me you don't like take care of
yourself and take pride in what you wear, how you
present yourself.

Speaker 11 (14:21):
That was our first date.

Speaker 6 (14:22):
I was cute, I had nice under her on, Like.

Speaker 8 (14:24):
Yeah, I guess I do think about that, like you
did have to underwear on, and like, what what's it?

Speaker 1 (14:31):
What's it?

Speaker 3 (14:32):
Like?

Speaker 1 (14:32):
What's it mean?

Speaker 3 (14:33):
If I don't like for the first time, like we meet,
Like that's it's a first it's a first encounter.

Speaker 2 (14:39):
Yeah, I mean are you cheap? Like are you? Do
you not? I don't know, but I mean the clothes
he was wearing were presentable, obviously, right, I mean summer.
I mean, look, everything led to a point where there
were no clothes, So everything leading up to you seeing
that gave you every indication that this is a guy
that you would like. And so he has holes in
his underwear and so we can never talk to him again, apparently, like.

Speaker 9 (15:03):
It I cannot see it?

Speaker 2 (15:05):
Don't you really? You would just qualify a man with
holes in his underwear.

Speaker 7 (15:08):
Absolutely at least have the decency to like kick it
under the bat or something to hide it, like get
rid of the evidence.

Speaker 2 (15:14):
But he eventually I had to put him back on
to leave.

Speaker 6 (15:16):
Oh yeah, especially not to see that. Okay, I'll admit it.

Speaker 7 (15:19):
I have had holes in my underwear before, Like that's
normal for women. However, I would never let a man
see that, not even my husband.

Speaker 6 (15:26):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 12 (15:27):
I mean, are we asking too much for just one
pair of underwear for a date without holes?

Speaker 2 (15:31):
God? Okay, but we must remember it all led to
the point where there was no clothing, including the clothing
with holes. So everything was going to the communication was good. Obviously,
he was presentable from the exterior. He was put together,
he was clean, he showered. I mean, there were no
issues until Wow. Well, I'm just saying.

Speaker 13 (15:51):
With a guy who doesn't shower for three days, right,
this is an excellent choice.

Speaker 7 (15:55):
That's true.

Speaker 2 (15:59):
We don't know that all the underwear is this way.
Like maybe he maybe that was just the last pair.
We've all been there, we've all been down to the
last pair, and we're like, oh.

Speaker 8 (16:07):
Boy, right, like was laundry day.

Speaker 6 (16:14):
We got another issue?

Speaker 2 (16:18):
Yeah, Hey, he's frustrated. Is he liked the girl and
he's upset. He's upset because he's being disqualified because of
his holy underwear. All right, look, Summer, let's say that
we use part of the budget for this date and
we get the man some new hies, Yeah, some new
fruit of the loom. We send the guy over to
Tommy John or whatever. Get him some nice fancy, some

(16:41):
nice fancy boxer briefs, then summer, would you give him
another chance? Or is it just too late?

Speaker 9 (16:46):
Yeah, it's too late. It's just I'm not his mom,
and I already feel like we're momming him with the boxes,
saying like you should be a grown a doll, and no,
you shouldn't be wearing Holly underwear on a first date.

Speaker 2 (16:56):
Well that's a good point.

Speaker 9 (16:58):
I'm not asking for a lot.

Speaker 2 (16:59):
I mean, I hear you. I'm just I'm trying to
I'm really trying to see the good of this. But
I understand you. This is your expectation. I think it's fair.
But anyway, I'm sorry, Jesse. We can't fix this one
for you.

Speaker 3 (17:09):
No, I found through this, through this chat that I
don't think it skipped for me either.

Speaker 2 (17:17):
But throw the underwear away. Let's just get some new underwear.
Let's make sure we don't have holes in our underwear.
We are grown ups. I mean, it's it's an easy
thing to do, right.

Speaker 3 (17:23):
Yeah, I mean, yes, that's I'll get new underwear.

Speaker 2 (17:28):
Thank you. Good we did our good deed today. That's wonderful, summer.
Thank you for your time, Jesse you as well. Best
of luck to both of you. Yeah, hey, Alex, how
you doing.

Speaker 1 (17:40):
Hey, what's up? I'm doing fantastic.

Speaker 2 (17:41):
How about yourself, Alex Man, welcome to the program. Tell
us about you.

Speaker 1 (17:46):
Let's see, I'm thirty nine years old. I'll be forty
August eighteenth.

Speaker 3 (17:49):
I'm the proud owner of Park Course Window Cleaning.

Speaker 1 (17:53):
We do commercial and residential window cleaning. And right on.

Speaker 2 (17:58):
Damn well, so plugg ding. You're welcome for the free advertising.
Well we got kids. Two waterbucks is the prize today.
My man Shelley's record nine and eleven wins, sixty losses
and two straight wins.

Speaker 6 (18:15):
You guys ready, all right, ready, you get buck?

Speaker 2 (18:18):
Yeah, with all the respects. Get the hell out. Whoa
whoa hell we got a daycare? Go, we get a
window cleaning and daycare. What's going on here?

Speaker 5 (18:28):
We go?

Speaker 2 (18:29):
Question number one, Alex. In an interesting turn of events,
Alec Baldwin's trial has been dismissed. What movie was he
working on at the time of the incident?

Speaker 8 (18:39):
Three?

Speaker 6 (18:41):
Two?

Speaker 2 (18:43):
We got four more. We're gonna rally. It's all good, Alex.
Many people are paying tribute to this Beverly Hills nine
oh two n O actress after she sadly lost her
battle with breast cancer.

Speaker 6 (18:56):
Three two.

Speaker 2 (18:58):
I mean, my man, we did all the stories. But anyway,
Jimmy Butler joined country singer Parker McCollum on stage at
the Windy City Smoke Out in Chicago over the weekend.
What sport does Jimmy play professionally? You know this? Here
you go. In an online video, Selena Gomez said she
said I love you to her boyfriend first? Who is

(19:18):
her boyfriend?

Speaker 6 (19:23):
Three two?

Speaker 2 (19:25):
All right, well, Alex, let's go for a two here,
let's let's rally. Let's save this. You ready, I'm begging you.
Patrick Mahomes and his wife are expecting their third child together.
Name his wife, Name his wife, Brittany, Say Brittany, Brittany. Yes,

(19:47):
fantastic too, excellent, Okay, good. Let's bring Shelley back. I
think she'll be okay too, is what he? I feel
good about this for you, Schelle. In an interesting turn
of events, Alec Baldwin Stral has been dismissed. What movie
was he working on at the time of the incident?

Speaker 6 (20:05):
Russ?

Speaker 2 (20:05):
Yeah, many people are paying tribute to this. Beverly Hills
nine oh two e O actress after she sadly lost
her battle with breast cancer. Shannon Jordan Jimmy Butler joined
country singer Parker Parker McCollum. Yehow Country and Western on
stage at the Windy City Smokeout over the weekend. What
sports does Jimmy play professionally?

Speaker 6 (20:22):
Basketball?

Speaker 2 (20:23):
Yeah? In online videos, Selena Gomez said she said I
love you to her boyfriend first. Who's her boyfriend?

Speaker 6 (20:28):
Benny Blanco?

Speaker 2 (20:29):
Yes, Benny Blanco's correct. I mean what Alex is trying
to run in like an operation on the side, Like
is he like a drill instructor too? Or what's going on?
And Patrick Mahomes and his wife are expecting their third
child together. Their name is wife for Britney. Britney. Britney's correct.
That's a win. That's a five win, number nine twelve,
three straight, two fifty tomorrow. That's surprise, my man, Alex,

(20:52):
you do have to say it though. My name is Alex.
I got showed up on a showdown. You know the rest.

Speaker 1 (20:59):
My name is Alex. I got showed up on the showdown.

Speaker 2 (21:02):
And Alex and now we're customs to Alex. Come on, man, Alex,
you're a mess. I love you, Alex.

Speaker 8 (21:11):
You can't hang a real cat.

Speaker 6 (21:17):
Cat cat cat cat cat Cat Alex. Got a lot
going Oh freedom man.

Speaker 2 (21:26):
Cat cat.

Speaker 9 (21:28):
Cat cat.

Speaker 2 (21:34):
Alex, Alex, Alex, I love you, man. Hang on a second,
have a great day. Go make all those windows crystal clean. Man,
you're gonna do a great chat. Shelly, you need some
window cleaning. I'll send the guy over.

Speaker 6 (21:45):
Yes, actually I do.

Speaker 2 (21:48):
Good. I'm gonna send him over to your house. So
tomorrow it's two fifty three straight nice job shells. We'll
talk to you that have a.

Speaker 6 (21:55):
Good Daycome and I did.

Speaker 2 (21:58):
You're referring to this as them cut.

Speaker 7 (22:00):
Yeah, so they called the mom chop. I didn't know
I had a name. I call it the Kaalin, but
apparently called the mom chop. So when moms give birth
or they have kids, whatever, they just chop off all
their hair.

Speaker 6 (22:10):
It's a thing like the long hair is no longer.

Speaker 2 (22:13):
So what'd you cut off? Maybe six inches?

Speaker 7 (22:15):
Yeah, right, a lot? Because my hair is not long
at all. And they wear extensions, but I haven't had
them in a while. But I would say a good amount.
When I saw that video posted of me playing the
definitely gonna be Paulina game and I saw my hair
and you guys let me look like that.

Speaker 6 (22:27):
I was so upset.

Speaker 2 (22:28):
You looked fun you Yeah, what do you think that is?
I'm curious? Eight five five five three five What do
you think that is?

Speaker 9 (22:34):
Like?

Speaker 2 (22:34):
What's that about? What is it? Is it that you
just get tired of You're trying to simplify your life
after you have a kid, and it's just there's so
much going on. You don't have to wash your hair,
mess with it, so you just cut it off.

Speaker 6 (22:43):
So our friend Ac I saw her over the weekend.

Speaker 7 (22:45):
She told me that because she did it too, and
she's like, yeah, we just think it's easier, so we
just chop it off, you know, less time to like,
you know, do it, get it ready.

Speaker 6 (22:52):
For me, it was more of like an identity thing.
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (22:56):
I was just like, you know what, like, my hair
doesn't look that great. Let's go for a new look,
new era, right mom era.

Speaker 6 (23:01):
I was like, let's just do it.

Speaker 7 (23:01):
I didn't know it had a whole term and there
was a whole movement behind it. I just thought it
was me cutting my hair off. But people say they
do it all the time for that reason because they
don't want to get ready the baby.

Speaker 6 (23:10):
Also, the baby starts to pull your hair.

Speaker 7 (23:12):
That's like a pain the ass because oh really, yeah,
my daughter my hair hearings because she's doing the.

Speaker 6 (23:17):
Reaching thing now, so like when I put her down,
it's me and the hair going down.

Speaker 2 (23:21):
Because I've had like a mental breakdown before where I
think I want to shave. I have shaved my beard
off because it just felt like it felt cleansing, Like
I can't really describe it, but I never felt more
like Britney than I did. This was years ago, but like,
I don't know, I felt like I had to take
some drastic control over my life somehow. I'm like, what
am I gonna do? And I just I don't know.
It like felt like I needed to strip myself of

(23:41):
all ancillary I don't know. I wouldn't shave my beard off.
It was random and I felt like in control until
I looked at myself. I was like, this looks terrible
grow back.

Speaker 7 (23:50):
Maybe that's what I did in control thing because I
didn't even plan it. It was Thursday after work and
I hit up one of my girls and I was like, Hey,
I just want to cut this off. Can I come
in and she's like, yeah. I walked in, sat down
to like what are we doing? And I was like,
just chop it off? Like that's not like me.

Speaker 6 (24:04):
Girls usually plan these things like should I do it? Whatever?
When I went blonde, I thought about this for weeks.

Speaker 2 (24:10):
That's why I was asking was it a practical thing?
Was it an emotional thing? I think it was emotional
for it.

Speaker 7 (24:14):
Well, kind of both emotional because I saw a video
of myself and I was like, my hair looks like
a rat's nest.

Speaker 6 (24:18):
It was awful, Like I know it's curly, but it
looked so bad.

Speaker 2 (24:22):
Hold on, Alyssa, you chopped all your hair off too?

Speaker 6 (24:24):
All of it?

Speaker 9 (24:25):
Oh?

Speaker 14 (24:26):
Okay? So yes I did. I shaved my head. Oh
and people at people came to me and at least
side and asked, Melissa, is everything of chase or are
you okay? Do you want to talk about it? And
I'm like nope. I just at the time I was single,
so I knew I wasn't going to scare anyone away.

(24:46):
So yes, I chopped off my hair. It was a
liberating thing and I loved it.

Speaker 2 (24:52):
Yeah, it does feel like you're taking control or over something.
I guess is what it is? So how long was
the hair before you shaved it off?

Speaker 14 (25:00):
So my hair was I don't know, let's say it
was probably it was packed my shoulders, mid.

Speaker 2 (25:06):
Back, okay, drastic. So you walked in with like mid
back long hair and you walked out with bald shaved
or just really shake oh oh.

Speaker 14 (25:16):
I shaved. I ended up doing well. I shaved and
then I ended up going into a cute pixie cup
for a year or two.

Speaker 9 (25:23):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (25:24):
Okay, So I can see why people might think that
now here was the second part of this.

Speaker 14 (25:28):
They're like, they're like, are you having your Britney Spearson quinn.
I'm like, okay, is it is it not okay for
women to just chop there here? And it's like, I
don't have to have a mental disability, you know, to
chop off?

Speaker 2 (25:40):
Well I do, So it's fine, It's it's all good.

Speaker 1 (25:44):
Now.

Speaker 2 (25:44):
You mentioned and Paulina mentioned this too off the air,
but you mentioned Alyssa that you didn't have a partner,
so you didn't feel like you had to run this
by anybody.

Speaker 14 (25:52):
Paulina, no, no go ahead, that I had that permission
or anything. But it was like, you know, eyes have
preference and I knew, you know, maybe if I was
doing someone that, you know, they'd be like, no, oh
my god, I love your hair I have. I have
curly hair naturally, and I you know, i'll sil it
from time to time. But I was like, you know what,

(26:13):
I don't have anyone that's gonna tell me no, don't
do it, aside from maybe my family. So I did it.
I shaved it, and I got more compliments shaved than
I actually did it with my natural hair.

Speaker 2 (26:26):
Oh right, fair enough, thank you, listen, have a good day.

Speaker 14 (26:30):
Thank you too.

Speaker 2 (26:30):
So people were asking you, Paulina, if you asked hobby
ahead of time and did you.

Speaker 6 (26:34):
No, he didn't even know I was going. He was
at work that day and I chexted himy, I'm gonna
go cut my hair.

Speaker 7 (26:39):
And I don't think he expected that much, but I
said him a picture of the hair on the floor,
and it's a lot of hair because you know, I
didn't just trim it. I mean I cut off a lot.
And he was just like oh, And I sent a
picture of my hair and he was like, oh, we
went short, and I was like, yeah, we did.

Speaker 6 (26:50):
And so his short hair Queen is what he calls me.

Speaker 7 (26:52):
No. Oh, I know he likes it. He prefers it's
a preference thing. He prefers longer hair. But I did
what I did, But you don't have it.

Speaker 6 (27:00):
Ask no, No, I mean, have you met me. I'm
not asking nobody.

Speaker 2 (27:03):
If you were gonna, like, if you're gonna shave your head,
I guess I can see asking, But I mean cutting
to a few inches off. It's nobody's business. But I mean,
if you're gonna completely transform the way you look, shouldn't
I mean that's not to say you can't, but shouldn't
you at least consult the person Kiki? I mean like
consult like again, if they say no, I don't know

(27:24):
that that means you don't do it. But I mean,
you know, if you're with someone and they're attracted to
the way that you look, and again they don't get
the final say. But I mean, wouldn't you want to
be considerate of what this other person who's highly invested
in you thinks of the way that you look.

Speaker 1 (27:37):
Yeah, this is a.

Speaker 13 (27:38):
Constant argument in my house because I don't ask anybody anything.
You know, I switch wigs from Monday to Thursday. I
might be a whole Another person However, I feel like
with Big Tim, like you should talk to me about
what I would like for your hair. And so he's
on this whole thing like I'm growing my hair out
and it's not even up for discussion. I'm like, okay,
I mean you want to go down that road, but

(27:59):
I feel like I should have a say in how
he looks.

Speaker 2 (28:02):
But he did well raetorical question. He doesn't get a
saying how you look? I knew the answer. I always
feel like I make good decisions for me, don't, well,
then he should make make great decisions for him. The
other thing is he's not going to say anything to
you because you got so many wigs that one day
you got this kind of hair, and if he doesn't
like it, the next day you'll have a different kind
of hair exactly.

Speaker 13 (28:21):
So it's not like it's permanent, but with him, it's permanent.
So that's why I'm like, you should talk to your partner,
even women. I feel like, you know, we obviously can
do whatever we want, but like, if I was to
go shave my head or to like do a significant haircut,
I would talk to him about it because I want
to be you know what I'm saying I wanted to
be attracted.

Speaker 2 (28:37):
At least have a conversation, and anyone who's like, do
not do that like I dump you or something like
somebody that will buy.

Speaker 3 (28:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (28:44):
No, you don't get to control me like that, but
I think it's considerate.

Speaker 6 (28:47):
Was that bad for not asking? Or I like him
because I told him when I told the world basically, no,
you look cute.

Speaker 2 (28:53):
It looks great, but it's not. It's not that direct
like if you'd gone like a like a I.

Speaker 6 (28:57):
Don't know about scottishman.

Speaker 2 (28:58):
Yeah, I mean you got I think you got to
at least say, hey, heads up, this is what I'm
thinking about doing, because that's a that is a that
you are changing the way you look fundamentally correct at
that case. In that case, Hey Ashley, hie bye, good morning.
So you're also a new mom cut all your hair off?

Speaker 15 (29:14):
Good morning?

Speaker 9 (29:14):
Yes I did.

Speaker 16 (29:15):
I kind of had to.

Speaker 7 (29:18):
My son is going to be uh.

Speaker 12 (29:21):
One in two weeks, and when he was four months old,
my hair started coming out.

Speaker 5 (29:28):
The most part of hair loss was real.

Speaker 2 (29:32):
I'm all icy, okay, so then you just cut it
short to sort of I don't know, mitigate.

Speaker 12 (29:38):
Yes, I had it was just no loner serving me,
it had to go.

Speaker 16 (29:42):
Okay, So this was and I loved it, and they
grab it, they grabbed that hair everything they did it okay.

Speaker 14 (29:49):
So for those reasons, it.

Speaker 2 (29:51):
Was just it was time to go, and I love
it all right, fair enough, thank you, Ashley.

Speaker 16 (29:56):
You're welcome.

Speaker 17 (29:57):
A good day.

Speaker 2 (29:58):
They haven't hi. You wanted to You wanted to show
the outside. You wanted to show all the people how
much your life has changed. So you chopped it all off.

Speaker 6 (30:07):
That's right, that's right, Good morning morning.

Speaker 17 (30:09):
So after I had my baby, I felt like a
whole different person, like now I'm a mama, you know.
Before I had the long, curly hair and going out
and all that, and then all of a sudden, I
had this precious little baby girl, and I cut my hair.
And I think subconsciously it was because I wanted to
reflect on the outside that I was a different person

(30:32):
now that I'm a mama. So I got my hair cut,
and I don't think I actually realized it at the time,
but I was a new person and I wanted to,
you know, show everybody, hey, I'm a mama now.

Speaker 6 (30:47):
So I changed my look to reflect the way that
I had changed inside.

Speaker 2 (30:51):
So you don't think. Maybe you holding the kid was
like enough for them to go, hey, she's got a kidnap,
she's a mom. And did you did you ask Linda?
I don't know if you have a partner, but did
you ask your partner at a time? But did you
just do it?

Speaker 9 (31:02):
No?

Speaker 1 (31:02):
I did not, No, I did not.

Speaker 6 (31:04):
I got a pixie cut and I came home and
he said, what the hell.

Speaker 3 (31:07):
Did you do?

Speaker 2 (31:10):
I'm a mom? Now did you tell him Linda?

Speaker 1 (31:12):
I'm a mom?

Speaker 2 (31:13):
Now give my heads up? That's how he found out.
Thank you, Linda, have a great day. Kay loves you
Blogs next waiting by the phone. His new money was
always except saying a lot Jason Brown Goo, Yes, thank you,
dear blogs.

Speaker 4 (31:26):
So my parents, let's see, I'm thirty five, so they've
been married like thirty six years. And something happened recently
in interaction with them that I got to witness that
I thought was just hilarious. So my dad's retired, my
mom still goes to work every day. And there's a
new neighbor in town. She is a single woman and
her let's call her Donna, okay, and she you know,

(31:50):
when you do.

Speaker 2 (31:51):
That, you're supposed to make up the name. Is that
really Donna? Let's call her Donna. Yeah, her name is Donna.

Speaker 4 (31:56):
No in for her as donnay or may not be Donna.
So she is single and walks her dog like every
day up and down the street, and my dad like
sits outside or he's outside, you know, working, you know,
in the yard or whatever, and she'll stop and they'll talk.
My dad is like the mayor of the neighborhood, right,
Like he has nothing to do, so he just like

(32:17):
sits home all day, plays with the dogs, and like
talks to neighbors. So my mom thought out that this
was happening, and she's like, oh, well, she's why is
she walking down here?

Speaker 6 (32:26):
Like you can't talk to her?

Speaker 1 (32:27):
Like whatever.

Speaker 4 (32:27):
I was like, Mom, you are about to be sixty,
my dad is sixty seven years old, and you're worried
about Donna in the pink yoga pants walking down here
with her dog talking to James.

Speaker 6 (32:39):
Brown, Like what is going on? I just thought it
was so funny that they'd been married so long.

Speaker 4 (32:44):
And this is the first time that I ever sort
of saw my mom's like claws come out, like she's
gonna attack this woman if she tries to make a
move on her man.

Speaker 6 (32:52):
That's why I'm like staring on business.

Speaker 2 (32:54):
I can get some pink yoga pants, Linda.

Speaker 6 (32:57):
Writes, Now I have a birthday present for her.

Speaker 2 (32:59):
Yeah, so I don't know there's neighbor.

Speaker 6 (33:03):
Yeah, And I just never seen that side of my mom.

Speaker 2 (33:05):
And I'm like, mom, you think your dad like plays
into it? Now he kind of likes it.

Speaker 6 (33:10):
Well now it's like a it's like a joke.

Speaker 4 (33:12):
And I'm like when we're like talking about like oh, Dad,
like what did Donna say about that?

Speaker 6 (33:15):
Or like did you ask? Yeah, we have a little
left left.

Speaker 13 (33:20):
I'm with missus Brown, Okay, stand down business about your man.
You gotta watch miss Donna, Miss Parker soever coming out
water in that grass, walking.

Speaker 1 (33:29):
Up and down the street.

Speaker 13 (33:30):
It's a lot of ways for you to walk up
down the street. And I need to walk past my
man and my house. So I am with missus Brown
how to set on business. And then whenever miss Parker
get to walk in or what's her name, Donna's donna
get to walk in, she get out there and walk
your brother, Duke.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
You're so confusing to me because you're you know, no
one can talk to your man, but then you don't
claim your man.

Speaker 6 (33:54):
I don't claim him, just not on my Texas.

Speaker 2 (33:59):
I don't know it. It's a strange dichotomy. It's like,
stay away from him, but I'm single, so you have
to stay away from me, but stay away from him.
Waiting by the phone is new at Next Friend Show,
Fresh Show. It's Kiki's Court, all right, the Honorable Kikileik
is in the courtroom. Judge, take it away.

Speaker 6 (34:19):
Oh yes, court is in session.

Speaker 13 (34:22):
Okay, this one has me torn, so I definitely need
the thirteen to wait in It says hey, Kei, Kei,
my name is Maya and I'm getting married in September.

Speaker 6 (34:31):
Please tell me if I'm wrong.

Speaker 13 (34:32):
But I just had the biggest argument with my sister,
who also happens to be my maid of honor. The
argument started because we're going over my wedding guest list
and my sister ex wor plus one.

Speaker 6 (34:43):
She's been dating this.

Speaker 13 (34:44):
Guy for a few months and now all of a sudden,
she wants to bring him to my wedding. I said
no because my fiance and I are paying for this
wedding out of our pockets and our budget is already tight.
I'm not paying for some random guy that you're dating.
If you're not married, you don't deserve a plus one.
Single people need to understand that, why would I pay

(35:06):
for someone to just start that you just started dating
to eat and drink for free. Now she's threatening to
drop out of my wedding and causing a lot of
drama all because of her little boyfriend.

Speaker 6 (35:16):
Am I wrong?

Speaker 1 (35:19):
Wow?

Speaker 2 (35:19):
I've always been a little like unclear on the rules
with the plus ones same same cause, like you know,
people will say, well, you get the invitation, and it
will say and guessed, But I've had plus ones where
it didn't say that right. And then I've also like
had to do the uncomfortable thing where I have to
ask like, hey, can I bring somebody to this thing
or you know, and then you ask, well, I mean,

(35:41):
I don't know what else. Isn't that better than just
showing up with somebody?

Speaker 13 (35:44):
Well, if they don't put plus one on my invitation,
I just assume that a plus one is not allowed.
And that's what I think is like crossing the wires
here because Maya, like you, I understand, this is your
wedding and a wedding is not a date night you
know what I'm saying. A lot of people get that confused.
A wedding is not a party for the family. A
wedding is not a family reunion. It's somebody's wedding. So

(36:05):
you have all rights to invite whoever you want and
disinvite whoever you don't want. However, to say single people
don't deserve a plus one, that's a little that's a
little crazy to me. But if I get an invite
and I don't see the option for a plus one,
I just automatically assume that I cannot bring somebody.

Speaker 6 (36:23):
Well, because this is where it gets confusing.

Speaker 2 (36:25):
Most of the time, the RSVP card is the same
for everybody, so like you have to look at I
guess how it's addressed to you, like if it's so
and so and guests or whatever. But because like oftentimes
everybody has the thing to fill in, you know, I
summer custom, I guess, and it will only give you
one choice, but like others will be like how many
are attending, and it's.

Speaker 6 (36:44):
Like whoa sacred chicken? Then it'll say like two, yeah, right.

Speaker 2 (36:47):
Well I'm taking I'm bringing all three my girlfriends. I mean,
there's an empty line there I just filled it in.
Yeah that's crazy, but I get it, and I don't
get it because I feel like, if you're inviting me
to an event, it's maybe not fair to assume that
I'm just going to show up by myself. Maybe I
don't know a lot of people there. Maybe it's kind
of I don't mean.

Speaker 13 (37:06):
It's your sister's wedding. So if your sister told you,
Amanda was like, Fred, you're in my wedding. I need
you at my wedding. You're my brother, but you cannot
bring the girl you just started dating five months ago.

Speaker 2 (37:16):
Well you know what's your drop back? That actually did happen? Oh,
I was seeing somebody and for a couple of months
before my sister got married. And the only rule was
my parents were like, don't bring this girl. The first
time that we meet her should not be at your
sister's wedding, like we need cause we're not going to
have a chance to really even meet her because we're
going to be busy with other stuff. So you need
to bring you need to bring her around before then.

(37:38):
And then that we went wound up breaking up, so
it didn't matter. But there was a rule. It was
basically don't bring this person around here for the very
first time unless we've also had a chance to get
to know work.

Speaker 1 (37:49):
I could.

Speaker 2 (37:49):
It would be uncomfortable for her too.

Speaker 13 (37:51):
Right, But if she had given you the ultimatum like
I don't care if you bring her around. You've only
been dating her for five months, she's not allowed to
come to my wedding. Would you have been upset with
Amanda or threatening to drop out of her wedding at No?

Speaker 2 (38:05):
Okay no, But I also think, like, I mean, I
should be able to bring up somebody with me. I ASSUREE,
I shouldn't have to just because I'm single doesn't mean
or I'm unmarried. Really in this case, yeah, it doesn't
mean I should have to show up everything by myself.

Speaker 13 (38:19):
That's what I say to as a single woman, you know,
I feel like I should get a plus one. But
in my case, in her case, if I'm only dating
this guy a couple months, I don't know if he's
going to be around a long time. Like, people need
to understand, a wedding is very expensive, and when you
think about putting it together, I would think if I
wouldn't pay seventy dollars or more for a dinner with
this person.

Speaker 6 (38:40):
Why would I invite them to my wedding.

Speaker 7 (38:41):
Because she's your maid of honor and she's your sister,
and I would be okay with her bringing the guy
that she's dating, Like that's completely fine.

Speaker 6 (38:49):
To me, honestly.

Speaker 7 (38:50):
And I say this for you guys too, like, if
you are single, you can bring a plus one that
doesn't bother me. I think at that point the host
or the brideing room should just offer that to their guests.
Like for example, with Rufeo, I said, Rufio and Jests
are invited. Rufio wasn't going to come with no other
plus one. It was Rufio and Jess because there are
a couple and I know them, they're married. But for
like you guys or whoever was single, I said, bring

(39:11):
bring somebody if you'd like. Kaylen brought a friend, Like,
I was completely okay with you. Kaylen brought a friend.
And then I probed she was propped.

Speaker 2 (39:16):
Up against me.

Speaker 6 (39:17):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah I was.

Speaker 1 (39:18):
I was.

Speaker 2 (39:18):
I was a physical tripod for this woman, Like yeah,
like literally was weekend at Bernie's at your wedding. It was, yeah,
she brought a friend and it was here and after
two drinks. She was so hammered. It was just proper
up against the six foot five guy and you'll just
Dand I wasn't mad about it.

Speaker 6 (39:32):
But at least she made it to the welcome party.

Speaker 2 (39:34):
She did like it, that's true. Unlike you're now husband, right,
you didn't make it.

Speaker 6 (39:40):
She had to be propped up, and she was there.

Speaker 3 (39:41):
She was there.

Speaker 6 (39:43):
All that matters. There wasn't.

Speaker 2 (39:44):
I don't think there was really a time except we
were in the pool that I wasn't concerned that she
was going to fall over if I didn't stand next
to her, and in the pool, I was worried about
her drowning.

Speaker 6 (39:53):
Don't give them plus one.

Speaker 12 (39:56):
In my experience, if you're ever in the wedding party,
no matter if you're single or with someone, you always
get a plus one because I think it's a nice
nod to say, hey, thank you, it's a lot of money.
Whatever I have heard of. If I don't know of
you dating someone, you're not getting a plus one.

Speaker 6 (40:09):
I've heard of that. I think it gets shady.

Speaker 12 (40:11):
I guess maybe when it's family, because you want your
sibling to like be with you the whole day and
spend family time. And it's hard with some like random
dude around, But what do I care? I mean, get
your plusurele See.

Speaker 2 (40:22):
I would argue, if you're in the wedding, unless it's
someone you're pretty serious with who knows other people there,
I would argue not to bring. I would argue that
the time to bring somebody you just started dating is
if you're just a guest, Because if I just started
dating you and I'm in the wedding, that means there's
a lot of time that this person who nobody knows
is just going to have to offend for themselves, right,
And I'm not sure if I think that's fair.

Speaker 12 (40:43):
It's just a gesture that like usually the Brian groom do.
But I also would say that this is the deal.
You're going to be alone a lot of the day
and leave it up to my date.

Speaker 6 (40:49):
And if they're fine with it, why.

Speaker 2 (40:51):
Not eight five, five, five, nine one three five. You
guys are the jury? Kate, good morning, Hi, good morning,
how are you hey? Good morning? So Kiki's court, why
don't you recap it real quick for everybody.

Speaker 13 (41:01):
Maya is getting married in September. Her sister wants to
bring a guy that she just started dating to the wedding,
and Maya said absolutely not. Now the sister who's also
the maid of honor is threatening to drop out of
the wedding, same.

Speaker 2 (41:14):
He can drop out of the wedding over and do
it anyway.

Speaker 18 (41:16):
What do you think, Kate, Well, I think if the
bride and groom are paying for the wedding, they do
have the right to decide, like if you get a
plus one or not. If they can't afford it and
they want their friends there, I think that's fine. But
to say that people don't deserve a plus one, that's
like giving me Bridezilla a little bit.

Speaker 2 (41:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (41:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (41:35):
And then to say that you're not going to attend
your sister's wedding, come on, Like, you can be pissed,
but don't do that. Don't hold it over. I mean
it's you know, you hope this only happens like two
or three times in her life, so you happen to once,
so like, but you don't that's not cool. I mean,
you could be pissed, but you still you don't tell
her You're not going to add to the stress of

(41:55):
the event by saying also, I'm not gonna calm Like, come.

Speaker 6 (41:58):
On, I mean that she I want to stand up.

Speaker 2 (42:01):
What's that kid?

Speaker 15 (42:02):
Well, what is this guy going to do if there's
no other close?

Speaker 18 (42:06):
Uh?

Speaker 3 (42:07):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (42:08):
If what you broke it? You broke up? What what's
that going to do with one?

Speaker 1 (42:12):
If?

Speaker 18 (42:12):
Like, if there's no other plus one? There bridal party's
got to go, like do pictures and all the wedding parties.

Speaker 2 (42:18):
Yeah, well, I mean he can fend for himself. But yeah,
I get I guess it's more about the expense than
it is like his happiness or comfort or whatever. But Kate,
thank you so much. Have a great day you too. Taylor. Hi, Taylor,
good morning. How you doing.

Speaker 15 (42:33):
I'm doing great.

Speaker 11 (42:34):
Thanks.

Speaker 5 (42:34):
How are you guys? Hey?

Speaker 2 (42:35):
Great? Welcome. What do you think?

Speaker 15 (42:38):
So this actually happened to me at my wedding. I
have two sisters and one of them I didn't even
know she was dating someone. She had been dating him
secretly for six months, and she was like, where's my
plus one? And I was like, b you didn't even
tell me you we're dating somebody. But I think to
what some other people have said, like with immediate family,

(42:59):
I think you give them that. I think there's a
ring of kind of like if an extended friend is
asking for a plus one and I didn't know you
were dating someone. I'm sorry, but no, but if you're
my sibling, I'm going to give you a pass. So
I allowed my sister to bring her secret boyfriend. I
had allowed my other sister then to bring her boyfriend
of three months. Thankfully my persister not married to her

(43:21):
secret boyfriend. So had I denied, had I denied that,
I would have been essentially denied my future brother in law.

Speaker 19 (43:28):
So I think there's a little liberty.

Speaker 15 (43:29):
And grace you have to give your you know, your
siblings to say that if you think this is the one, Yes,
they need a friend for themselves because they're going to
be by all day. I need you to hold my
dress while I pee.

Speaker 2 (43:41):
So no, right exactly. It's like, look, you can bring somebody,
but like your obligation is by going to be the
maid of honor or whatever your obligation is to me
on this day.

Speaker 15 (43:52):
So like that, right, yeah, Because I think what would
be worse is in the future if your sister ends
up marying that guy and that she's mad at you
because you didn't let him come to your wedding. The
repercussions of that might be really unfortunate for you.

Speaker 2 (44:06):
Yeah, yeah, true truth. Thank you so much. Have a
good day, Taylor, Yeah you too.

Speaker 5 (44:10):
Thanks guys.

Speaker 2 (44:11):
The other thing is the guy who's always single you
also and who brings has been known to bring a
plus one now and again. You got to be as
the person bringing a plus one. You got to be
thoughtful about who you're bringing, because you're right, this is
not date night. Like, I'm not bringing the girl I
just met on he Inju or whatever to the wedding
of my close personal friends because that's awkward for her.
It's awkward for me. Like either, if you're seeing somebody

(44:32):
and it's semi serious, maybe you bring that person. But
if you're not, don't just bring somebody and take a
spot and spend their money just because you don't want
to be alone. Yes, you got to be thoughtful about
Like I've gone to a couple of weddings where I
didn't want to go alone, so I brought in somebody
that was more significant to me than just someone I
was dating, you know, because I didn't want to go alone.

(44:54):
But I also needed somebody who could like hold their
own and was gonna you know, a known quantity, right,
because the last thing I'm trying to do is bring
somebody I don't know to a wedding only to find
out at the wedding that they're a crazy person.

Speaker 6 (45:04):
Right, They're mean drunk, right all my friends and family.

Speaker 2 (45:08):
And then I just did that to myself, Malise, I'm Elise, Hey, hey,
good morning. What do you think?

Speaker 16 (45:17):
So I think she has to take an account too,
is how far is the wedding Because some venues they
have between like three months, you have to have the
final count. Okay, so if you don't have the final count,
that's an unexpensed so they're going to charge your arm
in a lake.

Speaker 2 (45:34):
Oh I see. So if you meet somebody within three months,
then it's like I'm not adding I'm not adding this
person for you.

Speaker 5 (45:41):
I mean it.

Speaker 16 (45:42):
Depends also two when when is her wedding? Okay, it's
like six months in advantage. Okay, I don't know if
you guys are going to be together.

Speaker 14 (45:49):
Have I met this man?

Speaker 16 (45:50):
Like for me when I had my wedding, I but
if I didn't know the person and they're going to
meet them within that year, like my friend and his friends,
I didn't.

Speaker 1 (46:02):
Invite them to the wedding.

Speaker 2 (46:03):
I think you only allowed one.

Speaker 16 (46:05):
Exception, which was one of his closest friends his childhood.

Speaker 14 (46:08):
Brians.

Speaker 16 (46:09):
I'm like, okay, you're the only one who can bring
someone I don't know.

Speaker 2 (46:12):
Okay, that's fair. Yeah, thank you, Malise, have a good day.
Thank you, glad you called. Good morning. Thanks for listening.
Hey Cheryl, Hi, Hi, Hi Cheryl. What do you think
so Jakiki's Court, this woman is getting married, her sister
who is the maid of honor, who wants to bring
this dude she's been dating for three months. The bride
says no, and so now the sister's looking to back

(46:34):
out of the whole thing because she wants to bring
this dude. What do you think?

Speaker 11 (46:37):
Well, well, my take is.

Speaker 19 (46:38):
A little different. It's kind of not about the money.

Speaker 2 (46:41):
It's about if.

Speaker 19 (46:42):
She's not letting her sister bring a plus one, if
she not letting anybody else say she's inviting to the
reception bring a plus one either.

Speaker 13 (46:51):
Well, what she said was single people, if you're not married,
you don't get a plus one.

Speaker 6 (46:56):
That was her words. Oh, if you're not married, you
don't last one.

Speaker 19 (47:01):
Yeah, but I don't know, I think, you know, I'm
just wondering if she the way I the way I
you know, heard it was like she's not she's only
inviting like married people.

Speaker 2 (47:11):
Oh yeah, it's just the person has to be more
significant than just a flame or just a casual date,
because it's expensive and you're taking a spot of somebody
that maybe this person knew well or better.

Speaker 19 (47:25):
Yeah, but also you want everybody to have fun at
the at the at the wedding. Also, you know, you
don't want her, you know, her sister just sitting there.
You know, I wish you know, so and soul could
have been invited.

Speaker 2 (47:35):
Also, you know, yeah, ye, fair enough, thank you, Cheryl,
have a good day. Thank you. I've said fair enough,
like thirty times to day. I don't know if that's
like my new new thing. Fair enough, fair enough, fair enough. God,
I need to shut up. Emily, Hi, good morning, good morning.
So this just happened to you, the same scenario kind of.

Speaker 5 (47:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (47:54):
My sister just had her wedding in May, and I
was her maid of honor, and she had the room
that if I hadn't been with a significant other for
a year before the wedding, then I couldn't invite a
significant other because she didn't want no random person in
her photos.

Speaker 2 (48:10):
Oh yeah, that's true. That's true.

Speaker 5 (48:13):
At the end, she did let me bring up my
best friend, though she's still gave me a plus one.
She just we had the situation where my parents, one
of their uh siblings had a random date and.

Speaker 11 (48:26):
Because he broke up with his girlfriend. But then that
old girlfriend uh I ended up being his wife, and
so we had this random person at all of my parents'
wedding photos.

Speaker 2 (48:34):
Oh yeah, that's a good point about the pictures. I mean,
not like the formal ones, but they would still be
in the casual pictures, like from the event. It's like,
who is this idiot? Like, oh yeah, I dated I
met him on Tinder. I dated him for two months.
It's like, oh, well, thanks, now he's in our pictures forever.
Well yeah, I get that. Thank you, Emily, have a
good day. Thank you, loving yeah, love you to Crystal. Hi, Crystal,

(48:56):
you had a tough time getting the plus one of
your friend's wedding.

Speaker 1 (49:00):
I did, to make a long story short, because she
wouldn't let me have a plus one, which I've been
with this guy for all those two years at the time.

Speaker 3 (49:08):
We ended up going to Mexico the weekend of her wedding.

Speaker 6 (49:11):
Damn not only was there?

Speaker 2 (49:13):
Yeah, damn? Now was it worth burning your friendship down over?

Speaker 5 (49:19):
No? Not at all.

Speaker 16 (49:21):
I even told her like the week beforehand, like girl,
you should have he would have bought the gifts.

Speaker 2 (49:27):
Okay, so you you would. She wouldn't let this guy go.
So you say, I'm not gonna I'm not going to
the wedding at all. I'm going to Mexico instead, and
this woman is still your friend?

Speaker 6 (49:36):
Yeah, well I didn't.

Speaker 3 (49:37):
I didn't propose the trip.

Speaker 6 (49:38):
He did.

Speaker 14 (49:40):
I had to oblige.

Speaker 2 (49:41):
Oh I mean no, you didn't. You played christ You
could have said no, I got to go to this wedding.
You can't go see this. This friendship is more important
to me than than this trivial experience here. But this
woman forgave you. You're still friends with her?

Speaker 1 (49:54):
TDD what's that TV?

Speaker 2 (49:58):
TVD? Okay, well I don't.

Speaker 6 (50:00):
Did you have fun fun in Mexico? Yeah?

Speaker 11 (50:03):
I did?

Speaker 2 (50:04):
We did? We did?

Speaker 1 (50:05):
There?

Speaker 2 (50:05):
You have a good day?

Speaker 1 (50:11):
Ever been left waiting by the phone?

Speaker 2 (50:14):
It's the Freendshell, Hey, Jesse, good morning, welcome to the program.

Speaker 1 (50:17):
How are you hey, I'm doing good things?

Speaker 2 (50:20):
Are you all right doing? Okay? What's going on with
this woman summer on waiting by the phone. Here, you guys,
tell us how you met, and then about any dates
that you've been on, and then why do you think
you're being ghosted and how we can help.

Speaker 1 (50:31):
Yeah, I mean we met on Tinder.

Speaker 3 (50:35):
And she was beautiful, and so I, you know, I
wanted to make a good impression and it seemed to work.

Speaker 1 (50:43):
I got her number and we had some drinks.

Speaker 3 (50:48):
It was a Friday that that was the night that
we hung out and got a little tipsy after after
after hanging and we ended up back at her place, okay,
and yeah, yeah we did.

Speaker 1 (51:02):
We hooked up, and I thought that was a good sign.

Speaker 3 (51:05):
I thought, you know, green flag, green flag, green flag,
all across the board. And then she goes to me
like like nothing, like I even like waited a little bit,
you know, didn't want to, like I didn't want to
you know, seem desperate or anything. But like now it's
just like I don't know, we had good chemistry. I thought,

(51:25):
like not just physical, but also like I don't know,
I thought there was something more.

Speaker 1 (51:34):
Yeah, So it's just surprising.

Speaker 3 (51:36):
To me that like it's just complete ghosting after like
such a good time.

Speaker 2 (51:40):
Yeah, these are always the puzzling ones for me. Where
the date went so well that you're back to someone's
place and stuff's going on and whatever. That that's usually
all good, So you know, it's kind of weird that
then after that you don't hear anything. And I'm sure
I was bugging you because you were probably excited about
the potential with Summer. So I'm gonna play a song.
I'm gonna come back in a couple of minutess gonna
call Summer. You'll be on the phone. Well, ask these questions,

(52:00):
see if we can figure out what's going on. And
you know, as always, our hope is that we can
straighten things out and then set you guys up on
another date and pay for them. Let's see what's up.
In part two of Waiting by the phone, right after
Submarina Carpenter back in two minutes, it's the Fread Show.
The carpenter, It's the Fread Show. It's two undred bucks
with the show is Shelley. In ten minutes, you went
after the entertainer report, that's coming up to Hey Jesse, Hey, okay,

(52:23):
let's call Summer. You guys, you met on one of
the apps. You went out, had a great date. It
went back to her place. You guys messed around, you said,
but you have not heard from her since, and you're
confused because you thought everything went really well. You want
to know what's going on. Yeah, well let's call her now.
Good luck, Jesse, thank you.

Speaker 3 (52:45):
Hello. Hi?

Speaker 2 (52:46):
Is this Summer.

Speaker 3 (52:49):
Hi?

Speaker 2 (52:49):
Yes, it is Hey Summer. Hi. Good morning. My name
is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning
radio show, and I do have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now, and I do
need your permission to continue.

Speaker 3 (52:58):
With the call.

Speaker 2 (52:58):
Can we chaut for just a second? Okay, sure, Well,
thank you very much. We're calling on behalf of a
dude named Jesse who reached out to us. I guess
you met him on a dating app and recently went
on a date. Do you remember Do you recall going
out with this guy? Do you remember him? Yeah? Okay,
So he told us he called us. He told us
that he really enjoyed meeting you and thought the chemistry

(53:19):
was there. He said that you guys did mess around
at your place after the date that was you know,
he didn't get too specific, but he also says that
he has not been able to get ahold of you.
Since the date, you're not responding to him, and he
feels like he's being left on red. So what what's
going on? Why are you ghosting him?

Speaker 5 (53:34):
Why?

Speaker 9 (53:36):
Well, I can't I can't believe I really have to
share all these details online or you know, on the phone.

Speaker 6 (53:42):
This is a little weird. It is a little weird.
But we'd love to know all the details. You don't
have to, but we need you don't.

Speaker 2 (53:48):
You don't have to, but like you do, you know
what I mean, Like you could hang up, but that'd
be really upsetting to us. So what are the details
that you're reluctant to tell us?

Speaker 9 (53:57):
Well, I mean, you don't know, and judge me here,
but yeah, we met and went out for drinks and
ended up poking up at my place and I mean
it was it was fine.

Speaker 2 (54:09):
But yeah, I haven't really caught him back for a reason,
which is.

Speaker 9 (54:14):
Gosh, I can't believe I have to say this. Okay, Well,
when we were in bed after we hooked up, he
went to get dressed, and I noticed his boxers had
a bunch of holes and then like in the back
and kind of kind of everywhere, and it was they
looked like they were hanging on by a threat, but
it was really literally kind of disturbing. Yeah, it was

(54:34):
kind of gross.

Speaker 2 (54:35):
So you're you were disturbed by his ripped Holy Boxer
brief or Roxes shorts. I guess in this case like
they just looked old and worn out.

Speaker 9 (54:46):
Yeah, it looked very unsanitary. I'm just like thinking, you
know about I don't know all the gross things that
happened down there, and I don't.

Speaker 2 (54:54):
Know how do you think those holes were created exactly
like I mean, I wanted though, Okay.

Speaker 6 (55:02):
But you're already I.

Speaker 16 (55:05):
Said, no judgment.

Speaker 6 (55:06):
I'm sorry, Okay, I'm just making sure.

Speaker 8 (55:08):
I get it.

Speaker 10 (55:08):
I would be like, you can't put on your good
toonies for me, but he already hid it. I mean,
you need to have one pair of underwear that doesn't
have holes of it. Okay, But here's my question. You
didn't apparently didn't see the underwear before the acts. You're
saying me, no, okay, But then in the process of
hooking up with him, did you notice anything unsanitary, like

(55:30):
any strange smell holes or I mean, did he appear
to be put together and sort of clean, you know,
other than the the old underwear Okay, So yeah, there's
a chance there's a hole in my sock that I'm
wearing right now.

Speaker 2 (55:42):
There is a chance of it on the bottom. I'm
not I can't confirm or did I, but I'm saying like,
just because there are holes in underwear does not mean
that the person is unclean. Right, there might have been
his lucky underwear, like he knew, you know you look,
let me ask him because he's here. Jesse been very quiet.
But Jesse, what's up with the holes in the underwear? Like,

(56:03):
why don't we get just get, you know, new underwear
that's a little more presentable.

Speaker 1 (56:06):
I'm I'm honestly like shocked at that.

Speaker 3 (56:10):
That's what that that's what she said. I'm a little
bit floored. I'll be real like like I I I
they're just like old boxes.

Speaker 1 (56:21):
It was laundry day. I I threw him on.

Speaker 3 (56:24):
I didn't expect that we were going to hook up,
and you know, things went well. I don't know, I
don't know what to tell you. I'm I'm surprised that
that's that's.

Speaker 1 (56:33):
The hang up here. I thought everything was going good
this summer.

Speaker 2 (56:38):
I mean, I guess it could there could be reservations
like I don't know what else in your life have
you not replaced that? What does your house look like?

Speaker 5 (56:46):
You know?

Speaker 2 (56:47):
I guess I guess you could go there, But I
don't know that. I think he's unclean. They could be clear.

Speaker 3 (56:54):
That's too far. That's straight up too far. I like,
like from going from like having like boxers to not
being clean, that's a stretch. I don't know. That seems
like a stretch, Jesse.

Speaker 9 (57:06):
It just tells me you don't like take care of
yourself and take pride in what you wear, how you
present yourself.

Speaker 3 (57:12):
That was our first date.

Speaker 9 (57:12):
I was cute, I had nice underwear on, Like.

Speaker 8 (57:15):
Yeah, I guess I do think about that, like you
did have to take underwear on? And like what's it?

Speaker 1 (57:22):
What's it like? What's it mean? If I don't like
for the first time, like we mean, like that's you mean,
it's the.

Speaker 3 (57:28):
First it's a first encounter.

Speaker 2 (57:30):
Yeah, I mean are you cheap? Like are you do
you not? I don't know, but I mean the clothes
he was wearing were presentable obviously, right, I mean summer.
I mean, look, everything led to a point where there
were no clothes. So everything leading up to you seeing
that gave you every indication that this is a guy
that you would like, and so he has holes in
his underwear, and so we can never talk to him again. Apparently,

(57:51):
like we.

Speaker 3 (57:54):
See it.

Speaker 9 (57:54):
I cannot see it.

Speaker 2 (57:55):
I don't really. You would just qualify a man with
holes in his underwear.

Speaker 7 (57:59):
Absolutly at least have the decency to like kick it
under the beat or something to hide it, like.

Speaker 6 (58:03):
Get rid of the evidence.

Speaker 2 (58:05):
But he eventually has to put him back on to leave.

Speaker 6 (58:07):
Oh yeah, especially not to see that. Okay, I'll admit it.
I have had holes in my underwear before, like that's
normal for women.

Speaker 7 (58:14):
However, I would never let a man see that, not
even my husband. Absolutely not.

Speaker 12 (58:18):
I mean, are we asking too much for just one
pair of underwear for a date without holes?

Speaker 6 (58:22):
God?

Speaker 2 (58:23):
Okay, but we must remember it all led to the
point where there was no clothing, including the clothing with holes,
so everything was going to the communication was good. Obviously,
he was presentable from the exterior, he was put together,
he was clean, he showered. I mean, there were no
issues until.

Speaker 13 (58:39):
Wow, well I'm just saying it with a guy who
doesn't shower for three days, right, this is choice?

Speaker 2 (58:46):
Oh that's true. We don't know that all the underwear
is this way, like maybe he maybe that was just
the last pair. We've all been there, we've all been
down to the last pair. We're like, oh boy, he.

Speaker 6 (58:59):
Commando right like I was laundry day.

Speaker 2 (59:03):
Okay, well.

Speaker 6 (59:06):
We got another issue.

Speaker 2 (59:09):
Yeah, Hey, he's frustrated. Is he liked the girl and
he's upset. He's upset because he's being out disqualified because
of his holy underwear. All right, look, Summer, let's say
that we use part of the budget for this date
and we get the man some new honies, Yeah, some
new furuit of the loom. We send the guy over
to Tommy John or whatever, get him some nice fancy,

(59:32):
some nice fancy boxer briefs. Then, Summer, would you give
him another chance? Or is it just too late?

Speaker 9 (59:37):
Yeah, it's too late. It's just I'm not his mom,
and I already feel like we're momming him with the boxes,
saying like you should be a grown a doll, and no,
you shouldn't be wearing Holly underwear on a first date.

Speaker 6 (59:48):
That's a good point.

Speaker 14 (59:48):
I'm not asking for a lot.

Speaker 2 (59:50):
I mean, I hear you. I'm just I'm trying to
I'm really trying to see the good of this. But
I understand you. This is your expectation. I think it's fair.
But anyway, I'm sorry, Jesse. We can't fix this for you.

Speaker 17 (01:00:00):
No.

Speaker 3 (01:00:02):
I I found through this, through this chat that I
don't think it skips for me either.

Speaker 2 (01:00:08):
But troll the underwear away. Let's just get some new underwear.
Let's make sure we don't have holes in our underwear.
We are grown ups. I mean, it's it's an easy thing.

Speaker 3 (01:00:14):
To do, right, yeah, I mean, yes, that's I'll get
new underwear.

Speaker 2 (01:00:19):
Thank you. Good wait of us. We did our good
deed today. That's wonderful summer. Thank you for your time, Jesse.
You was well best e lected, both of you. The
Fread Show is on Friend's Fun.

Speaker 15 (01:00:32):
Facts Fun.

Speaker 2 (01:00:40):
So much. Guys.

Speaker 6 (01:00:42):
Did you know?

Speaker 2 (01:00:44):
Did you know that the tongue is the only muscle
in your body that is attached at only one end? Really? Yeah,
the tongue is the only must in your body that
is attached at one end. Now, what about my fingers? Well,

(01:01:07):
because the muscles attached to like the end of your
finger and the end of your toe.

Speaker 6 (01:01:11):
Oh, the tip and the knuckle right, Okay, put your
tongue in your mouth. Please, don't.

Speaker 2 (01:01:19):
Wait, what do you hold on?

Speaker 6 (01:01:21):
I was touching my nose. Yeah, hold on, I can
pick my nose too with it.

Speaker 2 (01:01:26):
What a neat neat party trick?

Speaker 6 (01:01:28):
Yeah, because it's hard. You can't do it right.

Speaker 2 (01:01:31):
No, And that's okay that I can't pick my nose
with my tongue. It's fine,