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Speaker 1 (00:02):
I's ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's the Fred Show.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Hi up, good morning, Welcome to the program. How are
you wait?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I'm good. I'm excited. Did you say we we No?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
No, no, I said, I'm.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Excited, he said. I was like, what's that annoying?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
So maybe I did?
Speaker 4 (00:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
I mean she's excited though, because we're going to fix
I just we're going to fix this, Yiki, We're going
to fix this. Okay, whatever's going on? I just feeling
in my bones we're going to straighten this out. So
what's going on with this guy? Mikey? How did you
guys meet? Tell us about any dates that you've been on,
and then you know where things are now you feel
like you're being ghosted, right?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Okay, well we haven't exactly been on a date, but
I'll explain.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
So I met him at a grocery store.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
We were in.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
The wine aisle and I couldn't find anyone to help me,
and so he was there too, So I was just like, hey,
can you help me. I'm trying to figure out, you know,
stuff at the dinner party and he we ended up
talking for like thirty minutes. It was like so organic,
it was so easy. We were getting along so good,
(01:13):
and we exchanged numbers and I just loved that. I
was like finally meeting someone out in the wild, like
in an organic way and.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Not on the app.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
And then I just never heard from him.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Okay, So after this, this whole conversation and meeting out
in the wild, so you really got a vibe for
you know each other. Because again on the dating apps
we talk about it all the time, you really don't
know what you're getting exactly, Like everything could look good
on paper and then you get together it's not really there.
But you were able to gauge that in the wine
aisle in the grocery store, and it was it was
going well, and you're thinking, driving away from this place,
(01:48):
like this guy's gonna call me, We're gonna go on
a date. This is great, a new way to meet
someone in person exactly.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
And we even had like a couple friends in commons,
so it wasn't like it all felt like.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Too, like it was all coming together.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Yeah, Yeah, you've never heard from this guy, and you're like,
what's going on.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
So that's where we come in. We're gonna call Mikey.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
See, if we can get him on the phone ask
these questions, you'll be on the phone as well. And
you know, the hope here, as always, is that we
can figure out what's going on, and in this case
sets you guys up on a first date, a real
first date, and we'll pay for it.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Okay, Kaya, Yeah, Okay, let's.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Figure out what's going on after Sabrina Carpenter in two minutes,
Part two of Waiting by the phone. Stay right here.
It's the Fred's Show. It's Friday, Sabrina Carpenter, It's The
Fred's Show. Good in morning. Thanks for having us on. Hey, Kaya,
all right, welcome back. Let's call this guy, Mikey. You
met buying wine in a store and got to talking
and the conversation was good.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
You talked for a while.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
You have friends in common, you were attracted to him,
exchange numbers, and you expected to hear from this guy
for another date, except you haven't, or not for another date,
for odd date, any date, but he hasn't called you,
and you're like, what's going on? Every I thought everything
was good when we met, so why isn't he calling me?
Speaker 5 (02:57):
Exactly?
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Yeah, all right, let's call Mikey. Now, good luck. Hi Mikey.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Yeah, it's Mikey.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Hey, Mikey, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling
from the Fred's Show, the morning radio Show. I have
to tell you that we are on the radio right now.
I do need your permission to continue with the call.
Can which have for just a second? You can hang
up anytime, all right?
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah, sure, Well, thank.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
You very much. We're calling on behalf of a woman
named Kaya. I guess you met her. You guys are
buying wine at the store and you got to talking
and exchange numbers. Do you remember this woman who Kaya wine?
Wine or something? You're buying one?
Speaker 6 (03:42):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, so yeah, yeah,
what about it?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
What happened with this woman?
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Because she she called us and told us that she
had enjoyed meeting you and that you talked for a
while and there was a vibe and it was chemistry,
and that you guys knew some of the same people
and exchange numbers and talked about going out. And she
said she hasn't heard from you, and she's wondering why.
Speaker 5 (04:01):
Yeah, yeah, well yeah I remember her. So here's the deal.
We we we we didn't.
Speaker 6 (04:10):
Meet, we met buying line, We talked for a while,
we realized we had a couple of mutual friends, and
you know, it seemed like a nice thing. You know,
it's a it's not a thing that happens all the
time you meet someone you know, shopping, et cetera.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
Out and about right, we exchanged numbers and I said,
all right, maybe i'll call it this girl.
Speaker 7 (04:32):
And we're walking out and I'm behind her, uh, heading
out of the parking lot, and I saw that she
not only didn't put her card away, but she left
it just standing in a handicapped parking spot.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
And that really.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
Really ticked me off.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
And uh, that's a note for me.
Speaker 5 (04:55):
So I saw that as a huge red flag and.
Speaker 7 (04:59):
A kind of like an indication of like character and
a just a lack of care. And I don't know,
I just I think I just kind of was was
a little.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
For that.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
There's all. There's Kaya. I forgot to mention. Kaya's here.
I'm sorry, mikey Kaya. You know this is this is criminal.
This is criminal. First of all, you need to put
your card away first and foremost. And second of all,
if you're not gonna put your card away, then you
don't put it in a handicapped spot. So this is
just doubly criminal, and I'm going to turn you into
the police, I think, because.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
This is terrible. I don't I don't.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I don't disagree with him at all, Like that's a
very unconsiderate thing to do.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
I okay, I don't remember doing this first off, But
if it was such a like big deal, why wouldn't
you have confronted me?
Speaker 7 (05:45):
Then?
Speaker 3 (05:45):
I think this is a crazy reason to not.
Speaker 5 (05:49):
Wait, you wanted me to act who infront someone? They
just they just met about not putting their thing away.
It's I was just gonna leave it be and say,
all right, I guess she's not really my kind of person,
you know.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
I mean, he's like.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
You, why wouldn't you just do it?
Speaker 7 (06:05):
Well, why wouldn't you You parked next to a handicap
spot and you leave the cart in the handicap spot
just because you were too lazy to go put it in.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
The actual in the actual points for her belongs. I
was like, this is this is not this is not
someone that I want to I want to date.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Now, hold on one second, Mike, you know, I'm not
saying this is your fault, but that being said, you
observed all this happening, and you also drove away.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
So if you if you.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Were that insulted by it, it's like, so is that
you can't speak to a person again? You could, I
guess you could have just gone and helped her out
and grabbed the cart and put it away.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
But you didn't. You didn't do that, did you?
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (06:38):
Well, I was parked on the other side of the lot.
But but as I was walking I saw her do that,
and well, so how awkward would that be? She gets
in the car and then sees this guy that she
just got her number two picking up her cart and
putting it back in the thing. I wasn't gonna I
wasn't gonna do that because I thought, you know what.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Love you know, I'm not disagreeing that that was anyway,
because now we're fighting about it on the radio.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
Why didn't you do it? Now, who's both to that?
Speaker 4 (07:02):
I didn't even know why you didn't call me?
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Well, now we know. I'm just gonna say he was
so offended. Again, not your fault, Mikey, very inconsiderate, kaya,
but but you were so offended that you can't call
this person or interact with her, but you also just
drove away.
Speaker 7 (07:18):
Just take the note. Just take the note, though, to
take the hints like yeah, I didn't call her like
it happens, you know, like it happens. Mystery of life.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
You know that's right.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
Stand on business, because the problem is Kaya, not Mikey.
Don't try to slip this around for it. She is
just saying, I'm saying he's so upset about it. I mean,
but parking in a handicaps y girl. Come on, now,
this is a.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Very common say park in the handicap spot the car.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
Okay, even worse, it's bad, but now you want the
handicap to get out there, car, move the car, and
then try to part.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
I mean, I'm not.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Trying to make a grander political statement here or like
or like a social statement, but it is. It is prevalent,
very pres in these days, the number of people who
are extremely insulted by things that they are doing nothing about.
So they're very very mad, but they don't actually contribute
to the solution. So I'm just saying, you know, if
he was that upset about what could have been and
the inconvenience it could have been for someone who's disabled,
(08:16):
then he caught was the problem.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
It was.
Speaker 7 (08:18):
The thing is, I wasn't gonna get on a soapbox
and yeoder about it. But I just I just noted it.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
I just cracked it and.
Speaker 5 (08:23):
Said, all right, not not my kind of person. I'm
not gonna I'm not going.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
To be calling her.
Speaker 7 (08:28):
I was going to be in her face about it.
Not Now I've been I've been asked about it.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Absent minded, inconsiderate, and you're just like, you know what,
I don't want to I just don't think this is
going to be a person who would do that is
not a person who you think you want to be with.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
Mikey. That's what you say, exactly.
Speaker 5 (08:44):
You know what it is.
Speaker 7 (08:45):
You know, It's like it's like when you're at the
dinner with someone and they're really nice to you and they're.
Speaker 5 (08:49):
Really you know, uh, they're they're really enjoyable to be.
Speaker 7 (08:52):
Around, and then they're absolutely rude as hell to the
server and you're like, see that that says something.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
We've had that lady on the phone before, and I
I would agree with you. That's a sign that someone
is probably not that thoughtful and is inconsiderate if they're
not kind to people who are there to help them.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
So I would agree with that too.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
But anyway, yeah, I don't need to hear this anymore.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Okay, it's the golden rule. Okay, you put your card away.
Everybody knows the golden rule and you.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
And now I feel like I'm like on cart and
arts or something like.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
This is not well, yeah you should be. It's so
easy to put your card up.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
We live in a society. I say it every day.
It's every single day. We live in a society. But anyway,
look at whether or not people agree. Mikey's not interested.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
Kaya.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
You know, maybe it was a one time mistake. Maybe
you were just thinking about something else and distracted and whatever.
But for whatever reason, I would say after this call,
it wouldn't matter. I doubt either one of you want
to go out with each other now, right, Yeah, okay, good,
Well there you go. So guys, there's your answer, Kaya, Mikey,
thanks for answering your phone.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
And that's flux of both of you, guys,